man, i’m sorry to hear this. he was doing really good. i can’t help but think that if he had stayed with the team instead of going home (yes, i know he was on i/r), he would have been ok.

RIP Chris Henry

RIP Homie!

I just heard about this this morning and was hoping he would make it. dang. rip. God can you please hit the nobody dies button for a couple years sheesh.

Prayers go out to his family and children. RIP
I will say it again:
People should leave relationships that are full of strife and drama, ASAP. No matter if it is the man or the woman dealing the drama and abuse- leave these relationships ASAP because all to often these are the results- life threatining injuries during one of the dramatic fights.
SMDH- SAD but preventable

FIRST

DAMN SHAME!

wow…my condolences to the family

this is sooo sad.

SAD SAD SAD! My heart goes out to his family!

first!

His fiance should get life. Rest In Peace, he was so young, life is cut short.

RIP, killa. It didn’t have to go down like that.

smh r.i.p

sad to say, but Samoan women are crazy. my cuz married one and she was off the hook…pretty but crazy.

R.I.P. Chris

Condolences to the family and this is so tragic.

People, we need to make better life decisions and choose better partners.

RIP! I hope crazy chick gets locked up for this!

This is so unbelievably sad! I’m really sorry to hear this…

Never argue/fight in a moving vehicle.

Ever.

People who do, dont care about their life, nor the other person involved.

“Never argue/fight in a moving vehicle.

Ever.

People who do, dont care about their life, nor the other person involved.”

TRUTH!

OMG this is really sad. What will she say to children? How is she going to explain this to them later on.
i have no idea who he was but R.I.P

This is a tragic end to a troubled life. His fiance must feel like the biggest loser in the world. My condolences to his family. SMH

straight BS … dude was back on da come up! even w/ the injury that ended his season..

Damn! I knew dude wasn’t going to make it when they said he suffered life threatening head injuries. I was just waiting for the headline to read that he had passed away. His fiance must not know what to think now… Was the argument/fight worth his life.

Don’t even make this about race claiming Samoan women, Gray women, Beige women…yada, yada. People who are mentally unstable are in every race both male and female. If you are in a relationship with abuse and DRAMA- GET OUT ASAP….dont stay because you have kids, dont have money or any other reason at ALL. LEAVE THE RELATIONSHIP or RISK LOSING YOUR LIFE.

People should leave relationships that are full of strife and drama. No matter if it is the man or the woman dealing the drama and abuse- leave these relationships ASAP because all to often these are the results- life threatining injuries during one of the dramatic fights.
SMDH- SAD but preventable

Damn!!! SMH….man she Knew he was on the back of that truck!!! I don’t care what he did or have done . He didn’t deserve to die like that. Then she just left him there? This story is just F’ ed up to me!!

R.I.P Chris

RIP Chris.

I hate this rest in peace chris henry and sean taylor

We should be slow in saying that she needs to pay with her life,true a life is lost,but why did the brotha jump into the truck,when his woman was trying to leave?In situations like this,its the kids that suffer the most.

What a very sad and unnecessary tragedy.
My condolences go out to the family of the deceased.

If any of you believe for one second that the female in questioned will do any jail time, then you all must be new to American,
or new to earth itself.

Women in this country do not share the equitable penalties for the same crimes, as their male counterparts.

This is a statistical fact.

There has been a great disproportionate number of female executions, compared to the number of male executions in this country.

In this particular unfortunate occurrence, the female in question will undoubtedly proclaim that she was in fear and in flight for her life.
Whether this is indeed what took place or not does not matter in the eyes of the judicial system.

In the eyes of the judicial system, she is just another helpless female running form the big bad wolf, in other words a man.
This defense strategy works 99 times out of a hundred.

It must be awesome to have won the genetic gene pool lottery, that has granted one a vagina
between one’s legs.

The dues of women are much less cumbersome, than the dues of men.

However that being said, I would not choose to trade in my masculine traits, for those traits of females.

Even with the pre-warned knowledge that the hardships and the burdens of being a woman, are minuscule in comparison to the burdens and the hardships of being a man.

I guess that’s why they call us men.
And as for women….. well they just call them women…..Artofwar
What a very sad and unnecessary tragedy.
My condolences go out to the family of the deceased.

If any of you believe for one second that the female in questioned will do any jail time, then you all must be new to American,
or new to earth itself.

Women in this country do not share the equitable penalties for the same crimes, as their male counterparts.

This is a statistical fact.

There has been a great disproportionate number of female executions, compared to the number of male executions in this country.

In this particular unfortunate occurrence, the female in question will undoubtedly proclaim that she was in fear and in flight for her life.
Whether this is indeed what took place or not does not matter in the eyes of the judicial system.

In the eyes of the judicial system, she is just another helpless female running form the big bad wolf, in other words a man.
This defense strategy works 99 times out of a hundred.

It must be awesome to have won the genetic gene pool lottery, that has granted one a vagina
between one’s legs.

The dues of women are much less cumbersome, than the dues of men.

However that being said, I would not choose to trade in my masculine traits, for those traits of females.

Even with the pre-warned knowledge that the hardships and the burdens of being a woman, are minuscule in comparison to the burdens and the hardships of being a man.

I guess that’s why they call us men.
And as for women….. well they just call them women…..Artofwar

My goodness this is sad…

Life is too short to live and die like this. The good thing is we have the choice not to but we have to make that choice before it’s too late.

Although this story is very sad, I can’t say that I’m surprised. From all accounts, Chris Henry was pretty irresponsible in life, so the fact that he died in an irresponsible manner isn’t that shocking. He had been arrested at least five times since turning pro, and was supsended for 14 games in two seasons. I hurt for all his family and friends who were hoping that he had settled down and matured. It’s always sad to see such a young talent gone too soon.

*Stop attacking the fiance*. An argument is just what it is an argument. Seems to me she was trying to leave the situation. It was he who decided to jump on the back of a moving vehicle. Bad decision. I pray that he has found peace. Will keep his family in my prayers.

Excuse me for that duplicate post comment….Artofwar

Oh my,

This is so sad but hey he had a choice and he chose another race Tiger Woods almost got beat to death by a white woman and McNeal was kill also by another non-blackwoman.

All black Men will soon be killed off the earth Oh Well.

Who Cares!

Ask a Black Dude!

We should be slow in saying that she needs to pay with her life,true a life is lost,but why did the brotha jump into the truck,when his woman was trying to leave?In situations like this,its the kids that suffer the most.
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That’s what I was thinking. Seems to me like she was initially doing the right thing by trying to get away from him, but he was so hellbent on her not getting away that he jumped in the back of the pick-up truck…how is this totally her fault?

I always tell folks “drama is NOT cute”. Life should not be an episode of the Jerry Springer show. An immature response during an argument took this man’s life. Nothing funny or cute about that.

Good!

@ARTOFWAR

I agree with alot of what you mentioned. The sad thing about it is history is built on it.

There is a saying: “Kings have killed thousands for the love of one woman”

That still holds true today. Women get off for the same crime a man will spend many a year in jail for.

That’s not justice if you ask me.

This is really heartbreaking. I was so hoping he’d have the best season of his life. Well, suffer no more Chris Henry. You’re in GOD’s loving hands now.

This is really sad that a life has been lost RIP Chris Henry…I really can’t comment on the situation…There’s not enough facts…all we know is that there was some type of domestic dispute, dude jumped in the bed of a truck, and they continued to argue while she was driving….I’ll wait for the facts to unfold…she will probably get involuntary manslaughter…I feel for the children.

He looks way better than any Jet Black Man his features where to die for.

Brothers are so weak minded these days. I place all of the blame on stupidity. I don’t have time for arguing, fighting with females, males, fools and the like. Life is to short to be involved in drama on a regular. If we can’t get along or you don’t love me anymore, or I don’t love you, it’s time to move on. If kidds are involved pay the child support and have partial custody.Once again it’s more drama from the same individual that he had problems with before, now she will eventually get another man and the same drama will exist in this new relationship. Recognize people for who they are. A tiger dosn’t change his stripes, therfore you know it’s a tiger. Humans are the same way, you cannot change someone into something that you want them to be. You will be disapointed every time.

So sad

@@@ BLACK MALE

Stop trying to earn vagina points.

I’m sure if the tables were turned and it was a female that died, your comment would be of a completely different nature……Artofwar

I’ll just say – RIP Chris Henry…

I feel bad for his 3 kids
RIP

So sad…
Rest In Peace

You Jet Black Monkey N*gger Men are sick in the head.

You Reap What You Sow

JUST FYI MAC CLIMBED IN THE WINDOW OF HIS OWN HOME…I DON’T THINK HE WAS WRONG FOR THAT AT ALL.

People should leave relationships that are full of strife and drama, ASAP at the first sign of foolishness!

No matter if it is the man or the woman dealing the drama and abuse- leave these relationships ASAP because all to often these are the results- life threatining injuries during one of the dramatic fights.
SMDH- SAD but preventable

Go to TMZ.com if U want to hear the livestream of his team The bengals addressing this issue

I bet she regrets it and it will hurt her in the long run raising 3 kids without a father because she wanted to be stupid. No matter what the situation is arguing does not solve anything. This is soooo sad.

I pray that God will provide comfort to their three beautiful children who are ages: ten months, two and three years old. I also pray that the Lord will give his family as well as his fiancee strength, endurance and direction in this tragic incident. My heart immediately became saddened upon reading this story yesterday on another site.

I am left with several questions which I hope in the coming days will be answered. Now, it is my understanding that at the time of this incident Mr. Henry had a broken arm, therefore it is safe to assume that he lost his balance which lead to him falling out of the truck. Therefore, this would mean that his wife to be knew of this injury. If she did why did she not stop the car when he jumped into the back of the truck? In addition, he was found on the side of the road some miles away from his home, did she not think to look back and see if he was still there or not?

@@@ Rrrrroe Ski Love- A mind is a terrible thing to waste.

You stated:

Brothers are so weak minded these days. I place all of the blame on stupidity.
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Why should men automatically be more responsible than females.

If this is indeed true, then your logic dictates that if men have to be more responsible than females, then it’s the females that are truly the weak minded.

If you are coming out in support of females, your flawed logic wins them no points……Artofwar@@@ Rrrrroe Ski Love- A mind is a terrible thing to waste.

You stated:

Brothers are so weak minded these days. I place all of the blame on stupidity.
——————————————-
Why should men automatically be more responsible than females.

If this is indeed true, then your logic dictates that if men have to be more responsible than females, then it’s the females that are truly the weak minded.

If you are coming out in support of females, your flawed logic wins them no points……Artofwar

Wow when will they ever learn.

@GIMME A BREAK 78
“Although this story is very sad, I can’t say that I’m surprised. From all accounts, Chris Henry was pretty irresponsible in life, so the fact that he died in an irresponsible manner isn’t that shocking. He had been arrested at least five times since turning pro, and was supsended for 14 games in two seasons. I hurt for all his family and friends who were hoping that he had settled down and matured. It’s always sad to see such a young talent gone too soon.”
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by all accounts he was turning his life around and not getting into trouble. So much so that the team (the Bengals) elected to put him on IR. The SAME team had previously cut him but decided to take a chance on him.

This is ridiculous. What’s up with athletes and women?

R.I.P.

And are we suppose to care because he was killed by the hands of a non-black woman. Oh well….life goes on

“This is ridiculous. What’s up with athletes and women? ”
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Honestly! It’s too much! I look forward to hearing the facts of the situation as they become available…

My God, my God, my God…please people, as you can see IT IS NOT WORTH IT!!! I can’t think of anything to argue about that is worth endangering anyone’s life. it is so sad that now their only memory of each other will not be of their happiness together that could have been!

This is really sad R.I.P. Chris Henry…..We never know when god going to pull our name…..

Steve McNair now him dieing at the hands of a female.SMH….Unlike McNair situation this female didn’t seem to have purposely killed him.Sad all away around she has devasted also.

It’s a sad result of a situation between a man and a woman. If the facts reveal that this was a domestic dispute, it would be wrong, unjust and unfortunate, no matter the color of the people involved.

Oh well

Lol!

Bye, Bye

It seem’s that towards the start and end of a year that many people die. I understand that people die EVERYDAY, but the grieving process is that much harder when a particular incident could have been prevented.

These preventable incidents remind me of Aaliyah and Micheal Jackson. If the pilot was properly screened and refused the crew’s excessive amount of luggage this would have prevented the plane from being overweight and utimately crashing. Although, Micheal Jackson had no business in taking such a drug the fact still remains that if the doctor had not lost track of time Mr. Jackson would not have fallen into a coma from cardiac arrest.

@ I Stay on 121st Down The Street

Ummm, she TOLD ya’ll to come get him…

I’m just sayin…

Don’t act like you don’t know homeboy was crazy

I’m just sayin…

What does it matter the skin colors of the people involved.

I swear ignorance and bigotry is in full abound.
And to think some of you consider yourselves Christians.

For those of you that consider yourself Christians but continue to be ignorant, racists pathetic scum.

And this goes for blacks, as well as whites.

You all better hope that there is no haven., Because if there is, your type will never get near it…….Artofwar

R.I.P Chris Henry.
People please leave abusive relationships alone!

@AUNT VIV
““This is ridiculous. What’s up with athletes and women? ”
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Honestly! It’s too much! I look forward to hearing the facts of the situation as they become available…”
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Well this much is already known. There was a history of turbulence in their relationship. She didn’t stop the vehicle, nor notify authorties once he fell off the vehicle.

Homicide detectives were already involved before Mr. Henry even passed away. I doubt anything comes of it (for a myriad of factors) but she doesn’t look “innocent” by any standard.

SHE KILLED CHRIS HENRY

rip chris henry one luv

what a sad situation. idk what happened so i cant really play the blame game. seems like both were at fault in a way. he shouldnt have jumped in a moving truck and she shouldnt have kept going once he did. we dont know what was going on but they were both going off of emotion and adrenaline and now a life is lost. RIP Chris Henry and my prayers go out to the kids and his family.

Hopefully, this was a tragic and unfortunate accident and no “malice” was intended.

If she was intoxicated, she might not have known that he fell off the truck. She might not have known he was even on the truck.

Why was he chasing the truck anyway, did he think he was a dog chasing a car?

How sad is this the ex play boy bunny wanted a darker skinned mix child and her baby turned out all white and she un-happy. This is some funny sh*t that’s what she gets if you want a mixed baby with skin tone you should have chosen an all Black N*gger man.

Kenra Wilkinson – Had Her Baby Yesterday Kendra Married a Mix Black Man- After The Nurse Handed Kendra Her Baby Yesterday She Said This Baby is White My Baby Should Be Dark Skinned

what is is about NFL ballers and charlotte NC women always some BS there.

FRED LANE =killed by evil criminal bank robbing deidra lane

RAE Carruth =messing with inappropiate street woman and drug dealers sitting in jail.IF he was dating professional woman and screening folks who you just met he might still be in the NFL

CHRIS HENRY =gone behind some bull

I shake my head….

I’m really not understanding why jump into the bed of a moving truck…seriously?

@Man, I just don’t care

Good morning to you.

It seems this team just took ANOTHER chance on him, not necessarily that he had turned his life around. What kind of person who makes his living off the physical fitness of his body jumps into the back of a moving vehicle of a person trying to flee an altercation? That is not the behavior of a mature person. Forgive me for saying so, but it just seemed like vintage Chris Henry.

It’s a sad result of a situation between a man and a woman. If the facts reveal that this was a domestic dispute, it would be wrong, unjust and unfortunate, no matter the color of the people involved.-Aunt Viv

I wholeheartedly agree. This is the reason why I do my best to enjoy quality time with family and friends and being content with what I have, because tomorrow can turn on you in a split second.

Lady Architect (My Love Is Like Stadium Music)

12/17/09, 11:15:am

I’m really not understanding why jump into the bed of a moving truck…seriously?
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Heat of the moment decision…heated discussion took the wrong turn…alot on the line if they were about to get married…money possibly…threats of her leaving with the children after all this Tiger mess…you never know.

He felt he needed to do that but if she really loved this guy she would have stopped that truck immediately! Emotions flaring or not…

God bless the family…this is so sad….#21

@ I Stay on 121st Down The Street

Im from e.55 & Francis now NY..i remember this story..sorry to here this was ur family..it was terrible && u absolutely right! Another killer sent free..

@Sydney:

It’s amazing to me that everyone is automatically putting full blame on his fiance, but it definitely seems that Mr. Henry got caught in a storm of his own making.

“IF he was dating professional woman and screening folks who you just met he might still be in the NFL”

No, if Carruth hadn’t planned the murder of the woman carrying his son, he might have still been in the NFL, instead of sitting behind bars where he belongs.

Also folks get off your high horse about non black women and black man misfortunes.there are a lot of black men in the grave behind black women bull S also. For every one of these cases add 10-20 black women .There are plenty of lying crooked black women too that will kill you.all races got them.

This incident happened close to here so you know the media has run away with it.

As a young man (26) somewhat in the spotlight, “engaged” and trying to raise 3 children–my opinion still stands.

I don’t think marriage should even be a topic of discussion until you’re at least 35, maybe even 40.

Another brotha down.
Anotha brotha gone.
R.I.P.

The information provided on additional new’s site’s is that Ms. Tonga had no injuries on her body, therefore I doubt very seriously that this was a physical altercation, but strictly verbal. It is normal to argue, because to think that a couple does not is unrealistic. Most people and/or couples argue and make-up later on that day. The only time arguing becomes harmful is if a person begins to threaten, start’s name calling and of course physically assaults the other party to the matter.

Wow how sad

@Gimmeabreak78

“It’s amazing to me that everyone is automatically putting full blame on his fiance, but it definitely seems that Mr. Henry got caught in a storm of his own making.”

Sista, after being on this site for a while, does it really surprise you?

I want her arrested immediately. First Elin and now this

@ MIJDC,
“Well this much is already known. There was a history of turbulence in their relationship. She didn’t stop the vehicle, nor notify authorties once he fell off the vehicle.

Homicide detectives were already involved before Mr. Henry even p*****ed away. I doubt anything comes of it (for a myriad of factors) but she doesn’t look “innocent” by any standard.”
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Wow. If she didn’t notify authorities as soon as it happened, those were precious minutes lost that could have made the difference between life and death. Wow.

So sad!! RIP!!

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I’m speechless becuz I feel so bad for all concerned his fiancee must be writhing and pain and regret…his kids will forever be without their father and he Chris was starting a new chapter in life and got cut down so quickly…

@GIMME A BREAK 78
“Good morning to you.

It seems this team just took ANOTHER chance on him, not necessarily that he had turned his life around. What kind of person who makes his living off the physical fitness of his body jumps into the back of a moving vehicle of a person trying to flee an altercation? That is not the behavior of a mature person. Forgive me for saying so, but it just seemed like vintage Chris Henry.”
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Good morning to you as well.

Yes, by all accounts Chris had turned his life around. Go to any sports related site and they will echo this statement. The team did take ANOTHER chance on him because he had demonstrated remorse for his past actions. Also, they had the oppurtunity to cut him and elected not to.

The same person who chooses to wear a helmet and smash into other human beings for a living is the same one that assumes he could jump in the back of a moving vehicle unscathed. It is widely known that athletes have a sense of invincibility and they are “risk takers.” Sadly, I could give you a score of athletes that have met similar fates due to this erroneous assumption (invincibility). SMH.

@
ARTOFWAR

12/17/09, 11:11:am

What does it matter the skin colors of the people involved.

I swear ignorance and bigotry is in full abound.
And to think some of you consider yourselves Christians.

For those of you that consider yourself Christians but continue to be ignorant, racists pathetic s*****.

And this goes for blacks, as well as whites.

You all better hope that there is no haven., Because if there is, your type will never get near it…….Artofwar
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THE TRUTH!!! but i think many of these racist women are just plan unhappy…how can u say one group is better than the next, but u hate when the whites do..HYPOCRISY!! but cause Jesus dies for yall sins lemme guess you can live and speak as triflin as u want…smh…yall just as bad as those white women yall hate..

This is about abuse, not race…STOP THINKING ABOUT URSELF && UR TWISTED VIEWS…HATERS!!

KeepNit2Real
12/17/09, 11:20:am

Lady Architect (My Love Is Like Stadium Music)
Heat of the moment decision…heated discussion took the wrong turn…alot on the line if they were about to get married…money possibly…threats of her leaving with the children after all this Tiger mess…you never know.

He felt he needed to do that but if she really loved this guy she would have stopped that truck immediately! Emotions flaring or not…————————————————–

To be honest I can reverse everything you said…just like it was heat of the moment for him it could’ve been the same for her…she could’ve been scared from who knows what…IF I get into with my man and he threatens me or whatever I’m out (which is what she was doing…leaving) and if he decides to run and jump into the back of the truck I’m gonna think he’s crazy and I’d be even more scared at that point…no I certainly would not pull over to see what else he may do to me out in the street.

He could’ve let her go and waited until she came back or called family and said they had gotten into a fight and she’s unstable at the moment….Either way homegirl was trying to leave and he should’ve let her go.

@ Gimmeabreak78

maybe people are putting the blame on the fiance because she was the only person there and she was arguing with him? it’s just… you known… common sense.

Co-sign Gimmeabreak78,

I do not think that Chris Henry is blameless in this situation. We have a tendency to side with the deceased in these things, but in this case, it appears we have to take a closer look.

R.I.P. MAN WE IS KILLING EACH OTHER TOO MUCH!
WHAT IS HAPPENING TO US…WE NEED TO TURN TO GOD…BLESS HIS FAMILY…EVEN BLESS AND FORGIVE THE GIRLFRIEND…BOTH HAD FAULTS…4RM THA QUEEN

My apologies Goodmorning to ALL

*waves hello* to Sydney, Aunt Viv, MIDC, CHOCO, 1TRUDIVA & GIMMEABREAK

@Ms. EJ

“That beautiful educated woman fought for her life and was able to write on note pads all that happened that night that lead to her eventually dying.”

I recall reading those details and being extremely disturbed by the tragedy. His son now lives with cerebral palsy and will most likely require care for the rest of his life. His own father could have killed him. Horrible, horrible story. . .

One of the most important things to remember about this is when you are a celebrity or even a regular Joe, everything that you do and say can be disseminated around the world at the click of a mouse.

The one thing about the internet is control and privacy are illusions. They really don’t exist anymore.

Back when, people could have domestic squabbles and no one would know about them, but not now. Everything is for sale (Rhianna’s pictures) and everything is known very quickly (Tiger’s scandal).

Electronic and computer blips are stored forever. Cell phone calls and text messages are stored so it’s harder to deny things.

So, if you don’t want your business publicized, you need to be careful of the choices you make and the people you hang out with.

From what I read on her myspace page, she seemed very immature and classless. There could be many speculations about why she took off in that truck, but a couple things stand out very clear, she didn’t care or have enough sense to stop the truck knowing he had jumped on the back of it and she didn’t call the police after he fell out. That’s cold blooded!

@LADY A- *waves hello* I agree that he should have let her go as well.

@GIMMEABREAK- I agree that it is both of their faults for what transpired.

@ Sydney and Ms EJ,

You’re right-the Rae Carruth story is on a whole other level. May he continue to rot in prison.

The moral of the story is: DO NOT mess with girls who look like or are named Danger.

@ Ms. EJ:
Good morning!

@ Army:

maybe people are putting the blame on the fiance because she was the only person there and she was arguing with him? it’s just… you known… common sense.

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I suppose the grown man who jumped into the back of a moving vehicle that was fleeing the scene of an altercation was simply an innocent victim who wasn’t responsible for his own behavior, right? I guess that’s not common sense.

Rae Carruth, is a straight up punk!! To me he got off lightly.

@Hi Aunti Viv and @DaHonest… All i can say is RIP to him and condolences to his family!!!

Morning EJ et al….
I concur with Lady A as well if she was tryn to get away he should’ve let her-it is crazy to jump inside of a moving vehicle…his past not to hold it agaisnt implies that he has some anger issues-shoot looking at him I can see that! But still it’s just really hurtful when you can’t turn back the hands of time so I feel so bad for them both I bet his fiancee would’ve never thought that would’ve happened!

@Alihma
Thanks for your condolences and I know right…but that is the whole story. The whole system is going to fall. The Bible tells us this and I’m not that religious….SMH (Also SMH cuz I don’t know if I spelled religious right,lol)

“From what I read on her my*****e page, she seemed very immature and cl*****less. There could be many speculations about why she took off in that truck, but a couple things stand out very clear, she didn’t care or have enough sense to stop the truck knowing he had jumped on the back of it and she didn’t call the police after he fell out. That’s cold blooded!”- Sanjor

In my initial comment earlier I asked those questions regarding if she knew he jumped in the back of the truck, and if she noticed he was no longer there. If she indeed did then why did she not think to stop and check if everything was okay? unless she assumed he just jumped off and went about his business.

Morning shout outs to all by the way!

“…she could’ve been scared from who knows what…IF I get into with my man and he threatens me or whatever I’m out (which is what she was doing…leaving) and if he decides to run and jump into the back of the truck I’m gonna think he’s crazy and I’d be even more scared at that point…no I certainly would not pull over to see what else he may do to me out in the street.

He could’ve let her go and waited until she came back or called family and said they had gotten into a fight and she’s unstable at the moment….Either way homegirl was trying to leave and he should’ve let her go.” – Lady Architect
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Makes perfect sense to me.

Maybe she didn’t call the police becuz she was tryn to prevent her man from yet another violation or suspension…

@ Aunt Viv:

I do not think that Chris Henry is blameless in this situation. We have a tendency to side with the deceased in these things, but in this case, it appears we have to take a closer look.

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You’re 100% right. Deceased does not automatically equal victim.

RIP… The woman will have to live with herself knowing she killed the father of her kids.

@ROSE- *waves hello*

@AUNT VIV & SYDNEY- That continues to anger me, because he showed ABSOLUTELY NO EMOTION! I still remember when they found him hiding in the trunk of his own car outside some dirty motel smelling like urine. Coward.

@@@@ Lady Architect (My Love Is Like Stadium Music)

You stated:

I’m really not understanding why jump into the bed of a moving truck…
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It is probably because it was his truck.

I’ve been in the same situation while in a state of disagreement with one of my long ago lover.

She exited my house and preceded to drive away in a Bentley that I had just purchased.

However, I did not try out any Hollywood stunts.
I just simply activated the front gate, nearly hitting and damaging the vehicle.

If you are my house guest and we just happen to get into it, you will not leave in any of my vehicles without permission. This is simply not allowed, and will not be tolerated.
Trust me.

If you want to leave my home you are free to do so.

However, you will leave in a cab, or if you insist an ambulance…….Artofwar

@ Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

1000% Cosign. You’ll get a lot of heat from brothers, though, for having the courage to say that.

Lady Architect (My Love Is Like Stadium Music)

12/17/09, 11:30:am

KeepNit2Real
12/17/09, 11:20:am

To be honest I can reverse everything you said…just like it was heat of the moment for him it could’ve been the same for her…she could’ve been scared from who knows what…IF I get into with my man and he threatens me or whatever I’m out (which is what she was doing…leaving) and if he decides to run and jump into the back of the truck I’m gonna think he’s crazy and I’d be even more scared at that point…no I certainly would not pull over to see what else he may do to me out in the street.

He could’ve let her go and waited until she came back or called family and said they had gotten into a fight and she’s unstable at the moment….Either way homegirl was trying to leave and he should’ve let her go.
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You’re exactly right. When having a dispute, it could go either way. but in a situation like this, words can either calm or enflame.

I don’t think he would just go after her if she hadn’t sad something to get him upset. And after seeing how she types on her Myspace page, I don’t give her the badge of smartest, most intellectual person at all.

They both may have been very young in the mind and didn’t know the art of coomunication, and this situation shows just that.

It’s sad for both of them…one lost his life, the other her paycheck and possible husband.

I meant communication…lol

MS EJ, Hi sweetie~~` How have you been and are you reving up for this xmas holiday coming up! i have been invited to relatives and friends house for dinner, so far i have 6 invites because i was so generous for Thansgiving and had a house full of folks over!!

ARTOFWAR

12/17/09, 11:47:am

@@@@ Lady Architect (My Love Is Like Stadium Music)

You stated:

I’m really not understanding why jump into the bed of a moving truck…
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It is probably because it was his truck.

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Truth be told.

@Gimmeabreak78

I suggest you read up before you comment. People are blaming his fiancee because she was driving and she left him there in the street to die. Also he did change his life. He was given another chance but he did make profound changes in his life. If others are guilty for always blaming women you’re just as guilty for saying “but it definitely seems that Mr. Henry got caught in a storm of his own making” how can you make that comment when you are clearly ignorant to the facts of the story.

I can’t think of any circumstance where you leave someone you love to die in the middle of the street. I can see running after someone you love but leaving them lying in the street? I can’t.

“@Gimmeabreak78

“It’s amazing to me that everyone is automatically putting full blame on his fiance, but it definitely seems that Mr. Henry got caught in a storm of his own making.”

Sista, after being on this site for a while, does it really surprise you?”

Not me!!! LOL! It NEVER ceases to amaze me how quickly the people on this site are to blame a woman for what a black man has CLEARLY gotten himself into all by himself! This n i g g a jumped on the back of HER moving truck in a fit of rage but its HER fault that he did so! SMH – it NEVER ceases to amaze me!

The black man honestly and seriously feels he can do no wrong and all the wrong done in his life can be traced back to someone else! SMH! Sad!

@ Gimmeabreak78

Did you actually read my post or is your point of view so narrow that you weren’t able to understand what I was saying?
I never said that Chris was blameless what I did say was that it is common sense and reasonable to assume that his fiances behavior may have contributed to his death.

@Lady Architect (My Love Is Like Stadium Music)
Hey, where have you been!

Hey Choco, Ms. EJ, Aunt Viv and rose.
So good to have the ladies on here holding it down. LOL

Choco,
Is he still upset? Do I have to fight him???

@ROSE- I’ve been good how about you ? Wow, six invites speaks volumes on your good character. I know some people will attempt to go to each person or family’s place for a brief stay do you plan to do the same? or do you plan to pick one that you know for sure you will enjoy more? Also, I am making sweet potato pie (first time ever)from scratch do you any recipes, tips or suggetions?

THIS B?ITCH BETTER GO TO JAIL,THIS IS NO
DIFFERENT THAN WHAT RIHANNA DID 2 CHRIS
BROWN A?SS REAL REAL TALK

THIS B?ITCH BETTER GO TO JAIL,THIS IS NO
DIFFERENT THAN WHAT RIHANNA DID 2 CHRIS
BROWN A?SS REAL REAL TALK
..

“It is probably because it was his truck.

I’ve been in the same situation while in a state of disagreement with one of my long ago lover.

She exited my house and preceded to drive away in a Bentley that I had just purchased.

However, I did not try out any Hollywood stunts.
I just simply activated the front gate, nearly hitting and damaging the vehicle.

If you are my house guest and we just happen to get into it, you will not leave in any of my vehicles without permission. This is simply not allowed, and will not be tolerated.
Trust me.

If you want to leave my home you are free to do so.

However, you will leave in a cab, or if you insist an ambulance…….” – Artofwar
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Just a question: Did you know she was crazy before she stole your Bentley or did she just turn crazy over night?

I ask because some men and women seem to be attracted to dramatic partners, bask in the drama, continue to stay when they should run far away from these dramatic partners, and then act all suprised when they pull certain stunts . . .

Hey Honey **waving**

THIS B?ITCH BETTER GO TO JAIL,THIS IS NO
DIFFERENT THAN WHAT RIHANNA DID 2 CHRIS
BROWN A?SS REAL REAL TALK
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…

We can’t blame the woman for Chris’s death afterall, she was trying to leave the situation, he should have let her go and let things cool down.

@ I Stay on 121st Down The Street

Yo did they really just say that to you!?!
Yup Tropical english…madd ignorant comment!!! illllll…where were yall raised..that ish is crazy talkn like that!! if u are grown u really need to check urself!!

again my condolences..it saddened many all over the Land…

@ Brand & Army

Brand, perhaps you should read more thoroughly before you comment. My initial comment was that ” It’s amazing to me that everyone is automatically putting full blame on his fiance, but it definitely seems that Mr. Henry got caught in a storm of his own making.”

I’m not saying that his fiance shouldn’t have stopped if she realized he fell out the back of the truck. She’ll probably be charged with failure to stop and render aid if it determined that she was aware he hand jumped on and had subsequently fallen. What I am saying is that ONLY Mr. Henry was responsible for putting his life in peril in the first place by jumping in the back of the truck.

Hey Honey,
how are you?

Art of War,
Ok and?…so risk your life for a truck…come on now let’s be smart here.

Keep,
I agree they both made foolish mistakes which unfortunately led to a death that was not planned…There were a lot of emotions going on in this situation.

@Ms.Ej, this whole situation was just sad and maybe preventable. Their relationship had been turburlent from jump. If all you do is cuss and fight, that is not the makings of a strong mature and long lasting relationship. People need to make better decisions when picking mates. If you continually have problem, and serious problems at that, then that is a sign that this isn’t right for you.

*CORRECTION*

“…if it’s determined that she was aware he had jumped on and had subsequently fallen”.

@ YA MAMIE

SPEAKIN THE TRUTH!!!!!! =]

its soo sad these are our children’s role models…

@ Ms EJ,

What happened to Pynk? Is she OK?

“The only time arguing becomes harmful is if a person begins to threaten, start’s name calling and of course physically *****aults the other party to the matter.” – Ms. EJ
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Hi Ms. EJ!

I’ve never been a fan of arguing with a mate (I always end up laughing because I think it’s silly), but I agree with you.

I spoke to a friend who told me he has been consistently arguing with his girl lately and he says it’s draining him bit by bit. So I’ll add to your above statement that arguing is also harmful to the overall relationship if you make it a ritual to argue.

If Chris was issuing verbal threats like I’m going to kill u or I’m ef you up his fiance won’t be charged with anything-IN MD verbal threats are taken seriously-I can’t imagine him just riding in the back of the truck and saying oh what a beautiful day!

Wow…this is sad and tragic. RIP to Chris and condolences to the family. I’m sure there’ll be much more to learn as the story unfolds, and I hope media will allow time for the family to grieve before they start bringing all types of skeletons out of the closet, and hopefully, it won’t turn into a circus. SMH at losing life at such a young age…

He could have jumped on the back of the truck saying baby please don’t leave. Who knows??

@Monisings
Good point on the media allowing the family their privacy in grieiving…

He also could’ve simply called her cell phone…

This may have already been mentioned but:

Chris also had a broken arm (why he was away from the team), and this could have contributed to him falling out of the truck or not being able to protect his head during the fall.

Also, the truck is a smaller Ford Ranger type truck which appears to have been raised about 10-15 inches, very small bed as well. So pretty much ole girl had to know he was in the back of the truck.

The reports keep saying he was “found” lying in the road, you’d like to think that even if they were having an argument, if she saw him tumble out and crash in the road (with an already broken arm) that she would have been the one to call the police.

“I don’t think he would just go after her if she hadn’t sad something to get him upset. And after seeing how she types on her My*****e page, I don’t give her the badge of smartest, most intellectual person at all.”

So the wise answer was for him to jump into the back of a moving truck and risk his own life? LOL – nothing is ever the black mans fault! You can say whatever you want to me I am NOT going to jump into a moving truck to get at you for saying it!

But thats just me, right?

I’mc sorry the brotha is dead – my heart goes out to his family namely his mother – but he brought it on himself!

@ Ms EJ,
“Oh, no she is fine just on vacation. I’m sorry if I alarmed anyone.”
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Thanks for the update! Speaking of vacay, mine starts tomorrow-I can’t wait. No m.a.s.s.a till next year!

@Auntie Viv~“ I saw it on Aol news, but i dont know if it is still there, I was just shocked to see my State on there and i want to know where do they get these findings from??

@MISTA O- I made a comment earlier regarding his broken arm and for the most part along with everything else that you stated. The only thing I assume is that maybe she thought that he just jumped off the back of the truck and went about his business. I understand that might be a stretch.

@Slide
You don’t know the whole story either so saying all women are crazy makes you sound insane!

Need a red bull to stimulate your real senses?

Tell me more!

@AUNT VIV- I know you are happy I just am looking forward to getting my “eat on” as some say LOL.

@Slide
Honestly intelligence I doubt you would recognize it…

@Slides~~ LOL!!

@Ms. EJ

“That continues to anger me, because he showed ABSOLUTELY NO EMOTION! I still remember when they found him hiding in the trunk of his own car outside some dirty motel smelling like urine.”

You’re bringing back a lot of details of the case that I had forgotten. I was in the state at the time of the murder, and the coverage was extensive.

No, Carruth didn’t show any emotion because he simply did not care. Not about her. Not about their son.

I don’t see any correlation between that horrific murder and the destruction of a child’s life and this unfortunate death whatsoever.

@@@ MADE.IN.NY

You stated:

Just a question: Did you know she was crazy before she stole your Bentley or did she just turn crazy over night?

I ask because some men and women seem to be attracted to dramatic partners, bask in the drama, continue to stay when they should run far away from these dramatic partners, and then act all suprised when they pull certain stunts . . .
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What were you born yesterday???

You can live for years with a person and not know who they truly are inside.

You have situations such as the BTK killer
that for over a period of 20 years, indulged in torturing and killing his victims.
This man had a family, a mortgage and a steady well paying job, and had never missed a day of work.

You have soccer moms that seem to be the perfect pictures of American apple pie.
Yet she is slowly poisoning her husband with arsenic for the insurance money.

You have male politicians that campaign on a platform of family values, yet are cheating on their wives with other men.

The moral to this story is, you really never know what anyone is capable of doing.
Most people do not even know themselves.

So never make the mistake of thinking that the person that lays in your bed at night, is incapable of doing you harm.

You are more likely to be harmed by someone you know, then someone you don’t.

Human nature is a nature of imperfection, and unpredictability…….

End of story.
Enough said…..Artofwar

@ Ms EJ,

Girl, this week couldn’t fly fast enough lol!!!

If I hear one more tragic story about an African American athlete!!!!

@MS EJ, Only thing when you make your sweet potato pie bake the sweet potatoes instead of boling them , it brings out the flavor better and just use a mixer and make sure you season with nutmeg cinnamon and brown sugar and dont forget the carnation milk or some type of evaporated milk.. i use carnation which is what my mom used from her mom and on and on !! No store bought pie can compare to homeade sweet potato pie!! I use the store bought crust though.. Pie crust in the dough form and i roll it out myself and flour it and brush it with butter to make it flaky.. forget that already made pie crust .. too dry!! i hate dry!!

No matter what anyone has to say the facts are this:

They had a drama filled, turbulent relationship from both parties and now someone is DIED.

If you are in a relationship that has constant drama whether it is from the male or the female- LEAVE IT or end up dead, in jail or emotionally broke down.
LEAVE ALL RELATIONSHIPS THAT ARE NOTHING BUT CONSTANT DRAMA.

@ Choco- Mines is in his feelings to girl. Where is Nique. She has been quiet lately.
@ Aunt Viv- Another day
@ Ms EJ- Tell her we miss her too and dont have too much fun
@rose- Hey girlie

@Man I Just Don’t Care- Didn’t see you. Hey there.

@Lady Arch- Im am hanging in there.

You don’t know the whole story either
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@Choco

Have you seen me make a comment about the events that transpired or this man’s death??? Show me where???

Please work on your reading comprehension when you get a chance…

Ask your boyfriend to get you “Hooked on Phonics” for Christmas, I think it would be a good present for you and do wonders

Hi @Honey , @Sydney and @Lady A.. hope your holidays are going just great.. i know im doing wonderful.. no drama, no haters , no mess just smooth sailing in my life!1 hope it stays that way, in fact thats my resolutions for 2020. no drama and rise above the haters.. i fly above .. thanks Khandi!!

hey everyone!

*lurking and lmao @ Choco and Slide*

come on guys, it’s the holidays…let’s all get along!

“no drama and rise above the haters.. i fly above .. thanks Khandi!!”

I will not laugh. . .This is a serious thread. . .

this kid had a bright future, looked like he had it turned around. could it really be true that his fiance wasn’t even there when the paramedics found him on the road? that’s wild.

all women are crazy
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@The Fellas

You see what this broad said…

That’s right, you know better than to say something…

We know (*and the smarter females on here too), and I’m just leave it at that… SMMFH

Hi Sydney~~wishing you a happy holiday lady!!

My thoughts to the children.
Although she may not have intended this to happen. If someone is hanging on to the back of a truck it may be time to roll up the windows stop the truck and call the police (if you are in fear). For him to fall off and die from the injuries she must have been driving erratic like weaving and going fast. She should be investigated fully just like anyone else involved in a domestic dispute where someone dies. It sounds like atleast involuntary manslaughter. This could have been avoided that makes it a tragedy.
RIP

Chestnuts roasting on an open fire. . .Jack Frost nipping at your nose. . .

“You don’t know the whole story either
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@Choco

Have you seen me make a comment about the events that transpired or this man’s death??? Show me where???

Please work on your reading comprehension when you get a chance…

Ask your boyfriend to get you “Hooked on Phonics” for Christmas, I think it would be a good present for you and do wonders”

Actually @ 11:42 you made a comment very much along the lines of this womans “drama” being this mans downfall. Just because you didn’t say it directly doesn’t mean it wasn’t supposed or insinuated. Just my opinion tho!

@ Slide

I told you you would get flak for your comments…lol.

Hey Caramel Cat

@SYDNEY- You are so right! no correlation WHATSOVER totally different.

@HONEY- I will

@ROSE- Thank you so much. I was going to boil, now when you baked the sweet potatos do you coat them with something and wrap in foil? Yes, I know the benefits of using Carnation milk. This is the same information I had found online, but wanted to get additional help. Thanks a million

Hi Caramel Cat!!!

@ rose,

Giiiiiirl, you got me salivatin’ with thoughts of some pie! Mmm mmm!

Sydney- *singing my favorite christmas song*

Bring on the mistletoe…I’m gonna get to know you betterrrr….THIS CHRISTMAS…-LOL

Hey Ms. EJ, Aunt Viv, Syd

Yes, let’s talk about sweet potatoe pies and Christmas cookies, etc. It’s Christmas time!

@AUNT VIV- Hey, you can add in some tips too! LOL for real.

Choco
12/17/09, 12:16:pm

@Monisings
Good point on the media allowing the family their privacy in grieiving…

He also could’ve simply called her cell phone…
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@Choco – agreed. That would have been the logical thing to do, rather than jumping into a moving vehicle. But I guess in the heat of p.a.s.s.i.o.n or anger, he just lost his head. Or, who knows how many other incidents like this took place between them, and this was the one that ended in tragedy? Sad…

@Ms. EJ

We’re caroling through the night. . .And this Christmas will be. . .A very special Christmas for me. . .dee-di-do-duh. . .

@ Ms EJ,

Sadly sis, I’m not a baker, but for real, I may want to give the sweet potato pie a try!

@CARAMEL CAT- I eat chocolate chip cookies almost everyday after dinner. I can not eat a meal and not have something sweet afterwards. I bake these cookies using Nestle Dollhouse Chocolate Chip cookie dough. It tastes so homemade and is delicious.

You can live for years with a person and not know who they truly are inside.
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@ART OF WAR

Big Homie, that’s the VERY reason why I take my time in relationships and don’t believe that you should get married without knowing a person for at least a minimum of 2 years…

Sh*t, you need time to get to REALLY know the person and MORE importantly you have to see how they react to different situations (good & bad) and you can ONLY see that over a decent period of time (*3 years in my opinion) because life has it’s ups & downs and you gotta see how the person responds accordingly…

Confession: One of my favorite Christmas songs is Mariah Carey’s “All I want for Christmas is You”…

@ Choco and Slide

Choco you are my big sis and Slide you are the big bro. yall better get along or else.

Hey Caramel et al

@Aunt Viv

Girl, I love that Mariah song!

Confession: I like TLC’s “Have a Very Merry Christmas” (is that the name?).

Sdyney- LMBO!!!!! @ dee-di-du-dhu *dead at the breakdown* Girl, that is one of my favorite Christmas jams. OMG!!!! do you or does anyone know the name of the group that featured various R&B artist including the group NEXT? The only lyrics I know are “family standing by the fireside”. It was a bomb song way back in the Donnie Simposon BET days.

Hey Sydney!!!! And anybody else I am sorry

Oh, and The Temptations’ “Silent Night.” My parents LOVE that classic.

Hey Honey!

Ms. EJ, give me a minute. I’m looking. . .

@AUNT VIV- “I don’t want alot for Christmas there is just one thing I need…*chorus AND I* ..and I don’t want no presents underneather the Christmas tree….all I want for Christmas is YOUUUUUUU!!!!..BEYYY-BE” lol

@SYDNEY- *singing in chillis voice* “and a HAPPY NEW YEARRR!!!…”

LMBO!!! love those songs!

I told you you would get flak for your comments…lol.
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@Gimmeabreak78

LOL

Beautiful, I have no problems with people saying anything about my comments – I’m all for a healthy debate and/or exchange of ideas on whatever the topic is… I like to hear different viewpoints on things and opposing views it gives me a chance to see things from another perspective…

More times than not, when some doesn’t agree with me they are wrong – but whatever…

@HONEY- Hey, why are you sorry hun?

@AUNT VIV- Oh, okay (not a baker). Yes, definitely try the sweet potato pie. I love to cook and I also enjoy wrapping presents too lol. My family use to always have me wrap presnts I wrap like department stores.

@ Ms EJ, Sydney, Caramel Cat, etc,

YES!! I raise my head proudly now, I love that Mariah Carey song, and the Chipmunks Christmas Song too!

“Christmas Christmas Time is Here, Time for Toys and Time for Cheer”

Wondering how it is some of ya’ll can make it her fault for having the sense to leave a heated argument and blame her for his dumb a** deciding to jump on a moving truck…..anyone who’d jump on a moving vehicle is unstable and more than likely would have beat that a** probably why she was getting ghost in the first place…….oh but since he was black and she wasn’t it just has to be her fault..WTF

@Slide
Have you seen me make a comment about the events that transpired or this man’s death??? Show me where???

Please work on your reading comprehension when you get a chance…

Ask your boyfriend to get you “Hooked on Phonics” for Christmas, I think it would be a good present for you and do wonders
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Your tedious and boring to me-my lawd can you get any more original hooked on phonics…Listen slickity slide I don’t need my boyfriend to get anything for me-now with that being said keep to the subject at hand LIL ONE as I reiterate…and you should take your own advice seriously…I bet your Mama is crazy also since all women are oops-you were born from a GATOR-my bad!

@Honey
No offense but slide ain’t much in my book and yes I said ain’t cuz I’m not on the piece tryn to win writer of the year-he’s just as bad as a racist calling all blacks dumb and monkeys- he can kiss my azz with that all women are crazy stuff-I guess that makes him crazy too since I suppose he was born from a female…simple azz lil boy he is!

More times than not, when some doesn’t agree with me they are wrong – but whatever…
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Delusional much?

@MADE IN NY- I understand I was just stating in general that it is not abnormal, because everyone will not agree, especially couples. Many arguements are loud and involve the use of profanities, but not all. I was raised where my parents did not argue around me or my sibilings. I only heard three arguments growing up with my parents. They would have discussions or disagreements while we were away or in the car. That is why I can not deal with those who have a problem, but want to get loud and make a scene (I dealt w/one person like that NEVER AGAIN so embarrassing). Pull me to the side, but do not cause a scene.

MS EJ, you wash the taters.. (im getting Southern on you now), then you rub them in olive oil or vegetable oil, whatever you have around, then you can wrap them in foil or leave them open , its ok either way as long as you have them oiled they wont crack or break open.. just make sure you season the potaotes when they are done after mixing them with a mixed. add the cinnamon, nutmeg, brown sugar ana milk and a lil melted butter! whne you pour them into the pie crust .. bake them at 350 degress for 35 to 40 minutes and you are ste.. oh dont forget to pinch the crust with the folk to make the indents .. that always makes it look so regal!! @ SORYY AUNTIE VIV.. didnt mean to make your mouth water!!! What about toasted pecans.. oh wee my mouth is really watering now.. i betta shush for the moment!!

This is so f’ed up man.

@Ms.EJ

It’s weird because I have the same palette. It mostly occurs after I eat lunch, but I always seem to want something sweet. Cookies, candy bar, something…it doesn’t have to be a full out dessert either, just something with sugar. I was reading this book called ‘Skinny B.i.t.c.h.’ and they kind of touched on why this happens. It’s something that can be controlled if you try, but it’s not easy…lol

@SYDNEY- Girl, if you find that song…I just don’t know what I would do with myself, LOL. I love that song and it brings back so many good memories.

@Caramel
You advice is sensible so I will comply-just can’t stand people putting others in one category but hey that’s their problem not mine…
Happy Holidays Ma : )

p.a.s.s.e.d ^^^

boring to me
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@Choco

You’re boring to me too and for once try to say something intelligent or worthwhile for a change…

Your jokes are the lamest, but they’re coming from a lame person and so I’m not the least bit surprised…

R.I.P TO THE YOUNG BROTHA, MUCH LUV TO THE REST OF HIS FAM.

Oh my , i love “silent night’ by the Temptations>>>>> brings back memories.. sweet sweet memories!! nothing like them and to think some older folks thats all they have is memories!!!

@ROSE-Thank you! I know the importance of pinching the crust with a fork. Girl, almost everything you stated I have on my list to do or get even down to the temperature, lol. Too kind of you, but I knew I could count on you for the cooking help.:D

@CARAMEL CAT- Girl, please share why that is. I too, am the same way. It does not ahve to be a whole dessert a Snicker or Hershey Bar will do just something sweet mostly in the chocolate cateogry.

@Sydney… please finish the verse from .. and this christmas will be.. a very special christmas for me……. i forgot the rest of it!!

chestn uts roasting on an open fire.. Jack frost nipping at you nose.. tiny tots with their eyes all aglow.. uh ! im stuck thats as far as i can remember that song!! HELP!!

@ROSE-LOL- at “I forgot the rest of it”…Donny Hathaway was an awesome soulful singer which Musiq Soulchild drew his style and inspiration from.

slide ain’t much in my book
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@Choco

You ain’t much in my book either and you prove it EVERYDAY with your dumb a$$ comments…

Any 40 year old broad that thinks it’s alright to party with 20 year olds her daughter’s age ain’t sh*t… You up in the club with people you used to baby sit, embarra$$ing the hell out of your daughter… Get your old a$$ up outta there = ’cause you look stupid doing them old dance moves thinking that you’re doing something… But you don’t have ANY sense to see the wrong in that…

How is a 40 year old woman gonna date a 20 year old man, shouldn’t y’all be at different stages of your life… He’s damn near the same age of your daughter??? WTF???

Nevermind, that just shows where you are mentally…

Mental midget please stay in your lane…

For your sake, just stick to the topic…

@Ms.EJ

It’s a combination of habit and being somewhat addicted to sugar. I’ve tried to eat things like dried cranberries or other fruits just for the sweetness but like you, I kind of want chocolate most of the time. I heard that if you cut out carbs and sweet things all together, this craving can be curbed. It takes discipline.

@Slide
blah blah blah don’t worry about me and that’s real!

@CARAMEL CAT- Oh, girl…welp, I will not be doing that no time soon, LOL. Thankfully, everything health wise is good, therefore I will not have to stop. Caramel, I need my chocolate chip baked cookies!! LOL. No, but thank you for sharing that with me. I am glad that I know I have been this way for years even when I was an athlete in middle school and high school.

Ok ms ej , my co-worker gave me a verse…. Chestnuts roasting on an open fire, Jack Frost nipping at your nose,yule tide carols being sung by a choir and folks dressed up like Eskimos… Everybody knowss.. a Turkey and some Misletoe help to make the season bright.. tiny tots with their eyes all aglow.. thats still as far as i go.. LOL!

@Slides you going strong .. i would hate to be on your bad side..ok!!

@ROSE-LOL- Hey, that is a whole lot more than I know

@Slide
U still catching up huh…(Katt Williams voice) “Don’t worry I’ll wait” smh let it go or let it slide!

@Ms.EJ

I hear you, I enjoy my chocolate chip cookies. Famous Amos are my favs, I only need like two or three of those and I’m good. It’s so crazy!

Thats why its best to keep some things to your self!!!!!AMEN!! Hallluerrhhh!!!

@Slide
@Choco

You two, go in separate corners! Don’t come out until you both are ready to kiss and make up!

Ms EJ, it a lady here on the job thats hums carols all day, so i asked here to give me a couple verses to nat King Coles.. Christmas Song.. and she did! I love it!!! they have all kinds of decorations up here at work and someone even made a gingerbread house.. i want to eat it .. i love gingerbread so i gues i will have to bake my own!!!

@Caramel
It’s all good for real I’m moody and he is my prey…I can tell I struck a cord with him but enough of this child’s play…

Ms EJ, someone bought some christmas cookies here and a long hair was wrapped around it, please folks if you have long hair , short hair, any kind of hair.. tie it up nobody wants hair in their food!! wrap it up and tie it up!!!

RIP

@ Choco and Slide,

In honor of th holidays, I’ve just put on my dashiki, pic’d out my curls. Let’s join hands now fam, sing it with me.

Kumbaya my lawd kumbayaaaa
Kumbaya my lawd kumbayaaaa
Kumbaya my lawd kumbayaaaa
Oh Lawd, kumbayaaaaaaaaaaa

@CARAMEL CAT- I really do not like or eat hard cookies it has to be soft, however I like Famous Amos cookies, but their cookies do not like me. The ingredients or ingredient they use cause my throat to burn something serious. I am very sensitive to many things food wise. I can not eat kiwi, pineapple AT ALL and very little caramel.

*the holidays*

@Aunt Viv

“and the Chipmunks Christmas Song too!”

Girl, you did not mention the Chipmunks. LOL! Alvin, Simon, Theodore. . .Doot-doot-doot. . .

@Ms. EJ

I got interrupted, but I can’t seem to locate that song. Do you have another line I can search?

And, for Rose, from the legendary, silky-voiced Donny Hathaway *lighting candle*:

Hang all the mistletoe
I’m gonna get to know you better
This Christmas
And as we trim the tree
How much fun it’s gonna be together
This Christmas

Fireside is blazing bright,
We’re caroling through the night
And this Christmas will be
A very special Christmas for me

Presents and cards are here
My world is filled with cheer and you
This Christmas
And as I look around,
Your eyes outshine the town they do
This Christmas

I got u Aunt Viv and this thread is not for spreading more animosity….I’m back to being nice (for lack of a better term : )

Glad to hear it Choco

Aunt Viv spreadin’ love the Brooklyn way!

@Aunt Viv

Yaaaaayyyy! I L-O-V-E the Chipmunks Christmas song….

Jackson 5′s – I Saw Mommy Kissing Santa Claus!

Hey Choco! What’s your favorite Christmas carol?

@He Was Very Dark Skinned But Cute:

He looks way better than any Jet Black Man his features where to die for
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you ignorant tramp. this man died and you are concerned about his features being better than a “true” jet black man. lol. i can tell you were raised in a trailer park where u masturbated in private to pictures of the jet black men you turn your nose up at.

LMAO @ Aunt Viv

OK, a bit of Chipmunks trivia — What are the names of the three girl chipmunks? One was named Brittany, I know (I think she was Simon’s girlfriend).

@SYDNEY- I kid you not I was just about to ask Choco the same thing along with her favorite dish to cook.

“Jackson 5’s – I Saw Mommy Kissing Santa Claus!”

Eartha Kitt — Santa Baby

For that special man, ladies. . .Meow!

@Honey, Caramel Cat & Aunt Viv

But I’m saying though…

*excuse my french*
Don’t start no sh*t, won’t be no sh*t…

Alright I will… But if she say something slick… SMH

@Syd
Silent Night comes to mind first I like how you slyly diverted my attention from the lil bit of drama smooth move…and to the rest I agree it is the Holidays…
Tis the season to be Jolly falalala : )

@SYDNEY- Do you cook or like to cook Ms.Lady?

Okay Caramel, EJ, Sy and Aunt Viv
I apologize for changing the tone in here I won’t even justify Y but didn’t mean to have yall feel it-feel me…

@Slide
40 is the new 20 take that take that LMAO! Okay you are now dismissed officially!

@SLIDE

you wanna fugg Choco don’t you dawg?
I aint mad at cha.

@ Cat, EJ, Syd

My goodness I need to put the Jackson 5 and Eartha Kitt joints on the iPod when I get home! Sydney you said “Meow”. LMAO!

@EJ
I love to cook gourmet foods and try out different menus I like to cook period so narrowing it down to one dish is difficult…I don’t bake tho….

@ Slide,

Thank you dear

CYBER CANDY-CANES FOR EVERYBODY!!!!

Jackson 5′s – Santa Claus is Coming to Town!

Along with Aunt Viv – Cyber Egg Nog to everyone with Cinnamon Sticks to stir it with!

@ Sydney,

“OK, a bit of Chipmunks trivia — What are the names of the three girl chipmunks? One was named Brittany, I know (I think she was Simon’s girlfriend).”
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Oh girl you got me on that one!

@Be Quiet

I’m sure you saw the same thing I did, huh? LOL! *winks*

lol @ Ms. EJ

@Choco

“Silent Night comes to mind first I like how you slyly diverted my attention from the lil bit of drama smooth move…”

I’m a Smooth Operator like Sade, lol.

You like Silent Night, too? Yes, it’s beautiful. What about Hark, the Herald Angels Sing?

Aunt Viv- Why thank you I’ll take one. *passing along candy bowl to Caramel, Sydney and Choco and to ALL*

@CHOCO- I love all kinds of food too, but my favorite is Hispanic food and Thai. I love spicy I mean really spicy foods alot.

Bye Aunt viv!

@Ms. EJ

Girl, I can cook. . .somewhat, lol. I know you can throw down in the kitchen.

@Aunt Viv

“Sydney you said “Meow”. LMAO!”

Puss, puss *licking back of hand*

@Syd
Honestly I would know the song when I heard it but the name of them escape me….and I can not believe Christmas is next week so not even close to being ready-but I’m giving out cash so I’m good!

@ Sydney .. Donny Hathaway….. thats it “This Christmas” thats the one i love!!!!!!

Caramel Cat- Girl, I love egg nog, but it seems that not too many people like it. I sure do though.

Bye Aunt Viv!

*waves hello* at Miss B

you wanna fugg Choco don’t you dawg?
I aint mad at cha.
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@Man, I Just Don’t Care

No and shut up, LMAO!!!

So Cousin, back to what you said earlier…

You mean to tell me that you haven’t messed with a broad that after a while you determined was crazy and you had to get up outta that relationship???

How about that broad that had up on that TV Show “Cheaters”, was she crazy???

SAD!!!

Im off to lunch also, misletoes and candy canes to you all.. Sydney, slides, Ms EJ, Honey, Lady A and carmel cat…. enjoy the rest of the day!!!!

@SYDNEY- I have been told by many old, young men and women I can throw down, lol. I will say that it is nice to have the chance for someone to cook for me once in awhile, though I love to cook.

@EJ
I love hispanic food also my ex hubby and Puerto Rican and I have eating hispanic food for years–THAI is too rich for me but good Chinese food and a Japanese steakhouse is right up my alley…

I’m out too everyone have a good day Ladies and Gents *exits*

Sydney .. Donny Hathaway….. thats it “This Christmas” thats the one i love!!!!!!
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Hands down the best version!!! I agree

You should hear me in the shower! I think I sound just like him

Bye Ms. EJ, Aunt Viv

My co-worker just told me that 10 inches of snow is predicted for the DMV this weekend. Oy vey!

this case= Manslaughter(?)

@BG

“You should hear me in the shower! I think I sound just like him”

I sound like a combo of Mariah and an 80′s Whitney. It’s astonishing.

40 is the new 20
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@Choco

You can keep telling yourself that but them wrinkles and the smell of ben g.ay don’t say that…

Take your old a$$ from up outta the club, you got people in there laughing and saying “oh sh*t, whose mother is that?”…

I’ll be damned if I’m up in the club with people I used to change their diapers…

@Syd
I truly hope there won’t be snow but my co-worker mentioned it if it is it need to be clear by Monday….

@Slide
You have a pea brain that is all….

40 is the new 20
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It most certainly is NOT!

BG

“You should hear me in the shower! I think I sound just like him”

I sound like a combo of Mariah and an 80’s Whitney. It’s astonishing
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Yeah I heard you this morning while I was getting ready for work! What a turn on…

@bg

Yeah I heard you this morning while I was getting ready for work! What a turn on…

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FLATLINE!

Sydney .. Donny Hathaway….. thats it “This Christmas” thats the one i love!!!!!!

I like this one…I’d have top say my fav Christmas song is “Give Love on Christmas Day” by the temptations….

@MIJDC

I could actually picture choco and slide gettin’ it on offline….lol, putting up that ‘I HATE YOU’ image for all of us…

Choco, I just checked washingtonpost.com, and, yeah, snow is predicted for Saturday. I’m going to hit the supermarket tonight.

@BG

“Yeah I heard you this morning while I was getting ready for work! What a turn on…”

LOL, do you mean my twin?

@Caramel
Hahaha reallly funny chic : )
@SYD
I’m so irritated I’m tired I don’t feel like rushing to no damn store but aren’t they wrong sometimes hoping they are this time I mean honestly this is last weekend to take care of last minute chistmas biz-this month went by to fast for me….

@ SYDNEY
Yeah I heard you this morning while I was getting ready for work! What a turn on…”

LOL, do you mean my twin?
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Baby it’s ok you can stop role playing now. That’s for the house! I was really into it last night tho…..

“I’m not Sydney I’m her twin” That was hot!

slide why you being so mean to choco?

Sydney™
12/17/09, 14:40:pm

Choco, I just checked washingtonpost.com, and, yeah, snow is predicted for Saturday. I’m going to hit the supermarket tonight.

a lil snow doesn’t hurt…lol

@LadyA
Slide is the type of boy that need to feel right and in control becuz i’m so certain he lacks severely in other areas in life…imo he’s not being mean-he’s showing how insecure he is-never seen me to predict wrinkles doubt my 25 year old beau would be attracted to someone who looks as old as pea brain depicts…he has on overactive imagination and an undersexed lifestyle-a lot of pent up frustration being released in his so called attacks to me…

I am back from a late lunch!!!
Choco and Slide. Enough is enough. Make up and we are moving on. Slide be the bigger person. i gave you all those compliments and now yu are making me upset big bro. Don’t act like that to my bff right now.

***Back to regular programming

@ladyA
there is nothing wrong with a lil snow but damn I got things to do this weekend smdh—but I admit a couple of weekends ago when we got snow I was cuddling in bed all day with beau so you gotta point!

sad just sad i hate to see ppl loose their lives for non sense i mean granted they were arguing and she made a silly decision to continue to drive when he jumped in the car but she should have began to slow down and to leave him there was freaking heartless how could you do that?? im sure he was no saint but have a heart you dont even stop to make sure he is ok? in my book that inhumane and im sure the suffering she is about to feel is not worth it… R.I.P Brotha may your positive legacy live on everyone is critisizing the point that he was arressted so damn what he didnt take any lives or harm anyone yall need 2 take alook at ya self b4 u pass judgements i pray for his fam and his kids

@Choco

I think money is always a good gift, and it alleviates the stress of shopping. You can also pick up gift cards at the supermarket — I like the Amex ones since you can use them just about anywhere.

@BG

@Honey
Allow slide to get his frustration out he lacks the attention he wants from females…he can’t touch me actually I’m amused by his rants!

I feel like there is a mob of angry crazy women who provoke drama but feel like they can do no wrong in this comment section defending one of their own… a man lost his life and you all out here throwing dirt on his name because you see a bit of yourself in his widow… what a shame.

@Syd
Sis that’s exactly where I’m headed I don’t have time to shop and with money they get whatever they want…

Choco
12/17/09, 14:49:pm

@ladyA
there is nothing wrong with a lil snow but damn I got things to do this weekend smdh—but I admit a couple of weekends ago when we got snow I was cuddling in bed all day with beau so you gotta point!

Exactly you get my point!…A few weeks ago I was out there when yall got snow and I was looking like ummm ppl freaking out over this???? I guess since my parents live in the mountains that’s normal to us in the winter eventhough I hate driving out there when it snows.

I hope it snows so much that I cant leave my house. I don’t wanna work this weekend….cmon snow!

Broads, skanks, ni**a b**ches, b**ches, h**s, wh**es. . .

@LadyA
LOL I must admit we have become spoiled in the DMV and I think the main reason we hate snow is becuz most folks don’t know how to drive in it…

One thing I have learned from past relationships is how your mate handles your first arguement/fight/debate,etc.

If they fight fair then you may have a keeper. Think back to your failed relationship(s) and think back to your first initial disagreement. How did the person react, what did they say or didn’t say? Where they physicalyy, verbally abusive? Did they stick to issue at hand or did they bring up things not relevant to the topic of discussion.

Just pause to ponder! Merry Christmas

Bg(Failure is the toll you pay for Success)
12/17/09, 14:57:pm

I hope it snows so much that I cant leave my house. I don’t wanna work this weekend….cmon snow!

Smh go to work…It will be funny if yall get flurries…

LOL I must admit we have become spoiled in the DMV and I think the main reason we hate snow is becuz most folks don’t know how to drive in it…
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Note to self: Choco is within “hit” range!

why you being so mean to choco?
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@Lady Architect

She said something slick to me and I just responded and am responding that’s all…

It ain’t about nothing, Sweetie…

Choco
12/17/09, 14:59:pm

@LadyA
LOL I must admit we have become spoiled in the DMV and I think the main reason we hate snow is becuz most folks don’t know how to drive in it…

SMH…I’ve been spoiled down here in VA…I be going to my parents house with my cute lil jackets and get knocked out by the wind and end up sick everytime…you are right…those DMV drivers…uhhhhhh I be yelling out a ton of face curse words…lmao

@JustAnotherThought
Well put and good advice and it did make me pause and ponder-

fake*

@ladyA
I be going to my parents house with my cute lil jackets and get knocked out by the wind and end up sick everytime…
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Can’t be cute all the time huh LOL

Choco
12/17/09, 15:06:pm
Can’t be cute all the time huh LOL

lolol yes my mom tells me this all the time when I get out there, but I have coats for when I snowmobile that keep my warm there….never know who will meet during a 6 1/2 hr journey…may see my future husband out there…lolol

What is wrong with you, really? You’re always battling women. . .

@Slide
Your too young to understand and again honey focus on you – you are really intrigued about me and how I get down….you won’t ever know in the real world so keep your overactive imagination flowing…

@Syd
I stated what was wrong with Slide in my response to LADYA and trust I know this is his case!

@LadyA
Girl you can get warm long coats that look good and my mother to this day gets on me about wearing gloves so much in fact she make sures she gives me a pair….

Choco and Slide…

Seriously???…umm e-battles have been outdated since AOL 2.0…quit it yall…both too grown for this ish..who cares who flirts with who online and ish

I mean, you got on another blogger (who has NEVER confronted anyone on here) for mentioning her father in her posts, which was insensitive beyond belief. . .

RIP…

The sad reality is he had issues..compounded with money and fame…its all very very very sad.

All this nonsense with falling to the hands of a woman and coming up with all these theories. Its about a person being responsible for their actions. He obviously had some anger and behavioral issues.

Nah Don’t stop em!

You have a pea brain that is all….
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@Choco

Pea brain???

What the f*ck kind of conversations does a 20 year old man have with a 40 year old woman???

Y’all should be a VERY different stages of your life, and should be on different sh*t… At least that is what one would think… But judging from your dumb comments I know you’re not too bright and ain’t about sh*t…

WTF do y’all talk about XBOX games and wrestlin’???

Choco,
well I’m in southeast VA versus mountain weather there’s almost a 40degree difference and whn I’m in my car driving for a long time I like to be comfortable…I do have a peacoat.

@LadyA
You are so correct but today I’m in that type of mood he don’t even realize how much he’s assisting me with my own moodiness…

“Nah Don’t stop em!”

No, stop them. This is freaking ridiculous.

*kicks BG off his chair*

@LadyA
Peacoats are in and very cute and I can dig but damn getting sick is a blower….

@Slide
Your to obsessed with me and my life you should get one of your own you just might enjoy it

*scrollin back to see what comment may have caused this*

Choco
12/17/09, 15:18:pm

@LadyA
Peacoats are in and very cute and I can dig but damn getting sick is a blower….

Yup it is but my parents are there to whip up some weird remedies that get me back in shape in no time.

Early day… I’m out

enkogkneegro ( Uncle E…if you like )

Wondering how it is some of ya’ll can make it her fault for having the sense to leave a heated argument and blame her for his dumb a** deciding to jump on a moving truck…..anyone who’d jump on a moving vehicle is unstable and more than likely would have beat that a** probably why she was getting ghost in the first place…….oh but since he was black and she wasn’t it just has to be her fault..WTF
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im with u. why in world would u jump on the back of a moving truck…that was a freak accident waiting to happen. you would think ppl would make better decisions, but i see kids here at school all the time who think its cool to ride on the hood/trunk of a car while its moving. smh

@LadyA
Do share on weird remedies girl lawd knows this over the counter stuff don’t work…

ok are any of the other ladies here addicted to the rugby socks…smh@myself…I love them

lacks the attention he wants from females
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@Choco

You don’t see me on here chasing women “regularly”… If it happens it happens but I’m usually not the aggresor…

I’m good, I don’t need no attention from women online…

You don’t see me making statements to get brownie points from women on the internet… My opinion is actually how I feel… I’m not like some others on here…

@LadyA
ummmm I would vote NO that may only be your thing on the rugby socks LOL but now that you mentioned it I will check them out…
I need them remedies stat pls MA : )

@Lady A

I haven’t tried the rugby socks. How are they?

BTW, ladies, Nordstrom has a great sale on coats underway.

umm e-battles have been outdated since AOL 2.0…quit it yall…both too grown for this ish..
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@Lady Architect

If somebody says something to me I’ma respond accordingly…

If you say something nice to me, I’ma say something nice to you…

If you have a problem with something I said then state your objection respectfully and we can talk about our differences of opinion…

With me, you talk to me however you want = I’ll talk to you however I want and you (the person) will probably not like it…

I’ll admit, I’ve come at some people wrong sometimes… But… Whatever…

@Syd
Nordstroms mmmm I will have to check it out do they show the sales online?

Choco
12/17/09, 15:28:pm

@LadyA
ummmm I would vote NO that may only be your thing on the rugby socks LOL but now that you mentioned it I will check them out…
I need them remedies stat pls MA : )

I’d say buy a really cute pair and find some cute boy shorts to match them and wear it around your beau…

I know 1 remedy they used last time I was home was fresh ginger and sassifrass herbs boiled in water…it’s disgusting but it made my bronchitis go away for sure.

Your to obsessed with me and my life
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@Choco

No dumb b*tch you say and do some VERY odd sh*t on here and think nothings the matter with it…

If you don’t like me, why the f*ck should I care???

I warned your dumb a$$ the other day, but in true dumb b*tch fashion you didn’t listen… Oh well…

s.a.s.s.i.f.r.a.s.s.

Howdy, folks!!!

I think Slide is a DL brotha a real man wouldn’t waste his time arguing with a female!

@Choco

I believe it’s both. There are nice coats on sale for $100 and lower by different designers.

@LadyA
I’d say buy a really cute pair and find some cute boy shorts to match them and wear it around your beau…

I know 1 remedy they used last time I was home was fresh ginger and s*****ifr***** herbs boiled in water…it’s disgusting but it made my bronchitis go away for sure.
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Great advice and yeah I can see how the sock and boy shorts would look real cute will purchase in the very near future….Kudos Boo : )

Hey Day!

Now is a good time for one of your lists, lol.

@Syd
That’s wsup I will be sure to check out…I have so many coats now but I know if I purchase a new one I can donate some to the coat drives they be having in the DMV….

Hey Day

Sydney™
12/17/09, 15:39:pm
Hey Day!

Now is a good time for one of your lists, lol.

What did I do now???

Nothing, Day, you just have a knack for making the ladies swoon, lol.

Can you work some of your magic now?

@Day
Good today seems to be going by quick so that’s a plus…and yourself?

@Choco

Donating a coat is a very nice gesture. I think some charities are hurting this year.

Sydney™
12/17/09, 15:43:pm
Nothing, Day, you just have a knack for making the ladies swoon, lol.

Can you work some of your magic now?
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Yes, I do…Anything for you, bright eyes! LOL! Wazza goin on???

@Syd
Right and I’m tryn to be more community involved this year it’s like GOD is urging me to do so…

Hi Daywalker~` Hows it going.. your boy slide is going strong today!! Oh well. how are you this lovely afternoon?

@Day
I was going back and forth with this lil kid slide becuz today was one those days and the ladies were getting tired of it and while it should’ve deterred me it didn’t I’ll take some of the responsibility…

So whyd he jump on the back of the truck? Thats stupid, tragic but stupid. Talking about her getting life she didn’t force him onto the back of a open truck. Did she even know he had jumped on?

rose by any other name # 9304026339482056536™
12/17/09, 15:49:pm
Hi Daywalker~` Hows it going.. your boy slide is going strong today!! Oh well. how are you this lovely afternoon?
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Hi Rose!! How are ya? What happened with my boy and my boo???

Choco
12/17/09, 15:49:pm
@Day
I was going back and forth with this lil kid slide becuz today was one those days and the ladies were getting tired of it and while it should’ve deterred me it didn’t I’ll take some of the responsibility…
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Now you know you’re waay too beautiful to be stressing ma!! Okay, so ya’ll had a bit of a misunderstanding…It happens…Hell, I get cussed out on a daily basis, and as long as some body doesn’t get too personal, I don’t even care, ma….Now do me a favor and smile…..It looks good on you!!!

@day~~~ Dont want to scrool up and see .. huh!! Well cant knock you for that.. but my name is West and i aint in that mess..Im having a lovely day and it hasnt snowed here yet so im happy as a lark!! i still got my joy!

@Day
I know sweets and truth be told I was smiling at him cuz he was taking it to the left- today was a day where I was in one those moods and him calling all women crazy annoyed me-especially in this thread when we were discussing the possibilities-made my afternoon speed by always a method to my madness ; )

Insane, R.I.P, Blessings to his loved ones, Im sure the woman, will be chared with something,

You’re flying above all the drama, huh, Rose? lol

DL brotha a real man wouldn’t waste his time arguing with a female!
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@Choco

WRONG!!!

I ain’t arguing with you I’m just responding DUMMY, you say something to me am a say something back dumb b*tch…

You ain’t sh*t, I see why those dudes cheated on you…

If you would just shut up and leave me alone then I wouldn’t reply dummy… Try using your brain this time around…

If you do it, it’s alright but if I do it then it’s not, get the f*ck outta here…

WOW Slide honey you need a hug — you sound very angry and bitter…but ya gets none from me LOL – I’m sitting over here laughing at you

Choco
12/17/09, 16:06:pm
@Day
I know sweets and truth be told I was smiling at him cuz he was taking it to the left- today was a day where I was in one those moods and him calling all women crazy annoyed me-especially in this thread when we were discussing the possibilities-made my afternoon speed by always a method to my madness ; )
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Well, in my opinion, all women aren’t crazy…I think a lot of what men put em through makes them that way, though…And to be honest, guys do some pretty crazy stuff themselves….(I have personally went to a club in my pajamas and slippers and carried a chick I was dating outta there just because I got ticked off before…So yeah, we do dumb stuff too!! LOL!!!)

@Sydney..i i fly above.. i i fly above! Love khandi’s song.. got it on my ring tone.. but slides has me cracking up .. i dunno i guess im just in a laughing mood~!!

@Day
Your mind has matured that is why you can remain neutral and that is why most people gravitate to what you say…and all women aren’t crazy I mean does this dude have a mother-it baffles me how men can put women down as if they didn’t come from one…but thats his issue not mine…

Day, you had on your pajamas AND your slippers? LOL!

@Rose

You made me chuckle with that song reference. It’s beneath me. . .it’s beneath me. . .

But back to the remedies thing, though…If you have a stopped up nose and a cold in your throat, I can tell ya how to get rid of it in a day, if you guys want…..

@Day
I am suffering from sinus problems so yeah what to do what to do…

@daywalker, you are right , you guys do some dumb stuff.. i had an ole Bf who was so hooked, we use to go to this bar to shoot pool> They had a football pool where you put your name in the square after you pay, this fool bought 7 squares and filled them in with good pu–y lu!! and everybody said ., who is that and this fool ,looks over at me and i was so embarrassed for him not me!! not to mention the good pu–y square won and that fool kept the money.. he won 200 hundred dollars off that name.. what a jerk!

Never settle. Especially if your family hates the indivisual. There are always warning signs. Follow your heart. Don’t get caught up in the idea of being alone. There is someone for everyone. God made it like that. You just have to look…….If the relationship is toxic in away just leave it alone.

See daywalker .. how crazy you men can be.. but that fool wasnt crazy enough not to keep the money and didnt give me a penny.. offered to buy me a drink and i dont even drink.. what a loser and he wondered why i kciked him to the curb!!

Thats why its best to keep some things to your self!!!!!AMEN!! Hallluerrhhh!!!

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personal information about you .. keep to ones self////AMEN_________________________!!! not personal .. stupid incident!!!!

Anyway..rolls eye on the contradiction…

@Day
Thanks no bad aftertaste?

Daywalker.. I love your incident i know they looked at you crazy walikng in the club in PJ’s and house slippers…. where they the fuzzy furry bunny rabbit kind? tee hee!

rose by any other name # 9304026339482056536™
12/17/09, 16:29:pm
See daywalker .. how crazy you men can be.. but that fool wasnt crazy enough not to keep the money and didnt give me a penny.. offered to buy me a drink and i dont even drink.. what a loser and he wondered why i kciked him to the curb!!
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Dang!! I woulda at least broke you off somethin…That is cheap…

whatever.. rolls eyes on what ever the hell you think!! incident and personal information .. two different things.. anyway.. rolling the heck out of my eyes for but in skis!

@Day

LOL, we’ve all had our embarrassing moments, particularly when emotions are involved.

I’m sorry, but the vision of you in your PJ’s and slippers entering a club is comical.

@Daywalker.. i hear you but that fool didnt see it that way….. but we all got a big laugh out of because everyone that knows him knows hes a fool!

Choco
12/17/09, 16:42:pm
Anyway..rolls eye on the contradiction…

@Day
Thanks no bad aftertaste?
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No worse than eating some really spicy food, but I’d recommend doing it in the bathroom so that you can rinse your mouth out, though…Other than that, it works like a charm…
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rose by any other name # 9304026339482056536™
12/17/09, 16:42:pm
Daywalker.. I love your incident i know they looked at you crazy walikng in the club in PJ’s and house slippers…. where they the fuzzy furry bunny rabbit kind? tee hee!
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Nah, they were the black leather ones with the toes out…The bouncer was like:

“Sir, I can’t let you in like that…”

I was like don’t worry, doc…I won’t be in here for long…

I threw 20 bucks on the stand, rolled up in that joint, and carried ol’ girl out….

A n*ggah was mad!! LOL!!!

In retrospect, I shoulda ordered a damn drink!!

“Nah, they were the black leather ones with the toes out…The bouncer was like:

“Sir, I can’t let you in like that…”

I was like don’t worry, doc…I won’t be in here for long…

I threw 20 bucks on the stand, rolled up in that joint, and carried ol’ girl out….”

—————-DEAD——————–

And, on that note, I’m out. Have a good one, all!

some women are so STUPID and aint wort a quarter you women turned this man Death to a fight about what colour a black man should DATE ridiculous. Good women in all races Excist so black women aint stronger than white women and white women aint stronger or better than black women and at this moment both of yall stupid

im out to .. cant hang no more with crap.. but @ daywalker and Sydney you 2 have a good evening.. peace be with you 2!!!

contradition.. lmbao~~~ m.a.s.s.!!! for sure!!

rose by any other name # 9304026339482056536™
12/17/09, 17:01:pm
im out to .. cant hang no more with crap.. but @ daywalker and Sydney you 2 have a good evening.. peace be with you 2!!!
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Bye, hun!! Be safe, and Merry Christmas!! (Hugs)

where is everybody> I see my friend slides is handing out a## whippings today.

This is SO SAD for SO MANY REASONS!!!

OH MY! I hope this chick faces charges. These females are getting out of control. Another sad story.

Who cares what her race is. She was leaving the situation and HE JUMPED ONTO THE BACK OF A MOVING VEHICLE! That was a horrible choice becuase now he has lost his life. Always better to just walk away. Very very sad.

Who cares!My girlfriend also agrees with me. She is a black big female, We met online at interracial club ___**B l a c k W h i t e M i n g l e. cOm**______ It’s fabulous! Maybe you wanna check out or tell your friends.FREE TO JOIN…fffffddd

We have to start focusing on violence against men just as we do for women.
He was a human being and she could have stopped the vehicle.
People need to take a hard look at the person they want to be involved with before they take that step.
RIP.

@ chzz

“We have to start focusing on violence against men just as we do for women.
He was a human being and she could have stopped the vehicle.
People need to take a hard look at the person they want to be involved with before they take that step.
RIP.”

I agree with you 100%.

RIP

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