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SMDH @ Kelis’s immature,inconsiderate actions!

I understand that their divorce is non-amicable but leave the innocent child out of this mess!

The baby needs both of his parents even if they’re no longer together.

@IJM: The link works,try again.

Smh and yet this bytch wanna still get paid for child support…

My son was born with ice grills…

What the heck does that mean? Nas really gets on my nerves with his ignorance. Yall are better than me because I didn’t understand his statement at all. For all I know he’s just saying he wants more pics of his son’s diamond teeth.

Unfortunately, A lot of mothers feel they are hurting the father by doing this. They are really hurting the child.

Btw,what the heck did Nas meant when he said “my son was born with ice grills?” …alrighty then LOL

His son born with “ice grills” means that Nas was taking care of his Business with his son.

@Joe Clyde: That’s what that means? ok,thanks

WOMEN STOP KEEPING THE MEN AWAY FROM THEIR CHILDREN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SO DANG WHACK…….IF HE WILL HARM THE CHILD OR IS UNSTABLE THEN I CAN SEE THE CAUSE BUT OTHER THAN THAT……IT’S WHACK….I KNOW GREAT MEN WHO CAN’T SEE THEIR CHILD BECAUSE THE WOMAN IS JEALOUS OR IS TRYING TO HURT HIM IN THAT WAY……..YOU ARE HURTING YOUR CHILD YOU SELFISH FISH……CUT IT OUT!!!!!!!!!!!! SHOUT OUT TO THE REAL FATHERS AND GOD BLESS THE ONES WHO WANT TO BE A FATHER AND CAN’T

Come on now Kelis. I defended on you on taking his money bcuz he effed up and should have to pay up but this is uncalled for. You only hurt the child when you keep him from his father. Now your just acting like a bitter bish!

Well, if Kelis continues to act like this it’s going to back fire on her. One her child will grow up and hate her or if Nas is smart he will keep this nonsense document and pursue custody and take her wack @ss for child support.

kelis,

i know i dont know you nor your ex husband or what really went wrong in the relationship but it seems that you have been hurt badly by whatever happened and i can understand heartbreaks in relationships however nas, unlike some men wants to be there to his son and honestly this wrong to deny that right to him. Think about how your son will be without his father in his life. I’ve seen some sad souls walk this earth that dont even know what their father’s face looks like and some women would do anything for their babyfather to be involved with their child’s life. Let him in to take for his child and u never know u might fall back in love with nas ( i liked u us as a couple).

SMDH children should never be involved in such foolishness and I can’t stand women who use them as weapons. Kelis you knew d*mn well what it was when you laid down with Nas and you still choose to do it. You need to woman up and let him spend time with his son.

Yall dont know ish so STFU. He could very easily see his child whenever he’d like if he went through the courts if it was really that serious. Hes mad Kelis aint kissin his a$$.

Nothing worse than a woman scorned. I don’t condone using a child as a materialistic thing btw your husband and you. The child is both of yours and deserves both parents. I might use everything else against a man, but I never believed in using a REAL CHILD as bargaining tool. I wouldn’t even have to go to court on that one – he will get the child half the time, unless the man is a threat to the child. Otherwise, that’s his father – he deserves him AS MUCH AS YOU.

Obviously this tramps mentality is stuck in the 80′smh on the pettiness

This is just plain WRONG and will backfire on her.

Child support us about 17% of a man/daddy’s salary. That’s a good payout on the insurance policy. It’s NEVER about the children; it’s always about the one who has been scorned!

kelis i know you might never read this but you are wrong for this one… i dont know you or nas but you trusted him enough to lay down with him. if you are already taking care of his child you should let him see his son. its only right and your son will grow up to hate you for this.

is about 17% of a man’s salary! I mean . . . ahem!

Kelis is dead azz wrong. But why isnt Nas seeking visitation or partial custody if he is concerned about not seeing his son? Maybe because he doesnt want that responsibility of having to care for the child at specific times, but would rather pop in when its convenient for him.

nas if you file for full custody im sure you will get it…!!

There are no words to describe how upset I am behind this…

WTF
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Yall dont know ish so STFU. He could very easily see his child whenever he’d like if he went through the courts if it was really that serious. Hes mad Kelis aint kissin his a$$.
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SMH…

@ Queen

I got it. I think I looked when the first put it up. Maybe it took a few minutes for it to all sync?

Anyhow now brown cow:

I TOLD Y’ALL THAT BISH WAS A SHEISTY BISH!

Joe Clyde

His son born with “ice grills” means that Nas was taking care of his Business with his son.
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Ohhhhh! Thanks for the translation. I always need that when it comes to Nas. Yet people call him an intellectual. SMDH at both these idiots.

Yall dont know ish so STFU. He could very easily see his child whenever he’d like if he went through the courts if it was really that serious. Hes mad Kelis aint kissin his a$$.

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IGNORANCE AT ITS FINEST!

If he could see him anytime he wouldn’t need court ordered visitation, you moron!

As much as he is being raked over the coals for he really should be able to see him, anytime and as much as he wants! That is my word!

WHENEVER HE WANTS.

Got daxn, everyone don’t want the courts all up in their family business. Especially if (like in this case) they are all for the woman.

Good grief.

AND PS YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT HAPPENED EITHER…SO WHY COMMENT IN THE FIRST PLACE?

I’m with WTF. some of you are so quick to jump down Kelis’ throat when all Nas has to do is go to court. He sure as h#ll will go to the courts to say he can’t afford to make payments but not one word about visitation!

@ ALL

WHY DOES HE HAVE TO GO TO COURT!?!?!?!

WITH ALL THE MONEY HE IS PAYING WHY DOES HE HAVE TO FORCE HER TO SEE THE BABY!?!?!!

WHY CAN’T SHE JUST LET HIM SEE HIM?!?!?

WHY DO Y’ALL NEED COURTS TO D*CTATE YOUR EVERY MOVE!

CAN’T LIVE WITHOUT M*SSA, HUH?

F*CK OUTTA HERE!

Why should a judge or court determine when Nas gets to see his son! He is the father just like she is the mother does the courts determine when she gets to she her son…some of you people are dumb as hell! By the way her is the link of Nas wanting to share custody with son!
http://www.tmz.com/2009/12/09/nas-kelis-custody-court-divorce-spousal-child-support/

I’m so sick of these dumb hateful women using these babies as some sort of weapon. Its just gross.

What makes this so bad is that NAS is going back to court for visitation! See TMZ archives

The court need to be fair.I’m not trying to judge Nas for cheating because that has nothing to do with what’s going on now.I feel that if parents are divorced that both parents should be allowed to see their kid. If Nas is not making the kind of paper to pay what he was ordered to pay,then I can’t see why the stupid judge won’t just look at his pay stubs.

Kellis seems unstable to me, I feel bad for that kid though.

Folks need to UNDERSTAND that Kelis slept with someone else as well.Two wrongs don’t make one right.
Kelis has got to step her mind game up,keeping a child away from the other parent is very immature and thoughtless.
However i DO agree what another post says,Nas can easily go to court and get his visitation rights he is rightfully due!
MAN THEY ARE BOTH OUT OF CONTROL

I’ll withold judgment. Only because I have a brother who is a deadbeat dad and I know how niccas can be. Tell them to show up at 3:00, they show up at 4:15 without so much as making a phone call to let his son know he’s running late. Promise his son he’ll show up somewhere and then not follow thru. I’m not saying this is the case with nas, but I’m just witholding judgement on Kelis’s *alleged* actions for now….

“why isnt Nas seeking visitation or partial custody if he is concerned about not seeing his son? Maybe because he doesnt want that responsibility of having to care for the child at specific times, but WOULD RATHER POP IN WHEN IT’S CONVENIENT FOR HIM.”

Thank you, SoulSista! That’s exactly what it is!

WITH ALL THE MONEY HE IS PAYING WHY DOES HE HAVE TO FORCE HER TO SEE THE BABY!?!?!!

silly rabbit, the courts are already involved. Nas needs to go prove Kelis is an unfit mother if he so badly wants his beloved son. that would also solve the child support issue cuz if he has his kid, he wont have to pay Kelis a cent. Nas, what’s the hold up? go get your son!

They’re both knuckleheads!

I ALREADY KNEW THIS ITS SO OBVIOUS THAT SHE WAS’NT ITS FUNNY SHE WANT ALL THAT MONEY FROM HIM BUT WONT LET HIM SEE HIS SON,IF IT WAS FOR GOD AND NAS SHE WOULD’NT HAVE KNIGHT ANYWAY KARMA IS REAL KELIS,DAMN LET THE MAN HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH HIS SON SMH.

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***DAMN*** THAT’S ALL I GOTTA SAY ABOUT THAT!!!

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HE SHOULD BE ABLE TO SEE HIS SON WHEN HE WANTS TO BUT SINCE ITS NOT THE CASE HERE,THE COURTS GONNA HANDLE IT FROM ESPECIALLY SINCE THE DIVORCE IS ALMOST FINAL AND THEY’LL HAVE UP WHEN HE CAN SEE HIS SON AND STUFF PROLLY EVERY 2WKS AND HOLIDAYS.

Nas, like most black man who have babies by evil and controlling mentality ill black women is getting f u c k with no Vaseline. People talk about deadbeat dads but they never mention these out of control mothers, and how they use the system to destroy their own children and communities.

Without knowing any of the specifics of their relationship, I will just say in general terms that women who keep their children from their fathers are despicable. What gives you the right to prevent the relationship between a child and his/her father? How EVIL do you have to be to deny the unconditional love that exists in the bond between parent and child? Note that I said parent. A father’s relationship is just as important to a child, of both genders, as the relationship with the mother.

And fathers need to recognize this too. You are a PARENT. The comparison of a mother/child to lioness/cub extends to you as well. Fight for your children the same way that mothers are expected to. I know that it’s difficult and that the system can be very quite biased. If this article is true, then I hope that Nas uses this as an opportunity to shed light on this issue. Hopefully, he is not just complaining to Vibe, but he’s hired an excellent lawyer. Use your fame to bring this topic to the media. Alec Baldwin has fought tirelessly for this very issue (way before the leaked conversations between him & his daughter)…

Ok, I’ll stop there. Sorry for being so wordy but this issue really upsets me…

The Child support system does not enforce visitation, they only collect money, they don’t care about the father and child relationship!

Nas, you better off locked up, because you just been sentenced to 18 years regardless.

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When Knight gets about 12-16 and she can no longer control him I bet she will be begging Nas to step in and deal with him she might as well keep her personal feelings about Nas to herself and let him and his son bond. I cannot stand my sons father period but I don’t hinder them being together or having their relationship.

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The funny thing is nas filed for visitation rights. Just check tmz. no one knows that but everybody is quick to call the man negligent.’he would rather pop in to see his son when its convenient’. how could you say something like that? People act like they know the whole situation but really don’t. Stop judging! Its our nature to get up in other peoples business but when you run someone down wihout knowing the facts? thats just wrong.

I figured that she would make this kinf of move right here because she feels that she has all of the control… She is really being a very selfish mother and that boy is going to have issues.. Nas needs to get his court on as well these two are seeming very unbalanced these days…

Did he pay the back child support? You do know if he did everything that he was supposed to do then he could legally and physically have his 31/2 days a week it is the law!

@ the da#m s**t disturber
I think the reason she is mad is because nothing has turned out like she thought it would. She thought she would get what the judge ordered him to pay. (someone should have told her net worth doesn’t mean cash flow.)Nas makes a decent amount of money (not bad for a man w/an 8th grade education) but she seems not to be conservative w/money. Everytime I see her she got on some tackhead overpriced clothes/shoes. She took her frustrations to the media when she was going through a divorce. I never heard a negative story about Nas before she came along.

Team Nas: Nas may have cheated but he didn’t wind up on tape- and he’s a man!

HA! Well i’m vying for your position ma… so keep doing what you do! No one has to understand your reasons, this is your life! I still think I got you beat… being a BIA has everything to do w/ the boundaries you set up and not being apologetic for it. SO DO THE DAMN THING.

NASIR…SUE FOR CUSTODY!!! A CHILD SHOULD NEVER BE USED AS A WEAPON, TO PUNISH THE OTHER PARENT OR FOR RANSOME. IF SHE AND THE JUDGE ARE USING CHEATING AS A REASON, THAT’S IRRELEVANT. THEY HAVE BOTH PROBABLY CHEATED. GROW UP…WELCOME TO THE REAL WORLD. HE SHOULDN’T HAVE TO TAKE CARE OF HER FOR LIFE. IF SHE WAS PAYING FOR THOSE RIDICULOUS OUTFITS BEFORE SHE MET HIM, WHAT’S THE PROBLEM NOW? TAKE CARE OF YOUR SELF, BE A WHOLE WOMAN.

A CHILD SHOULD NOT BE DENIED A PARENT WHO WANTS HIM. CHILDREN NEED THEIR FATHERS THESE DAYS MORE THAN EVER. I WOULD NEVER WANT MY SON TO GROW UP AND ASK WHY DID I KEEP HIM FROM HIS FATHER.