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@ trs

Sista, why you rolling your eyes like that?

am i the only one who thinks Kim looks like a tranny? like always!

KIM LOOKS GREAT!!!!! SHE IS THE PRETTIEST OUT OF THE BABYMAMMA’S

Martha Stewart of straight Gangsta and I love it!

Why should we care about this? I’m confused…

Now thats a pimp! If u can have all your baby-momma’s under one roof and there’s No drama. Ur a pimp. lol

YAWN

Well, I am going to roll my eyes like TRS but also say that all of the ladies look good, except Mama Combs. She needs a stylist.

It’s good to see them all at the same party.
Now treat your kids the same they should know each other.

Oh good, I was able to post and nothing crashed!

LOVE KIM SHE IS THE BOTTOM B*TCH!!!!!!!!!!

I see Diddy likes em Classy Trashy.

C.l.a.s.s.y Trashy.

Get on the GRAVY TRAIN…ALL ABOARD!!!

It’s more like they ALL know what time it is with him and what he is really into and they are cool with it. They all pulling big money raising his kids so who would roll against traffic? Cassie the only one that he convinced to stay childless and miserable, only one that left early. His mother looks slightly better than Frankie but with the same – I’m gonna be young as long as I can. She looks horrible with that color hair and spiling out ther clothes all the time.

If you notice all of them in cluding Cassie favor. diddy has specific taste in women…Well, i like them all but i really can dig his first baby momma the chick is beautiful naturally and is an around the way chick stuntatstic. Kim compliments him better and the other chick with the daughter is beautiful…cassie run fast before you’re number 4!

This some shhh

@ trs

Sista, why you rolling your eyes like that?
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I am rolling my eyes for the following reasons:

1. I think it’s disgusting and sloppy to have 3+ baby mommas.
2. I can not STAND Diddy.
3. I can not for the life of me figure out why Diddy’s harem is considered news.

Im with TRS
this multiple baby momma syndrome is getting out of hand-Wayne got four different baby momz…SMDH

All of Diddy’s baby mommas are soiled goods…just like him.

I agree Kim looks like a tranny. She is not cute and if you look at her she looks like she got a mustache. I think his first baby mama is the cutest. Kim comes in last in my book. Hell she look like diddy in a skinnier version

Choco

this multiple baby momma syndrome is getting out of hand-Wayne got four different baby momz…SMDH
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Girl PLEASE let them know.

And I hate to say this, but some of these sistas are to blame as well. For instance, if you KNOW what you are dealing with, WHY allow herself to become baby momma #3 or #4???

Diddy is the man for making those women of color behave out in public IN THE SAME ROOM…that pimp hand is mighty strong, My Brother

his baby mamas they all ugly and looks like tranvestant -

@ TRS,
“Girl PLEASE let them know.

And I hate to say this, but some of these sistas are to blame as well. For instance, if you KNOW what you are dealing with, WHY allow herself to become baby momma #3 or #4???”
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Don’t hate to say this TRS ‘cuz it’s true. These women are not blameless. It’s sad that sistas like them continue to debase themselves. I guess the monthly check is worth it

Diddy is the man for making those women of color behave out in public IN THE SAME ROOM…that pimp hand is mighty strong, My Brother
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@goody_MOBB

Fam, I know that’s incredible because that’s damn near impossible to pull off!!!

3 Baby Momma’s in the same room with free top shelf liquor being poured ALL NIGHT and NO DRAMA between ANY of them… LMAO!!!

Aunt Viv

Don’t hate to say this TRS ‘cuz it’s true. These women are not blameless. It’s sad that sistas like them continue to debase themselves. I guess the monthly check is worth it

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Tell me about it!!! Lauren London is a classic example of this mentality. She’s a pretty girl, and had a decent career, etc. For the life of me, I can’t understand WHY she allowed that predator looking Lil Wayne to impregnate her AFTER he’d already hit, impreganated, and quit multiple other women! You’re right, they are not blameless, and I suppose that the child support payments are worth it to them. SMDH.

I swear, Kim and Diddy could be brother and sister.. they just look very much alike.

trs

This some shhh

@ trs

Sista, why you rolling your eyes like that?
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I am rolling my eyes for the following reasons:

1. I think it’s disgusting and sloppy to have 3+ baby mommas.
2. I can not STAND Diddy.
3. I can not for the life of me figure out why Diddy’s harem is considered news
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@Choco

Once again, you’re on the money. This entire baby mama culture is so sickening. That’s crazy to have a million kids, but none of them have the same last name.

@ Slide,
I forgot you were from here! And you have THE BEST MEMORY! I even forgot about my Smell-o-vision comment about Jim Jones! Good for him for bathing and dressing nice!

@ TRS,
“Tell me about it!!! Lauren London is a cl*****ic example of this mentality. She’s a pretty girl, and had a decent career, etc. For the life of me, I can’t understand WHY she allowed that predator looking Lil Wayne to impregnate her AFTER he’d already hit, impreganated, and quit multiple other women! You’re right, they are not blameless, and I suppose that the child support payments are worth it to them. SMDH.”
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I can’t even go there right now, it troubles me so much. Who would want a lifetime reminder of how you let that hamster-looking Lil Wayne knock you up? God bless the kids that result from warped relationships like this. It’s like a bad “Cash for C**chies and Children” program or something!

Misa looks better than any of the others on her worst day!!! Kim looks like a T-R-A-N-N-Y, and needs to invest in some razors….

@Gimme and TRS
That’s the sad part these women actually accept this low standard I couldn’t be one of many…it’s great people act mature about it-but where are your standards what makes it okay??? I swear I hope it’s not just money if so then it’s true money is root to all evil….

APPLAUDING DIDDY!!

These ain’t the best looking women but I have to give it to Sean. His women know their place and play their role. Kim should be woman of the year.

A lot of women CLAIM to be “ride or die” but only a select few have the actions to back that up!

@Slide
the maximum number is one and that’s me…

@ Slide,
“So what’s the maximum number of Baby Momma’s and children a man can have and you’d still give him a chance???”
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The most that I man I dealt with had was 4 baby mommas, but at the time we met he had two. The two additional kids from the 2 additional baby mothers he cheated on me with came about during our 3 year relationship. I vowed never again. Ten years later I still give thanks I didn’t turn out to be one of them. Fortunately my fiancé doesn’t have kids, so I will be his one and only.

@Man
So what is their place I don’t get that?

@CHOCO
“That’s the sad part these women actually accept this low standard I couldn’t be one of many…it’s great people act mature about it-but where are your standards what makes it okay??? I swear I hope it’s not just money if so then it’s true money is root to all evil….”
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There is nothing “low” about their standard. These women were all successful in their own right prior to being involved with Diddy and they are independent. Even though Diddy contributes to their upbringing these strong women are more than capable of raising their children without him physically being in the picture.

@CHOCO
“So what is their place I don’t get that?”
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They are humble and supportive. A lost art in today’s relationships….

Is that Martha Stewart?????

Let me find out Martha got jungle fever!!!!! LOL

Choco,

@Gimme and TRS
That’s the sad part these women actually accept this low standard I couldn’t be one of many…it’s great people act mature about it-but where are your standards what makes it okay??? I swear I hope it’s not just money if so then it’s true money is root to all evil….
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Girl YES, it’s a very sad situation. I wonder if these women feel as if they don’t have any other alternatives? We all know that it’s hard to find a good man but I am not THAT hard up!!!!

Diddy be like, Just get on the bus and take a seat. We’ll sort out seating arrangements later.

@TRS
According to Man they were all sucessful before Diddy just not smart enough to choose a good father for their children…

@Man
Really humble and supportive-humble becuz they are part of a harem and supportive of him dating a younger woman than them-ooooooooo that art will stay lost forever in my world BELIEVE IT!

@TRS
Very good point about men looking down on females for having mulitple baby daddies

i’d date a woman with more than one baby daddie if she aint expect me to be their provider while we are dating….some hood rats will argue you down if you say you aint taking care of nobodies kids to date them. talk about a “package deal” shid i just want the gush i don’t want yo kids

@CHOCO

Not sure how you determined that Diddy was “not a good father.” He is even a good father to Kim’s son with Al B. Sure!

Not only does Diddy afford these women a comfortable lifestyle, he provides for his children and he is in their lives.

I think they all realized chances were they would have done a lot worse having a child for someone other than Diddy.

Aunt Viv

It’s like a bad “Cash for C**chies and Children” program or something!
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ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You have me cracking up over that one!

@CHOCO
“Really humble and supportive-humble becuz they are part of a harem and supportive of him dating a younger woman than them-ooooooooo that art will stay lost forever in my world BELIEVE IT!”
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Humble and supportive of his CAREER and all of his children! How often do you hear about that in this day of “Superhead,” Shaunie O’neal and the like?

These women are parading themselves on TV and trying to do “reality” shows. They are allowing Diddy to flourish and raising their children.

Kudos to them.

trs

This some shhh

@ trs

Sista, why you rolling your eyes like that?
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I am rolling my eyes for the following reasons:

1. I think it’s disgusting and sloppy to have 3+ baby mommas.
2. I can not STAND Diddy.
3. I can not for the life of me figure out why Diddy’s harem is considered news.

Thank God for someone with some sense! Preciate Sis! LOL!

@Man
Diddy is not even giving the sons he have a right and righteous impression of what a father and a man is imo….
And they are supportive becuz that is their livelyhood again I will reiterate their standards are low to me…

Also Man becuz a woman is trying to get a reality show in order to make her own income I don’t see where that is wrong either!

Big Sis,

Thank God for someone with some sense! Preciate Sis! LOL!

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LOL!! Somebody’s gotta highlight this foolishness!!!

And I got that email….I AM SO THROUGH WITH YOU!!!!!!!

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These women are hustlers. Everyone has a different hustle. These women dig for gold. Some women work in Corporate America its all just a hustle.

@CHOCO
“Diddy is not even giving the sons he have a right and righteous impression of what a father and a man is imo….
And they are supportive becuz that is their livelyhood again I will reiterate their standards are low to me…”
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Not sure how he is not giving his son’s the impression of what a “father and a man” is when he takes good care of them and is in their lives.

The son that ISN’T his even credits Diddy as being his “real father.”

These women CHOSE to have these children, yet Diddy supports and loves them from all appearances.

Why would these women NOT support Diddy? The father of their children. Do you think it is possible for some people to remain on a friendly basis with their exes??????? Why would they be upset with Diddy about a decision that THEY made?

Sis,

And men…Cough Cough!
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HILARIOUS!!!!!!!!!!!!

You know he be telling them brothas

“TAKE THAT!! TAKE THAT!!! TAKE THAT!!!!!”

Man, I just don’t care™

APPLAUDING DIDDY!!

These ain’t the best looking women but I have to give it to Sean. His women know their place and play their role. Kim should be woman of the year.

A lot of women CLAIM to be “ride or die” but only a select few have the actions to back that up!

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No, they are money hungry low self-esteem womem, they made choices based on money. They are all fools.. pretty sad.

misa is the cutest.. and flyest all by her damnself

*can’t*

@Goody
that’s wsup tho but well you did mention hoodrat cuz I was like who in the hell gonna say package deal-not me mine got theirs…and before Man jumps in my daughter is 22 and my son is 11 and I’m also an es-wife-but I don’t push my children on anyone and never would too damn snobby for that shat!

Big Sis,

Thank God for someone with some sense! Preciate Sis! LOL!

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LOL!! Somebody’s gotta highlight this foolishness!!!

And I got that email….I AM SO THROUGH WITH YOU!!!!!!!

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SIS WHAT????? You would have done the same thing don’t front!

the woman who was worthy enough to be a wife and that is Misa.

HILARIOUS!!!!!!!!!!!!

You know he be telling them brothas

“TAKE THAT!! TAKE THAT!!! TAKE THAT!!!!!”

LMAOOOOOOOO!!!!! Man I dont give a Flying Fk my gadar is working just fine and that man is BI-

@Man
Call me traditional but my father only had me, my sisters and my brotha-I’m not downing people who have step-siblings however I think Diddy is having a I don’t really care attitude about fathering so many different kids…he may be a good father but when you are having so many children by different women I don’t thinks that is a good example

@MOREACES
“APPLAUDING DIDDY!!

These ain’t the best looking women but I have to give it to Sean. His women know their place and play their role. Kim should be woman of the year.

A lot of women CLAIM to be “ride or die” but only a select few have the actions to back that up!

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No, they are money hungry low self-esteem womem, they made choices based on money. They are all fools.. pretty sad.”
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Maybe….

Somehow I doubt it. These were all educated women with careers of their own. Not sure how having a relationship with someone that is wealthy automatically makes you have “low self esteem.”

SMH at the judgement of others.

@Redd
I didn’t even want to go there about Diddy being BI but I will say I think he likes Kim the best cuz she will use a toy on him…real talk!

Sis,

SIS WHAT????? You would have done the same thing don’t front!

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OK…you might be right! It depends though…

Lauren London is a cl*****ic example of this mentality. She’s a pretty girl, and had a decent career, etc. For the life of me, I can’t understand WHY she allowed that predator looking Lil Wayne to impregnate her AFTER he’d already hit, impreganated, and quit multiple other women!
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@trs

I don’t get it either!!!

If you think about it, these Baby Momma’s #3, #4, etc… are VERY AT.TRACTIVE and can have d*mn near ANY man that they want but for some odd reason it’s alr.ight for them to be Baby Momma #3, #4, etc…

Think Lauren London, Sarah Chapman (*picture up top)…

Sad, sad and

“Have a Baby by me and be a mil.lionaire,
have a baby by me and be a mill.ionaire”… SMH

@ choco

i have heard it on mmore than one occasion. even if she has more than 3 with the same dude, i have gotten the same response.

@CHOCO
“Call me traditional but my father only had me, my sisters and my brotha-I’m not downing people who have step-siblings however I think Diddy is having a I don’t really care attitude about fathering so many different kids…he may be a good father but when you are having so many children by different women I don’t thinks that is a good example”
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I don’t think he’s setting an example of having so many children for one thing. The WOMEN are the ones that have months to decide whether or not to have a child. Not DIDDY.

Also, he is setting the example of loving and caring for his kids. I think that’s the best example he can set. You may disagree and feel that isn’t a good example however and I respect that.

@Goody
That’s crazy for real I’m to picky to be telln a nicca my kids come with me-I might not even want you around my kids…
@Man
Loving the children is a good example but having kids all around the world is not….

Choco,

I will say I think he likes Kim the best cuz she will use a toy on him…real talk!
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LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

IMO, Kim is always #1 to Diddy because she will always be his doormat. He obviously has no respect for her, and even so, she continues to willingly be his “bottom b-i-t-c-h.” He can get away with murder with Kim and he knows it; no matter what, she will always welcome him back with open arms. It’s sad.

@ fresh pair of gators

or have a baby by me baby be on welfare, get that da mn wic, hell take that tanf, sheet i said have it all ..lmao

@CHOCO
“Loving the children is a good example but having kids all around the world is not….”
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Why not? As long as he loves them and cares for them that’s the important thing and that’s what they will remember and cherish.

Slide,

If you think about it, these Baby Momma’s #3, #4, etc… are VERY AT.TRACTIVE and can have d*mn near ANY man that they want but for some odd reason it’s alr.ight for them to be Baby Momma #3, #4, etc…
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It’s quite unfortunate IMO!! They are all “premeditated victims.” What would make them think that their situations would be any different??? Hell when I get married and have kids I am gonna be NUMERO UNO, not number 3, 4, and 5!

Oh, and I also answered your question about max number of baby mommas and children @ 2:34.

@TRS
Well its obvious who out of all three of have the lowest self-esteem…but on the real she backstabbed her friend Misa to cheat with Diddy…

@TRS
“They are all “premeditated victims.”
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¿¿¿ huh ???

Victims of whom?

@Man
Becuz he is fathering so many children-I hear what you are saying but he is in a position where he is influencing his sons to possibly do the same thing…I don’t want my son having kids by this woman and that-NO WAY

Choco,

@TRS
Well its obvious who out of all three of have the lowest self-esteem…but on the real she backstabbed her friend Misa to cheat with Diddy…
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Preciously! Karma is something else to contend with…and I also believe this is part of the reason why Diddy treats her so. He will never marry Kim, and it’s her own fault.

MIJDC

Victims of whom?

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*Sigh*

They are victims of their own foolish mentalities, thus the use of the phrase “premeditated” victims.

@CHOCO
“Becuz he is fathering so many children-I hear what you are saying but he is in a position where he is influencing his sons to possibly do the same thing…I don’t want my son having kids by this woman and that-NO WAY”
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So basically you would want your son to literally have “all his eggs in one basket.”

Is that it?

Not sure what the downside would be as long as the children aren’t suffering and he is there for them. As for Diddy’s sons, I think he is sending the same message. I have enough children to carry my legacy but also not too many that I can’t care for them.

I don’t see where the multiple babies or baby mothers is such a terrible thing.

@TRS
Yeah cuz on the real Misa is the only one who don’t be a part of that Harem…what she did to Misa is WRONG and Karma is that b_tch!

@Man
I sure don’t want my son having his seeds all over the earth fertilizing it-I don’t and I’m sure his father don’t my son is his father’s only child…

@TRS
“Victims of whom?

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*Sigh*

They are victims of their own foolish mentalities, thus the use of the phrase “premeditated” victims.”
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Oh ok. I understand it now…

@ Choco,
“Well its obvious who out of all three of have the lowest self-esteem…but on the real she backstabbed her friend Misa to cheat with Diddy…”
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It’s so sad.

@CHOCO
“I sure don’t want my son having his seeds all over the earth fertilizing it-I don’t and I’m sure his father don’t my son is his father’s only child…”
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Really? Why not?

i’d date a woman with more than one baby daddie if she aint expect me to be their provider while we are dating….some hood rats will argue you down if you say you aint taking care of *****odies kids to date them. talk about a “package deal” shid i just want the gush i don’t want yo kids
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@goody_MOBB

And if you try to correct them bad a$$ kids when you see them do something wrong they gonna tell you = “You ain’t my Daddy”… SMH

Sheet, I got enough kids to start a Soul Train line, but I takes care of mine and then some.

Choco

@Man
I sure don’t want my son having his seeds all over the earth fertilizing it-I don’t and I’m sure his father don’t my son is his father’s only child…

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GIRL THAT’S WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT!!!! THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I don’t see where the multiple babies or baby mothers is such a terrible thing.

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This mentality is partially to blame for the downhill slide that our community has been facing since the 70s.

SMDH.

@Man
Becuz that is my preference that’s how I was raised why is that so hard for you to understand-my family don’t play that shat-

@This
LOL you are crazy but if you taking care of them no one can really say anything it’s not a preference for me or my children….Im not blaming and I don’t want to come across as judgemental I don’t agree with what some of the women are doing…

@CHOCO
“Becuz that is my preference that’s how I was raised why is that so hard for you to understand-my family don’t play that shat-”
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“how I was raised” is usually used in lieu of rational thought. You can’t support a logical based reason for him NOT to because there are none.

The same way you were raised not to have a lot of children (which undoubtedly is based on economics) others aren’t.

Doesn’t make your, or their, method better than the other.

@Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

To answer your question, papi–the maximum number for me is one (assuming that the child was born out of wedlock). Having one child out of wedlock is a mistake–having more is a mentality.

Just to be clear about my comment to Slide, the child born out of wedlock isn’t the mistake–the process that led to the situation is.

@ Choco

I feel you.

For me, I love kids. It doesn’t matter whether their mine or someones else’s. I didn’t start that way, but hey. My wife thought the same way. She didn’t want a brother with kids. She worked with me and changed her mind. I had 2 prior to marriage, and since marriage I adopted one from her family and we had 3. She’s an at home Mother with her Doctorate being supported by me. The older 2 are in college and the adopted is in High school being recruited heavily for athletics.

@2:29 = the maximum number is one and that’s me…

@2:56 = my daughter is 22 and my son is 11 and I’m also an ex-wife, but I don’t push my children on anyone
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@Choco

Excuse me Sis, I’m a little bit confused…
*scratching my head*

When I asked the maximum number of Baby Momma’s a man could have that you’d be alright with you, @ 2:29 your answer was one and that was you!!! BUT then you later on said that you actually have 2 children of your own???

Hmmmmmmmmm…
*puzzled look on Slide’s Face*

Ummm, why can’t a man have any children and a Baby Momma or two but you yourself have 2 kids and a Baby Daddy???

I think I understand what’s going on here, but I just need a little bit of clarification = Are you one of those types that “it’s alright if you do it, but it’s not alright if he does it???

Maybe I’m not reading your comments right, it’s Monday you know and so if you would be so kind could you clear up the contradiction in your statements… Thanks

@Man
that’s where your wrong I don’t want him becuz I mommy and I’m raising him to know that is not right like going out and stealing shat you can’t buy-it’s called morals….

@Slide
Im one of those parents who were raised old school don’t do what I do – do what I say…maybe we need more of that-and I told my daughter don’t have kids at a young age like me and I will tell my son the same thing cuz I want better for my kids my life wasn’t hard but I could’ve made better choices no regrets trust that becuz I am raising my children the way I see fit…that’s enough about me and mine!

@This
I can’t even say I won’t date a man with kids-but if you spreading your love liberally your not the one for me or one that I want around my kids…there are a lot of men who are good parents-but the Lil Wayne and Diddy thing ain’t cool in my book!

I would only date a man with one child, but there would be a rare exception to that rule.
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@TRS

So you saying that you wouldn’t be a Strong Black Woman like Kandi Burress off of the Real Housewives of Atlanta and help a man with 6 kids via

Kim is beautiful, and the rest of the girls are pretty.

I would only date a man with one child, but there would be a rare exception to that rule.
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@TRS

So you’re saying that you wouldn’t be a Strong Black Woman like Kandi Burress off of the Real Housewives of Atlanta and help a man with 6 kids via 5 different Baby Mothers???

What if it were a Good Black Man like “Man, I Just Don’t Care” or “Marquis de Sade”???

Slide

So you saying that you wouldn’t be a Strong Black Woman like Kandi Burress off of the Real Housewives of Atlanta and help a man with 6 kids via

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That’s exactly what I am saying! I don’t have ANY children. What do I look like getting with a dude with 6??? As I said before, I am trying to create my own family, not help care for someone else’s.

Slide,

What if it were a Good Black Man like “Man, I Just Don’t Care” or “Marquis de Sade”???

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ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!

MIJDC acts like he has some sense SOMETIMES, but Marquis De Sade???????

*side eye*

@ Choco

I don’t want you to take this the wrong way, but answer a question for me. How is it that you are a Mother, with a Mothers love for your children, but you can put a limit on the amount of love you are willing to give to children not produced by you? I can’t understand how a Mother’s love could be selective. To me either, you love kids or you don’t.

@This
I really think people are choosing to read to much into it-becuz I don’t agree with Diddy, or Lil Waynes situation doesn’t mean I would love any child less-focus people the core is I don’t think what they are doing is right-how does my love come in-never said don’t take this wrong but jumping to conclusions can make you sound foolish…

don’t do what I do – do what I say…
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@Choco

But that’s not fair though!!!

You want a man to accept your situation, but you won’t accept or be understanding of his if it’s the same exact thing???

Excuse my french but = Ni@@a what???

Nevermind, I get it… But hey that’s just the way it is with you and so, it is what it is…
*shrugs shoulders*

You probably the type that wants a man to eat your coochie all of the time but you’ll NEVER give him head… SMH = Triflin’

all i can say is know the difference between a women thats having ids for sport and good sex.

and a woman that falls in love with a dude and has his babies and it doesn’t work and repeats

hell i f i know but that kinda made sense to when i thought about it

@ Choco

I don’t think so. Take the Baby Daddy scenario out the picture. Do you love your cousins enough that if necessary you would bring them in the household and raise them as your own? What about the next door neighbors child that spend time with your children? Just because a man has children out of wedlock doesn’t make those kids any different than the ones he will have with you. If you have love in your heart, and he is providing for them, what’s the problem?

@ aunt viv
“It’s like a bad “Cash for C**chies and Children” program or something!”
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OMG!!!! BAWAHHAHAHAHAahahaahaaaha!!!!! good one!!!!

@Slide,

“So you’re saying that you wouldn’t be a Strong Black Woman like Kandi Burress off of the Real Housewives of Atlanta and help a man with 6 kids via 5 different Baby Mothers???

What if it were a Good Black Man like “Man, I Just Don’t Care” or “Marquis de Sade”???
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I’ve done that, have been the woman dating the man with several kids by several other women, and the drama associated with it is simply not worth it.

Diddy is having all of these kids by these exotic types so that he can improve his gene pool and get enough variants within for a healthy mix, notice he doesn’t have anyone that has the same general features as him and/or his mother….hmmm

@CHOCO
“that’s where your wrong I don’t want him becuz I mommy and I’m raising him to know that is not right like going out and stealing shat you can’t buy-it’s called morals….”
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So how is having multiple kids by multiple women akin to stealing????????

That is foolish!

ddmlibra

Diddy is having all of these kids by these exotic types so that he can improve his gene pool and get enough variants within for a healthy mix, notice he doesn’t have anyone that has the same general features as him and/or his mother….hmmm

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That’s called evolution. Giving the children a higher chance at survival.

@Slide
Wow that’s not fair and that’s supposed to move me-baby life aint’ fair moving onto This..
Again my love has nothing to do with this okay and I think you may be confusing my comments with others cuz I never mentioned having a child out of wedlock and to answer your question I’ve takin in my nephew and loved him like he was own and still do I have fed my neighbors kids when their mom wouldn’t even show up like they were my own…I have taken care of my boyfriends cousin like they were my own…Im bored with you both now…

@ Choco

I see I’ve gotten you upset. Please forgive me as that was not my intention. Peace.

@TRS
“As I said before, I am trying to create my own family, not help care for someone else’s.”
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See, you are selfishly looking out for your own reproductive success!

What happened to “it takes a village to raise a child.” We are all either “helping” or “hurting” the kids!

@Man
You are intentionally missing my point so i won’t even bother with it hon-like I said morals….

Man, I just don’t care™

What happened to “it takes a village to raise a child.” We are all either “helping” or “hurting” the kids!

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Killa, this is serious. Like I always say, if you want to know about women, you better listen to what they tell you.

I like Kim

@CHOCO
“You are intentionally missing my point so i won’t even bother with it hon-like I said morals….”
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No. I didn’t miss your point. You allude to “morals” (LOL) which are subjective and “the way I was raised” because you can’t logically say why you wouldn’t want your son not to have multiple baby mommas.

The reason you can’t logically do so is because there are no logically reasons why not. I was trying to get you to realize that on your own but you are in denial.

the only rationale reason would be that one couldn’t afford the multiple kids. (that isn’t true either but if at least follows logic)

Bye Man Slide and This…

Im onto more better things than this topic….

MIJDC

See, you are selfishly looking out for your own reproductive success!

What happened to “it takes a village to raise a child.” We are all either “helping” or “hurting” the kids!

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WTF???? If I don’t look out for my own reproductive success then who will???

Secondly, as you know, that “it takes a village to raise a child” proverb can only go so far…the PARENTS are responsible for the overall well being of their children and I am trying to raise my OWN children, not a bunch of children that aren’t mine.

@THIS SOME SHHHHHH
“What happened to “it takes a village to raise a child.” We are all either “helping” or “hurting” the kids!

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Killa, this is serious. Like I always say, if you want to know about women, you better listen to what they tell you.”
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Yup! Talkin bout morals and shhhh. Naw bruh, you just don’t want to spread the money that thin. That’s the ONLY reason. SMH.

Man, I just don’t care™

Yup! Talkin bout morals and shhhh. Naw bruh, you just don’t want to spread the money that thin. That’s the ONLY reason. SMH.

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Boy you on to something serious, right chere.

The reason you can’t logically do so is because there are no logically reasons why not. I was trying to get you to realize that on your own but you are in denial.

the only rationale reason would be that one couldn’t afford the multiple kids. (that isn’t true either but if at least follows logic)

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Pure Foolishness.

Man, I just don’t care™

and they be wondering way a brother be side stepping they asses. He looking for love and support and they looking for a.s.s.e.t.s.

why.

2 children yall no WTH I meant!

@TRS
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The reason you can’t logically do so is because there are no logically reasons why not. I was trying to get you to realize that on your own but you are in denial.

the only rationale reason would be that one couldn’t afford the multiple kids. (that isn’t true either but if at least follows logic)

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Pure Foolishness.
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Pure fact is what it is!

Just like you “investing” in only your offspring is for your best interest. It’s in a man’s best interest to have multiple offspring by different women.

“Don’t put all of your eggs in one basket.”

A man could have 27 children from 27 different women. If he’s looking to you to have a nuturing, loving, and mothering spirit, then what’s the problem? That’s what a man is looking for in a mate. How is he suppose to pick someone that is by nature suppose to be that loving Queen and you telling him you’re something else. Maybe the reason those other women were baby mamas is because they didn’t get that. You can cut your own blessings short, by not seeing the bigger picture.

@This
If it takes 27 women and you still haven’t found your Queen then the problem is you! Couldn’t resist that one…

I’ve done that, have been the woman dating the man with several kids by several other women, and the drama *****ociated with it is simply not worth it.
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@Aunt Viv

LMAO!!!

What happened Sis???

You had to curse a few b*tches out or something???

Awe, man they brought out the worst in you huh… Oh no!!! Not you

Go ‘head and tell us a story or two about that time the Baby Mova’ did this that and the other… SMH

A man could have 27 children from 27 different women. If he’s looking to you to have a nuturing, loving, and mothering spirit, then what’s the problem?
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I can’t believe that you just said this. You have GOT to be kidding. SMMFH.

Choco

@This
If it takes 27 women and you still haven’t found your Queen then the problem is you! Couldn’t resist that one…

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I feel you. Gotta get in, where you fit in. LMAO.

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My point is, if he is taking care of the rest and all he asks of you is to do what is supposedly your natural God given talent. Again, what’s the problem?

@This
Im not going to keep repeating myself to you Man or Slide-I have made my comments on why I don’t like it but yall wanna keep asking me the same damn question in a different way-to hip for that shat!

@This
You seem like a real cool brotha no lie but after 27 women and children out of 30 women you didn’t find one that was nurturing enough to keep as your mate but she was nuturing enough to have your baby…You are confusing me-but you told TRS you were going to tell her something so this I’m can’t wait to hear…

People can change yall. But it just says something about your character if you have multiple BMs. Like WTF??? were you thinking dumb azz! You obviously dont value the sanctity of marriage, you arenot using protection, shiiiiitt i could go on and on!

I dated a guy with six and the major issue with it was that he was stringing all the mommas along to keep from paying CS AND he had them putting stuff on their credit for him. I didnt mind the KIDS..I minded the @ss kissing required to keep him on those ladies’ good side. Hence…we broke up.

Ladies,

Men only want one thing from you. All women by nature should have a loving and nuturing spirit. We learn that from our own Mother’s. A guy won’t tell yall that from jump, cause if he do, you’ll take that and run in the wrong direction. That, I can do what I want mentality. If a man didn’t get that from his Mother, you shouldn’t be dealing with him period. I can’t be a Mother to my daughter or my son, I’m not built like that, but I can damn well be a Father and a husband.

MIJDC acts like he has some sense SOMETIMES, but Marquis De Sade???????

*side eye*
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@trs

What???

Marquis de Sade is a Good Black Man too!!!

He’s intelligent = don’t you see the big words he be using sometimes…

He’s got a good job, I could go on and on…

But, I think the problem is – is that one of y’all done broke his heart and so that is where his term = “ni@@a b*tches”, comes from…

You can tell he had a warm heart, it’s just been turned cold by a bad relationship and he’s taking it out on y’all…

You know what, if a Good Sista like you were to give him some good lovin’ = you know put it on him, then cook him a good meal = you know like your world famous “hog maws

Maybe the reason those other women were baby mamas is because they didn’t get that
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And another thing:

These women are baby mommas because they ALLOWED themselves to be baby mommas. That’s why women need to be more in tuned with their options for reproductive success. Make that man put a ring on it BEFORE you start dropping his children. Otherwise you risk always being a baby momma when you MAY have had the chance to be a wife.

I ONLY HAVE ONE CHILD BY A MAN WHO LIED TO ME ABOUT HIS STATUS, BUT I PUT HIM IN GOD’S HANDS…ANYWAY, MY MAN HAS THREE KIDS AND HE’S RAISING THEM ALL BY HIMSELF, AND WHAT? I LOVE HIM SO I LOVE HIS KIDS AND VICE VERSA!

PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS SAYING WOMEN HAVE LOW SELF ESTEEM IF THEY ARE A BABY MAMA! WELL, NEWS FLASH PEOPLE…SOMETIMES YOU ARE IN A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP AND DO PLAN TO MARRY THE OTHER PERSON BUT THINGS GO BAD…EVEN IF PROTECTION IS USED THAT DOES NOT MEAN YOU WILL NOT END UP WITH A BUN IN THE OVEN. SHEESHNICKS HAPPEN!!!! STOP JUDGING! WHO WITHOUT SIN CAST THE FIRST STONE!!!!!!!!!!!!

Same goes for a woman. Why are you having this mans baby and he is not your husband??? Is my number one thing. Or you already know this nucca has 4 kids he does not take care of why are you having the 5th? Your puzzy is not the golden puzzy thats going to make this nucca change!

MIJDC acts like he has some sense SOMETIMES, but Marquis De Sade???????

*side eye*
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@trs

What???

Marquis de Sade is a Good Black Man too!!!

He’s intelligent = don’t you see the big words he be using sometimes…

He’s got a good job, I could go on and on…

But, I think the problem is – is that one of y’all done broke his heart and so that is where his term = “ni@@a b*tches”, comes from…

You can tell he had a warm heart, it’s just been turned cold by a bad relationship and he’s taking it out on y’all…

You know what, if a Good Sista like you were to give him some good lovin’ = you know put it on him, then cook him a good meal = you know like your world famous “hog maws” I think he’d turn over a new leaf and would show us the old Marquis de Sade that was soo nice, caring and compassionate!!!

27 kids by 27 baby mamas was a exaggeration for dramatical effect. My point was if he was taking care of them why would it be a problem for any woman?

Slide,

You know what, if a Good Sista like you were to give him some good lovin’ = you know put it on him, then cook him a good meal = you know like your world famous “hog maws

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BOY PLEASE!!!!!!

I am not going to talk about Marquis De Sade because he’s not here to defend himself. Even so, I am sure that I am too much woman for Marquis De Sade. Plus, he wants a White, Latino, or Armenian woman…and that isn’t me!!!

@This
Becuz it appears as though you have no type of stability in any relationship…Diddy and Lil Wayne aren’t stable in all of their childrens lives-taking care of a child is a percentage of being a parent! I hope you can comprehend that…

27 kids by 27 baby mamas was a exaggeration for dramatical effect. My point was if he was taking care of them why would it be a problem for any woman?
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I’d have to say the quality time would be severely handicapped. Parent teacher conferences, school dances, doctors appts, practices, college, 1-1 time with their dad….you’d need an assistant just to keep it all in order. He may provide for the kids but he’d have a hard time splitting himself 27 hypothetical ways. Somebody would have to suffer.

Oh and one more thing to all you chics who want to blame the man. Please birth control they even have plan B! Dont be stupid!

Kim is a pretty woman.

I dated a guy with six and the major issue with it was that he was stringing all the mommas along to keep from paying CS AND he had them putting stuff on their credit for him. I didnt mind the KIDS..I minded the @ss kissing required to keep him on those ladies’ good side. Hence…we broke up.
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@eveinthegarden

WOW!!!

When did he tell you that he had 6 kids and how many different Baby Mommas was that???

Simply AMAZING!!!

Why didn’t you head for the hills after he told you he had all of those children???

Wait, I explained earlier. I am married with children. My wife doesn’t want for sheet. My children don’t want for sheet. The baby mamas did not have the same type of spirit that my wife has. That’s why I never wifed them.

I wonder if we could ask Diddy’s children how they feel about all of the babymamas and the fifty-eleven half-brothers and hal-sister. What do they call them? How do they like being part of the cafeterial full of children? Do their father attend PTA meetings and school meetings?

I wonder if Lil Wayne is able to buy diapers wholesale? Formula too?

I wonder if Evander Holyfield knows all of his 10 children’ts names. Does he know how to spell them?

I wonder what the children say about all of this. Kids don’t want to hurt their parents feelings or anything but I’ve never met a child who liked it.

I’d have to say the quality time would be severely handicapped. Parent teacher conferences, school dances, doctors appts, practices, college, 1-1 time with their dad….you’d need an *****istant just to keep it all in order. He may provide for the kids but he’d have a hard time splitting himself 27 hypothetical ways. Somebody would have to suffer.

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Thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! On top of that, it’s just pure trifling and sloppy!!!!!!! Who wants a man who has that many kids?? Then if you date a woman who has children you men have the audacity to complain about how she wants you to be a “father” to kids that aren’t yours. Just WOW at the hypocricy.

MIJDC

It is in a man’s best interest to have multiple women just like it is in a woman’s best interest to have a man SOLELY interested in HER offspring.
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I wish you the best of luck in finding a dumb heffa with no options who will agree with your warped mentality on this issue.

Diddy has horrible taste in “women.”

WOMEN decide who does and does not have children.

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And this is more BS at it’s finest. MEN control their seed. PERIOD.

@TRS
“It is in a man’s best interest to have multiple women just like it is in a woman’s best interest to have a man SOLELY interested in HER offspring.
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I wish you the best of luck in finding a dumb heffa with no options who will agree with your warped mentality on this issue.”
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No one needs to agree with it any more than they need to agree that 2 + 2 = 4. It is the truth for humans just like it is for all mammals.

Different objectives for different genders.

@TRS
“WOMEN decide who does and does not have children.

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And this is more BS at it’s finest. MEN control their seed. PERIOD.”
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Yup, and MEN compete for WOMEN. Not the other way around. Reproduction is assured for women and not for men.

WOMEN select who they will reproduce with and men hope to be selected.

WOMEN select who they will reproduce with and men hope to be selected
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And therefore, BOTH the woman and the man have shared that decision to have children. Contrary to your comment at 4:55, you have just given credence to the fact that BOTH the woman and the man decide to have a child.

@TRS
Yeah that is all to it but men who want to be pardoned for this will not and can not see that’s why I stopped talking to them earlier-they are seriously saying it’s okay but had their own mothers did what they are doing to women I bet that would ring differently…

When the H.E.L.L. will Diddy’s 15 minutes be up??????????????????

@TRS
“WOMEN select who they will reproduce with and men hope to be selected
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And therefore, BOTH the woman and the man have shared that decision to have children. Contrary to your comment at 4:55, you have just given credence to the fact that BOTH the woman and the man decide to have a child.”
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Yes, but it is the WOMAN’S responsibility to realize that a man investing in ONE WOMAN AND HER OFFSPRING IS NOT IN HIS BEST INTEREST!

That is for HER to realize. Just like men REALIZE that women will size up their suitors and go for the one they deem the best! Men REALIZE it is a competition of sorts.

Women fail to realize that “success” for a man means multiple women.

Choco,

Yeah that is all to it but men who want to be pardoned for this will not and can not see that’s why I stopped talking to them earlier-they are seriously saying it’s okay but had their own mothers did what they are doing to women I bet that would ring differently…

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Girl you and I are HERE!!!!!!!!!!

@Man
Success to you means multiple women Diddy has mentioned his issues with settling down not once was money referenced-
I bid you all a good night…

@CHOCO
“Yeah that is all to it but men who want to be pardoned for this will not and can not see that’s why I stopped talking to them earlier-they are seriously saying it’s okay but had their own mothers did what they are doing to women I bet that would ring differently…”
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You stopped talking to us because you could not logically explain your posisiton because it defies logic.

Hence your reference to “morals.”

Morals are a subjective set of rules people attempt to abide by to convince themselves they are “good,smart,kind, etc.”

@CHOCO
“Success to you means multiple women Diddy has mentioned his issues with settling down not once was money referenced-
I bid you all a good night…”
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LOL of course he isn’t going to mention money. You think he would have the same “options” of “not settling down” had it not been for his financial success?

MIJDC

Yes, but it is the WOMAN’S responsibility to realize that a man investing in ONE WOMAN AND HER OFFSPRING IS NOT IN HIS BEST INTEREST!

That is for HER to realize. Just like men REALIZE that women will size up their suitors and go for the one they deem the best! Men REALIZE it is a competition of sorts.

Women fail to realize that “success” for a man means multiple women.

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GTFOH with this mess!!!!! First off, a woman does NOT have a responsibility to realize that investing in one woman is not in a man’s best interest. That’s hogwash and if that were the case, women would want to stay single. I can’t help but feel as if only a low down, trifling, Negro that wants to indiscriminately stick his pole in all the holes that he could find would attempt to push with BS with such fervor. As I said before, if a man defines “success” by having multiple women, then I DO NOT want that man. Hell if that’s what defines a man’s success then give me an unsuccessful man any day of the week!!!

UGGH!!! All this BS has me disgusted. I’m out.

*attempt to push this BS with such fervor*

The logic applies that if you are looking for a man with no children out of wedlock, finacially successful, handsome, and stable what do you think he is looking for in you?

@TRS
“GTFOH with this mess!!!!! First off, a woman does NOT have a responsibility to realize that investing in one woman is not in a man’s best interest. That’s hogwash and if that were the case, women would want to stay single. I can’t help but feel as if only a low down, trifling, Negro that wants to indiscriminately stick his pole in all the holes that he could find would attempt to push with BS with such fervor. As I said before, if a man defines “success” by having multiple women, then I DO NOT want that man. Hell if that’s what defines a man’s success then give me an unsuccessful man any day of the week!!!”
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If one child is “good” then two children are “better.” So on and so forth. If men are capable of reproducing “X” amount of children, following the “more is better” rationale it only makes sense that they would want more children.
(not allowing for the unnatural effects of money)

If women are limited in the amount of children they can have, it is only logical that they attempt to have someone invested in their smaller number of children.

I’m not trying to “push” anything. Just pointing out the logic of the situation.

Peace to all, and to all a good night.

wow, all his baby mommas came to his party… lol.. without any dramma..

MISA LOOKS THE BEST,SHE GOT WORK DONE THO BUT SHE LOOKS THE BEST.

Misa looks the best. Kim looks dirty to me all the time. The photo of Sarah is not good quality so can’t tell.

Misa has his first child who is nearly 16 years old. Misa was with Diddy before he was Diddy – when he had nothing. Kim Porter jumped on board when she saw paper coming in. The only “real” one is Misa….

misa and sarah look better kim is a mess

Posted as if anyone gives a flying fVck…

You must be kidding me. I guess beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Kim is beautiful and exotic looking to me.

Kim is the biggest looser of them all…. Misa had a career of her own (stylist) before and after she met diddy… Sarah is a photographer…..Kim was a receptionist at uptown records (aspiring model failure) Now her title is mistress/babby mama SHE’s an EPIC FAILURE OF A WOMAN ….What can she teach her daughters? Diddy my be messy or a Dogg but atleast he can teach them something about careers and business she can’t teach what type of behavior to accept from boyfriends or husbands( she’s never been married and she continues to allow herself to be treated like dirt) , she cant teach them how to carry themselves as women (kim knew diddy was with Misa when she started sleeping with him) she cant teach them about business, careers, education, or independence (she has not one of those) …BIG LOOSER….BIG FAILURE Diddy might want to file for full custody of his daughters….unless he wants them to turn out to be loosers that men take advantage of Who wants a woman like that raising thier daughters?

1. I think it’s disgusting and sloppy to have 3+ baby mommas.
2. I can not STAND Diddy.
3. I can not for the life of me figure out why Diddy’s harem is considered news
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Kim Porter has the nastiest looking legs . . . I have no idea why she thinks she looks good in short dresses!!

I ain’t saying they no GOLD DIGGAZ, BUT THEY AIN’T MESSIN WITH NO BROKE NIGAA!! Its just the truth and that’s more than a lot of BABY MOMMAS out there. These females don’t care what we think, they are getting a fat check every month. Not saying it is right, but I know a lot of women who are baby mommas and the father is B-R-O-K-E and they are still chasing them down for child support. You may not agree with their lifestyles, but the chicks had sense enough to get with somebody who they knew would take care of them and their kids, I mean, if you gotta do it. Of course they can marry anytime, but then the check might stop or get cut short. So you see its a choice. I ain’t mad at them, times is hard out here. Diddy as the daddy means a steady check, period. I do think Diddy should marry one of them though, but its obvious he does not intend to, so put the check in the MAIL and keep it moving. I don’t see Kim giving up that lifestyle anytime soon people. She is the type of broad that will stay around forever and be your worst nightmare. Cassie is the prettiest of them all, and the one in Atlanta, hands down.

WTF happened to the strong black families with one mother one father and raising the kids in one home, some people got to spread their seeds all over America.

A man with 27 baby mamas only shows that he lacks staying power and good judgement. Life is too short and precious on this earth to be wasted on an individual that has proven 27 times that he will not commit and is fickle. After so many women and the failure of all the relationships, if he is truthful with himself; he should realized that the failure is all his own. He is the common denominator in all failed 27 relationships. Logic should lead one to see that the problem or problems lies with him. People need to stop using excuses for not being responsible, accepting, and changing what is wrong about them.

enough already with the diddy bday party and his kept harem

So here’s the deal, meet a man with bank, get pregnant asap to hold on to some of that bank because eventually he will move on. If any of you people had his kind of money you’d have several baby mommas too! Besides most of these broke brothers have just as many baby mommas as Diddy does…at lease he can feed his kids! Booyah!!!!!

A dude once told me he only dates women with children because then he knows they are women. lmao There is someone out there for everyone. There are women who will be like Oprah and never marry or have a truly committed relationship because they refuse to ‘settle’. They wake up one day and they are 45 with a good career, nice house, nice whip and a bunch of cats and old dried up ovaries AND NO MAN…some women don’t mind and I say good for you!

However just know that the longer you wait it won’t increase your chances of finding a man that without kids, baby mamas, ex wives, bad gambling habits, erectile dysfunction etc.

BIGUP all the mothers of this earth as long as you love and take care of your children….

Drama? Why would women who are set for life have drama with one another?

The pie is big enough to share.

And like someone said hear, They ALL know what time it is.

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and Sarah probably made the smartest decision. She doesnt want the publicity, all she wants this man to do is help her support her child. That’s stupid all the baby mama’s showing up to his B-Day party, while he most likely galavanted around with other women (Cassie). Yeah, if i was her i wouldve kept my butt at home too. That is similar to Wayne sons’mother attending Toya’s b-day party?! I understand everybody working together for the kids and all….but doesnt the whole baby mama coalition scream PUBLICITY to you?!

I KNOW HE IS PAID BUT HAS ANYBODY REALIZE HE IS VERY UGLY,AND A VERY BAD CLASS ACT. GEEZ!

TYPICAL, SO TYPICAL. BLACK MEN ARE SO DISGRACFUL, THEY TAKE ADVANTAGE OF INNOCENT WOMEN AND MAKE BABIES ALL OVER THE PLANET. TOTALLY DISGUSTING, THIS IS THE REASON BLACK MEN A SUCH A BAD RAP. MS COMBS WHY DIDN’T YOU TEACH YOUR SON MORALS? SHAME ON ALL OF YOU