Sunday, July 27th, 2008
Which One Would You Hit??
Posted by Bossip Staff
Idris Alba and Laz Alzono hit up the Chris Webber Bada Bling Gala at Planet Hollywood in Las Vegas this weekend.
If you had the choice to hit one of these fine characters, Which One???
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Both, ofcourse!
im first.. lolol
Kendra is the finest woman in the world I swear…..
well second
I think Laz Alzono is SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO FINE. oh my goosh that is a gorgeous man. his caramel skin. His body.
I don’t care for Idris Alba. He’s not even cute in my eyes.
People always saying dark skin men are the sexiest. but hey if you want to chase after them. I will take the caramel guys… lololol I like a caramel man like Laz Alzono
5th yeah or 50th … yeah ! `m doing big things !
i used to not think idris was sexy either but something changed so my answer is IDRIS ALL DAY! lol…happy sunday ya’ll
Both! They are equally gorgeous!
Idris all day and all night long baby yeah!
I D R I S …………DELISCIOUS!
both handsome!!!! but there is something about Idris Alba… MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM, deliciousness!!! sexy-dark-choco-late
look at Idris’s bedroom eyes!!! MMMMMMMMMM
It s so nice to see all tese celebs coming out to support Chris Webber. Who knew that he would be the star attraction. Everyone looks so nice and the guys, oh yummy, the men. I love C Webb always!
I would have to say Both
How come all of these Sistas are without dates?
Terry Crews’ wife’s hair is sexy.
Idris and Laz…OMG, sexy ain’t even the word!!! I’ll take both…please and thank you!!!
BOTH
Laz Alonzo, by default!!
Idris Elba is in the same category as Djimon Hounsou for me—one of those brothers most black women go goofy for, but I still don’t see the attraction. Idris looks like the dude who runs the liqor store down my street. I’m sure he’s a cool guy, but as far as attraction goes, THERES NOTHING THERE FOR THIS SISTER.
SMH, I agree with whoever asked why none of the women a without dates. It kinda cements that statistic that 40% of black women in American never get married. Jeez, these sister need 2 be like me and open my eyes to dating any man, not just restrict myself.
LOVIN’ HOW THESE BALL PLAYERS BE STUNTIN’ FOR THE CAM
HALF ARE PROB CHEATING ON THEIR WIFIES WITH THE BROADS WHO CAME SOLO AT THE EVENT…OR CHEATING WITH OTHER MEN
RUBIE IS TRANNYLICIOUS
REBECCA CREWS LOOKS LIKE A KNIFED-UP KEYSHIA COLE MIXED WITH AN OK-LOOKING BRIGITTE NIELSEN
Caramel Men wow. I gotta love them cause im caramel too.
Team Laz Alzono
lololol
A party with a bunch of pro athletes and no Gabrielle Union? What?!
Do you all realize or see the pics of the single black men on there about 8 of them without dates.
My goosh don’t focus on the black women, and please NEVER IN YOUR LIFE BELIEVE THE CENSUS BUREAU. do you really believe the government. They lie, kill, still and destroy. So why would you believe those lies about black women or men. its set up to cause confusion. and make blacks look bad.
@ greatestloveofall
I do NOT understand the attraction for the Idris. He’s just not cute in my eyes and he looks old. I think black women have a problem, be color struck for just dark skin men. They are OVERRATED, just how lightskin women are overrated.
Terry Crews’ wife reminds me of Keyshia Cole, about 10 years or so older, and 5 shades lighter.
And in case you’re wondering…YES she is black.
Bossip, can you please fix it so when we click on to view more pics, they can actually be seen?! It’s sort of irriating to have to click on each one to get a better view. UGH!!
Idris of course. He’s sexxi and his accent just does it for me!
Is anyone else over the potato sack fad that Jenine Howard was rocking? I’m not sure why these tiny women walk around with a sack on…If they really had to wear a dress that big then they would be mad.
Both at the same time! Only after Idris takes a shower I heard he has that england body odor going on.
I’ll have Laz in the morning, go to work, then come back to Idris at night.
Yes, Terry Crews wife is black. That platinum hair just makes her look paler. She would look darker and better with a darker hair dye.
There are a lot of single out there…including Mark Curry. He is looking for a man, too.
left out a word — sorry — it should read that there are a lot of single WOMEN out there…
I have to go with my Papi Laz Alzono…he’s Cuban like me!
A party with a bunch of pro athletes and no Gabrielle Union? What?!
***************************************************@VEGASGAL,
YOU’RE TOO DAMN FUNNY!!!HOPEFULLY SHE KEPT HER TIRED ASS AT HOME BECAUSE I’M SO DAMN SICK OF LOOKING AT HER.
Idris Elba, NO DOUBT, NO Question
This Man Reprensents England Very Well
DAAMMNN U STRINGER
Both…….I love me some Laz Alonso and Idris Elba….dark chocolate and caramel
the few black women in the pics have no dates and the black men are with light bite damn near white wome, hispanics and white women….wtf!
damn shame
both men are fine but Idris really does in for me…
@me thats who, yeah thats so true. What a damn shame. These are GORGEOUS ladies too. I guess the whole thing about black women being manless/date-less is a reality for even the celebrities.
It’s the same thing for any black celebrity event. I mean except for Beyonce, Eva Pigford and a few others, none of them ever have men with them. They seem to be photoed with other single black women.
SMH, ladies yall need 2 bust this trap door open into looking and expand your horizons. Otherwise you’ll be lonely for the rest of your life. Brothers dont have this complex of being “loyal” to the race, it’s just the sisters. If there’s a white dude who look like Brad Pitt, and he’s interested, and you’re compatible, get him as soon as u can….
Idris!!!!!
The women are without dates because they are looking for a baller. Elise Oneil and Kenya Moore included. Their careers are at a stand still. It’s obvious.
LAZ IS GOOOOOD LOOKING, BUT I HAVE A SLIGHT WEAKNESS FOR CHOCOLATE. I’LL HAVE TO GO WITH IDRIS..DAYUMMM, YEAH, IDRIS.
Idris is my friends cousin. He’s doing so well for himself.
Idrissa Elba and Chris Webber would be my choices. Yes, Laz is handsome but I must go for dark chocolate.
they are blocking my comments
1. how come they never show Idris’s white wife from london?
2. these are some beautiful people, im proud of them.
3. anyone see any deep south n*ggas or their babymommas in f*cked up weaves and unshaved legs? Nope.
4 i like Kenya Moore, drop 20lbs and she’d be the perfect darkskin b*tch.
5. See what happens when you throw an event outside the south? A better class of people show up!
Idris all day!! Ever since Laz was in Stomp the Yard and looked like a old ass grad student I kinda look at him differently. But nonetheless he is a good looking man. But I love my chocolate!! Like a man who looks like 12 o’clock midnight!!Dark as hell!!
People kill me talking bout blk women looking for ballers. I guess white women are looking for blue collar workers. White women got the gold digging game on lock down. You have these unknown white women who travel from city to city who can pull a rich black man before a famous black beauty. Blk women are the only race of women who constantly fed a guilt trip about wanting their men to be equally yoaked. I read that shit in Essense & Ebony all the time. You would never read that shit in Cosmo. These women are beatiful, successful with a nice little nest egg, why the hell should they date an unsigned singer. Remeber Vivica Fox’s husband. After her divorce she said it’s important for a man to have a job. You think so??????????
Let’s keep it real, it takes a strong confident man OF ANY RACE to date or marry a woman who is on the same level. When Jay married Beyonce, that spoke volumes about his esteem.
For the people who don’t believe the white man stats on black relationships. I don’t need the gov’t to tell me what I see everyday in my community, family & job. More than 70% of the black women I see on a daily basis are single mothers or just plain ass single. I don’t need a census report.
they are still blocking my comments
And as a black woman (or a woman in general), please clarify this: WHAT THE FUCK IS SO GREAT ABOUT BALLERS ANYWAY????? MATTER OF FACT, ANY WELL PAID ATHLETE?? THEY’RE JUST EYE CANDY FOR WOMEN BUT SADLY LACK IN BRAINS AND PROPER EDUCATIONS. MAYBE THEY SHOULD SPEND MORE TIME READING A BOOK, STUPID OAFS!!
WOMEN, BLACK OR WHITE, WHO CONSCIOUSLY GO IN PURSUIT OF THESE BRAINLESS HALFWITS MUST BE PRETTY FUCKING SUPERFICIAL IF ALL THEY SEE IS MONEY AND GOOD LOOKS!!!
NEVER IN MY LIFE HAS THAT SHIT IMPRESSED ME BECAUSE I’D RATHER MAKE MY OWN MONEY, HAVE AN INTELLIGENT, ENLIGHTENED MAN ON MY LEVEL, SO WE CAN SHARE IT ALL. SORRY, BUT I HAVE STANDARDS AND THAT’S FAR ABOVE ANY OF THESE UNEDUCATED BALLERS. INTELLECT IS BETTER THAN FAME AND MONEY.
stll blocking
a@ SOMER and @greatestloveofall:
a big fucking co-sign over here!!!!!!!!!!!!
lil mo will want to be writing an erykah badu manifesto soon
What the fuck is wrong with this sight they are blocking my comments
idris is dead sexy
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I think I would hit Idris
Nicca are you crazy … Ima dude ! But I will knock Claudia Jordan out the park than Ima get at Kenya ! She thick in all da right places !
Both… at the same time. :p lol Lighten up, I’m kidding… unless the gone do it.
lol
Co-sign w/ Greatest Love. Brilliant, indeed!
Both men are very handsome. . .This is a hard one, and, of course, I would have to go out with each of them to get to know them, etc. before making my final decision.
@My mind is wacky
Hello
LIGHT SKIN NIGGRZ AINT NEVER COMING BACK IN STYLE… US CHOC BROTHAZ GOT THIS SHIT ON LOCK!
ALL THE WHITE WOMEN YOU LIGHT SKIN NIGGRZ BE PRAISING…… ALL GOT CHOC BROTHAZ!WE THE ALPHA AND OMEGA IN THIS BYTCH!
Real men does not have any desire for marrying their equal. Why should they? Jay Z, moneywise is wealthier than Beyonce. He married Beyonce because his wealth and fame dictated that he could. You don’t think Beyonce married Jay Z for his looks?
The problem with you sistas, who are looking to marry your equals, is under the assumption that a 50/50 marriage is workable – It’s not! In order for a union between man and woman to work is for both parties to knwo their role. If any successful marriage is to succeed, the dichotomy will have to at least 55/45 split. The whole notion of a 50/50 power share in a relation is a fallacy and is doomed to fail, due to both parties forever battling for superiority in the relationship…Afterall, why do you think women in general always go for the alpha male or as most of you sistas say: “SWAGGER”. You know and i know, that most of you sistas’ will lose respect for any man who will always relent to your wishes…In the long run, it goes against your nature as being female, ie the weaker sex. Why do you think the marriages where the woman is the breadwinner, tends to go south, hense Vivica Fox marriage with that unemployed singer wannabe? On the other side of the coin, look at Halle’s prior marriages’ where she goes into it trying to play the dominant, and(or) equal with men who are used to taking the lead: Wesley, David Justice or Eric Benet. – IT DOES’NT WORK!
BOTH!!!♥
Laz Alonzo is so fine.them lips!…LOL
Kenya Moore is very pretty.
How old is she???
BOTH! Idris first though…that accent…mmmmmm!
@ glok9n
you talk all this nonsense but post your pic up.
and lightskin brother will come back. because dark skin men like you are having babies with white women and creating cute caramel guys. SO TRUST ME. you are creating something that will bite you in the butt.
CARAMEL AND LIGHT SKIN MEN will be back on top soon. So you can thank yourself for that. lolol
I would have to say I am a caramel brotha lova but I know when I see a milk dude; Idris Elba is definitely a milk dude! That being said i would take both!
I mean *milk dud* Idris Elba is definitely a milk dud
thanx man
Umm the good looking one!
That’s Laz Alzono. XD
Both these men are FINE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! but after seeing Stomp da yard when Laz was licking his lips and his tongue… don’t want to get crude here but he was taking it back to some LL days and that was all I needed to see
SHOUT OUT 2 TOO $HORT!!!
@WHAT IS THE TRUTH! US CHOC NIGGRZ ARE HERE AND WE AINT GOING NO WHERE! TRUST THAT SIS,LIGHT SKIN NIGGRS SUPPOSED TO HAVE BEEN MAKING A COME BACK ..WHAT LIKE 20 YRZ NOW! THEM NIGGRS AINT COMING BACK GIRL, GET YOU A CHOC AND BE HAPPY ,YOU KNOW YOU LOVE SOME CHOCOLATE, YOU BE LICKING YOUR FINGERS !LOL! MY PIC? SHIT ID PUT THESE NIGGRS TO SHAME……WANNA KNOW WHY ? CUZ IM A PRETTY BLK NIGGR AND THE WOMEN OF BOSSIP WILL NUT IN THEY DRAWS IF THEY SAW THIS NIGGR HERE !LOL!
@glok9n you have serious problems and you are a major turn off. Sorry a caramel guy will beat you out any day.
you sound so unintelligent. I have seen many unattractive greasy darkskin men. and i know you are one of them. GROSS>
quit hating on light skinned niggas. man we look good 2. thats what i call nigga hatred. how a dark skin gonna hate on a light skin, like that makes me less of a blk man cause im light brown. still African American. smh @ nigga hatred=self hatred…………light skinned will never b played out..never..never…neverrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.well b back.
WOOOOOOW, I can’t believe the Light Skinned v Dark Skinned debate has now gone onto the brothers. Black is beautiful regardless.
I’d say that Laz Alonzo.
@ mary blige……yes it has got to this. blk ppl hating on other shades. well im gonna leave this topic alone, but this is why we have trouble overcoming. dark ppl hating light.. smh if we cant get pass something as small as this we will never overcome shit. lol the white person that owns this site prob is sitting bacl laf n @ this shit. i bet u think a blk person actually owns this site. trust me the brother or sister that runs the site still has 2 answer to u know who! anyway have a blessed sunday.1
HEY IT CAME FROM SISTAZ TELLING ME THEY CANT FUK WITH LIGHTSKIN NIGGRZ, YALL STARTED THIS SHIT!
smh @ THIS TOPIC. we have some dumb ppl representing our race.
I will hit both of them upside the head if I hear they do not date sisters. Time for black men to stop running from your family on account of somebody, somewhere made you feel that your and they are not worthy. They are worthier than worthy. Love yourself.
KENYA IS THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMAN IN THE WORLD TO ME!
I’ve met Terry Crews and his wife before, they’re really cool and pretty funny too.
i think some of the females should stay home from the athlete parties. the look is one of desperation…for real. leave that stuff to the groupies. you all have careers and stuff. just wait on God…all of you…and study,pray, and keep busy with those things He would have you do.
WHEN YOU LIGHTSKIN NIGGRZ WERE RUNNING SHIT YALL WERE THE MOST ARROGANT BASTARDS CALLING BROTHAZ BLK MONKEY NIGGRZ ….WHEN A DARK BROTHA WOULD BAG A FINE CHICK …HERE COME YOU LIGHTSKIN NIGGRZ POSING AND PUSHING UP ON THAT MANZ CHICK…NOW WE CHOC ARE FUKING AND TAKING ALL THE FINE AZZ SISTAZ…..MY BROTHA IS A LIGHTSKIN NIGGA, REAL TALK AND HE USED TO COCK BLOK BYTCHES FROM A NIGGR!
WHAT IS THE TRUTH! THAT YOU ARE THE BIAS UNINTELLIGENT HOOKER HERE ! GO FUK YOUR SELF !
@ Tony NEW ORLEANS TIL I DIE
i like light skin, well caramel guys. I love a caramel guy. They catch my eyes all the time. and i love intelligent well spoken black men.
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@ glok9n
light skin men will be back in. Very soon. Do you see all these mix kids. They are going to be young adults eventually and will be in.
Im caramel complexion which is probably why i like caramel guys first. Which is why i would choose Laz Alzono.
But i would not discriminate against a brown guy. but my favorite preference is caramel. They are SEXY. If women dont’ think they are sexy then thats more for me to choose from.
I’d definitely take Laz ALONSO (lol @ Alzono) over Idris… Idris doesn’t wear deodorant!! Eeeeewwwww….
LAZ ALL DAY !!!
why do “panamanisan do it better? and what do they do better and if they are that great why don’t they have their own gossip site and why wouldn’t you be on there
Why does Bossip keep erasing my comments
LIGHTSKIN MEN LOVE LIGHTSKIN MEN! THEY WILL NOT BE BACK!I LOVE WOMEN OF ALL COMPLEXIONS AND THIS LIGHT, DARK SKIN SHIT IZ BULLSHIT…..I DONT CARE THATZ YOUR CHOICE YOU LIKE CARAMEL GOOD FOR YOU ,I LIKE INTELLIGENT WOMEN YOU SAY THEY LOVE BLACK MEN NOT WHAT COLOR THE COMPLEXION IS!
These women are alone because of their conduct. Elise Oneal and 50 cent secretly were “friends” as she stated.
Being a man’s concubine is not the right choice when searching for a mate. When a man has the comfort of a womman he has no reason to make a comittment such as marriage.
THOSE MIX KIDS ARE BEING TRAINED NOT TO FUK WITH BLK, I BET YOU !
@TALEA ! HOW YOU KNOW?ARE YOU STILL WAITING FOR THAT COMMITMENT?
No I cose to behave in a dignified manner.
It is best to build a platonic relationship first. Alot of women have a few dates and then go straight to sexual intimacy.
Chose
hEY LAZARO!!! HIT ME UP. iDRIS’ ARMPITS STANK.
PPL ALWAYZ ASK WHEN WILL I GET MARRIED TO MY GAL ,IM LIKE FOR WHAT WE BOTH ARE COMFORTABLE LIKE THIS …..AS SOON AS YOU WOMEN SEE THAT CERTIFICATE YOU DO AN ABRUPT ABOUT FACE TO THE MAN,START TELLING NIGGRZ THE GOTTA COME HOME EARLY…WHO THEY CAN HANG OUT WITH….NO FRIENDS UNLESS THEY TOO ARE MARRIED ….FUK THAT ! LET DO THE COMMON LAW THING TIL WE ABOUT 55!
CUBAN RULES!QUE BOLA lAZ
@TALEA! GOOD FOR YOU! TAKE YOUR TIME!
@glok9n
whatever. yeah right those mix kids will more likely lean towards the black side. and who will be chasing the light skin black men??????? Chocolate, caramel, and light skin black women.
They keep blocking my comments. Many men believe why buy the cow when I can get the milk for free.
hi sydney ! :.) I jump in and out ! I watched the program on black man on cnn . Some good news and def some bad news ! black people are going to be alright.
hi sydney ! :.) I jump in and out ! I watched the program on black man on cnn . Some good news and def some bad news ! black people are going to be alright.
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A man who has such a reltionship usually has you, another or many others. He calls it keeping his Options open. HIV is at an all time high because of such behavior
Idris of course. Hellooooooooooo!
THE TRUTH IS ! WELL THE TRUTH IS THIS, IMMA ABOUT TO FUK THIS LIGHTSKIN CHIC PUSHIN MY WHIP, THEN IMMA GONNA FUK THIS CARAMEL CHIC SOON AFTER AND SPEND THE NIGHT AT THIS LATINO MAMI HOUSE WHO TOLD ME THEY FEEL THAT THE ORIGINAL BLK MAN IZ NEVER GOING OUT OF STYLE ,LIGHT SKIN BROTHAZ CAN FUK ALL THE CHICS THEY PLZ, ILL BE JUST AS HAPPY! IM TELLING YOU WHAT THESE CHICS TOLD ME, THE LOVE CHOCOLATE MEN! IM NOT THAT BLK, IM BROWN SKIN! AND MY COMPLEXION TURN BYTCHES ON, PLUS MY GOOD LOOKS ! HEY IM OUT ! TO MY FRIENDS ON HERE ILL BE A LITTLE LATE IN THE MORNING I GOT A LOT ON MY PLATE THIS EVENING!
@TALEA! YOU RIGHT SISTA, THATZ RIGHT YOU ARE CORRECT SISTA AIDS IS HIGH IN OUR COMMUNITY…AND ALL THAT CREEPING IZ NO GOOD, BUT WE BOTH DO IT THE FEMALE JUST LIKE THE MALE…ALSO THERE SOOOOO MUCH TO CHOOSE FROM WHY BE UNHAPPY WITH A PERSON YOU CANT EVEN SEE EYE TO EYE WITH! PLUS MARRIAGE IZ A JOKE NOW ITZ NOT SACRED LIKE OUR PARENTS DAY IN TIME !
Well have fun now. I hope your loose conduct doesn’t catch up to you. 83% of new cases of HIV are Black people.
They both look good!
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Real men does not have any desire for marrying their equal. Why should they? Jay Z, moneywise is wealthier than Beyonce. He married Beyonce because his wealth and fame dictated that he could. You don’t think Beyonce married Jay Z for his looks?
The problem with you sistas, who are looking to marry your equals, is under the assumption that a 50/50 marriage is workable – It’s not! In order for a union between man and woman to work is for both parties to knwo their role. If any successful marriage is to succeed, the dichotomy will have to at least 55/45 split. The whole notion of a 50/50 power share in a relation is a fallacy and is doomed to fail, due to both parties forever battling for superiority in the relationship…Afterall, why do you think women in general always go for the alpha male or as most of you sistas say: “SWAGGER”. You know and i know, that most of you sistas’ will lose respect for any man who will always relent to your wishes…In the long run, it goes against your nature as being female, ie the weaker sex. Why do you think the marriages where the woman is the breadwinner, tends to go south, hense Vivica Fox marriage with that unemployed singer wannabe? On the other side of the coin, look at Halle’s prior marriages’ where she goes into it trying to play the dominant, and(or) equal with men who are used to taking the lead: Wesley, David Justice or Eric Benet. – IT DOES’NT WORK!
MARQUIS DE SADE IS A VERY SMART MAN!!
That is why you should be friends first and turn the lust off. Think about something else. There is another way. Death is close by for so many young black people who think and behave this way. They beleive it can’t happen to them. Condoms Break and alot of people are contaiminated through oral sex. Think before you act. It can mean you life.
I know a good looking man tall, dark skin, nice looking and infected with HIV. He does not disclose and he possibly is spreading the disease. He parties in the club every weekend and has his choice of women, because of his charm.
He is the meanest Mother F**ker for doing that. Everything that glitters is not gold becareful who you lay down with.
@Talea, you got that right 100%. Platonic relationships FOLLOWED by intimiacy with a committed partner is the best policy. I’m not into casual, promiscuous sex, that’s one of the #1 reasons for HIV-AIDS, as it gets passed on.
But there needs to be responsible parents to teach their kids about this stuff, before they run off having intercourse with any shady character.
Is Terry Cruz’s wife a sista?
Desiree Washington /Jackson wow that sista looks the same as she did in her Mama I Want to Sing Broadway day’s!!
Rickey Davis’ girl Vanessa Ramirez got a long ass head! She looks like one of them Heckle & Jeckle crows
Ruthie Bolton- OMG is that Wesley Snipes from that movie he did in drag? Is Ruthie really a woman or is that Rufus instead????
What the eff happened to Chris Webbers beautiful face? I use to think he was soooo cute in this picture he looks like a broke down Lou Rawls!
get off glok9n, you all some sorry bitc–s..All ya do is self-hate and hate on blacks and dark-skinned people, wtf, “light-skin and caramel is coming back ?” How fu–in stupid do you sound, do you not realize when it is all said and done, we are all in this together????? Sorry, sorry black young girls, these days, all mixed up, F this, f that, get some class ladies..Black is black,,if you don;t hate blacks, why are you always talking trash and speaking down on everybody? Is it because that’s how you feel about yourself? I think it’s a reflection of who you are? Get yourself right first. Ain’t nobody judging you, just think before you start some mess, then you get mad when someone confronts your idiotic beliefs, another thing, you can’t beat everybody, or win every argument, just relax and enjoy the blogs for what they are..so unhappy, what shame, confusion, inner turmoil, black girls..I hope better for you, maybe one day you won;t be ashamed with your own reflections, and who you really are….knowledge of self….poor poor black girls..
You can talk to teenagers until they are blue in the face it won’t make them listen in the heat of the moment when the guy wants to go raw. They need to go to these hospitals and see for themselves. Teenagers have assembly’s at their school with HIV infected people telling them their story and they still chose to go unprotected. Grown people are misguided as well. They believe that a fine A** man or woman can’t be contaminated. Listen to Glock9n it is sad. promiscuity can mean death.
Greatest Love Of All typed “SMH, ladies yall need 2 bust this trap door open into looking and expand your horizons. Otherwise you’ll be lonely for the rest of your life. Brothers dont have this complex of being “loyal” to the race, it’s just the sisters. If there’s a white dude who look like Brad Pitt, and he’s interested, and you’re compatible, get him as soon as u can”
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I don’t know about you but I must admit that I don’t seem to attract too many white men..they’ll look at me & keep it moving plus I don’t feel like I’d have much in common with a typical white guy. What would our convo be like? I’d have to have something in common with the man I’m dating & I’m sorry white men {to me} seem very very BORING!!
Add to the fact that my body shape typically exemplifies the standards that most black men can appreciate. How many white dudes glorify a big butt flatt stomach small breasts & tiny waistline? to white dudes I’d be considered fat or weird shaped so I’ll stick with my brothas I think we’re better suited for each other.
Stringer Bell all damn day! Stop playin!
Negros come in all different shades and I thinks thats what makes us all beautiful and unique. It dont matter if ur dark or light beauty comes in all shades and colors. Stop the self hatred people.
@Always knew- “what shame, confusion, inner turmoil, black girls..I hope better for you, maybe one day you won;t be ashamed with your own reflections, and who you really are….knowledge of self….poor poor black girls”
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Always Knew—-How are we suppose to be un-ashamed of our reflections when black men seem to glorify women that don’t look like us? Women feel pretty when men tell us that we are. If the only thing us young black girls see are black men chasing after women that do not like us {example: Kim Kardashian, Halle Berry,Cassie, Coco T ect} then how are we suppose to think of ourselve’s as worthy, special & pretty?
And I would take both Idris and Alonzo on any given day. Both are sexy to me!
@GysyTea
GREATESTLOVEOFALL is always angry and making inappropriate remarks about black women. She always suggest a white man and persistently tells us black women that we are angry. She is the only one who seems full of bitterness. look at all of her posts. It is sickening
@Gypsy Tea you dont need a man to validate you. Love yoourself first f*ck what a man have to say. I dont look like Halle, Cassie, or whoever but I’m beautiful to me and thats all that matters.
IDRIS!!!!!! ALL DAY EVERYDAY!
IDRIS ELBA BABY!!! NO QUESTIONS ASKED
No feeling Lil Mo at all.
I certainly take exception with her last comment that all athletes are unintelligent and are simply eye candy and have no real worth. Who is she to make that assumption. Does she know them on a personal level? Just becasue they excelled in whatever sport does not mean that they are lacking in intelligence. If he has good character, sensitivity, kindness, loving and committed then that would be a plus. I don’t care what his profession is. She seems to be lacking in character and being a decent human being. I am so sick of her negativity. Just skip over her post. She is a damn nuisance.
glok9n wrote:
@WHAT IS THE TRUTH! US CHOC NIGGRZ ARE HERE AND WE AINT GOING NO WHERE! TRUST THAT SIS,LIGHT SKIN NIGGRS SUPPOSED TO HAVE BEEN MAKING A COME BACK ..WHAT LIKE 20 YRZ NOW! THEM NIGGRS AINT COMING BACK GIRL, GET YOU A CHOC AND BE HAPPY ,YOU KNOW YOU LOVE SOME CHOCOLATE, YOU BE LICKING YOUR FINGERS !LOL! MY PIC? SHIT ID PUT THESE NIGGRS TO SHAME……WANNA KNOW WHY ? CUZ IM A PRETTY BLK NIGGR AND THE WOMEN OF BOSSIP WILL NUT IN THEY DRAWS IF THEY SAW THIS NIGGR HERE !LOL!
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And Tony NEW ORLEANS TIL I DIE wrote:
quit hating on light skinned niggas. man we look good 2. thats what i call nigga hatred. how a dark skin gonna hate on a light skin, like that makes me less of a blk man cause im light brown. still African American. smh @ nigga hatred=self hatred…………light skinned will never b played out..never..never…neverrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.well b back
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Some men are bigger drama queens than us girls !!! I mean really dude yall need to check your skirts for panty lines with comments like the ones yall wrote above.
It’s 2008 and you 2 dudes are seriously beefing over skin tones????
It is sad that all of these men believe that a measure of a man is good looks, nothing more. A man who has good character, nuturing, caring, sensitive, loving, committed are some good qualities in addition to good looks. Most people see the outer package and forget everything that is important. A good looking man never mad a good husband or a good father.
@Aoki Lee:
Is Terry Cruz’s wife a sista?
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Yes. Look closely, she’s just really light skinned. I have met them both, and it’s pretty obvious, especially when in person. They were really nice too
And Talea, I agree that even if u try to lecture teens about unsafe sex, they’ll still do it. HOWEVER, I feel that the society they grow up in needs long term mending, and that to me starts with the rebuilding of the black family. If those kids can physically witness a loving, healthy and trusting relationship, raised in a clean, safe environment, with emphasis on education and finding a career, things could change for the better.
@ Mary J
I agree with you. well said
@Greatest love–All REAL black men LOVE their black women, love our shapes, and all the sizes we come in, not hating on your interracial thing, but in my life, brothers will always come first, just built that way,….We’re suppose to love OURSELVES, then that’s where our mates come in, they back us up…We love them back for it…These ‘brothers’ that you speak of are young and experimenting, when they get tired and more mature, they will definitely bring it home, until then, there are more than one type of black man, I dig that everyone is talking safe sex,that’s the only way to go, until you figure out who the right one is, and marry them…I don’t sllep around anyway, even before I got married, I was always very careful about who I would share my body, my “temple” with…I still get comments all the time, even though I am not checking for them, I still love and appreciate all my beautiful black men!!!
Go on Talea, and tell the truth……your comments are on point…
Idris i would give him some all day and night. goddamn he is fine.
Laz could stab me like the phantom all day. LAZ. Each time I see him, I wanna put him in a vat of lotion with his ashy ass.
Each time I see Idris I wanna put him in a vat of lotion I meant.
BOTH!
both!!
laz all night long like bang bang skeet skeet
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3. anyone see any deep south n*ggas or their babymommas in f*cked up weaves and unshaved legs? Nope.
5. See what happens when you throw an event outside the south? A better class of people show up
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Its6amHoGetOut,
I notice you’re always dick riding the south and southeren women with your fucked up stereotypical comments, did some southern dude take your bitch or did you get played by a southern girl, either way you sound like a fucking idiot.
Ummmm…I’m gonna have to go with Idris!!! Dayum he’s FINE!!!
glok9n(Check me out!)
@WHAT IS THE TRUTH! US CHOC NIGGRZ ARE HERE AND WE AINT GOING NO WHERE! TRUST THAT SIS,LIGHT SKIN NIGGRS SUPPOSED TO HAVE BEEN MAKING A COME BACK ..WHAT LIKE 20 YRZ NOW! THEM NIGGRS AINT COMING BACK GIRL, GET YOU A CHOC AND BE HAPPY ,YOU KNOW YOU LOVE SOME CHOCOLATE, YOU BE LICKING YOUR FINGERS !LOL! MY PIC? SHIT ID PUT THESE NIGGRS TO SHAME……WANNA KNOW WHY ? CUZ IM A PRETTY BLK NIGGR AND THE WOMEN OF BOSSIP WILL NUT IN THEY DRAWS IF THEY SAW THIS NIGGR HERE !LOL!
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DAMN YOU SOUND IGNORANT AS HELL SMH…..
@ Talea your posts are right on the money!!
It would be refreshing to see people not rushing into a casual sexual relationship. Children need to see another side such as good family values, and a loving committed relationship between a man and a woman as well. These teenagers and children growing up have little hope in finding true happiness with a man or a woman if promiscuity continues to prevail.
“Laz! Laz! Laz!!!” Yep, thats me screaming his name! Idris Elba is fine, but that man is just HOT!
Talea. adults/parents need to demonstrate abstinence and waiting until marriage. and teach these values to kids.
because you have everyone teaching safe sex, which therefor promotes sex. They should teach kids NO sex is the safest thing and anything else you will lose your life.
also teens who engage in sex always have the most issues. Im still a virgin i can say i am a very content person drama free life. Its not perfect but i don’t have a hectic life or feel like a man is using me.
Basically people must do what is right in the eyes of god and sex is ONLY FOR MARRIAGE. its a union of man and wife, its sacred.
I don’t think this topic has anything to do with race. It’s all in fun guys, don’t make everything on here about light skin vs dark skin. It’s just a damn blog! Some of the topics are more serious, but most are just about getting people riled up at simple, silly shit, and some of us fall for it every time…its not that serious ya’ll.
mmm Laz could get it!!!
Not feeling Lil’ Mo’s tapestry maternity wear
i know tons of people that are black and have black wifeys.
Just because almost every pic show a black man with a light skinned woman or white skinned woman doesent mean that Black Men Loves White Women
Stupid fucks. and its not about color its about personality so plz stop being ignorant
as for terry crews wifey SHES NOT BLACK SHES MIXED
Stop callin Everybody thats mixed Black BARAK AINT BLACK HIS MIXED.BIRACIAL ETC
GLOK NEVER SLEEPZ ALWAYZ ON MY GRIND IM ON MY WAY TO MY MAMI HOUSE AND STUMBLE ON YOU FOLKS TALKING THAT SHIT!@ AOKI > IM SIMPLY QUOTING WHAT WOMEN TOLD ME IGHT GET IT RIGHT IM NOT NO BYTCH NIGGR ! @ HAHAHAHA! YOU MUTHA FUKKA THESE ARE WOMEN WHOM IVE TALK TO AND SAID THEY CANT FUK WITH THEM NIGGRZ …IM NOT ON THAT SHIT ..I FUKZ THEM IN ALL SHADES! NOW HOW IGNORANT WAS THAT BYTCH LOL!
I FUK WOMEN IN ALL SHADES! I LOVE THEM THICK AND THIN! I LOVE BLK PPL AND IM NOT ON THAT SHIT!!! LOL! TOLD YOU NIGGRZ BY BROTHA IZ LIGHTSKIN SO MY COMMENTZ WERE FROM EXPERIENCE NOT HERE SAY! THERE WAS A TIME THEY WERE TREATED SPECIAL! YOU BYTCHES KILL ME, LIKE I SAID I REALLY DONT GIVE A FUK! HA!
@ALWAYS KNEW ! OUT OF ALL THESE COMMENTZ YOU ARE BEYOND WISDOM AND A TRUE BEAUTIFUL BLK SISTA WHO I WISH HAD THIS DISCUSSION IN PERSON . I LOVE STRONG BLK WOMEN LIKE YOU, INFACT I WORSHIP YOU! IF MORE SISTAZ HAD YOU THOUGHT PROCESS …GOD BLESS YOU!
IM A IGNANT MUTHA FUKKA …..YESSS!
Laz is sexy as hell. he doesn’t really date black women though. which is sad. he’s dating this filipino and white chick right now. She’s an aspiring singer. From what I hear he treats the sistas like shit and treats the “others” like queens.
idris all the way any day any night.
idris hands down.
@ What is the truth
I agree with you. I always suggest waiting until marriage because that is what god intended for us. People are not obeying him and people are paying a heavy price for their illicit acts, such as death.
@Glock9N
It is so disrespectful and unkind to use these derrogatory names to label women. Bragging about ones sexual prowess is unnecessary. It is uncalled for to let everyone know about your unsavory sexual escapades. Women are not here just to satisy your sexual appetite. If you have a daughter would you want a man to treat her and speak to her in such a deplorable manner? There are decent virtuous woman out there. Not everyone is loose and deserves to be treated and spoken to like yesterday’s trash.
I’ll take Big ‘Dris. Lord, please send me a husband that looks like that!!!!
LAZ ALONSO all day and night. He is so handsome and a gentleman as well. Definitely would want him to wife me up!
Laz Alzono For sure!!!
Laz Alzono can do me raw.
Idris Elba always looks like the drunk uncle at the family reunion…
the single women -
some of them may have dates that don’t want to be photographed. every celebrity doesn’t necessarily date another celebrity or certified baller. some men aren’t into the whole paparazi thing. it can seem quite girly at times to have to be camera ready.
bossip feeds into your hang ups -
bossip posted the pics they wanted you to see. if ballers are showing love to the ebony sisters (and they do) you won’t see it here. they know what y’all love to talk about so they give the people what they want.
preferences -
people have them. 9 times out of 10 you are dealing with the people who prefer you so don’t get a big head about it. the 10 girls who like dark men are on the dark brother and the other 10 who like the light brother are on him.
self-love
once you love yourself you won’t take it personally when you aren’t chosen. you may be disappointed but you will pick yourself up and find the 10 who are checking for you and be able to enjoy bossip for what it is – an amusing pastime and your feelings won’t have to be caught up in it and you won’t have to put other people down to make you feel good.
Both!! They are both handsome black men.
Have u guys heard that he ever appeared on the wealthy dating club :::::::M e e t i n g W e a l t h y.c o m::::::: for hot singles to hook up for Hot Love and Sexy Dating? There are his hot photos and Lots of hot girls are found in his circle there. I’ve been there for day, it seems the girls are not hard to hook up.lol
I would have to say both because they are equally gorgeous…Leaning more towards Idris Elba….He is perfection dipped in chocolate….But Laz isn’t bad either…A girl can’t go wrong with either brother…
Both….at the same time! LOL
why should we have to choose? I’d hit both in a second. HOTNESS!!!
Idris all day
Damn you Stringer for being so fine…
IDRIS!!!! You have to hear him talk with that British accent. He’s the black George Clooney…*SCREAMS*
LMAOOOOOOOOOOO CHAKA…wow…..;wink;
still laffin at that scream though
BOTH,BOTH,BOTH,AND BOTH
@TALEA! LOOK SISTA IF YOU FEEL OFFENDED THEN I APOLOGIZE FOR SHOWING MY JOY AND EXCITEMENT TOWARDS BLK WOMEN !
lol…
Mornin err body…
LIL Mo is pregnant again?? I need her to name her child a NORMAL name this time…not GOD ISS LOVE.
both please
and can someone please tell me why too short always look so ashy
Laz Alzono all day baby, I have been in love with him ever since he did stomp the yard, he is so sexy, especially on that part where he licks his lips when their steppin, all kind of ideas poped in my head, whoo, I felt it just then.
I’ll take whichever one looks at me first…..
I don’t think Idris is that hot. Neither actually.
LOL @Whatsyoursismine
Idris any day, he’s got that swagger and major sex appeal
I’ll take Idris Elba…well I already have him but since Bossip asked…
&Laz looks like he is on the DL and he is too light skinned. (for me)
I refuse to choose one. Both of these brothas could hit. Simultaneously if they like.
we keep our ho’ down on the low down at http://www.girlfriendchurch.com but if we had to pick, idris would be it and he can talk nasty to me in his british accent stringaaaaaahhh
@Bird
I feel you on so many levels, but one at a time would be preferable as they each deserve my undivided attention!!! SEXUAL CHOCOLATE!!
Both! Thank you Bossip this is great!
For once Bossip-the answer is BOTH!!!!
Gaaabby….We know youre theeere…where are yoooooou????
Laz Alzono all day! Everyday!
DAMN HE FINE!
Idris Elba all DAY….
Chris Webber is such a cutie!!! Luv him
Is that Lil’ Mo or Fantasia. I always get them mixed up. The make up, the tats’, the skin color, everything is so similar of the two of them.
Dwayne looking good but I aint too sure about the vald head syndrome he got going on. Oh and yeah he must be single again because I dont see no wedding ring wuzup with that???
LAZ. I love his sexy a$$. I believe he’s the new Denzel.
both…..
I just don’t see the attraction with either one of them.
Who told Joe Torry to stand next to the world’s tallest black man?! They are wrong for that picture!
Feelin’ a lil hoeish…can I hit ‘em both at the same time???
I’ll take them both at the same time with Chris Webber!!!!!
Yup, I said it!
whats up with ALL these drker toned men and their obssession with light skin-”str8 hair” women… Self-hatrage in its purest form!
I don’t discriminate. Vanilla bean to coffee bean. It don’t matter.
Oh shit, it’s Too Short. Big shout out to you Brah, I met you a while back in a club in the Santa Clara, CA area and you were down to earth and smooth and driving a phat ass Caddy Seville. You wuz straight pimping.
greatestloveofall… COSIGN 100%!! couldnt have said it better myself
Who would I hit? Jeez, both. hahha
Both…repeatedly. Laz first, though.
They are both fine men but for me it would definately be Idris. That is one sexy man..
Go head Ruthie! That’s my cuz! Man she’s got some guns on her!!
none of those guys like dark skinned women?
Both, all day and all night!!!! And Dwyane Wade during the breaks!!!
reliable and also stupid
BOTH!!! Altough, I saw Idris at the Park at Fourteenth in DC, and boy, he is even finer in person!
(Sigh). It’s amazing how Kenya Moore has remained the most beautiful woman on Earth for FIFTEEN years running! Good grief. Perfection. Sheer perfection.
Kudos to Brian Shaw; his wife looks good (sorta reminds me of Nia Long). But what happened to C-Webb? No dis to his date, but damn – you gave up Tyra for HER?
Kenya AND Jill Marie Jones in the same spot – man, if I was there I wouldn’t have been able to stop staring at em. Kenya is the greatest, best, most beautiful women of ALL TIME, and Jill…man, those LIPS…!
Did Ya’ll Know Laz Alonso is straight up Cuban American….Damn…he so fine![♥]
You can give me that fine azz Claudia Jordan any day!! I’ve been drooling over this gurl since she was a model on The Price Is Right!!!
IDRIS!!!!!
I’m sorry that I got on this band wagon late. As for a true diva – Idris could melt me with his chocolate all day every day. Don’t get it twisted, the other one is fine as wine but…….I have a sweet tooth for Mr. Elba.
I wouldnt do both but I’d have to go with LAZ! I Love Idris he is very sexy & I love his accent. But I’ve been following Laz career for a while. I even loved him in leprechaun Lmao. So Mr. Alzono I’d have to hit u up all the time not just sometimes! Hell I’d wait for you!