Peace!

Thanks for the compliment. Well, I owe a lot of my values to my parents. They ALWAYS instilled that I am valuable and deserve a QUALITY man…one that will treat me with respect. I NEVER forgot what my father said, “A man can say anything to you, but by his ACTIONS, he SHOWS you what he REALLY thinks of you.” I NEVER forgot those words because they are true! A man who cheats and/or continually cheats is SHOWING a woman that he does not love or respect her or their family. And I have always found it unfair when men say that they would kick their wives and/or girlfriends to the curb over ONE indiscretion! Yet, women can continually forgive and forgive and forgive and forgive a man who, by his ACTIONS is SHOWING her that he’s not sorry for sticking his ***** into another woman?!?!?!? I DO NOT envy women like that at all because I know that it must be very hard to look yourself in the mirror everyday when all of your dignity has been stripped away. LisaRaye might be cheesing for the camera, but you can bet your bottom dollar that when her “husband” goes creeping, she’s at all crying her eyes out. LisaRaye is NOT a woman that MOST people respect or admire. Also, women who stay with cheaters don’t think about the message that they are sending their children…essentially telling their boys that cheating is normal and cool and telling their girls that cheating is something that they should expect from men because all men do it! The problem with too many sistas is that they are scared little girls who are afraid to be alone. Yeah, they might scream that they are strong, but the men in their lives know that they can treat them any kind of way and they will NEVER leave. This is HOW men get all of the power in these relationships. The minute that sistas start RESPECTING THEMSELVES the men will have no other choice but to respect them or hit the bricks! And since men of low quality would rather leave you than treat you with respect, shouldn’t a woman be celebrating when she’s finally rid of a low quality man anyway?!?!?! LOL!!!!! That’s the way that I see it.

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I agree with everything u said Sexy is as sexy does! You seem to be very wise and so is your Father!

There aren’t enough wise women these days women nowadays do act like girls and don’t want to leave their man for fear of being alone. It’s a shame. Not many women are smart!

Lisa Raye will probably beg her husband to stay with because she does not want to be lonely and would probably take the cheating from her husband so that she is not left alone. I think she is selfish because she did not believe her friend about being raped by her husband and instead of kicking him to the curb she stays with him because of fear.

There is something wrong with Lisa Raye and alot of people in the world.

Lisa stayed with his nasty raping aZZ after her girlfriend made those accusations. Is she crazy?!!!

I would be running scared away from his *****.

What about her friend! She has to live with fear for the rest of her life. If I was her friend I would be MADD as hell at LIsa Ray. ”

Regardless of the accussations she still has to take all the cheating her husband is doing.

DOESN’T LISA HAVE ANY RESPECT FOR HER SELF. SHE’S A NASTY LITTLE ***** TO ME! AND HER DISGUSTING HUSBAND IS GETTING AWAY WITH RAPE AND CHEATING AT THE SAME TIME. HE IS A COWARD AND A *****T TOO!

THIS IS SOME NEXT LEVEL ISH!! THAT’S GOING ON WITH THE WORLD TODAY.

LISA IS PROBABLY THINKING ” WELL HE DIDN”T RAPE ME SO I GUESS I’M SAFE!” WHAT A *****!

HER HUSBAND BETTER WATCH OUT WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND!! HER HUSBAND IS A WICKED FOOL AND SOMEDAY HE WILL FEEL THE PAIN OF WHAT HE DID TO LISA RAYE’S GIRLFRIEND. I HOPE HE ROTS IN HELL!! THAT LITTLE *****!

Thanks for the compliment. Well, I owe a lot of my values to my parents. They ALWAYS instilled that I am valuable and deserve a QUALITY man…one that will treat me with respect. I NEVER forgot what my father said, “A man can say anything to you, but by his ACTIONS, he SHOWS you what he REALLY thinks of you.” I NEVER forgot those words because they are true! A man who cheats and/or continually cheats is SHOWING a woman that he does not love or respect her or their family. And I have always found it unfair when men say that they would kick their wives and/or girlfriends to the curb over ONE indiscretion! Yet, women can continually forgive and forgive and forgive and forgive a man who, by his ACTIONS is SHOWING her that he’s not sorry for sticking his ***** into another woman?!?!?!? I DO NOT envy women like that at all because I know that it must be very hard to look yourself in the mirror everyday when all of your dignity has been stripped away. LisaRaye might be cheesing for the camera, but you can bet your bottom dollar that when her “husband” goes creeping, she’s at all crying her eyes out. LisaRaye is NOT a woman that MOST people respect or admire. Also, women who stay with cheaters don’t think about the message that they are sending their children…essentially telling their boys that cheating is normal and cool and telling their girls that cheating is something that they should expect from men because all men do it! The problem with too many sistas is that they are scared little girls who are afraid to be alone. Yeah, they might scream that they are strong, but the men in their lives know that they can treat them any kind of way and they will NEVER leave. This is HOW men get all of the power in these relationships. The minute that sistas start RESPECTING THEMSELVES the men will have no other choice but to respect them or hit the bricks! And since men of low quality would rather leave you than treat you with respect, shouldn’t a woman be celebrating when she’s finally rid of a low quality man anyway?!?!?! LOL!!!!! That’s the way that I see it.

Words of wisdom that you shared with us, that marriage is WORK…continuous work… and more work. It’s like cutting and maintaining your lawn on a regular basis. The minute you choose to neglect or ignore the gr*****, weeds will definitely and choke the good gr*****.

Sexy is as sexy does

Bravo…you do understand that as women we are more than who we are married to or are “f——.” Anyone who falss for this game has fallen inot the “black man’s trap”- meaning the man decides what your value is based on how well or how poorly he treats you. Furthermore, women evaluate other women based on this very deceptive and flawed characterization. Heard this before? “At least she has a man” Sad, sad fact about our people, we take too much unnecessary ***** from our men. There are too many silly women- young and old- who buy into this crap. As a result, they never bother developing themselves into their fullest potential.