Aaaaarrghh! I HATE this new website

FIRST HOES!!!!!!!

This is just trifling. I bet he feels real good paying the court-mandated MINIMUM in child support.

Do wealthy men know how trashy they look telling the mothers of their infant children to get jobs when, if they were where they needed to be, she’d easily have the luxury of focusing on THEIR children?

geesh twitter is worse than myspace!

this what people do in their spare time call each other out on twitter?

You know… the thing that’s really disturbing about all this is that this dude got with that broad WITHOUT a damn rubber on! No wonder Black women are the fastest growing demographic for HIV/AIDS cases… brothers and SISTERS, we have got to do better!

she is ugly as hell

i want twitter 2 just end

Durrell Babbs and I have a son together. His name was changed in the last two months of my pregnancy by his father (it was always his option to name him as he saw fit). Also around that time I learned that another woman was also carrying his child. As opposed to communicating the truth, Mr. Babbs opted to remain silent. That seems to be the way he handles situations that make him uncomfortable. Or he simply chooses a lie over the truth. As he has done in our situation. He say’s our son was not a mistake, yet it sounds that way despite his clever, yet juvenile disclaimer. Let it be known that our son was not a surprise to either of us. In 2006 he asked me twice to consider having a child with him. Cleary, I eventually said yes. It was the best discussion I ever made. Durrell Babbs Jr. has brought so much joy into my life. Sometimes I wonder how I was able to exist without him in the first place.

Had it not been for the fact, that someone I called a friend betrayed my trust. No one would have known the name of my child’s father (outside of our families and close friends). Not saying it’s wrong for people to do press releases and things of that nature. And the main reason I’m sharing these words now is because, I will not be made out to be some one night stand or someone that sought to trap a man with pregnancy. I have always and will continue to be a woman of independence. If Mr. Babbs hates me as he has proclaimed (wonder if I make him sick too – LOL )? Flashback just now to when mom made me mad. Anyway, If he feels as he does we didn’t have to connect again in an intimate manner after we learned of our child’s existence. Just a thought.

I don’t hate Durrell. I just wish he were a man that kept promises. I would like for my child to have “A Real Father” – his words. One that couldn’t fall asleep on any given night, not knowing if his child were OK and his needs were being met. It is my preference that they not be strangers. He say’s he loves my son. I want him to prove it. A monetary commitment does not a father make. Angry was not the way to handle his lack of communication. However, after utilizing all normal forms of communication, I made a bad decision. Who knew this man, would go the route he did. Perhaps, some good can come out of it in the end.

To Durrell Sr., I apologize for making you feel like you had to go into attack mode. However, at the same time, I will not tolerate lies being placed on my head and around the life of my child. As I have always stated before the door is wide open for you to be the father you said you would like to be to our son. Our immature burst on the net doesn’t change that. Granted I’m very disappointed right now and probably won’t believe a word you say for a while. But that’s how trust works … you have to earn it.

I am a great mother and you should know your son is reaping the benefits of that fact. You promised he would know his family, cousins and all ‘em. Let’s start with you again. On my age and this cougar business, you never had a problem with it before. Besides, 40 is all up side your window looking in right now. So enjoy your “youth.” LOL.

It is really a shame how black men think that it is okay to disrespect their child’s mother. He sooo biggety that she cannot ask about what they (as co-parents) are going to do for their child’s christmas without him getting upset. SHAME. I am will CW, i am beginning to think that MEN (especially black men)are the main reasons for majority of societies problems. Blame the mama…..is what they do best….especially when they are good at doing less.

@nikki

NO, it’s really a shame that Black People just love to EMBRACE the ghetto way of life and ideals = from spending money and NOT saving, to having & raising a child without being MARRIED FIRST, NOT embracing education, etc…

WHY DO WE/BLACK PEOPLE JUST CONTINUE TO MAKE THE DUMB MISTAKES THAT IGNORANT & GHETTO PEOPLE MAKE???

WHY DO WE EMBRACE THE DYSFUNCTIONAL WAY OF LIVING LIFE AND DOING THINGS???

It would seem Tank’s flunkies have found out he’s been talked about. Twanne, you must be ugly yourself going at this woman like this and you don’t even know her to say the least. Turn your uneducated behind around and show your face so that we might judge for ourselves, who needs to be called ugly. Oh wait. You need a little attention cause ya mama won’t come downstairs to room in the basement.

I believe the woman on this one- her tweets were pretty str8 up…no one forced him to get with her…blame it on the henny..

go ahead you r&b playa…

This thread is about Tank and that Monkey …. why you are interested in me is beyond the POINT …… Leave it up to BLACK woman to Jump subjects and have a irrelavent conversation ….. GOOFY Broad …. i dont live in a ghetto so Don’t try to play me wit your HOOD mind games ….. they would only work on yo’ baby daddies …… nOT me HO’

ooooh, this one is mad. everybody duck!!!!

huh?????? …. in wha way can you tell ANGER from words typed on the screen tha dont have exclamation point in it ……… EDUCATION is key Ho ……….. you would like for me to be upset but in all actuality im amused by you ….. you totally took the focus off the THREAD and tryin to focus on me ……. Im not concerned i deal wit stalka project chicks every now an then ……. LoL ….. I have ways of dealing wit you …. like IGNORING you would be one ……… lets BEGIN!!!!

This is what happens when you do things “a$$ backward” also known as the “ni@@a way” = don’t do things the proper, best or logical way but just do what you want to do – then hope & pray things work out for the best AND you get lucky… SMMFH

What ever happened to being in a “loving & committed relationship” FIRST, then getting MARRIED, THEN having a child???

tryna c if my gravie worked

See he read my DAMN mind …. I coined the Phrase ” NeGGa BullSh’T ” or ” NeGGa Sh’T ” ….. you can see tha all over this website … wit the famous people and the comments left by others ………. but here is the difference …. ” NeGGa Sh’t ” aint jus for BLACK people …. it goes for EVERYONE …… _ Chinese – Mexican – Arab – Caucasian – Australian , e.t.c. _ ….. ” NeGGa Sh’t ” is a way of thought or Action ….. not a specific group or nationality

I hope they get it together if not then that child is going to resent the both of them…but more than likely he’ll resent Tank more for not doing everything he can to be apart. Tank, humble yourself and grow up.

*apart of his life*

Let me get this straight. . .This is an R&B performer who’s attacking the mother of his child on Twitter, and he proclaimed that he was inebriated, but his son is not a “mistake.”

Ghetto hood thug personified. SMDH.

Black Females have made it NECCESSARY by there ACTION’s during and after relationships with black men … for us to go to Puerto Ricans , Mexicans, Armenians , well damn WHITE girls ……. White Girls fit black men more than black woman do … and thas a shame … white girls Ride for they man … NO MATTER wha …. Cook , Clean , Give a Brother want he need in the bed , and MONEY ( if nessesary ) …….. Black woman have been so Abused for the last well HUNDREDS of years ….. they jus react like battered woman str8 out the CooCHIE ……. Black Females need to stop LISTENING to they Forever SINGLE MOM’s and Auntie’s …. and be themselves …. cuz thas one of the reasons why they gotta get pregnant to keep tha Ball’n azz NeGGa they gotta crush on ………….. So So SAD

White women be ridin’ for they black men? Fo sho’?

Look at how you WORDED tha ( White women be ridin’ for they black men? Fo sho’? ) …..

NeGGa SH’T …………….

And you actually have to Wonder huh ?????

Sorry about that — I’m acting like I got “str8 out the coochie.”

“Negga sh*t,” I tell you.

See wha im saying ……. Black Broad and Attitude ( more like jealousy from steming from a feeling of being backseated to another race ) …………… ONCE again ……. Ho don’t Hate the messenger ……….. Hate Message …….

If you dont like the reaction … then REACT different than wha WE all Expect from a Black Woman ….. but i kno you can’t go against your breeding so its Irrelavent …….. NO HOPE

Yo, you right, Twanna — I can’t go against my breeding. No hope. No future. Just hoes. Black women should be fightin’ fo’ they men.

@Slides Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

I’m with u on this one!

I’m always shocked by women who tell me, “he asked me to have his baby” or use reverse psychology to get the woman to have a child for him without n.e. type of solid commitment.

*SMH*

What’s worse is they usually don’t realized what they have done to themselves until their child is past age 10.

@MARQUIS DE SADE:

As if you did’nt already know: CO-SIGN!!!
Women of all colors carry a certain amount of unpredictability…WITH THE GLARING EXCEPTION OF SISTAS’. If a sista smells paydirt…SHE’S HAVIN’ THE BABY.(pathetic)Also stop me if you’ve read this from my keyboard before:

THE LAW SHOULD READ THAT ANY WOMAN WHO HAS A CHILD OUT OF WEDLOCK SHOULD NOT BE ABLE TO COLLECT CHILD SUPPORT.

Such a law is pro-family…pro-family planning…and a guaranteed downsizer of the bloated FAMILY COURT INDUSTRIAL COMPLEX.

Marquis meet Twanne. Twanne meet Marquis.
Marquis and Twanne, meet Dr. Funk. Misogynists unite.

Ho don’t hate the messenger. . .Hate message

Good evening

Its damn near an Oddity now a days to see TWO SERIOUS black couples ( that aint Famous ) …. We damn near look at them as if they were in an Interracial Relationship …. thas how odd it is in this day an AGE …….. Then when a Black man is Good, Loving , Caring , and Supportive of his Woman ….. The Black B!tch Cheats on him and has 4 kids with 4 other dudes ….. turns around and says its your ” You kno thas your baby …. He has your Pinky toe nail ” … LoL ……….

Dont hate the Messenger …….. Hate the Message

Dr. Funk

LOL! If a law like that was to pass, could you imagine the uproar from all N.O.W. and all the baby mamas’? The sistas’ would be chanting: DEATH BEFORE THE PILL! DEATH BEFORE THE SPONGE! et al.

No doubt.I have no illusion that such a law will ever see the light of day.”THE SISTERHOOD” would go JIHADIST on anyone who proposed something so practical.They know a gravy train/drama platform when they see it.Besides: Half of all lawyers are women.Not happening.

Dr. Funk

What amazes me is that these bruthas’ still fall for the okey doke. Tank has been in the business for awhile, and should’ve known better…And considering he’s not rollin’ like Tiger, M. Jordan, he should’ve chosen his groupies more wisely. Most non-black groupies wouldn’t allow themselves to get knocked up by him, due to his lack of deep pockets, but (you know) most black groupies don’t have that sorta’ saavy in looking at things in the long term.

i used to like tank. now it’s really hard to be attracted to a dude who has fights over twitter. so very, very juvinille.

lacyd

Yeah, but you gotta admit, his last cd was the $h!t.

Wow Tank got a baby by Alysse ( she’s a former radio personality) in Charlotte NC. Wow…I will end it right here. Wow… Tank might have been juiced up for real.

Let’s be ADULTS and keep our business behind closed doors. Yes, I do have drama with my child’s father but I will never disrespect him in public. It’s unfortunate that they have to broadcast their arguments for all the world to see, not taking in consideration that their child will grow up hearing about how his parents acted in public. What we, as adults do, affect children. Take it from a teacher…

Bebe is that your real picture? This is why brothers go white. Thick neck means thick ankles. Tank and baby mama handle this s@8t. There is still time.

@Twanne Your pants are on the #2009faillist, Get rid of them with the new decade. K?

Don’t hate the messenger or the message…Hate them pants!

That’s another thing about the sisters as they call themselves. I just read some of a long post talking like a black might be wrong if he decides black woman just have to many issues. Like over eating which leave them to fat to be healthy. Or them not liking themselves enough to keep another’s woman hair out her hers, not to mention how you straighten your hair and run from the rain. To Many Issues. While all the while the sisters disrespect one another at the drop of the dime. Case and point right here on this page. Again, give me some creamy white any day.

CORNy!!!!! tha best you could do was talk about some pants ( $600 Evisu’s ) on a pic from last year ………..

DUMBY – LoL

Brothers and white women BELONG with each other, BOTH are the lowest in the heirarchy of race and sex. Maybe you guys can lean on each other with the fact that you all are the weakest links…GOODBYE!

$600 couldn’t even pay for one of my dresses, those pants are old no matter how much they cost, they do depreciate with the years so now, how much would they cost? $50? LOL! And with all that ni%%a mentality you’re talking, why are your pants hanging low like a jailhouse F/A/G? Your pants are corny. LMFAO!

Oh yeah, your name is ghetto #shootyourself! LOL!

And it’s spelled dummy not DUMBY!

WoW your opinion seems to be based off a Vengeful Hurt Black Broad ….Angry at how life is treating you ….. I would retort about wha i have but it makes no difference to others ….. You kno damn well you a worthless Black Ho wit little no Hope for the future ….. THAS FACT …… You mad at me Cuz i seem to be an example of wha has been going wrong in your whole life …. I pity you … thas why i couldnt bash you the way i want …. you got enough to deal with ……

too bad sooooo sad ……….. shoulda been born a MOSQUITO …. woulda had a better FUTURE

Shall I continue/elaborate because pants are not all I could talk about, never mind, I have money to make, do us a favor, don’t have any children…Dear God, I hope you’re sterile. TTYN (Talk To You Never)

And I happen to be a VERY successful BLACK woman from an upper-middle class background with no monkey on my shoulder, you were just an easy target

And by YOUR example …. LoL …..

*hugs his white girl tight* LMAO!!!!

Correction: I’ve just been informed it’s “Chip on my shoulder” but of course, I wouldn’t know that #ghetto slang, I’m not a victim of the hood. Unlike @Twanne Mr. Evisu and young a$$ blazer

My black man is satisfied, he knows how to treat me and he is treated like a king as well…There goes your theory, now will you make good on your promise and #shootyourself?

*crickets* I’m waiting. Me and my husband, no children, are on the lookout for your suicide to headline on the morning news…We’re laughing at you right now btw

and A successful black woman is a OxiMoron …LoL

so i am very happy tha YOU think You are successful ……. but to the rest of the world you jus another biter black ho wit a imagination to boot ………. Coochie probably good tho’ the fiesty ones always got tha good monkey on them … but after the nut its really nothing to keep you there ……. O WELL ….

Maybe you’ll do the world a favor and take your white woman out also, that would be SENSATIONAL!

Look you are obvious in need of Attention ….

OK!!!! ……….

^^^^^^^^ FAIL ^^^^^^^ ……………

Where in the Hell is this Ho’s MAN …..???

im mad at him for doing that ….. CUZ now you Crampin an in here Bothering US when you should be tending your HOME ….HO!!!!

Oh and dont get it Twisted I got Opinions about EVERY RACE CREED AND COLOR ….

If others OPINION seems to bother you … Maybe you shouldnt be here …… WRONG SPOT BABY ….
“I TELL IT LIKE it NEEDS TO BE SAID” …..PERIOD

Like I said, you are entitled to your opinion. I love my black sisters. I support them. I support black men…just not you and your ignorance. In all actuality, this situation could have been prevented if both parties would have had a coherent thought before the action of copulation, too many people taking actions to please their desires knowing that it could result in a baby hanging in the balance. The baby has to suffer, which is the sad part about it. This menality of divide and conquer has been destroying us for years and there seems to be no end. I wish everybody well, I just hate that it takes negativity for a person to take notice of the real issue. It’s not about race, it’s not about sex, it’s about setting things right for the upcoming generations. How are we supposed to progress if we are always at each other’s throats? SMH BTW I am a black woman just like you are a black man, stop stooping down to a level you know you’re higher than.

Correction: Mentality. Let’s get it together guys.

You are RIGHT … I apologize to YOU ….

So to you @WTH!!! … I do Apologize … I respect and intelligent statement … PERIOD

All of you black people are pathetic, both male and female. All you do is bicker and argue with each other. Yes BLACKNESS IS ASSOCIATED WITH GHETTO because it is the obvious reality. Continue to ruin yourselves but just keep that self destruction in your communities. You know better than to bring that foolery over to a white neighborhood. That is why we have jails it serves as a more disciplined alternative to your defunct communities.

…..That is why we have jails it serves as a more disciplined alternative to your >defunct< communities.

My bad but could someone explain to me wha “DEFUNCT” means …… I jus WiKi’d it aint it doesnt exist in the english ( human ) language ………

Thank you tha is ALL!!!!!!

twitter is the devil

When i read the first post by Twanne i fully agreed . First off this person shows how devalued she allowed herself to be . This man loves you so he wants to have a baby with you but will not marry you ? That is true ghetto logic . Lets speak from a non emotional stand point as we as women can get caught up in emotion . Now if the concern is money then going on twitter is dumb as can be ! Talking to your gurls is fruitless as well . For the record im sure yall have heard more bees with honey… remember this singer is your investment as clearly you have no ambition for yourself . Making him look bad on a publi hat forum creates backlash which creates no sales – no tour dates and no money for you – to speak chikenease . Add to that this man owes you Nothing ! He doesnt need your trust and if you want to have your kid around his other family think about being drama free . Seems you have had time to be hurt – sorry for your pain but that is emotion you cant afford – its not about YOU ! In regard to Twannes other comments – i am a Black woman raised by a Marine , my uncle and strong black women . I have a degree and a husband of 14 years who is my king . He is the head of our household and i love him with all of my heart . I have no issue with ooking his breakfast , lunch and dinner . In fact i am up now making sure his salmon cakes , grits and coffee are ready when he gets up .He knows whatever he needs i will be there to make sure he has it as he would for me . Not all women are the angry women you speak of.

One last point only insecure women hate on other women . I go out of my way to uplift any woman of ANY race who is doing the right thing . We need , as women to start sending our lil ones the message of respect . We have a generation who has thrown their hands up and refuses to raise their children !

No one respects elders ,education isnt valued but these kids can do ” the stanky leg ” ? This morning my sorors will speak to children in a effort to show them they can think of school as something that doesnt have to be dreaded .Twanne you have valid points , however what an you do to make these issues better ? All of my sisters out there – a nation is only as strong as its women ……..

OH and ALSO to all you SUPER OLD AZZ 1914 born Negro’s ………

LMAO

sad, sad, sad. thank you jesus for my education.

ps twanne, those pants are ugly and you sound stupid. good luck with the ricans, armenians and white chicks. we’re happy to let you go. LAME

@The Mrs: I too am a black woman that has been married to my black king for 14 soon to be 15 yrs. We have 2 children and I love my life. We uplift one another daily. I am a successful black woman and I take the time out to help any woman or man that wants to be helped. I really don’t care about your race. However the crabs in the barrel syndrome drives me batty. I mentor young girls and show them alternatives and ways out of their situations. I never witnessed my father raise his voice or a hand to my mother, so I did look for that in a man…A man with values and honor that is. My mother was also a professional woman, but her home did not suffer because of it. I am not always able to make his breakfast, actually he is not home for breakfast due to PT, but dinner is served daily. I make all of his functions, the home is clean and our children are loved by their natural biological parents.

Women have to want more for themselves and until they want more they will continue to settle. However that goes both ways. When you value who you are as a person and you have validated yourself a person will not allow such things, such ignorant things to be a part of their lives. These young and in some cases old women that are blinded by the $$$$ have not yet found who they are as women and until they do they will continue to be angry or needy or a charity case.

Twanne

If you’re referring to me. . .

Oh, btw, I’m not a father, and that’s not my picture in my gravie. That’s Oscar Micheaux. I’m just an educated brotha, under forty, with some common sense.

If you believe that anyone who’s capable of expressing an opinion, or forming a complete thought on this matter, is a 1914 born brotha, then that speaks more about your lack (yeah, it’s obviously absent) of having the capacity of sound knowledge/thought/reason to articulate your views about various topics.

I love black women, and black men like you will never deter me from associating with and dating them.

Sydney, wasn’t trying to shut you down. She was mimicking your writing/speech. And, she did a damn good job.

This will not hurt Tank. Hell R. Kelly molested children and still has people spending money to see him in concert. Chris Brown smashing women in the face followed by I still love her and nothing seems to have changed for him. Surely Tank will do just fine. It’s the relationship with his child that he should be concerned about. What is going to say to Jr. I love you but I hate your mom? On these black and I dare say men that are turning against your own women. Don’t count yourselves as a loss.

Denise

I concur. Have a great day.

I’m out.

Im SURPRISED at how this POST is mainly ABOUT ….. well …..

LMAO …. I LOVE DIS SH'T

LMAO@DIS NAGGA thinking he DARWIN or some SH’T …. FOOL typin from a Living ROOM is Rhode Island ………

Damnit , tha Obama got muhfkaz thinking they can be something …… damn him … damn him all to HELL ……..

The MisEducation of a FILM NeGGa

Chapter 1.
Making Comments to Twanne

Twanne

‘…would point all tha out and spit such pure thought and reason …..’

So, you thought my comments consisted of thought and reason, huh?

‘A real EDUCATED ” PERSON ” …. would have simply ignored this POST or he/she would have read it Shrug their head an moved on ……’

No, a REAL, BLACK MAN would read your doltish rejoinders, and be offended by them. Arrogant/fatuous black men, such as yourself, need to informed that you can’t just expel degradation about black women, and think it will go unnoticed. Not every black man agrees with you, nor will tolerate it.

‘You a DUMB NeGGa only difference is you Googled SPELLCHECKER before you got here ……’

LOL at you having the audacity to refer to me as dumb. According to you, dumb is spelled ‘DUMBY’ (see your 1:13 am post). WTH!!! made you aware, and you corrected yourself. LOL

‘LMAO@DIS NAGGA thinking he DARWIN or some SH’T …’

Now, you know damn well you aren’t familiar with Charles Darwin!! Here’s a brief description to educate yourself. Oh, you have to remove the word ‘dot’ from the link.

blupete(dot)com/Literature/Biographies/Science/Darwin(dot)htm

‘FOOL typin from a Living ROOM is Rhode Island ………’

I’m not in Rhode Island. But, I did visit my brother once when he attended Brown (that’s an institution, not just a color, btw) for his graduate studies. Nice city. .

‘The MisEducation of a FILM NeGGa
Chapter 1.
Making Comments to Twanne’

I’m surprised that a half-wit’s retort could even include a ‘somewhat’ witty statement. Now, work on improving your subnormal intelligence.

I’ll leave the last comment for you, Twanne. Have a good day, my self-hating brotha.

Need i mention the fact that MOST truly enlightened Individuals ……… Wouldnt be caught DEAD reading a THREAD about a R&B singer and the mother of his child …. Arguin over a community site like Twitter ……

SHAME on you ….. LoL

She is just trying to get some kind of shine b/c Tank called her out via twitter. I have heard she is crazy and just trying to make herself look good on the net. I think it’s so funny how he gave his other baby mama @zenafoster her credit if you go to his twitter page @therealtank It’s obvious she is his favorite & they are truly friends & adults in raising their daughter Zoey together. Maybe Alysse should reach out to Zena & ask her how to handle her situation better b/c she seems to be the Lauren London in this case & Alysse is just the Nivea.

[...] Stewart, Tank’s other baby mama, is not feeling how Tank is really trying to throw her under the bus on Twitter like she is some groupie. She made it clear to us what the situation was between her and [...]

Wow!

Just……….wow!

My grandmother once told me–”It’s better to keep your mouth closed and let people wonder about ignorance than to open it and remove all doubt.”

R.I.P, Gramma.

Funny you mentioned Zena. I was just reading on another site that she was fooling with Tank while he was married to baby mama number 1. WTF. No this is low low mess for real. And it say’s Tank is dating a 23 year-old. Guess he wants to train this one the way she should go. No wonder he likes Zena Foster, she sounds down for what ever messing with someone husband. That will come back on her before all is said and done. I don’t suppose I can mention the other site. Read it in the comment section.

“It is not hard NOT GETTING PREGNANT. In this day and age no woman should be a baby mama unless she wants to be. I have proven along with many black women I know that you can skip pills ( why would you forget I don’t know ), be on medication with your bc pills ( please stop using this excuse ), all those things and don’t become pregnant.”

–BebeNoire

Jesus take the wheel, some people are simpletons.