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Im not trying to make you feel bad about your girl.What are you talking about, forget your girlfriend this is NOT about her. I was pointing out that you wanted a girl that did not look black. Thats all my point was. and how its an example of how slavery has conditioned many blacks to think. We are physically out of slavery but some are not mentally out of slavery. Why do you think its dark vs light, black women vs black man, blk vs blk. I mean if those issues are still relevant and around(taught to us from slavery) why don’t you think that self hate, and thinking white women/men are better or anything black is bad *IS NOT AROUND*

your mind is warp for saying that its wrong for black men to be leaders in our community and for black men to take care of their black women. How isthat slave mentality??? You are poisoned if you think this is NO problem that there are all these young black boys in jail, all these blacks with aids, in gangs killing each other and fathers not taking care of their kids. Your mind is poisoned if you think as a black man we should ignore it and not pray about it. If you ignore being black, you are ignoring what is going on right now with the black community. ONCE we have healed as a race then you can ignore it. You can’t just ignore a problem and hope it will get better or go away. Do you wonder why blacks have the highest aids rate, when everyone sleeps around just as much?? If we don’t spend time acknowledging it and getting together praying about it. it won’t change.

and taking care of their women includes emotional support. But you seem to always interpret everything i say as the wrong way. I can’t believe you thought i meant materialistic. Please i hope you are just playing. Why can’t you just say yes black men should take care of their black women and their community. WHY can’t you admit that.

I never said your girlfriend has a good grain. I said HEALTHY HAIR IS GOOD. NOT the grain. So again you confused my words. You can’t control how you look anyways.

Im not trying to make you feel bad about your girl.What are you talking about, forget your girlfriend this is NOT about her. I was pointing out that you wanted a girl that did not look black. Thats all my point was. and how its an example of how slavery has conditioned many blacks to think. We are physically out of slavery but some are not mentally out of slavery. Why do you think its dark vs light, black women vs black man, blk vs blk. I mean if those issues are still relevant and around(taught to us from slavery) why don’t you think that self hate, and thinking white women/men are better or anything black is bad.

I think you may have a hard time comprehending what i have to say. it might be too much for you to handle. Do you know how young i am. So there is NO excuse for you at that age. because i am the same age you were, when you did that cruel act.

and why is it ONLY black men seem to share this love for women outside their race???

I don’t hear white, asian, or spanish men with that nonsense. They take care of theirs first.

and “things have changed” yes thats right. black men are allowed to date white women without being killed. and thats about all. the government made laws so that whites have to hire blacks. Okay.

Like i said, put black women first, because no one else will. Take care of your black women and community. Its NOT about what i want. its about what is right.

i do not speak with anger. this is not anger. trust me. You want to so bad assume i am a bitter single black women, so that you can validate or make my truth irrelevant.

THis is what you are thinking, “oh she is a bitter black women, a racist and thats why she doesn’t like seeing blacks date outside her race”

or you are saying, “oh she’s angry and irrational and too emotional and speaking out of bitterness,”

those are excuses or logical reasons you make. so that you can ignore what i have to say and not agree with it.

NO i am NONE of that. I know that black men are supposed to be the leader and take care of their black women. I speak from concern, love, and wisdom. I am NOT i will say again. I am NOT angry with you.

is it your fault we were made slaves?? are you willie lynch, did you teach yourself to hate yourself. No it is not your fault you have been condition since slavery.

i will say its your fault for not trying to listen and make up excuses.

racist. you sound racist and hateful when you said, “tanned color skin and good hair” so she has good hair because she is mixed???? I though good hair was healthy hair regardless of the grain. I mean the stuff you say really shows me how deep condition slavery has on blacks. I will pray for you.

I don’t care if you attended a christian private school that means NOTHING. Your actions shows that christ lives in you. and seeking to hurtsomeone and taking pleasure in someone’s pain is NOT christ like. and yes you were happy that your new girlfriend was white and your black ex saw her. You were gleeing.

I did not judge you one bit. But i know when i see christ. if you are a christian, i should be able to go to you as a brother and tell you that you are doing wrong. SO that is what i did brother. The bible tells you that. SO I am NOT judging you.

I am NOT scored. You are. You have shown that you are. DOn’t push your bitterness on me. I forgive people i forgave my dad and i was telling you that.That is the only man in my life who has hurt me, but i forgive him. You hold grudges and Hate your Exs, SO who is the one who is BITTER??? YOU.

I acknowledge beautiful people off all races too. I have friends of all races. BUt what does that have to do with you as a black man taking care of black women???? What im saying is NOT racist. So you are basically saying its racist for a black man to love his black women and take care of them. WELL GUESS WHAT. that is exactly what “white brainwashing” has condition you to think. Which is why our black community has suffered, cause the hate, division and abandonment. But Its GOING TO CHANGE, and starting to change now. Because black women and men will be prayerful, humble themselves in prayer. SO believe this.

I am a Godly woman first, NOT a vagina. IF you want to just lower yourself to being just a penis then that is fine.

(Check me out!)

@ Tony….

I completely understand where you’re coming from with every single post. I dont think that wait a minute is seein you eye to eye. AT ALL. I really can’t even respond to her because every validpoint or question to bring up you already have. Don’t feeel bad for having an open mind and loving everyone as a people. I dont think you were parading your ‘white woman’ in front of your black ex it sounds like it just felt good to show her she’s old news and she mmissed out. OBVIOUSLY WAIT A MINUTE missed the fact that you said you broke up with her b/c she was unappreciative and didnt listen!! LOL I DONT THINK WAIT A MINUTE LISTENS EITHER

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if tony was parading around his new girlfriend because he wanted his ex to see what she was missing. why did TOny bring up the race of the new girlfriend??? what was his Point?????

HE was trying to say that he hurt his ex black girlfriend by showing off his new white girlfriend. And he knew it would bother her even more because his new girl is a white woman.

Don’t even look at black women at all. I HOPE every black women washes their hands free of you. I will NOT pray for someone as stupid as you.

I never said DO NOT love other races, I said take care of black women first. THat does NOT mean disrespect anyone. It means go the extra mile for your black women, put them on a pedestal, marry them first. IF YOU EQUATE ANYTHING I HAVE TO SAY WITH HATE. then i think you must be a hateful man yourself.

NOthing i said was wrong.

How am I not making a valid point???? did you read my last two posts.

I can’t even argue with a blind person. DO you know what it is like to be a black women. DO YOU TRY TO UNDERSTAND. Do you even care.

If NOT then don’t speak about us.