Top 10 Things Men Hate About Women

Posted on November 19th, 2009 - By Bossip Staff

Categories: Love and Relationships, News, Sex and Relationships, Top Ten Lists

Good day Bossip readers! We told you it was coming! If you didn’t get a chance to read last week’s post in which women went in on the fellas about the things that aggravate them to the nines and the responses  … well, it was gender biased to say the least. But to be fair, we wanted to give the fellas a fair chance to express their thoughts and feelings about women. There’s always time and space for a good, healthy battle of the sexes. It is safe to say that both men and women tolerate a great deal from each other; however, each feels as though what they tolerate is way more than their significant other. In other words, women feel like they carry the load and so do men! Each gender feels that the other gender has it easier. The cycle is never ending. The gender specific gripes range from constant nagging to false claims of domestic violence. Either way, it’s more than worthy of discussion! Take a look at the first 5 things men hate about women and leave your thoughts in the thread! Ladies, be prepared for part 2 next week!

I hate a nagging a** female. Women who are always on my back and yip-yapping about how wrong I do every little thing really pi**es me off. Like she’ll ask you to do something and she’s standing over your shoulder critiquing you and telling you how to do what she asked you to do. Then halfway dismiss you to try and do it herself. Then she’ll get sensitive when I snap back like “let me do this! Didn’t you ask me to do this? Shut up!” Ladies, don’t fuss! - Brandon, 27

I can’t stand a frontin’ a** woman! In the beginning a woman will cook, clean, workout. Keep her body on point, all of that! She’ll get you excited and tell you all the things she’ll do to keep her man happy and at home and once she got you, she stops trying! She’s eating oreos and ice cream at midnight, picking up fast food for dinner, ain’t seen her hit the gym since we made this thing official. Don’t sell a dream! If you don’t like to cook, say that! If you really not the outdoorsy/ go hard in the gym girl, don’t fake it, ma! - Jonathan, 30

A dirty female is a major turn-off. I can’t stand no nasty woman. If you nasty then let me know up front. I was really digging this girl and whenever I would go over to her place, it was very clean and neat everything was in place. I thought she was almost too clean. Then she switched it on me. Man, we kicked it for about three or four months and the more and more I saw her, the more careless she got. So I was like okay, I want to see how dirty she will let her place get. Wow. She had a thick black ring in the shower, toilet was dirty with splatter stains and the kitchen?! Brah, I knew she was too good to be true. - Tre, 32

I hate when women try to match a man’s strength and strong arm you, swing at you, throw punches at you … that’s unladylike. I had this one girl who would get violent and aggressive or try to evoke emotion out of me whenever I said something she wasn’t feeling. She would just start swinging, biting, name-calling all that sh*t. What I’mma do? Get my a** beat? No. I’m not going to beat on a woman and so a woman won’t beat on me. You talk about a double standard, when you pin her down and tell her a** to calm down, she want to go call the police and play the victim. Thats’ a woman for you. - Lionel, 36

Jealous women make life hard. I was with this chick for a while and the more time we spent together, the more jealous she became. I would be at the coffee shop on the phone with her and she’d hear a female in the background and she would make a smart remark like, “why were you flirting wit her? Was she cute?” Or if I worked late, I’m banging my co-worker. If we have an argument, I’m cheating. At the restaurant, “I saw you looking at the waitress’s booty, you want to f**k her, huh?” She was just outlandish. She’s also giving me all the leeway to do those things. - Marcus, 27

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  • http://bossip.com This some Shhh….

    Platinum Plus….

  • JB(Trojans? All bets off)

    What do men hate about women? THat we can cheat and not get caught. Well most of the times

  • BRIEFCASE DUDE

    as an educated black man, any woman who comes at me and say i deserve to be treated as a queen, i am a STRONG black woman and i am independent are turn offs to me and i despise them with all my heart literally.

  • drenk

    PICKY EATERS!!! If you dont like to try different food then YOU pick the restaurant!

  • MANMISSMEWITHTHATBULLCRAP

    OH BOY!..WHERE DO WE START? HMMMMM..HOW ABOUT WHEN YOU MEET A CHICK ON SOME FREAK TIP RIGHT AND THEN AFTER ABOUT A MONTH OR SO OF FREAKIN OFF SHE WANNA BE A GIRLFRIEND/WIFEY TYPE? WANT TALK ABOUT LET THE PAST BE THE PAST NAH, THE PAST MAKES THE PRESENT. ALL YOU CHICKS HAVE ONE NIGHTERS FROM THE CLUB DON’T BE TRYING TO SWITCH UP AND SETTLE DOWN AFTER U BEEN RUN THRU….#1

  • Southern Cabbage Patch

    Lawd, here we go!!!! Ladies be prepared to challange this fellas today!

  • Miss B

    Do ya’ll hate when the one you just met at the wrong time moves on with a new dude?

  • Southern Cabbage Patch

    *these*

  • MANMISSMEWITHTHATBULLCRAP

    OH YEAH AND WHY EVERY CHICK THINK THE WORLD OWE THEM SOMETHING?….#2

  • MANMISSMEWITHTHATBULLCRAP

    AND WASSUP WITH THE RUSH TO THE ALTER?..#4

  • Miss B

    MANMISSMEWITHTHATBULLCRAP

    OH YEAH AND WHY EVERY CHICK THINK THE WORLD OWE THEM SOMETHING?….#2
    …………………….

    LMAO… I admit, the “exes” seem to think this or the chick who been around for years think after time she used up being stupid and waiting around, that the dude deserves to be with her. Or make the relationship right….

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    Damn, I can understand where ALL these dudes were coming from! These hoes today, I tell ya.

  • Southern Cabbage Patch

    @ Miss B
    Do ya’ll hate when the one you just met at the wrong time moves on with a new dude?
    ___________________________________________________

    I think most real men regret at one point in life that they missed out on that ONE chick. A Man’s Pride is strong and they hate to admit when they were wrong

  • MANMISSMEWITHTHATBULLCRAP

    I CAN’T SAY “WASSUP”?

  • Married Man

    Well, women will be women. Can’t live with em and divorce is too expensive. Word of advice. Keep God in your relationship, tell your woman the truth, and listen to her and not just hear her. And it that doesn’t work, God will remove her!

  • Southern Cabbage Patch

    @ MIJDC

    It’s gonna be fellas coming out the wood work today on us women I see

  • http://bossip MY BAAD>> ya’ll late via lame

    funny… where’s all the mouthy females trying to defend their crazy azz actions? LMFAO!!!! a crazy unstable chic will do anythng to bring out the crazy in her partner as well.. females.. cant live wit em.. cant live witout em.. SMDH!!!!

  • MANMISSMEWITHTHATBULLCRAP

    OH YEAH WHAT ABOUT THE BAIT AND SWITCH? WHERE YOU GET WITH THE CHICK ON SOME FREAK TIP AND SHE ACT LIKE SHE ALL FREAKY AND DOWN FOR THIS AND THAT TEHN EVENTUALLY WANNA BE CUDDLING AND HUGGING INSTEAD OF F****** AND S******?…..#5

  • Lisa Smith

    This posting is too funny! We are alike but different in many ways. But I love my black man no matter what. We all have flaws and issues. It’s weather you can deal with them or not but first look in the mirror! Especially black women…and yes, I am a black woman. Take care

  • Miss B

    MANMISSMEWITHTHATBULLCRAP

    OH YEAH WHAT ABOUT THE BAIT AND SWITCH? WHERE YOU GET WITH THE CHICK ON SOME FREAK TIP AND SHE ACT LIKE SHE ALL FREAKY AND DOWN FOR THIS AND THAT TEHN EVENTUALLY WANNA BE CUDDLING AND HUGGING INSTEAD OF F****** AND S******?…..#5

    ………………………

    LMAO again…. I’m guilty of that, LOL!!!!! But it’s b/c once I finally get to my destination, I’m tired as f*ck.

  • aleximaq

    These are all dumb and triflin….cuz every type mentioned up here get men to commit faster than a chic with some sense….

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @MISS B
    “LMAO again…. I’m guilty of that, LOL!!!!! But it’s b/c once I finally get to my destination, I’m tired as f*ck.”
    __________________________________________________________

    Dayum… at least you are being real about it.

  • Miss B

    Man, I just don’t care™

    @MISS B
    “LMAO again…. I’m guilty of that, LOL!!!!! But it’s b/c once I finally get to my destination, I’m tired as f*ck.”
    ___________________________________________________

    Dayum… at least you are being real about it.
    …………………

    LOL. I sometimes talk ‘ish my body ain’t ready for!

  • Moe

    The issues sound petty fellows. None of these women sound like you guys were in relationships. A month or two aint quite that, that’s still her rep. You get what you get when you go from how u doing to bang bang bang! lol

  • resurrected

    Married Man

    Well, women will be women. Can’t live with em and divorce is too expensive. Word of advice. Keep God in your relationship, tell your woman the truth, and listen to her and not just hear her. And it that doesn’t work, God will remove her!
    _______________________________________________
    Good advice that man people lack but this topic is about men… I know that a man does not like a nagging woman but don’t expect any person to be quiet if you are wronging them… I think both side have very wrong ways of thinking… God created both of us and both are beautiful in there own unique was and not one outside of you should damage your worth because when people think low about you God still see;s you in the highest of light… And last but not least opinions are like azz hole everyone has one and that does not mean that there opinion of you is on point..

  • Southern Cabbage Patch

    @ MIJDC

    I hear ya

  • Redd Foxxx (This Is Gods Work You Know Pretty Wings)

    Married Man

    Well, women will be women. Can’t live with em and divorce is too expensive. Word of advice. Keep God in your relationship, tell your woman the truth, and listen to her and not just hear her. And it that doesn’t work, God will remove her!

    This is some WISDOM right here!

  • Redd Foxxx (This Is Gods Work You Know Pretty Wings)

    supermayne

    @redd
    yea, right for knowing how to s*ck our *****s well.

    STFU! You will see simple azz nucca!

  • resurrected

    supermayne

    this is why as a man i can never get married, women of today are totally different form the women in the 70’s and 80’s.. more *****tier, nagging, annoying, loud and ghetto, both the educated and the uneducated ones. ill rather just have kids on the side with one but marrying HELL NO.
    ________________________________________________
    Woman of today take care of themselves more as well and anyone who is paying there own bills has the right to make demands… No everyone is going to be a quiet person and unless you really check your own wrong constantly then you have no right to speak of another person’s wrongs and flaws… Everything starts with you first and then it bleeds on to other people and we denounce that fact as a human race of people…

  • Southern Cabbage Patch

    I think men hate that women can not be that “Perfection” that they read about or see on tv. Women are simplistic beings,We only require: Stability and Security.

    Yeah you get them other women out their but in most cases a real woman will give her all but we not gonna except any less from ya’ll Men!

  • Redd Foxxx (This Is Gods Work You Know Pretty Wings)

    @ Man

    Don’t start with me today! I made that comment based on the comments in this thread and yes yall do act that way so quit frontin!

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @MISS B
    “LOL. I sometimes talk ‘ish my body ain’t ready for!”
    ____________________________________________________________

    You got to get yo body ready before hand ma!!! You know you can do it!

  • MANMISSMEWITHTHATBULLCRAP

    LIFETIME TV!!…..#6

  • simpson

    there is nothing crazier than a nagging girlfriend or wife.. my boy married an african american woman, and he tell me he parks outside of his houe after work for two hours scared to go inside his own house.

  • Lets Be For Real

    I cant stand a woman who cant keep up a clean house.. Ima female, I go to my best friends apartment last night.. I smelt it before I reached the top step.. I couldnt even go in… WTF is up with that??? Can women please step your game up??? I hate to say it, but some women give men reasons to cheat…

  • Redd Foxxx (This Is Gods Work You Know Pretty Wings)

    supermayne

    @redd
    yea, right for knowing how to s*ck our *****s well.

    STFU! You will see simple azz nucca!

    LMAO! Nuccas like you will be old az hell at the club with an old azz pimp suit on with about 15 baby mamas trying to get a date no money cause verybody done hit you for that CP. Lonely as hell with no one to grow old with! Or to have your back! Simple azz nucca!

  • Southern Cabbage Patch

    @ Bullcrap
    LIFETIME TV!!…..#6
    ___________________________

    LOL you gotta point there!

  • Miss B

    Southern Cabbage Patch

    I think men hate that women can not be that “Perfection” that they read about or see on tv. Women are simplistic beings,We only require: Stability and Security.

    Yeah you get them other women out their but in most cases a real woman will give her all but we not gonna except any less from ya’ll Men!
    ……………..

    Yeah, I noticed some men want this “perfect” woman, yet when i put them on paper, they are the most f’d up, LOL! Guys keep amazing me. Don’t want for anything you aren’t willing to give or do for me.

  • Lets Be For Real

    @ Simpson –

    damn, thats harsh..

  • supermayne

    @redd
    see what i mean about women, nagging b*tch, i bet you over 30 and still sinlge.

    @ressurected
    thanks but no thanks.

  • MANMISSMEWITHTHATBULLCRAP

    TYRA BANKS SHOW!!#7

  • MISS LOVELY

    women have attitude issues and are down right mean this is for all women not just black women..

  • supermayne

    @redd
    me single, nah i got a GF, but like i said i will have like two kids by her cause i love kids and that’s it.ho

  • Sydney™

    LOL

    OK, gents, it’s your turn to shower us with compliments — the top 10 things you love most about us (outside of body parts). :)

    *waiting*

  • supermayne

    @misslovely
    mostly black women tho.LOL

  • Redd Foxxx (This Is Gods Work You Know Pretty Wings)

    supermayne

    @redd
    me single, nah i got a GF, but like i said i will have like two kids by her cause i love kids and that’s it.ho

    Well your daddy obviously didnt teach you about the sanctity of marriage and your girl has no respect for herself to let a man give her children without marrying her! Now whos the ho! Simple azz nucca!

  • supermayne

    @redd
    figured you were over 30 and not married.LMAO SO TYPICAL…lonley b*tch.. invest in a vibrator.

  • MANMISSMEWITHTHATBULLCRAP

    SEXUAL AMBIGUITY!! WHAT ABOUT THE CHICK THATS BI WHEN SINGLE BUT STR8 LIKE 9:15 WHEN IN A “RELATIONSHIP”?……#8

  • Redd Foxxx (This Is Gods Work You Know Pretty Wings)

    MISS LOVELY

    women have attitude issues and are down right mean this is for all women not just black women..

    STFU!

  • supermayne

    @redd
    my daddy thought me well, trust me.. in his prime he got the best submissive women like my mom. but women nowadays ain’t like that.ho

  • Nique

    Im surprised they didnt put LOUD women…

  • Southern Cabbage Patch

    @ Redd Fox

    No complaints!

    @ Miss B

    Guys fail to realize if ya’ll want perfection you gone pay one way or another to maintain it.

    I agree a woman does have her habits of settling. We have kids, etc…You men also change as well though.

    1. Men stop eating the cookies at night, morning and afternoon
    2. Men stop complimenting and start complaining
    3. Men start asking for $ way too much

  • Miss B

    MANMISSMEWITHTHATBULLCRAP

    SEXUAL AMBIGUITY!! WHAT ABOUT THE CHICK THATS BI WHEN SINGLE BUT STR8 LIKE 9:15 WHEN IN A “RELATIONSHIP”?……#8
    ………………

    LOL. He just put some get “d” on her and chick right.

  • supermayne

    @redd
    damn ma you going in with everyone…. typical black women always angry and cursing.LMAO.

  • Miss B

    I mean *good* d

  • supermayne

    taught spell check

  • cammi84

    this whole post is a setup.

  • trs

    I hate when women try to match a man’s strength and strong arm you, swing at you, throw punches at you … that’s unladylike. I had this one girl who would get violent and aggressive or try to evoke emotion out of me whenever I said something she wasn’t feeling. She would just start swinging, biting, name-calling all that sh*t. What I’mma do? Get my a** beat? No. I’m not going to beat on a woman and so a woman won’t beat on me. You talk about a double standard, when you pin her down and tell her a** to calm down, she want to go call the police and play the victim. Thats’ a woman for you. -
    ————————————————-

    This is a BIG NO NO. Ladies please don’t do this…all it takes is for your man to snap ONE time, and it can become a dangerous situation. A man can only take so much before he retaliates, and a woman is not equipped to take a beating like a man can.

    Everyone please keep your hands to yourself!!

    SUP PEOPLE????

  • MANMISSMEWITHTHATBULLCRAP

    RELATIONSHIPS!!…..#9

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @MISSME..
    “SEXUAL AMBIGUITY!! WHAT ABOUT THE CHICK THATS BI WHEN SINGLE BUT STR8 LIKE 9:15 WHEN IN A “RELATIONSHIP”?……#8″
    _____________________________________________________________

    HOLD UP!! Let’s not take things too far bruh!

  • GoodKarma4Me

    Guys that complain about women secretly yearn to be with men.
    It has been proven…So keep complaining men…

  • resurrected

    supermayne

    Hey dude it is cool with me because I am still love by many and especially by God… The older that I get I realize that it might hurt over all to see the attitude that most men carry about woman but who wants a hater in there lives… Love should always represent Love and anything else is mostly likely not worth most peoples time…

  • Redd Foxxx (This Is Gods Work You Know Pretty Wings)

    supermayne

    @redd
    figured you were over 30 and not married.LMAO SO TYPICAL…lonley b*tch.. invest in a vibrator.

    Far from it btch! So what you plan on not turning 30 dumb azz! You nuccas can be so stupid. And you have kids! LIKE I SAID YOUR GIRL IS THE HO FOR HAVING BABIES WITH YOU AND NOT GETTING MARRIED! YOU DONT WANT TO F WITH ME CAUSE THAT OVER 30SHT DONT HURT MY FEELINGS I’M BLESSED NUCCA! AND I DONT NEED A MAN TO DEFINE ME! LMAO YOU JUST DONT KNOW! LAME!

  • Alrighty Then…

    Men, can’t live without ‘em, can’t kill ‘em.

  • trs

    Southern,

    1. Men stop eating the cookies at night, morning and afternoon
    2. Men stop complimenting and start complaining
    3. Men start asking for $ way too much
    ———————————————–

    You got dudes asking you for money?

    Say it aint so ma!!!!!! Say it ain’t so!!!

  • Southern Cabbage Patch

    Speaking of eating cookies, Why is it a woman will automatically do BECKY, no questions asked but we gotta remind ya’ll to return the favor????

  • GoodKarma4Me

    I totally agree with men who hate women that let themselves go though. But it is also up to you as her husband to encourage in a positive way to work out and eat healthy.

  • Ruby Red Lips

    @ Resurrected…Applause
    @ Married Man…Applause

  • Southern Cabbage Patch

    @ TRS
    It’s sickening! How are you?

  • Alrighty Then…

    I meant, can’t live WITH them, can’t kill ‘em… what’s a girl to do? lol…

  • Lady Architect (Being a Good Girl)

    Hey People

  • Redd Foxxx (This Is Gods Work You Know Pretty Wings)

    SIS,

    I’m goin in, I’m goin in and I’m go HARD LMAO!!!

    How r u??

  • resurrected

    simpson

    there is nothing crazier than a nagging girlfriend or wife.. my boy married an african american woman, and he tell me he parks outside of his houe after work for two hours scared to go inside his own house.
    _________________________________________________
    At the end of the day you pick the company that you keep you if you don’t care to have standards at the beginning then don’t complain about the middle or the end…

  • http://www.tyuslaw.com Jarrett

    I know the men are about to feel me on this. Don’t you hate dating a woman with “daddy issues”? I understand a lot of men, especially with younger ladies, were not good fathers and that a woman’s first relationship with any man is that with her father, but DAMN! At some point, you have to realize I aint have anything to do with that.

  • trs

    Speaking of eating cookies, Why is it a woman will automatically do BECKY, no questions asked but we gotta remind ya’ll to return the favor????

    ————————————————

    That’s the epitome of the word “SIN!”

  • Miss B

    Have ya’ll men heard how eating cinnamon will help ya girl so she won’t have gag reflexes???

  • trs

    Sis,

    SIS,

    I’m goin in, I’m goin in and I’m go HARD LMAO!!!

    How r u??
    ————————————————

    I SEE!!!!!!!!! You know I have no words for you ma!! NO WORDS!!!!! LMAO!!!!

  • Redd Foxxx (This Is Gods Work You Know Pretty Wings)

    GoodKarma4Me

    Guys that complain about women secretly yearn to be with men.
    It has been proven…So keep complaining men…

    Someone with some sense! Thank God!

  • supermayne

    @redd
    are you not ashamed to be over 30 and single.LMAOO OLD HAG.

  • trs

    Southern

    @ TRS
    It’s sickening! How are you?
    ——————————————

    I am trying to have some fun ma! :)

    What’s good your way??

  • GoodKarma4Me

    simpson
    there is nothing crazier than a nagging girlfriend or wife.. my boy married an african american woman, and he tell me he parks outside of his houe after work for two hours scared to go inside his own house.
    —————————————–
    Trust I bet his wife nags for a reason. He probably don’t pay for ish and is lazy as f**k.

  • heygurrrl!

    OMG!!! ok, the females where doggin the guys yesterday,so its our turn!! let us have it lol. ok I will admit this stuff is true… but not for all women!!

    @Man I just dont care

    you should be in heaven today!! my have the tables turned

  • pynklyzurd14

    Southern Cabbage Patch

    Speaking of eating cookies, Why is it a woman will automatically do BECKY, no questions asked but we gotta remind ya’ll to return the favor????
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    Not me, that why you betta believe I get mines FIRST!!! That’s my guarantee!!! LMFAO!!!

  • supermayne

    @JARETT
    DING DING SYOU HIT THE SPOT DUDE, SO RIGHT LMAOOO

  • resurrected

    Jarrett

    I know the men are about to feel me on this. Don’t you hate dating a woman with “daddy issues”? I understand a lot of men, especially with younger ladies, were not good fathers and that a woman’s first relationship with any man is that with her father, but DAMN! At some point, you have to realize I aint have anything to do with that.
    _________________________________________________
    That is because men have not tolerance for anything but there own selfish needs… If she has issues, issues take time to get over and if you still have very unsupportive people in your space then mostly likely you were never offered help from the get go with your issues… This is my problem men always want a woman to be understanding about there issues and lack of judgment but they never give the same support back… Why do people fill that they can ask for what they will never give back to another person…?

  • heygurrrl!

    wassup pynk!!! ready to get it crackin on theses imple dudes! lol

  • Redd Foxxx (This Is Gods Work You Know Pretty Wings)

    SIS,

    I’m goin in, I’m goin in and I’m go HARD LMAO!!!

    How r u??
    ————————————————

    I SEE!!!!!!!!! You know I have no words for you ma!! NO WORDS!!!!! LMAO!!!!

    WHAT? Check your email.

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @ALRIGHTY THEN
    “I meant, can’t live WITH them, can’t kill ‘em… what’s a girl to do? lol…”
    ___________________________________________________________

    DATE WOMEN!

    ♀+♀=♥

  • TIGER

    most black women are not capable of doing the right thing in a household cause most of them grew up wihout a daddyyyy.LOL

  • GoodKarma4Me

    @ resurrected

    Preah it sista!

  • Lex

    The Scroogelina Syndrome:

    This particular woman has too many ghosts of relationships past to move ahead with a future relationship. In pimping there is an unwritten rule “better a turnout than a burnout”. Not that I condone pimping however, this rule can be applied to many women. “Well my ex used to _________”. Umm yeah Okay, so why are you not with that brah now?! Repetitive failure to realize the only thing in common in all their broken relationships is themselves.

  • GoodKarma4Me

    Preach

  • Lady Architect (Being a Good Girl)

    Southern Cabbage Patch

    Speaking of eating cookies, Why is it a woman will automatically do BECKY, no questions asked but we gotta remind ya’ll to return the favor????

    Nope never gonna happen…If I have to remind anything…the session will not even make it to the intercourse stage.

  • Non Mulatto Proud Of It

    as much as women bit.h about men.Bottomline everbody sh.. stinks.

  • Southern Cabbage Patch

    @ Lady A

    I C U Ma. Is the weather back to normal now?

    @ TRS
    I’m Ready 4 Turkey

  • Redd Foxxx (This Is Gods Work You Know Pretty Wings)

    supermayne

    @redd
    are you not ashamed to be over 30 and single.LMAOO OLD HAG.

    Damn you just change your name and say the same sht to me every chance you get. I must have hit a nerve. Anyway I’m chillin and lovin it. Why are you so jealous of me. Hating is bad for your health! Like I said that 30 ish dont phase me! I’m too blessed baby! LMAOOOOOO!!!!

  • Southern Cabbage Patch

    @ bkylady
    Southern Cabbage Patch

    Speaking of eating cookies, Why is it a woman will automatically do BECKY, no questions asked but we gotta remind ya’ll to return the favor????
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    Not me, that why you betta believe I get mines FIRST!!! That’s my guarantee!!! LMFAO!!!
    ________________________________________________

    LOL Just wanna wake up these still “milking” fellas.

  • resurrected

    supermayne

    @redd
    are you not ashamed to be over 30 and single.LMAOO OLD HAG.
    _________________________________________________
    Why should she be ashamed good things come to those who wit life is about patience, everything that glitters is not gold and outside appearance can be very deceiving… See your comment lets me know that you are most likely abusive with words and may not provide a very supportive system amoung friends and the woman that you pick up…

  • trs

    TWIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    If I have to remind anything…the session will not even make it to the intercourse stage.
    ———————————————-

    ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Lady Architect (Being a Good Girl)

    Southern Cabbage Patch

    @ Lady A

    I C U Ma. Is the weather back to normal now?

    Yes mam…it is actually very nice outside.

  • Southern Cabbage Patch

    “opps”
    @ pynklyzurd14

    Sorry Chica

  • trs

    Southern,

    @ TRS
    I’m Ready 4 Turkey
    ———————————————–

    Girl me too!!! My spread this year is going to be ridiculous. I am giving my momma a break this year…it’s all on me!

  • Redd Foxxx (This Is Gods Work You Know Pretty Wings)

    Hey Lady A! You being a good girl huh???

  • MANMISSMEWITHTHATBULLCRAP

    OH YEAH WHAT ABOUT WHEN A CHICK WANT TAKE TO TO A CLUB TO GET LAP DANCES AND THEN GET MAD SAY YOU HAVING TOO MUCH FUN?….#10

  • supermayne

    @REDD
    OK. old hag.LMAO

  • Southern Cabbage Patch

    @ TRS

    Girl me too!!! My spread this year is going to be ridiculous. I am giving my momma a break this year…it’s all on me!
    _______________________________________________

    See you are the reason of what all Men should Love about Women!!!!!!!!!!

  • GoodKarma4Me

    @ Marquis de Sade

    You actually got a woman???

  • pynklyzurd14

    heygurrrl!

    w*****up pynk!!! ready to get it crackin on theses imple dudes! lol
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    I know that’s right girl. There some fighting words flyin up in here already. Alotta internet thuggin goins on… lol

  • GoodKarma4Me

    Why if a woman is over 30 and single. She has to be depressed or a complete failure in life??? GTFOHWTBS.

  • Southern Cabbage Patch

    @ MIJDC

    “checks & smells all scenery” Everythings okay jus some selfish fellas out here. Good Becky can make a man lose his d*** mind including his woman!

  • pynklyzurd14

    Southern Cabbage Patch

    @ bkylady
    Southern Cabbage Patch

    Speaking of eating cookies, Why is it a woman will automatically do BECKY, no questions asked but we gotta remind ya’ll to return the favor????
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    Not me, that why you betta believe I get mines FIRST!!! That’s my guarantee!!! LMFAO!!!
    ________________________________________________

    LOL Just wanna wake up these still “milking” fellas.
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    Iggas always want stuff for free. They don’t wanna work for anything. & Idk why men be complaining… It ain’t like they’re at the mercy of gag reflexes like we are, specially when they wanna control that situation. Igga!!! Get your hands off my head, I know wtf to do. lol. They’re always b*tchin, but they ain’t gotta do nothin but lick. LMFAO!!!

  • heygurrrl!

    @ pynk, yea the on her crip walking and sh*t!! STFU!!! females rule the muggfugging world!!!

  • Redd Foxxx (This Is Gods Work You Know Pretty Wings)

    supermayne

    @REDD
    OK. old hag.LMAO

    That line is getting really old. You have said this to me under like 15 different names. I could be ignorant like you and go on about my azz waist and breast size, or what kind of car I drive, bank account etc etc but I won’t stoop to your level. LOL! I’ll let you have the lame old hag joke! LMAOOOOOOOOOO!!!!

  • trs

    Pynk

    but they ain’t gotta do nothin but lick. LMFAO!!!

    ———————————————

    If that’s all they are doing they aren’t doing it right!

  • supermayne

    @redd
    say whatevrer you like, don’t care lol. you are still an old hag….LMAO

  • heygurrrl!

    @ trs

    LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL

  • Southern Cabbage Patch

    @ TRS
    Pynk

    but they ain’t gotta do nothin but lick. LMFAO!!!

    ———————————————

    If that’s all they are doing they aren’t doing it right!
    ______________________________________________

    LMAO

  • Sydney™

    No complimentary lists from the men yet?

  • Darkesthourgla ss

    These dudes comments are funny and true with a lot of women but not all. Let me read the rest of this thread.

  • trs

    Southern,

    See you are the reason of what all Men should Love about Women!!!!!!!!!!
    ————————————————-

    You are so sweet!!!! You right though…cooking is NOT an easy thing to do and some of us can NOT throw down. lmao

  • MADE.IN.NY

    ‘Then she’ll get sensitive when I snap back like ““let me do this! Didn’t you ask me to do this? Shut up!” Ladies, don’t fuss!’ – Brandon.
    _____________________________________________________

    LMAO.

  • trs

    Sis,

    Well said!!! Patience is a virtue! And I am a virtuos woman. I love the Lord and I know he loves me and has my back no matter what! Like I said misery loves company and i cant find one reason to be miserable.
    ———————————————-

    This is an excellent comment. Let’s just agree to have fun today!!! Let it ride sis!!!

  • AUDI

    Women freshen up after work before you come over…and make sure you brush your teeth…there is nothing worst then a women with stank BREATH!!!!!!!!!

  • MANMISSMEWITHTHATBULLCRAP

    OMG AND THIS HAS GOT TO BE #1…THE DOO-RAG AND OLD SWEATPANTS IN BED…AHHHHHHH YESSSSS…

  • Chris

    My girlfriend believes that every man cheats….do I need to say more…?

    Am in hell!!!

  • resurrected

    To the men and the woman who all equally wants love because we are created to love each other it might been hard but never give up hope…. Hope deferred will make the heart sick if there is nothing left in life to hope for then you have lost all interest to live for something beyond human sight… All thing are attainable and life is worth living to it’s fullest…And I say this for all of us it is not easy but very possible…

  • pynklyzurd14

    trs

    Pynk

    but they ain’t gotta do nothin but lick. LMFAO!!!

    ———————————————

    If that’s all they are doing they aren’t doing it right!
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    Lol, true. But, what I’m tryna say is that it isn’t as hard or as complicated to do as men wanna make it seem. Compared to what we have to do. lol

  • Mama Mila

    My response to all these stories:

    1. We stand over you and nag because we have to keep fricking asking you over and over again. Then when you finally do it, you do it half way and all wrong.
    Do it right the first time fellas.

    2. We stop doing stuff when you stop doing stuff. Act like you were in the beginning fellas. If we stop cooking and cleaning, it’s because yall stopped doing something too…whether it’s wining and dining, giving us good long sex, making us feel special. We will cater to your every need when you cater to ours.

    3. I am not a man beater…but if i slap the crap out of you….it is usually for a good damn reason. We try to evoke emotion because it means that yall usually aren’t paying attention.

    4. We ask if you are banging random girls because yall usually are…..that comes from honesty. If you have cheated before, it’s kind of hard to get that memory out of your head. Don’t do suspect things, we won’t SUSPECT you.

  • BLISS

    most men are a$$es.
    plain and simple.
    can’t live with them, can’t live without them.

    they front more than women. they are dirtier usually, they have unreasonable expectations, and they want the freak, but don’t wanna wife the freak, they want to wife the virginal type so they ego feel good about themselves… i think the dudes above who go on about being a freak and then wanna cuddle and do the wifey thing are out of their minds! you should WANT a woman who can hold it down in her professional AND personal life. you should want that men! but nah… you perpetuate the doublestandard… so women feel the need to front.

    screw the men. on the cool.

  • Redd Foxxx (This Is Gods Work You Know Pretty Wings)

    This is an excellent comment. Let’s just agree to have fun today!!! Let it ride sis!!!

    Sis you know I’m good. I just bite back thats all. Notice how the men have not come out and said anything positive like whe did on their thread. Sydney you susggested that earlier. I meant to speak but got caught up. Hey Lady!

    Where are they at????

  • pynklyzurd14

    Sydney™

    No complimentary lists from the men yet?
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    Ha! that should be buzz-worthy… lol

  • MADE.IN.NY

    “Well, women will be women. Can’t live with em and divorce is too expensive. Word of advice. Keep God in your relationship, tell your woman the truth, and listen to her and not just hear her. And it that doesn’t work, God will remove her!” – Married Man
    _____________________________________________________

    Good suggestions. It takes brain power to think this way, many men act as if it requires too much energy . . .

  • BLISS

    @ Mama Mila above.

    amen sista

  • trs

    Pynk

    Lol, true. But, what I’m tryna say is that it isn’t as hard or as complicated to do as men wanna make it seem. Compared to what we have to do. lol
    ———————————————–

    *nodding head in approval*

  • http://www.myspace.com/crimiegangmusik snoop bloggy blog ( i’m kind of a BIG DEAL)

    #7 **emotional**

  • http://www.myspace.com/crimiegangmusik snoop bloggy blog ( i’m kind of a BIG DEAL)

    Hello to all you lovely ladies…..

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @SOUTHERN CABBAGE PATCH
    ““checks & smells all scenery” Everythings okay jus some selfish fellas out here. Good Becky can make a man lose his d*** mind including his woman!”
    ____________________________________________________________

    Yeah, you right. Cause I ain’t tryin to lick EVERY chick. Fugg dat.

    Some of yall ain’t tryin to do EVERYTHING either! Yall think yall doin a nucca a favor by fuggin!

  • trs

    1. private investigators tendencies
    ———————————————

    Hey Snoop!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I COMPLETELY COSIGN ON THIS WITH SNOOP…

    But don’t act like dudes don’t be playing Inspector Gadget too!!!! Setting women up and ish….

  • trs

    9. I hate when i’m with a woman and she see’s another attractive woman, and always ask me if i want to f#ck her…
    ————————————————–

    Then she is insecure. It’s doesn’t make it right, and there are a lot of insecure women. She’s probably looking for you to compliment her like “naw, she don’t have nothing on you” or something like that. Just saying…

  • Miss B

    @trs

    1. private investigators tendencies
    ———————————————

    Hey Snoop!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I COMPLETELY COSIGN ON THIS WITH SNOOP…

    But don’t act like dudes don’t be playing Inspector Gadget too!!!! Setting women up and ish….
    …………..

    He whipped up a pretty good list.

    And guys are so sneaky with that set up! I’ve had it happen. Till this say he won’t admit, but I know I was set up. I passed the test though.

  • Sydney™

    @Redd

    “Notice how the men have not come out and said anything positive like whe did on their thread.”

    I know, lol. Quite hypocritical, wouldn’t you say? :)

  • trs

    Sydney!!!!!!!!!!!

  • resurrected

    I heard a preacher put it the best way that I have heard and this came from a man… Males chase and choose uncompromising women and situations, while men real men love God first and have self-control second.

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    **didn’t the men give their list of things they like about women last week?**

  • trs

    Miss B

    And guys are so sneaky with that set up! I’ve had it happen. Till this say he won’t admit, but I know I was set up. I p*****ed the test though.

    ————————————————-

    YEP!!! And they will use their boys to do it too!!!
    A couple of guy friends of mine pulled a set up on one of their girlfriends. He had his homeboy push up on her and see if he could get it. The silly heffa fell for it. SMH@ how low down people can be.

  • http://bossip I`ll Talk about what I want to talk about Nucca !

    @ Snoop
    3, 5, ESPECIALLY 6 , ESPECIALY 7, 10 is more on point bruh !

    You are a bright dude … Obama might need you on advisory commitee on straightening out women ! LOL

  • Sydney™

    Hey TRS!

    @Man

    “**didn’t the men give their list of things they like about women last week?**”

    When did this happen? I must have missed it. And a list about T&A doesn’t count. . .

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @MISS B
    “LOL. Is that right!!

    Soon as your mouth sounds like a vacuum down there, then you have committed…”
    ___________________________________________________________

    Like yall been sayin… SHOW YOU ARE WILLING TO DO IT THAN WE WILL BE WILLING TO DO IT!!

  • trs

    Made in NY

    An overwhelming majority of “men” would not even be able to correctly define what constitutes a real man, so what are you saying? If women are hoping for a life partner, should we not be aware of what characteristics makes up a good one? No one is perfect, but some of you “men” can barely cover 1/2 of one characteristic on the list.
    ———————————————-

    PREACH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    *putting on my church hat and church shoes*

  • Sydney™

    “1. private investigators tendencies”

    Wait a minute, don’t you cheat? That’s why you have Magnum, P.I. on your hands. . .

  • MADE.IN.NY

    “These are all dumb and triflin….cuz every type mentioned up here get men to commit faster than a chic with some sense….” – aleximaq
    ____________________________________________________

    PREACH.

  • Redd Foxxx (This Is Gods Work You Know Pretty Wings)

    Sydney™

    Hey TRS!

    @Man

    “**didn’t the men give their list of things they like about women last week?**”

    When did this happen? I must have missed it. And a list about T&A doesn’t count. . .

    No they did not. Too much pride.

  • trs

    I’ll Talk About

    Obama might need you on advisory commitee on straightening out women ! LOL
    ———————————————

    I am not sure I like the phrase “straightening out women.”

    *staring with one eyebrow arched*

  • MADE.IN.NY

    “I know that a man does not like a nagging woman but don’t expect any person to be quiet if you are wronging them… I think both side have very wrong ways of thinking… God created both of us and both are beautiful in there own unique was and not one outside of you should damage your worth because when people think low about you God still see;s you in the highest of light…” – resurrected
    _____________________________________________________

    I agree 100%. Very well said.

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @MADE IN N.Y.
    “1. Many men have fallen victim to their pride. Ultimately if a man “dogs out” a genuinely good woman he is a fool because the quantity of quality women is lessening as time goes by and the mentality of the modern woman changes. But then again, some men don’t care about quality.

    2. An overwhelming majority of “men” would not even be able to correctly define what constitutes a real man, so what are you saying? If women are hoping for a life partner, should we not be aware of what characteristics makes up a good one? No one is perfect, but some of you “men” can barely cover 1/2 of one characteristic on the list.”
    ___________________________________________________________

    Every woman thinks they are “quality.” SMH. If you are dogged out, chances are he didn’t think of you as “quality” in the first place. And yes, “quality” is overrated and “quantity” is underrated.

    When a woman shows me a “good man” nine times out of ten it’s some nucca that is just glad to be gettin what ever amount of puzzy he can get. He ain’t got no other options. I’m just sayin. :D

  • Sydney™

    @Redd

    “No they did not. Too much pride.”

    I didn’t think so. The next time there’s whining about how much the sisters bash, I’ll turn a blind eye, lol.

    Again, what’s good for the goose is good for the gander. Get to listing. . .

  • trs

    No they did not. Too much pride.
    ——————————————-

    OK, so Man and Snoop DID put up lists but most of their ish was about breasts, Vag, and azz. So it was a BS list BUT they did make one…

  • MADE.IN.NY

    “PREACH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    *putting on my church hat and church shoes*” – trs
    ____________________________________________________

    LOL

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @REDD AND SYDNEY

    yes we did give a list. I’ll do it again but I’m bout to go to lunch.

  • Meeko From Detroit (Home of The Vicious Lions, Wild Tigers & Hungry Bears) who will Eat You Alive

    everybody needs to learn that when you make bad choices you are forced to live with the decisions that resulted from the bad choice.

    thats why we men & women are F**k ed up as we are

  • trs

    Hey Shawn M♥!!!

  • Sydney™

    “You got dudes asking you for money?”

    All the time on the street, lol. I bought an older brother a Frappachino from Starbucks one day.

  • Redd Foxxx (This Is Gods Work You Know Pretty Wings)

    @ Snoop

    What do you love?

    I feel your list because I am guilty of a couple. I will ask 10,000 questions during the game lmao! Boots and purses a very big problem with me. But anyway go ahead what do you love?

  • trs

    Dang we cant say b-r-e-a-s-t-s???? Goodness gracious.

  • Miss B

    I’m turned off if a man doesn’t know how to cook. You don’t have to be Emeril, but know how to cook breakfast and make my freaking spaghetti.

    I just wonder if I wasn’t cooking, n*gga how were you eating at first?

  • resurrected

    Why do men think that they can tell a woman how to be and what she should be and think that they are exempt to the process of change and decency? Why does our world constantly stay on the woman and have no real advice for the everyday man, it takes two all the way through in any relationship and both need to be healthy mentally, emotionally, and spiritually… For any man to expect a woman to not have emotions or to not be emotionally is taking away from her what God created her to be… Something are above us all and sometime we need to learn how to adapt more and to accept more about the person and stop putting us all in the same boat… Mature people push forward while stuck people stay stuck living the same negative patterns and never learning anything new which is the equivalent of a fool…

  • Sydney™

    @TRS

    “OK, so Man and Snoop DID put up lists but most of their ish was about *****, Vag, and azz. So it was a BS list BUT they did make one…”

    Yeah, that doesn’t count. We listed real attributes that went below the surface.

  • Redd Foxxx (This Is Gods Work You Know Pretty Wings)

    Ladies.

    Ima keep it 100 why is it that we will spot a pretty girl way before our dude will and wait for him to look so we can tear into that azz! LOL!

  • Sydney™

    @TRS

    Off topic, but I heard part of the Michael Baisden show last night, and there was a segment on sagging pants and the images of black men, and I thought about some of the conversations we’ve had. There was a very disturbing interview that Baisden and his co-host had with a young sista (I think she was 22) who said that she liked “thugs,” and when asked if she preferred a man who sagged his pants to someone who dressed and carried himself like Obama, she actually hesitated in responding. Both men thoroughly criticized the appearance of a number of young men today, and I thought it was very interesting. Just wanted to mention it.

  • trs

    Sydney

    Yeah, that doesn’t count. We listed real attributes that went below the surface.
    ————————————————–

    You are absolutely right!!! Look at who we are asking…do you think we are asking for too much? ;)

  • ShawnM

    Hey TRS, and Lady A!! ♥

    I see yall holding it down in here today! lol

  • trs

    Ladies.

    Ima keep it 100 why is it that we will spot a pretty girl way before our dude will and wait for him to look so we can tear into that azz! LOL!
    ————————————————-

    Yep!!!! LMAO!!!!

  • Miss B

    So is it just me, or when women are on the ‘crimson wave’ dudes think she’s suppose to give oral all day nonstop till lips blistered and swollen.

    I have not issue, but would appreciate one day of freedom.

  • trs

    Hey Gurll,

    @trs

    Yes, I know you can p.a.s.s a yeast infectio on, but we got condoms!
    ————————————————

    Well if your man is cool with it…do you ma!!!

  • MADE.IN.NY

    “Every woman thinks they are “quality.” SMH. If you are dogged out, chances are he didn’t think of you as “quality” in the first place. And yes, “quality” is overrated and “quantity” is underrated.

    When a woman shows me a “good man” nine times out of ten it’s some nucca that is just glad to be gettin what ever amount of puzzy he can get. He ain’t got no other options. I’m just sayin.” – Man I Just Don’t Care
    _____________________________________________________

    Well every can’t be a hood-booger, so there has to be some quality women out there, just as there are quality men out there. The problem might be that some men might only be accustomed to low-quality and don’t feel worthy/feel like they can handle/feel like they are man enough to appreciate a QUALITY woman in the correct manner. A confident and smart man is not intimated by a woman of quality. It’s okay if they are not equipped to handle one like a real man, because these days there are plenty of hood-boogers to go around. You know, the ones who will bend over backwards and on all fours to keep a man coming back for more.

    I don’t know what type of women you’re referring to and what type of man their showing you, but I will say that some men do have their stuff together and aren’t afraid to think beyond the present moment. Some men actually think ahead, plan for the future, and weigh the pros and cons of their potential decisions. Yes, they are far and few in between, but they do exist.

  • Sydney™

    @TRS

    “You are absolutely right!!! Look at who we are asking…do you think we are asking for too much?”

    LOL, I think so, girl. Far too complicated, I guess. *shrugs*

  • resurrected

    Man, I just don’t care™

    @MADE IN N.Y.
    “1. Many men have fallen victim to their pride. Ultimately if a man “dogs out” a genuinely good woman he is a fool because the quantity of quality women is lessening as time goes by and the mentality of the modern woman changes. But then again, some men don’t care about quality.

    2. An overwhelming majority of “men” would not even be able to correctly define what constitutes a real man, so what are you saying? If women are hoping for a life partner, should we not be aware of what characteristics makes up a good one? No one is perfect, but some of you “men” can barely cover 1/2 of one characteristic on the list.”
    ___________________________________________________________

    Every woman thinks they are “quality.” SMH. If you are dogged out, chances are he didn’t think of you as “quality” in the first place. And yes, “quality” is overrated and “quantity” is underrated.

    When a woman shows me a “good man” nine times out of ten it’s some nucca that is just glad to be gettin what ever amount of puzzy he can get. He ain’t got no other options. I’m just sayin.
    _______________________________________________
    Many men have been taught to treat woman like this and it does not always matter her quality if you are not looking for quality… There are plenty of men who realize that they dogged a good woman many light years down the road but then she is in a much better place in life…. I rarely meet a man who has the balls to be accountable for his actions and his lifestyle…

  • Lady Architect (Being a Good Girl)

    Shawn M heyyyyyyy

  • MADE.IN.NY

    “Off topic, but I heard part of the Michael Baisden show last night, and there was a segment on sagging pants and the images of black men, and I thought about some of the conversations we’ve had. There was a very disturbing interview that Baisden and his co-host had with a young sista (I think she was 22) who said that she liked “thugs,” and when asked if she preferred a man who sagged his pants to someone who dressed and carried himself like Obama, she actually hesitated in responding. Both men thoroughly criticized the appearance of a number of young men today, and I thought it was very interesting. Just wanted to mention it.” – Sydney
    ____________________________________________________

    That is very interesting. Wish I could’ve heard the show.

  • trs

    Sydney,

    There was a very disturbing interview that Baisden and his co-host had with a young sista (I think she was 22) who said that she liked “thugs,” and when asked if she preferred a man who sagged his pants to someone who dressed and carried himself like Obama, she actually hesitated in responding. Both men thoroughly criticized the appearance of a number of young men today, and I thought it was very interesting. Just wanted to mention it.
    ————————————————–
    :shock:

    Lord Have Mercy!! It’s that exact “thug” mentality that is contributing to the downfall of our youth. I am willing to bet that this young lady will end up getting pregnant by some thug, and then she will pass that same foolish mindset onto her daughters. It makes me wonder what sort of environment she was raised in. The devil is sooo busy in our communities!!!!! SMDH.

  • eveinthegarden

    @ lady A…isnt it funny? Dudes think you’re from outer space or something if you actually know something about sports. Its a great plus though cuz my husband would rather hang w me and chop it up over a game than go someplace w the boyz. He prefers my halftime show besides..(wink)

  • Lady Architect (Being a Good Girl)

    Miss B

    So is it just me, or when women are on the ‘crimson wave’ dudes think she’s suppose to give oral all day nonstop till lips blistered and swollen.

    I have not issue, but would appreciate one day of freedom.

    Lol I feel ya…I don’t have an issue of keeping the man pleased at that time of the month, but that first day I have extreme pain and just wanna be held.

  • http://deleted Simone

    @ Mama Mila…
    We stop doing stuff when you stop doing stuff. Act like you were in the beginning fellas. If we stop cooking and cleaning, it’s because yall stopped doing something too…whether it’s wining and dining, giving us good long sex, making us feel special. We will cater to your every need when you cater to ours.
    ——————————-
    Agreeing With You There…

  • Awesome-O-3000 (D.U.K.E)

    This is pure comedy. I’ll keep reading and go back to lurk mode.

  • Redd Foxxx (This Is Gods Work You Know Pretty Wings)

    Sydney™

    @TRS

    Off topic, but I heard part of the Michael Baisden show last night, and there was a segment on sagging pants and the images of black men, and I thought about some of the conversations we’ve had. There was a very disturbing interview that Baisden and his co-host had with a young sista (I think she was 22) who said that she liked “thugs,” and when asked if she preferred a man who sagged his pants to someone who dressed and carried himself like Obama, she actually hesitated in responding. Both men thoroughly criticized the appearance of a number of young men today, and I thought it was very interesting. Just wanted to mention it.

    And the killer is these young men sagging their pants dont even know the origin of it. It is not cool. In jail it means you are open to homo activities.

  • http://deleted Simone

    So is it just me, or when women are on the ‘crimson wave’ dudes think she’s suppose to give oral all day nonstop till lips blistered and swollen.
    ——————————
    LmaOoO…

  • Redd Foxxx (This Is Gods Work You Know Pretty Wings)

    Awesome-O-3000 (D.U.K.E)

    This is pure comedy. I’ll keep reading and go back to lurk mode.

    I thought you were our sweetheart. We can’t get a list???

  • Southern Cabbage Patch

    LOL @ ya’ll still going pound 4 pound with these fellas!

  • MADE.IN.NY

    “Men, can’t live without ‘em, can’t kill ‘em” – Alrighty Then
    ____________________________________________________

    LMAO. So True!

  • Sydney™

    @Made.In.NY.

    “That is very interesting. Wish I could’ve heard the show.”

    Actually, there’s a link to a podcast on Baisden’s site, michaelbaisden.com, if you want to listen to a repeat. I missed most of it, so I may listen to it later. What Baisden and his co-host (I forgot his name) said was on target and hard-hitting because it came from the male perspective. Baisden also has a daughter in college now, and she told him that she’s not dating anyone because a lot of the guys have the “thug” look, and that’s not what she was raised to find appealing.

    @TRS

    ” I am willing to bet that this young lady will end up getting pregnant by some thug, and then she will p***** that same foolish mindset onto her daughters.”

    Girl, I wanted to reach through her phone and shake her when she said she wasn’t sure if she would prefer a more polished man to be the father of her children.

    I kept reading articles about the “Obama Effect” after the election, but, in reality, I haven’t seen much improvement. The current thug mentality is killing us, and, as Baisden pointed out, it affects the image of ALL black men, in a very negative manner. It’s not something to take lightly.

  • Southern Cabbage Patch

    @ ShawnM

    New Breed = Women must take Lead

    was on break sorry for late response

  • Southern Cabbage Patch

    Okay so I will bandwagon the fellas on this:

    Men hate when women snores loud in bed. Waking up the whole household

  • trs

    HEY AWESOME :) !!!

    I thought you were our sweetheart. We can’t get a list???
    ———————————————–

    I agree!!!

  • LIL MISS

    I’d say it’s more about pet-peves..not what a woman/man does or doesn’t do.

    If I cook, I should not be cleaning.

  • Sydney™

    @Redd

    “And the killer is these young men sagging their pants dont even know the origin of it. It is not cool. In jail it means you are open to homo activities.”

    Yes, Baisden addressed the origin of the sagging of pants in prison and its symbol as an invitation for sexual activity, i.e. men with men. He covered all the bases.

  • txhustla

    “This is pure comedy. I’ll keep reading and go back to lurk mode”

    Yeah definitely aint lying…idk about any ‘crimson waves’

  • Awesome-O-3000 (D.U.K.E)

    @trs & redd

    What kind of list yall looking for?

  • pynklyzurd14

    Southern Cabbage Patch

    Okay so I will bandwagon the fellas on this:

    Men hate when women snores loud in bed. Waking up the whole household
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    Don’t they have strips for that now?

  • Lady Architect (Being a Good Girl)

    Southern Cabbage Patch

    Okay so I will bandwagon the fellas on this:

    Men hate when women snores loud in bed. Waking up the whole household

    SMH@this…when a person snores it’s a breathing issue I have learned. IT can be due to excessive weight, swelled tonsils, cold, too much sugar intake (from bear), nose bleeds, sleep apnea etc. So if your partner snores get to the root of the problem, make them sleep on their side or stomache, or buy them a special pillow used to clear the breathing passage.

  • pynklyzurd14

    @txhustla

    “This is pure comedy. I’ll keep reading and go back to lurk mode”

    Yeah definitely aint lying…idk about any ‘crimson waves’
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    LoL…

  • Redd Foxxx (This Is Gods Work You Know Pretty Wings)

    Awesome-O-3000 (D.U.K.E)

    @trs & redd

    What kind of list yall looking for?

    What you love about us?

  • Southern Cabbage Patch

    Men hate it when their women criticise other females. It is a proven fact that women often treat other women as rivals.

  • Miss B

    txhustla

    “This is pure comedy. I’ll keep reading and go back to lurk mode”

    Yeah definitely aint lying…idk about any ‘crimson waves’
    ……………..

    Hey, some guys will go in deep while you’re on it. I’m not into it even though that’s the time I’m a ‘horn-dogg.’

    But d_a_m_n, I’m guilty every month with that, “It’s off.” Never fails, LOL.

  • Southern Cabbage Patch

    @ Lady A

    Southern Cabbage Patch

    Okay so I will bandwagon the fellas on this:

    Men hate when women snores loud in bed. Waking up the whole household

    SMH@this…when a person snores it’s a breathing issue I have learned. IT can be due to excessive weight, swelled tonsils, cold, too much sugar intake (from bear), nose bleeds, sleep apnea etc. So if your partner snores get to the root of the problem, make them sleep on their side or stomache, or buy them a special pillow used to clear the breathing p*****age.

    LOL

  • Southern Cabbage Patch

    Men do not like to be treated as an emotional support. They get irritated when women always demand caresses and hugs, when they want to be treated special

  • Southern Cabbage Patch

    Some women want all the spare time of their men to be devoted to them only. This is some sort of interference with men’s privacy. At the worst, women start spying on their men, asking relatives and close friends what their men are doing. They also ransack men’s pockets and desk drawers in search of some evidence.

    All women have done this at least once in life!

  • Lady Architect (Being a Good Girl)

    Southern Cabbage Patch

    Men do not like to be treated as an emotional support. They get irritated when women always demand caresses and hugs, when they want to be treated special

    I better get caressed and hugged…lolol..no I don’t need it all the time but If I’m with someone and we are in a deep relationship…he will know when to caress and hug me and exactly how to do it.

  • trs

    Southern,

    They get irritated when women always demand caresses and hugs,
    ————————————————-

    I thought men liked this….. ?????

  • Southern Cabbage Patch

    Women’s talkativeness irritates men. A women’s brain easily conceives every minute detail while men do not like to listen to trivial details.

    Ha We can’t help that we love to talk!

  • MADE.IN.NY

    “It is like they want us to want less because they have gotten to the point when they have accepted less… It is now a sin to want to be a good and pure woman and the new generation of men only like a woman that they can manipulate and control and I was not created for another person to control me I am not the puppet master non do I allow poeple to have strings over me..” – resurrected
    _____________________________________________________

    Co-sign. I think it’s called an inflated sense of self: they have nothing to offer, but think they deserve the world. And couldn’t even grasp the concept of offering anything more than a stiff d*!@. And God forbid an actual good women comes into their presence, make’s them angry and even more offensive.

  • Southern Cabbage Patch

    @ TRS

    Nope…I hear my bro’s talk sh** about this all the time @ work

  • Miss B

    trs

    Southern,

    They get irritated when women always demand caresses and hugs,
    ————————————————-

    I thought men liked this….. ?????
    ……………………..

    Some men like it. It makes them feel like their girl needs them. And as much as men try to deny, they love feeling needed.

  • Kay B

    Well fellas I have to admit I have been guilty of all of these at one time or another. But I’ve grown and Im ready to be the wife my husband needs.. Now all I gotta do is find the man who wants to be the King of my castle.. I am faaar from perfect but I will put forth a great effort and try and make a relationship work if the mans worth it..

  • Southern Cabbage Patch

    Okay that’s all I can think of

  • ShawnM

    Men hate it when their women criticise other females. It is a proven fact that women often treat other women as rivals.
    ________________________

    Hmmm, nice point…

    HEY Southern!

  • Sydney™

    Actually, a lot of men are very affectionate, IMO.

  • MADE.IN.NY

    “@Made.In.NY.

    “That is very interesting. Wish I could’ve heard the show.”

    Actually, there’s a link to a podcast on Baisden’s site, michaelbaisden.com, if you want to listen to a repeat. I missed most of it, so I may listen to it later. What Baisden and his co-host (I forgot his name) said was on target and hard-hitting because it came from the male perspective. Baisden also has a daughter in college now, and she told him that she’s not dating anyone because a lot of the guys have the “thug” look, and that’s not what she was raised to find appealing.” – Sydney
    _____________________________________________________

    Thanks! I’ma check it out.

  • trs

    @ TRS

    Nope…I hear my bro’s talk sh** about this all the time @ work
    ———————————————–

    I am sorry but this got me a little heated. I mean dang you don’t want to hug or caress me when I need it but everytime I look around you want some azz??? I don’t think so!!!!!! No sir!!!!!

  • trs

    Sydney

    Yeah, some of my posts don’t go through either. You can e-mail it to me, if you like.
    ————————————————-

    Will do!!!

  • http://www.myspace.com/crimiegangmusik snoop bloggy blog ( i’m kind of a BIG DEAL)

    @ redd and syd

    I did a list last week about what i loved about women, i even wrote a poem….lol

  • Redd Foxxx (This Is Gods Work You Know Pretty Wings)

    You know what ladies the fellas on here are not in love or probably have never loved a woman for that matter. When you have loved someone or are in love this is an easy thing to do. Nuccas is probably scrathing their heads like what do i love besides sex?

  • txhustla

    @Miss B

    Lol very true…yeah personally like all the bedding throughout the house so Im good on replacing it , ill just wait for later all out tantra session. Like Jeremy Piven as Buddy Israel said in ‘Smoking Aces’ – Some s-h, suffice it to say, just don’t wash out.

  • Southern Cabbage Patch

    Hey ShawnM

    I truly think that men only hate women that hate themselves. Love yourself ladies and that right man will come and love you even better!

  • Awesome-O-3000 (D.U.K.E)

    let’s see, what I love about women:

    1) The nurturing attitude/demeanor when something isn’t going right
    2) Ladies lay their head in the perfect spot
    3) The ability to demand respect in a subtle way
    4) Wanting to please, i.e. doing things to keep me interested
    5) Knowing exactly when a good freestyle session can make the day better

  • Sydney™

    @TRS

    “I am sorry but this got me a little heated. I mean dang you don’t want to hug or caress me when I need it but everytime I look around you want some azz??? I don’t think so!!!!!! No sir!!!!!”

    These must be the brothers who sag their pants, lol. Steer clear of them.

  • Sydney™

    @Snoop

    “I did a list last week about what i loved about women, i even wrote a poem….lol”

    You posted about T&A. What do you love about the woman in your life?

  • ShawnM

    You know what ladies the fellas on here are not in love or probably have never loved a woman for that matter. When you have loved someone or are in love this is an easy thing to do. Nuccas is probably scrathing their heads like what do i love besides sex?
    ______________________

    LMAO, that was funny, but true! Hey REDD!!!

    @ Southern
    Love yourself ladies and that right man will come and love you even better!
    ____________________________

    I couldn’t have said this any better! If a woman don’t love herself first and foremost… How do you expect a man to love you?… So you summed it all up pretty good, lol…

  • Awesome-O-3000 (D.U.K.E)

    Things I hate about women:

    1) Asking me to do something that you could’ve done in the time it took you to ask
    2) Toilet paper. How the he!! do you use so much toilet paper
    3) Being Angela Landsbury
    4) Talking about people you barely know
    5) Holding the goods captive like it’s a POW

  • eveinthegarden

    Hmm…cosign Sidney…my husband is affectionate as h@ll.

    I think how affectionate you are impacts who you are attracted to though. Im not really affectionate and my husband is. If I was as touchy feely as him he admits he would have been turned off. If you are real emotional, you tend to be attracted to really CALM people.

  • Miss B

    Awesome-O-3000 (D.U.K.E)

    let’s see, what I love about women:

    1) The nurturing attitude/demeanor when something isn’t going right
    2) Ladies lay their head in the perfect spot
    3) The ability to demand respect in a subtle way
    4) Wanting to please, i.e. doing things to keep me interested
    5) Knowing exactly when a good freestyle session can make the day better

    ……………………

    A very good list :)

  • resurrected

    MADE.IN.NY

    “It is like they want us to want less because they have gotten to the point when they have accepted less… It is now a sin to want to be a good and pure woman and the new generation of men only like a woman that they can manipulate and control and I was not created for another person to control me I am not the puppet master non do I allow poeple to have strings over me..” – resurrected
    _____________________________________________________

    Co-sign. I think it’s called an inflated sense of self: they have nothing to offer, but think they deserve the world. And couldn’t even grasp the concept of offering anything more than a stiff d*!@. And God forbid an actual good women comes into their presence, make’s them angry and even more offensive.
    ___________________________________________________
    Girl I live in reality and not fantasy and I won’t be fake for no one but at the same time I have a real loving heart and I am a very caring person and most of the time everyone else in my circle is support and then here comes the unsupportive man… I still believe in the good but it will take me a while before I have actually mastered how to find the right man who has a heart of God, that prayer in times of trouble and who just adores because because I am worth it… It like right now we are all kissing a much of frog trying to find a prince…

    The bad part is for the woman like myself who has never had that father figure there and who been raised by very supportive and go getter time of woman…

  • http://www.myspace.com/crimiegangmusik snoop bloggy blog ( i’m kind of a BIG DEAL)

    #3 is c.l.a.s.s.y

  • trs

    Awesome

    let’s see, what I love about women:

    1) The nurturing attitude/demeanor when something isn’t going right
    2) Ladies lay their head in the perfect spot
    3) The ability to demand respect in a subtle way
    4) Wanting to please, i.e. doing things to keep me interested
    5) Knowing exactly when a good freestyle session can make the day better
    ————————————————–

    Good list!! You deserve a kiss for that!!! ;)

  • Southern Cabbage Patch

    @ Awesome

    The things you hate are hilarious

  • Pimpin (CEO OF KDBs WorldWide) Mr. Peacoat!!!

    Aiight, whats going on in here?

  • trs

    PIMPIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :) :)

  • Pimpin (CEO OF KDBs WorldWide) Mr. Peacoat!!!

    trs

    PIMPIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Hello my grad cap fantasy “Still I rise, Still I rise”!

  • Awesome-O-3000 (D.U.K.E)

    @ Southern Cabbage Patch

    @ Awesome

    The things you hate are hilarious

    I just speak from what I know, lol

  • AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWSHADDAAAP!!!!

    *a.s.s
    **M.a.s.s.e.n.g.i.l

  • http://www.myspace.com/crimiegangmusik snoop bloggy blog ( i’m kind of a BIG DEAL)

    Whaddup Pimpin??

  • Awesome-O-3000 (D.U.K.E)

    trs

    Awesome

    let’s see, what I love about women:

    1) The nurturing attitude/demeanor when something isn’t going right
    2) Ladies lay their head in the perfect spot
    3) The ability to demand respect in a subtle way
    4) Wanting to please, i.e. doing things to keep me interested
    5) Knowing exactly when a good freestyle session can make the day better
    ————————————————–

    Good list!! You deserve a kiss for that!!! ;)
    _________________

    I’ll take that kiss immediately, thank you.

  • Pimpin (CEO OF KDBs WorldWide) Mr. Peacoat!!!

    Pimpin Snoop!

    Killafornia Love my dude!

  • Lady Architect (Being a Good Girl)

    Hey Pimpin!!

  • Sydney™

    @Redd

    “You know what ladies the fellas on here are not in love or probably have never loved a woman for that matter. When you have loved someone or are in love this is an easy thing to do.”

    LOL, very true. Shoot, it took me five seconds to put together my list.

    It took how long to get these little lists? A few hours?

  • Sydney™

    @Awww

    “And if you invite me to your bed and expect the ‘full treatment,’ you had better recently visited ‘Mr. M*****engill.’ You know what I’m talking ’bout…”

    Now what do you love about women/a woman you have loved?

  • trs

    Pimpin,

    trs

    PIMPIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Hello my grad cap fantasy “Still I rise, Still I rise”!
    ———————————————-

    Do you have a list of qualities that you love about the ladies…one that is not about T&A?? *wink*

  • Pimpin (CEO OF KDBs WorldWide) Mr. Peacoat!!!

    NSP I didn’t see you on here! Hey!!! My favorite V-Ball player…

  • trs

    Awesome

    I’ll take that kiss immediately, thank you.
    ———————————————-

    *planting a kiss on Awesome’s cheek*

  • trs

    Snoop,

    7. would be considered
    9. open mindedness
    ——————————————

    You make me so proud!!! ;)

  • resurrected

    Everyone have a blessed one and this has been a nice most that has evaded a lot of negaitivty considering… Men we love you and all of ya’ll need to learn how to loves us all better..

  • Pimpin (CEO OF KDBs WorldWide) Mr. Peacoat!!!

    trs

    Pimpin,

    trs

    PIMPIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Hello my grad cap fantasy “Still I rise, Still I rise”!
    ———————————————-

    Do you have a list of qualities that you love about the ladies…one that is not about T&A?? *wink*

    I mean super step with a limp pimpin snoop pretty much summed it up, also keep my fed, no matter bread and meat to a thanksgiving feast, and keep my swimmers GONE, can’t cheat with no rise up!

  • DR.FUNK

    Women who try to sell me on / MAKE ME a father against my wishes.Real turn-off.I just want RECREATIONAL sex.

  • http://www.myspace.com/crimiegangmusik snoop bloggy blog ( i’m kind of a BIG DEAL)

    I love the sounds they make when i’m excavating that puzzy…..

  • Sydney™

    @eveinthegarden

    “If you are real emotional, you tend to be attracted to really CALM people.”

    That’s interesting. He is very calm — It balances everything out. The yin and yang.

  • Film

    Here’s why I love my woman:

    1. Her traditional morality/values/good family background.

    2. She’s highly intelligent/professional/beautiful.

    3. She conducts herself like a lady, with decency and decorum.

    4. Her appreciation of culture.

    5. We share a lot of common attributes.

    6. Her wit/sense of humor.

    7. Her humility.

    8. She’s p_a_s_sionate about issues that affect our people/community.

    9. Her consideration/kindness.

    10. She’s adventurous

  • Awesome-O-3000 (D.U.K.E)

    Sydney™

    @Redd

    “You know what ladies the fellas on here are not in love or probably have never loved a woman for that matter. When you have loved someone or are in love this is an easy thing to do.”

    LOL, very true. Shoot, it took me five seconds to put together my list.

    It took how long to get these little lists? A few hours?
    ___________________

    That’s because men and women think differently. Dudes categorize you two ways; either you’re the one or you’re not. We may say, man, she’s perfect but “any example” gets on my nerves. He then decides whether it’s a deal breaker or not, if it isn’t she’s the one, if it is she isn’t. Guys don’t usually list things out, we lump the whole package together and either give it the thumbs up or down.

  • trs

    Pimpin,

    also keep my fed, no matter bread and meat to a thanksgiving feast, and keep my swimmers GONE, can’t cheat with no rise up!
    ————————————————

    ???? This went over my head boo. You want a woman to cook and do what else?

  • Lady Architect (Being a Good Girl)

    Pimpin (CEO OF KDBs WorldWide) Mr. Peacoat!!!

    NSP I didn’t see you on here! Hey!!! My favorite V-Ball player…

    And you know it!!!

  • trs

    I love the sounds they make when i’m excavating that puzzy…..
    ———————————————-

    We wanna hear things on your list that are NOT about sex!!! Shoot!

  • Ms.EJ

    HEY waves to ALL-I’ve been taking care of some serious business and thought I would not be on today, but I had to give high fives to: Ress (so on point and true), Made in NY. Sydney -TRS-I 100% agree many men love affection and to be affectionate.

  • http:chokolatemilk@blogspot.com Choco

    @Awesome
    Really cute list…
    _________________________________

    But am I wrong for not really caring what men don’t like about women-cuz even the things a females says she doesn’t like certain things about a guy it not as if he really changes them…that’s why Im just coming to this post…

  • Redd Foxxx (This Is Gods Work You Know Pretty Wings)

    AWWWWWW Sht

    Go fellas I see you. I leave for a few and I see some good lists.

  • Southern Cabbage Patch

    Isn’t M a s e n g i l a duche?

  • trs

    Film

    Here’s why I love my woman:

    1. Her traditional morality/values/good family background.

    2. She’s highly intelligent/professional/beautiful.

    3. She conducts herself like a lady, with decency and decorum.

    4. Her appreciation of culture.

    5. We share a lot of common attributes.

    6. Her wit/sense of humor.

    7. Her humility.

    8. She’s p_a_s_sionate about issues that affect our people/community.

    9. Her consideration/kindness.

    10. She’s adventurous
    ————————————————-

    I think….

    I just melted in my seat. :lol:

    Now THAT is a list!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Southern Cabbage Patch

    I thought it was unsafe to squeggie the Cookie Cat?

  • trs

    Hey Ms. EJ!!!

  • Sydney™

    Hey Film :)

    Love your list :)

  • holla

    over 30 and u single? wow supermayne called it correct but he OD’d on you. Just saying, no one cares what you got, material things and accomplishments mean zero to me. You’re 30, dont care if its by choice…you got your own sh!t like u said. Find a man that sees beyond your possesions and get someone to share the rest of your life with. Forget about that independent ladies sh!t, that only sounds good on the radio. Find u a man that knws what u got and tells u keep that and he’ll take care of you. That over 30, single by choice BS isnt cute. Dont no kid want an old woman coming to school to pick them up.
    Hate women on that go it alone road, there’s a time and age for everything. You seem like u got it together now move on and share your happiness. If we were meant to be single women wouldnt exist. God made women not just because Adams was lonely but to share their life together. Being over 30 is not the issue, thinking that single by choice is cute. No it aint, you don’t NEED A Man but you should HAVE A MAN BY CHOICE.

  • Sydney™

    “Guys don’t usually list things out, we lump the whole package together and either give it the thumbs up or down.”

    *directs to Film’s list*

    What a man. . .

  • http://www.myspace.com/crimiegangmusik snoop bloggy blog ( i’m kind of a BIG DEAL)

    We wanna hear things on your list that are NOT about sex!!! Shoot!
    ______

    This is one thing i don’t like about women, refer to #3 on my list….lol

  • Film

    Hey, trs.

    How have you been?

  • Lady Architect (Being a Good Girl)

    Hey Ms. EJ

  • Ms.EJ

    @TRS- *super ehug* You ladies are coming with it.

  • Film

    Hey, Sydney.

    ‘Love your list’

    LOL, glad you liked it. :)

  • http://www.myspace.com/crimiegangmusik snoop bloggy blog ( i’m kind of a BIG DEAL)

    Here’s why I love my woman:

    1. Her traditional morality/values/good family background.

    2. She’s highly intelligent/professional/beautiful.

    3. She conducts herself like a lady, with decency and decorum.

    4. Her appreciation of culture.

    5. We share a lot of common attributes.

    6. Her wit/sense of humor.

    7. Her humility.

    8. She’s p_a_s_sionate about issues that affect our people/community.

    9. Her consideration/kindness.

    10. She’s adventurous
    ______

    **ahem** same sh!t i said…..lol

  • http:chokolatemilk@blogspot.com Choco

    Yall have got me laughing so hard at Southern Patch, Cream and Sydney…dayum I haven’t laughed all day!

  • Ms.EJ

    @LADY A- *waves back* :)

  • Film

    LOL at snoop.

    What’s going on, bruh!

  • MADE.IN.NY

    “Here’s why I love my woman:

    1. Her traditional morality/values/good family background.

    2. She’s highly intelligent/professional/beautiful.

    3. She conducts herself like a lady, with decency and decorum.

    4. Her appreciation of culture.

    5. We share a lot of common attributes.

    6. Her wit/sense of humor.

    7. Her humility.

    8. She’s p_a_s_sionate about issues that affect our people/community.

    9. Her consideration/kindness.

    10. She’s adventurous” – Film
    _____________________________________________________

    Very nice list :)

  • http://www.myspace.com/crimiegangmusik snoop bloggy blog ( i’m kind of a BIG DEAL)

    AWWWWWW Sht

    Go fellas I see you. I leave for a few and I see some good lists
    ______

    Did i mention i love your smile…..;)

  • trs

    Snoop

    This is one thing i don’t like about women, refer to #3 on my list….lol
    ————————————————-

    YES, I am most def number #3!!!

    “3. cl*****y, but knows when to tell a *****f#%ka off”

    I did not CUSS you tho! ;) I am just saying…did you read Film’s list?? There was not ONE mention of sex!!! ;) ;) ;)

    *blowing you a kiss*

  • Ms.EJ

    @FLIM- Beautiful list.

  • Awesome-O-3000 (D.U.K.E)

    @ Choco

    But am I wrong for not really caring what men don’t like about women-cuz even the things a females says she doesn’t like certain things about a guy it not as if he really changes them…that’s why Im just coming to this post…
    _______________________

    It’s not wrong to not care, to each his/her own, but it is helpful to know the things that you might do to upset your man/woman. That way you can at least take it into consideration before doing it. I.e. Is what I’m about to do really worth the possible backlash

  • Ms.EJ

    *Film* spell check

  • trs

    Film

    Hey, trs.

    How have you been?
    ————————————————

    I am alright Film!!! I would ask how you are doing, but I see from your list you are doing VERY WELL!!! Thanks for coming up in here and representing!!!! ;)

  • http://www.myspace.com/crimiegangmusik snoop bloggy blog ( i’m kind of a BIG DEAL)

    LOL at snoop.

    What’s going on, bruh!
    ______

    Not much,staying in the slow lane…..How you been fam?

  • Sydney™

    Hey Ms. EJ :)

    @Film

    “LOL, glad you liked it.”

    Yeah, I did.

    *floating like Balloon Boy*

    This woman better be treating you well to receive such kind words. :)

  • skanman

    whatever…

  • http:chokolatemilk@blogspot.com Choco

    @Awesome
    Yeah that’s true I do hear what he says but if he hasn’t even came remotely close to hearing me I just be like shrugs and oh well…

  • http://www.myspace.com/crimiegangmusik snoop bloggy blog ( i’m kind of a BIG DEAL)

    @ trs…..lol, you referred to my like list, now check #3 on my don’t like…… And i did read Film like list, and it was a very wonderful list .*accepts kiss*

  • http:chokolatemilk@blogspot.com Choco

    LMFAO on GrillMaster Pimpin
    That’s cool you are not like that Im blessed in I get turned on easily but I don’t play that 68 shat where are you from? LOL

  • Southern Cabbage Patch

    OMG Grillmasters in here!

  • http:chokolatemilk@blogspot.com Choco

    @TRS
    I’m still laughing and not at him that shat made me have tears in my eyes that nicca is crazy LMAO ROTFLMAO!

  • Pimpin (CEO OF KDBs WorldWide) Mr. Peacoat!!!

    Choco

    LMFAO on GrillMaster Pimpin
    That’s cool you are not like that Im blessed in I get turned on easily but I don’t play that 68 shat where are you from? LOL

    Wow, I can dig that…

    Northern Virginia, you?

  • Sydney™

    “Ain’t nobody, loves me better, makes me happy, makes me feel this wayyy. . .”

  • trs

    Choco,

    @TRS
    I’m still laughing and not at him that shat made me have tears in my eyes that nicca is crazy LMAO ROTFLMAO
    ———————————————–

    Yeah Pimpin is certainly “special.” ROTFLMAO!!!!

  • BE

    Afternoon Peeps!

  • Pimpin (CEO OF KDBs WorldWide) Mr. Peacoat!!!

    BE

    Afternoon Peeps!

    Chocolate Goddess *Waving like I’m drowning*!!! =]

  • pynklyzurd14

    Film

    Here’s why I love my woman:

    1. Her traditional morality/values/good family background.

    2. She’s highly intelligent/professional/beautiful.

    3. She conducts herself like a lady, with decency and decorum.

    4. Her appreciation of culture.

    5. We share a lot of common attributes.

    6. Her wit/sense of humor.

    7. Her humility.

    8. She’s p_a_s_sionate about issues that affect our people/community.

    9. Her consideration/kindness.

    10. She’s adventurous
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    ***wipes drool off***

    (singing) what a man, what a man, what a mighty, mighty good maaaaaan!!! lol

  • Awesome-O-3000 (D.U.K.E)

    Hey BE!!!

  • trs

    BEAUTIFUL BE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • BE

    Film – I like your list :)

  • trs

    pynk

    ***wipes drool off***

    (singing) what a man, what a man, what a mighty, mighty good maaaaaan!!! lol
    ——————————————–

    I second that!!!!!

    I am a little envious!!
    :)

  • Film

    MADE.IN.NY and Ms.EJ

    Thanks. It might be a trite response, but I’m just speaking from my heart.

    snoop

    ‘Not much,staying in the slow lane…..How you been fam?’

    I’m alright. I’m waiting to see how the Heels match up tonight.

    trs

    ‘I would ask how you are doing, but I see from your list you are doing VERY WELL!!! Thanks for coming up in here and representing!!!!’

    LOL, I am doing very well, and I’m very thankful.

    Sydney

    ‘This woman better be treating you well to receive such kind words.’

    LOL, she’s doing a great job. No complaints here. LOL. :)

  • Its6amHoGetOut, I have an opinion and here it is…….

    Lets see here, 10 things I hate about b*tches?

    10. You never admit when youre wrong, especially if another woman is involved, you have a win at all cost attitude.
    9. Your broke azz girlfriends are not more important than your man. Put your man on a pedestal especially if he’s doing everything he’s supposed to be doing.
    8. If you have a dumb n*gga who accepts your kids dont f*ck up that situation by actually thinking he “is” the father of those kids, he aint and as soon as you start talkin’ a bunch of sh*t you’ll see for yourself.
    7. When you get paid your money is your money, when he gets paid his money is his money, dont forget that sh*t. Dont ask him if he can help this month with “your” bills because you thought your weave and nail repair was more important than your electric, gas and insurance payment.
    6. No he cant co-sign that BMW loan for you, you still aint paid the electric, gas or insurance from last month.
    5. Do you look fat in that new dress, if you have to ask then you know the answer is yeah!
    4. because we’ve been together for a year doesnt mean I like your new “hood body” so drop that extra 20lbs you gained.
    3. Would I take care of you if you quit that job you hate so much? Yeah for about as long as it takes for you to ask me for something.
    2. Can your girlfriend and her kids go with us to Disneyland? Yeah why not? Ok baby the lady says it’ll be $100 for us and $210 for her and her 4 kids, I just paid for us and bought “us” some mouse ears, why is she still on the other side of the entrance gate and why is she cussin’ and her kids crying?
    1. Why havent we talked about marraige or long term plans? Because obviously you aint the one!

    hate me and these “truths” all you want ladies, but the men in here know its 100!

    love 6am

  • Sydney™

    Hey BE! :)

  • trs

    Snoop,

    Why i got to be obsessed?? Why can’t i love the physical aspect??
    ————————————————-

    You can love the physical all you want. WE ALL DO!! My point was that you are obsessed because I asked you to put together a list that was NOT sexually based and then 3/10 items on your list are about sex. SMH.

    *blowing you another kiss*

  • Brotherman

    IMHO a woman’s hygiene or lack thereof has to be the ultimate worst. Its one thing to have to put up with the grief, their constant arguing, their belly aching, their tantrums etc. But when they smell down there???? GOD DAMN!!!

  • Lady Architect (Being a Good Girl)

    Hey BE!!!!!

  • BE

    @Snoop – Why i got to be obsessed?? Why can’t i love the physical aspect??

    *****************
    you can but beauty fades and unless she has something else you like once her looks are gone you won’t like her anymore
    ♥♥♥

  • Film

    LOL at pynklyzurd14

    Hey, BE!

    Long time no talk to. How are you?

  • http://www.myspace.com/crimiegangmusik snoop bloggy blog ( i’m kind of a BIG DEAL)

    “Ain’t *****ody, loves me better, makes me happy, makes me feel this wayyy. . .”
    _______

    What is Chaka Khan for 1 million alex…..

  • Redd Foxxx (This Is Gods Work You Know Pretty Wings)

    stfu holla

  • Southern Cabbage Patch

    @ 6am

    We jus gotta love you.

  • http:chokolatemilk@blogspot.com Choco

    @Pimpin
    I could tell you were from the DMV with that work release statement lol I just had a feeling that’s why I asked Im from Maryland boo it’s funny how I could tell by that stuff you were writing LOL and that c-oc-ky GrillMaster Pimpn nothing wrong wit it tho I love my brothas

  • BE

    Hey Redd Fox – :)

    Lady AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!

  • pynklyzurd14

    trs

    pynk

    ***wipes drool off***

    (singing) what a man, what a man, what a mighty, mighty good maaaaaan!!! lol
    ——————————————–

    I second that!!!!!

    I am a little envious!!
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    me too!!!

    @ FILM,

    Got any single brothers between the ages of 25 & 30? lol

  • Ms.EJ

    I think that when both the woman and man are both spirtually on one accord, emotionally, mentally and physically HAPPY not just content or satisfied with each other then romantic dinners, adventurous getaways, just because gifts, taking out the trash, washing the dishes, cuddling on the couch turn into DESIRES and a WANT to please each other.

  • Southern Cabbage Patch

    @ brotherman

    IMHO a woman’s hygiene or lack thereof has to be the ultimate worst. Its one thing to have to put up with the grief, their constant arguing, their belly aching, their tantrums etc. But when they smell down there???? GOD DAMN!!!
    __________________________________________________

    It’s far too many remedies out on the shelf. Walgreens have a section dedicated to us so there is no excuse! Cookie Cat has a smell naturally though.

  • BE

    @Film – Hey, BE!

    Long time no talk to. How are you?

    ******************

    I’m good, can’t complain..in fact I’m terrific

  • pynklyzurd14

    Hey Ms. Ej!!!!!!

  • trs

    @ 6am

    We jus gotta love you.
    ————————————–

    UMMMM

    NO WE DONT!! 6 AM NEVER has anything positive to say about sistas, but then he comes up in here with these stereotypical lists directed at Black women.

    If he can come up with a list of positive things to say about Black women, I will be both suprised AND impressed.

  • Sydney™

    @Film

    “LOL, she’s doing a great job. No complaints here. LOL.”

    LOL, good to hear.

    “Ain’t nobody. . .”

  • http://www.myspace.com/crimiegangmusik snoop bloggy blog ( i’m kind of a BIG DEAL)

    @ be….what’s up sunshine♥

    @ trs…. ** extending olive branch** hope i’m not ruining my trip to candyland ;)

  • BE

    6am – only you can make those special lists and be true and funny at the same time all the while offending people..lol

  • Awesome-O-3000 (D.U.K.E)

    trs – You’ve got mail

  • pynklyzurd14

    Ms.EJ

    I think that when both the woman and man are both spirtually on one accord, emotionally, mentally and physically HAPPY not just content or satisfied with each other then romantic dinners, adventurous getaways, just because gifts, taking out the trash, washing the dishes, cuddling on the couch turn into DESIRES and a WANT to please each other.
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    AMEN sista!!!!

    ***Hums, taps on floor with feet, & claps***

  • Pimpin (CEO OF KDBs WorldWide) Mr. Peacoat!!!

    Choco

    @Pimpin
    I could tell you were from the DMV with that work release statement lol I just had a feeling that’s why I asked Im from Maryland boo it’s funny how I could tell by that stuff you were writing LOL and that c-oc-ky GrillMaster Pimpn nothing wrong wit it tho I love my brothas

    No doubt, no doubt, sistas up there make a bruh feel like he in an axe commercial, I love visiting up there, need to come up more!

  • Sydney™

    I can’t write “n-o-b-o-d-y?”

    @Snoop

    “What is Chaka Khan for 1 million alex…..”

    LOL, that is correct, sir. I’ve been told that I sing it terribly off-key, but I love Chaka.

  • BE

    @Ns. EJ – Hello :)

    I think that when both the woman and man are both spirtually on one accord, emotionally, mentally and physically HAPPY not just content or satisfied with each other then romantic dinners, adventurous getaways, just because gifts, taking out the trash, washing the dishes, cuddling on the couch turn into DESIRES and a WANT to please each other.

    ****************************
    AMEN

  • Sydney™

    @TRS

    “NO WE DONT!! 6 AM NEVER has anything positive to say about sistas, but then he comes up in here with these stereotypical lists directed at Black women.”

    ———————-DEAD———————

    I wasn’t expecting that, lol.

    I mean, he could write a list about his fiancee, but that may be a lot to ask.

  • trs

    Snoop,

    @ trs…. ** extending olive branch** hope i’m not ruining my trip to candyland
    ————————————————-
    LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You know I am a woman of my word! ;)

  • trs

    Sydney

    I wasn’t expecting that, lol.

    I mean, he could write a list about his fiancee, but that may be a lot to ask.
    ————————————————

    I am sorry, just being real. :)

  • http:chokolatemilk@blogspot.com Choco

    @6am
    That’s wsup and thank God I don’t fit none of those criteria-
    1) Im not bringing my girlfriend on vacation with me and my man
    2) My kids know and have their father in their life
    3)I refuse to let someone else take care of me unless he is filthy rich
    4)Been married took 8 years for hubby to give me a divorce
    5)Don’t put my friends before my relationship-it’s a balancing act
    6)Not from the hood so I don’t 20 extra lbs on me would even look good
    7)If I ask you if I look fat in that dress you best say NO-but I could tell by the look on your face so I wouldn’t ask
    8)I can admit when I’m but sometimes don’t care if I am
    9)My money is my money and you should have your money so you dont ask for my money
    and 10) I drive a benz don’t like Beemers : )
    Love your list tho!

  • pynklyzurd14

    Southern Cabbage Patch

    @ brotherman

    IMHO a woman’s hygiene or lack thereof has to be the ultimate worst. Its one thing to have to put up with the grief, their constant arguing, their belly aching, their tantrums etc. But when they smell down there???? GOD DAMN!!!
    __________________________________________________

    It’s far too many remedies out on the shelf. Walgreens have a section dedicated to us so there is no excuse! Cookie Cat has a smell naturally though.
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    I know that’s right. I know I MAKE SURE my kitty is ALWAYS smellin right. Ain’t nothing nastier than when a women don’t care about her hygiene! I get this product from the Dominican Republic that is called Lemisol & it’s minty! I love it! It makes me feel refreshed & it smells just as fresh. & call me excessive, but… I use scented lotion too. Just in case! ;)

  • take it off

    i hate it when women think we should fight all the time for them,by being their protector. my girl and i went to the club and she stepped on this dude’s shoe and the dude said politely, you steped on my shoe and she was being defensive and was expecting me to punch him in the face. the dude was 270 pounds and was 6’4…HELL NO I AIN’T GONNA FIGHT FOR YOU.YOU STARTED IT FINISH IT YOURSELF.

  • Ms.EJ

    @BE & PNKLYZURD- *waves hard* I tried to post the last comment in continuation from the original several times, but not working :<

  • trs

    Awesome

    trs – You’ve got mail
    ———————————————-

    So do you! :)

  • Film

    pynklyzurd14

    ‘Got any single brothers between the ages of 25 & 30? lol’

    LOL, naw, I have one brother, and he’s engaged.

    Sydney

    ‘LOL, good to hear.

    “Ain’t *****ody. . .”’

    LOL, that’s a Chaka classic, and one of my favorites. ‘Ain’t nobody, love me better. . ‘

  • Sydney™

    @TRS

    “I am sorry, just being real.”

    Oh, I agree, girl. I just wasn’t going to bother. LOL!

  • Pimpin (CEO OF KDBs WorldWide) Mr. Peacoat!!!

    @Choco

    Damn 8 years for a divorce, you got that matrix p u s s y…smh

  • http:chokolatemilk@blogspot.com Choco

    @Pimpm
    Why you say that about us cuz we are generous and giving- you crazy yeah MD chicks can be cool who do you visit when you come to MD?

  • http:chokolatemilk@blogspot.com Choco

    @Pimpn
    Yep he turned me off of marriage and he knew what he was doing…he still want my il na na : )

  • http://www.myspace.com/crimiegangmusik snoop bloggy blog ( i’m kind of a BIG DEAL)

    LMFAO @ 6am list……..ladies??

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    What’s up all?

    HEY BE♥♥♥♥♥!!!!!

  • trs

    Sydney

    Oh, I agree, girl. I just wasn’t going to bother. LOL!
    ————————————————-

    We are HERE!
    :roll:

  • pynklyzurd14

    Its6amHoGetOut, I have an opinion and here it is…….

    Lets see here, 10 things I hate about b*tches?

    10. You never admit when youre wrong, especially if another woman is involved, you have a win at all cost attitude.
    9. Your broke azz girlfriends are not more important than your man. Put your man on a pedestal especially if he’s doing everything he’s supposed to be doing.
    8. If you have a dumb n*gga who accepts your kids dont f*ck up that situation by actually thinking he “is” the father of those kids, he aint and as soon as you start talkin’ a bunch of sh*t you’ll see for yourself.
    7. When you get paid your money is your money, when he gets paid his money is his money, dont forget that sh*t. Dont ask him if he can help this month with “your” bills because you thought your weave and nail repair was more important than your electric, gas and insurance payment.
    6. No he cant co-sign that BMW loan for you, you still aint paid the electric, gas or insurance from last month.
    5. Do you look fat in that new dress, if you have to ask then you know the answer is yeah!
    4. because we’ve been together for a year doesnt mean I like your new “hood body” so drop that extra 20lbs you gained.
    3. Would I take care of you if you quit that job you hate so much? Yeah for about as long as it takes for you to ask me for something.
    2. Can your girlfriend and her kids go with us to Disneyland? Yeah why not? Ok baby the lady says it’ll be $100 for us and $210 for her and her 4 kids, I just paid for us and bought “us” some mouse ears, why is she still on the other side of the entrance gate and why is she cussin’ and her kids crying?
    1. Why havent we talked about marraige or long term plans? Because obviously you aint the one!

    hate me and these “truths” all you want ladies, but the men in here know its 100!

    love 6am
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    Wow, sounds like you’ve messed with ALOT of females to know this for a fact. Still, don’t generalize, not ALL women are like that. Just like ALL men aren’t like that.

  • trs

    Snoop

    LMFAO @ 6am list……..ladies??

    ——————————————–

    What do you expect the ladies to say?

  • Ms.EJ

    This isn’t apart of the original, but just a thought.I don’t like it when a man expects for you to cook dinner for him when you just started out dating. If I take the time to prepare a dinner with homemade deserts afterwards that is appointed only to my man. Not to mention the fact that it will already take a long while for you to even know where I live.

  • Pimpin (CEO OF KDBs WorldWide) Mr. Peacoat!!!

    Choco

    @Pimpm
    Why you say that about us cuz we are generous and giving- you crazy yeah MD chicks can be cool who do you visit when you come to MD?

    I got a couple boys up there, nothing major haven’t been up there since last summer… =[

  • Sydney™

    @Film

    “LOL, that’s a Chaka cl*****ic, and one of my favorites. ‘Ain’t *****ody, love me better. .’”

    Oh, you like it, too, huh? :)

    “And first you put your arms around me. . .Then you put your charms around me. . .I can’t resist this sweet surrender. . .Oh my nights are warm and tender. . .”

  • pynklyzurd14

    Ms.EJ

    @BE & PNKLYZURD- *waves hard* I tried to post the last comment in continuation from the original several times, but not working :<
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    Girl, you know this website always got SOMETHING wrong with it! smh… lol

  • http://www.myspace.com/crimiegangmusik snoop bloggy blog ( i’m kind of a BIG DEAL)

    Don’t get mad at 6, b/c the topic is hate about women…
    ** ducking heels that’s thrown at me like G.W. Bush**

  • http:chokolatemilk@blogspot.com Choco

    Hey Man
    and Take it Off LOL you right tho and know my ex hubby used to always fight in front of my back in the day and now I have nervous problem with that I try avoid altercation between dudes with me and a chick I try to avoid but I’ve been known to not give a SH-T

  • Sydney™

    @TRS

    “We are HERE!”

    I’m only paying attention to one MAN in the room. I’m sure you can guess which one. LOL!

  • Pimpin (CEO OF KDBs WorldWide) Mr. Peacoat!!!

    Choco

    @Pimpn
    Yep he turned me off of marriage and he knew what he was doing…he still want my il na na : )

    LMAO, damn its got that patron level of driving a n i g g a from maxwell to Heman huh…smh Thanks for the warning…smh

  • Redd Foxxx (This Is Gods Work You Know Pretty Wings)

    LIKE I SAID THIS IS GODS WORK. HE HAS A PLAN FOR EVERYONE. SO FALL BACK ON MINE. ANYWAY I BET YOU THINK HALLE BERRY LOOKS REAL GOOD BEING A 40 YEAR OLD MOTHER HUH???? I HAVE FAITH IN GOD AND HE HAS A PLAN FOR ME THAT YOU NOR ANYONE ON THIS SITE KNOWS ANYTHING ABOUT. I AM BLESSED!!!! WHEN IT’S MY TIME IT WILL PRESENT ITSELF! THAT’S CALLED FAITH! IN THE MEANTIME I’M DOING ME! I’M NOT GOING TO CHASE A MAN BUT I AM OPEN TO EXPLORE A RELATIONSHIP.

  • trs

    Ms. EJ

    If I take the time to prepare a dinner with homemade deserts afterwards that is appointed only to my man. Not to mention the fact that it will already take a long while for you to even know where I live.
    ————————————————-

    GURLLLLLL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    *high five*

  • Redd Foxxx (This Is Gods Work You Know Pretty Wings)

    That was for you holla!

  • pynklyzurd14

    Film

    pynklyzurd14

    ‘Got any single brothers between the ages of 25 & 30? lol’

    LOL, naw, I have one brother, and he’s engaged.

    Sydney

    ‘LOL, good to hear.

    “Ain’t *****ody. . .”’

    LOL, that’s a Chaka cl*****ic, and one of my favorites. ‘Ain’t *****ody, love me better. . ‘
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    HAD to try… lol

  • http:chokolatemilk@blogspot.com Choco

    @Pimpn
    Oh well I would extend an invite but I will behave today lawd I can be so damn devilish! Anyway tell me you have a girlfriend sike that wouldn’t stop me from cyber flirting LOL

  • trs

    Sydney

    I’m only paying attention to one MAN in the room. I’m sure you can guess which one. LOL!
    ————————————————-
    :lol:

    :lol:

    :lol:

    I don’t blame you!!!!!!!!!!!! ;)

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    10. You never admit when youre wrong, especially if another woman is involved, you have a win at all cost attitude.
    9. Your broke azz girlfriends are not more important than your man. Put your man on a pedestal especially if he’s doing everything he’s supposed to be doing.
    8. If you have a dumb n*gga who accepts your kids dont f*ck up that situation by actually thinking he “is” the father of those kids, he aint and as soon as you start talkin’ a bunch of sh*t you’ll see for yourself.
    7. When you get paid your money is your money, when he gets paid his money is his money, dont forget that sh*t. Dont ask him if he can help this month with “your” bills because you thought your weave and nail repair was more important than your electric, gas and insurance payment.

    6. No he cant co-sign that BMW loan for you, you still aint paid the electric, gas or insurance from last month.
    5. Do you look fat in that new dress, if you have to ask then you know the answer is yeah!
    4. because we’ve been together for a year doesnt mean I like your new “hood body” so drop that extra 20lbs you gained.
    3. Would I take care of you if you quit that job you hate so much? Yeah for about as long as it takes for you to ask me for something.
    2. Can your girlfriend and her kids go with us to Disneyland? Yeah why not? Ok baby the lady says it’ll be $100 for us and $210 for her and her 4 kids, I just paid for us and bought “us” some mouse ears, why is she still on the other side of the entrance gate and why is she cussin’ and her kids crying?
    1. Why havent we talked about marraige or long term plans? Because obviously you aint the one!

    __________________________________________________________

    ROFLMAO!! Those first few had tears comin to my eyes!

  • Redd Foxxx (This Is Gods Work You Know Pretty Wings)

    Hey Ms. EJ

    You must be trying to relay the truth, if you are being blocked.

  • take it off

    @6AM

    LOLLLLLLLLLLL

  • Southern Cabbage Patch

    6am list may be a generalized but there is truth to it.

    I certainly understand how TRS feel tho. Ain’t mad at chu Ma.

  • trs

    Snoop

    Don’t get mad at 6, b/c the topic is hate about women
    ——————————————–

    Yeah, and not ALL Black women have those particular issues so YES, I can be mad! :mad:

  • Ms.EJ

    At the end of the day I feel that we still need (besides God who is number 1 at least on my list)each other(women and men)to balance out things. We all have our pet peeves, but we also have things I feel that only a man can get from a woman and a woman from a man. I sometimes just enjoy the company of a man and not always being around the girls.

  • pynklyzurd14

    snoop bloggy blog ( i’m kind of a BIG DEAL)

    LMFAO @ 6am list……..ladies??
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    Well, if he refers to females as b*tches, we can only assume that whoever he’s with now is one too… But, of course, he will never say that around wifey… Any man that refers to a woman a b*tch, is one himself, I’m just sayin…

  • Redd Foxxx (This Is Gods Work You Know Pretty Wings)

    What Up? Pimpin

    I’ve been getting blocked for like a half!

  • be real

    most men are a$$es.
    plain and simple.
    can’t live with them, can’t live without them.

    they front more than women. they are dirtier usually, they have unreasonable expectations, and they want the freak, but don’t wanna wife the freak, they want to wife the virginal type so they ego feel good about themselves… i think the dudes above who go on about being a freak and then wanna cuddle and do the wifey thing are out of their minds! you should WANT a woman who can hold it down in her professional AND personal life. you should want that men! but nah… you perpetuate the doublestandard… so women feel the need to front.

    screw the men. on the cool.

    BEST POST ON THIS WHOLE THANG. 1000000% COSIGN

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    This isn’t apart of the original, but just a thought.I don’t like it when a man expects for you to cook dinner for him when you just started out dating. If I take the time to prepare a dinner with homemade deserts afterwards that is appointed only to my man. Not to mention the fact that it will already take a long while for you to even know where I live.

    ____________________________________________________________

    I think most people in general don’t like all these unrealistic expectations all early in the relationship.

  • diamond

    I’m a woman who’s 32 years old & Everyone has a point or mostly everyone. The problem today is that most people don’t respect each other anymore. Hell, escorts are in a recession as well because women of today make it so easy for men to come & go as they please. Men don’t have to pay for escorts to have a casual relationship. If most women want men to commit to them STOP flatbacking for free & get some morals & dignity. Now at days women want to act like men. Women need to stay in their lane & enjoy being the woman. Men want to feel needed & there’s nothing wrong with women being independent & strong, but don’t take it to the extent where u wana wear the pants. Let men be men in the relationship. Now at days women want to wear the pants. Men or women do not respect each other or their own space if their not living together. The sign of an insecure jealous man or woman are always there!! Now if u decide to settle for less then there will be consequences to that. But take full responsibility for it!!! Because when we don’t make the best decisions for ourselves there is always a price to pay. WOMEN NEED TO STOP MAKING IT SO EASY FOR MEN TO COME & GO AS THEY PLEASE.

  • http:chokolatemilk@blogspot.com Choco

    @Pimpn
    No problem but the warning doesn’t say Proceed with Caution more or less Highly Addictive LOL

  • KSolo

    A woman who claims she is independent, pays her own bills, but quick to have her hand out for some money. A woman without a conscience – sociopath type women who will run a baby over just to get what they want.

    A woman who lies for no reason at all, and thinks she is on her A-GAME, but when she gets exposed, she tries to deny it even when the writing is on the wall (delusional).

  • Pimpin (CEO OF KDBs WorldWide) Mr. Peacoat!!!

    be real

    most men are a$$es.
    plain and simple.
    can’t live with them, can’t live without them.

    they front more than women. they are dirtier usually, they have unreasonable expectations, and they want the freak, but don’t wanna wife the freak, they want to wife the virginal type so they ego feel good about themselves… i think the dudes above who go on about being a freak and then wanna cuddle and do the wifey thing are out of their minds! you should WANT a woman who can hold it down in her professional AND personal life. you should want that men! but nah… you perpetuate the doublestandard… so women feel the need to front.

    screw the men. on the cool.

    BEST POST ON THIS WHOLE THANG. 1000000% COSIGN

    I personally want a woman who got beast in her and know how to put it down, I just ask that she have some lining left in her throat, a s s & p u s s y, is this too much to ask?

  • BE

    Hey MIJDC
    ♥♥♥♥♥

  • http:chokolatemilk@blogspot.com Choco

    @Redd
    Someone may wanna tell whoever taking pot shots at women over 30 should get one first and then see what will be said!

  • http://www.myspace.com/crimiegangmusik snoop bloggy blog ( i’m kind of a BIG DEAL)

    Well, if he refers to females as b*tches, we can only *****ume that whoever he’s with now is one too… But, of course, he will never say that around wifey… Any man that refers to a woman a b*tch, is one himself, I’m just sayin…
    _____

    @ Pynklyzurd……Allow me to introduce myself, I’m Snoop the resident gentleman….** extend hands** How are you??

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @TRS
    ;)

    **been thinking bout u all day**

  • Pimpin (CEO OF KDBs WorldWide) Mr. Peacoat!!!

    Choco

    @Pimpn
    No problem but the warning doesn’t say Proceed with Caution more or less Highly Addictive LOL

    Yes indeed, you could still be my tourguide though for MD, I am in line for that one!

  • http://bossip I`ll Talk about what I want to talk about Nucca !

    @ TRS

    I had a feeling that ol straightening out word might catch some sharp eyes ” Yours ” ! It`s all jokes miss ! LOL

  • Redd Foxxx (This Is Gods Work You Know Pretty Wings)

    @ Pimpin

    Hey pretty smile, how you doing?

    Just Peachy! About to go home in a few.

  • take it off

    @MAN
    I am a model, i ain’t going to allow someone touch my face.NEVER

  • http://perryone779@yahoo,com rose by any other name #9304026339482056536 ™

    @Hey Choco~~ i finally got over here! i hate it when men mention something their last woman did .. but yet if you mention a ole BF, they get their boxer in a bunch~! i dont want to hear about any old relationships if they were so good then why are you here? i ask again why are you here?

  • http://www.myspace.com/crimiegangmusik snoop bloggy blog ( i’m kind of a BIG DEAL)

    I just ask that she have some lining left in her throat, a s s & p u s s y, is this too much to ask?
    _____

    LMAO

  • KSolo

    A woman who has a big butt and a pretty smile and smiles every time she tells a lie – LOL!!!

  • Redd Foxxx (This Is Gods Work You Know Pretty Wings)

    Choco

    @Redd
    Someone may wanna tell whoever taking pot shots at women over 30 should get one first and then see what will be said!

    What kills me is they think they are going to have it all figured out by then. And what are you going to say when you are 30 and things didnt turn out how you thought they would. Reality check life changes directions i dont care how much planning you have done its Gods plan not yours.

  • http:chokolatemilk@blogspot.com Choco

    @Pimpn
    No problem boo but be careful what you ask for cuz I’m that BEAST!

  • http://perryone779@yahoo,com rose by any other name #9304026339482056536 ™

    Snoop is really a gentlemen ~~ never heard him refer to women as h’s and b’s.. very good snoop~!

  • Ms.EJ

    @TRS- OKAY! LOL for real.

    @ALL

    At the end of the day IMO we (men and women)need each other (besides God who is always number 1)to balance out everything, because IMO there are things that I feel a woman needs or can only get from a man and man from a woman aside from the usual hang ups. Men need that woman that can be that peaceful voice to soothe when chaos is around and prevent his pride from taking over and women need that strenght to know that everything will be okay.

  • Lady Architect (Being a Good Girl)

    @Hey Choco~~ i finally got over here! i hate it when men mention something their last woman did .. but yet if you mention a ole BF, they get their boxer in a bunch~! i dont want to hear about any old relationships if they were so good then why are you here? i ask again why are you here?

    Omg….I hate that! A man will not get any for pulling that one on me.

  • NEW YORK CHILLIN MY NAME HOSEA

    GIRLS ARE LIKE BUSES,WHEN ONE MESSES UP, I DON’T STRESS, I JUST MOVE TO THE NEXT.

  • http://perryone779@yahoo,com rose by any other name #9304026339482056536 ™

    I dont want to be all up in no butt cheeks,, dark or light ,, i wouldnt care if they were plaid.. please spare me ~!!

  • Pimpin (CEO OF KDBs WorldWide) Mr. Peacoat!!!

    Choco

    @Pimpn
    No problem boo but be careful what you ask for cuz I’m that BEAST!

    Tourguide – Thumbs Up

    Matrix P u s s y – Chair and whip to keep that lioness off me!

  • http:chokolatemilk@blogspot.com Choco

    @Redd
    Exactly but those who talk that way have not reached that level of maturity and probably hasn’t experienced much in life-like I said be with one first and I guarantee that person would be praising women over 30 instead of knocking them…Why do you think they call us Cougars???

  • trs

    Now at days women want to wear the pants.
    ———————————————-

    Not all women WANT to wear the pants. Many women are forced to wear the pants because their man ran off and left her to fend for herself and her kids.

    For the record, yes, a man should lead. But I will be da**ed if I will let a man lead me if he hasn’t proven that he has the ability to do so. Not all men are equipped to lead and you must EARN the right for me to follow your direction.

  • http:chokolatemilk@blogspot.com Choco

    @Pimpn
    Oh no sweetie I a whip will only turn me on more and make me tell you to get n my belly LOL

  • Pimpin (CEO OF KDBs WorldWide) Mr. Peacoat!!!

    trs

    Now at days women want to wear the pants.
    ———————————————-

    Not all women WANT to wear the pants. Many women are forced to wear the pants because their man ran off and left her to fend for herself and her kids.

    For the record, yes, a man should lead. But I will be da**ed if I will let a man lead me if he hasn’t proven that he has the ability to do so. Not all men are equipped to lead and you must EARN the right for me to follow your direction.

    Can’t knock a woman who intends to survive out here. I approve!

  • Ms.EJ

    I am 28 and people say that I am old though I’ve been told by many that I do not look my age. The way I see it I am glad and blessed for each year I get to see another year. I hope to live into my 80s and be just as crisp and fresh minded like my aunts. I rather ben old and wise and then young or old with no sense of selfworth. I know my purpose in life do you? is the question I ask.

  • Pimpin (CEO OF KDBs WorldWide) Mr. Peacoat!!!

    Choco

    @Pimpn
    Oh no sweetie I a whip will only turn me on more and make me tell you to get n my belly LOL

    I am bringing 007 as my stunt double then! =] Can’t be going to Jessup over that good good…smh

  • http:chokolatemilk@blogspot.com Choco

    @TRS
    Right like Im gonna let a man lead me to no damn where-BOOO NEXT…and I love a masculine man just not being some silly little girl is all…

  • http://perryone779@yahoo,com rose by any other name #9304026339482056536 ™

    lady A~~ I had a ole bf who had a babys mama, he used to talk about her like a dog but when i made a comment he got mad and said.. well you can say what you want about her but i love her because she had my son~~ Im like ok .. se ya wouldnt want to be ya!!

  • pynklyzurd14

    snoop bloggy blog ( i’m kind of a BIG DEAL)

    Well, if he refers to females as b*tches, we can only *****ume that whoever he’s with now is one too… But, of course, he will never say that around wifey… Any man that refers to a woman a b*tch, is one himself, I’m just sayin…
    _____

    @ Pynklyzurd……Allow me to introduce myself, I’m Snoop the resident gentleman….** extend hands** How are you??
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    I am very well thank you. & how might you be good Sir? **also extends hand**

  • http:chokolatemilk@blogspot.com Choco

    @Pimpn
    If you give it to me good Jessup will be the least of your worries not into to people taking what I like…

  • S7VEN

    when women are over 29yrs old and are still single, that’s a RED FLAG. OR when they are divorce and hanging out with young dudes EVEN REDDER FLAG.

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    **whispering to Snoop**

    “I think you can fugg Pynklyzurd14 dawg.”

  • Pimpin (CEO OF KDBs WorldWide) Mr. Peacoat!!!

    Choco

    @Pimpn
    If you give it to me good Jessup will be the least of your worries not into to people taking what I like…

    LOL, thats whats up for real, we gotta link up, I need that MD experience for real though, hit me up cause I am about to roll to the gym. l m b a o a @ gmail . com

  • http://perryone779@yahoo,com rose by any other name #9304026339482056536 ™

    My man i have now said he was dating a woman who when she took off her clothes she had a bandage on her booty crack.. i said oh on her butt cheek , he said no up in here booty crack~` he said she said she had just came from the Dr and had a booty boil lanced.. needless to say he said he ran like Usan Bolt(spell check)~!!lol!! or whatever his name is ~!

  • http:chokolatemilk@blogspot.com Choco

    @Pimp I will I was thinking the same thing we should connect ; ) I got you gym huh okaaayyyy

  • Ms.EJ

    @TRS- 100% agree. Coming from a household and/or Christian household where my father was head of the household and led by example I do not mind a man leading, but he can not lead me when he is blind himself. Its equal to being blindfoled or walking in the pitch blackness of the nights off a clip, because he lacks direction. A house bulit on sand will crumble, therfore a solid foundation has to be proven before I take your hand and let you be my eyes per se.

  • copycat

    Well, Ladies…I see nothing changes. You can make more money, run a corporation, but you WON’T RUN A MAN. So therefore, take the time to beautify yourself…pamper you. And if U are single, ACT SINGLE. Dont be cooking and cleaning and Focking like you got the man. Play your role. If U ARE DATING>>>ACT LIKE IT> See as many guys as you like…go on your dates… get your nice gifts and pamper yourself and allow the men to COURT you. Tell yourself : “I’M THE PRIZE”. They will take you on nice dates and give you flowers and spend money on you…for about the 1st 3months. When they stall out, move on. So, shuffle ‘em like cards. Playa, play on.

  • Pimpin (CEO OF KDBs WorldWide) Mr. Peacoat!!!

    Choco

    @Pimp I will I was thinking the same thing we should connect ; ) I got you gym huh okaaayyyy

    Leave a Reply

    Yeah holla at ya boy

    Everybody else have fun, I’m out, I’ll talk s h i t later!

  • Ms.EJ

    -cliff- spell check.

  • Redd Foxxx (This Is Gods Work You Know Pretty Wings)

    @ Pimpin

    I bet, you still breaking hearts and taking names huh?

    I dont break hearts! I’m just chillin. Dating can wear a sista out!

  • pynklyzurd14

    Ms.EJ

    I am 28 and people say that I am old though I’ve been told by many that I do not look my age. The way I see it I am glad and blessed for each year I get to see another year. I hope to live into my 80s and be just as crisp and fresh minded like my aunts. I rather ben old and wise and then young or old with no sense of selfworth. I know my purpose in life do you? is the question I ask.
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    Well, you look hella-good for your age!!!!! Better than alot of younger girls today. & I’m baffled to even know that some people think of 28 as “old!!!” Wth is goings on in the world?!

  • http://perryone779@yahoo,com rose by any other name #9304026339482056536 ™

    what about when a man calls a woman a h~~ can we assume that he is one or that he came from one..just askin??

  • http://www.myspace.com/crimiegangmusik snoop bloggy blog ( i’m kind of a BIG DEAL)

    I am very well thank you. & how might you be good Sir? **also extends hand**
    __________

    **kisses hand**It’s a pleasure to meet you…

  • dangher

    fellas

    when a woman wants to change you. RUN

  • trs

    MIJDC

    **been thinking bout u all day**
    ——————————————–

    ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

  • Had 2 Get In DIs

    correction = * s p a c e *

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @ROSE
    “what about when a man calls a woman a h~~ can we *****ume that he is one or that he came from one..just askin??”
    __________________________________________________________

    Well, never a.s.s.ume…but IS the chick a hoe?

  • dangher

    by the way i realized that foreingn black women are more catering and submissive than the ones here.HMMM

  • Southern Cabbage Patch

    10. THE BLACK WOMEN, I might pound and F_ck other nationalities, but you’re the only one I would marry.
    _________________________________________

    WOW

    So my question would be:

    What does a white woman do for you fellas that a black woman doesn’t? Or is it experimentation & curiosity?

    Just askin

  • pynklyzurd14

    Man, I just don’t care™

    **whispering to Snoop**

    “I think you can fugg Pynklyzurd14 dawg.”
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    Nah, I don’t get down like that homie. I am a WOMAN, not a hood rat, a chickenhead, or a piece of meat. I respect myself & I hope that you do the same, as I respect you. Thank you. :)

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @THE LADIES

    You won’t know where the man is leading you until you get out the dayum way and let him lead! Do YOUR part and let him do his PART.

  • Ms.EJ

    @PNKLZURD- Aww thanks girl. I know one female at the grocery store literally yelled out “YOURRRRR 28!!!!!!!!!!!!! wow I didn’t know you were so old” she was the cashier and then someone said to her “Honey you look like you are mid 40s and your in high school she look better than you” then the girl said “I’m sorry I didn’t mean it that way” I just said “Its cool” and grabbed my groceries and went on with my business. You would think I was walking with a cane SHM.

  • trs

    Pimpin

    Can’t knock a woman who intends to survive out here. I approve!
    ————————————————

    You know how I do!!! :)

  • http:chokolatemilk@blogspot.com Choco

    @Man
    Point well taken…

  • Sydney™

    Wow, is there romance in the room? Has misogyny taken a backseat to chivalry?
    :)

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @PYNKLYZURD14
    “Nah, I don’t get down like that homie. I am a WOMAN, not a hood rat, a chickenhead, or a piece of meat. I respect myself & I hope that you do the same, as I respect you. Thank you.”
    ___________________________________________________________

    *takes off hat and bows*

    Young lady, I would never disrespect something as beautiful and delicate as yourself. I humbly apologize for your misunderstanding of my statement to Gentlemen Snoop.

  • Sydney™

    @pynklyzurd14

    “Nah, I don’t get down like that homie. I am a WOMAN, not a hood rat, a chickenhead, or a piece of meat. I respect myself & I hope that you do the same, as I respect you. Thank you.”

    I heard that — Get it, girl. :)

  • pynklyzurd14

    snoop bloggy blog ( i’m kind of a BIG DEAL)

    I am very well thank you. & how might you be good Sir? **also extends hand**
    __________

    **kisses hand**It’s a pleasure to meet you…
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    Like wise *curtsies* lol

  • trs

    Ms. EJ

    Coming from a household and/or Christian household where my father was head of the household and led by example I do not mind a man leading, but he can not lead me when he is blind himself. Its equal to being blindfoled or walking in the pitch blackness of the nights off a clip, because he lacks direction. A house bulit on sand will crumble, therfore a solid foundation has to be proven before I take your hand and let you be my eyes per se.
    ———————————————–

    YOU GO MS EJ!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That is EXACTLY to what I refer!!! You and me are HERE!

  • Ms.EJ

    @I’LL TALK ABOUT- Thank you I think that is what shocks alot of people. Its a good thing for when I get much older, but the only thing is that I attract the real young ones all the time, and the older ones (which I’ve always dated older men at least by 5 or 10years)think I am jail bait unless they hear me speak.

  • trs

    MIJDC

    You won’t know where the man is leading you until you get out the dayum way and let him lead! Do YOUR part and let him do his PART.
    —————————————————

    This is a good point, but what if you allow your man to lead and he leads in the wrong direction??? Again, not all men are equipped to take the lead.

  • Had 2 Get In DIs

    @ Southern Cabbage Patch

    Its not all about what the Black Women doesnt do, its what we can get away with messing with the White Women. From personal experience we just run through them. Push they wip, take they money, F_ck them, and be out. They’re a lot easier.

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    A house bulit on sand will crumble, therfore a solid foundation has to be proven
    _____________________________________________________________

    I feel that, but at some point the house is going to have to be built! Even the STRONGEST foundation sometimes needs to be reinforced over time.

    So many women have this “he-ain’t-goin-get-over-on-me” mentality but want to make it appear as if the guy isn’t taking care of his responsibilities. HALF THE TIME YOU WON’T GIVE HIM THE CHANCE.

    Gotta take a risk at some point.

  • pynklyzurd14

    Ms.EJ

    @PNKLZURD- Aww thanks girl. I know one female at the grocery store literally yelled out “YOURRRRR 28!!!!!!!!!!!!! wow I didn’t know you were so old” she was the cashier and then someone said to her “Honey you look like you are mid 40s and your in high school she look better than you” then the girl said “I’m sorry I didn’t mean it that way” I just said “Its cool” and grabbed my groceries and went on with my business. You would think I was walking with a cane SHM.
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    well damn. lol

  • Redd Foxxx (This Is Gods Work You Know Pretty Wings)

    supermaynehttp://1.gravatar.com/avatar/7beda39b82a9dd14e8c3b65d6fd1046b?s=64&d=&r=R

    take it off http://1.gravatar.com/avatar/7beda39b82a9dd14e8c3b65d6fd1046b?s=64&d=&r=R

    s7ven http://1.gravatar.com/avatar/7beda39b82a9dd14e8c3b65d6fd1046b?s=64&d=&r=R

    HI HATER! LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!

  • trs

    Sydney,

    Wow, is there romance in the room? Has misogyny taken a backseat to chivalry?
    ——————————————–

    Where did you see chivalry?

  • Lady Architect (Being a Good Girl)

    *needs pimpin to check his email* pronto

  • Ms.EJ

    @PYNKLYZURD14
    “Nah, I don’t get down like that homie. I am a WOMAN, not a hood rat, a chickenhead, or a piece of meat. I respect myself & I hope that you do the same, as I respect you. Thank you.”
    —–Right On!

    @TRS- Girl we are SO HERE! *2 snaps*

  • Southern Cabbage Patch

    @ Had 2 Get in Dis
    @ Southern Cabbage Patch

    Its not all about what the Black Women doesnt do, its what we can get away with messing with the White Women. From personal experience we just run through them. Push they wip, take they money, F_ck them, and be out. They’re a lot easier.
    _________________________________________________

    I appreciate your honesty.

  • smarter than you

    i think me and marcus dated the same girl haha…his story is exactly like mine,just replace coffee shop with gas station….

  • Redd Foxxx (This Is Gods Work You Know Pretty Wings)

    My comment is waiting moderation but before I go

    supermayne
    take it off
    s7ven

    Are the same person! Ol hatin azz! FU!

  • pynklyzurd14

    Man, I just don’t care™

    @PYNKLYZURD14
    “Nah, I don’t get down like that homie. I am a WOMAN, not a hood rat, a chickenhead, or a piece of meat. I respect myself & I hope that you do the same, as I respect you. Thank you.”
    ___________________________________________________________

    *takes off hat and bows*

    Young lady, I would never disrespect something as beautiful and delicate as yourself. I humbly apologize for your misunderstanding of my statement to Gentlemen Snoop.
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    Why thank you. & all is forgiven. *curtsies again* :D

  • trs

    Sydney

    Sydney,

    Wow, is there romance in the room? Has misogyny taken a backseat to chivalry?
    ——————————————–

    Where did you see chivalry?
    ———————————————-

    NEVERMIND. I gotcha! :)

  • http:chokolatemilk@blogspot.com Choco

    @Man
    I hear you about the risk and I’m feeling your commentary today-I could go on and on about the what if-but for some reason what your saying is making clear sense…

  • Redd Foxxx (This Is Gods Work You Know Pretty Wings)
  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @TRS
    “You won’t know where the man is leading you until you get out the dayum way and let him lead! Do YOUR part and let him do his PART.
    —————————————————

    This is a good point, but what if you allow your man to lead and he leads in the wrong direction??? Again, not all men are equipped to take the lead.”
    ________________________________________________________

    Even the wisest and most astute leaders make miscalculations. Such is life.

    Sometimes a direction may appear to be wrong but it is rather a merely a different path to the same destination. Only one way to find out.

  • Sydney™

    @Film

    “I probably would have just paid more attention to the cinematography, but I would also follow the storyline/dialogue.”

    LMAO, no, you wouldn’t. You would be in pain. “Is this a vampire love story?”

    It’s a chick flick, I know. I thought it was sweet how they kept gazing at each other — it was like a twisted Romeo and Juliet, in a sense.

  • http://bossip I`ll Talk about what I want to talk about Nucca !

    @ MS EJ

    I bet you get carded when you try to buy milk ! LOL Gurl it`s a blessing .

  • Redd Foxxx (This Is Gods Work You Know Pretty Wings)

    I checked your properties! LMAO!!!

    Sopermayne

    take it off

    s7ven

    trying to take shots at me! Whats wrong boo!!!??

  • http:chokolatemilk@blogspot.com Choco

    @Redd
    Seven tryn to take shots at anyone over 30 but you see I ignored him I don’t play with children I ignore them….

  • Sydney™

    @TRS

    “NEVERMIND. I gotcha!”

    LMAO, it was like a sliver, but I saw it. There’s hope. :)

  • copycat

    Men are always equipped to lead…he may not take you where you want to go…..but that is the order of things…it always has been…always will be. You start where his budget will allow and add to it.. Then you can grow together…even if it means moving to the “hood”…nothing could be sweeter than living with the man U love and fixing up a nice little place HE can afford. Hear me “A place HE can afford.” Women are the HELP MATES…NOT THE HELP.

  • Redd Foxxx (This Is Gods Work You Know Pretty Wings)

    Supermayne http:// 1.gravatar. com/avatar/7beda39b82a9dd14e8c3b65d6fd1046b?s=64&d=&r=R

  • http:chokolatemilk@blogspot.com Choco

    @Redd
    Seven tryn to take shots at anyone over 30 but you see I ignored him I don’t play with children I ignore them….Actually it’s a few other trying to take shots but come at me not around me…

  • Redd Foxxx (This Is Gods Work You Know Pretty Wings)

    take it off http :// 1. gravatar. com /avatar /7beda39b82a9dd14e8c3b65d6fd1046b?s=64&d=&r=R

  • Ms.EJ

    @MIJDC- 99% w/men have been very good starting with my Daddy. Of course we all have had our heartsbroken. Therefore, I am use to men who have it together for the most part, but we all have and will always have flaws. I no longer have unrealistic expectations, therefore when going into a relationship I am already looking for us to grow together, b/c just like you stated the foundation has to start somewhere. It starts w/teamwork IMO.

  • Redd Foxxx (This Is Gods Work You Know Pretty Wings)

    s7ven http:// 1.gravatar. com/avatar /7beda39b82a9dd14e8c3b65d6fd1046b?s=64&d=&r=R

  • Ms.EJ

    99% of my experience with men have benn very good-correction

  • Redd Foxxx (This Is Gods Work You Know Pretty Wings)

    @ Choco

    i checked the properties its the same hatin azz person! I’m out much love.

  • http:chokolatemilk@blogspot.com Choco

    Do I sense a bitter person—-boohoohoo!

  • trs

    Sis,

    trying to take shots at me! Whats wrong boo!!!??
    ———————————————–

    ROTFLMAO!!!!

    Again: I have no words……

  • http:chokolatemilk@blogspot.com Choco

    @Redd
    Im out to Ma right back atch : )

  • ManUp

    I’ll just add my 2 cents. I don’t like it when a women interferes with a man being a man. By that I mean a woman who hasn’t had a father figure in her life ever, tells me I’m too strict when disciplining her kids (not talking about beatings). Sit back and let me be a man and discipline like a man especially when holding the entire household down.

    Also if you’re a woman and not working and a man sees past that then you have no right to complain if he wants to know how much money you’re spending it’s because he’s trying to keep track cause the bills need to be paid NOT because he’s trying to control you.

  • love me love me not

    Well I aint knocking them because if you don’t tell us how will we know? So thanks for letting us know how ya feel.

  • pynklyzurd14

    Sydney™

    @pynklyzurd14

    “Nah, I don’t get down like that homie. I am a WOMAN, not a hood rat, a chickenhead, or a piece of meat. I respect myself & I hope that you do the same, as I respect you. Thank you.”

    I heard that — Get it, girl.
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    ;) lol

  • http://www.myspace.com/crimiegangmusik snoop bloggy blog ( i’m kind of a BIG DEAL)

    This is a good point, but what if you allow your man to lead and he leads in the wrong direction??? Again, not all men are equipped to take the lead.
    ____

    That’s a chance you have to take with the partner YOU chosed….

  • trs

    MIJDC

    Even the wisest and most astute leaders make miscalculations. Such is life.

    Sometimes a direction may appear to be wrong but it is rather a merely a different path to the same destination. Only one way to find out.

    ————————————————–

    You are 100% correct….

    But are you saying that a sista should hold fast if she sees things moving in the wrong direction and let a brother drive off of the cliff rather than speak up and try to intervene before disaster strikes?

  • Ms.EJ

    Bye Choco and Red

    @I’LL TALK ABOUT-LMBO!!!! I do have older men who ask to see my ID I respect that at least it shows they aren’t pervs.

  • trs

    Sydney,

    LMAO, it was like a sliver, but I saw it. There’s hope
    ————————————————–

    Yes ma’am…

    I saw it too… And based off of what we saw today, there is PLENTY of hope! :)

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    This is a good point, but what if you allow your man to lead and he leads in the wrong direction??? Again, not all men are equipped to take the lead.
    ____

    That’s a chance you have to take with the partner YOU chosed….
    _______________________________

    **nodding head in approval**

  • http:chokolatemilk@blogspot.com Choco

    @EJ
    Im still here but only for a little girl I was gonna get at you but we always miss one another but again I agree with your comments and it’s always good to see your familiar face : )

  • Miss B

    MIJDC

    Even the wisest and most astute leaders make miscalculations. Such is life.

    Sometimes a direction may appear to be wrong but it is rather a merely a different path to the same destination. Only one way to find out.

    ……………..

    It’s typically the slower path. But guys to me tend to take that path b/c they want to make sure they will chose the right one.

    I think females are more to take the aggressive path wich is the quicker one which usually leads in heartbreak, or the guy having to do things he’s not necessarily ready for.

    This is when you should know and love the person before you make them your boy/girlfriend IMO. It’s odd to me when people are couple in two months. So you become emotionally attached to a person you don’t truly know therefore you deal with stuff you shouldn’t. Take the time to learn one another before jumping into a relationship.

  • Film

    Sydney

    ‘LMAO, no, you wouldn’t. You would be in pain. “Is this a vampire love story?”’

    LOL, okay, I did say that.

    ‘It’s a chick flick, I know. I thought it was sweet how they kept gazing at each other — it was like a twisted Romeo and Juliet, in a sense.

    Twilight was a pretty good film.

  • Sydney™

    @TRS

    “I saw it too… And based off of what we saw today, there is PLENTY of hope!”

    Yes, girl, there is. *winks*

  • pynklyzurd14

    Ms.EJ

    @PYNKLYZURD14
    “Nah, I don’t get down like that homie. I am a WOMAN, not a hood rat, a chickenhead, or a piece of meat. I respect myself & I hope that you do the same, as I respect you. Thank you.”
    —–Right On!

    @TRS- Girl we are SO HERE! *2 snaps*
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    ***hi-fives Ms. Ej***

  • Film

    Sydney

    *whispers, can we see “Enter the Dragon” instead?*

    LOL, yeah, we can. And, Game of Death was good, too. :)

  • Sydney™

    Film

    “Twilight was a pretty good film.”

    LOL, OK. I’ll let you know how “New Moon” is. :)

  • pynklyzurd14

    well everyone, I am off for the day… It was good chatting & laughing with you all. But for now, I bid you all adieu!!! ***waves @ everyone*** ;)

  • http:chokolatemilk@blogspot.com Choco

    Later Pink…

  • Ms.EJ

    @CHOCO- Aww thanks CHOCO I know we keep missing each other. grrr!!!! I was like dang she done left the building again LOL.

  • Awesome-O-3000 (D.U.K.E)

    Who’s still here?

  • trs

    Snoop,

    That’s a chance you have to take with the partner YOU chosed….

    —————————————————

    So lemme get this straight…

    A woman can know that this “decision” is going in the wrong direction but she should allow it to fail for the sake of her man’s ego.. Is that correct? Just asking…

  • trs

    Sydney,

    LOL, OK. I’ll let you know how “New Moon” is.
    ——————————————

    Please let me know too!!!

    That Taylor L….

    *zipping my lip*

  • http:chokolatemilk@blogspot.com Choco

    @EJ
    You and your family stay in my prayers tho and I think that’s most important – any good days for her?

  • http:chokolatemilk@blogspot.com Choco

    @TRS
    This is what I gather from it I think they are saying we as women sometimes make rash decisions and becuz a past decision that didn’t work in our favor we are quick to not take the same risk with someone else than we did prior—that’s what I’m getting from it…not tryn to be condescending either

  • Sydney™

    @TRS

    “Please let me know too!!!

    That Taylor L…”

    LOL! I will, girl.

    OK, I’m out. Have a good evening, all.

    Bye, Film. Nice chatting with you, kind sir. *curtsy* :)

  • Ms.EJ

    In the word it tells of one not being fooled and the blind leading the blind it gets no clearer than that in regards to someone taking the lead that goes for those who Pastor a church to those in marriage with the man being head of household. God will give us warnings if someone is steering us in the wrong direction if we ignore and don’t take heed then it is on us. He wants us to be wise not fools. Also a man of God who is head of household is suppose to love his wife as much as church and himself therefore he will give much weight to his womans word because he loves her and values her opinion.

  • Ms.EJ

    @CHOCO- You know CHOCO she was up in good spirits for awhile but the treatment has been taking a toll on her. She’s been saying she is fine, but CHOCO I can tell she is holding back. She’s been very tired. I definitely can’t wait to go back there for Christmas. Thank you for continued prayers.

  • trs

    Choco,

    This is what I gather from it I think they are saying we as women sometimes make rash decisions and becuz a past decision that didn’t work in our favor we are quick to not take the same risk with someone else than we did prior—that’s what I’m getting from it…not tryn to be condescending either
    ————————————–

    Yes, ANYONE can make a rash decision. It has nothing to do with being a male or a female. EVERYONE uses past experiences to formulate their outlook on the future. This is not specific to women.

    Bottom line is that if you care enough, you are willing to take a risk. If you don’t, move on to something that better suites you.

  • http://www.myspace.com/crimiegangmusik snoop bloggy blog ( i’m kind of a BIG DEAL)

    A woman can know that this “decision” is going in the wrong direction but she should allow it to fail for the sake of her man’s ego.. Is that correct? Just asking
    ____

    Naw….it’s really no answer to this b/c a woman and man has to be on the same exact page. Somebody going to have to take a backseat, say for instance your man isn’t leading you to a path to hell, but you just want to take an alternate route b/c you feel your way is the better way….dig it?? lol

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @MISS B
    “Even the wisest and most astute leaders make miscalculations. Such is life.

    Sometimes a direction may appear to be wrong but it is rather a merely a different path to the same destination. Only one way to find out.

    ……………..

    It’s typically the slower path. But guys to me tend to take that path b/c they want to make sure they will chose the right one.

    I think females are more to take the aggressive path wich is the quicker one which usually leads in heartbreak, or the guy having to do things he’s not necessarily ready for.

    This is when you should know and love the person before you make them your boy/girlfriend IMO. It’s odd to me when people are couple in two months. So you become emotionally attached to a person you don’t truly know therefore you deal with stuff you shouldn’t. Take the time to learn one another before jumping into a relationship.”
    ____________________________________________________________

    if he took his time it shows that he cares for you most of the time.

    If a guy was making a decision JUST for himself it would be completely rash and impulsively done.

    Ex:
    which car to buy? The sensible Honda Accord or the v-8 gas guzzlin new Camaro. Yeah, you are startin to get my drift.

  • Brooklyn, Stand UP! (The Carlito of this Bossip Sh*t)

    Damn, I missed out on a good one today, lol… :(

  • http:chokolatemilk@blogspot.com Choco

    @EJ
    Well just keep your spirits up as well I’m certain her worrying about you worrying about her can be exhausting but I feel you – you know her-I’m really out now and I’m glad she was up and around I pray for more days like that for her…

  • http:chokolatemilk@blogspot.com Choco

    @TRS
    Your right you can keep it moving I understand what your saying as well and their point that’s all…
    Take Care.

  • http://www.myspace.com/crimiegangmusik snoop bloggy blog ( i’m kind of a BIG DEAL)

    @ all….. i’m out holla @ yall freaky friday……enjoy

  • http://perryone779@yahoo,com rose by any other name #9304026339482056536 ™

    !Man ~~ i know saying assume makes a azz out of you and me.. i cant actually say if anyone else is a h, but i know im not and i dont like being called one by anybody~~!

  • http://bossip I`ll Talk about what I want to talk about Nucca !

    @ MS EJ

    You couldn`t be a nicer and levelheaded lady ! Your family must be proud ! I know I am !

  • DAYWALKER( MR INTENSITY!!!!)

    Wazzup, Folks???

  • …*MOcarsMOclothesMojewelsMOdoe*…(i am not lock down,i could do my thing)

    ah man! i dont even want to get into the topic of females right now.

    am i too late??

  • http://perryone779@yahoo,com rose by any other name #9304026339482056536 ™

    Hi Film~` How are you sir?I love a gentleman it brings out all the good things in me and who can resist a gentleman?

  • Ms.EJ

    @CHOCO-I hope so too… thank you take care hopefully we can chat more next go around. *waves bye*

  • dia

    first dud emust of not had a mother.. ALL women nag its nature, it runs through all our blood weather we know it or not. and the rest goes both ways, guys can be the same so im not mad.

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @ROSE
    “i know saying *****ume makes a azz out of you and me.. i cant actually say if anyone else is a h, but i know im not and i dont like being called one by anybody~~!”
    ___________________________________________________________

    Well if the shoe fit wear it and if the glove don’t fit you must acquit!

    Some women ARE hoes tho. Ain’t nothing wrong with that but they are what they are.

  • Ms.EJ

    @I’LL TALK ABOUT- *kool aid smile* lol aww thank you.

    @SNOOP- take care!

  • http://perryone779@yahoo,com rose by any other name #9304026339482056536 ™

    @Daywalker!!! Aw shoot! you are just coming in and im about to sign out for the day.. gotta go home quickly and start making my arrangements for my guest for Thanksgiving, having 15 family members that are coming over and im doing all the cooking by my lil ole self!!

  • http://bossip D.E.

    after reading several of the comments, I’ve taken some time(2-3 HR) to think long and hard about the question at hand.I have to begin with the man in,I have faw and short comings so i can only expect out of a woman what I expect out of myself.I love all my sisters and would only ask that they work toward allowing self love so when we come together, we’re both ready to accept what the other is has to offer and where we fall short.

  • Ms.EJ

    Man everyone is leaving I guess I’m out as well

    BYE Everyone! :D have a great day!

  • Ms.EJ

    @ROSE BY ANOTHER ROSE- I have to put it down for Thanksgiving too! you are not alone that is a task and to cook enough for everyone, take home and left overs. I have been there *waves bye*

    @DAYWALKER- Hey and lol bye *exits*

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @ROSE
    “before i go my thing is as far as the shoe fitting, if i was really a h, then the shoe would fit but im talking about men who call women h;s and dont really know them and when they se a real they smile and keep pushing~~ whatever1 you know you called me one and i was upset . nothing about no shoe fitting like i said if it fit i would strut on with it but if it doesnt fit i will let a person know and to take that shoe on to the owner of the shoe”
    _____________________________________________________________

    Well sometimes things aren’t what they seem.
    **shrugs shoulders**

  • http://perryone779@yahoo,com rose by any other name #9304026339482056536 ™

    Ms EJ~~ Im doing Turkey ham . home-made dressing candied sweet potatoes, 3 different greens and dinner rolls mac and cheese and , pound cake and pumpkin pies .. no sweet potatoes pies since im making candied but also i got a recipe for cranberry sauce from home-made and i trying it first with the gelatin and all!1 wish me luck.. bye bye!!

  • http://perryone779@yahoo,com rose by any other name #9304026339482056536 ™

    bye man .. have a good evening~!!

  • BLACK-A-RIFICK

    FEMALES THAT CLAIM TO KNOW THE BIBLE ARE PROBABLY THE WORSE ONES OUT THERE TRUST ME I KNOW IT SOUNDS HARSH BUT YOU CANT TELL THESE WOMEN ANYTHING AND THEY ARE BOLD AS HELL!!!

  • BOO scared ya!

    Personally I dont like men who cannot take care of their children, a man out of work, a man with a two door car (proves they are selfish) a man who is too aggressive and a man who is horrile in doors and nice to his friends.

    Oh I also hate useless men who cannot fix things, when a door needs fixing or a light fighting needs changing, and he is clueless on simple mans jobs.

    I also hate a man with an unmanly body!

    Give me a man with abs, strong neck and bulging forearms any day of the good week! :0)

  • BOO scared ya!

    Sorry that is light FIITING!

  • Chikkagosfinest

    @drenk

    Bruh…im 100% wit u man…couldnt agree more lol…

  • Tonney

    Daywalker, I love the way you think & you know what you want & what you like. That’s refreshing.

  • sammy

    alot of old bitter women here, 3o and older with no man.LMAO

  • Blu Rain

    @Its6amHoGetOut, I have an opinion and here it is…….

    Your list was awesome! But I hope that you are not dealing with that now!

  • Tonney

    There so much talk about age up in here. It’s not about age it’s about self-respect. Some people can be young or old, blind, deaf & dumb when it comes to relationships. Ladies & Gentlemen respect yourself enough that you only tolerate a person treating you well and you treat them the same. When a person does not meet your standards, Love Yourself Enough to Leave.

  • boss

    I hate that women are so used to getting by off looks that when you get to know many of them you see that there is nothing there.Often they lack character or intelligence .Too many women look like something (impressive ) from a distance but when you get to know em they ain’t $#!T.I heard that MJB was tweeting about intelligence and she spelled it” intelligents”.I think she said something to the effect that too many people doubt her intelligence.Here are my two cents.

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  • enkogkneegro ( Uncle E…if you like )

    I ain’t got much to say on this one because I’ve never had a problem with any of the ladies I’ve ever been involved with. I guess because after a certain age I looked less at women as a conquest and more as an addition to my life, what they brought to it be it a lover or a friend. If you got to complain about them maybe you don’t need to be around them because in the end. I always count my blessings and thank god for the allowing me to have the love I had for so many years….I’m out…….

  • enkogkneegro ( Uncle E…if you like )

    LOL, To finish what I was saying …..because in the end lifes just to short to settle and be unhappy…

  • Tonney

    Uncle E You said the Truth. Congrats on a great relationship.

  • Its6amHoGetOut, Wow i didnt know honesty would provoke such hatred

    love, love, love and more love!

  • Its6amHoGetOut, Wow i didnt know honesty would provoke such hatred

    The a-me-ri-can music, the a-me-ri-can music, the american music, american music awards!

  • boss

    what I hate:
    1. second guessing urself
    2. half done nails
    3. settling 4 less
    4. mind games…(tests)

    what I love:
    1. EVERYTHING..LOL

  • Amanda

    I find it very interesting that these are the same complaints I have against both sexes! lol … Reading these post also intrigue me because some of you women are just reiterating and confirming what these guys are posting… Most of these situations wouldnt even be problems if both parties involved we fully mature and had great communication skills. “Perfect” doesnt necessarily have to mean without flaws, but maybe more like having al the traits and characteristics one seeks in their partner that arent deal breakers and are tolerable… idk..

  • Its6amHoGetOut, 43 more days before genius ceases to exist on Bossip

    ?

  • DAYWALKER( MR INTENSITY!!!!)

    Wazzup, 6? A brother can’t get no props??? :lol:

  • Its6amHoGetOut, 43 more days before genius ceases to exist on Bossip

    What up daywalker!

  • Qutypie22

    –Look, if both people can handle their individual responsiblities in a relationship then there will be no nagging from no one.

    –If each person in the relationship says what they want from the relationship when they first meet, b4 it gets serious, then men wont have to worry about a jumpoff trying 2 become wifey, she’ll leave when ur done w/her.

    –But if ya’ll decide to be in a relationship then no cheating(that means no DL stuff either), no phone numbers, no calling/emailing/texting other women etc. And yes when ya’ll cheat we will ‘nag’ you about it until the end of time because that sh*t hurts and its hard to 4get about it. Break up b4 u creep or cheat.

    –The truth is there are too many game players/lost people out there & not enough people honest & true enuff 2 be in a ‘real’ relationship.

    –Don’t have kids w/o being married. We got enuff messed up black kids, who turn into fked up adults & dont need no more added to the pool just bec someone wants to have kids but not get married cuz he dont want no nagging woman. You going to be nagged anyway when she take your butt to court for child support.

  • http://daggalife.com MK

    @DayWalker…you speak the truth! I feel these are things you can’t say to your partner, lol. I have the same feelings please believe

  • DAYWALKER( MR INTENSITY!!!!)

    @ MK

    @DayWalker…you speak the truth! I feel these are things you can’t say to your partner, lol. I have the same feelings please believe
    __________________________________________________

    A lot of guys do, that’s why I had to speak on it…LOL!!!

  • Ms.EJ

    @DAYWALKER- Goodevening and I love both of your lists! the last one is so right on! and it is the same issue I had in my last relationship. To me that list is so easy and comes natural for me to do, but unforunately alot of people either find it hard to do or don’t care to put in the effort.

  • http://Bossip terren

    @Dark Butt- If you are already KR shade your blacker but should not be a big deal. You better toot it up and let him feel his way around if he can’t see it, or do it with the lights off. Save yourself the headache of bleaching and creaming own up to your black butt while using something safe cocoa butter!!!

  • ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

    alright, thank terren!

  • http://n4hh.com/ TheIconGuy

    That is well nice

  • BLACK-A-RIFICK

    F****** THE BLACK WOMAN!!!!!!

  • Jamaizuelan

    that was actually hilarios!
    but after three years of a relationship I didn’t even care to put a comb through my hair around my boyfriend

    I have to strong arm a man

    i do like cooking but not for you

    Yes , I want to know if she’s cute

    I will do it myslef from beginning to end

    yes i nag cause your a fool

  • tt

    @ Marquis de Sade

    You actually got a woman???

    =====================
    plastic rubber women don’t count. LOL

  • tt

    @ Marquis de Sade

    You actually got a woman???

    =====================
    plastic rubber women don’t count. LOL
    or

    should I say that rubber doll under your bed does not count

  • truth serum

    Can’t roll with a chick that knows every ni**a in the club.

  • curtis

    things i admire in my women,

    1) INTELLIGENCE
    2) SUPPORTIVE
    3) INDEPENDENT
    4) AMBITIOUS
    5) A SECURE WOMAN THAT KNOWS HER WORTH
    6) A POSITIVE GINUINE CONCERNED WOMAN
    7) RESPECT AND HONORS ME AS HER MANS, AND BACKS ME UP WHEN MY BACK IS UP AGAINST THE WALL.

  • Me

    What purpose does this thread serve? Black men and black women have way too much hate, too much baggage to even know how to love one another. We each wanna take from each other but don’t wanna give.

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