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Mighty Mos! Brooklyn, Stand UP!!!!!

Damn Mos… You wildin’!

Mos it the man,, Love him.

his nose is disgusting

OH DAMN!!! Is anybody’s relationship SACRED!!!

Former stripper? What a suprise!!! When will these men learn to marry some women with substance? They need to take note from Denzel, Will Smith, and Rev Run.

WHO KNEW ALL THESE JUMPOFFS WERE GOOD AT ENGLISH

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Dammmmmmmmmmm…

They look good together.

All you have to do is call the Poe-Poe and write a book. What is relationships coming to these days?

:-/

I STILL love him!!! He is a gifted individual!!!

Although I would have to think twice about intermingling with him on the personal level…LOL.

WILL SMITH IS THE DEVIL !

Wassup with these dudes marrying strippers?! You should already know, that won’t last for too long.

I don’t believe this chick… I think she’s just trying to ca$h in on a payday.

I love Mos, but none of this surprises me.

Where is the love?! I don’t understand why no one can keep quiet anymore!

Doesn’t anyone realize when you tell about your ex you’re telling on yourself, too?!

There are too many good men and women out there for this nonsense to be floating around in cyberspace.

Can’t we start doing profiles of couples in LOVING relationships. PLEASE????????

when r these dudes gonna wake up and realise that they are targets! he fell in luv with something but im pretty sure it wasnt her intellect or mothering potential!!

mos got played and now he’s getting punkd.

mos cmon now. u been ma dude for a minute. now im beginning to think. all tht soft spoken stuff aint count for ish…

she ‘had a momnet’ with kanye. what a groupie.

let her go mos. u should be concentrating on raising them 6 kids of ur anyway!

I’m confused. . .I thought Mos recently married a woman overseas, or maybe that’s his second wife. Is this the same woman? They’re separated already?

Strippers are people too. lmao. Anyway wow i won’t be purchasing this book but wow. Who knew? not i. Damn shame i like him a lot. Oh well. I’m sure she will find comfort in all the money set to come her way.

“She said there were several attempts at reconciliation, but that Mos Def, who has six children with four different women, has a demanding though not abusive demeanor that she found difficult to abide.”

I have to give her that much though!! Black males are very very demanding demeanors.. Tht’s why I don’t get why they are always on the black woman about what they perceive to be hers…

“She adds: ‘Much to my surprise, Mos introduced me as his wife.’ The next day, August 17, 2005, the pair were married at Toronto City Hall.

He married a (ex?)stripper the next day? Neither one should be surprised that the other person wasn’t who they “thought” they were. Fools.

SMDH……. what is your problem? Who hurt you? All the time Black male this black male that. There are some damn good black men in the world. Maybe you should look inside of yourself.

KZZMERGHTTHERE(IS BACK 4 A MINUTE)… where you been homie? lol

I’m really tired of this trend; women coming out with “tell all books”. If I were the judge presiding over her divorce I’d say: you got $115k, you take the proceeds from the book, give Mos half (since you’re making a dime off of him) and you get nothing else. Poof be gone

Mos, Mos, Mos… please stay away from those triflin’ chicks in the future. Take care of your 6 (!) kids, and if you are abusive… seek help. I still love your music tho! Mighty Mos!

Marquis, what does his wife’s race have to do with anything?

Where does it say that she is anything but black? Did i miss something let me read it again.

Nope didn’t read nothing that says she’s not black either way why would it matter. Any abuse is all bad.

worse part is mos is muslim and he was styl not divorced from his other wife in the stats when he married this one in canada !@ messed up

Y’all actually think that Mos Def, with his “PRO-BLACK” shtick would marry anything other than a sista?

@ KEESHA

thank you gurl for making a great point… “a former stripper” LOL if men realized the women they were getting with in the first place, maybe they would realize not all females with class, hopes, and dreams act the same as a woman they wifed up whos game is to tempt men for they’re money! yeah… that’s someone you want to take home to momma. LOL.

and she has a kid by a canadian rapper Saukrates !

Any rational human being would know that marrying a black stripper is a recipe for disaster…Hell, marrying any stripper is stupid, but why compound the problem by marrying a hood stripper? Just being honest.

In the WORDS OF MOSDEF:

I know I can’t afford this life

For a moment

That its too soon

To forget

Yo, in she came with the same type game

The type of girl givin out the fake cell phone and name

Big fame, she like cats with big thangs

Jewels chip, money clip, phone flip, the six range

I seen her on the ave, spotted her more than once

Ass so fat that you could see it from the front

She spot me like paparazzi; shot me a glance

in that catwoman stance with the fat booty pants, Hot damn!

Yo MosDef OBVIOUSLY You have TOO MANY Ms. Fat Booty’s with 6 kids..practice what you preach dude. You know how these women be!

LOL They spottin’ you like Paparazzi well get a clue then!

SMDH

“ALLEGED” abuser. We only have her word, not his.

@Marquis de Sade

So marrying a “highbrow” stripper is better? And I think she’s Canadian, FYI.

“If I can’t have her, nobody else will,”

Lol, now that’s scary.

Okay… She is claiming that he was abusive and all you people seem to care about is that she was a stripper…

Good God people!!!

““ALLEGED” abuser. We only have her word, not his.”

As a black women who KNOWS what the black male is capable of I have no issues at all believing what this woman is saying!! I know how black males love to degrade women especially weak, low self esteemed or sub standard ones.. That’s the only way he can feel like a man.. He damn sure can’t feel like a man by being a good father or husband!!

Canada has black people and hoods, Sydney.

@AriesChick

Lol, EXACTLY. Couldn’t have said it any better myself.

“NOW I AM CONVINCED SMDH IS A RACIST! WHITE PERSON! U R SUCH A WASTE OF TIME! MOVE ON!”

I’m a waste of time?? That’s why to this point you have created 4 posts about me yet this is the first I am responding to?? It would appear you are very very interested in what I have to say!! LOL!!

And as far as the white thing?? We’ve been through this alreasy.. I am no more white than Akon is!! If I were I’d have much better things to do than hang around a black blog all day defending black women!!!

SMDH(Check me out!)

““ALLEGED” abuser. We only have her word, not his.”

As a black women who KNOWS what the black male is capable of I have no issues at all believing what this woman is saying!! I know how black males love to degrade women especially weak, low self esteemed or sub standard ones.. That’s the only way he can feel like a man.. He damn sure can’t feel like a man by being a good father or husband!!

Well people, you have your answer. SMDH is so bitter because she/it had the misfortune of sucking on the wrong dick.

Damn! SMDH that ass is fat. Looking good.

I think she has a myspace page, lol. And according to that, she’s black…

They’re both guilty of stuff IMO.

Hoes gotta eat too!

LOL, I know that, Marquis — I just fail to see your point in pointing out her race. That’s all.

Sydney, i’m just calling a “TURD A TURD”.

“Well people, you have your answer. SMDH is so bitter because she/it had the misfortune of sucking on the wrong dick.”

As I always point it out, it never seems ot fail: leave it to the black male to, when he can’t win an arguement with words or feeling, to start degrading a woman sexually!! This seems to be the black males defense mechanism!!!

This is why I say alleged my ass – Mos Def did what this girl is saying he did!! I bet the second something didn’t go his way she was contsantly reminded that she was a dancer and what she probably did ot get there and so on and so on!!

@SMDH

So who do you date? Obviously you have no more dealings with black men. White men then? Hispanic men? Black women?

SMDH

Stop getting knocked up by sorry ass nig-gers.

SMDH, What part of the USA do you live?

The name calling people, lets act our age… not our shoe size…

Continue….

I don’t think its lady like, sporting your business all over the world just for money, thats tasteless, if she wanted people to know her story don’t try to make money off of it, go on Oprah or something and express that, get help so that you can GET OVER IT.

I know how much the black male just loves and supports his kids – LOL!!!

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This is true, didn’t your black father take care of you?

I know my black father did, and my brother takes care of his kids, and my husband takes care of ours……

Thanks for pointing that out, even if you WERE trying to be sarcastic, I took it another way, a positive way, because everything about the black male is not negative.

shay shay, what up boo?

One day n*ggas will learn to stop tryin to turn hookers into housewives.

SMDH

Calm down missy. It ain’t that serious. It’s obvious, like most of your ilk, you had/have a sweet tooth for those shiftless, in and out of jail, unemployed thugs that fvcked you over time and time again. Hopefully you’ll one day be able to supress that weakness and fall in love with someone who is responsible, respectful and is gainfully employed.

So he married a real-life Ms. Fat Booty and he wonders why it didn’t work…Mos don’t hold onto nobody who doesn’t want to be held…take stings advice if you love someone set them free…and what kind of encounter did she have with kanye that would a)be awkward but b)wasn’t of a sexual nature…sounds a little shiesty to me…

QUESTION:: anybody answer pleaze

Why in da hell would you stay with a man that is physically/emotionally beating you?? I jus wish ppl had the common sense to know that no amount of money,good dick, or status of your husband makes it okay for him to beat your ass on a daily, sporadically or whatever. And Im so sick of blk ppl airing out their dirty laundry to the world. Damn isn’t anything sacred anymore and y wait so long??? IDK it sounds fishy to me

Damn what good is marriage if your only in it for PROFIT

sheesh, she fell in love with his bank account and he fell in love

with her physique

well at least their is “LOVE” involved

@SMDH

I only want to clarify this. Just becuase you didn’t get enuff luv in ur childhood. Pleaze dont condemn all blk men to acting like this. My fiance loves and supports my son. We are having another baby boy in a month and Im very sure that he will continue to be a great father to our boys. Not every blk male is trash and you shouldn’t put them all in the same category as men you’ve encountered.

@SMDH

DAMN… lol…

Not all black men don’t support their kids. Everyone I know has been raised in a home with both of their parents. Don’t speak for all please. It’s dumb.

i think she’s dating andre 3000 now… or she did.

LAUREN, SHAY SHAY

HI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

SMDH

There’s nothing different about being “STAR-STRUCKED”. You’re still setting yourself up for disappointment and in some cases, unpleasant surprises.

@SMDH

Im not tryin to start an argument…but IMO if you are looking for a good man… you might not want to “put yourself out there” like that.

Why does every fu!kin body want to run and write a book? I guess since she was selling her ass before (puttin it on show) it doesn’t mean sh!t to her to put all her private bearings on sale. She sold her soul a long time ago.

@SMDH

If that’s your photo…then it looks like you bring a lot of bulls*it on yourself…how can you be treated like a lady when you display yourself like a tramp?

“Don’t save her…she don’t wanna be saved.”

“I only want to clarify this. Just becuase you didn’t get enuff luv in ur childhood. Pleaze dont condemn all blk men to acting like this. My fiance loves and supports my son. We are having another baby boy in a month and Im very sure that he will continue to be a great father to our boys. Not every blk male is trash and you shouldn’t put them all in the same category as men you’ve encountered.”

Show me where I sad all black males are like this and I will show you t he many many times I have said I do not include good black males in what I say – but I will hold the bad ones accountable until the end?!?!?

Furthermore – where the black male is the first and biggest berater and detractor of the black woman – I will address them as I see fit!! The black male has no issues putting sistas down!!

“If that’s your photo…then it looks like you bring a lot of bulls*it on yourself…how can you be treated like a lady when you display yourself like a tramp?”

This isn’t about me and the way I am treated.. I have a man at home and I am not seeking the approval or desire of any males on this board.. This is about how black males treat women PERIOD – especially their own women!!

@SMDH

“I don’t have any kids – and if I did – they would NOT be by a blak male!! I know how much the black male just loves and supports his kids – LOL!!!

Where did you include the good black men in there? And what’s with the color thing? Deadbeats come in all different shades of color. Negelect is neglect.

SMDH

Then why you got ur nekked behind on the internet for all to see?? Thats going to attract the wrong kind of attention…

You’re an attractive girl… and you got a man you say.. if you don’t want the negativity? Why invite it by putting your physical self for all men to look at and comment? Any man with a penis is going to say something when they see an attractive girl with her booty out…

Just sayin…

strippers and hoes always chasing one nig when another nig of equal or lesser value finds them and wife them up. That the nature of hoe bidness…

@SMDH

Well what kinda man do you have that you would feel the need to display your man’s so called private possession to the public?

“Furthermore – where the black male is the first and biggest berater and detractor of the black woman – I will address them as I see fit!! The black male has no issues putting sistas down!!”

This I wholeheartedly agree with. Let’s blame it on the misogynistic music, and the women who embrace it as the norm.

@ SMDH

How about preferencing your attacks with “SOME BLACK MEN” or (in your case) “MOST BLACK MEN” and not “BLACK MEN” When preference your rants with “BLACK MEN” it connotes “ALL”.

these chicks should take the time to get to know these guys before spreading their legs and/or rushing to the alter. get all caught up in the hype and then want to write a book looking for loot and sympathy. not getting either from me!

“Where did you include the good black men in there? And what’s with the color thing? Deadbeats come in all different shades of color. Negelect is neglect.”

There is sapparetnyl something you don’t know about my stylo. When I say BLACK MALES – I am referring to no good blacks of the male sex who don’t deserve to be called MEN.. When I am referring to good black males I call them what they are – BLACK MEN!!

Go look at some of my posts in the various Barack or Al Sharpton or Will Smith, etc posts.. I call them BLACK MEN because they have earned the right to be called MEN!!

AND then he gave that hoe 115k……man o h man lol.l..maybe i need to strip lol

Wow! I must say that I’m disappointed in Mos Def, how can someone rap so intellegent and be so fu*king stupid…He proclaims to be so positive and marriers a stripper and fathers six children by 4 different women..That just goes to show you how weak SOME men are, the smartest man can be a dumb ass when a ho put some pu&&y in his face.

@SMDH,

I salute you. You are funny as hell! Anyone who can not relate to what you are saying is liar and very delusional.

Mos Def aint all that people…I know him & he’s not all about the “Black Power” as people may think.

He has a thing for mixed women me being black & asian was the most important thing to this a$$ hole & he is rumored to be “How u Doing”

I knew Mos Def had a lot of kids but never knew he was married. It just goes to show if what she says is true, you cannot judge a book by his cover because Mos Def comes across to me as very cool and laid back.

READ BELOW TO FIND OUT WHAT HIS WIFE HAD TO SAY ABOUT HER TELL ALL BOOK. !!!!!

(I got this from her my space page!)

Hello

Just so that everyone is very CLEAR about my book that is soon to be released I will tell u all what’s really good. I dont need a publisist to hide behind to speak for me, so i will let the truth be told. For all the negative feedback i aint even mad at you, i am open and NOT recpective to constructive critism. In fact its that very thing that made me who i am today. I am sure we all have pasts, some of which most of us choose to leave in the past. I am NOT looking for a meal ticket i am looking to give women/men in similar situations a chance to know that there are people that have struggles and no matter the severity of ones struggles u are never a bad or weak person. If i was meant to put a “TELL ALL” book out, u can TRUST ME it wouldnt be 118 pages more like 300! I am also NOT saying my struggles are any worse than the next persons, its not a competition its REALITY!

If we/all can speak out and help others why not?! I have a 7 year old boy who I love dearly and would never ever put my sexual life style and or relations with various men out there for others to know about. I am a role model for MY SON FIRSTLY!!! For all the negative people that only have bad to say… Thats fine cause we all need haters to make us motivators. I am NOT TELLING ALL!!! Lets make that very clear. Mos def is a great great man just relationships for some of us arent always what we hoped. Weather it Be mos def or joe smith we just weren’t fit for ane another as husband and wife. Secondly it is far far from a VIXEN BOOK! so please until u read the book quit assuming what u think just because I “AM” married to Dante Smith!!!

I hope that u all can see, and i HOPE that u all can and will FEEL me while u read thru.

Alana, is KNOWN ho. She’s been all up and down Canada.

I have no sympathy for her, why would you marry someone after a day of knowing them?! Love at first sight my ass, it was LUST at first sight. I’m tired of folks confusing the two. Just because you’re sexually attracted to someone doesn’t make you in love!

And why anyone would want to get involved with Mos is beyond me. Yes, he is fine, but he has ISSUES.

Superhead started all the skanks on writing about their personal lives

I love my black men. Of course you attract negative no good black men because you are a negative no good black woman.

i am the type that can separate the artist from his personal life, to an extent. i question how you can revere women & then beat them! a little polarized if you ask me. we have to help our black men b/c they are apparently hurting themselves. someone needs to reach out to him & get him some help.

Woooow!!! I mean all the self conscience rappers got problems too. First Talib was accused of popping his chick and now Mos????? Aww man damn. This just in, Nelson Mandela used to box Winnie’s face in! LOL! I weant to far I know it but I hate when society always looks at the “gangsta” rappers as being ghetto or disrepectful. Like this dude doesnt have to say ‘b*tch’ or ‘ho’ & he still has issues

keep messing with them hoes… hoes will flip your life upside down and ruin your otherwise steller reputation.

See? she tricked yo ass fool! Now she going in fo the kill!

Hoes/stippers/hookers/——– its all the same fool!

What you thought you had something special? HAHAHAHA Nicca!

“She never downtalks white women, white men, ”

You apparently don’t know my stylo either.. I dog everyone on this board but the black woman…. The black woman is the only group in this world that I have a true stake in!!

I’m disappointed in Mos for lack of better judgement. How you gonna try and wife up a stripper? WTF, I though you was smarter than that. I guess he’s only human and we all make mistakes and I’m sure he was deeply in love, no lust!

I was disappointed in his judgement also. When they first got married, the story was they knew each other for four days before they got married. I didn’t hear about her being an ex-stripper but at the time it was known she had been in videos.

Mos should have known those video girls are looking for a star to marry. He entered at his own risk now he has to deal with it.

Her book has been out since April, I just looked it up. And does anyone know what happened to Nas’s ex that had a book?

I dont know if i believe her!

http://www.najeestyle.com

http://www.theceelist.com

who has**

“this girl isnt helping lmao it dosent help when our poster girls are Melyssa Ford and Pamela Anderson though..”

Many Many good role models have come from Canada.. Don’t cheapen Canada down to Melissa and Pam!!

You apparently don’t know my stylo either.. I dog everyone on this board but the black woman…. The black woman is the only group in this world that I have a true stake in!!

You apparently don’t know my stylo either.. I dog everyone on this board but the black woman…. The black woman is the only group in this world that I have a true stake in!!

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I must not be black then.

“I must not be black then.”

Lauren if you stop dogging me then I will stop going after you!! Now if you remember, last week I told you I was gonna leave you alone because you are a black woman and I was defeating my purpose by arguing with you!! But if you’re gonna insult me boo boo thne you have to be prepared to take it in return!!

“I must not be black then.”

Please let me know when I insulted you hun?? So stop doing as you say and throwing rocks and hiding them because all I was doing was pointing out that you have contradicted yourself, I understand that you would like to be right all the time but it’s not possible for us humans, we make mistakes right? You simply implied that you dog everyone BUT the black woman and that is simply not true. Just pointing something out.

“Please let me know when I insulted you hun?? So stop doing as you say and throwing rocks and hiding them because all I was doing was pointing out that you have contradicted yourself, I understand that you would like to be right all the time but it’s not possible for us humans, we make mistakes right? You simply implied that you dog everyone BUT the black woman and that is simply not true. Just pointing something out.”

Lauren – are you saying that you have never insulted me on this board?? are you saying you are not alwasy dogging me when I get started up on this blog??

Stop it girl.. You know you do!! I do not just start in on you for no reason..

I dont see anything wrong with this book?he’s the one that has all these kids with all these women,but that will be forgotten tomorrow.because he’s a dude and he’s Mos Def,

but because she was a stripper,she’s automatically the next Supahead?

eeeh…?

Lauren – are you saying that you have never insulted me on this board?? are you saying you are not alwasy dogging me when I get started up on this blog??

Stop it girl.. You know you do!! I do not just start in on you for no reason..

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No hun, I am not denying that….but I am also not the one boasting that I don’t insult black women. I had to call you out on that since you are so quick to do that to others. GET MY POINT?

“No hun, I am not denying that….but I am also not the one boasting that I don’t insult black women. I had to call you out on that since you are so quick to do that to others. GET MY POINT?”

Lauren – I don’t do that to others.. I do it to you because YOU are always insulting me..

“It seems your resentment towards Black men runs pretty deep. Maybe it is warranted but I’m curious, in a earlier post you praised your father (deservingly so)but yet you hate us. You were born of his seed so why degrade ALL Black men based on the actions of some. I’m not going to make excuses for any man, I can only speak for self, but trust me, not all Black men are shiftless, lazy, good for nothing, etc. I admit, a lot of Black men, as a favor to all Black people, without question need to return to their right minds but it seems like you have taken every sterotype of Black men and used them to form your opinion. It almost seems as though you formed all your thoughts based on TV programs. Not saying that is the case…..it just seems.”

Again – I am not referring to all brothas when I am speaking negatively.. I am referring to BLACK MALES when I speak negatively and that’s why it appears I am grouping everyone together.. But if you pay attention you will see that I only call black men who don’t deserve to be called or carry themselves as men BLACK MMALES and when I insult I make special effort to say BLACK MALES.. When I am speaking of good BLACK MEN, men who deserve their props as MEN – I refer to them as BLACK MEN!!

So when you see me say BLACK MALES you know I am only referring to the bad element of our male race.. Whenever I am speaking of good brothas – aka Will Smith, Barack Obama, Al Sharpton, Denzel Washington, among many I call them BLACK MEN!!!

SMDH, I see your point. You may not be expressing yourself correctly but I see your point.

Lauren – I don’t do that to others.. I do it to you because YOU are always insulting me..

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See what I mean? You always call people out and say they are throwing rocks and hiding, but here you are doing the same thing. WOW, I have to admit I may not be a perfect human, but when I am wrong I will admit it, I believe that is what makes me human; I guess everyone cannot be as submissive….

of course she didn’t have sex with kanGAYe. she’s not a lesbian.

why do you think she stressed that they didn’t have sex?

so she don’t seem like a skeez on top of being a golddigger?

@KZZ….

no Hun they move on and date or marry men of their choice, seriously I know I clown you with some of your comments, but I wish you could meet a Wonderful Black Man to rock your world like so many of us sista’s have!

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Damn girl u got me thinking abotu Hubby last night, LMAO! I feel you on that, the sista may have been hurt and I won’t blame her for that but trust and believe that there are plenty of good black men out there just waiting for a good sista to wife up, I watched an episode of Tyra Banks show and she asked a quesiton are there any Good Black men still out there and girl when I tell you she had some beautiful black men on there, LAWYERS, DOCTORS, MINISTERS, Girl they were fine! And it just opened my eyes as to how good we sistas have it but some of us shoose to abandon our race, I mean to each his own, but as long as I live on God’s green earth I oculd never date someone other than a Black Man…..thats just my opinion.

“her” being SMDH

ya’ll unrealistic heifas make me sick. But I cannot blame ya’ll. The key to a happy relationship is delusion.

It’s not what you say it’s how you say it SMDH!

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True and I don’t know how she thinks she’s getting through to “the black male” by calling names, like n____ger and c___on and monkey’s and stuff, it just seems childish to me.

@KZZZ….Yes girl I think they are all Doctors….!

well not everyone can be as articulate as you Mrs. Lauren. But instead of being anal and focusing on the context how she said her point. why not focus on her point and debate that? how are you getting thru to her by nitpicking?

@Z….

Why is it that when I don’t choose to use offensive words when trying to get a point across then I am labeled as articulate?

C’mon, you can do better than that.

And plus it is hard to even see a point when every other word is offensive. And for the record I do not agree with EVERYTHING SMDH explains to us, but I am entitled to my own opinion correct, its just that when someone else has an opinion she tears that down and turns it around, and thats just not the correct way of doing things, its called agreeing to disagree.

I don’t nitpick sweetie, you must have me confused with someone else.

“Many Many good role models have come from Canada.. Don’t cheapen Canada down to Melissa and Pam!!”

As there are many good black men. Don’t cheapen Black men down to the one’s you have had experiences with!!

@Illuminati

I thinking banning BET and the like will also repair the black family structure…

lmao

@ lauren.

Damn, I thought you was intelligent. Please tell me when ebign articulate became an insult? would u rather me not think you are articulate? hahahaha

you do nitpick. YOu just nitpicked the post I directed at you and expressed your distaste for the word “articulate”, instead of focusing on the overall message my post implied. lol

Z(Check me out!)

lmao

@ lauren.

Damn, I thought you was intelligent. Please tell me when ebign articulate became an insult? would u rather me not think you are articulate? hahahaha

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Your sarcasm is pouring through my monitor.

I wasn’t saying that being articulate was an insult, rather using offensive language to get your point across shouldn’t be justified.

I was complimenting you when I said you were articulate. I have no control over how you interpret the tone of my post.

CAN’T TURN A HO INTO A HOUSEWIFE. MOS YOU SHOULD KNOW THAT.

“See what I mean? You always call people out and say they are throwing rocks and hiding, but here you are doing the same thing. WOW, I have to admit I may not be a perfect human, but when I am wrong I will admit it, I believe that is what makes me human; I guess everyone cannot be as submissive….”

Lauren I don’t know what else to say to you.. You clearly want to pretend that you will be sititng here picking daisies and all the sudden the BIG BAD SMDH will come and tear them from your hands.. I’m not playing that game with you.. You insult me first.. I alwasy take the time to point this out before I respond so that everyone will see that I am digging in your ass over insulting me.. So I guess we have to agree to disagree on this one – however, the quiest way to stop me from going after you is to stop coming after me!! Whatever I say to a black male on this board – if you choose to comment negatively to me about it – I will respond negatively as well..

Now have a good one boo boo!! Take care!!

“I thinking banning BET and the like will also repair the black family structure…”

AMEN!! Say that again!! BAN BET!!! Its like poison to our kids…

Now have a good one boo boo!! Take care!!

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I never said I was innocent and you were always wrong……none the less…..

You do the same.

So marrying a “highbrow” stripper is better? And I think she’s Canadian, FYI.

Retarded ass people..

Canada is a country like USA. They have black people their just like the United States. This woman is black or biracial.

Find one time I went after her first and I will bend between my legs and kiss my own ass!!!

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If anyone wants to do that, feel free…lol….but you want to keep saying that and I have never denied it so where are you going with this?

womp womp.

Anyhooo I am bored and I am glad as hell this day is almost over.

lol spoken by a true Queen

Hannibal, here u come actin a fool! lol

Me, act a fool? Come on Lauren, u know im far from that!

Me, act a fool? Come on Lauren, u know im far from that!

Oh yea? So why do you think all women should get knocked the f___k out?

Becuz all you women are ungrateful and dont know how to show us “SUPERIOR” men respect!

Hannibal…….

oh no no no my brother, some of them do it. we just have to look harder in the diamond rough for a blinger and then you will achieve success.

SDMH is an example of your dry spell.

Becuz all you women are ungrateful and dont know how to show us “SUPERIOR” men respect!

Thats not true! I respect all men when theyy deserve it.

@Lauren

Do you respect me because I deserve it??? My ex asked me to go down on her several years ago and ever since my lips have felt like they are coated with jalapeno flavored chapstick.

@Lauren

Do you respect me because I deserve it??? My ex asked me to go down on her several years ago and ever since my lips have felt like they are coated with jalapeno flavored chapstick.

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I respect you because yes, you deserve it and because you respect me.

And that other issue is personal, you might want to see a doctor for that, lmao!

There should be a new kitchen rule which states that all women are not allowed to leave the kitchen from 8:00 a.m. until 11:30 p.m., unless they are tending to the children or gonna have sex with their man becuz women are just not useful!

Oh Lord are we still tryna “tap into the complex stigmas” of SMDH and Marquis..well quite frankly I dont give a damn,and I see a new “member” of the “Hold Hands and Jump Society” ( I thought of the name meself) has joined the ranks, his name is Hannibal, and from all his “seething” and “witty” remarks, Im gonna take a stab in the dark and assume youre schtick is hating women? *yawn* excuse me while I attempt to give a damn….

On another note, 6 KIDS MOS?!!!! really I had no idea, wife beater or not multiple kids and BM’s is cause for concern, and to think I used to kick myself for not responding to him during his concert at the Galaxy, ( even though I was 17) , Lord knows I have never had the desire to become a member of the BM club, but hell they both deserved each other, he got a stripper whom he barely knew , and she got a rapper with multiple kids, and to think that wasnt the foundation to a healthy relationship how uncanny!

There should be a new kitchen rule which states that all women are not allowed to leave the kitchen from 8:00 a.m. until 11:30 p.m., unless they are tending to the children or gonna have sex with their man becuz women are just not useful!

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LOL…Thats not nice.

Whats not nice about that?! Women will have time to themselves from 11:30 p.m. to 8:00 a.m. That is the usual time when ladies cheat, becuz thats all women do is cheat!

SMDH….. How the heck are you?… this is ms BB saying whats sup!!!!

@Misty Knight

If u are a woman, then u dont have the right to speak to me unless u raise ur hand!

Whats not nice about that?! Women will have time to themselves from 11:30 p.m. to 8:00 a.m. That is the usual time when ladies cheat, becuz thats all women do is cheat!

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LOL….I think you are funny because your opinions are so far fetched you can’t actually believe yourself Hannibal. What if I told you I don’t cheat? You wouldn’t believe me?

Nope, I wouldn’t believe you becuz cheating is like breathing to women! They can’t live without doing it!

Just like not paying bills!

@Hannibal

Step off bro. You are obviously trying to start a cyber-fight. You probably live alone in an apartment and masturbate every night after you finish watching the Golden Girls.

My goodness aren’t we “catty” in here today!

Anyway men, don’t date the stripper, let her give you a lap dance, pay her, and get your ass up!

New Rule:

Women should be slapped three times a day!

….okay, so it sounds like we got most of the story in just those few paragraphs. Their relationship lasted 6 weeks, what else has she got to say?

Jun 30, 2008 – 5:20 pm Misty Knight(Check me out!)

Oh Lord are we still tryna “tap into the complex stigmas” of SMDH and Marquis..well quite frankly I dont give a damn,and I see a new “member” of the “Hold Hands and Jump Society”

funny, funny, funny

And plus, I still do have my right hand dammit!

@ Hannibal

Boy do you know you a fool right now!!!LOL “new rule: women should be slapped three times a day”! You crazy son!!!Get yourself together young man!

@2cute4u

We can make it 2 times a day for u, beautiful lady!

@Sydney

I was with you until you said spend more time defending the Black women. Now why the hell do we need to do that, we already pay the bills!

@Hannibal

No, you don’t. I pay my own bills. “All the ladies who are independent. . .throw your hands up at me. . .”

@Sydney

All men pay bills. There is no such thing as a woman paying bills or an independent woman, u know ur man does everything for u!

@hannibal

Oh, so you pay your woman’s bills and defend and protect her? I was wrong about you — you’re one of the last knights, lol.

@Sydney

Of course I do all of that. Women are just to lazy to do things by themselves! And besides, an independent woman is like a black KKK member, u will never see one!

@Hannibal

So if you do all those things for your woman, aren’t you enabling her laziness? lol

@lauren

@z

Hello!

@Sydney

No becuz even if I didnt do things for women they would still be lazy and worthless! Fact is, women need men!

@Hannibal

Well, I guess I should log off soon, so I can get ready for bed, so I can wake up to lazily go to my job, which I lazily use to cover my living expenses and savings. Hope all is well with you.

And you all need us, too.

P.S. You are making progress — you’re no longer differentiating among women of different races. We’re all worthless and lazy in your eyes, lol.

@Sydney

LMAO! I am glad that you have noticed my improvements! And let’s be serious for a moment, we all know that u dont have a job, women dont work unless its on the corner!

@Hannibal

That’s my second job. I have to go change now.

Let me stop before someone gets offended, lol.

@Sydney

LMAO! You mean thats your only job!

*Dang, I knew I shouldn’t have made that joke*

@Sydney

How are you this evening?

@Hannibal

You are going hard in here today blood! At least you keepin it real for us though.

*blinking my eyes*

Is that THE Kevin? The one who disappeared months ago?

*hugs*

Its OK Sydney! Just get your high heels and get on that corner so u can start makin money!

@Hannibal

We cool bro, but watch what you say to my girl Sydney. She is cool as hell!

@Hannibal

*doing my fingers like Alicia Silverstone in “Clueless”*

What-e-vah. ..

@Kevin

When are we going to have a pool party???

@Kevin

LMAO!

Sydney shouldn’t you be making dinner for your little boyfriend that you call Kevin!

@Sydney

The 4th is coming so I guess it will be a nice time to set off some fireworks with a pool party. Can you bring a special red,white, and blue bikini?

@Kevin

*placing my hand over my heart*

Your wish is my command. Red, white, and blue, it is. I will even wear a flag pin, lol.

@Hannibal

I am 6’2 and currently about 228lbs so be careful with calling me a “little boyfriend” blood!

@Sydney

I will be back shortly love! Careful of the Hannibal character baby.

@Kevin

Yes, babe, I will. $moK.E.Y. has been asking about you, by the way.

hmm

REGARDLESS OF WHO HE IS. NO MAN HAS THE RIGHT TO PUT THEIR HANDS ON A WOMAN.. YOU WOULD BE SHOCKED HOW MANY “RIGHTEOUS RAPPERS” ARE STRAIGHT UP FOUL WITH THE LADIES….

He married her. Gave her a settlement when she wanted out. He doesn’t speak bad of her (when he probably could). He still loves her. Why is she writing a book?

Here’s how her book should go.

Once upon a time there was a Greedy Ho. The End.

@SMDH i wasnt cheapening the country I come from but in the sense of women like this stripper ho I was just comparing her to other women that “cheapen” Canada lol kuz ppl was askin is she Canadian k..@SMDH

“I don’t have any kids – and if I did – they would NOT be by a blak male!! I know how much the black male just loves and supports his kids – LOL!!!< I feel you on that me and my girls talk about that ishh all the time my friend said she loves black men they look good and its what shes attracted to,we have alot in common with the average black man it can be anything, food, music our histroy w.e. but they just too scandalous so she was sayin she would never have a child with one kus she wants her children to actually have a father I agree. I aint have no daddy she dosent know hers and all of my friends but I look on the other side of my family and they have their fathers there, FYI they are all latina, indian and white (im multi-racial) and are married to white men who are still there with them being fathers, husbands etc. Its shameful and they all wanna be down in the streets, cant be faithful, and cant be with just one woman and raise their kids. And for all the ppl here, in North America yes Canada and the U.S. a little over 10% of the population is black ppl thats small when you consider all of the population in North America..of that 10% over 70% of black men are dating outside of their race and mostly white women..thats a huge issue I think because no other race is like that. That seems like self hatred to me I hear so many black men talking about all the reasons they dont want to date black women and I was watching Hip-Hop vs. America the other day and its ridiculous saying that black women have so much self hatred we’re not the ones self hating its black men so quick to turn on black women and disrespect them and degrade them like dirt. So I get what SMDH is sayin, at least she is stickin up for herself and othe black women. But girl relax a little dont get so heated lol its not good for you.

P.S. yes alot of good ppl come out of Canada..Jim Carrey, Mike Myers, Dan Akroyd, Matthew Perry, Celine Dion, Nelly Furtado,Deborah Cox, Robin Thicke his dad and many more etc, etc. Just showin a lil pride lol Holla!

Marquis why so bitter?

Suzy Canadian Superstar

So when black men in Canada exclusively dates outside of their race, it’s called self hate, but by your own admission, you won’t/don’t date black men either…So what do you call that?

There’s no such as secret’s these days,it’s quite sad.Mos keep you’re head up and drop another album soon.Such a gifted man great actor and mc.

god bless america ur home not so sweet home

Why can’t some black women just admit that they don’t know how to pick good men?All black men are not,I repeat not deadbeat dads.

1st- you cant turn a ho into a housewife (ex. Supahead, Nas baby mama, Miss Jones, ect.)

2nd- The alleged “moment” w/ kanye probably was some dome she gave dude when he was up and comin (which a real LADY wouldnt mention) but the name drop will more than likely see a few copies.

3rd- if a celebrity decides to wife up your simple ass, stfu when it dont work out cuz you not getting those checks comin in like they did before.

Damn damn damn DAMN!!!! Why Mos? WHY?! I absolutely loved Mos Def at one point. I still believe his talent is amazing. He was one of my celeb crushes-until I ran into his cousin a couple years ago who is real disgusted with him due to how he “allegedly” be treating his kids. She told me he’s a terrible father and doesn’t financially support them. She told me some crazy story about him leaving them stranded in Brazil or some wack mess. Anyway, I didn’t want to believe it. Then about a year later, I start hearing stories in the press about Mos skipping his child support payments. I was sooo disgusted, I guess especially because I’m having issues with my ex man’ing up and helping out with our child. Now this! NOOOOOOO!!! Damn! I can’t pick ‘em-even in fantasy land!

word in Toronto in this Alanna is a major groupie and follows athletes and rappers around and has some paying her car payments, for her son, etc. i have seen her with my own eyes too in the club i work in (it was her book release party) and she was enjoying being close with some CFL players she “knows”. who knows about her character?, she could be a great person… although the tell-all idea repulses me.

Marquis..first of all its in Canada AND the U.S. secondly I have every right to feel the way I do since black men feel that way themselves and I was sayin what my friend thinks about the issue and why she wont have children with or marry a black man thank you!

that’s the chic from the drop like its hot video. She’s the one with the braids. She’s the chic he met in Canada while filming 16 blocks and she did have sex with Kanye from what I hear.

6 kids + 4 different women = issues. thats real.

and he shuckin and duckin child support.google it. were supposed to feel bad she puttin him on front street for a lil change. sheeeeeeeiiit.wrap it up and get ur mind right. u dont marry jumpoffs. he too old to be actin a fool.