First off, who told you that we need advice from you? Who actually told you that we need anything from you? See, you don’t have to tell us we’re strong, this is something that’s been known since the dawn of time, PERIOD. The only thing you might want to tell us is the name of the woman who handed you your ***** so that we can send her flowers. It’s obvious she intimidated you to no end. Little boys shouldn’t “play at being men”. It’s apparent you’ve been allowed to play entirely too long, perhaps you should take a nap now.

What you need to do is wash your mouth out with soap!!! Have some respect for the black woman, even the ones who wear weaves, braids, natural. It doesn’t matter.

I agree with you 100%. I think is going to end up being a “reunion tour” for them at some point. With new books, conferences, t-shirts, drink cozies, etc.

If Juanity really wanted to heal, she’d not be in the public so much. I don’t know much about her husband, but hey, they chose each other, so they’ll go down together.

and dont come at me with all that bull***** “black men are either dead, in jail, gay and the successfull ones are dating out their race.” well, how come the non black women are able to spot these successfull men? 70% of black women are single. yall still dont get the picture.

“strong black and independent” my *****. why? what makes you strong and independent? the fact that you have a car, house and a job? let me put yall insecure sistas up on game. as a adult, you are supposed to have a legal source of income, a roof over ya head and a means of transportation.

so yall need to stop running around screaming “I.N.D.E.P.E.N.D.E.N.T” acting like house cars jobs is something new. women have been doin this ***** for ages now.

some of you think a good woman equals+ a woman who has her own job,educated, her own house, car etc. thats cool, but as a successfull brotha, and i do mean very successful, i dont give a ***** about those things. you need to have domestic skills, you need to be be a good mom and nurturer, you need to be calm, charming and stfu sometimes. most of you claim to be christian but did you know wives haveto sub mit to their

husbands?

word of advice. learn to spot ya natural weaves, stop gettin knocked up by no good bum ***** thugs, cut the attitudes, and maybe just may be, you might be able to land a good successfull brotha.

i love my sistas. but tough love is needed