1st?

2nd!!

I’m sure it was an interesting show

I heard her new baby father is Jay Electronica.. How the hell?!?

The Hip HOP Ho has done it again!!!

@ Solomon Kane

I must say I agree. 3 different baby fathers and you claim it was a choice?! Well then Ms. Badu despite your dope-ness your judgement is seriously impaired.

@ Suga Mo

LOL you crazy girl! but what about Neo Soul ho.. She’s not really hip hop. . I don’t think.

I officially lost respect for erykah…

“She guzzles the testicle juice from the chalice of Satan”

LOL

Ur right but she done been with ALOT of Rappers…Dead Pres (both), Meth (while married), Common, D.O.C.(while engaged to Common), Common, Andre 3000….Etc more eclectic types…. And this new dude…. By all means have as much sex as you want but she needs BIRTH CONTROL

Ur right but she done been with ALOT of Rappers…Dead Pres (both), Meth (while married), Common, D.O.C.(while engaged to Common), Common, Andre 3000….Etc more eclectic types…. And this new dude…. By all means have alot of sex as but she needs BIRTH CONTROL

Mrs-Free-to-be-ME-Badu…give it to ‘em sista!

Philly Style huh…’where you from’?

A bastard shall not enter into the congregation of the LORD; even to his tenth generation shall he not enter into the congregation of the LORD, Deuteronomy 23:2

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So that mean half of the black community is going to hell…

Terrance Howard is looking good….

Erykah is Erykah….

he hair looks like it could grate cheddar cheese

@Solomon Kane

Have you discusssed this with your mama?

@ Southernbella

lol

@ southern bella

her one and ONLY children’s father…might I add…

@num1dominicano – Co-sign with you.

@sothenbella – Madonna and Jennifer are married women, so I’m not understanding. Kim is in a relationship and has no kids. So again, I’m not understanding. Out side of Puff (cause you got me there!) I’m not understanding your chosen few. This woman is going on child #3 and still no man in the house? Each kid traveling in a different direction when it’s time to go see daddy? Back in the day, we had more respect for ourselves and our community. We are so lost people. So Lost.

@ tropical

please……married to your children’s father…….or having 3 kids…not being married to ANY of the father’s….which is worst….you aren’t that much of an dummy are you..

I love erikah (spell check) she is a beautiful woman!!!

Lol @ num1dominicano beginning retort w/please….

hollyweird is straight up sodom and gomora

they all sleep with each other – they swingers

in hollywood – one big diease party – everybody got

the same diease up in there…

please……married to your children’s father…….or having 3 kids…not being married to ANY of the father’s….which is worst….you aren’t that much of an dummy are you..

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o pleas you just wanted to add your 2cents

now you did, you happy

you arent’t that much a dummy are you?

HEY:

What happened the posting on the Vanity Fair cover making fun of John McCain and Cindy McCain? I went to comment on it and it was gone!

okay i wouldnt call her a hoe but i would say she doesnt hae good judgement. I do not agree with her having all these baby daddies but i havent never heard of her sleeping with a bunch of men. she just a fertile myrtle thats all

AS A NATIVE PHILADELPHIAN….I wonder why we “consider” Terrance who haild from Norristown a phildelphian go figure!

who gives a lovely?

Love her music.Her business is HER busines…

@LdyK – because most people outside the tri-state area have no idea where Norristown is; King of Prussia, Radnor, or anywhere else in that area. Philadelphia is a centralized point that people can focus on.

@Always Knew……….Go On Sister. I actually think Soloman is White but who cares anyway. God Bless him and Have Mercy on him. It is funny how people pick and choose out of the bible what they want to quote. God Bless all of the ones on this site that are passing judgement.

Nothing Nice

(Check me out!)

@ Solomon Kane

I must say I agree. 3 different baby fathers and you claim it was a choice?! Well then Ms. Badu despite your dope-ness your judgement is seriously impaired.

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Than again, maybe it’s BECAUSE of her Dope-ness,lol.

Seriously though, it is her choice. Choice being the operative word. She is at least in a position to provide for them.

@ SMDH

LMAO i see you in here where no one knows how really ignorant you are! lol did u get that pic yet?

ooooo…i love me some erykah…fly..fly..fly…so what she got 3 baby daddies…that aint nobody business…do u ms badu

Not trying to start ISH BUT…that doesn’t look like the SMDH that I have seen in previous pictures. She was more “chocolate” if u feel me.

Oh Lawd not again today y’all…

Well well well LOL

SMDH mamma should have swallowed lol

@KZZMERGHTTHERE(GIVING OUT BIG JUICY CYBER HUGS SHE FEELS BETTER 2DAY)

@MDADDY: LMBAO! Oh lord! let’s get ready to “RUMBLE”! LOL!

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OK NOW YOU ALL HAVE GOTTEN YOUR INSTRUCTIONS IN THE DRESSING ROOM, PROTECT YOUR SELVES AT ALL TIME AND AT THE SOUND OF THE BELL COME OUT FIGHTIN!!!!

DING DING!!!!

@ mojojo comment

SMDH mamma should have swallowed lol

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yo! that good one

LMFAO

@ SMDH

I know of only 2 (black males over the age of 25 with no kids). One’s married, the other’s engaged. They don’t last long. Women are SERIOUSLY fighting over these brothers…they’re a rare breed. Damn shame!

*peeping in*

@KZZMERGHTTHERE(GIVING OUT BIG JUICY CYBER HUGS SHE FEELS BETTER 2DAY)(Check me out!)

@MDADDY: NO she didn’t “blow” enuff that’s why SMHD! was born!

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LOL

lauren

hey pretty lady hows that baby? did you find out what you having yet?

Mojo, ITS A GIRL!!!!!

@KZZMERGHTTHERE(GIVING OUT BIG JUICY CYBER HUGS SHE FEELS BETTER 2DAY)(Check me out!)

O.K YALL REAL TALK! FOR THE PEOPLE IN tEXAS, MEXICO, MAN I AM PRAYING FOR YALL SERIOUSLY, I HEAR THAT “DOLLY” IS SERIOUS THAT WAY! KEEP YA HEAD UP! FOR REAL!

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What part of Texas

*Walking in proudly now standing next to Kzz! *

lol

LOOK AT YA’LL AGAIN TODAY!(LOL..I’VE GOT THE TALLY SHEET)

KZZME, GIRL YOU ARE A NUT!!(LOL)

anther one awww

i wanted a boy lol like i’m having it

@ Lauren

Lookin like Halle Berry’s little sister

@Mojo, LOL…Thats what everybody wanted, but God has his way!

@Mdaddy, HA! Halle Berry wishes!! LOL…Just kidding thanx boo!

Damn, I leave for a few minutes and come back, Why all this hate? SMDH hasn;t done anythign to you all except tell the truth. Nobody is without sin. GTFO Her. Tired of being tired. She’s right, so quick to down us, look in the mirror……….All we do is fight, that’s why we can never get anywhere…I don’t care what Ms. Badu is doing. She is laying in the bed she made. If you don’t like it, you don;t have to, she is not waiting on any of you sorry a– people to pay her bills or care for children. We don’t have family units, like in the old days, why? Our sorry ass negroes, have left us to go play in the snow and forget where the f–k they have come from. Without black women, there would be NO blackman…PERIOD..

@KZZME

GIRL I KNOW RIGHT! SOMETHING HAS TO MAKE THE DAY GO FASTER!(LOL)

@Lauren,

Congrats on your baby girl comin’! I want a girl first when I have kids…

@AUNT VIV

GIRL I WANT ME A BOY!! LOL. WITH PRETTY MOCHA SKIN, AND DEEP DEEP DIMPLES LIKE MINE. I LIKE FAT BABIES, WITH CHUBBY CHEEKS, AND SOFT HAIR. I’VE ALREADY PRAYED FOR WHAT I WANT MY LITTLE ONE TO LOOK LIKE, WHEN I GET READY TO HAVE ONE.

ROFL@KZZME

HA HAAAAAAA,

Wow. Y’all got it bad up in here. Waaaay too much hate. It can’t be that serious. SMDH- Let’s be honest you were ranting and raving about only God knows what..and spellcheck is your friend, Boo! Don’t be mad, I’m just saying. AND just because somebody doesn’t agree with your point, it doesn’t make them ignorant, sorry, etc. I read Solomon’s postings. He is obviously mentally challenged or seeking attention, so there was no need to respond. It doesn’t mean that we agree with him, if we don’t comment, it means that we recognize a fool when we read one..case in point.

He’s no authority on Black women, just as you are not when it comes to Black men. Seriously, we don’t need his validation or yours for that matter. Now, take a deep breath…get a drink of water..open up a window..and look for a life.

@sxyQblondie,

Hey girl! I was the first born so I think I want a girl to set things off. And I’m a sucker for babies with chubby cheeks! My time will come…soon

well I certainly took her off the role model list, but she is still a good singer.

**sending cyber-hug to so qucik 2 judge*** That’s your business. Go to God, he is the ultimate healer. It doesn’t..it can’t matter what others think. Only He can judge you.

LOL @ KZZME FOR THE WORD “CHURIN” LOL. THERE ARE SO MANY WOMEN IN MY FAMILY. I DEFINATELY WANT A LITTLE BOY.

@KZZME

YOU HIT IT ON THE NOSE. YES, WE MUST START OUR OWN SHOW, AND INVESTIGATION TEAM AS WELL(LOL)

@AUNT VIV

I WAS THE FIRST BORN AS WELL. MY SISTER AND I ARE 5 YEARS APART ON MY MOTHERS SIDE. THEN MY FATHER HAS 2 SONS. THERE ARE NOTHING BUT WOMEN ON MY MOTHERS SIDE, SO I WANT TO BREAK THE MOLD AND HAVE A GORGEOUS LITTLE BOY.

@ kzz

lmaoooo you are too funny!

YEAH, WOMEN ALL THRU MY FAMILY. EXCEPT FOR MY 2 UNCLES, NOTHING BUT WOMEN. I WILL SAY THAT WE’VE BEEN BLESSED WITH SOME PRETTY GOOD GENES, SO THATS A PLUS(lol) WHEN I DO HAVE CHILDREN, HOWEVER, I HOPE THE FATHER CAN GIVE THEM SOME HEIGHT. CAUSE IM ONLY 5FT, SO I DONT KNOW WHAT THE LIL JOKERS ARE GONNA GET FROM ME IN THAT DEPARTMENT(LOL)

Well, SMDH, if you really must know, it’s b/c I believe he is a lost cause. Like I said, a fool. You, I think, are just hurt. Your heart is inthe right place, but your methonds…well, just a little unorthodox.

^^^^^^@KZZME

And no, I don’t condone their cheating, dogging, etc. I am very well aware of my self-worth. Confidence is quiet, peaceful, and introspective. Arrogance and insecurity feel the need to shout..cram their beliefs down others throats and look for validation.

@sxyQblondie

We’re all boys in my family, so I’m tryna break that mold with a bouncing baby girl. I can’t wait!

@sxyQblondie,

Your chilluns are going to be perfect ‘cuz they’re yours!

@ So quick – Touche..

Gotta run..Bible Study tonight..LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Peace

SMDH i have news for you

take that pic down

thats not you – LOL

why my home girl got the same

pic on her webpage making people thinks its her

we here laughin at you

you are truly silly

We laughin our asses off lolololololol

SHe is waaaaaay too beautiful to be dressed in this get up and that hair is just WRONG!!

kzzzzmerg…. WTF does this have to do with Maury??? LMAo>.. I know it was a lot to read. But it definately wasn’t a Maury episode. anywho… stick to commenting on those comments which are 5 words or less. Leave the paragraphs for the literate boo boo.

I’m back from a very pleasent lunch. WOOO I’M FULL!!!!

Night Kzz…

@Kzzme

(((Cyber Hug)))

@AUNT VIV AND KZZME

BIG BIG CYBER HUGS!!(I FEEL THE CYBER LOVE..LOL) NITE NITE KZZ!!

Why is all the focus on how the kids came into this world or if they have different daddies, all that matters is if the children are being properly cared for.

@M-DADDY

THANK YOU!!! CAUSE QUITE FRANKLY, IT ISNT ANYONES BUSINESS HOW THEY GOT HERE BUT ERYKAHS, THE CHILDRENS FATHERS, AND GOD!!

that one was to Kzzzzzmmmmm… The Blog Bully!

Cyber love is nice-I think we could use some more in here…

@SMDH

SMDH i have news for you

take that pic down

thats not you – LOL

why my home girl got the same

pic on her webpage making people thinks its her

we here laughin at you

you are truly silly

We laughin our asses off lolololololol

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just switch back b4 i leave and spot this comment

my friend SMDH * scrasm on*

is this ture – are you faking who you are

LMAO

@BEAUTIFULLY HUMAN (sxyQblondie)(Check me out!)

@M-DADDY

THANK YOU!!! CAUSE QUITE FRANKLY, IT ISNT ANYONES BUSINESS HOW THEY GOT HERE BUT ERYKAHS, THE CHILDRENS FATHERS, AND GOD!!

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The most important thing is that those kids dont want for anything

I don’t feel like beefing today, never do. But I will say this, everybody wanna LOOK like the Good Samaritan but when it comes does to it, we all do share the same views that SMDH does about some BLACK MALES. Because she is right some of them are trifling, but why do we get chastised for not wanting to spew hate everyday for our balck male, that gets tired and lame, and quite frankly if you are not out here trying to help any of the YOUNG black men do better by their families (ie. BIG BROTHER/SISTER GROUPS) then I don’t think that you deserve to speak bad about them, we as black people need to uplift them and not talk down to them, we know what is going on we read the statistics, but how can you complain about the statistics without trying to help? Thats a waste of time. Also, I do not believe in calling each other slavery names such as coon, n*gger, things that hurt us as slaves, names that our ancestors were called and now we use them as insults? That is not a joke nor will it ever be.

SMDH i have news for you

take that pic down

thats not you – LOL

why my home girl got the same

pic on her webpage making people thinks its her

we here laughin at you

you are truly silly

We laughin our asses off lolololololol

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@island gal

OH MY GOSH!!!

STOP IT!!!

That’s the 3rd DIFFERENT pic. this phony a$$ broad has used and she’ll sit there and swear up & down that it’s her = shaking my mother f…. head!!!

Please tell us the website if you don’t mind just for evidence — Thanks in advance…

Sad, sad, sad = SMDH

Should be ashamed of yourself…

Don’t make NO sense…

When will the lies end and the truth begin?

@Lauren(Check me out!)

I don’t feel like beefing today, never do. But I will say this, everybody wanna LOOK like the Good Samaritan but when it comes does to it, we all do share the same views that SMDH does about some BLACK MALES. Because she is right some of them are trifling, but why do we get chastised for not wanting to spew hate everyday for our balck male, that gets tired and lame, and quite frankly if you are not out here trying to help any of the YOUNG black men do better by their families (ie. BIG BROTHER/SISTER GROUPS) then I don’t think that you deserve to speak bad about them, we as black people need to uplift them and not talk down to them, we know what is going on we read the statistics, but how can you complain about the statistics without trying to help? Thats a waste of time. Also, I do not believe in calling each other slavery names such as coon, n*gger, things that hurt us as slaves, names that our ancestors were called and now we use them as insults? That is not a joke nor will it ever be

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EXACTLY!!!! The point to what my lil sis is saying is, DONT ADD TO THE PROBLEM HELP BE A PART OF THE SOLUTION!!!!!!

@mojojojo…CO-SIGN %100

THATS THE THING, THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A RACE OF MEN THAT DOESNT CHEAT, ABONDON, OR BEAT ON THEIR WOMEN!! FUNNY THING IS, THERE ARE WOMEN WHO DO THE SAME DAMNED THING TO THEIR MEN. I’VE SEEN IT. I KNOW WOMEN WHO HAVE KILLED THEIR HUSBANDS. ABUSIVE BROADS. THE GRASS IS NEVER AS GREEN ON THE OTHER SIDE AS SOME OF US WOULD LIKE TO THINK IT IS. IF YOU HAVE A PERSON IN YOUR FAMILY WHO STOLE, AND YOU COULDNT TRUST THEM IN YOUR HOUSE BECAUSE THEY WERE A THIEF, THAT SHOULD STILL NOT DETATCH THE LOVE YOU HAVE FOR THEM. AND YOU TRY YOUR BEST TO LET THEM KNOW THAT THEIR LIFE STYLE AFFECTS YOUR RELATIONSHIP. BUT YOU WOULDNT TRUST ANOTHER THIEF IN YOUR HOUSE, OVER THAT FAMILY MEMBER THAT YOU KNOW. YOU KNOW WHAT IM SAYING? AT LEAST THAT FAMILY MEMBER BELONGS TO YOU. ITS THE SAME THING WITH BLACK WOMEN AND MEN. WE KNOW THE MEN ARENT PERFECT. BUT HELL, NEITHER ARE THE WOMEN. BUT IF WE ATTEMPT TO NOURISH THE RELATIONSHIPS WE HAVE WITH OUR MEN, INSTEAD OF PUTTING THEM DOWN ALL THE TIME, THEN MAYBE WE’D SEE A CHANGE.

SMDH

get some dick tonite honey

good nite

@mojojojo the only ( man) race that doesnt

cheat beat abandon their woman – is the ones

that SMDH goes out with LOL

peace

blazing blunt time

@MDADDY…

“EXACTLY!!!! The point to what my lil sis is saying is, DONT ADD TO THE PROBLEM HELP BE A PART OF THE SOLUTION!!!!!!”

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Thank you, everytime I see a young brother I know in the neighborhod or in my family I make an effort to ask them how theya re doing in school, see what they need, and give them encouraging words and this is happens A LOT…the drop out rate is too high not to ask these questions, I help youth in my community get volunteer jobs, I help them do resume’s. It just doesn’t work if I’m screaming

N*GGA, B*TCH, CO*N, MONKEY, In their ears, who wants to hear that crap all the time?? nobody.

@M-DADDY OAKLAND’S FINEST AKA FBI(ALL SHADES OF BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL)

GO HEAD ON WIT YO BAD SELF!!! AND I BET YOU GOT A FEW WOMEN FIGHTING OVER YOU TOO! YOU ARE A RARE BREED, NEED I SAY AGAIN.

Lauren

i agree 100 percent

but gnite folks its about that time

@Kesha(Check me out!)

@M-DADDY OAKLAND’S FINEST AKA FBI(ALL SHADES OF BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL)

GO HEAD ON WIT YO BAD SELF!!! AND I BET YOU GOT A FEW WOMEN FIGHTING OVER YOU TOO! YOU ARE A RARE BREED, NEED I SAY AGAIN.

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Dont be so formal, you can just call me M-Daddy or MD LOL.

Well said Lauren!

Good Night Mojo….

Thanks Auntie….

@ Lauren

Night night boo

WHAT RACE OF MEN YOU KNOW THAT DOESN’T CHEAT, BEAT , OR ABANDON THEIR WOMEN?!!!

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@mojojojo

ANSWER = NONE

We (Men) are all the same, regardless of our skin color…

(*Excuse my french, but) Pu$$y is our “kryptonite”…

Let me explain it to you like this = if the woman has a beautiful face, big a$$ and big titties she will get our ATTENTION!!!

Don’t act like you don’t know that via going out with one of your girlfriend(s) that are voluptuous…

Now, what stops a man from cheating is his “maturity”… And what I mean by this is, a mature person will think about the “consequences of his/her actions” and furthermore will treat people as he would like for himself to be treated…

We all know “right from wrong”, but not everybody is on the same maturity level and/or conducts themselves with scruples (morals)…

Plus me and my friends help them witht heir college applications, because no matter WHAT my preference in men is (white, black, hispanic) I will never ever give up on my own race in pushing them to a better future, they are OUR future.

Yes, we can say that there are more black men in jail than in college, that is a given right now, but we don’t praise the 43 % of black men entering college AND graduating. I attened Temple University’s college graduation (not a black college) and I was so proud to see so many of our young brothers graduating and making their grandparents/children/baby mom/mom/dad/sister/ and brothers proud!

I’m not going anywhere yet MDADDY!

I see no one wants to comment on the positive….GO FIGURE!

@Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators (fka Keepin’ It Real – D’Original)

@mojojojo

ANSWER = NONE

We (Men) are all the same, regardless of our skin color…

(*Excuse my french, but) Pu$$y is our “kryptonite”…

Let me explain it to you like this = if the woman has a beautiful face, big a$$ and big titties she will get our ATTENTION!!!

Don’t act like you don’t know that via going out with one of your girlfriend(s) that are voluptuous…

Now, what stops a man from cheating is his “maturity”… And what I mean by this is, a mature person will think about the “consequences of his/her actions” and furthermore will treat people as he would like for himself to be treated…

We all know “right from wrong”, but not everybody is on the same maturity level and/or conducts themselves with scruples (morals)…

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B-I-N-G-O!!!!!!!!! You took it home with the maturity part.

@SLIDE

Now, what stops a man from cheating is his “maturity”… And what I mean by this is, a mature person will think about the “consequences of his/her actions” and furthermore will treat people as he would like for himself to be treated…

We all know “right from wrong”, but not everybody is on the same maturity level and/or conducts themselves with scruples (morals)…

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THANK YOU MR SMOOTH.

@Lauren(Check me out!)

I’m not going anywhere yet MDADDY!

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OK ma

@M-DADDY

I WENT AND GOT MY OWN OREO BLIZZARD. THANKS ALOT MR!!(LOL)

@BEAUTIFULLY HUMAN (sxyQblondie)(Check me out!)

@M-DADDY

I WENT AND GOT MY OWN OREO BLIZZARD. THANKS ALOT MR!!(LOL)

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Bill me for it. LOL Where do you reside??

@M-Daddy & BEAUTIFULLY HUMAN (sxyQblondie)

Thanks…

Oh yeah, I left something out:

An “immature” person is just self-centered and just cares about = themselves & their personal satisfaction… They have total disregard to the “consequences of their actions” because they don’t care as long as they “get their’s” because in their mind no one else is as important as them and/or their needs & satisfaction…

That’s why it’s SOO important for you to REALLY get to know the people that you allow in your lives…

Because that shady person (that WE ALL have dealt with) showed his/her true colors before they “did us dirty” – but we decided to ignore the signs = lying, irresponsible, not accountable, how they did other people wrong, etc…

@M-DADDY

IM IN V.A (stomping my foot over the blizzard i never got..lol)

@SLIDE

YOU ARE SO CORRECT. I THINK THE KEY TO ANY POTENTIAL DISATEROUS SITUATION IS KNOWING WHEN TO LET GO, AND LET A PERSON WALK AWAY. IF YOU ALLOW YOURSELF TO BE THE DOORMAT FOR THEIR FEET, THEN WHOSE TO REALLY BLAME? NO ONE CAN DO MORE TO A SOUND MIND, THAN WHAT THAT MIND ALLOWS TO BE DONE. I DONT CARE WHAT KIND OF PERSON YOU’RE DEALING WITH, THEY SHOWED YOU SIGNS OF WHAT THEY WERE CAPABLE OF WITHIN THE FIRST 30 DAYS OF YOU KNOWING THEM. SAY WHAT YOU LIKE, BUT NO ONE HAS PROVED ME WRONG ON THIS ONE YET. ITS UP TO YOU TO KNOW WHEN TO CUT SOME THINGS LOOSE, THIS WAS YOU CAN WALK AWAY WITH A PEICE OF MIND. KNOWING THAT YOU DID NOT SUFFER THE WAY THAT SOME PEOPLE DO IN THEIR IGNORANCE!!

Its funny how we can be arguing and folks stay in here to defend them selves until 9 o clock at night but then when we approach positive things and get to resolutions, folks wanna disappear, its funny….

Now I REALLY have no respect for those who do that, because I KNOW they are frauds…..SHAKE YA DMAN HEAD @ THAT!

I can tell by the computer what type of men you are, that’s what’s up! please stay that way!

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@KZZMERGHTTHERE(AT HOME LAYED BACK)

Thank you and when you see me on here saying something foul… PLEASE don’t pay me any mind… The negative stuff really ain’t me = I’m just playing around… And I’ll apologize later because my conscience will nag me, because I know better…

@ Right!

I love me some Badu in all her dope-ness but I lost respect for her w/ this. I know i’m nobody in her world so who really cares?! But this is just how I feel. I a am a child of a mother who had five kids w/ two men. She married my step dad and had 3 kids w/ him.. He actually raised me and for the most part was a pretty good father but I always felt like a step child and knew it. My 1/2 sisters look nothing like myself and my older sister but they look like each other. I just think you always put your kids first. I’m sorry but I don’t believe a home is truly a home w/ just one parent. She has a son and a daughter.. what is she teaching her daughter?!

@ So Quick

Just b/c this is the situation for many blk women doesn’t mean its right! Ive had one abortion in my life and I’m not proud of it most of the time I deny ever having one. But I knew at 21 I couldn’t and wouldn’t be a good mother and I did what I had to do.. You shouldn’t throw the abortion thing around like it’s a fair argument.. There’s too many unwanted kids in child welfare systems destined for prison or death b/c their parents didn’t think beyond what’s so called “morally” right. This is America nobody really cares about little unwanted black babies. Kids need both parents and a good example in life for a serious chance at making it in this sick world..

Pls pardon my spelling errors.

Slide, when will you grace us ladies with a picture of you??

@KZZMERGHTTHERE(AT HOME LAYED BACK)(Check me out!)

@SLIDES & MDADDY: I can tell by the computer what type of men you are, that’s what’s up! please stay that way!

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I cant be any other way.

LOL Kzz u alwasy actin up! When this baby drop me and you going down Old City and havin a drink and a 2 step!! lol!

@ Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators (fka Keepin’ It Real – D’Original)(Check me out!)

@M-Daddy & BEAUTIFULLY HUMAN (sxyQblondie)

Thanks…

Oh yeah, I left something out:

An “immature” person is just self-centered and just cares about = themselves & their personal satisfaction… They have total disregard to the “consequences of their actions” because they don’t care as long as they “get their’s” because in their mind no one else is as important as them and/or their needs & satisfaction…

That’s why it’s SOO important for you to REALLY get to know the people that you allow in your lives…

Because that shady person (that WE ALL have dealt with) showed his/her true colors before they “did us dirty” – but we decided to ignore the signs = lying, irresponsible, not accountable, how they did other people wrong, etc…

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You are definately on point my brotha. I have to be honest in my early 20′s I was that “immature” person, dont get me wrong I cared about people that I was surrounded by, but the rest of the world could have kiss my entire black azz

@BEAUTIFULLY HUMAN (sxyQblondie)(Check me out!)

@M-DADDY

IM IN V.A (stomping my foot over the blizzard i never got..lol)

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Have you ever been to the Bay Area??

@KZZZ LOL, GIRL YOU KNOW THATS MY MOVIE TOO!!

@ LAUREN

I WAS THINKING THE SAME DAMNED THING. WHEN “FOLKS” WANT TO CURSE AND INSULT AND BE STUPID, SHE’S ALL GAME. CANT HOLD AN INTELLIGENT DEBATE ON VIEWS. RIDICULOUS

@KZZMERGHTTHERE(AT HOME LAYED BACK)(Check me out!)

@Lauren: seriously I love to mess with people who allow me into their minds! this is a computer noone should be able to get into the minds of some of these people but you can, shake their damn heads at that! on this computer I am a big clown, don’t get me wrong when I have to get at somebody I do, but other than that it’s all jokes and love! me you and MDaddy go back to those crazy days on here, remember when people use to try and get at you, alot of females were just str8 trippin, especially when you put your pic up! “can we say “JEALOUSY” LOL!

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Aint nothin changed but the weather. LOL

@M-DADDY

NEVER BEEN TO THE BAY AREA BEFORE. HOW IS IT?

See ya Kzz!

@BEAUTIFULLY HUMAN (sxyQblondie)(Check me out!)

@M-DADDY

NEVER BEEN TO THE BAY AREA BEFORE. HOW IS IT?

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Its nice out here, the weather is very unpredictable but other then that its cool.

@KZZMERGHTTHERE(AT HOME LAYED BACK)(Check me out!)

Wonderful peeps I am about to go to dinner I will holla later if you guys are still on!

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Have a safe and wonderful evening

but the rest of the world could have kiss my entire black azz

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lmao!! U silly! but I feel ya on that one…I still feel like that sometimes…

@LAUREN

YOU ARE RIGHT. AND I BELIEVE THAT THE PEOPLE STICKING UP FOR HER, WAS HER!!!!!!(LOL)

@KZZME

GIRL, I WAS A SUCKER FOR ICE CREAM AS A KID!! USED TO LOVE TO SEE MR.SOFTEE COMING!!

@M-DADDY

I MUST PUT IT ON MY LIST OF PLACES TO VISIT. IM SCARED TO FLY THOUGH(LOL)

I THINK THE KEY TO ANY POTENTIAL DISATEROUS SITUATION IS KNOWING WHEN TO LET GO, AND LET A PERSON WALK AWAY. IF YOU ALLOW YOURSELF TO BE THE DOORMAT FOR THEIR FEET, THEN WHOSE TO REALLY BLAME?

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@BEAUTIFULLY HUMAN (sxyQblondie)

As hard as it is…

You always have to have your “self-respect & dignity” intact…

I seriously, in some situations – I look at myself as if I were another person and ask myself “Do you have your self-respect & dignity intact?”

or

“If this was someone else that you cared about what would you tell them to do? = Be a sucker or leave with your dignity & self-respect intact”

That’s why I tell people you gotta teach them how to treat you…

(*excuse the language) F#ck that you gonna treat me with respect… I have high self-esteem & self-worth… You ain’t treating me like _________

*Hold up, I gotta stop, I’m acting like I’m talking to my “ex” up in here… Ha! Ha! Ha!

I’m getting carried away… Frowning at the computer – this laptop ain’t do nothing wrong to me… Ha! Ha! Ha!

But anyways…

Slide, keep ignoring me here?

thats because she likes the attention of everyone focusing in on her, and she likes to respond to each and every post. (SMDH) But then when we get to the real issue she’s no where to be found…

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@Lauren

She enjoys the arguing and gets kicks out of it…

Something is SERIOUSLY the matter with her…

No one IN THERE RIGHT MIND would be on this website and do what she does for the amount of time she has (I’ve personally seen 10 months straight of it)… That’s why I paid her no mind FOR A LONG TIME… I knew she was mentally disturbed…

@SLIDE..LMAO “THIS LAPTOP AINT DO NOTHING WRONG TO ME”

SHOOT, I LET A MAN KNOW SLAM OFF THE BREAK, AND THAT IS SOMETHING THAT I TAKE WITH HIGH REGARD. I AM NOT CONCIETED AT ALL. I THINK THAT IS A SELF CONCIOUS WAY OF THOUGHT. HOWEVER, I DO LOVE ME, A WHOLE HELL OF ALOT. AND I HAVE VERY HIGH SELF ESTEEM. I BELIEVE THAT HOW I TREAT ME IS THE PERFECT EXAMPLE OF HOW I WANT OTHERS TO DO. AND THERE ARE CERTAIN THINGS YOU JUST ARENT GOING TO SAY TO ME, AND DAMMIT THAT YOU JUST ARE NOT GOING TO DO. THERE IS NO ROOM FOR QUESTION, OR ANSWER. IT IS WHAT IT IS. AND I LET EM KNOW, IF YOU CANNOT TAKE IT, BEAT YOUR FEET MY DUDE, AND DO SO QUICKLY, TAKIN UP SPACE AND TIME!!(LOL..JUST DEAD ASS SERIOUS!!!)

@Lauren

No my Dear (I say that respectfully)

I was busy today at work that all and I’m about to leave…

@ Slide, lol…its sad though that someone could have that ONE sate of mind for every single conversation, I wonder how she feels about politics, or going green, or gas prices, are they all the black males fault too? It seems as though she has a lot of insecurities

@LAUREN

GIRL WHAT DO YOU MEAN YOU WONDER HOW SHE FEELS ABOUT THESE SERIOUS ISSUES? YOU ALREADY KNOW HOW SHE FEELS. ITS THE “BLACK MALES” FAULT!! LOL, ROFL

@ Lauren

lmao!! U silly! but I feel ya on that one…I still feel like that sometimes…

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I’m too old to be like that now, there are too many people that I influence and there are alot of people that count on me. So I must stay as humble as God will allow me to do

Slide, when will you grace us ladies with a picture of you?

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@Lauren

I gotta stay anonymous on here because I used to work at Bad Boy AND STILL party with them & know a few celebrities & athletes too and sometimes can shed light into certain things and situations…

That’s why I share only limited info. on here and not too much… Might mess around and get in trouble…

Celebrities be on here, TRUST ME!!!

Oh yeah, I’ve never said anything bad about Puff because I honestly don’t have anything bad to say but still…

@BEAUTIFULLY HUMAN (sxyQblondie)

@M-DADDY

I MUST PUT IT ON MY LIST OF PLACES TO VISIT. IM SCARED TO FLY THOUGH(LOL)

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I use to be but my job has me traveling alot so I’m ok with it now.

@M-DADDY

I HAVE THIS FEAR OF HEIGHTS THAT IS OVERWHELMING.(LOL) JUST THE IDEA OF STANDING AT THE TOP OF A HIGH STAIRCASE, AND LOOKING DOWN SHAKES ME UP. THATS ONE OF MY ONLY PHOBIAS. THE OTHER IS OF LARGE MASSES OF WATER. LIKE OCEANS, AND STUFF LIKE THAT. I’M SURE IF I TOOK ABOUT 18 BENADRYLS, I’D MAKE IT ON THE PLANE WITH NO PROBLEM(LOL)

@ Slide, lol…its sad though that someone could have that ONE sate of mind for every single conversation

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@Lauren

That’s why I mentioned it in one of the things that I said to her yesterday = How come you only comment on basically race issues? (*If it’s a Kim K. thread YOU KNOW for a FACT, she’ll be in there)…

If she’s a woman (I’m quite sure she is) how come I’ve never seen her comment on Beyonce, Rihanna’s (or any celebrity) shoes or outfit? Not once, Not never? I know not all women are into fashion but…

And she’s PRESSED to try and turn anything into – You said something bad about Black females JUST so she can start with her “Black Men Ain’t S…” Rants… I’ve seen her turn nothing into something about how bad the Black Man is… And got the nerve to try and bring up “self hate”?

Uhhh, if you’re Black and ALL YOU DO is disparage the other gender or your race THAT’S self hate…

@Slide: Is SMDH or any of her personalities up in here? Do we need to pull out the garlic bulbs and wooden stakes?

Hey sxyQ, M-Daddy, Lauren! How goes it? Other than this crazy Va. rain, all is good here!

LOL @ROZZA MAKING SURE THE COAST IS CLEAR. JUST GOOD OLE CONVO GOING ON. WHERE YOU BEEN MY FRIEND?

@BEAUTIFULLY HUMAN (sxyQblondie)(Check me out!)

@M-DADDY

I HAVE THIS FEAR OF HEIGHTS THAT IS OVERWHELMING.(LOL) JUST THE IDEA OF STANDING AT THE TOP OF A HIGH STAIRCASE, AND LOOKING DOWN SHAKES ME UP. THATS ONE OF MY ONLY PHOBIAS. THE OTHER IS OF LARGE MASSES OF WATER. LIKE OCEANS, AND STUFF LIKE THAT. I’M SURE IF I TOOK ABOUT 18 BENADRYLS, I’D MAKE IT ON THE PLANE WITH NO PROBLEM(LOL)

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I have the same phobia. In the beginning I would get SH&% FACED before taking a plane trip. And I mean BLITZED. I never saw the plane taking off and I never saw the plane land. LOL Now I’m cool with it, but as far as being on a mountian, a gang of feet from the ground, I aint feelin that

@ Rozza♥(Check me out!)

Hey sxyQ, M-Daddy, Lauren! How goes it? Other than this crazy Va. rain, all is good here!

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Hey ma, naw your safe, its beautiful day in the neighborhood. LOL

@ROZZA

IM IN VA TOO!! ITS DARK AS ISSHHH OUTSIDE RIGHT NOW, AND ABOUT TO GET BUSY!

@M-DADDY

I DONT EVEN DRINK, NOR PARTAKE IN THE “WACKY TOBACKY”(as rozza would say..lol) BUT I WOULD NEED SOMETHING TO ZONK ME OUT!!(LOL)

@sxyQ: I left work a couple of hours early – thunderstorms and rain coming down in sheets! I had to pull waaay over into a shopping center parking lot to avoid accidents. I hope the satellite doesn’t go out during the CNN Black in America program tonight.

@M-Daddy: Whew! I was trying to go where there wasn’t so much heat and hate. SMDH was even scaring my Rottweiler! So – are you going to watch the CNN series tonight and tomorrow?

@ROZZA

IM GONNA CATCH WHAT OF IT I CAN. IF I CAN GET OUT OF THIS HELL HOLE IN DECENT TIMING

I am sure it will repeat soon, but nothing quite like seeing it when it first airs. If you have TiVO or DVR, record it, or have a friend do it. I’m watching it AND recording it for later viewing.

@BEAUTIFULLY HUMAN (sxyQblondie)

@M-DADDY

I DONT EVEN DRINK, NOR PARTAKE IN THE “WACKY TOBACKY”(as rozza would say..lol) BUT I WOULD NEED SOMETHING TO ZONK ME OUT!!(LOL)

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I’m not a heavy drinker but you wouldnt know it seeing me at the Airport LOL

@Rozza

@M-Daddy: Whew! I was trying to go where there wasn’t so much heat and hate. SMDH was even scaring my Rottweiler! So – are you going to watch the CNN series tonight and tomorrow?

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Come on now you know her bark is worst then her bite, besides my Panther will protect you LOL. Yeah I plan on watching it if my kids dont drive me crazy tonight

@M-Daddy: Make them sit and watch. I bet you can have some great conversations tonight and tomorrow night! Or record it!

Can I pet your Panther?

@M-DADDY

LOL..I KNOW THATS RIGHT. WE’LL HOLD HANDS TIGHTLY UNTIL OUR KNUCKLES TURN PINK, AND DOWN EM QUICKLY!!LOL

@Rozza♥(Check me out!)

@M-Daddy: Make them sit and watch. I bet you can have some great conversations tonight and tomorrow night! Or record it!

Can I pet your Panther?

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Thats what I’m going to do too, get them off the DAMN VIDEO GAME!!!!! Sure you can pet my Panther.

@BEAUTIFULLY HUMAN (sxyQblondie)(Check me out!)

@M-DADDY

LOL..I KNOW THATS RIGHT. WE’LL HOLD HANDS TIGHTLY UNTIL OUR KNUCKLES TURN PINK, AND DOWN EM QUICKLY!!LOL

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There ya go. LOL 3 2 1 GOOOO!!!!!!

LOL @ M-DADDY…I’LL PROBABLY HYPERVENTALATE AND PASS OUT BEFORE YOU. HOPE YOU CAN PICK ME UP OFF THE PLANE FLOOE(LOL)

@ ROZZA & M-DADDY

LMAO..YOU 2 ARE CRAZY

@BEAUTIFULLY HUMAN (sxyQblondie)(Check me out!)

LOL @ M-DADDY…I’LL PROBABLY HYPERVENTALATE AND PASS OUT BEFORE YOU. HOPE YOU CAN PICK ME UP OFF THE PLANE FLOOE(LOL)

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I’m pretty physically fit, I dont think there would be a problem getting off the floor

@M-DADDY

OKAY, I’LL HOLD YOU TO THAT ONE(LOL)

Good night Ladies

@M-DADDY

BUT THEN AGAIN, YOU STILL OWE ME ICE CREAM (SHAKING MY FINGER AT YOU…LMAO)

NIGHT NIGHT M-DADDY!

@SLIDE…..WHERE ARE YOU (calling in thru the room) YOU HAD BETTER BE IN HERE WHEN I GET TO THE CRIB AND LOG BACK IN!(LOL)

@ sxyQ–

Are you in here bein’ fast?

Lol @ can I pet your Panther!

@TRUDIVA

NO MAAM! IM’IS BEHAVIN’!!(LOL)

Oh my bad!! That was Rozza being fresh!

Lol!!

Hey Rozza!

ONE OF MY MYSPACE BLOGS…JUST FELT LIKE SHARING..

In the past year I have learned a very vital life lesson. In essence, it is something that I’ve internally lived by all along. But it took for several situations to occur here lately to make it all ring true. See I’ve always held on to the belief that within the first meeting with another individual, it takes maybe the first 20-30 minutes of conversation to really feel that person out. Within an hour, (if it gets that far, depending on the situation) you can generally tell what type of individual youre dealing with. If you begin to build a relationship/friendship with this person, within the first month, you have an opportunity to become well aware of what youre up against, or willing to stand with. In closing, there is no such thing as “hidden behavior” or “he/she wasnt like that when i met him/her”. The person showed you exactly who they were in the first portion of your meeting. It was up to you to take note of the clues, and sometimes inuendos that led to the destructive display of ignorance you may be seing months or even years down the line. I say this to say….WHEN SOMEONE SHOWS YOU WHO THEY ARE, BELIEVE THEM!! TAKE HEED!! AND IF THE GRIP ON THOSE SNEAKS ARE TIGHT ENOUGH,,,RUN!!!(lol) You just may be saving yourself alot of heartache, pain, and frustration in the end.

I’m going to run back to the thread we were in the other night. I normally don’t go back but……..

brb……………

OH AND ONE MORE, JUST BECAUSE I FELT LIKE SHARING..SO WHAT, I’M BORED(LOL)

JUST MY THOUGHTS

SO I SPEND ALOT OF TIME THINKING. AND IVE COME TO THE CONCLUSION THAT I AM A VERY OBSERVATIVE INDIVIDUAL. VERY INTUITIVE, VERY ATTENTIVE. I ADMITT THAT I TALK ALOT. AND MANY WOULD SAY THAT ONE WHO TALKS MUCH, MISSES MUCH. HOWEVER THAT IS FAR FROM THE CASE WITH MYSELF. AFTER 27 YEARS OF BEING ABLE TO ENCOUNTER MANY DIFFERENT KINDS OF PEOPLE WITH A VARIETY OF PERSONALITIES. IVE COME TO A FEW CONCLUSIONS. NOW BEFORE I GO ANY FURTHER, I MUST SAY TO ANYONE WHO READS WHAT I AM ABOUT TO SAY, I DONT GIVE 2 STEAMING PILES OF COW DUNG IF ONE DISAGREES WITH THE IDEAS THAT FOLLOW.(JUST SERIOUS) THERE HAVE BEEN MANY OF TIMES IVE HEARD THE STATEMENT MADE, “JOHNNY HAS ALL THE BOOK SENSE IN THE WORLD, BUT NO COMMON SENSE.” OR “SUSIE HAS PLENTY OF STREET SENSE, BUT NO COMMON SENSE.” THE REALITY OF IT IS THAT IVE FOUND THIS TO BE SO UNTRUE. YOU SEE IN ORDER TO BE ABLE TO TAP INTO EITHER OF THOSE REALMS OF YOUR THINKING, YOU MUST FIRST HAVE THE COMMON SENSE TO DO SO. EVERY INDIVIDUAL HAS AN APPLICABLE AMOUNT OF COMMON SENSE. THE QUESTION IS, HOW MANY OF US MAKE THE DIVINE CHOICE TO APPLY IT TO *ALL* SITUATIONS AND MAKE THE RIGHT DECISION AFTERWARD? YOU SEE, IF YOU CAN LOOK ME DEAD IN THE FACE AND TELL ME THAT YOU KNOW SOMETHING IS WRONG, OR DOESNT SEEM CORRECT, YET YOU CHOOSE TO CONTINUE IN THAT PATH, THEN YOU DONT LACK COMMON SENSE. NO, NOT AT ALL. YOU’RE JUST A PLAIN OLE SCREWBALL IDIOT. WHICH IS SOLELY YOURE OWN CHOICE. IN SAYING ALL THIS, I WILL CONCLUDE BY STATING THAT I AM NOT ONE WHO SEEKS SYMPATHY. I ACKNOWLEDGE WHEN I MAKE A FOOLISH DECISION, AND I DEAL WITH IT ACCORDINGLY THERE AFTER. ALWAYS MAKING IT AN IMPORTANT REMINDER TO LEARN FROM THE PREVIOUS MISTAKE SO THAT IT DOESNT GET THE OPPORTUNITY TO REPEAT. IF YOU ARE THE KIND OF PERSON WHO IS VERY AWARE, AND YET YOU KEEP JUMPING INTO THE FIRE, TRUST YOU’LL RECIEVE NO SYMPATHY FROM ME. YOU ARE WELL AWARE OF WHAT YOU’RE DOING. YOU’VE GOT THE *COMMON SENSE* ENOUGH TO KNOW THAT IT MIGHT NOT BE GOOD FOR YOU, JUST AS YOU KNEW I WOULD TELL YOU WHEN YOU SOUGHT MY ADVICE THE FIRST 50 TIMES BEFORE YOU REPEATED IT FOR THE 51ST. IF YOU CHOOSE TO BE A JACKASS, BE ONE PROUDLY, AND QUIETLY.(if you display your issues too loudly, everyone will know that youre stupid, thus making a fool of yourself on top of being willfully stupid) BE HAPPY WITH YOUR DECISION (if you walk around looking sad and depressed, many will begin to ask you whats wrong. thus causing you to explain, therefore making a fool of yourself, and ontop of everything, proving yet again that you are stupid) AND LEAVE ME THE HELL OUT OF THE EQUATION BEFORE I BE FORCED TO TELL YOU THE TRUTH. YOU MAY JUST BE A BLUNDERING IDIOT = )

@ BEAUTIFULLY HUMAN (sxyQblondie)

Damn, when are you going to publish your first book?

Stop wasting your thoughts on these bullshyt bloggers and make some money off of all of that wisdom

@FEMME_FATALE

THANK YOU SO MUCH(SMILE). SOMETIMES I GET CAUGHT IN MY THOUGHTS AND I JUST GO FOR IT. MY MOTHER ASKED ME THE SAME THING, I THINK THAT MAYBE I’LL GIVE IT THOUGHT, ONE OF THESE DAYS.

SMDH CANNOT BE WHITE , SHE TAKES UP FOR BLACK WOMEN , HOW THE HELL CAN A WHITE MAN DO THAT AND SHE IS RIGHT TO HAVE HER VIEWS AND IS RIGHT ABOUT SOME OF THESE SUSPECT MEN GETTING IN WOMESN’S ARGUMENTS.

SMDH , DO YOUR THING GIRLFRIEND.

@TruDiva: I do that erry now and again *kicking rocks and pouting* I’ll behave.

@ Rozza (I can’t type in the heart–sawwwry)

I just checked back in!! I actually been working since 9:03 so you KNOW I’m heated. Lol!!

Anywho–

I’ll most likely check back in tomorrow so I’ll look for you.

Until then, goodnight!!

**1TruDiva has left the building**

A lot of judgeing going on,, maybe she should have just had an abortion,, not saying making wise choices in the men we date, or how we roll in the sack,, is not a good idea, but once you have a life in you,, it is your choice if you want to keep it or not.. no matter where it came from

*We also have not reason to believe that her children ARE NOT happy and healthy*

Erykah is just a frazzled woman, plain and simple… She brags about the power she has over men…obviously she thinks highly of herself or rather of her perceived self and it’s all false…some cultivated false sense of security to hide the fact that she’s just a woman looking for love. She tries to flip it around as if men are conforming to her wants but it’s pretty obvious in all her ill-fated relationships that she’s frazzled… because, honestly, she’s obviously not using protection and unless she fails to do so because she considered the relationship serious enough to warrant that she would merely be a foolish woman who exposes herself to diseases. So, which is it?

oh! she is crazy . I am kind of thinking That I saw her before on a celebrity and millioniare dating site like 【W e a l t h y L o v e s】 or something. Whatever, this is not my thing. Good luck with your love

Her personal choices are her own, like it or not.

She’s not on welfare and nobody recruited her to be a role model.

Her job is to produce good music, and in that, she delivers. Leave the job/duty of teaching morals/values to mother’s/father’s

HAD TWO BABIES DIFFERENT DUDES/AND FOR THEM BOTH MY LOVE TRUE/THIS IS MY LAST INTERVIEW/HEY THAT’S ME…

“Me” New AMERYKAH

I don’t condone/condemn her actions….

i know who i am

Jay Electronica is too good for Erykah. She’s a man eater. Poor dude will be stuck raising all her kids

THANK YOU TELLITLIKEITIS!!! She must fear commitment or accountability to be poppin’ em’ out everywhere and with everybody, is it that d@mn serious?!? When her daughter Puma does the same sh!t, she betta not make a sound, b/c she gave her the blueprint to follow.

Erykah having 3 kids out of wedlock with 3 different men does classify her as a ho who regularly practices unprotected sex. She is a gross example for black girls and women who look up to her. She sings and preaches about principles and spirituality and self respect but she has no self discipline and no sense. Blessings for a healthy child anyway.

JLO married FIRST then had children with her HUSBAND!