And just to think that T.I. taught him a lesson maybe he didnt learn

3rd

Oh he dead wrong for that one… With his wack a.s.s… Thats why T.I. shut his a.s.s. down…

SMH…i’m goin through the same thing…more power to you!! Deadbeats disgust me…

So the 9 year old has her own cell phone????

That’s an ez one…Don’t have kids by lame-a-zoids and expect them to become men miraclously! Bite the bullet and raise dem damn kids the best way u kno how…Karma doesn’t play…Chuuuuuch!

thats a shame this going to bite him in the azz one day. We’ll girlfriend the next time use a condom with these sorry azz rappers. They dont want kids or the responsibility of having kids its a shame that you end up holding the bag and he’s off somewhere not thinking about you or the kids

Such cute kids! Look at that baby’s cheeks!

When are we gonna stand up my brothers?

jerk

Is he (lil flip) lying???

You shouldn’t be so lucky….Houston Gold diggers! What did you do to p1ss lil flip off…run and tell that!!

Pathetic! Well trust he’s not the only dead beat dad. I want these woman to just realize that If a man wants to take care of his kids and do the right thing they will do, so. If not, you know what, just go through the courts and get your child support and move on. Even though it may be frustrating you have to learn not to get so stressed out over things you can’t control. Focus on doing the best you can with your kids and teach them better. Put this way,it’s his lost..

Boooo, the broad thought her cat was gold like most empty headed pretty women do that has no drive. Why do men get these women who got babies already and have no type of ambition in the makings for one and second, why have the child if you ain’t getting married. I know that sounds selfish (I am selfish and value my self cause I got sh*t to offer). She’s the clown for even putting him out there. She needs to choose her mates more wisely. Ho8s stop having babies so willingly. Ya body is a temple of mankind and the highest honor that a man can give you is his last name and an eternity of partnership and unconditional love. F*ck lil Wayne and his comment on his baby mothers. The only one who got the highest honor was Toya due to her marriage. She couldn’t take the infidelity anymore. That’s why she got a divorce. Men don’t value women like her or others on the planet anymore. Only ho8s who have babies likle stray cats.

MAYNE???? how this fool only paying 500 a month child support????,, that I ain’t yo real daddy is some real bullsh*t…..Clover G’s???? where yall at????

Maybe she should not have lied to her daughter in the first place? Why do people try to blame other people for their shortcomings? What do you do for a living? He was with you and was kind to your daughter, this is in no way an endorsement or a decision to take on another infant.

As for his son, yes, he may not be the best, but those are the arrangements that you people make. What exactly do people think child custody mean? You get paid to raise the child. It’s not half and half deal. If you manage to only arrange for $500 a month, then so be it, but don’t get your wires mixed up.

I don’t understand people. Second of all, you are exploiting your children. This idea that you’ve been pushed too far is absurd. You should never discuss family matters on the net our of your own volition.

Yes, pity women, but get real also. Both parents are responsible.

FLIP THE FREESTYLE KING!!!

Oh yeah, it ain’t his fault that he isn’t her daddy. She is responsible for her daughter knowing who her folks are. I guess she gotta get back on the stroll for another rapper. Im done ya’ll. This crap burns me up when women want to drag dudes name in the mud when they don’t get what they want. Ho4s need to learn to shut up and get that paper so she and her kids can have a better life. Not depending on a man that’s not committed to her hint, hint marriage. So he really doesn’t owe her jack sh*t!

Wow. He too azzholeness to whole other level. Neither he nor mom should have passed him off as the 9 year old’s dad when that is not the case and they weren’t even married, but revealing the truth to her is something that should have been done gently. I hope he gets his azz whooped for that. It sounds like he is paying his child support and that’s great, but he needs to be a father to that little boy before he grows up and neglects his son as well. End the cycle Lil Azzhole.

deltagirl2 got some tig ol bittays!

@ Dr. Heather

Totally agree!

Unfortunately, the situation is what it is. Just support your kids instead of dealing with someone who doesn’t want to be there.

Dear BabyMomma (and BabyDaddies)
Please take responsibility for who you sleep with and procreate with. Yes, he is WRONG but you had a clue in 6 years; and, still decided to have a child with this man. You may want to re-evaluate who you procreate with in general because this dude and your daughter’s father seem like real selfish, immature bastards.

He is an A$$HOLE!!! Why does his son have to call him?? His son doesn’t owe him anything! Why can’t Lil’ Flip pick up the phone and call his son himself? It only take a few minutes, and normally kids that age don’t really have much to talk about, but the fact that you called make all the difference in the world. As far as her daughter is concerned, the mother has the right to be mad as to the way Flip told her that he wasn’t her father, BUT she can’t be mad because he told her. She shouldn’t have lead her daughter to believe that Flip was really her father when she (the mother) knew he wasn’t, because eventually the daughter would have found out anyway. I can also understand about the phone calls and the money to a sense, but you can not make a man nor women do anything that they don’t want to do. Not that I am on Flip’s side at all, but at least he DOES pay the $500 a month (NOT saying that it’s enough to raise a child) But at least he does pay. Some men & women are on child support, but don’t pay and have no intentions on paying either.

They’re both at fault. The mother should’ve never lied and told the other daughter that Flip was her dad. She needs to put her real father on child support and hold him up to the same level of responsibility that she’s requiring from Flip. Also, he’s not sending more money, cuz he ain’t got no money! When was the last time he had a hit, does he even tour? He’s paying his child support, but as the primary caregiver if her son needs winter clothes and shoes then she needs to chop to it. He is wrong for not calling the kids especially his son. He’s the adult. It’s his job to maintain his relationship with his son not the mom’s or the son’s. He was also wrong for texting the daughter the way he did. However, a nine year old shouldn’t have a damn cell phone. The mom needs to take the funds she’s spending on that cell phone bill and buy her baby some winter clothes!

I went all of the subject,lol Anywho, it’s sad she got them babies in the middle of this bs…for what to make him feel bad. Terrible, just terrible,lol

It took you how long to realize this nicca wasn’t about shit?? The best thing you can do is handle your own business like a woman and take care of those kids. Crying foul isn’t gonna solve shyt these days, but this will eventually bite him in the as$ when the kids are old enough to realize what type of man their father is.

Lemme get this skrate.

SHE lied to her own daughter about who her father was.

SHE mismanaged the $500 a month that she acknowledges that he sends.

SHE doesn’t “want fame” but elected to send this information on to the internet.

SHE has her 9 year old daughter with a cell phone but is looking to buy winter clothes for her son.

AND HE’S THE A**HOLE????????? ROFLMAO.
This welfare queen needs to have her children taken from her.

He looks like he hasn’t bathed in days and he’s on the run for robbing a bank or committing some other felony. Why would she procreate with someone like this to begin with?

Again, put marriage before the carriage. Cease reducing yourself to being a baby incubator and be a wife first. Children deserve more than fly-by-night fathers and instability in the household.

*looking at his photo again*

*shivering*

He’s always been lame anyway.

Uh, maybe she needs to go after her daughter’s deadbeat dad to send child support and Christmas gifts. It’s not Flip’s responsibility to support a child that’s not his. I also think it’s pretty funny how she admits Flip regularly sends child support, but she’s mad it’s not the amount she wants. Fellas, stay away from these money hungry hoes.

Dang, that’s really messed up!
He didn’t have to tell the little girl that and leave her with resentment now for him, I do understand that he wanted to be vocal and it’s not biologically his child but to put an innocent child through that is just cruel.
No good is going to come to him now, and he’s career has been a snooze for awhile now!

Marquis De Sade, he only date Latino women so get ya facts straight boo. I know you are not from Texas and probably got turned down by black women who are about something but no boo, he isn’t down for the black chicks.

MARQUIS – I always thought you were BEYOND ignorant, but you have surpassed yourself today.

The man pays his child support every month so why is she calling him a deadbeat? True he could be a better father but he’s doing what the courts ordered him to do. If she has a problem with what she gets each month she should take him back to court instead of blogging about it.

All of his both of his baby mothers are Latino and besides, an all black woman (not a half breed) would not do something like that hun. She would have went to court on his a$$ for more paper cause houston does not play when it comes to child support.

let the cycle of deadbeat black fathers begin….and then the daughter will seek out a loser…his son will also do the same…its never ending man…

Now that I think about it, my father didn’t call on Christmas or Thanksgiving either after my mother and him got divorced. I see much haven’t changed out there. Keep ur head up mothers and fathers raising ur kids by urself. Keep Jesus first so your children will know how to live a fruitful life full of joy and peace…not resentment and lost ways.

Shoulda got knocked up by WEEZY instead! o_O

This topic is silly. This broad is silly? Whoever Lil Flip is, seems silly.

Lets not turn this into a black men dont take care of their kids debate. There are plenty of dead beat parents( men and women) that do not take care of their kids!

She was silly for leading the daughter to believe that Flipster was her dad. See what a tangle web we weave when we lie!

He still down bad for telling her daughter that he wasn’t her father in the way he did. A real man would have not broken that child’s heart like that, especially on Christmas. What’s “the package” Lil Flip has?

Problem is SOME Adults act like children OR (not to give children a bad name) worst then children. I don’t know their personal business, but if what she is saying is true – that’s crazy. Well I believe in What comes around – goes around and if you DO GOOD, good will follow. Now of course, if you DON’T DO GOOD, you won’t get GOOD, either. So be careful how you treat others. SAD

OMG OMG I can’t believe this sorry a$$ Nigg@. I don’t care how much money he has or doesn’t has. He needs to physically be there for those kids. They’re not going to grow up remembering the shoes, toys & clothes, they will remember the actual time spent. And I feel like once you tell a child you’re their parent you can’t take it back.

6 AND A HALF YEARS TOGETHER PEOPLE C’MON!

AND IRREGARDLESS OF WHAT YALL THINK OF THE MAMA

WHO IN THEIR RIGHT MIND WOULD INTENTIONALLY HURT A CHILD-IF HE FELT THAT WAY ABOUT IT HE SHOULD HAVE TOLD THE MAMA THAT HE NO LONGER WANTED THE CHILD TO REFER TO HIM AS DADDY

WITH HIM NOT BEING THERE ANY HOW WHAT HARM WOULD IT HAVE DONE IF THE LITTLE GIRL WENT ON BELIEVING HE WAS HER FATHER

MAN I REFUSE TO ARGUE WITH IGNORANT N.I.C.C.A.S ON THE NET-IT’S OBVIOUS SOME OF YOU PRETEND THAT YOU HAVE ALL YOUR SHIAT TOGETHER BUT BE GOING THROUGH THE SAME SHIAT OR EVEN WORST

SOME OF YOU MEN COMMENTING ARE PROBABLY JUST AS BAD IF NOT WORST

CALLING THIS WOMAN ALL OUT HER NAME AINT NECESSARY

SMH….I agreed with most of the comments above. What is a nine year old doing with a cell phone and why lie to her after all these years? And why not hold her father accountable, just a you are holding Lil Flip. But what I really want to know is…WHO IS LIL FLIP? lol

@Moneymade;

Times havve changed. I work at an elementary school in a very affluent area, and lots of kids under 10 have cell phones. Kids are involved in a lot more these days, and parents are working to make the money to keep them involved, so they keep up with them via cell phone. Just because her kid has a cell phone, doesn’t make her a bad mom. My daughter is 9 and cell phone and only uses it to call me, her dad, stepmom, stepdad, an one or two friends. Flip was dead a.s.s. wrong for sending that message to a child. You shouldn’t sen a 30 year old person a message like that through a text.

Why is someone paying child support being referred to as a “Dead beat?”

SMH.

@Tiababy09 Exactly,my dad just didn’t care then when I turned 18 he calls child support and says “Well she’s 18,do I have to keep paying!”Lmao just a joke but I don’t sweat his ignorance.My mother realized his immaturity and left him so that I could become the woman that I am today.Some women just should move and not force it on the men to change because they have to have the ability to do so,they will learn there lesson because my father now wants to play dad.I don’t hardly have time for that foolishness!

What he has done is totally wrong…..but, he is not the girls father. Why do women have babies by nothings a$^ boys and then let the next man that comes along become so involved in the little girls. Heck if the two of them were all that he would have married her.

Clearly Lil F**k is not making any $$$ since he only has to pay $500/mo that is an welfare payment…..haha.

THE TIP—–stop getting prego by these sorry, no-where-going rappers!!!!!

I am sick of these stupid bytches

That was real HOMO flip…..You stole that baby Christmas….no cookies for you or platinum records…. thats why he had a wack album and a wack life!

Winter clothes and shoes for your baby son….OR keep your daughter’s CELL Phone on?????

Hmmmmmm…..is that a tough decision for you?

Beeyotch….go somewhere…….

Cute kids!!

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Maybe it’s a reason that nucca shouldn’t be in their lives. She should get the check and keep moving. Be thankful that nucca don’t call. Stop trying to force these nuccas to stand up, when they should really be sitting down.

AIDS. Its been rumored that he has HIV… live in Houston and see him out and about at clubs every now n then!

Okay a few things. First off the woman starts off by saying that he was good in the beginning and took her even with her child. He was there taking care of a woman and her baby by another man. Then she says that the relationship ended for reasons she cares not to mention. Hmmm? Why the f_ck not? She mentioned how he’s a deadbeat. The reason she doesnt want to mention it is because she is the reason for the breakup. She is the reason why he disconnected from them. Because he really didn’t have to send anything to them for Christmas. She conviently left out the main part of the story. She’s a trick a_S Bytch!

Regardless of her choices in men.. that fugly minstrel is dead wrong for doing those innocent kids like that. Yea she went about it the wrong way, BUT his trife azz should be put on blast, maybe not on here, but somewhere. So before you go cop his non-existent album or listen to him, you’ll know what his deadbeat azz is really about.

I feel all bs aside, bump his relationship with her and them xmas presents… to tell that lil girl he aint her daddy is beyond WRONG. I’d really get up in his azz for that mess, bump a gossip blog… that would be the least of his worries. You never scar a child that way.

lil flip needs to start beefin wit 50 cent so this broad can get some help!!!!! 500 a month CS is pathetic, lill

lol.. Paying child support doesnt relieve you of the “deadbeat” title. Your more of a dead beat because somebody had to go to a court to make you pay.

bottom line is… he chose wrong, she chose wrong. The reason why he is wrong about the lil girl, because he knew that wasnt his from jump, so start something you cant finish. And she was caught up living in a rap dream, when the dude was wack from jump and she should have been getting with a real stand up MAN to help her daughter, not some wack azz rapper, who supposely has aids… right there with slim thugga.

Isn’t Flip HIV positive anyway???? Just sayin…

this pompous a**hole sent my 9 year old daughter (who she refers to as daddy) a text message that said and I quote “By the way Im not your real dad, just so you’ll know the truth!” on Christmas night!
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DAMN!!!

This ni@@a AIN’T SH*T!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I’ve lost ALL respect for him on top of the other sh*t that he’s done to HIS son… If you have a problem with the mother WHY take it out on the INNOCENT children???

THIS is the reason why I believe that you should wait AT LEAST 2 years before getting married because during that time you’ll get a good idea of what type of person they are and how they deal with the ups & downs of life, how they deal stress, etc… A person can only put up a front for soo long and EVENTUALLY you’ll see the real individual and who they REALLY are as a person with respects to their character, scruples & habits…

I didnt even read this shxt and I dont want to BXTCH YOU GET WHAT YOU PAID FOR! You tried to get with a celebrity and thought you were going to have a free ride and now you find out that he is really a SLIMEBALL and you want us to feel sorry for you. CLOSE YOUR DAMN LEGS AND THINK B4 YOU BREED NEXT TIME writing letters to gossip sites bxtch please!!!

*speaking in general* I am pretty sure that in some cases a person man or woman clearly seen signs that his or her mate were not of “good quality”. However, it is not uncommon nor unheard of for many couples married or not where their man or woman changed on them or THEIR TRUE COLORS came out after either a breakup, separation or divorce which often times is negative or mean-spirited. I’ve heard and seen numerous of couples where their partner sidetracked them. Some people can put on a fake facade for a long time which can also be known as living a “double life” (not saying this is the case in this situation).

I’m so sick of these baby mommas okay put your daughter dad on blast who hasn’t given a damn about her since her birth then I’ll go for you not being a damn gold digger, women please get a job and do your part so when the ignorant baby daddies don’t come through, you already got what your child need on lock.

@Slide

That’s the part that fucced me up too. like okay she might have chose wrong… but that nicca was really wrong for that part of it. I mean for real… how cruel.

He didn’t have to send that text to the lil girl.. that was just wrong

Another dead-beat dad! My daughter’s father had the nerve to be mad cause I put his azz on blast for pretty much the same sh*t except Lil Flips baby momma got $700 more than I ever got! Most of these men today probably didn’t have a father growing up so why do such a thing to your OWN kids?!!!

this is messed up. but what is the problem with a 9 year old having a cell phone again? My 9 year old has one because she goes to sleepovers and out with friends and their parents and what if she needs to contact me???i will not rely on someone else providing those means. she can whip out her cell and its done. But anyhoo Flip is a jerk and i would be cool.

Flip feel like he can’t take care of one kid. So he told the other child he was not the daddy so he would not be expected to take care of her. In a way I feel him, but he should have went about it in a different way not on Christmas. Men and women need to start thinking. She shouldn’t have had a baby by a deadbeat, and flip should have kept it moving when he realized she came with extra responsibility. He is not the best dad, but from your own words he pays child support, he complained but still sent a little extra cash. Evidently he does not have money like that. He hurt her feelings telling her daughter that and she put him on blast… keep it moving…. happy new year.

Both parties were wrong in this situation. She was dead wrong for leading her child to believe that this was her real father, horrible move! She was also dead wrong for getting pregnant by LIL FLIP! WTF! I heard dude is ‘infected’ and obviously he’s a cruddy example for a father. So, she was wrong for these things… Now, Flip was completely messed up for texting that child that stuff the way he did. That is cruel on so many levels, and why does his son need to always call him? Why can’t he call his own child and initiate the conversation? Both people sound wretched and stereotypically ‘hood. smh…

Annnnnd-dah–

Did he love her enough to MARRY her?
Was adoption considered when speaking of being a father to someone else’s child?

I think not!!!

These b i t c h e s need to stop trying to switch daddies like they change their underwear and a s s u m i n g the new man is responsible enough to take on a ready made family.

she might have chose wrong…
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@Candy Cane

Sis, that’s why I don’t think people should get married when they are in their early 20′s because during that time you think you know EVERYTHING and have it all figured out BUT you DON’T, SOME people don’t even really know themselves AND after different experiences and some maturity you’re a totally different person when by the time you’re in your late 20′s in some instances…

That’s why young couples grow apart = one person matures while the other is still on that stupid sh*t…

One more thing–

You gripe to a blog about the man yet let us know the little girl has a cell phone but the little boy has no coat?????????????????

Trifling. Just trifling!!!

First of all it seems to me either most of you are young or don’t have kids and responsiblities. Now when he started dating her he knew she had anohter child and he accepted that child likehis own that should’ve benn the end of that it just shows the difference in a BOY and a MAN. He should’ve never said anything to that little girl. Now as far as the mother at some piont she’ll have to tell the little girl the truth when she’s old enough to understand but when you accept another mans child as your own you shouldn’t get mad at the mother or leave her and then tell a child something. Now the daughter having a cellphone isn’t a big deal I think depending on your child’s maturity level a cellphone is fine. My son has had a cellphone since he was 6 and he’s 11 never did anything disrespectful on the cellphone or anything. When he first got the cellphone it was for the purpose to let us know he was finish at the barbershop or something but only ont he weekends. I think the little girl having a cellphone has nothing to do with her being raised. Now as far as Lil Flip he should be a father regardless to his soon. Then my thing is there shouldn’t even be a price on taking care of your child. If you feel the mother isn’t mother material pick your child up and buy him what you need. Lil Flip once again shows what a DEADBEAT is and what a boy doing MAN things unresponsibly end up doing. Women wake up you can’t make a boy do nothing leave boys alone and be a WOMAN and take care of your own children and if you got to go to ocurt take what the courts give you and stand up and be a QUEEN and do your thing. We have to be mothers everyday a dad can be part-time a mother can’t. The children no matter what daddy does look at mommmy to make it BETTER.

@Diva

Hey girl! Everything you are saying is on point. This chick is a stupid bird and if she was going to go to the point of contacting a blog to ‘put him on blast’ she needed to have all her ish in order….but uh, oops, how could she? She got pregnant by Lil Flip, and a woman with her stuff in order wouldn’t contact a blog to fix her problems anyway….smh…

that’s messed up!

N.o.b.o.d.y knows what this chick or the little girl said to Flip to make him send her a text message like that. Be thankful, that nucca aint a Chester trying to be around her, and keep moving. If she thought he was shady from a while ago, he shouldn’t have been texting the little girl in the first place.

Women are getting confused about what child support really means. It is one parent contributing HALF to the child’s living expenses. $500 x 2 = $1000. What does ONE child (the girl is not his)need that is in excess of a grand a month at that age?

Flip is a d0uche for not calling and for how he broke the news to the little girl, but he is paying support for his son. Period. So she really shouldn’t be all in the public with this nonsense. If he is a bad father, she is partially to blame for choosing him.

Oh, and why isn’t she pursuing the other baby’s daddy? You know… the one who is paying $0/month and making 0 calls and buying 0 gifts????

I don’t care what the little girl might have said to him, nothing she said deserved a response such as this one.

Damn, I don’t know how the next dude is gonna do it… SMMFH

Seriously!!!

How can you introduce this girl to important people in your life like your Grandmother???

She got 2 DIFFERENT Baby Daddies already, sh*t!!! She ain’t even learn her lesson after the first dude done left her high & dry… AND she put this up on Twitter AND be writing Gossip Blogs to air her dirty laundry… I don’t know Playa, I don’t think I could it because she doesn’t come across as too bright and/or having good judgement which is VERY IMPORTANT in my book…

I’d stick my d*ck in her mouth or something though… I don’t know… I know I’m dead wrong for that but f*ck it…

@ caramel cat–

Heya fam!!!!

I’m not even trying to hear this chick. She needs more people! Lol!!

How was your Christmas?

Still not enough. She is a child and he is suppose to be a man. Stop making excuses for his sorry ass.

She got duped big time. Many men “pretend” to accept the other child just to get closer to the woman. Lil Flip and any man who still calls himself “Lil” anything can be nothing but a MESS!

@Slide

You right. And I take that back.. “she might have chose wrong”… Naw she DID choose wrong.

He is a straight up dead beat, and she is a dead beat too… just less of one. I dont pick “gender sides” with taking care of kids. Two parents. Two adults with Two EQUAL responsibilities. The plus is she is the one tucking them end at night.. not him. So he’s more wrong, but it still doesnt make her right. a 0 + 2 still doesnt = a Top 10 parent.

Once you have a child picking a mate is not about YOU it’s about BOTH of you. And just because there’s a dude that YOU like.. for whatever reason… does NOT make him a “hit” for your child. Clearly a “miss”.

Note To The Woman: Close Your Bleeping Legs

I’m Out

He’s mean. But really tho his songz werent ever bumpin in the first place. so we can get the lil flip rapper title outta here! weslley or wellsley whatever his wack*** name is…DEADBEAT!!! plain and simple and there are alot out there. you just gotta better yourself and make the best of it. i dont have kids myself but damn if i did my kids wont have to know there father if father aint doin shit… whats the point?? am i wrong???

girlfriend him probly not even have a penny fi himself & ah cotch at sum gyal house….
so nuh worry yuhself bout him!! wastemon

gwan like him sell drugs but nah nuh money!!!! lmaoooooooooooooooooooooo

toodles.

@Diva

The Christmas was great, very relaxing if nothing else. How was yours? Busy I’m sure…

“N.o.b.o.d.y knows what this chick or the little girl said to Flip to make him send her a text message like that.”

What could a little girl — or her mother, for that matter — to deserve to receive such a text?

Correction: What could a little girl — or her mother, for that matter — possibly say to deserve such a text?

@Slide
“I’d stick my d*ck in her mouth or something though… I don’t know… I know I’m dead wrong for that but f*ck it…”
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lol… yea you know you wrong! that was funny. but if I had a dyck that chick wouldnt even be privilaged enough to cop a feel. Any mouth that’s been on flip.. I doubt you want wrapped around your shyt.

I’m just saying, we don’t know the whole, and to make a.s.s.u.m.p.t.i.o.n.s based on this letter is biased.

She could have omitted a whole lot of information to present herself in a better light.

on top of the little $500 he pays a month for child support
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SEE y’all females need to get it RIGHT and STOP getting it TWISTED!!!

IT’S “CHILD SUPPORT”, NOT “BABY MOMMA SUPPORT”!!!

One more again!!! For you s-l-o-w females, In ALL CAPS even!!!

IT’S “CHILD SUPPORT”, NOT “BABY MOMMA SUPPORT”!!!

That money is SUPPOSED to go to the child and the stuff they NEED, NOT to Suzy Wong at the Nail Salon or Wig Emporium OR to buy that fly sh*t that you want to wear to the club…

“I’m just saying, we don’t know the whole, and to make a.s.s.u.m.p.t.i.o.n.s based on this letter is biased.”

Oh, OK.

The little girl has nothing to do with this debacle. This is between the two adults who, unfortunately, are her parents.

Hey Syd!

Ironically I have a cousin that tried to pull this mess years ago. She had a son by a deadbeat (a total deadbeat), and another man came into her life and treated her right. He even grew close to her son and developed a strong relationship with him. Lo and behold, the relationship did not work out and this man ended up moving to another state. My cousin had the nerve to throw her son up in his face and make him feel guilty for leaving him. I’m scratching my head like ‘huh’? Why on earth did you allow this situation to go down like this in the first place? Women need to be more careful and mindful of scenarios that they place their children in…

And to the people telling her to close her legs:

Maybe he should close his too no?! He wouldnt have to worry about not taking care of his kid if he didnt have them. Oh let me guess… “She set him up”, “She trapped him”, “She forced him to fucc her”, “Men will be Men”, “She’s a gold digging ho”, etc etc etc. blah blah blah.

They both should have waited to reproduce AFTER they have their shyt together. I wish I could take away their mating privilages!

Hey Caramel, Diva, Ms. EJ (if you’re still here) et al

@Caramel

“Women need to be more careful and mindful of scenarios that they place their children in…”

Yes, we do. The children are going to suffer the most in this sad situation. I feel for them most of all.

STOP JUDGING THE MOTHER. Lil Flip is a b***h and he needs to be called out on his s**t. I’M GLAD SHE DID IT. GO GIRL!

Hey p.e.n.i.s. is a clinical term. Not a freaking bad word.

If you dont wanna deal with taking care of kids that arent yours… then dont date people with … KIDS.

DUH!!!…. simple solution.

Lmaooooo @ people bringing TI into this like he care.. and as if he would do something.

wtf TI gonna do to him. Make a mixtape?.. what does that have to do with those kids.

smh

I have to say this, I’m still trying to figure out why with all the forms of contraceptives we have in the drug stores, online, in the clinics, etc. that women are still popping up pregnant all the time. I honestly don’t get it. I have been ‘active’ for 10 straight years and have never gotten pregnant. And, even with contraceptives, the man should ALWAYS have a condom on if the relationship is outside of marriage, it’s too much going around and we ARE talking about Lil Flip here… I don’t get it, someone please explain…

“During those 6 years he was helping she thought he was soft, that’s why she was comfortable in sending this letter. He snapped. It happens.”

If he “snapped,” he should have directed his ire at the mother, not a little innocent girl. There’s no excuse for that type of behavior, whatsoever.

Maybe it’s my inner maternal lioness coming forth, but I draw the line at involving children in adults’ business. If you want to hurt one another, fine. Leave the kids out of it.

This sort of thing doesn’t just happen.

DAXN FLIP! SAY IT AIN’T SO! SAY YOU AIN’T TELL THAT LIL GIRL ON CHRISTMAS YOU AIN’T HER PAPPY! SAY YOU DIDN’T DO THAT. There was a better way to do it Lil Flipper. If you did do that you are punk azz b*tch! You should have called your son. Sounds to me like you are bitter about the woman leaving you! Bitter azz b*tch nucca! I ain’t never like you no way. Scrappy was way better and he seems to be treating shorty right!!!

Everybody has an excuse but no one is searching for the answer. If I have a responsibility to my children then “I have that responsibility.” If the other parent does not fulfill theirs then so be it but I am not to stand in judgement nor am I to speak ill on them in front of the children.

If they have made a promise to their children and were not able to stand by it then it will be up to that parent to explain to their children why it did not happen but with or without them my kids would always have a Christmas, birthday and whatever else I can provide! Let’s stop worrying about what others do or don’t do and just step our own games up!!!!!!!!!!!

Once you have a child picking a mate is not about YOU it’s about BOTH of you. And just because there’s a dude that YOU like.. for whatever reason… does NOT make him a “hit” for your child. Clearly a “miss”.
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@Candy Cane

YEP!!! That’s the truth!!!

Even before all of that though, as I’ve been saying when you meet a dude and are getting to know him – you gotta figure out if he’ll be a (1) good father, (2) good husband and a (3) good friend!!!

If you just want some “good hard d*ck” then by all means go right ahead and do your thing Darlin’, but PLEASE make sure he puts on a condom AND you’re using some sort of birth control… Besides getting knocked up you could catch something that’ll give you MORE than an itchy crotch and a burning sensation when you pee you could end up with HIV/AIDS…

If you dont wanna deal with taking care of kids that arent yours… then dont date people with … KIDS.

DUH!!!…. simple solution.

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PREACH!!!

Sydney™
12/28/09, 14:40:pm

“During those 6 years he was helping she thought he was soft, that’s why she was comfortable in sending this letter. He snapped. It happens.”

If he “snapped,” he should have directed his ire at the mother, not a little innocent girl. There’s no excuse for that type of behavior, whatsoever.

Maybe it’s my inner maternal lioness coming forth, but I draw the line at involving children in adults’ business. If you want to hurt one another, fine. Leave the kids out of it.

This sort of thing doesn’t just happen.

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But of course, Sydney, we know you wouldn’t do something like this. We are talking about Lil Flip and the Flippette he decided to mate with. That’s a whole different ballpark, arena, city, state, dimension.

Lil Flip didn’t write this letter, she did. We don’t know his side. I bet, Lil Flip didn’t tell that little girl he was her Daddy either.

*sighs*

Another one bites the dust….

Little girl, keep it moving. You see him for the type of person he is, and there is no changing that. He will change when HE is ready to do so.

The only thing left for you to do, is learn your lesson. Not every man is worthy of your womb. Learn how to manage your money wisely, and above all else, be a woman and stand up on your own. You are the mother of 2 beautiful children. Teach your daughter what it means to be a good woman, not the ish your are showing her now. Teach your son the difference between a b.i.t.c.h and a lady. Not the folloery you are doing now. Get over it momma.

And people can say he wasnt her dad if he didnt legally adopt. okay but MORALLY, if you tell a CHILD you are her father, and personally decide to take up that role.. you are beyond wrong. Bump what a court say.

Dont play games with peoples lives like that. He could have been the man her mom is dating, not the father… he let that go on like that.. and decided to back out once he got mad at the mother.

Can’t prove that in a court of law. If she could, she would have put the girl on the child support order with the son.

You are funny. But see that’s it right there.. If people stop looking for males and females. And settle with Men and Women, stuff like this wouldnt be so rapid.
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@Candy Cane

Thank You

I’ve been trying to tell y’all:

When somebody shows you who they are BELIEVE THEM!!!

If an individual shows you that they are irresponsible, immature, not trustworthy, a liar, violent, etc… then WHY continue dealing with them??? That is NOT the kind of person that you should have in your life for whatever reason!!!

Most of peoples problems are brought unto themselves in the first place… Me included, sh*t… LOL

How corny of him to text that little girl with that type of abuse.I probably would have caught a charge that night.

If an individual shows you that they are irresponsible, immature, not trustworthy, a liar, violent, etc… then WHY continue dealing with them??? That is NOT the kind of person that you should have in your life for whatever reason!!!

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Thanks Slide. That’s the triple truth. Lil Flip ain’t Jesus. She know that. All she’s done is brought more attention to a little girl, that up until this point, we had know clue about.

@This Some Shhh. . .

“But of course, Sydney, we know you wouldn’t do something like this.”

A lot of people wouldn’t do something like this, and if they did, they would probably never get past the guilt.

“We are talking about Lil Flip and the Flippette he decided to mate with. That’s a whole different ballpark, arena, city, state, dimension.”

So that issues some sort of leeway for something like this to happen?

“We don’t know his side.”

If he did send that text to a 9-year-old, how could he possibly justify it?

@ Sydney,

This whole thing spells all sorts of wrong on both sides, but why would you further jeopardize your daughter or son, just to get back at his triflin a.s.s?

@Slide

dont you just shake your head when you see somebody date some person that has a bad history with somebody else. ie, violence,prison time,criminal activity. cheating, std, non-parenting, etc. and think … “oh well they not gonna do that to me?”

damm dummies… lol

and were not talking about somebody not putting the toilet seat down.. i’m talking desturbing behavior that is just part of who they are.

I WANNA HEAR FLIP SIDE NOW.

@This some shhh. . .

“This whole thing spells all sorts of wrong on both sides, but why would you further jeopardize your daughter or son, just to get back at his triflin a.s.s?”

I don’t disagree with her response at all, and I already questioned her choice of men with whom to procreate, but I’m not going to dismiss his hurtful action towards a child as someone who “snapped. It happens.”

I know some of us may be desensitized to a lot, but when it comes to kids, both men and women have a responsibility. She may not be his biological daughter, but she, in no way, deserved that sort of immature cruelty either.

@Slide
“I’ll be back, this white man (*my boss) keeps on coming over here talking about something called “work”… Let me finish this thing up so his punk a$$ will stop coming over here and bothering me…”
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ROFL… DAMM THE MAN!!

I’m sorry, but I just don’t see a thing that Flip did wrong in this situation.

“I’m sorry, but I just don’t see a thing that Flip did wrong in this situation.”

Not even the text he allegedly sent to the 9-year-old?

Where did you grow up, San Quentin?

He told the child the truth, which is something HER BIOLOGICAL MOTHER should have did a LONG time ago.

When did telling the truth become “wrong?” Black people, I tell ya.

I know some of us may be desensitized to a lot, but when it comes to kids, both men and women have a responsibility. She may not be his biological daughter, but she, in no way, deserved that sort of immature cruelty either.

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I still have to say, I don’t know what the Child and the Mother may have said to trigger his reaction. She didn’t include that information in her letter.

@SYDNEY
“Not even the text he allegedly sent to the 9-year-old?

Where did you grow up, San Quentin?”
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What exactly was the problem with the truthful text message?

@MIJDC

If Flip isn’t wrong for anything else, he is wrong for sending that little girl that ignorant text message. I would have thought he was a fellow 9 year old talking to her like that….

@MIJDC

wtf you mean black people I tell ya?… oh yea that’s right.. non-blacks never have parental, marriage, or any other issues.

fucc outta here.

Did you even read the article? Or are you just talkn out yo azz? Probably the 2nd one.

@This some Shhh. . .

“I still have to say, I don’t know what the Child and the Mother may have said to trigger his reaction.”

I don’t understand why you keep including a 9-year-old child as being a possible culpable party.

Am I missing something here?

Wazzup, folks???

He told the child the truth, which is something HER BIOLOGICAL MOTHER should have did a LONG time ago.

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Also, what did her real Dad say to her. All these years he got somebody else taking care of his responsibilities? Yall, want to clown the deadbeat Dad, clown this MF.

She may not be his biological daughter, but she, in no way, deserved that sort of immature cruelty either.
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What was “cruel” about the truthful text message?

neither one of them are right for what happened…the mother more wrong than Flip.

But Flip didn’t need to tell the girl that, UNLESS the mother was telling her something about Flip’s responsibility to her that wasn’t true.

Who knows? Maybe Flip had a prior conversation about this and it blew up to where the girl was right there and he felt he had to tell her that.

The money issue? Can’t say. You never know.

From the sounds of it, just two adults who need to work this situation out IMO.

“What exactly was the problem with the truthful text message?”

Nothing at all.

Don’t ever procreate.

anybody here suprised?
i’m still scratching my head @ a 9 year old having a cell phone but here nor there it was pretty evil of him to break the news in that way just to get back at the mother. poor baby is scarred for life now..cool thanks.
and lmao wtf @ him waiting on a phone call from a 4 year old. Dude YOU make that phone call. YOU call your son..and do It often. You never know how many days you have left on this earth.

@ mijdc

i wouldn call flip wrong either.. mayb a lil insensitive.. soooooo.. ?????????? LMFAO!!!!!

@MIJDC

There’s nothing wrong with him telling the truth, which her mother should have done anyway, but the way he did it was beyond ignorant…

I don’t understand why you keep including a 9-year-old child as being a possible culpable party.

Am I missing something here?

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Syd,

Don’t play like you aint never met a smart mouth nine year old? I don’t attack the kids, but let’s keep it real.

OMG!!! LMAOOOOOOOO

changes… changes.

(you know who, know what I’m talking about)

Caramel Cat™
12/28/09, 15:25:pm

@MIJDC

There’s nothing wrong with him telling the truth, which her mother should have done anyway, but the way he did it was beyond ignorant…
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Couldn’t agree with you more, Caramel Cat…

9 yo – wth daddy??!! where the damm child suppport check?? why u not taking care of us??!!!

FLIP – wth?? i ain really yo pappi child.. ask yo momma!!!!

truth is truth.. no matter how it hurt )

Hey Daywalker! Glad you joined the thread…

@This some Shhh. . .

“Don’t play like you aint never met a smart mouth nine year old? I don’t attack the kids, but let’s keep it real.”

You’re referring to this incident as “smart mouthing?” Telling a child in a text that you’re not her father goes beyond scolding a little girl.

Or don’t you know that?

*Twilight Zone music playing*

“What was “cruel” about the truthful text message?”

Again. . .

DON’T
EVER
PROCREATE.

Too bad people don’t come with warning or content labels cause then i am sure this could have all been avoided. the fact is that they don’t you don’t know whats under the hood officially until you pop it. she seems to have been f u c k i n with him for a while and people always present the side of themselves they want you to see. and $500 a month??? wtf is that?? my daughters tuition is more than that. lets not forget the clothes/uniforms and shoes and food and lights and water and field trips and sports teams and gas and everything else that is needed for my daughter to have the best advantages that she can. people tend to forget about those things. the mother always ends up doing more. $500 is hardly enough. don’t get me wrong just because a man tries to sell you a dream doesn’t mean you have to buy it but in love has a 50/50 chance of survival anyway. and for all of those other people that seem to have the answers the lotto is coming up can i please use your crystal balls after you???

Caramel Cat™
12/28/09, 15:30:pm

Hey Daywalker! Glad you joined the thread…
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Glad to be here, hun!! And to make matters worse, the jackazz did it on Christmas!! That poor kid is going to have to go through the rest of her life knowing that Flip was the one who basically ruined Christmas for her…Yeah, he’s an azz for that!!!

@ My Baad, What up?

How’s about, “You aint shit, nucca. My Momma the only one who ever did something for us. You aint no man, nucca, you’se a punk”

@MIJDC

Text message scenario 1: Sweetheart, I hate to break it to you like this but I am not your real father. Talk to your momma about this if you don’t understand.

C R A P P Y Text message scenario 2: By the way Im not your real dad, just so you’ll know the truth!

Which do you think is better handled????? That’s all I’m saying, he HANDLED this terribly…

@MY BAAD
“truth is truth.. no matter how it hurt )”
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So simple, yet so eloquent.

She had demonstrated that she had NO intentions of revealing to that child who her father was.
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pure speculation.

If flip flop didnt wanna be considered as her father he shouldnt have played that role. She didnt make him or force him to be in her daughters life. That lil girl thought that was her daddy because HE demonstrated that. and then why me malicious about it? If you keeping it real and telling the truth. Why not let that information be known from jump, when tha girl first start calling his azz daddy.

The truth of the matter is this bum decieded to get back at the situation by throwing low blows at that girl.

Having your puppy get hit by a car on X-Mas eve is crappy. Having a nucca, who hasn’t been doing anything for you in several years, tell you he’s not your Father, PRICELESS.

Well Day
What Flip did to her will have to make her stronger forget worrying about him ruining her christmas – Christmas is about more than that so I hope she will learn to see the brighter things in life-we all have a past that haunts us but we must all learn to cope and move on-for her sake I hope she is stronger cuz Flip being an idiot and texting her is not the only hurdle she will have to jump in life….

yooo i know this chick thats grimey as sh!t..

she was in a relationship with chick but got preggers one faithful eve by sum random dude..

she told the dude to stay out of her life cuz she was embrassed about him (figure that one out)

then she told her then gf that she planned the whole pregnancy

now every person she deals with is supposed to play that “daddy” role

5 yrs later the original gf asked me if the crudball chick got preggers on purpose for them.. LMFAO!!! she still maintaining that lie.. sum ppl r soooo fkn gullable.. sad really

Your “friend” = YOU

@CARAMEL CAT
“Text message scenario 1: Sweetheart, I hate to break it to you like this but I am not your real father. Talk to your momma about this if you don’t understand.

C R A P P Y Text message scenario 2: By the way Im not your real dad, just so you’ll know the truth!

Which do you think is better handled????? That’s all I’m saying, he HANDLED this terribly…”
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I understood your point the first time. The thing is, no matter HOW he said it, someone could have aruged that it was “rude.”

The bottom line is the child needed to be told and he did that.

Choco
12/28/09, 15:39:pm

Well Day
What Flip did to her will have to make her stronger forget worrying about him ruining her christmas – Christmas is about more than that so I hope she will learn to see the brighter things in life-we all have a past that haunts us but we must all learn to cope and move on-for her sake I hope she is stronger cuz Flip being an idiot and texting her is not the only hurdle she will have to jump in life….
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Hey hun!!

I agree it’s not the only thing she’s going to have to deal with, but why make things harder for the kid than need be?? She didn’t ask this idiot to “play daddy”, he volunteered…If he didn’t want to do it, he should have kept it real from the beginning, and told her “Look baby, I’m not your father, but I love you regardless!!” That would have been better than what he chose to do here in my opinion….

@ This some shhhh

How’s about, “You aint *****, nucca. My Momma the only one who ever did something for us. You aint no man, nucca, you’se a punk”
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Exactly!!!!!

@ Mijdc

So simple, yet so eloquent.
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Heard??!!! she should be happy he dropped the truth.. one lie down and who knows how many left to go…

child cheese!! LOL

Wow.

I guess I’m just not “hard” enough.

@CANDY CANE
“She had demonstrated that she had NO intentions of revealing to that child who her father was.
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pure speculation.

If flip flop didnt wanna be considered as her father he shouldnt have played that role. She didnt make him or force him to be in her daughters life. That lil girl thought that was her daddy because HE demonstrated that. and then why me malicious about it? If you keeping it real and telling the truth. Why not let that information be known from jump, when tha girl first start calling his azz daddy.

The truth of the matter is this bum decieded to get back at the situation by throwing low blows at that girl.”
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How is a man NOT going to be a father figure if you are romantically involved with the mother?????? Does that sound logical????????????? Of course he played that role… BY CHOICE. The thing is, he isn’t OBLIGATED to play it.

Now, I’m not “speculating” because by the mother’s OWN ADMISSION SHE DIDN’T TELL HER 9 YR OLD DAUGHTER WHO HER FATHER IS. That’s a demonstration of her intent if she didn’t do it NINE YEARS.

SMH.

@MIJDC

I think a text message in general about this topic was rude. The situation could have been handled so much better, but I’m sure Lil Flip is not the poster child for tactfulness or cooth.

@Day
I agree it’s all in how you approach it but this must not weaken this child we live in a very different world today…I just pray she finds strength in this situation as opposed to feeling less about oneself…
Plans for new year???

All ya’ll expect me to side with the woman, but guess what i dont and wanna know why? This is what happens when you decide to become a “multiple babymomma” instead of a wife!

Exactly how long did you expect a wack azz bama rapper to stay relevant? Lil Flip? I cant name one song from this n*gga.

@CARAMEL CAT
“I think a text message in general about this topic was rude. The situation could have been handled so much better, but I’m sure Lil Flip is not the poster child for tactfulness or cooth.”
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Yeah, but being “rude” or “tactful” is subjective while the truth is not. We could disagree for forever and an eternity and the fact would remain that:

1. he isn’t the child’s father
2. her mother didn’t tell her in 9 yrs time
3. he isn’t obligated to her

It’s really that simple even if it was delivered bluntly.

My thing is, if the mother was so concerned about how it was delivered to her child, she had NINE YEARS to do so. **shrugging shoulders**

Choco
12/28/09, 15:51:pm

@Day
I agree it’s all in how you approach it but this must not weaken this child we live in a very different world today…I just pray she finds strength in this situation as opposed to feeling less about oneself…
Plans for new year???
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Well, I may be moving to Baton Rouge…I got offered a promotion, and I’m considering it..I have till mid January to let them know if I’m interested. If I decide to roll with it, I’ll sell my house here and move sometime in Februrary……

Oh and that January incident that she doesnt want to discuss that made him start acting this way? You know damn well she was caught f*ckin’ another n*gga with even less money than this n*gga!

Thats why he cut her azz off! Remember ya’ll the first babydaddy wanted nothing to do with her dumb azz!

Now you gotta get a job b*tch, but dont worry you’ll have another $500 this thursday!

@MIJDC

I agree that the mother should have told her daughter a long time ago about her real father, my first comment on this thread outlines that. But, both parties were at fault with this. Anyone with eyes can see that Flip did this out of spite. He sent that message to be hurtful, not honest….

@MIJDC

okay your comprehension is flawed since your swinging from flips aids invested nuts so hard.

But that’s something if he was gonna do.. discussed with the mother FIRST. She should have been the one to break that to her.. better yet both of them together. See you dl’s are all the same. Blame the woman, screw the logistical side of the situation. Thats part of the game with dating men/women with children. Just like if you told your boyfriend’s kid, your not really his uncle but his gay step dad it would be cool… just dont do by text, and be so b*tchy, and immature about it.

Do the right thing for once in your life! That adorable child didnt deserve that mess regardless of how fit or unfit her parents or pseudo parents are.

We don’t know his side.
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@This some Shhh….

Cousin, we saying the same thing like a synonym…

We don’t know HIS side of the story, this broad could be triflin’ as hell!!! Sh*t we ALL got co-workers that we know ain’t fit to be parents… SMH

She (*author of this letter) has shown us that she doesn’t have good judgement = after getting knocked up 1 time by a no good dude that hasn’t been in his child’s life, you would of thought she would be like:

“I ain’t going thru this bullsh*t again, I’ma find me a good man that will love me and show my daughter what a real man is!!! My daughter ain’t gonna work no pole ’cause she ain’t have a father in her life, f*ck that!!!”

But NOOOO, she picked a Goofy a$$ rapper that was a 1 hit wonder… Scroll up and look at that b*tch a$$ ni@@a… Does he look like a mature & responsible adult to you???

Ladies, can you see that man being the father of your child??? If your answer is “yes”, GAME OVER for you because I can tell that you can’t pick a good man for sh*t – you can just look at him and tell he ain’t sh*t…

@Day
That sounds like an exciting new year wish you much success regardless : )

It ain’t the point of how many songs you can name by this dude, what he did to that lil girl, was trif. He’ll pay for that in the long run. We already know he ain’t making no bread, cause IF he was, he’d be ordered to pay WAY more than $500. Obviously he be fronting in those raps. Acting like he spend millions on his teeth, but giving your kid $500 a month. GTFOH!…. Like Russell Simmons said. He don’t care how much Kimora ask for, he’ll pay it. If he lives well, he wants his kids to live well too.

@Caramel

“He sent that message to be hurtful, not honest….”

Exactly. He intentionally hurt a 9-year-old. There’s no honor in that.

@Candy Cane

“Do the right thing for once in your life! That adorable child didnt deserve that mess regardless of how fit or unfit her parents or pseudo parents are.”

Thank you.

Candy Cane
12/28/09, 16:00:pm

@MIJDC

okay your comprehension is flawed since your swinging from flips aids invested nuts so hard.

But that’s something if he was gonna do.. discussed with the mother FIRST. She should have been the one to break that to her.. better yet both of them together. See you dl’s are all the same. Blame the woman, screw the logistical side of the situation. Thats part of the game with dating men/women with children. Just like if you told your boyfriend’s kid, your not really his uncle but his gay step dad it would be cool… just dont do by text, and be so b*tchy, and immature about it.

Do the right thing for once in your life! That adorable child didnt deserve that mess regardless of how fit or unfit her parents or pseudo parents are.
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Actually, I have to agree with you here…THEY BOTH should have sat with that child and explained things to her…The way Flip chose to do it was spiteful, hateful and injured that child’s feelings…Even if it was the truth, the manner in which it was delivered is at question, not the fact that it was the truth….

Why do folks think all those rhinestones and colored stones are real diamonds-none of that ish is real!

What exactly was the problem with the truthful text message?”

Nothing at all.

Don’t ever procreate.
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My feelings exactely. Please don’t have any children or adopt or even become a foster parent. Maybe the truth should have been told. However, it could have been done in a better manner. I tell you everytime I read this site. I see why the black community is in the destructive state that it is currently in.

Of course we know ol’ girl is trife.. duh look at flip, you think he really be with the cream of the crop.

What our opinion of them is one thing, but his actions towards the kids is unexcuseable. And again, if she chose a better guy, she probably wouldnt be having this problem. and if he was a better guy, he wouldnt be having this problem either. This thread wouldnt exsist. Everyone talking about she should be married, well clearly he should be too.. and his bum azz wouldnt be on child support… that shyt aint cute.

bottom line.

@CANDY CANE
“okay your comprehension is flawed since your swinging from flips aids invested nuts so hard.

But that’s something if he was gonna do.. discussed with the mother FIRST. She should have been the one to break that to her.. better yet both of them together. See you dl’s are all the same. Blame the woman, screw the logistical side of the situation. Thats part of the game with dating men/women with children. Just like if you told your boyfriend’s kid, your not really his uncle but his gay step dad it would be cool… just dont do by text, and be so b*tchy, and immature about it.

Do the right thing for once in your life! That adorable child didnt deserve that mess regardless of how fit or unfit her parents or pseudo parents are.”
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ROFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!! That was funny, I must admit. Even original. Never would have envisioned you, as a black woman, would question my sexuality as a black man. Never saw that coming. Speaking of which, you seem to know a lot about the “lifestyle.” You sure you aren’t “special friends,” or “cousins” with another young lady? If so, it’s great because that is beautiful and natural with two women.

Anyway, exactly where was this “logistical side” when the mother neglected to tell her daughter who her father was for OVER NINE YEARS?

@Day
Thanks sweets…

@Daywalker

I agree with you too. I’ll put it like this, that baby couldnt choose her parents. But those parents chose to have that baby. And him playing house with that chick, no matter how trife she was/is. Is not the business. He NEVER had to assume that responsibility if he didnt want to. And there is really NO around that argument regardless who did what.

Game Ova Flip…. Flop.

Now that I think about it, does this woman even KNOW who her child’s father is?

“Well back in January of 2009 I decided to end our very volatile relationship due to personal reasons that I’d rather not discuss.” Translation:

“I was fuggin all kinds of nuccas so we broke up.”

“I tell you everytime I read this site. I see why the black community is in the destructive state that it is currently in.”

I tell myself that a number of these posters are just trying to provoke a negative reaction, but I don’t know. . .I think some of them actually believe what they write. It’s more than having a sensitivity chip missing — we’re talking about not having a basic sense of what’s right or wrong. When you extend that lack of a conscience to the welfare of children, it’s chilling.

I do question the mother also for not telling her daughter the truth about her father-what was the point in pretending…GET A JOB Lady Flip!

Choco
12/28/09, 16:10:pm

@Day
Thanks sweets…
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I only say it cause it’s true, ma……

OMG IRREGARDLESS IS NOT A REAL WORD!!! GEEZ!! I HATE THAT. IT IS JUST PLAIN REGARDLESS! IRREGARDLESS IS A DOUBLE NEGATIVE!

WHAT UP DAY WALKER!!

@MIJDC

Now that I think about it, does this woman even KNOW who her child’s father is?

“Well back in January of 2009 I decided to end our very volatile relationship due to personal reasons that I’d rather not discuss.” Translation:

“I was fuggin all kinds of nuccas so we broke up.”

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NEGATIVE

THAT MEANS

HE WAS F*CKIN ALL TYPES OF HOES!!!

That’s so sad. Unfortunately, the ONLY victims here are the children. Lil Flip is a complete do uche for doing that to that child.

Game Ova Flip…. Flop.

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DEAD!!!

@I’M JUST ME
“Now that I think about it, does this woman even KNOW who her child’s father is?

“Well back in January of 2009 I decided to end our very volatile relationship due to personal reasons that I’d rather not discuss.” Translation:

“I was fuggin all kinds of nuccas so we broke up.”

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NEGATIVE

THAT MEANS

HE WAS F*CKIN ALL TYPES OF HOES!!!”
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You and I BOTH know that she is a hoe who lied to her own daughter to be with LIL FLIP!!

She wasn’t callin it quits with Flip for him fuggin some other hoes. Let’s be real for a second here.

AH DIRTY BASTARD….U DONT DO THAT TO THE CHILDREN LET HER MOTHER EXPLAIN WHO’S THE FATHER…WIT HIS OLE JUICEY BRASS MOUF AZZ

@Syd
I think some of them actually believe what they write. It’s more than having a sensitivity chip missing — we’re talking about not having a basic sense of what’s right or wrong. When you extend that lack of a conscience to the welfare of children, it’s chilling.
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Truth be told I’m amazed everyday at how much negativity is spread on blogs sites I’ve been known to attack back but only after I’m attacked…it speak volumes to how the world is today and why it is this way….a lot of people wear their pain on their sleeve and take their frustration out on others that have nothing to do with their pain!

He should have told her there aint no Santa Claus, too.

Heeey, I’m Just!!! How are ya, boo??

@I’M JUST ME
“Now that I think about it, does this woman even KNOW who her child’s father is?

“Well back in January of 2009 I decided to end our very volatile relationship due to personal reasons that I’d rather not discuss.” Translation:

“I was fuggin all kinds of nuccas so we broke up.”

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NEGATIVE

THAT MEANS

HE WAS F*CKIN ALL TYPES OF HOES!!!”
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You and I BOTH know that she is a hoe who lied to her own daughter to be with LIL FLIP!!

She wasn’t callin it quits with Flip for him fuggin some other hoes. Let’s be real for a second here.

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WHAT! It isn’t like he is balling crazy and he is a typical male. How do you know it because of him messing up. He is the famous one!

@ Day

I am good Pa…how you doing? How was Christmas?

@THIS SOME SHHHHHH
“He should have told her there aint no Santa Claus, too.”
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ROFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!

HEY DIVA!!!

What a douche. *Waits for his son to write and Al B. Sure, Jr. type letter.*

Your response makes it quite obvious that my statement about the dissolution of the black community is correct. Thanks for reaffirming my theory

SMH men going in on her cause hes a dead baet thats just sad

http://www.twitter.com/ms_holliday

Well they were not together for 6 months… but 6 YEARS. Now they both trife, BUT for him to tell that girl he wasnt her father, would reveal the fact that he INDEED had been conducting himself as such. So if he was in a relationship with her mother, and took on that role, maybe they wanted to tell that child that information once she was able to mature enough and old enought to understand that a “father figure” comes in many forms. and being her biological fater doesnt make hiim her daddy… clearly.

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YES! Exactly! OMG! This is crazy! What is wrong with that?? I know many a men that have stepped up and took on a child that wasn’t theirs. Now when they told my friends (or in one case my Godchild) they spoke together about it to them and broke it down and they answered the questions, etc. Flip did this as a straight stab and for that he is not a man but a boy in my eyes.

I’m Just Me: Keeping It Real Since: 1983.
12/28/09, 16:23:pm

@ Day

I am good Pa…how you doing? How was Christmas?
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It was good!! I cooked plenty, ate like a horse and had a good time all day, ma! how was yours???

@Choco

“it speak volumes to how the world is today and why it is this way….a lot of people wear their pain on their sleeve and take their frustration out on others that have nothing to do with their pain!”

But are we really at the point (the nadir, IMO) of agreeing with someone taking his frustrations out on an innocent child?

I’ve seen more and more written by the decline in common civility among people, and I certainly think technology has contributed to it. We can write whatever we want — no matter how despicable or vile — behind the cloak of anonymity.

I just thought that when it came to children, there was a line that wouldn’t be crossed. I see, sadly, I was wrong.

@This some Shhh. . .

“He should have told her there aint no Santa Claus, too.”

I hope you received a lump of coal — dropped from Santa’s hand right on your head.

Man, I just don’t care™
12/28/09, 16:23:pm

@THIS SOME SHHHHHH
“He should have told her there aint no Santa Claus, too.”
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ROFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!
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While he was at it, he shoulda went hard on the Easter Bunny, the Tooth Fairy and the Great Pumpkin too….SMH….

I’m Just Me: Keeping It Real Since: 1983.
12/28/09, 16:23:pm

@ Day

I am good Pa…how you doing? How was Christmas?
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It was good!! I cooked plenty, ate like a horse and had a good time all day, ma! how was yours???

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It was great. I saw Big Daddy, spent time with fam, ate sum surf and turf and got almost all of what I wanted. LOL!

People who think that it was okay to tell this child this particular informaiton in this manner have no moral compass at all.

@ Sydney

Hey Lady! How was Christmas?? Happy New Year!

I’m Just Me: Keeping It Real Since: 1983.
12/28/09, 16:28:pm

Well they were not together for 6 months… but 6 YEARS. Now they both trife, BUT for him to tell that girl he wasnt her father, would reveal the fact that he INDEED had been conducting himself as such. So if he was in a relationship with her mother, and took on that role, maybe they wanted to tell that child that information once she was able to mature enough and old enought to understand that a “father figure” comes in many forms. and being her biological fater doesnt make hiim her daddy… clearly.

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YES! Exactly! OMG! This is crazy! What is wrong with that?? I know many a men that have stepped up and took on a child that wasn’t theirs. Now when they told my friends (or in one case my Godchild) they spoke together about it to them and broke it down and they answered the questions, etc. Flip did this as a straight stab and for that he is not a man but a boy in my eyes.
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More like a straight B*tch azz buster….

@ Daywalker

Might as well. They need to know this world aint make believe and filled with Disney characters.

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@ Sydney

I wish a cat named Santa Claus would show up at my crib.

All the same, though, me and the girls did it big for the Holidays. Kept Christ first.

People who think that it was okay to tell this child this particular informaiton in this manner have no moral comp***** at all.

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It was horrible! I cannot believe he did that. He is not a real man for the way he did that. He did it as a stab. Why would you want to hurt a 9 year old child like that? He is not a man!

@Syd
Not crossing a line where a child is concerned has taken a back seat in this decade and while it is sad and disheartening it is what it is and I’m with you 100% children are the innocent victims but it’s folks that can’t handle their own pain who put this type of ish on children I don’t even want to remind you of what has happened to children in the past couple of months all that is sacred seems to be lost, however I will always try to live GOD like that’s the best I can do…

I’m Just Me: Keeping It Real Since: 1983.
12/28/09, 16:34:pm

I’m Just Me: Keeping It Real Since: 1983.
12/28/09, 16:23:pm

@ Day

I am good Pa…how you doing? How was Christmas?
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It was good!! I cooked plenty, ate like a horse and had a good time all day, ma! how was yours???

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It was great. I saw Big Daddy, spent time with fam, ate sum surf and turf and got almost all of what I wanted. LOL!
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Well it’s nice to know he’s doing ok, ma…Hold it down for him!! How soon before he’s back with you???

Hey IJM! Did you have a good holiday?

@This some Shhh. . .

Yeah, I hope Santa showed up at your place, too, and you gave you an old heave-ho-ho-ho right in the groin.

“All the same, though, me and the girls did it big for the Holidays. Kept Christ first.”

Oh, really, now? Why don’t you do the same in here? SMH. LOL!

I’m Just Me: Keeping It Real Since: 1983.
12/28/09, 16:28:pm

Well they were not together for 6 months… but 6 YEARS. Now they both trife, BUT for him to tell that girl he wasnt her father, would reveal the fact that he INDEED had been conducting himself as such. So if he was in a relationship with her mother, and took on that role, maybe they wanted to tell that child that information once she was able to mature enough and old enought to understand that a “father figure” comes in many forms. and being her biological fater doesnt make hiim her daddy… clearly.

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YES! Exactly! OMG! This is crazy! What is wrong with that?? I know many a men that have stepped up and took on a child that wasn’t theirs. Now when they told my friends (or in one case my Godchild) they spoke together about it to them and broke it down and they answered the questions, etc. Flip did this as a straight stab and for that he is not a man but a boy in my eyes.
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More like a straight B*tch azz buster….

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I am trying to be nice for the holidays….you know i got a lot more %*$^W(^&)*(^#$*^#@&*$%&%@&(%$ for that ninja! LOL!

@JK
“Your response makes it quite obvious that my statement about the dissolution of the black community is correct. Thanks for reaffirming my theory ”
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The black community is pretty resilient and has proven it can overcome overwhelming odds stacked against it.

I don’t see this time in history as being any more calamitous than any other.

SMH at pessimistic people.

TEST!!!

I’m Just Me: Keeping It Real Since: 1983.
12/28/09, 16:34:pm

I’m Just Me: Keeping It Real Since: 1983.
12/28/09, 16:23:pm

@ Day

I am good Pa…how you doing? How was Christmas?
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It was good!! I cooked plenty, ate like a horse and had a good time all day, ma! how was yours???

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It was great. I saw Big Daddy, spent time with fam, ate sum surf and turf and got almost all of what I wanted. LOL!
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Well it’s nice to know he’s doing ok, ma…Hold it down for him!! How soon before he’s back with you???

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3 MONTHS 2 WEEKS AND 5 DAYS!! WHOO HOO! I am ready. 3/1/10 I send out the coming home clothes. I get to see him every Saturday this month (January I mean). So i am super excited.

@Choco

” don’t even want to remind you of what has happened to children in the past couple of months all that is sacred seems to be lost, however I will always try to live GOD like that’s the best I can do…”

I’ve had to stop reading a lot of news because there are just too many disturbing tragedies/horrific crimes being committed.

When it comes to kids, I absolutely wear my heart on my sleeve. They’re the most innocent and defenseless among us. They never deserve to be hurt.

Oh, really, now? Why don’t you do the same in here? SMH. LOL!

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Cause yall aint kids, and should know better. Why don’t yall contact Ms Flippette and get that little girl out of this obvious dysfunctional household. Flip aint in that huose, the Mother is, and she is ultimately responsible for the welfare of the child. If that cell phone is on T-Mobile, you can program who she can/cannot talk/text with online.

@ Syd

Yes, yes I did. Relaxed, saw hubby, blessed the baby and everything is great. What about you??

I’m Just Me: Keeping It Real Since: 1983. LIL FLIP IS A PUNK ***** *****!
12/28/09, 16:41:pm

I’m Just Me: Keeping It Real Since: 1983.
12/28/09, 16:34:pm

I’m Just Me: Keeping It Real Since: 1983.
12/28/09, 16:23:pm

@ Day

I am good Pa…how you doing? How was Christmas?
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It was good!! I cooked plenty, ate like a horse and had a good time all day, ma! how was yours???

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It was great. I saw Big Daddy, spent time with fam, ate sum surf and turf and got almost all of what I wanted. LOL!
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Well it’s nice to know he’s doing ok, ma…Hold it down for him!! How soon before he’s back with you???

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3 MONTHS 2 WEEKS AND 5 DAYS!! WHOO HOO! I am ready. 3/1/10 I send out the coming home clothes. I get to see him every Saturday this month (January I mean). So i am super excited.
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Well I couldn’t be happier for you, ma!!

@Syd
The news will sicken your heart I can’t even deny that and again girl I know that children deserve to be treated as GOLD but even going back to my own childhood girl everything happens for a reason…I’m closer to GOD becuz of my adversity and I pray this child will become closer to him as a result-but trust and know I feel your concern….

@THIS SOME SHHHH
“Cause yall aint kids, and should know better. Why don’t yall contact Ms Flippette and get that little girl out of this obvious dysfunctional household. Flip aint in that huose, the Mother is, and she is ultimately responsible for the welfare of the child. If that cell phone is on T-Mobile, you can program who she can/cannot talk/text with online.”
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That is a good point.

“Cause yall aint kids, and should know better.”

No, you should know better.

@IJM

I spent time with my family and my little niece who’s adorable. I’m glad you enjoyed your holiday.

@ Day

Thank you. How is errthing by you?

@ Man

I know I say some crazy shit, but it comes from a logical perspective.

@Choco

“I’m closer to GOD becuz of my adversity and I pray this child will become closer to him as a result-but trust and know I feel your concern….”

I think some people believe that things don’t affect children as deeply as they think, but, the truth is, kids not only feel a lot, they also remember situations that have hurt them for years. When an adult hurts a child, it often leaves a mark.

It’s all fun and games until your kids start calling the next one daddy. God Bless!

LIL FLIP could do so much better ! Ladies please in 2010 don`t lump all black man in with this dude ! He is by himself with whatever other creep azz dude`s on ” FAIL ISLAND ” who don`t care about there seeds !

Choco
12/28/09, 16:47:pm

@Syd
The news will sicken your heart I can’t even deny that and again girl I know that children deserve to be treated as GOLD but even going back to my own childhood girl everything happens for a reason…I’m closer to GOD becuz of my adversity and I pray this child will become closer to him as a result-but trust and know I feel your concern….
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I feel ya ma…But that was a low and very base thing to do..I mean I could care less if you talk about me like I have a tail, but to do that to a kid?? I’d be ashamed to show my face in public…How was your Christmas, boo?? Did you get any good stuff??? LOL!!

OK, Candy Cane makes me laugh, lol.

@This some Shhh. . .

“I know I say some crazy *****, but it comes from a logical perspective.”

Well, you’re half-right.

@Syd
that’s the point I was making adults need to learn how to cope with their pain from the past otherwise there is no real progress….

I’m Just Me: Keeping It Real Since: 1983. LIL FLIP IS A PUNK ***** *****!
12/28/09, 16:49:pm

@ Day

Thank you. How is errthing by you?
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I may be moving to Baton Rouge…I got offered a promotion and they want an answer by mid January…My girl lives there already, so it would save me on gas, and I’d be getting more money too, so I’m really considering it….

dont you just shake your head when you see somebody date some person that has a bad history with somebody else. ie, violence,prison time,criminal activity. cheating, std, non-parenting, etc. and think … “oh well they not gonna do that to me?”
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@Candy Cane

I gotta family friend just like that…

We’re around the same age and there was this dude that was a little older than us that hustled (*street pharmacist) and had a son that to our knowledge he didn’t really take care of ’cause we would always see him huggin’ the block and/or in front of the corner store doing what he do… Well anyways, they began dating and as you would guess he eventually got caught and ended up doing a little bit of time…

To make a long story short, she ended up having a kid with him but being that he’s from the street he’s still got that mentality and does what street ni@@as do (*he don’t sell dope no more but he got the best job that he could with the felony) and also hangs out with hood ni@@as and does what they do = don’t really take care of their kids, cheat on their baby mommas, etc…

Point is she be complaining to a mutual friend of ours and ol’ boy tells her = you know what kind of dude he was from the beginning why did you even mess with him like that and have the nerve to get pregnant by him… SMMFH

If you haven’t seen or lived through some of this, then you are talking hypotheticals or what ifs. That means when you are really faced with some of these challenges, you really don’t know how you are going to react. Keep it real, and stop acting like yall are semi concerned with this little girls life.

@Choco

“that’s the point I was making adults need to learn how to cope with their pain from the past otherwise there is no real progress….”

I think that’s easier said than done for a lot of people. In more instances than not, what we experience during childhood shapes who we are as adults. Children are very vulnerable to so much — That’s why they MUST be protected, at all costs.

“Keep it real, and stop acting like yall are semi concerned with this little girls life.”

How do you know people aren’t?

Keep Christ first, you hear?

@slide

That was a PERFECT example! Happens ALL the time.

@ Choco

what you doing???

@ Sydney

Tell that to Lil Flip, that’s who you mad at. If you are doing more to help that little girl, more power too ya.

@Choco

I agree with what you are saying, that kids gotta learn to deal with life’s tough lessons and roll with the punches. But, I see nothing wrong with people being concerned about how much negativity our youth is exposed to. TJ Holmes did a special on CNN about how our youth is so exposed to violence, negativity, etc. that their brains are showing a numbing effect. They are beginning to get immune to certain things that should be shocking. That in itself is scary, and pretty soon they’ll all grow up to be heartless shrewd individuals. That’s not something to look forward to in our future, so I think that handling children as the delicate people they are is important. Their brains are not done developing and molding is still taking place even up to the age of 18…

LMAO @ Choco

Oops!

@This some Shhh. . .

“If you are doing more to help that little girl, more power too ya.”

One thing I’m not going to do is blame her for the situation or make light of it. I’ll leave that for you. Pray on that.

I’m out, people. Have a good one!

@MIJDC

Oh puh-lease. If for some sick reason I did offer this precious puzzy to you…

1. wouldnt know what to do with it considering you like tube steak.

2. I’m not in the business of turning you out into a HETERO-sexual. I believe you should stay gay.. I dont wanna break up you and Anton’s happy home.

BUT….
I might.. just might, let you toss my salad so you can tell me how my azz taste. I know you have plenty of practice at it.

Bye Syd!

Damm who would post on whole thread ….. in the thread.

*scracthing head*

@Syd and Caramel Cat
I think that’s easier said than done for a lot of people. In more instances than not, what we experience during childhood shapes who we are as adults. Children are very vulnerable to so much — That’s why they MUST be protected, at all costs.
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I agree with you both k Sis’ however I can’t expect for my life to be perfect when the very GOD who created was nailed to a cross for OUR SINS not his and with that being said I have to keep a realistic view of life and that means ish happens I’m concerned about this little girl but I’m a firm believer in GOD and with him anything is possible which is why people need to look to GOD in their times of confusion, hurtm, pain, dissappointment, rejection don’t bury so deep in your gut for it only to resurface but check yourself and check out why these feelings are coming forth-our children should be protected and they are only the world is an imperfect world….
@Im Just Keepn
Nutn boo bout be out in 20 mins and see yall folks tomorrow-was good?

Sydney™
12/28/09, 17:06:pm

LMAO @ Choco

Oops!

@This some Shhh. . .

“If you are doing more to help that little girl, more power too ya.”

One thing I’m not going to do is blame her for the situation or make light of it. I’ll leave that for you. Pray on that.

I’m out, people. Have a good one!
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Bye, Syd!! Be safe on the way home, ma!!!
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@ Candy Cane
12/28/09, 17:06:pm

@MIJDC

Oh puh-lease. If for some sick reason I did offer this precious puzzy to you…

1. wouldnt know what to do with it considering you like tube steak.

2. I’m not in the business of turning you out into a HETERO-sexual. I believe you should stay gay.. I dont wanna break up you and Anton’s happy home.

BUT….
I might.. just might, let you toss my salad so you can tell me how my azz taste. I know you have plenty of practice at it.
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I treat all puzzy like it’s precious….Unless it stinks…Then I leave it on the curb for pickup on Wednesdays with the rest of the trash……

@Syd
Damn chick oops is right why did I come back and was like who did that only to scroll and see it was ME LMAO LOL

Poor girl has not gained one benefit from putting homeboy on blast, just a lot of painful perspective and insight that she could’ve had herself, if she had only asked Santa for a brain-

instead of asking lil flip for extra christmas money.

Choco
12/28/09, 17:13:pm

And did you get the email I sent you, ma???

@Choco

I agree with you and I am a firm believer that God will handle all situations accordingly. However He gave us tools in this life. One of those tools is a brain that gives us the ability to reason and make adequate decisions. We were also blessed with consciences so that we be able to reason with right or wrong. Thus, we are responsible for using those tools to help contribute to society and to better mankind and our youth. I think that if we just sit back and say that God will handle it all, we are not exercising the very God given things we should be using on this earth. Nevertheless his mercy always gets us through…

@ddmlibra

“Poor girl has not gained one benefit from putting homeboy on blast,”
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wait.. you never know. She just might get a reality show on BET. You see how they hooked up Frankie and Neffe trife azz.

Have a good night everyone! I’m out!

Candy Cane
12/28/09, 17:19:pm

@ddmlibra

“Poor girl has not gained one benefit from putting homeboy on blast,”
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wait.. you never know. She just might get a reality show on BET. You see how they hooked up Frankie and Neffe trife azz.
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No kidding!! If they’ll put them 2 on the air, any body has a shot!! (Pondering pitching the “Daywalker Diaries” to VH-1…)

Bye, Caramel Cat!! (HUGS)

@Day

why havent you emailed me too?

@Caramel
I don’t think GOD will handle it all and my point is exactly what you are saying we have our own brains so why not use our brains and our hearts to learn how to cope-like for instance people who comment on these blogs will spread hate I’m not into spreading hate unless I have to set the record straight-but I honestly try not to judge but others are quick to do it-we have a choice to be compassionate or not I do rely on myself and when I can’t I turn to GOD…

@CANDY CANE

You’d let me toss your salad huh? I feel you, nothing wrong with that. I know ur girl or some of the nuccas that u fugg have done that to you.

Anyway, the point remains the same, he told the bazturd child that he wasn’t her father and that was the truth. Pure and simple. He wasn’t particularly crass or rude about it to me. Just blunt.
**shrugs shoulders**

No, I didn’t get it, but how could I not think of you, cutiepie?? You’re like the jam in my jellyroll!!

I must admit that was cute-I will holla at yall tomorrow
Stay safe and blessed!

Wow, next time don’t have children by a no good Ni%%A, she only has her self to blame!

Candy Cane
12/28/09, 17:25:pm

@Day

why havent you emailed me too?
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I don’t have an email address for you, hun..Otherwise, I would have…

DAYWALKER<<—————–ONLY TOSSES PUZZY SALADS…

^^^^^^

lol

paired 4 the kids i actually 4got about him

@MIJDC

oh whatever dude. Then you wanna call the lil girl a bastard. You are not even worth talking with.

Go find a tall building.. and jump off…..

weeeeeee…. splait!

@MIJDC

I dont even know what your talking about. and you did make that reference maybe you should scroll up idiot.

but your a one man minstrel show anyway… so future communication… denied.

@Daywalker

I’ll give it to you. Another day though.. dont want this lame gay guy in here to find me, tie me up and paint my nails and style my hair.

Candy Cane
12/28/09, 17:45:pm

@Daywalker

I’ll give it to you. Another day though.. dont want this lame gay guy in here to find me, tie me up and paint my nails and style my hair.
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Fair enough, ma…I sent emails to everyone I have addresses for on Christmas…And I even sent a couple of pictures too…LOL!!!

ok Daywalker,

next time then friend. Maybe I’ll get a new years email!!

@khalisa whatever ur damn name is. because you dont agree with something doesnt make it right or wrong. so what i bought my daughter who was 7 at the time a prepaid phone. a cell is a needed. lets say ur child goes to a friends house n something happens the place where your child goes the phone doesnt work there or somethingelse. especially after 9-11 alot of people want thier kids ot have cell in case of anything. cal 911 or whomever. where have you been heffer? take that take that take that

I’m going to tell you what my momma told me, because like alot of us on here. We had children out of wed lock. We were playing house with some dud who has zero intentions of making it official. So my momma kicked it to me just like this. Light seeker you have to hold it down on your own, don’t depend on him for shit. Given the moment comes when he decides to be the man you wished and hoped he’d be the father you thought he magically turn into after your child was born. Whatever he does do is a bonus. Get it a bonus. Like wow I didn’t expect that cuz I’ve been holding it down the whole time. Sorry ladies its the price we pay when we lay w/dogs. However 15yrs later my baby’s father is a good man a great father it didn’t come w/out its ups and downs. But we will celebrate are 15 yr anniversary this New Years eve. We have been together half our lives.

Aint nothing wrong with her 9yr old daughter having a cell phone && Hell I just had a baby and if her dad was to ever do something as cruel as he did I would put him on blast too.!

she didn’t rat him out because she didn’t want to be alone!!
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@Daywalker

That was the SAME exact mentality of the mother of the boy that I was talking about… She turned a blind eye to it because she loved that degenerate boyfriend of hers MORE than her own children The authorities only found out after probing (*damn, not a good choice of words)… questioning the boy to find out why he was soo angry and wouldn’t stay out of trouble…

It’s sad & DISGUSTING what some of these single mothers will put up with just to keep a man

THAT IS WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU HAVE A BABY FOR A PAYCHECK. PLUS LITTLE LIL AIN’T MAKING THAT MUCH MONEY. MY BABY DADDY WORK AT THE CITY AND HE PAY MORE CHILD SUPPORT THAN THAT. SHE PROBABLY MAD BECAUSE SHE CAN’T GET MORE MONEY.

see like i always said once you stop fuccing a dude they wanna get mad and slack up on taking care of the kids. not calling them or doing any fatherly duties. as long as she was fuccing homie he was doing what a daddy does. even raised a kid that was not his. now he has the nerve to text and tell the child he is not her real daddy?? he did that to fuc with the mother.that was a bytch move. just like a deadbeat messing with kids to get back At the mother.. let him go. now you see his true colors..

I’m with you Dr. Heather. My friend get $32 a month. She need to sit her azz down.

“I am not one of those fame hungry women that puts all of their business out there for attention”
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ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH, u b*tch!
…reading on…

@Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators:

That’s what kills me, dawg!! How can some chick care more about a dude than her own kids??

oh & one more thing hehe..why is it that every man she gets involved with she quickly introduces them as “daddy?”..smh..this woman clearly has her OWN “daddy” issues that she needs to overcome! …Would’ve been the ideal thing to do that before procreating however,sadly,some fo these women with no or a negative “father figure” in their lives are prone to make bad msitakes in life of continue/create some sort of pattern

if flip is paying child support then she need to shut up if she needs more take him to court and see what the judge says

Typical.

All he needs is a blunt and some police handcuffs and he’ll look like the typical black american man.

instead of gettin knocked up ur dumbass shouldve gotten a degree out of it lazy broad get another baby daddy try slim thug

Now who dey want…..NOT FLIPS AZZ!

LMAO @ Glok… My Weed iz my prozac! Too funny!

It’s good she put him on blast. Why should he get away scott-free for being an a$$. Maybe more of these ghetto girls will think 5 times before they get with the likes of males like him.

@ Help Me Rhonda!

T.I. whooped who ass? get da f#*k outta here everybody knows what Flip did to T.I. in houston beat da sh*t outta him and had him running anyways I don’t believe this story

lmbaooooo @ the comment above me; well damn

Damn, I guess he told her^^^

@LIL FLIPS BROTHER
After reading your post it figures that your brother would be the over-emotional lame he’s described to be. No daddy in your life and momma had to raise U both so why not let her do the same, eh? It’s impossible for a person like you to talk about a female without calling her everything, but a child of God then wonder why your fam get put on blast. I suggest U get some counseling for your issues because U seem to have a thing against females. This chick might have been your typical low class female, but guess what, your brother mated with her even though he knew she already had a child and “voluntarily” gave her another one. You should be telling your brother to man up and take care of his responsibilites opposed to blasting back at her like a little girl. It’s just like that Chris Rock joke when ghetto dude say, “I take care of my kids” and Chris say, “You’re suppose to U low expectation having …. BTW, I’m sure strong black women don’t need your type vouching for them.

damn 90% of the comments here are just pathetic. I’m sure most of you are black. Why are we so stupid? What is wrong with us? It’s so sad.

I don’t understand. If she not money hungry, then why is she concerned? He choses not to be in his children’s life then let him be. He’ll miss out. Stop wasting your time sending a open letter about a dad that dosen’t want to help with the growth and development. He pays child support, that’s all you need. Quite putting your energy into this. Really you should be happy to see his true colors.

FLIP SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF HIMSELF. I HATE DEAD BEAT DADS MAKE IT HARD FOR BOYS TO GROWN UP INTO MATURE MEN

Sorry but he does NOT need to send her extra money if he pays his child support every month. $500 is more than enough for a 4 year old so if her son really needs clothes that bad, she can buy them. He didn’t have to send her that extra money and she is not supposed to be asking him for more money on top of the child support he already pays. Also, he’s not obligated to financially support her daughter, even though he was taking care of her when they were together. Furthermore, we don’t know if this story is 100% true, we only have her side of the story.

Keep it moving momma!!

First of all the lady should handle herself better than putting her business on in the streets like that. Second get ur hustle on and get your damn children theyre own xmas…from now on. Ignorance is bliss u must be blissful right now. To lil flip and the lady conduct yourselves like dam adults not high school. Mr. Flip better get his grown man on and provide thru the courts the welfare of his child. and the baby girl its not her fault you knew goin in what it was. Im guessin volitile means u fools put ur hands on each other. A DAMN DISGRACE TO OUR PEOPLE. AND SHAMEFUL. ps.Mr. Flip and chick one last thing. CHILDREN DO GROW UP. IS THIS WHAT YOU BOTH AS PARENTS WANT TO BE REMEMBERED FOR!GROW UP!!!!

[...] call nor get his son anything for Christmas, according to his baby mama. Furthermore, according to his baby mama’s letter, he pays $500 a month in child support and sent a $150 money order the day before [...]

amen!

And another thing…. Mama, $500 is a hell of alot, I’m getting zero hundred dollars from my son’s father so you should be thankful. But I also work hard and furnish my son’s necessity’s myself… in other words, HE DOESN’T HAVE A CELL PHONE or anyother luxury… IT’S NOT MANDATORY.

She telling us for what reason…..when never wanted to know lil flips home life.lol