Good Day Bossip Readers! Here’s to Thursday, one more day until weekend play! Okay so it’s no secret that sex is great … but it could be greater! So why not spice things up with a novelty accessory or two? It’s always fun and exciting to try new things with your partner and discover places and things that are pleasurable to the both of you! It heightens the intensity and passion and, ultimately, brings you closer together. Some shy away from the idea of toys and games in the bedroom but it’s something worth exploring seeing how sex get monotonous and mundane! Accessories make those wild nights that are necessary to keep that fire ablaze and desire insatiable! Here are a few ideas for some added spice to your sex life!
Game Time - okay, it sounds corny but makes for good fun! Grab a pair of sex dice at your Novelty Shop of choice! Here’s the deal, the dice are great for some good uninhibited fun … with the lights on! Ladies, don’t clam up, your man wants to watch you perform whatever the dice may roll! Remember they’re visual. Fellas, add your own rule and tell her she will be met with stiff penalties the moment you hear, “I’m not doin’ that.” Be creative and have fun with it! Let the games begin.
Fun Lubes - most of us have used the regular Astroglide or KY and have been more than turned off by the flavored lubes that are too sticky, stain and don’t taste so good. There are several higher end products that are worth every penny. Try for something like a body topping. A great line in particular is made by ‘Booty Parlor’ it’s a Skin Honey that serves as an edible lubricant and massage oil and comes in delicious flavors! Somehow it’s not sticky and the fragrance and taste is entoxicating! Sensual.
Handcuffs - an absolute necessity and they go hand-in-hand with the items listed above. There’s something about being powerless that’s a turn-on for both men and women. Not to mention it allows the person in control to peak the senses of their partner. Drizzling candle wax or lube over their body and licking it clean will drive a man/woman wild. A feather teaser, your tongue or your favorite toy will also do the trick. Just be prepared for the rapture once you release the cuffs!
Pleasure Packed Condoms - these condoms are tons of fun for both! So much so, it’s been named “revolutionary!” It’s got the ribs, of course, but it also has a soft inflated pocket called an “action pouch” that moves back and fourth. It was designed to hit different spots of the vagina while it adds extra pressure and stimulation to penile nerve endings. This is good, safe fun and apparently has changed the minds of many who don’t like condoms.
Vibrating Rings – are fun, fun, fun!! Fellas, you haven’t seen your lady go uncontrollably wild if you haven’t used one of these! The vibrating ring is a circular silicone band that you place on the base of the penis and it’s got a small vibrator with ticklers for clitoral stimulation. This makes orgasms explosive, more intense and long lasting. Please do not feel awkward about the vibrating guys … it’ll be fun for you too!
Boy Toys – this might me a little much for some fellas, but it can be fun! It can be used solo, but way more exciting with your lady! It’s an open ended penis sleeve that’s got a jelly textured inside so lube it up and go to work! It’s, in essence, a masturbatory enhancer. But if you use it with your lady she can do it for you! It’s open end leaves the head of the penis available for some oral action! This is fun fellas, give it a shot!
Sexy Furniture - who knew plushy building block looking furniture would make for good loving? The shapes of the furniture are good for preventing fatigue and staying in positions longer. The furniture is also designed to enhance angular stimulations to hit all right spots … repeatedly. Some come with built in restraints for the ankles and wrists if you’re the kinky type! While they are a little pricey, it’s worth the investment if it means steamy all nighters and incredible orgasms.
It’s okay to be adventurous, creative and indulgent with your loved one. It keeps things interesting and devoid of dull moments! Anything we missed? If so, please leave it in the thread!
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Quiana 3/4/10, 11:47:AM
wow 1st
Nique (Bossip...Bullsh!!t without Shame) 3/4/10, 11:52:AM
Im feeling the games and the Vibrating ring but y’all lost me with the cuffs.
Glok... Amerikkkaz Blk Hitler ! ! 3/4/10, 11:55:AM
NAW F.UK THAT ,..GLOK AINT PUTTING NO GADGET ON MY DIK ,..IM JERKING MINE THE OL FASHION WAY!,..F.UK TECHNOLOGY, I WILL NEVER BEAT THAT NATURAL FEELING!
Tam Tam 3/4/10, 12:02:PM
SPICY!!!!!!
a rose by any other name # 9304026339482056536 ™ 3/4/10, 12:20:PM
GLOK,, Im with you , nothing goes near my v-jay jay but the real deal and anyway while i got you here…those look like the same glittery handcuffs you used on me before you freed my pretty azz!!
Silent Swagg 3/4/10, 12:23:PM
idk about handcuffs but the vibrating ring seems so kinky
Hannibal 3/4/10, 12:24:PM
BOSSIP, NOW YOU KNOW BLACK PEOPLE DON’T USE CONDOMS
Glok... Amerikkkaz Blk Hitler ! ! 3/4/10, 12:27:PM
ROSE AND THE WAY OF YOUR LOVELY SEXY AZZ JIGGLED WHEN YOU RAN FROM THE BEDROOM WAS SUCH A PHENOMENAL SIGHT I GAVE UP AND HAD TO ROLL ANOTHER ONE ,..WHAT THIS ROUND 4?
dmo 3/4/10, 12:44:PM
Working men don’t have time for games and toys. Look when I get home maybe I’ll put a vibrating dildo up your cooch for a minute, but after that I’m piping you down till you explode then I’m going to bed. Got to work in the morning.
glok9isvery 'how you doin?' 3/4/10, 12:46:PM
Glok i’m sure you’ve used that blue boy toy a time or two in your a z z
mookiez 3/4/10, 12:52:PM
Tried them all….Good Love making u won’t be disappointed!!!!!!!!
krimsonluv 3/4/10, 12:55:PM
all of it sounds interesting!!!!
krimsonluv 3/4/10, 12:59:PM
@HANNIBAL SPEAK FOR YOSELF HOMIE!!!
cain 3/4/10, 01:10:PM
Fellas better wake up soon!!! We like women to cum to bed in outfits/heels & perform all those sexual favors our devious minds can conjour… you’ve got to provide them the same sort of XXXcitement!! Otherwise you’ll wonder why she’s “not interested” in sex anymore… well at least not yours!!! A lil kink goes a very long way…………….
Jr. Cruster 3/4/10, 01:15:PM
Don’t forget Ruthies. They always come in handy for those ninja b*tches who like to play too hard to f*ck.
chocalatetunda 3/4/10, 01:28:PM
NOT A BAD LIST BOSSIP. HANNIBAL SHUT UP. U DONT KNOW WHO USE CONDOMS OR NOT. THAT WAS A DUMB COMMENT
Hannibal 3/4/10, 01:35:PM
CHOCOLATETUNDA, YOU SHUT UP!
enkogkneegro 3/4/10, 01:42:PM
I ain’t see the Majic Bullet nowhere in that list…….
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Glok... Amerikkkaz Blk Hitler ! ! 3/4/10, 01:50:PM
NO NEVER BUT I DID USE IT ON YOUR MOMMA WHEN THAT FAT HEIFER WAS SLEEP CLOKING ZZZZZZZ !
ajus 3/4/10, 01:51:PM
Good article Bossip. Don’t forget a good old fashion vibe!!!
B3 Fearless 3/4/10, 02:06:PM
Good list Bossip.
@ Glok
You are such a prude. You need some one to handcuff you, ride that d i c k and ravage you a bit. You talk too much about going hard when you have sex with women and it’s guys like you who melt when a female like me takes over. Ain’t nothing wrong with a guy letting, go relaxing and letting the female take over once in a while.
That is all.
B3 Fearless 3/4/10, 02:08:PM
@ajus
I disagree. For some of females vibrators just don’t do it. Vibrators and vibrating toys are nice for foreplay but to get my orgasms I need a d i c k.
always knew 3/4/10, 02:44:PM
I’m just wondering when could handcuffs in the bedroom, ever be a good thing…The very nature of handcuffs is to restrict..I just don’t see anything good happening while handcuffed. Sorry, I just don’t..
MochaLove 3/4/10, 02:59:PM
Uh oh!! I like this list!! I have two pieces of that furniture! Ohhhhh my goodness, as simple as they look, they’re so much fun and the angle play is so real.
Where is everybody?? All the Bossip freaks are lunchin’….
B3 Fearless 3/4/10, 03:08:PM
@always knew
The lure of being handcuffed is the feeling of helplessness, completely letting go and letting some one take control and have their way with you is a turn on; it’s exciting.
I would recommend doing it with your eyes closed or with a blind fold because your senses are heightened. Just think about it.
Your partner handcuffs you to the bed, you don’t know what they are going to do to you, how they’ll tease you, how they’ll touch/lick you, when they’ll enter. It’s nice for role play. It’s exciting and fun and I have always felt comfortable doing this this with a couple ex-bf’s.
I slightly prefer using the handcuffs on my partner because it’s that feeling of power that’s a turn on. Being in control of turning your man on, seeing some one so strong & confident all the time for the moment appearing helpless, ready and waiting for you to do whatever you want to him. It’s a great feeling. And then to watch his expressions and the way his body moves as you turn him on sensually and build him up so that he has major climax.
I’m telling you, you don’t know what your missing out on girl.
Sorry if I was too graphic and offended you. I’m celibate so talking about this got old memories all stirred up and such. My bad.
Glok... Amerikkkaz Blk Hitler ! ! 3/4/10, 03:18:PM
B3 FEARLESS!
DONT TALK CHIT ,..DO ME BABY…IM ALL YOURS AND YOU CAN HAVE YOUR WAY WITH ME, CHIT! ,..HOLLA!
MochaLove 3/4/10, 03:30:PM
Okay I’m just now reading the comments and I gotta say that some of you are waaaaay too prude. Men think of the nastiest sh*t and even if you perform a fraction of the fantasy, they’re content! What wrong with handcuffs?? I agree with B3 Fearless, being in total control and relinquishing the control are equally arousing. So so so so much fun! I would urge anyone to try it before you knock it! AND DON’T FORGET THAT WJAT YOU WON’T DO SOMEONE ELSE WILL!! Let your inner freak out and keep your boos!
B3 Fearless 3/4/10, 03:55:PM
@ Glok
LOL as tempting as that sounds, you wouldn’t be able to handle me boo. I’ve read your posts and I’m a lil freakier than you are…besides you obviously didn’t read my last post cuz I’m practicing celibacy until God brings the right gentleman along to be my husband.
@MochaLove
Tell them girl. It amazes me how ppl will criticize things they have never even tried. Plus, when your with somebody for a long time you have to keep things spicy & fresh.
always knew 3/4/10, 04:18:PM
@B3 Fearless- just read your post..
**blushing**
ok..lol ok..
MochaLove 3/4/10, 04:25:PM
@ B3 Fearless
I am also celibate and loving it! Your body truly rewards you for the discipline. Can’t stress that enough. So maybe that’s why when I do get it I’m all for the handcuffs, freaky dice, lube and whatever else! Did I mention I have the furniture?? It’s all about creativity and fearlessness!! Get those handcuffs and have some fun girls!! No wonder why so many men go astray….too many things a lot of women just won’t do.
Blacktino 3/4/10, 04:43:PM
DAMMIT MAN. Yall got all these pictures and what not! I can’t read this at work
eve 3/4/10, 04:53:PM
Now I’ve don everything on here… NEXT!
tiffany 3/4/10, 05:07:PM
NICE!!
B3 Fearless 3/4/10, 05:28:PM
@MochaLove
I know girl about the celibacy and about women needing to step their game up by getting a little freakier in bed.
Alright my sis. Talkin this mess on the net today, it’s a good thing I’m leaving work now to go sing at a church service.
New Kid 3/4/10, 08:06:PM
Reading he post and comments is waking up my inner-freak from hibernation, I didn’t even know she was there lol
New Kid 3/4/10, 08:07:PM
*the
Brazilian Godess 3/4/10, 08:57:PM
Soo I work @ an adult store and i tried most of that stuff..vibrating rings are both for both men and women! Me and my fiance loved the virbations! Plus it will make ur d!ck more sensitive too! Handcuffs are fun too..Dont knock it til u try it ppl!**
BrooklynBee 3/4/10, 09:20:PM
HOT!
Love Hangover 3/4/10, 09:41:PM
i can see me using handcuffs, but not on myself but on my boo coz he’s been bad so i’d be needing it on him. so when we’re done, then i’ll tell him, “bye!”
priceless_shay 3/4/10, 11:37:PM
Sooo into thoes hand cuffs gotta do those asap
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HOT!!
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