Bruh, I commend you for even trying.

That’s her ex husband?scary!

cosign what he said, no need to dwell on stuff from the past and i hope she isn’t one of those women who poison their kids view on their father. No need to throw dude under the bus, society already do that to us as black men.

He’s right, Sherri needs to forget this “woe is me” act and move on for the sake of their son. It really aint healthy for kids to pick up on bad vibes from their parents.

Although I think sometimes it can be helpful for her and the viewers of the View sometimes for her to discuss her feelings about how she felt at the time. I have to agree with him it’s time for her to let it go.

With that being said it is so hard for some women to let things go especially if the man who did them wrong is probably the ONLY man they’ve ever been with or completely given their heart to which I think is the case that Sherri’s in.

Every1 heals in their own time but I hope Sherri doesn’t turn out like my Mom who has not been with my dad in over 13 years and although she has finally stopped speaking negatively about him she still hasn’t stopped the “All men are dogs” talk and still hasn’t been on one date.

Sadly thats how many women behave when a relationship ends…makes me understand why he left in the first place……

hey Glok….i see you’re blessing us with your wisdom as usual, lmao

THE WHITE WOMAN IN THE BACKGROUND ….SAYING TO HER SELF HMMM…HOW DO MY PUZZY TASTE SHERRI… CUZ YOU KNOW HE TASTED THIS MILK BYTCH!

Negro she’s giving you a fat check every month.
Shut that sheit up and take it like the man you are that not only CHEATED on her, but got the same woman pregnant.

Dumb arse

Where else would she get her material for the sitcom? Just make her pay you for your contribution to her creative process.

@I Am Legend

Us ladies dont expect you to take the blame for everything but you guys lie & cheat so much that its hard for an outsider to feel any sympathy for you.

But yeah, not all guys are guilty.

She needs to move on. She not the most intelligent person anyway. She’s the one who said that she doesn’t believe that the world is round and got Whoopie to pull her to the side and tell her stop acting so dingy for all the world to see.

When that ugly little baby grows up and sees how his mother disrespected his father on national TV, repeatedly, he’s going see that she ain’t s*it, and her relationship with her child will be ruined. Regardless of what happened between her and her ex, this dumb-ass woman should have more respect for her CHILD than to dog his father, like she continues to do. GET OVER IT!!!!!

IDK, Sherri was always talking about her husband during their marriage. So it’s no surprise that she talks about him when they got divorced.

Another thing, Sherri hasn’t found anyone yet and that could have gotten her bitter about her ex-husband.

Time should heal all wounds. I guess Sherri needs to seek out some sort of therapy to help her get over the fact that her ex-husband cheated on her. Her ex-husband should think about attenting some of those meetings with her.

In my opinion he should have thought of that before he got married and cheated, its called consequences. If he has to pay by being slandered on national tv then I hope it was worth it. I don’t even like Sherri Shepard she is irritating to me.

@ Glok…Im repping Marcus Garvey,Xodus !

HI! I see you are on a roll today!

Rofl! I agree with you!

Another thing I don’t think that her ex-husband should have written an open letter. He should have personally written her or call her up to talk to her about what she doing.

IDK this ex-husband looks like he is following what Sherri is doing too closely because that shouldn’t bother him if he has truely moved on.

My guess is that the ex-husband’s career is not going anywhere and he wants his 15 mins of fame by putting Sherri on blast.

Guilty cheating men are just tired of feeling guilty for their behavior so they are always like “lets move on”. I bet you wouldn’t be saying that if she got pregnant by some other dude while y’all was together. IDIOT!!

Obviously she’s still hurt !!!! and she has moved on You used her in your marriage so now she uses you in HER ACT !!!! Take notes plz, It may be theraputic to some not to forget their last relationship, it helps them to heel and it keeps them grounded !!! If you don’t like it well there’s nothing you can do about it except sue her for defamation or ignore the trash talking, and let it die and hopefully she will too !!!!

Get the f*ck out of here!!!!! That negro should have thought of that when he was getting some chick preggers outside his marraige. I hope he NEVER gets to live that down. I got some daggone nerve to even open his mouth. Be gone triflin negro!

no wonder why so many black men date white women they act so immature you try to tell them something and they go off like crack heads i’m glad black women are the lowest women getting married maybe they can see how they act and change there ungodly ways

If this was on the other way around. She got pregnant with another dudes baby while she was married to him and then DEMANDED SPOUSAL SUPPORT and on top of all that, her husband got custody. Black men and women would stone her to death. That’s exactly this guys story. He gets another woman pregnat at the same time she’s pregnant. Leaves her. Gets spousal support and doesn’t even fight for custody. Unbelievable. This is a gold di.g.g.in. bit.c.h. and a whiner. Oh, and to top it all off this n.i.gg.a doesn’t even have a job! Black men are turds! This is your typical black man. No good and useless!

Toni
2/12/10, 13:09:pm

Negro she’s giving you a fat check every month.

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Hold up! And this negro still got the nerve to be complaining? He’s lucky she let his azz live because it wouldn’t be me. Pooky and nem woulda been got at that triflin, disrespectful azz.

black women are worthless …

Black women stank. They Smell Like Boo Boo.

POOKIE!
LOL AND YOU KNOW THIS PYT,…I GET ALL THAT WISDOM FROM CHIEFING …PUFF PUFF AND AWAY!

Matter of fact I gotta put some blame on Sherri. She obviously married some low brow negro that was nowhere near her level. She didn’t even get a good looking house husband like male stars do. She got the game all messed up. Ladies please have more respect for yourselves than to marry a man that is beneath you. Make these brothas step to you like real men or straight up ignore them. We are the ones turning our men into mice by not even expecting decent treatment. For real I’da done something to this dude.

BLUEKID …IMMA ONNA ROLL THIS NEXT BLAZE, YOU SMOKING WITH ME OR WHAT?…WE COULD FIND A RHI RHI THREAD AND GIVE SHE SOME LASHES THANKS SIS,…LMAO!

@ NYC Gal
2/12/10, 13:29:pm

Another thing I don’t think that her ex-husband should have written an open letter. He should have personally written her or call her up to talk to her about what she doing.

IDK this ex-husband looks like he is following what Sherri is doing too closely because that shouldn’t bother him if he has truely moved on.

My guess is that the ex-husband’s career is not going anywhere and he wants his 15 mins of fame by putting Sherri on blast.
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Yeah, the BOTH of them seem bi-polar!!

That is one ugly baby

LMAO @ Glok

Torpedo legs hahahahahahahaha, I’m dying over here!

look at her stomach hanging out…she should work out…she’s pretty whitewashed too, never really cared for her…

anywho, good luck with your career and ex-hubby…

princedonte
2/12/10, 13:47:pm

no wonder why so many black men date white women they act so immature you try to tell them something and they go off like crack heads i’m glad black women are the lowest women getting married maybe they can see how they act and change there ungodly ways

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Oh please! That’s just an excuse to date white women.

Montel Williams ex-stripper wife put him on blast 6 or 7 years after they divorced. She is white. She went on Wendy Williams then radio show and put his name on blast!

Yep, Sherri should move on alright….to a therapist, jenny craig and a plastic surgeon to reduce those two cannons on her chest, maybe then she won’t look like a starting linebacker.

it’s easy for him to say get over it, he wasn’t the one that got cheated on! he did with the dirt and caused her pain, now he deal with the trash talking that’s what happens when you betray people, guys make me so sick, they can pull their pants down to do the dirt but don’t want to deal with the consequences how selfish!

For the sake of Black History Month, can we all just get along, brothers and sisters!

How da p.h.u.c.k can a nucca cheat on a woman and still get paid alimony? Think folks. She need to shut up, before ol boy hit her up for even more stacks.

i have no problem with him getting an alimony check if she was the bread-winner in the marriage because if the tables were turned, it would be the same situation. there isn’t a gender specific or exception when it comes to finances of marriage. now i do have a problem with him causing the demise the of marriage and thus putting both of them in an awkward financial situation. however, without a pre-nup, there’s no stipulation to collecting alimony even if infidelity plays a factor. because the fact remains, each party must be able to care for themselves and if a spouse was dependent on the other for their well-being, then it’s the obligation of the spouse to continue such support until the other is able to provide for themselves. of course, time restrictions do apply pertaining to age, economy, educational background and the potential to earn income.

the entire situation itself is sad but yet another story that we hear far too often. marriage is of no real value to some anymore. basic respect is almost a memory of the past and yet we still continue reproduce and bring children into these situations of dysfunction and call it normal or a way of life. then wonder why such things happen. we have created those we despise the most by glorifying those with money, giving them a false sense of power and even going as far as to cover-up or justify such actions.

soul*

@Undacuvabrutha- I know, but NO that will not happen. It seems to not be in most of our bloods. SMH.

@THIS SOME SHH… Good question and I’m thinking maybe they did not have a prenup or the prenup did not include a infidelity clause.

i love this letter.

it’s basically saying, “Sherri, STFU!”
but it’s very beautifully written.

BUT…Sherri makin her money, and i aint mad at her for doin what she gotta do, but there are more positive things to joke about

@ Ms.EJ

It makes you think, but Sherri’s mouth always got her put on blast. She knew ol dude was a buster when she married him. The problem is, nobody would have knew anything about this if she hadn’t put her business in the street between the View and her TV show.

Sherri has custody of their son, he doesn’t pay her child support but he get’s an Alimony check from her that he uses to pay his other child support and she won’t shut up? Who’s really losing in this situation?

Actually, now that I think about it, this open letter probably ain’t for Sherri, it’s for all the bitter broads of the World. Your mouth can get you put in this situation and took to the cleaners too. LOL..

@THIS SOME SHHH- For a long while she was so sprung off of him which EVERYONE has been sprung on someone once in their lifetime, LOL, but This Some Shhh, now you know most women have to talk out our emotions LOL and if cheating is involved put the man on blast since he’s already blew up the womans heart per se. But, you are absolutely right we would not have known if she hadn’t said anything, but maybe that was her way of really getting over him. She has also has expressed many times how she still desired him intimately, but that time has passed and now its with the WWE guy (forgot his name). You broke it down brotha! for real, because I did not think about all that at all.

What reputation is this fool talking about protecting? Does anyone know who he is? Is not like people see his goofy looking azz in the street and say “there goes Sherri’s cheating ex-husband”. Ain’t nobody thinking about him. He should be glad that she got Malcolm Jamal Warner to play his character on the show instead of that dorky black Fruit of the Loom guy.

@NYC GAL- As much as that man had pyschic Silyvia Brown on his shows almost ALL THE TIME you would think he would have known what to look for. He also has a track record of marrying women who are…who are just not something someone would take home directly to ones mother.

@ Ms.EJ

Yeah, if he was following Sherri’s career before the View, he knew exactly how to play her because she always told her business and emotions. I’m not saying it’s right, but Sherri should have learned by now how to portray her business side and private life.

everytime someone does wrong, they wish it would just go away. well not this time bro. it is sherri’s life too, most people write their auto biography about this stuff, she is right on track, recouping some of the spousal support she got to pay u. sorry man, you shut up and move on. you gave her the story to tell, and now you want to tell her when and how long she can tell it, you wish

@ WhataWorld.

I agree. Listening to Sherri spew nonsense is like listening to a drug dealer complain about too may customers. Neither provokes empathy from me.

@THIS SOME SHHH…-Oh tell it! I must admit back in the day I use to do that until my father (RIP) and really good guy friend who claimed he “broke the man rule” LOL after I ended my engagment. He said “E, you tell all your business upfront, giving the man all the playing cards without even trying. You told him what you liked and disliked and he did all those things to get you.” This Some Shhh… I tell you I was telling that man how I loved church, Bible study and everything. He lived out of state, but we would have Bible study over the phone just everything and he was the total opposite and once he got me hooked he even admitted that he did those things to get me. SMH. You live and learn. I was 19-20 then. My father (RIP DADDY) had long told me about men, but as he would say “E I can tell you, but its up to you to listen and take heed or learn the hard way”.

*FEEL* My bad.

@ Ms.EJ

You learned a valuable lesson. Can’t no one take that away from you. Brothers won’t tell you the agenda going in, it defeats the purpose. Not saying it’s right, but we were learning too when we were young. I always tried to leave the woman better than when I found her. Do no damage, so to speak.

THAT’S WHAT YOU GET FOR MARRYING AND GETTING A FAT COW PREGNANT. SHE IS ALWAYS GOING TO TELL IT!!!

@ GaGirl.

I really don’t think the brother is mad, he getting paid. If he was pissed it would have reflected in his letter. He’s trying to point out things about her approach, but in the long run, he can take her back to court for even more long money if she lets anger continue to guide her.

Sherri says her son is developmentally delayed which means he’s kind of slow. It’s not funny to take shots at the kid.

@NYCGAL- I remember and that just goes to show you that she really didn’t care for him. I had an ex-fiancee who got seriously injured in a car accident in which he became paralyzed from the neck down, but I LOVED LOVED THAT MAN!, it didn’t matter to me and I knew the road would be tough, not to love him or be with him, but for him. Unfortunately, he lashed out on me, became real angry and enraged at what happened, but turned on me. I couldn’t take it no more and I hung in there for a minute. He contacted me a year later and said how sorry he was that he didn’t feel like he was a man and couldn’t believe that I would still want him. But, Montels wife left with the quickness. SMH.

@ ebonieladi.

I agree. Imma quote Trick Daddy.
If you growed up the way I did, you gots to understand, This some Shhh, loves the kids.

He never should have cheated. Don’t marry if you are going to cheat!

@THIS SOME SHH-EXACTLY! I sure did learn. I think we’ve all made silly or “duh” moment mistakes with the opposite sex. Let me ask you this question since you are a man and all the comments I’ve seen from you have been very mature and grounded. What is up with men who know good and well they can not just be my friend, but then front and say they can or will to only get a funky attitude when I tell them for the second time “No, I don’t see you that way.” I had a guy friend who said “I will always be here regardless if we just stay friends. Yeah, I know you told me you don’t like me in that way, but I want you to know I’m still here.” Then has a cow or blows up on me, because I don’t want to give him a kiss or something. Errrrrrrrrrrr!!!

Sorry if it’s out of content but…..that baby look ugly!

@ Ms.EJ

Some guys take this as a challenge and think you may not mean what you say or they can convince you otherwise, over time. Either way is wrong. Men don’t chose women, women chose men.

@Ms.EJ

It’s tactic. These guys are just waiting for timing to meet opportunity. You should be especially careful with these types. When they get too desperate they might jump the gun and slip you a mickey.

@THIS SOME SHHH- I figured that. You, know that is true on the women choosing the men, and on the flip side I feel its the men who choose the women they want to marry…what do you think? Sorry for my many questions

@Ms.EJ

True to a point about men choosing who they want to marry, but if she hasn’t thought about him as marriage material, it ain’t gonna happen.

[...] has sky-rocketed, and regardless of how she’s unfairly treated me publicly, I truly See the rest here [...]

All Richard Pryor’s wives complained of him using them in his acts. I didn’t fell it was right then, either. Was it fair for Bernie Mack to put his sister and her kids on blast?

I feel kind of sorry for them both.He will always have this stigma of being labeled as a cheater due to his ex-wifes media career.She will always be seen as the scorned ex-lover who Can’t let go of the past.He’s right on so many levels.If he takes care of their son regardless of her male bashing,we should commend him for that.He sounds like a real man.We don’t know the cir*****stances of their relationship prior to this incident.
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This guy is collecting alimony and complaining.He needs to shut up until the checks stop. Alimony should be illegal. Everyone needs to work.

@THIS SOME SHH- True. I always wondered how Bernie Mac (RIP)sister felt about the show. I never got the full backdrop or if she signed off on it per se. I have heard that many are hurt by their popular comedian relative who puts them in their acts only very few were okay with it that I know of.

I know ONE THING! She needs to keep her kid AWAY from the camera…FAR AWAY!

Hold up! And this negro still got the nerve to be complaining? He’s lucky she let his azz live because it wouldn’t be me. Pooky and nem woulda been got at that triflin, disrespectful azz.
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EXACTLY!

@ Ms.EJ

Makes you think that maybe Bernie might have cut his blessings short. Richard Pryor, too.

I feel Sherri’s pain. I , too, fell “in love” with a boy . Who just played. I did everything right….gave my heart. His mother and family loves me. I was kliving with his mother and him , in the suburbs. So, it was all good. At lewast I thought so. An’ he then just brought the women in front of , played with my feelings, disrespected me, everything.

after i moved out, i did call and try to rekindel, he did. too but it was for the wrong reason. it still feels like yesterday, been a looong time,years. I can’ t move on. am stuck.
my heart dosen’t beat for no one else i don’t want no one else. i don’t dream of anyone else.

what a foool i wasss

men are so cruel

just living my life heartbroken….i will be single forever

STFU…you shouldn’t have taken vows and slept w/some other woman and got her pregnant. Now you wanna be embarra$$ed and sensitive. Were you thinking about your son then? Tired of the Bit#cha$$ness

Don’t date a comedian, Duh

Ok Dee I feel you, she paying this dude alimony ???? WOW

Sherri says her son is developmentally delayed which means he’s kind of slow. It’s not funny to take shots at the kid.
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Her and the boy are SLOW! A cock-eyed mule could’ve told her that husband of hers was a piece of crap. I can smell loser through my computer screen.

Women are so desperate and stupid that this will continue to happen. As a celebrity there should be some sort of document signed in case a relationship (boyfriend/girlfriend) goes south. Prenupts are a MUST HAVE, they’ve been a must have since the 70s…love my a/s/s, you’d better sign these papers. Look at what Beverly Johnson gay boyfriend tried to do to her. What woman is going to promise you half of her earnings? People are so lazy. I’ll kill you before I let you take my stuff that I worked hard for, heck no.
Dude has the nerve to complain, but still collect alimony. She needs to forget to send that check.

@ Miss Thang
You better say that sh*^ girl…co-sign

I feel Sherri’s pain. I , too, fell “in love” with a boy . Who just played. I did everything right….gave my heart. His mother and family loves me. I was kliving with his mother and him , in the suburbs. So, it was all good. At lewast I thought so. An’ he then just brought the women in front of , played with my feelings, disrespected me, everything.
after i moved out, i did call and try to rekindel, he did. too but it was for the wrong reason. it still feels like yesterday, been a looong time,years. I can’ t move on. am stuck.
my heart dosen’t beat for no one else i don’t want no one else. i don’t dream of anyone else.
what a foool i w*****s
men are so cruel
just living my life heartbroken….i will be single forever.
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Please. Take a trip to NYC, once you see all of those gorgeous men I every color in the crayola box, you will FORGET all about that loser. You have to know how to deal with men, first of all, always make him think that he can be replaced, you don’t have to be rude or anything, just keep yourself looking good and stay busy, once you become available all of the time, the boys get bored. Moving in is the WRONG thing to do, especially without a ring.

Yes, its time for her to get over it. No, she isn’t wrong for telling her truths. The truth is the truth.

On another note, its amazing to me how many black men found it necessary to lash out at black women with the name calling and whatnot… Are these the same feelings they have for the black women who brought them into this world, wiped their little poops, fed, clothed, and cared for them? Or is that hatred reserved for young black women that would rather be alone than trapped in a relationship with their ignorant behinds? I know lots of strong, educated, impressive black men, and have YET to meet one that found it necessary to gripe about ANY racial group of women in such a way… Please step onto a higher level and realize that bad attitudes and ignorant behavior are not confined to any race. (or gender for that matter)

You treat her bad and she’s putting you on blast. Shut the hell up and quit bxtching. If you have a substantail case sue her for defamation of character. If not sit the fxck down!! Cheater.

You treat her bad and she’s putting you on blast. Shut the hell up and quit bxtching. If you have a substantial case sue her for defamation of character. If not sit the fxck down!! Cheater.

@me- The reason that she should not disrespect her son’s father (notice I didn’t say she should respect him, not in my earlier post or this one, just not to openly disrespect him publicly, which is totally different) is that her son is going to blame his mother for making his father look like a fool to the entire country. It doesn’t matter what kind of punk-ass his father is, he’s still his father and he’s still going to love him. As he’s growing up and hearing/seeing all this sh*t that his mother is saying about his father, he’s going to hate her. If that’s what she wants, fine. Keep it up. But if she wants to make sure that she has a solid relationship with her son as he is growing up, it’s time for that idiot to shut her damn mouth and get a new act.

Children love their parents regardless of their faults, just as parents love their children regardless of their faults. It’s called unconditional love.

fat azz b’tches pls stop EATT sh’t and TO BE SUCH FATTTTTTT!!!!

“hut that sheit up and take it like the man you are that not only CHEATED on her, but got the same woman pregnant.”

Wait, Sherri’s ex cheated AND impregnated another woman? He pulled a “John Edwards??”

@ moneymagnet

His alimony should be coming to an end soon. I suspect that he’ll file for custody to keep collecting money. How in the H/E/L/L can he be off the hook for child support if they’re not together? How does she end up paying alimony, but he doesn’t have to pay child support?
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He doesn’t have to pay any child support payments because he was an unemployment stand up comic!

Everytime Sherri was at some event and a camera was around, her then husband used to play up to the camera by kissing her. Just look at the above pic! He did this everytime he was with Sherri and there was camera around.

Sherri seems okay with it at first but after it kept happening over and over again, she seemed to get annoyed by it.

This ex-husband of hers is an publicity seeker!

@NYCGAL- Thank you, girl. I will hang in there and will continue better myself in preparation for that day I think it helps greatly when one takes his or her time to see their strengths and weakness coming out of relationship and use that time to either improve or totally stop doing somethings. Thanks girl

@SYDNEY-LOL- @ “pulled a John Edwards” still shaking my head at him. I don’t know who is worst Edwards or the Carolina governor with his “soulmate” Argentina mistress.

Her story was in Sister to Sister. She had custody of the son, was paying him alimony. Sometime as the divorce was almost final, they had an encounter of the sexual kind and he went and told the courts. That meant the alimony started over from day one. He knew if he told it would extend his payments, so his punk *** did just that. She was taking care of him, the chick he left her for, and his other baby, as well as their son. HE IS A SORRY PIECE OF CRAP AND NEEDS TO BE BLASTED AT EVERY TURN.

@DEE- That is just so wrong on so many levels. Oh, I know that hurt something terrible.

To ALL have a blessed weekend and stay warm

Be careful what you say about other people’s children because you never know how yours will look. Hope some of these people dissing her son already have children and don’t want anymore.

Sherri looks cute in the second pic.She has such a pretty face.

Both need to let go and Let God. Keep your personal lives private. Be parents and raise your kid.

He doesn’t have to pay any child support payments because he was an unemployment stand up comic!
Everytime Sherri was at some event and a camera was around, her then husband used to play up to the camera by kissing her. Just look at the above pic! He did this everytime he was with Sherri and there was camera around.
Sherri seems okay with it at first but after it kept happening over and over again, she seemed to get annoyed by it.
This ex-husband of hers is an publicity seeker!
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Even still, with most men, they just add the payments to their tab. Sherri was stupid. In the photo above he looks like he’s trying too hard. She should’ve made him go through the no talent door. So how long does she have to pay alimony?

Sherri looks cute in the second pic.She has such a pretty face.
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Are we looking at the same photo. This is Sherry Shepard, not Sheree Zampino-Smith-Fletcher.
This chick is HIDEOUS.

Get over it Sherrie. It is called LIFE. YOu live and you learn. Stop crying. Charge it too the game. You got played, keep on walking and don’t look back. Who cares.

Now that I think about it, it sounds like this guy os trying to set Sherri up again. If he sends this letter out for the world to see, and then goes into court because his alimony is about to run out, he’ll probably get more money. Sherri better pay a judge to shut this guy down.

Hold on a minute. She divorced this guy in 2006 and he’s STILL receiving alimony? Oh HECK NO! They need to have a time limit on this stuff, did she divorce in California like an idiot?

I agree she should move on but maybe she would if he stops taking alimony

I see there are alot of scorned woman taken offense to some of the comments on here.I love the show and love woman as a whole.Even you bitter ones.I feel everybody deserves to be loved fairly.She seems very desperate for companionship now our days and I’m sure that was the case when she met dude.She chose to accept him being a broke comedian then for whatever reasons.A clear indication of a lack of self esteem.Lets be honest adults and see it for what it was.She is a grown woman with a healthy career,but it can easily be thrown away by dwelling on the loss of an ex-lover consistently.Yes,other comedians have used family matters as a platform for their career but learned to get past it and also spoke about the feeling of getting past does issues.I feel like all woman should be loved,but there are woman who don’t want love,They want money.With that shift in focus,a good mans heart is often broken and he becomes that @$$hole you all have grown to know.insecurities cause people accept things that will only fuel the pain they feel inside already.I personally think Sherri is very sweet.I have met her and the rest of the cast of the view while working in the industry.She has so much potential,but dwelling on her past situation with dude publicly is not the best way to overcome her feeling of betrayal.When she meets a man that will love her unconditionally,I hope she appreciates the purity of his love.Most woman with scorned hearts tend to become abusive (mentally) when entering new relationships as a defense mechanism.I think she will be even more vocal about her new love as she is about her old.I just want to see her happy and moving past the ills of 1 mans actions.It’s possible with self awareness and love for self.If you don’t love you,How can you accept real love from someone that’s genuine?I say this to all the ladies reading this.Set the bar for what you will accept and won’t accept from a partner.A relationship is a union of 2 seperate entities to become 1.You should treat your partner the way you want to be treated and they should do the same for you.bottomline…

If he didn’t want his biz in the street, he shouldn’t have married such a loudmouth and cheated on her. Did he really think she’d stay quiet? Serves him right. I’m not a fan of Sherri, but nobody deserves to be treated like she was AND have to pay the fool on top of it.

Move on? She’s the one living in the past? This negro is telling her to move on when he is living in the past by making her pay to keep him in the lifestyle that he became accostomed to as “Mr. Sherri Shephard”. Why doesn’t he take his own advice? You no longer want to be married to her, go back to your lifestyle when you were Mr. Average Joe.

F-K AND LOL AT THE BABY COMMENTS LOL.

Gets a spousal support check.
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@Miss Thang

AND he got the house too…

I remember hearing her complain about that and you should of seen the look on Joy Behar’s Face, LOL… SMH

It’s not either way for a man to blast woman nor for woman to do it to men.But it does exist.I just think in her career and the demagraphic that show caters too perpetuates the stereotype of the scorned angry black woman.She comes off desperate at times for affection and that’s a personal matter,not a professional one.There are other platforms for that.The Men you have mentioned have taken an artistic approach at voicing their family issues.not making it right,but the stage is set in a different environment.Rappers say the most outlandish things to sell records and popular music seems to live off the negative aspects of their lives.Most rappers don’t really break big without contreversy.comedians say things that people are afraid to say but they hold some truth as well.I believe it’s all in the setting.I would love to see her write a book on the effects his betrayal has had on her life.it can be therapy and finacially rewarding for her,and all you ladies that support her should go out and buy her book in support of her independence and triumph over her past losses.There are ways about handling things like that.public figure or not.Baby girl just needs some real love from a real man like some of you reading this.Kisses from a far to all you broken hearted woman,truly.I love you all.But my heart is at home with my future wife.I wish more men can see the damage we cause and make a change.I also think woman should do the same.I’m a believer of Karma and some of you have sh^tted on good dudes in the past because he wasn’t your type,don’t be bitter when it happens to you.It’s the game you chose to play.Sorry if you don’t have stamina,Karma doesn’t stop.I just believe there should be a time and place to disperse those emotions,that’s all.when is enough,enough?

Excuse the type Os people.

If I was Sherry I’d talk about this jerk every chance I get. When she talks, she makes money, and that fool shouldn’t be offended because he gets paid too.

How stupid of him.

SHE IS MAKING HERSELF LOOK BAD AND DESPERATE. THEY DATED FOR FIVE YEARS. SHERRI HAD 4 ABORTIONS SO SHE CAN NOT THROW STONES. SHE NEED TO PUT HERSELF ON BLAST AND FULLY EXPAIN WHY SHE HAD 4 ABORTIONS. WHY DID SHE DATE HER EX- HUSBAND FOR 5 YEARS BEFORE MARRYING HIM? SHERRI MOVE ON AND LET IT GO JUST LIKE YOU LET THOSE 4 ABORTIONS GO. IF YOU CAN MOVE ON FROM THAT, YOU CAN MOVE ON FROM THIS MAN, THAT REALLY DIDN’T WANT TO MARRY YOU ANY WAY, OKAY. STOP ACTING LIKE NIKKI PARKER FROM “THE PARKERS”. GET ANOTHER MAN, THAT’S ALL YOU HAVE TO DO, SWEETIE.

she needs to lay off the ex-husband banter, bashing, whatever, they do have a son and you don’t want to be guilty of making these statements and having to explain them to your child. You should not speak ill of your child’s father/mother in front of them, and especially not on national tv.

As long as that fool is getting Sherri’s money he can’t tell her a damn thing!He need to sit his ugly self down!

What’s up with some of you fools saying that “Sherri” makes Black women look bad”? There is no one Black person that reps all Black people so some of you fools need to stop generalizing
Black people!

I’m LMAO at the broke dudes here who got the nerve to say Black women are bitter just because they are bitter.There is nothing sadder than a bitter dude because he will be the biggest bi!@h you will ever see.

I LMAO at the way SOME Black men will lash out all kinds of anger at Black women but when it comes to standing up to “the man”,their butts wimp out.I have no respect for fools like that because they will kiss the butts of everyone else while expecting Black women to wipe their butts!

sherri is just another black b.i.t.c.h who drags a black man through the mud for the sake of having a career. besides trashing him she has no other contribution to the world….no valid reason for being a “celebrity”……i’m so sick of her grotesquely shaped body and her blabbering.

get a white man next time hoe!!!!!!!!!!!!

For the women who have an issue about him receiving any suppose alimony, would u talk all that ish if the role was reverse? If she cheated u’d still think she was entitled bc she’s a woman. Alimony is not based on grounds, but economics after the marriage. Also financial settlements are based on division of joint assets. If Sherri didn’t have The View and was still struggling for acting gigs and he made the most money, u all would think he should pay her money and not bc he should. Mostly bc yaw think he should be punished. Would she be called a gold digger or lazy?

HE NEEDS TO UCK THE UCK UP…AND SIT HIS UGLY A&* DOWN SOMEWHERE

BTW for all of you criticizing the way she looks, you need to criticize him because he looks just like her!

Sherri had 4 abortionss, damn?! I wonder does she know that she can’t talk about nobody, then. She doesn’t seem like the type that would do that. I thank I did hear her say that on “the View” one time be4.

What’s up with them showing her stomach,LOL?

WOW! The roles are NOT reversed! They rarely are when it comes to cheating…I know some women cheat! But, I still believe that this is the man’s domain! And if a woman cheated on her husband, while pregnant with his child and by some freak of nature got pregnant again! And then collected alimony and never paid child support and didn’t have custody of the kid. Then left her husband for her other baby daddy and supported them on the husband back…there would be NO forgivness…could you imagine the things that would be posted!

She puttin him on blast to keep gettin checks

Checks that he is gettin alimony off of!

So since he keeps wanting to get paid!

He gotta keep takin the abuse

SHAAAAADUP! AND CASH THE CHECKS!!!!!!!!!!!!

I think she has every right to talk about what has happened to HER in HER life. How DARE he! He should of kept his vowels and most importantly kept it in his pants. Get all the money you can off of your HIT show Sherri. Do you girl!

You could play spades on sherri’s wide back!

her ex is a ugly lil nugget head monster and she’s no tea party. she does fall back on the whole divorcee mother of an autistic child. either way, who really cares at the end of a long day?

She can talk about it until she gets tired

Black women can’t stop bashing black men and throwing them under the bus. Every group of women has complaints about their men but only black women will go on national TV to say their men are worhtless. A latina friend of mine told me no matter how many issues hispanic women may have with their men, they would never do that to them in public. It’s not constructive. Sisters never got that memo.

SHERRI WASTED 8 YEARS OF HER OWN LIFE. THAT MAN DID NOT WANT TO MARRY HER AND HE DID NOT WANT TO HAVE CHILDREN WITH HER. SHERRI WANTED ALL OF THOSE THINGS TO SHOW SHE WAS DESIRABLE AND WORTHY. NOT MAKING EXCUSES FOR THE BROTHER BUT SHERRI NEEDS TO LET IT GO. SHE KNEW THE DEAL BEFORE THEY GOT MARRIED. HELL THEY WERE TOGETHER FOR 5 YEARS BEFORE THEY MARRIED. HER @$$ NEW BETTER. SHE MADE A HUGE MISTAKE AND NOW SHE IS EMBARRASED. IF SHE EXPECTS TO MOVE ON SHE IS GOING TO HAVE TO LET HER PA.ST GO! SHE NEEDS A NEW GIG, HONEY DIPS. SHE NEEDS TO WRITE A BOOK ON ALL THOSE ABORTIONS SHE HAD AND WHY. THAT’S, WHAT I AM INTERESTED IN READING. SHE NEEDS TO BE BE BENEFITIAL WITH HER OWN LIFE; NOT CRITICAL OF YOUR EX-HUSBANDS CHEATING PA.ST.

WHAT ABOUT SHERRI’S ABORTIONS?! DOES THE SKELETONS IN HER CLOSET MATTER? SHE HAD 4 ABORTIONS. SHERRI HAD LOW SELF-ESTEEM THAT IS WHY SHE MARRIED THAT MAN. SHERRI, DARLING, IF YOU ARE READING THIS, STOP IT! DO NOT MAKE A FOOL OF YOURSELF ANYMORE. MY QUESTION IS, IS HER EX-HUSBAND STILL DIVORCED FROM HER. IF THE ANSWER IS YES, THEN MOVE THE HELL ON, SHERRI! GET A NEW GIG, SUPER STAR!

If he wants to keep certain things private, WHY the letter to the public? I had more sympathy for him when he had his mouth closed.If she is lying, SUE her. If its the truth, STFU!!

if she is still talking about her ex husband and her exhusband is bothered and still listening and has the time to write a reply then it looks like to me they still have feelings for each other…..They need to both sit down and talk to each other seriously honestly and privately

If he does get alimony from Sherri, I hope he’s put it toward the obvious ash problem he has with his knuckles.

And y’all, let’s lay off on calling the baby ugly. He’s retarded. Can we just leave him out of our comments?

She didn’t just have 4 abortions I thought she had like 7 or 8 that’s why i don’t feel sorry for her but her husband is a combo of gay and ugly. He’s gugly or ugay.

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I think if she wants to talk about her relationship with a cheating lying fink, then she can do that. You don’t get to royally uck someone over and expect my sympathy. He deserved what he got. Hey Sherri!

Please. Black men have been stabbing us the back for white women for ages. Sherri didn’t throw him under a bus. The pig laid down himself.