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first!!! love robin thickeeeeeee =]

yay!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11

Congrats ya’ll!!!

good for them!

didnt we know this already ?

AWW CONGRATS.

White men with black women are not as common in America as you might expect. Even though an eighth of American women are black, fewer than one married white man in 400 has a black wife! That cannot be an accident. Compare that to how many have Asian wives: about one in 100 – even though there are way fewer Asian women.

Given the numbers of white, black and Asian women there are in America and looking at who white men marry, you can work out how much they like different kinds of women as wives:

132: white women
100: American women in general
23: Asian women
2: black women
So why do so few white men marry black women?

Here are some reasons that you hear:

Lack of opportunity: Most white men live in a nearly all-white world. Most know only a few black women.
Lack of education in black women: White men look for women with the same level of education. That limits the number of black women they might date and marry even further.
Lack of good looks in black women: Most white men think black women are not all that good looking when compared to white women. That comes across in their phrase “good-looking for a black girl”. And you see it in their lists of beautiful women on the Internet: they have few if any black women and those they do have tend to be light-skinned. An amazing-looking black woman can walk right by a white man without him batting an eye.
Lack of friendliness of black women: White men tend to see black women as being hard to get along with – the Sapphire stereotype. It is just not worth the trouble.
Lack of acceptance among white friends and family: White men are afraid of what their friends or family will say. Whites are less accepting of mixed relationships, especially mixed marriages, than blacks are.
Lack of desire among black women: Among Americans, black women are the least likely to marry outside their race.
That last one is dead wrong. Look at the percentage of married Americans in 2006 who were married outside their race:

19.5 Asian women
8.4 black men
7.2 Asian men
3.6 black women
2.2 white men
1.9 white women
It is white people who stick most to their own kind, not black women – or even Asian men.

The other reasons have some truth to them, but notice how they never seem to blame white men.

They all avoid the simplest reason of all, the one that you hardly ever hear:

White men are racist: They do not want their sons and daughters to be black. Not because their parents are against it, not because their friends are against it, not because white society is against it – because they themselves are against it!
As white people put it, “What about the children?” As if it was some terrible thing to be black! Well, to a white racist it is.

I’m all for love with whom ever loves you totally colorblind but that post was for the bitter sistas always talking about come on over to the white side they’ll treat you much better than black men, they see us as exotic and so on. This was a study done among white men, those same me who the bitter portray as their White Knights there to save them from the evil black man…..its a 06 study but I doubt that much has changed overall but if any more recent info is available I’ll post it…Don’t want some of my sistas to sound so bitter and ignorant…..

They will make a BEAUTIFUL family!

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@Darkesthourglass

I agree 100& and being biracial myself understand that its the mans charachter not his color thats important and I’ve seen men and women on both sides within my own family be stellar husbands and wives and vice versa. I want my daughter and grandchildren to be happy and treated well by whomever they chose to have in their lives period. The reality is that only 8% of black men date or marry outside their race and 2% of black women which is what 4 to 1 brothas swirling more than sistas its still only 8% of black men so why does that 8% percent get more acknowledgement than the 70% that don’t ( 22% deducted for gay or DL brothas ). Most black women don’t have relationships with white men so how can they be authorities of how white men treat sistas ( ( I suspect from other uninformed women or to many celebrity sites )who could care less if what they are saying but feel the need to throw something in a brothas face or have a get back for a overly perceived diss of black women. there is dissconnect between black men and black women and I don’t think its by accident. I can see why certain entities would love nothing more than the disolve of the black family structure by why do wee feed into it with such ferver. The media doesn’t promote the positive contributions of black people near as much as its failures and if going by our own black publications,radio shows, television shows and blogs neither do we…..why????

I should have spell checked but I’m sure you get what I’m saying……Lata

Looking back at the percentages its not quite 4 to 1 but more like 3 to 1 not that it changes the fact that more black men than women chose to be with women other than sistas. However when you filter out those that were raised in predominately white areas, work in white predominately fields or attend predominately white Colleges or Universties that dramatically cuts down the pecentage of selfhating individuals who marry or date outside of their race because they think it provides status……

someone needs a life cough uncle e

@eskonegro

I usually agree with you but now I think you are kinda hating. Did you ever think that maybe the reason their aren’t as many black chicks with white guys was because of peer pressure from the black community? I know when I would walk around with my hottie from baldwin hills black guys would always stare us down and maybe have something to say, often times even hitting on her like I wasn’t even there.

awww i love these two, i’m sure the little one will be cute and loved

Paula is so beautiful! Congrats!

@White Male

I think you misunderstood the post because the point was to illustrate that with all of the hullabalu about about swirling that most black women at least up in here have this unrealistic view of black men and rather than appreciate those that are there for them they belittle them because of the actions of what a few have chosen to do. In breaking it down it finds that the majority of people who swirl do so for love which is as it should be as with my parents who I don’t think would have found a more perfect partner if it was about color only. The way the survey broke down just reflected the reality of things as they are and may be for a while. Half my family is white, father white, two brother in-laws white, an Asian, a white and black daughter in-laws so race never has and never will be a defining issue in any relationship me or my family has. The point like I said was for the sistas that like to come in here yapping about how well they’d be treated by white men as opposed to black men and urging sistas to cut ties with brothas only to find that the vast field of white men checking for sistas they tout is really only a minority. I’m not implying they won’t find a white man that’ll treat them right but its gonna be a hit or miss situation no different than what they’ve experienced with brothas but that if they think theres slim pickings amongst the brothas they are in for a suprise at how many few white men are really checking for them. I quite often spoke to black women regarding it and most just aint feeling white men like that but I think it has less to do with peer preasure and more with environment and accessibility to another culture. Those sistas that spend the majority of their lives emersed in predominately black culture most often than not travel in black circles where the men they meet will more than likely be black, the men friends hook them up with will also be black and so on. Sistas who travel out into the world or run in multi cultural circles are least resistant to swirling if she finds a connection. There may be a small issue of peer fear but I don’t give it much weight, besides I’m from the area you mentioned and thats hood today and everyday so what did you expect???? My sons have gone thru that with their wives so like I said its more to do with environment because walking with you hottie unless she’s drop dead gorgeous in certain areas like Santa Monica lets say tou won’t even draw a glance..

@Yesssir

I have a very good life thanks for being concerned though but I got this…..

Fair enough E, you sound like you know more about it than me.

Dont be white and stop do mixed kids!

THIS DUDE JACKED JOHN B FOR HIS STYLE,
WITH A LITTLE MAXWELL IN IT,YOULL NEVER
BE ON THE COVER OF VIBE.REAL REAL TALK

Wooow… the comments on this site is awful!

@ enkogkneegro ( Uncle E )

U gotta b kidding me right?????? I havent read one comment on here wear a sista said anything about wm r better! How did this post become talking about bw in their personal relationships from this beautiful couple anouncing the gender of their unborn child??? Seems to me like u r a bit jealous! Danm… blk women can’t neva be happy!!! You always got tht 1 person who just gotta find sumthin wrong! Or have sumthin to say!!! We all know african american men date out more then the sista’s! YOU DIDN’T HAVE TO REMIND BLACK WOMEN as if there’s a competition on who can date out the most! WE KNOW THAT!!! WHO CARREEESSS????? I mean you gave satistics and listed an entire page of all the reasons why other races wouldn’t date a bw! Then u had the audacity to say bw or least desirable! Baby!!! It’s a world epidemic tht you have women all over the world tht want to look like us, enhance their bodies and most of all be us!!! To me it seems as if you r tryin to put bw in check or by finding an easier way to discourage them from dating out! Any man regardless of race would neva turn down a beautiful woman of any race. Therefore the Statistic’s are INVALID!!!! In by the way most African American women r not simply Attracted to caucasion men or Asians.

ROBIN THICKE AKA THE WHITE TAYE DIGGS. THIS IS A COUPLE WHO ARE TRULY IN LOVE. ROBIN THICKE SACRIFICED ACCEPTANCE OF WHITE PEOPLE AND TO AN EXTENT ALOT OF HIS SUCCESS. I MIGHT BE WRONG BUT I DONT THINK HE IS UP FOR A GRAMMY THIS YEAR AND I AS RACIST AS I AM I GOT TO GIVE THE BOY PROPS. I THINK HAD HE BEEN MARRIED TO A WHITE CHICK IT WOULD BE SKYS THE LIMIT BUT HE MARRIED A MULATTO SO THE LIMITS THE SKY LOL. INTERRACIAL MARRIAGES AND RELATIONSHIPS HAVE HIGHER SUCCESS RATES AND I WOULD ASSERT THAT BECAUSE THE RELATIONSHIPS ARE PUT TO THE TEST PEOPLE ARE OFTEN DISOWNED BY THEIR FAMILIES BECAUSE THEY LOVE SOMEONE OF A DIFFERENT RACE. I WILL SAY THIS IM GLAD THEY HAVING A BOY AND I WONDER ARE THEY GONE RAISE HIM BLACK OR WHITE HOPEFULLY THEY WONT GIVE HIM THE NEW TRADITIONAL HALFBREED KID HAIRSTYLE YOU KNOW THE MOP TOP. ANYWAY I STILL GOTTA HATE OLE MASTER FINALLY GAVE KIZZY A BABY MAYBE THEY SHOULD NAME HIM CHICKEN GEORGE. I WONDER WILL HE BE BORN FREE OR WILL HIS FATHER LET HIM JUST HAVE THE SAME LAST NAME. OR WILL HE HAVE HIM BEATEN IF THE BOY TRIES TO CONNECT WITH HIS WHITE SIBLINGS.

HEY VIEWER GO EAT A D1CK

@Viewer

You are way off base with you understanding of my post and it might be the “attacking a sista syndrome” so many up in here suffer from.

I have always maintained that the MAJORITY of black men prefer, date, marry, love and are with BLACK women…..the survey bares that out……

If we gonna be real about it and not just brotha against sista had I not posted the study so early in the post being honest you know very damn well the usual sistas or those claiming to be sistas would have been up in here with that f*** a black man diatribe as they always do saying ditch black men and get with a white man because they treat you like queens is actually what prompted me to post it.

No where in my post did I say black women weren’t attractive or that nobody wanted them. What the study showed was that among WHITE MEN they were less desirable than women of other races. that does not men that the few that do find the attractive won’t treat them right because one never knows however for those sistas who shout abandon black men and run to white men why are they misleading them from a large pool of available men with the promise of this vast new world where white men are in abundance waiting to lavish sistas with jewels and trips to the Riviera when in reality though there are some they are very,very few.

The study also shows that as much as some may think that white women just have to have a brotha…they really don’t which should give notice also that most brothas stay at home with black women.

This survey had a bit of something for everyone to take heed to, give a better account of who’s swirling and why, to shut down those sistas with the f*** a brotha cause the white man is dying to love you mantra when the majority of them aren’t….The survey was taken amongst white males and these are their concerns and remarks……so if you or any other sista feels the study knocked them or subtly said they are the least attractive or desired again this survey wasn’t the response of brothas but of the white men some are telling you to run to be mad at them….

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tell the truth incogneegro. the sistas don’t want to hear it. them white men don’t want them. the ghetto ones just hope they do just so they can have babies wit ‘gud hair’ bwahahahhaha!

@ enkogkneegro ( Uncle E )
@ Reality

Wooow…. u r crazy! First of all majority of black women don’t care about tht! Most bw prefer to marry/date a black man. When a blk woman reaches to a level of great success in life who do she want to marry????? Black man!!! A bm who reaches a great deal of success you cannot pay him to date a bw unless she’s light, bright or white as my mom would say! If anybody date out to have kids with so called (good hair) would be who????? I really don’t care who dates who! I’m in my very 1st interracial relationship myself (my bf is cuban/puerto rican) he looks white. Neva in my life thought I would date other then bm bcuz I never was interested in dating anything but blk, it really never crossed my mind! I think ppl just need to mind their business.

shes so pretty, i love her eyes and congrats on the soon to be baby!

I’m in love with a beautiful white man who loves and adores me. I don’t care what anybody thinks about it. There are many white men who prefer black women. I tired of society and bitter black man trying to convince us that nobody want us and we should be grateful if they give us a small amount of attention. Black men don’t hesitate to date and marry outside their race and sisters if you’re smart you won’t either.

@Viewer
@ Happy

Its clear sista you didn’t read my posts to understand the message but rather picked thru it for the sake of arguing because if you had you’d have read where I stated the followingthe following.

I’m bi-racial

My father is white mother black

I don’t think she would have found the perfect fit for her had she went strictly by skin color

My family is one of the most diverse and someones race has never been a factor nor will it ever be for me nor anyone in my family when it comes to falling in love

If you are happy in your relationship I’m happy for you…you also Happy..

Like I said earlier the post that contained the survey had something for everyone brothas and sistas.

Where you say black women who make it marry black….. the survey pretty much says that..

The point I always try to make regarding most brothas marry black……the survey pretty much says that..

Where you ran off the track was in thinking I hate on black women that date outside of their race………..Not only do I not hate on them or whomever they are with but I can actually care less.

White male mistook the post as percieved diss of white males who date sistas because he dates sistas or hating on his choice of who he dates……My mom made the best choice for her and I’m glad she did…..but the survey showed the truth as it stands now and as it stood then the majority of my fathers friends weren’t feeling it when he did it and from the survey somethings haven’t changed much but guess what he didn;t care…

1. I posted it to show that black men don’t swirl as much as so many of the black women up in here think and like to throw out everyother post.

2. That with sistas swirling even less and the majority of black men not swirling….the majority of us are with us.

3. For all of the sistas or those claiming to be sistas that yell fire and encourage other sistas to abandon blackmen like they have the plague and run to white men that if they think the pickings are slim amongst black men its even slimmer among white men that will date a sista. It didn’t say a sista shouldn’t be happy with a non brotha if they find love….it simply says that the overwhelming majority of white men won’t date black women and it listed the reasons WHITE MEN gave.

The survey showed that most white women ain’t checking for brothas and most brothas ain’t checking for them. the added bonus was for the run to a white man shouters because it also showed the majority..MAJORITY ain’t checking for them…..you got love be happy and pay attention to the message not the messenger…you jumped all over something you didn’t read or understand to defend your choice of a mate or husband even though there was nothing there attacking it……

I knew these jealous BM would be up in here hating..BM are so threatened and insecure when a BW marries or dates outside the Black race. Robin Thicke is a fine sucessful White Man that has the same and even better swag than most BM and they hate it..he also has beautiful faithful Black Wife that’s in love with her White hisband and ain’t thinking about these BM…of course these jealous isecure little Black boys are gonna try to run up in here with all these so called statistics and myths about what WM like or dislike..actually you make yourselves sound gay bring all up in other man’s business and commenting about what they like or dislike. BW and WM are a growing trend regardless how much these pathetic crybabies want to admit it.

@Happy…this is the typical jealous scorned BM response.
There are plenty of WM that love BW and these clowns know it but they do everything they can to keep us away from finding this out..but many BW are onto this jealous clingy behavior by BM and only laugh at their stupid efforts..ya’ll can’t keep us from loving the White Chocolate guys so save your breath! Whether BM want to admit it or not lots of us prefer WM for many reasons and all your whining crying and yelling won’t change that fact.

@Whitemale..enkonegro is just another jealous BM that can’t stand to see a beautiful BW/WM couple..most of them have one tactic or another to tyr to stop BW from pursuing WM..his is just more ”legal” as opposed to the thugs that attack and in some cases even kill BW/WM couples..im sure most of us know about the couple that was attacked in New York by Black thugs and let’s not forget the BW/WM married couple that were killed by jealous Black thugs in San Diego. Black Men’s egos are severely damaged when they see a BW in a relationship with a White Man and they go ballistic..don’t ever let ANY of them tell you different..they feel like less than Men when they see couples like Robin Thicke. You can go to any black website and read all trhe horrible shyt they say about BW like Paula, Halle, Garcelle, Eve, Jessica White etc..don’t let these liars fool you!BM want the world to think all us BW just want them and are willing to resort to murder and violence to keep this lie going..except the more BW venture out this myth is crumbling all around them.

@ enkogkneegro: Thanks for posting that info. I found it to be very informative.