*BOSSIP Exclusive* No More Hiding For ‘Licia And Swizzy … And Mashonda Says Those Two Were Meant For Each Other!

- By Bossip Staff

Since Angelina Keys and Brad Beatz decided put their love on parade, BOSSIP received a tip from an insider saying that Swizzy’s divorce from Mashonda is final, and has been for some time. But that’s not what Mashonda says. Pop the hood for details.

While Swizz has been hesitant to give a definitive answer on the divorce, BOSSIP was able to reach Mashonda, who says she and Mr. Infidelity are still legally wed:

Unfortunately, my divorce is not final, the paperwork hasn’t been signed by the judge, and so therefore, we are still legally married,” Mashonda told BOSSIP exclusively. “Not that I’m proud of that, (this process has been hell on earth) but divorces take time.

As for Swizz’s recently released interview with DJ Enuff, where the producer claims he was unhappy with his wife for years Mashonda had this to say to BOSSIP:

“Our marriage and our family was never respected, nor has been a concern to the parties involved. Both of them have been extremely determine to disregard the fact that I am a human being with feelings, a mother, and the woman whom was there when this man was sick, down, and without money or fame. Amazing how people forget!”

“I recently saw a video of his, his words completely took me by surprise. It was an awful demonstration of lies and tales. All in the name of “saving face… I believe the two of them are meant for each other. Only a certain type of woman would sleep with a married man, and only a certain type of man would abandon his family for another woman. I guess they are “equals.” Those were his words on that video.

WOW… But really now — who wouldn’t feel some kind of way after the way Swizz talked about her to Enuff? And she’s right. Marriage is supposed to be a sacred institution. It’s pretty crazy to plan a wedding to your mistress before your divorce with your wife is even finalized.

While Mashonda still seems hurt by the affair and Alicia and Swizz’s complete disregard for her feelings, she seems to be dealing with the divorce very maturely. She ended her conversation with BOSSIP with this:

“The past 12 years of my life with this man has been a complete learning experience and I’m proud to say that I am a better woman today, because of it…Fortunately, I’m able to walk away with a prize or two. My self esteem and my son. My focus is my son, coupled with figuring out a way to make this all make sense to him at the end of the day, so that he can be a great man.”

“I seriously hope people can learn a thing or two from all of this. Its a disease to family growth and human behavior.”

Mashonda also included a few photos from her pregnancy “so you can get an idea of how happy we were, since he claims unhappiness for the past 10 years…”

You have to admit — wrong is wrong — violating a marriage is a big no no. Swizz Beatz is worse than Brad Pitt from where we are sitting. At least Brad never publicly bashed Jennifer Aniston and waited until his divorce was final before moving in with Angelina.

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  • that damn sh#$ disturber

    heard both sides and still don’t know what to think (that’s between them) but it kind of seems like mashonda might be the one coming out of this looking good and probably having the last laugh…

  • d303

    she should have just kept her mouf shut. ahe does not need to feed the spin machine. be the better woman by shutting you mouth and move on. hed did. She is not new to this and knew whom she married and the industry they were in. nuff said.

  • I like hittin men AND women in the back

    I honestly believe that bytch Mashonda is bored, obsessed and depressed, does she have to respond to everything he does or what people say?….DAMN…MASHONDA, S T F U…I’M SICK OF U….. MOVE ON…. SWIZZY DID….

  • Matix B

    She is in bad taste for showing the prego pic. Get over it! You guys are divorcing…anyway guys lie and so do wonem so ce la vie!

  • me

    both ladies are caliente.
    On a more serious note:
    what someone does for you that person will do to you.A keys better brace herself and put a leash on that nikka.Hope that couchy is a leash…

  • http://bossip.com its me

    Wow, what a courageous woman, I couldnt have said it better myself. Everything she said was so right. Marriage is means nothing now-a-day, but message to Swiss and A. Keyes
    WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND

  • nic

    why is she still talking? just shut up and move on.

  • .....GTFOH

    Who the hell cares Mashonda? Move on with your damn life. You should have gotten to know who he was. The type of woman that “doesn’t research a man and gets knocked up” deserves to be left.

  • just stopping through

    unh

  • http://bossip.com its me

    And Im glad she not keepin her mouth shut, she is motivation to stay right for other people getting divorced for another person. Too many celebes keep their mouth shut about stuff, when they need to be defending themselves. Her son is gonna be hearing all about this when he gets older

  • PraDaMaMa

    WELL AT LEAST SHE NO LONGER IN DENIAL…. NOW GO GET U ONE MASHANDA

  • Tygire

    Mashonda, I have a violin you can carry as you continue to tell your story. Please move on, no one cares.

  • I like hittin men AND women in the back

    @ that damn sh#$ disturber
    3/17/10, 11:27:am

    heard both sides and still don’t know what to think (that’s between them) but it kind of seems like mashonda might be the one coming out of this looking good and probably having the last laugh…
    ___________________________________

    I DONT KNOW HOW U FIGURE MASHITTA WILL COME OUT GOOD…THE ONLY SHINE SHE GETS IS FROM BASHING AKEYS AND SWIZZY, THAT LOOKS DESPERATE TO ME…NOBODY CHECKIN FO HER AZZ…

  • Sly

    I agree with Mashonda’s point about them being “equals”. However, whats done is done, and its time for her to stop looking at pics of how happy they were. In order for the child to have a healthy perspective, she has to heal and forgive, otherwise the child will be affected by her bitterness more than his dad’s actions. Its hard, but somebody has to be selfless and she’ll be rewarded in the end.

  • my_opinions_need_no_cosighning

    If he was soo unhappy in the marriage he should have LEFT but instead he cheated on his wife(smh) he’s a greedy coward not wanting to leave before he found another warm body to lay up with and even if A.keyes didnt respect his wife she should have respected herself enough not to want someones half of a husband, she walking around with an engagement ring..lol gimme a break he cant commit to you he’s STILL MARRIED, i guess money doesnt buy common sense or self respect.

  • B3 Fearless

    I don’t think Mashonda should have responded at all.

    We all know her ex is trying to save face in the public with the little statement he put out last week. The timeline didn’t add up when it came to the child he was talking about and there were pics over the years where they were clearly a happy couple so again I believe there was no need for MAshonda to respond.

    Just let it go…the divorce is almost final so just keep it moving because the more she talks about it, the more desperate she unintentionally seems to look.

  • lz

    Its a sad situation because I know mashonda n swizz, I wish them both the best!

  • wtfever

    I truly am feeling what Mashonda is saying. I dont agree with dating/seeing a legally married man. Wait till they divorce to do your thing. People forget the sacred commitment they are breaking. Its a shame how once you are out of a relationship with someone you couldnt do without, you start saying how unhappy you were. I dont think real love is built on deceit (Swizz and A Keys) Your ending will be as shady and foul as your beginning, Trust!

  • Oh Dear

    I am sure Mashonda would not be speaking on this again if Swizz hadn’t been so disrespectful in interview. That is the mother of his child, if anyone should be taking the “high road” it should be him.

    Mashonda spoke truthfully. People who knowingly sleep with married men/women are trash and people who cheat are trash. I know all this and I have never been cheated on-I can’t imagine what I would do if my husband stepped out on me when we have a TODDLER like Swizz did to Mashonda.

    TELL IT GIRL!

  • http://Bossip Anonymous

    Mashonda needs to be done with all of this nonsense; there is a whole, great big world out there and she needs to experience some other parts of it. A Keys and Swizz are together now; fine, move one; it probably will last as long as the attraction ennyhow.

    Life is for the living. Enjoy yourself because it won’t be long before A Keys be crying over the bird looking brotha. You REAP what you SOW

  • brown eyes

    Some of these comments from these females on here is ridiculous! How can you say mashonda sound desperate…need to keep her mouth shut..etc. She was with this man for 10+ year and some of yall telling her to get over it? Im glad she speaking out and i believe her side. All i know is if that as me i will be doing the same. And how is telling facts bashing? Swiss nor a.keys repected thats marriage. And she’s right only certain type of people do that. I guess marriage is meaningless now.

    p.s. he sure looked happy in those pics!

  • Taj

    Mashonda needs to realize that sometimes, the BEST response is NO response. While I understand that she is hurt by the situation, she is giving him too much press. He is happy now, and she showuld move on and be happy, too.

  • toasty socks

    im pretty sure they weren’t “together” at the end of their marriage. it was probably hell for both swizz n his ex & swizz just moved on realizing it couldn’t be saved. now did he cheat on her with a.k? idk but alicia ain’t a homewrecker. his ex knew iy was over but she’s a scorn bitter divorcee of COURSE she’s going to talk $hit in public instead of acting like someone with some dignity. idiot.

  • chocalatetunda01

    OK SO SOME PEOPLE ARE ON HER BASHING MASHONDA. HMMMMM CAN TELL WHAT TYPE OF WOMAN YOU ARE. HOMEWREAKERS OF THE FUTURE…… SMH. THIS WOMAN IS RIGHT. TRUE HE HAS MOVED ON, BUT HE WAS WRONG IN ALL WAYS. Y LIVE YOUR FAMILY WHO BY THE WAY YOU ARE MARRIED TO THIS WOMAN AND THEN GET ENGAGED TO YOUR JUMP OFF. YEAH I KNOW SHES A.KEYS BUT WHEN YOU MESSING WITH A MARRIED MAN THATS WHAT YOU ARE. SMH. AND PEOPLE ARE ACTING LIKE SHE JUST GOT WITH THIS MEN SHE’S BEEN WITH HIM FOR 12 YEARS. YEAH LETS SEE YOU LOSS A 12 YEAR RELATIONSHIP AND MARRIAGE AND SEE HOW YOU REACT. PEOPLE HAVE FEELINGS YOU CANTTURN THEM ON AND OFF LIKE A LIGHT SWITCH. I HOPE SHE FINDS TRURE LOVE AND SOMEONE WHO LOVES HER UNCONDITIONALLY THRO THE GOOD AND BAD.

  • Ms.Lady

    Women focus too much on trying to be “the Mrs”. Sometimes you have to realize when something has run its course and just let it go. You can’t make a man love you and you can’t make him stay if he doesn’t want to. She needs to start focusing on getting herself together and finding ways to better herself instead of feeding into this back and fourth arguing. Chances are there were problems to begin with and they both played their parts in it. Happy people don’t leave for no reason, and just because there were happy moments doesn’t mean that everything was great. My question is this – would she even want to stay with him if she knew he wasn’t happy with her? And would she want to stay with a man who cheated on her? If you can’t even be friends with someone who you don’t trust, how could you be married to someone without trust? Moving on can be difficult, especially when you’ve been with that person for so much of your life, but she really needs to just let go.

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