Holla @ a playa and I’ll dust it off for ya.

*FIRST*
Usher and her need to just get back together. Everyone knows this already Usher and Chili were the cutest and far as I’m concerned shoulda never broke up.

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I can see myself in Chilli–sweet, fun, southern girl whose wholesome, has standards, and in great shape! Good luck though!

She likes a grandma

She’s so beautiful!

She’s miserable and making all these crazy demands because she wants Usher back.

@Snaillyj
sorry chic, you ain’t first. try again. Maybe you’ll get a prize or something.

Lovely, wish her the best.

I think that she should take her time, but shes got sum baggage and because of that its not fair that her man has to be perfect. She interviews her men. She should be charming, that is what men respond to.

Usher come and get your girl…damn. Black people make my a$$ hurt with “our” ever so popular bullsh*t of not going backwards and dumbsh*t like that. I doubt if Usher was beating her and maybe they both made some mistakes, but if your heart is still with that person no matter who U get with it’s just not going to completely satisfy so they both need to get off their high horse and get back together or just forget about having true love in their life. People rarely have true love anyway nowadays…too much animosity or jealous a$$ folks trying to break up your happy home

…needs to stop faking in all her interviews when they ask her about Usher and admit she’s still in love with the negro!

Look at her blush and giggle when she thinks about him! Too Funny! She be alone for a while…She ain’t over the homey!

@Mock Rock Star

You are so right. They both need to put their pride aside, draw a line in the sand to forget the past and move forward.

She is still so much in love with him. Be honest with yourself chic and go get your man…. I know from first hand experience…..

I agree…Chili and Usher should have made it work! She needs to get with my cousin, Floyd Mayweather. He brought her home with him to Grand Rapids, MI about two years ago, so they have been doing more than dating if you ask me.

APB for Usher. She’s calling him out!

We’ll see who can top Usher!!!

@ TiredofStupidity,

You can’t screw those feelings out.. She is still in love with that man… Loving somebody is completely different than being “IN LOVE” with somebody….. I will venture to say he is in love with her… He may have married Tameka and had babies and all that but that real love ain’t going no where……I’m just saying…..

why should she get back with usher? he is no checking for her.

@ObamaFan…Well clearly someone didn’t get the memo that love is reciprocated. His actions are a clear demonstration that the memo fell off of his desk and he didn’t read it. As such, she should just get the hell over it and keep it movin’!

*not
maybe she just has to let go of “that” past relationship.

Mayweather all day!

A 40 year old woman crying about a relationship that ended 7 years ago. Not a good look.

People crack me up going to reality shows to find true love. What do you think you’re really going to get in that format? Some man that wants you or 15 minutes of fame?

@ TiredofStupidity,

I hear you and I don’t disagree with you but he was quite young in that relationship.. I know a couple who just got back together after 25yrs.. So I am just saying it does happen……

Beatuiful woman, but this mess makes her look desperate.

7 years,huh? I’m actually not surprised…this is what happens when you convince yourself your stuff walks on water and does’t stink while everybody else just falls short…kinda…sounds…like …alot.. of… females… on.. her-oops, Never mind!

@ Clarkekent3000

In this situation I actually AGREE with you 100%…

I’m sorry but I couldn’t get into her show. And I liked her and Usher together, they should just reunite.

@ Clarkekent3000

well, except for that last part…smh…

Hi Caramel Cat! Happy Friday!

Hey Aunt Viv!

Same to you lady

Much to much drama with the lady…however, she is quite cute and physically appealing but may be emotionally a bit strung out… using this mess to stay relevant somewhat and to get some paper…Mayweather is better of as her friend…she is seeking a lot out from a man but what is she offering, heck knows…

Chilli don’t believe that chit she be sayin on the show. Not really.

I mean, she would fugg Mayweather and he don’t meet half of her “standards.”

He is rich tho.

duh, she was talking bout usher, that wasn’t a secret… she meant usher.. usher name came up many times in her reality show..
i guess usher was that “great man” um.. ok…

Damn, she’s still riding that.

Ok,granted she may still love Usher,but whose to say he loved her the same way?Looking cute together does not sum up a relationship.I gotta be honest,just listening to her,i can see why she’s still single because she’s beautiful but delusional.

***I actually applaude Chilli for having standards. If her list is important to her, she should not compromise just for the sake of having a man that she will end up not being with in the end anyway.

More of you birds need to get some standards and then maybe men wont continue to dog you. You all are the reason men feel entitled to cheat, becuase you are so man hungry you will do anything to say you have one.

Its obvious Chilli would rather be alone than settle, so she has nothing to lose but her self-respect and dignity if she settles for someone who doesn’t meet her criteria.

It appears that keeping her self respect and dignity is much more important than being in a drama filled relationship with someone that she don’t even like and even if she does get married, it will ultimately end in divorce bacause that’s just how marriages are today. Seems like a catch 22 to me.

Thinking outside the box

Please, she’s the one on a reality show beggin’ for companionship…Sides’, when did drinkin’, pork eatin’ and not bein’ religious become synonymous with cheatin’?

Like I typed earlier, this b*tch is a few years away from menopause. BEGGARS CAN’T BE CHOOSERS!

I never knew she was an idiot till this show aired.Gee whiz she’s full of herself.

Girl let it go

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4/16/10, 10:42:AM
@ Clarkekent3000
well, except for that last part…smh…
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Ms Caramel Cat I am TRYING to getting better-lol! I didn’t say EVERY FEMALE and I tried to fight it and not even say that-at least give me credit for that. Lol!

Alot cuter than J & Beyonce.Lol

This old lady is using these unachievable demands on men to hide her pain & insecurities about aging. She clearly wants to be 17 again & she refuses to grow up and embrace maturity. She needs a psychiatrist, not a man. If any man tried to date her, he would realize that she has psychological problems. What man wants that? She cant compete with 20 year olds & she cant handle it. Get help old lady, and take Diamond with ya, you’re closer to 50 than you think. Have a nice day. w.w.w.n.o.m.a.r.r.i.a.g.e.c.o.m

thats a girl after my own heart! we do have standards!!!!

@ Milly
I can understand where you’re coming from,but tell me something?How come all the requirements she have pertain to material things?Those are not really standards in the true sense,to me they’re just saying a woman has put a price tag on herself.
Another thing is,she wants a man to possess things she doesn’t even have.What if the guy has his own demands,would she measure up to them?
If this is really about standards,where were her standards when she let Usher sleep with her for free for years?Women with standards don’t waste that kind of time.
The girl has serious issues and every man will be with her just until he’s had his fill and go..

Stay with Floyd Chili.

@Clarkekent3000

Gotcha!

@CAT EYES

I agree with EVERYTHING you stated. Chilli is delusional and hung up on herself…she needs to recognize her OWN imperfections before she goes on this tirade of demands…it’s very unbecoming of a woman to feel the need to interview men as prospective boyfriends……

I think its sad that Chili has to go on TV to find a man. She’s 39 about to be 40 I mean what is her problem? I think girlfriend has use those so called standards of hers for so long that she’s finally realized nobody wants to be with her because the average woman does not go on TV looking for man. As for Usher, she did kick him to the curb when she found out he was cheating on her so I don’t think after a wife and two kids why would she want to get back with him back. Its a good thing she takes care of herself because that’s about the only thing she has going for herself right about now. She really thinks the kind of man she’s looking for out there exists.

Seems like Chilli needs to be laying on someone’s couch (a therapist) and taking her cocktail of prozac.

All men cheat except for Jesus.. She needs to be realistic. She wants a man with money because hers ran out so she needs to call Usher up and take the bitter with the sweet and shut up.

She has nothing to bring to the table but her looks, son, bills and that failed business venture of putting pictures on purses. lmao

She cute but a obvious control freak!!! In 7 yrs you couldn’t find one person??

Chili you fail for reminicing like tou Mary J. its over and you arent moving forward obviosly. Damn Usher got married and divorced already, and u still stuck?

I don’t think Chili looking for love makes her look desperate. She is like millions of other women who are past its all about having fun twentys and is at the stage of her life where she is tired of the hit and runs but looking for a real relationship, someone she could grow with and possibly marry. Finding it on a TV show is about 8 to one odds (putting it nicely). She seems to be very likeable (this far) with a long dusty laundry list of do’s & do nots but realization will hit her then she will realize its time to up date her list to something more realistic.

Regarding her past relation with Usher… Although we all liked seeing them together and she seems to have a place for him in her heart doesn’t mean they should be back together. He got married had 2 kids, got divorced but didn’t run back to her arms. Seems like they had something special at one time but that seems to be where it ends. If someday they should reclaim their love, then that would be a beautiful thing but until that happens I wish her luck in finding the type of love she is looking for.

I think Cilli and Floyd make a gud couple

sh*t, finding a decent black man in this day an age is like hitting tha damn lottery! if she is to have any luck, she betta fall back on her unrealistic demands. Most men her age are already established in life. Most are alredy in long-term relationships, married, gay or in tha “clink”.

she’s real stupid…I guess she thinks it’s still 1995 or sumthin’…she needs to be open and not looking for the perfect man because she is not perfect. If she ever met Mr Perfect he prolly wouldn’t want her. Floyd Mayweather seems sweet to her on the show, like he really likes her. She should prolly give him another chance..

CHILLI IS STARTING TO LOOK OLD IN THE FACE….SHE BETTER MAKE IT FAST WHO EVER SHE CHOOSES….CAUSE PRETY SOON USHER AIN’T GONE EVEN WANT HER

SMH….SMH…SMH….@ CHILLI….GRRRRRRLLL U NEED JESUS!!!

To marquis de idiot

Since you appear to be gullible, Chillis “show” is just like Flavor’s, Ray j’s, New York’s, Frank the Entertainer’s, Brett Michals, etc. It’s not a coincidence they are on the same network and produced by the same people. It’s a paying JOB for her. I sincerely doubt she expects to find the man of her dreams on this “show”. Did the forementioned make a love match?

GET BACK WITH USHER!!! HE AIN’T BEEN RIGHT SINCE YOU LEFT HIM AND NEITHER HAVE YOU. YOU GUYS ARE SOULMATES.

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lol @ SCRUBS MAYNOT APPLY!

NO wonder this chic is single. The only men I know with wash board abs are gays. Straight men stop working out in the 90′s when Biggie came on the scene. When straight men saw a bunch of professional women fighting over an obsese, fat black ugly nicca, they canceled their gym memberships & a bunch of gyms closed down.

There is nothing wrong with having standards but she is too old to be wanting a drop dead gorgeous man. What woman want a man that look better than her.

Chili is still very immature, she said in one of her episodes that the man has to be fine and have a washboard stomach but not once did she say anything about his values or character. What she needs to do is realize that the outside isn’t as important as the inside. Even when she says a guy that goes to church that doesn’t go deep enough into what that means.

Her list seems to only cater to the PHYSICAL and how much a Man is PACKING!! That right there told me alot about herself in fact it even shows her insecurities..She has to love HERSELF FIRST…and until she does she won’t find that “dream guy” she so desperately is looking for!