BDR: “Kimora IS a Good Mother”

Posted on June 27th, 2008 - By Bossip Staff

Categories: Divorces, Kimora Lee Simmons, News, Russell Simmons

Posted by Bossip Staff

Russell Simmons wants to set the record straight regarding yesterday’s child support ruling:

“The fact is, we’ve had a pretty good partnership at sharing the girls in the past. There have been a few bumps in the road, and those bumps have led us to negotiate a minimum amount of time I’m guaranteed to see my kids. That deal is as follows: I have the girls one full week out of every eight, half of the summer, half of all the holidays, a full week at Christmas, and half of Spring Break.

Like in all good partnerships, contracts are meant to protect the partners but are usually not the only way the partners work together. If I show up in L.A., where she now lives, unannounced, I can call up Kimora and she will most likely send them right over. The same goes for when she comes to New York. We have always had a school in New York and a school with the same curriculum in L.A., so when the girls are with me in New York, we can spend quality time together. I can get up with them, take them to school and just be together.

Kimora consults with me about doctors or schools for the girls, but she’s always had final say in those areas. If we had an argument about a school, guess who’s going to win? But there are other

stipulations in our agreement where we have to make final decisions together. Anything having to do with business decisions pertaining to my kids cannot be done without my consent.

I’ve also seen a lot about people reading into the supervised visits stipulation. Kimora travels with a security guard and a nanny. In the past, she’s gotten really nervous that I never travel with security,

so if it makes her more comfortable to have her security and a nanny with us when I’m with my kids, that’s OK with me.

Finally, I want to say Kimora is a excellent mother and is doing a great job with them. My kids are studying a couple of foreign languages, they travel around the world, they practice yoga, ballet,

swimming, karate and piano, among other things…sometimes I think they do too much, but I trust in Kimora on this because she IS a good mother. Regarding the money, my kids live a tremendous life. They do have lots of security, nannies, educators, special programs, travel, chefs, on and on. Their mother manages all of those luxuries and I’m happy to provide for that.”

Nuff said. One thing is for sure. This brotha is never short on words (except for when he’s closing out Def Comedy Jam).

  • LdyK

    taking that ass to the cleaners! LOL

  • http://www.myspace.com/msmeka2cute Mz_Magnificent1

    He is right. Those gyrls are accustomed to a certain lifestyle…and I believe if nothing else Kimora is a good mom to her kids.

  • LdyK

    numero uno putas!!!!!!!!!

    sidebar** I really think it’s crazy that KLS is ONLY giving Russie visitation and not JOINT custody. those kids will be with nannies and sitters most of the time anyway so why not let them be with their dad!

  • LdyK

    NOPE@LZ

  • jai

    I’m glad that Russell and Kimora can be as amicable as they are being.

  • bree is an OBAMA supporter.. YES WE CAN!

    i applaud Russell..he bigged up Kimora and certainly did not take any jabs at her like she would if the tables were reversed..go Russy!

  • BLUNTBLAZER

    I DUNNO RUSS JUS TRYNA KEEP IT COO HE AINT WANNA GO TO COURT AND AIR OUT HELLA FAMILY BIZ

    http://www.myspace.com/thagrindaholic

    DAM A TANK OF GAS COST MORE THAN A 8TH OF GRASS

  • I’m Just Me (My Baby Graduated 6/25/08…oh and f*ck NYSDOC)

    IT IS WHAT IT IS.

  • http://www.anythingblack.net www.anythingblack.net

    Wsup….Thats my dude 480K

  • MS K

    I’m glad to see two parents that equally love there children the same. I’m just curious how time they spend with either parent vs the nanny????

  • I’m Just Me (My Baby Graduated 6/25/08…oh and f*ck NYSDOC)

    THEY NEED TO WORK TOGETHER FOR THE KIDS!

  • Lauren

    I’m happy for them…..those kids are adorable and deserve the best just like any innocent child….

  • Jahpson

    classy couple

  • yanib

    Can’t we just be proud of grown folks acting grown, doing what’s right without looking for the negative? BDR mans up to his responsibilities, gives public respect to the mother of his children and aint shy about doing so. I respect that.

  • intenzemocha

    GET EM TOLD RUSSEL

    AND I AM GLAD THAT HE POINTED OUT THE FACT THAT KIMORA IS A GOOD MOTHER AND HE TRUSTS HER JUDGEMENT

    PEOPLE NEED TO STOP TRYING TO MAKE AN ISSUE OUT OF A NON-ISSUE-IF KIMORA AND RUSSEL ARE OKAY WITH THE AGREEMENT THEN THAT IS ALL THAT REALLY MATTERS

    KUDOS TO RUSSEL FOR KEEPING IT CLASSY!

  • Lou in the Chi

    People just love to hate. He’s giving the woman her props and some of yall still on here talking bad about her. 20k a month is not taking him to the cleaners. And why would he need joint custody when he’s just as busy as she is and the girls live on the opposite coast. They need stability, and it sounds like he’s fine with the situation so yall should be too.

  • Aunt Viv

    Interesting…

  • G.SHAREI

    I love Kimora! I think it’s beautiful that she and Rus have that type of relationship! Too bad people want to point out things that don’t matter more than things that do. Wish I was one of their kids. lol

  • DeLeRoCkA

    i am not sure why these people feel the need to explain anything to the public – we live in a unreal world fill with much craziness,

  • http://www.riderlove.com riderlove.com

    LOOKS LIKE A NICE FAMILY!! HOPE THE HOT COWGIRL I’M CURRENTLY DATING AND I CAN MAKE OUT LIKE THAT!!

  • MS~NYTX

    …whateva

  • He’s Presidential

    What is BDR?

    Yeah, he really came out with that response quick is that because so many people we’re talking about Kimora in such a wreckless way yesterday.

  • Til You Do Right By Me….

    Hey Ya’ll, off subject but if you want to see a slide show of the all Black Vogue issue go to:

    http://www.nytimes.com/slideshow/2008/06/18/style/0619-

    BLACK_index.html

    Peace!

  • Marquis de Sade

    Like i said before, there is no benefit for men to get married and have kids. The whole notion of fatherhood in the eye of modern day society is “DISPOSABLE”. Men are viewed as sperm donors and as monthly ATM cards. Why wasn’t he at least granted joint custody? If you can take over 480.ooo dollars a year in child support, then why is he only granted visitation rights as if he’s some sort of long distant pervy uncle? Like i said, brothas’ don’t get married. If your paternal instincts start kickin’ in, get a dog, it’s less expensive + no aggravation.

  • DeLeRoCkA

    whats in the black vogue

    let me guess, black people

    funny!!!

  • Lauren

    @glok, you crazy if you think that 480k a year is hurting BDR in any kind of way, that man gets paid and he aint worrying about sexn Kimora when he got that pretty lil lady Porschla, so he’s livin, trust.

  • Ms. Toson

    Kimora was like the devil in this the whole time he never saw her comming. Now look at him

  • Big Will

    Thats how it should be!!

  • LdyK

    @ he;s presidential

    Blood Diamond Russ! LOL

    anyway this gives him time to be with Porchla and any other young jawn!

  • Big Will

    Perhaps

  • Lady elle

    nuff said…………

  • Lady elle

    if he is happy with these arrangements (which he seems to be) why would anyone else outside of their circle be unhappy?

  • GO GETTA

    SHOWS YOU THAT RUSS HAS SOME CLASS TO HIM. HE SHOULD BE ENTITLED TO SEE HIS KIDS. I JUST HATE IT WHEN SOME OF THESE CELEBS USE THE KIDS AS A WAY OF GETTING BACK AT THE OTHER SPOUSE

  • Dasha

    HEY,

    THATS WHAT I’M TALKING ABOUT EVERYBODY EATING. FAMILY FIRST :) MORE MEN SHOULD STEP UP AND TRUST AND SUPPORT WHEN YOU GOT OR HAD A GOOD WOMEN :)

  • Big Will

    Hey does my pic show when u point to check me out??

  • Binary Star

    That was very classy considering all he really had to say was “mind your business and don’t count other people’s money.”

  • Its6amHoGetOut (Time for me to frustrate my White N*gga SMDH to the point he loses his composure)

    Told ya’ll $480,000 a year aint sh*t to a n*gga worth $400 million, all that sh*t he has to do he had to do anyway.

  • GINA

    I AGREE WITH CASSY

  • http://gorgeousblackwomen.blogspot.com gorgeous black women

    Both seem like good parents. Why are you looking for drama? Granted, she doesn’t NEED his money to provide them with the lifestyle they’re accustomed t, he is their daddy. What money can’t buy is an ex who you can co-parent with. They’re lucky to have each other. The sign of a good parent is the ability to put aside your own B.S. for the sake of the kids.

  • glok9n

    @ LAUREN NO DOUBT THAT MAN GOT OLD MONEY ,BUT 480K GETTING PINCHED A YR NO MATTER HOW RICH YOU FEEL SOMETHING! WE ALL KNOW THE PURDY MZ PORSCHLA IZ HIS BEARD MUSTACH AND SIDEBURNZ AND SHEZ ON THE PAYROLL TOO! TRUST!

  • http://www.lakers.com M-DADDY OAKLAND’S FINEST AKA FBI(ALL SHADES OF BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL)

    HAPPY FRIDAY!!!!

  • Bozo D. Clown

    With the kinda cheese this dude has, the money isn’t all that much… I’m just glad to see a brotha who doesn’t mind providing for his kids, and isn’t trying to tear their mother down in the media… Unlike a certain suspect, tranny-lovin’ comedian we know…

    It’s obvious this man loves his kids and thinks they are entitled to the best in life… He also doesn’t hate their mom just because things didn’t work out for them… If you ask me, he deserves his props for that…

  • http://www.lakers.com M-DADDY OAKLAND’S FINEST AKA FBI(ALL SHADES OF BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL)

    Well at least his kids are set for life

  • Jbaby

    Kimora may be over the top but you can tell if nothing else those girls are her life.

  • http://www.myspace.com/thegameoncw Bird

    I never had a problem with the children’s lifestyle. I just thought that Kimora had substantial income herself which made the child support excessive. If Russy is cool with it none of us should have a problem with it.

  • keely

    that is so sweet. you can tell he still and always will love kimora.

  • DC Diva

    Trust that Kimora will come out of pocket. No she doesn’t need the money, but it does cost the parent the child is living with far more than it does for the parent they are not living with BDR has the stacks and from all accounts it sounds like the support agreement was amicable. Ya’ll get off their jocks – he’s doing what a man ‘sposed to do. Taking care of his kids, monetarily, visitation and building them a legacy of wealth. Leave them alone. Busters! Damn.

  • B17 (Just becuz i’m from Texas doesn’t mean i’m country)

    Bird(Check me out!)

    I never had a problem with the children’s lifestyle. I just thought that Kimora had substantial income herself which made the child support excessive. If Russy is cool with it none of us should have a problem with it.

    __________________________________________________

    Co-sign

    Good morning people.

  • NyRicanLV

    That’s it And That’s ALL! **Drops The Mic**

    Next Topic…..

  • Brooklyn, Stand UP!

    WOW! He shut all those rumors DOWN!!

  • http://www.lakers.com M-DADDY OAKLAND’S FINEST AKA FBI(ALL SHADES OF BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL)

    @ Z

    Hello Z, I hope you have a different outlook on men today. LOL

  • Bella

    I love them!!!!!!!!!

    WHY CANNOT PEOPLE APPRECIATE THE POSITIVE, LIKE THE SIMMONS FAMILY!

  • Another day

    He is sooo good to her, wish she’d do the same for him in the Media.

  • Its6amHoGetOut (Time for me to frustrate my White N*gga SMDH to the point he loses his composure)

    @ Z

    can i change my order to spare ribs, egg fu young, a side of beef fried rice and an eggroll?

    LOL love 6am!

  • http://www.lakers.com M-DADDY OAKLAND’S FINEST AKA FBI(ALL SHADES OF BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL)

    @Brooklyn, Stand UP!

    WOW! He shut all those rumors DOWN!!

    _____________________________________________________

    She is still NUTS!!!! Whats good Big Bro??

  • Lou in the Chi

    I know many of you men and women have child support orders and are aware of how they work. It has nothing to do with her income. It is a portion of his income. That’s why some of yall men are only paying $25 a month cause you don’t make no money. And it takes considerably more than that to raise a child, but that it the courts order. Grow up and worry about how well you take care of your own damn kids. I’m sure Kimora’s doing her part and isn’t just having the kids live off of the 20k a month.

  • MzTee

    The court determined the amount of child support Russ has to pay for each child. It doesn’t matter if we think $480K is too much or too little. The court looks at the following factors to determine child support:

    1. age of children

    2. ability of non-custodial parent to pay (based on income from all sources)

    3. earning capacity of the custodial parent (based on income from all sources)

    4. Other responsibilities of the parents

    Prior to determining child support, each parent must provide a financial declaration that fully discloses his/her income from all sources.

    Bottom line people, this how it’s done in Family Courts all across the uS.

    Russ and Kimora don’t have a problem with their custody agreement and child support arrangement and neither should y’all. Futhermore, who is to say Russ wants joint custody. Y’all don’t know if he asked for it or not, so stop speculating. Given he and Kimora live on different coasts, it makes sense for ONE parent to be the custodial parent so as not to disrupt the lives of the children. I swear some of y’all don’t have the good sense GOD gave to a gnat.

  • Its6amHoGetOut (Time for me to frustrate my White N*gga SMDH to the point he loses his composure)

    @ Z

    My girl will be in your shop around 3 for her mani/pedi. She also wants to know if she brings her maltese will you and your employees steal it and cook it for dinner?

    She also wants to know if you have anymore fake Louis Vuitton bags.

  • The Butterfly

    I now got mad respect for Russell. Very classy.

  • mjoylaw

    In this case, there is no problem–Russell is man enough, and not emotionally GAY in his mind like most of these brokies on here, THAT HE CAN ACKNOWLEGE that KIMORA IS A GOOD MOTHER;

  • Its6amHoGetOut

    la la la

  • MzTee

    Lou in the Chi…the amount of child support determined DOES factor the mother’s income into the equation — please believe.

  • Its6amHoGetOut

    can i tell a joke in here?

  • Its6amHoGetOut

    well can i?

  • FineAsWine

    Go ahead 6amHogetout lol

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty

    Did he set the record straight or what? Glad that they are working through things.

  • FineAsWine

    I got to give it to Russ. That is so respectable and nice to hear. It’s funny hearing all the haters in here yesterday tryna bring Kimora down. Now we see the truth. I have a lot of respect for the two of them. I hope things continue to go well for them!

  • Its6amHoGetOut

    Ok here we go,

  • Its6amHoGetOut

    Russell is really smart,

    1. He upgrades b*tches getting a younger finer slimmer model with big titties and no pack of hot dogs on her neck.

    2. He only has to pay $480,000 per year in child support that his interest will more than cover.

    3. He knows how to play nice with his old b*tch to avoid going back and forth to court.

    4. Did i mention his new b*tch is way finer than Kimora?

    5. he gets to keep the empire intact!

  • Nikko

    I’m glad Russell cleared that up. Like I was saying yesterday, the story that was posted made Kimora sound bitter to me, but now that Russell set the record straight, she’s back to being on my top 10 list.

  • TToles

    LOVE the Def Comedy Jam reference. “God bless and goodnight”! LOL! Mart-in STAYED on him about that. He seems like a good father. Best to them both.

  • Its6amHoGetOut

    @ Z,

    im gonna stop pretending like youre asian luv.

  • http://www.download-songs.org/artists/2/2/1/sade.jpg Phoebe

    This was the best news I heard all day! Way to go Russ, his children will LOVE him for this. This will be the doundation of a great relationship between all of them ;o)

    My favorite line: “Their mother manages all of those luxuries and I’m happy to provide for that.”

    That’s right, he practicing what he preaches. It is better to give ;o)

  • http://www.theceelist.com najeeba
  • Lou in the Chi

    @Mz Tee

    You are so right. Thanx for setting me str8. :)

    @the Butterfly

    That’s a beautiful wedding pic.

  • Its6amHoGetOut

    damn, after reading that i now wanna get married then divorced!

  • FineAsWine

    LOL @ your joke…6AM pack of hot dogs on her neck? ahhh man…thats too much. sometimes you have to remember Kimora has to thank Russell for her success.

  • http://braibrai@yahoo.com ms braided beauty chicagos own

    Brooklyn…. whats up twin…. hows your Friday going.. bet you cant wait for the weekend… neither can i cause im going dirt bike riding again in the mountains… hope i dont run into no mountain lions!!!

  • Somer

    MOST WOMEN, FAMOUS OR NOT ARE JUST JEALOUS! Anyone who have seen the 2nd season of her show would understand that he loves Kimora and trust her. Rus is trying to update the Phat Farm wear to appeal to a younger consumer. He step down as CEO & gave Kimora full reign. She brought in a fresh young designer and introduce him to Rus. Kimora said this was a young man she really trust. Rus was like, fine, I don’t know him but I TRUST U! He made that clear right in front of this young black designer. Her 2nd season started filming after they seperated and had new partners so they still have a good business relationship.

    STOP WITH ALL THE HATE

  • mr mr

    MAD PROPS to yanib and MzTee…

    finally two people who comment with sense. Kimora didn’t take him to the cleaners, child support is based on a number of factors and the JUDGE has to set child support.

    As I stated yesterday, the NY Post has been printing all along that the divorce is amicable…so pity the fools that want this to be a big, nasty divorce that is all about golddigging and money. It is not.

  • Sydney

    @Marquis de Sade

    You really don’t mean this (read below), do you? Please tell me you don’t, especially after I just read about a story this past weekend in the NY Times that found that up to 80 percent of births among black women are out of wedlock. You can’t base your views about society at large on a celebrity marriage — really, you can’t. Should white men not get married after reading about the huge settlement that Paul McCartney paid to Heather Mills or that Steven Spielberg paid to Amy Irving (approx. $100 million)?

    “Like i said before, there is no benefit for men to get married and have kids. The whole notion of fatherhood in the eye of modern day society is “DISPOSABLE”. Men are viewed as sperm donors and as monthly ATM cards. Why wasn’t he at least granted joint custody? If you can take over 480.ooo dollars a year in child support, then why is he only granted visitation rights as if he’s some sort of long distant pervy uncle? Like i said, brothas’ don’t get married. If your paternal instincts start kickin’ in, get a dog, it’s less expensive + no aggravation.”

  • Somer

    @TIFFYTOES……….BABYMAMAS DO NOT GET BROKE OFF. They get thrown out of homes to make room for his latest jumpoff. They get thrown crumbs for 18yrs. Kimora got a fashion empire worth hundreds of millions and a 30 million dollar estate. Kim Porter can’t even relate.

  • http://braibrai@yahoo.com ms braided beauty chicagos own

    @ Notorius one.. HOW THE HECK ARE YOU…WHERE THE HECK HAVE YOU BEEN?….missed you my peep… hope you have a good friday, i know i am im off to the spa for a body wrap… cant wait!!!

  • justmoi

    BDR sounds like a damn good father and a very reasonable and might I add mature and classy man.

  • Richard

    @ Sydney

    Just listen to the posts for Eddie Murphy when Scary Spice accuses him of the latest.

    The guy has been a GREAT Father to his first 6 kids yet so many trash him behind unproven accusations.

    MEN in general whether Black or White have been castrated by the legal system. We have few rights and before some women says “men can get joint custody if we fight” The real question should be why do we have to fight.

    Everyone should PAY THEIR OWN WAY!!!

  • Richard

    Please check out the post by Somer:

    This is why Marquis and I feel the way we do about marriage.

    All about what they get.

  • Sydney

    @Richard

    I understand your viewpoint, but I think it’s extremely irresponsible to admonish men that they shouldn’t get married, based on stories about people you don’t know and probably will never meet. Do I see Eddie Murphy, a celebrity, as representative of black men at large? Of course, not. That’s silly. This is celebrity gossip, and we’re based in real life with real choices and real life decisions that have long-lasting effects, and the stats point out that dismal fact over and over again.

    I know we live in a celebrity-obsessed culture, but sheesh. . .

  • free

    good looking out russ. i know you don’t play games like that.

  • Soul Cry

    Most seperated parents need to take a lesson from his statements.

  • Aalimah

    That’s a man and a father. It appears he holds no limits on what he is willing to provide for his children. Nothing but applause from me. As for Kimora – still cannot stand her but she seems to be a great mom who puts her children first. Glad they are working it out.

  • Brook

    Does anyone know what his new boo does for a living?

  • http://www.thatsmysweetspot.blogspot.com Shauna

    i’m so glad that he is being mature about this but for 480,000 a year he should have joint custody of his girls. Kimora would not have none of what she has if it wasn’t for Russel

  • Shavon Denise

    I’m glad that Russell is coming to his wife’s defense because alot of other people would have just let the media trash their ex-partner. Russell is paid out the waazoo so guess what??? He’s giving her what he can afford it aint. Like he said those kids dont have a normal life and he IS happy to accomodate them.

  • Z

    @6am

    (I am so late but whatever)

    Shut the hell up!!!!

  • lilmomma

    I don’t think Kimora is a great mother or he is a great father, do they have a damn bedtime??? She treats them like dolls & I am sure they spend more time w/the nanny. She is a rich, materialistic parent, don’t mean good…. we don’t know what goes on when the cameras aren’t rolling. Time will only tell.

  • Richard

    @ Sydney

    I tried to communicate my point on a gossip website. If I mentioned my friends you wouldn’t know them.

    Why is it irresponsible? Men give up so much in marriage. They give up control of their lives. Ask a woman to give up control and you get rolling eyes and incredulous looks.

    people should only stay together as long as they want to be with each other. Parents should have EQUAL rights.

    As long as this is not the case men should boycott marriage.

  • Z

    hmmm my mom treated me like a doll when I was a lil girl. My hair and outfit got changed at least 3 times a day. (I was the first born.)

  • reddnwood

    Does anyone know what his new boo does for a living?

    She’s a model as well.

  • Sydney

    Richard, you say “men give up so much in marriage,” and women don’t? I’m not married, but I’ve observed enough marriages to recognize that it is a give-and-take partnership, and communication and compromise are key.

    So, what’s the alternative to marriage — having children out of wedlock? Well, that’s already the norm in the black community. It appears that the “boycott” is in effect.

  • Sick

    Russy, Kimora goin 2 use ur $ on her new man.:-)

  • http://www.google.com Man, I just don’t care

    @sydney

    “Richard, you say “men give up so much in marriage,” and women don’t? I’m not married, but I’ve observed enough marriages to recognize that it is a give-and-take partnership, and communication and compromise are key.

    So, what’s the alternative to marriage — having children out of wedlock? Well, that’s already the norm in the black community. It appears that the “boycott” is in effect”

    I think another way of looking at this is “why would one group of people suddenly change their opinion on marriage?” Some would throw out the casual “men are dogs” or something to that effect but I don’t think you are one of those people. The social structure has changed drastically and remaining single has become more and more of an option.

  • kai

    their whole life is a contract…

  • Sydney

    I thought this was another interesting segment of the study referenced earlier by the Center for Labor Market Studies:

    “The marriage rates of all native-born young males and young black males (22-32 years old) in the U.S. are strongly correlated with the annual earnings of these young men. The higher their annual earnings, the more likely they are to be married. Among native-born black males, those men with earnings over $60,000 were four times more likely to be married than their peers with annual earnings under $20,000.”

  • http://www.google.com Man, I just don’t care

    @sydney

    I 100% agree and concur. I’ve actually read similary studies that traced the decline in marriage directly to the “War on Poverty” by Harry Truman-John F Kennedy. The changes of this adminstration made it economically counterproductive for the lower class (we know that blacks disproportionately belong to this class and why) to get married, particularly if they had children.

    The contributing factor that marriage traditionally provided was stability. Not just for families, but collectively for a community.

    As the laws read now there are several goverment backed benefits that are negatively affected if you are married. These need to be changed. It’s that simple and you will see rates rise.

  • Its6amHoGetOut

    @ Z,

    You hurt my feelings but thats OK, can i ask you a question? While you were being treated like a doll, was it a “CHINA” doll?

    @ Meeko,

    SMDH is an old white n*gga impersonating a black woman, but lets give him the benefit of the doubt and say he is a black woman, judging by those rants shes old (roots and jig comments), bitter because you know some n*gga whether it be her father or husband f*cked her over real good and lasting! And since she needs 5 paragraphs to say one thing i’m sure she’s committed somewhere.

  • BellaY

    I have nothing but respect for Russell and Kimora and the way they have handled their situation. Ming and Aoki are some very lucky little girls to have parents who PUT THEM FIRST!! This should put the gossip and rumors to rest. When it comes to their children, Russell and Kimora are a TEAM.

  • BellaY

    LOL!! @ Meeko,

    You are NOT BLACK!! LOL!!

  • Its6amHoGetOut

    Sorry ya’ll but I’m old fashioned, I will marry the woman i get pregnant, its just the way i was raised.

    But remember to take into account some of the stipulations, I’d never f*ck a fat or ugly b*tch so thats like my insurance plan against getting stuck with some ho’ who i dont like. I’d never f*ck a b8tch with a ghetto ass name either, remember no matter how pretty she is, her mother or father gave her that name so that means “ghetto’ runs in her family. I’d never marry a b*tch who has more than one child, i’d never love their asses like i would my own so why take them thru the hassle? If you do choose to go out with a b*tch with a kid/kids, heres the first thing you should do when you visit her house; Thunk both of them in the head when she isnt looking, tell them you’re here for their mom’s ass not theirs, dont even try and ask to go get something to eat while youre over there or they’ll get thunk’d again, break all the heads off their Barbies to let them know who’s boss and tell them the same can happen to them. Oh yeah as soon as you meet them say “I aint your daddy” your daddy aint here.

    Love 6am

  • sxyQblondie

    WELL AT LEAST IN THIS CASE, UNLIKE 50′S EGG DONOR, KIMORA GOT A JOB AND HER OWN INCOME. EVEN IF IT WAS AT OLE RUSSY’S EXPENSE(LOL)

    @6AM

    HEY YOU. WHATS GOING ON WITH YOU TODAY?

  • Its6amHoGetOut

    That sounds a lil mean but you gotta set them straight from the start.

  • Its6amHoGetOut

    @ SXYQ,

    Can I come over and play with that caramel ass?

  • Sydney

    @Man, I just don’t care

    I agree with you regarding the laws that should be changed to foster higher rates of marriage among people with lower incomes. There are still significant marriage penalties affecting those who can least afford them. And I believe as the institution of marriage is eroded, the stability of our households, and of our children, is at stake.

    Thanks for your feedback, by the way.

  • Sydney

    Shaking my head @ 6am

    I see you’re acting up as usual, lol. You would break the heads off Barbie? That’s aacrilege! I loved my Barbies and Christies. :)

  • biracial bombshell

    100% agree w/ Mztee and mjoylaw…many people don’t understand all of that. I, as a single mother, understand COMPLETELY!

  • sxyQblondie

    @6am

    IM GONNA GET YOU. YOU ARE REALLY CUTTING UP TODAY.(LOL)

  • Its6amHoGetOut

    Can I ask all women in here a serious question?

    Why would you let some n*gga you just met or someone who you arent engaged too run up in you bareback? Why would you then have a kid you cant pay for?

    just a coupla simple questions………

  • Sydney

    Oops, I meant “sacrilege.”

    I guess that’s my cue that it’s time to go to happy hour. Have a wonderful evening, everyone!

  • Its6amHoGetOut

    Oh yeah i forgot,

    Dont forget to break up with their mother right before Valentines day, Easter, her Birthday, Summer vacation, and Christmas.

  • sxyQblondie

    @6AM

    TRUTHFULLY, THE UNWANTED CHILD SHOULD BE THE LEAST OF THE WORRY. THE POTENTIAL THREAT OF A DISEASE THAT YOU CANNOT RID YOURSELF OF, OR THAT MAY EVENTUALLY KILL YOU, SHOULD BE THE FIRST THOUGHT. PEOPLE ARE SO FOOLISH NOW-A-DAYS THAT THEY DONT THINK AHEAD. I WILL BE 28 IN A WEEK, AND MY THOUGHT PROCESS FOR YEARS HAS BEEN ANY MAN THAT WANTS TO RUN UP IN YOU RAW AFTER JUST MEETING YOU, HAS A DAMNED PROBLEM AND YOU SHOULD BE LEERY OF THAT ASS. NO B.S!!

  • Its6amHoGetOut

    This last one is for you really heartless n*ggas,

    Get back with her ass two days after Christmas so you can take advantage of the 1/2 sales then tell her youre sorry and heres some 50% gifts! (she’ll never know)

    Yanno Flowers and candy are 80% off the day after valentines!

  • http://www.google.com Man, I just don’t care

    @6am

    LOL u a fool. U right though, dated a chick with a little girl. Set em straight from the jump, and it’s been cool.

  • Its6amHoGetOut

    Sorry SxyQ,

    But i’d run up in Halle Berry bareback, with my tongue in her ass pullin’ on her hair! thats still to this day the finest b*tch on earth!

  • http://www.google.com Man, I just don’t care

    @sxyqblonde

    “TRUTHFULLY, THE UNWANTED CHILD SHOULD BE THE LEAST OF THE WORRY. THE POTENTIAL THREAT OF A DISEASE THAT YOU CANNOT RID YOURSELF OF, OR THAT MAY EVENTUALLY KILL YOU, SHOULD BE THE FIRST THOUGHT. PEOPLE ARE SO FOOLISH NOW-A-DAYS THAT THEY DONT THINK AHEAD. I WILL BE 28 IN A WEEK, AND MY THOUGHT PROCESS FOR YEARS HAS BEEN ANY MAN THAT WANTS TO RUN UP IN YOU RAW AFTER JUST MEETING YOU, HAS A DAMNED PROBLEM AND YOU SHOULD BE LEERY OF THAT ASS. NO B.S!!”

    Yeah, but don’t feel as good. Not an excuse, just the truth.

  • Sydney

    @6am

    I’m on my way out, so I can’t respond to your questions right now, but I’m a strong proponent of protected sex. Heck, with the stories I read about HIV and a whole host of other health conditions, abstinence looks very good to me. Difficult, yes, but non-stressful. :) Women, and men, should be very selective about with whom they lie down.

    And, if you do plan to engage, remember, no glove, no love.

    Bye!

  • Its6amHoGetOut

    Im just kidding on everything except the Halle Berry sh*t.

  • http://www.google.com Man, I just don’t care

    @6am

    I would willing and knowingly accept whatever Halle got. You only live once anyway.

    I bet she taste good. I think Lauren London taste good too.

  • sxyQblondie

    @6am

    LMFAO I PROMISE YOU ARE MY ENTERTAINMENT FOR THE DAY. THAT IS UNLESS SOMEONE IN THIS DRY ASS OFFICE, SLIPS UP AND FALLS ON THEIR FACE, WHICH IS HIGHLY UNLIKELY. ANY WAY CRAZY, YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN MAN. I MEAN RANDOM BROADS THAT YOU PLAN ON HITTING OFF, AND YOU DONT KNOW ANYTHING PAST THEIR FIRST NAME. YOU ARE SUCK A NUT!(lol)

  • sxyQblondie

    @MAN I JUST DONT CARE

    NOW I WONT ARGUE YOU WITH THAT. ANYONE WHO SAYS THAT THEY PREFER THE FEELING OF A CONDOM, OVER NATURAL FLESH, IS A BOLD FACED LIE. HOWEVER, YOU KNOW WE MUST DO WHAT WE HAVE TO DO YOU KNOW? NOBODY WANTS TO END UP WITH THE WILLY LUMP LUMP, OR THAT SCREAMING CHAP THAT YOU HAVE TO PAY MAD DOUGH FOR.(lol)

  • sxyQblondie

    @6

    *SUCH A NUT* typo

  • tiffytoes

    @Somer

    I do thank you for your feed back. And I partially agree with your response you wrote directed at me.

    “@TIFFYTOES……….BABYMAMAS DO NOT GET BROKE OFF. They get thrown out of homes to make room for his latest jumpoff. They get thrown crumbs for 18yrs. Kimora got a fashion empire worth hundreds of millions and a 30 million dollar estate. Kim Porter can’t even relate.”

    Everyone case/life differs and we all have to live our own lives and except the choices we have made whether it is bad choices in men or screwing or selves out of missed opportunities. Life is a great big Lottery system from the day we are born. Why do some women (self included) become baby mommas? Who knows, who cares, personal choice, deal with it. And Yes BABYMAMAS are always going to get something out of it A FAT LIFE LESSONS, learn from it, if it is great YEAHHHHH if it sucks pick yourself up and move on. We don’t all win the life lottery.

    Besides I am speaking in my comment as a fan of Russell Simmons in fun and believe me I am only joking when I ask him for anything, come on. I am just fine / blessed as a matter of fact. I have a great husband and we both have great jobs in the Bay$$$$$$$.

    And I am down with anybody doing the damn thing instead of crying over spoiled milk. Please don’t get it twit-ted this is just a blog. You can HUH un-flex.

  • persona

    Proof that relationship was about nothing BUT kids for those two. She birthed and provided them, and that protected their “lifestyle”.

  • 2cute4u

    Its good to see that they’re still a family and working things out amicably.

  • Really

    That sounds cool. Even in finalizing a divorce they still seem to have a good enough relationship to communicate so well.

  • Whatchaknoaboutdat?

    Damn, he could be my daddy any day!!! :)

  • http://deleted Nothing nice

    @ Jaime

    you really think this is fake? I don’t know. . I mean most of the people were on Kimora for her security nanny request. So it wasnt like he needed to clear the air b/c folks were down his throat.

  • jheart

    Russell Simmons is a man. I feel that Kimora would have taken jabs at him. If you want a better insite into Russell Simmons ideas and views read his boo “Do You”, it is great. Go Russell “Do You”.

  • http://www.casualpal.com just4fun

    yeah, nice family.

  • http://www.casualpal.com just4fun

    I saw their photos on casualpal.com too, seems lots of their fans there, cool place to have fun!

  • Coop

    @DC Diva

    That’s bull it doesn’t cost as much as people claim. That’s why when good Dad’s ask for the kid to live with them and won’t even ask for any support most women fight it because they don’t want to give up that extra money.

  • Coop

    @Nothing nice

    Most likely is trying to calm things down. He’s in the middle of a very ugly court battle why would want anything adding fuel to the fire.

  • Coop

    @reddnwood

    AMEN

  • Marquis de Sade

    Sydney

    @Marquis de Sade

    You really don’t mean this (read below), do you? Please tell me you don’t, especially after I just read about a story this past weekend in the NY Times that found that up to 80 percent of births among black women are out of wedlock. You can’t base your views about society at large on a celebrity marriage — really, you can’t. Should white men not get married after reading about the huge settlement that Paul McCartney paid to Heather Mills or that Steven Spielberg paid to Amy Irving (approx. $100 million)?

    Sydney, not once did I imply that one should have children out of wedlock – I simply stated that marriage shouldn’t be an option, due to the unfair divorce and child support laws…And trust me, my stance is not based solely on the misfortunes of these male celebrities, but also on what i’ve observed in my own experiences with friends and colleagues at work. Trust me, the divorce and child support laws are so gender biased, i just find it unfathomnable why any guy would get married, especially if he’s only making a middle class salary ($65 – 85,000 a year). Most people are under the false assumption that the “PRENUP” is solely for the rich, but in reality, it’s for the lower to upper middle class because technically they have more to lose re alimony, child support and assets accrued during the marriage…In most cases it can be financially devestating to the male…Especially if he or (in some cases) she had the misfortune of marrying in a “NO-FAULT” divorce state, suchas California. In closing, i’m merely suggesting that guys should avoid breeding and(or) marrying until the laws are more balanced and objective towards both genders.

  • Sydney

    Hi Marquis,

    I’m aware of, but not well-versed, in divorce and child support laws, but I’ve heard that the laws in California are more stringent than those in many other states. And you’re certainly not the first man whom I’ve heard make such statements about the financial pitfalls of divorce. I just think that the positives of marriage far outweigh the negatives, particularly in regards to the stability and support it provides to the family structure.

    As far as men avoiding breeding, I think we both know the likelihood of that happening is next to nil, especially when some equate sexual performance to manhood.

    I hope you’re having a good weekend.

  • Hotfox220

    Why does Russell always look like he is just trying get where he fit in when he takes pic with his family? He looks like he is trying to ‘FIT IN’ in this pic.

  • Marquis de Sade

    You have a nice weekend too Sydney.

  • Wanjiru

    …you’re a REAL man Russell…

    …50 Cent could use a leaf out of your book about respecting the mother of your children, REGARDLESS of your personal feeling about her…

    …kudos to you…a man with a truly great spirit…not to mention…pocketbook :)

    .

    .

  • lilkunta

    My problem is if their relationship is so great y the sole custody? Y not joint custody?

    I think having his kids 1 wk every 2 months is a bad idea. I hope the girls dont favor or resent their Dad.

    I also c Ming & Aoki being messup up since they’re in Cali. They shoulda stayed in NY. They might be the next parasite or nicole ..so sad.

  • lilkunta

    I think Russ released this statement bc K read the hateful comments about her her & on ohter websites

    and was pissed.

    It dont matter if R releases a statement every day, actions speak louder than words. K’s actions is y she gets so much hate.

  • stallion

    Good for Russ. Glad he got his time with his kids on record. Happy to see Russ take the high road and show class. Be interesting to see what Kimora has to say. If she will show some class or be ghetto about it. Maybe she is going with the old saying, “if you don’t have anything good to say, then don’t say anything at all”. In that case, I feel sorry for the kids.

  • http://none sexii

    listen up pple….that so-called ”ghetto fabulous life” is all good but those 2 girls of theirs will never be any better then the poorest of the poors’ children !they breathe the same air,intake foods they same way everyone else does, and most importantly i guarentee every 1 this…>>>>> IF ANOTHER CHILD PAYS THEM NOOOOO ATTENTION WHEREVER IT MAY BE THEY WILL WONDER WHY?????? they are HUMAN BEINGS PPLE!!!they will in fact 1 day recieve SHOCK TREATMENT in the REAL WORLD GUARENTEED!.because u no what pple?…….WHEN THEY DIE THEY R NOT COMING BACK JUST LIKE ANY OTHER PERSON!

  • http://afo.net Nanette

    I have never read or heard Kimora say one kind word regarding Russell Simons. And if she is half the person she portrays on her reality show. The girl has issues. She is such a drama queen. When she and Russell showed their home on Cribs, Kimora had the nerve to say Russell you can’t read. And Russell said he should burn her ass up in the Sauna. He may have been playing, but I believe he wanted to if he could get away with it.

    In regards to the kids. They will act just like Kimora.

  • kekoa

    The only ones that need to be in agreement with this are the two parents. We aren’t raising their kids for them. If they like it and the kids are good then its “all good”. Good to see a couple that gets along great despite the breakup. Keep it up.

  • sassy

    who cares about his old butt

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