what an idiot!!

I’ll wait to see everybody making excuses for him leaving his baby momma. lol

Dear Halle,
When you are ready to date again my husband and I would be more than happy to be that couple you need in your life. Although we are also younger than you, you wouldn’t have to worry about that because we will find the maturity to make this relationship work. I think you need more than one person in your life and we will be happy to fill the shoes of the “guys” who couldn’t hang and give you the attention you need. Look forward to hearing from you soon.
Sincerely,
Mock Rock Star

I don’t get it…. is it her or them?

@MOCK
“Dear Halle,
When you are ready to date again my husband and I would be more than happy to be that couple you need in your life. Although we are also younger than you, you wouldn’t have to worry about that because we will find the maturity to make this relationship work. I think you need more than one person in your life and we will be happy to fill the shoes of the “guys” who couldn’t hang and give you the attention you need. Look forward to hearing from you soon.
Sincerely,
Mock Rock Star”
______________________________________________________

I specifically asked you a while back if you could be in a polyamourous relationship and you said “no!”

Back off fellas, I got this one!!! That’s right (young jeezy voice)

Doomed from the start and I’m sure she’ll find her prince one magical day. She is developing quite a reputation as a failure with relationships with men, maybe she should try…..

The white boyz are learning from us about how to pump ‘em and dump ‘em. LMFBAO

White men have options….that is what black women just do not seem to understand.

Not suprised. I never knew who he was until he was with her and he is not all that. She is not the only pretty african american woman that we have there are others and she just knew she was rollin with him because he was younger. It is what it is. Nick and Mariah are next to split because nick is silly and very immature. He will soon get tired of being called Mr. Mariah Carey, where is his own identity? He didn’t need mariah so he sells out for money and fame? He is too young for her and she is too old for him. If u are in a relationship like that for money and fame it may be able to satisfy only temp.

@Mock Rock Star
Ain’t you gay??

She is now on the wrong side on 40 with no career and no man……
At least she has nahla

well ‘ least she got a baby outta it

@ Mock Rock Star… I heart you

this chick has always been crazy and then turns around and blames the man…I don’t blame him there are a lot more hotter chicks then this woman..

And the dude LOOKS so WHITE —
we know he’s GOT to have black
blood, because only a negro
would do this.

And as one so well-informed
regular poster on this thread
said “white men have money to
take care of their kids” —-
so THIS dude has GOTTA be black.

@ On behalf of the dirty (Filthy ) black race: I thank you White Women.

no one is going yo leave Iman… she is a queen… David Bowie is a sweetheart.

I meant to say “going to leave Iman”.. sorry about the typo.

Isn’t it a well known fact that Halle Berry is bat sh!t crazy? What made anyone think that just because this guy is white that he was somehow going to put up with her crazy antics? Just like Stacey Dash. If she goes around sleeping with men on the first date, doesn’t it stand to reason that she could have done the same thing with other men after she got married? These two women aren’t going to keep any man, regardless of race.

Garcelle Beauvais just got a rotten apple. White men cheat just like black men cheat, and that’s not to say that there aren’t good men, black and white, who are faithful and who stay married to their spouses of another race happily.

Tiki Barber, Tiger Woods, Taye Diggs, Michael Jordan, Charles Barkley, Dennis Rodman, Michael Strahan, what do these men have in common? They all married or dated non-black women AND CHEATED ON THEM AND/OR DUMPED THEM.

Why is it that black men turn flips when well known crazy black women are dumped by white men? Just because they’re white they’re supposed to be so enamoured with their beauty that they are going to put up with their crap more than a black man? Halle and Stacey’s records speak for themselves.

You have famous interracial couples who are still happily married. Robert Dinero, David Bowie, Cube Gooding, Jr. When is everyone going to stop with this race crap? ITS SO PLAYED OUT.

Is it just me or does Halle REALLY have trouble keepin’ a man?!?! Im jus saying

@Halle

Don’t worry baby, I’m on my way I put in my resignation√ made a flight reservation√ and dumped this caublasian√.

We can finally be together. See you in 5hrs, have a limo waiting for me.

Most beautiful women are unlucky at love because men treat them like a possession instead of people. This is her fault because she has allowed herself to be known for her looks and not her inner self.
She won’t find happiness until she realizes that she is not a commodity which will be hard for her since she has been sold as a product since the Ms. America Pageant in ’84. Her men have bought into the hype of her being this untouchable beauty so much that they can’t stay with her when life gets real.

Man, I just don’t care™
4/30/10, 10:40:am

@MOCK
“Dear Halle,
When you are ready to date again my husband and I would be more than happy to be that couple you need in your life. Although we are also younger than you, you wouldn’t have to worry about that because we will find the maturity to make this relationship work. I think you need more than one person in your life and we will be happy to fill the shoes of the “guys” who couldn’t hang and give you the attention you need. Look forward to hearing from you soon.
Sincerely,
Mock Rock Star”
______________________________________________________

I specifically asked you a while back if you could be in a polyamourous relationship and you said “no!”
=========================================================================

I’m guessing that question was asked before I was married

He’s Canadian … make that a FRENCH Canadian. Up here mixing with other races is ordinary. EVERYONE MIXES!! He left her because Halle ALWAYS HAS HAD ISSUES!! Yeah she got a baby out of it but she is still alone AGAIN!! Poor thing! Im rootin for you gurl

Dude was never that into her in the first place

northporter
4/30/10, 10:55:am

@ Mock Rock Star… I heart you
___________________________________________

Wow! I am thoroughly surprised! How could something like this happen? Not to her of all people! What is this world turning to?….meanwhile in the real world David and Eric are having a quiet laugh. It’s one of those laughs that doesn’t need words to accompany it either for explanation or clarity.
She can now try oriental men,if that doesn’t work out, she can always turn to women. That’s the new sickness in the Western world.

Thank the Gods she has a daughter because if it was a boy he would have had it rough growing up with this crazy woman.

If Halle thought this white boy was going to graze in her field when there are hundreds and thousands of white cows in the other field then she must have been sadly mistaken just like Garcelle.

I don’t why this is a surprise.It was arranged and everyone but Halle knows she’s crazy as hell.She wanted a kid, she got one to love(and control) because she has yet to realize you can’t control other adults.

Gabriel still is fine and I don’t care what anyone says

Yes! I’ve still got a shot!

EVERY MAN LEAVES Halle Berry.Its a proven facvt.She’s the problem,no matter the color of the men she dates.Something is wrong with her and she barely smiles.The last time I remember Halle being sane was on Amen….

Baby my flights delayed, you’re gonna have to charter me a G5.

First off, I’ll believe it when it comes from a reputable source. Second, a man is a man is a man. No matter what color the same saying holds true. This mythical difference between races came from white people. For some reason, blacks like to hold onto that belief like a source of pride but it just isn’t true.

Show me a fine woman and I’ll show you a man (of any race) who is tired of f**king her.

Not everything is meant to last forever. No blame, no shame, just…move on and live life!

@On behalf of the dirty (Filthy ) black race: I thank you White Women.
Actually a recent study shows that Canada will be the only North American country to have non-whites as a majority by 2015. Toronto is the most multi-cultural city in North America and boasts the inclusion of over 150 countries into mainstream society. BTW there is no such thing a French Canada, it’s called Quebec and it’s our second largest province. Carry on!

Its sad that they are broken up but he did it in an honourable way!!!

Time to go on Oprah and start crying.

@Mock Rock Star
haha!! Your ACE!!

Is it just me or does it seem like Halle has issues? This chick can’t keep a man to save her life. I guess beauty is only skin deep, once them guys saw what was really underneath, they flew the coop. {shrugs}

It doesn’t matter how beautiful you are pu&&y is pu$$y to the average man and after a while it all looks, smells and feel the same and then he’s ready for something new, and yes even Halle’s coochie gets old.

@WhatAWorld
4/30/10, 11:18:AM
EVERY MAN LEAVES Halle Berry.Its a proven facvt.She’s the problem,no matter the color of the men she dates.Something is wrong with her and she barely smiles.The last time I remember Halle being sane was on Amen….
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Cosign!!!

“Three time loser in love”? What’s the common denominator? She is. As beautiful as she is, it doesn’t mean she doesn’t carry her own baggage and issues.

GET OUT!!!!!!!
Wow!

Where’s all the “I love white men” heffas at now? BWahahahahahahahahaha

I never expected this to last anyway…it ran its course, now on to the next chapter.

@WhatAWorld

Girl, I’m with you, I’ve always found Gabriel to be a gorgeous piece of man meat. I know Halle had fun…lol…

Halle should not have wasted this man’s time. She was the one with the issues and didn’t want to take it to the next level. You shouldn’t make your next partner suffer just because you have had bad relationships in the past. I don’t care about black/white, if Gabriel is nice he can come my way anyday.

@MOCK
“I’m guessing that question was asked before I was married”
_________________________________________________________

Yes, it was.

Anyone that breaks up with Halle Berry HAS TO BE GAY!

ERIC BENET MUST BE SMILING BIG TIME!

White women get cheated on just as much as black women do. It’s part of the female experience to be cheated on. Just the way it is. *shrug*

Don’t be fooled by early statements on the breakup .
1. Halle made a promise that she wouldn’t marry again and she kept it.
2. Halle wanted a child and she got it.
3. Lived separate from Gabriel, and they visited between New York and Hollywood.

I think Halle was the always in control of this relationship and he just got frustrated that there was no marriage in his future if he stayed with her.

And HAlle was like “I tried black men” like we were the problem.

Naw trick u were the problem.

The man is a fool.

@Jinx

Yeah she did say that didn’t she? It’s almost like she thought she would get different results with another race…hmmm, guess not… *shrugs*

I would guess that the reason they are keeping things quiet and civil, is because they are playing chicken with each other.
Gabriel: I am leaving you if you won’t get married, I need to be more than a sextoy!
Hallie: I told there will be no marriage, so you can stay gone, boy-toy.

Here come the hateful jelous negros posting on this site…were quick to hate on Halles situation but are just as quick to worship a dude for getting with Kim Kardashian. Hypocrites at its finest. Not one of you have a chance with Halle Berry anyways so I dont know why some of you are so obsessed with her personal life. Give it a rest. She has her daughter and thats good enough.

Lol. YOu’re in luck fellas. Like AC/DC “She’s back in black. Now she’s back in black”. lol. Nothing like switching it up. And realdumbblack and lamewhiteinblackforum please don’t comment. You two are the pits.

If this is true WHAT IS THE BIG DEAL?? People break-up ALL THE TIME. How many of you have been with ONE person your whole lives. We all have issues.

@GYPSY
Your comment actually makes sense!

And why are the comments all negative about her? I love how people think they “know”

I’m starting to think, maybe the problem is her. 3 men left you well two since she left umm w.e his name is, and now this fine specimen left you too. Yeah she’s the problem.

Also, Halle Berry is no different then anyother women (regardless of race) when it comes to relationships…I dont know why some of you try to act as if she is a special case. All those women; Jennifer Aniston, Angelina Jolie, Gabriel Union, Sanaa Lathen and the list just goes on and on, date men and stay in relationships just like everyone else. Hale of the people on here probably dont even have a partner or have probably NEVER been married yourselves, so how are you going to come on here talking about Halle?

im not surprised. she didn’t look happy. maybe it’s not the men, maybe it’s halle.

THAT WOMAN IS TOO STRONG TO BE HELD DOWN….. SHE WILL BE JUST FINE.

@JessAG Folk are conditioned to think negatively when a woman is with out a man.dont be sureprised sistar.

@lala – I’m starting to think, maybe the problem is her
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It’s really stupid to blame her, it’s like saying it the fault of black women why black men won’t marry them.
Hollywood starts are always breaking up and moving on to other partners, in fact Halle’s relationships lasted far longer than many others in Hollywood.

u people kill me like you all live with them and know about their relationship inside and out…halle never wanted to marry him in the first place…she said that years ago….and how about people break up all the time…so what’s the big deal…at least he is man enough to end the relationship before he starts seeing other women….can we say the same about cheating woods or jesse james…leave that man alone…and leave halle alone…it’s their business and only theirs….

LOL..
BLACK MEN TRY TO BLAME IT ON US AND SWEAT HALLE….LOL.. SHE CAN’T WIN WITH BLACK OR WHITE!! SPOILED BYTHCES CAN’T MAKE A MAN FEEL GOOD IT IS ALL ABOUT THEM.. RECOGNIZE!!!

SHE SUPPOSE TO BE OUR BEST BUT SHE CAN’T KEEP A MAN.. ThEN MEN FALLING ALL OVER THEMSELEVBS TO TRY TO GET WITH HER… SAD.

pATHETIC

WHEN FOLSK STOP LOOKING TO WHITE STANDARDS AS THE NORM.. THEY WILL BE FREE AND HAPPY!!!!

all of our best that white media recognizes are halF black OR LIGHT. think about it!!!

LOL..
BLACK MEN TRY TO BLAME IT ON US AND SWEAT HALLE….LOL.. SHE CAN’T WIN WITH BLACK OR WHITE!! SPOILED BYTHCES CAN’T MAKE A MAN FEEL GOOD IT IS ALL ABOUT THEM.. RECOGNIZE!!!

SHE SUPPOSE TO BE OUR BEST BUT SHE CAN’T KEEP A MAN.. ThEN MEN FALLING ALL OVER THEMSELEVBS TO TRY TO GET WITH HER… SAD.

pATHETIC

WHEN FOLSK STOP LOOKING TO WHITE STANDARDS AS THE NORM.. THEY WILL BE FREE AND HAPPY!!!!

all of our best that white media recognizes are halF black OR LIGHT. think about it!!!

HALLE IS OBVIOUSLY THE PROBLEM.. CAN’T KEEP A MAN FAITHFUL AT ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!LOL!!!!!!!

THAT IS WHAT YA’LL ARE SWEATING.. GOT MINE AND HAVE NO PROBLEM KEEPING IT!!!!!!!!!!

1-hello everyone knows Halle is crick crack crazy..she is a white washed grave, clean on the outside..all kinds crazy bones on the inside!

2-she can’t act.

3-I’m far from condoning violence, but everyone she was with abused her..it’s time to be on your own and use your money to get some help so your daughter doesn’t repeat the same pattern

4-I’ve dated Quebec white men…the Quebec women are a lot like us they don’t put up with much..so he wasn’t afraid of a challenge..everyone has their limits..he reached his..

@+

Sad does anyone stay together?

..and I dunno whether 2 LMBAO or SMH @ women virtually PRAYING that David Bowie and Iman don’t break up. Do some of u REALLY need that much validation?

Wow…

Why this big conversation about a rich woman and her Model lover breaking up?

I am just hoping that halle will now return to acting full time I missed her beauty on screen.

How the heck is she guilty of self hatred when she is half white? do you bitter people have ANYTHING interesting to discuss? RACE RACE RACE and more RACE. blah.

@SMH & WTF

LOL

You sound bitter baby,,,,I am living GOOOOOOD.LOL

I am just pointing out some facts…lol..lol….lol….you Negroes are funny………

Halle Berry is UGLY as a motha f*cka. She ALWAYZ been a BEAST of a Woman…

didnt seem like they ever liked each other..

For everybody who is saying “maybe it’s her”. Yeah…and maybe it’s YOU too! Who in here can say they are still with their first love?

Come on now, be for real. Half the folk in here probably have a long list of loves. There are two sides to a story and somewhere in the middle is the truth. So get off your high horses. You shnit stink too!!!

@NubianKing

We can say the same thing about black men…cause y’all ain’t marrying black women either! Y’all phunking and leaving black women too…far more than the white man. So before you start looking in someone else’s house, look in your own backyard (meaning the black community)…NUBIAN KING.

Who said she wanted to “KEEP” him anyway? Ladies, Ladies, Ladies, not all women base their happiness and self worth upon “KEEPING” a man. She is Halle Berry for crying out loud! Do you think she’s gonna cry over dude? She probably wont have a problem getting a man when she’s 70! just saying

Her good friend, Harpo Christ, told her not to date Black Men again. Maybe O Almighty can send Halle plenty of flowers and Kleenex to help with her emotional state after this another failed relationship. Thanks, O! P.S. Halle its ok to try Black Men!

*Halle Berry Song paying in the background*

Halle never wanted to get married again because she has issues from her childhood. The nine year age difference didn’t help at all. Halle is a serial dater like JLO look what happened to her.

@JessAG

WHAT IS IT THAT YOUR AVATAR PIC IS DOING?? VERY INTERESTING

Some of you are so darn ignorant you’ll never find enlightenment. Why is this a racial issue? Halle Berry is neither black nor white. She is biracial. Get that one correct. She’s also an adult and can date whomever she chooses.

How did she get played? They were together for 5 beautiful years, she had already said she’d never get married again, she has a beautiful child, and anything that is reported that doesn’t come from Halle or Gabriel I would consider to be false.

Get love where you can find it. If you keep your mind closed God will surely not send anyone of quality your way with an ignorant and closed mind.

GOING TO READ MY WORTHWHILE BLACKNESS

w w w . t h e n o i r e f f e c t . c o m

@Mr.uppercuts

Its obvious you have taken one too many uppercuts to the dome.

Give up boxing ni.gga you are delusional.
And get your eyes checked.

“Keep his b*lls empty and belly full”

@slide

You left out keep the da*m house clean.
And don’t worry about the amount of money we spend on sh*t.

They always seemed unhappy in their pics.

Co-sign @ Slide..now dats real rap!

O N . T O . T H E. N E X T. O N E . “and fahk that autotune cause we on”

A lot of guys don’t like strong women, so when Hallie told Gabriel that, “look I’m not going to marry you, but you can be my special concubine/lover”, after awhile it became too much for him, sitting in New York waiting for call to service her.

Rev. Hosea Williams,
“This plantation is filled with Uncle Toms and Aunt Thomasine‟s!

Unfortunately (or not so much) this will become a trend. And you know for a fact gabe came out of that relationship with way way more money than he came into it with. I feel bad for Halle she deserves the best.

When are people going to grow up and understand looks has nothing at all to do with how good a person is. Obviously, if this is true, she has a lot of soul searching to do. Her looks have nothing to do with anything if she’s flucked up on the inside. Haven’t we learned that yet? I never believe the hype about 99% of these Hollywood couples and the “they look happy” comments based on pictures. Anyone can smile for a picture and “look happy.” Unless you know people personally, you don’t know what they are going through.

@othello – you know for a fact gabe came out of that relationship with way way more money than he came into it with.
————————-
How so Othello? They had separate residences, they weren’t married, so where is the money in that?
If he gets any money it will be out of the kindness of her heart for the father of her child, there is no legal compulsion.

@ AnonymousGal
@Realist

Have you and those other race crazy guys considered that you are losers and you just don’t know it yet.

So chill and take care of him – if he’s a good man he’ll take VERY GOOD care of you because ALL good & decent people reciprocate
===========================================

I’m a woman and can honestly say this is 100% true. If you treat your man like a King and he’s a loving person, he show his appreciation. If he doesn’t then you know he’s not right for you.
Don’t know what to say about Halle, but I think alot of women would do well to just spend sometimes by themselves for awhile.

@Gypsy
If being “race crazy” is a CRIME – I’ll like to be a CRIMINAL.. I won’t rest till I see the BLACK RACE move out of the bottom of every social ladder in the world – we’re more than what the “WHITE MEDIA” portray us to be – WE SHALL OVERCOME…

Now go and play in the traffic or zuck Magic Johnson’s d!ck & die slow of A.I.D.S!!

She’s still marketable. Anyone who believes differently see Shaunie O’Neal . Halle has 4 less kids and probably 4 times as much money. She anit as crazy as you all think. She got a kid and didn’t have to split shyt. Hell, that was cheaper than artificial insemination. The only question is will the next one be black or white?

I CANNOT WAIT TO SEE WHAT THE RACE OF GABRIEL AUBRY PARTNER WILL LOOK LIKE….

1)Just because the person is white doesn’t mean they will treat you right. Some brainwashed black men and black women need to understand that and stop being so silly.

2) Black women need to learn to work with their power they have over men. If a black man hates you, you are not the issue. You’ve had to love something before you can hate it. Do not listen to some of the bitter men and women on this site.

3) White men are the worst men to date or marry. Normally, you can never leave a white man. They will make your life miserable if you do whereas black man are more reasonable about breakups. Now in Halle’s case, I believe she is too narcissistic and no man wants to deal with that crap, ask Kim Kardashian. That’s the reason they both can keep their men.

????? longest relationship, Proud Swirler you must be on a crack head. This wasnt her longest relationship.

She was David Justice for years, Come on now. Proudswirler stop smocking those crackrocks Cracky

@ ReALiSt

Most of your comments are great.

@realist

I’m going to book you for a seminar at the Learning Annex. Would you be interested in speaking in NYC sometime in June?

@gypsy and all others that share your views!!!

We still have a few Negro people
that think that they are White
people with a permanent suntan. It
may not be time to get rid of the
“N” word just yet. This type of
Negro is depressing. They seem to
think that White people respect
them when they are kissing White
people’s azz. How does it feel to
have White stink & Do-Do on your
face Negro.

This isn’t a race issue people…Halle Berry is that beautiful woman with the banging body that for some reason can’t keep a man to save her life. See also: LisaRaye and Stacey Dash.

A major dynamic of being Black is to know that Heaven is between a Black woman‘s legs. Never the less, Africans were intelligent enough to know that not every being with a vagina was a hue-man.

In a White Supremacy system, Black women are not supposed to have a man and children that don‘t live in fear. They are supposed to settle for less. That‘s why it‘s called White Supremacy!

In the White Supremacy system, Black men are not supposed to plan, organize, be righteous or control land. That‘s why it‘s called White Supremacy!

@sean-slade & Shomondo

Thank You…

I’m trying to help THEM OUT so they can keep their man and/or be able to keep one next time around…

But y’all know how some of them like to “stay stuck on stupid”, SMMFH…

As fine as Halle Berry is and she can’t keep a man – these women need to know that while they may be able to GET a man keeping a GOOD one is and will be difficult if they don’t follow the simple instructions that I gave them = keep his b*lls empty, his belly full AND shut the f*ck up!!!

If you are a Black woman and a Black man makes you feel special…holla!

If you are a Black man and a Black women makes you feel mo‘ better…make some noise!

Dr. Wade Nobles
“The definition of power is a
psychological question. It is not a
military question. It is not a
economic question. It’s not a social
question. It is a psychological
question. Power is the ability to
define reality and to have other
people respond to your definition
as if it were their own. Our
dilemma, our problem is that we
allow other people to define the
meaning of who we are. And once
we accepted their definition we
gave them power.”

Dr. Wade N0bles

Halle does have issues, but she has no more issues than other females. Her issues are just made public under a microscope. She suffered through seeing her black father beat her white mother, and still managed to give black men a chance which is more than you can say most black men give black women nowadays. Gabriel is fine, but I never liked them together because he seems boring and bland. To be honest, she and Eric made the best couple, he just had issues they couldn’t work through. Relationships are hard when you see the person everyday, let alone living on separate coasts or being apart days or weeks at a time. For that reason most hollywood relationships are not going to work. If they do work, then it is because the lesser celebrity is probably choosing to tolerate a lot of bulls***t for the sake of the relationship. Mabye she will use this time now to work on herself so she can be the best mom for Nahla. Either way, 43 or not there are plenty of eligble men that will still be looking for Halle.

What do Halle Berry, Sanaa Lathan, Vivica Fox, LisaRaye, Gabrielle Union, Tyra Banks, Stacey Dash, and many others have in common? They’re all used up, old, and can’t keep a man. A lot of women can learn something from these failures. Most women can get men, but most don’t know how to keep them.

@Nubian King. I’m with you! Holla!

@Realist
Those quotes are amazing.

@Halle & other sistas who are bitter excuse makers:

1.Stop blaming the Black Man for your failures.

2.Stop flying backwards.

@The Dude
4/30/10, 13:53:PM
@ ReALiSt
Most of your comments are great.
=====================================
Thanks brother!!! We shall overcome!!

@slide

Well I got my b*lls emptied last night so I better be getting my belly filled tonight.

Or else I’m going to see the fight with the homies tomorrow night.
(Floyd in 9)

Another chapter in 2010′s Year of Celebrity Break-Ups and Other Relationship Debacles. . .

@Justice

“2) Black women need to learn to work with their power they have over men. If a black man hates you, you are not the issue. You’ve had to love something before you can hate it.”

Insightful words to live by. Although I’m not sure some of them ever loved sisters, but I am positively sure they should be avoided like the plague.

“Do not listen to some of the bitter men and women on this site.”

Sing this from the rooftops. . .So true. How did black women become a part of this thread anyway? Do any of us know Halle personally? Did she talk with us about her problems with Gabriel? Is she seeking relationship advice from us?

Methinks she’s an individual celebrity going through a very public break-up — That’s it. *sigh*

If you are a Black woman and a Black man makes you feel special…holla!

If you are a Black man and a Black women makes you feel mo‘ better…make some noise!
********************************
@Nubian King…

EXCELLENT POST ONCE AGAIN, YOU’RE SO ON POINT WITH EVERYTHING.

@ treetop

still managed to give black men a chance
………………………………………….
You acknowledge that she has issues, so how is this a good thing?

Either way, 43 or not there are plenty of eligble men that will still be looking for Halle.
…………………………………………
What quality man is going to want her when they can get better, more attractive women, that aren’t past their prime, and have way less baggage?

MY CHANCE! HALLE HOLLA AT A BROTHA!

@Realist
Those quotes are amazing.
_______________________________

And, I agree. The only problem is that they are 40 or more years old.

@ WHY?
4/30/10, 10:38:am

I don’t get it…. is it her or them?

——-****——–

That’s what I was wondering too!
She just can’t seem to make it with ANYbody! And she’s one of the most lusted after women of the country….maybe that’s the problem!
Well, she got a mini-me out this liason so it should hold her for awhile!

“If you are a Black woman and a Black man makes you feel special…holla!”

Yes, he does. He’s very special, indeed.

Its irrational for so many educated people to place blame on someone they don’t know.

And Fu*k that Halle is foooiiiinnnnnneeeee!
Me and her can grow old and crazy together.

@STEFANY

Thanks Family

Halle is proof something wrong with these black b i t c h e s, if she cant keep a man, what the ugg muggs chances?, that’s why the black man swirlin……….

Oh wait, it does look kinda suspect.

She,s used goods now she,s done sleep with ol cavie wouldn,t touch her with a pair construction work gloves

From one black woman to another….. find another gorgeous WHITE boy. I’ve been with my white man for 10 years and he’s been faithful. Trust me they know how to TREAT a woman.

@Keep it Real
They might be 40yrs old or 100,000yrs old but they still apply to you – the black race is still at the same position it was 40yrs ago.. AIN’T NOTHING CHANGED – JUST THE NUMBER OF YEARS…

“The events which transpired five thousand years ago; Five years ago or five minutes ago, have determined what will happen five minutes from now; five years From now or five thousand years from now. All history is a current event.” – Dr. John Henrik Clarke

@Theorius Stylez
Thanks brother!!

I saw this coming. She has so much baggage, she’s older,and she is a control freak. No man wants to be a woman who is bossy, moody and doesn’t want a future with him. She’s too old for him anyway. Sorry no young man is going to waste his time with a woman a couple years his senior who is used up when he can get a younger woman. After a certain age woman are not desirable. This whole cougar movement is false, in reality no man young or old wants an older woman.

@ It’s OK
4/30/10, 14:33:pm

From one black woman to another….. find another gorgeous WHITE boy. I’ve been with my white man for 10 years and he’s been faithful. Trust me they know how to TREAT a woman.
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I bet you ROLL all over him like a Briggs and Stratton lawn mower, something you cant do with a black man…whatever you doin with your atttitude with him, you coulda did with a black man, but apparently it’s all about how YOU are treated, not how you treat the other person…FAIL

It’s OK
4/30/10, 14:33:pm

From one black woman to another….. find another gorgeous WHITE boy. I’ve been with my white man for 10 years and he’s been faithful. Trust me they know how to TREAT a woman.

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I hear ya>>>>>its not that easy sista for some of us. Wish it were, but its not……(deep sigh)

Wow!!

Why are you telling the truth?

@ currvalicious

And commenting on Zoe Saldana she’s wack
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She might be wack and she’s nowhere near as attractive as Halle Berry, but she still took Halle’s spot. There seems to be only room for one black actress at a time in Hollywood. Zoe will be gone in a few years and some other black chick will fill her role as well.

@ Nubian King hahahahahahahahahahaha I haven’t laughed this hard in weeks. To everyone read Nubian kings post for that is truth I have always known. It’s good to have brothers like you sir. Hahahahahahahahahahaha cartoons and fairy tales.

@Sunny is BACK!!

It’s OK

From one black woman to another….. find another gorgeous WHITE boy. I’ve been with my white man for 10 years and he’s been faithful. Trust me they know how to TREAT a woman.

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I hear ya>>>>>its not that easy sista for some of us. Wish it were, but its not……(deep sigh)
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Best of luck to you. Just don’t hate on the brothers because we have a few more options than you all.

“Are black women really that foolish to believe this was a real relationship?”

Nope. I think Halle wanted a baby, and now she has one. She looks like she’s enjoying motherhood immensely.

Well,this should show that beauty can never, ever be enough to hold a man

take notes brothers:

“he had become attracted to someone and that he felt he needed to break it off with Halle BEFORE anything developed any further.”

… not after he already banged all the h*es in town

Okay, I’m convinced that Halle, while beautiful, is nuttier than a squirrel. It’s one thing to go through a few bumps on the road to relationship happiness, but when all of your relationships crash and burn you have to look at the common denominator, YOU.

i congratulate him on being honest before he started messing up though…

I don’t get it…??? Halle Berry is beautiful and rich. Why would her partners look else where? I guess some women no matter how successful just needs lessons in picking a good man.

NOTE TO HALLE: STAY AWAY FROM TIGER!

I see a lot of black males on here making a lot of sense, and alot of black women on here making a lot of excuses.

To bad you educated brothers aren’t in politics you could do a lot of change.

At least he’s a man & ended what he started before starting a new. I respect his fine butt he outta teach these other men a thing or two because he obviously knows something he’s been piping Halle down for quite some time now.

Who’s making excuses for whom? Is Halle a politician? A head of state? A corporate CEO?

No, she’s an actress who’s had a string of bad relationships, has talked at length about her emotional problems (including the suicide attempt in the garage), and proclaimed she would never get married again before getting impregnated by a model many years her junior. Will her breakup affect world peace? Throw the economy into further turmoil? Nope.

Should black men be held accountable for the missteps of Tiger and Tiki? Of course not. It’s just as ridiculous to try to make the latest salacious Hollywood relationship storm story more than it is because it involves Halle. This is a road she’s been down before more than once, so it’s hardly surprising.

@Ms. Puerto Rican, Dominican, Jamaican

Wow!!

Why are you telling the truth?

@ Sydney if you read most of the posts from us brothers here today it’s mostly wise truths. We shall not bend over for Halle or any other sister that is enemy to the black kingdom. We shall march and protect our Nubian queens, uplift the wise caring and witty ones. Have no doubt we shall call out the fakes. In our strong way yes we are united only difference is we are not sissy like uncle Tom black men nor ga.y like 98% of white men. Yes sisters get it together if you want a real king and that word is bond.

Apparently, Halle’s ex said that he started noticing other women. It just proves my point that men usually can’t stay with one woman, especially when she’s on decline.

No one ever said that just because she was “accepted” by white folks and heralded by black (because nothing says “black beauty” like a mulatto) that she was somehow without flaws. Sustaining relationships must be at the top of her list of things she’d like to accomplish one day.

@dirty filthy. Its not super hard to land a white dude. They are a dime a dozen. They love black women. That’s America’s best kept secret. But white men are psychos in relationships!

Just don’t hate on the brothers because we have a few more options than you all
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You love talking about the swirl Keep it Real. This sounds like a kid on the playground saying, look at me, I got more than you. SMH.

I swear some of bruhs think every race of woman wants us. When the truth is, other races are not checking for us like we think. Lots of times, they use us and call us racial slurs when we are not around.

I can always tell a brother who REALLY ENJOYS the swirl. Swirl on.

@Nubian King, Realist.

Speak on it!

@ Justice you are one very wise sister.

@realblackandghetto and onbehalfofwhitejealoustrash: PLEASE OFF YOURSELVES. YOU’RE BOTH OBVIOUSLY DESPERATE AND MISERABLE AND APPEAR COMPATIBLE. SO RUN OFF TOGERTHER. PLEASE DO THE WORLD A FAVOR.

I can’t believe how gullible black women are. This guy looks homosexual. Halle simply wanted his DNA. She wanted a pretty white boy so she could have a half-white baby. Black women are completely delusional when it comes to white men. This guy NEVER looked happy with her. Now she will have to pay him a fortune.

How do black women and the mothers of bi racial kids feel when their white husbands remarry white women and introduce white stepmothers and white stepkids to the mix? How do black women feel about white stepmothers being a figure in the their biracial kids life? Does that feel weird?

ONLY IGNNORANT BLACK WOMEM BELIEVE Just because a man is white he is different MOST BLACK WOMEN WITH SENSE know a man is a man..

also he didn’t just “drop her” they been had relationship issues.

@Syndey Absolutely we have to continue to fight for the black family when soooo many want to destroy it.

HALLE IS ON. TO . THE . NEXT. ONE. haters. “AND FAHK THAT AUTOTUNE CAUSE WE ON”.

@Sydney™

@Sunny is BACK!!
I hear ya>>>>>its not that easy sista for some of us. Wish it were, but its not……(deep sigh)
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Best of luck to you. Just don’t hate on the brothers because we have a few more options than you all.
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Those were my words. I don’t think I said anything inflammatory or derogatory toward black women.

As a matter of fact, I don’t plan on participating in any bashing of sisters. It seems like bulling and is actually quite boring. The only time I will put my two cents in is if; The Melan Mafia start making demands about what skin complexion and or race black men should date and or the Fat Black Mafia start making statements about all black men like obese women telling skinny women (anyone) smaller than them that they need to gain weight. Other than those two groups trying to dictate, I love and respect black women. I sometimes can be a little sharp and for that I apologize.

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@Justice

“@Syndey Absolutely we have to continue to fight for the black family when soooo many want to destroy it.”

I’d be interested in reading your thoughts on how to solve this considerable quandary. Thank you for your thoughtful and balanced posts — I think you touched upon some of the flaws of BOTH genders. You’re a woman, right?

@ Sydney

Most of us are not bashing black women, we’re just stating how a lot of black women are. If you’ve read my comments, I’ve also pointed Jennifer Aniston’s ability to keep a man. Honestly, I wish more black women would improve themselves, because it would give us more options. I wish you girls would choose your mates better as well. These things would improve our race and family structure.

I’ve complimented you and a few other black women on this website for seemingly being of good quality right? I’ve even agreed when some have said that some black men need to improve. If you’re referring to my comments, I may be a little harsh, but I’m just being honest.

FOR THIS QUESTION: “How do black women and the mothers of bi racial kids feel when their white husbands remarry white women and introduce white stepmothers and white stepkids to the mix? How do black women feel about white stepmothers being a figure in the their biracial kids life? Does that feel weird?”

YOU SHOULD ASK BLACK MEN THAT QUESTION AS WELL…Many rich blk men get used by their ww then divorce and marry white….

@Keep It Real

“As a matter of fact, I don’t plan on parti*****ting in any bashing of sisters.”

OK, I’m glad to hear that because it’s occurring every day.

“Other than those two groups trying to dictate, I love and respect black women.”

Why does this “love and respect” from some feel like constant antagonism? Or is it just me?

“I sometimes can be a little sharp and for that I apologize.”

That’s nice to read. As the old saying goes, you can catch more bees with honey. . .

Halle wanted a baby who looked as close to white as possible. That is why she chose this guy who looks real gay.

@TINA: It’s a lost cause. They just scream their bitter, inane , jealous rants as if we value their opinion. H O P E L E S S . In their minds, they believe they have influence on the way we think. So inept

@real black is chocolate

It must su.ck to be a grown azz man with the writing skills of a fourth grader.

So are you saying all the white men in want black women? So i guess Gabriel Aubrry next girlfriend will be India Irie?

@Reality and @Syndey Thank you. You are both beautiful sistas and yes I am a beautiful black woman too!

TINA,
WHICH IS IT? I thought you all said that when a white woman goes with a black man, no white man will take her back ?( I KNEW this was a lie ) yOU SAID NO WHITE MAN WILL GO WITH KIM KARDASHIAN ( SHE IS RUMORED TO BE DATING WHITE SOCCER STUD, RONALDO ) Now they marry white men……which is it then?

@The Dude

“If you’ve read my comments, I’ve also pointed Jennifer Aniston’s ability to keep a man.”

See, here’s my issue. Yes, Jen has a reputation for not being able to “keep a man,” yet she is NOT portrayed as the embodiment of all that is wrong with white women. She is judged, for the most part, as an individual. I think what I and many other black women desire is that same individuality — the ability to make mistakes and not have them reflect on the entire group.

“Honestly, I wish more black women would improve themselves, because it would give us more options.”

Refer to previous statement. Why is a story about Halle an invitation to hear more grousing about the terrible, evil black woman?

“I wish you girls would choose your mates better as well.”

Some of us do and have, and, this is the cold, harsh truth, the black men in our lives don’t sound anything like the majority of black posters on this site. They truly DO love, respect, and honor black women.

@Justice

“yes I am a beautiful black woman too!”

Let the record show that Sista Justice is, indeed, a black woman taking fellow sisters to task for their flaws. She’s not an urban legend. She’s here in the flesh.

If people have a preference for another race, cool. Why is it that black men and women have to degrade each other in the process? If you want to date outside your race, do it w/o talking about your own race.

And what in the world does Halle have to do with black women and what does Tiki have to do with black men? Nothing. Whenever a post is about a black male or female celebrity, we always find ways to talk about each other. SMH.

Just by reading these comments it goes to show that men (and some women) get upset when BW date/marry IR too (for all those who always say otheerwise).

he never loved her. he was a gentleman and stayed until the baby came. no woman gives a man a beautiful child and just walks away if he was ever in love. damn shame. something must be wrong with her though. i hope she stays away from black men though. she loved this jerk but didnt love any of the black ones.

@ Mike

Lots of times, they use us and call us racial slurs when we are not around.
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Just a question. How do you know what we’re called when we’re not around? You probably feel like a defender of black women and that’s perfectly fine, but at least make sense dude. You couldn’t possibly no what is said behind your back if you’re not around.

that’s what she gets for having a child for a boyfriend, and refused to do so for any of her black husbands. served her right.

IF YOU PEOPLE THINK HALLE FAHKEN BERRY IS CRYING OVER THIS DUDE, YOU ARE OUT OF TOUCH WITH REALITY. WTF DOES SHE CARE? DON’T BE FOOLISH.

@dirty filthy I’m saying the majority of white men are attracted to black women yes. Because of societal pressures, the negative backlashed and potentially the loss of money and power that comes with it, many white men find its too much of a headache to deal with. Its the same ideology that white is better that you seem to have lost your mind in.

Gabriel doesn’t have to date another black woman if he doesn’t chose too- he has a baby with a black woman and his daughter is black. For all we know, Halle might have been a narcissistic, controlling insecure woman.

@Mike
I don’t think most white women are attracted to brothers cos of our looks – most beckys are just attracted to our MANDINGOS and sometimes STATUS & FAME… I don’t support swirling but if that’s make some people happy – goodluck to them as long as they REALIZE that they’re still BLACK & part of the struggle.

“I’d be interested in reading your thoughts on how to solve this considerable quandary.”

That’s I keep telling everyone we’ve to go back to our root(not kinta kunte) – the re-education of the BLACK MIND is necessary – the first creation was a BLACK WOMAN – and GOD created the BLACK MAN to help and protect her… BROTHERS needs to start protecting and helping our SISTERS – while the SISTERS needs to see us as their BEST FRIENDS,PROTECTOR & HELPER – and STOP using the BIASED AMERICAN JUSTICE SYSTEM against us… Once that’s can be done – we will achieve unity…

@The Dude

How do you know what we’re called when we’re not around? You probably feel like a defender of black women and that’s perfectly fine, but at least make sense dude. You couldn’t possibly no what is said behind your back if you’re not around.
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Huh? I was not talking about me specifically when I said us. Us meant black men. I actually heard it from one of my co-workers, a white lady. She is dating a black man and I overheard her telling another white woman that she has her little monkey tamed because he does whatever she wants. That was not the first time it happened either. The same thing happened to one of my frat bros. when he was in a relationship with a Latin woman. He told me they got in a argument and she slipped up and said n_gger, although that was in his face and not behind his back.

Why you getting so defensive about something that was not said to you? I know you don’t like someone saying that sometimes women of other races do use racial slurs about us when they date us. I know some brothers love to these women have emotions attached, but the truth it they are not checking for us out of love like we think all the time.

@dirty filthy. Please don’t take this the wrong way, but please find some self esteem. The reason we are not promoted is because of what is commonly known as “institutionalized racism”. Is Halle white? No. Is President Obama white? No…they are black the last time I checked.

@Syndey You are the greatest!

Now Hollywood bigwigs are gonna feel she is to old to apper to the 18 – 34 male demographic. Her career is in serious jeopardy because of this,plus she was never a meryl streep or cate blanchette. in terms of acting This ‘black woman has allowed this white boy to ruin a 20year career. She was more successful when she was with the Black men.

typo***Once this can be done – we will achieve unity***

@Realist

“BROTHERS needs to start protecting and helping our SISTERS”

I agree, and the man in your gravie spoke about that very need.

“while the SISTERS needs to see us as their BEST FRIENDS,PROTECTOR & HELPER – and STOP using the BIASED AMERICAN JUSTICE SYSTEM against us…”

I keep seeing references to sisters forcing brothers into the correctional system. What exactly are you referring to?

I saw a good article recently from a black women’s online magazine about the damaging impact of the bashing of black men by some sisters, so there is recognition by a number of black women that the denigration goes both ways, and it needs to stop ASAP. The more we hurt one another, the longer we will remain divided.

@Justice
4/30/10, 15:49:PM
@Syndey You are the greatest!
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Get off her nutz – only h.o.m.os do that – the greatest is on my gravie!!

@Realest

I don’t think most white women are attracted to brothers cos of our looks – most beckys are just attracted to our MANDINGOS and sometimes STATUS & FAME…
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Thank you. That is what I meant when I said sometimes they use us. This is why some of them use racial slurs because when they check for us it aint genuine. Its usually something else they want. Glad to see another bro understands that.

That means the white man is a RACIST………..well then why the hell would he sleep pr publicly date the ONE thing he detest the most? If the white man is laying down the seed to block us from the society, why would he want us us his bride?

“Get off her nutz”

I don’t have “nutz” — just ovaries.

Halle and Barack HAVE WHITE MOTHERS. WHAT IF WE DONT HAVE THE LUXURY OF HAVING A WHITE MOM…..THEN WHAT?

d.o.c.u.m.e.n.t.e.d! WTF?

@Da EuNuCh AkA DaMan-GoOgLeR:

“HALLE BERRY IS A CHEAP H.O.O.KER AND, AN AVERAGE ACTRESS AT HER BEST…”
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I guess you would know from all that b00ty-h0le you’re peddle on bleeker street!

ugLYWHITEGIRL: WE KNOW YOUR LONELY AZZ IZ A FUGLY WHITE PERSON THAT MUST FACE THE HARSH REALITY THAT PLENTY OF BLACKS LOOK BETTER THAN YOU.

@ Sydney

Yes, Jen has a reputation for not being able to “keep a man,” yet she is NOT portrayed as the embodiment of all that is wrong with white women.
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That’s true. I do view black women as individuals but a large portion(70%) of black women can’t get men and white girls are nowhere close to being as single, so Aniston can’t be viewed as all that is wrong with white women.

Why is a story about Halle an invitation to hear more grousing about the terrible, evil black woman?
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I’ve never said all black women were evil. I have said before, that I know good black women. You shouldn’t pay attention to guys that can’t acknowledge the good ones.

They truly DO love, respect, and honor black women.
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I’m sure most of us love and respect you girls too. The fact that I’m hard on black women sometimes is because I do want to see them have better results and not because I hate you. I know some of you choose your mates wisely and you should get other black women to do the same.

@Realist Why so hostile? Can’t a sista be happy because I’m not an urban legend or are you the only one that can be praised here. You need to practice what you preach Realist.

PLENTY OF BLACKS LOOK BETTER THAN WHITE WOMEN ( though i am not white ) Does this include the 70% THAT IS SINGLE AND OVERLOOKED BY BLACK, WHITE ASIAN AND LATINO MEN?

@ Mike
4/30/10, 15:53:pm

@Realest

I don’t think most white women are attracted to brothers cos of our looks – most beckys are just attracted to our MANDINGOS and sometimes STATUS & FAME…
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Thank you. That is what I meant when I said sometimes they use us. This is why some of them use racial slurs because when they check for us it aint genuine. Its usually something else they want. Glad to see another bro understands that.

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I’m very glad that there is more than ONE that understands that!

ooops,you’re peddling…

Why is it that white woman are not single in super high numbers?

lmao @ bluekid!

come on be nice…

@ Mike

I actually heard it from one of my co-workers, a white lady. She is dating a black man and I overheard her telling another white woman that she has her little monkey tamed because he does whatever she wants.
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If that’s true then you have no backbone. Why would you let people disrespect your race like that?

I’m not defensive and I really don’t mess with white or latin chicks like that and I don’t want to. I’m just pointing out some dumb stuff you just said. Saying that you heard some white chick saying this and you just took it makes you sound like a b*tch.

@The Dude

“I do view black women as individuals but a large portion(70%) of black women can’t get men and white girls are nowhere close to being as single”

LOL! Tell that to the white women who have profiles on dating sites in the hopes of finding decent dates. So I think a number of women would disagree with that statement. And the way that 70% figure is being floated through the media heaps a lot of blame on the so-called challenges facing black men, including the high incarceration rate. How would you feel if I started comparing black men with white men in that respect?

“You shouldn’t pay attention to guys that can’t acknowledge the good ones.”

Like the majority of men on this site?

“I know some of you choose your mates wisely and you should get other black women to do the same.”

Well, one piece of advice I would give is to steer clear of ANY man who does not respect women, and it’s easy to pick up on that trait if women go through the process of actually being courted, versus jumping into flings.

@Kigali

Black folks have only been taught to respond negatively to racism ONLY. If you are killing on the street, having OOW babies, nothing wrong with that because a white man cant be blamed. I dont know who to blame.
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I agree with ya. So true, so sad.

“I keep seeing references to sisters forcing brothers into the correctional system. What exactly are you referring to?”

The JUSTICE SYSTEM in terms of divorce – an example is NAS VS KELIS… SISTERS need to realize that BROTHERS on the streets do what they to show their MASCULINITY to the BLACK WOMEN… There is too much pressure on the BLACK MAN from everywhere – that’s why the BLACK WOMEN have to render their support and not be too demanding..

They must be doing something right….i would buy any book from a white woman that teaches us how to get a man.

Hi, Caramel!

@Kigali

“If you are killing on the street, having OOW babies, nothing wrong with that because a white man cant be blamed. I dont know who to blame.”

I’m sad to say that I think you have a valid point. I just had a conversation this week about the appearance that we as a community have a difficult time looking at the part we play in some of our struggles. Someone informed me this week that there was a recent meeting in Detroit to discuss the furor over the addition of “Negro” to the Census. Now I was also offended by the use of the term, but do we not have more pressing issues to address?

Speaking of violence, I’m seeing more and more talk about calls to bring in the National Guard. That is a call for a national emergency. The state of the black family structure is a national emergency.

HE SERVED HIS PURPOSE, NEXT! NOT LIKE SHE CAN’T GET SOMEBODY ELSE IF SHE WANTED TO. HE DOES NOT HAVE TO BE BLACK EITHER. LET HER DO WHAT SHE WANTS TO DO, ITS HER LIFE. MEN IN ANY COLOR ARE ONE BIG GIGANTIC HEADACHE ANYWAY AND NOWADAYS TO MAKE A RELATIONSHIP WORK IS A LOT OF WORK. SHE NEEDS AN OLDER GUY ANYWAY, RICH AND STABLE. DO NOT THINK FOR A MINUTE THAT SHE HAS TO RESORT BACK TO THE BLACK MALE, THAT IS JUST WAY TOO DRASTIC. THIS CHICK HAS HER OWN MONEY, PROPERTY AND A SUCCESSFUL CAREER, SHE IS NOT PRESSED TO GET WITH ANYONE. AS WOMEN AGE, THEY SEE THINGS DIFFERENTLY. SHE HAS A BEAUTIFUL DAUGHTER AND HER PRIORITIES HAVE CHANGED. THE MAN IS NOT THE NUMBER ONE THING IN HER LIFE ANYMORE. KEEP IT MOVING HALLE AND DO YOU. IGNORE THE DARK SKINNED HATERS AND REJECTED MEN ON THIS POST. THIS CHICK RULES NO MATTER WHAT YOU THINK.

@ Mike

I know not all white women want us and some date us for sexual purposes, but black women do the same thing sometimes. I’ve heard black women say this themselves. So how is that different? Do a lot black women use us for fame or financial purposes too? Yes. Do a lot non-black women use non-black men for those same reasons? Yes. So how is this racial?

You say the other girls are bad because of this, but you ignore that black women do the same things. I know and have said on this site that some non-black people( men and women) who date blacks are still racist, so what’s your point?

@The Dude

If that’s true then you have no backbone. Why would you let people disrespect your race like that?
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Did I say I said nothing about it? I told ol boy and he basically told me to F off. He probably is like you. He thinks white women and women of other races GENUINELY love us.

I’m just pointing out some dumb stuff you just said. Saying that you heard some white chick saying this and you just took it makes you sound like a b*tch.
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LMAO! Whats funny is the brutha I told that his white girl called him a monkey, insulted me just like you did. Whats funny is bruthas like you and him get mind when you hear stores that some non black women are not checking for us like you think. They use racial slurs and some use you with no emotions attached.

Chill out. No reason to get this mad over a simple story.

hey Sydney,

Girl as usual you are holdin’ it down!

After yesterday’s senseless race baiting thread this thread is comedy…Halle had her fun now she’s moving on…the relationship ran its course…lol…

@Realist

“The JUSTICE SYSTEM in terms of divorce – an example is NAS VS KELIS…”

Brother, Nas and Kelis are celebrities — how does this relate to the average sister?

“that’s why the BLACK WOMEN have to render their support and not be too demanding..”

Please elaborate upon what you mean by “too demanding.”

JENNIFER, THANK YOU. The race crap is so old and tired. It’s about time we as a people stop being so concerned with color. A good beginning would be to stop referring to ourselves as “black”. I am a African American. I am more then a stupid color. I am a person with roots. I refuse to used the black/white trip. It just limits us and keeps us at odds with each other. We are being played. I can understand why black is beautiful was necessary in the sixties, but it is no longer needed we are people with roots in the world, not just a color with no past, present, or future.

OH YEAH!! I STILL HAVE A CHANCE.

@Dirty Filthy and @Realist I am married to a beautiful black man thank you! He’s good to me and I to him. Its not impossible to have.

BLACK LOVE AND BLACK MARRIAGE IS BEAUTIFUL THINGS!

WE NEED MORE BLACK FAMILY IN 2010!

Beautiful Naomi relegated to being a high profile side piece and somehow thinks its something to be proud of, Halle left a baby momma who has to give up more than she received in order to save face and keep his azz from spilling their business to the tabloids, Beverly Johnson’s ex putting her on blast by saying not only was she paying for the dyck she needs to continue to break bread even though they aren’t together so he’s suing her, Garcelle’s husband cheating on her for over 5 years, Stacey Dash getting her azz whipped by her hubby, Char Jackson waking up one day and her husband has a new woman and she’s clowned on every tabloid there is……..if these latest revelations don’t scream to sistas that running to a non brotha isn’t some mystical cure for heartache. Nothing works better than taking your time and looking into the fabric of a man and not his outward appearance or skin color…..

anopenmind

She does not have a career anymore and he dumped her for being old. She likes younger men, but they now see her as old washed up goods. She is bound to hurt and humiliated by this. She is a hottite, but she is not invincible. I think she wanted to prove that this white man was her hero…….but now he has let down so publicly….he has ruined the fairytale. She might date another black man, he wont date another black girl.

@onbehalfoffilthywomen: go away. did it occur to you not everyone is a homely desperate loser who basis her self-worth on a cheating azz husband? off yourself. no one is listening to you, you are not influential in any sense of the word. your precious white men don’t care about what you say, they already know you’re unattractive to be so desperate. My advice: Worry about YOUR man or the man that YOU are pursuing instead of crying over millions of men that neither want nor KNOW you. Just because you’re the same race does not mean that someone is attracted to you, same goes for all races.

@Caramel

Yes, for what it’s worth, Halle is moving on. . .

Realist, I had drafted a response for you from our conversation a few days ago, but I didn’t post it. Here it is, for what it’s worth because I think it ties in a bit with today’s discussion:

@Realist

“it’s a two-way struggle not just the black women alone..”

I’m not saying black men don’t suffer, too — in fact, in terms of discussions on the ills of the black community, the condition of black men is, far more often than not, the central issue. Many sisters have centered their attention around how to address the problems facing black men without paying adequate attention to their own needs. Outside of their “sister circles,” I do not believe the issues and desires of black women are being fully explored and understood. Yet when trouble strikes the community, we’re asked to report to the front of the battle lines.

Do you recall our recent conversation about Oprah’s opening of a girls-only school, and you asked why she had not done the same for boys? Your question pointed to a deeper perception that any focus paid exclusively to black girls and women is somehow a denial/rejection of the challenges facing their male counterparts. Nothing could be further from the truth.

at the end of the day she is not crying over him, she didn’t even marry the dude. so sorry but no one is crying over him but you. i bet he wouldn’t even fahk you. get. a. life.

At damm it’s friday,

I agree for some reason. I also think the Russian guy is milking naomi for her connections….not just him but all his russian pals want her to run around the globe promoting their charities. The russian guy has become more famous since he got with her….he was not seen or heard till she came and introduced him to the most influential and famous people in the world…..now she is doing it for his pals and….and their wives. Can we just use white people to boost are profile? not so easily.

@The Dude

I know not all white women want us and some date us for sexual purposes, but black women do the same thing sometimes. I’ve heard black women say this themselves. So how is that different? Do a lot black women use us for fame or financial purposes too? Yes. Do a lot non-black women use non-black men for those same reasons? Yes. So how is this racial?

You say the other girls are bad because of this, but you ignore that black women do the same things. I know and have said on this site that some non-black people( men and women) who date blacks are still racist, so what’s your point?
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LOL! Dude why are you so mad right now? My comment was not even directed you, yet you responded and got so damn defensive over a story. Dude some black women do use men too and its just as wrong.

That was not my point. My point was sometimes these women of other races that we think are checking for us call us racial slurs behind our back. Now if you want to make it seem like its no big deal, and its nothing wrong with it, and come up with reasons why, then fine.

When did I ignore that black women do the same things? My comment was to someone that said he had more options and I was telling him that sometimes the other options are not checking for you like you think.

Why is a simple story getting people this upset?

Is this Mike the First?

@Caramel Cat™

“Halle had her fun now she’s moving on…the relationship ran its course…lol…”

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Hey, Caramel Cat!

That is the long and short of it. Some of the analysis in this thread is “interesting.” Anyhow…

Hope everyone has a fab weekend!

Beautiful Naomi relegated to being a high profile side piece and somehow thinks its something to be proud of, Halle left a baby momma who has to give up more than she received in order to save face and keep his azz from spilling their business to the tabloids, Beverly Johnson’s ex putting her on blast by saying not only was she paying for the dyck she needs to continue to break bread even though they aren’t together so he’s suing her, Garcelle’s husband cheating on her for over 5 years, Stacey Dash getting her azz whipped by her hubby, Char Jackson waking up one day and her husband has a new woman and she’s clowned on every tabloid there is……..if these latest revelations don’t scream to sistas that running to a non brotha isn’t some mystical cure for heartache. Nothing works better than taking your time and looking into the fabric of a man and not his outward appearance or skin color…..

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I agree. I wish people would stop with the go white and everything will be alright thinking.

@Clarkekent3000 aka superwoman
Get a life!!!

@Justice
I was just playing with you!!

@ Sydney
Tell that to the white women who have profiles on dating sites in the hopes of finding decent dates. And the way that 70% figure is being floated through the media heaps a lot of blame on the so-called challenges facing black men, including the high incarceration rate.
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I said they’re not as single. I’ve heard some of them complain about not finding men too. We know the reason black women have a hard time getting men and it has nothing to do with prison.

How would you feel if I started comparing black men with white men in that respect?
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Black women compare us to white men all of the time so I’m use to it.

Like the majority of men on this site?
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Of course.

Well, one piece of advice I would give is to steer clear of ANY man who does not respect women, and it’s easy to pick up on that trait if women go through the process of actually being courted, versus jumping into flings.
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I almost completely agree, except not all women deserve respect. Some do and some don’t.

@Justice

“I am married to a beautiful black man thank you! He’s good to me and I to him. Its not impossible to have.”

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Good for you! Glad to read some positivity up in here.

Is this Mike the First?
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I guess you talking to me since I am the only Mike in the thread. You may be talking about another person.

@Damn its Friday Yes lawd…….

“Nothing works better than taking your time and looking into the fabric of a man and not his outward appearance or skin color…..”

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Co-sign! Wise words that are applicable to both genders!

Wr are upset because a white man dumped a beautiful, succesfull black woman in such a cheesy, callous way…oh and he used the lamest excuse he could find tooo. That is why we are upset.

@The Dude

“We know the reason black women have a hard time getting men and it has nothing to do with prison.”

That’s not what Nightline, NBC News, Black in America, and a host of other media programs have proclaimed. They’ve also pointed to the education disparity as well. You wanted to feed into that “black women are hopelessly single” meme du jour that’s floating around, but it’s not only damaging to sisters — it reflects poorly on the community as a whole, so I wouldn’t exactly count it as a gender game point, of some sorts.

“Black women compare us to white men all of the time so I’m use to it.”

Well, it isn’t right either way, and it needs to cease.

“Like the majority of men on this site?
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Of course.”

So you agree that the majority of men on this site do not seem to “acknowledge the good ones?”

Hello Butterscotch™!

@Mike

LOL, sorry, my mistake. I think there is more than one Mike who posts — the one I’m thinking of calls himself “Mike the First.”

@Sydney

it’s a two-way struggle not just the black women alone..”

I’m not saying black men don’t suffer, too — in fact, in terms of discussions on the ills of the black community, the condition of black men is, far more often than not, the central issue. Many sisters have centered their attention around how to address the problems facing black men without paying adequate attention to their own needs. Outside of their “sister circles,” I do not believe the issues and desires of black women are being fully explored and understood. Yet when trouble strikes the community, we’re asked to report to the front of the battle lines.
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Absolutely agreed. Black women need to be understood more, uplifted, encouraged and loved by our black men. Many times we sit in silent over our plight and stuggles.

The black men who feel their is no value or minimizes a black woman’s voice, are the same types who compete, resent, belittle, and degrade black women.

The wise, strong and beautiful black man will comfort us. He will not try to damage the black women.

LOL, sorry, my mistake.
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No worries Sydney.

I’m heading out. Have a good one, all.

@ Sydney
That’s not what Nightline, NBC News, Black in America, and a host of other media programs have proclaimed. You wanted to feed into that “black women are hopelessly single” meme du jour that’s floating around, but it’s not only damaging to sisters — it reflects poorly on the community as a whole, so I wouldn’t exactly count it as a gender game point, of some sorts.
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I don’t care what the media is trying to say. As I said we know the real reason. I didn’t want feed into anything and it’s not damaging me at all and I don’t know how it would be. I never used the media’s views as a gender point.

So you agree that the majority of men on this site do not seem to “acknowledge the good ones?”
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Yes I do. I love the fact that there are quality black women.

ALL THIS HATRED TOWARDS WHITE WOMEN….CAREFUL WOULD NOT WANT LIVE UP TO THAT FAMOUS STEREOTYPE, YA KNOW:
THE ANGRY BLACK WOMANMMMMMMMMM

AT 5FT10

BETWEEN YOU AND THIN WHITE WOMAN……..YOU LOOSE.BIG TIME.

TO 5FT10 ANF FAT AND GHETTO CHUNKY BLACK WOMAN

5FT10 AND FAT -SAY THE STATISTICS

YOU THINK I AM A WHITE WOMAN WHO CANNOT GET A WHITE MAN. Honey……That is from the black woman’s page in life…….any white woman can any man of any race and status…….Black women on the other hand…

5FT10 AND FAT,

GABRIEL AUBRY WILL BE WITH ANOTHER WHITE WOMAN…..SP PREPARE YOURSELF FOR THE PAIN.

Plz he didnt dump her. are u kidding?

WE have to teach black men how to loves us and convince white men( how) to date us.

WHAT DOES THAT SAY ABOUT US………?

It seems like some posters here don’t read the articles.
Everyday the same few go on and on with the same rhetoric. Repeating quotes and making accusations about black women regardless of the situation. Lets be real brothers, black women have it going on compared to black men. Stop acting like black women make us look bad, I know killers, drug dealers, dead beats, convicts, drug abusers and low-lives. None of them are women.

UNLESS YOU NI**AS COME FROM THE PLANET OF PERFECT BLACK MEN STFU!!!! Sheesh

@thankstoallthewhitehomewreckingwhitewomen: 5’10″ and voluptous unlike your flat azz with a little boy’s body. Unlike you I am not ugly, lonely, miserable and desperate enough to care who this dude fcks next. Im sure when your husband leaves you, it will be for a WHITE woman(LIKE THEY ALWAYS DO) then maybe you’ll stop blaming your problems on black women. L O S E R. NEXT>>>>

This is the final thing that is making me really start to think it’s her.

By the way Halle has said b4 she never plans on marrying again since she has married and divorced twice.

I was actually surprised they lasted this long because I thought she was with him strictly to have the child.

Idk I get that vibe from her that she is just untrusting and cynical to any relationship so until she revolves those issues. This is going to keep happening.

I think she’s been hurt so many times I don’t think she’ll ever be happy in a relationship. She still seems to have that cynical “All men are dogs.”

I’m back!!

Too funny, that white boy played Halle like a pro. What you going to tell Essence now Halle? And he is NOT the first white boy played her. There was the dentist, there was the one that beat her like a mule…but she never say nothing about that do she? Well Halle at least you got a light baby Black women want so bad out of it. LOL!All you white boy stans so stupid.

…Hey Halle Kevin Federline need another meal ticket, he can replace your gay dude HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!!!!!! It’s a good day

“Property settlement” perhaps means the NYC restaurant she invested in (that later closed) and the home that was bought (perhaps in both of their names) in Aubrey’s home country, Canada.

5FT 10 ANF AND FAT, GHETTO, UNWED WITH KID BY NUMEROUS GUYS, WHO HAPPENS TO BE SINGLE……AND BLACK…….AND RAGING ANGRY

Real white is pure …….

You say a lot of honest things. Is there a way you could coach we the black race? We need help badly.

Real white is pure……

Did you know that we pull the race card, but hate ourself so much? What tips and techniques can you give us to help us develop as raise? Could you train us how to be more unified and savvy like your race? How do we omit angry, vile black women like 5FT10 AND FAT?

I thought a black man, wesley snipes beat her up?

Jay the real one what?

I’m guessing B**CH
Yeah that’s the one. I can’t stand sis sy dudes who try to kick females.

@Mike
You are getting mad. Black people can’t have a debate w/o calling names. Your letting your emotions get involved in a debate.

I was not insulting black men who date outside the race. If that is anyones preference then I have no problem with that, and I wrote a comment about that already. I was simply stating some non black women are not checking for us out of love and it was a comment to a person who said he had more options.
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I’m not mad and I didn’t call you any names. You said that you sat there and let some woman disrespect your race, then you went behind her back and told her man. Those aren’t b*tch moves? You had no reason to state that some of them weren’t checking for us. Did he say that they all were? He simply said that we had more options which is true. You were trying to give one of those slick little insults to him and that is an insult. Who said anything about preferring women out of my race? I date out sometimes, but it’s almost never a white chick.

Your trying to make it seem like its no big deal.
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How am I saying it’s not a big deal if I’m saying I don’t tolerate it and that you should have done something?

Real white

So if you have schooled us, what has gone wrong?

@ sean-slade
black women have it going on compared to black men.
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Black women have more degrees than black men, but you can say that about women of every race in this country. On average we make more money and own more businesses. We also get married more than they do. No one ever said black men were perfect.

I know killers, drug dealers, dead beats, convicts, drug abusers and low-lives. None of them are women.
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I knew some of those guys too growing up. I also knew women who didn’t know who their babies fathers were, hoes, gold diggers, females drug abusers and convicts, women who had multiple abortions, prostitutes, out of shape women, and crazy women. None of them were men.

@On behalf of the dirty (Filthy ) black race: I thank you White Women.

BLACKS ARE NATURAL BORN SAVAGES. WHEN THE EUROPEANS FIRST SET FOOT ON APE-FRICA HE SAW BLACK MEN AND WOMEN SWINGING FROM TREES AND EATING EACH OTHER. BLACKS CAN’T CONTROL THEIR ANIMAL LIKE URGES.

THE ONLY SOLUTION TO THIS PROBLEM IS TO ROUND UP BLACKS AND SEND THEM BACK INTO THE JUNGLES OF APE-FRICA.

@Justice

WHAT DO I SECRETLY WANT? ARE YOU SUGGESTING THAT I ENGAGE IN BESTIALITY WITH A SHE-BOON SUCH AS YOURSELF? YOU HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING ME.

I WOULD TURN INTO A F_GGIT BEFORE I SLEEP WITH A BLACK “FEMALE”.

@Whiteisthedevilsdisguise

Shouldn’t you be destroying something and eating a baloney sandwich. You cave dweller.
We are the original man you are the cave man.
You just stopped eating your own s*it 6000 years ago. No time compared to my people. Enjoy being at the top, we’ll be back there soon.

Real white is pure,

What do you think when we black women go on youtube/ internet begging for a white man to date us so we get of the singles market?

Is it true? Do white men want us?

Freeze,
When are we going to get back to the top? Before the the indians or chinese?

@On behalf of the dirty (Filthy ) black race: I thank you White Women.

YOU ILLITERATE MONKEY, DID YOU NOT READ MY PREVIOUS POST?

I WOULD RATHER TURN INTO A F_GGIT BEFORE I LAY DOWN IN BED WITH A SHE-BOON.

NOTHING TRUMPS THE DELICATE BEAUTIFUL WHITE WOMAN, WHY WOULD I DOWNGRADE TO A BLACK “FEMALE” FOR?

BLACKS SHOULD STAY WITH BLACKS, IT IS A SIN TO DATE OUTSIDE OF YOUR RACE.

WHITES SHOULD ALWAYS REMAIN WITH WHITES, IT IS RACIAL SUICIDE IF WE DON’T. OUR BEAUTIFUL RARE FEATURES WOULD BE DILUTED AWAY JUST BY MIXING ONE TIME WITH A KNEEGROW. THE JEWS ARE BEHIND THE RACE MIXING PROPAGANDA, AND HELL WITH THE JEWS AND THE HELL WITH SUBHUMAN BLACK TRASH.

@Dude

You hung around some bum b*tches huh? Were they all your babies mother. Is that why you hate ALL women? Do you feel that your (no disrespect) mother is worthless. Because you always sound like ALL women are.

REAL WHITE,

BUT A LOT OF US BLACK WOMAN ARE DESPERATE FOR A WHITE MAN TO DATE US, NAMELY FOR LIGHTER BABIES AND BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP, OH AND MONEY TOO………..WHAT ABOUT THAT?

As Halle reported in 05/2007 Ebony Magazine, she is too controlling to stay w/ a man of any race. The interviewer asked her about Leos needing to be in charge, in control. She said, “Yup…I need to be in charge”. She actually said that she wanted to have a child w/ a man that no matter what happens to their relationship he has the character to be a good father. She had a good dad in Eric. Apparently she doesn’t have this “good character” bc when her relationship w/ Eric ended, she abandoned India who is now 18. If Eric was preventing the relationship (which he said he didn’t) then now that she is an adult, she could rebuild that relationship. We all know she won’t bc she can’t separate the relationship w/ the child from the man.

Real White,

You may abuse me, but as a black women we our use to taking demeaning abuse from white men….it tends to be worth it, this is why we strive to date you. Stacey Dash got beaten up by your white men, but she will be back with a new one…….

WE ARE PREPARED TO TOLERATE A LOT FROM A WHITE MAN….TOO MUCH IS AT STAKE IF WE DO NOT.

@On behalf of the dirty (Filthy ) black race: I thank you White Women.

YOU ARE A BLACK MALE SAVAGE YOU AREN’T FOOLING ANYONE.

STAY AWAY FROM WHITE WOMEN YOU PIECE OF SHYT. F_CK YOUR OWN BLACK WOMEN. THAT IS YOUR NATURAL MATE, A MONKEY IS MADE FOR ANOTHER MONKEY.

NOW F.UCK YOU AND STOP WRITING TO ME.

FU@K OFF THIS BLOG YOU STUPID FILTHY RACIST CRACKERS – YOUR RACE IS GOING INTO EXTINCTION SOON F@GGOTZ!!

I DO FEEL THAT GABRIEL AUBRY IS ONE SMART WHITE MAN….HE GOT HER JUST WHERE HE NEEDED TO BE-THEN TOOK HER FOR AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE. HE ALSO GOT F..UCK THE SEXIEST WOMAN ALIVE TOO.

HOW EASY IS THAT?

@The Dude

I’m not mad and I didn’t call you any names.
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You were so mad you let your emotions get involved in a debate, you cant even remember calling names. You just typing on emotion. I said non black women are not checking for us like we think, you got mad and started calling names. Reread your comments.

You said that you sat there and let some woman disrespect your race, then you went behind her back and told her man. Those aren’t b*tch moves?
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Show me where I said I sat there and let the woman disrespect our race.

You best believe I said something to her too and filed a complaint with the company we work for with human resources. And like I said before, I told the brutha his white girl called him a monkey and he basically told me to F off.

You had no reason to state that some of them weren’t checking for us.
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Thats what this is about. LOL You did not want me to say this. Guess what? Its the truth and too bad you don’t like it. A lot of non black women don’t genuinely love us and only use us for what we have, AND some of them use racial slurs. I can tell that hurts your feelings.

You were trying to give one of those slick little insults to him and that is an insult.
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I was not and WHY are you being so defensive about a comment not made to you?

Its Friday, go out and have some fun. Stopped getting so worked up over a story on a blog about a non black woman not really liking her black boyfriend and calling him a monkey behind his back. I’m out.

whites are not going to be extinct…we are less in population and we breed out at alarming rates, we will surely be extinct in 50years.

@whiteis….

Who taught you that bul.sh*t you are talking about. Your Aryan sponsor some where in a Kentucky jail. While you were bent over a bunkbed, right?

Go scuba somebody you freaky white piece of trash.
Go get another tattoo

Sorry Halle…

Damn…

Some of you need to read a book called, “The History of White People.” That way you stop feeling ashamed of being Black…

@chaka1

I’m going to look into that.

@Whitenotsobright Do you troll all of the black sites with your whole bogeyman antics. i would love to hear some of your thoughts on President Obama. Enlighten us. Please!

The reason for the break up sounds ludicrous.
Who breaks up with someone because they find themselves being attracted to other people? You’re in a relationship, not dead. After the honeymoon phase in a relationship wears off, most men do find themselves being attracted to other women. It’s normal.
The state of relationships today is sad. You have a child together, yet you break up because you’re “just not feeling it anymore.”
I don’t know these people, and it’s doubtful we’ll ever know what really happened. I just hope that the reason they split wasn’t this petty.

Nubian King…If Negroes (brain dead Africans) were birds they would be flying backwards.
4/30/10, 12:26:pm

@SMH & WTF

LOL

You sound bitter baby,,,,I am living GOOOOOOD.LOL

I am just pointing out some facts…lol..lol….lol….you Negroes are funny………
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^ Please dont try to flip the script..there is nothing bitter about my post. I dont know you and could care less…im making a factual observation about some of you who come to this site just to sit around hating all day. You would think Halle Berry quit you the way you came up in this post acting. I dont know one black man that hangs around a blogsite hating on females all day…that is strait b*tch@ssness.

Also, you had no facts in your comment, it was just your opinion. But my comment was chalked full of facts A.) Halle is not checking for any of you on this site, im sure she has higher standards then negros who sit around a blogsite waiting to hate on her relationships, B.) Halle has and will always be fine, there will always be men lining up at her door (of all races) simply because of who she is and C.) Some of you are on here acting real hurt as if any of her business concerns you.

Its one thing to comment on a blogsite, but some of you come acrossed as miserable people, why would someone be happy about someone elses relationship ending (if its even true at all)? And the sad part is some of you dont even see how color struck and pathetic you sound (and yes its both females and males that do it on this site). Some of you need to get lives for real…and I dont understand the hate towards Halle from some of you, when she told your sensitive @sses that she was not refering to all black men when it came to her past relationships…do some of you need her to spell it out for you? Geeez…like I said, a bunch of b*tch@ssness all up and through this comment section, hardly anyone has anything of substance to offer on the topic.

By the way, I love BLACK MEN…just cant stand n*ggas (and there is a difference). Good day to you

Chica must have some serious issues, because she can’t keep a man for sh!t.

He seems like a nice guy.Her, on the other hand, does not seem like an easy person to get along with. Just saying.

@ Nubian…Do you have kids? How many? Are you married? How many women have you been with?

People like you kill me. Black women this and that. But you walk all over them. And I’m willing to bet, if you got a job, all this racist crap you are spewing is never discussed around this white devil of yours at McDonalds.

HoLLaH @ ChA Boi!

@ sean-slade
You hung around some bum b*tches huh? Were they all your babies mother. Is that why you hate ALL women? Do you feel that your (no disrespect) mother is worthless. Because you always sound like ALL women are.
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If you knew bad men you’re going to know bad women. You don’t get one without the other and you know this especially seeing as most of these bad guys come from single mothers. Just because you kiss the a’sses of females doesn’t mean I have to. If you’ve read some of my comments, you’d notice that I said there were good ones out there and some women deserve respect while others don’t. Which stance sounds more realistic, yours or mine? I never bashed all women and you know that. That’s your weak attempt to deflect from what I really said. Just like men, some women are good and some are bad.

@ Mike
You did not want me to say this. Guess what? Its the truth and too bad you don’t like it. A lot of non black women don’t genuinely love us and only use us for what we have
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Obviously you’re a b*tch. I didn’t call you any names before, but I’ll do it now. I already said on this site that this stuff happens, why would I have a problem with you saying it. The fact that you’re trying to make me look angry and ignoring my point shows me that you don’t have a real argument. Black women would have you by the b*lls if you had any. The guy you were responding to made a simple comment and you were obviously hurt by it so you reminded him that some non-black women use us. That had nothing to do with his conversation he was having. Women, regardless of race, do that to men regardless of race.

Dummy. She cant keep a man. Something is wrong with her. Aint felt the same about her since Billy Bob…QUADROON? Wow, learn something new every day.

SHE IS MENTAL, OVERRATED, OLD PU….SY, HAS BEEN WASHED UP CAREER. BU..CH.

Now it is starting to look like Some Black women can’t find love because of their f up personalities and problems! Black men have always been the scapegoat for black women and their social problems.

SHE JUST HASNT FOUND THE RIGHT MAN FOR HER.. STOP JUDGING FOOLS !!!!!!!! LIKE THEY LIVE WITH HER AND KNOW HER

@The Dude

The man told you a story about how a black man’s white girlfriend called him a monkey behind his back and said a lot of non-black women use black men for what they have and use racial slurs. Instead of you saying the story he told was awful and he did the right thing by letting the brother know what was said behind his back, YOU tell him instead he was wrong for saying non black are not checking for black men the way they believe they are and you used the argument that all women regardless of race use men so what was the point in bringing that up.

You got upset with the brother because he made a true statement and told a story about non-black women using racial insults. Then you proceeded to give reasons why it was no big deal, not really a racial issue but just lack of respect, as you put it…. Mike never disrespected you but you got upset and typed off your emotions like he said. You alluded that he was a b*tch more than a couple of times all because he said some non-black don’t genuinely love black men, use them, and use racial slurs and told stories about it.

Funny thing is, if he would have told a story about a black woman using a man, you would NOT have said women use men regardless of race. All races of women do that, it’s not a issue for just black women but all women, so whats your point. You would have bashing black women.

You said this to someone else……I never used the media’s views as a gender point.

But you did use the media’s view when you brought up 70% of black women being single. That is a gender point made by the media.

@Mike

I’m of mixed race, black mom and Greek dad, so I have a lot friends who are of different races, some black some not, I met through both of my parents. I had to let two of my non-black female friends go and some other ones who I questioned were racists because they made some comments, and some laughed during a conversation when the two females talked about their black boyfriends and made comments that were highly inappropriate. I guess they thought cause I am mixed it would not offend me, or that I have a black mom and not a black father. I could tell they had all had the conversation before because they all laughed like it was an inside joke. I told them it was racist, and told their boyfriends what they said and they needed to let them go. To make a long story short, they still dated them and I can guarantee their girlfriends still made racist comments about them. SMH.

Its sad when peoples self-esteem is that low that they will stay with someone of another race who makes racial comments about them and laughs about it, even when you tell them what was said. For some people, I think it defines them and makes them feel special about themselves that they are dating someone who does not look like them.

Thank you for the letting the brother know his white girlfriend called him a monkey to another white lady. Even though he told you to fuc* off, you still did the right thing by letting him know. I’m not in the least bit surprised that he cursed you out.

Tina

Uhhh, how do you know that Mike’s story was true? It could’ve easily been another in a long line of “ANTI-SWIRL” a.n.a.l.o.g.i.e.s. to back-up/substantiate his/her stance against black men dating other than black women.

I’m not surprised this pseudo-relationship went kaput. I noticed durin’ all of their photo-ops, he never looked emotionally invested. I would’nt be surprised if Halle took it upon herself to plan that baby without his consent, thus forcing fatherhood upon him. I’m sure he loves his daughter, but on the same token the resentment of forced fatherhood must’ve festered, thus leading him to just say “F*CK IT, I CAN’T DEAL WITH THIS CHARADE ANYMORE!”

So because her relationships haven’t worked out, that makes her crazy and not worth marrying? By that standard, who is? We all have issues, so live and let live.

@Marquis

I get the feeling it was because I had a similar experience and know of some other people who experienced the same stuff. I think some men just have a hard time understanding that what Mike shared and what I have heard with my own ears is what takes place. Just cause someone dates interracially does not mean they are not racist. I am not talking about all people who are in interracial relationships either that are racist because I know some of them are not. Just saying that what he said he heard the lady say happens a lot.

I just had to let my friends who I thought were cool go. Because I’ll be damned if I sit around and continue to be friends with people who make racial comments about black men, which is really black people. I have a black step brother, black uncles, cousins, a grandfather that I love with all my heart.

I’m not here to tell people not to date interracially because people should date who they want and love. I just saw his comment and could relate to it. I’m sorry for ranting. LOL. Thats all.

What the feezy. Age aint nothing but a number. It doesnt matter if a person is truly in LOVE. It exist people. There are a lot of women who work hard to look FINE; Halle,LisaRaye,Stacy D,etc. Something else had to be going on. This isnt a good excuse.These men today are fickle like the wind. What the feezy!!!!!! Oh my my(shaking my head!)

@Tina

Thank you for the letting the brother know his white girlfriend called him a monkey to another white lady. Even though he told you to fuc* off, you still did the right thing by letting him know. I’m not in the least bit surprised that he cursed you out.

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No problem and thank you. That is bad you lost your friends, but I do not blame you. I would have done the same things if I was ever in your situation. And you brought up a good point about self esteem. I think it does make some people feel better to have somebody that looks nothing like you to date. I think it was the case for ol boy who I told his girl made the monkey comment about him behind his back because of the way he reacted to me. He cursed me out like he could not believe what I told him was true when I was just trying to look out for the brutha. I really think he had self esteem issues and he felt proud to know a white girl was checking for him and so proud that he would stay and lose his dignity.

You said more than what I going to say to The Dude. You saw that he was getting mad too and insulting me over a story I told and my first comment was not even said to him. I was not arguing with him but he kept trying to find something wrong with everything I wrote from me not making sense cause how can you hear what is said behind your back, which I explained I over heard the comment made about another black man, to me not telling the people about the slur, which I did, to me making a bigger deal about the story cause a white woman calling a black man a monkey ain’t racial, which IT IS, to me having no reason to say that some non black women are not checking for us like we like to really believe, and to me not having a real argument. His real colors showed and its why he got so mad and started calling names cause he did not like me saying some women who ain’t black are not checking for us like we want to really believe. I agree 100% with everything you said to him.

@Marquis de Sade

My story was true. I think the only reason I heard it was cause I was at work late one night and the two white women who were talking may of thought no one was there. The same white woman that said monkey had made some other slick comment before about black people not calling everything racist cause Obama is in office but nothing like I heard that night. I knew some white people did use that slur, but I just ain’t never hear it myself until that night.

@Mike

Yes, I do think the man you talked about does have self-esteem issues. A smart person would have at least listened to what you had to say, and not cursed you out. He has no sense of pride — none.

You saw that he was getting mad too and insulting me over a story I told and my first comment was not even said to him. I was not arguing with him but he kept trying to find something wrong with everything I wrote from me not making sense cause how can you hear what is said behind your back, which I explained I over heard the comment made about another black man, to me not telling the people about the slur, which I did, to me making a bigger deal about the story cause a white woman calling a black man a monkey ain’t racial, which IT IS, to me having no reason to say that some non black women are not checking for us like we like to really believe, and to me not having a real argument. His real colors showed and its why he got so mad and started calling names cause he did not like me saying some women who ain’t black are not checking for us like we want to really believe.
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I noticed that too, and I’m pretty sure others reading did too. He was looking for something to nitpick about, and every response he made, it just showed what he was really frustrated about, which was you telling what you experienced. Except I didn’t expect him to say that a white lady referring to a black man as a monkey is not racial. SMH. I just wonder since its not racial to him, what he would do if her were called a monkey by a non-black woman. SMH.

You make sure to have a good day, and hopefully you will never hear anything like that again, but if you do, don’t ever hesitate to tell again. Bye now.

*what he would do if he were called a monkey

Halle kicked Gabriel out several months ago and answers mystery homeboy question (they’re not dating):

http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20365909,00.html

Relationships end.Who cares?I’m just noticing how good he looks.

@ Tina

If you read all of my comments I said he was wrong for bringing it up, because it had nothing to do with the conversation. I never said these things couldn’t happen or that they were okay. His response was I was in denial. How am I in denial when in a post before this one I said the same thing? On a post before this one, I was saying the same thing to a black woman on this very site about how some people of other races are racist even when dating black people.

My other point was he’s saying non-black women use black men for financial and sexual purposes sometimes. I agreed, but what does race have to do with it when black women do it to us as well. Women regardless of race use men for money sometimes and regardless of the mans race, so what did that have to do with what the original conversation? He was showing his hate for interracial relationships by attempting to vilify non-black women only and I checked him on it. I also believe his story was fake.

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