*Exclusive* Chris Henry’s Fiancée Known For Domestic Violence, Has Drinking Problem

Posted on December 17th, 2009 - By Bossip Staff

Categories: Bossip Exclusives, News, Sports, We Broke It Here First!, What Were You Thinking?

Cincinnati Bengals Wide receiver, Chris Henry, is no stranger to trouble. He has been arrested several times and suspended from the NFL since he was drafted in 2005. In an effort to get his life back in order, Henry attempted to turn a new cheek, but his life at home was not that great.

A source close to the situation has exclusively told Bossip that Henry’s fiancée, Loleini Tonga has a history of domestic violence and a severe drinking problem. The source states, “I knew the next time Chris would get in trouble it would be because of that girl. She drinks all the time, they get into fights, and she has even bragged about getting into disputes with former boyfriends.”

Chris was injured after falling out the back of Tonga’s pickup truck after a heated argument. He was found on the side of the road with fatal injuries to his head. Currently homicide detectives are looking into the case. Henry and Tonga currently have two children together, and one child a piece from previous relationships.

Story developing…

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  • Leah

    wow thats a first and how crazy

  • Samuel L. Jackson Beer

    2nd?

  • mz.cee ♥

    Why does’nt this surprise me, predictable!

  • drenk

    I KNEW IT! CRAZY B!T.C.H.E.S!! ACTUALLY CRAZY SAMOAN B!.T.C.H.E.S!!!!

  • MS. D

    TMZ JUST REPORTED THAT HE DIED THIS MORNING!! R.I.P

  • lol

    R.I.P… he passsed at 6:45 am this morning

  • KeepNit2Real

    omg, and look at how pretty she is! That’s so sad….pretty women have some serious issues sometimes…not cool at ALL! =[

  • Chocolateer

    I’m so sorry this has happened. Chris has worked hard to try and get his life back on track only to be side-swiped by this tragedy. I pray that he survives and that his children will not be left fatherless. God bless them all during this difficult time.

  • darealwifey

    Tragic…all the way around.

  • aleximaq

    SMH

  • resurrected

    Now I was reading about this story on the other post and if her baby father dies form this she will regret this move for the rest of her life because she has three children with this man… Any he also should had never jump on the truck as well and now he has server injuries…Anger is really something that everyone should want to control no matter the circumstances because it usally always make things much worser than it has to be..

  • deesac

    With Henry hanging on to dear life, Bosssip do you think this would be the proper time to air ones dirty laundry.

  • EbonyEyez

    Wow I remember tht girl frm high school she played for the volleyball team at West Charlotte, who wouldve evr thought…wow this is crazy!

  • http://bossip.com This some Shhh….

    Damn, he flew out the truck and she didn’t even go back to check on the man? She cold blooded.

  • deesac

    Breaking news Chris Henry just past away. REST IN PEACE CHRIS.

  • KeepNit2Real

    lol

    12/17/09, 09:53:am

    R.I.P… he p*****sed at 6:45 am this morning
    ________________

    You are so right! I can’t believe it! This kid is dead! All because of a female.

    R.I.P. Chris. =[

    =[

    =[

    =[

  • Allergic to Ignorance and Stupidity

    People should leave relationships that are full of strife and drama. No matter if it is the man or the woman dealing the drama and abuse- leave these relationships ASAP because all to often these are the results- life threatining injuries during one of the dramatic fights.
    SMDH- SAD but preventable

  • KeepNit2Real

    Sorry people! I read he was dead but upon further research, he’s not!!!! READ THIS!

    Chris Henry Not Dead – Chris Henry Car Accident UPDATE

    Hours after false Chris Henry dead reports started, Chris Henry is still wrongly being reported as dead. Chris Henry’s car accident has not resulted in Henry’s death, the last update given by his agent shortly before midnight Wednesday.

    Chris Henry credited fiancee Loleini Tonga just weeks ago for turning his life around, telling the Cincinnati Enquirer in October that Tonga has “been a big help. She’s been right here with me and going through things and helping out on my side. We have the kids, and she has my back with everything I’ve needed.”

    Henry had problems in college. At West Virginia he “repeatedly got in trouble” reports ESPN. He would be drafted by the Bengals third round, help leading them to the 2005 playoffs. But at the same time, his first season in the league included being arrested for substance possession, then on weapons charges 30 days later, and two times thereafter additionally. In 2007, he was arrested again. That fifth arrest resulted in him being released. Coach Marvin Lewis convinced the team to bring him back for a 2 year contract starting in 2008.

  • resurrected

    So now she is mostly likely going to be charged and now the children will have a dead father and a locked up mother and this is what selfishness get you everytime..

  • nnne

    He has just died.. via TMZ may he rest in peace.

  • DaHonestTruth ~ Always Keepin it REAL

    “So now she is mostly likely going to be charged and now the children will have a dead father and a locked up mother and this is what selfishness get you everytime..”

    She’s not going to be charged. I just read it.

  • PRPPLE, just PRPPLE

    Im tellin u when its too light it just aint right! dang well anyway how you gonna do that to the father of your kids no matter what the reason, short of child abuse or something. Now she have to live with the fact she played a part in her kids not having a dad…AND TO THINK once he fell out the truck she didn’t even go back for him, or to check on him? whats really hood!?

  • KeepNit2Real

    wow, I guess he really IS dead! more and more news outlets are posting the story.

    =[

  • Allergic to Ignorance and Stupidity

    If you are in a relationship that has drama, abuse, jealousy and just mess going on LEAVE IT ASAP. Take heed to the lives of Steve Mcnair, OJ simpson, all the women and men on the SNAPPED tv series. Just stop dealing with abuse/drama and foolishness- LEAVE IT ALONE.

    People should leave relationships that are full of strife and drama. No matter if it is the man or the woman dealing the drama and abuse- leave these relationships ASAP because all to often these are the results- life threatining injuries during one of the dramatic fights.
    SMDH- SAD but preventable

  • resurrected

    This sad part about this on the woman side is that she sounds spoiled and evil… What were they fighting about I did not hear nothing of cheating or another woman and they were in the middle of making wedding plans crazy… Now a happy day will never be and the children are about to be caught up in this mess all because of anger… Parents need to start being more mature when it comes to family issues, there is still another day to find solutions to your problems…

  • resurrected

    DaHonestTruth ~ Always Keepin it REAL
    12/17/09, 10:12:am

    “So now she is mostly likely going to be charged and now the children will have a dead father and a locked up mother and this is what selfishness get you everytime..”

    She’s not going to be charged. I just read it.
    ______________________________________________
    Well I guess him jumping on the back of the truck is not murder or considered homicide but she does have a big part in this event that took the life of her soon to be husband and childrens father…

  • DizzyGuy

    Media reports are saying that he is dead.

    I don’t understand how you can have so much than out of no where you decide to run after to tired girl who doesn’t want anything for herself.

    This should be a lesson to people to date people who want to see you succeed and vice versa. All of this aruging and drama cost this man his life.

  • buster hymen

    surprised she was with him to begin with considering tongans really dont like black people anyway…..cautionary tale here for a ll high profile borthers leav these off brand tricks where you find them….are you listening tiger?

  • resurrected

    buster hymen

    If that is true then she sounds like she maybe be a gold digger but she does have three children with this man… Well I hope that this was not vindictive because she will still be getting his money years later because of the children..

  • KeepNit2Real

    mai2cents

    12/17/09, 10:30:am

    @ drenk: not ALL samoan *****es are crazy, i sure ain’t and neither is leini….this was just a very sad accident…prayers to the tonga’s & henry’s…rip chris!
    _________

    ya’ll finally get off that small island then go BUCK wild! Tell duh troof…

  • http://YourEmergencyCash.com Jessan

    Is he trying to ‘drink’?

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  • I’m just saying………………….

    I have come to the conclusion that some people are addicted to drama….they ENJOY fighting and arguing!!! Drama makes them feel alive! I don’t get it but I have seen it too many times now.

  • http://www.kanyeuniversecity.com/blog/imgpop.php?img=http://www.kanyeuniversecity.com/client_images/kanyewest/3164_b0e5bda4c46c8d17b6cf25713d3170ac.jpg Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

    I think when men learn how to value things
    ______________________________________

    @resurrected

    NO, just deal with men that are NOT led by their “lower level desires” and deal with mature men that have character and are of substance…

    You have a big mouth and will be yappin’ ALL day, I’m NOT doing the back and forth thing with you…

    If you say something worthwhile I might consider it, but other than that… No, I can’t be having the same type of conversation with you over & over again…

  • Lakeshow

    The SWIRL kills, cripples, incarcerates and/or destroys careers

  • resurrected

    Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

    Get off of the computer and start hanging out in the REAL people in the REAL world and stop believing everything you read written by anonymous posters who are just playing around…

    “if you go into the post…” = Girl be quiet, f*ck that post…
    _________________________________________
    No I just take people at there word because life is too short to being trying to figure anyone out I believe that they know themselves when they speak and what is wrong with that… These are not my concepts but concepts that are projected at me so I take them as real… Like Maya Angelo once said when someone tells you about themselve believe them they know themselves better than I…

  • resurrected

    Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

    If you say something worthwhile I might consider it, but other than that… No, I can’t be having the same type of conversation with you over & over again…
    ___________________________________________
    Not getting smart then don’t because all the convo on here are the same day in and day out and there is nothing wrong with my concept… This is a blog and it is not for being quiet at all that why there is so much drama on here as we speak…

  • Du Juan&Only

    BREAKING NEWS!!!!!!!

    HE JUST DIED!
    R.I.P BROTHER MAN

    Guys, this can be you if you hook up with a crazy.

  • wash ya a**

    This chic is responsible for his death. may she live with this, ghetto trich byatch

  • resurrected

    wash ya a**
    12/17/09, 11:08:am

    This chic is responsible for his death. may she live with this, ghetto trich byatch
    __________________________________________
    I think she will be feeling it more than she won’t now everything that she has been planning for now no more and that is sad… A lot of arguements are not worth it, never lose your voice but choose disagreement wisely…

  • MzTrina95fo

    Good for this sell-out negro. I hope she smackd the black off his ass. And left him for dead. thats what he gets. They could all go to hell Tiger woods, Charles barkley, Dis fool all them. F***’em!

  • Tee

    Her ridiculous nonsense has killed him .. now what!! Stupid heifer ..

  • Honey (KEEP ME NEAR THE CROSS…LOL)

    @Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators and KeeptNit2Real

    You are so right! Men need to realize that everything with a cute face isn’t always good for you. You two are real men. Both of you ensure me that there are a lot of good brothers out there. thank you both. You both have me laughing everyday but are so positive in your own way.

    Ok enough with the mushy stuff. They need to lock her a.s.s up!

  • mz.cee ♥

    @I’m just saying………………….

    I have come to the conclusion that some people are addicted to drama….they ENJOY fighting and arguing!!! Drama makes them feel alive! I don’t get it but I have seen it too many times now.
    ____________

    I so agree witchu on this one! Well said, especially the “feeling alive” part!

  • http://bossip.com This some Shhh….

    DaHonestTruth ~ Always Keepin it REAL
    12/17/09, 11:07:am

    “@The Fellas

    So I guess she picked him up, threw him into the back of the truck and then sped off, huh? How stupid of us to not realize that!

    C’mon now. I’m sorry the man has p*****ed on but lets not turn this into blaming a woman for his behavior. This man had many other issues with the law that I doubt she set him up for! How quickly the black man will blame a woman for everything wrong with him.

    ————————–

    So she driving down the road with enough speed to eject the man from the back of the truck and it’s not her fault? This wasn’t just some random stranger or carjacker, this was her fiancee. She didn’t even go back and check on him. What p.h.u.c.k.i.n.g alternate universe do you live in?

  • B

    all you hatting a** sisters need to shut the f*** up about brothers dating outside their race. Ike Turner beat the Indian out of Tina. Listen, you are obviously hurt when a brother hooks up with these chicks. You can’t stand the fact they go for that hair, skin etc. Sorry but you can’t control who a nucca gets with so chill out.

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  • Screwed Priorities

    Why do people choose to get involved or stay with others who have a penchant for violence let alone mentally unhinged is something that I won’t understand. What are they going for– a quest to change them upon finding out?
    Anyway, she should be charged as she was just as instrumental in his demise as he was.

    http://screwedpriorities.blogspot.com

  • Amina

    @ B

    NOBODY GIVES A FLYING HELL ABOUT THIS CRAZY A.S.S. BROAD!!!

    IM NOT EVEN BLACK BUT STFU WITH ALL THE HATING…

    ARE YOU TELLING ON YOUR OWN SELF!!

    HES DEAD WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT!

  • http://www.kanyeuniversecity.com/blog/imgpop.php?img=http://www.kanyeuniversecity.com/client_images/kanyewest/3164_b0e5bda4c46c8d17b6cf25713d3170ac.jpg Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

    You two are real men.

    Men need to realize that everything with a cute face isn’t always good for you.
    ________________________________________

    @Honey

    Thank You and I sincerely appreciate that, I be wondering what people think about my ridiculous comments… And before I forget, I sincerely apologize in advance for my language sometimes and SOME of things that I say because I’m just playing around – look at the website that we’re on and majority of it’s content = unadulterated foolishness :-)

    Sweetheart, as men we have a innate WEAKNESS for women and the prettier, sexier and more voluptuous they are… SMMFH the dumber we get and our good sense & judgement just goes out the window :-( It’s genetic and there’s nothing that a man can do about it = if he’s straight…

    Good men are out there you just have to go to the right places/events and stay focused on and paying attention to see if he is mature and is of good character…

  • Black Beauty

    R.I.P, what a tragedy.

  • steven

    You live like a dog you die like a dog.

  • DaHonestTruth ~ Always Keepin it REAL

    “all you hatting a** sisters need to shut the f*** up about brothers dating outside their race. Ike Turner beat the Indian out of Tina. Listen, you are obviously hurt when a brother hooks up with these chicks. You can’t stand the fact they go for that hair, skin etc. Sorry but you can’t control who a nucca gets with so chill out.”

    she may not be able to ocntrol who he gets but she very much controls her desire and ability to speak on it! maybe if her comments bother you so much you should leave!

  • Honey (KEEP ME NEAR THE CROSS…LOL)

    @Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

    I feel ya. Don’t apologize, sometimes this is a good place to vent and let loose. I never will gve up on our brothers like so many have. I know how you men are…lol! I am in my mid-twenties so I am still learning. LOL!!! But I make sure that I am open to new experiences (I need to clarify that). I agree to going to the right places because like my mother told me if you meet a man in the club that is where you are going to find him. I met my dude on his way to work and to this day he still going to work.

  • Black Beauty

    I can’t believe some of the comments, SHAME ON YOU’LL!! If we don’t like ourselves, why in the hell should anyone else? This is a gossip site, but damn!!

  • Why

    All of you perfect people surely have the answers to everything and some of you are so smart to see that the story doesnt tell you if they were physically fighting or just a verbal altercation. They simply said a domestic dispute which can be either or. It doesnt say she put her hands on him, it says he fell off the back of the truck and how can you be sure that he wasnt trying to beat the hell out of her?! We will never kno but at any rate, Rest in Peace Chris and to his fiance, I pray for your strength.

    Evil coldhearted people with the brain of a mosquito

  • DaHonestTruth ~ Always Keepin it REAL

    “So she driving down the road with enough speed to eject the man from the back of the truck and it’s not her fault? This wasn’t just some random stranger or carjacker, this was her fiancee. She didn’t even go back and check on him. What p.h.u.c.k.i.n.g alternate universe do you live in?”

    ask me this question again after you’ve had an irate man with a history of documented violence – not to mention the violence she has quietly dealt with in the past – jumping into the back of your truck trying to do you harm! Lets see how quickly you’d be driving away!

  • steven

    Hes the fool who jumped in the bed of a pickup truck. Its not even legal to ride in the back of an open truck.Another stupid move by a stupid man who always had issues with the law.Thats why no charges were filed,she did nothing,the idiot got himself killed.

  • http://bossip.com This some Shhh….

    Why
    12/17/09, 11:44:am

    how can you be sure that he wasnt trying to beat the hell out of her?!

    ——————-

    We do know that he was injured, with recent surgery on his forearm and shoulder. Couldn’t have been that much of a threat.

  • steven

    Bring that fine arse over here baby. Its time you got with a real man and not some over payed cry baby abusive moron. Your free now baby,come to daddy again :-) )))

  • http://bossip.com This some Shhh….

    DaHonestTruth ~ Always Keepin it REAL
    12/17/09, 11:47:am

    “So she driving down the road with enough speed to eject the man from the back of the truck and it’s not her fault? This wasn’t just some random stranger or carjacker, this was her fiancee. She didn’t even go back and check on him. What p.h.u.c.k.i.n.g alternate universe do you live in?”

    ask me this question again after you’ve had an irate man with a history of do*****ented violence – not to mention the violence she has quietly dealt with in the past – jumping into the back of your truck trying to do you harm! Lets see how quickly you’d be driving away!

    ———————–

    Can you produce any evidence that Chris Henry has a history of domestic violence? I believe she is the one with the DV background.

  • steven

    Ive tapped that before and looks like ill be tapping it again,thanks Chris RIP :-) ))

  • steven

    cause if he was it wouldn’t be the first time and the b*tch didn’t kill him before so why start now. Stop making excuses u *****in lames, no matter what he did she was driving the truck, why the b*tch aint stop once she realized he was in the back, call the police like yall white types do…or something, no she aint do that cause this drama is what she like and what she is used to… the b*tch is a stone cold killa.

    Maybe she didnt know he was back there your ignorant monkey.

  • steven

    Tiray, nice monkey name by the way. My momma already had her chemo,and shes fine baby :-) ))

  • http://www.kanyeuniversecity.com/blog/imgpop.php?img=http://www.kanyeuniversecity.com/client_images/kanyewest/3164_b0e5bda4c46c8d17b6cf25713d3170ac.jpg Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

    I make sure that I am open to new experiences (I need to clarify that)
    _______________________________________

    @Honey

    Ain’t nothing the matter with that in my book…

    A Good man is a Good man… Why pa$$ up on one just because he’s a little melanin deficient???

    I don’t even blame y’all sometimes to be honest, SOME of my Brothas are triflin’ and don’t be doing right by y’all… If y’all did the same things we do to y’all… Never mind, I’ma leave that alone and go back to the subject at hand…

  • http://esaw@rock.com REAL TALK

    LOOK AT THE B?ITCH SHE LOOKS SCANDLESS
    IN HER FAKE EYES.REAL TALK

  • http://www.myspace.com/tirayk tiray

    @Steven

    She didn’t know he was in a flat bed,open truck!

    And you call HER an ignorant monkey?

    Remember the karma Gods bro. Remember cancer!

    remember

  • http://esaw@rock.com REAL TALK

    LOOK AT THE B?ITCH SHE LOOKS SCANDLESS
    IN HER FAKE EYES.REAL TALK,DANGER LOOKING
    B?ITCH.SEE SO ALL U H?OES CAN SHUT UP
    NOW.THIERS NOTHING YALL CAN SAY AFTER THIS
    SO NOW I NO RIHANNA,STRUCK CHRIS BROWN
    SERVERAL TIMES BEFORE HE DEFENDED HIMSELF
    NOW SHE WALKING AROUND WITH HERPIES LOOKING
    FOR HER NEXT RUSSIAN RULET PREY.REAL REAL TALK

  • http://esaw@rock.com REAL TALK

    LOOK AT THE B?ITCH SHE LOOKS SCANDLESS
    IN HER FAKE EYES.REAL TALK,DANGER LOOKING
    B?ITCH.SEE SO ALL U H?OES CAN SHUT UP
    NOW.THIERS NOTHING YALL CAN SAY AFTER THIS
    SO NOW I NO RIHANNA,STRUCK CHRIS BROWN
    SERVERAL TIMES BEFORE HE DEFENDED HIMSELF
    NOW SHE WALKING AROUND WITH HERPIES LOOKING
    FOR HER NEXT RUSSIAN RULET PREY.REAL REAL TALK..

  • http://esaw@rock.com REAL TALK

    LOOK AT THE B?ITCH SHE LOOKS SCANDLESS
    IN HER FAKE EYES.REAL TALK,DANGER LOOKING
    B?ITCH.SEE SO ALL U H?OES CAN SHUT UP
    NOW.THIERS NOTHING YALL CAN SAY AFTER THIS
    SO NOW I NO RIHANNA,STRUCK CHRIS BROWN
    SERVERAL TIMES BEFORE HE DEFENDED HIMSELF
    NOW SHE WALKING AROUND WITH HERPIES LOOKING
    FOR HER NEXT RUSSIAN RULET PREY.REAL REAL TALK
    …..

  • http://esaw@rock.com REAL TALK

    LOOK AT THE B?ITCH SHE LOOKS SCANDLESS
    IN HER FAKE EYES.REAL TALK,DANGER LOOKING
    B?ITCH.SEE SO ALL U H?OES CAN SHUT UP
    NOW.THIERS NOTHING YALL CAN SAY AFTER THIS
    SO NOW I NO RIHANNA,STRUCK CHRIS BROWN
    SERVERAL TIMES BEFORE HE DEFENDED HIMSELF
    NOW SHE WALKING AROUND WITH HERPIES LOOKING
    FOR HER NEXT RUSSIAN RULET PREY.REAL REAL TALK
    ……….

  • http://bossip MoniSings

    This sounds like it was a toxic relationship all around. SMH that a life had to be lost behind it…

  • 1TruDiva with the PlatinumVocals–Remembering Shaniya!!

    Lately, it seems that these women are reading from the same handbook.

    Domestic violence turns into additonal tragedy.

    We know that in most cases, women were the ones on the receiving end but over the last few years it seems as if the tides have turned or it could be its sensationalized because the men are (somewhat) public figures.

    Whatever the case may be—simply put–it’s not worth it.

    I’ve had my share of good d.i.c.k. However, no straying man is worth me spending the rest of my life behind bars.

  • http://bossip.com This some Shhh….

    waiting in a line, like a toll booth to hit her a.s.s.

  • 1TruDiva with the PlatinumVocals–Remembering Shaniya!!

    Another thought–

    The next man I date will be so ugly, I’ll hear phrases like “damn, his mother must’ve kept him face down ALL THE TIME!”

    I’d probasbly boost his morale so much (by dating him) he’d leave me anyway.

    For a white girl!!!

    LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • 1TruDiva with the PlatinumVocals–Remembering Shaniya!!

    To all of my brothas willing to jump ship SIMPLY **Tiger** BECAUSE **Tiger** YOU **Tiger** WANT **Tiger** TO **Tiger** DATE **Tiger** OUTSIDE **Tiger** OF **Tiger** YOUR **Tiger** RACE **Tiger**???

    Go right ahead! I’m NOT mad atcha!

    **Disclamier of sorts**

    This is ONLY for the brothas who specifically choose to ONLY date women of other races!!

    My point–When you look for a mate, your purpose of solidifying a relationship SHOULD NOT be because of race or ethnicity. Especially against your own.

  • Honey (KEEP ME NEAR THE CROSS…LOL)

    @ Slide

    Yep. i feel ya buddy. They learn in the long run

  • steven

    Tiray,you really are ignorant. I was calling you an ignorant monkey not her. Im sticking up for her. She had no fault in this. Thats why she wasnt charged.Yet anyway :-) )

  • 1TruDiva with the PlatinumVocals–Remembering Shaniya!!

    @ This some shhh..

    Hiya homey!

  • steven

    Honey,it has nothing to do with race. White women are just sexier thats all. Look at all those athletes and stars getting with whire women, they know the deal.

  • Ladylumps

    RIP my brotha!!!!!

  • Txhustla15

    Man cant even let brotha rest in peace sad story, just waiting to see if they can find out the details. As usual turns into interracial flame war – wth this have to do with Tiger Woods ??

  • http://www.myspace.com/tirayk tiray

    Steven…

    Remember karma bro!

    Remember you mother and cancer. Think about your dead father. Think abt the HIV positive test result that you are SO scared of receivng!
    Thik abt why you feel so bad,but you’re too scared to check!

    karma.

    When your mom looks at you with those eyes.Remember me..(The ignorant monkey)

    remember

    12 tonight and everynight .

    remember

  • http://bossip.com This some Shhh….

    1TruDiva with the PlatinumVocals–Remembering Shaniya!!
    12/17/09, 12:46:pm

    @ This some shhh..

    Hiya homey!

    ———————-

    What’s going on, my sista? Hope your Day is going well. I loves to see your pretty smile.

  • http://bossip.com This some Shhh….

    disregard.

  • http://www.k.com noelle

    She has Keri Hilson eyes..

  • 1TruDiva with the PlatinumVocals–Remembering Shaniya!!

    @ This some shhh–

    There were several reason why the surgery is scheduled so close

    1. The Dr. will be on vacation the following week.
    2–If I wait until the new year MY DEDUCTIBLE WILL START ALL OVER!!!

    Lol!!!!!

  • LoisLane

    This is such a senseless tragedy. We don’t know the details about the argument but I would guess she was driving away and he jumped in the truck to get at her; he fell out (maybe she swerved to eject him because she was scared of him) or maybe he just fell. Either way, dumb reason to die, and such a tragedy that his three kids will grow up without their father. One would think she would have checked on his instead of leaving him in the middle of the road like a dog, but we don’t know what her state of mind was; maybe she was terrified and just wanted to get away from him. She also could have thought he was faking an injury to get her to stop.

    It’s too bad they never married because she will lose out on a LOT of benefits that she would have received if she were his widow, such as a Social Security payment FOR LIFE. She might have gotten something from the NFL too. As his fiancee, she gets NADA — although their children will get Social Security benefits. I wouldn’t be surprised if he didn’t have a will.

    Lesson to be learned here: All you women who have kids for men who won’t marry you are dumb. Anyone can have one baby by accident, but to have more than one child with a man who doesn’t think enough of you to make you his wife is pathetic and financially stupid. Some people say, “Oh, I don’t need a piece of paper; we’re man and wife spiritually.” Well, that “spiritual union” won’t pay the rent or put food on the table, if god forbid, something should happen. Be smart, ladies. Marriage offers a lot of protection legally; take advantage of it, especially if you have kids.

    Also, children deserve to be born to parents who are married, not just shacking up or, even worse, just screwing. If you don’t think a man is stable enough to get married yet, then why are you having his babies and bringing children into an unstable relationship? Men, ask yourself the same thing.

    We need to stop all this drama and nonsense in the black community with baby daddies and baby mamas, and get back to the FAMILY. It’s called SELF-RESPECT. Try it.

  • steven

    Tiray,if you do believe in Karma, then you must be really stupid saying things about my family.Shows how ignorant you really are,you remember Karma gorilla :-) ))

  • http://bossip.com This some Shhh….

    1TruDiva with the PlatinumVocals–Remembering Shaniya!!
    12/17/09, 13:14:pm

    @ This some shhh–

    There were several reason why the surgery is scheduled so close

    1. The Dr. will be on vacation the following week.
    2–If I wait until the new year MY DEDUCTIBLE WILL START ALL OVER!!!

    Lol!!!!!

    —————————-

    I gots ya. Understand completely. Good luck, and you know your well being and family coverage will be in my prayer requests.

  • steven

    Tiray, remember that song? How much is that monkey in the window hahaha,you be the monkey hahahaha.. Sitting on your porch??? Hahahahahaha

  • Ms Prince

    I will no longer support black athletes. They marry outside of their races and always end up losing in some kind of way. Granted the women are not always “White” But they are rarely black.

    A message to black women: Dont let these negroes use you. They seem to marry these other races quick and fast and act like we are mammies or gold diggers, whenthe opposite is the case.

    Respect yourselves queens!

  • http://bossip.com This some Shhh….

    Also, this was her hometown and family home. He’s not even from there.

  • 1TruDiva with the PlatinumVocals–Remembering Shaniya!!

    @ This some shhh…

    Thanks, sweetheart! I appreciate the e-love and support.

    Steven–

    You still here?

  • Ms Prince

    I will no longer support black athletes. They marry outside of their races and always end up losing in some kind of way. Granted the women are not always “White” But they are rarely black.

    A message to black women: Dont let these negroes use you. They seem to marry these other races quick and fast and act like we are mammies or gold diggers, whenthe opposite is the case.

    Respect yourselves queens!

  • http://www.myspace.com/tirayk tiray

    Ms.PRINCE

    I can only prey that you are telling the truth.PLEASE,PLEASE,don’t support black athletes.PLEASE,PLEASE,don’t ever date us again.

    THINK abt it! Who are you hurting?

    WE DON’T NEED YOU!
    (honstly)

    (see,i didn’t call you any names.Please do the same when replying)

    think

  • http://www.myspace.com/tirayk tiray

    @ steven

    lol

    lol

  • Brotherman

    Damn! What a tragedy. The guy was just 26 years old and in the prime of his life!!! That fiance of his is a straight up psycho.

    A relationship is a sinking ship.

  • MochaDreams

    The women are just as damn bad as the men with this abuse ‘ish these days… Geesh! This is really sad… RIP Chris Henry.

  • Ms Prince

    It is obvious that you dont “need” us. That goes with out saying. No need for name calling either because that is childish. My point is Tiger,Kobe, This guy and countless others are “White washed” and dont know a good woman from a gold digger. Countless times we see their falls from grace and are we to support them when there have a black ” Baby Mama” and a non – black ” Wife”? Negroes Please! You are conditioned to think that marrying and dating other races is the right thing to do, and our history shows you that its not. Those who dont learn from history are doomed to repeat it.

    TO ALL MY BLACK QUEENS: This is no isolated incident. This will happen again to another Black athlete. Sheryl Underwood (Comedienne) once said: Why when a white woman dates a black athlete, she’s in love, but when a black woman does it, she is a gold digger? Who helped you when you were cramming for finals in college, who brought you food to eat when you did not have any money in your dorm. A black woman!

    With that being said,I am the same as any other woman but I still get treated as the “Backdoor Broad” (if I would allow it) from my own race? Please.

  • pat conery

    I doubt she’ll ever be charged. She’ll play the femaile victim card and claim that is was trying to get away in fear of her life. With Chris’s track record not a chance of her ever being convicted, so I seriously doubt the Law will ever press charges.

  • LoisLane

    @This some shhhh…

    Thanks for your response. I had forgotten that Henry was sidelined because of his injured arm. You’re right….hard to believe he could be that threatening with a broken arm. But who knows. I guess we’ll be hearing the details soon. It’s just so sad. He seemed to be finally turning his life around, and he was so young.

  • http://bossip.com This some Shhh….

    LoisLane
    12/17/09, 13:59:pm

    @This some shhhh…

    Thanks for your response. I had forgotten that Henry was sidelined because of his injured arm. You’re right….hard to believe he could be that threatening with a broken arm. But who knows. I guess we’ll be hearing the details soon. It’s just so sad. He seemed to be finally turning his life around, and he was so young.

    ——-

    Thanks, I believe that in death he should be given the benefit of the doubt until more information comes to light. Just because he made mistakes in the past does not necessarily mean he is at fault in this situation. In any event he’s not here to defend himself, so we may never know the true story.

  • Ms. J

    So sad…. It goes to show that one should be careful of the company that he keeps. Even though he was trying to get his life together, he still had a dumb a*s*s person in his life that contributed to his downfall & his demise. :(

  • KeepNit2Real

    Why does a situation like what happened to Chris alway take a negative racial turn?

    Blacks can be pathetic. this dude is dead and all we can do is blast him for the girl he choose to deal with? That’s HIS decision!

    *smh*

  • Miss B

    She reminds me of “Danger” from Ray J’s VH1 show.

    I’m still sad over this. I hope atheletes have learned from all these situations. Think we all forgot about McNair’s situation.

  • Ms. J

    I don’t know how this situation is considered a “racial” turn…. One can be red, yellow, black or white and be around the wrong influence… Yeah, it’s his BAD decision. Maybe OTHERS can learn to leave people who just want to bring you down… People on here kill me with “well that’s HIS decision” H*e*l*l people can put a bullet to their head, it’s their decision and it’s still a stupid decision. What’s your point. *SMDH*

  • Logically Speaking

    Now this man has lost hos life for something so senseless. That just goes to show you how drama and chaos can get way out of control. The real tragedy is that is another young black dead man, the children lost their father, the mother lost her son and the broad I’m sure will forever deal with the guilt she will feel for a long time to come. It’s an absolute lose lose…I hope that these athletes and other public figures are taking notes. On that first sign of crazy…you better haul ass! If you find yourself constantly fighting the person you claim to love, it’s likely not going to be a fairy tale…Now how is she gonna explain this foolish mess to her kids??/

  • Txhustla15

    @ Ms Prince – You do know who kobe used to date prior to his wife ? The countless other black women in his life or any of the actual statistics of athletes and the racial composition of who they are married to ? You do know there are plenty of black athletes married to black women , i know alot of them personally so spare us of this supposed epidemic that doesnt exist..

    Using a miniscule set of athletes hardly justifies your inane theory – welcome to reality, where some people dont love others based on the color of their skin which is trivial – some people male/female like white,black,hispanic, yellow hair/red hair or green -called preferences
    in some cases they may have deeper psychological issues for they choose to be with – who cares.. come check into reality sometime..

  • CV

    I just went to his fiances myspace page and though I think it is wrong for anyone to judge someone I will say I was not impressed by her at all. it is people like her why they should have a seperate internet! one internet for intelligent productive people who speak proper english and type like adults and a seperate internet for those who act a fool, feel proud to display such ignorance, type like 3 year olds and just give a bad rep to beautiful woman in general. I m really one to say this because even though I work in a highly concentrated hip hop industry, I find nothing attractive about being “Street” or “ghetto” It is not pretty not appealing and is the wrong message to all of our impressionable youths. May Chris Henry rest in peace and men please take note: women like this will not enhance your life! Think twice!

  • http://www.blackwiz.biz tiray

    @ MS PRINCE!

    Respectfully!

    YOUR PROBLEMS ARE YOUR OWN! AND YOURS ALONE!
    When you (personally) decide to take responsibility for your OWN happiness,life opens up!
    You CANNOT blame anything on ANYONE else!

    When i fail to get an advertising account,i NEVER blame anyone else.(I need to step MY game up)

    We ALL need to look in the mirror every morning.When we HONESTLY do this (and it’s hard) We stop blaming others for our unhappiness!

    think

  • Txhustla15

    @ tiray – respect…real talk there

  • Ms Prince

    @ Tiray, who is unhappy? Can a girl keep it real or What? Steve McNair is dead and for what a non black woman. Now look. it wont end. I love Black men and I dont hate other races. You black men hate your selves. Treating us ( Black women ) like we should understand you and giving the “Other” the benefit of the doubt. Black men pleasecome to your sense!

  • Me

    Wow..another one?
    im so glad halle berry,sanaa lathan,iman, jessica white and all the other sisters don’t have these public humiliations with their nbm..it really proves a point.
    this is why i love white and hispanic men.
    no drama,killings,scandals etc.

  • Me

    don’t forget the tila tequila incident and the black football player that threatened his white girlfriend and she put a restraining order on him..it never ends does it?

  • uhh yeah ok.

    um Maybe, just maybe the commonality is that these broads are CRAZY and not their race.

  • Me

    kobe/tiger woods\oj\mike strahand

  • Me

    of course these black guys gonna come in here and try to cover up for their fallen comrades,but we all know the truth,black men hate themselves and run after anything not black and it usually ends up in some kind of drama/tragedy,,they want to blame black women for their inability to be real men but like everything else the truth always comes to the light..the world knows the black man’s resume.

  • Me

    what other race in this country has these problems?

  • Ms. J

    @Me..No point has been proven….people are people. You got stupid black folks, red, yellow and white. But since you are naive about being black in America, I will school you a little. The media loves to portray blacks negatively. It’s hundreds of “white” news of hicks doing dumb stuff that will never hit the airways…. Stop being so foolish. I live in the white areas….I see, and read the same crap about white folks that is being spoon fed to you about Blacks. When I read silly blogs from people like you, you only let “us” know how sheltered and misguided you are….just say’n

  • Ms Prince

    @ Me, you on the right path.
    @ Tiray, my love for black men is not negated by the heinous acts of a few misguided individuals. Self love begins with self accepteance and I refuse to support any high profile athlete who practices this type of behavior. When I see you on the TV getting your endorsements taken and worse, your life, I can not be one of the on lookers that has pity on the situation. Your freedom of choice does not seem to really be a freedom after all!

    @ Txhustla15 – keep up the good work, you seem like a positive person and thanks for listening to me vent!

  • Ms. J

    @C-Red…clearly “dude” had issues too. Unfortuantely, he associated himself with a female with issues which resulted in his death. Yeah, he may have jumped out the truck, but maybe she was trying to harm him with a gun or knife. Just like you said, we don’t know. But we do know that both had issues and she had a history of aggression and just plain ‘ole ghetto acting ways.

  • Txhustla15

    Im just really sorry for the Bengals though , best season in decades started off with their D coordinator Zimmers wife dying unexpectedly and series of horrendous incidents…cant catch a break

  • http://bossip.com This some Shhh….

    The only reason you haven’t heard more information on her past is because she was not the star. I guarantee, that in the next upcoming Weeks, more information will start to come forward. That’s why I can give Chris the benefit of the doubt, Today. If only for 24 hours, anyone deserves that. She is still here on earth and will be able to defend and/or twist the circumstances of his death to play in her favor. He doesn’t have that luxary.

  • Rrrrroe Ski Love- A mind is a terrible thing to waste.

    @steven Judging from your comments, you are exactly what any decent sister with common sense should avoid. Your comments aren’t funny there ignorant. I happen to be one of those paid brothers that your talking about. NO I don’t chase white girls, YES I love my sisters. Your comment on white woman looking better than sisters is way off base. Black woman, hands down are the most beautiful women on the planet. White women come in one color/hue and that is pastie white. Sisters bring every look possible to the imagination. Now go sit down and read a book about Black History and learn some pride.

  • uhh yeah ok.

    Txhustla- nicely said.

  • http://www.blackwiz.biz tiray

    Ms.J

    I couldn’t have said it better!

    It seems that alot of blk women are upset that THEY CAN’T (land the big one).

    I know some serious, SERIOUS,SERIOUS sista’s.They do WELL..VERY WELL!
    (sista’s that are inventors,sculpters!!I KNOW THESE SISTA’S…PERSONALLY!

    Bruthas are BEATIN the doors down tryin to holla at ‘em…(You know who u are babycakes.lol)

    I’ll say it once more:
    If you LOOK GOOD,PRACTICE SQUEEKY CLEAN HYGIENE,AND TALK WITH PROPER DICTION,

    YOU WIN!

    We are waiting on you…you exist in droves!
    Wanna know how many pro athletes date blk?

    Google it!

    Love you baby!

    think

  • drenk

    @ Common Sense

    so after telling people “dont believe everything you read” you follow that with saying you personally know the people involved? you do realize how stupid that makes you look right? And no ones going to believe anything you say

  • Txhustla15

    So as I just mentioned your agrument is predicated upon a medium that those that have knowledge is widely known for its manipulative practices and has wholly gone from the days of investigative journalism and used now like everything else as a product for consumption ? Yeah need to check that chessboard or did you believe too according to the “news” that there were WMDS in Iraq ? priceless…

  • Ms Prince

    @ Tiray – you need help. Black women probably pass you by on the street, hence the loathing, condesention in your voice. I love my black men. You need to love yourselves and the women are for you.

  • Common Sense

    @ drenk- See you missed the whole point in the post! I don’t care if you believe me about knowing Chris and Loleini! That wasn’t the point! The point is that yall sound stupid when you judge someone that you don’t even know on a BLOG page that sounds about as trustworthy as the National Inquirer! You were not there! You do not know them! You do not know whether this story is a lie or not! But instead of focusing on the fact that there are kids out there that just lost their dad, or teammates that just lost a friend, parents that just lost a son! The ESPN article is out there for you to read. THAT IS A TRUSTWORTHY site. This is nothing but trash that I accidently happened upon and won’t be back to visit. The other point is that instead of judging other people, look at yourself first. Like the Bible says “Let those who have NOT sinned cast the first stone”!

  • uhh yeah ok.

    Ms. Prince you are an extremist. Your (YOUR) point of view is no better than what you hate.

  • dia

    RIP thats just sad

  • http://www.blackwiz.biz tiray

    Drenk
    Because some of the best reasoning can be found ANYWHERE!

    peace

  • http://bossip.com This some Shhh….

    Why would Chris credit her for helping turn his life around and then all of a sudden he’s on this DV tirad? There is nothing in their history to suggest that he was violent towards her. So again, I can give him the benefit of the doubt concerning this issue. As the article reads he was in her home town at her and her folks house. Why would he be clowning her at her folks place? Where were her people?

  • http://www.blackwiz.biz tiray

    Ms.Prince!

    LOL..Where could you POSSIBLY see a weird remark from my posts.

    I wish this subject was abt me,but it’s not!
    I see you talking about white women,but it’s not about them either.

    When you talk about ppl of another race in a negative light,you will always miss the mark!(And reasonable ppl see the flaws in your arguments)

    I need help(to you) because i choose to live in the real (reasoning) world. Unfortunately, that means that i can’t suger coat what or how i say things.

    When u feel that blk men are going to white women…ASK YOURSELF….WHY?

    IT COULDN’T BE THAT THEY ARE IN LUV?
    IT COULDN’T E THAT HE COULDN’T FIND LUV FROM A BLK WOMAN?

    Can you make his mind up for him?
    Do you know the truth…or do you just(like most (bitter ppl)

    assume?

    think

  • black man

    Smh you people Love to hate people that swirl but soon as man or a woman is Mixed and famous You Claim them and Call them Black? If you hate swirl Then Hate Alicia keys Barack obama and stop claimin them LMAOOO black people ooo black people

  • ANO1

    drenk
    12/17/09, 09:51:am
    I KNEW IT! CRAZY B!T.C.H.E.S!! ACTUALLY CRAZY SAMOAN B!.T.C.H.E.S!!!!

    Not that it really matters but Drenk Please read her name to yourself 10 times. Loleini Tonga, Loleini Tonga ,Loleini Tonga ,Loleini Tonga ,Loleini Tonga ,Loleini Tonga ,Loleini Tonga ,Loleini Tonga ,Loleini Tonga ,Loleini Tonga

    hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. She is Togan not Samoan. Get it right.

  • Just Hella Whatever

    Not that it matters but i think she is Tongan and they ain’t cool but we are going to learn. This is a sad day. RIP. should of, could of, would of…To late now. My prayers go out to everyone involved. parent without a son, siblings without a brother, children without a Father, and so on. he will be missed. and she will have to live with what happened regardless

  • Just Hella Whatever

    @ Black Man
    “Hate Alicia keys Barack obama and stop claimin them LMAOOO black people ooo black people”

    They claim us. My President acknowledges the fact that he is the first Black President. where have you been???

  • Get Real

    That’s right………blame the woman. She put him in back of a pick up truck.

  • Just Hella Whatever

    We do she…she was driving it

  • Cha`

    Some Tongan’s I’ve seen are BLACKER than BLACK She looks half and Black by injection. Half Psycho Half stepping to jail………………. I staying away from these Tongan Chicks

  • facingreality

    I’ll bet she hit the brakes hard – threw him out and kept going! These type of things will continue to happen until men learn to look at the internal beauty of women instead of what they see visually. RIP my brother and may your children choose a different path in their lives!

  • smith.salome

    I’d like to recommend you a club for single beautiful black and white women to find interracial love ____ [B l a c k W h i t e M i n g l e dot C O M ]___ it said Adam Lambert met a big boobs girlfriend there.. at the begining of 2009..Feel free to view his success story with 18 photos,FREE TO JOIN…aazzzz

  • yea i said it

    “I WANT A LONG HAIR THICK REDBONE.” LOL BLACK MEN.

  • BOSSIP IS WHACK & FULL OF HATERS!

    lock that b*tch up

  • http://www.cbc.ca super goon one

    she’s a murderer and I hope she’s gets what’s coming to her

  • Honey

    I knew these cowardly other race mf’s would
    be in here talking shit!
    these people have so much hatred for us but
    copy every little step we take.
    Im sorry this brother is dead but maybe
    it will show other AA’s who these hateful devils really are and will prevent something like this
    from happening to another black male or female.

  • http://www.ClairvoyantOfTruth.com Hmmmm

    Unfortunate incident. My condolesence to the Henry family.

    clairvoyantoftruth.com

  • Alarm Clock

    Chris Henry looked SO EGYPTIAN like the heirogliphics.

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