Underwood Attacks Tiger: He’s Suspect Because He Only Dates White Women

Ara

12/5/09, 23:57:pm

well …..

BoredbMe

12/5/09, 23:58:pm

….first…

Ara

12/5/09, 23:59:pm

Tiger seems like he has had an identification issue for some time now.

BoredbMe

12/5/09, 23:59:pm

dammit! oh well… poor tiger… never should’ve dipped into that white chocolate… black athletes already have a bad rap and he’s the poster child of goodness. Now who do we have?

Marquis de Sade

12/5/09, 23:59:pm

Shut up, b!+ch. Given the choice of dating a blond hair, blue eyed, thin beauty, or some overweight, modern day Aunt Jemima-lookin’ hoodrat like you, welllll, who can blame him?

Ara

12/6/09, 00:00:am

BoredbMe ….. not quite

BoredbMe

12/6/09, 00:04:am

i think he does have an identity crisis but who can blame him? I doubt he was exposed to black stuff like soul food, dancing, soul, rnb and other things we all grew up on. its all he’s ever known.

ME

12/6/09, 00:05:am

Those “Becky” hoes are only giving your self-hatin’, coonin’ smiling-a*s some play because of your stacks and fame.

BAM!!

Black_Orpheus(the original not the remake)

12/6/09, 00:09:am

That’s the price you pay when you f—kup Tiger, lectures from every R-A-N-D-O-M “B” out there — including Miss Killer Choppers here.

mselleb1

12/6/09, 00:16:am

@ marquis de sade…shut your wack ***** up..she’s telling the truth all you susi chapstick biatches…cracker’s.all you other’s want our men..date your own kind.. white menn have raped our race and now you want your crying wolf cracker ho’s to date black men for money….that ho was a nanny..sucking d on the side.,..that’s why a white man hooked her ho ***** up the money…get it right trick…and by the way your white ***** momma great grandmother was *****ing the slaves that’s why we have some of the mixed kids besides the slave master wanting this black good juice…get your history together oh i forgot you don’t have any the white folks stole from everybody..what did ya’ll invent….go read a history book..

Black_Orpheus(the original not the remake)

12/6/09, 00:19:am

Babe Ruth, EIGHTY years ago, was one of the biggest womanizers in sports history — why do you think women gave that pudgy, pug-nosed, pidgeon-toed dude all that play?

The difference between The Babe and Tiger was that The Babe never pretended to be some damn kind of plaster saint, and frankly didn’t give a s-h-i-t what the press wrote.

Tiger embraced all that “model citizen” s-h-i-t, and now he’ll have to deal with the avalanche of derision that comes with the revelation that it was all b–u–l–l–s–h–i–t.

memchee

12/6/09, 00:19:am

Really now!

Honestly, how many of us would sincerely give him the time of day?

Also, MJ is his mentor……..which is most likely why is intimate bizness is in shambles.

………….reworking the prenup as if his reputation can be saved is just a waste of money and an insult to his wife if she really married him for love.

leonard mckelvey

12/6/09, 00:27:am

Bossip couldn’t you find better photo of Cheryl. C’mon

rhonnie

12/6/09, 00:29:am

You cannot crucify the brother if he was never taught to embrace who he was. This has to due with his family views and where he came from–prob started with his father. Biracial people are always stuck in the middle. Either never “black” enough or trying to be uppity or “white”. When will this crap ever end. Black people are just people–apart of the human race and should be able to date or marry anyone without the hate. He probably grew up around whites and felt accepted by that group. Let people be happy and live their own lives.

Ms.EJ

12/6/09, 00:34:am

I see Bossip posted the most unflattering pictures of Ms. Underwood they could find…think they are slick I see right through that. SMH. Nonetheless, she did make a good point that many other’s have stated. For the most part it has never been the fact of dating outside ones’ race, but only doing so based of: stereotypes, judgements and/or racist views as well as self-hatred (not saying this is the case w/Mr. Woods).

kley

12/6/09, 00:36:am

a black woman with straight hair is accusing a brotha of lacking cultural pride? pot meet kettle.

GotYou

12/6/09, 00:36:am

Wasn’t exposed to Black culture? The mothafu*king hysterectomy-toothed a** had a Black father. I was done with Tiger when he downplayed his Blackness on Oprah years ago. His golf game is out of this world, but I’ve never thought of him as Black because he doesn’t think of himself as Black and that’s fine by me.

Candy Cane

12/6/09, 00:43:am

F*ck BOSSIP. and F*ck Tiger woods fake azz. Cheryl is telling the TRUTH. I dont care who and what he was raised around, he might not be full black but he definetly isnt white.. so kick rocks.

and I HATE this new format… wack wack wiggety wiggety wack.

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txgals

12/6/09, 00:47:am

@Marquis de Sade

The Marquis de Sade would never utter such rubbish.

Annie

12/6/09, 00:57:am

@Marquis de Sade

You are such a jerk!

sirIsaac

12/6/09, 01:00:am

Sheryl Underwood is Ugga mugg! lol!. i sure know that if I had to choose btw her and a better looking white, asian or whatever race woman ; i sure as hell am not picking her even if she was the last person on earth.

WhatAWorld

12/6/09, 01:01:am

F.uck Tiger man let that s.hit go!He don’t care what the blacks think so stop commenting on it.He was raised by a self-hating coon a.ss shucking and jiving daddy so he’s only doing what was taught!I mean Tiger picked these big mouth “Becky’s” who will do anything for a dollar.Some of you dudes would still screw her,SMH!This is his problem not mine or yours so who cares!

thrillticket

12/6/09, 01:06:am

I love tiger for his golfin’ game and genius markability. But he really had it comin’. Thats what the white *****es do.Play and bet on dumb black athletes who bite into that white dream that they grew up watchin on TV. Gather all the info, textes, emails, voice mails. And when the “tiger” stock hits its peak? It’s time for all the white hoes to sell, sell, sell tiger “boy” out for the big bucks. He’s payin’ millions to shut these hoes up. Now that’s some expensive *****. Like no one was ever gonna say anything. Please!!!!!! they were just waiting. Tiger You r so not invincible. His wife cracked him physically. Now she should crack him financially. “tiger I want half!!!!!”

thrillticket

12/6/09, 01:10:am

billion dollar man *****in’ *****tail waitresses and hosts. i’m embarr*****ed for his wife. But she cracked him like a black woman would have. He will wear those cracked lips for life. Diary of a mad white woman. New movie???

PrettyGirlEsq

12/6/09, 01:15:am

Its not just rich men like Tiger that think like this. There are black men all over this world who think white vagina is better than black ones when we ALL know that’s not the truth. I hope they milk him for all he’s worth. He was FAKER than a $3 and called himself a “Calablasin” WTF is that? AHA! This shows you money can’t buy happiness. I’d rather be hustling in school, living my life in private than to have my personal business as a topic of national discussion.

Please Believe

12/6/09, 02:22:am

I AGREE 100% -TIGER HAS ISSUES…

The Bear...YES I'm BACK

12/6/09, 02:27:am

I guess I see it differently than most black people. I personally have never dated a white woman but I really dont care who Tiger Woods dates. I find it rediculous that black women would be angry at him because he didn’t cheat on his wife with a black woman. How trifling is that???

I look back at some of the stupid things I did chasing women when I was in my early to mid 20’s and I’m humbled. Tiger was just trying to sow his royal oats but because of his sheltered upbringing he hasn’t mastered the game of being a playa. The only game he’s mastered is golf.

Brotherman

12/6/09, 02:37:am

Sheryl’s just jealous. If she could get a man like Tiger with his fame and money, she’d be singing a different tune.

kaneesia

12/6/09, 02:45:am

1st i gotta get used 2 this new site reconstruction and 2nd i totally agree w/ her thats y im laughing @ his a$$ he thought that white women was dffrnt and they’re not!

michelle

12/6/09, 02:52:am

i hope he got what he wanted outta this situation “gimme that becky”

DR.FUNK

12/6/09, 03:07:am

Um Sheryl…if he cheats with a sistah he has to deal with A TRAIL OF BABIES TOO! What man-single or married-wants to deal with a group of women who struggle with a TRADITIONAL STUPIDITY about the proper use of BIRTH CONTROL !?! Thumbs up on Tiger’s “Becky Game”…although I would personally be playing the Asian/Persian angle. (like I do now)

michelle

12/6/09, 03:09:am

her ape lookin racoon beaver teeth basic ***** self!!! she wish she could get a man like tiger smh what the hell does she know about relationships? lookin like she aint seen a mirror in years smh

dcgal

12/6/09, 03:11:am

First of all Marquis is gay and is jealous of women, so just ignore him. The sad truth is that white women are running black men in the good ole us of a. They have them in deep check. Tiger is living proof. Sad but true. Voluntary slavery. Weakest generation of black men in the history of this country. Hands down.

missthing

12/6/09, 03:15:am

EXTRACTS FROM THE NEWS OF THE WORLD U.K NEWSPAPERS ONLINE, ANOTHER OF TIGER WOODS MISTRESSES STATED;-

She said: “He started to strip off my clothes and I took off his. We were sitting on a brown sofa and within seconds we were both naked.

“As a sportsman he is in great shape, but he is also very well endowed. He kept on complimenting me on my figure and kissed me all over.
SEEMS THAT THIS PART OF HIS ANATOMY IS DEFINATELY MORE BLACK THAN ASIAN SIZE-WISE.

susette

12/6/09, 03:27:am

ITS WELL KNOWN THAT TIGER, ELDRICK WOODS HAS IDENTITY ISSUES AND THAT HE PREFERS WHITE WOMEN ONLY. I AM GLAD THAT NO BLACK WOMEN WERE INVOLVED WITH THIS JERK AS HE NOW COMES ACROSS AS A BIG TIME SLIME-BALL, AND FOR ALL THOSE WHO WRONGLY THINK THAT BLACK WOMEN ARE ONLY AFTER MONEY WELL THIS HAS TRULY BURSTED YOUR WARPED BUBBLE!!!!!!
ALLL THESE WOMEN INVOLVED WITH HIM NEED TO GET THEMSELVES CHECKED OUT AT THE CLINIC.

Yoda

12/6/09, 03:31:am

That coon will never learn.
I never supported this wood nukker.
When he denied the African in him on Oprah, I done tuned out all ago.

He’s ya’ll hero. My hero is my mother.

erica

12/6/09, 03:32:am

it reads of strong self esteem issues..Not only was this guy cheating on his wife even worse he was cheating with at least two women at the same time. she needs to divorce him before it’s too late,their marriage will never be the same. Mark my words it won’t last five more years

Jax

12/6/09, 03:36:am

Is this coming from Sheryl “I’m a proud republican” Underwood? *****, shut the ***** up, your race traitor ***** doesn’t have any room to talk.

Jax

12/6/09, 03:37:am

Is this coming from Sheryl “I’m a proud republican” Underwood? Biiitch, shut the phuuck up you race traitor – you don’t have any room to talk.

Sydney™

12/6/09, 03:46:am

@The Bear

“I find it rediculous that black women would be angry at him because he didn’t cheat on his wife with a black woman. How trifling is that???”

Great point, and I’ve thought the same. If you switched the races of the women involved, including of Tiger’s wife, you would still have a heartbroken sister wronged by her husband’s adultery and a string of black women portrayed as venal, promiscuous opportunists. I think sisters have enough to deal with without being involved in this burgeoning scandal.

“Tiger was just trying to sow his royal oats but because of his sheltered upbringing he hasn’t mastered the game of being a playa.”

I agree with this, but there’s one teensy weensy problem with this imbroglio — He’s married — married with very young children at home.

BTW, the link to the rest of the article referenced in the thread is interesting as well. I’m sure not many logically-thinking Asian women are losing sleep over Tiger’s choice of mistresses as well.

DR.FUNK

12/6/09, 03:47:am

@ erica:

“it reads of strong self esteem issues”

“”"”"”"”"”"”"”"”"”"”"”"”"”"”"

Indeed.Tiger has high self-esteem. This is confirmed by his excellent work ethic…his bank account…and the fact that he has his pick of any women he wants.He wisely chooses to sex women who share at least a basic understanding of SEX AS RECREATION NOT PROCREATION.(thus no sistahs in the stable) Elin won’t leave him.I’m sure she knew that this might be part of the territory when she signed on.

Sydney™

12/6/09, 03:48:am

BTW, the UK’s Sunday Mirror has a story on the fourth alleged mistress, Jamie Jungers:

mirror.co.uk/news/top-stories/2009/12/05/fourth-tiger-woods-mistress-emerges-115875-21875862/

More women are reportedly coming forward as well. . .

Sydney™

12/6/09, 03:51:am

“I’m sure she knew that this might be part of the territory when she signed on.”

Is that why she swung the three iron in his direction? Hmmm. . .

binarystar

12/6/09, 04:03:am

First of all – Sorry but 9 out of 10 black women wouldn’t give Tiger Woods any play.

Second of all – Who is writing for this site? It sounds like a lot of bitter, disgruntled people trying to stir up bull*****. I remember a time when I could come here for some yuk yuks without all the deep-seeded hostility.

Finally – and this is the most important point – “Multimillionaire Athlete Cheats on Wife!” is nowhere near newsworthy. I could expect this from “traditional media” since the angle is really “Black Athlete Cheats on White Wife” but you guys have managed to bottom-feed once again in the ultimate way with “Black Athlete Cheats on White Wife – with White Women!”

Get it together Bossip and stop embarr*****ing yourselves.

Fara

12/6/09, 04:40:am

Wow Bossip, I am surprised at this story line. And even more appalled by the comment from Sheryl Underwood. She speaks of cultural pride…is she not an admittedly proud Republican who, by the way, did vote for Bush, not once but twice? Where’s the pride in that? How do Republicans feel about people of color, what has the Republican party done to attract people of color, what does that party stand for? Exactly! So, I’d ask Ms. Underwood to “check” herself before making asinine comments. The real story here is really unfortunate…yet another athlete, who most kids (yes Black kids included) around the world look up too, has lied and cheated. Black and White has NOTHING to do with this when it comes to Tiger cheating on his wife.

Marquis de Sade

12/6/09, 04:48:am

dcgal

Still bitter cuz your H.I.V. test came back positive, huh? Drawback of livin’ n’ fuggin’ in D.C., the AIDS capitol of the world, eh?

Sydney™

12/6/09, 05:05:am

Oops, spoke too soon. Jamie Jungers is already old news. Two more women, Cori Rist and Mindy Lawton (claims to have had sex with Tiger in a church parking lot while his wife was pregnant — She’s in the same line of waitressing line of work), boost the number up to at least six:

nydailynews.com/gossip/2009/12/06/2009-12-06_four_no__make_it_five__wait_six_girls_trysts_just_keep_on_comin_for_worlds_great.html

Sydney™

12/6/09, 05:08:am

*same waitressing line of work*

Dizzy McElroy

12/6/09, 05:15:am

A white man would never want to date Sherryl Underwood, let a lone a brotha. LMFAO

ddmlibra

12/6/09, 05:18:am

Yeah! I’m black and asian myself! And for this dude to be more dark and black looking than me and marrying her because she has pink skin and almost white hair, for him to call himself ‘cablasian’, Tiger is a tweeker, the only thing that makes him able to hit those golf ***** as well as he can is the AFRICAN in him, and he can’t acknowledge the superiority in him? He dilutes it by watering it down with a frail swede, he’ll see what he gets when he discovers that his children have learning disabilities

ddmlibra

12/6/09, 05:22:am

Yeah, and on a side note, really, he can stay on the ‘coon’ side of things because *****ody wants to mix his big teeth and grinch eyes

ddmlibra

12/6/09, 05:30:am

@ Dizzy McElroy

Why wouldn’t a black man nor a white man want to date S.U.? Please don’t let your answer have anything to do with skin color or hair type, if you are black yourself with coils, yo, you sound sorry and disgustingly pathetic, learn something ’bout yourself, maybe you’ll love yourself

Samantha

12/6/09, 05:41:am

Come on now that’s the only reason black woman are now wanting to give him some play the stacks. I’m a black woman and I know how stupid sisters can be. They disrespect certain men because they don’t dress a certain way, Drive a certain car, or not a thug. When he get rich they want to get mad because he dates who would give him the time of day before the money started coming in. Stop hatin on Tiger Woods he married who he wanted and he has that right. Sheryl Underwood need to shut her country looking behind up.

The-way-i-see-it

12/6/09, 06:29:am

This is stupid, a person who has the mentality that allows them to cheat on their wife and kids has a different mind set to begin with. RACE PLAYS NO ROLE! whites cheat, blacks cheat, Latinos, Arabs, asians, natives and anything else, all cheat! It’s more of a character flaw people should stop making it racial

michelle

12/6/09, 07:17:am

@samantha,
i think you have given the most sensible and erudite answer out of all the comments, you give me hope that there are reasonble black people in america.

Who Has Offended you and Stifled Your Progress?

12/6/09, 07:37:am

WELL PUT SHERYL!

Get Real

12/6/09, 08:00:am

I’m sorry. I don’t give a puck! I love that this is happening to Tiger.

Anon

12/6/09, 08:01:am

Sydney™

12/6/09, 05:05:am

Oops, spoke too soon. Jamie Jungers is already old news. Two more women, Cori Rist and Mindy Lawton (claims to have had sex with Tiger in a church parking lot while his wife was pregnant — She’s in the same line of waitressing line of work), boost the number up to at least six:

nydailynews.com/gossip/2009/12/06/2009-12-06_four_no__make_it_five__wait_six_girls_trysts_just_keep_on_comin_for_worlds_great.html
———————————-

LAWD!! This niggum has issues. He’s been married for what, only 5 years? He was slinging it to any white trick that looked his way. Issues!

Sydney™

12/6/09, 08:25:am

I don’t know if I believe the Mindy Lawton allegations. Um, take a look. She also gave a video interview detailing her claims of having sex in Tiger’s mansion — She said the tiger rocked her world. Grrr. . .:

newsoftheworld.co.uk/news/631528/Tiger-had-me-in-the-rough-Mindy-Lawtons-frantic-sex-with-Tiger-Woods.html

Redd

12/6/09, 08:48:am

Why should he date BW when he don’t want too. Let TW continue to belittle and make fools out of the women he chose to be with. Why should BW be caught up in this mess. I am glad to see that no BW were caught up in TW’s mess!

z

12/6/09, 09:19:am

Lol @ Tiger.

Oh the satisfaction.

What is it they say?

Oh “black women are aggressive and too much trouble”

Hmm..collecting voicemails, and beatings with a golf club sounds like trouble to me.

Black dudes are so dumb.

living life with no regrets

12/6/09, 09:44:am

@dcgal…..i agree with everything you said…these white chicks play these games like they love black guys ( when really they only love the D***)..but wehen the money gone their gone as well..he** they’ll f*** the bestfriend if he has money. White chicks have no limits…you see that money talks and bs walks…if Tiger’s wife really loved him..money should not be and issue….she was waiting on him to f*** up….

living life with no regrets

12/6/09, 09:50:am

@ Redd..tou are absoutley right…and they always want to give BW a bad name and say we are all about the money…i guess we are seeing first hand who is all about the money…

living life with no regrets

12/6/09, 09:53:am

@ Redd
You are absoutely right…and they always want to give BW a bad name and say we are all about the money…i guess we are seeing first hand who is all about the money…

TrickorTreat

12/6/09, 10:04:am

I am happy his is happening to Tiger too. What’s up with the nannies and waitresses though? Can’t he find an educated, cultured woman to knock boots with?

bklynlady

12/6/09, 10:04:am

SHERYL IS ON POINT! THATS WHY I SAY FCKEM…..

LET THE WOLVES EAT HIM UP!

WTH

12/6/09, 10:08:am

His mom is white…what in the hell to you expect?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?

mimiless

12/6/09, 10:40:am

I say blame his father then, his father married an asian and then think of Tigers surroundings growing up. The Golf world is very white no lie, and so the circles he moves in has very few black people thats the truth. So he is only going to screw the female type that he is exposed to on a daily basis thats his preference so be it. He went to stanford too not howard. come on folks its all about exposure. Thats what he has always been exposed to.

Robert

12/6/09, 10:40:am

@ Ara

“Tiger seems like he has had an identification issue for some time now.”

It isn’t Tiger that has had issues with his identification…it’s black people (much like yourself) who have issues with it. He chooses to except both side of his ethnic background…not just the black side. But a lot of black people (much like yourself) cannot except any person with 1 black parent not calling themselves “black” and nothing else! Next…if Tiger chooses white women over black women…that’s his choice. How many black people watch, let alone play golf? How my sistas play golf? Not many! Don’t blame Tiger for not marrying a black women…blame his daddy for not marrying a black women.

Tia

12/6/09, 10:45:am

Tiger was clearly never into black women. When he made it a point to say he IS NOT BLACK that did it for many of black people. And honestly the majority of black women, let’s say 99.9 percent could care less about the becky’s he’s with, wife included. Next story….

LoVELY

12/6/09, 10:48:am

i hate it for his wife and the situation that they are going through but im glad that he didn’t inflict all of this torment onto a sister

susette

12/6/09, 10:57:am

@Robert.
Tiger Wood’s father was married to a Black women, he had 3 children with her, 2 boys and a girl. Tiger’s father cheated on his black wife with Tiger’s mom, whom he then went on to marry.

susette

12/6/09, 11:00:am

@WTH.
Tiger Wood’s mother is Asian from Thailand.

Blaze

12/6/09, 11:03:am

Tiger dated Tyra Banks in 1996 but broke up due to conflicting schedules.

Oh Brotha!

12/6/09, 11:08:am

@WTH his mom is not white… His mom is ASIAN! I don’t know where he got the “Cau” part of his “caublasian” because his daddy was black…darker than me! LOL His dad met his mom when he was in the military. I have a cousin who is blasian…dad met mom while he was in the military…and dude looks more Caublasian than Tiger…but I’ve never heard him call himself Caublasian… lmbo.
Anyway… I too am happy there is no sista in the mix.
Maybe black men will open their eyes and see that women are women. The same way a LaTonya can throw a brick, an Elin can swing a golf club. Just different weapons of choice.
And I’ll be darned if these white chicks won’t do anything strange for a little change… SMH…

Mrs. Rance

12/6/09, 11:09:am

Ain’t no biggie that Tiger isn’t attracted to black women. He’ll pay for his obsession with white chicks in the end anyway. His marriage has been reduced to a business deal to be renegotiated. The whole world now knows that woman is with him solely for the money. I bet she can’t wait til two years is up so she can divorce him and get that green. Maybe one day he’ll find a woman who really loves him whatever her race may be. One day maybe he’ll love himself.

Sydney™

12/6/09, 11:11:am

“How many black people watch, let alone play golf? How my sistas play golf?”

I have to laugh at the argument that there are no black women on the golf course. If you’ve noticed, most of the mistresses coming forward are women whose occupation is waitressing — One even reportedly worked at the upscale (tongue planted firmly in cheek) Perkins restaurant.

As I wrote earlier, Tiger preferred, prefers, and will continue to select white women because they are his preference. This is his choice, and as a black woman, I couldn’t be happier that black women are not entangled in this disgraceful debacle. But, please, do not disingenuously paint this as an issue of cl***** and accessibility when the evidence is clear that the women involved are of lower status (and that’s euphemistically speaking).

Selecting waitresses is hardly picking la crème de la crème.

Oh Brotha!

12/6/09, 11:12:am

@Robert

Just because you don’t see it where you are, does not mean it doesn’t exist.

I live in a state that is much into golf and EVERYONE plays…black and white!

The reason why a lot of black people don’t play golf is that we werent’ allowed onto golf greens but for being caddies until a few years ago.

So yes, black men AND women play golf… I’m learning the game myself…

You really should get out more.

Luddite

12/6/09, 11:13:am

Underwood is another fat, bitter, unattractive, lonely Black woman who can’t get a man. She can come to DC though and have her pick of DL Brothas with HIV who will be happy to use her financially and as a “beard”.

Mrs. Rance

12/6/09, 11:13:am

Oh Brotha!

12/6/09, 11:08:am

@WTH his mom is not white… His mom is ASIAN! I don’t know where he got the “Cau” part of his “caublasian” because his daddy was black…darker than me!
**************************

Tiger’s father is also multi-racial.

Oh Brotha!

12/6/09, 11:17:am

@Mrs. Rance

Which one of Tiger’s grandparents is white?

Heck we’re all multi-racial. What does “multi-racial” mean? So why doesn’t Tiger call himself CauNablasian and get everybody in the mix? Where did the Cau come from?

PoshGamer

12/6/09, 11:20:am

Let’s be honest does it really matter what her colour is? As long as he is happy with his choice this is all that matters. The problem is that he does not seem to be able to keep his trousers on.

Mrs. Rance

12/6/09, 11:26:am

Oh Brotha!

12/6/09, 11:17:am

@Mrs. Rance

Which one of Tiger’s grandparents is white?
*********************************

I don’t know, but I was curious as to where the “Cau” came in as well so I looked it up. His daddy is not all black. I just can’t remember what the mix was.

Oh Brotha!

12/6/09, 11:27:am

ok, i just read his wiki entry. His father was of African American with some Native American and Chinese ANCESTRY…

And his Asian mother had some dutch in her.

I don’t begrudge anyone embracing all of who they are…

However…after all those degrees of separation, some of those genese didn’t make it down to Tiger..

There is nothing “Cau” about Tiger…but I see he’s tried his best to get some “Cau” into his bloodline.

People always go in on black people for claiming native ancestry… But come on now! LOL

Dirty Sir

12/6/09, 11:30:am

Who cares? That’s Tiger’s business. The topic at hand should be how he’s going to deal with his adultery not the race of his women. None of this would have come out any different had he been dealing with only black women. I’ve never heard any black women say they were interested in him before he got famous or before he married this wife. Black folks just wanna ride his coat tails because he dominates a white-oriented game. That’s about it. Besides, you can’t think of any sports athlete’s who DO consider themselves black who only date white women? Try 75% of the NBA. Underwood’s just mad cuz *****ody’s trying to date her loud ghetto @ss.

Oh Brotha!

12/6/09, 11:33:am

Excuse my typos.

There is no “Cau”. @PoshGame…I was curious, so I asked a question.

In looking at Tiger there is no “Cau” in him, so I always wondered where that came from. Seems he has a little Sammy Sosa issue going on. At first I just took his word for it back when he made the statement.

But with seeing his children it dawned on me that something was wrong with that scenario. Because his children are very dark. And being into genetics as I am, I know good and dang on well that a pale, natural blonde with light eyes and a Caublinasian will not produce dark children because Tigers white genes (if they existed) would show up as well.

Surely African genes are very dominant…But they too get blended out when the numbers and probabilities began to come into play.

So I was curious.

NorthernStar

12/6/09, 11:34:am

Black, white, purple, green, whatever, he’s wack. He’s been wack from day one. No matter race, a lot of these professional athletes buy into the whole blond hair, blue eyed trophy wife ideal. It’s not like there aren’t any drop dead gorgeous model looking types that are also black (Naomi Campbell). So, if they’re looking for a trophy wife (which is also wack, but I digress…), I don’t know why they can’t get one dipped in chocolate, caramel or even a little mocha!

I just can’t believe old girl believed he would be faithful. Naive. But, I’m glad she beat his *****! I know that’s not the PC thing to say, but seriously, she put him in his damn place for all the women who have dealt with a cheating man.

Oh Brotha!

12/6/09, 11:36:am

@Dirty Sir,

You never heard any white women trying to get at him before he became famous either, what’s your point?

You also never heard of any white women trying to get at him until he got married… Again? Your point, DIRTYsir?

His race as a lot to do with it because he made his “nonblackthainese” statement when he first hit the spotlight.

And we live in a universe where race matters…maybe not your universe, but for the rest of us…

Rabbit FOod

12/6/09, 11:40:am

He’s probably only ever known white culture. That’s what the golf world is. I doubt if his father really exposed him to alot of black culture. Probably wanted to make sure he succeeded in life so he put him into the finest private schools and exposed him to everything he needed to get ahead in his career. Other kids probably didn’t see him as black, probably thinking he was one of the darker-skinned asians like Laosian, Burmese or Cambodian or maybe of Indian descent. He probably essentially “p*****ed” himself off as non-black unless he was asked directly. Im sure seeing the exploits of blacks in pop culture probably didn’t make him wanna identify much either.

Give me a break

12/6/09, 11:42:am

So the “Becky’s are bad, but the shanaenae’s are acceptable rigght? Whatever. Some of my fellow black people kill me. We always go on and on about how white people are racist yet we ALWAYS find a way to flash the race card a play the victim in EVERYTHING.

Stop acting like you are still slaves and don’t have options. Quit being lazy and work for yours and stop expecting hand outs. It doesn’t matter what color the women he dates is. Why should it? This is the ultimate ignorance of the African American community today. I love when the man is doing good (just like any other bi racial celeb like Halle or Mariah) the black community wants to claim them, yet when something happens, all of a sudden they aren’t black enough or showing that they love their background. Man, STFU with that weak noise.

Quit being haters and mind yours. Hypocritical.

Army

12/6/09, 11:44:am

maybe Tiger only roams in circle that are mostly white… makes sense considering he plays golf and probably spends lots of time at the country club and such… so that would explain the whole white woman thing.. I don’t care who he dates … he’s just not my type… and apparently he’s a douchebag

Claire

12/6/09, 11:45:am

Preach Sheryl!!

tbonds75@yahoo.com

12/6/09, 11:49:am

The country uses the psych game, labelling Black women as Gold diggers all the time. The white women who walk away with $50 million to $200 million are never considered gold diggers, their just taking care of their future and their children, “well, after all”… In this area, Black women you need to really wake up, the country is always playing a psych game on you! Trying to make you feel like you are less and worthy of less.

Oh Brotha!

12/6/09, 11:50:am

@Give me A Break

Give me a D*** break. Black people embrace black people whether we’re doing wrong or right. That’s a fact.

Michael Jackson…embraced

OJ Simpson…embraced

And even Tiger (I’m Caublinasian) Woods…embraced.

When black people reject their blackness, black people still welcome them home.

You want to talk about slave mentality, take a look at yourself. You castigate black people and praise white… That’s the sambo mentality.

And trust and believe there are black people doing well, no matter what Spike Lee and others portray in the movies.

All of my siblings and I went to college…from parents who worked hard and barely made it out of high school… My brother is getting his PhD, my sister her MBA, I have my JD, my other brother 2 degrees and and a degree in Divinity.

So as much as you want to play captain save a white, and put black people down…You should kill your victim-mentality and stop projecting.

Mitch4000

12/6/09, 11:53:am

GIVE ME A BREAK, give us a break with all of your coonery. Cheryl Underwood makes a valid a true point. I think everyone could understand if Tiger chose to date a Korean women since his mother is Korean. But, this crap is ridiculous. To eliminate people from your own culture out of your dating pool equals self-hatred. Too many brothers and sisters that run after White men and women have ISSUES. I have yet to meet one that does not lack a self-esteem issue and will do and accept anything from a White person just to be with one.

Pat's revenge in 09

12/6/09, 11:56:am

Racist ghetto black women get yet another chance to vent their frustrations over black men not being obligated to them.

Oh Brotha!

12/6/09, 12:01:pm

@Pat

What exactly is racist or ghetto about Cheryl?

I’ve never lived in the ghetto, and to my knowledge, neither has Cheryl.

You want to label her for labeling people? You want to label other people for labeling people? Hello Pot… lol

The fact that SOME black men don’t feel obligated to black families helps create a lot of problems in the black community. A house divided will not stand.
The Willie Lynch syndrome is pervasive in too many of our brothers and sisters…

Okay?

12/6/09, 12:04:pm

Um…You people are stupid. Sheryl Underwood was joking about that on the show. She wasn’t serious. If she was, it still isn’t a valid point. Who someone dates doesn’t matter. Why do people make an issue out of this?

And honestly, how is he any less “black” than anyone else? My God some of you people have *****ed up mentalities.

Exactly right

12/6/09, 12:07:pm

Pat, you said the truth right there. Blam!

Brotherman

12/6/09, 12:11:pm

Tiger could have saved himself all this trouble by not getting married. I mean, why get married anyway???? Marriage is really best suited to the church ministers and church folks.

The only color that matters in a celebrity marriage is GREEN. Kelis/Nas, Elin/Tiger…it makes no difference.

Sheryl’s a flag waving Republican coon who would jump at the chance to date or marry a famous wealthy handsome non black dude but that ain’t gonna happen cos she’s Clarence Thomas in a skirt! Check how most if not all if those high profile Black Republicans shun their own type: Alan Keyes, Condi Rice, Clarence Thomas, Micheal Green to name a few. Sheryl’s a hypocrite!

Mikey

12/6/09, 12:14:pm

Cheryl Underwood needs to shut her ugly ***** up

tbonds75@yahoo.com

12/6/09, 12:24:pm

Tiger Woods has major identity issues. But he is not the only one. Do you realize how badly the world is dominated with images of whites in other parts of the world always subtlely insinuating they are better? Why do you think other races Indians, Hispanics, …you name it are so quickly willing to throw white powder on their faces, and claim they are white. The white media is controlled by white women and men! .

Shay

12/6/09, 12:24:pm

People dating out of their race doesn’t bother me. It’s none of my business and I don’t know their situation. The only time I get annoyed is when I speak to people who do and they give me stupid reasons or they tell me something that doesn’t make sense. I had a friend who told me the white kids used to chase him home and throw rocks at him. But he only dates white women. Same thing with Tiger. He told a story about how the white kids tied him to a tree and berated him but he seems to only date white women. Not to say he shouldn’t date white women at all but why exclusively if you’ve had such a bad history with them? I wonder how he feels now that his white hookers sold him down the river and his white queen kicked his butt.

Dirty Sir

12/6/09, 12:32:pm

@Oh, Brotha

White women try to get at ALL athletes, no matter their race. You probably wouldn’t know that if you don’t attend sporting events regularly like I do. I’ve seen them in groups attend basketball, football, mixed martial arts games and hang around afterwards. Trying to meet the players either for photos, hook-ups, even possible marriage proposals. They respond to the maleness of competition as well as a chance to land a millionaire. In Tiger’s work environment, like all pro athletes, he’s had more of a chance to meet white women than any other race.

How do you know white women have never tried to get with him before he was married? One of those women may have been a fvck buddy before he got married. His wife is not the first women he’d ever been linked to. Just the only one he’s ever been linked with consistently.

His race only has anything to do with it because black folks are upset he didn’t say he was black but multi-racial. He was only telling the truth. And it’s not a statement he put out readily. He was questioned about his race repeatedly and the multi-racial answer has proven unsatisfactory for alot of alot of blacks.

And don’t worry, I understand race completely. I am half mexican, 1/4 black and 1/4 German. Im just a realist. Im not the one losing sleep over Tiger’s ancestry and dating choices. Those are his problems.

Smart

12/6/09, 12:36:pm

lmao how you gonna scream civil liberties and bigotry for a man who WAS cheating with his wife. He shouldn’t have been messing around with no other woman BUT his wife, and she has the nerve to get upset he didn’t have an asian or black sideline. That’s pretty damn ignorant.

tbonds75@yahoo.com

12/6/09, 12:38:pm

Why do you think the white media, hides black women in the back of almost all commercials? 90% of the time the women representing us have a bald head, ugly braids, raggedy or wild hair, and don’t look very feminine,this is intentional. You rarely see a black women with raggedy braids and unkept hair in the real world. Then they take our hair styles and put them on white women, take our beautiful styles and make them their own. All the while telling us our hair is nappy and not good enough. Yet,if we perm our hair, then we are trying to be like them, if we don’t we are too militant and trying to make a statement! Every group on the face of this earth knows our women are beautiful too. To confirm it, they are constantly beating each other to the doctors office to get the latest big butt implants, lip implants, breast implants, shin implants, all the features we were naturally blessed with. For years it was considered ugly, while they had mad scientists working in the background to figure out how to get these features for white women.

tbonds75@yahoo.com

12/6/09, 12:40:pm

I guess if I didn’t have it naturally, I would be running to the tanning salon and the nearest implant facility too. I’m not mad at you! Just start telling the truth. By the way, white men love us and can’t help themselves, just watch your man the next time he gets on the elevator with a gorgeous Black women.

I’ve seen how you white women have to put him in check, their eyes do all the talking, can you blame them? They know ours is not filled withy styrofoam or whatever you guys use. By the way, white women wear weaves like mad, that’s just another secret they don’t want you to know. Is anything really real about them?

getting down

12/6/09, 12:42:pm

Wasn’t it white people who usually like to label black women as gold diggers????…..Well,well, well, what do we have here in Tiger’s case with all these Becky’s racing to the forefront with their hands out looking for a huge payday. And wasn’t that the same thing in Kobe’s case, the woman who claimed he rapped her but no one heard screams coming from her hotel room????

Once again, white people fail to look in the mirror and see themselves for who they truly are.

Er...

12/6/09, 12:49:pm

“Would we question when a Jewish person wants to marry other Jewish people?” she said in an interview. “It’s not racist. It’s not bigotry. It’s cultural pride.” “The issue comes in when you choose something white because you think it’s better,” Underwood said. “And then you never date a black woman or a woman of color or you never sample the greatness of the international buffet of human beings. If you never do that, we got a problem.”

Yeah Sheryl…I am sure that you have sampled that buffet a million times right. She probably doesn’t even know what “Melting Pot” means. How in the hell does this idiot (Or anyone else here talking out their backside) know what he has been exposed to or experienced? So what would make him “Black?” A do rag, pants off his azz, and “ebonics” which is nothing more than veiled slave talk? WTF?! Who the hell is anyone to p***** judgment cause of who he dates? It’s sad that this discussion is even about race and not about his infidelity as a husband.

People are just hating on him cause his wife is white as if it made any difference whatsoever.

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 12:51:pm

Sydney™
12/6/09, 11:11:am

“How many black people watch, let alone play golf? How my sistas play golf?”

I have to laugh at the argument that there are no black women on the golf course. If you’ve noticed, most of the mistresses coming forward are women whose occupation is waitressing — One even reportedly worked at the upscale (tongue planted firmly in cheek) Perkins restaurant.

As I wrote earlier, Tiger preferred, prefers, and will continue to select white women because they are his preference. This is his choice, and as a black woman, I couldn’t be happier that black women are not entangled in this disgraceful debacle. But, please, do not disingenuously paint this as an issue of cl***** and accessibility when the evidence is clear that the women involved are of lower status (and that’s euphemistically speaking).

Selecting waitresses is hardly picking la crème de la crème.
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Morning, SYD…

I think a lot of it has to do withthe fact that Tiger is an “Alpha Male”…He is tops in the world as far as his golfing ability is concerned, he’s a billionaire, and he is loved and adored by most…(Or at least he was) The mere fact that he dates/finds companionship with women of a lower status only begs the fact that he is not attracted to “Alpha females”…And who could blame him?? He needs to be the center of attraction, not his woman! As for men of great financial stature, they prefer to befriend others of such magnitude as themselves…(This explains his friendships with Michael Jordan/Shaq) This point was made by Marquis De Sade, but it bears being repeated…Any man with Tiger’s status, does not want to have to be in the shadow of his companion’s spotlight….

Oh Brotha!

12/6/09, 12:51:pm

@DirtySir

The same way you don’t know whether or not black women have ever tried to get at him.

Please I don’t lose sleep over Tiger’s race or his dating situation. To me it is just another topic of discussion.

I’m probably as avid a sports fan as you, if not more. I see the white groupies whenever an athlete touches down, as well as the black, asian, multi-racial, bi-racial, and don’t know what racial…male and female ready to pounce on an opportunity to smell someone with money.

I’m just sick of people pretending as though race doesn’t matter. Tiger isn’t Caucasian or even close… Heck I have more Caucasian in me and that’s barely any… My issue is that people (not just Tiger) buy into the white is right and shun everything that is on the other end of the spectrum. Oh we pretend it isn’t true. And that anyone pointing it out is just a “reverse racist”…while in the same breath denigrating anything that is black.

And more often than not it is the blackest of black people who try to tear down being black, but run in to hold up the mantra of the purity of whiteness… It is a psychosis…and people are afraid to come out and call it what it is, for fear of being labeled a racist, slave-mentality having, backwards thinking ghetto bird.

I have no problem putting out there that a lot of black people or bi-racial people (Tiger is bi-racial if anything…this multi-racialness is ridiculous…He is Mongoloid and Negroid…) try to grab on to whiteness because they feel negative about their other side.

They say things like “i don’t blame tiger for not wanting to be black. Look at how black people *fill in the blank with some negative bulls***.*

So being the proud black person I am, I will always stand up to it.

tbonds75@yahoo.com

12/6/09, 12:53:pm

Further more, I didn’t read all the post but I hope no one is stupid enough to be angry he didn’t cheat with a Black women. What the Black women I met have said, is that he only dated white women exclusively, not that, he needs to while he is married that would be tottally wrong! Tiger’s chicken’s have come home to roost, he can afford to pay up! Enjoy!

Oh Brotha!

12/6/09, 12:58:pm

Amen TBonds! LOL

I don’t know where people are getting that black women want Tiger to have a black mistress from…

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 13:01:pm

Er…
12/6/09, 12:49:pm

“Would we question when a Jewish person wants to marry other Jewish people?” she said in an interview. “It’s not racist. It’s not bigotry. It’s cultural pride.” “The issue comes in when you choose something white because you think it’s better,” Underwood said. “And then you never date a black woman or a woman of color or you never sample the greatness of the international buffet of human beings. If you never do that, we got a problem.”

Yeah Sheryl…I am sure that you have sampled that buffet a million times right. She probably doesn’t even know what “Melting Pot” means. How in the hell does this idiot (Or anyone else here talking out their backside) know what he has been exposed to or experienced? So what would make him “Black?” A do rag, pants off his azz, and “ebonics” which is nothing more than veiled slave talk? WTF?! Who the hell is anyone to p***** judgment cause of who he dates? It’s sad that this discussion is even about race and not about his infidelity as a husband.

People are just hating on him cause his wife is white as if it made any difference whatsoever.
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I couldn’t sgree more!! Sheryl Underwood is really not an attractive woman by my standards, and I’m sure a lot of other men feel the same way…As for her comments, I feel that a person can be with who ever they want!! If Tiger chooses white women, that is his choice, not mine!!! And I’m sure that men are not beating down Sheryl’s door to get to her!!! I know I wouldn’t!!!

getting down

12/6/09, 13:02:pm

People want to question and debate when others questioned why Tiger did not date Back women. But it’s never a huge issue when, Arabic cultured demands they marry their own….when the Jewish cultured demand they marry their own….when the India culture marry their own…You don’t see people hootin and hollering over that.

But as soon as someone questions why Tiger is dating and/or marrying black women it because an issue.

Why do people make it an issue when black people question things and/or expect certain things in their culture? But most people would not say a word when other races (I mentioned above) demand the same!…It’s usually accepted (for the most part) and people move on.

But once black people speak out and voice an opinion a lot of people want to have an conniption fit.

Bennieman

12/6/09, 13:02:pm

Underwood acts and looks like a damn slave. She is so loud, ugly and unattractive not even a crackhead would want her.

Oh Brotha!

12/6/09, 13:03:pm

Final point (really…sorry I argue in my profession, so don’t take it to heart)

Tiger is gaining an understanding of how SOME white people will treat “token” (how they see them) black people when they fall.

They don’t embrace Tiger’s “otherness” or his “mult-racialness” they see him as being unlike other “black or multi-racial (read got some black in ‘em) people”… Now he’s going to be just another n***** to those types of people.

No, not all white people believe this way… But many do. You can believe it isn’t true, until you are around them long enough to see it and experience it for yourself.

ENOUGH!

12/6/09, 13:04:pm

BLACK WOMEN GET ON MY NERVES! ALWAYS MOPING AND COMPLAINING ABOUT WHAT BLACK MEN DO AS IF YOU OWN THEM. GET YOUR FAT *****ES OFF THE SOFA AND GET A LIFE AND STOP WORRYING ABOUT OTHER FOLKS BUSINESS.

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 13:09:pm

ddmlibra
12/6/09, 05:30:am

@ Dizzy McElroy

Why wouldn’t a black man nor a white man want to date S.U.? Please don’t let your answer have anything to do with skin color or hair type, if you are black yourself with coils, yo, you sound sorry and disgustingly pathetic, learn something ’bout yourself, maybe you’ll love yourself
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Please allow me to respond??

If she was a white woman posessing the same features, with blonde hair and blue eyes, she’d still be ugly as hell….Period!! Glad I could clear that up for you……

Oh Brotha!

12/6/09, 13:13:pm

OK… I lied…that wasn’t my final point..(I’m taking a break…so…I have time to say this)

@Enough… Is that what it is? Fat and lazy black women? Clearly you don’t get out much… obesity is a problem in America and every time I see fat people on tv or at the grocery store in any given city.. with 3 stomachs, they are obese white women…

I often find these comments about black women being obese and out of shape quite hilarious…Specifically when white women are dying under needles and knives trying to get rid of extra layers of fat or having heart attacks from bulimia and anorexia…

Or appearing in do*****entaries about being extra large like Ruby….Ever seen the biggest loser on NBC?

lmbo… GTFOH..

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 13:19:pm

Oh Brotha!
12/6/09, 13:13:pm

OK… I lied…that wasn’t my final point..(I’m taking a break…so…I have time to say this)

@Enough… Is that what it is? Fat and lazy black women? Clearly you don’t get out much… obesity is a problem in America and every time I see fat people on tv or at the grocery store in any given city.. with 3 stomachs, they are obese white women…

I often find these comments about black women being obese and out of shape quite hilarious…Specifically when white women are dying under needles and knives trying to get rid of extra layers of fat or having heart attacks from bulimia and anorexia…

Or appearing in do*****entaries about being extra large like Ruby….Ever seen the biggest loser on NBC?

lmbo… GTFOH..
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I hate to be the one to say this, but there are plenty of obese people in America…Not just white people, but black as well…heart attacks, Diabetes, and Hypertension are nothing to play with…So it doesn’t matter what color you are, if you are overweight, you should do something about it…Even if it takes surgery to do so…Get your weight under control….As for Sheryl Underwood, my thing is: Anyone can lose weight, but you keep “UGLY” forever!! And she has it in spades!!!

Butterscotch™

12/6/09, 13:22:pm

@Sydney™

“As I wrote earlier, Tiger preferred, prefers, and will continue to select white women because they are his preference. This is his choice, and as a black woman, I couldn’t be happier that black women are not entangled in this disgraceful debacle.”

I could not agree more.

getting down

12/6/09, 13:25:pm

A lot of people are saying they feel sorry for Tiger’s wife. I don’t….Maybe she is getting her Karma back.

Even though it’s been reported that Tiger chased her when he met her (hmmmm, all of the current jumpoffs say he calls and texts relentlessly ), once she decided to date Tiger he could have been in a committed relationship and she knew it but continued to date him anyway….karma!

Tiger is a dogg, as we all now know which means he was a dogg back then when she met him and I’m sure he had a bunch of women at that time.

Professional, Sir

12/6/09, 13:26:pm

..White women don’t jump on Robin Thicke for messing with the black chicks. Let tiger do what he do. If you KNOW you LOVE white women..WHY go around and date everything else?? Underwood is a stupid broad.

Dirty Sir

12/6/09, 13:37:pm

@Oh, Brotha!

Well, Im of the belief that your experiences define you as much as your race or culture. Its obvious Tiger hasn’t spent alot of time around black culture and that’s not all his fault. Im not mad at Tiger for wanting to be around a culture that’s maybe not a large part of his own in DNA. He’s a grown man and he doesn’t owe anyone anything. If he wants to try to be white, let that be his burden. He’s already finding out the hard way that race probably does matter as far as the media is concerned but it’s hard to tell in this age of Jon & Kate/Brangelina/ trash journalism world how much is about race and how much of it is just the media pouncing on a the #1 athlete in golf getting caught with his pants down. Im sure if his wife had been black and he was caught with black mistresses, he’d still be catching it. Just not as hard.

You seem bitter about “multi-racialness”. It’s not ridiculous. It’s very real. Not all people of bi or multiple cultures are willing to turn their backs on their other heritages. My relationship with all my cultures is very good and Im accepted as family at the dinner tables in all my households. I’m all of them. It’s given me a great perspective on how people live together. Im not a person who can just make a judgement on skin color. I don’t care how the world sees me. I don’t adjust to them. They have to adjust to me.

Be Real

12/6/09, 13:45:pm

@Oh Brotha!

Michael Jackson…embraced
OJ Simpson…embraced
And even Tiger (I’m Caublinasian) Woods…embraced.
When black people reject their blackness, black people still welcome them home.
You want to talk about slave mentality, take a look at yourself. You castigate black people and praise white… That’s the sambo mentality.
And trust and believe there are black people doing well, no matter what Spike Lee and others portray in the movies.
The fact that SOME black men don’t feel obligated to black families helps create a lot of problems in the black community. A house divided will not stand.
The Willie Lynch syndrome is pervasive in too many of our brothers and sisters…
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I may have missed it but are you a black man? I’m with you 100%. I been saying this all along. OJ won’t date anyone that look like him and its said that black people can’t call him out for his hating ways. We had OJ back before the murder trial was over. After it was done, he turned his back on our people. I have never seen or heard him do anything constructive but we always praising him. Its pathetic that a lot of black people say that its just a preference of OJs to only date white. I wish we would cut the crap and call self hate what it really is. . . self hate. There are black people doing great things and I wish Spike and some of the other people like you said would do a better job of getting us out there to change the thug, baby mama image thats always on TV. I know tons of black men and black women who are professionals in their career and doing great things in the community. Your right about the Willie Lynch syndrome. I was busy yesterday and didnt catch it until last night but someone else talked about Willie Lynch on the Tank section and he made really good points about whats wrong with some black men and why they think the way they do. I loved the fact that he said he was a black man and chose to not put up with it and allow other black men to think for himself and persuade him to not date black women. The man was on point and so are you. Willie Lynch and slavery messed us up. The sick part is that we dont want to doanything to help and better our people. It would be good if the NAACP and these HBCUs held conferences without any cameras all over the US and invited black people for free to attend and talk about self hate and other things thats affecting black people like constantly thinking that white is alright and black is wrong. This sure would be nice but I doubt alot of black people would show up. The thing is a lot of us hate each other and dont want to be in the same room with each other. Some black men turn their backs on their family and its sad that we black women take the fall for everything wrong with our people. Im not saying that we should not take some of the blame because we are definitely at fault too but its truly unfair to say the plight of the black race is all of the black woman fault. I wish more black men would have something nice to say about black women on here by defending us. I just get tired of being stereotyped all the time by people saying all black women behave a certain way. It’s not all of us just like all black men aren’t deadbeat dads and lazy. Anyone who thinks that way would be a fool to believe it. Black men and black women need to start taking each other to task for stepping outside of marriage and doing other things we have no business doing. We cant continue to turn our heads at people behaving badly. We need to get back to our grandmother and grandfathers times when anyone down the street and in the neighborhood could correct a child. You got little boys and girls talking to adults any type of way and this should never happen. Once we start demanding more from each other, we can began to do better.

I havent seen any black women caught up in this Tiger news, and I’m glad about it.

Sydney™

12/6/09, 13:55:pm

@Day

“I think a lot of it has to do withthe fact that Tiger is an “Alpha Male”…He is tops in the world as far as his golfing ability is concerned, he’s a billionaire, and he is loved and adored by most…(Or at least he was) The mere fact that he dates/finds companionship with women of a lower status only begs the fact that he is not attracted to “Alpha females”…”

Good afternoon, Day. I was responding to an *****ertion that one of the reasons for Tiger’s dating choices may be the shortage of black women in his milieu. To my knowledge, there are plenty of waitresses of color.

And, I repeat, whom Tiger dates (although any married man should not be dating anyone — once you say your vows, you are committed to one person, or so I thought — Silly me) is his choice. But to try to make this an issue of what sisters do or do not do, where or where they are not, is simply fallacious. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again — some black men do not wish to date black women, period. It doesn’t matter what your pedigree is, your profession, your demeanor, et cetera. They don’t want sisters, and I, for one, refuse to internalize a man’s choice as a reflection of who I am and what I have to offer.

Back on the issue of alpha males, I recall NY Times columnist Maureen Dowd’s writings two or three years ago of powerful men’s preference to pursue women in lesser positions, i.e. the CEO chasing the secretary. I believe she wrote a book on the subject.

getting down

12/6/09, 13:55:pm

Before black men brought white women out in the open and started dating hot and heavy, society talked DOWN about the black man ALL THE TIME. But now that white women (and other races) have begun dating black men have your guys notice how the tied has turned and now they blame black women and talk down about them all the time.

Think about it…..So where would you guess all that negative talk is coming from????

@ Be Real

You said some things ARE the black woman’s fault. Can you name me ten thing that is the fault of black woman and other female races can not be at fault for the SAME THING?

I totally understand what you are saying but a lot of people including yourself always want to say black woman are at fault for this and that. But if people are honest with each other and themselves, aren’t females of other races at fault for the same things? IF THERE IS ANY BLAME AT ALL….Why are people magnifying the black woman and putting sunshine over the white woman and other cultures with white skin.

So please name (10) ten things or more that black women are at fault for and other races can not claim responsibility for the same.

Sydney™

12/6/09, 14:01:pm

@Be Real

“I was busy yesterday and didnt catch it until last night but someone else talked about Willie Lynch on the Tank section and he made really good points about whats wrong with some black men and why they think the way they do. I loved the fact that he said he was a black man and chose to not put up with it and allow other black men to think for himself and persuade him to not date black women.”

That was Film. He’s one of the most self-aware, well-informed, erudite men I’ve seen post on this site. He offers a nice counter-balance to the usual vitriol.

Sydney™

12/6/09, 14:03:pm

@getting down

“have your guys notice how the tied has turned and now they blame black women and talk down about them all the time.”

Everyone has noticed, including other races. You now have YouTube videos created by black men that specifically debase black women in heavy rotation for the world to see.

Be Real

12/6/09, 14:08:pm

@getting down

I totally understand what you are saying but a lot of people including yourself always want to say black woman are at fault for this and that. But if people are honest with each other and themselves, aren’t females of other races at fault for the same things? IF THERE IS ANY BLAME AT ALL….Why are people magnifying the black woman and putting sunshine over the white woman and other cultures with white skin.
But if people are honest with each other and themselves, aren’t females of other races at fault for the same things? IF THERE IS ANY BLAME AT ALL….Why are people magnifying the black woman and putting sunshine over the white woman and other cultures with white skin.
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I cant name ten things that is wrong with us and I have never always said that black women are whats wrong in our community is ALL OUR FAULT. You cant say that we dont bring some things on ourselves like dating the wrong type of black man and sometimes we know this and continue to do it. Us sistas can make better choices for ourselves. White women are at fault for other things too and I have never understood that when white women do things like chasing after a black man, black men defend them because shes a white woman and she can never do anything wrong.

Be Real

12/6/09, 14:13:pm

*chasing after a black mans money*

@Sydney

Thank you. I really enjoyed what he had to say. He was on point and I printed his comment to show one of my friends to get her opinion.

deerrick

12/6/09, 14:13:pm

you can’t blame the white women, for getting caught.. blame tiger woods.. for getting himself caught out there…

well tiger is technically not soley black/asian.. he said he’s caublasian.. (caucasion, black asian.. whatever..)

hopefully he learn to be more descrete…

you know, you can’t knock a man, for having a type… tiger has a type.. white women… i wouldn’t call it self hate.. thats just his prefference

reddnwood

12/6/09, 14:14:pm

So now he would have been better off if he had cheated with some sistas and/or some Asians?! Unbelievable!

Sydney™

12/6/09, 14:17:pm

@Be Real

“Thank you. I really enjoyed what he had to say. He was on point and I printed his comment to show one of my friends to get her opinion.”

Sure thing. I enjoyed reading his posts as well.

sallyk

12/6/09, 14:18:pm

um, tiger woods is also half asian… so why isn’t people mad that he should be dating asian women..
the man is married.. does it make it better that he cheated with sistas?? does that even make any sense..

sallyk

12/6/09, 14:22:pm

tiger does date black women, he dated tyra banks back in 97! look it up…

Brnangl

12/6/09, 14:28:pm

The white women can have him. He’s not that fine anyway. WOW! But who knew the arrogant wannabe was good in the sack.

WordtotheWise

12/6/09, 14:30:pm

Hey there, Sydney!

WordtotheWise

12/6/09, 14:34:pm

Sydney™
12/6/09, 14:03:pm

@getting down

“have your guys notice how the tied has turned and now they blame black women and talk down about them all the time.”

Everyone has noticed, including other races. You now have YouTube videos created by black men that specifically debase black women in heavy rotation for the world to see.
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Oh, yes. Youtube if full of angry, bitter black men’s rants. They spend so much time debasing us, yet they say they don’t want us. That makes no sense.

Sydney, can you direct me to Film’s take on this. I sure have missed him.

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 14:34:pm

Be Real
12/6/09, 14:08:pm

@getting down

I totally understand what you are saying but a lot of people including yourself always want to say black woman are at fault for this and that. But if people are honest with each other and themselves, aren’t females of other races at fault for the same things? IF THERE IS ANY BLAME AT ALL….Why are people magnifying the black woman and putting sunshine over the white woman and other cultures with white skin.
But if people are honest with each other and themselves, aren’t females of other races at fault for the same things? IF THERE IS ANY BLAME AT ALL….Why are people magnifying the black woman and putting sunshine over the white woman and other cultures with white skin.
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I cant name ten things that is wrong with us and I have never always said that black women are whats wrong in our community is ALL OUR FAULT. You cant say that we dont bring some things on ourselves like dating the wrong type of black man and sometimes we know this and continue to do it. Us sistas can make better choices for ourselves. White women are at fault for other things too and I have never understood that when white women do things like chasing after a black man, black men defend them because shes a white woman and she can never do anything wrong.
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Here’s the black woman’s list:

1) Poor choices in men…ie, “Thugs”…

2)Having children out of wedlock…

3)Self esteem issues…

4)Obesity, and the refusal to excercise…

5)Constantly allowing friends/family to dictate how you interact with your mate…

6)Loud and obnoxious behavior…(Sheryl Underwood is a pro at it!!!)

7)Refusal to insist that partners wear birth control…

Holding their mates to certain standards, yet they don’t want to adhere to those of their mates..

9)Inconsiderate, and demeaning….

10)Can’t take criticism…

Now before you overload my server with hate mail, I’ll post one on White women too……

Mel S

12/6/09, 14:34:pm

@WTH–HIis mom is Philipino not White.

WordtotheWise

12/6/09, 14:35:pm

****Off topic****

Is anyone else getting virus detection warnings when they visit Bossip?

WordtotheWise

12/6/09, 14:37:pm

Mel S
12/6/09, 14:34:pm

@WTH–HIis mom is Philipino not White.
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Tiger’s mon is not Philipino. She is Thai and Chinese.

WordtotheWise

12/6/09, 14:38:pm

Hey Daywalker – what’s up?

Do you want to also a list of black men and their sins as well? If not, I can do so.

Mel S

12/6/09, 14:38:pm

@Kley–Why is it that when women from other races straigthen or curl their hair, it’s seen as nothing but if a black women straightens her hair, she’s seen as self hating.

getting down

12/6/09, 14:39:pm

I asked for someone to name ten things black women are at fault for and WHITE WOMEN can not be at fault of the same thing. @ Day, what you have listed will fall into the category of white women and other races…..So try again.

Sydney™

12/6/09, 14:39:pm

@Word

Hey girl, we’re both thread jumping, lol. And, yes, I’m getting virus detection warnings as well.

“Oh, yes. Youtube if full of angry, bitter black men’s rants. They spend so much time debasing us, yet they say they don’t want us. That makes no sense.

Sydney, can you direct me to Film’s take on this. I sure have missed him.”

A brother recently told me that he came across a YouTube video made by two black men who ranted about sisters for 10 to 15 minutes. They each claimed they hated black women and neither loved anyblack women other than their mothers and sisters.

Film posted on the first Tank thread from Friday.

getting down

12/6/09, 14:40:pm

I post this on the other thread but wanted to post it here as well.

Over the last several years I have noticed the mentality of black men going from bad to worse. Below is a list of the words some black men use and it shows their lack of mental growth, instability, and mental confusion.

Call girlfriends “Ma”……Shows their child like thinking and wanting to be babied.

Wearing earrings……..Shows they want to look feminine (it’s not cool).

Wearing long hair and french braids…….Shows they want to look feminine, again.

Call their house the “crib”…….Shows again, they want to be in that childlike position.

Wants to be called “daddy”…….Shows they want to be in superior position. Are they looking at their sex partner as the child and they are they sexual abusing parent?

When will black men stand up to the plate, dress and speak in a professional manner and WANT TO BE “ALL” MAN.

Sydney™

12/6/09, 14:40:pm

SMH @ Daywalker

And the vitriol continues, lol. . .

FILM, WHERE ARE YOU?

Sydney™

12/6/09, 14:41:pm

@Word

“Do you want to also a list of black men and their sins as well? If not, I can do so.”

I say we should let them do the bashing — They don’t know any better. Poor things. . .

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 14:43:pm

White Women:

1)Too accepting of promiscuity..

2)Wear too much makeup…

3)Can’t cook…

4)Totally clueless about black cultural issues most of the time…

5) Most I’ve met aren’t religious…

6)Too clingy sometimes…

7)Wear just as much fake hair as sistas, but don’t get called on it…

8)Don’t usually age well….

9)Don’t deal with adverity well most of the time…

10)Actually believe the media hype that they are the most beautiful women on the planet…..

JoVah

12/6/09, 14:43:pm

First of all Marquis is gay and is jealous of women, so just ignore him. The sad truth is that white women are running black men in the good ole us of a. They have them in deep check. Tiger is living proof. Sad but true. Voluntary slavery. Weakest generation of black men in the history of this country. Hands down.

I’m a dude and I agree with you. I think so many black men have self hating qualities about them and Tiger is the poster child for hating his own race. I see nothing wrong with dating outside of your race. But, when you put down your own women in the process, it makes you look stupid and like a self hating jerk. I’ve dating white women because really, they are easy to *****. It is really as simple as that. It takes a stronger man to go for quality women. Tiger had w*****s every where.

Look at the hot Halle Berry. Always dated black dudes, but they dogged her out. Took a white guy to treat her like the Queen she is and stay faithful and true to her. Not once have I read anywhere that Halle put black guys down in order to justify dating a white guy. Tiger is just the typical black dude with money. ***** white w*****s…marry them…and hate their own race.

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 14:46:pm

Sydney™
12/6/09, 14:40:pm

SMH @ Daywalker

And the vitriol continues, lol. . .

FILM, WHERE ARE YOU?
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See what I mean?? I made out 2 different lists on 2 different types of women, but I’m the one who gets attacked?? Shame on you, Syd!!!

Sydney™

12/6/09, 14:48:pm

@Day

There are two different lists full of stereotypes of black and white women. Shame on you, bruh. Shame on you.

*looking for Film’s intelligent post to share*

Be Real

12/6/09, 14:49:pm

@Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

I already said poor choices in men, so scratch that from your list.

2)Having children out of wedlock…
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Since when can a woman have a child by herself? Some black men need to step up to the plate and take care of their child, even if the baby was conceived with a woman who you don’t care about it. Its still your child so stop making excusing like she set me up.

3)Self esteem issues…
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More black men have self-hating issues, which is nothing but a self-esteem issue

4)Obesity, and the refusal to excercise…
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What really makes me laugh is when a black man complains that his girl or wife isnt in shape, but he has a beer gut and isnt in shape himself. Everyone needs to workout. Diabetes, heart disease doesnt just fall at the black womans feet.

5)Constantly allowing friends/family to dictate how you interact with your mate…
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Men don’t do that?
6)Loud and obnoxious behavior…(Sheryl Underwood is a pro at it!!!)
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Men calling each other the n word in public is loud and obnoxious.

7)Refusal to insist that partners wear birth control…
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A man doenst have to have sex with a woman without using protection. Thats a choice that he makes to stick his ***** in her *****. If you do so, you should be held responsible for what may come later… a baby.

Holding their mates to certain standards, yet they don’t want to adhere to those of their mates..
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Right. . Like some black men dont put white women on pedestals. You are buying into the European standard of beauty. . White is right

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 14:56:pm

Sydney™
12/6/09, 14:48:pm

@Day

There are two different lists full of stereotypes of black and white women. Shame on you, bruh. Shame on you.

*looking for Film’s intelligent post to share*
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Fine, we agree to disagree, but I still say that women of all races do some of the same things…It just so happens that black women love to point the finger, but don’t like it being pointed back at them most of the time…Same thing with black men….We do plenty to make ourselves look bad, but notice that the media never makes a big deal of that???? Either way, I look at it this way: People are people, and everyone does things to make others upset some of the time…It HAPPENS!!! LOL!!!

Sydney™

12/6/09, 14:57:pm

@Word

Here’s an excerpt from Film’s post yesterday (I don’t think he would mind me re-posting it). There are single quotes around the comments from another poster to which he responded:

‘Then when a Black man is Good, Loving , Caring , and Supportive of his Woman ….. The Black ***** Cheats on him and has 4 kids with 4 other dudes ….. turns around and says its your ” You kno thas your baby’

I see. This is why you have an extreme feeling of antipathy towards black women. Someone broke your heart, and instead of making a distinction between a past relationship failure with a particular black woman, you generalize all of them. Yeah, that’s NeGGa Sh*t.

‘And actually …. BLACK Woman are the lowest ..get the facts str8’

There’s definitely an existence of ingenious, exemplary black women with an appreciation for black men. I’m involved with an astute, educated sister who graduated from a very prestigious university. And for the record, I have never had a problem finding a suitable, professional black woman. Also, I’ve met several black women who do not hold college degrees, and are admirable, and intelligent. So, yes, black women who are worthy of imitation, with morals/values, are prevalent in our community. Maybe you should pick and choose your environment.

For the most part, I believe that individuals are cognizant of the behavior of their significant others prior to becoming involved exclusively in a relationship. Sometimes, they just choose to ignore those pessimistic traits along with other dominant dispositions that women of ‘ALL ETHINIC BACKGROUNDS’ exhibit.

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 14:58:pm

Sydney™
12/6/09, 14:48:pm

@Day

There are two different lists full of stereotypes of black and white women. Shame on you, bruh. Shame on you.

*looking for Film’s intelligent post to share*
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And for the record, I’m as shameless as they come!!! You know that!!!

Sydney™

12/6/09, 14:59:pm

@Day

“Fine, we agree to disagree, but I still say that women of all races do some of the same things…”

Then why didn’t you create one list for ALL women, rather than breaking the traits down by race?

rose by any other name #9304026339482056536 ™

12/6/09, 15:02:pm

@living with no regrets~~~ You are right, I said it before “ white women knew he was a jerk when they saw he dated only white women, they flew after him like the pigeon heads they are> All they want is black di-k and to take the black mans money, simple because they know that idiot is living in the brain washed world that white fokks have always tried to make like.. white is better!1 abd we all know thats a dman lie!!

Be Real

12/6/09, 15:02:pm

@Sydney

His entire post was excellent. I loved how he started his comment off by taking about slavery, the effects of slavery, and defending black women. Phenomenal.

getting down

12/6/09, 15:03:pm

The more DAY speaks, the more transparent he becomes and we began to get a true sense of his feelings….***shaking my head***

WordtotheWise

12/6/09, 15:03:pm

Sydney™
12/6/09, 14:39:pm

@Word

Hey girl, we’re both thread jumping, lol. And, yes, I’m getting virus detection warnings as well.

Hey sweetie. Ok, so I’m not alone with this. I hope Bossip fixes their site soon.

“Oh, yes. Youtube if full of angry, bitter black men’s rants. They spend so much time debasing us, yet they say they don’t want us. That makes no sense.

Sydney, can you direct me to Film’s take on this. I sure have missed him.”

A brother recently told me that he came across a YouTube video made by two black men who ranted about sisters for 10 to 15 minutes. They each claimed they hated black women and neither loved anyblack women other than their mothers and sisters.

How sad for them. They clearly have issues that need immediate attention. I actually feel sorry for them or for anyone with so much hatred or bitterness.

I just read your other post about “bashing” and you are right. What does that accomplish, and it only brings me down to their ignorant level. I’ll leave that to them.

Film posted on the first Tank thread from Friday.

Ok, I’ll have to go back and read it. He is awesome.

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 15:05:pm

Sydney™
12/6/09, 14:57:pm
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Okay, so from his post, he found the exception, not the rule! Women of any color have been known to do shady things, so to be honest with you, if someone chooses not to be with a person based on prior experiences, that is their choice!!! Can’t hate on some one if they feel a certain way…That’s their right, SYD….

Sydney™

12/6/09, 15:06:pm

@Be Real

“His entire post was excellent. I loved how he started his comment off by taking about slavery, the effects of slavery, and defending black women. Phenomenal.”

Yes, it was excellent. He knows his history and loves and respects his people. He’s a phenomenal man.

Sydney™

12/6/09, 15:07:pm

@Day

“Okay, so from his post, he found the exception, not the rule!”

Who are you referring to? Film?

rose by any other name #9304026339482056536 ™

12/6/09, 15:07:pm

WE ALL AS BLACK MEN AND WOMEN NEED TO GET OUT OF THIS MINDFOLD THINKING THAT WHITE IS BETTER, THATS WHAT THE WHITE MAN WANTS YOU TO THNK AND HE ALWAYS HAS. WHY FALL INTO HIS TRAP..look at the trap set for millions of years ago, first the white man tells his daughters not to date a black man for all kinds of reasons! now that that skank didnt pay that no attention, they are pushing them all up on the rich black man1.. to get that money what else? Do you actually think that white man that introduced that Elin (nanny) to Tiger would have done that if he was some average black joe blow on the street1 HELL NO!

Be Real

12/6/09, 15:07:pm

@getting down

The more DAY speaks, the more transparent he becomes and we began to get a true sense of his feelings….***shaking my head***
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I agree. Hell start back up once Marquis or 6 am come in.

Bet

12/6/09, 15:07:pm

At first I too was questioning why Tiger never preferred black women, but then I had to think about it. Tiger father is black, but his mother is asian…i think. Therefore, Tiger never had a problem w/ interracial relationships since Tiger’s father was down w/ the swirl. Therefore, Tiger probably did not have a strong black female presence in his life *****uming that he did not have much interactions with his father’s mother. But who knows if his father’s mother is black. So Tiger has no strong connection w/ dating a black woman because he was not directly exposed to having a black mother. Tiger does not even considers himself fully black so of course he likes other races.

getting down

12/6/09, 15:08:pm

When black men kill dogs society wants their heads….But when black men attack or kill each other it isn’t a major issue to society.

Some black men are still to ignorant to see that society (white men) have placed little value on them. They have placed a dog as being more valuable.

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 15:09:pm

getting down
12/6/09, 15:03:pm

The more DAY speaks, the more transparent he becomes and we began to get a true sense of his feelings….***shaking my head***
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Let’s get a few things straight here…I never said I personally felt this or any other way, but I will state that a lot of brothers do…As for being transparent, you can ask me my personal feelings, and I’ll gladly share them…Till you do, speculate all you wish…

Be Real

12/6/09, 15:11:pm

@Daywalker

someone chooses not to be with a person based on prior experiences, that is their choice!!!
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The problem with some black men is that carry their hurt from the past and use it as the main reason why they dont date black women. If every race used this excuse, no one would be dating or having sex because we have all been hurt before.

Sydney™

12/6/09, 15:11:pm

“The more DAY speaks, the more transparent he becomes and we began to get a true sense of his feelings….***shaking my head***”

Yeah, he’s about to put his foot in his mouth, but I’m ready for it.

Old Timer

12/6/09, 15:17:pm

I always wondered why Tiger, a Stanford University graduate would want to date and marry a nanny.

However, Tiger was absolutely correct in doing so. He married a nanny because he is a child and a nanny takes care of a child.

Despite all of his wealth and athletic ability, he is a silly, immature, selfish child.

getting down

12/6/09, 15:21:pm

Pretty soon we will hear about little Beckys and little Billys that Tiger is the father of outside of his marriage.

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 15:21:pm

Be Real
12/6/09, 15:11:pm

@Daywalker

someone chooses not to be with a person based on prior experiences, that is their choice!!!
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The problem with some black men is that carry their hurt from the past and use it as the main reason why they dont date black women. If every race used this excuse, no one would be dating or having sex because we have all been hurt before.
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And I’d agree with you…The thing is: I personally deal with people on a basis where I see how they are for myself…I would be a bold faced liar if I said that past experiences didn’t influence my actions…But I wouldn’t base a present way of dealing with some one solely on issues I’ve had in the past…In short, I give everyone a “clean slate”…It’s up to them if they choose to “dirty” it…(If that makes any sense)

Starter

12/6/09, 15:22:pm

Tiger you are an idiot and this was some bytch as$ moves you made buddy! Don’t come running to your black race when the white man finish chewing and spitting your dumb As$ out over this!

AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWSHADDAAAP!!!!!

12/6/09, 15:23:pm

Sheryl Underwood needs to stay in her lane. I think she’s ’suspect’ for being a Black Republican.

Old Timer

12/6/09, 15:24:pm

Tiger is an only child and he has always been doted on by his parents. His golfing prowess allowed the public to dote on him too.

His wife, Elin probably doted on him too,until she had the baby. Then she couldn’t pay him as much attention and he got mad and hurt. He felt ignored and lashed out by having the affairs. He’s a child.

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 15:25:pm

Sydney™
12/6/09, 15:11:pm

“The more DAY speaks, the more transparent he becomes and we began to get a true sense of his feelings….***shaking my head***”

Yeah, he’s about to put his foot in his mouth, but I’m ready for it.
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Et tu, SYD??? Et tu??? Oh, ye of little faith….

satch

12/6/09, 15:29:pm

there are some fine women in every group.every group got gold diggers.but don,t try to tell me who to date that,s aryan nation talk.but you can,t get the rich dude if you got 2 kids by time you are 21.and way too fine sisters are babied out by 25.

Sydney™

12/6/09, 15:30:pm

@Day

“Et tu, SYD??? Et tu??? Oh, ye of little faith….”

I’m still unclear on who you were referring to as having found the “exception.”

There’s too much misogyny on this site for me to have much faith. Sorry.

Sydney™

12/6/09, 15:31:pm

Yes, Julius, et tu.

Old Timer

12/6/09, 15:32:pm

Unlike others, I don’t think that many of Tiger’s issues have to deal with race.

The only problem with the racial issue is that Tiger married a fantasy. Elin was his fantasy partner. Whenever you have a fantasy, reality is seldom far behind and it was not what he wanted. A lot of people choose things that turn out to be malignant for them.

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 15:34:pm

Sydney™
12/6/09, 14:59:pm

@Day

“Fine, we agree to disagree, but I still say that women of all races do some of the same things…”

Then why didn’t you create one list for ALL women, rather than breaking the traits down by race?
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Whups, didn’t see this…

Because if I did that, I’d be here all day!!

Women and men of all races have their stereotypical faults! They all do…I just made lists that were relatable to different races based on the probable stereotypical response….Such as : “White women are freaky”….Now not all are, but more often than not, they are….Or, “Black women are loud when they get mad”….Not all are, but you yourself saw that interview with the press secretary…If a 20 year veteran reporter can lose her cool, then there’s probably some truth to that…..(Just sayin)…

GotYou

12/6/09, 15:34:pm

Tiger and his family have been LYING about their racial identity for many years. Tiger’s dad claimed to be Chinese, African-American and Native-American, his mother claimed to be Thai, Chinese and Dutch. Thus Tiger claiming to be only 1/4 African-American, however there are no do*****entation in Earl Woods’ (Tiger’s Father) history that this is his family makeup. Most family sources actually point to Earl Woods being African-American with scant traces of Native blood. Tiger’s mother’s Dutch ancestry cannot be traced through going back at least three generations. Summary – “TIGER as well as his father are self hating men.” But if would go through these lengths to dilute his BLACKNESS we really should not care.

ALLTHINGSMWNY

12/6/09, 15:36:pm

honestly I don’t feel bad for Tiger he is a grown man who knowingly put himself int this situation. I feel bad for his wife and kids. I don’t care that he married a white woman must black men date anything but black these days anyway so that’s not new. While, I think he only owes his family an apology. I think he is doggedly wrong for cheating with multiple women who obviously have no morals or values or respect for family. They could have turned his advances down but ultimately they are getting what they wanted money and attention.

Sanjor

12/6/09, 15:38:pm

@Daywalker, I enjoy reading your posts.

WordtotheWise

12/6/09, 15:39:pm

satch
12/6/09, 15:29:pm

there are some fine women in every group.every group got gold diggers.but don,t try to tell me who to date that,s aryan nation talk.but you can,t get the rich dude if you got 2 kids by time you are 21.and way too fine sisters are babied out by 25.
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Yeah, Elin didn’t have babies until she was married, but that fact didn’t help her one bit. Having a rich dude doesn’t mean having a GOOD dude. I’d rather marry a man with not so much money (we can work together) than one with a lot of money is of a questionable character.

Sydney™

12/6/09, 15:39:pm

@Day

“Or, “Black women are loud when they get mad”….Not all are, but you yourself saw that interview with the press secretary…If a 20 year veteran reporter can lose her cool, then there’s probably some truth to that…..(Just sayin)…”

Did a white woman not just chase her husband with a three iron?

Hillary Clinton lost her cool during a news conference some months ago in Africa. Maybe she’s an undercover sista, too.

My head hurts. . .

WordtotheWise

12/6/09, 15:40:pm

****off topic****

I wish with Bossip’s new web design that they would’ve included a “reply” button so that we can reply to an individual poster. The would’ve been a great addition if anyone at Bossip is listening.

Sydney™

12/6/09, 15:42:pm

Film covered the Willie Lynch letter yesterday. Perhaps I should go into the history of the creation of stereotypes regarding black women — including the formation of three key archetypes: Jezebel, Sapphire, and Mammy.

Jay32

12/6/09, 15:44:pm

Everybody knows Tiger is a sellout.I’m not calling him a sellout because he married a white women or if he doesn’t like black women.Its because it seems like in my eyes he is ashamed of being black and asian.If you look at tiger’s personality,you would think he was a white man.He doesn’t seem to have any sense of asian and african american culture in him.Everything about him says he is white.The fact that he tries to play down his black side shows that he doesn’t think much of black people.No matter how white he wants to be,in the eyes of the white media he is just another ***** athlete with money.

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 15:44:pm

satch
12/6/09, 15:29:pm

there are some fine women in every group.every group got gold diggers.but don,t try to tell me who to date that,s aryan nation talk.but you can,t get the rich dude if you got 2 kids by time you are 21.and way too fine sisters are babied out by 25.
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Quite true!! Good point….
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Sydney™
12/6/09, 15:30:pm

@Day

“Et tu, SYD??? Et tu??? Oh, ye of little faith….”

I’m still unclear on who you were referring to as having found the “exception.”

There’s too much misogyny on this site for me to have much faith. Sorry.
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I’m guessing it was Film, but either way, I don’t think that you should cheat if you’re in a relationship…Notice, I said “relationship”…If you aren’t serious, you should state that from the beginning and it’s up to that person to decide if they choose to pursue things….Sometimes they work out, sometimes they don’t…But disclosing your intent allows you to avoid any later misgivings….On both parts….(In my experience)

Be Real

12/6/09, 15:45:pm

@Sanjor

@Daywalker, I enjoy reading your posts.

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I have a hard time understanding this. How can you love someones post when they often refer to black women as *****es and they degrade women often? We got to do better.

Old Timer

12/6/09, 15:45:pm

If Tiger does not want to claim any African American blood or culture, let him. It’s really OK. He’s not hurting anyone. If Tiger wants to be an honorary white man at the golf club, let him.

I hesitate to mention that every article that I’ve seen about Tiger and this “incident” have all stated that Tiger is black or African American. The only adjective in front of it was rich.

Sydney™

12/6/09, 15:48:pm

Here are a few links with more info on historical stereotypes of black women which have persisted to this day and continue to affect not only the perceptions of non-blacks, but many in our own race, i.e. internalized racism:

academic.udayton.edu/race/05intersection/Gender/AAWomen01a.htm

@Day

“I’m guessing it was Film”

So you think Film found the “exception?” The exception to what? Please elaborate.

getting down

12/6/09, 15:50:pm

And of course Sanjor appears AFTER people and myself said they notice how DAY really feels..lmao

WordtotheWise

12/6/09, 15:51:pm

Sydney™
12/6/09, 15:39:pm

@Day

“Or, “Black women are loud when they get mad”….Not all are, but you yourself saw that interview with the press secretary…If a 20 year veteran reporter can lose her cool, then there’s probably some truth to that…..(Just sayin)…”

Did a white woman not just chase her husband with a three iron?

Hillary Clinton lost her cool during a news conference some months ago in Africa. Maybe she’s an undercover sista, too.

My head hurts. . .
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Sydney, my dear, men like Marquis, 6 a.m. don’t like to cast shadows on the almight white female so they’ll tend to ignore such facts.

Old Timer

12/6/09, 15:52:pm

Tiger has the PWP (Prostitution without Pay) gene. His father was promiscous and his mother was a hooker from Thailand. Apples don’t ever fall far from the tree.

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 15:54:pm

Sanjor
12/6/09, 15:38:pm

@Daywalker, I enjoy reading your posts.
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You brighten my day as well, dear lady!!!

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Sydney™
12/6/09, 15:39:pm

@Day

“Or, “Black women are loud when they get mad”….Not all are, but you yourself saw that interview with the press secretary…If a 20 year veteran reporter can lose her cool, then there’s probably some truth to that…..(Just sayin)…”

Did a white woman not just chase her husband with a three iron?

Hillary Clinton lost her cool during a news conference some months ago in Africa. Maybe she’s an undercover sista, too.

My head hurts. . .
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Okay, and ZSA ZSA Gabor slapped a guy, Diana Ross frisked an airport security guard, and Naomi Campbell spat in some one’s face before!! People of any color can get upset and act irrationally, but I wasn’t referring to them…I specifically referred to a specific occurrance, and you chose to justify her behavior based on Hillary Clinton’s actions…Newsflash: Hillary was somewhat out of order, but believe me, “sista gurl” was far more disrespectful in my opinion!! The mere fact that you choose to minimize it makes no difference! She was wrong, SYD…..

getting down

12/6/09, 15:54:pm

I have many black male friends and they all admit that the only reason they date white women is because they are stupid, gullible, easy to get in bed and they can control them. My male friends said 99.999999% of the time a white girl will give them oral sex in the club and don’t even know them.

I have heard this so many times until it ridiculous

Sydney™

12/6/09, 15:55:pm

Clarification: I believe Hillary was actually fielding questions from students in Africa during her recent trip. I think there was an error in the translation of the student’s question, which she misconstrued and responded to very rudely, and it made headlines.

@Word

Girl, this is too much.

@Old Timer

Laughing @ “PWP”

getting down

12/6/09, 15:57:pm

Old Timer

12/6/09, 15:52:pm

Tiger has the PWP (Prostitution without Pay) gene. His father was promiscous and his mother was a hooker from Thailand. Apples don’t ever fall far from the tree.

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What!!!! This probably explains why he has a liking for white prostitutes.

WordtotheWise

12/6/09, 15:57:pm

Be Real
12/6/09, 15:45:pm

@Sanjor

@Daywalker, I enjoy reading your posts.

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I have a hard time understanding this. How can you love someones post when they often refer to black women as *****es and they degrade women often? We got to do better.
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Because she’s part of Kilgali’s group. They think alike.

Sydney™

12/6/09, 15:58:pm

@Day

“Newsflash: Hillary was somewhat out of order, but believe me, “sista gurl” was far more disrespectful in my opinion!! The mere fact that you choose to minimize it makes no difference! She was wrong, SYD…..”

How am I minimizing it? Both were wrong, but you’re clearly drawing a distinction in the behavior of black women compared with women of all races. I attempted (albeit unsuccessfully) to show you that you’re repeating stereotypes that were created generations ago and continue to contribute to the divisions among us.

And, again, I ask, could you please elaborate on what you referred to as the “exception?” The exception to what?

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 15:59:pm

Be Real
12/6/09, 15:45:pm

@Sanjor

@Daywalker, I enjoy reading your posts.

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I have a hard time understanding this. How can you love someones post when they often refer to black women as *****es and they degrade women often? We got to do better.
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Could you refer me to where I made such a statement?? I never call Black women “B*tches”…I will call someone a B*TCH is it is the proper tem to use when referring to them…Case in point: “Naomi Campbell is a B*tch for dating a married man publicly…” See how that works???

Sydney™

12/6/09, 16:00:pm

Were you saying, Day, that Film met the “exception” to black women in general? *trying to coax a response/clarification out of you*

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 16:00:pm

if it is the proper term* (typo)

getting down

12/6/09, 16:03:pm

@ Old Timer

I would not be surprised by what you wrote. In the asian countries they train their girls as young as 5 yrs old to be prostitutes. The 5 yr old girls usually give oral sex and refer to it as ” yum yum”. Then a few years later around 9 yrs old they graduate them to full fledged sexual intercourse.

There are even cases when the asian boys are the pimps for their mothers who are the prostitues.

WordtotheWise

12/6/09, 16:03:pm

@Sydney, Isn’t this something (smh in amazement!)

Okay, I hate to be a pest, but I am trying to locate Film’s comments. I went to the Tank thread and did a search for Film, but got no response. What am I doing wrong?

Be Real

12/6/09, 16:03:pm

@Wordtothewise

Because she’s part of Kilgali’s group. They think alike.
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I know shes apart of her group. I just dont get it. I think most of the men on here that always co-sign Kigali hate black women, whether they know it or not.

The Truth

12/6/09, 16:03:pm

These pro athletes are just foolish. They have an air of invincibility and these black athletes are the dumbest of all. Did Tiger actually think that these Beckies were all going to keep their mouths shut. His self-esteem must be zero. Men usually go with a woman who he feel matches himself. That is why Barack Obama is with an Ivy League educated intelligent Black woman. That is a reflection of himself.

Now I’m not against interracial relationships. But don’t go around thinking that Becky or Lu Ling are better simply because they are not Black. I know several men who believed that myth and have lived to regret it.

But who does Tiger end up with? A nanny. A waitress, a convict, a girl who is a spokesperson for nastygirls.com. In other words, trailer trash and unpaid prostitutes. You are who you sleep with.

I feel for his wife though. And the kids. They don’t deserve having to deal this man’s deep internal issues in front of the whole wide world.

Asia

12/6/09, 16:07:pm

I see what she’s saying but at the same time if he likes white women then that’s just what he likes. Who are we do dictate who he wants to be with?

Be Real

12/6/09, 16:07:pm

@Daywalker

Could you refer me to where I made such a statement?? I never call Black women “B*tches”…I will call someone a B*TCH is it is the proper tem to use when referring to them…Case in point: “Naomi Campbell is a B*tch for dating a married man publicly…” See how that works???
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You cant be for real. You have been degrading women and referring to black women as *****es often. I dont feel like going back and searching for your comments but when I see you do it from now on, I will tell you about it. Like I said earlier, if 6 am or Marquis were in here, youd be doing it.

Sydney™

12/6/09, 16:09:pm

@Word

The search function didn’t work for me either. I had to search for the thread manually — It’s on page 4, I believe. Here’s the link — Let me know if it doesn’t work for you:

bossip.com/186440/tank-calls-his-baby-mama-out-on-twitter-and-releases-a-new-jawn-i-was-wasted-but-my-son-is-not-a-mistake/#comments

Sydney™

12/6/09, 16:11:pm

“I think most of the men on here that always co-sign Kigali hate black women, whether they know it or not.”

I, too, agree that a considerable number of male posters on here seem to be unaware that they display a high level of antipathy for black women. I have to chuckle every time I see a sentence that begins with, “I love my sisters BUT. . .” (usually ends with an insult/stereotype).

WordtotheWise

12/6/09, 16:12:pm

Be Real
12/6/09, 16:03:pm

@Wordtothewise

Because she’s part of Kilgali’s group. They think alike.
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I know shes apart of her group. I just dont get it. I think most of the men on here that always co-sign Kigali hate black women, whether they know it or not.
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Yeah, I don’t get it either. They are very confused individuals. As far as the hate for black women, I agree. I believe they probably had domineering mothers, thus, they hate black women because they hate/dislike their mamas.

WordtotheWise

12/6/09, 16:12:pm

@Sydney, thank you, girl! I’m going there right now.

Ara

12/6/09, 16:14:pm

@ Robert

Most African Americans are mixed with some other race considering our history of being raped by the white man and interracial marriages. As far as who he married, I could care less. He married who he wanted to marry for whatever reason, but I’ll say AGAIN he has some identification issues.

getting down

12/6/09, 16:14:pm

Tiger probably secretly hates his mother that is why he ran to women of another race. Most men who love and adore their mothers will want to be with a woman like her. But when a man hates his mother, he choose a race different from hers.

You notice we never saw him showing his mother and real affection in public even when his father was alive….Reports have said that his mother and Elin’s mother was in the house the night of the fight…..My question is, if the fight escalated outside why didn’t the neighbor who called the police witness Tiger’s mother outside somewhere trying to stop Elin from attacking him?

What mother do you know will not try to stop their sons wife from attacking him????? It doesn’t matter how old the son is, especially if they had a close relationship.

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 16:15:pm

Sydney™
12/6/09, 15:58:pm

@Day

“Newsflash: Hillary was somewhat out of order, but believe me, “sista gurl” was far more disrespectful in my opinion!! The mere fact that you choose to minimize it makes no difference! She was wrong, SYD…..”

How am I minimizing it? Both were wrong, but you’re clearly drawing a distinction in the behavior of black women compared with women of all races. I attempted (albeit unsuccessfully) to show you that you’re repeating stereotypes that were created generations ago and continue to contribute to the divisions among us.

And, again, I ask, could you please elaborate on what you referred to as the “exception?” The exception to what?
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I merely stated that Hillary was answering a student, and went off..Was she justified in her behavior?? No, but in her defense, the translator was primarily at fault, not her…As for “The exception” there are plenty of good, hard working, god fearing and desirable black women of color in America!! They get up, go to work and provide society with role models for young women to emulate, and I love them for it!!! But at the same time, there are also plenty of bitter, lethargic, low self esteem having black women who hate black men based solely on the fact that they never had the experience of having a father in their lives….In short, the question is: If you have a father, what or why did things not work out?? My father has been a part of my life for as long as I’ve been alive…My oldest sister was 42 before she died, and My parents were married before they had her…Guess what?? My mom and dad are still together!! So what is it that kept my parents together?? I’ll tell you, since you want to ask…It was RESPECT,COMMITMENT, COURAGE, LOYALTY, TRUST AND A WHOLE LOT OF LOVE, SYD…Too often in today’s society, There just isn’t a whole lot of it…If you find it, consider yourself blessed, because it is rare….

Be Real

12/6/09, 16:17:pm

@Sydney

I have to chuckle every time I see a sentence that begins with,“I love my sisters BUT. . .” (usually ends with an insult/stereotype).
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I see it often too and I just shake my head and say you cant be serious.

@Wordtothewise

I believe they probably had domineering mothers, thus, they hate black women because they hate/dislike their mamas.
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Yep, its so crystal clear that they do hate their mamas and some actually think that they can look at another black women and feel different about them.

Sydney™

12/6/09, 16:18:pm

@Day

My parents are still married as well.

“If you find it, consider yourself blessed, because it is rare….”

I have found it — with a man who doesn’t believe that exceptional black women are the “exception.”

therealrothschild

12/6/09, 16:18:pm

i used to do sports radio back in the day around the time tiger debuted and said he wasnt just black, he was also thai. i remember lighting into his ***** because i knew from this comment from the jump he was a coon. black folks on the hotline spoke out against my comments and were in denial. said he has the right to claim allhis ethnicities. tried to say i was puttin a brother down, but tiger aint no brotha! like i said back then…if tiger went to jail, he’d be a ***** on paper straight up. im hella mixed too…but guess what, the african makes me…what????? our nation over here in the states is weak. anybody of african decent should be the first to stand up and contribute to our consensus/population. i notice how its not cool to be black nowadays. *****s runnin around here getting mad if u say theyre black or turned off by dark girls, or nappy hair. what a confused bunch of negroes. just like tiger. tiger *****s white girls as a status reminder. he is a sad man. i still have love for tiger though cause right now, we might be mad at him, but he needs support. i feel so sorry for him.

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 16:18:pm

Be Real
12/6/09, 16:07:pm

@Daywalker

Could you refer me to where I made such a statement?? I never call Black women “B*tches”…I will call someone a B*TCH is it is the proper tem to use when referring to them…Case in point: “Naomi Campbell is a B*tch for dating a married man publicly…” See how that works???
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You cant be for real. You have been degrading women and referring to black women as *****es often. I dont feel like going back and searching for your comments but when I see you do it from now on, I will tell you about it. Like I said earlier, if 6 am or Marquis were in here, youd be doing it.
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Well, please do tell me all about myself!! And the next time you bash a black man, I’ll do the same!! DEAL????

Be Real

12/6/09, 16:19:pm

@Sydney

As for “The exception” there are plenty of good, hard working, god fearing and desirable black women of color in America!! They get up, go to work and provide society with role models for young women to emulate, and I love them for it!!! But at the same time, there are also plenty of bitter, lethargic, low self esteem having black women who hate black men based solely on the fact that they never had the experience of having a father in their lives…
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Theres that BUT. Are you chuckling?

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 16:22:pm

Sydney™
12/6/09, 16:18:pm

@Day

My parents are still married as well.

“If you find it, consider yourself blessed, because it is rare….”

I have found it — with a man who doesn’t believe that exceptional black women are the “exception.”
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Congratulations!!! Now could you please help some of your sistas make better choices in men??? The world would be better off!!! Thanks!!!

Be Real

12/6/09, 16:22:pm

@Daywalker

The difference is I say SOME black men when making a comment. I don’t stereotype them all.

Sydney™

12/6/09, 16:23:pm

Oh, and you’re defending Hills’ ugly little outburst in another country? lol

There are plenty of other times when she also lost her cool during the campaign. I think, at one point, Keith Olbermann devoted one of his “special messages” to her on one particularly ugly episode.

@Be Real

“I see it often too and I just shake my head and say you cant be serious.”

Oh, but they are serious. They think they “love” the sisters. LOL!

WhatEVER

12/6/09, 16:24:pm

Who Tiger Woods chooses to date is HIS business, HIS concern. It doesn’t affect my lifestyle one bit.

Sheryl Underwood is 1) angry, 2) over-weight and 3) UGLY (eeew)! She has a WHOLE LOT to work on, without worrying about who Tiger Woods dates.

Sydney™

12/6/09, 16:27:pm

@Be Real

“Theres that BUT. Are you chuckling?”

LMAO! I was just thinking, why does all this “love” for black women come with so many caveats? I think it’s so ingrained, they’re not even aware of what they’re conveying. It’s part of their subconscious.

@Day

“Now could you please help some of your sistas make better choices in men??? The world would be better off!!! Thanks!!!”

Can you help some of your brothers be better men worth selecting? The world — and the black community — would be better off. Thanks!!

WordtotheWise

12/6/09, 16:31:pm

@Sydney -

Film is an AMAZING brother. I’m telling you girl, he shuts all the arguments down. It’s funny because I don’t see him here as much as I used to. The brother brought it home!

Be Real

12/6/09, 16:32:pm

@Sydney

LMAO! I was just thinking, why does all this “love” for black women come with so many caveats? I think it’s so ingrained, they’re not even aware of what they’re conveying. It’s part of their subconscious.
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LMAO, I totally agree. When I express my love for black men there is never a but.

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 16:33:pm

Sydney™
12/6/09, 16:23:pm

Oh, and you’re defending Hills’ ugly little outburst in another country? lol

There are plenty of other times when she also lost her cool during the campaign. I think, at one point, Keith Olbermann devoted one of his “special messages” to her on one particularly ugly episode.

@Be Real

“I see it often too and I just shake my head and say you cant be serious.”

Oh, but they are serious. They think they “love” the sisters. LOL!
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I’m not defending anything! I said that she was wrong and overreacted due to an error in communication…Read what I wrote, SYD…
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Be Real
12/6/09, 16:22:pm

@Daywalker

The difference is I say SOME black men when making a comment. I don’t stereotype them all.
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And I have stated numerous times that my comments are not all encomp*****ing…That being said, if what I say doesn’t apply to you, keep it moving…If it does, take it as constructive criticism…But I refuse to sit here and let some of these females think they can do no wrong when they clearly engineer their own misfortune in relationships…down play it all you wish, but the simple fact is that they choose to turn a blind eye to their faults…..
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Sydney™

12/6/09, 16:33:pm

@Word

“Film is an AMAZING brother.”

He sure is.

“I’m telling you girl, he shuts all the arguments down. It’s funny because I don’t see him here as much as I used to.”

There’s a reason for that, I’m afraid. He’s like an alien on this site, too, lol.

WordtotheWise

12/6/09, 16:33:pm

Sydney™
12/6/09, 16:27:pm

@Be Real

“Theres that BUT. Are you chuckling?”

LMAO! I was just thinking, why does all this “love” for black women come with so many caveats? I think it’s so ingrained, they’re not even aware of what they’re conveying. It’s part of their subconscious.

@Day

“Now could you please help some of your sistas make better choices in men??? The world would be better off!!! Thanks!!!”

Can you help some of your brothers be better men worth selecting? The world — and the black community — would be better off. Thanks!!
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Preach!

Ms.EJ

12/6/09, 16:34:pm

Greetings to All

@SYDNEY- “Can you help some of your brothers be better men worth selecting? The world — and the black community — would be better off. Thanks!!”
*high five sista*

Ms.EJ

12/6/09, 16:36:pm

@WORDTOTHEWISE- *waves frantically* lol, hey girl.

Sydney™

12/6/09, 16:36:pm

*”special comments**

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 16:36:pm

Sydney™
12/6/09, 16:27:pm

@Be Real

“Theres that BUT. Are you chuckling?”

LMAO! I was just thinking, why does all this “love” for black women come with so many caveats? I think it’s so ingrained, they’re not even aware of what they’re conveying. It’s part of their subconscious.

@Day

“Now could you please help some of your sistas make better choices in men??? The world would be better off!!! Thanks!!!”

Can you help some of your brothers be better men worth selecting? The world — and the black community — would be better off. Thanks!!
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Not a problem, but I could have sworn we were discussing black women up until this point…So why change the subject, SYD????

WordtotheWise

12/6/09, 16:37:pm

Sydney™
12/6/09, 16:33:pm

@Word

“Film is an AMAZING brother.”

He sure is.

“I’m telling you girl, he shuts all the arguments down. It’s funny because I don’t see him here as much as I used to.”

There’s a reason for that, I’m afraid. He’s like an alien on this site, too, lol.
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Yeah, he’s like a stranger in the land we call “Bossip.”

Sydney™

12/6/09, 16:39:pm

@Be Real

“LMAO, I totally agree. When I express my love for black men there is never a but.”

Girl, that’s all I’m attempting to say! When I say I love black men, it’s not in a phrase that ends in “but some of you are such-and-such.”

It’s like some of them are programmed to be unable to fully love and appreciate black women while pointing to the flaws of some. It’s not complimentary at all — In fact, it’s quite insulting.

Hey Ms. EJ! *waving*

@Day

“Not a problem, but I could have sworn we were discussing black women up until this point…So why change the subject, SYD????”

You’re absolutely right. Why would we put the focus on anyone other than black women, right? After all, we are to blame for the downfall of the race.

Ms.EJ

12/6/09, 16:41:pm

@WORDTOTHEWISE * SYDNEY- I know I have not been on Bossip for along time, but I do remember one of Films comments and it blew me away and I think he along with Tony Redd (at least from what I’ve read)are true gentlemen and men in general.

WordtotheWise

12/6/09, 16:41:pm

Daywalker said… “And I have stated numerous times that my comments are not all encomp*****ing…That being said, if what I say doesn’t apply to you, keep it moving…If it does, take it as constructive criticism…But I refuse to sit here and let some of these females think they can do no wrong when they clearly engineer their own misfortune in relationships…down play it all you wish, but the simple fact is that they choose to turn a blind eye to their faults….”

Daywalker –

Michael Jackson said it brilliantly, “start with the man in the mirror.” Why don’t we clean up our own backyard before she start in on someone else’s. I rarely hear brothers like you take responsibility for your problems or those of your gender. What that black man shot up all those police officers in Lakewood, WA, I didn’t hear black men come out saying, “black men need to get it together and stop the madness.” Every thread involving a black woman comes with commentary from most black men telling us what WE need to do. There’s an old saying that states, “When you point a finger, there are more pointing back at you.” Call it corny, but there’s much truth to that saying.

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 16:43:pm

Sydney™:

Actually, we were discussing black women…You purposefully redirected the discussion to black men, but I have no issues discussing them as well based on my views….

Sydney™

12/6/09, 16:43:pm

@Word

“Yeah, he’s like a stranger in the land we call “Bossip.””

He expresses too much love for his sisters. The shame!

Be Real

12/6/09, 16:43:pm

@Daywalker

But I refuse to sit here and let some of these females think they can do no wrong when they clearly engineer their own misfortune in relationships…down play it all you wish, but the simple fact is that they choose to turn a blind eye to their faults…..
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Do you do the same for black men or is it just black women? Do you tell black men about their wrong doings?

Sydney™

12/6/09, 16:51:pm

@Ms. EJ

“I know I have not been on Bossip for along time, but I do remember one of Films comments and it blew me away”‘

Yes, his comments tend to be memorable. He stands out — a lot.

@Day

“Actually, we were discussing black women…You purposefully redirected the discussion to black men, but I have no issues discussing them as well based on my views….”

I complimented a brother, and you told me to help sisters work on one of the items on your list. Once again, positivity is met with negativity.

Sydney™

12/6/09, 16:52:pm

I’m looking at Day in the mirror. . .(ooh). . .I’m asking him to change his ways (ooh). . .

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 16:52:pm

@ WordtotheWise:

Funny, but last I checked, I’m not in jail, I work every day, I pay my taxes, and I don’t have any kids out of wedlock!! Far as I’m concerned, I’m doing fine…But based on the fact that a lot of single parent households do not have fathers, the issues primarilyy stem from women trying to raise men….In my opinion, dogs would have a better shot at raising cats!! The media is also to blame by glamorizing people like Chris “THA BRUISER” BROWN, and giving him press for committing a felony against a beautiful young woman…No call for it!! Either way, Black men and black women need to stop trying to find fault with one another and appreciate each other for who we are!! A lot of what I say is taken out of context, but trust me when I say it, WE ALL HAVE FAULTS, and the way to overcome them is to work together as a people for the betterment of all! Not by pointing……

Marquis de Sade

12/6/09, 16:53:pm

Be Real
12/6/09, 16:43:pm

@Daywalker

But I refuse to sit here and let some of these females think they can do no wrong when they clearly engineer their own misfortune in relationships…down play it all you wish, but the simple fact is that they choose to turn a blind eye to their faults…..
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Do you do the same for black men or is it just black women? Do you tell black men about their wrong doings?

The only thing black men are doing wrong, is going raw dawg in you (NO ACCOUNTABILITY, CAN’T DO NO WRONG)sistas’

Ms.EJ

12/6/09, 16:56:pm

@SYDNEY- “I complimented a brother, and you told me to help sisters work on one of the items on your list. Once again, positivity is met with negativity.”—I was just having an indept discussion regarding positivity and negativity with my friend. We both agreed that nowadays it seems that negative is positive and positive is negative, unfortunately. It seems that many go hard against positivity, but “praise” the negative of things.

WordtotheWise

12/6/09, 16:56:pm

Ms.EJ
12/6/09, 16:41:pm

@WORDTOTHEWISE * SYDNEY- I know I have not been on Bossip for along time, but I do remember one of Films comments and it blew me away and I think he along with Tony Redd (at least from what I’ve read)are true gentlemen and men in general.
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Hey sweetie. I was wondering where you were. How are you and your baby girl?

Yep, Film and Tony Redd wonderful posters. Always informative, smart, well-thought out, intelligent comments.

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 16:57:pm

Be Real
12/6/09, 16:43:pm

@Daywalker

But I refuse to sit here and let some of these females think they can do no wrong when they clearly engineer their own misfortune in relationships…down play it all you wish, but the simple fact is that they choose to turn a blind eye to their faults…..
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Do you do the same for black men or is it just black women? Do you tell black men about their wrong doings?
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Of course I do!! Heck, I’ve had knock down drag out fights with my own brothers over why they shouldn’t have had kids outside of marriage!!! Trust me on this: *****ody cuts into your ego like someone you care about, and they know my views…Hearing it from family only re enforces it…..

Sydney™

12/6/09, 16:58:pm

@Day

“But based on the fact that a lot of single parent households do not have fathers, the issues primarilyy stem from women trying to raise men….”

We’ve already examined this issue in depth, and I think most people recognize that sons need their fathers. I’m still not seeing you say what black men’s role is in ameliorating this debilitating situation.

Derpaderp

12/6/09, 17:00:pm

Oh dear……

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 17:01:pm

Be Real:

But do you tell sistas about themselves???

Be Real

12/6/09, 17:01:pm

@Marquis

I said earlier that black women need to make better choices in men, and that we bring some things on ourselves. We shouldnt let men have sex without a condom and black men should not have sex without protection. So both black men and women are careless at times. Once the child is born, both should be held responsible. Have you ever told black men on Bossip about their wrong doings?

Ms.EJ

12/6/09, 17:03:pm

@WORDTOTHEWISE- I had a rough weekend thus far starting Friday so my heart is a little sore still, but I thank God for endurance. My daughter (Heaven is her name )is doing very well. I’m in the process of trying to get or build her a bigger bookcase she has alot (she loves to read! since she’s been 2 now just turned 4).

Be Real

12/6/09, 17:06:pm

@Daywalker

Of course I do!! Heck, I’ve had knock down drag out fights with my own brothers over why they shouldn’t have had kids outside of marriage!!! Trust me on this: *****ody cuts into your ego like someone you care about, and they know my views…Hearing it from family only re enforces it…..
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Thats good. You should tell your brothers about themselves. Question. . . .Since you don’t have a problem doing this, why cant you do the same for black men on Bossip?

Marquis de Sade

12/6/09, 17:07:pm

Sydney™

” I’m still not seeing you say what black men’s role is in ameliorating this debilitating situation.”

Positive strong black men will have to bogart pazz the thugs, and ain’t s.h.i.t. n!ggahs to force their seed into the thug hungry *****es of the vulnerable weak minded sista, and draggin em’ down the wedding aisle, thus lessening the odds of single motherhood and raising another generation of lost hoodrats

Ms.EJ

12/6/09, 17:07:pm

@DAYWALKER- Every one has a situation that may not be known to all. I understand the arguement on out of wedlock children (minus those who are just having kids left and right for the fun of it), but just because one has a child out of wedlock does not make he or she a bad person or you better than them (not saying you). It is no different from one person who has a degree and anotehr who does not it does not make that person superior or inferior to the other. We all agree that higher education great to obtain and marriage is great as well.

Marquis de Sade

12/6/09, 17:09:pm

thug-hungry s.n.a.t.c.h.e.s.

WordtotheWise

12/6/09, 17:10:pm

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)
12/6/09, 16:52:pm

@ WordtotheWise:

Funny, but last I checked, I’m not in jail, I work every day, I pay my taxes, and I don’t have any kids out of wedlock!! Far as I’m concerned, I’m doing fine…But based on the fact that a lot of single parent households do not have fathers, the issues primarilyy stem from women trying to raise men….

Well, Daywalker, they wouldn’t have to raise these men if their father’s stuck around. Doesn’t that make sense. If a man decides to have sex with a woman, get ready for the consequences of that action. If both parties either didn’t engage in irresponsible sex, a child might not be produced. Also even with birth control, babies have a way of being produced. So whose fault is that?

Oh, btw, I don’t have children out of wedlock either and none of my friends do as well.

In my opinion, dogs would have a better shot at raising cats!! The media is also to blame by glamorizing people like Chris “THA BRUISER” BROWN, and giving him press for committing a felony against a beautiful young woman…No call for it!! Either way, Black men and black women need to stop trying to find fault with one another and appreciate each other for who we are!! A lot of what I say is taken out of context, but trust me when I say it, WE ALL HAVE FAULTS, and the way to overcome them is to work together as a people for the betterment of all! Not by pointing……

I agree! That’s the point I’ve been trying to make.

I just posted on the “Tiger Side Piece” thread that there are some people who actually believe Lil Wayne is a wonderful father. They absolutely find nothing wrong with his producing three different children w/n one year by three different women, and anyone who speaks out against him or his/their situation, is a hater or being judgemental!

Be Real

12/6/09, 17:11:pm

@Daywalker

To answer you question, yes I have told black women about themselves.

WordtotheWise

12/6/09, 17:11:pm

Sydney™
12/6/09, 16:43:pm

@Word

“Yeah, he’s like a stranger in the land we call “Bossip.””

He expresses too much love for his sisters. The shame!
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Absolutely, and what I love about Film is that he puts his money where his mouth is. There are many black men who say they have love for the sistas, but say nothing when a myriad of black men post negative and demeaning comments about us.

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 17:14:pm

Sydney™
12/6/09, 16:58:pm

@Day

“But based on the fact that a lot of single parent households do not have fathers, the issues primarilyy stem from women trying to raise men….”

We’ve already examined this issue in depth, and I think most people recognize that sons need their fathers. I’m still not seeing you say what black men’s role is in ameliorating this debilitating situation.
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Ok, I’ll break it down then….

Black men need to:

1)Wear protection when dealing with any and every woman they choose to be with

2)If/when they become fathers, be there for the sake of their kids…

3)Get a job and provide for their children…If they choose not to stay with the mothers, pay child support, and medical expenses…That child didn’t ask to come here, so he/she’s your responsibility!!

4)Be a good role model for your children…Meaning, STAY OUTA JAIL!!!

5)Be in your kid’s life…Spend time with them, love them, nurture them, and keep them safe…

6)Stay out of the streets….The same things that were there are still there…Only the names and faces change….

7)Focus on your Career/Education….

8)Quit viewing women as conquests…Especially if you’re married…If you choose to want to play around, get divorced….It’s cheaper….

9)Learn to just let some things go when dealing with women….Guys are stubborn and headstrong, but you can’t be right all the time…sometimes you have to shut up to keep the peace

10)Do whatever you have to to keep a happy home…..

that’s some of what black men need to do…Would you like to see what black females need to do?????

Ms.EJ

12/6/09, 17:15:pm

@WORDTOTHEWISE & SYDNEY- It is hard to understand how some men came be extremely negative on their views towards black women when they were birth out of one. They had to have had some good black women as sisters, aunts and grandmothers. I wonder if they show their mother’s their comments and/or tell them their actual thoughts on black women, I doubt that they do.

Ms.EJ

12/6/09, 17:17:pm

can be*

WordtotheWise

12/6/09, 17:20:pm

Ms.EJ
12/6/09, 17:03:pm

@WORDTOTHEWISE- I had a rough weekend thus far starting Friday so my heart is a little sore still, but I thank God for endurance.

I’m sorry to hear that. Are you okay? Yes, hon, he will give the endurance you need. I hope things have gotten better for you, sweetie.

My daughter (Heaven is her name)is doing very well. I’m in the process of trying to get or build her a bigger bookcase she has alot (she loves to read! since she’s been 2 now just turned 4).

I’m glad to hear Heaven is doing well. That is wonderful that she loves to read. She’s starting out very young with a hunger for books. Is she is preschool?

Take care, hon, and I hope you have a much better week.

The white observer

12/6/09, 17:23:pm

Very true. Why is it black American women get upset when an island man only dates island women. But *****ody says anything when jewish people, various asian groups and Latin groups do it. Italians do it the most. *****ody says a peep. But A Jamaican dude has on a flag and all hell breaks loose. LOL

Its6amHoGetOut, I've now come to the conclusion that there'll always be ghetto azz nggas/nggettes and no matter how much I preach in here there aint a d*mn thing I can do about it because they're proud of their ignorance.

12/6/09, 17:24:pm

Hi everybody!

Its6amHoGetOut, I've now come to the conclusion that there'll always be ghetto azz nggas/nggettes and no matter how much I preach in here there aint a d*mn thing I can do about it because they're proud of their ignorance.

12/6/09, 17:25:pm

I said Hi Everybody!

Its6amHoGetOut, I've now come to the conclusion that there'll always be ghetto azz nggas/nggettes and no matter how much I preach in here there aint a d*mn thing I can do about it because they're proud of their ignorance.so 12/31/09 is my last day.

12/6/09, 17:26:pm

*****f*ckas i said Hi!

Sydney™

12/6/09, 17:29:pm

I hope you’re feeling better, Ms. EJ.

@Word

“There are many black men who say they have love for the sistas, but say nothing when a myriad of black men post negative and demeaning comments about us.”

Very true, and he’s not one of them. He has defended black women on a number of occasions on this blog — that’s another reason why he’s an “alien,” lol. Not only does he show his respect for sisters, he shows his grasp of what manhood entails.

@Day

Thank you for the list.

“Would you like to see what black females need to do?????”

Do you mean “black WOMEN?” Haven’t you already posted a list targeting sisters?

@Ms. EJ

“I wonder if they show their mother’s their comments and/or tell them their actual thoughts on black women, I doubt that they do.”

I think some men rationalize that their antipathy for black women is separate from their feelings for their mothers, so they don’t view their vitriol as disrespectful to the women who gave birth to them. They’re talking about “other” black women, not mama.

WordtotheWise

12/6/09, 17:29:pm

Ms.EJ
12/6/09, 17:15:pm

@WORDTOTHEWISE & SYDNEY- It is hard to understand how some men came be extremely negative on their views towards black women when they were birth out of one. They had to have had some good black women as sisters, aunts and grandmothers. I wonder if they show their mother’s their comments and/or tell them their actual thoughts on black women, I doubt that they do.
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My sister and I were having this very conversation. She believe it stems from their mothers. Maybe their moms were domineering and abusive and they’ve transferred their negative feelings from their mothers to black women in general. There’s really something very wrong. You rarely hear black women unlease such angry, vial, diatribe directed at brothers, yet we all know many of black women have every reason to be bitter, but choose not to blame every black man for the few bad apples.

Ms.EJ

12/6/09, 17:30:pm

@WORDTOTHEWISE- Really she is not suppose to start until next year, because her birthday is late in the year, however I worked out something with her school (she goes to a private school)and they allowed her to start early. I’m okay, it is just a road that I have to travel on, but I know next week will be better Thanks girl.

Ms.EJ

12/6/09, 17:34:pm

@SYDNEY- Thank you. *ehug* That is just bizzare to me if they actually think that way. SMH.

@WORDTOTHEWISE- I never thought of it in that way and even if so it is still hard to digest.

Sydney™

12/6/09, 17:36:pm

@Word

“You rarely hear black women unlease such angry, vial, diatribe directed at brothers, yet we all know many of black women have every reason to be bitter, but choose not to blame every black man for the few bad apples.”

It’s so odd to me how some of them can distinguish among women of another race, in terms of their individual characteristics, but cannot — or, rather, will not — do the same for women who share their skin tone.

WordtotheWise

12/6/09, 17:37:pm

Sydney™
12/6/09, 17:29:pm

I hope you’re feeling better, Ms. EJ.

@Word

“There are many black men who say they have love for the sistas, but say nothing when a myriad of black men post negative and demeaning comments about us.”

Very true, and he’s not one of them. He has defended black women on a number of occasions on this blog — that’s another reason why he’s an “alien,” lol. Not only does he show his respect for sisters, he shows his grasp of what manhood entails.
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Oh, I know he isn’t. I wouldn’t even put him in the category with some of the male posters on Bossip. That would be an insult to his intelligence and smarts. Never. He most definitely knows.

Marquis de Sade

12/6/09, 17:38:pm

Hey 6. Hows it goin’?

Kris

12/6/09, 17:38:pm

She was speakin the truth….I love her crazy *****. That fool(Tiger) went on Oprah! as he was making history! and said I’m not black! He has a problem…this really shouldn’t be surpising what he’s caught up in.

Its6amHoGetOut

12/6/09, 17:39:pm

Lol at that dark b*tch with the nappy azz weave and big horse teeth!

Like you ever had a chance b*tch!

Tiger this sh*t will blow over soon n*gga, then you can get back to winning Majors and gettin’ billions!

The Anthroplogist

12/6/09, 17:40:pm

Very true. Why is it black American women get upset when an island man only dates island women. But *****ody says anything when jewish people, various asian groups and Latin groups do it. Italians do it the most. *****ody says a peep. But A Jamaican dude has on a flag and all hell breaks loose. LOL
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There are so few decent American black men, they have to claim them. But it’s entirely up to the particular guy whom he chooses to date. If Puertoricans can date their own and snub Dominicans. Jewish can date only jewish people and snub waspy types, them to each his own. It’s cilture. Only a fool thinks they are owed obligation from any other human being.

WordtotheWise

12/6/09, 17:42:pm

Ms.EJ
12/6/09, 17:30:pm

@WORDTOTHEWISE- Really she is not suppose to start until next year, because her birthday is late in the year, however I worked out something with her school (she goes to a private school)and they allowed her to start early. I’m okay, it is just a road that I have to travel on, but I know next week will be better Thanks girl.
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Ms.EJ, you are so blessed to be able to send Heaven to private school. If I ever have children, that’s the route I want to go. I was in the same position as Heaven. I started kindergarten a year early. She sounds like a smart baby girl

You are very welcome, Ms. EJ. I know the road can get rough. Thank God you have the Him to lean on and His peace to comfort you during the trials and tribulations of life. You know He’ll bring you through it shining like a diamond. Hang in there, sweetie.

WordtotheWise

12/6/09, 17:42:pm

I’m getting read to eat. I’ll be back soon.

Sydney™

12/6/09, 17:42:pm

@Word

IlluminateTruth is another brother poster whose comments are well thought out and enlightening.

I don’t see too many members of IBB (Intellectual Brotha Brigade) post that often anymore. When they do, it’s a treat.

Its6amHoGetOut

12/6/09, 17:43:pm

@ Marquis,

cool, cool.

Yanno Marquis its hard trying to convince really ignorant ghetto n*ggas/n*ggettes that RKelly isnt a hero and that he is a child rapist. Why are hoodrats so proud of being stupid? I never can or will understand that sh*t. How can you be proud of keeping it real (Dumb)?

Its6amHoGetOut

12/6/09, 17:45:pm

?

Marquis de Sade

12/6/09, 17:46:pm

6

It’s been my experience that most n!ggahs/n!ggettes are sheep, and their problems are self-inflicted. My resolve is FUGG EM’!

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 17:46:pm

Be Real
12/6/09, 17:06:pm

@Daywalker

Of course I do!! Heck, I’ve had knock down drag out fights with my own brothers over why they shouldn’t have had kids outside of marriage!!! Trust me on this: *****ody cuts into your ego like someone you care about, and they know my views…Hearing it from family only re enforces it…..
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Thats good. You should tell your brothers about themselves. Question. . . .Since you don’t have a problem doing this, why cant you do the same for black men on Bossip?
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I have!! Ever notice some of the hate mail I get??? It isn’t because I give good press to the Easter Bunny….
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WordtotheWise;

Thank you!! Lil Wayne is a poor excuse for a man, and I hate to say it, but the women who bore his offspring are no better….Women should insist on birth control if they aren’t in a committed relationship in my opinion, because he’s on his way to jail right now, but his kids won’t have a father in the meantime….SMH…
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Be Real
12/6/09, 17:11:pm

@Daywalker

To answer you question, yes I have told black women about themselves.
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Fair enough…..

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Ms.EJ
12/6/09, 17:07:pm

@DAYWALKER- Every one has a situation that may not be known to all. I understand the arguement on out of wedlock children (minus those who are just having kids left and right for the fun of it), but just because one has a child out of wedlock does not make he or she a bad person or you better than them (not saying you). It is no different from one person who has a degree and anotehr who does not it does not make that person superior or inferior to the other. We all agree that higher education great to obtain and marriage is great as well.
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I agree…However, if someone is going to engage in recreational sex, I would implore them to protect themselves against unwanted pregnancies, but STDS as well…As for the having kids out of wedlock, it only makes life harder for the mother because more often than not, black males are irresponsible and don’t handle their business!! Some don’t even pay their car note, so how can you expect them to come correct on child support???….SMH….

cali

12/6/09, 17:50:pm

Just because someone exclusively dates someone of another race that does not mean they are self hating. It could be a physical preference. is that soooo far reaching? If a white woman, hispanic or asian woman exclusively dates black men that doesnt mean she thinks they are “better” than other men, it might be a preference, OR…OOOR MAYBE…here’s a revolutionary thought, THEY MIGHT BE COMPATIBLE. You dont have to be the same color to relate to someone. BOSSIP…YOU’RE IGNORANT AND SO IS UNDERWOOD

Ms.EJ

12/6/09, 17:50:pm

@WORDTOTHEWISE- Amen!!! sista, because there is nothing like having peace of mind. Private is school so expensive, but worth it. I went to both private and public schools. I learned a lot at both, but I enjoyed private more due to chapel. Heaven is very smart I have to be extra careful, because she is also very observant. Also, I am 5′5 she already (height wise)comes up to my stomach. Oh, do you have any plans for bringing in the New Year? many are booking flights to various places.

Marquis de Sade

12/6/09, 17:50:pm

6

The same goes for these sanctimonius n!gga b!+ches, who constantly cultivates the seeds of random ain’t s.h.i.t n!ggahs (who justifiably leaves them high n’ dry) cries “VICTIM” after the fact. My resolve: FUGG EM’!

Brotherman

12/6/09, 17:50:pm

I say “to each his own”. IMHO Tiger’s biggest “crime” wasn’t marrying a white woman. It was him getting MARRIED period besides if Tiger was single, he could have avoided all this mess. When a married man cheats, he’s constantly behind the 8 ball.

Goldiggaz/side deals come in all colors, shades, shapes and sizes. When a wife is so quick to divorce her husband so she can get her big pay day instead of trying to work things out, you know for them, it was never about love. Their mind’s on the money and the money’s on their mind. Therefore Kelis is no different to Elin Woods.

Finally, there are no laws that exist where a black man or black woman can’t marry someone out of their own race nor is it a sin. Love should be color blind.

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 17:51:pm

Wazzup, 6?? Sorry bout not speaking, but it’s storming here….What’s good???

Black_Orpheus(the original not the remake)

12/6/09, 17:51:pm

Spoke to an asian friend and co-worker today, jokingly asked him why the asians weren’t going through all that “angst” over L’affaire Tiger Woods.

His response “Hell man, that’s strictly a “black thai” affair, bro’. I’m chinese.”

Gotta love the dude.

And frankly I don’t think the thais are losing a bunch of sleep over this either. I very much doubt that thai women are turning this little egotist’s preference in women into some kind of personal affront to them.

I don’t know why EVERYTHING that involves somebody with black blood has to be seen as some kind of affront to anyone except the particular parties in the case. Tiger LONG AGO made it abundantly clear that he wanted to be seen as some kind of “post racial” icon. Good for him. He’s got it. Because from what I can see, people of ALL COLORS are laughing at his phony little a–s–s.

Its6amHoGetOut

12/6/09, 17:53:pm

@ Marquis,

After talkin’ on this blog since 02/13/07, I’ve come to the conclusion that bama’s and ghetto azz n*ggas/n*ggettes are dumber than sheep. At 26 it really upsets me that the next generation of black youth will be dumber than this generation. And How can Debra Lee CEO of BET or Emmitt Perry even sleep at night?

leonard mckelvey

12/6/09, 17:53:pm

I love hearing these stories about Tiger. He forget there is alway balnce in the universe. I say throw some more gas on the fire.

SillyAzzCheryl

12/6/09, 17:56:pm

Hey, Halle dated Black men (Eddie Murphy, abusive Wesley Snipe who supposedly left her deaf in one ear, Married Baseball Player David Justice and Eric Benet, etc.) well we know who hurtful & humiliating all of those turned out for Halle. Her mother Married a Black man who left her with 2 mixed babies when Halle was 3. It is time to try something new.
On the other hand, Tiger is mixed as well Black folks. Is he suppose to act like his Asian Thai-mixed Mother and her folks don’t exist? I’m sure this is just Karma for Black women now because they poked fun at him on the playground & wouldn’t give him “Play” in highschool and thought he was some geeky cornball. The nerve of them now jealous that he is attractive to the only women (White) who accepted him during those critical years of development for self-identity & acceptance in high school. Be careful Black women who you diss because corny pays the bills (they tend to become well-educated & successful). Thugs will only leave you humilitated with unwanted kids all over the place, at risk for STDs, and taking you thru unnecessary stress with not only baby mommas drama, but felony arrest with all their criminal activities & shysterness.
Also, didn’t all of Michael Jordan, Shaq, etc. jumpoffs come out of the woodwork as they cheated on their “Black” wives. Give me a break! Color has nothing to do with it! Tiger can like & sleep with who he wants just like any other man who tend to cheat. How would “Cheryl Underwood” explain that? You have to be consistence for the truth not to fall apart! If the theory falls apart than it’s not Truth. Sorry Cheryl but it’s just another joke. You “can’t even keep it real” wearing European or Indian (straight) wigs & weaves.

Its6amHoGetOut

12/6/09, 17:56:pm

My New years resolution is to only concentrate on me, my family, my friends and black people who want to better themselves, I can no longer give sage advice to n*ggas who enjoy being n*ggas, i just cant do it anymore! F*ck em!

Marquis de Sade

12/6/09, 17:56:pm

6

Cuz in this day n’ age, ignorance is a lucrative commodity.

nywoman23

12/6/09, 17:56:pm

@DAYWALKER I AGREE *IF TIGER CHOOSES TO BE WITH WHITE WOMEN, THAT IS HIS CHOICE*. AND IF DAYWALKER CHOOSES TO BE WITH A DUDE THAT IS YOUR CHOICE

Ms.EJ

12/6/09, 17:56:pm

@DAYWALKER- I understand. I can not get into full detail, but personally I did not have an unwanted pregnancy. The tone of your original comment just came off as if you were better. I also included minus those who just do it for the heck of it which falls into the additional points you made, but I totally understand.

Its6amHoGetOut

12/6/09, 17:57:pm

bye all, 25 more days of genius then i’m out.

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 17:58:pm

Its6amHoGetOut
12/6/09, 17:53:pm

@ Marquis,

After talkin’ on this blog since 02/13/07, I’ve come to the conclusion that bama’s and ghetto azz n*ggas/n*ggettes are dumber than sheep. At 26 it really upsets me that the next generation of black youth will be dumber than this generation. And How can Debra Lee CEO of BET or Emmitt Perry even sleep at night?
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I’m guesing they sleep fine knowing that the ignorance they spew on the black community never reaches them!! SMH….

WordtotheWise

12/6/09, 18:02:pm

@Syd, LOL at IBB. That’s a good one! Oh, yes. I forgot about IlluminateTruth. Yeah, unfortunely they are few and far between, and missing from Bossip.

I’m surprise Kilgali hasn’t joined in the discussion. Oh, let me not speak too quickly. Seh might just show up.

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 18:03:pm

nywoman23
12/6/09, 17:56:pm

@DAYWALKER I AGREE *IF TIGER CHOOSES TO BE WITH WHITE WOMEN, THAT IS HIS CHOICE*. AND IF DAYWALKER CHOOSES TO BE WITH A DUDE THAT IS YOUR CHOICE
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No plans with a man, sweetheart!! Still chewing on bricks, I see?? Well the offer still stands, cause I know a good dentist!! Holler when you get ready to get them “Croc teeth” fixed, K???

Marquis de Sade

12/6/09, 18:03:pm

“Its6amHoGetOut
12/6/09, 17:56:pm

My New years resolution is to only concentrate on me, my family, my friends and black people who want to better themselves, I can no longer give sage advice to n*ggas who enjoy being n*ggas, i just cant do it anymore! F*ck em!”

Good resolution. The best way to help the black community is to lead by example. The progressive will take advantage and follow said “LEAD”, while the weak will stay, flounder, wallow and hope the democrats will toss em’ some “WHITE GUILT” social a$$istance.

Black_Orpheus(the original not the remake)

12/6/09, 18:04:pm

@Its6amHoGetOut
12/6/09, 17:56:pm

My New years resolution is to only concentrate on me, my family, my friends and black people who want to better themselves, I can no longer give sage advice to n*ggas who enjoy being n*ggas, i just cant do it anymore! F*ck em!
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My resolution is very similar to yours — mine focuses on the entire african diaspora, of which the blacks in this country are only a relatively SMALL PART.

My gravie is a photo of myself, my black brazilian ex, and our black brazilian daughter in the middle — the latter is the joy of my life.

People on this blog speak of “black” as if the only blacks that exist in the world are those in this country — far from it, THANK GOD.

Find GOOD BLACK people (hell just plain GOOD PEOPLE) wherever they are, and just IGNORE the d-i-p-s-h-i-t-s …. LIFE IS MUCH TOO SHORT to waste on them.

An make NO APOLOGIES for doing so. Later “6″.

nywoman23

12/6/09, 18:05:pm

@DIRTYSIR. I AGREE WITH YOU 100%. I DONT KNOW WHATS UP WITH BLACK PEOPLE. IT COULD BE BLATANTLY OBVIOUS WHEN A PERSON IS MIXED. ILL USE THIS MOLOTTO AS AN EXAMPLE MARIAH CAREY. YET THEY WANT PEOPLE TO JUST CLAIM THEIR BLACK ANCESTRY. WHEN THE TRUTH IS YOU ARE WHAT YOU ARE.IF A PERSON DESCENDS FROM A MIXED BACKGROUND THEN IT IS WHAT IT IS. Y SHOULD A PERSON DISREGARD A PART OF WHO HE/SHE IS TO SATISFY THE BLACK RACE. SCREW YA TIGER DONT OWE ANYONE ANYTHING. AND THATS COMING FROM A MIXED BLACK WOMAN .TAKE THAT TAKE THAT

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 18:06:pm

Ms.EJ
12/6/09, 17:56:pm

@DAYWALKER- I understand. I can not get into full detail, but personally I did not have an unwanted pregnancy. The tone of your original comment just came off as if you were better. I also included minus those who just do it for the heck of it which falls into the additional points you made, but I totally understand.
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Trust me, I have nothing but the utmost respect for a woman who does what’s necessary to support her child!! It’s the ones who don’t that I take issue with, ma…

Sydney™

12/6/09, 18:07:pm

@Word

“@Syd, LOL at IBB. That’s a good one! Oh, yes. I forgot about IlluminateTruth. Yeah, unfortunely they are few and far between, and missing from Bossip.”

Yeah, Ill used to post much more often. For a while last year, there was a nice group of brothers posting on Bossip. Oh well. . .

@Black_Orpheus

Didn’t you previously have another SN?

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 18:09:pm

Later, 6!! As always, you make good valid points, my brother!!

Black_Orpheus(the original not the remake)

12/6/09, 18:10:pm

@Sydney™
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Yes — and it got JACKED just like every other frikkin’ one that I have used on this blog.

A million words in the english language, and the “dips” have to jack a screen name.

Sydney™

12/6/09, 18:12:pm

@Black_Orpheus

“Yes — and it got JACKED just like every other frikkin’ one that I have used on this blog.Yes — and it got JACKED just like every other frikkin’ one that I have used on this blog.”

Alright, I thought I recognized your writing style and recalled that I spoke with you recently.

ChellBellz

12/6/09, 18:12:pm

Did Tiger ever say he only married or *****ed white women because he thinks they are better? Underwood shut your simple ***** up. You are riding off this mans ***** to get a little light shined your way. So the hell what if he likes white women, this man has about 6 different races running through his blood. He can date whoever the hell he wants.

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 18:15:pm

nywoman23
12/6/09, 18:05:pm

@DIRTYSIR. I AGREE WITH YOU 100%. I DONT KNOW WHATS UP WITH BLACK PEOPLE. IT COULD BE BLATANTLY OBVIOUS WHEN A PERSON IS MIXED. ILL USE THIS MOLOTTO AS AN EXAMPLE MARIAH CAREY. YET THEY WANT PEOPLE TO JUST CLAIM THEIR BLACK ANCESTRY. WHEN THE TRUTH IS YOU ARE WHAT YOU ARE.IF A PERSON DESCENDS FROM A MIXED BACKGROUND THEN IT IS WHAT IT IS. Y SHOULD A PERSON DISREGARD A PART OF WHO HE/SHE IS TO SATISFY THE BLACK RACE. SCREW YA TIGER DONT OWE ANYONE ANYTHING. AND THATS COMING FROM A MIXED BLACK WOMAN .TAKE THAT TAKE THAT
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Mixed?? With what??? (THIS I GOTTA HEAR)….

WakeUpCall

12/6/09, 18:15:pm

Have you noticed that it’s mainly “Black” people who have a problem with dating other color. Why? Because aftermath of Slavery in the U.S. is alive and deeply imbedded in Black folks, especially those from the South where Slavery was prominent. I’m still amazed at how self-loating some black people on hear can be. Somehow they internalize seeing a mixed couple as a rejection of themselves. Anything unlike them, is somewhat a slap in the face or rejection of them. I’m black & couldn’t care less if I see some Brother in the military, local mall or store with someone other than a black female. Hell, it has nothing to do with me. This is who those black men likes, loves, date, marry or whatever: It’s none of my business. How other folks mixed-marriage or relationships is painful for some black folks is beyond me. I’m confident in who I am and have only dated and married within my race. However, I do not hate my black friendgirls who have are successful and have successful long-term marriages. The same can be said about about 2 white friendgirls who have married Black Professors and have been married for more than 18 years. Love knows no color. God created us all equal. However, most insecure, self-hating black folks don’t feel equal & trapped by what others around them will think. It is about as weak or dumb as the word Snitch or if you tell the truth: you’re throwing someone under the bus. Gotta shake my head at that mentality. Some black people can still be easily manipulated and control just like slaves with simple words. Free your mind…and learn to fly black people. Most of the time the man is not holding you down: it’s yourself & insecure fools around you.

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 18:21:pm

WakeUpCall:
12/6/09, 18:15:pm

I think they do it because it gives them a reason to hate that which they fail to understand, ma…In short, it’s easier to hate someone than to respect the fact that they enjoy someone of another race’s company in their minds…

WordtotheWise

12/6/09, 18:23:pm

WordtotheWise;

Thank you!! Lil Wayne is a poor excuse for a man, and I hate to say it, but the women who bore his offspring are no better….Women should insist on birth control if they aren’t in a committed relationship in my opinion, because he’s on his way to jail right now, but his kids won’t have a father in the meantime….SMH…
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@Daywalker, the sad part is, even with him out of jail, he cannot physically and emotionally be there for his children. People were raving about the fact that he showed up to his daughter’s birthday party skinning and grinning, with the other baby mama, Sarah, and their son. They were saying, “at least he takes care of his kids and loves them.” What? Since when does financially being able to take care of a child equal being a good parent? Of course he loves his children and financially takes care of them. He supposed to. Maybe they just don’t know what a good father looks like. SMH too.

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 18:23:pm

Black_Orpheus(the original not the remake)
12/6/09, 18:10:pm

@Sydney™
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Yes — and it got JACKED just like every other frikkin’ one that I have used on this blog.

A million words in the english language, and the “dips” have to jack a screen name.
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On a completely unrelated note, lovely family!!!

Sydney™

12/6/09, 18:24:pm

I gotta go, but I enjoyed the conversation, ladies. “Be Real” and “Getting Down,” it was a pleasure chatting with you. Word and Ms. EJ, take care.

Have a great evening, all.

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 18:26:pm

WordtotheWise:

I agree!! Any man can father a child, but it takes a special type of man to raise that child into a responsible adult, ma…..

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 18:28:pm

Sydney™
12/6/09, 18:24:pm

I gotta go, but I enjoyed the conversation, ladies. “Be Real” and “Getting Down,” it was a pleasure chatting with you. Word and Ms. EJ, take care.

Have a great evening, all.
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Would you mind pulling the knives from my back on your way out??? THANKS!!!

WordtotheWise

12/6/09, 18:29:pm

cali
12/6/09, 17:50:pm

Just because someone exclusively dates someone of another race that does not mean they are self hating. It could be a physical preference. is that soooo far reaching? If a white woman, hispanic or asian woman exclusively dates black men that doesnt mean she thinks they are “better” than other men, it might be a preference, OR…OOOR MAYBE…here’s a revolutionary thought, THEY MIGHT BE COMPATIBLE. You dont have to be the same color to relate to someone. BOSSIP…YOU’RE IGNORANT AND SO IS UNDERWOOD
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Cali, in my opinion, this who “preference” stuff is a dog and pony show. One doesn’t date a race, you date a human. Why limit yourself. If you want a good man/woman in your life, shouldn’t you been seeking character and integrity. Yes, I overstand attraction and so, but one might miss out on the most wonderful man or woman because they are stuck on someone’s race or color. Doesn’t that make sense?

Black_Orpheus(the original not the remake)

12/6/09, 18:32:pm

@Its6amHoGetOut
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One of the biggest problems with blacks in this country, is that so many think that those who m*****age their egoes, and make excuses for inexcusable behavior are their ‘friends’ …

Someone who points out that one cannot tell another man or woman “I’m your equal”, then in the next breath say “I don’t want to be held accountable for my actions” is bound to be unpopular. You don’t have to verbalize it, if your every deed expresses it.

You didn’t m*****age the fragile egoes of the many irresponsible blacks who come on this blog, expecting somebody else to be blamed for everything that went wrong in their lives.

GOOD.

I know truthfully that 80% of the things that have gone wrong in my life are due to MY OWN CHOICES — because I know people from similar backgrounds as mine who have made BETTER choices and had better outcomes.

The 20% over which I had no control is DWARFED by the options that I let slip away, or the bad decisions that I should not have made.

Unless one was born mentally or physically deformed, that is pretty much the way it is.

History is, IMHO, the story of the struggle between the intelligent, the industrious and the inspired (VS.) the ignorant, the indifferent and the irresponsible.

The brutal, unvarnished truth is that we blacks make excuses, far too often, for the many that we have in the LATTER camp — when we should be doing everything that we can to increase the size of the FORMER.

Don’t go “mushy” on me now.

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 18:33:pm

WordtotheWise
12/6/09, 18:29:pm

cali
12/6/09, 17:50:pm

Just because someone exclusively dates someone of another race that does not mean they are self hating. It could be a physical preference. is that soooo far reaching? If a white woman, hispanic or asian woman exclusively dates black men that doesnt mean she thinks they are “better” than other men, it might be a preference, OR…OOOR MAYBE…here’s a revolutionary thought, THEY MIGHT BE COMPATIBLE. You dont have to be the same color to relate to someone. BOSSIP…YOU’RE IGNORANT AND SO IS UNDERWOOD
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Cali, in my opinion, this who “preference” stuff is a dog and pony show. One doesn’t date a race, you date a human. Why limit yourself. If you want a good man/woman in your life, shouldn’t you been seeking character and integrity. Yes, I overstand attraction and so, but one might miss out on the most wonderful man or woman because they are stuck on someone’s race or color. Doesn’t that make sense?
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In cali’s defense, Bossip and Underwood are pretty stupid…

Black_Orpheus(the original not the remake)

12/6/09, 18:33:pm

@Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)
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The daughter is the cement that makes it a family —- believe me.

WordtotheWise

12/6/09, 18:34:pm

Ms.EJ
12/6/09, 17:50:pm

@WORDTOTHEWISE- Amen!!! sista, because there is nothing like having peace of mind.

Absolutely! It can take you through many a dark place with a sense of knowing you will get through it and on the other side, there is something great awaiting you.

Private is school so expensive, but worth it. I went to both private and public schools. I learned a lot at both, but I enjoyed private more due to chapel.

I wished I had attended private school. I hated public school. I went to school in L.A. and HATED IT!

Heaven is very smart I have to be extra careful, because she is also very observant.

Oh yeah! It’s amazing what kids will see when you don’t think they are looking. You sound like a WONDERFUL mother! I tip my hat to you, sweetie.

Also, I am 5′5 she already (height wise)comes up to my stomach.

Wow! She’s tall for her age. Do people think she’s older than 4?

Oh, do you have any plans for bringing in the New Year? many are booking flights to various places.

No. No plans to go anywhere. I take care of my mom full time. She can’t be left alone, so I won’t be going anywhere anytime soon.

What about you?
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PhonyAzzBlacks

12/6/09, 18:36:pm

It’s simple math & DNA black people. You wouldn’t call or try to sell a a mix-breed dog or horse as full bred (say calling or selling a half pit & half Poodle as Full-blooded PitBull or a Full-blooded Poodle). A store owner would have a lawsuit on their hand. See we can easily accept those facts. White people who say they are not full German but say half-Italian, etc. We have no problem with. Now let our a mix person with some black in them say that and we feel reject and spew anger & hate in return. Let’s get off the so-called black pride crap. We have Black men who will not hold up and provide for their kids and family like they are suppose to. They are constantly putting down their own black women calling them Bi***ches, hos, chick heads, etc.. Then, there is all this Black on Black crimes of killing, mugging, stealing, *****ault, raping, constantly fighting and putting down each other. I don’t buy that so-called Black Pride/Black Love crap. We are some of the most dysfunctional non-uniting group there is. Let’s keep it real: Seeing others who are mixed or even dating outside their race is about hatred, being insecure, jealousy, envy, etc. Hell, I don’t care who mixed raced Tiger Woods marries or dates. He is just a man like any other who cheats & has jumpoffs. Chris Brown, Usher, Shaq, Kobe, Iverson, MJordan, the list is endless…all did the Tiger Woods, Regis, David Letterman, Prince Charles, etc. Cheating and relationships is not about “Color” black people. It’s about quality of character. Men of various races & religion Cheat. Hating on the Color of Tiger, etc. only exemplifies your weakness, self-hatred and feeling of rejection. Using Tiger’s relationship “is not about Black Pride” as Black People are known to fight, hate, or shoot each other to-the-death. Give me a Break!

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 18:38:pm

Black_Orpheus(the original not the remake)
12/6/09, 18:33:pm

@Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)
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The daughter is the cement that makes it a family —- believe me.
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Much respect, my brother!! If more men felt that way, the world would be a better place!!!

Candy

12/6/09, 18:39:pm

Not all black women are Aunt Jemima, fat or ugly.

Tiger just has “Hoes in different Area Codes”.

He was too stupid to pick the ones that could keep a secret like David Spade said.

His wife should have knocked him upside his head for the following:

1.Embarr*****ing her and the kids.
2.Choosing bologna when he had steak
3.Choosing burnt out trash.

The ultimate reason is hurting the bank account with utter foolishness. If he did not want to be married he could have D-I-V-O-R-C-E

WordtotheWise

12/6/09, 18:46:pm

Bye Sydney. Take care, sweetie!

Daywalker,

In cali’s defense, Bossip and Underwood are pretty stupid
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Yeah, Bossip is sometimes, but we keep coming back

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 18:47:pm

Okay folks…I’m about outta here….Good luck to all!! Peace!!!

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

12/6/09, 18:48:pm

WordtotheWise
12/6/09, 18:46:pm

Bye Sydney. Take care, sweetie!

Daywalker,

In cali’s defense, Bossip and Underwood are pretty stupid
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Yeah, Bossip is sometimes, but we keep coming back
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Good point!! So why all the hatred for me today, ma??

WordtotheWise

12/6/09, 18:52:pm

nywoman23
12/6/09, 18:05:pm

@DIRTYSIR. I AGREE WITH YOU 100%. I DONT KNOW WHATS UP WITH BLACK PEOPLE. IT COULD BE BLATANTLY OBVIOUS WHEN A PERSON IS MIXED. ILL USE THIS MOLOTTO AS AN EXAMPLE MARIAH CAREY. YET THEY WANT PEOPLE TO JUST CLAIM THEIR BLACK ANCESTRY. WHEN THE TRUTH IS YOU ARE WHAT YOU ARE.IF A PERSON DESCENDS FROM A MIXED BACKGROUND THEN IT IS WHAT IT IS. Y SHOULD A PERSON DISREGARD A PART OF WHO HE/SHE IS TO SATISFY THE BLACK RACE. SCREW YA TIGER DONT OWE ANYONE ANYTHING. AND THATS COMING FROM A MIXED BLACK WOMAN .TAKE THAT TAKE THAT
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Ever heard of the one-drop rule? We (black people) didn’t make that up, sweetie. Take that to the whites of old who decided at one drop of black blood made one black. I don’t care what Tiger is and claims to be. I’m not a fan of his and never considered him black. As you can see during the Obama campaign and presidency, all his mixed race blood doesn’t mean a thing. He’s still a n*gga to them. Whether they claim black is not putting food on my plate. The problem is many of them want to dismiss their blackness in light of their other “mixtures.” Would you be offended at that? How come I suspect you probably wouldn’t.

s*****alene

12/6/09, 18:52:pm

If all black men in america decided to date only black women I still doubt if anyone would want sheryl ugly mug. And since tiger has white blood in him technically he is dating someone of his culture.

WordtotheWise

12/6/09, 18:54:pm

Daywalker(The Daydream!!!)

Hatred? Who hates you, Daywalker. Not me. I may not agree with some of your posts, but there’s no hate involved.

WordtotheWise

12/6/09, 19:05:pm

PhonyAzzBlacks
12/6/09, 18:36:pm

It’s simple math & DNA black people. You wouldn’t call or try to sell a a mix-breed dog or horse as full bred (say calling or selling a half pit & half Poodle as Full-blooded PitBull or a Full-blooded Poodle). A store owner would have a lawsuit on their hand. See we can easily accept those facts. White people who say they are not full German but say half-Italian, etc. We have no problem with. Now let our a mix person with some black in them say that and we feel reject and spew anger & hate in return. Let’s get off the so-called black pride crap.

It really isn’t that serious. I don’t know of one black person losing sleep over some mixed raced person’s identity. I could care less what they identify with. It doesn’t put food on my table or pay my bills.

Why should we get off the “black pride crap.” If biracial people can be “proud” of their mixed race heritage, you best believe I’m going to be proud of my BLACK heritage. That’s the problem with some black people now. They don’t have enough pride. But mixed people can shout from the mountaintop about how “not black” they are and list 10 different racial groups to prove they are someone “better” than I. Please, spare em. (I’m not talking about all mixed race people either).

We have Black men who will not hold up and provide for their kids and family like they are suppose to. They are constantly putting down their own black women calling them Bi***ches, hos, chick heads, etc.. Then, there is all this Black on Black crimes of killing, mugging, stealing, *****ault, raping, constantly fighting and putting down each other. I don’t buy that so-called Black Pride/Black Love crap. We are some of the most dysfunctional non-uniting group there is.

I cosign 100%.

Let’s keep it real: Seeing others who are mixed or even dating outside their race is about hatred, being insecure, jealousy, envy, etc.

Wrong! Let me explain this to you. Hatred, jealousy, insecurity of what? No, the issue is not necessary people dating outside their race. It’s about EXCLUDING your same race for that of another. People use “preference” as an excuse, but preferences have to be based on sometimes. Let’s face it, there are a lot of black people who have bought into the “white is right” mentality, and anything that does not look like them is somehow inferior. Hey look, I’m with a man outside my race, not because I hate whom I am. I love him. I think you are being way too judgemental.

Hell, I don’t care who mixed raced Tiger Woods marries or dates. He is just a man like any other who cheats & has jumpoffs. Chris Brown, Usher, Shaq, Kobe, Iverson, MJordan, the list is endless…all did the Tiger Woods, Regis, David Letterman, Prince Charles, etc. Cheating and relationships is not about “Color” black people.

Oh it is with some people, especially white folks. I guess you must’ve missed some of their nasty comments.

It’s about quality of character. Men of various races & religion Cheat. Hating on the Color of Tiger, etc. only exemplifies your weakness, self-hatred and feeling of rejection. Using Tiger’s relationship “is not about Black Pride” as Black People are known to fight, hate, or shoot each other to-the-death. Give me a Break!

Right, it sure is about character and integrity. Again, I don’t care if Tiger was part Martian. He really doesn’t mean anything to me. I don’t dislike him, but I don’t like him either regardless of what his flavor is.

You sound like a very angry person against black people. I surely hope you have such a viceral attitude toward the races whites that stink up our society.

Marquis de Sade

12/6/09, 19:07:pm

Daywalker

Ya’ see how busy Lil’ Wayne is, don’t you? At the end of the day, nice n!ggahs finish last when vyin’ for for loins of 90% of these openly and closeted thug worshippin’ black b!+ches. Even the nice ones will choose BIG DADDY KANE over Will Smith…Like I said, it’s their nature.

WordtotheWise

12/6/09, 19:09:pm

Marquis, you just love to hear yourself ramble, huh? You talk in circles. There’s an old saying that states, “Talking loud, and saying NOTHING.”

You still didn’t answer my questions from your earlier ramble. I figured you wouldn’t.

Here’s a recap:

1. If white women or others were so perfect, why do they get divorced, cheated on, beaten, and abandoned?

2. If you your ilk are so against black women, why do you continue to comment on us. If you’ve moved on, then it shouldn’t matter what black women are doing and how we are doing it.

I’m waiting.

WordtotheWise

12/6/09, 19:10:pm

Marquis de Sade – regarding Lil Wayne. I guess your *****essment doesn’t including his ASIAN baby mama, Sarah, huh? Oh, and Lauren in mixed, so does that include her as well? You so silly

jman75

12/6/09, 19:19:pm

hey we all seen this movie before, tiger the new o.j. no matter what you say in the u.s.a the color on your skin is everything. all tiger wife have to do is go on tv and say tiger beat me and he’s done the media’s been waiting for tiger to slip up now he’s finding out how black he really is!!!!!!!!!!

Marquis de Sade

12/6/09, 19:22:pm

WordtotheWise

Now you’re reachin’. I consider Lauren London, black, just like I consider Halle Berry, black. The asian b!+ch is the exception, not the rule. So miss me with your cheap and feeble rationalizations. The weak minded may drink your Koolaid, but me, i’m a’ Henny straight up kinda’ n!ggah.

WordtotheWise

12/6/09, 19:23:pm

Bwaahahaha! Oh, really. Wow! Come up here and tell my ex black male neighbor that. He has two white women (not his wives) suing him for child support. Marquis, you are very sheltered. You need to see the world more and talk to some of these brothers who believed that sex with white women was so pure. Some of you just won’t learn. Sooner or later you will learn very quickly when your behinds end up getting HIV/AIDS or an STD by these “safer” women that that isn’t true. You are so funny sometimes. Anytime you have unprotected, and even protected sex, it is risky, dear. You’ll find out sooner or later, hon.

Ms.EJ

12/6/09, 19:25:pm

@MARQUIS DE SADE- Now, you good and well that not all sistas like or date thug men. Truthfully, I deal with gentlemen and that is who and what I like. I love when a man knows how to be sensitive and soft to a woman, but at the same time is a mans’ man.

@WORDTOTHEWISE- Aw..thank you girl. I usually bring it in at church since I was 16, but want to try something different. I might celebrate at home, plus I can see the firework show very well and clear from my living room window. I understand about taking care of a parent, but not the your extent of full time. You are strong I know it can be tough. Longer days shall be added unto you for that

Marquis de Sade

12/6/09, 19:32:pm

“WordtotheWise
12/6/09, 19:23:pm

Bwaahahaha! Oh, really. Wow! Come up here and tell my ex black male neighbor that. He has two white women (not his wives) suing him for child support. Marquis, you are very sheltered”

There you go again, tryin’ to throw the okey doke. Don’t pretend that you don’t live in the Oregon/Washington area, which has the highest concentration of white baby mamas per capita in the U.S….Like I said, THE EXCEPTION, NOT THE RULE!

grant

12/6/09, 19:35:pm

wow lotta angry nigglets in here thinking they’re God and can say who does what and why in this world…..you do know all of you sound really stupid right?….Whatever reason Tiger does what he does is the same reason you all do what you do….because he wants to….nigglets want folks to stop hatin’ on them and yet turn right back around to talk about someone else….

WordtotheWise

12/6/09, 19:36:pm

Ms.EJ
12/6/09, 19:25:pm

@MARQUIS DE SADE- Now, you good and well that not all sistas like or date thug men. Truthfully, I deal with gentlemen and that is who and what I like. I love when a man knows how to be sensitive and soft to a woman, but at the same time is a mans’ man.

@WORDTOTHEWISE- Aw..thank you girl. I usually bring it in at church since I was 16, but want to try something different. I might celebrate at home, plus I can see the firework show very well and clear from my living room window. I understand about taking care of a parent, but not the your extent of full time. You are strong I know it can be tough. Longer days shall be added unto you for that.
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You are welcome

Yeah, I used to go to watch night service too, but haven’t been in quite a long time. At least you can see the show from the comforts of your living room.

Yes, it is tough! Especially since my mom was “normal” before February 15. After that, it has been a disaster thanks to Kaiser. Very long story, but I’m hanging in there by the grace of God who is the only one whom has given me the strength to go through this. However, I am honored to be honoring my mama. She raised me and my siblings and did a wonderful job at it, so I’m giving back to her not just because she’s my mom, but because I love her so much! Thank you for the blessing

I have mad respect for great parents. God has given those blessed enough to have them such a great responsibility. That’s why I am grieves when people put enough though into bringing them into the world, and when they are here, they mistreat them or don’t raise them properly. I understand that things happen sometimes and unexpectedly. I’m not trying to judge, ya know.

Ms.EJ

12/6/09, 19:43:pm

@WORDTOTHEWISE- Girl, we have very similar situations and/or experience. This is not my real email, but I would like for us to keep in contact, but email me at lovelye30 (@) yahoo.com so we can really e-chat on somethings. Don’t worry I didn ot include none of my actual information w/this email, but from there I can get your email and email you from my real account. Too many disturbed folks on here lol. Sidenote:before my father p*****ed he use to work for Kasier…girl alot to tell you.

WordtotheWise

12/6/09, 19:53:pm

Ms.EJ
12/6/09, 19:43:pm

@WORDTOTHEWISE- Girl, we have very similar situations and/or experience. This is not my real email, but I would like for us to keep in contact, but email me at lovelye30 (@) yahoo.com so we can really e-chat on somethings. Don’t worry I didn ot include none of my actual information w/this email, but from there I can get your email and email you from my real account. Too many disturbed folks on here lol. Sidenote:before my father p*****ed he use to work for Kasier…girl alot to tell you.
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Fabulous! I will email you right now! Oh, you definitely want protect your identity.

darealwifey

12/6/09, 20:04:pm

Could we quit worrying about who Tiger is bumping? Let’s face it, if he had dated black women, Loquita and Nay-Nay would be trying to get paid right about now, too. Don’t act like we can’t be trifling, too. I agree with Sheryl about the self-hate thing, but the fact is that this situation is just sad. Tiger is one of the world’s greatest athletes and his world is imploding. His marriage, how will this affect his kids and career. It’s just sad.

Not Miss ZPB herself

12/6/09, 20:25:pm

Now Sheryl… Miss Prez of Zeta Phi Beta. Please refrain from speaking on other folks lest your skeletons lay bare for all to feed upon. Im just sayin.

WordtotheWise

12/6/09, 20:33:pm

Riddle me this? What did Sheryl say that was so bad? Isn’t she entitled to comment on the situation like everyone and their mother? Are you going to tell Jay, David, SNL, and nem to refrain from speaking their opinions?

She’s a comedian like the rest of them, so she has every right to weigh in on the situation.

That is all.

Kgirl

12/6/09, 20:37:pm

Excuse me, what is black then? The people folks call black are pretty much all multiracial. Where do you think we get our different skin tones from? If most of us black people have Native American and white ancestry (myself included), and we are called black, who are the multiracial folks? And if all of us “multiracial” folks are black, then so is Tiger.

nice try

12/6/09, 21:18:pm

Culteral Pride? What culuture does Cheryl Underwood represent and what is there about that to feel proud of? Anyone who’s seen her act knows its foul and all she talks about is sucking d*ck f*cking and p*ssy. She herself should be ashamed, much less Tiger Woods who didn’t grow up in a black neighborhood anyway.

His culture isn’t black. His mom is full asian and his dad is mixed himself. He grew up in country clubs hanging out with white folks. So now he dates white women. So what. White dudes who grew up in the hood tend to date sistas too. Its normal.

Underwood is mad because he would never date her ugly foul mouthed a$$. But who would.

gladysP

12/6/09, 21:55:pm

wow, tiger is nasty like that… so many women, so many std’s … left forget about the color.. the man is cheating on his wife, with multiple women.. who wants a man like that??

Eshan

12/6/09, 22:04:pm

Afro-Americans are some of the most confused people i know. I am east african and have lived here in the US all my life yet I am not embraced as an afro-american. I read the comments on here all the name and it is hard to ignore the negative comments hurled at Drake and Rihanna which is simply because they are from different countries. Yet y’all wid ur arrogant selves wanna talk about Tiger not embracing his black side. Who do y’all think u r to decide who is embrace and who u think is not worthy of love and support. Yo tiger do u these people r f–k. Plus the wy half of u women on here act no wonder he is f—- wid white women.

SHANNON

12/6/09, 22:04:pm

He wouldn’t have a problem if he stuck to his own race, it’s his fault he’s in the ***** he’s in and now he wants his people’s help he can FORGET IT.

Lukie

12/6/09, 22:09:pm

I haven’t liked him since Cablainasain or what ever the f**k he called himself.

And please stop blaming his ethnic mix on his love of white chicks. Blame his daddy for clearly refusing to imbue Tiger with any self pride in his African American Identity. I am racially and ethnically mixed, but I have alwaysssss racially identified as Black nor do I chase after whitey because my momma brought me up right.

So glad he doesn’t want to be Black and glad he used the white chicks and not the sisters or any other women of color.

If you ask me, he has a sex addiction. Either that, or the death of his father has really fu**ed him up…or he is just a straight up ***** (I chose door number 3).

Now, I am just waiting to see which of these b*tches is gonna come forward with a bun in the oven, ’cause if you think the white chicks don’t pull that sh*t too, then you need to meet Jude Law’s one night jump off and the kid she had with him that he has yet to go see…..

Lukie

12/6/09, 22:22:pm

PS: His daddy ain’t no more mixed than your damn average African American.

To be African American is to be at least a drop mixed with something, whether it be Native or White. Hell, that is our gene pool right there!
African, Caucasian of some kind and Native American. That’s what his dad was. Guess what that makes him in the US? AFRICAN AMERICAN

FOXY BLACK

12/6/09, 22:43:pm

U ARE A UNCLE TOM ***** *****…Marquis de Sade WHITE *****ES HAVE STD AND AIDS TOO…YOU JUST DON’T HEAR ABOUT IT.. YOU DUMB ***** ***** LEARN YOUR *****IN HISTORY…A BLACK WOMAN MADE YOUR DUMB ***** YOU MUST HATE YOUR MOTHER, SISTER, AUNTES AND FEMALE COUSIN.. BECAUSE YOU HATE BLACK WOMEN

kingsley

12/6/09, 22:53:pm

OJ is all i can say… He will learn his lesson about messin with them white people.. That is why I always stay real with your own identitiy.. we would never shun our own even after mistakes… Unlike white people… They are trippin over thi more thatn chris brown …. This ***** only HIT woman with his *****..lol…

U

12/6/09, 22:59:pm

So let me get this straight. Tiger would have been looked at more favorable in black womens eyes if he would have cheated with a couple of black and Asian women.

BOSSIP IS WHACK!

12/6/09, 23:47:pm

She’s right to an extent, but who knows the real reason why he only likes white women. Maybe that’s his preference and everyone is allowed to have a preference and date who they want. As far as I’m concerned Tiger doesn’t even identify with being a black man, not that he should.. both his parents are mixed. but whatever let tiger date who he wants. Complaining about a “black man” not dating black women makes no difference. It’s a free country date who u want. Or else, on to the next.

Nicole T.

12/6/09, 23:56:pm

Look all this Tiger Woods mess is getting old. The only reason its such big news is he was the white mans golden boy. It seems that when white people love an athlete or musician, they try to make them greater than thou. All athletes and musicians cheat because women throw themselves at them. He is nasty and scandalous for cheating on his wife because he could have brought home a STD I don’t give a darn what color she is. Let this be a lesson Tiger ” You’z a N*****.”

maggie

12/7/09, 00:08:am

dcgal stand up!

treblig6-Canadian

12/7/09, 01:07:am

Until i saw this article, it never crossed my mind or had I noticed that all these women were not black. It was not an issue in my mind, the issue was about infidelity… Maybe because I’m from Canada and we don’t refer to people as african-canadians or asian-canadians, or that we don’t have the history of slavery the US still has not resolved. It is just sad people would identify themselves more from their “racial roots” or partisan beliefs than with the fact they are all citizens of the same country.

joytotheworld

12/7/09, 01:27:am

TIGER WOOD’S DAD AIN’T MIXED, HE IS LIKE ALL AFRICAN AMERICAN WHO HAVE MIXED UP ANCESTRY. NO WONDER TIGER IS CONFUSED. GOOGLE ALL THE PICS OF HIS DAD AND GOOGLE HIS HISTORY HE IS FULL -UP AFRICAN AMERICAN.
HIS MOM IS FULL UP THAI, WHY THE HECK WHEN BLACK PEOPLE SHUN THEIR RACE THEY DIG UP THAT MAKE BELEIVE “I’M MIXED WITH THIS AND THAT”.
IT REMINDS ME ABOUT THE U.K PROGRAMME “WHO DO WE THINK YOU ARE”, WHERE THE BLACK U.K CHEF, AINSLEY HARRIOTT’S, FAMILY TOLD HIME HIS GREAT GREAT GRAND MAMA WAS INDIAN FROM BOMBAY, WELL……WHEN THE PROFFESSIONALS LOOKED INTO HIS ANCESTRY THEY FOUND OUT THAT THERE WAS NO INDIAN WOMAN FROM INDIA IN HIS ANCESTRY JUST A BLACK WOMAN WHO HAPPEN TO MARRY ONE OF HIS ANCESTORS AND SETTLE IN JAMAICA. TO WATCH THIS EPISODE ABOUT THIS BRITISH BLACK CHEF WHO WENT IN SEARCH OF HIS ANCESTRY GOOGLE ;- AINSLEY HARRIOTT, WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE AND SEE WHAT I MEAN ABOUT THE WRONG INFORMATION P*****ED DOWN VIA OUR ANCESTORS.

Inferiority Complex

12/7/09, 01:33:am

@Lukie See your ideas & mindset stem from slavery with that “1 drop of blood crap.” (Ole Mas*sah been dead, but you still sound like a damn slave. (SMH) We live in the 2k where DNA and other advance science methods makes this saying “A Myth” and a “Big Lie” to control slaves. If DNA can point to the each parent, sex of a person, don’t you think that it can also prove one’s ethnicity including various racial backgrounds. I’m amazed that in other countries Blacks are not seeing as Blacks or African-Britian, African-Canadian, etc. Only in America where Blacks were molded by slavery do you see them with identity-crisis and other issues. Damn! In other countries Blacks are like equal and called Britians, Canadian, French, etc. Naiomi Campbell is a Brit. Not African-Brit or whatever. Some Blacks in America act and still think like 2nd cl***** citizens. They don’t even consider themselves equals and get angry if another black think outside the box and date otherwise. Why? Because these blacks feel they are not or will ever be accepted by Whites. They have all types of hang ups and yet they want equal pay. Well, if you are reinforcing that you are different, act like 2nd cl***** citizens, why should you be considered equal or paid equal? Aren’t you different and not good enough for other races? At least this is my perception after constantly reading this racial hangup stuff stemming from deep hurt & anger connected to slavery. I mean blacks fought so hard to drink out of the same water fountain, use the same bathrooms, come in through the front door of a restaurant, attend schools with Whites, and yet they still do not see themselves as equal or not good enough. gotta shake my head at this nonsense. You all are making yourselves look worse and reiterating that you truly do not see yourself as being good enough…it’s not about black pride, etc. For Blacks cut, stab, shoot, rape, mug, hate on, each other like there is no tomorrow. We want even mention what rappers say about Black Women. Still these same Black women run out and buy their CDs and tickets. You are conditioned & control to not think you’re equal or good enough. This is about your own insecurities not others who feel free to date whomever.

Huh???

12/7/09, 01:37:am

@Inferiority Complex. I totally agree. I’m multiracial, Irish, Italian and Native American. To some African American, its’ the Europeans fault about racists attitudes here, but I’ve live in Europe, and most parts race is just not an issue at all. To me the people who are always talking about color are the ones that are racist.

If you think back a while this whole African American, German American and Whatever American came to be at the same time when POLITICALLY CORRECT was invented. Once upon a time black people were Negroes, then the blacks started calling themselves Black because black was beautiful. Then in the age of Political Correctness blacks were not beautiful anymore and they became African Americans, just like all other Whatever Americans. About Caucasians, the only true Caucasians are the Russians that live in the Caucasus region of southern Russia !

Red Girl

12/7/09, 01:50:am

Ummm, the white women can have Tiger, and OJ…I don’t have any desire to be cheated on with a bunch of waitresses, and I don’t have any desire to get my head (almost) cut off. No, I’m very happy with my hubby, thank you very much. And for white women (of whom I have many friends) I’d say, “Stay away from him too, he looks like a fool.”
As far as his issues with self-esteem, it’s very real obviously. Tiger says his father was half Black, a quarter Chinese, and a quarter Native American, even though to most of us, he just looks…Black. But that is his belief. If his father really is ONLY half Black (which I couldn’t know even if i cared to) than it would make sense for him to come up with some stupid term as to his ethnic identity. I look at his dad and see a Black man and look at Tiger and see a person who looks Black and Asian, but what does it matter? There will always be people who are ashamed of who they are, and we just have to learn to pity them, and be happy with who we are. His wealth won’t affect me so I have little interest in what he thinks about himself. Besides, from what I hear he is a bit of a jerk.

Slave Mentality

12/7/09, 01:52:am

Seal is called a Brit. Not African this or that because he is one of us. He like most who are from Great Britain or Europe are not bearing the black burden that is so profound in Black-Slavery U.S. In fact, Blacks in the U.S. also embrace Seal’s marriage to Heidi Klum (a German). It’s like the hatred that some slaves had for the strong ones that ran for freedom. They were so controlled by the Whites that they could only think inside a box (or a limited mindset). I would hate to be Black in America. They are programmed to not feel they are good enough. Tyra Banks did a show where Black women were always chosen last by men of various race. Hey, all from France are French; Great Britain citizens are Brits regardless of color and the list goes on and on with those from Sweden, etc. because those that are born in our country are actual citizens and equal. Slavery was such an ugly thing in the U.S. has its scars are deeply imprinted in the minds of people long after slavery has ended.

Red Girl

12/7/09, 01:59:am

Let me clarify that I think it is perfectly fine and acceptable to think of yourself in terms of being multi-raical, and that people are going to have to become more comfortable with that as more and more people are born who are clearly multi-racial. I just think his made up term, Calablasin, or whatever, sounds really cheesy. I’m multi-racial myself, though I think of myself as Black because I grew up around Black people, in a Black church, that was my experience. But I was teased by Blacks for being a “white girl” which always made me cry cause I just wanted to be like everyone else. I’m part Indian, Irish, English, and African, look a helluva lot more mixed than Tiger, but I’m so comfortable with who I am. When my family moved to the moutains and I was around primarily white people, I really stood out, and experienced a lot of racism from some people (though I also made some wonderful friends). I was really happy when we finally moved back to the city where even though I stood out a little, I was always accepted and happy. I’m just happy with me, and when you are, you can only pity those who are not, not to say Tiger isn’t, I don’t know the dude.

3rd Shift

12/7/09, 02:02:am

@Red Girl If you don’t think Black men have not tortured (set on fire, poured acid on, dismembered or cut the head off, etc.) black women, you are sadly mistaken or conveniently forgotten about Headline News. A lot of black women can tell you of their story with black husbands cheating, STDs, baby mammas etc. Get your head out of the sand. As soon as the economy gets better, you will be singing the same sad story. Just another black woman going thru a divorce & being a struggling single-parent. Cheating is not about color. It’s about a man’s integrity. Men cheat at work & come home like they’re missing their wives, etc. Their are kinds of way for a man to be sneaky and cheat and keep your head in the sand because the truth hurts.

4Real-tho

12/7/09, 02:24:am

That Lion-Cheetah’s real name is Eldrick Woods. A black name. I say take his stripes away and we will see that Tiger is really a lion-cheetah. (wink-wink)

A*GAME BEAUTY

12/7/09, 03:54:am

Cheryl is right…. on sooo many levels. the truth hurts doesn’t it. He doesn’t have to marry a sister or be with a sister but date someone who can identify with your culture and doesn’t have be all fake around people of your own culture.

joytotheworld

12/7/09, 04:49:am

HEY Y’ALL, WE’VE BEEN HEARING HERE IN THE U.K THAT HE WANTS OPRAH TO BAIL HIM OUT. HE WANTS TO APPEAR ON HER SHOW WITH HIS WIFE TO TRY AND SAVE HIS IMAGE.

therealrothschild

12/7/09, 05:04:am

how come a person has to be hurt by slavery to identify their ethnicity? how can one say that they aint black if they have brown skin and have a black mom, dad or grand or great, even if they are “mixed”? wth? how can yall just sweep race under the rug when it took 200 years to have a black president who’s mama is still white? as much as we’d like to forget about race, is it not shoved in your face everyday? or do you live on mars? yall really think that there is a place where black folks are not discriminated against? or do i just get out a little more?? im not hurt by slavery, brainwashed, or mad at tiger, but i do think people have a mental issue when “natural selection” doesnt take effect when choosing a mate. yeah yeah, environment plays a big role, but even if i was raised around whites my whole life, im still gonna be naturally attracted to a person who looks and thinks like me. i might find white boys attractive cause they are who ive seen my whole life, but i just cant see myself dissing a brother. im the totality of american being every ethnicity but indian, and i mean east indian for the ‘westernized” ones…i absolutely choose black men over any of them no matter how *****ed up in the head they are. on the otherhand, i have dated caucasions who were very attractive. still, nothing does it for me other than what looks like me. i was raised in a very diverse climate…that doeant make me open to marry them all. nothing is wrong with race mixing unless its done for the wrong reasons and usually it is. my 15 year old creole grandma ran off with a wealthy 35 year old chinaman back in the late 1800s. do u think that was love or a chic trying to get outta the house and be taken care of????? yall think she loved that dude???

salomesmith

12/7/09, 05:11:am

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therealrothschild

12/7/09, 05:15:am

@slave mentality

Tyra Banks did a show where Black women were always chosen last by men of various race.

______________________

cause they werent bad enough!!!! there are some BAD black *****es in the world who have straight AND nappy hair down to their ***** when its straightened and perfect bodies. and in some cases, the chic might not have long hair but she’s still a bad *****.

people act like dark or brown skinned women are the least attractive. whateva. its baboons of all races and yall know it.

therealrothschild

12/7/09, 05:31:am

i want to commend all the black folks on here who “see no color”…yall waaaaaaay ahead of yalls time, lol.

as much as i would like to “see no color”…and im lookin like thandie newton with the average american dialect and grammar when i reported my purse stolen 2 the cops, they didnt ask, they check BLACK/NON HISPANIC and i have a hispanic grandfather…when you have tan skin, dont matter bout the hair or eloquent grammar and manners. dont matter about the money or the education or the lineage. you are BLACK and when it comes down to the wire…no matter where you go in this world, you aint equal and you are categorized.

everyone here sweeping race under the rug…m*****a gotcha right where he wants ya! until i see somebody black or asian or latino or indian on some u.s. currency, more than one black man and one black woman having multi billions here and more than ten elsewhere and until africa is totally governed by dark skinned people…and black folks stop being so divided…ima have to stick with “we have a problem!”

therealrothschild

12/7/09, 05:45:am

and one more thing…

who doesnt know that black dna dismantles any race out? (hair, skin, body, face, teeth, all that!!!)you notice when white and asian mixes, the person still looks more asian!! when black comes through and changes your whole body, it doesnt matter if your mom is thai. i think that would basically make you black and even if you grew up around white girls you’d still have a thing for black ones because psychologically she looks like you and has the same essence as you. the darker race always cancels the other one out. sure you can say you are bi or tri racial, but whichever is darkest, thats what you are babe…and whatever else and the rest.

white + black = black
white + asian = asian
white + navajo = navajo
mexican + asian = mexican
indian + asian = indian
spaniard + asian + persian = persian

im just saying…

therealrothschild

12/7/09, 05:57:am

im wired…

and oh…most of the black men ive tried to settle with were trifling ***** hell and didnt accept me bacause they were insecure and thought i was gonna play them cause im “light skinneded” and “attempted” to dog me before i could them…they called me white girl on the playground and made fun of me and ive been dumped for a darker chic on occ*****ion…that didnt make me run out and be with white guys.

i have dated many fabulous black men! ill treatment from black men never made me jump the fence and ive had drag thru the mud like you would never have in your next ten lives by my ex!

i hear mexicans really know how to love a woman and are all about family and brings home the check…i aint all up in their face or comparing them to black men or saying they are better.

there are rotten apples abound. people do what they want to do…

missthing

12/7/09, 07:04:am

@ joytotheworld.
Oh so now he comes running to 0PRAH A BLACK WOMAN to bail his sorry ***** out!!!!!!!!
I hope she ’says it like it is’ being said on this forum.
She should ask him if he still sees himself as a CAUSAQLIANAMNPNANONNOIAN!!!!!!!!!….LOL.

HEALTHY BLACK QUEENS

12/7/09, 07:41:am

Just date whoever you are attracted to. There’s no point in being exclusive to one race, especially when they are not exclusive to you. If Tiger wants white women, let him go. There are millions of black, white, biracial, Asian, etc men willing to take his place.

♥Kami All Day ♥ (Haters give me Promo.....)

12/7/09, 07:45:am

Did you guys all miss Marquis de Sade’s funeral??

He/She died over the weekend from talking too much sh*t.

Then, we had all of his/her family members phoned and found out that they hated him/her just as much as we do. So, they didnt attend.

I went.

And to my surprise……there were NO white people there to see him/her go.

I THOUGHT it would be crawlin’ with the pigmented-challenged folk who he/she bigs up so much.

Empty.

All this kiss-a$$in….we will see who is there when it really means something.

R.I.P Marquis….well, not in FULL peace anyway.

SwirlGirl

12/7/09, 08:15:am

Marqis De Sade..You are precisely the reason that Sistas like me marry white men. Furthermore, I am a proud size 12/14 and I have dated more outside the race than inside the race only because that is what appeals to me. I have dated brothas, but many of them are not feeling natural hair or the fact that I did not have time for men with 50 -11 kids, bad credit and always talking about the MAN keeping him down. I p*****ed on all that nonsense and I have been married to my white King for 14 years.

Tiger is wrong! wrong! wrong! He is a married man and father. He sure is setting his daughter up with a good example. But he is a typical stupid az Negro acting like his D * K is the end all be all of what MAN hood.. is about..

g.d.c

12/7/09, 08:35:am

Yeah, he is no different that a racist… Ole’ Tigger…

TyNice

12/7/09, 08:41:am

We need to stop expecting people to set good examples and use our own judgment when making right or wrong decisions. A lot of people play dumb but they aren’t. His situation should not affect any other grown a$$ person is making their own relationship decisions. He is being used as a scape goat because this is really none of our business at the end of the day. Just him and his wife’s.

Redemption

12/7/09, 08:48:am

She mad cause he don’t date donkey’s so she ain’t got a shot.

Cj

12/7/09, 08:52:am

This ignorance always raises it’s ugly head. He nor anyone else needs the permission of others to date and/or marry who he wishes. This racial divide will never end as long as this premise exist in the small minds in which it dwells.

Do you: Tiger, OJ, Halle, Alfrie, the NBA, the NFL and all others….DO YOU!

I love you Michael Jackson

12/7/09, 11:08:am

I don’t like this new look Bossip go back to your old way. Tiger Woods I don’t have works for other then he deserves what he get. it doesn’t matter what race you are a cheater is worthless I hope she takes all his MONEY

MUTT=Death of the Black culture

12/7/09, 11:09:am

only time he is gonna go near a black woman is to use Oprah!!!!!!!!!!

how is a mutt gonna have cultural pride period?

that be my point about black men marrying non black. already society puts our race down but then you procreate with someone who can not perpetuate the pride of our black history or culture.

easiest way to kill a culture is to dilute and infiltrate it.

death of the Black culture

be real you have neevr even seen tiga around black people!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! or like he even knows any black folks!!!!!!!!!!LOL!!

DATPHILYGIRL

12/7/09, 11:22:am

I KNOW I BE DAMM IF I PAY A SIDE CHICK ANY MONEY AND SHE AINT’ KNOCKED UP…WHAT IS HE PAYING THE SIDE CHICK TO KEEP HER MOUTH CLOSED FOR LET THE BYTCH TALK…..LET THE TABLOIDS PAY HER FOR SUCKING HIM OFF….HE’S A DUMB AZZ…I WISH I WOULD…..OUR POOR BLACK MEN….LOL

Get a Clue!

12/7/09, 13:14:pm

Kazanjian said it best: “Tiger Woods is not Black. His mother is from Thailand. That is Asian. Woods father was predominantly American Indian with part white and part Black blood to a minimal degree. Washington’s preoccupation with Woods race is peculiar and completely disjointed. Woods is Asian by any objective measure. And people in Thailand consider him to be one of their own. They, however, have better things to do with their time than ponder Woods identification with his ethnicity the way Black people seem to be be compelled to do by some odd and completely illogical predisposition to measure everything and anything within the context of race. Amazingly juvenile and utterly boring. Woods spent his entire life in a white world of country clubs, golf courses etc in Orange County California in town that had practically zero Black people. He went to Stanford. He married a Swedish woman. He has nothing to apologize for to the Black community because he is not black, has never self identified himself as black, is aware of the fact that it is a metaphysical impossibility for him to be black because he can count to ten without using his fingers and toes and therefore understands that when your mother is 100% Thai as in from Thailand as in ASIAN that he is not black. Black people’s absurd, deluded, idiotic, juvenile obsession with race is retarded. Thai people know that Woods is if anything Thai and they are completely aware of this but have a whole lot more to do with their lives than obsess about Wood’s ethnicity. How does AP employ such simplistic, fatuous fools like Washington? Is he is still a child and hasn’t figured out simple, easily comprehensible truths? Earth to US Black with that slave-mentality: Tiger Woods is not Black and he knows it.” (Southern Blacks in historical US Slave Country are so deeply brainwashed to measure everything thru color & hate. Wonder why Blacks who are citizens of other country have a different worldview? Could it be that they are not product of slavery & brainwashed by generations of black people still stuck & unable to move forward? There is only one Race, the Human Race created by the Almighty God. To limit one’s self to just one color & not sample the buffet of God’s creation of a beautiful array of colors in the Human Race is a shame. Limitation was put on Blacks thru slavery. Now, blacks are their own worse enemy and place limitations on themselves due to an inferiority complex, self-loathing, etc. It’s not about Black Pride as we know Blacks envy, hate on, kill, stab, beat the crap out of each other, leak & steal music…This is about their own personal struggles & esteem about not feeling equal. It’s a slap in the face & makes some feel even more inferior when they see someone who has the audacity, guts, and strength to step & think out side of the box). Get a Clue Black People!

Get a Clue!

12/7/09, 13:26:pm

@therealrothschild And you majored in…? You attend what major University? You sound like the most uneducated person talking out the side of their neck. Your mentality and education seem to come from Jim Jones Slavery University where there is no evidence of Genetics, DNA, etc. Don’t you know that if a crime was committed law enforcement would say the person of interest is of mixed ethnicity with whatever was found in the DNA. See only the poor uneducated blacks & white uneducated trailer-trash still believe this Myth p*****ed on by Plantation owners.

Get a Clue!

12/7/09, 13:31:pm

Bossip, When did “Pa*ss*ed on” become profanity? have to write it this way with asterisk in order to get the simple word & message to you. Your computer screen out the word, maybe I should have mispelled & typed it as “pazzed on” to overcome being censored by a faulty program.

Slave Mentality

12/7/09, 14:02:pm

@therealrothschild
Bad Azz black chic has to do with more than just hair. Your perception of what other people look for is obviously limited. What power do these so-called bad chics in your mind possess in terms of social status & getting these men entry into certain “Elite” clubs & social dinners or invites? What educational level from an “Elite” University do they possess? What pedigree of family upbringing do they possess? See looking at this from so many perspectives and how others perceive this bad chic with hair in your mind limitless. Tyra, Naomi Campbell, etc. all became famous with their Barbie bodies, European exotic eyes, and weaved up hair & wigs to create an image to overcome perception of a Black woman. Naomi is bad with a Russian Billionaire but it has nothing to with her fake hair. You see badd in the mind of others, is just not what your perception is. We see your idea of Badd chics with hair in rappers like 50 cent videos, etc. with no self-esteem, no real power, and just being exploited & used for chump change. This is not most people’s perception of Badd. Don’t you know that other races look past “hair” to say what is a Badd Chic. You are coming from a narrow-minded view with a limited perception. Badd has to transcend the perception & views of various races across the planet. Oprah is consider a “Badd Azz” Chic & equal across the planet, she is considered Royalty regardless of her hair texture. She has Power, Billions, Well-Educated, and a woman with Savoir Faire (the ability to speak & act in any given situation). Don’t think for a minute that what goes on in your head rings true in the minds & perception of many. That’s why you’re still stuck & limited like slave. What neighborhood did you grow up in? Was it predominantly Black? Is it the inner-city hood or rural area of the South? Did you grow up in a somewhat diverse suburban town? What major University did you attend? Was it some Historical Black College with predominant poor ignorant blacks being fed foolish and limited education where as they would leave in debt & unprepared and shunned by employees in the real world? Where is your judgment coming from? Is it what hip-hop videos & rappers brainwashed you into the perception of what they think is Badd? However, these chics are not respected, but used & exploited & pazzed around by these rappers, so the true definition of Badd goes out the window. Do red carpet roll out for these women viewed as Badd Chics in your mind? I think not. The men on Tyra took a lot into consideration based on experience when they say Badd Chics. Black women give up their power by settling for these no good thugs, which takes away from being a true Badd Chic because if any man can have say Lauren London, then she is not a Badd Chic. Getting knocked up by that gremlin took away her stock. She is hoping that taking pics with the Kardashians will help her image, but she is seen as easy and another baby momma that had a kid by a sorry thug. We have two ideas of Badd Azz Chic. Tyra, Oprah, Highly educated Michelle Obama are Badd Chics. These women are Powerful. Get a Clue…

Lisa

12/7/09, 14:53:pm

I have many black male friends and they all admit that the only reason they date white women is because they are stupid, gullible, easy to get in bed and they can control them. My male friends said 99.999999% of the time a white girl will give them oral sex in the club and don’t even know them.

I have heard this so many times until it ridiculous
___________________________________________

This is so true, my brothers and all of their friends say they date white chicks because they buy them everything. They get cell phones, cars, rims in their name and just destroy their credit. And the dumb broads just go get more money from their parents. And on top of all of that, they will give you head while you are taking a chit. White chicks let them get away with stuff they couldn’t do with a black chick.

therealrothschild

12/7/09, 15:57:pm

@Get a Clue!
Kazanjian said it best: “Tiger Woods is not Black. His mother is from Thailand. That is Asian. Woods father was predominantly American Indian with part white and part Black blood to a minimal degree.

TIGER IS BLACK DUMMY. LOOK AT HIM. HE HAS A BIG ***** NOSE AND DARK SKIN. HELL, HE’S WAY DARKER THAN ME! YOU MUST BE BLIND IF YOU CANT SEE THAT ANY TYPE OF BLACK DNA IS DOMINANT. IF THAT WERE NOT THE CASE HE WOULDVE BEEN WHITE LOOKIN LIKE THE MOM, RIGHT??? OF COURSE HE SHOULD CLAIM ALL OF HIS ETHNICITIES, BUT AFRICANS STARTED THIS ***** SO EVERYONE HAS A BLACK GENE AND IT RULES.
MY FATHER IS ASIAN LATINO AFRICAN AND EUROPEAN. MY MOM IS CHEROKEE AFRICAN AND EUROPEAN. WHAT DOES THAT MAKE ME?!I WOULD HAVE TO SAY AFRICAN CONSIDERING MY TAN SKIN!

Washington’s preoccupation with Woods race is peculiar and completely disjointed. Woods is Asian by any objective measure. And people in Thailand consider him to be one of their own. They, however, have better things to do with their time than ponder Woods identification with his ethnicity the way Black people seem to be be compelled to do by some odd and completely illogical predisposition to measure everything and anything within the context of race.

THIS IS THE U.S. THE COUNTRY WAS BUILT ON THE PREOCCUPATION OF RACE. BLACKS STILL STRUGGLE HERE. WE NEED TEAMPLAYERS TO RISE. WHEN PEOPLE WHO HAVE THE PLATFORM LIKE TIGER, MARIAH AND VIN DEISEL TURN THEIR BACK ON THE COMMUNITY, ITS *****ED UP CAUSE WE NEED THAT POWER TO MOVE FORWARD IN THIS OPPRESSED SOCIETY. YOU ARE OBVIOUSLY NOT AMERICAN OR BLACK SO HOW CAN YOU EVEN EMPATHIZE??? YOURE ON THE OUTSIDE LOOKING IN.

Woods spent his entire life in a white world of country clubs, golf courses etc in Orange County California in town that had practically zero Black people.

AND SO DID I!IN THE SOUTH AT THAT!MY GREAT GRAN WAS LEFT EVERYTHING BY HER EMPLOYER! HER UNCLE, A “P*****ER” HELPED BUILD THE DAMN CLUB IN 1910! WE LIVED AROUND THE CORNER FROM THE GOLF COURSE! NEXT DOOR WERE WHITE FACES! I WENT TO COTILLION AND SPENT MY SUMMERS SWIMMING WITH THE WALTON AND WILLIAMSON KIDS! SO EFFING WHAT?????? IM NOT JUMPING IN WHITE BOY ARMS AND TRYING TO GET THEIR TRUSTS! IM SANE! YOU HAVE GOT TO BE CRAZY TO SAY THAT CAUSE YOU NEVER HUNG OUT WITH BLACKS THAT YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO OR DONT LIKE BLACKS OR WANT TO CLAIM BLACK CAUSE OF THAT WHEN YOUR SKIN IS DARK AS HELL. GET A GRIP.

He went to Stanford.

I WENT TO COLUMBIA AND DUKE…AND??????? I LOVE BLACK MEN.

married a Swedish woman. He has nothing to apologize for to the Black community because he is not black, has never self identified himself as black, is aware of the fact that it is a metaphysical impossibility for him to be black because he can count to ten without using his fingers and toes and therefore understands that when your mother is 100% Thai as in from Thailand as in ASIAN that he is not black. Black people’s absurd, deluded, idiotic, juvenile obsession with race is retarded. Thai people know that Woods is if anything Thai and they are completely aware of this but have a whole lot more to do with their lives than obsess about Wood’s ethnicity.

YOU SOUND STUPID AS HELL.

How does AP employ such simplistic, fatuous fools like Washington? Is he is still a child and hasn’t figured out simple, easily comprehensible truths?

I WAS AT THE AP THRU THE 90S AND THE MILLINEUM AND WORKED ON 3 DESKS SIMU. HAD ATHLETES DELEGATES- BOTH DEM AND REP AND OTHER POLITICIANS WRAPPED AROUND MY PINKY FINGER SENDING ME ***** AND WALKING ON EGG SHELLS. WE CANT BE TOO DUMB.

Earth to US Black with that slave-mentality: Tiger Woods is not Black and he knows it.” (Southern Blacks in historical US Slave Country are so deeply brainwashed to measure everything thru color & hate.

YOUR OPINION. RACE IS PREVALENT HERE. THE UNDERPINNINGS OF A DUMB ***** EGO DRIVEN MONEY HUNGRY SOCIETY FUELED BY THE EASTERN WORLD. YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHAT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT. YOU ARE REFERRING TO *****S. EVERYONE IN THE U.S. WHO ARE BLACK DO NOT HAVE A SLAVE MENTALITY. THE SMART ONES HAVE A REVOLUTIONARY MENTALITY. YOU CANT MOVE FORWARD UNLESS YOU IDENTIFY THE PROBLEM.

Wonder why Blacks who are citizens of other country have a different worldview? Could it be that they are not product of slavery & brainwashed by generations of black people still stuck & unable to move forward?

REALLY? PLEASE GO READ A HISTORY BOOK. AFRICANS WORLDWIDE HAVE BEEN ENSLAVED. THE U.S. IS YOUNG AND THATS WHY THE WOUNDS OF SLAVERY HAVE NOT HEALED. WE WERE JUST FREAKIN SLAVES A CENTURY AGO. YOU ARE VERY STUPID.

There is only one Race, the Human Race created by the Almighty God. To limit one’s self to just one color & not sample the buffet of God’s creation of a beautiful array of colors in the Human Race is a shame. Limitation was put on Blacks thru slavery. Now, blacks are their own worse enemy and place limitations on themselves due to an inferiority complex, self-loathing, etc. It’s not about Black Pride as we know Blacks envy, hate on, kill, stab, beat the crap out of each other, leak & steal music…This is about their own personal struggles & esteem about not feeling equal. It’s a slap in the face & makes some feel even more inferior when they see someone who has the audacity, guts, and strength to step & think out side of the box). Get a Clue Black People!

ALL RACES ARE PROUD IDIOT. AND PLEASE STOP GENERALIZING. I DONT THINK ANY OF THE ABOVE. AND WHO DOESNT WANT A FAIR SHAKE AT MAKING PAPER? BILLIONS??? GTFOHWYBS.

And you majored in…? You attend what major University?

“UNIVERSITIES”
ENGLISH, DUKE ‘94 AND JOURNALISM, COLUMBIA ‘96. HOW ABOUT YOU?

You sound like the most uneducated person talking out the side of their neck. Your mentality and education seem to come from Jim Jones Slavery University where there is no evidence of Genetics, DNA, etc. Don’t you know that if a crime was committed law enforcement would say the person of interest is of mixed ethnicity with whatever was found in the DNA.

YOU ARE DUMB AS HELL. THEY *****ESS SKIN COLOR!I DONT KNOW WHERE YOU LIVE, BUT THE ONE DROP RULE STILL APPLIES HERE. WHEN YOU GO TO PRISON YOUR ARMBAND SAYS YOU ARE MIXED TOO RIGHT?

See only the poor uneducated blacks & white uneducated trailer-trash still believe this Myth p*****ed on by Plantation owners.

OKAY. LOL. PLEASE TAKE YOUR OWN ADVICE AND GET A CLUE.
********************

@Slave Mentality

Bad Azz black chic has to do with more than just hair.

UM YEAH???? THE MEN ON TYRAS SHOW DIDNT KNOW THESE CHICKS BACKGROUND. THEY WERE CHOOSING OFF PURE ASTHETICS. CASE CLOSED. YOU JUST WANT TO GET UP ON YOUR SOAP BOX. LONG HAIR IS FAVORED UPON. SO WHAT INTERNAL ISSUE MAKES YOU WANT TO TANGENT TODAY???

Your perception of what other people look for is obviously limited.

IM GOING OFF WHAT I SAW ON TYRAS SHOW…AND IT CLEARLY HAD TO DO WITH SKIN TONE. AND SHE DIDNT HAVE THE CUTEST BLACK WOMEN UP THERE. IT WAS OBVIOUS. HARD HAIR AND WEAVES. THESE GUYS CHOSE BASED ON LOOKS. TRUST.

What power do these so-called bad chics in your mind possess in terms of social status & getting these men entry into certain “Elite” clubs & social dinners or invites? What educational level from an “Elite” University do they possess? What pedigree of family upbringing do they possess? See looking at this from so many perspectives and how others perceive this bad chic with hair in your mind limitless. Tyra, Naomi Campbell, etc. all became famous with their Barbie bodies, European exotic eyes, and weaved up hair & wigs to create an image to overcome perception of a Black woman. Naomi is bad with a Russian Billionaire but it has nothing to with her fake hair. You see badd in the mind of others, is just not what your perception is. We see your idea of Badd chics with hair in rappers like 50 cent videos, etc. with no self-esteem, no real power, and just being exploited & used for chump change. This is not most people’s perception of Badd. Don’t you know that other races look past “hair” to say what is a Badd Chic. You are coming from a narrow-minded view with a limited perception. Badd has to transcend the perception & views of various races across the planet. Oprah is consider a “Badd Azz” Chic & equal across the planet, she is considered Royalty regardless of her hair texture. She has Power, Billions, Well-Educated, and a woman with Savoir Faire (the ability to speak & act in any given situation). Don’t think for a minute that what goes on in your head rings true in the minds & perception of many. That’s why you’re still stuck & limited like slave.

WILL YOU PLEASE TAKE YOUR AGGRESSION OUT ON THE ONES WHO BUILT IT UP? OF COURSE A TRUE BAD ***** IS THE COMPLETE PACKAGE. BUT IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH SOCIALISM ARE YOU KIDDING? A TRUE BAD ***** IS A VIRTUOUS WOMAN WHO TAKES CARE OF HER FAMILY AND HERSELF AND IS CONNECTED TO GOD. YOUR PERCEPTION IS VERY MUNDANE. INVITES? ETIQUTTE? MONEY? THAT DOESNT MAKE A ***** BAD. AND BOOK KNOWLEDGE CANT HOLD A CANDLE TO WITT AND COMMON SENSE. I KNOW A PAPERED UP MECHANIC WHO CAN BARELY SPEAK ENGLISH WITH A 6TH GRADE EDUCATION. HE HAS ALL THE MATERIAL THINGS AND FRIENDS YOUD EVER WANT. SO YOUR POINT IS? AND WHO SAID ANYTHING ABOUT A CERTAIN HAIR TEXTURE BEING BETTER? I STATED NAPPY OR NOT BECAUSE I KNOW HOW HUNG UP YALL ARE OVER “GOOD HAIR” WHICH OF COURSE THERES NO SUCH THING.THAT IS THE WORLDS VIEW OF BEAUTY HOWEVER…LONG PRETTY HAIR, GREAT SKIN, TIP TOP BODY. YOU GONNA ARGUE THAT? THAT IS NOT MY PERCEPTION SO PLEASE STOP *****UMING ***** ABOUT ME. BEAUTY COMES FROM WITHIN AND A BAD ***** IS WELL ROUNDED AND LOOKS GOOD BEING SUCH.THERE ARE DIFFERENT ASPECTS AS TO BEING A BAD ***** SO PLEASE STOP KNITPICKING.THANKS.

What neighborhood did you grow up in? Was it predominantly Black? Is it the inner-city hood or rural area of the South? Did you grow up in a somewhat diverse suburban town? What major University did you attend? Was it some Historical Black College with predominant poor ignorant blacks being fed foolish and limited education where as they would leave in debt & unprepared and shunned by employees in the real world?

NONE OF THE ABOVE. AND YOU? HARVARD I SUPPOSE? OR ABROAD? AND YOU GREW UP WHERE? HYDE PARK IN LONDON?

Where is your judgment coming from? Is it what hip-hop videos & rappers brainwashed you into the perception of what they think is Badd? However, these chics are not respected, but used & exploited & pazzed around by these rappers, so the true definition of Badd goes out the window. Do red carpet roll out for these women viewed as Badd Chics in your mind? I think not.

:::ROLLS EYES::: SMH. GTFOOH.

The men on Tyra took a lot into consideration based on experience when they say Badd Chics.

AND YOU KNOW THIS BECAUSE???? AND IF THIS IS TRUE…WHAT DOES EXPERIENCE DATING A PREFERENCE HAVE TO DO WITH NATURAL SELECTION? THE BLACK GUY STILL CHOSE A WHITE CHIC. WHY THE EXPERIMENT WHEN THE HYPOTHESIS WAS ALREADY SOLVED? ALREADY KNEW THESE GUYS PREFERENCES? THAT SHOW IS DUMB IS HELL ANYWAY.

Black women give up their power by settling for these no good thugs, which takes away from being a true Badd Chic because if any man can have say Lauren London, then she is not a Badd Chic. Getting knocked up by that gremlin took away her stock. She is hoping that taking pics with the Kardashians will help her image, but she is seen as easy and another baby momma that had a kid by a sorry thug. We have two ideas of Badd Azz Chic. Tyra, Oprah, Highly educated Michelle Obama are Badd Chics. These women are Powerful. Get a Clue…

YOU GET A CLUE. HAVING MONEY DOESNT MAKE YOU A BAD CHIC. AND YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHAT POWER IS. POWER IS LETTING THAT MONEY WORK FOR YOU. DO THESE CHICS OWN BANKS AND GET DOWN WITH THE CENTRAL BANKERS WHO PRINT UP MONEY WHEN THEY WANT IT???

NEXT!

YOU GET A CLUE. BEAUTY, WEALTH, AND BEING PUPPETS AINT NATHANG.TALK TO ME WHEN YOU HAVE A LITTLE MORE WORLDLY KNOWLEDGE. HAVE A GOOD ONE.

JaNa'e

12/7/09, 17:31:pm

i got to agree with cheryl on this one, tigers supposed preference for caucasian women is a form of self-hate. Not saying that dating outside of your race means that you dislike your people but in tigers case I think he only goes after them because it is thought to be more socially acceptable. He won’t even admit to the fact that he is black, that his birth certificate lists his ethnicity as black and that his children, despite their having a white mother, are black as well.

everyone is trying to make the situation better by saying that he’s not black because his mother is of asian descent and his father has native American in him. The fact of the matter is that all black Americans are comprised of 18-20% Caucasian blood and 1-3% native American. None of us are ‘completely black’. If we’re going to give him a p***** and call him multi-racial then we must give the title to the rest of the American extension of the black race. None of us are ‘purely’ black. Why do people think our skin complexions have such a wide range? It’s not because of some freak accident, it’s genetics.

Black genes are dominant, meaning that regardless of whether or not one of your parents is of another race you will still ‘appear’ to be black. Nothing separates tiger from the rest of us except himself. Put him next to an average black man or woman and you will find no difference between the two because there is no difference. I hate it when people try to use genetic diversity as a means to place one being above another, when the truth of matter is that we all possess diverse backgrounds and family histories. If no one knew that his mother was from Thailand, no one would guess it because he doesn’t appear to be anything other than what the rest of us are.

As far as the people who are saying that he’s only dating white women because black women are ‘ghetto, angry, overweight, unattractive, lazy, don’t use birth control, etc.’ allow me to point out the fact that those same traits exist within each and every other race in this country. The fact of the matter is that the highest demographic on welfare is white women between the ages of 18-44(they make up 39% of welfare users). The fact of the matter is that the race with the highest birth rate are those of latino descent. Look it up if you choose not to believe me.

quit being racists, it displays your lack of intelligence. I say to you go pick up a book and learn something.

scooby dubious

12/7/09, 21:27:pm

This “self-hate” cliche is way past its expiration date.
I doubt there’s any man born in the 20th century who hasn’t been primed to desire white women: blonde, fair, blue-eyed, busty and leggy. They’ve been universalized into the epitome of sex. They are the first thing that comes to mind in a system of commoditized presentation of desire.
And there are more of them, likelier to be found in greater numbers, in the places where an A-level professional athlete socializes. They are there explicitly as the reward for his prowess at his game. They are no doubt grown-up versions of the high school girls Woods may not have been able to date given the inequality of high school: the queens date the kings and he kings only. Tiger Woods only became king after high school.

I don’t think it’s even remotely possible that someone with his talent, his achievements, his position, his wealth, and his support system could “hate” himself.

And I’d prefer someone who hates himself and gives the rest of us a wide berth to all these stupid black boys going around killing each other over trifles. Self-hate is harmless compared with hating each other.

White Women Rule

12/7/09, 22:05:pm

My goodness, all I’m hearing is whinning! If we go off of this womans theory, then I guess men who only date “women” should also try to date other “men”. If he prefers white women, so be it. It seems that the majority of you have a problem with that, not Tiger.

Marquis de Sade

12/8/09, 02:52:am

SwirlGirl

Well bully for you hoe. I’m glad you found yourself a white guy with a “FAT N!GGA B!+CH” fetish…I also have a sneaky suspicion you’re the main breadwinner in that twosome, also.

Optimus Prime-Real Estate

12/8/09, 02:53:am

You brothas screamin all this white woman crap are being TOLD to do that by white media. You mean to tell me a sexy woman built like Serena Williams is more attractive then skinny old Carrie Underwood.

White women being pushed in the mainstream media look like teenage girls. No breast and no butt. Some white men like that crap because many of them are closet PEDO’s. It’s inherit in Black Men to like thick sista’s. When you goin after Becky, you’re denying who you are. I’m a black man and there are some attractive Becky’s out there. But none I ever seen (even in the media) compares to a beautiful black goddess. Their dark skin is SEXUAL…. MPPH!!! To a black man, a white woman is nothing but a trophy, they dont satisfy sexually, they just obey sexually.

pistol whipped

12/8/09, 15:09:pm

I LOVE THE TRUTH…

CmySKILlz

12/8/09, 15:14:pm

1st of all “some” Becky’s will date anything black, women or man etc. I’m a straight woman of color and have been followed out of the club by mulitple “straight” Becky’s that just want to get with someone of color. Some of them have no shame. So Tiger could get it even if he was broke and homeless.

BubbaGoosie

12/8/09, 16:59:pm

Tiger’s half white, whats the problem with him having a thing for white women?

Fedup

12/9/09, 02:30:am

Interesting discussion occuring here. As a young black female, who is successful, college educated and works as a Registered Nurse. I feel if Tiger or any other man can not be accepting to who they are…they I say F THEM! It was good to see Tiger embrace all his culture he was mix with but he totally turn me of not even acknowledge his black side. When he said Casablasian crap. I wa slike um…..Tiger…..where is the african side you acknowledging?

Not to mention majority of black people in this country ancestors where slaves. The female slaves were rape by WHITE men THERE SLAVE MASTER and had babies. SO THERE FOR MAJORITY OF BLACK FOLKS CAN RUN AROUND AND SAY WE “CASUSAFRICAN”LOL! IT WOULD SOUND SILLY FOR ANY BLACK PERSON TO SAY. SO TIGER IS A FOOL FOR THAT COMMENT. One DROP OF BLACK IN ANYONE…YOU ARE BLACK.

I feel his wife can have is triffling pathtic cheatern behind! It one less mess we black woman need. Sisters have been dog far too long and I am glad his wife is not black. But I also beleive if Tiger’s wife was black I bet you a million the media would not be making such a big deal with it. Remember Micheal Jordan and Juanita? HMMMMMMM we barly heard anything til the divorce! I just feel some media is making Tiger situation more attention because its like “look at the black man dog out the white woman”. I think this situation in some people mind will say black men are no good and so on and so on. But then again Tiger to no acknowledge he is half BLACK!

WhatALoadOFCRAP

1/18/10, 19:06:pm

So… Let me get this straight!? If I play the guitar for a rock band then it’s ok if I don’t date black men because I am not exposed to them!?!? Do you see how dumb that sounds? I certainly hope you do. Hell if that’s the case he certinaly wouldn’t have been exposed to his server/nanny wife so don’t even try that not exposed to black women bit!!GTFOH!!!

DarkmaleX

2/26/10, 23:24:pm

Ugly Sheryl Underwood always has problems with BM and WW, these ttypes of BW are dangerous and hate BM anyway, especially if we don’t obey them.

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