Jermaine Dupri Wants to Know: Do Women Even Care That a Guy Has a Girlfriend???

- By Bossip Staff Categories: For Discussion, News, SMH

While Jermaine Dupri was kickin’ it in Miami last weekend, apparently he came across some girls and decided to post this on his blog:

I WAS IN MIAMI THIS PAST WEEKEND AND YOU KNOW WHEN YOU WALK AROUND PEOPLE WANNA TAKE PICTURES. I’M COOL NO PROBLEM, BUT EVERY TIME I TOOK A PICTURE WITH A GIRL OR GIRLS THEY ALWAYS HAD SOMETHING SLICK TO SAY LIKE “HIS GIRL GONNA BE MAD YOU ALL OVER HIM LIKE THAT” AND HER FRIEND REPLIES “WHAT SHE DON’T KNOW WON’T HURT HER”. “HOLD ME TIGHTER LIKE YOU KNOW ME”, SO MUCH SLICK SH*T IT BROUGHT ME TO THIS. IF A GUY WAS TO FALL FOR A GIRL THAT SAID SOMETHING LIKE THAT TO HIM, WHAT MAKES HER THINK THE SAME THING IS NOT GONNA HAPPEN TO HER?? #2 QUESTION DO WOMEN EVEN CARE ANYMORE THAT A MAN HAS A GIRL??

We know that in Atlanta, if you eliminate all the men that are gay, the ratio of men to women is damn near 1 to 20 and in New York it’s approx. 1 to 30 which is crazy but could this be a reason that some women don’t care that a guy has a girlfriend when they meet them.

What do ya’ll think… Do women even care that a guy has a girlfriend??? If he’s not married then is he fair game???

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  • haitian princess

    first

  • Truth-is-Truth

    Isn’t this the same Fa@@ot that was molesting the 2 children (Now Men) from Kriss Kross. He is one of the biggest Gay brothers in the game. Boo!!

  • Soul Touch

    I know people that do believe that unless someone is married, they are technically single and free for the picking.

    Personally, I don’t make it a habit of messing with other people’s men.

    Do unto others…

  • haitian princess

    & no, women don’t care. women don’t have any respect for each other nowadays, it’s all about what they want and that they better have it. there are very few girls who still take other people’s feelings into consideration, but for the most part, a girl will sleep with a man who has a relationship and think nothing of it afterwards

  • Soul Touch

    @Truth

    I have NEVER heard anything like that.

  • Regina Neequaye

    There a lot of gay women in atlanta so I think it evens things out.

  • 1TruDiva with the PlatinumVocals--Remembering Shaniya!!

    You’d be surprised to know how many women think they’ve conquered something when they sleep with a man who’s in a relationship.

    I can’t tell you how many women laugh and joke with their homegirl while pushing up with her man.

  • http://bossip MY BAAD>>

    no, broads dont be caring. “gay” or not.. broads so fkn thristy its a shame

  • Callmemisse

    ITS crazy…..some women really disgust me..there are women in this world that goes after a good man just because he has a girl! Ladies hold YOURS TIGHT!!!! hahah not too tight…he might run away. Take care of yours! These broads will stop at nothing.

  • Mock Rock Star

    If people were more honest about their wants and feeling with their partners and spouses then everyone is fair game.

  • tell it like it is...

    I think it’s really sad that it has come to a point where women must degrade themselves in this fashion. There are plenty available men outside of the Black race. If Black women were willing to open their hearts and minds, they may not feel the need to act so desperately all the time.

  • Tammy

    No, they don’t care and that is so sad. I fault women for the way some men treat them because that kind of slick talk as Jermaine put it, is not a good look for them. That is letting a man know that they can be with their woman and that “girl” too and she would be ok with it. Ladies, we must have more respect for ourselves and if not, don’t get mad at the man when he dogs you out. You put yourself out there.

  • Cali damn

    a LADY does care… a T*RAMP doesn’t!

  • LeoGlamVixen

    Hell, they don’t even care if a man has a wife. Girlfriend? Forget it…

  • http://perryone779@yahoo,com a rose by any other name #9304026339482056536 ™

    They dont care, but they are so jealous of their man around women, thats wh i dont deal with women and even very few on here.. too petty, too jealous, too conifing and too silly minded, half of those skanks dont even want the man they wantb to see if they can get him all over them to make his woman jealous! My man has this thing when a women gets too close and flirts and knows he is with me, he says ok back off befoe i tell my lady on you,, that gets them eveytime..now hoe many men are man enouhg to say that to a chick.. not too many , thats why im holding on to this hunk of chocolate!!

  • whatever

    do men care if a woman has a man?

  • LeoGlamVixen

    @ Truth

    Are you for real?

  • UrHeinessDaQueen

    It works both ways. Just like there’s women who don’t care if a man is in a relationship,there’s also plenty of men who don’t give a damn if a women has a “special someone” lol. Besides ppl are responsible for their own actions! If you’re going to be vulnerable/tempted enough to take the bait? that’s on you!

  • ...

    Men never cared and now women don’t either.

  • http://Bossip Not So Much!

    Jermaine, NO they do not care! No!!! I care because I’ve been hurt and I would never put that on another women but for the most part WOMEN just do not care! There come a time when I don’t care anymore! That just may happen right now and this just happen to me when a man’s women called me back that I just recently met. I told her I didn’t know and she didn’t have to worry about me calling again. I just don’t want the drama! I don’t have the paitence. It’s not that serious to me! But, I know I have friends and they will go there ALL DAY!

  • UrHeinessDaQueen

    No one else is to be held responsible/liable for your relationship but you! If you cherish your “relationship/significant other”,you won’t cheat,plain & simple.

  • LeoGlamVixen

    @ Not So Much

    Cosign! I have a girlfriend that enjoys doing this. Its exciting for her and its not so much about the man, its more about the women for her. She likes to make them mad…

  • True Be Told

    This topis is endearing due to this crisis being so prevelant in many communities. Ladies have forgetten how to be ladies, and this is indeed a tragedy seemingly due to the facts that if women want “REAL” men they need to start acting like “REAL” women; not just your everyday ‘around the way GIRLS’. drop the act and get real it is 2010.

  • Matix B

    Hell no! I will not date a next girls ‘ting. I have self esteem so the attention from another girls man does not get me off. Most girls think well about themselves when they get hit on by guys who are not “single”. Then they want to complain when he cheats….ladies don’t give your power away. We have been treated like ‘ish for years and we still seem to be fooled by the antics of men who really haven’t grown up yet! Ladies remember a man does not make you, you make your self…do not get played out like the rest!

  • ...

    @UrHeinessDaQueen

    I may be completely wrong but reading your comments makes me believe that you like to go after men in relationships. There are a lot of women that only like men in relationships.

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