What Chicks Do for a “HAS BEEN”: Naked Pics of Bobby V and his Jump Offs

Posted on February 10th, 2010 - By Bossip Staff

Categories: Bobby V, Hoes, News, Put on Blast, Random Ridiculousness, SMH, The Swirl, Thirsty Hoes

They say that ladies like to kiss and tell but honestly, we think it’s more of a guy thing. Bobby V has pissed off some chick and instead of cussing him out, she decided to put him and his jump offs on blast with naked pics.

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Ladies it is time for us to wake up and see these men for who they are. This is one of many emails to come! Remember in life you must make choices; love the one you are with and stop thinking people will never find things out… cause your actions always come to the light.

Love M.C.

We really don’t see how this is putting him out there because it’s the chicks that’s letting him take the pics. She says that there are more to come so, hopefully she has something that’s a little more embarrassing.

How Tall is Bobby V Again??!!?!

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  • Britchick91!

    lol i 4got about this midget ni99a

  • T-MAC

    When will they learn? Even if it’s your spouse, its possible that the union might resolve and somebody will walk away bitter. SMH – Don’t make your business digital if you don’t want it out there.

  • Cutie

    Is that a “S” curl?

  • http://WOW Pinsongirl79

    Typical!

  • Cutie

    Okay and NOW that I’ve looked at the “other” photos besides the “S” curl photo, why in the hell is he taking pictures? If he were a “G”, he wouldn’t have time to be taking no darn pics…

  • pynk♥{Mum Bett}

    LMAO!!! A couple of my friends have met him before & they said dude was like 5’3″. lol. He looks like he has a small one. lol. & taking pics like that: TACKY. The girl putting it up for all to see: PETTY & TACKIER. I think she was aiming to shoot down his ego, but… I don’t think she will succeed. You have rats that will sleep w/ him anyway, & men that will give him “props.” I don’t think Bobby will care not one bit. lol

  • mandy

    Who cares!!! My boyfriend thinks the same with me. He- is eight years older than me, lol. We met online at—Agemingle –— a nice and free site for Younger- Women and Older Men, or Older Women and Younger Men, to- interact with each other. Maybe you wanna check out or- tell your friends.

  • Alrighty Then… (Barbara Jordan)

    I still listen to Booby’s CD, Rebirth. I don’t think he’s a “has been”, but IDK…

    Anyway, he’s always talking about all of his groupie’s, and what they will do, so somehow I don’t think he’s upset about this….

  • Markh360

    SINCE WHEN ARE THESE GIRLS VICTIMS? THESE WOMEN MAKE THAT CHOICE, HE DIDN’T PUT A GUN TO THEIR HEAD. THE MAN IS SINGLE. A H.O. IS A H.O. BY HIS OR HER OWN PERMISSION.

  • I’m Just Me….Keeping It Real Since: 1983…….66 Days!!!!

    That ninja, what’s his name SPIDER LOC OR SPIDER WEB started this shyt. Now it is all okay to post pics of yourselves in the bathroom f*cking (or whatever this is supposed to be) all W*LLY NILLY! Negative!

    USE CONDOMS BOBBY!

    Daxn I was just listening to Turn the Page this morning. Uugghh! It ruins my whole mode to see this mess.

  • Sydney™ (Edmonia Lewis)

    Um, isn’t this the singer who has made offensive comments about black women in the past?

    Karma strikes, lol.

    Good morning, all. :)

  • Cutie

    @ pynk♥{Mum Bett}

    My homegirl said she met him on the plane and he’s one of the most self loafing black men that you would want to meet. He had the nerve to tell her (cause she light skinned with curly hair) that he ONLY talk to black girls that look like her or Whyte/latina women…Self Hate at his fineness…needless to say, their conversation ended there. Sad..

  • I’m Just Me….Keeping It Real Since: 1983…….66 Days!!!!

    MORNING

    PYNK

    CUTIE

    ALRIGHTY

  • Glok…Im repping Marcus Garvey, Yah Dunno !?

    LOL@ BRITCHICK!

  • Sydney™ (Edmonia Lewis)

    I clicked on the link, and, allegedly, this is the e-mail that was sent with the photos:

    “Ladies it is time for us to wake up and see these men for who they are. This is one of many emails to come! Remember in life you must make choices; love the one you are with and stop thinking people will never find things out… cause your actions always come to the light.

    Love M.C.”

    Girl, tabernacle! What is done in the dark will come to the light, lol.

    @Cutie

    “My homegirl said she met him on the plane and he’s one of the most self loafing black men that you would want to meet. He had the nerve to tell her (cause she light skinned with curly hair) that he ONLY talk to black girls that look like her or Whyte/latina women…”

    He seriously said that? So he really meant what he said about “redbones.” What an idiot.

  • pynk♥{Rebecca Lee Crumpler}

    Sydney™ (Edmonia Lewis)
    2/10/10, 08:35:am

    Um, isn’t this the singer who has made offensive comments about black women in the past?

    Karma strikes, lol.

    Good morning, all.
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    Good Morning, Syd. I’m unfamiliar w/ what he said… Care to enlighten me? lol

  • Glok…Im repping Marcus Garvey, Yah Dunno !?

    IJM, I BEEN CHASING YOU WITH THIS BLAZE ALL MORNING?

  • Glok…Im repping Marcus Garvey, Yah Dunno !?

    BOBBY SENT THEM PICS OUT ..HE STARVING FOR ATTENTION!

  • pynk♥{Rebecca Lee Crumpler}

    Cutie
    2/10/10, 08:35:am

    @ pynk♥{Mum Bett}

    My homegirl said she met him on the plane and he’s one of the most self loafing black men that you would want to meet. He had the nerve to tell her (cause she light skinned with curly hair) that he ONLY talk to black girls that look like her or Whyte/latina women…Self Hate at his fineness…needless to say, their conversation ended there. Sad..
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    Wow. NO game. lmfao!!!!!

  • ***JUDY***

    Cant say that I care…….next!

  • marie II

    My girls said they met him also and he was rude and arrogant although i guess its to be expected when ur head bigger than ur body. I agree tho any publicty better than none so hey make ur own no need for marketing excutives when u got ur own camera. how so yesterday show us somethin like pics of urself donating computers to the youth in ur hood how bout pics of u building houses for single mommas. do that.

  • Sydney™ (Edmonia Lewis)

    @Pynk♥{Rebecca Lee Crumpler}

    “Wow. What a loser! Self-hatin’ *****.”

    He reminds me of that rapper who called women of a certain complexion a derogatory name a while ago. I forgot his name, but since that incident, I haven’t seen much about him. Good.

  • Just Me

    Its obvious that HE put these pics out of himself cuz he wanted to show that he is smashing white and black chicks in hopes that it would do a ray j kim k celebrity boost for him…but ultimately FAIL!

    And yeah dude is like 5’1! Just like T.I., just like Lil Wayne, just like Ludacris….all those little tykes!

  • Alrighty Then… (Barbara Jordan)

    “This was a while ago, but he reportedly made a comment about Alicia Keys and “redbones.” I found a quote online:

    “She’s a redbone. Ain’t nothing like them redbones…she’s got that good grade of hair. She’s using that Proactiv now so that skin is nice and crisp and clean.””
    ———————————————–
    wow, I didn’t know this… While I always thought he was a bit of a jerk, just chopped it up to him having a Napoleon complex… sounds like it might be a little deeper than that…

    @Syd, Pynk, Glok, Et Al – Good morning!

  • Alrighty Then… (Barbara Jordan)

    @Sydney™ (Edmonia Lewis)
    2/10/10, 08:58:am
    @Pynk♥{Rebecca Lee Crumpler}

    “Wow. What a loser! Self-hatin’ *****.”

    He reminds me of that rapper who called women of a certain complexion a derogatory name a while ago. I forgot his name, but since that incident, I haven’t seen much about him. Good.
    ———————————————–
    Yung Berg made reference to “Dark Butts”… Killed his career… AND he’s gotten his head whomped a couple times since then, AND got his Transformer chain stolen! lol! I LOVE when Karma strikes! lol!!

  • I’m Just Me….Keeping It Real Since: 1983…….66 Days!!!!

    BOBBY SENT THEM PICS OUT ..HE STARVING FOR ATTENTION!

    *******************************************************

    I BELIEVE THIS TOO!!!

    *puffs*

    *puffs*

    *puffs*

    *passes to Glok*

  • Sydney™ (Edmonia Lewis)

    @Pynk

    Thanks for the mentions of Mum Betts and Rebecca Lee Crumpler, by the way. They were both fascinating women! :)

    @Alrighty Then… (Barbara Jordan)

    I was just going to write that it sounds like Valentino has a Napoleon complex. And, yes, I think his issues run deeper than his diminished height. He obviously wasn’t intellectually astute enough to keep his ignorance to himself.

    “It is better to be thought a fool than to open your mouth and remove all doubt.”

  • Vonne Loca

    @Sydney™

    That would be Bobby’s fellow Leprechaun brother Yung Berg.

    Sad little men.

  • Sydney™ (Edmonia Lewis)

    @Alrighty Then

    “Yung Berg made reference to “Dark Butts”… Killed his career… AND he’s gotten his head whomped a couple times since then, AND got his Transformer chain stolen! lol! I LOVE when Karma strikes! lol!!”

    That’s the Z-lister’s name, lol. And, yes, I love it when karma strikes a degenerate as well.

    If your fan base predominantly consists of women, you may not want to offend them en masse. Just a thought.

    “Until you do right by me. . .”

  • I’m Just Me….Keeping It Real Since: 1983…….66 Days!!!!

    @Sydney™ (Edmonia Lewis)
    2/10/10, 08:58:am
    @Pynk♥{Rebecca Lee Crumpler}

    “Wow. What a loser! Self-hatin’ *****.”

    He reminds me of that rapper who called women of a certain complexion a derogatory name a while ago. I forgot his name, but since that incident, I haven’t seen much about him. Good.
    ———————————————–
    Yung Berg made reference to “Dark Butts”… Killed his career… AND he’s gotten his head whomped a couple times since then, AND got his Transformer chain stolen! lol! I LOVE when Karma strikes! lol!!

    ********************************************************

    DEAD!

    Not sure he had much of a career before that. But I do know that girl Jaslene (sp.) broke up with him not too long after that.

  • Sydney™ (Edmonia Lewis)

    Thanks, Vonne Loca. I couldn’t remember that foolish boy’s name. Wonder why? lol

  • Alrighty Then… (Barbara Jordan)

    @Syd

    -“Until you do right by me. . .”

    Nothing good’s gonna come to ya… :)

  • Glok…Im repping Marcus Garvey, Yah Dunno !?

    IJM, IM SPARKING UP…DAMN I LOVE NY LIKE THIS !

  • Cutie

    What’s up Keeping it real. How you boo? Trying to get ova this hump…

  • Sydney™ (Edmonia Lewis)

    @Alrighty Then (Barbara Jordan)

    “Nothing good’s gonna come to ya…”

    “Everything you think about is gonna crumble. . .”

    R-E-S-P-E-C-T.

  • Glok…Im repping Marcus Garvey, Yah Dunno !?

    ALRIGHTY THEN!
    YOU SINGING AFTER 7…. THIS MORNING HUH?

  • Vonne Loca

    @Sydney™

    No problem, although, I see Alrighty Then beat me to the punch. Well, comments like that stay with you a lot longer than the names of the people who said them.

  • 2Sweet

    Men under 5’6 are usually a/s/s/holes. Talkin about they 5’7 and s/hit. You know you ain’t 5’7 lil nicca.

  • Sydney™ (Edmonia Lewis)

    Wow, it’s like a blizzard out there. . .

    May I take a puff, too? That’s a cigar, right? :)

    @Vonne Loca

    “Well, comments like that stay with you a lot longer than the names of the people who said them.”

    Yes, they do. What he said was incredibly offensive, ignorant, and hurtful. How can you insult the women who are a reflection of you? I presume a black woman gave birth to him.

  • 2Sweet

    Oh and Bobby V…U UGLY!!!!!!

  • pynk♥{Rebecca Lee Crumpler}

    Sydney™ (Edmonia Lewis)
    2/10/10, 09:06:am

    @Pynk

    Thanks for the mentions of Mum Betts and Rebecca Lee Crumpler, by the way. They were both fascinating women!
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    Yes, ma’am! Female empowerment to the max! Edmonia Lewis is a great pick, too. I enjoy sculptures & fine arts!

  • Sydney™ (Edmonia Lewis)

    @Pynk

    “Yes, ma’am! Female empowerment to the max! Edmonia Lewis is a great pick, too. I enjoy sculptures & fine arts!”

    Yes, girl, female empowerment to the max, like, you know? Woman Power, lol. Yes, I enjoy the fine arts as well. There are so many black painters, writers, playwrights, poets, et al who haven’t received their just due.

  • http://www.kanyeuniversecity.com/blog/imgpop.php?img=http://www.kanyeuniversecity.com/client_images/kanyewest/3164_b0e5bda4c46c8d17b6cf25713d3170ac.jpg Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

    Lights Camera Action :-)

    If you gonna take pictures like this don’t be surprised if they end up on the internet, LOL and once it’s on the internet it’s on there FOREVER!!!

    What if your child, Family Members, someone at work that don’t like you or others come across pics of you in compromising positions that decided to take pictures of…

    People, think about the consequences of your actions…

  • pynk♥{Rebecca Lee Crumpler}

    Sydney™ (Edmonia Lewis)
    2/10/10, 09:32:am

    @Pynk

    “Yes, ma’am! Female empowerment to the max! Edmonia Lewis is a great pick, too. I enjoy sculptures & fine arts!”

    Yes, girl, female empowerment to the max, like, you know? Woman Power, lol. Yes, I enjoy the fine arts as well. There are so many black painters, writers, playwrights, poets, et al who haven’t received their just due.
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    So veeeerrrryyy true! Which is why, we should be celebrating all year long – not just February. Oh well, someday… *sigh*

  • Ann

    Yawn. At the self hating midget. I’ll bet he has herpes.

  • Vonne Loca

    @Sydney™

    Absolutely, without a doubt. I have no idea how; but people do it all the time. So quick to say something disrespectful about others, never thinking that maybe they should look in a mirror first. And maybe his mother is light skinned with curly hair, or something that makes him feel she isn’t “all black”.

  • Black mans GIFT

    light skinned are not black !Obama alicia halle etc ARE NOT BLACK! THEY are HALF BLACK!MULATTO

  • Sydney™ (Edmonia Lewis)

    @Pynk

    “So veeeerrrryyy true! Which is why, we should be celebrating all year long – not just February. Oh well, someday… *sigh*”

    Girl, we can — and should — celebrate all year round. Nothing’s stopping any of us from continuing to educate ourselves about our history. There are so many resources out there, particularly with the Internet. No one can restrict how much we learn and when we choose to learn it.

  • Sydney™ (Edmonia Lewis)

    @Pynk

    “So veeeerrrryyy true! Which is why, we should be celebrating all year long – not just February. Oh well, someday… *sigh*”

    Girl, we can — and should — celebrate all year round. Nothing’s stopping any of us from continuing to educate ourselves about our history. There are so many resources out there, particularly with the Internet. No one can restrict how much we learn and when we choose to learn it.

  • Rihanna’s sharp n witchy fingernails took the oath-Mariah’sconcertlastnightwasGREAT!

    blackberry molasses!

  • http://www.kanyeuniversecity.com/blog/imgpop.php?img=http://www.kanyeuniversecity.com/client_images/kanyewest/3164_b0e5bda4c46c8d17b6cf25713d3170ac.jpg Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

    That’s right Bobby bend her a$$ over…

    And you gonna take a picture… SMMFH

    Say CHEESE :-)

  • Sydney™ (Edmonia Lewis)

    Did my post not go through? Pynk, I wanted to say that our history is year-round. Nothing precludes us from continuing to research our ancestry long after February has ended.

    @Vonne Loca

    “And maybe his mother is light skinned with curly hair, or something that makes him feel she isn’t “all black”.”

    I don’t understand why some still fail to grasp that blackness comes in a myriad of shades — we’re all black, including to the outside world. My thinking is, if you insult one of us, you’re insulting all of us.

  • Sydney™ (Edmonia Lewis)

    Oops, I apologize for the repeated posts.

  • Isa de angola

    Bobby, your´e over… please move on.

  • Aja

    I am light skinned I consider myself 1000% black! i love my color and i love my culture

  • Vonne Loca

    @Black mans GIFT

    When will people learn? WHEN?
    Just because you’re are light skinned doesn’t mean you’re not black; or that one of your parents are white or some other non-black ethnicity!

  • chocalatetunda

    WOW!!!!! OBBY V. NEVER REALLY CARED FOR HIM TO MUCH. HE’S ALWAYS SEEMED LIKE A REAL A S S HOLE TO ME. SOME OF HIS MUSIC WAS COOL. BUT THIS FOOL ALWAYS TALKED ABOUT HOW MANY GROUPIES HE’S BANGED OUT. THATS GROSS AND HE SOUNDS LIKE A WALKING STD…

  • pynk♥{Rebecca Lee Crumpler}

    Sydney™ (Edmonia Lewis)
    2/10/10, 09:41:am

    @Pynk

    “So veeeerrrryyy true! Which is why, we should be celebrating all year long – not just February. Oh well, someday… *sigh*”

    Girl, we can — and should — celebrate all year round. Nothing’s stopping any of us from continuing to educate ourselves about our history. There are so many resources out there, particularly with the Internet. No one can restrict how much we learn and when we choose to learn it.
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    I understand, & Wiki, Google, & books are my best friends. But, doesn’t it bother or scare you that there are lesser & lesser younger kids that don’t want to learn about these things? & not to mention the parents that don’t want to teach their kids about our history? I have my work cut out for me when I have children… Not only do I have to teach them about their African roots, but their Dominican, & Spaniard roots, too. & I know more about the former than the latter. lol.

  • Vonne Loca

    @Sydney™

    I’m with you on that one. Black is black, whether it be light, dark, or somewhere in between. And I think people understand that concept, they just choose to ignore it and live life ignorant.

  • JoVah

    WHy are these guys so stupid?

  • http://www.myspace.com/870bg BG (Benjamin Banneker)

    *Round of Applause for Bobby V*

  • http://www.myspace.com/870bg BG (Benjamin Banneker)

    hahahahahahha what a *****in *****..who takes a pictures of himself while having sex?
    _____________________________________
    *slowly raises hand*

  • Vonne Loca

    @realaboutit

    Negros that are 5’3 and in desperate need of an ego boost, as well as some publicity.

  • Sydney™ (Edmonia Lewis)

    @Vonne Loca

    “Black is black, whether it be light, dark, or somewhere in between. And I think people understand that concept, they just choose to ignore it and live life ignorant.”

    Yes, I think some do, and, sadly, I think some may also believe they derive some benefit from being “less black.” It’s important to understand the roots of these viewpoints — which span back for generations — in order to alter them.

  • Sydney™ (Edmonia Lewis)

    Clarification: “some may also believe they derive some benefit from attempting to appear ‘less black’”

  • Sydney™ (Edmonia Lewis)

    Hi Man, BG, Ms. EJ :)

    @Ms. EJ

    “Black Berry Mol*****es” crew”

    I’m afraid to ask what this is. . .

  • http://www.myspace.com/870bg BG (Benjamin Banneker)

    Hey Syd
    I can’t even see the next building in my complex!

  • http://www.myspace.com/870bg BG (Benjamin Banneker)

    @ Sydney
    You don’t remember that song?

  • Sharie

    LAME!

  • Ms.EJ

    @SYDNEY-It is a great song “Black Berry Mol-a-s-s-es” and very deep too. That song was and still is a classic just talking about life and wanting change, kind of a sad song.

  • Sydney™ (Edmonia Lewis)

    @BG (Benjamin Banneker)

    “Hey Syd
    I can’t even see the next building in my complex!”

    Yesterday was the first day since Friday that I was able to get out and drive around a bit, and all I see is a whirl of snow now (I think we may get up to a foot by tonight). The government has been closed, so I haven’t been to work since last week. I think we’ll probably be closed again tomorrow. At this rate, we might as well call this week a wash. I hope you have enough food!

    No, I don’t remember that song, but I’m sure I’ve heard it.

  • Sydney™ (Edmonia Lewis)

    @Ms. EJ

    OK, I’m listening to the song now, and I do remember it. It is very nice.

  • kerry

    bahahahaha@s curl why yes it is

  • Sydney™ (Edmonia Lewis)

    Off topic, I think music was much better in the 90′s. You actually had songs with some meaning.

  • Ms.EJ

    @SYDNEY- I LOVE LOVE that song, but it just makes me sad, but at the same time it motivates one to keep pressing on, to be strong during tough times. Indeed, very nice song. I always wondered what happened to the other group members? I seen them several times at school back in the day, but since he blew up per se hadn’t heard anything from them since not even him mentioning them.

  • Ms.EJ

    @SYDNEY-YES GIRL!!!! the 90s was the best time during music even the best times of BET. I remember getting my dance on to Jade “Don’t Walk Away Boy”, SWV “Love Will Be Right Here” and “Anything”, De Angelo “Your My Lady” shoot High Five “Kissing Game”-”Can’t Wait Another Minute” or “Quality Time” (so sad that the lead singer died and so young. My ALL TIME FAVORITE R&B GROUP IS MINT CONDITION!!!!!!!-Pretty Brown Eyes, Swingin, What Kind Of Man and even Dave Hollister and Donell Jones. MAN! I MISS THOSE DAYS!!!

  • Vonne Loca

    @Sydney™

    That’s true. Even though I don’t quite understand that mentality that some have. I can pass for being biracial — I’m light skinned with long, dark, curly hair — and I’ve yet to see any benefit nor do I feel I’m less black than anyone else.

  • Ms.EJ

    @SYDNEY- Clark Atlanta University.

  • Vonne Loca

    *P.A.S.S.

    Ugh, dumb censorship.

  • Vonne Loca

    I completely co-sign on ’90s music being FAR better than the mess they try to pass off as music these days.

  • Sydney™ (Edmonia Lewis)

    @Vonne Loca

    “I can p***** for being biracial — I’m light skinned with long, dark, curly hair — and I’ve yet to see any benefit nor do I feel I’m less black than anyone else.”

    Yes, from cafe au lait to mocha, we’re all black.

    I had a conversation recently with a sister in my office about colorism, and she said she heard a morning radio show about the topic, and a brother called in and said that he didn’t date darker-skinned women because he thought their skin looked “dirty.” I was literally speechless. I thought about that statement for hours afterwards.

    @Ms. EJ

    Thanks, girl. Atlanta has a number of fine schools. :)

  • http://www.myspace.com/870bg BG (Benjamin Banneker)

    @ SYD
    Yeah the lady works for the feds too and she’s been here staring at me the last 4 days… Messing up my madden dosage. SMH

  • add

    Wait but according to most sister he is gay??

    Isn’t funny , well let the sistas hate

  • Ms.EJ

    @BG- *waves hello* When I seen your gravatar it immediately reminded me of a Pastor and/or deacon. Its making me ready for another round of prayer :) , but how are you?

  • JaySoul

    “shawdy stay right there let me grab my phone an take a pic” where they do that at?

    Next negroe you see snappin a pic with they phone smack them in the face!!

  • Sydney™ (Edmonia Lewis)

    LOL @ people saying that BG looks like a pastor

    @BG

    “@ SYD
    Yeah the lady works for the feds too and she’s been here staring at me the last 4 days… Messing up my madden dosage. SMH”

    LOL, you two should play together. :)

  • Ms.EJ

    @SYDNEY- I never ever knew of colorism until I moved to Atlanta. It was not until I came out here where I heard men make reference to my complexion being “just right” or the “perfect brown complexion”. I had an old curly updo hair picture up yesterday, but my hair is a very nice length and it is so offensive when a brotha makes a reference to be being mixed which I by far do not look mix (which isn’t a good or bad thing just whatever to me). For some reason many brothas only seem to think that mixed or fair skin black women have long hair *blank stare* My sisters, friends and others who are black with mocha to chocolate skin have flowing hair or hair that is naturally wavy and/or curly. The whole hair thing irritated me anyways, because pretty is pretty. As long as a hairstyle is nice and kept up is all that should matter. As India Arie stated “I Am Not My Hair”.

  • Ms.EJ

    @SYDNEY- LMBO!!!!!! girl it scared me Sydney I was a little girl and was just confused and appalled by It LMBO!!!, and yes, I seen him still rocking that “thing” LOL but he is still a good performer. My very first concert was with the : Gap Band, Ronald Isley and the O Jays. I’m an old head just like you LOL. I already know that the day I get married I will either sing it to my husband or have someone sing Patti’s “If Only You Knew” (how much I love you). I love that song. Lean On Me was a cla-s-s-ic.

  • Sydney™ (Edmonia Lewis)

    @Ms. EJ

    I also first started to really experience colorism in college. I recall a friend telling me that she thought I would have better luck with me because I was “light-skinned” (and I have never called myself that).

    “For some reason many brothas only seem to think that mixed or fair skin black women have long hair *blank stare* My sisters, friends and others who are black with mocha to chocolate skin have flowing hair or hair that is naturally wavy and/or curly.”

    I’ve seen that erroneous statement expressed on this site, more than once. If you take care of your hair, it will grow, regardless of your complexion. SMH.

    And I love that India Arie song, and it didn’t receive nearly as much airplay as it deserved. The message in it is powerful. “I am not my hair, I am not this skin, I am not your expection, no. . .I am the soul that lives within.”

  • Ms.EJ

    PYNK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! hey girl!

  • Vonne Loca

    @Sydney™

    You know it! I come from a family of seven and we range from “high-yella” (lol) to dark chocolate.

    Wow, I’m in utter disbelief. I don’t even know what to say to that. He thinks their skin looks “dirty”. Wow, just wow.

  • pynk♥{Rebecca Lee Crumpler}

    Ms. EJ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! *charges @ her for an e-hug* lol

  • Lady Architect (I’ve got rhythm like Dorothy Dandridge)

    Hey people,
    ok…so he took some pics with his lil cam…seems like the women wanted to do it so that’s on them…they can’t get mad at that.

  • Ms.EJ

    @SYDNEY-EXACTLY!!!! very well stated. I too, have seen that statement online as well. This is the thing I only got or heard such comments from brothas. It seems to always be our own kind who you would think would know better. I remember when I would wear braids during the summer since I love the beach and a brotha would ask off top “You are cute, so how long is your real hair without the braids cause I like long hair?” just rude. Sydney, I had gotten so tired of that and one day I said ” How would you feel if I asked you how long your tongue was or how long you are down there cause I gotta have a man with…you get the point so how would you feel?” and it shut them up or they said “good point”. I only used that example, because men are very self-concious when it comes to that “area” just like many black women are when it comes to their hair. But that was when I was talking to men my age. Since 18 I’ve dated men at least 5 years older than me and still do. It was a big difference in what they found or thought to be important.

  • Sydney™ (Edmonia Lewis)

    I think I mangled India’s lyrics (which is a shame as many times as I’ve listened to that song). Here’s what I was attempting to quote:

    “I am not my hair
    I am not this skin
    I am not your expectations no no
    I am not my hair
    I am not this skin
    I am a soul that lives within”

    @Vonne Loca

    “Wow, I’m in utter disbelief. I don’t even know what to say to that. He thinks their skin looks “dirty”. Wow, just wow.”

    Yes, that’s what he said. Can you believe it? I asked her, so what do you think his opinion is of dark-skinned men? Are they “dirty?” Are the dark-skinned women in his family “dirty?”

    I’ve heard a lot of ignorance in my time, but that statement, by far, is among the worst. Depressing.

  • Ms.EJ

    @MR COOL- Oh no problem. That song just makes you think and they sung it so very well.

    @PYNK-LMBO!!! *big ehug back* to you too. HOW ARE YOU?

  • Sydney™ (Edmonia Lewis)

    @Ms. EJ

    “How would you feel if I asked you how long your tongue was or how long you are down there cause I gotta have a man with…you get the point so how would you feel?” and it shut them up or they said “good point”. I only used that example, because men are very self-concious when it comes to that “area” just like many black women are when it comes to their hair.”

    Girl, I remember years ago when I went to visit a friend of mine, and we had gone out to a party. Well, I’m standing quietly, and a brother gave himself permission to come up behind me and run his hand through the back of my hair — which is all mine — to perform a “weave check.” I was so heated. I couldn’t believe it.

    And, yes, they’re very sensitive about that “area,” lol. Did you see the recent thread about size? Wowzers. Brothers lost their cool, big-time.

  • Sydney™ (Edmonia Lewis)

    Oh, no pun intended (“Brothers lost their cool, big-time”), lol.

  • Ms.EJ

    @SYDNEY- Remember when India Arie and Alicia Keys had came out around the same time and people were giving Alicia Keys more public recgonition even radio play? It was so blatant that in black magazines or shows hinted to or directly talked about how people took more to A Keys due to her curly hair and light complexion and that she had a more commercial look versue India Arie who was chocolate with natural hair. All I can say is that pretty is pretty or handsome is handsome. I love all shades of black men.

  • Kool Breeze

    Now ya see..lame nicca’s like tiger and valentino will always be held up for ransom when ya screw with tricks and chics that are only look’in to get paid. C’mon dudes if ya gonna do the crime make sure its with someone who stands to lose just as much as you if chit go down. Btw not an advocate of extramarital sex. Becky’s = Danger

  • loveme loveme not

    Why are they neked and he has on pants

  • Ms.EJ

    @SYDNEY- OMG!!! LMBO! ROTFL “no pun intended…lost their cool big time” *dead* I know you didn’t mean no harm, but that was hilarious. Yes, I’ve had the weave check too and I seen one time when a man did that to a woman at the grocery store and she went off “Get out of my hair!!!! you are not slick!!!! gosh that is so rude! all up in my head!!!” girl he was so embarrassed and served him right. Yes, I had lurked that day and *whew* the men were getting heated and very defensive.

  • Vonne Loca

    @Sydney™

    Psh, if someone asked him that I can pretty much bet he’d back-pedal with the quickness. Make up some bogus reason why certain dark skinned people aren’t “dirty”.

  • Sydney™ (Edmonia Lewis)

    Hi, Lady A :)

    @Ms. EJ

    Yes, I remember well the controversy involving Alicia Keys and India Arie, and the Grammys incident. Some of us have internalized the same perceptions that have been used over generations to divide us. You’re right, beautiful is beautiful.

  • Sydney™ (Edmonia Lewis)

    @Ms. EJ

    “Yes, I’ve had the weave check too and I seen one time when a man did that to a woman at the grocery store and she went off “Get out of my hair!!!! you are not slick!!!! gosh that is so rude! all up in my head!!!” girl he was so embarr*****ed and served him right.”

    ——————-DEAD——————

    Girl, I think any man who saunters over to a woman he doesn’t know to touch her hair must be out of his mind. That can turn very ugly very quickly. Do we walk up to men and test their “packages?”

    “Yes, I had lurked that day and *whew* the men were getting heated and very defensive.”

    Girl, I couldn’t stop laughing. It was unbelievable. As much as they talk about “T&A,” they couldn’t handle one measly thread about their “delicate area,” lol.

    @Vonne Loca

    “Psh, if someone asked him that I can pretty much bet he’d back-pedal with the quickness. Make up some bogus reason why certain dark skinned people aren’t “dirty”.”

    Why, of course, he would have.

  • God

    Son is handling his business! Kudos to the Kid.. Bobby V

  • Sydney™ (Edmonia Lewis)

    LOL @ Ms. EJ

    Did that happen in Atlanta?

    Well, you do remember Eddie Murphy’s character in “Boomerang,” right? I don’t mind if a man looks at certain parts from afar (since they are visual creatures), but it is a total invasion of space and decorum for anyone to run his hand(s) through a woman’s hair without her permission or an invitation. There may be a very hefty price to pay for such a transgression, lol.

  • pynk♥{Rebecca Lee Crumpler}

    Ms.EJ
    2/10/10, 11:24:am

    @MR COOL- Oh no problem. That song just makes you think and they sung it so very well.

    @PYNK-LMBO!!! *big ehug back* to you too. HOW ARE YOU?
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    I’m doing good girl. Can’t complain! How are things w/ you & your daughter? Are you all moved in yet?

  • pynk♥{Rebecca Lee Crumpler}

    Sydney™ (Edmonia Lewis)
    2/10/10, 11:57:am

    LOL @ Ms. EJ

    Did that happen in Atlanta?

    Well, you do remember Eddie Murphy’s character in “Boomerang,” right? I don’t mind if a man looks at certain parts from afar (since they are visual creatures), but it is a total invasion of *****e and decorum for anyone to run his hand(s) through a woman’s hair without her permission or an invitation. There may be a very hefty price to pay for such a transgression, lol.
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    I believe the same price can be paid for men suggesting that we “just jump in” the pool. As long as it takes to get me to get my hair done!? Um, let’s not & say we did. lol

  • Ms.EJ

    “I believe the same price can be paid for men suggesting that we “just jump in” the pool. As long as it takes to get me to get my hair done!? Um, let’s not & say we did. lol”-PYNK

    GIRL THAT IS FIGHTING TIME I DO NOT PLAY!!! That is like asking to be kicked in the you know what Pynk. Girl, I remember when I was 16 and this guy did that to me, my homeboy kept saying “Man stop, don’t do it man, she is for real stop” and I tried my best to stay put on the ground, but he threw me in. When I came out the water I must have had the look of evil or something cause ole dude ran out so fast and the other guy was like “ah ish!!!! man she’s crazy fool you better run something not right” LMBO!!!! girl, not cool. I move out May , but have alot to do furniture shopping wise, just alot, but its been fun thus far in preparing.

  • real black is chocolate f’ck fake azz bullsh’t!!!! real nikka aka Gmen

    Black mans GIFT

    light skinned are not black !Obama alicia halle etc ARE NOT BLACK! THEY are HALF BLACK!MULATTO

    amen

  • Sydney™ (Edmonia Lewis)

    I should amend that to say that “some” men, not all.

  • Ms.EJ

    @SYDNEY- I know girl. I’m so glad that it is rare that I experience that, but I was asked that some weeks ago from my maintenance man. SMH, man just fix the water heater please LOL.
    I know folks are crazy nowadays I think of that Jersey Shore girl Snooki that got punched full force from that guy at the bar. You are absolutely right.

  • rothschild

    he’s a cute boy. and again he’s a boy. this is what boys do…and pervs.

    this aint embarrassing though. she shouldve posted face/d.ck pics.

  • Ms.EJ

    @SYDNEY- You’re right some men not all. I needed to amend that as well. Where did everybody go?

  • Sydney™ (Edmonia Lewis)

    @Ms. EJ

    “I know folks are crazy nowadays I think of that Jersey S***** girl Snooki that got punched full force from that guy at the bar. You are absolutely right.”

    Yes, that guy on “Jersey Shore” did not hesitate to hit that young woman with full force. Women have to be careful.

    I think any man who would touch you with the blink of the eye probably has little to no respect for women anyway, so a confrontation is futile, and potentially dangerous.

  • Sydney™ (Edmonia Lewis)

    @Ms. EJ

    I just saw that a bunch of new threads have been added, so I think people are on different ones. I think I’m going to try to get some work done here. It was good talking with you, girl! :)

  • Ms.EJ

    @SYDNEY- Ok, same here girl. Have a blessed day :) and bye to ALL

  • faundyb

    damn bobby i never thought you would go out like that ON TO THE NEXT ONE

  • http://www.lovelifegodsexmoney.com Mel REPPIN’ 4 COACH ROSIE

    It also doesn’t count when you have to pay for groupies.

  • faundyb

    ARE YOU IN ON IT TO BOBBY SAD

  • jazzygirl

    this lame dude live in the A and i seen him come in to highrise building to visit Luda singing all loud in the lobby. he is very very lame and very very short(no offense to short guys) but this dude had to have done this himself or let his jumpoff put him on blast… he is very insecure and there was a time when he did talk to brown skin chicks he just think he got more choices now… but what look good is not always good for you… so sad and stay out of my building you lame this is buckhead and a condo highrise act like you got some sense ..country a.z.z

  • http://www.kanyeuniversecity.com/blog/imgpop.php?img=http://www.kanyeuniversecity.com/client_images/kanyewest/3164_b0e5bda4c46c8d17b6cf25713d3170ac.jpg Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

    Is that a “S” curl?
    ______________________________________

    @Cutie

    Maybe he has Indian in him… LOL…

  • Bey-nonsense

    dead at jazzygirl…he like to “show out”

  • Miss_C

    Now yall know that someone from his camp posted those pics!!! He needs some publicity cause otherwise no one is thinking about his LAME ass!

  • bossip.got.nerve

    Whoever “MC” is needs to get a life.
    If that’s the decisions they want to make and the role they want to play then let them do it. That’s the problem with people getting too into other people’s lives. And all this person is doing is giving Bobby V press. Good job.

  • Bronzedyva

    Don’t really care about this has been (or never was for me).

  • HEARTLESS

    NICE …I’M JEALOUS

  • Nathan Pike

    Fair play to my dude; at least he isn’y messing with some dark skinned monkey hobag! Just hating because the women are light skinning and naturally beautiful. A black man should NEVER get with a dark woman when they get money – otherwise your life will be finished, ugly haters in this page! Fvck dark skinned cvnts

  • Ms. Littlejohn

    Ewww! He’s a dwarf!

    LOL!

    ; )

  • Gimmeabreak78

    Who cares what this American Idol reject, black leprechaun of a man does? I just want him to go back to his tree and return to making delicious fudge-striped cookies.

  • beasley

    damn how weak, i wanted to see if he was packin..two words BO-RING!

  • rocky

    wow, what a loser, never would have thought he would do something like this, stars never seem to amaze me……!

  • my goodness

    Ok. They are dumb as f u c k to let him catch them in that position. Why, though is this news? NEXT.

  • I’m Just Me….Keeping It Real Since: 1983…….66 Days!!!!

    Men under 5′6 are usually a/s/s/holes. Talkin about they 5′7 and s/hit. You know you ain’t 5′7 lil nicca.

    *********************************************************

    DEAD!!!

  • kellz_88

    light skinned/spanish/white women need to get it together since every “black man wants one there disrespecting themselves and making themselves look like fools and just plain old easy ; bobby v looks gay anyways hes just trynna get some attention

  • I Partially Blame Black MEN

    OOPS WRONG THREAD AND WRONG TITLE SHOULD HAVE SAID …

    I PARTIALLY BLAME BLACK MEN.

  • N.O.s finest

    I THOUGHT HE WAS GAY OH WELL ON TO THE NEXT

  • Tray

    @ Cutie,
    The word is self-loathing!

  • FiveStarish

    I see nothing wrong with grown a$$ peeps doing whatever they want. I don’t think he has kids or a wife, so who cares. Oh Yeah, and he is not washed up. I love his last CD and his voice is better than alot these R&B cats.

  • OneM

    ffff

  • OneM

    THE GUY IS A MIGET YO

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