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Daaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayum. That hoe is crazy! But he must have done something fa real. Men these days are broke than a bia!

WOW she really loved him, if he came home and found his rabbit boiling, thats love baby thats love

lmfao!!!!! At least she didn’t go all “A Thin Line Between Love & Hate” on his azz. lmao!!!!

HO CARES THEY BOTH LOOK UGLY TOGETHER,
MAKE A SIGN SAYING THAT ?

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Diary of a MAD Black Woman!

A mistress should always know her role…when will they ever learn smh lol

8 1/2 yrs side relationship is a long time too

that ugly b.i.t.c.h is just mad because he got tired of her wore out face and loose chocha….trick

@Marquis after almost 9 years I’m sure the wife knows already.

This broad is dumb as hell. Wasting all that money on a man who doesn’t care about her and will not be going back to her. I’m glad I don’t know what it’s like to be so desperate! She knew he was married anyway. Women kill me with these married men…GUESS WHAT B/I/T/C/H if he didn’t leave her after 8 years he’s NOT leaving her!! Stupid broads….

Here’s the story:

http://gawker.com/tag/yavaughniewilkins/

HEFFA COULD HAVE USED TO MONEY TO SEEK HELP. OBVIOUSLY SHE NEEDS TO SEE A HEAD DOCTOR TO EXAMINE HER MENTAL STAGE. SHE’S LOONEY

*holds up white picket sign*

“I’VE BEEN WITH YAVAUGHNIE WILKINS!!!”

Did’t anybody ever ell that Hoe “IF HE CHEATS WITH YOU HE’LL CHEAT ON YOU” She only got what she deserved.

when a womens fed up there aint nothing u can do about it…..but 250 stacks in a recession with people in need all over the world!?!

What a fool! I wonder if she has closure now after all this mess.

she must have done the dirty dirty for him!

How much money yall want to bet that his wife is white? That’s why she’s pisted off

SMH 8 1/2 years on the side! WTF was she looking to be wifed up? Get a clue ladies.

WTF who in the hell keeps up an 8 year exclusive affair with a married man?

Why do side woman get mad when they go back to the wife, first off you don’t want to be wifey you just want some free dyck in your bed at night, second of all that his wife who probably have a family with him he should not just be living for the love of her but the children as well, third an affair should never last for years that defeats the point of an affair and if a man can stay with a jump off for some long then he needs to make up his mind and be with the bish stop playing mind games…

After spending all of that money I’m sure she still doesn’t feel better. Those billboards won’t heal her heart. She could’ve donated it to a Haiti Relief Organization. Sad

$250,000.00. Wow. I guess she showed HIM.

Her next billboard will be:

“I’M A HOE THAT SLEEPS WITH MARRIED MEN FOR 8 1/2 YEARS…. CALL ME!“-YaVaughnie Wilkins

Last I checked-Oracle was running smoothly.Should’nt hurt his career…embarrassing as this is.After all his boss (Larry Ellison) has had a rather messy private life too.

She probably took it in the taint…that’s why she so mad…

I am sorry, this looks deeper than the act of a scorned woman. This looks like someone is trying to sabotage his career.

on the real, ol girl is making some serious cheddar too if she could afford a smear campaign of THAT magnitude!

wow…

WOW, what do they say about a woman scorned? She is obviously in need of professional help, how are you gonne spend 250,000 during a recession to “get back” at someone who no longer wants you? Special and not in a good way!

After all is said and done, she is a hoe that is a quarter of million dollars poorer.

COME ON DUMMY…YOU KNOW THEY RARELY LEAVE THEIR WIVES FOR THE SIDE HOES. YOU LOOK JUST AS STUPID SLEEPING WITH THE MARRIED MAN.

MEN: WHY ARE YOU TAKING PICTURES WITH THE SIDE PIECE ANYWAY?

COME ON NOW. THIS IS RIDICULOUS!!

P.S. When i first refreshed the site and this pic came up I thought it was Obama. Daxn.

sO tHIS dUMB hEFFA aCTUALLY pAID $250k tO eMBARRASS hERSELF???

sHE gOT wHAT sHE dESERVED!

And, there is nothing more pitiful than being a hoe, except being a dumb hoe.

no nicca is worth 250 stacks either…smh…stupid bi.tch, I really can’t believe she spent that much money on this bull.sh.it, she could have sent that money to Haiti and helps some folks out….just plain dumb!

cruzan trini

1/22/10, 11:28:am

sO tHIS dUMB hEFFA aCTUALLY pAID $250k tO eMBARR***** hERSELF???

sHE gOT wHAT sHE dESERVED!
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your typing gives me an e-headache

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SHE COULD HAVE USED THAT MONEY FOR A FACE LIFT
AND HIM A PROPER FADE ?

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@pookie ‘em

Exactly! See TIGER WOODS for reference. Anyone with a brain can see that! She is hoping that he has a lot of P.U.S.S.Y SKELETONS IN HIS CLOSET. This anit no innocent naive little girl. She’s playing hard ball. Possible book, interviews. She will make that 250k back.

what billboard company is willing to post this stuff anyway? is there no editing or censoring protocol that folks have to go through to post stuff?

With Sanjor on this one.

she dumb as hell!

8 years????

the n i g g a s married???

250k on billboards?

a website dedication?

whew! AND this b i t c h is old.

WHY ARE THE MEN TAKING PHOTOS WITH THE SIDE PIECE. WHEN WILL YOU LEARN TO STOP TEXTING, STOP EMAILING, STOP FLICKING IT UP WITH THE SIDE PIECE????

THEY KEEP ALL THAT STUFF FOR A SITUATION LIKE THIS!!!

ON THE LOW MEANS ON THE LOW FOR A REASON!

She also put herself on blast for future married man to come because we all know most side piece never step up there game or mental stability becuz she will most likely find another married again… So what she is making money but if your heart is not in the right place then you get what is coming… A side woman to be is never classy no matter what her pockets look like or how big her azz is or how pretty she is because being with a married man is more about your integrity then anything… You get not good for doing evil and she got what was coming to her and so did he…

Just when you thought people couldn’t be any stupider. I hope she gets therapy and is able to work her way through this, because she’s not fit to have a relationship with anyone.

8.5 is too daxn long. With all the money he had. If he hadn’t started the divorce process after a few months, move on.

SHE WAS IN LOVE WITH THAT GUAP AND THE LIFESTYLE SHE LIVED WHEN SHE WAS WITH HIM TOO.

You have NO self-esteem if you wait 8.5 years for a married man.

LOL! Thats exactly what his cheatin behind gets! I hope his wife cleans him ou!

Isn’t this joke a part of Obama’s Administration? SMH!

That stupid B!#CH, thats not going to make him come back to, as a matter of fact his really going to run for the hill now. Find your own Man.

@IJM

8.5 is too daxn long

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Pretty much, at that point he is carrying on a full blown relationship with this woman. At the end of the day she’s a side-piece jumpoff but he is investing too much time with her. I had a male friend years ago tell me that men always make the mistake of having ‘affairs’ instead of just ‘fu.king off’. The side deal should never feel special, like she holds a major place in your heart. after 8 years, dang, I guess she would go postal on his a.zz….but she still a dumb bi.tch…smh…

Ladies,

The best revenge is success. Don’t bring yourself down to his level thats a no no! Go do some shopping get your hair done or whatever. Keep that body and mind right and keep it moving with your head held high! Sweetest revenge! Trust me!

What a stupid B?tch she is. The reason he left her a$$ is obvious…she is crazy!! Anybody who would do something like that is obviously not screwed on to tight.

That man also played himself becuz you should never give the other woman the leverage to check mate you so these married men are hell of dumb as well..

@SMDH

That’s the first thing I posted. No matter what you are to a man, the best revenge you can give him for hurting you is to move on, never speak to him again and get yourself together from head to toe. Most of the time the man will not care what you are doing, and that right there tells you what you meant to him in the first place…smh…women think!

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1/22/10, 11:45:am

@IJM

8.5 is too daxn long

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Pretty much, at that point he is carrying on a full blown relationship with this woman. At the end of the day she’s a side-piece jumpoff but he is investing too much time with her. I had a male friend years ago tell me that men always make the mistake of having ‘affairs’ instead of just ‘fu.king off’. The side deal should never feel special, like she holds a major place in your heart. after 8 years, dang, I guess she would go postal on his a.zz….but she still a dumb bi.tch…smh…
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She should never feel special and eventually she will want what ever woman wants some committment… On the real most men play themselves and the woman who love them get so hurt in the process… Men start caring about more then yourself…

Ok just took the time to read the story she knew he had a wife! SMDH! When will these chickens learn??? He’s not leaving her for you boo! LOL! If he is cheating on her he is damn sure going to cheat on you. You do not have the Golden Pssy! HA!

@ Caramel Cat

THANK YOU!

I just don’t get the whole mistress thing. Why would someone want to play second to another woman?? And what about that other woman’s feelings. People should treat people how they want to be treated. Women who mess with married men have self esteme issues if you ask me. Then they have the nerve to want to flip out if the man wants to work it out with his wife. WTF???

The wife should divorce his a.s.s. and take all di money!!! She has proof his was cheating for 8 freakin’ years… Girl please Elin Woods that a.s.s.!!! Get tha doe, go on trips, and find a real man, lmao…

She’s a certified MORONIC IDIOT – no one will respect her and she damn sure has ruined her chances of being happy with anyone after him…Cardinal Rule for me don’t sleep with married men-too many heffa’s slept with my x hubby and that’s why he’s my x – and Caramel you are absolutely correct – cutting them off is the sweetest revenge ever!

Sounds like she’s learning from Alecia. Publish your shTt. Get it out there if you want to move from side to front and center. His wife will flip and he’ll need his h0e’s shoulder to cry on. well played.

Spill it!

1/22/10, 11:59:am

The wife should divorce his a.s.s. and take all di money!!! She has proof his was cheating for 8 freakin’ years… Girl please Elin Woods that a.s.s.!!! Get tha doe, go on trips, and find a real man, lmao…
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Hey Choco!

That’s what the tramp gets for getting involved with a married man. If she felt bad about him going back to his wife, imagine how his WIFE felt when this tramp was trying to ruin her marriage.

God is good!

What does ugly have to do with happiness. You may think she’s ugly, but she looks way more happier than Cassie w/Diddy. So I don’t think being pretty is going to get you any more or less happiness than just being happy.

Stupid bi*ch should’ve left him alone in the first place! Nope, don’t feel sorry for her at all! Now, she just let EVERYBODY know how she spent all those years with that man and still didn’t get him!

http://dailymail.co.uk/news/worldnews/article-1245296/Spurned-mistress-YaVaughnie-Wilkins-takes-revenge-Charles-E-Phillips-plastering-U-S-cities-compromising-posters.html

She has played herself. She has lost her dignity, and respect for herself, and the possiblity of her finding a new relationship. No matter how many interviews or blogs she does, it will never erase that fact that she knew this man was married in the first place, and she was down with him for 8 years knowing she was wrong. Karma Karma

Hey Aunt Viv!

As a married woman myself I never condone cheating but I must admit the billboard thing. That’s gangsta! However she looks like a fool. 8 and a half years. She knew that man was never leaving his wife. Men never leave. They are the problem not us and they know it.

She should have played her cards right maybe she would not be left holding the short end of the stick. Sorry sweetie the only upside is time heals a broken heart!

Excellent life lesson for women
1. If will not marry u when you’re in ur 30′s
He dam sure anit gonna marry u in ur 40′s

NY Post has pictures from 2001 to 2009. She was a banger in 2001. She now looks below average. This brother looking for another mistress who looks like she use to look. lol

http://www.nypost.com/p/news/national/she_did_whaaat_CTz3l7zyyaJKLywTNaVSrO

@ La Mexican
1/22/10, 10:54:am

Daaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayum. That hoe is crazy! But he must have done something fa real. Men these days are broke than a bia!
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Right!
But no matter what…no matter WHAT he could’ve done…that $$$$ coulda gone to something/someone else more worthy than showing the world that ‘you’re’ scorned & feeling hurt by a ‘no-good’ man! Please!

Wow, this lady made a really bad decision… She could have bought another d.i.c.k. for 250,000! She does not deserve her wealth. Silly rabbit, married d.i.c.k.s. are for their wives, lol.

dude kinda looks like Obama

What do they say about a scorned women? My thing is this u knew he was married but you chose to stay. Any women who chooses to be with a married man is a Hoe and a Dumb hoe at that!

Spill it!

1/22/10, 12:08:pm

@ KeepNit2Real

To me after you been creeping for 8 plus years… HELL 2 D NAWL! I have no sympathy in my heart for lying ***** people who continuously deceive.
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How did he deceive her? By going back to his wife just as he should have been doing in the first place?

She played herself…plain and simple. It’s 7 billion people on the planet.

Choose one.

Mistresses always (for the most part) have subnormal intelligence. And, they usually believe, or, hope that somehow they’ll become the Mrs. It almost never happens. They just get played like a fiddle.

And, I don’t feel sorry for Charles either. Any negative attention that he or Tech Conglomerate Oracle gets, he deserves it.

On another note, who in the hell would waste $250,000 during an economic crisis? An idiot.

Hey Caramel—Happy Friday to you…

That money could have been used to help the people of Haiti. Or better yet, paid for an appointment for her to see a good shrink.

Is this lame dude worth all that.

I dont blame her.

Although, the money that was spent to broadcast the affair was way overboard. A chick like me would have found many other ways to spend that paper. LOL

8 1/2 years is NOT a jump-off!

Thats a f*ckin relationship. Ole boy was holding down 2 relationships at one time and found out that he must love his wife more and cut ties. Its moreso his fault than hers, though it take two to tango, he dragged her “heart” along for 8 years and THEN expect her to just forget about it when HE is done?

GTFOH

This is what he gets. I’m sure she has more up her sleeve.

Marquis de Sade

Why is being married the enemy he new what he got into when he spoke the vows just as well he knew what he got into when he has an affair to me that is all on him…. Marriage can still be great when two people care about it above there own selfish desires… If he house and job fall apart then that is his fault when you cherrish things you don’t mistreat it… Most men rather be weak in the moment instead of setting things straigh up front all for the love of puzzy… This woman had money and was some what stable and he still did not want her in the end..

My word.

bo.obs ,a.ss ,wardrobe and a tropical vacation.

TELL EM WHY YOU MAD SON

@ KeepNit2Real

No, not the jump off. I’m saying that his WIFE should divorce and Elin Woods that a.s.s. The jump off is wrong and gets what she deserves. The wife should throw up 2 fangaz like a playa and dip with half of the duckets. Unless they have kids, then I would maybe, just maybe stay together until the kids graduate. After that, holla and give me half biotch!! This man has proved that he doesn’t really love her through dishonesty, so there is no reason to stay.

I know everyone is going crazy on the comments…however the full story is that he was apparently separated from his wife for a few years she even filed for divorce in 2008 but then they reconciled. When they reconciled he ended the relationship with mistress and that’s when she flipped out. They were even living together and bought a home, apparently he introduced her to his son…so this is more of a case of dude not finishing the old before starting th new and it caught up with him. as oppose to straight adultery like alot of ppl think….either way it entertained today!

I sure would like to see those billboards!
But 8yrs?? As crazy as this was he’d better be glad that’s ALL she did…

reconciled with his wife.
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That’s the reason WHY you don’t mess with people who say they are “separated” = UNTIL THE INK IS DRY ON THE DIVORCE PAPERS!!!!!!!

You NEVER know because they could turn around and work things out…

Wait UNTIL the DIVORCE is FINAL!!!!!!!!!!!!!

MEN lie, WOMEN lie, DIVORCE DECREES DON’T!!

I’ll just repost this… (COURTESY of SLIDE)says it all to you thirsty bishes who think it’s cool to jump in before it’s OFFICIAL (desperate azzess)…

“That’s the reason WHY you don’t mess with people who say they are “separated” = UNTIL THE INK IS DRY ON THE DIVORCE PAPERS!!!!!!!

You NEVER know because they could turn around and work things out…

Wait UNTIL the DIVORCE is FINAL!!!!!!!!!!!!!”

And another thing, QUIT BUILDING A LIFE with MU’F*CKAS THAT AIN’T YA HUSBAND/WIFE!! Buying homes, joint accts, family intro’s (did she introduce him as a MARRIED MAN?!?!)

She got nothing less than EXACTLY what she deserved.

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If a man REALLY LOVES YOU he ain’t gonna make you wait NO 8.5 years… SMMFH Does that make ANY sense???

His words didn’t match up with his actions…

He was just stringing her along… Poor Thang…

That’s what she gets for messing with somebody who was STILL LEGALLY MARRIED!!!!!!!

Charles: “Oh Baby, you just wait I’ma leave her just be patient”…

8.5 years later he’s back with his wife…
SHAKING MY MOTHER F*CKING HEAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I say if you got it, then spend it how you like. I won’t pass judgment. But I would have spent my money at Cartier and Neiman’s.

@ Gotyou

I hear that now!!!!

QUIT BUILDING A LIFE with MU’F*CKAS THAT AIN’T YA HUSBAND/WIFE!! Buying homes, joint accts, family intro’s
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@Alrighty Then

THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If you don’t know somebody personally who’s gone through some mess after TRYING to “build a life” with somebody that they wasn’t married to there are SOO MANY stories out there!!!

Sh*t, that’s what make up MOST of them TV Court Shows = A couple moved into together because “they were in LOOOOVE”… Now they on National TV with Judge Judy, Judge Mathais, etc… To straighten things out and/or to get their money back from whatever they put their name on…

Tsk, tsk, tsk… SMMFH

She should have given that money to Haiti.

What an idiot. She should have known he was playing her for a fool when it was going on a few years and he STILL wasn’t taking their relationship to the next level. The wife shouldn’t have taken him back though (but I don’t know all the details so maybe there are kids involved or something that made her think it was worth it).

This chick DESERVES the DUMBEST JUMPOFF OF THE DECADE AWARD! She let this man screw here for 8.5 years, he never left his wife, yet she wants to post signs at $50,000 a pop when people in america are homeless and starving & people in Haiti are in a MAJOR CRISIS!
Hopefully she gets hit by a bus because she is a miserable sidepiece.

MISTRESSES like this are very dangerous! Whose to say she wouldn’t roll up to his residence and kill the wife. Men need to get it together.

AND THIS IS WHY U STAY WIT WHITE WOMEN!!!!!!!!!!! SISTA’S R TROUBLE!!!!!!!!!!!! LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Spill it!

1/22/10, 13:13:pm

@ KeepNit2Real

No, not the jump off. I’m saying that his WIFE should divorce and Elin Woods that a.s.s. The jump off is wrong and gets what she deserves. The wife should throw up 2 fangaz like a playa and dip with half of the duckets. Unless they have kids, then I would maybe, just maybe stay together until the kids graduate. After that, holla and give me half biotch!! This man has proved that he doesn’t really love her through dishonesty, so there is no reason to stay.
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I got cha. =]

Not saying what she did was right. But, old boy mislead old girl big time into thinking that he was divorced. Many folks associated with the couple said he indicated he was divorced as of 2003. It was almost as if old boy was leading a double life.

Hell, they bought a mansion in a tony suburb of SF — Hillsborough and lived together for several years. He took her out to many public events and squired her around town.

I can’t say I feel sorry for him. Now he’s publicly embarrassed Oracle. I wonder if the board will pressure him to step down. If he has to step down, he’s losing a $20 million dollar a year gig because of his duplicitious lifestyle — stupid jackazz.

@ PETE

Thanks for that input dude sounds like you really put some thought into that. Your the man! LMAO!!! Anyway.

I knew I couldnt get the whole way through the comments w/o someone mentioning Haiti. I wish motherf*ckers would just do THEIR part with THEIR motherf*ckn money & quit worrying about the next mans/womans pocket. Get on the Haiti blog & express your f*ckn opinions there, WTF GADDAMN!

Tamika
1/22/10, 13:15:pm

I know everyone is going crazy on the comments…however the full story is that he was apparently separated from his wife for a few years she even filed for divorce in 2008 but then they reconciled. When they reconciled he ended the relationship with mistress and that’s when she flipped out. They were even living together and bought a home, apparently he introduced her to his son…so this is more of a case of dude not finishing the old before starting th new and it caught up with him. as oppose to straight adultery like alot of ppl think….either way it entertained today!
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And this is the main reason why you give people time coming out of a relationship or a marriage many people never know what they really want and love does not just faded because you are triffling with yourself… It takes the average person a couple of years to fully let old situation go unless there were never there for the correct reasons now look at him back where he started from…

MzTee

In a very shady world one need to do there research because men lie all day long as do people period… I don’t think that he lead her won per say I think she has her own visions of what she wanted and she thought that she was going to get it but surprise surprise he still wants the wife…

The site contained an online photo album of what appeared to be eight years worth of pictures of them together. Some of the photos include them posing with Phillips’ son. She has also scanned dozens of florist cards from Charles, including “We’re going to have a great life, stick with me.”

The site would have possibly been ignored, if it hadn’t been for the multiple massive billboards she had erected in New York City, Atlanta and San Francisco! The Billboard quotes him saying “You are my Soulmate forever!”

Red

Yeah well men say a lot of stuff that they don’t mean like will U marry me…

I don’t understand why folks keep posting about how he deceived her or he said they were going to be together, etc. SO WHAT? Was she that hard up not to check it out? Further, he was married when she began seeing him, so that was her FIRST mistake. She OBVIOUSLY had the resources to find out if this man was divorced or not.

@ Pete

Kill yo self! Immediately! Have a nice day…

oh well, can you say “scorned woman”…..lmao good for him

old boy mislead old girl big time
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@MzTee

Either way regardless, she was stupid for being in a relationship for 8.5 years with NO RING!!!

Would YOU stay in a relationship with a man for THAT long with NO RING???

It doesn’t seem like money was an issue and even if it was they could of gone down to City Hall and done the Justice of the Peace thingy…

She OBVIOUSLY had the resources to find out if this man was divorced or not.
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@Alrighty Then

Oh Hell Yeah!!!

Yep, if she got $250,000 to spend on some stupid a$$ billboards that means she had the funds to hire a Private Investigator if need be…

Sh*t, she could of contacted that TV Show “Cheaters” and had Joey Greco and ‘em follow ol’ boy around town… *I like when they jump out of that white Van and confront the cheater… And the Cheater ALWAYS be like: “What is this, what is going on???”…

Some women are so stupid!!! $250,000??? was he really worth all of that?? He had an “affair” with her, she knew what it was and she put herself in that situation. She did not have to participate in it, but she did and when he and his wife get back together she decides to do this? That man is not embarra$$ed,this lady embarra$$ed herself. Spending money on billboards and a website when she was and always had been the “jump-off” not the WIFE. Hopefully for her sake there will not be a ‘next time’ but if it is just…. play your position be the ‘jump-off’.

8 YEARS THOUGH?

Hell, she coulda bought me a new Dodge Viper, gave me 100 stacks, and I woulda rode around tellin n*ggahs!!

Hell, she coulda bought me a new Dodge Viper, gave me 100 stacks, and I woulda rode around tellin n*ggahs!!
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ROFLMAO!

I don’t understand why folks keep posting about how he deceived her or he said they were going to be together, etc. SO WHAT? Was she that hard up not to check it out? Further, he was married when she began seeing him, so that was her FIRST mistake. She OBVIOUSLY had the resources to find out if this man was divorced or not.

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THANK YOU!

she is ugly with them thin lips!

@Slide, Omg!! I used to die laughing at those folks on Cheaters. The expressions and the dumb things they would say, lol.

she’s crazy.. but that is the type of embarrassment that men like that deserve. Put yo cheatin’ azz on blast to the world. If you want to screw around EMOTIONALLY OR PHYSICALLY….DONT GET MARRIED or get divorced before you plan your schemes.

All cheating people should lose a body part…. i’m just sayin’

This is about revenger and money. She got her revenge and she is getting ready to get her money. She make millions telling her story (his business).

I used to die laughing at those folks on Cheaters.
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@Sanjor

I love that show from beginning to end…

I like how they build the story up and then when they jump out of that van and confront the cheater and the response…

It’s funny & sad, but entertaining at the same time…

marriage is a joke these days. why even bother? stay single and keep f**** who you wish.

“Cheaters” is some bullshyt mayne.

No no no, she needs to stay in her lane. Its not like she didn’t know he was married. If she didn’t know that he was married then I could understand her reason for putting up the billboards. But really this does not suprise me, men with money, power, and/or fame usually cheat. At least one time during their marriage. That’s what men do when they feel they aren’t supported, treated like they should be, bored, or just plain dogs.

The story clearly says that, “he reconciled with his wife.” However, it doesn’t say whether or not he told the mistress that him and his wife were legally separated. This man could have led the mistress into believing he was getting a divorce and she believed him. And maybe he was separated while dating the mistress and, for whatever reasons, decided to reconcile with his wife.

It’s amazing how many people are quick to blame the mistress ALL THE TIME without knowing the facts or the full story. I’m not saying she isn’t at fault, but we don’t know what he was leading her to believe. Futhermore, if he wasn’t divorced or separated he is more to blame than the mistress because he made the commitment to his wife, not the mistress.

Even if she embarrassed herself, SHE EMBARRASSED HIM TOO, and after being with him for 8 years she knows what buttons to push and she probably also knows that he holds his professional position in high regard and what she did would devastate him.

He too yellow, anyway

She had to move out of an 11 million dollar home.

http://gawker.com/5454830/the-11-million-love-nest-yavaughnie-gave-up-after-her-break-up-with-charles?skyline=true&s=i

@ Shawn Jones

Nope…the wife is NOT white, she IS BLACK, and in my opinion prettier than the mistress.

But regardless, I feel no sympathy for women that mess with married men and get burned in the end. The Lord says, “Thou shall not commit adultury.” Not trying to be a holy roly but I agree with another post I read. How does she think the wife felt when he was creeping around with her? She probably was the cause of their separation in the first place. It’s called KARMA LaVaughnie. ACCEPT IT and MOVE ON. You are not a victim.

I believe when he saw his wife was about to leave him forreal and make the divorce final after years of separation, he realized he loved her more and really didn’t want their marriage to end. He probably just played around with the mistress while he was separated thinking the wife would always be in the background waiting for his a** to come home, but when he saw the wife was serious about leaving and moving on, he decided to stop playing games. People can BS around until the sh*t truly hits the fan, then they wake up to reality. The mistress can’t fault a man for trying to make it work with his wife because whether she likes it or not, in GOD’s eyes, he still belongs to her (the wife). It doesn’t matter how many vacations they took or how many houses they bought together. He wasn’t yours to begin with. POINT BLANK!

SMH!!!!!! would never spend that on a worthless son of a gun.

She had to move out of an 11 Million dollar. home

http://gawker.com/5454830/the-11-million-love-nest-yavaughnie-gave-up-after-her-break-up-with-charles?skyline=true&s=i

Not saying what she did was right. But, old boy mislead old girl big time into thinking that he was divorced. Many folks *****ociated with the couple said he indicated he was divorced as of 2003. It was almost as if old boy was leading a double life.
Hell, they bought a mansion in a tony suburb of SF — Hillsborough and lived together for several years. He took her out to many public events and squired her around town.
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You mean to tell me she spent $250,000 on billboards, but couldn’t figure out a way to get a copy of a divorce decree? A man will tell you ANYTHING! She should’ve just gotten a private investigator, or better yet, those mofos over at ZMT (backwards).

$ Get cha Weight Up (You STILL makin’ that??) formerly Kami All Day
1/22/10, 12:59:pm
I dont blame her.

Although, the money that was spent to broadcast the affair was way overboard. A chick like me would have found many other ways to spend that paper. LOL

8 1/2 years is NOT a jump-off!

Thats a f*ckin relationship. Ole boy was holding down 2 relationships at one time and found out that he must love his wife more and cut ties. Its moreso his fault than hers, though it take two to tango, he dragged her “heart” along for 8 years and THEN expect her to just forget about it when HE is done?

GTFOH

This is what he gets. I’m sure she has more up her sleeve.
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@ $ Get cha Weight Up (You STILL makin’ that??) formerly Kami All Day

i wOULDN’T gIVE tWO sHIZNITS iF tHEY’RE “rELATIONSHIP lASTED 80YRS. iT iS sTILL nOT a rELATIONSHIP. u uRSELF sOUND lIKE sOMEONE’S jUMP oFF. tHAT hOE kNEW wHAT sHE wAS iN fOR f*CKING wITH sOMEONE’S hUSBAND.

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aDVICE tO tHE mEN

iF sHE cAN’T kEEP hER lEGS cLOSED, hOW tHE hE77
u eXPECT hER tO kEEP hER mOUTH cLOSED????

lol it musta been a bad break up…if it was neutral she prolly wouldnt have but him on blast lls….he prolly tru to play her. cuz i did somethin way worst than that wen my bf try to play me.

my heart does go out to this woman because i to was in this situation. I unlike her didn’t know there was another woman, but once I did i stayed and I regretted it completely. I wasted time, attention, and lost a lot of respect from friends, family and myself because I chose to believe him and in our connection. While I thought we were going strong…I was blind sided with me and her are going to work things out. I was hurting and I wasn’t ready to let him go and I did put up a fight which only led to totally embrassment on my part and only just confirming in his mind he made the right choice just like this lady has done. I look back and I realize that my low self esteem and arrogance led me to be in that sad situation. I am now out and over that 10 year relationship with counseling and soul searching and surprising he and his long time baby mother are not together. This sister needs to do like I did and just get over yourself and make this person the center of her world. If someone doesn’t want to be with you its okay and its life. Stop thinking he owes you something because you brought the dream he sold you. You thought with your heart now its time to use your mind to heal it. Life does go on but you don’t want to scare off potential mates by not being able to handle basic rejection 101. I am sure she is a wonderful woman…but needs to give that time, money and attention to her self and not to some who is so underserving of it. She is very much still with this man just not physically and its a new year…let it go!

This woman is just a tad bit crazy. Men usually take crazy people as jump offs.Stay home with your wife, where you are suppose to be and you won’t have a problem.
Men think they are smart. How can you let your cok head think for your big head?

He’s just ready for some new meat…we know the game..times out for her, bottom line. I wonder what tomorrow is gonna be like for her? Regrets? Remorse? Ladies, when you are the mistress..no ya place,/ or dont fool around with a married men. “What is between the Mister and the Mattress?” “The Mis-tress’ Get it? Alot of ppl do..so don’t act like yall all of a sudden, so shocked! I heard it was $30G’s a billboard..$90G’s OMG!

Hell, she coulda bought me a new Dodge Viper, gave me 100 stacks, and I woulda rode around tellin n*ggahs!!

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DEAD!!

That ol bytch shoulda gave me the puzzy!! I woulda nutted up in that bytch azz hard!!

no love lost… just led on. I’m quite sure she stashed a nice little nest-egg after 8 and 1/2 yrs. She is so far from Being Stupid! She took the course and stayed with it. I’m quite sure she wasn’t looking to cash in on Marriage! No Chicks or Child! Living in a Mansion that cost 11 Million! He was off an on with his Wife! and she knew it. I have to give her the props on this! I’m quite sure, he made sure that she left with a nice check for at least the next 20 yrs! She’s free and rich to live her life to the fullest! His Wife on the other hand, knew of this, dealt with it, and I bet she is on her way to divorce court..big time! I know YaVaughnie will also get some palimony out of this also. I don’t see any dreams lost here, maybe, and just maybe just maybe some feeling hurt. But what the hell! He’s rich, the $$ she paid for the billboards, was his $$. He’ll get the write off! They all do! Know any jumpoff’s that had it that good?

She could have given that money towards Haiti relief. With all that’s going on in this world, she wasted her money on this?? THE MAN IS GONE. Why waste your money?

No, sorry…when will women learn that husband very rarely leave their wives….are you serious!!! 81/2 years, she know damn well what she was doing as did he!
And guess what? There are consequences for your actions. I know women and I know for a fact that the ‘MISTRESS’ was well aware of Mr. Phillips marital status/ wife so I DO NOT feel sorry for either one of them! When you ‘PLAY WITH FIRE’, you get BURNED sorry Ms. YaVaughnie Wilkins get your own DAMN MAN!!!.

Poor lady her feelings must have been hurt. I aint mad at her. Put that cheating mutha… on blast!
But damn that’s a lot of money she spent…..

Why, would scorned woman, commit a miserble, bitter act like this?

*a*-twice

wow, she could have done something more productive with that money…
i saw that billboard, but i never paid too much attention to it…
that some crazy shit… \

ladies don’t loose yourself when you are in a relationship… she invested 8 years to a married man.. come on, son!

this looks bad on her… professionally and personal life…
it was to get back on him, but in reality, it bite her, it would come back to her….
its not even worth it…

@REAL TALK,

Further proof darling that your a hidden homosexual. What man can look at another man and tell what he wants from a woman?

This is mulitple choice REAL TALK so choose wisely dear.

The correct answer is known only by:

A) Another woman
B) a Gay Man
C) a Gay man by the name of REAL TALK

You will be graded.

“…At least she didn’t go all “A Thin Line Between Love & Hate” on his azz….” No. Not yet.

Daywalker(THE DAYDREAM!!!)
1/22/10, 14:58:pm

Hell, she coulda bought me a new Dodge Viper, gave me 100 stacks, and I woulda rode around tellin n*ggahs!!
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I’m with U on this one

She knew about the wife but what upset her was that they reconciled. It was okay for him to lay up with her for 8 and half without marriage.

Matter of fact, that’s one bad B!!! I’m all in on this one.

DIDNT TAKE MUCH THOUGHT AT ALL… JUST A TRUE FACT! DEAL WIT IT DUMMY!!!! AND WHY WOOD I KILL MYSELF IM ALREADY IN HEAVIN WIT ALL THE BECKYS I GOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Just move on and do better, that point to prove sticks longer than anything. Way to many fish..

wow glad its not me. i would just have to start all over again … so i guess it would be a good thing. since i am a member of Obama’s Economic Recovery Advisory Board.

250 GRAND? THAT’S A WHOLE LOT OF SHOE MONEY RIGHT THERE. NO, DEFINITELY NOT WORTH IT. BUT THE CHICK HAD SOME SERIOUS PAPER TO EVEN BE ABLE TO DO IT.

Insane! She knew the part she signed up to play and she knew the type of fella she was dealing with…Basically she had a $250K hissy-fit….and wifey still gets her man…