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Eddie yuh nah ready….

for goodness sake Mel B, handle your business behind closed doors.

so sick of this broad publicly bashing eddie. He is a deadbeat dad. we get it.

there is nothing the public can do. very unclassy

Eddie ought to be ashamed of himself, for real…

The D**k must’ve been real good!

She needs to shut-up and move on.

Hell she is with someone else who seems to love Angel like his own. So what’s the problem?

The bottom line is Eddie didn’t want that baby and Mel was a good f***. Its sad but true. I have a feeling she knew the deal before she hit the sheets.

I don’t know why she is trippin the checks aint goin to ever stop coming in. So Mel sit tight before you play yourself!

SMH Eddie “I love transvestites and Johnny Gill” Murphy. The baby is so cute. But Mel knew what she was getting into. This sounds like a publicity stunt and a bad idea.

LOL…want to hear this mess, but Mel girl, love ya! But you knew Eddie wasn’t bout shyt when he denied that baby and took it all the way to court, knowing he was bobbing in there raw. Let it go…starting to sound like that scorned woman!

As for Eddie…special place in hell for you bruh! Special place in hell…and by the way Charlie Murphy is funnier than you!

Go head and put that track out Mel! You put his ass on blast, I don’t blame you, he sitting round there taking care of his other kids, and he not married to their mother anymore but he can’t take care of your one daughter, hell take his ass to court and save that money for your baby girl, cause you really don’t need it right now….

lol

beverly hills cock!!!

Ya’ll crack me up with that “she knew this and that” PUHLEEZ! Does everyone say that to Nicole Murphy because their divorce fell apart “you knew you were messing with a homosexual” And Nicole Murphy has nothing to say because her kids are taken care of, why are we even taking it lightly that this man isn’t their for his daughter…damn shame…

Luv Eddie!!!!

but he gotta handle his buisness and take care of those kids. Mel has a right to be angry if he is being a dead beat father.

I certainly can empathize with her frustration but publicly bashing him for being a deadbeat dad is not going to get her the results she really wants. Character is not something you can make a man have. Leave it alone.

@LdyK…I was just about to say that….Tracey Edmonds and their fake ass wedding, I’m happy for her tha she didn’t get knocked up by this tranny loving dead beat dad….SMH

Mel B get over it TODAY…Do you bash your current husband for being a dead beat as well? Last I heard he was a bit behind in child support for his children….Speaking of HUSBAND concentrate on what you have not what you think you lost WE GET IT EDDIE A DEAD BEAT DADDY. STOP THE BABY MOMMA DRAMA RAISE YOUR DAUGHTER!!!!! Try and be like the Ex of Eddie take the high road and keep it pushin’

Mel sure is Scary Spice. This whole situation is scary and messy at best. The real victim is the little girl and that is where her concetration should be. Karma comes back and Eddie will get his. She needs to focus on being a good single mom to her kid.

If this was one of my girlfriends and she wanted to publicly bash her Baby Dad I would tell her no, but since this is hollywood, and they are all up in your business anyway? Hell why not?? This could damage his career, with the media knowing that he is a dead beat, and that probably makes Mel B smile …so I say DO IT!

marquis

that is what I am saying..If young chicks had their father’s, or real men in their lives…they wouldn’t be setting out the ass! It is better to start raising kids the way the are suppose to be raised..before young girls turn into hussies like the 14 year old!!

dummy!

and KELLS has his own 3 daughters to raise! ASSHOLE!

…And how is Eddie a deadbeat father? He’s paying the court ordered child support. He has gone on record as stating that as long as Mel B is in the picture, he’ll have no contact with his daughter. After she’s 18 and on her own, it will be her choice whether she wants to build a relationship with him. Do i condone his decision, no, but i understand his position. I reiterate, don’t go and trap someone into fatherhood who doesn’t want it.

I doubt Eddie’s a deadbeat, because Im sure he’s apying for the child still. We may find it distastetful but he made it clear he never wanted a child w/ Mel and now that its proven he has one he’s paying for the child’s upkeep and handsomely at that. You can’t force the man to be a “father”. Nor should you force anyone who truly doesnt care for a child to be actvely engaged in the child’s life – that’s just a recipe for disaster.

Finally Mel is married and the child as far as she knows has a “father” – Stephen Belafonte. The kid’s already better off than most kids in this country, so let it go.

If that’s the case, then Eddie made a poor choice to not use protection or have a vasectomy. He was not “trapped” into having a child. He knew he didn’t want more children…he should have handled his business. Don’t make the poor girl suffer through life not having a bond with her natural father and then say “See me when you turn 18″. That’s callous and careless.

I wonder if Eddie gave any thought to how this baby is going to feel growing up knowing she has siblings that Eddie supports financially and emotionally, but doesn’t do the same for her.

For all ya’ll trifin no nothing fools, Mel has her own money…Maybe even more than that Eddie. I mean how much money can he have really have left after he’s done paid out all that child support with his other baby momma???

Go figure!

…And all those who think that paying child support disqualifies a man from being a deadbeat dad are living in a fantasy world. It takes love, support and finances to properly raise a child. You can’t be a good parent without being there for your child.

@ Lauren

I agree with everything you said. Regardless of what happened between them, they have a child and he should be in her life not just paying child support. Whoever said he’ll wait until after she’s 18, well isn’t that great for him. He gets to come in her life after all the hard work of raising her has been done? I don’t think so!!! I never thought Eddie was the selfish, immature, deadbeat type, but I guess I was wrong. And if you’re not using protection with a woman you can’t say she trapped you.

I WOULDA NEVA LEFT MEL B DAM SHE GOT BODY ANDA JOB

http://www.myspace.com/thagrindaholic

I STAY IN GRIND MODE

She played herself. They were dating for what 2 weeks and then she got pregnant? The man was just coming off a divorce and you were a jump off trying to turn yourself into a wife. Stop gurl please. Collect your checks and STFU!!!!

If you hoes think eddie murphy isnt sending this fine ass b*tch money every month then youre stupid, I guarantee you shes getting at least $25,000 per month in child support, if she wasnt and he was a real deadbeat dad that sh*t would be all over TMZ, Access Hollywood and Entertainment tonight. so just because she said it doesnt make it true, he didnt want a kid with her but she had one anyway.

Im not taking up for Eddie in the least bit about being in his childs life, but i think he’s far from a deadbeat dad, besides she has that new broke fake belafonte n*gga now (thats not his real last name)

Um she has every right to put him on blast. He takes care of his other 10 kids with the chick he accepted and he has another one from a previous relationship he takes care of so why not this one??? Eddie was actually DATING Mel B. Why are yall making her to be a jump off. He got a “lighter, prettier” chick Tracey and he started acting like he aint know the baby could be his. That ish has to be heartbreaking to a woman. He’s rich so he deserves to be badgered for being a dead beat because it is totally unacceptable when you taking care of a million other kids.

@6AM….A good father is one who supports his child just financially?? I don’t think so…don’t you think this little girl has a right to know who her daddy is…and Mel B said he doesn’t bother with his child, not he doesn’t pay child support…just he never sees her, how do you pay thousands of dollars for someone you never see, he is cheating himseld as well as the little girl.

@ Marquis de Sade(Check me out!)

I won’t disrespect anyone here by cursing or calling anyone out of name. You must have misunderstood my post because not once did I fault a man for causing a woman to have a child out of wedlock.

I did however, say that it’s as much a man’s responsibility as it is a woman’s to take precautions. Stop it with the tired “I was trapped” excuse. It’s old and it’s illogical. Your argument doesn’t make sense and if it doesn’t make sense it’s probably foolishness.

End of discussion.

This comments make me sick. Can we get equal right s for men?

Tula, I’m just me and Lauren.

It’s his 7th child. If Mel wanted him to be a doting dad she should have had a baby with a guy with NO KIDS!

She wanted a check …she got one (remember this was done BEFORE the Spice Girls reunion.

As for him taking it to court for DNA …u ladies have to be trippin to think that a wealthy man would not ask for DNA. Why we gotta be victims?

EVERY REAL WOMAN SHOULD ASK THAT DNA BE STANDARD!!!

@ Richard, I don’t see a problem with him asking for DNA, but now that its his baby, he acts like”oh they found out this is my car so let me start making payment on it” NOPE, not okay. She is a part of him, and him not wanting her to see his family and him not wanting to spend time with her is inexcusable, now I agree that she cannot force him to do that, but why not put him on BLAST??? She is standing up for all women who have fathers who think they are doing osmething by just PAYING for the child…SMDH….It takes a lot more than money to raise a child people…

I can’t say I blame Eddie for having a paternity test. If I was not married to my husband when I became pregnant, he would’ve been well within his rights to ask for proof. But I don’t understand condoning Eddie’s decision by saying his other children’s mothers haven’t complained. If he denies supporting one child to the fullest, then that’s one child too many.

I do disagree with Mel B.’s practice of airing dirty laundry in public. Private family matters should be handled in private.

Its sad that his daughter will read how he didn’t want her and hate him one day.

Marquis, I am strong Black woman, and I totally agree with you.

@ lauren

You are making the assumption that he can pick her up or see her without the mother.

few fathers love SOME of their kids although it happens. He is trying to stay away from her crazy ass because we don’t know what she has in mind for him when he comes over.

I know a guy who was charged with assault because he pushed his baby mama out of his house as she tried to force her way in and he has not slept with her in 6 years.

Once you experience crazy you will do anything to stay away. The fact that Eddie has 300 million means he has to constantly watch out for women with a hidden agenda.

Tracey didn’t want marriage with a pre-nup …..

You all need to stop that trash. Mel B gold digging behind wanted a baby so she got it. Eddie has always been said to be a wonderful father to his children, so we should wonder why he’s not present in this one childs life. Mel B thought she was going to get the ring and the money and when she didnt she married the other clown. I’m so sick and tired of black gossip sites caling other black out of their name and making inflamatory comments about their sexuality that they can’t prove, and is none of their business anyway. I’m going to tell alll the woman on this site the same thing I tell my daughter. If you decide you want to have a baby against the mans wishes be prepared to raise your baby. As woman we need to stop playing the victim and stop playing games with these babies because at the end of the day the children a the one who get hurt. In Short ” STOP HAVING BABIES UNTIL YOU GET A HUSBAND”.

Wow, its funny how you people can excuse this man for not being a whole man and being a half a man and being their for some of his kids but not all…WOW…

“Its sad that his daughter will read how he didn’t want her and hate him one day.”pm

It’s even sadder that she will also see and learn what her mother did and not in her defense. Ed can explain his situation and he has backup (mags, blogs, etc). I would like to know how Mel is going to handle this when Angel calls her ass out.

It doesn’t matter if the baby was premeditated or accidental. The point is the child is here. There is a pregnancy risk with every intimate contact. Mumh? I’m sure this trysexual is taking care of his daughter monetary wise. lol He’s just missing out on the important things….like her day to day growth & that’s pitiful. Eddie needs to man UP …literally. lol

few fathers love SOME of their kids although it happens. He is trying to stay away from her crazy ass because we don’t know what she has in mind for him when he comes over.

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EXCUSES LIKE THIS IS ALL BABY ANGEL WILL GET…SMDH…

Let’s face it, Eddie’s not a dummy and he has the money to keep a mean legal team.

Both parties could meet at a neutral location such as the office of a court advocate. He does not have to pick the baby up from the mother’s home nor does he have to tolerate a media spectacle. He has rights too should he choose to assert them.

Unfortunately lauren, we do not live in a perfect world. There are men out here who are fathers and because of some silly chick, they have no idea!! Ever heard of that? Yeah, there are some crazy broads out there and Mel fits that bill to a tee. After two years, she is still on this and all you (lauren) can come up with is ..WHAT EXCUSE DOES HE HAVE FOR NOT SPENDING TIME WITH HIS DAUGHTER? THE FACT THAT HE DOESN’T LIKE MEL B? GET OVER EDDIE, THATS YOUR BABY, YOU’RE TOO OLD TO BE ACTING LIKE THAT ….

Sorry Lauren, but you lose.

Unforturnately women make their lives harder by the way they are. A few nights stand turned into a child circus and the child is not benefiting in any way by what her mother is doing here. Like I said, Ed can change his mind at anytime and see this child, but Mel will never be able to undo the damage she is causing/has caused as a result of her PETTINESS

It’s even sadder that she will also see and learn what her mother did and not in her defense. Ed can explain his situation and he has backup (mags, blogs, etc). I would like to know how Mel is going to handle this when Angel calls her ass out.

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Mel B is obviously reaching out to Eddie for him to spend time with his kid. I would be proud if I were Mel B and her daughter should be too knowing that mommy wanted daddy to come around but daddy chose not to. He can’t say the same…its funny how some women keep the father away from the child out of spite but here you see it when a woman wants him to be around then, he doesn’t want to be…SAD

Sorry Lauren, but you lose.

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lol..I didn’t know we were competing. But the only one who has lost here is the child, because she will never know who her real daddy is unless she turns on DREAMGIRLS or THE NUTTY PROFESSOR…smdh

I tell brothas all the time to throw out the assumption of reasonable expectation of having sex with most sistas for recreation. They no not the meaning. Most of you might as well place a sign above your coochie stating: ABANDON HOPE, ALL YE WHO ENTER! All you’re asking for is 18 years of aggravation and headaches. That’s why i date black women or women in general and avoid the sub-species of their gender.

Hey Lauren ..was busy with work!

She didn’t think that out too clearly,and what impact his actions would have on her image/career. Im am happy that she finally woke up.

Did anybody hear the interview that Johnny Gill gave talking about the “ceremony” we all know he’s somewhere on Eddie’s payroll…. what a puppet?!

@ Corperate Cutie

Exactly. Well except the fact that Bill was a deadbeat to the child he had outside of his marriage so he’s a hypocrite.

I have said it before and will say it again. Mel B is a simple something that is using this entire made for blog situation to jump start her critically ill career.

Eddie may be suspect in some areas but parenting and family HAS NEVER been it. Mel’s claim to fame is that she had a baby by eddie. I do not believe for a minute that he hasn’t done right by that baby. Most of you are unaware of the fact that Mel got a cease and disissit (sp?) slapped on her last year because of her lies.

Eddie doesn’t want to be bothered with MEL B and her Z rate con artist husband.

Some of you should stop transposing your personal situations onto this.

Eddie is a big star, baby….Tranny loving or not.

Mel B is English trash…sorry

Keesh you are wrong boo. That little crazy girl WAS NOT Bill’s. DNA test proved it. And another error you made. Mr. Cosby took care of her up until she got brand new, didn’t want to go to college and still wanted cheese. It was then that she tried to extort him and got clowned when it was released that she wasn’t his…and that it had been a well known fact that she wasn’t.

He just took care of her because her optios were limited and he had messed with her mother. Damn….get the facts right.

@ ENVY ME

I still would have to disagree with you. I’m not saying that Mel B. is using her baby to keep Eddie (who would? I wouldn’t!!!) but the baby is here and he should take responsibility….

Mel could have easily aborted lil Angel but chose not to because she realized that this child didn’t ask to be brought into this world and is now her and Eddie’s responsibility.

Broke a$$ Eddie can still go out and poke anybody if he choses to BUT please take care of your responibility. (Man, he did it for his FIVE other kids, why not one more???)

I personally don’t have any kids either BUT I’ve seen both worlds and the responsible parents (plural) usually have a better outcome.

@ baeyaki

Okay so he’s not deadbeat dad, just an adulterer. I guess better.

Not really, I was being sarcastic.

That’s why Eddie and Tracy didn’t work out. Karma Baby! Children need more that checks in the mail. He should be more proud of his offspring. Angel is a beautiful child and he should want to spend time with her and have her around his other children. Mel B is not a jump off, she has a career of her own, it’s not on Eddies level, but how many are! He sure looked happy to be seen with her when they were dating, but let his mama convince him, it wasn’t his baby the same way she interfered in his relationship with Tracy, who is definately not a gold digger or whatever. One day his mother will pass and Eddie will be in California getting married to a Brotha. On a side note, he better hope none of his family needs a kidney or something from that little girl he is ignoring.

@ENVY ME

…cool, at least we can agree that it is a super-sad situation. SMH at Eddie aka Norbit.

The bottom line is this: you cannot MAKE a grown man do anything. Mel is wasting her breath and if she keeps this up she is the one who will look the fool.

How about Mel be the best role model for her daughter and show her daughter how to be a strong black woman with or without a man!

This bashing Eddie is getting old, very old. He’ll have his comeuppance – that you can take to God’s bank.

Most of the arguments on here do not make sense.

It doesn’t matter who knew what when or what their motive is/was.

The fact is ANGEL IS NOW HERE.

She needs BOTH her parents and not just financially.

Eddie is a FAGGOT for not being in his child’s life.

The end.

That said, Mel B should let it go.

Guys on here who are dogging out Mel B and other baby’s mothers and full of excuses and are nothing more than emotional, if not physical, FAGGOTS TOO.

That’s how I really feel.

“I tell brothas all the time to throw out the assumption of reasonable expectation of having sex with most sistas for recreation. They no not the meaning. Most of you might as well place a sign above your coochie stating: ABANDON HOPE, ALL YE WHO ENTER! All you’re asking for is 18 years of aggravation and headaches. That’s why i date black women or women in general and avoid the sub-species of their gender.”

18 years of aggravation?!?!? LOL – and thats only if the sorry fukking ape bastard stays around for 18 years to raise his child.. You know damn well the majority of your good for nothing but a fukk sorry ass n!ggers barely stay 18 days INTO THE PREGNANCY!!

And abandon all hope?? There is very little hope for a black male just being born these days let alone when he’s old enough to think of sex!! You;re hopeless pretty much all your lives – long before a relationship with a woman even comes into the picture!!

Again, you’re giving the tar ape male waaaaaaaaaaaay too much credit!!

“Women who intentionally ge pregnant out of wedlock should not and are not entitled to presumptions nor assumptions.”

Sure they are – especially if they have the father asking them to do so!!

And as long as the man has his foot on the n!ggers neck – he will atleast pay child support!! Thank God the white man put that system in place or sistas would get nothing from these sorry ass black males!! Its a shame the white man STILL has to keep you bastards in check!!

Skoopes-Da Original(Check me out!)

Reading some of these posts, I see why there are so many ‘deadbeat’ fathers. I have no children of my own, but there is no way in the hell I would subject my child to a man that WANTS NOTHING TO WITH HER, except that Ed said as long as she is around Mel, which means, as I have said before, he is willing to see the child, he just has to get around her simpleton ass mother.

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If you were a mother you would know, since you’re not I don’t ven know why you are commenting, if you had to carry a baby for 9 months then painfully push him/her out only to realize that all the while, you knew this baby was not born out of love but out of lust (referring to Mel B) and you have to do everything in your power to make sure this baby has a beautiful life, then come to find out that the father of the child you had TOGETHER does not want to see him/her, thats pure ignorance right there and there is no excuse for this. Like I said before if you were a mother you would know how she feels….

“Like I said before if you were a mother you would know how she feels….”

A mother or one of the many many black kids out here growing up without a father!!

I swear, I will never get how anyone – male or female – could create a life and then abandon it!! I have yet to have the pleasure of being a mom, but I still possess the instinct that when I do become one – NOTHING will stand between me and my child.. I had both my parents in my life and I will give my child the same even if it means her father will have to be non black!! And I just don’t get ANYONE who isn’t of the same frame of mind!!! I just will never get how they do it.. How do you know you have a kid – or multiple kids – running around that you don’t even know if they are alive, let alone comfortable or have what they need..

Only the black male…….

*name after their

@SMDH

I swear, I will never get how anyone – male or female – could create a life and then abandon it!! I have yet to have the pleasure of being a mom, but I still possess the instinct that when I do become one – NOTHING will stand between me and my child.. I had both my parents in my life and I will give my child the same even if it means her father will have to be non black!! And I just don’t get ANYONE who isn’t of the same frame of mind!!! I just will never get how they do it.. How do you know you have a kid – or multiple kids – running around that you don’t even know if they are alive, let alone comfortable or have what they need..

Only the black male…….

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I agree…except the “ONLY THE BLACK MALE” Part…because its not ONLY THE BLACK MALE…

I have a child and I am pregnant with another and I am married to a good black man who has a good job and we are doing the best for our children so Its not all black men who are doing wrong, also I come from a family of strong beautiful black men, my father is a corporate executive, him and my mother have been married for 27 years, so no, again its not ALL black men, but I agree that our black men have some improving to do…I do agree with you though and I agree that there is no excuse to abandon a child especially when DNA has proved that you are the father!!

It’s very easy to make the black man the face of all that is wrong with the world. But in reality it takes too to tango and we women have to take some of the blame for our situations.

takes two. Also most of these black men are being raised by black women. So maybe if we got ourselves together they would turn out better. Just a thought.

@keesha

i understand that u are mad at half of what some black men write in this forum, but do not be quick to judge other people’s prospective and opinion about black women. they may have had their diffrences with some of the black women, like they all say everthing is based on experience right? and for you to say u are eduacated and openly abuse this black men’s mother who had nothing to do with this crab it just plain stupid. i feel sorry for black women like u, ur attitude will always follow u till the end of ur miserable life and lead u to a very bad misconception.next type think before you type and stop being biased.

excuse my typos,thank you!! and to my educated black brothas, date whoever you like, marry someone that will not be quick to judge u and just NAG all the time. my wife is half puteroican and half italian and i tell you she is awesome, we have been together for 7yrs now. so date whoever makes you happy. and life is about longevity.

@ educated black man

I meant what I said. In my opinion many black men who have such disdain for black women have issues with their mothers. How can you hate black women when you come from one? Also you are a hypocrite to say not judge someone, but then you judge me and say i will have a miserable life? What a dumbass!!! Next time think before you type. When a comment is not meant for you mind your business. Since you decided to comment I will assume you are the type of man I was talking about in my previous comment, so please, take it personally.

@ all the men who don’t like black women

This is a black gossip site and many black women come here and state their opinions. If you don’t like it go to:

Lossip

TMZ

Perez Hilton

etc…

I think you get the point

Don’t come to a black gossip site if you can’t stand black women and don’t want to hear our opinions. GTFOOH!!!

@keesha

how am i an hypocrite????do you even know what that means? YES your life is a miserable to have basically abused inncent mothers. why don’t you think about your life and go and curse your own mother for even thinking of giving you a name called KEESHA. i observed all the comment written in here and you went way to far in cursing someone’s mother. as a matter of fact why am i even arquing with a person named keesha.

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@lakeesha

i was trying to reason with you and also comply with you. but you brought out the keesha in you. next time control yourself and don’t just jump with abusives.there are other ways in handling situations like this, have u ever heard of just having a plain CONVERSATION.

I will quot Marquis from days gone by.

Women who get pregnant out of wedlock and are disapointed with the fathers are premeditated victims.

@LAKEESHA

or probably you need kool aid to ease that stress and anger of yours, and a fried chicken with that to go.

@keesha

i ain’t white and keesha is definatley not an african name. i have african friends you knw.

@lakeesha

i am done arquing with u, keep on saying we dont want you.. and keep wondering why educated rich black men do not work anything to do with names like keesha and shaquina.

@lakeesha

my wife is hald puteorican and italian and 10times finer thau ur black azz. so keep on talking about her.

half

@ ignorant sellout

Please get off the site and go get some plantanos and pizza!!! I could just imagine what you look like, YUK!!! Thank God i’m gorgeous and REAL black men love me. Now go talk to your wife Rosa or Chiquita!!!

@keesha

i doubt that you earned a degree thou.

@keehsa

yea u mean black men like ray ray. anyways i doubt you are fine, it is the ugly ones who talk to much and have names like keesha and shaquina.

@ ignorant sellout

I did and from a very good school I might add!!! BTW thanks for the convo, I was bored at work since I finished my work earlier!!! Ignorant people like you are so entertaining. Your like my little puppet and I pull the strings.

@lakeesha

like i said b4 go and get yourself a very cold kool-aid and relax.

Wow you can tell how someone looks by their name? How ignorant do you sound? If that were true Barack Obama would look like Osama Bin Laden. I am convinced you are a very uneducated black man despite your name.

@keesha

were do you work at BURGER KINGS???

And you get yourself a gelato and relax!!!

@lakeesha

speaking of work i gotta close, but next time you write anything, think before you do it.goodbye

HEHEHEHEHEHEHE!!! Burger King, aren’t you the little jokester??? Not!!! You’re whack. You’re the type of guy who wants a strong black woman like me but you can’t handle it. I would turn you out mentally and physically. You dream of women like me when you lay beside your watered down version of a real woman. KEEP DREAMING!!! Your no longer entertaining me so i’m done!!!

obama is an african name stupid, his dad is african.

@keesha

and people like you, stay lonley and keep on having babies from different men, cause no one can stand your attitude.

Awwww you have to close??? LOLOLOLOL!!! You clearly aren’t rich or in a position of power if your closing. What a loser. Enjoy the lasagna and telenovelas when you get home!!!

I have no kids sweetie. Wrong again!!!

@keesha

lke i said i already have someone,and i don’t need a fake weave, wanna be apprehensive sista like you.

And I only have attitudes with ignorant self-hating negroes like you. I’m cool with everyone else and very happy and accomplished in my life. But thanks for caring

@keesha

when i said close, i meant leave stupid, my 9-5 is over. you wish i worked in all those places. LOL

men you are so dumb.

Wrong again!!! I have long, real , gorgeous hair that people compliment me on all the time. You’re sterotypes of black women are disgusting. I can only imagine what your mother looks like.

Please with the typos!!! A few are acceptable but damn, you are so not educated. Change you’re name immediately!!!

@keesha

yea right with your ghetto name and ghetto attitude, will lead you to the gutters.what have you accomplished a GED? LMAOOO

@KEESHA

on pls you had alot of typos, but atleast i edited mine right after.

College degree and a booming career. If your wife is so great why are you arguing with me and why aren’t you emailing, talking to, on your way home to her? I see a divorce in your future if you get your kicks from dissing other women on the internet instead of talking to your wife.

@keesha

started with the mother thing again. guess you did not learn anything today. well i guess you can never correct or help a keesha or shaquinna.

Or your mother. LOLOLOLOL!!!

@keesha

Keesha(Check me out!)

College degree and a booming career. If your wife is so great why are you arguing with me and why aren’t you emailing, talking to, on your way home to her? I see a divorce in your future if you get your kicks from dissing other women on the internet instead of talking to your wife.

doubt that, but u wish thou!!! anyways keesha it’s been fun sista. good luck with ur accomplishment,act like someone who has one and stop nagging and being biased and cursing someone’s beloved mother.

@keesha

my mother will buy your welfare parents in a second trust me on that!!! anyways why argue about my folks… moving on

@keesha

i taught u were leaving a long time ago?? i guess you taking lessons??

anyways gotta really go this time. it’s been fun. peace

educated black man and keesha might as well kiss and make up

PS I like Eddie..he is hilarious!!!

and to Trina. Stop the violins. Eddie is NOT a deadbeat

A deadbeat is not a man that doesn’t want to be bothered with an opportunist.

Marc Jarvil Renaud Jr. of Dania Florida is a deadbeat. He has 5 children and takes care of none of them. He is in arrears on ONE child for over 26k….That is a deadbeat!!!!

@BAEYAKI

Eddie is a deadbeat. Regardless if he is paying his child support. He is refusing to be a father to his child. It is never acceptable behavior to turn your back on your flesh and blood by not seeing her or caring for her as a parent.

Anyone like BAEYAKI who belevives other wise is lacking in character. In other words a true low life.

Regardless of how the baby got here, Eddie murphy wasn’t raped. He is old enough to know how to protect himself if he did not want to reproduce. Any one who finds this type of man appealing as stated in earlier posts has some mental issues that they need to deal with.

If a man can not love and care for his own child, He certainly could never care for a woman the right way. I could never find such a man appealing or a potential mate. You have my regards for your ignorance.

What’s wrong with the name Keesha??? Since when does someones name define who they are…would it be better if it were spelled Keisha? Seriously SOME (not all) but some men here really have an issue with black women. Take a look at most of the black women you know….most of their names are unique and different. Why does that have to be bad. Then the one’s that always have somethan negative to say always point out that their wife or girlfriend is another race, as if in those cultures they don’t have their own problems.

Men wonder why black woman have “attitudes”…when really it’s not an attitude it’s speaking your mind. Not every black woman that speaks her mind has an attitude.

Black people when are we gonna grown up as a people and stop the foolishness like judging someone based on their name.

The fact remains Eddie had sex with Mel B…the baby is his and he should be there for the baby…not the momma. If he wanted to be there he would…and clearly he doesn’t. So yes he’s a deadbeat dad…he needs to take care of ALL his kids…no just the choosen few.

This is an innocent baby, that will grow up her because her parents couldn’t get it together. She didn’t have a choice on who her father was going to be so why should she have to suffer the consequences. It’s not good and anyone condoning the fact that “he said he didn’t want kids by her” is just cruel.

It never ceases to amaze me how people can have little empathy or compassion for innocent children, who suffer from their parents flaws.

This is the reason why there are so many absentee fathers. I don’t care if the mother is a B**CH on wheels and rides around on a broom stick. These are the choices that you make, when you have sex. Now it is time to be responsible for you actions.

The children are the ones who remember when dad didn’t show up for their special events. The children hurt on fathers day when the teacher ask’s the students to write dad a card. The children may lack in self esteem because they think they did something wrong to keep daddy away.

Don’t attack me for having compassion and empathy for children who did not deserve to be abandoned emotionally from their absent parent. It takes more than a check in the mail to parent a child.

God damn ladies, why do u always have to bring a brotha down. If he doesnt wanna take care of his kid he doesnt have to, its a ladies job anyways!

typo…last paragraph…”that will grow up *hurt*…”

Oh sit down hannibal! you ar ignorant. It takes two peopl to create a child. If it was the women’s job alone we would be able to procreate by ourselves.

A brotha brings himself down when he walks away from his responsibilities. No decent, kind, human being is going to applaud that kind of behavior.

No if a man cheats on a woman or leaves her, it is always the ladies fault. REMEMBER THAT LADIES! We are the ones who pay the bills!

why do you have to try to belittle me because speak the truth. You are the one who probably have children who you left behind with the woman shouldering the burden by herself. Or you wouldn’t condone this kind of behavior. I hope you get arrested for not paying child support.

You are truly Dumb. Don’t make references to my post because you are lacking in common sense. Does your mom know that you are using her computer? Because you have the mental capacity of a 15 year old.

It goes to show any man as dumb as hannibal can father a child. Ladies should make better choices in who they decide to sleep with, for fear of creating another nuisance of existence such as Hannibal.

A man should not be applauded for leaving behind his children.

Relationships sometimes don’t work out. There is never a valid reason for a man to stop being a father to his children. The same goes for the woman. She is equally wrong if she abandons her children. It is selfish to create children and walk away from them becasue they don’t like the other parent.

Children did not ask to be here. Children who are left abandoned are the ones who pay the ultimate price. If you are not prepared to parent a child, you should use the proper precautions and use birth control, or abstain.

You are selfish, and a deplorable human being to have a child and abandon them emotionally because you could not handle the financial resposibilities, or because you couldn’t get along with the mother.

That is what the judicial process is for. Their are courts to mediate such situations that are volatile.

OK Trina. I agree that it is a bad thing to leave a child,but when is the last time u heard of a lady being severly punished for leaving a child?!

Women are held accountable by the laws as well. If the custodial parent is the father, she is obligated by law to pay child support. If she does not she can be jailed as well.

Give me an example then! And not just child support, there are other ways men can in trouble but women cant. Like rape, a girl cant rape a guy unless she aint just a girl!

people should try to be better human beings.

There are too many advocates of bad behavior.

When someone such as myself does not favor abandoning children, or other loathsome behavior I am attacked.

Too many wolves. They don’t even hide in sheeps clothing anymore. They are hiding behind their computers persecuting people with harsh unkind words. Disparaging each others character, attacking anyone who shows kindness, compassion and consideration.

I have nothing but empathy for your poor lost souls.

I refuse to speak on beast like behavior, such as rape. Your soul is tormented by evil thoughts and probably bad behavior as well.

So are u ever gonna answer my question and stop trying to make people feel sorry for u?!

HAHAHAHA figures…

I feel sorry for you. The devil has you in his corner and uses you to torment souls. It is obvious through your retoric. You need to ask god for redemption. Ask him to cast the demons from your poor pathetic soul.

I don’t need compassion from wolves. Jesus knows my heart. He also knows yours. He knows all of the unkind harsh words, the bad behavior and the other things that permeate your soul.

I am not free from flaws or sin, but I will not hand my soul over to the devil. I refuse to engage in speech about beast like behavior such as rape, advocating the abandoment of children and whatever else evil topics that you are advocating.

MEL B……….SHUT UP!!!!

I guess your blissful marriage is on the rocks, huh, thats why you keep focusing on EDDIE.

LMFAO. What makes u think the devil is making me torment souls?! Honestly u cant except the fact that I was speakin the truth about fairness in this world so u say the the devil is using my soul!! HAHAHAHA

I don’t see any humor in bad behavior. Your behavior and harsh words are works of the devil. He is your master. You glorify him when you behave badly and speak of beast like behavior such as rape and abandoning children. That is works of the devil.

There isn’t anything godly about cursing people, and speaking of sexual assault. the devil brings those evil topics to you, and you speak it through the words you type on your computer.

LMFAO!!! Maybe u should go back and see exactly what I said becuz u have obviously lost ur damn mind!

If a man does not want to be manipulated into being a father. I have an idea…let’s see– keep your penis in your pants. It’s a very simple concept. The last time I checked, it TAKES TWO TO MAKE A BABY!!! Hello somebody. If a man isn’t a willing participant, then he needs to STHU if she gets pregnant. I don’t care if women have a million means of birth control. Quit giving men at pass at their irresponsibility.

Eddie is a grown man. He knew when he got an erection and decided to bed Mel B. a baby might come out of that union. It’s simple Biology 101. If he didn’t want his 90th child, he should’ve thought, “Huh, maybe I better suit up or, get this…not have sex with her because a baby might be created.” Yes, Mel B is also responsible, but Angel is here and Eddie needs to step up!

@That girl and SMDH>>>cyber hand clap . I’ve wondered the same thing.

@Uptown girl>>>Also most of these black men are being raised by black women. So maybe if we got ourselves together they would turn out better. Just a thought.

Once a man gets grown, he is responsible for his own actions. Please don’t put the blame on black mothers. A lot of black mothers are raising upstanding sons and daughters. A person is responsible for their own actions so they can’t go blaming mama, daddy, or anyone for their behavior. They have to rise above it and get it together.

@Trina, don’t argue with the likes of Hannibal – he’s probably one of the men that missed Obama’s speech on fatherhood. Let’s just hope he isn’t a baby daddy because he’s as ignorant as all get out. Po thang.

Ya’ll have a great evening.

@WordtotheWise

First of all u are crazy if u cyber hand clapped someone. Second of all how u gonna call me ignorant for being right?!

@ Word to the wise

I had the same assumption. People like Hannibal should never procreate for fear of reporoducing another of it’s kind. His soul is lost. No common sense.

eddie not being a part of his daughter’s life speaks for itself……

but mel producing a song about it only parlays her bitterness.

she should make sure there’s a positive male influence in her daughter’s life and move on already.

just goes to show, she’s the only one that had high expectations of eddie murphy.

most of already knew of eddie’s reputation since the 1980′s…..

Trina u amaze me. U seem so scared of somethin. What are u hiding from us?!

She don’t realized how blessed she is! I wouldn’t want Eddie Murphy transvestite, Johnny Gill loving ass nowhere around my daughter.All he would be fit to do is pay me. I do believe MelB got knocked up on purpose just to get paid, but ain’t that what Kim Porter and a whole bunch of others doing? Can’t knock her hustle.

PS I am watching coming to america right now cracking up!!!

What was MelB in again?

Knowing Eddie is most likely told her how he was. She did it anyway. If it was such an issue she should have aborted. Where’s the DNA test? If found to be his, he’s like all of the other dumb asses who refuse to wear condoms, a paycheck!

Damn, Crazypants! You’re on point! I co-sign.

First of all everyone is taking the word of a pissed off Baby Momma. No one can prove that this man does not spend time with the child. I don’t have much respect for her because she puts all of her business in the street. She need to go on with her life and let sleeping dogs lie. If he’s not seeing the child it doesn’t make things better by acting a fool. She is pissed that he didn’t want what she wanted and now shes using the baby as a torch. It’s funny how none of the woman on the post see a problem with a woman using her child for financial gain. I don’t think anyone is excusing him for anything we’re only making the point that there’s two sides to every story and so many woman are always running to jump to the defense of the woman and then down the line find out the heffer is a lier which I think is going to happen in this case. Shes a woman scorned read between the lines she wanted more with Eddie and didn’t get it.

also, eddie got bout 6 more kids. when do you ever hear their mommas complaining? im almost positive he pays child support. mel is just so damn desperate.