yall act like she cant pull her a white man

In the words of the almighty Negro spiritual, “I’m not goin’ to be able to do it!!”

The new Gabby knows that the chobros r not thirsty for the newGabby, she stepped on a good foot tho!!!

We welcome her with open arms! Go Gaby!

Because she knows better. Get you some Gabby!!!!

Firstttttttttttttttt

I would hit that too

Girl, PLEASE!

If this is correct, imma have to give her a LOUD…

“HO SIT DOWN….ALL THE WAY DOWN!”

Black people, y’all really make your self-hate apparent when y’all talk about dating outside of your race as if it’s some type of prize.

she’s DELUSIONAL…those white men don’t want that BUGGABEAR!

Does it matter what she likes? Even more importantly, it doesnt mean she doesn’t like black men. She’s in hollywood! She likes it all.

Go Gabby!

He is fine as hell…I’m with Gabby

Hey whatever makes u happy…
Everyone regardless of your nationality, religion and weigh size all need love.

I don’t know about Gerard Butler. His abs were on point in 300, but he’s so-so to me.

Isn’t this art imitating life…imitating art.

In PRECIOUS, didnt she dream about getting a light skinned boyfriend with good hair (which is 2nd prize in the I wanna get white person contest). Maybe she’s just a more refined version of her character without all the abuse. The fact that she’s calling out all these WHITE GUYS is really disturning.

There are PLENTY of brotha’s that would be with her. Some black men LOVE a BIG GURL – especially with the success shes having. So thats no excuse.

This is SAD.

I MEAN CHRIS TUCKER!!!!!!!!!!!

I’m starting to like Gabby and Gerard Butler is fine pre and post “300″.He is ruggedly attractive and that accent whew boy!#dontjudgeme,lmao!

I’m kind of tired of seeing her now.

She just tryin to get in where she fit in, so leave her alone!

Hey – do u Gabby! As much as the black man chases behind white women why shouldn’t she try to swirl! Get yours boo!

Ewwwwwwwwwww……… thats all ima say

*weight*

she was probably joking. i wouldn’t take her comment literally.

Leave the girl alone. People want what they want. I sincerely hope she gets what she wants. Life’s too short, man…Go for it Gabs!

Like my man BIGGIE says…Heartthrob never black and ugly as ever

I think gabourey is a beautiful black woman. Its a shame that so many of you are very ignorant to put her down. The only reason you are is because she is a darkskinned black woman. If she was lightskinned and a size 0 she would be put on a pedestal and it would not matter who she was interested in. even though its 2010 people still discriminate against darker skinned women. This is why I admire her because she is confident and overlooks ignorance instead of letting it bring her down. Hey those of you who are putting her down she was an oscar nominee ARE YOU! SO LOOK AT YOURSELF BEFORE YOU PUT THE NEXT ONE DOWN.

When Gerard Butler talks there is something about the side of his mouth that is weird.

@kychelle

Get real. She is obese. Morbidly so. No one is supposed to find that attractive on any skin tone.

if Khloe can find love I’m sure Gabby can too! (No offence intended )Some guys love the more ‘curvacious’ lady, some guys like linebacker builds others like skrawny types. Different strokes for different folks. They might see the magic that we don’t or can’t see!

There’s someone for everyone.

Every time I see this chick I feel like loosing my lunch. Nothing against FAT chicks, but blah. Chick is in lala land if she thinks any of these dudes would want to sleep with all that dam jelly…blah. Feel the shine for now, but don’t none of those white men want you, may use you for a little shine and then bounce.

I think its funny all the women in here are against the swirl when its some prominent black male athlete, but now that this HUGE woman wants a white man its ” whatever makes her happy” or some other BS

Some of you guys need to get real. Gabby is uber-talented, charming, sweet, and funny. However, she is also morbidly obese, which immediately takes her off the radar of 99.9% of the men in America, black or white. Is that superficial? Of course it’s also the truth.

None of the comments here reflected any sort of derogatory comments about her being dark-skinned, so those of you making that she is being rejected for her skin tone may need to fall back. If she were “high yella”, and the same size, there still wouldn’t be a line of guys around the corner waiting to scoop her up. You guys need to quit acting like it’s okay to be morbidly obese, or that anyone who notices that about her is trying to keep a black woman down.

She likes white men the way black men like white women. Same difference.

Gimmeabreak, come on now, I have seen females on here insult Seal and other black males easily. Let any wacky looking white boy come on and these sistas rant and rave like he Pitt or clooney.

Like the brotha said, there are plenty of men, black men who would date her. I think she is a pretty woman in the face but needs to lose the girth.

The problem with you is that you been living in this self absorbed Western world, In Africa this woman would be good. Its only here with you sideways Jim Crow Westernized negros who got something say.

I find it funny

@Gimmeabreak

I agree.

kigali- Life for Dummies

3/9/10, 13:01:pm

@kychelle

Get real. She is obese. Morbidly so. No one is supposed to find that attractive on any skin tone.

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yes i do agree 100%.

i wonder if they did pop some bottles.hes not ugly but hes not cute. hes alright. presentable i will say

Gabby is a wonderfully talented young lady and I am proud of her accomplishments; HOWEVER, just because she is in the limelight now does not mean that she should not filter what comes out of her mouth. I often cringe at some of the things that she says in interviews. It is one thing to be confident, but another to be tacky..

@Jordan

I find it funny that you are telling a Nigerian woman what the standards of beauty are in Africa. In Nigeria, this woman would have a hard time finding a husband at her size. If you live in a major metropolitan area, you should go down to your local African market and buy some Nigerian CDs or DVDs and check out what the women on the cover art or the actresses in the films look like and follow back up with me later.

This BIG bytch had the nerve to say “ID HIT THAT” ..Bytch you are at the OSCARS and you got the nerve to be ghetto and say sum shyt like that..

I just look at her and im disgusted

Wow…why does so my thought have to go into everything? This all happened in the matter of seconds and yet is blown out of proportion. Gerard Butler is hott who gives a ish about race or color. Does she have to bow her head or something or could she appreciate a good looking man. Just a bunch of hater on this site foreal.

People say crap under their breath all the time…he wasn’t supposed to hear that…

People congratulate this woman for being all confident and sh*t about her looks but I think she has tippped over into the delusional world of crazy a bit. She talks about being happy to be big and s**t but she wants a man who is the opposite of her in appearance and that man is supposed to want her regardless of her looks? Her mama is the same way. She sings for money in the subways of Brooklyn and she looks like her daughter. Gabby would never be attractive to Rick Ross or Gucci because they look too much like her. It’s alright to be confident but you also need to be logical and rational about your chances in a relationship when you look like her. I don’t think she is confident I think there is a screw loose in her head. She is like those anorexic women who are as skinny as a rail but when they look in the mirror they see a whale. I think Gabby has delusions like that, I think there are emotional and mental problems going on inside her side but she puts up such a good front to the world we don’t see it that way. I might be wrong, I hope I am, but there is something about her mentally that is not right.

I think it’s about time people stopped using curvy and curvaceous as euphemisms for fat. I say call a spade a spade. If someone is fat than that’s what they should be called. Being PC only does nothing do encourage fat people to lose weight.

I think it’s about time people stopped using curvy and curvaceous as euphemisms for fat. I say call a spade a spade. If someone is fat than that’s what they should be called. Being PC only does nothing do encourage fat people to lose weight.

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LMAO …Just wanted to add the word thick to that

@Diamond

I hope you say the same thing for the black men who date the white girls….

Typical black person holding a interracial relationship as a prize, black people value love with members outside of their race more then they do with individuals inside of their race. The obsession with interracial dating is becoming a little bit strange and awkward.

What I find funny is that women swear that they aren’t as superficial as men when they are more so in most cases. Either way, Gabby isn’t attractive to me and a lot of white men think that women with Beyonce’s shape needs to lose weight, chew on that for a second.

It has nothing to do with being superficial. She’s superficial herself because she would never date a dark-skinned obese man. People are visual creatures and this woman is not curvy or even fat she is obese! Don’t put down men who don’t see the beauty in a woman of this size because there is nothing wrong with wanting a woman to look like a woman and not a whale. Just listening to her talk about the men she likes tells me that she is as shallow as they come.

@Gimme

I was waiting for you to respond to Jordan. LOL.

beautiful black women like Naomi Campbell, Jessica White and Jourdan get all the male attention they want, black and white. I’m not saying you have to be as slim as they are but you should at least have some kind of feminine shape to attract the males. A nice personality can’t do it all. Gabby has convinced herself that a sparkling personality is all she needs and she is wrong and somebody needs to tell her the truth.

Oooops sorry I think that may have been me that said curvacious…..just trying to be polite and I did cover with quotation marks! But as I said everyone has different tastes you and I may see her and think diet others may see her and wanna feed her then breed her

How old is she anyway? I know she is young and should have never let herself get in this condition. She should date Gucci Man or Rick her counterparts in looks.

@ Diamond

No one is denying that the girl is talented. However, she is morbidly obese and this is something which should not be celebrated. We don’t praise anorexia and we should not praise obesity.

@Kigali

I was waiting for you to respond to Jordan. LOL.
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I was struck by the fact he thinks that morbid obesity is generally applauded in Africa, when in reality, it’s not even possible in most parts of Africa to access food with the preservative and additive content that would facilitate morbid obesity. It’s interesting he has that misconception, because most African diets are not full of the processed meats and cheeses that are common in America.

I dont think she is morbidly obese like you guys are saying…shes BIG but Ive seen BIGGER

@ sweet choco

That is very true

SHE NEED TO GET HERSEFL A TREADMILL BEFORE SHE STARTS TO FANTASIZING ON WHO SHE WANT’S TO DATE.

I do not think there is anything wrong with acknowledging the fact that this girl has a beautiful face and beautiful skin…but I also don’t think there is anything wrong with acknowledging the fact that she is morbidly obese…It’s the truth, and no matter what her skin color is, a woman this big is not going to have ANY men knocking her door down to go out with her….She’s got a great personality and a good heart and she’s pretty. If she loses that weight, she’ll be doing the grand…

Gabourey makes black women look desperate. She really needs to take a chill pill and sit down for a bit.

I thought asian women were desperate for some White meat but this chick here takes the cake literally LMFAO!!! not a good look smfh

@ Robert

taps him on the shoulder… “Excuse me, Bruh, but I think you mean Willie Lynch…” That is all.

@I Am Legend

She does have a pretty face. You are letting the fatness and humongous cheeks get in the way of seeing this…

@Caramel Cat

Im not lettin any of that get in the way …nothing about her is remotely cute ..but hey if you think shes “beautiful” then thats your choice, but in my eyes she is UGLY

At least she has good taste.

Some broads (see Woopie) spend way too much time rationalizing why they end up with white dudes. Look, it aint all about looks either, I’ve met plenty of BW who just wuddent mentally keyed to be with a BM especially in a LTR or married to one.

Some have been so thoroughly mentally tampered with, they are completely programmed to marginalize and question anything a BM says or does. Now imagine being in a relationship with a female like that!

That being said, you can tell if they have this slant in the first conversation, if they even get that far to even speak with you, so I say no harm, no foul. I wouldn’t wish a broad like these on any Brother, to tell the truth.

And I second what many have said about folks trying to make being obese “ok”. It’s not, and it shows a complete lack of will power and flat out lazyness on some of their parts. Not all of them have thyroid problems either they just refuse to push up off that table…

Who gives a F@@K!

HOLLYWOOD CAN DO TWO THINGS WITH HER LET HER STAY THAT SIZE OR HELP HER TO LOSE THE WEIGHT NATURALLY ,..BUT THAT A RISK TAKER WILL SHE BE THE SAME PERSON IF SHE OSES IT ,..WILL SHE ATTRACT THE SAME AMOUNT OF BUZZ SKINNY AS SHE DID WHEN SHE WAS A BBW…I HOPE SHE COMES TO COMMON GROUND AND PLZ BOTH …SHE HAS A LOT OF LOVE TO GIVE …AND WHITE MEN LIKE SKINNY BLK WOMAN,…THEY THINK OVER 130 ON A WOMAN IS OVER WEIGHT!

@JORDAN- Very well said and I learned something new today.

As for my personal opinion on Ms. Gabby she is okay to me face wise, but I agree with others (minus the harshness)that the weight is a distraction. I hope that she will see that loosing weight (not saying she has to be a size 0 or even a size 7) will keep her around much longer, so, that she can enjoy the fruits of her labor.

Um…OK…

I want Gerard Butler too…

These stories are stupid. They are just trying to gin up some publicity. She was probably just excited to see him.

I would have jumped him.

I know Gerald Butler and Jennifer Aniston are dating and they both expressed how fond they are of one another. I tell you Jennifer Aniston has dated just about everybody in Hollywood. Gerald Butler he looked good in “300″ but something about his mouth, maybe the noticeable overbite just throws me off, he is alright looking.

“I’m not going to come on here and say that a white woman would date rodman before a black woman would, because I am not a self loathing negro. Now I see why the brothas are leaving you black females for someone a little brighter, and merrier, cant come home to a woman who thinks a white man is ideal match.”

LOL – will you all listen to this ignorant black b*stard! Now you have an issue with Gabby wanting a light bright or white man yet you sayin the same sentence you understand black men wanting light bright or white women? LOL! Black men are a funny species!

Who cares who she likes? She’s a young woman having a great time and meeting very different types of people. Let her have her fun.

LOL! Look at all the anger at a balck women justifying why she dates white while the black man will blame everyone with a pulse for being the reason he chases after white women like catnip! Black men are truly a funny species!

“Black women are just thirsty for white men. It has become a joke. Most white men think black women are w*****s. That is why 99% of white men date and marry white women.”

Well suprisingly thats the case with all groups of men. For the most part ALL groups of men gravitate towards their own women. Its only our plantation mentality negros who equate white skin with perfection to the point of abandoning their own!

The reason why she is not yelln at the chocolate fellas is because they all have court dates lol

@ Jordan
You’re right about that—when I went to Burkina Faso for the first time,we were invited to a wedding.Do you know the woman had to live separately from her intended husband for one whole month and just eat and eat until she gets fatter,they keep her in a house where women just feed her all day and night,because men there DO NOT like small women.The same is apparent in Ghana,especially Cape Coast where I saw men with women, some even bigger than this lady Gabourey here.
However,their reasons are from lack of education—they are not taught about health the way many other countries are,they were not told of the risks of hypertension and diabetes thats rampant in the black community,many of them are not aware of the problems obesity causes.I can’t tell you how many people we met in different parts of Africa kept trying to make me eat all sorts of food and saying I was too small.

whoever used Dennis Rodman as a supporting example for their point obviously didn’t get the memo that Dennis is a crazy cross-dressing weirdo…maybe THAT’S why black women didn’t want him…lmfao!

and…I think this same person said that there are PLENTY of black men who find Whoopi Goldberg to be beautiful…

*crickets*

I TRULY want to be introduced to these men, because EVERY black man I know thinks she is tore down!

I actually don’t believe she’s as confident as she makes out. In the interviews I’ve seen and read it just seems like she needs to point out how great she looks or how confident she is. In my opinion, it really does seem like a facade.

lol, ppl plz don’t take her comment personal (specifically blk men), she is just having fun & getting in where she fit in! Dannggg… yall will go on & on all day about the same stuff! She definitely needs to loose weight since she is still so young. It shouldn’t even be about the way she looks it should be about her health. So what if she likes white men? So what if a blk men likes white women? It shouldn’t matter as long as the luv between a man and a woman is genuine. & Seal & Heidi is a perfect example of a beautiful genuine swirl couple. I have mad respect for them bcuz I know the luv is real. Now Khloe & Lamar….. no comment….

@Caramael Cat

Thank you! I don’t know what that guy was talking about. Biggie Smalls was and still is admired as a rap artist but definitely not for being a looker. Although he still had plenty of groupie love from Black females.

You hit the nail on the head for why most Black women did not want Dennis Rodman because there were some that did find him attractive, but he was crazy and has substance abuse problems. I’m not going to say no BF’s wanted him and I’m not going to say that about Whoopi because there are always those who share different tastes and point of view.

Whoopi did say years ago that she dates whoever asks her and I’m sorry, but I believe her. She obviously doesn’t discriminate because her daughter’s father is Black.

@B3 Fearless

Right!

I actually have a girlfriend that used to think Dennis Rodman was fine! I always thought he had a nice body, but the face was busted….at any rate, once he started showing WHO he was, people started realizing that he had a few loose screws! lmao!

@CARAMEL CAT & B3 FEARLESS- I never looked not even once at Dennis Rodman, but there is someone for everyone, I’m just not one of them. I can’t…if the face is not attractive I could careless to see the rest.

LOL – again – at all these n i g g a s up in here doggign this sista over her weight knowing DARN WELL if she were white the so called brothas would be trying to wife her up as they so often do fat white women! You all are HYPOCRITS! I laugh harder with every post! No this girl is not healthy and hopefully she will work on her weight but lets stop acting like the black man doesn’t seek this size woman out in white skin!

@CARAMEL CAT & B3 FEARLESS- I believe he is white, and her current one is too.

“She needs to go back to college to get her degree because I can’t see her playing anything but ghetto roles like Precious. I think she might also might be suffering from a delusional disorder and she doesn’t realize it. She has grandiose opinion about herself that is not based in reality.”

Grandiose? Why can’t she just be proud of who she is? Isit because you’re self hating and self loathing she she has to be as well?

@ Robert

Biggie Smalls first baby mom’s looked like a female version of him. He married Faith Evans, dated Lil Kim & Charli Baltimore. Those are all BW so I’m not sure where you’re getting the BW don’t want that type. I’ve seen plenty BW with guys who look like that and less attractive. Everybody in the world know that BM are much more critically of BW looks than BW could ever dream to be of BM.

He is GORGEOUS!

Gimme, do you find Seal attractive and would you date him.

Would you date Dennis Rodman as well, would you date and marry Biggie Smalls.

Floor is open to you baby girl,

I’m just trying to figure out the length of her career given her size, I mean if its tough for black women to land roles in Hollywood in general so once the hoopla dies down on Precious what kinda roles will be waiting for a 475 lbs black actress???

ol girl mess around and catch her summin like kimora lee baby daddy or seal .. one of dem African mandingo nizzaz who like a big chic like her. She in entertainment now too, she can get any dude in Africa..

PS:

I would date Gaby if she lost some pounds, but it is not her looks that I have a problem with. To me she is a beautiful woman, it is her size.

She has a beautiful face, but her size is a problem for me.

This isn’t a question about beauty per se, it is a question about do you like fat women, in my case I would love to date her if she lost some pounds.

I stay in shape and it is difficult to stay in shape, so I want someone who also stays in shape. If you are looking for black men who are Ghandi, you are in the wrong room baby girl. There are men who do find her attractive, many black men are chubby chasers, I am not.

Dont put on another person what you wouldn’t put on yourself. If you would date and Marry Biggie Smalls, than I would date and marry Gaby

q

@RobertMy comment wasnt about Rodman really, it was about rebutting a posters comment about a white male dating Gaby before a black male. Some self hate *****, where a black man is more materialistic than a white man. The funniness in that comment is beyond preposterous.
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What is preposterous is your failure to answer the question “Would you date her?” I see you talked all around that subject “brother”.

@RobertMy comment wasnt about Rodman really, it was about rebutting a posters comment about a white male dating Gaby before a black male. Some self hate *****, where a black man is more materialistic than a white man. The funniness in that comment is beyond preposterous.
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What is preposterous is your failure to answer the question “Would you date her?” I see you talked all around that subject “brother”. SAMF

@Gimmeabreak

I swear folks today act as if speaking the truth is shameful, its tow the line or be considered a hater of whatever. Gabby shows talent and earned her time to shine..good for her. But in my opinion attractive she’s not and its not because I hate black women I don’t find obese women attractive, black, white or brown ain’t my thing nor the majority of men but I know there is someone out there for everyone and I wish her the best.

DaHonestTruth ~ I Will ALWAYS Keep It Real
3/9/10, 14:57:pm
LOL – again – at all these n i g g a s up in here doggign this sista over her weight knowing DARN WELL if she were white the so called brothas would be trying to wife her up as they so often do fat white women! You all are HYPOCRITS! I laugh harder with every post! No this girl is not healthy and hopefully she will work on her weight but lets stop acting like the black man doesn’t seek this size woman out in white skin!
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I can’t speak for all brothers, but I can definitely speak for myself, and I can honestly say that I dated plenty of snowbunnies, and I NEVER EVER got one that was overweight. Personally, I don’t even try to holler at a female I don’t find attractive…I just DON’T..And to be honest, there’s Black men that would holler at Gabby, and the ones that get at fat white girls are the same ones that would get at Gabby, too. Some guys just like fat women…I mean there’s nothing wrong with it, but personally, that’s just not for me…

THIS IS SPARRRRRRRTAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!

Day walker your a white girl dater, the funny thing is your comment makes sense. Day, I always thought you were a sister dater, from your comments I would have thought so. Do the white women treat you better or are they just merrier than these females on here.

Im not really attracted to white broads like that, but these black women in here got me thinking. How is it on the other side brotha, since these heffas talk about it than why not the brothas talk about the white girls.

@Jordan,

I am not African. I would date Seal. Hell yes. Hell yes.

enkogkneegro
3/9/10, 15:40:pm
@Gimmeabreak

I swear folks today act as if speaking the truth is shameful, its tow the line or be considered a hater of whatever. Gabby shows talent and earned her time to shine..good for her. But in my opinion attractive she’s not and its not because I hate black women I don’t find obese women attractive, black, white or brown ain’t my thing nor the majority of men but I know there is someone out there for everyone and I wish her the best.
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You got that right, Uncle E!!! I mean some dudes can holla at big women like it’s nothin, but I just can’t do it. If I’m not attracted by a female, I don’t holler…

@Kigali

I would date Seal too. He’s got a body that’s off the charts and seems like a very nice man that knows how to treat his lady…

lololzzz

He said “good mac and cheese…”

@Ms. Jones …uh-ruh…i think u may be onto something there…

“enkogkneegro
3/9/10, 15:40:pm
@Gimmeabreak

I swear folks today act as if speaking the truth is shameful, its tow the line or be considered a hater of whatever. Gabby shows talent and earned her time to shine..good for her. But in my opinion attractive she’s not and its not because I hate black women I don’t find obese women attractive, black, white or brown ain’t my thing nor the majority of men but I know there is someone out there for everyone and I wish her the best.
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You got that right, Uncle E!!! I mean some dudes can holla at big women like it’s nothin, but I just can’t do it. If I’m not attracted by a female, I don’t holler…”

The issue is that when the truth is being spoken about the black man or the trashy white wh&res he likes to wife up its ALWAYS an issue so why shoud the sista be forced to take her flaws on the chin but the minute she points out the flaws of others she’s a hater?

@CAramel Cat,

Yes Seal is nice and he does have a lovely body and I love his thighs. I like sprinter thighs on a man. No skinny legs.

@ebonieladi, the do love the sisters, don’t let the media fool you. I am speaking from experience. I can say one thing about this younglady, she does have good taste in white men. Justin & this guy are handsome. I would date them too if I were younger and looking. LOL

@give NAS a LIFETIME ACHIEVMENT AWARD

Your post is really funny to me. I actually have always hung around my ‘kind’ meaning other black women that I work with. My friends are black women. I am well-paid and highly educated, and I have dated white men in the PAST. I have not had to change the way I act or my personality to carry on these relationships…it just flowed freely…I also have a good close friend who is married to a white man and she has ALL black friends and acts so-called ‘black’ herself…

*shrugs shoulders* maybe it’s just in the part of the country that YOU live in…smh….

I dont date snow bunnies and dont find them attractive caramel, maybe I am mistaken him for someone else. I always thought he was a real brotha who was into black women.

@ Robert

Lol. I do not find Seal attractive. Not bcuz of his skin color bcuz the way he looks. He have dents in his face. I will date any blk men. African, Nigerian, African American, Jamaican, Dominican, Cuban, Puerto Rican it doesn’t matter to me. I have no prefernce when it come to blk men. I love all colors & all shades.

@ Jordan

When u have seen morbid obese women like her in poverty strivken neighborhoods u dn’t know what these womnen have gone thru. Instead of judging y not do something to help them out. Thts exactly why I am trying to build all women’s gyms in poverty stricken areas in 2 cities.

@Caramel Cat

I thought the same thing. I didnt even know DayWalker has even dated a white chick before. He seems like he just likes very attractive sistas. Bless him.

“@CAramel Cat,

Yes Seal is nice and he does have a lovely body and I love his thighs. I like sprinter thighs on a man. No skinny legs.”

Right – aren’t you married to/have kids by an African man, Kigali? C’mon I know who you are and what’s up! Is he still with you or did he leave you yet?

@Kigali

lol, is that you????

Yeah, I knew Daywalker had dated white women before but I don’t think he’s in this thread praising their greatness…I think the other guy is missing his point…

@Tru Diva

“When u have seen morbid obese women like her in poverty strivken neighborhoods u dn’t know what these womnen have gone thru.”

Yes we do. They have gone thru too many bag of doritos and buckets of chicken.

Howard Stern disses everybody equally , he didnt say anything racist. he talked about her fatness

@give NAS a LIFETIME ACHIEVMENT AWARD

Lol, first and foremost, I’m on here in the middle of the day like most of the other people in this thread…during breaks at work, it makes the day go by. Secondly, calm your nerves, I’m not personally attacking you, but more so what you said and how pigeon-holed it was…thirdly, I never said I was rich or anything like that, but I don’t have to prove a point on here because most of the regular bloggers pretty much converse with me on a regular…Like me, others on here are well-educated and cultured…I just thought your statements were a little uninformed…I digress…

They can keep her!! Thank God we just lost another fat sister to the other side – they can have fat ones, but, leave the pretty ones alone..

@Jordan
Cosign 100%.. I need some chocolate girls from Ghana – your girls have @ss for days brother.. etisien .. akwaaba Ghana..Lol!!!

@ star,

co-sign to everything you wrote.

Jordan

STFU!

@ DaHonestTruth ~ I Will ALWAYS Keep It Real

if white men liked fat white women you wouldn’t have needed to chase down a balck man for companionship, would you have?

-hhhhhmmmmmmm…. good point!

I may have to go overseas, these black women here are something else. Yeah they seem to be nothing but grief, and actually think that more white men go out with dark skin women than black men.

Last time I checked in Africa and the world, black men were the number one men who date dark skin women, this includes myself who prefers them over off colored sistas. Smh, little did I know that white males date them more than me or other black men.

American sistas, Willie Lynch syndrome, gotta love it. And they are co signing what this woman is saying. Its comedy.

@DAYWALKER(THE DAYDREAM!!!)

Still bragging about the white women you can get? I find it amusing that you have to point out their features like blond hair and blue eyes. The media has taught the good little plantation negr0 well. You idolize european features.

The difference about you and I is that I date white men because they are mature. I never brag about them having blue eyes and blond hair, who the hell cares? LMFAO

I saw you on here the other day talking crap about black women that date white men. Well buddy get use to it because that interracial combo is on the rise!!!! white men/black women is in now. I made love to my white man last night as a matter of fact, does that infuriate you? TO BAD IT WILL CONTINUE HAPPENING!!!

@daywalker- you experiences are your own but you dead wrong for that.. (about blk womn)

and about Gabby- why is it wrong for her to like whoever? If blk guys don’t want her,then what’s wrong? I don;t get it, there’s always this double standard…Blk guys can do it and it’s ok… ALthough, for myself, it’s a comfort thing, I could NEVER be with anyone other than a blk man,. That’s natural to me, and my preference, no matter howmany bros swirl, it up…

@ Plagueis The Wise

wooowww…. the last time I checked Ruben Studdard was married to a black woman. & Rick Ross was engaed to a dark skin blk woman. U ppl r so hedious!

@Daywalker

Ok, your response was NOT what I expected…I noticed how intricately you detailed all these white women you dated but when you got to your current girlfriend, the descriptions stopped…okey dokey…I usually ride with you on your sentiments, because I have swirled before too, but not because I thought these men were any ‘better’ than black men…but only because I find men of ALL races attractive… *shrugs shoulders*

@Caramel Cat

exactly sista, These c00ns in our community are running ramped. They f_ck a few whites chicks and they suddenly feel they are sitting on top of the world. LMFAO so pathetic. He is pointing out the blue eyes and blond hair like that is something special as well. What an imbecile.

When I date white men I don’t have to point out their European features. That is a little much but leave it up to these black men. They are something else girl I tell you.

They stick their d_ck into something non black and they feel validated. smfh w/e

I want her to leave the white meat, red meat, and any other kind of meat alone, along with the carbs,trans-fats etc. She really needs to work on Gabby, become presentable before offering herself to someone. She is not healthy or attractive looking the way she does. I am with Howard Stern on this one.

It is funny how everyone is trying not to be offensive to her. When in reality they probably want nothing to do with her. Truth be told she is obese and I hope young people are not looking at her and thinking that it is ok. When it is actually disgusting.

Realist, good to hear another educated brotha tell it like it is. Yeah, the Ghanaian women are great, they are cute, they cook and clean and dont give you no grief.

They also love being black which is something of a novelty these days.

Very beautiful dark skin women who are educated and love themselves. This whole white men dating more dark skin women than black men is preposterous, I am not even going to debate this idiocy with some of you self hating women.

If you want a white male that is fine, if you hate being Dark skin/black or whatever than that is fine but dont make asinine comments for the entire race when factually the comment is erroneous.

You black women on this continent are only seeing what you want to see because you hate yourselves so much that you have reprogrammed yourselves to think white males date dark skin women more than black males.

That is like me saying that white women date dark skin men more than black women. When factually that is not true. Go out and find a male, he doesn’t have to be shemar moore, but that is what a lot of you self hating women want in a man which is Good hair and until you love yourself no one else will.

“- lMAO WOOOWWW… U really think all blk men r this way??? Come on now! I know sum brothas r like this but not all!”

Are all black american women what these plantation mentality having negroes are in here calling us?

i respect what gabby has achieved but she does need to lose some weight if she wants to start dating white men. i can understand where she is coming from, i have always been attracted to white men.
i have no idea why but i have, i have never been attracted to black men but i love black culture and yes white men do prefer slim black women

It is funny that black women get angry at Daywalker about his feeling about white women and being attracted to them.

I saw a lot of black women saying they would date and chase Gerard, no black males said anything negative.

Why is it when a black male dates or talks about a white woman it is a sell out or self hating negro. But when it is a black woman she is a liberated woman. It is almost like a waiting to exhale moment.

Daywalker kept it real, that is his opinion, he broke it down, and with all the issues you black American women have I tend to agree with him.

you haven’t notice he likes to hear himself

cause no one else will brag about his azz

yesterday he put the black women down and

he is doing it again

bet he the throw away nigg*r we don’t want

fu*ck you bytch

Wow, well, this conversation isn’t what I expected to find. . .

@Day

“”But the AFRICAN AMERICAN girls I’ve dated don’t give ya anything but grief, dawg…”"

I’m sorry, but isn’t your current girlfriend African American, or am I mistaken?

And I’m not sure if I understand how someone who supposedly is in a happy, loving relationship with a black woman can complain constantly about them. Something doesn’t seem quite right.

@DAYWALKER(THE DAYDREAM!!!)

You still never responded as to why you have to point out the features of these white women, yet you stopped pointing out features when it came to your black girlfriend. Just admit you find european features more appealing, instead of stringing that poor girlfriend of yours along. She doesn’t deserve a man that gets on a blog site and insults her qualities while placing other races of women on a pedestal.

I on the other hand won’t get washed up sweetie, I am in a serious relationship with a white man and he adores me. He compliments my skin, he loves my natural hair. I bet you don’t even love your girlfriend’s natural hair, from the look of that display picture it seems like you have her wearing a blond lacefront. Poor girl probably has it on because she knows you prefer white women and she is just trying to satisfy you.

You can keep thinking that white men will throw me out as well, it won’t happen sweetie. The only reason why you are saying that is to discourage me from seeing white men. IT won’t happen though, just because you can’t see the beauty in a black woman and respect her for the features she has doesn’t mean a white man won’t respect me for the features I have.

Grow up, and stop being a little baby looking for white women to stroke your ego. You are so immature. How old are you anyway? lol you sound like a h0rny 19 yr old.

” MOMMY LOOK AT ME I’M DATING THIS BECKY AND SHE CATERS TO ME ON HAND AND FOOT” lmfao what a baby.

@Robert

and with all the issues you black American women have I tend to agree with him.

~~~

See, it’s when statements like this ^^^^ are made that really ticks me off. I do not think Daywalker is a self-hating negro, I have blogged with him before though and his intensity with describing all the Beckys he dated in the past was slightly intriguing. I don’t care who he or any other man is attracted to, because I’ve dated white men in the past and I am currently happily married to a wonderful black man. But why does there always have to be a premise to the decision or a ‘gra.s.s. greener on the other side’ insinuation to support one’s decision to date interracially. I simply just find men attractive and their race is not a line of division…I find my brothers to be just as attractive as a Gerard Butler any said white man, just as I find men of latino decent attractive, etcetera, etcetera…that’s the only point I’m driving home.

What are these issues that you speak of? What does that mean? I take it you are saying these statements free of issues yourself?

*rolls eyes*

go build some fu*cking blocks

bytch azz

Stick with the White guys Gabby. If your gonna be abused about your weight from a man, at least make sure you get one with some money and credit cards so you can console yourself in the high end jewelery stores while he talks crazy. Hit it twice for me girl – LOL

@Robert

haha shut up, I never pointed out Gerald’s blue eyes and straight hair like Daywalker does with white women.

I said that he is attractive and I kept it moving.

This is the typical black man response when he see a white woman:

” OMG LOOK AT HER STRAIGHT SILKY HAIR…LOOK AT THOSE BLUE EYES, LOOK AT HER LIGHT SKIN, LOOK AT HER BEAUTIFUL NOSE!!!”

You black men damn near cause a stampede fawning over these white women.

Black men are the weakest race of men when it comes to their mentality. They envy white men as well because white men are able to get the best of their white women.

Black men only get the gold digging sl_Ts like kim kardasian that will divorce them after 5 yrs and take what they have, or they get the overweight whales that live in the trailer trash. HAHAHA!!!

No one is obsessed with interracial dating but the bitter ones standing on the outside like spectators. “A Man is a Man and Woman is a Woman and God “Created” Woman for Man!” We come in all colors to give variety and flavor because God wants us to have choices and see the soul of a person rather than this superficial BS. smh at this lame never-ending bitter, black responses. The chip on shoulder is HUGE. It’s okay…wee’s free Now!!! (lol)

What makes one better or more desirable & attractive to another is up to the couple who are attracted to each other for reasons beyond something as simple as a skin color.

Black bitter females can have those men who are high risks and the main carrier in our population for the HIV/AIDs Virus and other STDs. They love pleas*uring these men who D**ks have been fudging in holes unimaginable. From prison to being on the DL…black, closed-minded females can have these abusive, STD carrying oversexed leftovers of men with their pipe dreams who do not respect them and will sleep with a becky anyday behind their backs. You can go on and waste the rest of your lives with a babies on the hips by different men who played you and can’t afford to pay decent child support.

The “Good Black Men” don’t stay single for long because their is always a good woman ready to sna*tch him up. I’m talking about the left-over men who are worthless that these self-loathing, bitter, closed-minded females on here think are a prize to be won. Well, Good Luck to Ya! or Peace, Hairweaves, and Hardtimes and stress from cheatin’ baby daddies to no end! smh

(Yes, there are good worthwhile black men, but not enough of them are available…so I’m not about to sit around and hope for a better day.)

I’ve gotta get out of here, but I want to say this…choosing to date outside one’s race should never have a premise that the other race is better, or a ‘step up’. I have dated white men, asian men, european men, and mostly black men and I find them all the be ATTRACTIVE…that is the driving force behind my decision…not because black men this and black men that…it’s silly to get caught up in that mess and I do no understand when people act as though they have ‘arrived’ when they ‘swirl’, and start throwing their own people under the bus…get a life and get over yourself… *exits thread*

@Caramel Cat I just caught up on the convo. What in the world is going on in here? Why are Robert and Jordan generalizing Black women which was the same complaint they had initially about Black women doing to them.

[...] Gabourey Sidibe hit on Gerard Butler? [...]

yeah overseas getting all kinds of

dyck up ur azz

gay azz bytch

daydonkey

it’s sad you need to feel important all the time and the need to hog up the site
saying a whole bunch of nothing

you the idgit no one notices when they walk in a room

you that ugly

bytch

@Caramel Cat

You notice how Robert has yet to answer whether he would date her or not.

I wonder if that was really Daywalker’s girl that wrote that comment. Hilarious.

I agree with Kilgali-like who you want. And in my opinion, White men do treat sista’s better and have more to offer. If your gonna get drama from a man, at least make sure he has something extra that’s worth your time and effort. Gabby is smart to advertise. Ain’t nothing wrong with creeping in the shadows if the opportunity arises. Somebody will hit

B3 fearless, come on now, talking about overseas, so that allows you to generalize about the black race. I was retorting another female talking about she sees white males with dark skin women more than black men, which is not true. I have been overseas and that is not true as well, in European countries more black males are with darkskin/ Black women.

Because some model is with some white male doesn’t make a difference. Because you talk to westernized Negros about appearance doesn’t change the fact or make it true.

NO one is making generalizations, I was retorting another female making a silly claim similar to yours. You see what you want to see, rather than opening your eyes to life. Black males aren’t only in Europe.

@Night Eyes

I think you’re taking it to the extreme with Daywalker.

I’ve been coming to this site for over a year and have been on posts with Daywalker on them and I can’t count how many times he’s bragged about what a good woman he has, how phat his woman his, how she’s thick in all the right places, but in shape and how he likes having stuff to grab on to and how intelligent she is, blah blah blah.

In fact he’s talked her up so much in the past that he got flack from a couple of fellow posters who tried to say they didn’t believe him because he bragged too much & what he was saying didn’t seem true. So, my dear, I would not come hard on him just because this one day he chose to share his experience with interracial dating in the past. You don’t have have the background knowledge and foundation to make your statements.

@daywalker

You can’t see the beauty in black woman, that is why you think other races of men don’t want us. Well I hate to rain on your parade, men of all races find me appealing. I have even dated some asian men in the past. Your perception about black women and no one wanting us is flawed. Plenty of men want me so keep thinking they don’t.

One day your sorry azz black men are going to wake up and realize that black women are gone. We are gaining a high level of economic wealth in this country while black men continue to remain at the bottom bragging about their d_Cks and how many becky’s they f_cked LMFAO!!!!

HAHAHA!!! White women can have black men though, I never attacked you for dating them. I was just interested as to why your glorified their features, and painted a image of them like they were so perfect and did everything you asked for.

But continue dating white women, if it makes you feel validated knock yourself out sweetie

I’d take a piece of that Scottish man any day. He’s a good looking man; however I’d have to find a way to understand him ’cause his Scottish accent is a killer. Hot, but hard to understand with some of the words.

lmfao poor gabby
even if you lose the weight honey , we really dont need point out why hollywood wont accept you.
Gabbys A two TONE hippO, STUCK IN THE BODY OF A 15YR old 90lb white girl.

done.

@Jordan

Now I think you are just coming at me because you have been beaten up on by others. I think you need to re-read both my post and star’s post. We were giving other perspectives. All of us have different experiences. Although YOU may not see a lot of those type of relationships in your everyday life, that doesn’t mean she doesn’t see it more common in her every day.

And we weren’t stating that it happens all the time but that those relationships do exist. And it is a true statement to say that you will see more white European men with dark skinned woman. I never said it was a common occurrence just that you’re more likely to see it there than here in the U.S.

I think you need to take heed to you statement, “You see what you want to see, rather than opening your eyes to life” because this statement is true and it appears you’re not even practicing it.

Eboniladi,

You truly are something else.

I stated that I would take her out on a date, which is true, I would take Gaby out on a date.

Would I date her, I would say no,

She is a very large woman and I am not attracted to large women.

Her preference for white males or just pointing them out as her only interests show some issues that she may have with her blackness. Lets say she didn’t have those issues, than yes, I would be more inclined to see what she is about.

I am a very down to earth guy but I need a woman who is my equal, body mind and soul. It is that simple and most on here think the same way. I keep myself fit and in good health for a reason, I prefer my women the same.

I am not against dating a large woman or going out with one, but I would hope that Gaby would slim down for health and good reasons and she would be a beautiful woman.

Why is that wrong, I take care of myself so that I dont get large and like a woman who takes care of herself.

Fearless, no one is attacking you and no has beaten me up or proven me wrong at anything. look at the post agreeing with me and they are mostly male and the post agreeing with you are mostly females.

Star’s post was

“Just in everyday life you see blk men prefering mostly lighter skin women or women of mixed descent or another race”. If you notice most white men you see around are normally with dark women.

This is wrong on many levels and is generalizing. An opinion is fine when there arent facts to back it up. It is called generalizing when she throws black males in the equation rather than a select group of black males. Reread it.

In this case the facts are not there with white males thinking dark skin is beautiful and or date more dark skin women than black men. If this was true in white media you would see more dark skin black women. In the media it is white men calling black women monkeys not the men.

It is impossible for white males to be with dark skin women more than the men, It is factually impossible and for a black woman to think that white males love dark skin women more than real black African and real college educated African American men is comedy.

It is self hate of the highest order

There are plenty of men like myself who prefer dark skin women over any other breed of female. The problem is that black women in general have programmed themselves to think that white men date them and dont think skin color is more important.

They have programmed themselves because they see a flaw in themselves that they think a white man can improve or somehow validates them in some way.

These are the same women who wont date a dark skin man because they have issues with themselves.

That is like saying you mostly see white women with dark skin men more than black women. It is utterly preposterous.

Caramel Cat

YOU NOT BLACK AND YOU IS WH0RE!

if black women start dating non black men you on 100% is wh0re and not black anymore!

we do not want black women after non black men!

Why are black women lusting after a white man who has shown absolutely no interest in black women. There is actually a blog created by black women devoted to this dude. Sisters are really playing themselves. They think they are hurting black men by lusting after pale white boys. They only disgrace themselves. Go to white sites and see what they are saying about Gabby.

@anonymous

Why are black women lusting after a white man who has shown absolutely no interest in black women. There is actually a blog created by black women devoted to this dude. Sisters are really playing themselves. They think they are hurting black men by lusting after pale white boys. They only disgrace themselves. Go to white sites and see what they are saying about Gabby.

————-

truth dat!

Ah wish ah knew how to reed.

There’s a lot of guys that like all that jelly, they just don’t want anyone to know it. In closed doors they would hit it with no problem. In-the-closet lovin BBW bastards!

WHY LUST AFTER A MAN WHO HAS SHOWN NO INTEREST IN BLACK WOMEN. VERY TRUE

NIGHT EYES

brothers f’ck white pu$$y just like all crackers f’ck black pu$$y in black history!

if black women wants crackers, you need just stay with him and end!!

…….if black women after non black men, she’s wh0re!

@real black is chocolate

So if a black man chases white women should I label him a self hating man sl_t f_ggit?

Why do black men pursue white women but frown upon black women pursuing white men?

I will date as many white men as I want. Their is nothing you can do to stop me either. When black men learn to be men and not immature weak minded lunatics that brag about their d_Ck 24/7 and how many “beckys” they banged out then I will be loyal to black men. Until then I will continue dating white men.

@Jordan

Your response proves you didn’t read a word I just said.

You said, “In this case the facts are not there with white males thinking dark skin is beautiful and or date more dark skin women than black men…It is impossible for white males to be with dark skin women more than the men.”

I agree but I never said it was a common occurrence or practice. I stated and I quote, “We WEREN’T stating that it happens all the time but that those relationships do EXIST.” Just because you don’t see it in your area does not mean that it doesn’t occur.

And your argument that interracial dating is due to self hatred (while I know this is true for some) this is your OPINION, it is not valid and is generalizing us all. Your belief certainly does not apply to me. What is the basis for your viewpoint? And how did you come to have this belief and make such a bold statement?

@DayWalker

Bravo!

NIGHT EYES

who gives a f’ck and who gives a sh’t to whom you dating!! I am rare dating white women why because they are ugly as f’ck just like you. lol stupid self-hatred sellout black b’tch!

The majority of brothers dont want ugly white females it’s just black women bullsh’t! because you wants ugly white boys!!

we dont want black females after crackers, only pure sisters who real love black men!

And the majority of brothers think just like i’m!

@kigali- Life for Dummies:
3/9/10, 19:41:pm
@DayWalker

Bravo!
______________________________________________

I have my moments, Kigali!!

i love and respect my black women but not black wh0res!

Oh, Kigali. .

While we’re discussing similarities and differences, can you define and explain what is a black man and black male? Thank you, Kigali.

“Matter of fact, the really dark skinned ones were some of the worst! I’ll give you an example: I took this one girl out to a restaurant to eat. The waitress came up, and asked if I was ready to order, and I told her what I wanted, and smiled, and to be honest, she was CUTE! She was light skinned, had gorgeous legs, a nice shape, and an excellent rack!! she then turned to ol’ girl to see what she wanted, and you could just feel the tension, because she snapped off and said “I AINT READY TO ORDER YET!! WHY DON’T YOU GO BRING ME SOME DAMN ROLLS, WAIT-TRESS??””

So now it’s a color issue, too? Something isn’t adding up. And the gravie photos don’t match up. I’m sorry, but I have to say it.

@NIGHT EYES:
3/9/10, 18:41:pm
@anonymous

That is no different then Black men walking around harlem with their 500 pound white hippos!!!

Ok, so that explains it..You’re mad because WHITE MEN aren’t cuddling up with 500 pound Black women!! It all makes sense now!! And don’t tell me that you don’t know that over 70% of African American females are overweight! It’s funny, because you’ll spend countless hours in a clazzroom killing yourself to obtain a degree, but you won’t use the same effort to maintain a healthy weight, or at least eat better…Tsk, tsk, ma…..Tsk, tsk, INDEED!!And what makes it even worse is that MEN of all races are attracted to youth and beauty, not education, and I can promise you that once a woman hits 35, her looks go downhill, and by the time she hits 45, she can FORGET IT!! The same white men who’ll F_uck you now will be trading you in on a new model with bigger headlights, and they’ll put you out in the scrapyard like a beat up Chevy…

They wrap their arms around these fat white bytches like they are the last female on EARTH!!!

Well, look at your attitudes…I mean don’t get me wrong, because I don’t even date fat women, but in my opinion, a fat White chick with NO attitude is better than a fat black chick WITH an attitude, ANY DAY!!!

@Sydney

Girl, I am so glad you are here! I have been biting my tongue all night and I am really, REALLY trying to remain civil with Daywalker, but he is not making sense AT ALL…

And, Kigali, you reneged — big-time. SMH.

LMAO, Oh, shit. .

I feel a transformation coming on.

@Caramel

“Girl, I am so glad you are here! I have been biting my tongue all night and I am really, REALLY trying to remain civil with Daywalker, but he is not making sense AT ALL…”

Hey, girl, yes, I see, and I think he’s doing it to get attention.

@Sydney

I told you she was going to end up popping a blood vessel or something…

s_h_i_t

@DAYWALKER- What is going on? I ask this sincerely, because lately your posts have been…well, hurtful on MANY levels. I understand it is a blog, but I know in particular in the Reggie/Kim K post I think yesterday in browsing I was shocked and with all that you’ve expressed I was actually quite surprised that you even interact with me online. I don’t know what is going on…

*waves hello* to Sydney, Caramel and to ALL

“I feel a transformation coming on.”

LOL, yup, tonight may be the night. I tried playing along, but. . .

Kigali, I know you see my question.

Hey Ms.EJ

It looks like there’s more than me sitting here in disbelief with my jaw dropped…

@Caramel

“I told you she was going to end up popping a blood vessel or something…”

Yes, he is, and he better simmer down. Now.

‘LOL, yup, tonight may be the night. I tried playing along, but. . .’

LOL, but, nothing. We shall see.

@SYDNEY- I want to give you an update on my mom she’s been in and out of the hospital, and the doctor’s found two blood clots one on each lung, she just got out really late last week. She finally took my advice and information you gave me awhile back and has joined a support cancer group for women battling breast cancer, the only thing is that she keeps going against doctor orders and going back to work, but please lift up in prayers, sis.

Where are my manners? Good evening, Ms. EJ and Caramel!

Hey Ms.EJ

I’m sorry to hear about your mom, I will keep her in my prayers

@Sydney

Girl, it’s all good, I think we are both just taken aback by all this negativity…

@Ms. EJ

“She finally took my advice and information you gave me awhile back and has joined a support cancer group for women battling breast cancer, the only thing is that she keeps going against doctor orders and going back to work, but please lift up in prayers, sis.”

Of course, sis! I’m very happy that your mother is seeking out support — It helped my mom tremendously to have a support network of women to call upon. I’ll certainly keep your mother in my thoughts and prayers.

@Caramel

“Girl, it’s all good, I think we are both just taken aback by all this negativity…”

Yes, I certainly am.

@SYDNEY & CARAMEL CAT- Thank you ladies very much. I always tell people you can never have too many prayers. My aunt from Miami, is actually moving down to El Paso, Texas, so, now my mom will not only have her husband, but her sister for additional support, but she is in good spirits. Thanks again ladies.

@Daywalker

That was the same point I was making, CARM…I said that I had those issues in my PAST experiences, not the present…And not all Black women I’ve dated have behaved that way, but more often than not, they have…Again, This rebuttal I gave was to bring home the point that ALL black women are not ideal…That was all…

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Ok, but you seem to still carry around alot of anger about this now. I’ve dealt with alot of broke, bad credit having, shiftless, multiple baby momma having negroes. But I don’t get on these threads and take pot shots every chance I get at how f’d up black men are and how most of them have these undesirable problems…how is that HELPING the situation Day???

No problem at all, Ms. EJ!

@Day

And I still contend that it’s abnormal for a man to harbor this much animosity toward black women when he’s supposedly in a happy, healthy relationship with one. Something isn’t adding up. You told me you weren’t upset the other day, but we obviously know that isn’t the case.

@Daywalker

And, you did bring up the color issue. Maybe this dark-skinned sista you went out with didn’t like that the waitress was more ATTRACTIVE than she was and that you smiled at her….why did she have to be jealous or unhappy with the fact that the waitress was lighter? as though it equates to her being on a higher level of attractiveness or something… Do you see how this sounds????

And didn’t you just write today that you plan on getting engaged? Even more reason why all of this is so puzzling.

People always like celebrities, but I think those in uniform deserve more respect. They defend our country and safeguard our policy. Join blackmilitaryfriends.com, show your love and respect to our military heroes.

Thanks ladies! and good night! I’ve putting off on having my wisdom tooth removed and its starting to act up a little, so, going to do a salt water rinse and call it a day.

Good night to ALL.

@msej:
3/9/10, 20:16:pm
@DAYWALKER- What is going on? I ask this sincerely, because lately your posts have been…well, hurtful on MANY levels. I understand it is a blog, but I know in particular in the Reggie/Kim K post I think yesterday in browsing I was shocked and with all that you’ve expressed I was actually quite surprised that you even interact with me online. I don’t know what is going on…

*waves hello* to Sydney, Caramel and to ALL
_______________________________________________

Good evening, Ms. EJ. And to answer your question, I posted a response to someone who asked me a question. I responded truthfully, and some people took offense. However, why is it that No one says anything when poeple do that to me?? I have been coming on here for awhile now and I get called out of my name, I get jokes made about me, I get told that the woman I love is all types of deplorable things, and that she doesn’t even exist. The only person who even bothered to say one single solitary thing in my defense at all was B3 Fearless…Personally, I appreciate his doing that, but people whom I’ve conversed with on here and pretty much know what kind of person I am, didn’t so much as bother to say a thing. so if it would be anything, it would be that. I just read that your mother is having a bout with her illness, and she will most certainly be in my prayers. Aside from that, I’M JUST PEACHY.

@daywalker

Now you are stereotyping black women for

1. having a attitude
2. Being overweight

I’m a niether.

I’m 5’11 and weigh 130 pounds. I’m very thin, and I don’t have a attitude either.

You are very hurtful, to think a black man would say hurtful things like this to a black woman is beyond me. I would expect this from someone non black but you? a black man wow.

Shameful, your ignorance and disgust for black woman is very astounding. I feel sorry for your girlfriend.

Anyway enjoy your night.

@Marquis

Well look at this…the resident troll wants people to be NICE…lol

@Daywalker

I’ve defended you a FEW times because I like blogging with you. If you can’t remember those times (one of which someone was claiming that girl in the pic wasn’t real), another time was today earlier in this thread…moving on, you are contradicting yourself. You express love for black women but every chance you get you are bashing them…it’s just not adding up…

To say this young lady is physically attractive is disingenous and does a disservice to her. If you would like to compliment her say something else.

@Sydney

I dont think sooo. I dont think sooo. Show me where I have?

Daywalker
I warned you bout bein’ too nice to some of these “SISTAS’” up in here. Theys turn on ya’ once you step out that box they put in.

@Daywalker

You just stereotyped black women as being loud and fat. I am very tall and thin and people joke about me being so quiet they don’t even know I’m at work half the time…

Again, I will re-iterate…all black men are NOT broke, with bad credit, criminal records with multiple kids by different women…they are NOT all like this at all!

@Kigali

“@Sydney

I dont think sooo. I dont think sooo. Show me where I have?”

Oh, I think soooo. I think soooo. Where have you done what you agreed to do?

@ S

she was probably joking. i wouldn’t take her comment literally.
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That’s usually the case. At least he was smart enuff not to take it literally and enjoy a fun moment with her!
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@ Carmel and Gimmie

u guyz tell ‘em! Aside from having a pretty face, she also has nice skin and a pretty dark complexion. She appears to not even need makeup.

Someone does need to say to her ‘with luv’ something about her weight – she is morbidly obese.
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@ Daywalker

The first time I ever saw her(Whoopi), I was lookin’ for a can of RAID…
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rofl – painfully hilarious!!!!!

Can you define and explain the difference between a black man and black male? Thank you, Kigali.

@NIGHT EYES:
3/9/10, 20:43:pm
@daywalker

Now you are stereotyping black women for

1. having a attitude
2. Being overweight

I’m a niether.

I’m 5′11 and weigh 130 pounds. I’m very thin, and I don’t have a attitude either.

You are very hurtful, to think a black man would say hurtful things like this to a black woman is beyond me. I would expect this from someone non black but you? a black man wow.

Shameful, your ignorance and disgust for black woman is very astounding. I feel sorry for your girlfriend.

Anyway enjoy your night.
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And the way you came at ME was certainly no better. MAY I QUOTE YOU?

“Daywalker will most likely cheat on the poor girl with a white woman with blue eyes lol. smfh”

“I never pointed out Gerald’s blue eyes and straight hair like Daywalker does with white women.”

“The only reason why I addressed daywalker was because he is a hypocrite. Just the other day he stated

” OH IT *****ES ME OFF WHEN I SEE BLACK WOMEN DATING WHITE MEN, SHE IS A QUEEN AND SHE SHOULD NOT LAY DOWN WITH A PEASANT”

He despises when black women date interracial but he wants to feel free to do the same thing and be unquestioned about it.”

“I bet you don’t even love your girlfriend’s natural hair, from the look of that display picture it seems like you have her wearing a blond lacefront. Poor girl probably has it on because she knows you prefer white women and she is just trying to satisfy you.”

But I guess it’s okay for you to say things of this nature to me, but I can’t respond back??

Sure…as long as you get to slam me, it’s all gravy, but the second I say something back, I’m public enemy #1. can any one say “DOUBLE STANDARDS”?

Some of the comments are totally ignornant. It is her taste and her decision. She is a beautiful young lady and some of you should be careful what you say because GOD is our only judge.

Sistawithavoice said:

Gerard is a hottie and yes he is single.
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Hmmmmmm, when was the last time you saw
him? You must not read many celebrity
themed magazines, because that m.ofo is
flabby as h.ell now. Unless you are very
overweight, most of us guys look cool in
a tux. Go look at that fool in some of
those beach pictures….or is the fact that
he is White making him a “hottie” to you?
Guess you Gabby will fight over him. LOLOL!!

@Sydney

Ok was I supposed to be nice or say something nice or not say anything bad.

I havent said anything nice I havent been nice BUT I HAVE NOT SAID ANYTHING NOT NICE. In fact where have I mentioned them?

I’m out for the night gotta finish up dinner…but I have to say this thread is disheartening…

‘but I have to say this thread is disheartening…’

Well, at least you know where some individuals stand. These comments are merely a reflection of their true feelings.

Caramel Cat

Sho’ u right! It is disheartenin’…All of dis’ vitriolic anti-black men sentiments pollutin’ an otherwise normal misogynistic, intra-racist anti-black woman thread. Oh da’ inhumanity!

@DAYWALKER(THE DAYDREAM!!!)

You keep backpedaling. I only stereotyped black men when you started being very belligerent and vindictive towards me. I only asked why did you have you be so descriptive towards european features while you completely ignoring black features as if they were not good enough to mention.

I only asked you that one question and you flew off the handle with the stereotypes.

Please check yourself into a mental institution. you are a living contradiction, one minute you say you adore black women, next minute you are calling us fat with ghetto attitudes, make up your friggen mind.

ReALiSt AkA ReALeSt

Old bean, you wanna’ have a go? You seem awfully knave tonight, ol’ chap. Not gettin’ enough fiber in you beanpies, Mustapha?

anonymous

3/9/10, 13:02:pm

Black women are just thirsty for white men. It has become a joke. Most white men think black women are w*****s. That is why 99% of white men date and marry white women.
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@anonymous

It is my STRONGEST desire that WHITE men and WHITE women CONTINUE to date and marry each other – EXCLUSIVELY!!!

Mongrelization has detrimental effects on black blood lines. Your artificial, defective genes contaminates our DNA strands. This is a serious travesty. It’s blatant genocide.

Only the scientifically-ignorant and unconscious want to mix with Caucasians.

@Kigali

“Ok was I supposed to be nice or say something nice or not say anything bad.”

Well, I thought that’s what “praise” meant, no? I think this is too hard for you — it’s fine.

LMAO @ Caramel

@Caramel Cat™:
3/9/10, 20:44:pm
@Marquis

Well look at this…the resident troll wants people to be NICE…lol

@Daywalker

I’ve defended you a FEW times because I like blogging with you. If you can’t remember those times (one of which someone was claiming that girl in the pic wasn’t real), another time was today earlier in this thread…moving on, you are contradicting yourself. You express love for black women but every chance you get you are bashing them…it’s just not adding up…
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But that’s the thing, I do love my woman, but I don’t necessarily like the things that get said on here about her, so I get as upset as anyone else would if you made distasteful remarks about someone they cared about. Sorry, but the DAYWALKER’S human, people. I get upset and lash out when I’m mad sometimes, too…
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@ Sydney™
3/9/10, 20:36:pm
And didn’t you just write today that you plan on getting engaged? Even more reason why all of this is so puzzling.
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I not only plan on it, I bought a ring. But I’m supposed to be cool with people having slick things to say about her ALL the time?? I mean, dammit!! Can a brother get some respite once in awhile?? SHEESH!!
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@Caramel Cat™:
3/9/10, 20:35:pm
@Daywalker

And, you did bring up the color issue. Maybe this dark-skinned sista you went out with didn’t like that the waitress was more ATTRACTIVE than she was and that you smiled at her….why did she have to be jealous or unhappy with the fact that the waitress was lighter? as though it equates to her being on a higher level of attractiveness or something… Do you see how this sounds????
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I really don’t know why she reated the way she did, and I didn’t stick around to ask. I will say that from her tone, she seemed pretty angry, but as far as I was concerned, that was no reason to ruin a perfectly good evening, so I bailed. In retrospect, I think she was jealous, because she really didn’t like lighter toned women, but even though I’m a flirt, I don’t disrespect women when I’m out with them, by doing it so blatantly, and I’d never do that in front of them, so my reasoning is that she was upset because she saw the waitress as a threat. I could be wrong, but from her previous behavior, I don’t think I am.

Damn the post!!!
Who-in-deee-hell is this other “True Diva????”

Oh well. I guess imitation IS the highest form of flattery.

@NIGHT EYES:
3/9/10, 21:07:pm
@DAYWALKER(THE DAYDREAM!!!)

You keep backpedaling. I only stereotyped black men when you started being very belligerent and vindictive towards me. I only asked why did you have you be so descriptive towards european features while you completely ignoring black features as if they were not good enough to mention.

I only asked you that one question and you flew off the handle with the stereotypes.

Please check yourself into a mental institution. you are a living contradiction, one minute you say you adore black women, next minute you are calling us fat with ghetto attitudes, make up your friggen mind.
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Who’s backpedaling? I said what I said when you came at me. You may ask anyone here if I normally come on here and berate women for no reason. I normally don’t, and I usually get flak for being “too nice”. I don’t normally start namecalling with anyone unless it’s in jest, but you started with me, and drew my ire first, not the other way around. In any event, I will apologize if I offended you, but you must realize that what you said pertaining to my soon to be fiancee struck a nerve, and I was reacting to you out of anger. This being said, I apologize.

@ THE LADIES:

And I’m getting engaged, and not a single solitary Congrats??? Wazzup wit dat??
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Gerard let Gabby hit that junt!

Gabby can seek who ever she wants. Plus I dont hear her talking bad about all of us black men, so she’s cool.

@ Day–

I saaawwwwwrrry, boo!

Where are my manners.

Congrats!

@ Daywalker

@ THE LADIES:

And I’m getting engaged, and not a single solitary Congrats??? Wazzup wit dat??
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aaaah,seeing as u have finished sampling every flavor of the month…lol!

CONGRATS – wishing you & yours nothing but happiness!!!

@Sydney

No no no… I just needed some clarification. I hadnt said anything negative so my intentions were good. I understand now.

@DayWalker

Youre getting engaged? Congrats man. Youll seen be leaving the League of Extrordinary Singlemen.!!!

THANKS, 1 TRU, AND MEMCHEE!! I appreciate you guys!!

@kigali- Life for Dummies
3/9/10, 21:46:pm
@DayWalker

Youre getting engaged? Congrats man. Youll seen be leaving the League of Extrordinary Singlemen.!!!
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Yup!! But she doesn’t know yet, Kigali…I bought a 1 carat MARQUIS(No pun intended) cut solitaire mounted in a platinum setting…

FYI Jordan, you really misunderstood what I was saying. 1st off I never said that white men date dark blk women more than blk men. Ofcourse there’s probably more blk women w/blk men. What I was saying was that when white men decide 2 date blk women, most of the time it’s with darker blk women. They admire dark skin more than we do ourselves, aleast they do secretly anyway. I know I rarely see white guys with light skin blk women. Most of the time they prefer the Gabriel Union’s and the Imans and the Naomi Cambells. These shades of blk women are what they love the most including Gabbys. The last thing I have is self hatred, because I love my Carmel brown skin. I’m just speaking from what I witness in my day to day life. Some of my friends and just females I know whom are dark skinned are always being approached by white guys, and sometimes they roll w/it because growing up blk guys teased them and called them tar baby or saying too blk this and that.They always prefered lighter skin females or other races. Let’s not front. It is what it is. I’m not saying all blk men think like that cause you do see some that don’t trip. But Gabby is in hollywood. How many athletes and celeb men do you that are blk do you see with blk women especially dark. Not many at all.

wow…so 320 comments of hate..black ppl u should be proud of yourselves.. look how much hate is on this blog. but ill tell u what tho. i read alot of these comments and nobody is right or wrong becuz ive experience alot of what the BM and BW are talking about. people stop jumping to conclusions about each other. its not the color of ur skin but the relationship u have with the person. A black person raised in the suburbs is goin to have more in common on a general level than he would have with a typical urban female and vice versa. I think the ppl who jump to conclusion are the ones who have the problems becuz thats whats on ur mind. its eating away at yourself esteem. Straigh truth right here. There is more black females who struggle with color than black men. like its everywhere. you can see how they act and how aggressive they respond to a comment. thats why black men dont care about black women who hate on for dating outside a race and then black women start feeling like the showing off. Its how u perceive it becuz of how you was raise and how u was brought up. Stop dogging brother about not being good father and self hating. when in reality you laid with him and made a baby. thats ur fault. it takes to to tango and thats ur problem. you should of been studyin, goin to school or focusing on other things besides sex. next time pick a better one. but dont come on here hating on brothers. please. u look real stupid. your the one with all the hate..lol..so angry..i coulnt imagine being with a girl like that neway. Whats funny is all those females with the negative comments about black men always say im in a happy relationship..lol. must be a fake one cuz if u were in a functioning relationsihp with a good man you wouldnt take these blogs so serious. you arguing back and forth over a blog about color and race. Who looks like the loser. And if thats they way you act with your man. dont blame it on color when he bounces off to the next one cuz thats exactly what any man of ne race would do.

damn alot of errors but i was rushing..i already know somebody gonna jump on my comment talking about how dumb i am..lol ..ahhahah

White women date more dark skin men than black women.

It is something I see in the media all the time. White women admire dark skin more than we do ourselves, at least they do secretly anyway. I know I rarely see a white woman with light skin blk men.

White women date more dark skin men than black women. It is something I see in the media all the time. White women admire dark skin more than we do ourselves, at least they do secretly anyway. I know I rarely see a white woman with light skin blk men.

while i don’t believe this story, everyone knows gerard loves him some chocolate.

There are PLENTY of brotha’s that would be with her. Some black men LOVE a BIG GURL – especially with the success shes having. So thats no excuse.

not everyone wants a brotha.

White people admire dark skin and think its gorgeous, we’re the only bambozzled fools who don’t recognize its beauty.

white people are the ones who colonized our minds to feel that way. while they may “celebrate” blk beauty now, it hasn’t always been that way–let’s not get it twisted.

but as for the rest of your cmnt (re: why she prefers white men) i agree

And here’s a hint, Gabby, if you have to initiate popping bottles with a man before he pops your cherry, he ain’t feelin you.

- BBGrl

Yeah, but those black men that love the big girls are usually about nothing and from the hood or ex-convicts. They are usually trifling with the mentality of “where there’s a big woman, there’s food and lots of hugs” to used and abused. Gabby is talking about men with established careers and money.

Gerard doesn’t love him any chocolate, most white males dont like chocolate women. Gerard is on the record and has never dated a black woman, if he wanted to, he would.

You can delude yourself that he wants to date a monkey, but he doesn’t.

I dont like chocolate women and many of my friends dont date black women. I have yet to see him with a black woman. Most white men dont find black women attractive. The few that do date sparsely.

Water seeks its own level, you may not want a certain type of man but in reality that is all you can get.

You get what you can get in society, and on the female pole black women are at the bottom. Your behind white women, Asian women, Spanish women and Indian women in looks.

Its funny that I come on here and see this constant fighting, but reality will make this a little better to piece together.

I’m happy for the girl but I think she’s trying too much now I think she needs a Ho sit down already

Hey, I don’t blame her, I’d get with him too.

Raul, I know you are a troll but I have to say this. Although I don’t believe you actually are a white man, just in case you are, you don’t have the equipment to handle a black woman and have probably failed miserably, hence your bitter screed. Secondly, you don’t have the brains to be attractive to the the slime mold on the bottom of a leaf after a rainstorm. Now go diddle your peanut.

sounds like they were both joking… cant a girl make a comment? why are people bashing her? if rick ross made a comment like that to angelina jolie or something, would the responses be the same?

Is it some form of accreditation for a white male to show interest in a black woman? Does it mean the black woman has FINALLY arrived?

White is right! Get a white upgrade today.

I think everyone here is missing the point. Our youth, like Gabby, haven’t had an experience that has REALLY shown them that racism is real in America. All of these kids of all races here in America call themselves the N word and say “racism doesn’t exist anymore in this country , our generation is different” That’s why I say our youth are misguided. When she has her first experience of racism, I hope that she doesn’t go bitter.All people of all races are not racist, but best believe there will always be racism here in America. She has her head in the sand because most of our youth have their heads in the sand. Education will make our youth stronger and better decision-makers. Thats what counts. Just a theory.

Sarah, that is difficult when you are at the bottom of the dating pool.

@I love her…

STFU

@Eddy Sanch

are u serious? bottom of the dating pool. isn’t it funny that black men claim to know so much about what white men want. if a black woman is slim and attractive she will have no problem getting a white man. all my boyfriends have been white so take it from a black woman with experience in that area.

Leave Gabby alone. LOL! I bet a white dude would treat her better than a black dude. lol

@ daydonkey

Excuse me, but could you say that again in ENGLISH?? Or at least get an interpreter, because I don’t speak “UNINTELLIGIBLE JIBBERISH”…THANKS!!

you dyckhead you understood it loud and clear

bytch azz

it says fu*ck you

damn i cant say nobody

I would too Gerard Butler is HOTT!

i don’t believe one damn word of this!

@Robert3/9/10, 18:05:pm
Eboniladi,

You truly are something else.

I stated that I would take her out on a date, which is true, I would take Gaby out on a date.

Would I date her, I would say no,

She is a very large woman and I am not attracted to large women.

Her preference for white males or just pointing them out as her only interests show some issues that she may have with her blackness. Lets say she didn’t have those issues, than yes, I would be more inclined to see what she is about.

I am a very down to earth guy but I need a woman who is my equal, body mind and soul. It is that simple and most on here think the same way. I keep myself fit and in good health for a reason, I prefer my women the same.

I am not against dating a large woman or going out with one, but I would hope that Gaby would slim down for health and good reasons and she would be a beautiful woman.

Why is that wrong, I take care of myself so that I dont get large and like a woman who takes care of herself.
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Thanks, I all wanted to see was your honest opinion about her. At least you were honest about it and I can respect that.

actually many black women are like her they have lust for lighter or white men just because of their skin not because how they are or if they are ugly!

Her big BEARILLA A$$ need to sit down somewhere, no go walking…

thats chris tucker not rock thats behind them

She’s gonna have to lose a whole lotta weight to get that. Butler may like a sista now and again but I doubt he’s got a thing for big girls. I hope she’s considering losing weight. Im glad she got her kudos but Nobody in Hollywood is casting big girls like that for anything but novelty roles. Real Talk. Im not trying to be mean. Im sure she doesn’t want to play fat girl roles for the rest of her career.

I shouldn’t be surprised at how Black people tear each other down, but it never ceases to amaze me. Gabby is a young woman who is doing something positive with her life. She has a delightful personality and she is very intelligent.If she has a crush on Gerard Butler, then that is her business. I think he’s fine too and I’m a BW, so what?? It does not make me self-hating. Reggie Bush and some of the other BM who choose to date non-BW are not accused of being self-hating and they can not want BW–so what?? It is their choice. People just need to be happy in their own lives and just stop obsessing over who someone chooses to like or sleep with. Gabby is a BBW who seems to know who she is and I am proud of her. There are skinny women who don’t have half of the confidence that she does and for that, she is called delusional, unattractive, etc. The “Crabs in a Barrel” mentality is alive and well. Very sad…

It does not matter what she likes. No man in his right mind is going to lay down with the whale!

Wow@ dont be stupid why do women like you lie SO MUCH! 99 of 100 comments about Reggie is a self hating black man so dont act like black men dont get hated on alot.

AND WHY DOES EVERYBODY THINK GABOURAY HATE HER SKIN BECAUSE SHE LIKES A WHITE MAN? IF THIS CHICK WAS LIGHT(lightskin black) YALL WOULDNT BE SAYING ANYTHING.

HO SIT DOWN!!!

SHE SO FAT! IT WILL TAKE HER 2 DAYS TO PERFORM A HO SIT DOWN!

SHE SO FAT, HER BLOOD TYPE IS ICE CREAM!

SHE SO FAT, SHE HAVE 1 PANTY AND 20 PACKS OF DYE!!

SHE SO FAT WHEN SHE GOES SWIMMING SHE LOOK LIKE AN OIL SPIL!!!

SHE SO FAT, SHE PROTECTED BY GREEN PEACE!!

SHE SO FAT, SHE DID A HO SIT DOWN AND CAUSED THE HATIAN EARTHQUAKE!

SHE SO FAT, SHE GOT MORE (@$$) CRACK THAN HARLEM!!!

Why does homeboy look like he’s saying something behind clenched teeth.

*OMG she is touching me get me the f outta here*
*I hope she doesn’t think I’m calling her*
*Help! She’s trying to get my number*
*She’s fat she’ll kill me!*
*Aaaaarrrrrrggghhhhh!*

I’m a white male and I have to say that some of the black women I’ve met are very attractive, and no I’m not just talking about the light-skinned ones, actually the most attractive ones are dark-skinned. But the sad truth is that they all have something in common besides their “blackness” : they are thin, fit, Swimsuit model-like. Yes like most men I’m awfully shallow

“You sistas dont want the Biggie smalls, ”

Then explain Faith Evans and Lil Kim dummy.

My heart goes out to Gabbie. None of us can help what we were born with & Gabbie is handling herself very well.

ALL women think they look better than all other women & always find some way to belittle, so-called ugly women. Even though these so-called pretty women think they are god’s gift to all men they are not confident enough about themselves to resist belittling ‘ugly’ women. These same women also think no man would ever have a relationship with women whom they (pretty women) deem as ugly. Listen to me ladies I don’t think a lot men even look high enough to see if some women are ugly or not. Just look at all the children with, ugly, fat, whatever, mothers. Men might say one thing to others but do just the opposite. Been happening since the world began. It is said that blonds have more fun, BUT, they don’t have ALL of the fun. Like when some of these cheaters get caught the first thing some women say is: “his wife is pretty, what did he see in that skank?” Like I said before, many men see with their lower head (I think).

What’s sad (@Raul), is when non-blacks come onto this website to call blks names like monkeys. We all know that the most extreme “racists” are the ones who really want to be with blks, but know that they are far too inadequate in many different aspects! For the record it is most blk women who are NOT willing to date outside of their race and wouldn’t touch a white, asian, or latin man with a 10 ft pole!! I can’t go anywhere without being approached by a white or an asian guy for MY phone number, and I AM a BLACK WOMAN!!! Don’t get me wrong, most of today’s blk men are less than useless, but that’s just a result of a LACK of pride for a culture that is watered down and diluted.