So sad!

This is sick, I have tears in my eyes right now, thinking about this little girl. Its sad and sick.

R.I.P little angel!

i hope theres a heaven cuz this lil girl belongs there

Sad state of affairs . .

IM AT A LOSS FOR WORDS, THESE ARE INNOCENT CHILDREN. MAY THEY BURN IN HELL

@Too Short – I wish torture was legal sometimes. “Just” death is too easy for some of these sick individuals!

How could you SELL YOUR CHILD INTO PROSTITUTION??!?!?!?! I hope they both burn in hell!

And the kicker is the mom is pregnant now. SMDH!! R.I.P

This case makes me so angry….I just want to choke the thing myself…I refuse to call her a mother because she is no mother…More like monster…Poor baby…Imagine the horror she experienced before life left her little body…Just so sad and wrong…

drenk said:
i hope theres a heaven cuz this lil girl belongs there
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Well Non-believers wants us to believe that this beautiful 5year old girl is now rotting on the ground and that is the end of her. Non-believers wants us to believe that her death is the end of her precious life.

LET ME TELL YOU, there is a Heaven and this little girl is now with her MAKER enjoying eternal peace, something her mother could not give her on this earth. Something she deserved but was never given.

I believe in God more today than ever because i refuse to believe that the end of this little girl’s life is her rotting away on the ground.

HER SOUL IS IN HEAVEN!

How can you do this to an innocent human being? A child? The mother should get sent to a men’s prison as a regular inmate.

I agree with whomever says “Put her in a public place and let’s throw rocks at that chick (the mother)” so she can die a slow and painful death…

It is time to Norplanttize, sterilize and chemically castrate all involved in this child’s death. Kill em! Kill em all and let God sort them out!

my poor broken heart. monsters like this should not allowed to procreate. now that she’s pregnant again, the jury will have mercy on her. and this posts a hard question; should they make her abort the baby or let her go to term then take the baby from her? IDK. I can’t SMDH hard enough.

How in the hell do you prostitute a 5 year old? A 5 year old is practically still a baby, that’s a sick m*t*erf**ker to but his grown man d**k inside of a baby..They should go straight to the chair do not pass go!

“They” seriously got us! I sware years ago you would NEVER hear about black people doing the things we are doing now! (and you KNOW it would have been in the news, b/c they love to put negative things about us in the media)…but I mean a couple of weeks ago they had the story about a mortician (sp?) eating people! And he was BLACK!…we are becoming just as sick as THEM!…and I am in no way racist! But it’s just the truth “they” were the 1′s doing this sick sh*t and for some reason we have caught on!

cont…..Oh AND a mortician (sp?) sleeping with dead woman! I mean this is SICK! Just plain ol’ sick! He even thinks of this crap!???

The sad thing about it is that we found out that the monther is pregnant again…so sad and I feel for the unborn child that she is carrying

Yes I totally agree with what is wrong with our race?? I can bet you that had we have not been given freedom ? Do any one think that we’ll be hurting,talking down and killing our own kind. This is not what our ancestors fought hard for. All I can do is pray because @ the end of the day there will be some one else doing something maybe less than a week from now some bs.

Tnis just hurts me to my heart

naw, this isn’t new in the black community.

during segregated times, black women use to prostitute their young daughters to white men in the burbs.

also, it’s not mostly a black problem either. it must be mostly blacks getting caught or setup to get caught so it looks like mostly a black problem.

This is America…This mother ain’t in no third world country and still no excuse if she was! Trafficing drugs is illegal let alone a baby. Men or women who think havin sexual relations with any child is absurd. This lady saw and used her child like an animal. Ain’t no love in that, she jus breeding lil prostitutes and she needs to be eliminated 4 that S***

Lean (Breaking the Monotony)

“They” seriously got us! I sware years ago you would NEVER hear about black people doing the things we are doing now! (and you KNOW it would have been in the news, b/c they love to put negative things about us in the media)…but I mean a couple of weeks ago they had the story about a mortician (sp?) eating people! And he was BLACK!…we are becoming just as sick as THEM!…and I am in no way racist! But it’s just the truth “they” were the 1’s doing this sick sh*t and for some reason we have caught on!
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huh?

This is a sad story all around. There are just no words…

Sexual abuse crosses all racial classes. Everyone has a story about either being sexually abused or knowing a predator that was trying to get to you. People just don’t talk about it.

@melissa. Everyone is failing. All races, all cultures. Black, white, hispanics, asian ect. This is a world epidemic.

human trafficing is everywhere people… there is a decline in morality, and a decline in humanity.

Our Black Community is failing…Not just our women.

There are alot of good black mothers out there, but of course, in the eyes of the TV stations, that is not news-worthy. What gets more attention? Good news? or the bad?

@ Lean (Breaking the Monotony)

“They” seriously got us! I sware years ago you would NEVER hear about black people doing the things we are doing now! (and you KNOW it would have been in the news, b/c they love to put negative things about us in the media)…but I mean a couple of weeks ago they had the story about a mortician (sp?) eating people! And he was BLACK!…we are becoming just as sick as THEM!…and I am in no way racist! But it’s just the truth “they” were the 1’s doing this sick sh*t and for some reason we have caught on!
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MAYBE you never heard about it because we didnt have 24/7 news channels like we do now, technology didnt allow to have “Breaking News” every 15 minutes to the point where now EVERYTHING is reported because every network wants to be first with the next big story for ratings

@ souljagir,
I’m feeling you there, my daughter, now 15, resembled Shaniya some as well at that age, she and I both cried and hugged each other when we read about this terrible thing.
It’s the little things that get you, another poster noticed it too, poor lil thing had no shoes on, and her hair wasn’t combed….
And an early death is a terrible thing, but what kind of “life” would that child have had?
Why do people bother having kids if they’re gonna kill their souls like that?
Me and my own girl thank god every day that we are loved and cherished by the people around us, in fact we do alot of praying these days, as each day seems to reveal a fresh horror…

@pynklyzurd14, Okay for example, the amount of so called Black celebrities with White women is alarming..not good white women but trashy white women. Aren’t they from “Black homes”? sure they would want a woman that resembles their mother right? but they want to date a woman as far away from the black skin as possible. If not white, they pick the lightest woman to be with. What are these black mothers teaching their sons at home? YES THEY ARE FAILING. and how about the alarming rate of Black Men walking around in heels and dresses? What did their mother teach them at home? ONCE AGAIN THE BLACK WOMAN IS FAILING..Perhaps we need the black male back home cos the BLACK WOMAN IS FAILING MISERABLY.

And people, lets not get it twisted, it’s not a race thing, its a humanity thing, we are becoming godless, division between the races and genders is the devils work, he wants us to all hate each other, but we need to see the light, and find the love…
Bless us all…

This is horrible! I live in Texas and they are trying to pass a law to put people who prey on children to death. I will vote for this law to pass. Some people say Texas is this and Texas is that. Well, we have racial issues here in Texas still along with some other faults, however, we do take care of our children. There is a HEAVEN and this child is with JESUS and now she’s safe. As for her mother, she has to live with being involved in her daughter’s death for the rest of her life. Where is the child’s father? Men, if you have children be in their life. Our children need you. Especially our African-American boys!

WOW the mom is on some serious drugs to sell their child to a prostitution ring. Not only the mom but the person that is willing to buy a child for this should be thrown in a pit of alligators…

Errrr and the African-American girls?
It’s fatherless girls who grow up needing and craving male attention so much that they end up in inappropriate situations and relationships, having too many babies, and too young….
thus continuing the cycle of pain….

Wow.
I Never Knew That.
How Could You Do That?
R.I.P. Shaniya.
God Bless Her Forreal.
Her Sick A.S.S. Mother Needs The Death Penalty Forreal, A Slow And Painful Death.
That Probably Sounds Bad, But She Deserves That.
Poor Baby.
SMFH.

Man, this case just gets more and more vile with each passing day.

*p.a.s.s.i.n.g

RIP Shaniya! So tragic.

I just saw a photo of a black baby with lace front weave on another blog…tell me this little baby is going to grow up with good morals and self confidence?

once again BLACK WOMEN ARE FAILING. Please BLACK MEN, come back home cos its obvious we cant raise the next generation without your help.

WE NEED YOU BACK IN THE HOUSE..stop being deadbeats!

I just can’t fathom a mother selling her baby KNOWING that some man (or men) will violate her.

I just can’t wrap my mind around that thought.

Melissa

@pynklyzurd14, Okay for example, the amount of so called Black celebrities with White women is alarming..not good white women but trashy white women. Aren’t they from “Black homes”? sure they would want a woman that resembles their mother right? but they want to date a woman as far away from the black skin as possible. If not white, they pick the lightest woman to be with. What are these black mothers teaching their sons at home? YES THEY ARE FAILING. and how about the alarming rate of Black Men walking around in heels and dresses? What did their mother teach them at home? ONCE AGAIN THE BLACK WOMAN IS FAILING..Perhaps we need the black male back home cos the BLACK WOMAN IS FAILING MISERABLY.
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No, the black woman is Not failing. She is NOT suppose to be raising a black man in the first place. It is not the responsibility of a woman to raise a man. So who exactly is failing the black son, the black family, the black community? The black man. Talking about coming back! He shouldn’t have never left the home in the first place.

I know there are some black men who say they had good upbringing without a black father-figure in their life, but the real number is low, many of these men just don’t want to discount their mother. Most men who grew up in homes like that have serious issues. From big issues like violence,incarceration,downlow, to anger management,promiscious,can’t keep a stable home/family/wife, drugs,mental problems,self-hate,etc….

A “good” man, father, in the home is good for the son,daughter, and the wife. When he is missing,things tend to get off track.

@ Melissa–

I know that they’ll be hundreds more posts today. However–YOUR post is the post of the day!!!!

Death is too good for this female beast (I refuse to refer to her as a woman or a mother) who sold her child. If it were up to me, this beast would be put to death after 60 days in the MEN’S prison so she could be sold into prostitution!! It made sick to my stomach to hear what happened to this little girl. RIP sweetheart. You should not have had to die to be in a better place.

The mother is pregnant again. In addition to this pregnancy, she has a 7 year old. Her and Shaniya’s father had a one night stand so that there shows you at least TWO children by different fathers. The one she’s carrying is most likely NOT the father of the 7 year old so now you have 3 children by 3 different fathers.

You can blame the men (SOMEWHAT) but the responsibility is hers to protect herself via birth control to prevent things like this.

Personally, I’d be E_M_B_A_R_R_A_S_S_E_D to have so many children by so many different men.

@Melissa. ie. Black women are responsible. I am inclined to agree with you on this subject. The fact is, the woman is primarily responsible for the child in terms of feeding, bathing, dressing, nurturing, guidance & day to day operations. And many black women have failed with just basic care for their children…. you have some good points. We gotta blame somebody for this travesty.

Would you go to the grocery store and knowingly purchase rotting meat?

Would you knowingly buy molded bread?

Would you knowingly purchase a car that’s a lemon?

Would you knowingly buy a house overrun with termites?

All of these things could possibly harm you in some way so if not, why knowingly put yourself in a situation with a no good man?

My questions may sound corny to some but, think about it.

Also, many black women have purposely kept their children away from their fathers for malicious reasons with threatening to put the daddy in jail, being stupid about allowing the daddy to have any influence on the baby…. Many times they are good fathers.

Things like this never happened to black folks long ago and black men do need to stay with their kids mother and help raise their off-spring but dont think it happens only because of failure to raise the kids,, white folks do un -speakable things and have been for years.. look at that low down Casey Anthony woman and this woman killed her innocent child just so she can party??? Both are just as bad and the killing part about it is this woman will not even admit to this day even with all the evidence~~ and she came from a 2 parent family! of course blacks folks will get all the slack when something like this happens.. just like the serial killer in Cleveland and i havent seen too many black serial killers?

Black Men left the home cos the black woman developed the attitude that they “COULD DO BAD ALL BY THEMSELVES.” and that they “DIDN’T NEED NO MAN..HE CAN WALK OUT OF THAT DOOR!”..Now what do we have? the moral of black kids is disgusting!

another factor is black women chasing after THUGS and Gangstas instead of choosing educated black men. In the long run, these ganstas and thugs will leave you nothing but 7 babies to take care of. The the next thug comes around cos the Black Woman did not learn her lesson from the first thug.This is a vicious cycle. In the meantime, the kids in the home are scared from not having a stable home. The Black woman fails to raise these kids.

Perhaps the Black woman should not idolize deadbeats and thugs but rather educated black men to build a home with. Perhaps they are more than likely to stick around and raise strong black kids for the next generation.

The Black woman should also let the man “put a ring on it” before she starts popping them kids

@LEAN~~~ your 9:28 post hit it right on the head!!!

Some young girls get pregnant at a young age.. but come on one with out marriage i can see but i know some who have 3 4 and 5 kids before 21 amd that is just ridiculous , it makes it harder and harder for a man to want to deal with all that baby daddy drama and whos to say the father of the kids will marry you ..after he is getting the milk free~!

May God’s wrath sweep them away from this earth. All the individuals that took part in this sick crime will get theirs. I wish I could see this woman in person to give her the beat down of her life. Yes I am a man, and this is the only time I can justify given a woman a Chris Brown beat down. Sorry Breezy. All I need is a good 5 mins with the man carrying her away. I hope as one reader said for her to go to a man’s prison and let them have their way with her over and over again. So upset!

MOST PIMPS ARE BLACK SO WHAT DO YOU EXPECT??? DIRTY MOFO’S SHOULD BE EXTREMINATED!!

Good on you @1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals, we need more Women like you in the black community. Perhaps there is hope. Good on you and your husband

i’m willing to bet prison is going to be painful for this ovary carrier,not mother,.many mothers are in prison and separated from the children…they’re not going to have any mercy on her.

@ 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud’s concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

I am happy you and your husband did what you knew was right! Some would have stopped baby sitting and act like nothing ever happened.

I havent kept up with this story because honestly its just so sad to me…But, I do have a question if anyone knows…

The guy that was arresting for kidnapping, is he also charged with the murder? Or did someone else kill her?

My heart breaks everytime i see that little girls picture…I’ll never understand how someone can be so heartless to anyone let alone their own child…I would’ve taken that little girl in and loved her…This world is so corrupt and cursed I’m afraid to bring a child into this evil world…no one can judge but God this i know but these people need to be severly punished locked away never to so much as see the light of day…they are going to bust hell wide open

shonda

I havent kept up with this story because honestly its just so sad to me…But, I do have a question if anyone knows…

The guy that was arresting for kidnapping, is he also charged with the murder? Or did someone else kill her?
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They’re investigating. But, so far, he’s an accessory to murder.

THIS IS THE WORST NEWS SINCE HURRICANE KATRINA…HOW COULD SOMEONE DO SOMETHING THAT EVIL..UNBELIEVABLE!

I keep thinking about this little girl everyday, I am hurting and I dont even know her. I am so hurt, this world is gone to far gone.

A lot of people will prostitute their kids.

All of those kids who used to visit and spend the night at Michael Jackson’s house in exchange for gifts, cars and money were being prostituted by their parents.

@Alrighty Then,

What do you mean by men can take the easy way out? So can women. Its called birth control. Nothing easier than popping a pill.

I hope Antoinette Davis, that low-life, overbreeding cretin excuse of a woman rots in the deepest crevices of hell. Jail is too good for her. My heart bleeds for the lil’ angel Shaniya. She didn’t ask for this and she’s in a much better place.

@1TruDiva,

Girl you killed it for me. What do you mean by you aint no snitch? If you see evil you are supposed to snitch. Stop with N***R mentality. You supposed to be a grown black woman.

I AM A SNITCH. Leave it up to me and everyone going to jail. Even the neighbors. My neighborhood and the children therein are too important for me NOT TO SNITCH!!!!!

That picture of that man carrying that little girl in that hotel made me sick 2 my stomach how could nebody feel they have a right to take the life of one of a precious child??? I feel sorry for that man cause where the judicial system fails to bring justice the final judge does not.

I still haven’t seen any news coverage on this story, what’s going on? I hope justice is served!!!!! R.I.P little angel

Kigali—You know DAMN well that was sarcasm!!!!

Besides–I’m still waiting for you to answer my questions from the other night in the Shaniya thread.

should be – excuse typo

@ Kigali–

Another thought….why is it that I can sometimes understand you’re logic when it comes to females being accountable to themselves and society but I never, ever see where you agree that black men should be held accountable for their actions?

Personally, it’s not a P-I-S-S-I-N-G contest but I always wondered that.

There was a man that killed his 15 year old son for allegedly molesting his 3 year old daughter.

I’d like to know your take on that situation.

(I might be wrong but I didn’t notice you in that thread)

Even in this one, I never noticed you having anything to say about the man charged with kidnapping this baby. I’ve only saw where you make references to the mother.

If you have, forgive me for overlooking them.

I pitty folks that are under the impression this a race problem…the world all over could do better in every race and culture-I don’t think the black woman is failing so Melissa you made some points but your point are pointless when you make it about one race and community. I think the human race is failing-it’s not as if other races don’t do any wrong so wake up AMERICA!

@1trudiva,

You will have to ask the question again because I dont remember. Anyway the reason why I always bring up the responsibility of the mom is because there is usually no moral ambiguity with regard to what the father needs to do. WHen it comes to the mother, someone, a few people, most people are ALWAYS giving her a pass.

So when Rick Ross baby mama is out doing the same thing this little girls mama was doing, prostituting herself and her child, she gets so much support for getting that money any way she can.

If Rick Ross son ends up dead behind this rap beef and dont act like it cant happen, who will admit that the mother was playing with fire? Very few people I imagine.

“Let’s be real, men can leave, walk away, take the easy route WHENEVER they want.”
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we let them. We don;t have to procreate with every man. But we do. Some women move me they don;t even know into their homes…

My parents taght me that you teach people how to treat you…YOu teach a man how to treat you, if he knows that you are not going for the okey-doke, it is unlikely he would bring that type of mess to you..If you are accepting and never have anything to say, maybe this is what the end result ends up being…

We shouldn’t be in a rush, anything just to have a man..I don;t know all the details of this bt it really is sad… And if we know a man, is not a good example or good for us/ to us then why do we bother,at all??

Yes, a man did commit the crime, but the girl’s OWN MOTHER helped him do it..We have got to start with us. Men will only do what we, let them do. You have to believe that you have more poer than that. We were chosen to be life bearers. Whydo we let any man defile us? Our children?Our families?

I dk, just really sad…

I DON’T KNOW WHY PEOPLE ARE SHOCKED BY THIS SINCE THIS IS WHAT PIMPS DO TO CHILDREN. THESE A NIMALS NEED TO BE DEALT WITH IN THE WORST POSSIBLE WAY.

@choco- “I pity folks that are under the impression this a race problem…the world all over could do better in every race and culture-I don’t think the black woman is failing so Melissa you made some points but your point are pointless when you make it about one race and community. I think the human race is failing-it’s not as if other races don’t do any wrong so wake up AMERICA!”
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Unfortunately, while this may or may not b true, I choose to be concerned about my group,because I understand that before we can help others, we need to deal with the underlying issues, in our ow community. Everyone else’s issues, we can deal with later. Our community is in a state of emergency and half of us, refuse to even acknowledge that…

In order for us to get better, we have to be able to confront, deal with and eradicate the problems’ idealogies that are screwing us up in the first place…

@Choco,

Why the heck do you think we need you opinion on this? You are an amoral douche bag who needs to be on indefinite birth control. You are one of those females who shouldnt be having anymore children because you have only responded unethically to ever moral debate that has been posed to you.

And I seriously doubt the fact that this so-called mother is with child again will have any affect on the jury or the judge-this unborn seed will have a chance at a better life not having that woman be a mother to him/her.

Poor little Kigali don’t know her place you will still be ignorned by me—k hun say all you want but like yesterday your energy is best spent talking to someone else…Now that I have dismissed you I will keep it moving-by the way did I remind you of how ignorant you sound and are…well if not consider this my Friendly Reminder-such an ugly breed!

@Always
I agree with fixing our community first but just acting like we are the only ones failing is a lie!

This is like a stake in my heart for what that poor little child was going through. If God had to take her so that she doesn’t have to be in a living hell anymore, then I’m glad she’s in a better place.

I hope her junkyard, low-down mother is sentenced to live out the rest of her days in gen-pop at the penitentiary. Then she can be subjected to the same nightmarish existence day after day that she put her daughter through. Death would be too easy.

pretty foul- should’ve been

@choco- “I agree with fixing our community first but just acting like we are the only ones failing is a lie!”
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true, our community is not the only one failing BUT we need to focus on ours, because we need to change what’s happening. ANd the only way that happens, is when people get mad enough to do something about it…

Personally,I would like to be all about kumbaya, BUT our community is in trouble and until we get us straightened out, then we definitl can’t worry about the next man…

And the mother needs to be neutered, so that she can’t have ANY more kids, with her mentally unstable behind…

I have several men who report directly to me that have sole custody of their children. When I first realized that, I was floored. (In a good way)

There are several things these men have in common–

They don’t wear sagging pants.
They are not loud and obnoxious.
They’re very rarely miss work. If they do, it’s because of something concerning their child(ren).
They usually hang around each other. (at least, at work).
When there is a work related function, they ALWAYS bring their children!!

I admire these men so much. So yes, I have a bird’s eye view of decent black men.

@Always
I agree to disagree with you on that becuz imo in order to make a difference maybe we should be worried about the next man-the next man is the same man that can cause our community to falter-so as a whole we should be concerned…I’m black and I’m proud but I know I don’t live in a world where I am only surrounded by my black people…

I wasn’t around for the story. but I have an uncle who dauther had three kids. She claim she decided to give them up for adoption because her baby daddy left her but alot of the family thinks they were sold. I not sure. but the crap is happening here in america

RIP
we as a black community need to do better
and get rid of this STOP SNITCHING sh*t!

@Yo
Wow was she on drugs?

@Kigali
I just had an epiphany and ignorning you is not helping you with your stupidity…I think that you should address the real issues you are dealing as opposed to making broad generalizations about all females-especially black-the hatred you display for your own race signifies how much you hate yourself-, your mother, and your grandmother…GOD loves you and this is only reason I am responding to you today I’ve noticed you always want to talk at me instead of to me – and I have told you plenty of times before I don’t encourage ignorance…again whatever pain you are dealing with be it rejection, disappointment or just plain old envy you should learn better coping mechanisms I can tell by your comments and how you come across so agressive that you are dealing with other issues…take it from me I’ve learned how to deal with my pain-you should love yourself more…

@Kigali
First I implied that the women who were hating on single mothers is maybe becuz they are not strong enough- I have been married and lived my husband and my daughter that didn’t work out I’m not saying one is better than the other you seem to think the cookie cutter fits all and it’s not realistic…I don’t care if you can’t stand me you don’t know me so this is more proof of your own self loathing….

@Kigali
Seriously tho you take matters to heart to quick how can you be objective and form and unbiased opinion when you are so hurt-chill out cuz I was married and raising my daughter you read to quickly and jump to conclusions even quicker-I did my good deed for the day I will go back to ignoring cuz honestly you are not on my level…

@Kigali
Seriously tho you take matters to heart to quick how can you be objective and form and unbiased opinion when you are so hurt-chill out cuz I was married and raising my daughter so y would I say that you read to quickly and jump to conclusions even quicker-I did my good deed for the day I will go back to ignoring u cuz honestly you are not on my level…

Where does the line starts because I want to be first. Lock me in a room with a bat with those two and I would like if they tried to fight back! Disgusting a–holes.

And @Choco,
What the hell are you talkin ’bout? Are you crazy!

Now tell me again that these people dont just need a bullet to the brain? This spirit of defilement is no respector of AGE..whether the offender is 15 or 50..or the victim is 5 years old….its gonna keep happening. I say do like they do in arab countries…you steal something and they cut ya mf hand off. You molest a child and they should cut the appendages you used off.

@Kigali, sometimes you need to shake the dust and keep it moving because “some” people are the epitome of ignorance and you can’t talk with the. On another note, check your email on fb. Lucy, I need you to do some plaining to me.

“not on your level” lol, when did the depths of hell become a level?

@Choco,

No you said women who hate on single motherhood do it because they are too weak to be single mothers which conversely implies that women need men to raise children because they are weak. No women need men to raise children with because thats what NORMAL PEOPLE DO. Dont bash married mothers because of your failed marriage.

No, broken homes is not realistic. Every piece of research states that. The reality of the black community states that. You are trying to cover your behind because you couldnt make it work with your husband. Dont bash the women who are and are trying.

We dont need your pathologies. Leave us alone.

Do not buy the hype children NEED fathers and it will take a selfish woman to decide a child doesnt need a father!

Likewise children need strong, loving, caring mother and a father, and there can never be no subtitute for them bother!

@Kigali
You need therapy who the hell is we…girl for real you got way to much on your mind- so sad you don’t get it-different strokes for different folks-THAT’s REAL but you can’t handle the real becuz you are too busy telling me what a perfect world is-Well Delusional Child I live in the real World- Now let go back to me ignoring you shall we!

@Choco,

You know I would have far more sympathy for you if despite the fact that your marriage failed you at least have the sense to know that being married is better than being a baby mama by choice. You have NO humility whatsoever.

There are women in here who are divorced, there are women here who are single mothers but you got a lot of cheek telling black women that you are weak for not being a single mother.

Big up to all those black WOMEN who despite divorces and mistakes, are doing the RIGHT thing.

@Kigali
That’s the mistake right there I don’t need your sympathy and won’t ever you don’t know my whole story and you won’t you are trying to assess who and what I am from comments on this page again girl you are really beneath me…and I might add a little obsessed with me-you really think all your amorale douchebags comments are going to get me to really listen to you know you come from a place of hurt and disappointment trust me on this no one will listen to you when you come across so damn bitter..Sympathy chile please you honestly are clueless and will remain that way-get real this is the internet you need to remember that!

@Sanjor,

Girl, I hit you up on fb. Now you know those kinds of questions get my blood pressure up. You trying to kill me. I have a suggestion, send lil Queen Bee over there and see if she can spy for us.

@Tennis
The question is what are you talking about…
@Sanjor and Kigali
Why are you both so obsessed with marriage honestly-it’s odd to me-my children have their fathers I don’t need to be married in order for that to happen I will alway be ignorant where that’s concerned becuz marriage does not guarantee anything there are a lot of homes that have both parent that more broken than mine-the parents don’t show love or passion for one another but becuz a child is living is a two parent home that child is better off-not in my opinion…when your marriage fails and you become a single mother what tune will you be singing then?

@Tracey,

Actually you are wrong. Children who grow up in single homes with money dont do as well on standardized test as those those poorer children who do. Also children who grow up in single parent homes are still at an increase for early sex, drug use, alocohol use and abuse. etc. Money doesnt mitigate against that.

I know all marriages dont work out. However you need to have a moral code in the black community that states what is ideal and what is not ideal. We need to, despite the imperfections of life, have a set value system that places an emphasis on strong nuclear families, the importance of hard work and education, and decency. I dont like peope who bash marriage.

@Kigali
I don’t bash marriage I don’t bash I simply state my facts and becuz they are not in alignment with your beliefs you get all personal with it-I don’t know you and you don’t know me so get over it already…seriously smh

Friggin lunatics I tell ya….

@Choco~~ i peeked in and you are really going rough.. get it girl~!!

@Sanjor
I don’t know y you guys keep saying Im agaisn’t marriage becuz I choose not to be-why are you and that crazy thing reading so much into my comments what works for you doesn’t necessarily work for me…I mean seriously you don’t get that??? I’m an attractive, strong, independent black women and very intelligent, intelligent enough to know I do what makes me happy and when I’m happy my kids are happy and that’s my reality I’m not pushing my reality on your or anyone else…when I want to get married I will be I usually get what I want out of life I don’t feel like less of woman becuz I’m not married and it seems as tho the both of you feel as though I should well I don’t-I’m content being me it works for who? ME that who…

@Rose
These chicks don’t even know the half of it – they honeslty don’t thanks boo!

@Kigali, actually I have put Queen Bee on a plane to come and see you for awhile. She will be the one with the Pink Dora backpack, Dora hat, holding her Elmo. You will need to get her some more pullups, lol. Oh, and she gets up several times during the night, lol.

Poor Rose….

OMG that poor child! This really hurts my heart. I hope they throw the book at her!!

People stop doing this atrocious henious stuff!

SEEK JESUS!!!!!

@Sanjor and Kigali
the only ones I do have sympathy are the both of you cuz when your perfect world comes crashing down I don’t think mentally you will be able to survive from it and I’m not calling you weak becuz you are married I’m calling you weak becuz you are naive and extremely impressionable!

sanjor~` why are you commenting me, here i come and post to choco and her you come with the .. poor rose, didnt i tell you to stop putting me in your convo! Werent you talking to your friend kigali.. leave Rose to be i need no symphathy from you. (Rose exits because she was thru 2 weeks sgo with sanjor.. so im out! NO COMMENT!!

@Rose
Sanjor and Kigali show how defenseless they really are always co-sign with one another (rolls eyes)

Oh and ladies a word to the wise (Sanjor and Kigali) keep your husbands away from me cuz I’m that nightmare that will break up your happy home-now with that I Bid you Peace LMAO!

For the record: I am not against any single woman with children, but if we showed more discretion, I think the results-overall- would be better for our community..

In no way am I suggesting, that single mothers are not able to care for their children… I don;t think that..However, I am all about supporting blk children coming up in a 2 parent home, more for stablity, emotional development and growth…

I just think that kids should have every advantage and they DO NEED BOTH, of their parents…
And yes, not every marriage will work out, especially if there is domestic violence, etc, but that’s why we should be more selective and discriminatory in choosing a partner/ mate… Not just having kids, just to do so…I also understand that mistakes happen and I’m not perfect, so I strongly caution about judging anyone..

just my 2 cents..

I just think that sometime women may get overwhelmed with all the responsibilities, especially if they are on their own… and that sometimes leads to these type of unfortunate situations… But I do respect your opinion..

I just really hope that this horrible trend is stopped..

@Choco~~~ LOL!!

@Rose
But see that’s how I know there is trouble in their so-called paradise-Kigali need to be talking to her husband about what works instead she on here ranting Y cuz her man don’t pay her any attention…and Sanjor feels so blessed to be married a second time around I guess that validate her being a woman-both of them fools are in the same boat Hubby out screwing around on them both!

@loco, just because your man screwed around on you doesn’t mean every husband does. You insult every married woman on this board.
@Rose, I must get to you, because you still post to me, lol. You co-sign with a person who wishes harm on another person family life, pathetic.

@Sanjor
Once again you are getting the wrong impression I didn’t wish anything I said be warned I can tell that both of you are not happy at home on the internet it’s easy to pretend where your concerned I kept it real about me glamorous or not…you wanna see your life as the perfect picture and you think you are giving off that impression but your not Im using reverse psychology here in case you were lost! Anyway chick I’m done with you just like I just got done with your husband…how low can you go??? LOL all day LMAO at you two imbosils!

@ Kigali

DOnt you get tired of posting the same ish everyday. I mean we dont care…you not going to change our views of ourselves. Quit generalizing.

LOL Sanjor why are you speaking for every married woman on this board I’m talking to you stop tryn to drag people in this with you-I said I’m the nightmare that will break YOUR happy home not everybodys this is between you and I in case you need help with that-Your WEIRD!

@ Rose

Kigali is weak. Someone who comes to a bootleg website and complain about all black women everyday and does nothing to help the community is quite pathetic.

@Sanjor
You need help I have never wish harm on you or your kids I posed a question when your perfect world crashes what tune will you be singing then? I know coming from one failed marriage that you know it’s a possibility don’t you? And also honey you came for me so now Im here!

@Good Karma i know thats right and i just cant see any sense in this sanjor person , if you notice this person always post s to me first or puts my name in her simple minded posts! i actually dont come on here looking for her but seems she does..But i am wrond to even post back to this meat head woman!! ignore is what i will doing for real but she always startes with me and im trying to be nice for the upcoming holidays.. but i cant stand that half face … ok im thru with her`~!

@choco~~ hubby out screwing around on both of them .. ROTFLMBAO————— must be a reason for a person to come on talking about their marriage , kids , and all thats is sure sign of infidelity ha!i cant concur a married woman with kids on here every day arguing back and forth with women who give less than 2 shakes about her!1 im not married and im at work passing time other than my work but if i was a married woman and had kids im sure it would be something for me to do at home. She claims she has a catering business.. BWAHHAAAAAAAA! even when im off and at home i find things to do to make it good for my man when he comes home or over or whatever~!!Ha! so sad!! these ignorant pieces of sh_t!!

@choco~~ sanjor came at me and i never in my life ever posted to her stupid azz, that is a sure sign of misery!! After i cussed her azz out she still kept posting to me and i know if i didnt care for a person or tbheir comments i would never be putting a post to them unless they come to me first… this thing surely has problems.. if you have catering business . go bake some damn bisquits. LOl!! She always post to me first, it can be a new day and i will come on and make a comment and here this b comes on with @ Rose this and that , she is really turning into a joke that i need o ignore because i dont mind men but not women on my trail~!

She needs to be on her so called hubbys trail.. if she has one which i truly dont believe but really dont give a damn!!

@Rose
I’m telling you their husbands are straight carrying them – their men has mistresses who got more going on for themselves-and you are so right I come here for entertainment and interesting debate not to argue with some bitter unloved housewife…she is lonely if you ask me-Very…

@choco~~ im going to lunch, talk to you later,, rip her a new one if she comes back at you.. all i got to say to the thing if she comes back while im gone.. f outta here sampson!!

new story line.. tales of the lonely desperate housewives of where ever that thing is from!! LOl!! bye choco!!

Cya Rose enjoy your lunch : )

@Rose
Meet me in the 10 things guy hate about women post FUNNY

The mother should aslo be charged with MURDER because it was her that caused this to happen to that beautiful baby.

I hope it’s true what they say happens to child molestor in jail. I hope they do beat the shiiit out of him and her and anybody else that was involved.

Man, it’s hard to even read this story. What that poor baby went through.

@Jenifer

The mother should aslo be charged with MURDER because it was her that caused this to happen to that beautiful baby.

I hope it’s true what they say happens to child molestor in jail. I hope they do beat the shiiit out of him and her and anybody else that was involved.

Man, it’s hard to even read this story. What that poor baby went through.

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You know what’s sad? That girl in the R. Kelly case was being prostituted by her parents. While she was 14 at the time, I’m sure she didn’t just start doing it. And what angered me were the number of people who attacked that girl.

She was being abused probably all her life! She was just lucky enough not to be killed….

no telling what other abuse this child may have endured. at least she is in peace. where no one else can harm her. (heaven) god please take care of her father who tried so much to do the right thing… there are good men out there. and he was one of them

Surpised? Your a gossip site, your not expected to actually have anything important to say dear nor would one expect a credible newsworthy story from you dear. There is no need to be surprised, this type of noteworthy news is not your forté.

If this bas—rd is guilty, his punishment in prison is going to be swift, certain, and severe.

Looks like the moron who named

“Mario Andrette McNeill”

was trying to name him after the famous race car driver, but apparently didn’t know the difference between french and italian.

Not to worry — there’s a 300 lb. convict with a
real BAD attitude ready to school your a—s, “mario” !!!

When are we going to start sterilizing useless, ignorant, trifling, unfit heffas?

i’m sure Big Jim in cell block 6 will do that sick freak some justice.

this is so ridiculous DAT they did this to that little girl wow

R.I.P. SHANIYA