Friday, August 29th, 2008
Some Morning Smut
Posted by Bossip Staff
Here is the inside spread of Hoopz featured in the October issue of the prestigious “King” Magazine. Nice lips, nice rack, mean body, face? Ehh, not so much, but the fact that she let Flavor Flav’s old shriveled up, rocked out ass smash makes us throw up in our mouths a lil bit.
Enjoy your dose of ass & titties this Friday below:
A couple more for you on tha flippy…
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YEAH morning *****!!!!
Dammit Kevin!
Morning Y’all!!! No comment on Hoops’ hoochie-ism aft kissn Flav Flav (ewwwwwwww)
SHE’S A PRETTY GIRL BUT JUST THE THOUGHT THAT SHE LOWERED HERSELF TO LET FLAVOR FLAV KISS HER ON HER LIPS AMONG OTHER THINGS IS UGGGHHH…HER SELF VALUE DROPPED AFTER THAT..AND IS NOT EVEN ABOUT FLAVOR FLAV’S LOOKS IT’S ABOUT HIS WHOLE DEMEANOR..ACCORDING TO NEWYORK’S MOTHER HE’S A BAFOON.
Her head is ENORMOUS
I dont think flav smashed or did he? Can someone clear the air on that one?
Why does she look like a Samoan dude?
@ NIKKI-mornin’ girl. TGIF!!
@ chrissy-exactly!
WELL JUST THE FACT THAT SHE ENTEREND THE CONTEST TO COMPETE FOR FLAVOR MADE HER SELF VALUE DROP. COMPETITING IN SUCH A CONTEST MAKE YOU NOT SEEM SO VALUABLE AFTERWARDS NO MATTER HOW CUTE YOU ARE.
All these urban ***** mags must have the flavor of love girls on permanant payroll! They are in all of these magazines posing “*****iliciously”! (I know thats not a word dammit)! Hoopz has a nice body though…
BECAUSE EVERY BUM ON THE STREET PROBABLY FELT LIKE THEY COULD GET HER IF FLAVOR FLAV COULD…SO SHE HOLDS NO VALUE AFTER THAT.
“Nice Balloons”?! Lol, that was the most creative headline they could come up with?
Goodmorning ladies (BTW)!
@Nikki
yeah her head is kinda big…
Hey Vee….*NU stealin’ your D’ eggs and tossin’ em in the trash*
BOSSIP…can you post a pic of one of my hubbies? XOXO
Goodmornin’ everyone!!!!!!!
Any truth to her being married? Does anyone know?
Thats some bad azz aviators she got on in that 4th thumbanil! I needta find them, QUICK!
Morning Folks (happy Friday!!!)
Nikki U,
RE,
2cute
Vee
@ Nikki U,
Yup, i love me some Chris too…he’s just sooo short! But he’s a sweetie, i’ve met him a few times. And his eyes are even more captivating than you see on TV!
wow how far shes come
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2cute….
KINDA???? Honey that thing is cant be described…but imma try….
Its like a pygmy….
HEY RE!!! Its on hunh?
Morning Ya’ll!!!!!!!!
SOOOO GLAD ITS FRIDAY!!!!
Why is Hoopz getting so much attention?!?!
Morning Kesha! thats a pretty pic of you in the gravi.
@ NIKKI: lol, I am ready to eat some b-b-q to bring the summer to a close. May have to take a p***** on the deviled eggs p***** this time.
@ Kesha: Good Morning and Happy Friday! Did Michelle & Barack represent last night or WHAT???!?!
Although I hate the “squat pose”, the pic with the gl*****es is HOT!!!
She’s got big head little body syndrome…
Kesha…
Hey girl!!! Im short..so its all good!! Oh I was JUST giving up nephews for Chris….and they Moms understood….
@ 2CUTE,
LOL! Gurl, that aint me, that’s my mentor(yeah, i wish), Michelle Obama, LOL!
@Vee, DID THEY??? IS THE DAMN SKY BLUE?? I LOVE THEM. THEY REPRESENTED LAST NIGHT!!!!
Hey Kesha!
@Nikki
I know…it feels so weird, cause I’m counting down, but so far I don’t feel any excitement. Maybe cause it’s been raining everyday so far…
@ Nikki U,
“Kesha…
Hey girl!!! Im short..so its all good!! Oh I was JUST giving up nephews for Chris….and they Moms understood….”
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LOL! Did she really have a choice in the matter anyway! I’d give up a few things for him too!
MORNING BOSSIP FOLK!!!
HAPPY FRIDAY!!! HAPPY LABOR DAY WEEKEND!!
I actually like most of the shots. I still hate that cover shot but the rest of them she looks nice in. I like the third thumbnail.
Morning to those I missed:
2cute4u
Re-still rockn my silver medal but dammit I want a rematch! lol
@ Kesha-”is the damn sky blue” (hahaaaaaaaaaaa).
Touche, touche’. I cant wait for Barack to win the election so i can take the next day off from work and parteeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee”’!!!
Fellow Bossipers, I cant get caught up with y’all today. You know they wanna work me to death since we got a long weekend. &^%$#@*
@ RE,
1 MORE DAY MAMA! The big 2-2! (lol, that sounds perverted when you say it, lol)
Why do 9 outta 10 broads end up going out like *****-lump-lump????? Probably got ***** lump-lumps on her snapper, too. Lawd have mercy!! Will a real woman shout out and say “Hey”?!!
Morning IJM,
Yup, the inside shots look way better than that cover.
@ Vee,
We know how it is! I got a feeling they gon make me work today too. I’ma try to look busy though so no one will bother me!
@ Cliff Dawg,
Hey!
Morning Nikki, Re, 2 cute, kesha,Vee
What is the Flavor of Love Rotation? They are the only chicks this magazine even photographs… so they get all spread eagle..is there an accompanying article/interview? And what could it possibly say?
So Hoopz, what new projects are you working on?
Hoopz: Well I was recently paid 100 and a half bottle of Hen to appear Man Man birthday bash.
GM everyone!!! Kee-Kee, Nikkster, IJM, Sweet, Re, 2cute, Vee…whoeva i missed…i was tryin to shout the room, but my head hurt..lol
i dont think she smashed Flav and i dont like the booty out mags wit all the Flav O Love chicks in them…… but I like Hoopz on that show for the money. or whateva the hell its called. i only seen it twice
Okay
News must be really slow! Because they showed this picture of hoopz weeks ago! hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm boringgggggggggggggggggggggggggg
GOOD MORNINGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG EVERYBODY Happy Friday!
Re…
***** goes by so fast after 21..Im about to be 27 next May….YIKES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Kesha…
Girl it was four Mommas!!! I was givin up like 5 kids!!!
IJM…
Like I said…are ya *****in finger broken?
JAX and SUG!! Heller…..*rets to go home asap*
nikki u younger than i thought
And what is with the cheap blue background…was this shot in her mama’s basement? They just covered up the wood paneling and Uncle Cletus sitting in his easy chair
hoopz is an attractive lady…please do better
Jaxon…
Your interview…hilar…
Erm…
Am I?
@Kesha
damn that didn’t look like her, that pic looks lighter than when you see her on tv! Anywhoo, they did the damn thang last night! Barack came to win, and he really let McCain know “I ain’t playin’”!!
@ Cliff Dawg-lol @ ***** lump lump…
Good Morning Jaxon, Ermy Erm, Sugar Walls, EVERYONE-I see y’all in a NEW light after our freak-nasty thread yesterday (haha).
@ Kesha-well I just decided that I’m goin’ have to juggle my work duties and bossip this morning. LOL
The spreadsheets I’m lookn at will have me cross-eyed if I dont take a break from ‘em-to gossip and bs with y’all!
Morning to all the ladies. *****s get no love from me.
What does everyone think of Obama’s speech?
she looks good to me………also….top of the morning to all the ladies in here…
What’s up Erm?
MOrning peeples! HAAAPPPPY FRIIIIDAY!
RE: I’m partying so hard for you again this w/e LOL!
@SUGAR: What’s hap’n cyber sis~ DAp! did you see how good Obama carried himself last night I loved how he did not touch on the RACE issue he stuck strictly to the topics at hand! which is how America is in such a slump! and Michelle and the girls looked so nice, ~~YES WE CAN~~
Hey Erm!!! (I hope you start feeling better, try some BC powder) that stuff is legal cocaine for headaches!
Hey Jaxson!!
yep u are. i thought u were in your 30’s..not in a bad way
im older than you and i didnt know. lol
@NUM1:: Daps cyber peeps! Happy Friday 2 ya!
Hello fellas!
lol @ man…..wussup
happy friday to errbody…hope i get outta here by noon *prays*
hey num1….*scannin room to say hello to the others i missed*
hello….
bc powder? *havin a moment* dont know what that is
@Vee
Lol, it’s on like popcorn!
@Ermy Erm and Man I Just Don’t Care
It’s Friday! Thank the heavans above…
@Nikki
I know, right? Soon you’ll be celebrating that big 3-0
@Kzzme
LOLOL! You’re crazy, with that 2-2!
@ Jaxon-”Man Man birthday bash”??? LOL. Gold star for YOU!
Mornin’ to my Bossip Brethren-had us ladies hot-n-bothered aft all that sex-talk yesterday.
My man thanks y’all!!!
And so do I. A lil inspiration neva hurt *****ody.
Barack the vote people!!!
Man, I am struggling…They should have had the Networking Event on Friday…did not want to get up this AM
@Num1Dom
Hey you!
good morning everyone!!!
she looks cute and orange like a bottle of sunkist
tranny mess.
hey cutie patooty!!
dang yall young…wth….
*cryin @ da big 3-0….Re u say that like its old…LOL
hey
@ Jaxon[I hope you had a few shots for me
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@ Re
@ Ermy
@ 2 cute
@ man
@ num 1
@ nikki
its friday and I get out early!!! ((jumping for joy))
hey kesha!!
Erm, I never heard of BC powder til I meant some chicks from the south…
Goody Powder?? Who knew? Where I’m from our pain meds are in a capsule
hey vee..yes long weekend and i’m gonna sleep through monday cause on saturday and sunday i’m getting done up… i’m young my liver can take it lol
@RE: I’m not your friend! you cyber shouted out some ***** like that! LOL! but that’s o.k I don’t look it!
People I will be in and out today, because I am doing payroll! can’t ***** up peeps money ya dig! and plus I think I am sliding out a lil early myself ~~~WINKING~~~
W*****up cutiepie, KZZ, everyone (I feel bad if I miss somebody)
Is it 3 o’clock yet?? I’m sorry: I meant 2:59???
Erm…
Im sneezing…I may be coming down with a cold….
Re…
30 my *****….
@ CutiePie…girl I had enough shots for you, me, AND everybody else
Got me messed up cause I was with the WP’s and you know they like to get “hammered” on beer(and it’s the cheap ish) …junk messes you up
I drink 2 beers at most watching football
yes..I did see Obama! Make me proud and It make me wish that my father could see this…
Hey Vee! Kxx cyber hugging you sis!
hi keesha, hi ermy erm..If I forgot anyone else, please forgive me..I got my back blown out, and I can’t remember! LOL
Hey CP!!
Vee…you know damn well it aint no 3 damn 30….
kzz
@ cutiepie-lol no u didnt! I tossed back a few for my b-day so I feel you. Enjoy!!!
@ Jaxon-u aint lyin about BC powder. I’m from Philly & I saw it for the first time a few yrs ago: a co-worker from Georgia had some. When she popped out that paper with the white powder you shoulda SEEN my face. I’m like-no pills? no gel-caps? Oy Ve’
u gettin a cold @ nik?
@ Jax…im in chicago and i ain neva heard of no bc powder…i take excedrin or motrin but thats not workin today
@ CutiePie But it was a good night I actually NETWORKED! Going to hook up with a guy doing his payroll PT for his contruction company..should be easy money..
…and there is this cutie who owns a company in my building who I Networked with
SugarWalls…. How you?
Are you feeling better after your cat? We were just talking about pets at work. When Katrina came I forgot to get dog food. Don’t want to make the same mistake for Gustav.
im shiverin my timbers in this cold azz office…toe cold as idk what!!
I think…you know summer colds are full of BS…you stare out the window…*****-face…then still be outside tryin to kick it….
@ NIKKI-lol, I know my ***** is DREAMIN’ righ-its barely 9:30?
These spreadsheets have me delusional.
@ Ms Sugar Walls-TGIF!! Hi-Five to u-gettn u back blown out! That’s ALWAYS a good thing. But why does your gravatar make me mentally-sing EVERY time I see it? ”Gem is truly outrageous! Truly, truly truly outrageous!” Showin my age again, proudly
I must say that after the ‘Masterpiece’ of a speech that Barack Obama made last night, I’m surprised that this is the headline for this morning. But….sex sells. I guess it’s truly more important than a historical moment in life
@Vee
What do you do? Are you in payroll too?
Hey Cutie pie, happy friday girl
@Jaxson
Yeah I think bc did originate in the south! Its like a powder form of asprin, nasty as hell but it works quick! Don’t take it down with water though, your ***** will thow up! You have to take it with some fruit juice or something. I know you don’t have the headache, I was just explaining what bc is…
@Vee
I went to Vegas w/ a group of girls from Tennesse, my cuz friend friends. Before we went she was telling how crazy these girls were and how crazy they planned to get on the trip. Well, my cuz was talking about how she had a headache and did not feel well so one girl kept saying “I got some Goody Powder, it will make you feel good” Lord i thought the chick was talking about *sniff sniff* GOODY POWDER, I was thing WTH have I got myself into!
We laughed so hard when I figured out it was a pain reliever
Hoopz a Detroit representer!! lol, she is cute in the pic with gl*****es she almost looks like alicia keys…I hope she didnt let flav’s nasty lookin self smash…I dont think she did cuz soon as the show was over so was her and flav…
lol @ jaxon..yea they do love their beers that miller lite is their favorite..
but the networking thing is always good..relationships are everything especially in the corporate world its all about who you know..and extra money is always good money..well not all extra money but you get me
@ Jaxon-u aint lyin about BC powder. I’m from Philly & I saw it for the first time a few yrs ago: a co-worker from Georgia had some. When she popped out that paper with the white powder you shoulda SEEN my face. I’m like-no pills? no gel-caps? Oy Ve’
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LOL! Hey Vee!
@Jaxon and Cutie Pie
Happy Friday!!!!!!!
@Ermy Erm, Nikki, and Kzzme
LMAO! I SWEAR, I didn’t mean it like that! (((Damn this computer for not being able to communicate HOW I wanted it to sound)))
Hubby is 27, and we’re already planning the big 3-0.
THE PHOTO’S ARE OKAY. I JUST WISH THAT SHE WOULD HAVE TOLD THEM TO LIGHTEN UP ON THE MAKEUP. IT’S TOO MUCH. IT REALLY TAKES AWAY FROM THE NATURAL CUTENESS OF HER FACE.
MORNTINS ERRR BODY!!
@ Man I Dont Care-I’m a Business *****yst/Tester for BCBSNJ. Basically, I sort through their data and fix all of their mistakes in claims and billing-via spreadsheets and testing software. At first glance, some of this stuff does look like payroll.
But no dice–only money I wanna see or touch is MINE!
Vee, you got payroll on Friday? Do you just do it by hand in house or do you have a company like ADP or Paychex? Cause we are PD on Fri but i have to process on Tues…
I would hate to do it all by hand..
LMAO @ the big 3-0 though!!!
i will be 30 in January and i look like im 20 and i dont feel old at all!!!LOL but my cousin called me old cuz i was listenin to Slick Rick in the car!!!
UGH!! she’s 20!
morning sxyq!!
@cutie pie, miller lite I can take but in COlumbus there is a Budweiser Factory so that’s all they drink down here and COORS was on special at the bar so they just kept buying pitchers…
@Vee okay ignore my last comment
The girl’s stomach is on point! I am not a fan of the muscles tho….and she has sexy eyes too….I luv how she be punkin them nigg@s on the reality shows….i think she be dykin’ on the sneak…..LOL
HAPPY FRIDAY YA’LL
SugarWalls…. How you?
Are you feeling better after your cat? We were just talking about pets at work. When Katrina came I forgot to get dog food. Don’t want to make the same mistake for Gustav.
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yes, and thank u for caring enough to ask! awll(smoochies) I have a kitten now! she is so damn busy! and give your cat/dog daps for me..I love animals
Thank goodness i did payroll on Wednesday!! i wasnt havin no fools come to me today at the last minute talkin bout can u do this for me today…um NOPE!
@ Ms Sugar Walls-TGIF!! Hi-Five to u-gettn u back blown out! That’s ALWAYS a good thing. But why does your gravatar make me mentally-sing EVERY time I see it? ”Gem is truly outrageous! Truly, truly truly outrageous!” Showin my age again, proudly
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Suga what happened to ur cat?
Thanks for the morning wake up call, Bossip, that ***** is hitting.
@ ermy
i’m 22 and I love me some slick rick..hey young world is my jam..I love old school a lot more over this sh*t they play on the radio
MORNING CUTIE PIE!!(WAVING ARM OFF)
@SUGA
I ALWAYS SING THE GEM SONG WHEN I SEE YOUR GRAVIE TOO(walking away in old lady guilt..lmao)
@ jaxon-its cool-must be the BC powder lol. Hey-judging by your comment are you from Ohio (forgive me I’m slow to catch on this time of morning)?
I’m askn because I had a business trip there in May. We stayed right near that Budweiser plant. I know it so well cuz I got LOST like 6 times and kept p*****in’ it. Boy I was *****ed-and ready to drink a beer my own self.
okkkkkk @ cutie…she talkin bout can we PLZ listen to lil wayne..i d k what this is?
i was like NERP!! my car, my music! like my mama used to do…LOL
@2cute,
I know…she looks so elegant in my gravie! I love Michelle. I like Barack too, but i LOVE michelle. Oh, McCain got sumthn on his hands…cause them Obama’s AINT PLAYIN!!!!
GOOD MORNING TO EVERYONE!
lol @ ermy
morning ms. philly!!
Hey, I like Slick Rick! Actually, I was just listening to CeCe *****ton and Black Box (Everybody, Everbody) yesterday at work…I act like an old lady…
Are we talking about Barack??? His speech last night was so powerful and awesome! My parents kept saying how they never thought they’d see the day, but we as African American’s have overcome so much in our lifetime and we need to celebrate this and even if his not our choice of candidate be proud of what he has accomplished…WE ARE A PART OF HISTORY!!
barak had a ***** thinkin he’s the new martin last night
@ Jaxon,
Thank God…you know IJM and Ermy dont know what a BC powder is??? I’m like, WTH, i know they dont just sell that junk down south…i got a goody’s nititime and a bc in my bag right nah!
Good morning everyone
@ Man
Obama did his thing!!
@sxyq-Morning! Just read your screenname, shoutn out your red dress lol.
I was listening to Freakum Dress this morning thinking to myself “Yes indeed-shopping trip this weekend”!!
I really want to hate her, but her body IS nice.
@ Lauren,
I completely agree. This is history and we’re a part of it(so proud). My parents have been TUNED it! This is the first time i’ve seen them sooo interested in whats goin on with politics cause they usually just vote for whoever the Democratic party is. But they’re actually discussing it and debating it and supporting (buyin their Obama shirts and everything!) I’m sooo proud of them.
Yes Vee, I’m in O-H-I-O! Buckeye Football kicks off this weekend YAY!
Looking forward to my Browns really…
Columbus is easy to navigate but hard at the same time…if that makes any sense…
Monrin Ill, Man, Dana Dane!
Hey Ms.Philly , ILL, Dana, Chaka
Oh yes Everyone please say hi to Victoria…she may not be commenting but I am sure she is reading…let’s play nice with her!!
Hi Victoria
@LAUREN: Are we talking about Barack??? His speech last night was so powerful and awesome! My parents kept saying how they never thought they’d see the day, but we as African American’s have overcome so much in our lifetime and we need to celebrate this and even if his not our choice of candidate be proud of what he has accomplished…WE ARE A PART OF HISTORY!!
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Thank you L this is so true just sitting there watching it, I swear I was about to shed a tear! I don’t think people realize what really is happening with our power at this point…but you know I was scanning the channels because I knew they would be showing different sides of the Stadium do you realize there were more Whites than Blacks? supporting Obama! I mean they wer crying and everything, I mean it was alot of Blacks but the Majority was White….~~YES WE CAN~~~
@ Sugar,
“hi keesha, hi ermy erm..If I forgot anyone else, please forgive me..I got my back blown out, and I can’t remember! LOL”
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You know afta all that yesterday and didnt get NONE, not even a drop. I am still *****ed…damn him for neglecting me! Ok, well i chose to go to the Saints game instead, but still! I wanted a mornin helping
@VICTORIA: Hi HUN! (HUGS)!
What up Dana?
Hey there Jaxon…
HI VICTORIA! DON’T BE A LURKER HUN, COME ON IN, WE WON’T BITE!!
Hey Jax
lol, hi ILL
Big KESH
@Sugar: I’m so glad you got your Back blown out GIRL That’s what’s up!!!!! (HUGS)!
WHAT UP MAN, SLIDE #1
HOW ARE YOU GENTLEMAN TODAY!!
Mornin’ to all I missed b4.
@ Jaxon-#1-I was confused as hell driving in Columbus. but I will say it was the prettiest city I have seen in the States. The bluest sky, greenest gr*****. #2-why you startn with Victoria?? HAAA
# Kesha-don’t leave me out-I hadn’t seen BC Powder either until 4 yrs ago. I do believe its sold largely down south.
Okay-off to a meeting
Hold it down till I return…
Jaxon…
Imma KILL the Browns….
KZZME…It was in DENVER, COLORADO…So you know it was mostly white people, had they been in Philly, or Michigan, or Chicago would have been more of us, but it was nice seeing the mixed color of people just holding hands and chanting and singing, it was a beautiful thing…I can’t wait to vote!!
DANA!!!!
MORNING MOMMA
YOU IN ONTHIS PURP TODAY??
Be right back guys…my daughter has syrup everywhere!
UM…NIKKI
WHAT THE HELL YOU TALKING BOUT MY FINGERS?? i P*****ED TO YOU A MIN. AGO!
morning peeps!!!!!
Suga what happened to ur cat?
He was really old. He was losing his muscles, and dehydrated..I had him for 12 years! I still miss him! My new kitten is really affectionate..more than he was(my cat)
I wonder what racist have to say now about Obama
kzz (hugging you right back)
mornin errbody,
it’s my last day of work, so sad
I’D SMASH
IJM…
You TAKE THAT CAPS DOWN!!! I meant you black ***** was suppose to get on that cellular and dial that 216…
I may be in NY top of October….
@ Vee,
“Kesha-don’t leave me out-I hadn’t seen BC Powder either until 4 yrs ago. I do believe its sold largely down south”
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That’s so weird to me. BC powder has been around as long as i can remember…i remember my grandma used to keep them in her purse, lol!
What’s up family, good morning ladies
Happy Friday
@CUTIE PIE
Thanks again for puttin your gravie up. I love to start the day looking at pretty women.
I saw you reppin hard in another post with the “STOP THE HATE” campaign. LOL. I didn’t get a chance to post in there with all the sex talk. You know that’s my one weakness/vices.
i am i the only dumb ***** at work today??
gothiclover dot c o m needs your support! For exchange, we provide you various services, from friends making to dating arrangement, based on our tens of thousands members!
mornin errbody,
it’s my last day of work, so sad
_____________________what are u talking about? y?
@nikki It’s just the pre-season…it dont mean a thing…just a last ditch effort for the 3rd stringers to make the roster….
The Pats are 0-3 for preseason and aint *****ody saying jack….People just love to Hate…but we are going to do big things. DA better get it together by Game 1 if not sit him down and let’s see what Big Brady Baby can do
@ sugar
what they always say..but the best part about it is the fact that barack is smashing a whole lot of stereotypes about the black man and the family and so is michelle..i’m so proud of both of them
Morning Hannibal, you cutie you, loL!
Ill, thats soo sad…so we wont be hearin from you no mo???
Hey Gents!!!
IJM…KZZ…PIMP 22..Thanks WyzePro!!! That ish was hilar!!!
Good Morning
SEXY!!
Good Morning
Sexy Da Pro!!
Jaxon…
You just kept my head above the water fam…you can do no wrong in my eyes now!! LOL!!!
oh yea
Good Morning Hanibal!!
@KESHA
GOOD MORNING
Hey DaPro!
I am happy to see Bossip people here today…thought I’d be the only person at work…
@SUGAR WALLS
GOOD MORNING TO U TOO
@ ms. sugar
I move back out of town to go to college on sunday, n I’m a student employee it’s not a year long gig here.
what does a new sista gotta do to get some love around this place……hannibal you lusted for me yesterday!
TRUTH TIME!!!
We already know one person had to make a hair appointment this morning after yesterday’s convo and their late night festivities!!
WHO ELSE?!?! I know some of ya’ll did
@ NU
YEAH!!! You coming through this way. I thought you were coming through this weekend
Had me cancelling my plans!!
@ Ill
why, you leaving?
what does a new sista gotta do to get some love round here? Hanni you lusted for me yesterday!!
@ cutiepie,
Yes they are. And the sad part is that the (lets just call them what they are…RACISTS) are trying everything in their power to ruin his character. Its pathetic just to look at. Leave that man alone and let him continue to be an example…I bet they’ve got people workin OVATIME tryna find something dirty on him…so sad
lol @ man
awwww ((blushing))..on another note: yea I had to do it…one of the ladies in there started it off rough with an article long comment taking jabbs at my beautiful black men and I had to cut it short..we got stop this hate
@OH LAWDY!!!
HELLO
@ Hannibal
MORNING…are you from BK? You look familiar!!!
Nice looking too…..
Jax and Suga
Damn it feels good to be greated to two lovely ladies this morning
makes the day that much better
It’s Confession Friday
pardon me “greeted” not greated
@Sugar
Yeah ILL is a baby(he legal though, heeeey boo
), its back to school
@Hannibal
lol who wouldn’t u smash
@ IJM
I might have to come out of retirement for some purp, p***** dat dutch!!!
@I’M JUST ME
NAW, IM NOT FROM BK AND THANX
@ kesha
yup..and they got dirty laundry then anybody else..I can’t sit through CNN because its always that one person that wants to be negative with their sly remarks..that 360 guy with the white hair..i can’t stomach him
DAMN Hann got breezies!!!
IJM…man fam havin a picnic that I gotta go to…we can make ya bday anyday…feel me?
just here waiting to see if i need to go and get my mom in new orleans cuzza that dam gustav
@ jaxon,
Count me OUT! I chose the Saints ova some, now i’m regretting that decision very much. I mean the game was good…but morth it? I think NOT! I thought he would come ova this am and hook me up (or he’d be at my place by the time i got home) but that didnt happen. Oh well, now i gotta make up for yesterday
yup..and they got dirty laundry then anybody else..I can’t sit through CNN because its always that one person that wants to be negative with their sly remarks..that 360 guy with the white hair..i can’t stomach him
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anderson cooper??
just sitting here waiting to see if i gotta take a trip to new orleans to get my mom!!! that dam gustav
@ ill
what are you studying?
@ sugar
yea him..something about him I don’t like
@ Jax
I’m a punk yo, y I called dude over he was all hype n I was like naah, I just wasnt feelin him no more, I need some new meat, that how i’ve always been always forward never back
@ OH LAYDY,
come get yo momma! Cause Gustav is comin and the city is in a panic…i’m headin out tonight hopefully!
@JAXON
I’m so mad… yesterday got me all hard for nothing. Now I really miss my old job, got to work with the public. Always had a nice piece on stand by.
I won’t be here very long.
Morning Peoples!! HAPPY FRIDAY!!
Hoopz look like female version of Kobe Bryant…….
awlllllllllll Ill!
well have to go get that education! Good for you!
Thanks Dana Dane
and DA PRO…how are you doing today and what is it that u would like to confess?
i have always wanted my body to be like hers but i still have a few pounds to shed. she dont have me beat in the face though so i still have hope for next summer
Hey Da Pro
Um… NU
You foolish!! You know that already though!!
MORNING PAIGEY!!
@dapro ummmmmmmmmmmm hey!!
@ Kesha
Be safe mami!! Hope your place is in one piece when you return… I don’t know how ya’ll live in places like that…hurricanes, tornadoes, floods..I couldn’t do it!
@DELECTABLE DANA DANE
“I’m a punk yo, y I called dude over he was all hype n I was like naah, I just wasnt feelin him no more, I need some new meat, that how i’ve always been always forward never back”
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If only I was in New York……
You would get serviced religiously.
@PaigeyWaigey,
Good mornin!
@ sugar
yea him..something about him I don’t like
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Girl..He is gloria vanderbilt’s son read this:
she had two sons, Carter Vanderbilt Cooper, in 1965, and future CNN reporter Anderson Hays Cooper, born in 1967. Wyatt Cooper died in 1978 during open heart surgery in New York City. Carter Cooper committed suicide on July 22, 1988 by jumping from the family’s 14th floor apartment as his horrified mother watched. Mrs. Cooper believed that it was caused by a psychotic episode induced by an allergy to the anti-asthma medical prescription drug Proventil. In an interview on Larry King Live, his brother Anderson told of Carter’s depression, a recently failed relationship, and fear of the future, suggesting that his brother had not dealt well with the stress, but repeated their mother’s story that Carter awoke in a confused stupor before jumping to his death.
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so No wonder he is *****ed up!
wyatt was her husband
@ PaigeyWaigey,
Thanks sweetie! I hope so too! If things get bad this time, I’m out…for real. This is my last hurricane! I will be ATL bound if Gustav does some damage.
*p*****ing dutch to Dana Dane (the real one)*
@ cutie pie
business administration
anderson cooper is a homosexual in real life
PaigeyWaigey *Is getting some hair pulled tonight…Puerto Rico WHOA!!!*(Check me out!)
@ Kesha
Be safe mami!! Hope your place is in one piece when you return… I don’t know how ya’ll live in places like that…hurricanes, tornadoes, floods..I couldn’t do it!
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Every place in the world is suscetible to some sort of Environmental damage.
New Orleans is a beautiful city. I promise if you lived there for a little while you would love it.
@ sugar
well i’ll be damn!! that is some crazy sh*t..it all makes sense now
@ Man
stop teasing me cause im in need of a seriou tune up
*sigh* 8 months and counting
@I’m Just Me
What’s up? Meant to holla back at you earlier.
Yeah, those storms can be a nightmare. we have had several storms down towards Mobile over the years
@ ill
good!! its good to see brothers in school
i cleared my cache and still cant see my gravatar anymore. did Bossip make changes because i used to be on here alot months ago with my picture up?
Damn I knew he was a Vanderbilt but that ***** is horrible…I know his mother was DEPRESSED after seeing that *****…That’s crazy…but medication will do some jacked up ***** to you…my mom had knee surgery and that vicodin had her asking for her grandmother and telling me all kinda ***** I never knew…she still don’t remember saying none of that..we took her off that ***** real quick!
WHERE THE HELL IS GLOK9N??
@ Man
It is cool…I know you just jump right in where you fit in! How r u 2day?
@VEE
“@ Man I Dont Care-I’m a Business *****yst/Tester for BCBSNJ. Basically, I sort through their data and fix all of their mistakes in claims and billing-via spreadsheets and testing software. At first glance, some of this stuff does look like payroll.
But no dice–only money I wanna see or touch is MINE!”
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that sounds an awful lot like auditing!! I hate this *****.
*taking a long pull*
anderson cooper is a homosexual in real life
*exhales, rbeaths back in through the nose*
@ ILL
Huh? where that come from?
*chuckles*
@ IJM
This some gooood *****…..* pulls n p*****es*
Everyone has forgotten about the people who are without homes after Katrina..whats going on with them?? the media has completely stopped reporting on it…and I know a lot of them are still homeless
@ Paigey
but medication will do some jacked up ***** to you…my mom had knee surgery and that vicodin had her asking for her grandmother and telling me all kinda ***** I never knew…she still don’t remember saying none of that..we took her off that ***** real quick!
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OKAY…I know someone whose mom HATES her dude. She got medicated in the hospital for some type of surgery she started telling my peoples that she really liked her dude but she is afraid she cannot take care of her and this and that and crying and telling her she supports their marriage.
A few days later when that medicated haze wore off she was telling her mom what she said. Her mom didn’t have a f*cking clue and went back to her nasty demeanor.
But for real you can find out the real when someone is medicated.
@ Miss Applebottom
My gravy didn’t work yesterday either…here’s what you do… go to the TOOLS menu to INTERNET OPTIONS and clear your history. Then completely close your internet and then re-enter, come back to bossip…you will probably have to put your name and email back in the comment section and that should work, it might take a few mins though. But I do know that if you go to gravatar and change your pic or something like that, it take 10 mins for it to take affect…and I still think you should do those first steps I did as a back up..that worked for me.
* puffing thrice*
*p*****ing that shyt to NU*
@ Dana
Say what now? When did that come out about Anderson? Or is it a know fact?
PaigeyWaigey & Dana Dane…
Hey ladies!!!
I gotta go for a minute but I just wanna say (with no correlation to the conversation) I hate sending e-mails and always having to ’say’ thank you,
them **********as aint do ***** for me..*****s!!
yeah I think I am going to head out tonight i am in tampa it is like a 10 hour drive
@ paigey
“but medication will do some jacked up ***** to you…my mom had knee surgery and that vicodin had her asking for her grandmother and telling me all kinda ***** I never knew…she still don’t remember saying none of that..we took her off that ***** real quick!”
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that is why i am against medication of any kind I..I believe in herbs and essential oils to help heal anything..these medications are always being recalled and they come with side effects that make you experience sh*t you didn’t even have to begin with..SMH..don’t trust medication they prescribe all this ish for you that make you sick and drains your bank account
stop teasing me cause im in need of a seriou tune up *sigh* 8 months and counting
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You must be masturbating like crazy. Probably got a “battery” shortage in NY.
Wish I was there to help you out.
@ I’m Just Me
Oh definitely!! I know nothing about my mother’s mother because she was never a part of my mom’s life, so you know my sneaky ***** was asking her all kinda questions, cause I didn’t even know if she was dead or alive…But I didn’t tell my mom I asked her all that, she would be *****ed to know she talked about it..
@ Man
My damn battery is always going out on my bullet, I done wore out or broke 3 of them so far..lol
@ Cutie Pie
Girl you sound like Big Mama from Soul Food “This ain’t nothing my herbs won’t cure!” LMAO
Lmao @ Man, u know me so well,lol
@ IJM
*eyes low* Naaah thats what ILL said
ATTENTION PEOPLE ATTENTION PEOPLE!!!!
I have a problem n I need advice
test for gravatar pic
@ Nikki
I’m gonna need to get off of my Sperm Bank Chris Paul…lol And good morning!
Lol paigey
its true though
waht kind of advice
cutie pie*kindly putting people on blast est.1985* My beautiful black sisters..its time to form a coalition…b/c according to many we have become the antichrist(Check me out!)
Everyone has forgotten about the people who are without homes after Katrina..whats going on with them?? the media has completely stopped reporting on it…and I know a lot of them are still homeless
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I just went to the 9th ward last week. It is ridiculous too. You have one house looking brand new right in between two crack house. It’s so bad they have it written on the door “CRACK HOUSE” or “FIXES” or “DAT PLACE.” I can’t even describe it. Some people have just given up….
@Man
Is that the only reason you wanna leave your job? LOL
@dana
Yea, I thought about it but by the time I got home, the even had been outdoors so I was all hot. My baby was not in bed like she was supposed to be it would have too much of a h*****le to get it going. I gave it serious consideration. Even gave the dude a kiss..then changed my mind…
@ Dana Dane
What’s up? Lie down on the couch and breathe…and begin when your relaxed.
she looks good, the photos dont appear to be too photoshopped, like giving her an enormous ***** or something like they tend to do sometimes, but i wish she would have just stuck to earth hues with her makeup, she is a pretty girl, and the makeup is too much and definitely not needed, dnt care much for the squat pose either, they could have done betta, but overall, she looks damn good.
@KESHA
Is it just me or is everyone from N.O. claiming they from the 9th ward after the storm? LOL.
IT AIN’T EVEN THAT BIG OR HAVE THAT MANY HOUSES!!! BUT EVERYONE FROM THE 9TH WARD NOW!!
man I was home in may and it still brings tears to my eyes that it is like they have abandoned my city
*the event
@ man
“I just went to the 9th ward last week. It is ridiculous too. You have one house looking brand new right in between two crack house. It’s so bad they have it written on the door “CRACK HOUSE” or “FIXES” or “DAT PLACE.” I can’t even describe it. Some people have just given up….”
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so sad…such a displacement, and the fact that nothing is being done about it will ensure that its going to have a negative effect on the future
@DANA what’s the prob?
OK
?????
I KNOW ALL OF U HAVE BEEN TO A SEX SHOP..CAN SOMEONE TELL ME..WHAT IN THE HELL IS SOMEONE GOING TO DO WITH A 13 FT *****E?
@PAIGEY WAIGEY
@DELECTABLE DANA DANE
The bullet is only going to give you short term relief. You really crave intimacy….
Don’t use it TOO much either. Just like drugs it will lose its potency.
‘Sup y’all…back from my meeting. Tryin to calm down–just heard some &^%*$ in the hallway talkin’
-ish about Barack. I wanna kick his *****, trailer park trash, snaggatooth, porky pig lookn *&^%$#@!!
Counting to ten……….
@ Man I dont care: the auditing gets to be a pain but I gotta do it. I just know it’s not a coincidence that all this work found its way to my desk in time for the weekend. Again, counting to ten…
I am a habitual flirt, I cant help it , I love Men, n Men love me, Half the time I dont mean anything by it, ***** , sometimes I dont even realize Im doing it, so anywho, my boss thinks I got a little thing for him so now he be givin me the eye n *****, sayin little slick *****, i mean he cute n all, but he old, eww, how do i approach the situation without making things uncomfortable in my office?
obama will repair new orleans. he is a gift from god. a true blessing from the heavens. a saint in a suit.
i am actually from the west bank not that many people claim the 9th ward. you gotta figure the people that were born there and moved its not really that small either
Yup here is Hoopz Lezbo azz at it again…. I wonder if her mom is proud of her??? Got on reality TV and became known for sleeping around w/ men and women…
Good morning all…..
@JAXON
“Is that the only reason you wanna leave your job? ”
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Yup. Pretty much. I have to admit, I was what you call the “good man” all through high school and college.
In High School I was that way by cir*****stance, in College by choice.
After I graduated, my “morals” just seemed to gradually erode. I’m going through withdrawl in this place with so little female contact.
I hate men. The only exceptions are my brother and cousin.
Hoopz is one fine cocoa brown mama.
@ dane
they was sayin they can’t stand anderson coopers sly remarks, he’s the guy with white hair on cnn
theseen26(Check me out!)
Yup here is Hoopz Lezbo azz at it again…. I wonder if her mom is proud of her??? Got on reality TV and became known for sleeping around w/ men and women…
Good morning all…..
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Wait, Hoopz go both ways? Is this rumor or does she admit to this?
@ Man,
Yup! And probably dont even know where the 9th at, lol! So sad. I mean i wonder if they actaully have SEEN the ninth??? Most people think of the 9th ward as soon as they think of New Orleans…If they only knew its such a small part(meaning size) and there’s SOOO much to it. I’m from Gentilly
Hoops is bisexual and this is known to be true
@ Dana Dane
Ignore his *****… Yeah that’s about all you can do. If he asks you out or some *****, just say no thank you my man wouldn’t approve…that always works. Most men get the hint, if his ***** don’t just be short and curt with his ***** and let him know you only know he’s alive because you work there..lol
@ Theseen
Waaaaaaaaay better pic, u can get it now
seee i cant turn it off!!!!
@ Dana Dane,
HOnestly,i think if you approach him and be like, look…thanks but no thanks, that might just turn him on more. You got a ole man or a boo that can drop by and p***** the hint that either your taken or not into old men (EEEUUU, i know how you feel)? If he sees you with someone your own age, then maybe he’d know that there’s no chance you’re interested in his old *****…just a thought
@ APPLEBOTTOM
HOOPS IS A SLIZZARD AS HOE…MY BOY IN MILWAUKEE HIT IT CAUSE HE’S A PROMOTER AND SHE COULD GET THE ATHELETE THAT WAS THERE SO SHE *****ED HIM…AND MY BOY IN DETROIT ALMOST *****ED HER TOO CAUSE HE’S A STUDIO ENGINEER..SKEEZER!
Back to Hoops for a second, her face isn’t that bad but they should’ve taken a less is more approach with the makeup. Some females just don’t look good with a lot of glammed up makeup, it makes them look tranny-ish. But as far as kissing flav, yuck, yuck, yuck!
@CUTIE PIE
so sad…such a displacement, and the fact that nothing is being done about it will ensure that its going to have a negative effect on the future
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It truly is sad. The thing is the government tried to set up a program called “The Road Home.” It was designed for people to get some value back on the property value of their homes.
The problem is that the program was designed for the poor but like a lot of other things they were the ones that benefitted the least. They either didn’t “own” the property , couldn’t receive mail because of moving or weren’t very educated and didn’t understand the legalese.
At the bank I remember people who already had home owner’s insurance coming in with $70,000 checks. The people renting, well they were just up a creek.
hoopz is very masculine.. her curves make her appear feminine(the girl has a nice body can’t frint)when I watch her on the I Love Money show I always feel the only thing she would need to do to complete her look is to grab her crotch… I wouldn’t be surprised if she went both ways
@ paigey
I thought about doing that but im worried the lasttime something like this happened I did exactly that n i ended up requesting a transfer because dude turned into a real *****, it was earier with that gig because it was a lightweight job I had through college, but now, i cant afford that *****, i a punk
theseen26
Good MOrning BOo!
@ Kesh
He seen me with younger guys, i wasnt playin whn i said men love the kid, he seen me with some that work here(he probably knew there was nothing goin on), n dudes from the outside, n he made sure to jump into the convo everytime like a lame old man
@DANA DANE
That’s a real pickle to be in. Give me an example of a “slick” remark. I know you have to be careful because *****s get mad and bitter at being turned down. Some of em anyway.
hoopz is a slizzy
front*
@dana
How is he at getting the drift? Maybe you can just start dropping hints about having a man…send yourself flowers from him lol…
It must be Kesha’s day today I swear
@Man,
Do you think there was an event that made your morals erode? I noticed with a lot of dudes that it is usually the way men react to a heartbreak…
@ DANA DANE
Just do what I do..when I’m at work I just walk around with a blank stare…lol
@ dana
he might have a power complex(most bosses do) so you can’t approach him too aggressively..you got to do it with a little humor and charm or if all fails pull his leg..say if it were a another time or place it would work out but you would much rather keep it strictly professional..the old saying applies here you don’t sh*t where you eat.
@ man
ok like one time we was a this b-day get together in the mailroom, n we were eating cake, so he asked me if the cake was good b4 he took a bite of his, so i was like”yeah u gotta try the frosting” n he was lick “can I lick yours” so I looked at him n he smiled n winked n was like “let me try some of your b4 i get my own” I was like ” I got a cold” shook my head n walked away
@Man
Naw it was footage and flicks of her making out w/ some chic. But yeah it might be rumor…. but thats word onthe street she go both ways….
@ man
“It truly is sad. The thing is the government tried to set up a program called “The Road Home.” It was designed for people to get some value back on the property value of their homes.
The problem is that the program was designed for the poor but like a lot of other things they were the ones that benefitted the least. They either didn’t “own” the property , couldn’t receive mail because of moving or weren’t very educated and didn’t understand the legalese.
At the bank I remember people who already had home owner’s insurance coming in with $70,000 checks. The people renting, well they were just up a creek.”
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and then to top it off things aren’t easy enough as it is with this idiot in office..he’s been playing it real low key lately…no pictures of him golfing at his ranch… nothing
@ Dana,
“@ Kesh
He seen me with younger guys, i wasnt playin whn i said men love the kid, he seen me with some that work here(he probably knew there was nothing goin on), n dudes from the outside, n he made sure to jump into the convo everytime like a lame old man”
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Oh, he’s one of THOSE…the ones that dont catch on to subtle hints…so you gotta get serious with him, not disrescpectful, but serious enough so he knows not to go there. I’d be like, look Bob(we’ll call him bob), I think you’re an attractive man for your age(lol), but honestly, i’m not interested. I prefer men my own age, younger, more athletic guys, lol. Someone that has the same interest as me. I think you would be perfect for, lets say, my mom. But I’m just not interested. However, i must say if i were…20 years older, i’d consider it. You’ve got to throw in a few compliments so he dont become a *****(like you said the last guy was). And dont completely cut him off from all contact and conversations, still talk to him, just cut it short everytime he takes it to that flirt level. Like, see, there you go again Bob, ok. I’m gonna walk away. Make him feel apologtic, so he can feel like the ***** and think, well maybe i’m har*****ing this young lady.
@ DANA DANE
Old men are a trip, just smile and giggle and avoid him…His ***** is old, he know you don’t want him. Sometimes they are JUST flirting, but because they are so old it makes you nervous that they might be serious if given a window of opportunity, I wouldn’t worry about it. He’s just being an old pervert…that’s what they do…lol
@Man,
Do you think there was an event that made your morals erode? I noticed with a lot of dudes that it is usually the way men react to a heartbreak…
@ Jax
Yeah they say women fall quick but men fall hard, all it takes is that one heartbreak for good dude to go bad
@ Paigey
LMAO, silly
@ Cutie
U r so cute, u see with that it will potential go 1 of 2 ways either hes going to act like he dont know what im talking about or because im doing it with i smile he’s going to think im playing hard to get
@ Kesha
Your ***** is gonna get her fired for “mysterious reasons”…lol
Oh there goes Victoria,
Good Morning Vicki Vale! How are you this fine day?
@ dana
ok then tell him to back the f**ck off someone else is licking your frosting and he licks it quite right lol no don’t tell him that
@JAXON (Trying not to clock watch)(Check me out!)
“Do you think there was an event that made your morals erode? I noticed with a lot of dudes that it is usually the way men react to a heartbreak…”
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You know, that’s a good question.
I really don’t think it’s heartbreak for me. I have been in 5 relationships in my life, I’ve had my heartbroken once. I have remained really good friends with all of them, two of them I talk to everyday (just got off the phone with one and emailed the other).
It couldn’t have been “heartbreak” because I had already lost my morals before I met the person that broke my heart. I think it just came down to, “Why not?” I couldn’t logically explain to myself why not.
Oh Yeah Hoopz…She can get it
@ DANA DANE
Tell him… “I don’t ***** where I eat.” LOL Naw don’t say that your ***** WILL be at the unemployment office..
@ Paigey,
LOL! I know huh? I’ve got this man like that at my job…but he’s an older black man. And i just ignore him most of the time…But i’m used to it honestly, it doesnt bother me unless they get touchy feely. I dont play that shyt…the words are always compliments and what female doesnt like compliments?
Or is it I don’t eat where I *****? Either way same thing…I don’t wanna ***** with you…lol
SEE DANA
You cannot be flirting back if it is uncomfortable. You are somewhat leading him on. I agree with the person who said tell him straight up. I am not interested in you and you have to stop flirting with him. That is the only way.
@ Man,
I think it just came down to, “Why not?” I couldn’t logically explain to myself why not.
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Wait, why not what? I’m lost? What are yall talking about(yes, butin in, lol)??
@Dana Dane
lol Thnx luv
@Ms. Sugar Walls
Good morning lovely
@DANA DANE
“Yeah they say women fall quick but men fall hard, all it takes is that one heartbreak for good dude to go bad”
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I think that is a true statement. That’s why *****s be killing they family and *****. (No, it ain’t that bad for me)
Yeah, I must admit. I got it bad for this chick. The worst part is she knows it. I thing the hardest part is “having the shoe on the other foot.” I ain’t used to that *****. We still real cool though. Like I said, we talk just about everyday.
I know I’m late everybody but @ Ermy Erm I’m in Chicago too and I’ve seen BC powder at Walmart. I’d heard of it before but that was my first time seeing it a couple of weeks ago.
I’ma a flirt too and that shyt can definitely get you caught up in some “swkward” situations so i stopped flirting at work. That wasnt hard cause there aint much to flirt with here anyway, lol. But i could NEVER work in an environment with a lot of young black males…i’d get myself in hella trouble
@ Paigey,
yeah, i think its “i dont ***** where i eat”
a year or so ago, a woman called into an atlanta radio station claiming that she, hoopz, and T.I., had a threesome at Hoopz request. She said Hoopz definitely goes both ways (not that there’s anything wrong with that) and was way more into her than T.I. After T.I. was done they were still going at it. So, to answer some of ya’ll questions about her sexuality, I wouldnt doubt that she’s into women….just look at her on I love money…she’s always tossin’ around a football, like a dude, and acting hard.
these comments suck…lol
@ dane
suck his ***** n get a promotion, wuts a matter wit chu i thot u was a gangstress,
sell it! sell it! sell your ***** girls.
***** will sell’
If ***** don’t sell, grits aint groceries, eggs aint poultry, and Mona Lisa is a
Mother*****ing man!
@KESHA
“Wait, why not what? I’m lost? What are yall talking about(yes, butin in, lol)??”
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I was talking about my transformation from a “good man” to a “bad man.” LOL
Jaxon wanted to know if Heartbreak caused it. I replied “no” because “my morals” began to erode before my heart was broken.
I think the change began when I asked myself “why not ***** this chick.. or at least try to.” I’m not saying I don’t believe in relationships because I do. I think the temptation began to be too much. No, I didn’t “cheat”…. but I wouldn’t “commit” either.
I wasn’t possesive either because I had so many oppurtunities that I could care less if a female up and stopped talking to me.
what in the world?
euuw lightskinned and ugly
welp, back to *****in
@ dane
suck his ***** n get a promotion, wuts a matter wit chu i thot u was a gangstress,
sell it! sell it! sell your ***** girls.
***** will sell’
If ***** don’t sell, grits aint groceries, eggs aint poultry, and Mona Lisa is a
Mother*****ing man!
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damn ill..just damn
@ IJM
I dont(anymore), but like i said i do it sometimes n dont even realize I think im go with u, Kesh, n Paigey :I (LMAO) on this one,
thx everyone!!
Kmia(Check me out!)
a year or so ago, a woman called into an atlanta radio station claiming that she, hoopz, and T.I., had a threesome at Hoopz request. She said Hoopz definitely goes both ways (not that there’s anything wrong with that) and was way more into her than T.I. After T.I. was done they were still going at it. So, to answer some of ya’ll questions about her sexuality, I wouldnt doubt that she’s into women….just look at her on I love money…she’s always tossin’ around a football, like a dude, and acting hard.
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Yeah, she a little tomboyish but damn. We losin more erday.
damn! Damn! DAMN!
Keesha Love………………I hear you WOMAN!!!!!!!
Big up…….!!!!!!!!!!!
well what keeps me from going “bad” is knowing that my actions always reap rewards..its called Karma you either get good karma or bad karma..and I want the good karma
Wait who was talking about sex shops.
Can y’all refer me to some or some websites…shyt….a sistah needs more toys for the toy chest.
I have also seen *****s in the the shape of huge fists…i am like umm…Where the f*ck it that supposed to go.
I think i flatlined though when they started selling those p*ssies that men could f*ck…i cannot even begin to imagine hubby with some fake p*ssy or a rubber doll. LMAOOOO
well what keeps me from going “bad” is knowing that my actions always reap rewards..its called Karma you either get good karma or bad karma..and I want the good karma
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Co-sign to this Cutie Pie.
***** U ILL!!!!! YO ***** LUCKY I CANT REACH THROUGH THIS DAMN COMP N SMACK THE ***** OUTTA U!!! WHY DONT U DO IT FOR ME HELP A ***** OUT!!!
The curse out would’ve been a lot worse if u wasn’t my boo
@CUTIE PIE*kindly putting people on blast est.1985* My beautiful black sisters..its time to form a coalition…b/c according to many we have become the antichrist(Check me out!)
“well what keeps me from going “bad” is knowing that my actions always reap rewards..its called Karma you either get good karma or bad karma..and I want the good karma”
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I hear you. And I thought like that too. But I had to ask myself this?
“Could these females being presented to me be the result of ‘good karma’ coming my way?”
I mean, how do I know that I’m not rejecting the results of some good karma I put out there previously? I’m always honest so there is no deception going on to create “bad” karma.
You have to treat yourself sometimes.
@ Dana
I feel you. Just be careful b/c if a co-worker or something over hears that there can be sexually har*****ments suits and shyt filed.
@I’M JUST ME
“I think i flatlined though when they started selling those p*ssies that men could f*ck…i cannot even begin to imagine hubby with some fake p*ssy or a rubber doll. LMAOOOO”
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yeah, ain’t nothing like the real thing. It ain’t fair though. We don’t have anything even close to a REAL PUSS!
@ dane
your boss wanted me to dictate the following directive to you.:
get on your kness, make like the breeze begin to blow
but dont give me no Ralph Loren grin
if your not down to go low
I’m all about mouth *****in
only if you down for ***** suckin
if not, be chair and a beer…keep truckin
and ***** chap sticks
I’m comin ashy as hell, wit chapped *****s
for your chapped ***** lips >down in my mouth
creamin your teeth like dentists as Im rubbin them
with an erection like injections
***** it I be druggin them
numbing up your tonsils
like ambesol anesthetic
*****min down your throat like chloraseptic no time for
apologin..girlfriend if you…..
swallowin{gurgle}….gagolin
I’m givin *****es permanent beers
put your lips here
and catch these damn facial hairs in your mouth
this man face ***** need a grammer cl***** stat
Wait who was talking about sex shops.
Can y’all refer me to some or some websites…shyt….a sistah needs more toys for the toy chest.
I have also seen *****s in the the shape of huge fists…i am like umm…Where the f*ck it that supposed to go.
I think i flatlined though when they started selling those p*ssies that men could f*ck…i cannot even begin to imagine hubby with some fake p*ssy or a rubber doll. LMAOOOO
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right! the only thing that men have to do is put warm water in them, but I think that is kind of sick! I walk up and down every aisle..I want to see the new *****..I am not with the ***** beads….
26 hey baby!
Hello errrbody on Bossip!
umm yea Hoopz looking better here than that cover! her lil body on point!
***** U ILL!!!!! YO ***** LUCKY I CANT REACH THROUGH THIS DAMN COMP N SMACK THE ***** OUTTA U!!! WHY DONT U DO IT FOR ME HELP A ***** OUT!!!
The curse out would’ve been a lot worse if u wasn’t my boo
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what in the hell? who is this?
@Mz.Cee
Lovin the gravy.
DAMN.. I mean really loving the gravy.
You know I mentioned you as one of my Bossip crushes, I would let you take the lead….
@ i’m just me
adamandeve.com I got a few things from there once upon a time..shhhh lol
@ Man
I think that is a true statement. That’s why *****s be killing they family and *****. (No, it ain’t that bad for me)
Yeah, I must admit. I got it bad for this chick. The worst part is she knows it. I thing the hardest part is “having the shoe on the other foot.” I ain’t used to that *****. We still real cool though. Like I said, we talk just about everyday.
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Wait “YOu got it bad” or “You HAD it bad”, didn’t you say yesterday about introducing your current lady to your moms?
Can you and ole girl work it out?
adameve* my fault
I don’t understand? This girl is gorgeous, but if anything, I think they have WAYYYY too much makeup on her. Why do women feel the need to gook their faces up with that mess is beyond me.
@ Sugar
Don’t sleep on the ***** beads. Espeically the ones that vibrate
That’ll get that azz open real quickly
@ Cutie Pie
Hubby just receieved a catalog in the mail from them yesterday. We are going through it tomorrow.
I was watching real sex on HBO one night and I seen this episode where they went to this factory where they made life like f**k dolls with *****’ and p***y’s and ish they even had tranny dolls
@Man
uh huh, I saw that
! I am very flattered thank you much and since you such a sweetie, I’ma let you show me to the biznezz, witcha light skin sweetness… 
Aight I’m back
What I miss in this joint
@ Man,
Oh, ok. I’m up to speed now. I think you suffer from what i call the High Yellow Boy Syndrome, lol! P*ssy came easy for yall(still does i’m sure cause light skin will never be outta season, lol) and most think, what the hell? Why not? I lot of light skinned men i know have multiple sex partners or tend to stray when they’re in a relationship. Not saying that dark skin men dont, cause they’re so “in” right now, they gettin it more than the lite brites, lol. (all that light skin talk is just jokes, nothing else, so dont take offense, k) My mom is a lite brite too.
Anyway, yes, if its being offered to you on the regular, then why would you p***** it up. So, is it difficult for you to stay monogamous in a relationship? Have you been known to stray?
@ im just me
oooo ok they send me emails all the time
@DaPro I would give you my Cliff’s Notes but I been in and out myself…maybe cutie pie can help us out
Hey Mz.Cee
@ Dana Dane,
uh huh…get on his azz ma! (Ill, that is)…LOL!
@ Kesha
Yes, High Yella Syndrome does run rampant throughout the community…
@Man
Are you still in the “ansty” state or have you calmed down?
dana had a harr*****ment problem at her job but now she has received expert advice.
there was talk about fist *****s
sex toy websites
and then I brought up this episode I saw on real sex on HBO about life like sex dolls
oh yea Man is talking about how hard it is to turn down p***y
@ Sugar
To *****got ***** Illuminati
@ ILL
***** U *****GOT!! akinyelle huh? u’d probably do a better job n ur knees, i can tell cause it look like u garglin two big ***** nuts in your mouth in that homo ***** gravy y u soo interested in another man getting head for anyway shouldnt u be worry about ur own ***** unleeeessss , ahhhh haaaa i got u ILLUMINATITHE*****GOT, well dont use me n my issues to fantasize closet case, goin to lunch we’ll continue this lata boo
@Jaxon
I appreciate it, I guess not too much went on
@Kesha
I work at a school and even the little hs girls say things to make a grown man blush
That’s kinda light for a Friday
Lets turn it up a notch
Anyone every been propositioned for sex for a promotion, raise, or to keep your job??
@ Jaxon,
I dont know a committed high yella man, lol! I’m sooo stereotyping right now, i know…but its true Man, no offense!
Hello lovely Jaxon
LOL@I’m Just Me
Don’t sleep on the ***** beads. Espeically the ones that vibrate. That’ll get that azz open real quickly.
what up folks…I had to get off for about an hr to run across town….what’s the biz in here???
@JAXON
“Wait “YOu got it bad” or “You HAD it bad”, didn’t you say yesterday about introducing your current lady to your moms?
Can you and ole girl work it out?”
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Nope, i got it bad for this chick. As in CURRENTLY got it bad. We briefly worked together… like a few months. She walked in and I KNEW. That was 7 years ago and I still crave her. BAD.
As a coincidence, the current chick I’m dating I also met at the same job so I’ve known her 7 years as well. They actually went to the same high school and hated each other. I didn’t find that out till later though.
@ dapro,
“I work at a school and even the little hs girls say things to make a grown man blush”
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Man, them the WORSE ones, the high school girls, lol! Cause i know i was a FOOL in high school, lol! So i can imagine what they like nah. I remember my senior year, Trig teacher was a young black man! He’d flirt with all the girls and of course we’d flirt right back. Well, why ole boy found me and looked me up my freshman year of college! I was in a relationship, but if i wasn’t, lol…he coulda get it. Shyt, i wonda where he at nah?!
@Mz.Cee
“uh huh, I saw that ! I am very flattered thank you much and since you such a sweetie, I’ma let you show me to the biznezz, witcha light skin sweetness… ”
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Wait, ain’t you in Texas???? ***** I might be headed that cause of the storm anyway LOL.
You is fine than a ***** though.
Kesha and Jax
You’re talking to a committed high yellow man but I could be single real soon
Nope, i got it bad for this chick. As in CURRENTLY got it bad. We briefly worked together… like a few months. She walked in and I KNEW. That was 7 years ago and I still crave her. BAD.
As a coincidence, the current chick I’m dating I also met at the same job so I’ve known her 7 years as well. They actually went to the same high school and hated each other. I didn’t find that out till later though.
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oooooooo i’m telling!!! you two-timing!!
BOSSIP IS BLOCKING ME!!
@ DA PRO
No!
@dapro11
You’re talking to a committed high yellow man but I could be single real soon
—
why – are you getting kicked to the curb?
@ DA PRO
NO
WHO ENJOYS WATCHING P O R N WITH (OR WITHOUT FOR THAT MATTER) THEIR MAN???
I do and hubby LOVES IT and I will watch it with or without his azz!!!
OKAY LUNCH TIME..We are having a margarita luncheon at work…I’ll be back in an hour or so.
@ Man,
“Nope, i got it bad for this chick. As in CURRENTLY got it bad. We briefly worked together… like a few months. She walked in and I KNEW. That was 7 years ago and I still crave her. BAD.
As a coincidence, the current chick I’m dating I also met at the same job so I’ve known her 7 years as well. They actually went to the same high school and hated each other. I didn’t find that out till later though.”
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Yup, sounds like some N.O./B.R. shyt. I swear this shyt is really starting to freak me the f*ck out…i’m sure i know you now. You betta watch what you say on here, lol!
@Man
LOL, nah aint in TX! and thanks again!
@KESHA
“Oh, ok. I’m up to speed now. I think you suffer from what i call the High Yellow Boy Syndrome, lol! P*ssy came easy for yall(still does i’m sure cause light skin will never be outta season, lol) and most think, what the hell? Why not? I lot of light skinned men i know have multiple sex partners or tend to stray when they’re in a relationship. Not saying that dark skin men dont, cause they’re so “in” right now, they gettin it more than the lite brites, lol. (all that light skin talk is just jokes, nothing else, so dont take offense, k) My mom is a lite brite too.
Anyway, yes, if its being offered to you on the regular, then why would you p***** it up. So, is it difficult for you to stay monogamous in a relationship? Have you been known to stray?”
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Don’t worry. It would take a whole lot to get me mad. LOL. My Aunt that raised me, HATES bright skin men. She is really dark and like I said, she was raised in the South in the 40’s and 50’s. She knew them bright skin dudes that would try to “p*****” or look down on dark skinned women so she talk about them all the time.
You know, I was all about the “monogomaus” r/ship at one point. The more puss that was thrown at me the less interested I became. With the exception of the aforementioned women. I think it depends on what woman I’m being monogomaus with.
… aight gotta go, gotta go, will be back fo sho!
yall enjoy your lunch!
@ dparo,
“but I could be single real soon”
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See what i mean, lol! Always on the prowl, yall light brightes stay lookin for your next “meal” huh, lol?
I just got back….is it nasty man talk in here again?
@KESHA
“Yup, sounds like some N.O./B.R. shyt. I swear this shyt is really starting to freak me the f*ck out…i’m sure i know you now. You betta watch what you say on here, lol!”
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Yes, I was already thinking that. That’s why I def. won’t be putting my name on this ***** EVER. LOL.
@ Man,
“I think it depends on what woman I’m being monogomaus with.”
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Well thats good. And that other chick you got it bad for, that feelin will NEVER go away until you smash that so you need to just gon head and handle that. Once you do, she probably(notice i said probably which means this is a risk you’d have to take)wont be that interesting to you anymore and you can focus on your relationship and see if its worth keeping
@MZ.CEE
“LOL, nah aint in TX! and thanks again!”
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Where you at then? Don’t be scuuured, most people on here have repped for their city.
@ Man,
“Yes, I was already thinking that. That’s why I def. won’t be putting my name on this ***** EVER. LOL”
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Huh bruh, i was thinking about this shyt last night…i got ALL my business on this joint. If ANYBODY i know read these comments, they will know immediately that its me, lol. Seriously though, i need to use an alias and stop gettin so personal
back now whats the convo bout
@KESHA
“Well thats good. And that other chick you got it bad for, that feelin will NEVER go away until you smash that so you need to just gon head and handle that. Once you do, she probably(notice i said probably which means this is a risk you’d have to take)wont be that interesting to you anymore and you can focus on your relationship and see if its worth keeping”
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Yeah, I know. It doesn’t help that I talk to her everyday either. She knows I would totally wreck her ***** too. I think she is scared that she would catch feelings for me and she knows how I am. At least the reputation that I had (it’s exagerrated).
Anybody still here or everyone @ lunch?
IM AT WORK FINALLY(upset..and wishing i had the day off!!lol) WHAT IT IS BOSSIP FAM?
@Mz Cee
That was a head shot sweetheart (ouch)
@Kesha
I know what I look for in a woman and I thought I had found what I wanted
It seems I was wrong. I made the ultimate commitment and tried my best to make sure she stays happy (not just content)
As men, we have the need to keep our women pleased mentally, emotionally, and sexually
All I ask is that if she’s happy, show me. A smile can do wonders for a man like me. Once I see my woman is happy and supportive than there is nothing I can’t achieve out here. My goal as a man is to be the provider and strenght for the family. If a man doesn’t feel the support, what else can he do?
@VEE
YES MAAM, SHOPPING IS DEFINATELY MY DEAL. ALMOST TO THE POINT WERE I NEED TO BACK OFF OF IT A BIT. LAST FRIDAY IT WAS A YELLOW DRESS. TONIGHT, IT WILL BE A RED ONE THAT TIES AROUND THE NECK. OH YEAH, I’LL BE STYLIN’ ON EM(popping collar similtaneously..lol)
wheres hannibal
@DA PRO
GOOD MORNING GOOD LOOKING. HOW ARE YOU TODAY?
@ DAPRO
Soooooo why isn’t she happy???
anybody want to answer my question….what’s everybody talking about??
jaxon u fine as hell woman .
@ num1dominicano
Currently we are back to Light Skinned Men and their inability to be monogamous and DaPro is getting the boot from his girl for some reason..that’s all I know… oh yeah sex toys..
Morning SxyQ, my little lady
Red dress huh,
Put on your red dress, slip on your high heels
anonymous(Check me out!)
jaxon u fine as hell woman .
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I concur.
I’m not getting the boot, I’m thinking of giving the boot
She says she’s happy but it doesn’t show
@KESHA
“Huh bruh, i was thinking about this shyt last night…i got ALL my business on this joint. If ANYBODY i know read these comments, they will know immediately that its me, lol. Seriously though, i need to use an alias and stop gettin so personal”
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Lol. Yeah, cause I’m over here seriously racking my brain to see if I remember any “Kesha’s.” You know it’s a fairly common name, especially in Louisiana but I can’t limit it down.
@PAIGEY WAIGEY
Where are you located?
@ dapro,
Yup, if she’s happy, it SHOULD show. Cause when we are, we smilin from ear to ear and bragin and shyt. If she never smiles, she aint happy.
LOL@DA PRO
(wink) I’VE GOT SOME HIGH ONES TOO YOU KNOW!!
@KESHA
HOW ABOUT HAVING YOUR BOYFRIEND *****UME A MADE UP SCREEN NAME TO COME ONTO BOSSIP AND CHECK OUT WHAT YOU’RE DOING? NOW THAT ONE SLAYED ME.
HEY, MAN I JUST DONT CARE, PAIGEY WAIGEY.(trying to make sure i didnt forget anyone)
@SXYQBLONDIE
“HOW ABOUT HAVING YOUR BOYFRIEND *****UME A MADE UP SCREEN NAME TO COME ONTO BOSSIP AND CHECK OUT WHAT YOU’RE DOING? NOW THAT ONE SLAYED ME”
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That ***** happened to you???
@SXYQBLONDIE
What’s up? Where are you located?
I know she ain’t but it kills me that isn’t happy because I know it’s not me
I think its the city or too much responsibility. She used to dealing with other type of catz, you know uptight, square azz niccas
Again, we made the ultimate commitment but something ain’t right
Damn is today another day on “sex talk”??? I guess the “freak crew” is back in action…. aint gonna say no names but yall know who u are… Hahaha
@ Man,
“Lol. Yeah, cause I’m over here seriously racking my brain to see if I remember any “Kesha’s.” You know it’s a fairly common name, especially in Louisiana but I can’t limit it down.”
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LMAO! And i’m over here tryna see if i know any Man, i just tired’s, lol! No seriously though, from what you’ve shared about your life so far, it basically mirrors my life with my ex, i swear! Its scary.
Im not mad at her legs, I love to see a nice pair of sexy legs. I don’t care who they are attached to (well with the exception of children). I went running this morning and saw an old man, he had to be in his late 60’s with strong muscular legs. He made me run a little bit harder.
@MAN I JUST
YES SIR IT HAPPENED TO ME. ABOUT 2 WEEKS AGO. I WAS *****ED THE HELL OFF ABOUT IT TOO!! I’M LIKE THIS IS A BLOG SITE, COME ON NOW!! NOT COOL. BUT, I’M IN V.A LUV.
@KESHA
“LMAO! And i’m over here tryna see if i know any Man, i just tired’s, lol! No seriously though, from what you’ve shared about your life so far, it basically mirrors my life with my ex, i swear! Its scary.”
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Well, I’m sure I would of have remembered you as my ex. I never dated any females that went to LSU. Not from lack of trying though.
You know, I have a really “clean cut” image but chicks that are like hard core gangsta are always attracted to me. Maybe they see through the facade… you know I’m from South B.R.
I swear if I find out we know each other!! You will know everyone I’m talking about. Especially with the females at work situation.
@SXYQ
Oh yeah. I do think I remember you mentioning that. What name did he pose under? Is it that serious?
What part of VA? I was born in Alexandria VA. Not too far from Washington D.C.
@dapro11
Yo man sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do and give the boot!! But that don’t mean the sex will stop and she wont stop doing for you…. I’m sure you already knew
@ SxyQ (Hey mama! Lovin that new gravie, that fedora is FIYAH)…
“HOW ABOUT HAVING YOUR BOYFRIEND *****UME A MADE UP SCREEN NAME TO COME ONTO BOSSIP AND CHECK OUT WHAT YOU’RE DOING? NOW THAT ONE SLAYED ME.”
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Girl, dont scare me like that, lol! He dont even know i be on Bossip. I dont tell him what sites i go to, JIC! That would be the end of me…i could see that ***** now…You puttn all my bizness out there, lol!
@ MAN
Chicago…for conversation sake…technically I’m in a suburb of Chicago..Evanston.
@ Seen
Sex is part of the problem family, she stop doing awhile ago
A nicca don’t wanna fish elsewhere but too many are coming for the worm
@ DAPRO
All you can do is say you tried…Chicago dude are lame ***** hell, there are a VERY few who are exceptions like yourself, but these trife negroes will try and basically stalk your girl making her think the gr***** is greener type *****, that’s the ONLY time a man in chicago will spend some money is when he’s trying to break up somebody else’s *****.. I HATE dating here, I barely go out anymore, and I ain’t too keen on talking to strangers and giving out my number or asking for theirs…
@ Man,
“Well, I’m sure I would of have remembered you as my ex. I never dated any females that went to LSU. Not from lack of trying though.
You know, I have a really “clean cut” image but chicks that are like hard core gangsta are always attracted to me. Maybe they see through the facade… you know I’m from South B.R.
I swear if I find out we know each other!! You will know everyone I’m talking about. Especially with the females at work situation.”
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Yeah, i know you’re not my ex cause he wasnt high yella, lol. Well then, where you work? (lemme see if you gon get specific…)LOL! Its just weird, i guess cause we from the same place, we have the same like, dislikes, we do the same things, we *****ociate with the same people. I’m just getting this “vibe” like i’ve met you before or we know each other, somehow. I dont know how to explain it
HAPPY FRIDAY YALL!!!!!!!
this is a live in girl?
@ DAPRO
Women only stop *****ing for 3 reasons, she’s *****ing someone else, she thinks your cheating, or she is going through a religious thing…
@MAN I JUST
I’M ABOUT 1 HR 45 MIN SOUTH OF RICHMOND. HIS SCREEN NAME WAS ILL, SOMETHING LIKE “SINGLE, DO YOU HAVE YOUR MAN’S PICTURE ON YOUR WEBPAGE?” I WAS LIKE WHOOOOAAAAAA!!! IT CAUSED A BIG RAWKUS, BECAUSE WE WENT AT IT. ATTTTTT ITTTTTTT!! I’M LIKE DUDE, COME ON NOW. WE DONT DO THE PHYSICAL CONFRONTATION TYPE THING, CAUSE I AINT WITH THE KNUCKING UP. I BE READY TO CUT ME A MAN FIRST. SO WE DONT GO THERE. JUST FUSSING.
@KESHA
GIRL, THATS SOMETHING ALONG THE LINES OF WHAT HE SAID. BUT SEE, I TOLD HIM EVERYTHING, I NEVER KEPT MUCH FROM HIM. SO HE KNEW THAT I WAS ON BOSSIP. ALL THE TIME. CAUSE I’M HONEST, YOU KNOW? BUT I ALSO HAVE A VERY DOMINANT PERSONALITY, SO I’M NOT REALLY THE ONE TO TELL WHAT TO DO. SO THE TURMOIL BEGAN!!(LOL)
MMMMM MMMMM MMMMM M-DADDY. WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN MR?
@ M-DADDY
Hey papi…
@DAPRO
OR TO ADD TO PAIGEY WAIGEY’S REASONING WHY WE STOP PARTI*****TING, WE MAY BE THINKING THAT YOU ARE DOING SOMETHING, OR WE FEEL SICKENED BY THE MAN BECAUSE HE ISNT DOING RIGHT, AND WE DONT WANT TO CHEAT, BUT WE DONT WANT TO BE TOUCHED BY YOU EITHER. SEE, I COULD UNDERSTAND THE “ONCE IN A BLUE MOON” NOT BEING IN THE MOOD. BUT ALL THE TIME, SOMETHING IS WRONG.
I was in a an unhappy realtionship before….but she never stopped *****ing…..she would just always be angry…
@KESHA
“Yeah, i know you’re not my ex cause he wasnt high yella, lol. Well then, where you work? (lemme see if you gon get specific…)LOL! Its just weird, i guess cause we from the same place, we have the same like, dislikes, we do the same things, we *****ociate with the same people. I’m just getting this “vibe” like i’ve met you before or we know each other, somehow. I dont know how to explain it”
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Lol. I was just thinking if could get away with doing that. I mean, there are other males in my section so even if you tried to figure it out you would have to recognize my name from all the employees.
Ok ***whispering***
I work for DEQ.
**getting nervous**
@ DAPRO
how many inches you working with? j/k
@ dapro,
“Women only stop *****ing for 3 reasons, she’s *****ing someone else, she thinks your cheating, or she is going through a religious thing…”
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Co-sign!
Hey My Baby Daddy, how are you today? I missed you yesterday evening….
@PAIGEY WAIGEY
“Women only stop *****ing for 3 reasons, she’s *****ing someone else, she thinks your cheating, or she is going through a religious thing…”
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LOL. That’s true. Men only stop if they *****ing someone else.
Wait, no we would still ***** even if we *****ing someone else.
Oh, I want to go to Chicago next. I recently went to N.Y. and Chicago is the next city I want to go to. Take a picture outside of the United Center by MJ’s statue. The second greatest bball player ever!!
EEEEHHHH, EHHHH KESHA (cracking knuckles) I TOLD YOU YESTERDAY WE WOULD KNUCKLE UP OVER M-DADDY. YOU BETTER STEP OFF SHAWTY!!(LMFAO)
See, that’s why I can’t stand Chicago…these females mess with ya’ll heads cause they think they are so cute and fine and ya’ll treat them all good and then they ***** on you…then when I meet ya’ you on that ***** all women ***** and I can’t even get some Long John Silvers…The dude I’m with is aiight but I already know it ain’t going any further cause I always get that “i’ve been hurt before” bull***** so I don’t even ask him about his past *****..I don’t wanna know, just come over and handle this ***** and take your ***** home.
@SXYQBLONDIE
“I’M ABOUT 1 HR 45 MIN SOUTH OF RICHMOND. HIS SCREEN NAME WAS ILL, SOMETHING LIKE “SINGLE, DO YOU HAVE YOUR MAN’S PICTURE ON YOUR WEBPAGE?” I WAS LIKE WHOOOOAAAAAA!!! IT CAUSED A BIG RAWKUS, BECAUSE WE WENT AT IT. ATTTTTT ITTTTTTT!! I’M LIKE DUDE, COME ON NOW. WE DONT DO THE PHYSICAL CONFRONTATION TYPE THING, CAUSE I AINT WITH THE KNUCKING UP. I BE READY TO CUT ME A MAN FIRST. SO WE DONT GO THERE. JUST FUSSING”
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Damn, was it that serious? I mean, why would you care if your ol’ lady was on Bossip or whatever. For me, as long as you ain’t giving away the ***** I don’t care what you doing to tell you the truth. Maybe that’s just me.
Im Baaaaaaaaaak
Hey SxyQ!! Where u been at?
*winking @ dapro wit his sexy neck
@ Man
I hope it 1st isn’t Kobe or anyone young for that matter…it must be someone BEFORE Jordan…I hope! And everyone comes and take a pic in front of that statue, just make sure you don’t hang around too long after you do it, that neighborhood ain’t the best.
@ Man,
DEQ!!!!! You work for Environmental Quality??? I knew i knew you!!!!
Lol, nah i’m just playin…i dont know anybody at DEQ???? Or do i???? LOL, seriously though, no. I really dont know anyone at DEQ.
Damn, yall must be all over this Hurricane Gustav then. You probably know more than the public knows…be for real, what yall aint saying. lol?
@Dana Dane
for the record I sooooooo want you. When are you putting your gravie back up? Do a bootyshot for your boy!! **Drooling at the thought. **
I’ma need a my*****e or SOMETHING.
@MAN I JUST
THAT WAS MY THING. I’M LIKE I’M NOT ADVERTISING ANY FLESH, I’M NOT SETTING UP ANY HOOK UP DATES OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT. AND ASIDE FROM SEING MY PHOTO, NO ONE ON HERE KNOWS ME PERSONALLY. I DONT MAKE SEXUAL ADVANCES TOWARD ANYONE. BUT I GUESS TO HIM, IN HIS MIND, HE EVENTUALLY MADE IT THAT SERIOUS. AND WE LOCKED HORNS IMMEDIATELY!!!!(LOL)
@ SxyQ,
LOL! Ma, we gon have to go blow for blow over M-Daddy! I just cant let that one go…i’m sorry babe. But (singing in her mokenstef voice…He’s mine, you maya had him once, but i got him all the time), lol!
Yeah it’s live in fam-this is the wife
@ the ladies
She thinks I’m doing my thing, lately that’s the only time she gets her ***** right
It ain’t easy to walk away from it cause we got alot invested. She met my girls and they love her. I made a commitment to them that the woman that I brought around them I would marry-so I did
It ain’t been the same since
@PAIGEY WAIGEY
“I hope it 1st isn’t Kobe or anyone young for that matter…it must be someone BEFORE Jordan…I hope! And everyone comes and take a pic in front of that statue, just make sure you don’t hang around too long after you do it, that neighborhood ain’t the best.”
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OF COURSE IT’S KOBE!!! HE IS BETTER THAT OVERRATED JORDAN AT EVER ASPECT OF THE GAME!!
LOL. Now I’m Kobe’s biggest fan and have been since he came to the NBA. He is 4th best all time. Right behind Magic. He and Allen Iverson are my favorites. Started to put them as my gravie. I’m such a stan for those *****s. I remember when…. nevermind. Doubt they have basketball fans on here as big as me.
I meant Kareem. His quiet demeanor and lack of “pizazz” often makes him overlooked.
TrannyQ
Well that just shows you that DL *****s is territorial about they trannyhos.
@ Kesha
Not Mokenstef…I feel old now…lol
I ain’t never had this problem. I’ve been in 3 relationships total, everything else was me doing me
I was scared of commitment cause of ***** like this
@ Man,
“Damn, was it that serious? I mean, why would you care if your ol’ lady was on Bossip or whatever. For me, as long as you ain’t giving away the ***** I don’t care what you doing to tell you the truth. Maybe that’s just me.”
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Nah you know yall can get controlin like a **********a! I thought we was bad, til i met D and then i knew i had met my MATCH…In the end, it all boils down to the POSSIBILITY of having the chance to put yourself in a situation to give the ***** away…yall be trippin too!
We be locking horns too, sxyq, lol!
@KESHA
“DEQ!!!!! You work for Environmental Quality??? I knew i knew you!!!!
Lol, nah i’m just playin…i dont know anybody at DEQ???? Or do i???? LOL, seriously though, no. I really dont know anyone at DEQ.
Damn, yall must be all over this Hurricane Gustav then. You probably know more than the public knows…be for real, what yall aint saying. lol?”
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LMAO. You wrong for that! I was like “damn she know me.. wait she don’t… wait she could…. no she don’t.” You are soooo stupid. I started to ask you what bank you work for but I would easily find out who you were then. You know in that industry everybody is friends with everybody else. I have at least one friend at every bank in Louisiana.
Naw, DEQ don’t know nothing. If anyone does it’s the bigwigs and they ain’t saying nuthin. All I know is N.O. is supposed to be evacuated and we gettin our ***** together to go clean up afterwards.
@ DAPRO
OH!! Your married?! Wow….well that changes everything… Would you go to a marriage counselor??? And have you asked her why she seems unhappy? Maybe that’s all you need…sometimes a woman just wants to know that a man notices that something isn’t wrong and reaches out…now if she asks and still says it’s all good and still ain’t acting accordingly go see a counselor…
@DANA
HEY MOMMA!! I LEAVE THE CRIB TO COME INTO WORK AT 11, MY SHIFT IS OFF THE WALL. I’M HERE FROM 11:30 TO 8. WHAT YOU DOING GIRL?
@KESHA
I HATE TO DO THIS TO YOU. BUT I’MA HAVE TO ROUGHIN YOU UP A BIT. SHOW YOU I MEAN BUSINESS.(LOL)
@DA PRO
OHHHHH WOWWWWWWWW(bucket of cold water thrown in face..still standing in shock..lol)
@ Man
My pic is still up, lol, n i cant have my booty all over bossip, to bad u aint in NY, so u could experience the real thing
@ Pro
what hasn’t been the same?
@ Man
I officially hate eveything you STAN for..lol Kobe is a ***** and I hope his knee gives out on this ball hogging *****..lol
@ dapro
have you tried to talk to her about this *****…or do ya’ll just walk around angry and ***** like ya’ll can’t stand each other?? Did she move from out of town or sumn’ to be with you?? That can make a girl unhappy too…being out of her comfort zone and *****…
See, that’s why I can’t stand Chicago…these females mess with ya’ll heads cause they think they are so cute and fine and ya’ll treat them all good and then they ***** on you…then when I meet ya’ you on that ***** all women ***** and I can’t even get some Long John Silvers…The dude I’m with is aiight but I already know it ain’t going any further cause I always get that “i’ve been hurt before” bull***** so I don’t even ask him about his past *****..I don’t wanna know, just come over and handle this ***** and take your ***** home.
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LOL!! That ***** must be unique to Chicago as far as men hanging on to old ***** like that. You poor thang. Most *****s I know try to immediately get some new *****.
I’ve run into females like that too. It ain’t worth the time because you gotta wait EXTRA long for the ***** then.
@KESHA
HE ALWAYS TOLD ME HE LOVED ME FOR THE FACT THAT I AM VERY, VERY OUTSPOKEN, OPINIONATED, AND STRONG WILLED. IF I OBLIGE WITH THE WISHES OF A MAN THAT I AM WITH, IT IS BECAUSE I CHOOSE TO COMPROMISE. NOT BECAUSE I’M BEING FORCED INTO SUBMISSION. THE THING ABOUT IT, THAT I’VE ALWAYS FOUND TRUE ABOUT MYSELF, IS WHEN I MEET A MAN WHO THINKS THAT HE IS GOING TO TRY TO “RULE” ME, THEN I GO INTO REBELLION, AND DARE A ***** TO TRY AND STOP ME!!(LMAO..JUST SERIOUS, AND MANY HAVE LIVED TO TELL THE STORY).
@PAIGY WAIGEY
“I officially hate eveything you STAN for..lol Kobe is a ***** and I hope his knee gives out on this ball hogging *****..lol”
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See, those be fighting words.
You can’t be a “Jordan” fan because wouldn’t that be the pot calling the kettle black????? Every description you listed to Kobe was attributed to Jordan at some point. EVERYONE OF THEM!!
See, you gotta ***** all mad and *****. (j/k)
Nah you know yall can get controlin like a **********a!
@ Hesh
Aint that the truth
@ SxyQ
Nuthin takin it easy, its friday , so my day is consisting of looking at the clock and schoolin ILL
@DANA
UH OH MOMMA. WHAT YOU SCHOOLING ILL ON?
@DANA DANE
“My pic is still up, lol, n i cant have my booty all over bossip, to bad u aint in NY, so u could experience the real thing”
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That ain’t YO pic. LOL. Yeah, it’s lucky for you I ain’t in NY. You would be setting up for Dana jr. LOL. No, I wouldn’t pull out.
Oh, you could still forward a booty shot or something to my email. Just sayin, I would reciprocate.
Kesh*
@ Man
I don’t even want a man right now, so I don’t ask them ***** about other *****es in the past, I don’t wanna hear the sob story and I damn sure don’t need them thinking I want a relationship. Right now it’s all about school, this house, and making money…but if push comes to shove and I meet a cutie, I might let him knock me up and not tell him ***** and keep the baby… I think I’m becoming a feminist.. lol J/K I ain’t trapping no man…but it has crossed my mind..I am 33 and no kids…oh well.
@KESHA
“Nah you know yall can get controlin like a **********a! I thought we was bad, til i met D and then i knew i had met my MATCH…In the end, it all boils down to the POSSIBILITY of having the chance to put yourself in a situation to give the ***** away…yall be trippin too!
We be locking horns too, sxyq, lol!”
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Yup. ALL MEN ARE POSSESIVE.
If you have a son, regardless of how you raise him, he will be possessive. Just the way it is.
@MAN I JUST DONT
SO HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT AGGRESSIVE WOMEN? DOMINANT, OPINIONATED, OUTSPOKEN?
@ Man
But Jordan did it with cl***** and you didn’t mind if he hogged the ball you were just happy to be on his team and be on tv..lol And I don’t want no beef with you…at least not that kinda beef…lol
@IF I MULTIPLY 2X’s 2 IS IT REALLY, REALLY 4 ME(sxyQblondie glad itssss friday, got a lil red dress!!yeahhhhh)(Check me out!)
MMMMM MMMMM MMMMM M-DADDY. WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN MR?
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Hey ma, work work and more work!!!!
@ Man
LOL, not the gravy, put ur mouse over the (check me out), oh n that sounds like a plan
@ SxyQ
So Im on here getting advice about my flrting boss and here this fool come talkin about givin him head, lol, he lucky he my boo cause the curse out wouldve been a whole lot worse
PaigeyWaigey *Is getting some hair pulled tonight…Puerto Rico WHOA!!!*(Check me out!)
@ Man
I don’t even want a man right now, so I don’t ask them ***** about other *****es in the past, I don’t wanna hear the sob story and I damn sure don’t need them thinking I want a relationship. Right now it’s all about school, this house, and making money…but if push comes to shove and I meet a cutie, I might let him knock me up and not tell him ***** and keep the baby… I think I’m becoming a feminist.. lol J/K I ain’t trapping no man…but it has crossed my mind..I am 33 and no kids…oh well.
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Yeah boo. It may come down to making a decision. Ain’t sayin 33 old but we both know women can’t have children forever.
***** depreciates over time.
Why you don’t want a man? Ain’t that more important than “school” or a “house?”
@PaigeyWaigey *Is getting some hair pulled tonight…Puerto Rico WHOA!!!*(Check me out!)
@ M-DADDY
Hey papi…
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Hey ma, whats going on??
whats going on in here?
@ SxyQ & Man
@MAN I JUST DONT
SO HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT AGGRESSIVE WOMEN? DOMINANT, OPINIONATED, OUTSPOKEN?
he seems like he loves us, am I right?
@ Paigey
I was on that same ***** at one point, still am sort, i dont want to here ***** about ur past relationships IM HERE NOW, but I am ready for a new relationship now, problem is im not easy to satisfy. How old r u?
@MMMMM MMMMM MMMMMM M-DADDY
YOU MISSED GOOD CONVO YESTERDAY MISTER!!
@DANA
I EVENTUALLY HAD TO QUIT A JOB BECAUSE OF AN OVER FLIRTATIOUS BOSS. (LOL, AT YOU SAYING THE CURSE OUT WOULDVE BEEN ALOT WORSE..LOL) BUT GIRL, I WORKED AT A MENS BUSINESS/FORMAL SUIT STORE(S&K) AND I WAS THE ONLY WOMAN WORKING THERE. MY SUP WAS A PERV. I WAS 21 HE WAS DERNED NEAR 40. HE WAS ALWAYS MAKING EYES AT ME, TRYING TO BRUSH PAST ME. ONE DAY HE TRIED TO KISS ME ON MY NECK ON THE SLY, AND AT THE SAMETIME, HE TRIED TO TOUCH MY HIND PARTS(LOL). I SAID OH HEEEEEELLLL NAW. I QUIT IMMEDIATELY. AND TOLD MY POPS. AND MY UNCLE. MY POPS CAME UP TO THE STORE AND THREATENED TO END HIS LIFE. ASAP!!LOL
@ Paigey
Forget it I see, y dont u want a relationship im 26, these eggs aint gettin no younger
@Kesha: My search begins for a Lance Moore jersey (Kesha=Michelle Obama Stan!!)(Check me out!)
Hey My Baby Daddy, how are you today? I missed you yesterday evening….
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Hey Baby Mama, I was super duper busy, its always like this at the end of the month
AND TOLD MY POPS. AND MY UNCLE. MY POPS CAME UP TO THE STORE AND THREATENED TO END HIS LIFE. ASAP!!LOL
@ SxyQ
Always an option, lol
@DANA
he seems like he loves us, am I right?
GIRL, YOU HAVE A STRONG POINT, STRONG STRONG POINT. (LOL) I ALWAYS TELL PEOPLE, WITH ME THERE IS NEVER A GREY AREA WITH HOW YOU’RE GOING TO FEEL. YOU WILL EITHER LOVE ME TO PEICES, OR YOU WILL HATE ME TO DEATH. EITHER WAY, IT’S NEVER AN INBETWEEN. AND I’VE EXPERIENCED EMOTIONS FROM BOTH SIDES.LOL
@ Man
Cause I been through too much drama…clearly I was choosing all the wrong men, so I said ***** it, it ain’t for me to have right now so I gotta focus on me…I gotta look out for me until I die, man or no man…So I figure when the time is right, I would have learned something and maybe meet the RIGHT kinds of men and one will win my heart…until then I don’t wanna hear the bull***** “I ain’t really looking for nothing right now, I just got outta something, I got 3 or 4 kids and I ain’t sure they all mines, I got a pregnant chic on the side that I just found out about, I ain’t got no job, car, place, I just got outta jail, I’mma hustler ma!” Boy BYE!… And when I do get back out there I will be exploring other races more please believe it, brothers BEEN doing it, I don’t know what the hell I was holding out for all this damn time, losing out on potential happiness…
@num1dominicano
Your lips, your eyes, mmmmmmmmmmm
IF I MULTIPLY 2X’s 2 IS IT REALLY, REALLY 4 ME(sxyQblondie glad itssss friday, got a lil red dress!!yeahhhhh)(Check me out!)
@MAN I JUST DONT
SO HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT AGGRESSIVE WOMEN? DOMINANT, OPINIONATED, OUTSPOKEN?
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LOVE THEM!!
That’s why like some of the females that I do on Bossip. I know Dana, Z and Cutie Pie all said they had issues with being “submissive.” I think part of me loves the challenge of making a woman submissive to me. Not through violence or any kind of ***** like that. Just convincing them it’s in their best interest and to let their “guard” down.
I have a very strong personality and I love arguing. About anything. Even if I know I’m wrong. I can only be with a very strong opinionated woman. As far as “aggresive” it depends. As long as I don’t think she is being “aggresive” with other men it’s fine.
@ DANA DANE
I’m 33…damn it hurts to say that..but at least most people think I’m in my 20’s..lol
@ dapro,
“She thinks I’m doing my thing, lately that’s the only time she gets her ***** right
It ain’t easy to walk away from it cause we got alot invested. She met my girls and they love her. I made a commitment to them that the woman that I brought around them I would marry-so I did
It ain’t been the same since”
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Awww, i know how you feel. I’ve met my ole man kids too and thats a line that once you cross, its sooo hard to go back. Cause now they’re feelings are invested. I say, if you really love this woman…dont give up on her just yet. Anything worth having is worth fighting for. She could be going through a phase, and it wont last forever. Just constantly show her that you love her and DON’T CHEAT cause thats the shyt that will f*ck up everything else. Its hard for women to get past that shyt. We may stay, but we will never trust you nor love you the same again. Anyway, good luck. You seem like a real genuine guy and its a shame that you’re goin thru this…all the good one’s are taken (so they say)
i’ll be submissive when I die
@MAN
BE RIGHT BACK, STEPPING OUT ON BREAK..HAVE MORE TO ELABORATE ON YOUR POST
YOU WILL EITHER LOVE ME TO PEICES, OR YOU WILL HATE ME TO DEATH.
@ SxyQ
ME TOO!!!! N I DONT GIVE A ***** EITHER WAY!!!! I forgot the other day, but I’m about to give my father a call n ask him just how many daughters he has, where u said u from agian?
“LOVE THEM!!”
@ SxyQ
lol, What did I tell u I know my Man
SHE LOOKS GREAT..YOU PEOPLE NEED TO QUIT HATING AND JUST WORK OUT…LIKE KATT WILLIAMS SAID WE ALL NEED HATERS.SO HOOPZ LET ‘EM HATE
@PAIGEY WAIGEY
“Cause I been through too much drama…clearly I was choosing all the wrong men, so I said ***** it, it ain’t for me to have right now so I gotta focus on me…I gotta look out for me until I die, man or no man…So I figure when the time is right, I would have learned something and maybe meet the RIGHT kinds of men and one will win my heart…until then I don’t wanna hear the bull***** “I ain’t really looking for nothing right now, I just got outta something, I got 3 or 4 kids and I ain’t sure they all mines, I got a pregnant chic on the side that I just found out about, I ain’t got no job, car, place, I just got outta jail, I’mma hustler ma!” Boy BYE!… And when I do get back out there I will be exploring other races more please believe it, brothers BEEN doing it, I don’t know what the hell I was holding out for all this damn time, losing out on potential happiness…”
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Oh, I feel you. I’m glad I’m a guy. I mean, it really is unfair to women. Women for the most part are “only” going to have 2 to 3 children. Men can make 3 babies in one night… some have. Wpmen outnumber men, this is across all races and cultures so that makes it even more competetive.
If I knowingly could only have 3 of something in my entire life, than I’m going to try to have the best of those “3.” The only women can do that is to try to be with the “best” guy they can.
But to me that seems like you would put even more of a focus on dating as opposed to other stuff. Since the odds aren’t in your favor.
oKAY WHO IS GOING TO CATCH ME UP? LUNCH TIME AND WHOLE LOTTA DRAMA GOING ON AT THE WORK JOB
SORRY…YELLING..PROJECT…LAZY
Hey all, I’m back
They gettin serious round here. handin out gargabe bangs and junk to put our computers, phones, etc in. gustav aint no joke and then we gotta deal with hannah ***** *****!
Anyway, what i miss…scannin the room
@ IF I MULTIPLY 2X’s 2 IS IT REALLY, REALLY 4 ME(sxyQblondie glad itssss friday, got a lil red dress!!yeahhhhh)(Check me out!)
@MMMMM MMMMM MMMMMM M-DADDY
YOU MISSED GOOD CONVO YESTERDAY MISTER!!
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I saw, I had some good input too LOL
@ M-Daddy,
“Hey Baby Mama, I was super duper busy, its always like this at the end of the month”
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That’s ok babe, your forgiven. Glad you’re back
@ M-Daddy,
“YOU MISSED GOOD CONVO YESTERDAY MISTER!!”
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Yes you did, but trust me, you were DEFINITELY thought of, lol! (winkin at SxyQ)
@CUTIE PIE
“i’ll be submissive when I die ”
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You see, that kind of p*****ion is what is going to make you a good wife someday. I love it.
It would have to happen gradually. I would have to first earn your respect, than your trust and finally your admiration. Once you’ve recognized my repeated sound judgement and concern for you… eventually, you will let your guard down. Sometimes you have to “lose the battle to win the war” so I wouldn’t argue over everything. In fact, I would initially discuss everything as a team. In time though, I would pick a topic and put my foot down. After 2 years of dating I would “forbid” you to go to a football game (or whatever) knowing full well that you wanted to go. I would really be adament about it and support it with logic (the game is dangerous). I wouldn’t get emotional about it, but I would question why would want to do something against my wishes. I would support this with examples of when I followed your wishes and remind you (discreetly) of our two year relationship being built on trust. Once you don’t go… and you won’t… I would back it up with posistive reinforcement. Thanking you, swearing I just had a “bad feeling” about the game, maybe even get you a “gift” to make up for missing the game.
LOL @ DANA
GIRL I SWEAR THERE’S A MIX UP IN DNA!! MY FATHER IS FROM QUEENS. THATS WHERE MY MOTHER GREW UP. BUT BY THE TIME I WAS BORN, SHE MOVED US TO BROOKLYN. WE’RE NOW IN V.A, BUT THAT FATHER OF MINE IS STILL IN QUEENS THINKING HE’S THE FLYEST THING THAT GOD EVER PRODUCED!!(i be like negroe please!!lol)
@MAN I JUST
I FEEL YOU. GLAD TO KNOW YOU LIKE US SOMETIMES “BIG MOUTHED” WOMEN. I ADMIT, I DO HAVE A MOUTH ON ME. WILL ARGUE YOU DOWN TO THE GROUND, ESPECIALLY WHEN I KNOW THAT I’M RIGHT. DONT CARE HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT WHAT I’M SAYING, CAUSE THAT’S JUST ME. SOME PEOPLE CAN HANDLE IT. THESE FOLKS ON THE JOB, THEY TRY ME UNTIL THEY REALIZE THAT THIS AINT EVEN WHAT THEY WANT. THEN THEY CALL ME RUDE(LOL). BUT AS FOR SUBMISSIVENESS, I THINK THERE IS A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN SUBMITTING AND COMPROMISING. I WILL NEVER, EVER, SUBMIT TO THE WILL OF ANOTHER PERSON. I WILL CONSIDER COMPROMISE IF I LOVE YOU ENOUGH AND I CARE ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS AND HOW WHAT I AM DOING MAY BE AFFECTING OUR SITUATION. BUT THAT WHOLE “I RULE MY WOMAN WITH AN IRON FIST” CRAP, AINT FOR ME. THE WOMEN IN MY FAMILY AINT WITH IT. AND ANY MAN THAT COMES AT ME WITH THAT TRAIN OF THOUGHT WILL END UP WITH FLINSTONE KNOT’S ON HIS HEAD, OR ALONE. HE CAN TAKE HIS PICK!!
@ Man
Well Im possive n I dont think i like u tellin other females how u gonna take it down, even if itis my boo Cutie
@DANA DANE
nothing came up when I put the mouse over Check me out. My damn computer sucks at work though. That ***** is like the third laptop IBM EVER MADE.
I see you do know me though. Love opinionated women!! Lose interest very quickly in weak women. Never seem to like the women that would do ANYTHING for me.
@ Man,
“LMAO. You wrong for that! I was like “damn she know me.. wait she don’t… wait she could…. no she don’t.” You are soooo stupid. I started to ask you what bank you work for but I would easily find out who you were then. You know in that industry everybody is friends with everybody else. I have at least one friend at every bank in Louisiana.
Naw, DEQ don’t know nothing. If anyone does it’s the bigwigs and they ain’t saying nuthin. All I know is N.O. is supposed to be evacuated and we gettin our ***** together to go clean up afterwards.
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LOL, i was like…i’ma fix his azz, wanna play games, i’ma show him! Naw, i dont. But I work for…wait, i said i was gonna stop gettn so personal, lol. I forget easily, so eager to share! Yup, if i told you that, you DEF could find me if you wanted to cause its not a big bank, its more a community bank(N.O. community that is, but we’ve got a couple here and there outside N.O.)
STEP THRU THE DOOR WAVING THE 44!
Wait a minute o.k I ws trying to be on topic but did anybody catch this *****
MZ CEE Said @12:00pm: @dapro11
You’re talking to a committed high yellow man but I could be single real soon~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
She said Man! which means Mz Cee is a man, now if I am mistaken plz correct me but then I read where she said~~~~~@11:54am Don’t sleep on the ***** beads. Espeically the ones that vibrate. That’ll get that azz open real quickly.
__________________________________________________________Open the AZZ up Quick! hold up!
By the way HEYYYYYYYYYY Err’body!
Afternoon folks, I thought I would leave early but I am still here working like a true born slave! WTF!!!!
@M-DADDY
WHY DIDNT YOU PUT YOUR INPUT IN? IT’S NEVER TOO LATE? SO I’M GONNA ASK YOU NOW, WHO ARE YOUR BOSSIP CRUSHES MY FRIEND?
@ Man,
“You see, that kind of p*****ion is what is going to make you a good wife someday. I love it.
It would have to happen gradually. I would have to first earn your respect, than your trust and finally your admiration. Once you’ve recognized my repeated sound judgement and concern for you… eventually, you will let your guard down. Sometimes you have to “lose the battle to win the war” so I wouldn’t argue over everything. In fact, I would initially discuss everything as a team. In time though, I would pick a topic and put my foot down. After 2 years of dating I would “forbid” you to go to a football game (or whatever) knowing full well that you wanted to go. I would really be adament about it and support it with logic (the game is dangerous). I wouldn’t get emotional about it, but I would question why would want to do something against my wishes. I would support this with examples of when I followed your wishes and remind you (discreetly) of our two year relationship being built on trust. Once you don’t go… and you won’t… I would back it up with posistive reinforcement. Thanking you, swearing I just had a “bad feeling” about the game, maybe even get you a “gift” to make up for missing the game.”
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You are SICK, lol! You DEFINITELY should be an attorney
@DANA DANE
“Well Im possive n I dont think i like u tellin other females how u gonna take it down, even if itis my boo Cutie”
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LOL. You know you own me. I have no problem being “possesed” by someone because I damn sure “possess” them and don’t have a problem letting them know. Not in those words because that can “scare” some women.
As far as Cutie Pie, don’t get worried because that’s my general MO. Would try to do the same thing to you. The thing about it is time is on the side of the man. Even the strongest hardest feminist realizes at some point she has more “invested” in the relationship. In the beginning the balance of power is completely in the females hands… either you are going to “give” the number/address/***** or you are not. Over time though, that power shifts.
It’s all about timing and calling their bluff. No one wants to lose a large “investment.”
Hey KZZ, girl, chile, boo, lol! Whats up
HEY ALL I AM BACK AND SLIGHTLY MESSED UP.
WE ALL STILL IN HERE OR WHAT?
@ SxyQ
:O so is mine , HEY SIS!!
@ Man
I repsect my man, I will hold him down, I will stand along side him but do ANYTHING? nah never experience unconditional love yet
@ MAN
That was the problem, I was too focused on meeting someone and neglected the other ***** I needed to do.. Gotta have your priorities in order and having a man ain’t at the top of the list…my ***** gotta eat and have shelter first. I can always get ***** and if he decides to stick around then cool, but right now it’s all about me for a change.
KZZZZZZZ!!!
HEY MOMMA!!
KZZ you still here
I (a woman) made the comments about to ***** beads to Sugar Walls!
@ man
“You see, that kind of p*****ion is what is going to make you a good wife someday. I love it.
It would have to happen gradually. I would have to first earn your respect, than your trust and finally your admiration. Once you’ve recognized my repeated sound judgement and concern for you… eventually, you will let your guard down. Sometimes you have to “lose the battle to win the war” so I wouldn’t argue over everything. In fact, I would initially discuss everything as a team. In time though, I would pick a topic and put my foot down. After 2 years of dating I would “forbid” you to go to a football game (or whatever) knowing full well that you wanted to go. I would really be adament about it and support it with logic (the game is dangerous). I wouldn’t get emotional about it, but I would question why would want to do something against my wishes. I would support this with examples of when I followed your wishes and remind you (discreetly) of our two year relationship being built on trust. Once you don’t go… and you won’t… I would back it up with posistive reinforcement. Thanking you, swearing I just had a “bad feeling” about the game, maybe even get you a “gift” to make up for missing the game.”
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lol i’m a tough cookie that most likely won’t work on me..i’d probably use your game against you
@ KZZ,
“You’re talking to a committed high yellow man but I could be single real soon”
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LOL, naw girl…Dapro said that, lol!!! You so crazy
@DANA
I TOLD YOU THE OTHER DAY, SOMEONE HAS SOME EXPLAINING TO DO!! WE’RE TOO SIMILAR. SO UNTIL WE GET OUR EXPLANATION…HEY SIS!!(big family cyber hug)
ARE YALL GOING TO ANSWER MY DAMN QUESTION?????? OR ARE YOU GOING TO IGNORE ME??????? DAMMITT!
Gotta have your priorities in order and having a man ain’t at the top of the list…my ***** gotta eat and have shelter first.
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Let them know Paigey…let them know!!!
DAMMIT KZZZ
I WAS TALKING TO YOU!
@I’M JUST ME
HEY MS.LADY. GIRL, AT THE SOUND OF THE WORD ***** BEADS, I SHIVER, AND P***** THE HELL OUT!! REGAIN CONSCIOUSNESS, AND FALL OUT AGAIN, WITH MY HANDS TIGHTLY CLASPED OVER MY POSTERIOR END.(LMFAO)
IF I MULTIPLY 2X’s 2 IS IT REALLY, REALLY 4 ME(sxyQblondie glad itssss friday, got a lil red dress!!yeahhhhh)(Check me out!)
@M-DADDY
WHY DIDNT YOU PUT YOUR INPUT IN? IT’S NEVER TOO LATE? SO I’M GONNA ASK YOU NOW, WHO ARE YOUR BOSSIP CRUSHES MY FRIEND?
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Sxyq, gotta ask him all the question
Think it was part 1 & part 2 lol
KZZ
THE “YELLOW MAN” COMMENT WAS MADE BY DAPRO GIRL!!
O.k Thanks! Err’body, cuz I was like what the Hell am I reading????? LOL! Sorry MZ CEE! ***** yall gotta tell a sista something in here! LOL!
@IJM: Yeah I’m still here at work 2 M*****a need alot of ***** 2day!
(sticking my tongue out at jaxon) NA NA NA NA BOO BOO!!(LOL) GIRL, I’M WAITING TO HEAR THE ANSWER!!
@ kzz,
“ARE YALL GOING TO ANSWER MY DAMN QUESTION?????? OR ARE YOU GOING TO IGNORE ME??????? DAMMITT!”
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Ok, this is what happened…we was talkin bout high yellow boys and how they cheat. Dapro said he was a committed high yellow boy. then we were talkin bout sex toys and IJM was telln suga dont sleep on the ***** beads cause suga said she dont do those.
You straight nah?
Aight I’m back again
I talk ***** out and get some answers, she doesn’t like to talk
I tell her all the time the more ***** your sweep under the rug, the dirty that rug gets
We’ve been seperated a few times thats why I never mentioned it before
Again, at this point I know what I want. I’m the type that if something ain’t right- sex. money, security, convo, let me know I’m man enough to handle it and deal with it
i want cake
@ I’m Just Me
I’m still trying to understand how in the hell he could ask me some ***** like that? It is 2008 not 1958…you gotta do for yourself. Cause these men DAMN SURE ain’t gonna do ***** for you these days, now they wanna be house husbands and get palimoney and *****..
~~~KZZ waving at Jaxson~~~~
~~~KZZ waving and winking at SXYQ~~~~ Thanks! but see that’s what happens when you working so *****ing hard! imma need that Margarita tonite! and a few more!
IJM: Spark that *****!
@ Man and “Anonymous”
It’s WAAAYYY past late but Thanks you for the compliments
Just caught myself up
@ Kzzz just making sure you are paying attention!!!
@ Sxyq
Now ***** beads and ***** sex ain’t the same exact thing. I am cool with the beads. I still have diffculty and pain with the d*ck ramming in and out of there like the p*ssy. With the beads we are slowly working up to it.
@SXYQ
“I FEEL YOU. GLAD TO KNOW YOU LIKE US SOMETIMES “BIG MOUTHED” WOMEN. I ADMIT, I DO HAVE A MOUTH ON ME. WILL ARGUE YOU DOWN TO THE GROUND, ESPECIALLY WHEN I KNOW THAT I’M RIGHT. DONT CARE HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT WHAT I’M SAYING, CAUSE THAT’S JUST ME. SOME PEOPLE CAN HANDLE IT. THESE FOLKS ON THE JOB, THEY TRY ME UNTIL THEY REALIZE THAT THIS AINT EVEN WHAT THEY WANT. THEN THEY CALL ME RUDE(LOL). BUT AS FOR SUBMISSIVENESS, I THINK THERE IS A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN SUBMITTING AND COMPROMISING. I WILL NEVER, EVER, SUBMIT TO THE WILL OF ANOTHER PERSON. I WILL CONSIDER COMPROMISE IF I LOVE YOU ENOUGH AND I CARE ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS AND HOW WHAT I AM DOING MAY BE AFFECTING OUR SITUATION. BUT THAT WHOLE “I RULE MY WOMAN WITH AN IRON FIST” CRAP, AINT FOR ME. THE WOMEN IN MY FAMILY AINT WITH IT. AND ANY MAN THAT COMES AT ME WITH THAT TRAIN OF THOUGHT WILL END UP WITH FLINSTONE KNOT’S ON HIS HEAD, OR ALONE. HE CAN TAKE HIS PICK!!”
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Yeah, I do have a weakness. They really stand out. Some people call them “*****es” and stuff. Well, I’m def. a dog then. I can pick them out of a crowd… before they speak. There is a confidence about them.
Anyway… I love the process of getting them to be submissive. Over time you can get a “strong” woman to be just as p*****ionate about being “submissive” to you. It’s all in timing, word selection and LISTENING. You have to find their “soft spots.” You may initially have to do something for them. Get them accustomed to you washing their car, mowing the lawn etc. ***** you KNOW they don’t want to do. Do it happily and without them asking you to do it. As if it is your pleasure. Anything that your woman does for you, posistively reinforce. ALWAYS THANK THEM for “washing your clothes” or “cleaning the dishes.” Tell them you will get it next time, and begin to “conveinantly forget.” It takes time but eventually, you will have a hardcore submissive woman. It’s an art,not an exact science.
dapro11(Check me out!)
Aight I’m back again
I talk ***** out and get some answers, she doesn’t like to talk
I tell her all the time the more ***** your sweep under the rug, the dirty that rug gets
We’ve been seperated a few times thats why I never mentioned it before
Again, at this point I know what I want. I’m the type that if something ain’t right- sex. money, security, convo, let me know I’m man enough to handle it and deal with it
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Well if she don;t want cha holla at me
lol
@ KZZZ
*sparking….puffing thrice….p*****ing to KZZ*
@cutiepie,
just had a slice…we had a katrina memorial(ironic huh, lol)
@ kzz,
p***** that shyt to ya girl, when you dun…
Only 2.5 left until long weekend
Hey KZZ
@ DAPRO
She don’t like to talk? What the hell kinda chic you got???? Sounds like she ain’t trying to make it work…your kids will be aiight if you end it, but you gotta explain it to them right and you gotta do it together, if she’s a decent person she will agree to do it with you so the kids don’t think they made her leave..But if ya’ll been separated a few times already then it’s definitely not gonna get any better any time soon…I say go to a counselor first. You’ll probably get more answers out of her and vice versa…then you can make a better decision.
@ Jaxon
@ Nikki
@ Cutie Pie
@ sxyQBlondie
What’s poppin? Happy Friday to ya’ll!!!
@ kesha
oh wow that’s so sweet..I like that
hey kevweb!!
@ IJM,
I’m wit ya on that one…i DONT do *****! Shyt is meant to come OUT the *****, not go in! I’ve never tried the beads either, but now i must admit i’m curious, lol!
@I’M JUST ME
GIRL, I GO INTO SHOCK EVEN THINKING ABOUT A FINGER NEAR THERE(SHIVERING, TEETH CHATERRING). I’M SURE IT’S NO WHERE NEAR AS ALARMING AS THE IDEA OF THE ACT OF ***** SEX. BUT I HAVENT ELEVATED MY MIND YET.(LOL)
@MAN I JUST
FUNNY THING IS, MY MOTHER RAISED HER GIRLS TO LEARN HOW TO TAKE CARE OF THEMSELVES. SO AT 5FT 107 POUNDS, I MOVE FURNITURE, I TAKE OUT MY OWN TRASH, HELL I EVEN MOW MY OWN LAWN. GROWING UP IN A HOUSE FULL OF SELF SUFFICIENT WOMEN, THERES NOT MUCH THAT WE DIDNT LEARN HOW TO DO. ON TOP OF, COOK, CLEAN, PAY BILLS, AND STILL BE ABLE TO KEEP OURSELVES LOOKING GOOD. SO, THERE ISNT MUCH THAT A MAN COULD REALLY DO FOR ME, THAT I CANT ALREADY DO. UNLESS IT HAD SOMETHING TO DO WITH FIXING A CAR. I WILL COMPLY WITH SOME REQUEST’S IF I SEE FIT, IF IT ISNT ANYTHING OVER THE TOP YOU KNOW? BUT TO BOW DOWN AND DO A TOTAL COMPLETE CHANGE, NOPE. I’M NOT COMPLICATED, BUT I’M NO CLAY TO BE MOLDED EITHER!! LOL
@ jaxon
45 mins for me in counting!!
@Kesha: My search begins for a Lance Moore jersey (Kesha=Michelle Obama Stan!!)
That’s ok babe, your forgiven. Glad you’re back
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Thank you boo
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@ M-Daddy,
“YOU MISSED GOOD CONVO YESTERDAY MISTER!!”
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Yes you did, but trust me, you were DEFINITELY thought of, lol! (winkin at SxyQ)
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I bet LOL
@Man,I just don’t care
One day,you’re gonna forget about all the ideaology you have regarding women because one is going to sweep you off your feet.
@ cutiepie,
It was supposed to be a big ole celebration and now folks all scared cuza Gustav…
Oh well, the price you pay to live in this beautiful place i call home. (but wont call home if Gustav do damaage)
@ sxyq
“FUNNY THING IS, MY MOTHER RAISED HER GIRLS TO LEARN HOW TO TAKE CARE OF THEMSELVES. SO AT 5FT 107 POUNDS, I MOVE FURNITURE, I TAKE OUT MY OWN TRASH, HELL I EVEN MOW MY OWN LAWN. GROWING UP IN A HOUSE FULL OF SELF SUFFICIENT WOMEN, THERES NOT MUCH THAT WE DIDNT LEARN HOW TO DO. ON TOP OF, COOK, CLEAN, PAY BILLS, AND STILL BE ABLE TO KEEP OURSELVES LOOKING GOOD. SO, THERE ISNT MUCH THAT A MAN COULD REALLY DO FOR ME, THAT I CANT ALREADY DO. UNLESS IT HAD SOMETHING TO DO WITH FIXING A CAR. I WILL COMPLY WITH SOME REQUEST’S IF I SEE FIT, IF IT ISNT ANYTHING OVER THE TOP YOU KNOW? BUT TO BOW DOWN AND DO A TOTAL COMPLETE CHANGE, NOPE. I’M NOT COMPLICATED, BUT I’M NO CLAY TO BE MOLDED EITHER!! LOL”
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girl you ain’t never lied..i’m 2 inches taller than you ((jumoing for joy for finally being taller than someone)) and I change door handles, tires, oil, kitchen lightbulbs, and fix closets( I live in a apt and I can never get a hold of my damn super)
@PAIGEY WAIGEY
“That was the problem, I was too focused on meeting someone and neglected the other ***** I needed to do.. Gotta have your priorities in order and having a man ain’t at the top of the list…my ***** gotta eat and have shelter first. I can always get ***** and if he decides to stick around then cool, but right now it’s all about me for a change
I’m still trying to understand how in the hell he could ask me some ***** like that? It is 2008 not 1958…you gotta do for yourself. Cause these men DAMN SURE ain’t gonna do ***** for you these days, now they wanna be house husbands and get palimoney and *****..
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Oh, well I can see if you were too focused and didn’t take care of other stuff. Finding compaionship is about “taking care of you” by the way.
Damn you make is sound like a man getting palimony or being a house husband is bad or something. Or that 1958 was better in some way. If you think these things please explain….
@ IF I MULTIPLY 2X’s 2 IS IT REALLY, REALLY 4 ME(sxyQblondie glad itssss friday, got a lil red dress!!yeahhhhh)(Check me out!)
@M-DADDY
WHY DIDNT YOU PUT YOUR INPUT IN? IT’S NEVER TOO LATE? SO I’M GONNA ASK YOU NOW, WHO ARE YOUR BOSSIP CRUSHES MY FRIEND?
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Not trying to sound like a dog, but there are so many beautiful ladies here, by way of actual photos to personalities it really makes for a hard question to answer. can I plead the 5th??? LOL
It’s KEVWEB, the BV (Bossip Virgin) get a chance to use that Bossip condom yet?
@KESHA: I hate you! LOL! I wish!
@IJM: KZZ took like 2 many totes p*****ing to Kesha~~~~!
@SXYQBLONDIE
DAMN YOU SMALL MA
HEYYYY KEVWEBB!! HOW ARE YOU TODAY? YOU NEVER MENTIONED YOUR BOSSIP CRUSHES EITHER MISTER!!
NOR DID YOU I’M JUST ME!!(i’m getting all in err body’s business!! lol)
KZZ, HAVE ABOUT 3 CORONA’S FOR ME HUH MOMMA!?
@ kesha
my heart really aches for family’s who lose their homes as a result of natural disasters..I just feel like home is so fundamental and to experience something like that is so traumatic..SMH @ mother nature she can be such a ***** sometimes
Hey all y’all! What’s the conversation?
cutie pie*kindly putting people on blast est.1985* My beautiful black sisters..its time to form a coalition…b/c according to many we have become the antichrist(Check me out!)
@ sxyq
“FUNNY THING IS, MY MOTHER RAISED HER GIRLS TO LEARN HOW TO TAKE CARE OF THEMSELVES. SO AT 5FT 107 POUNDS, I MOVE FURNITURE, I TAKE OUT MY OWN TRASH, HELL I EVEN MOW MY OWN LAWN. GROWING UP IN A HOUSE FULL OF SELF SUFFICIENT WOMEN, THERES NOT MUCH THAT WE DIDNT LEARN HOW TO DO. ON TOP OF, COOK, CLEAN, PAY BILLS, AND STILL BE ABLE TO KEEP OURSELVES LOOKING GOOD. SO, THERE ISNT MUCH THAT A MAN COULD REALLY DO FOR ME, THAT I CANT ALREADY DO. UNLESS IT HAD SOMETHING TO DO WITH FIXING A CAR. I WILL COMPLY WITH SOME REQUEST’S IF I SEE FIT, IF IT ISNT ANYTHING OVER THE TOP YOU KNOW? BUT TO BOW DOWN AND DO A TOTAL COMPLETE CHANGE, NOPE. I’M NOT COMPLICATED, BUT I’M NO CLAY TO BE MOLDED EITHER!! LOL”
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girl you ain’t never lied..i’m 2 inches taller than you ((jumoing for joy for finally being taller than someone)) and I change door handles, tires, oil, kitchen lightbulbs, and fix closets( I live in a apt and I can never get a hold of my damn super)
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Cosign 100%
I mowed my lawn (at my old place), change my tire, take out trash, nail hammer, when I moved last year me and my female cuz did it all by ourselves (I’m talking furniture, washer/dryer, dressers, beds).
@ KESHA
I would recommend the vibrating ones because they relax you. The regular ones are just as bad as the d*ck and get something or have him somehow stimulate your ***** at the same time so that helps you relax your muscles.
HEY ROZZA!!! How are you this afternoon!
@ kzz,
LOL…cake n purp…an awesome combination, lol!
(hittn that shyt and p*****n to IJM…)
HEY ROZZA!!!
@ Jaxon
Sxyq, gotta ask him all the question
Think it was part 1 & part 2 lol
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Ask away, yall know I have no shame. LOL
@2CUTE
GIRL YOU FEEL ME? MY MOTHER WAS DETERMINED BY HAITIS OR HIGH WATER THAT WE WOULD BE SELF SUFFICIENT IF NEED BE. GIRL, MY FAVORITE DOG’S ARE PIT BULLS!! AND I HANDLE MINE BETTER THAN MOST MEN!! THEY WOULD ALWAYS BE LIKE, WHAT’S A LITTLE WOMAN LIKE YOU DOING WITH A BIG ***** DOG LIKE THAT? LOL.
@HANNIBAL
YES LOVE, IM AN ITTY BITTY(lol)
@M-DADDY
NO YOU MAY NOT PLEAD THE FIFTH. I TRIED THAT YESTERDAY, BUT IT DIDNT WORK AND I HAD TO ANSWER. SO I PICKED AS MANY AS I SO PLEASED. LOL
HEY KZZZZZZZZZ! WHATS UP BOO?!?!
@ Man
As long as u know what it is
, damn, u seem like u were damn near perfect b4 u decided to go the way of the hoe, another one bits the dust,smh
ROZZA!! MY V.A SISTER!! HOW ARE YOU TODAY MS.LADY? IT’S SUNNY TODAY, AND WARM. I’M LOVING IT!!
@SXYQ
“FUNNY THING IS, MY MOTHER RAISED HER GIRLS TO LEARN HOW TO TAKE CARE OF THEMSELVES. SO AT 5FT 107 POUNDS, I MOVE FURNITURE, I TAKE OUT MY OWN TRASH, HELL I EVEN MOW MY OWN LAWN. GROWING UP IN A HOUSE FULL OF SELF SUFFICIENT WOMEN, THERES NOT MUCH THAT WE DIDNT LEARN HOW TO DO. ON TOP OF, COOK, CLEAN, PAY BILLS, AND STILL BE ABLE TO KEEP OURSELVES LOOKING GOOD. SO, THERE ISNT MUCH THAT A MAN COULD REALLY DO FOR ME, THAT I CANT ALREADY DO. UNLESS IT HAD SOMETHING TO DO WITH FIXING A CAR. I WILL COMPLY WITH SOME REQUEST’S IF I SEE FIT, IF IT ISNT ANYTHING OVER THE TOP YOU KNOW? BUT TO BOW DOWN AND DO A TOTAL COMPLETE CHANGE, NOPE. I’M NOT COMPLICATED, BUT I’M NO CLAY TO BE MOLDED EITHER!! LOL”
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Ha ha. I understand. Whenever someone says something viewed as negative most humans rationalize why “it couldn’t happen to them.”
Sort of like people getting in the car and not putting on their seatbelts. They rationlize to themselves “….well, I won’t get in a wreck” or “what are the chances of a wreck for this short drive.”
Please understand that “brainwashing” is done everyday and needs this exact theory to work. The key is time and a clear understanding of the intended victim. Oh yes, and leverage. You have to have something the victim wants or needs.
@ jaxon
oh god that reminds me when I moved into my apt..I was so damn tired, the next day I slept through the entire day. I had aches in places i couldn’t even name
Hey Rozza
@ cutiepie
Yes she can…my heart aches for them also. People say its just a house, its not as important as family and yes that may be true, but its still home…when you’ve lost the place that you grew up in, thats a hard thing to deal with. All those memories and nothing to show your grandkids…its hard. Whats even harder is the people who have no where else to go…thats sad. I feel blessed cause my family and i can afford to do other things, right now we’re using this time to plan a lil vaca for us, but the people who have to go to shelters and stay there for God knows how long and may not have a home to come back to..its just depressing
Dana Dane ( I’m A Freak And I Don’t Care Just Don’t Get None In My Hair)(Check me out!)
@DANA DANE
“As long as u know what it is
, damn, u seem like u were damn near perfect b4 u decided to go the way of the hoe, another one bits the dust,smh”
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Lol. Actually… I wouldn’t say “hoe” because I wasn’t in a committed relationship. Yeah I soaked the oats as they say but if anything I’m TOO committed. I have never cheated in my life.
Like I said earlier, I have no problem being a “possession” for a female because you better believe I would view them as my “possession.” I’m 100% devoted too and will try to help them acheive anything anyway I can.
@JAXON
I mowed my lawn (at my old place), change my tire, take out trash, nail hammer, when I moved last year me and my female cuz did it all by ourselves (I’m talking furniture, washer/dryer, dressers, beds).
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THATS WHAT I’M TALKING ABOUT GIRL. WHEN MY BEST FRIEND MOVED, WE VIRTUALLY MOVED EVERYTHING BY OURSELVES. WE PAID PEOPLE TO HELP, BUT THEY REALLY DIDNT. THEN ONCE WE MOVED IT ALL, WE *****EMBLED SEVERAL ITEMS OF FURNITURE. AND COOKED LATER. HRMPHH. I’M NOT SAYING I DONT EVER HAVE TO HAVE A MAN, BUT AINT TOO MUCH HE CAN DO FOR ME, THAT I HAVENT ALREADY LEARNED. I’M NOT AFRAID OF INSECTS, SO I DONT NEED HIM AROUND TO KILL THEM FOR ME. I STEP ON THE M’EFFERS AND KEEP IT PUSHING. I DONT NEED HIM TO BE SUPPORTIVE DURING A SCARY MOVIE, CAUSE I DONT WATCH THEM SH*TS PERIOD. ON TOP OF ALL OF THAT, MY POPS TAUGHT ME HOW TO PAINT, INDOORS AND OUTDOORS SEVERAL YEARS AGO. SO I HAVE THAT UNDER WRAPS AS WELL. LOL
@ MAN
1958 – Basically meaning there was an understanding that you got married and your husband took care of everything.
Ain’t nothing wrong with a house husband, if it’s the best thing for your family, but some men and women just wanna sit on their ***** and that was their intention before marriage…triffling.
Palimony – I guess it’s a necessary evil, but a man is a ***** if he accepts it..be a man and work for your ***** unless of course you got child custody and then it’s justified…same for women.
And I was meeting the wrong men because I didn’t have my ***** together, so it brought the wrong men in my life, so now that I am trying to get right I am hoping that meeting someone will become an effortless task and bring me the man who I’m meant to be with on that level.
Hey Rozza,
Ladies, most females i know have become soooo independent. We do it all on our own. I got a man, but trust if he wasnt here (and before he came into the picture) i did those things too and still do sometimes…eventually i think men will be done away with, lol. That was a joke fellas…you know the motto…cant live with em, cant live without em
@CAT EYES(Check me out!)
“One day,you’re gonna forget about all the ideaology you have regarding women because one is going to sweep you off your feet”
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I don’t have an “ideaology” regarding women “per se.” Just MY relationship with women. I realize there are a lot of submissive men or relationships with a little “give and take.”
I just know that the family is a human structure and like any other human structure there is a heiarchy.
As far as a lady sweeping me off my feet, that’s already happened since 2001. Read my earlier posts… I mentioned it already.
@MAN
Please understand that “brainwashing” is done everyday and needs this exact theory to work. The key is time and a clear understanding of the intended victim. Oh yes, and leverage. You have to have something the victim wants or needs.
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YOU’VE GOT ME OVER HERE CHUCKLING AT THE BRAINWASHING THEORY. I BELIEVE THAT SOME PEOPLE ARE MORE EXPOSED TO THE IDEA OF CERTAIN THINGS, OR MAY BE MORE OF A TARGET. I ALSO BELIEVE THAT THERE IS A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN PLACING A GAURD UP IN YOUR MIND TO KEEP SOMETHING FROM HAPPENING, YET NOT PREPARING YOURSELF ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THAT GAURD FOR THE UNTHINKABLE. AND THEN SIMPLY BEING OF STRONG MIND AND CHARACTER, AND PREPARED. IF I ALLOW MYSELF TO BE BRAINWASHED, THEN MY MIND WAS NEVER STRONG ENOUGH TO CARRY OUT IT’S ORIGINAL DESIRE TO BEGIN WITH.(smile) WOULDNT YOU AGREE?
Hey Dana, Cutie, IJM, sxyQ: I am doing well and blessed today, but I am trying to be nosy! What are y’all talking about, hmmm?
@ The Ladies
I just bought a house and moved 90% of the stuff myself little by little, I tiled my own kitchen (floors and back splash), painted, and drilled in all my blinds, stained and polished the wood floor and now I’m building a brick patio in the backyard..everynight I get home I unpack more or do a project..I am so happy for this holiday weekend…but I still gotta go back to my apartment this weekend and clean the stove and fridge..but I feel good, I will be sleeping ALL DAY monday!
@ Man
WORD?!?! Im right here, ur backed up wifey is ready n waiting,
, Im alergic to anything less than 14k
@ROZZA: Hi Momma of Bossip! cuz you be laying down the buzness on folks! ~~WINK~~
@DAAAAAAANNNNA: Go down to City Island (Orchid Beach) and grab your girl some seafood real quick, imma need it after all this blazing! LOL!
@Man I just don’t care
Sorry,I didn’t see post regarding you already being swept off your feet.I love seeing people in love-its the strongest emotion a human can feel.Are you ever considering marriage and children?You know,a king is only as good as the queen next to him…
@ ROzza
relationship i think, idk, i m playing duble dutch over here i just jump in when i can
@ROZZA
OKAY, WE ARE TALKING ABOUT SUBMISSIVE & STRONG WILLED WOMEN.
BOSSIP CRUSHES
SOME SEX TOPICS HAVE POPPED UP
AND I THINK THATS IT. I THINK.(LOL)
@ Jaxon (naw…Not yet, might try to use it on u
@ Cutie Pie (What’s really good???
@ sxyQBlondie(Yeah…it’s so much to choose from. Like that old Raekwon joint, it’s so many different flavas….carmel, butter pecan, chocolate deluxe)…whew…
@sxyQ: Men like to feel needed, just like a woman does. I do it all as well, but when a man is in my life, I let him do what he can. Believe me, it doesn’t take from my independence one iota. Men and women still like to be in their “traditional” roles, though, and if done right and with respect, it can be a beautiful tihng!
o ***** r y’all gettin back on that freak tip?
@ KZZ
I got u boo im in the mood for some crablegs myself, yo pas dat!!
@PAIGEY: Girl you get 2 daps!!! that’s what’s up! and if you are anything like me you are probaly picky and want ***** down right???? ~~smile~~ and judging by the way you are handling things you are Jamaican? if I remember correctly, because we had this discusson a long time ago.. so “BIG UPS NUFF RESPECT”..MY Mom is American and my Dad is Jamaican….
M-DADDY OAKLAND’S FINEST(I’M NEVER PLANNING ANOTHER BACHLOR PARTY)(Check me out!)
@ Jaxon
Sxyq, gotta ask him all the question
Think it was part 1 & part 2 lol
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Ask away, yall know I have no shame. LOL
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You all ready refused
Part 1) Bossip crushes?
Part 2) How, and where would they get it?
@ ILL
GET OUT
PaigeyWaigey *No vibrating ***** Beads for me thanks..*(Check me out!)
@ MAN
1958 – Basically meaning there was an understanding that you got married and your husband took care of everything.
Ain’t nothing wrong with a house husband, if it’s the best thing for your family, but some men and women just wanna sit on their ***** and that was their intention before marriage…triffling.
Palimony – I guess it’s a necessary evil, but a man is a ***** if he accepts it..be a man and work for your ***** unless of course you got child custody and then it’s justified…same for women.
And I was meeting the wrong men because I didn’t have my ***** together, so it brought the wrong men in my life, so now that I am trying to get right I am hoping that meeting someone will become an effortless task and bring me the man who I’m meant to be with on that level.
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Ok. I think I have a better understanding now.
I just fear the “self fulfillin prophecy.” I think so many women “accept” the fact that they will be single that cease to try. People can confuse your “preparation for a life without marriage” as a “preference for a life without marriage.” The same way people approach getting a job is the same way they should approach a relationship. The actions of some gives the impression that a job is more important than life relationships but obviously it isn’t. Where ever you work they could care less about you as a person.
I see you mentioned that you will still try. Though it will never be “effortless.”
**LOL -def didn’t like the hope of Kobe hurting his knee. Won’t be talking basketball with you cause we wouldn’t be friends (j/k)**
@Paigey Waigey: It feels good to be able to do it! Congratulations on your new home. I was like that when I first got mine, and 8 years later I still get the home improvement fever (must stay out of Home Depot and Lowe’s!). Have fun!
@KESHA
eventually i think men will be done away with, lol. That was a joke fellas…you know the motto…cant live with em, cant live without em
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GIRL, I KNOW THAT’S RIGHT. BECAUSE THE ONE THING I’M NOT EVER TRYING TO FIGURE OUT, IS HOW TO HAVE INTERCOURSE WITH MYSELF(LMFAO) SO I CANT AFFORD FOR MEN TO BE ERASED. (NOTE TO ALL FINE BLACK MEN) WE NEED YOU LIKE THE DESERT NEEDS THE RAIN!!(LOL) WE JUST DONT NEED MUCH HELP FIXING UP CRAP AROUND THE HOUS ANYMORE(LMAO).
@dana: P*****ING THAT ***** WHEN IJM FINISH! that’s why I don’t ***** wit her like that she never know when to p***** ***** back! ~~KZZ rolling her eyes at IJM~~~~ LOL
@KEV
SOME OF US GET GREEDY ANYWAY, SO PICK AWAY!!(LOL)
@JAXON
GIRL I FORGOT ABOUT THE PART 2.(LOL)
Rozza♥(Check me out!)
@sxyQ: Men like to feel needed, just like a woman does. I do it all as well, but when a man is in my life, I let him do what he can. Believe me, it doesn’t take from my independence one iota. Men and women still like to be in their “traditional” roles, though, and if done right and with respect, it can be a beautiful tihng!
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PREACH SISTA!!!! I warned you about how smart you are!! LOL.
I hope these females ain’t yelling to they ol’ man how they “independant” and *****!! (although I love women like that)
That’s a cue to leave. Anything that isn’t “needed” is eventually “replaced/thrown away.”
aight I’m back
@ Jaxon
Take my hand sweetheart and walk with me. Let me get that drink for you
@ KZZ
*p*****ing one to KZZ and one to KESHA!*
I told ya I keep the purp by the pound.
And I was meeting the wrong men because I didn’t have my ***** together, so it brought the wrong men in my life, so now that I am trying to get right I am hoping that meeting someone will become an effortless task and bring me the man who I’m meant to be with on that level.
Story of my life
LMAO @ KZZ, DAMN IJM!! with ur camel lungs, p***** off!!
@ROZZA
@sxyQ: Men like to feel needed, just like a woman does. I do it all as well, but when a man is in my life, I let him do what he can. Believe me, it doesn’t take from my independence one iota. Men and women still like to be in their “traditional” roles, though, and if done right and with respect, it can be a beautiful tihng!
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NOW I FEEL YOU ON THE LEVEL OF LETTING A MAN FEEL LIKE A MAN. YOU KNOW, NOT TAKING THAT FROM HIM. I WILL COMPROMISE. BUT, MY PROCLOMATION IS WORN ON MY CHEST(LOL) THAT I NEVER PLAY THE DAMSEL IN DISTRESS ROLE, YOU KNOW WHAT I’M SAYING? LIKE BASICALLY, ASIDE FROM TO BE A CARING LOVING PARTNER, I DONT REALLY NEED YOU AROUND TO PICK UP SLACK ON THINGS THAT ARE CONSIDERED HEAVY DUTY.
@Man: “…People can confuse your “preparation for a life without marriage” as a “preference for a life without marriage.” You hit the nail right on the head. Just like a boy must prepare to be a man, to grow up to work and be able to support himself and maybe a family, a girl must know how to not only bake and clean, but to be able to thrive on her own and be a complementary partner if and when she decides to marry. And with today’s economy and world climate, it is unrealistic and nuts to raise a girl to be a woman that has to depend on a man to survive.
Well it’s like this with me, I love Making Love, I just LOVE IT! seriously I do..my nick name is really Wet! Wet!..not from Plies either.. I am not into toys, sorry I don’t like them I like the real thing or nothing, I will just fall asleep!
my nick name is really Wet! Wet!..
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goddamn girl….
CAT EYES(Check me out!)
@Man I just don’t care
Sorry,I didn’t see post regarding you already being swept off your feet.I love seeing people in love-its the strongest emotion a human can feel.Are you ever considering marriage and children?You know,a king is only as good as the queen next to him…
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Yes, it is. I wonder how many people have been in TRUE love. And weren’t in LUST.
Yes, I would love to get married. The thing is the woman I’m dating now has a child and she doesn’t want anymore. I know I would have to work her to convice her to have another because her child is 10 years old. I am the only person in my click with out any children so I think that time is coming.
I want all girls too. I originally wanted 4 girls but now I want two. I may have to settle for one though
@ sxyq (who must stop using all the CAPS, lol)
“GIRL, I KNOW THAT’S RIGHT. BECAUSE THE ONE THING I’M NOT EVER TRYING TO FIGURE OUT, IS HOW TO HAVE INTERCOURSE WITH MYSELF(LMFAO) SO I CANT AFFORD FOR MEN TO BE ERASED. (NOTE TO ALL FINE BLACK MEN) WE NEED YOU LIKE THE DESERT NEEDS THE RAIN!!(LOL) WE JUST DONT NEED MUCH HELP FIXING UP CRAP AROUND THE HOUS ANYMORE(LMAO).”
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i know that right cuz i’m not a big fan of the vibrator. I mean its there for emergency purposes but as far as having to RELY on it….oh hell naw! So, if only for the sex, YES, i agree we need those men (hey fellas…waving to the fellas…, lol)
Well it’s like this with me, I love Making Love, I just LOVE IT! seriously I do..my nick name is really Wet! Wet!..not from Plies either.. I am not into toys, sorry I don’t like them I like the real thing or nothing, I will just fall asleep!
I second that emotion
It’s very nice to have someone else do things but I’ll never be caught not knowing how.
Yea I cant get down with “self love”
@ IJM,
Thanks Ma…i’ma hold this one, lol!
Rozza♥(Check me out!)
@Man: “…People can confuse your “preparation for a life without marriage” as a “preference for a life without marriage.” You hit the nail right on the head. Just like a boy must prepare to be a man, to grow up to work and be able to support himself and maybe a family, a girl must know how to not only bake and clean, but to be able to thrive on her own and be a complementary partner if and when she decides to marry. And with today’s economy and world climate, it is unrealistic and nuts to raise a girl to be a woman that has to depend on a man to survive
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The sad part is that from the statements some are making they are RAISING girls to prepare them to be alone. I realize I could be misinterpeting but it def. seems that way.
Then people want to know why men are acting like “men.”
I admit, I’m biased. I was raised by an older woman in the south. She can’t stand no man talking bout joint decisions and the like. The truly funny part is that she is FAR from submissive herself. She would literally fight before doing that.
CAN SOMEONE FILL ME IN
I stepped away for a min…. had to go holla at this sexy ***** chic I seen walking outside. yeah I got them mathematics and gonna call her up and invite her over for some “drinks” Fellas you know what I mean lol. But whats been going on up in here…. still got my boy “dapro11″ in the interrogation room? lol
@sxyQ: Men like to feel needed, just like a woman does. I do it all as well, but when a man is in my life, I let him do what he can. Believe me, it doesn’t take from my independence one iota. Men and women still like to be in their “traditional” roles, though, and if done right and with respect, it can be a beautiful tihng!
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@Rozza
I think you’re right. It took me a long time to get to the point where I could just allow my husband to be “the man” in the relationship. Even when we were just dating. Thats also where some of our issues are in our home because I know if he left I could take care of myself and the kids. He knows this and I think thats why we bump heads so much. I never latched on to the whole “be the p*****ive, obedient wife” role.
@IJM: LMAO! I knew you would come with something crazy! Thatt’s what’s up! ~~kzz puffing the hell outta that purp!
@SXYQ: And whoever else, for one you are certainly correct in stating letting a man be a man, because there is nothing worse than a pride hurting Man.. I believe I relationship should be 50/50 really why should he always have to pay when we go out? why can’t I pay? or does that hurt his Manhood/pride? should he be upset because I make more financially at my job? or should he praise me for doing the damn thing? I will however, never feel like I need a Man to make me complete, but let’s face it we really do need that KING! yep I said it! because anytime you have a man around the house that’s exactly what he should be treated as a (KING)!regardless of what some ladies may think! we may not need him financially but he sure is good companionship! and we all have needs!
@Man: “…People can confuse your “preparation for a life without marriage” as a “preference for a life without marriage.” You hit the nail right on the head. Just like a boy must prepare to be a man, to grow up to work and be able to support himself and maybe a family, a girl must know how to not only bake and clean, but to be able to thrive on her own and be a complementary partner if and when she decides to marry. And with today’s economy and world climate, it is unrealistic and nuts to raise a girl to be a woman that has to depend on a man to survive.
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TRUE TRUE TRUE INDEED. YES MOST DEFINATELY, I ONE DAY INTEND TO BE MARRIED. BUT IN THE MEAN TIME, I AM SELF SUFFICIENT, AND DONT REALLY NEED TO ‘DEPEND’ ON ANY ONE ELSE TO TAKE CARE OF THE THINGS I NEED TAKEN CARE OF. NOT BECAUSE I WANT TO BE YOUR TYPICAL “IM AN INDEPENDANT WOMAN, HEAR ME ROAR!!” LOL. BUT BECAUSE I HAD TO BE PREPARED AND LEARN HOW TO DO FOR MYSELF IN THE EVENT OF A SUDDEN SITUATION.
bye everyone!!!!
have a good long weekend( I know I will) and stay safe and out of trouble cause’ bail money is expensive and bail bondsman are snakes…lata
((hugz for everyone))
@DANA
“WORD?!?! Im right here, ur backed up wifey is ready n waiting, , Im alergic to anything less than 14k”
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I don’t want to jump to conclusions so please explain the 14K. Surely that isn’t your yearly salary requirement for your man???
I would make $10K on one investment as a banker. Granted that ***** ain’t happen everyday but damn, it would happen at least twice a year.
Good looking Paigey
We’ll see- it is, what it is
A nicca trying not to step out but every now and then I flirt just to see if I still got it
@ Man
Fam I got two girls (6& 4) and all I think about is a ***** doing them like I use to do chicks and it sickens me
I’m telling my people now to start saving that bail money
@ Man,
“Yes, it is. I wonder how many people have been in TRUE love. And weren’t in LUST.
Yes, I would love to get married. The thing is the woman I’m dating now has a child and she doesn’t want anymore. I know I would have to work her to convice her to have another because her child is 10 years old. I am the only person in my click with out any children so I think that time is coming.
I want all girls too. I originally wanted 4 girls but now I want two. I may have to settle for one though”
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Yup, thats me. Got one, dont want no more! Does she have a son? If so, she’s saying no but she may really want a girl. I do, i say all the time i dont want anymore, and most of the time i mean it. but when i see lil girls, my heart melts, lol. So i know if the RIGHT man came along, and we were married and he really wanted, i’d compromise, for him. If i could get a girl, lol!
Stick with her, children are a blessing at the end of the day. They’re always a blessing. But as far a 4, naw dawg, you might have to cut down on that number, lol!
@Kesha: A vibrator, or any sexual aid, can serve to enhance lovemaking, increase awareness of your body and what it needs, keep your “gears lubricated”, and help keep your body’s natural reaction to sexual stimulation on alert! Nothing wrong with toys at all.
They come in all sizes, shapes, and colors. Some are waterproof, and not all have to have batteries to be pleasurable.
I think every woman should be self reliant before entering in to a relationship. I just always knew that I wouldn’t be with someone that wasn’t at least as motivated as I am. I don’t neccesarily mean money, I mean at least show me that you want to do better so that we won’t be dependent on eachother, but we would be equal partners in this thing…ya know.
@MAN I JUST
The sad part is that from the statements some are making they are RAISING girls to prepare them to be alone. I realize I could be misinterpeting but it def. seems that way.
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NO, IT WASNT PREP FOR LONLINESS AT ALL. MORE SO PREP FOR LIFE IN GENERAL. IF I’M THE COMMANDER IN CHIEF, AND MUST SEND YOU TO WAR, I’M GOING TO PREPARE YOU FOR ALL THINGS THAT BATTLE ENCOMP*****ES. EVEN IF YOU NEVER GO TO BATTLE. OR EVEN IF SOME OF THE THINGS I TEACH YOU, YOU NEVER NEED TO USE. CHANCES ARE, BEFORE YOU MEET A MAN, OR VICE VERSA, YOU WILL LIVE BY YOURSELF, HOW HAVE YOUR OWN THINGS TO TAKE CARE OF. IT IS TYPICAL THAT A WOMAN KNOW HOW TO COOK. BUT I PAT THE BACK OF A MAN THAT CAN COOK HIS ***** OFF BECAUSE HE HAS BEEN PREPARED TO DO FOR HIMSELF, AND DOESNT NECCESARILY HAVE TO DEPEND ON ANYONE FOR SURVIVAL. UNTIL HE MEETS THE ONE HE WILL EVENTUALLY BECOME ONE WITH.
Sorry wasn’t finished! One thing Ladies we must realize about our Minority Men, because it’s some Dominicans on here as well as PR Men, but the one thing they don’t need is to come home to their Woman yelling and screaming about ” I called you so many times 2day and you didn’t pick up” where have you been” are gonna this? are you gonna that”! The Man has so much he goes through on a daily basis as is! he has to watch his suroundings! the Police are more likely to harr***** him! he is always being scrutinized by someone at his place of employment! so the last thing he doesn not need is to come home to a screaming female, talking to him like he is 12! treat that Man like he is a Man and not your Son, your relationships will go a long way! Instead when he walks in, “hug him” kiss him” rub him” ask that Man how was his day? if there is something that you feel you need to discuss, if you have known this man for a period of time, you will know when and when it’s not the right time to discuss! I find that’s where alot of breakups come about, people are so quick to get their points across noone wants to give in!
Yeah I know some of you never heard KZZ talk like this, but your girl got it in her! I’been in my relationship for 7 years and that’s how I handle things, he now wants to get Married and I know I will marry this Man, because I’m not really looking for anything more than what I have! Deuces People!
You are handling it, Kzzm!
@Jaxon
You all ready refused
Part 1) Bossip crushes?
Part 2) How, and where would they get it?
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Can I chose as many people as I want??
@SXYQBLONDIE
“YOU’VE GOT ME OVER HERE CHUCKLING AT THE BRAINWASHING THEORY. I BELIEVE THAT SOME PEOPLE ARE MORE EXPOSED TO THE IDEA OF CERTAIN THINGS, OR MAY BE MORE OF A TARGET. I ALSO BELIEVE THAT THERE IS A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN PLACING A GAURD UP IN YOUR MIND TO KEEP SOMETHING FROM HAPPENING, YET NOT PREPARING YOURSELF ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THAT GAURD FOR THE UNTHINKABLE. AND THEN SIMPLY BEING OF STRONG MIND AND CHARACTER, AND PREPARED. IF I ALLOW MYSELF TO BE BRAINWASHED, THEN MY MIND WAS NEVER STRONG ENOUGH TO CARRY OUT IT’S ORIGINAL DESIRE TO BEGIN WITH.(smile) WOULDNT YOU AGREE?”
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lol. No, I wouldn’t agree. Brainwashing has been overused by defense attorneys to defend obviously guilty clients and therefore “discredited” by mainstream society.
Do you really think all of these abused women in the nation are “weak minded?” Most of the time these guys have some sort of leverage (ie. money/children). Or these hunders of people in different cults. I’m not quesitioning your strength, I just don’t want you to underestimate how easily it can be done and how real it is. Ask any psychologist.
You know that old saying… if you hear something enough you begin to believe it. That’s the truth. If you were in the army one of the cheif things they would train you on are tactics used to brainwash. The key is not to get caught. Given enough time everyone “breaks.”
@ Man
I don’t want to jump to conclusions so please explain the 14K. Surely that isn’t your yearly salary requirement for your man???
I would make $10K on one investment as a banker. Granted that ***** ain’t happen everyday but damn, it would happen at least twice a year.
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no, lol, hell no, at the risk of sounding stuck up u couldn’t even smell the cooch for 14k, i meant for the wedding ring u know 14k gold, lol, forget it, the joke is ruined, u still me boo though
@KZZ
NOW I FEEL YOU ON THAT. ME, I DONT LIKE TO ARGUE BECAUSE IT IS STRESSFUL. I TRY NOT TO JUMP IN A MANS FACE, CURSING, POINTING MY FINGER AND ACCUSING. BY THE TIME I AM ANGRY WITH YOU, I KEEP MY DISTANCE ACROSS THE ROOM, AND HEATEDLY ASK WHATEVER IT IS I FEEL I NEED TO KNOW. NOW IF I CATCH YOU IN THE MIDST OF SOMETHING, THEN MY REACTION WILL BE A HELL OF ALOT DIFFERENT. BUT I REALLY DONT LIKE ARGUING BECAUSE I HATE TO BE ANGRY, I REALLY DO. AND IT TAKES A LOOOONNNGGG TIME FOR ME TO COME DOWN FROM THAT. I JUST PREFER TO BE TOLD THE TRUTH. AND THAT GIVES ME OPTIONS.
@ dapro11,
Big Homie…what’s poppin? I might have to talk to u offline. I’m jive wet behind the ears. I might need u to help me work on my jab. I’ll come on this joint like Tyson looking for the knock out
@M-DADDY
YOU CAN CHOOSE AS MANY AS YOU WANT
@MAN I JUST
SO MY PRECIOUS(smiling deviously) DO YOU THINK YOU HAVE POTENTIAL TO BE BRAINWASHED?
There is a difference b/t not needing a man and not wanting a man. Both men and women should know the difference. A man should not feel insecure if a woman can do for herself, as long as she is able to allow the man to be a man when necessary. I don’t think my mom raised me to be alone or lonely, I just watched her after her divorce and I watched her through her second marriage. She had 3 girls somebody’s got to take out trash etc. I want my daughter to watch me as well. Learn from my failures and sucesses
@ KZZ
CHURCH! lol
Yup, thats me. Got one, dont want no more! Does she have a son? If so, she’s saying no but she may really want a girl. I do, i say all the time i dont want anymore, and most of the time i mean it. but when i see lil girls, my heart melts, lol. So i know if the RIGHT man came along, and we were married and he really wanted, i’d compromise, for him. If i could get a girl, lol!
Stick with her, children are a blessing at the end of the day. They’re always a blessing. But as far a 4, naw dawg, you might have to cut down on that number, lol!
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No, she has a girl. We really talked about it and I think she is set on not having anymore. She just went through a lot with her baby daddy and had her daughter at a young age.
This one girl I used to date has two children. She knew I wanted girls and her daughter is the most beautiful thing. I get so mad sometimes thinking about that one.
@SXYQ: That’s why I *****s with you! cuz you understand exactly where your *cyber sis* is at on this! (HUGS)! alot of women hate when we have our ladies gathering and I don’t condone in the way they treat their Men! I am not siding with someone just because they are my friend! to me we need to be just as str8 up as the Man is!
And for the ladies who haven’t found Mr. Right, just watch how he treats his Mother or Sisters if any! then you will know how he will be with you as a lady!
@SXY Q BLONDIE
” SO MY PRECIOUS(smiling deviously) DO YOU THINK YOU HAVE POTENTIAL TO BE BRAINWASHED?”
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Yup. LOL. That’s why I question everything. I try to look to see if someone can “benefit” from anything that they tell me. Either immediately or long term.
What in the worlds goin on in here?
@ All,
True love? What is it? I wonder if there is a such thing. I think LOVE and the measure of love is different for every one. I’ve been in love before. Can i say whether or not it was true love? I dont know. The man i’m with right now, i love him to death. Would do just about anything for him, but do i know if its true love? Nope. Do i know if he’s “the one”…nope. I know i care about him enough to want him to do well, and willing to help him. And i think he feels the same. But i dont know if i believe in that whole soul mate thing? I do know that the shyt is a struggle, it takes work, just like everything else. A relationship is work. You’ve got to put in the time and effort
LOL @ DANA! You silly
@JAxson: You Preach too Mama! carry yourself like a lady and she will become one as well!
@THE BOSSIP MEN: UUUhhhhMMMMMMM! No response from you guys? LOL!
Dana Dane ( I’m A Freak And I Don’t Care Just Don’t Get None In My Hair)(Check me out!)
@ Man
I don’t want to jump to conclusions so please explain the 14K. Surely that isn’t your yearly salary requirement for your man???
I would make $10K on one investment as a banker. Granted that ***** ain’t happen everyday but damn, it would happen at least twice a year.
LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
no, lol, hell no, at the risk of sounding stuck up u couldn’t even smell the cooch for 14k, i meant for the wedding ring u know 14k gold, lol, forget it, the joke is ruined, u still me boo though
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LMAO
I was about to say!! “who she *****in wit?” I could make $14K if two really good customers came in…. IN ONE DAY. Unlikely but possible.
I know I ain’t the brightest that’s why I asked. LOL I would get you a nice ring but I ain’t going to splurg on the wedding.
NKKI!! welcome back wats goodie?
@NIKU: HIIIIIII! my other *cyber sis*/real sister! LOL!
Kzz preaching!
SXYQ: don’t wanna be brainwashed
@MAN I Don’t: He don’t wanna splurge on a Big Wedding!
@MDADDY_ He is lost from Yesterday!
@KESHA: She don’t know if she is really in LOVE!
@JAXSON: Will always be a Lady
@DANA: Makes more than $14k a year! LOL
@KZZ
“@THE BOSSIP MEN: UUUhhhhMMMMMMM! No response from you guys? LOL!”
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Respond to what?
@MAN I JUST
WELL FOR FUTURE REFERENCE, I HAVE NO BRAINWASHING TECHNIQUE. BUT THE ART OF PERSU*****ION IS A TERRIBLE THING!!(LOL)
@KZZ
(CYBER HUGGING BACK WITH A FURY) GIRL, I REALLY BELIEVE IN SHOWING A PERSON IN A RELATIONSHIP THE SAME RESPECT I WANT TO BE SHOWN. EVEN IF I’VE OBSERVED THE NEGROE LONG ENOUGH TO KNOW THAT HIS STORY ISNT QUITE STICKING, I WONT START CURSING AND SCREAMING UNTIL THE EVIDENCE IS HEAVIER THAN YOU ARE. I WANT MY EVERY DAY WITH THAT MAN TO BE PLEASANT WHEN WE CAN MAKE IT THAT WAY. BEING INSECURE AND CURSING HIM OUT EVERYTIME HE STEPS THRU THE DOOR, ISNT GOING TO MAKE FOR A GOOD LIFE(LOL). AND NO MATTER HOW GOOD I LOOK, OR HOW GOOD MY COOKING IS, EVENTUALLY THAT FOOL WILL OPT TO FIND ANOTHER BROAD WHO DOESNT STRESS HIM AS MUCH.
@Man: You will be able to have those girls! You’re not ancient, I’m *****uming, and the issue with your lady may not be not wanting more but trusting that you will be there for everything. That means a true commitment. But remember, before you make that decision, make sure you are truly okay with not having children on your own. Settling for eye color, height, or whether a person cooks is one thing, but something like having your own family will only breed resentment, and make you miserable if it is something really important.
It is selfish to marry somebody hoping maybe they will change their mind, just as it is selfish to not trust someone enough to have a family with someone you marry when it means so much to them.
Oh…I have been *****-footed all day tryin to make time go by. I’m the only one in my department and quite frankly I’m leaving early and not using and vacay time…
I would read the post but yall went too hard…I just want a brief synopsis…
Hoopz please stop saying the MEDIA hates on you . Girl you came in the so called entrtainment business without ***** and you are leaving the same way . Who’s your imaginery boyfriend AI or Dwade?This is the main reason I support Michelle Obama Educational causes ! Free magazine spreads get you no where !
@sxyQ: Men like to feel needed, just like a woman does. I do it all as well, but when a man is in my life, I let him do what he can. Believe me, it doesn’t take from my independence one iota. Men and women still like to be in their “traditional” roles, though, and if done right and with respect, it can be a beautiful tihng!
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Well said Kesha, well said…
SXYQ: don’t wanna be brainwashed (Dont be Girl)
@MAN I Don’t: He don’t wanna splurge on a Big Wedding! (Dont Boo)
@MDADDY_ He is lost from Yesterday! (Poe M-DADDY)
@KESHA: She don’t know if she is really in LOVE! (She love that nicca)
@JAXSON: Will always be a Lady
@DANA: Makes more than $14k a year! LOL (I HOPE
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@ Man
Nah I aint that type i wanna get married someplace nice on a island or another country or somethin but i dont want a big wedding so ur off the hook
@MAN I: To my comments at 2:57pm and 3:05pm! Sorry I knew you were involved in your convo!
@JAXSON: Will always be a Lady (in the streets?)
Skipped that one on the accident side….
Hey 2cute! How do you weigh in on the topic?
@ man,
“No, she has a girl. We really talked about it and I think she is set on not having anymore. She just went through a lot with her baby daddy and had her daughter at a young age.
This one girl I used to date has two children. She knew I wanted girls and her daughter is the most beautiful thing. I get so mad sometimes thinking about that one”
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Dang, thats some real shyt there. If you’ve talked about it and she REALLY doesnt want anymore, than thats it. Either you realize that if you’re with her you wont have kids, or you dont be with her if kids are that important to you…At least you know what your choices are i gues, lol
LMAO @ KZZ n NIKKI
@KESHA
I MOST DEFINATELY BELIEVE THERE IS A SUCH THING AS TRUE LOVE. IM MY 28 YRS I CAN SAY THAT I’VE TRULY LOVED 2 PEOPLE. AND BEEN IN LOVE WITH THEM. ONE WAS A MORE YOUTHFULL LOVE, MORE IMMATURE, BUT I WAS IN LOVE WITH HIM NEVER THE LESS. AS I GOT OLDER, I EXPECTED ALL FUTURE LOVES TO FEEL LIKE THE FIRST. BUT IT DIDNT. IT WAS CALMER. MORE MATURE. IT’S ALSO A TOTALLY DIFFERENT INDIVIDUAL. SO IT’S A SMOOTHER RIDE. IN LOVE, BUT JUST FEELING DIFFERENT. YOU KNOW?
@ 2cute,
Sorry Babe, those are Rozza’s words, not mine. LOL, i’m still tryna figure out if the man i’m with is THE one, lol…Rozza bringin the W I S D O M, lol!
@NIKKI
GIRL SHOOT, WHEN I SEE THE BRAINWASHING/SLITHERING SNAKE TACTICS COMING, I CUT THE ROPE AND WATCH THE SUCKER FALL TO HIS UNTIMELY DEMISE. I’VE DONE IT A MILLION TIMES. THERE’S A SCIENCE TO IT, AND I’VE PERFECTED IT. SO HE NEVER GETS THE CHANCE TO EVEN GET STARTED ON ME GOOD, YOU FEEL ME?(LOL)
@DAna: Damn I knew I was cool with you too! I already told my Bae that’s what I want to do, and whoever wants to pay to come see us that’s fine! I want to be on the beach!
@ All,
True love? What is it? I wonder if there is a such thing. I think LOVE and the measure of love is different for every one. I’ve been in love before. Can i say whether or not it was true love? I dont know. The man i’m with right now, i love him to death. Would do just about anything for him, but do i know if its true love? Nope. Do i know if he’s “the one”…nope. I know i care about him enough to want him to do well, and willing to help him. And i think he feels the same. But i dont know if i believe in that whole soul mate thing? I do know that the shyt is a struggle, it takes work, just like everything else. A relationship is work. You’ve got to put in the time and effort
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this is what i meant to copy…my bad. Definatley takes work.
@ Nikki…girl I may need to network your way were a doing M*****IVE layoffs at my company past 2 days! It sux cause they tell me first so I can get last checks ready. You know how hard it is looking a person in the face for a week knowing they wont be here….
butter face.
@Man I just don’t care
The sad part is that from the statements some are making they are RAISING girls to prepare them to be alone. I realize I could be misinterpeting but it def. seems that way.
Then people want to know why men are acting like “men.”
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my husband and I have 4 daughters and 3 sons with another son on the way and you are right with this statement-I hear it so much from other people that have daughters and I think its sad because its like Rozza said,everyone wants to feel needed.My husband and I teach our daughters both sides-yes a woman can be her own person and need her man all at the same time.Some women think that if they express the way they really feel to a man,they will get hurt,but newsflash-sometimes love is going to hurt but women really have to stop taking this independent thing too far because men are not going to respond to it.
@ sxyQ,
Thats me too. 2 loves. One was real young, this one is much older with more adult experiences. But what i mean is, how do you know those 2 men were your TRUE loves, not just a regular love? Like, i you meet the next man, who becomes your husband, then these past two men, will just be someone you used to love. Not your true love? But what if you dont meet someone else that you love as much as you’ve loved these two? Then you would consider those two your true loves right?
@Man
a man who WANTS girls how refreshing!! I wanted a boy but my lil princess is my everything…I will do anything for her and she knows it!
I moved my whole life for HER. I might change my gravvy to her..
@NIK: Damn you by yourself? Oh well you will slide out 2 I’m sure……LOL! you better! I will just stay my time it’s already 3:30….
sxyQblondie…
Ummm, YES MA’AM!! Naw fareal…I do. Dudes think ***** sweet…it aint…
Jaxon…
Come on over!!! Yes, it is hard but if I say somethin then MY black ***** would be out the door too…I try to give them the ‘eye’ or say ‘this place sucks’…you know HINTS…they nev listen though…
@ROZZA
@KESHA
“Dang, thats some real shyt there. If you’ve talked about it and she REALLY doesnt want anymore, than thats it. Either you realize that if you’re with her you wont have kids, or you dont be with her if kids are that important to you…At least you know what your choices are i gues, lol”
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Yeah, that is some real *****. **off topic her birthday was Wednesday too**
Anyway, I do realize it is def. selfish of me and that I have to be willing to accept this. We’ve been best friends for 7 years and we’ve been dating about 2 or so. She knows I would be there for her regardless of everything. I know we are going to always be close so she knows I would be there for her. I wouldn’t just dump her… Hell I probably do more for her child than the child’s father.
I’m not giving up hope that she will change her mind because that’s a BIG thing for me to give up.
@sxyQ: Your loves come in different phases of your life, just as when you mature you look for different things in a mate:
Early 20’s: P*****ionate, crazy, dramatic
Late 20’s to mid 30’s: Romantic, ambitious, sexy
Late 30’s to mid-40’s: Warm, spiritual, familiar
Depends on when you found love, or if you found it once in each of these periods. You learn from the last, and yes, you can have these qualities in any love situation, but in my experiences, this is how it has been laid out in my life!
also @Man I just don’t care
Do you think you could really settle for a woman who doesn’t want to have children? Right now it may not bother you but,it sounds to me that its something you deeply want.Maybe she’s waiting for a ring to solidify the connection.
@ 2cute,
Ok, thats what i mean. it takes work. So maybe if we just put in the work, time and effort, and dont give up…then shouldn’t that relationship be the ONE. I mean, how do you ever know if he was the one, if you walk away. I’m not saying you should stay and take any and everything. But the small stuff that normally send a girl packin, i try not to run from those problems and face them head on. After we’ve gotten past them, it makes me feel like we’ve accomplished a lot. But sometimes yall, i wanna give up and run away i swear, lol!!!!
KZZ…
You already know Im about to go talk to folk like…I saw “NIKKI” around 3:45pm”….yeah..hunh…wha? I was in the bathroom….
I def believe in tru love…I would have to say ONCE… he jacked it up now years later he realizes his mistake but we cannot go back…He is one of my BEST friends though
Rozza♥(Check me out!)
Hey 2cute! How do you weigh in on the topic?
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Hey Rozza! Kinda still trying to figure out exactly what the topic is! Ultimately I just think men need to put in as much work as we do. Even with sex! Anytime a man thinks he’s bold enough to go outside of a relationship, and lay down with another woman he better be prepared to pick his ***** up on the curb and leave the keys to cars and trucks on the counter, and keep that ***** movin’.
@ Man
Sorry im late ive been kind of in n out just looking for my name. Ur with a woman who doesnt want anymore kids( because she has enough) and u want some ( because u dont have any), wow, my thought on that r my own n i will keep it that way as to not offend anyone but have u spoken to her about this?
@ Nikki, I’m gonna have to get your email address and whatnot so I can send a resume….this mess is getting ridiculous…It’s here’s your check you can leave now… COLD BLOODED
@NIK: You already know Im about to go talk to folk like…I saw “NIKKI” around 3:45pm”….yeah..hunh…wha? I was in the bathroom…..You sure you saw Nik in the restroom??????? LOL!
@Jaxon(Check me out!)
“a man who WANTS girls how refreshing!! I wanted a boy but my lil princess is my everything…I will do anything for her and she knows it!”
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I meant to respond to something you said earlier but got sidetracked. I’m trying to do way too much.
Yes, I definetly want girls. I would LOVE to spoil them. Don’t get me wrong, I would be greatful for either and just pray for good health. I would prefer a girl though.
LOL. You know, the lord doesn’t make any mistakes. If I had a daughter I would be locked up. I can be very short tempered about the females in my family. Not my mom or my aunt (who raised me) cause they can definitely handle their own. But I swear, if nucca try to do something to my cousins its goin be some *****. PERIOD. They like my sisters.
Ain’t scared of court either.
I moved my whole life for HER. I might change my gravvy to her..
@ Man,
“I’m not giving up hope that she will change her mind because that’s a BIG thing for me to give up.”
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But thats it…you dont want her to change her mind for you, cause she know thats what you want so she’s doing it for you when she really dont want it…cause the first thing that gonna happen is resentment if and when things dont work out between yall. She’ll feel like, now i’m stuck with two kids (knowing i aint want no more, but i did it for him). She needs to come to that desire on her own, with or without you, she’s got to want to have kids. I mean you dont wanna stay with her just because of the baby anyway, so dont force her into something just for your own selfish reasons. And men be quick to say well she know i’ma take care of my child (and hers) regardless if we’re together or not. But its not the same thing. her wanting anothe baby when she’s with you is different from her wanting another baby period. If she cant honestly say, yes i want another child with or without you, then she’s doing it FOR you and if things dont work out, you’ll feel guilty.
@2cute4u
@ All,
True love? What is it? I wonder if there is a such thing. I think LOVE and the measure of love is different for every one. I’ve been in love before. Can i say whether or not it was true love? I dont know. The man i’m with right now, i love him to death. Would do just about anything for him, but do i know if its true love? Nope. Do i know if he’s “the one”…nope. I know i care about him enough to want him to do well, and willing to help him. And i think he feels the same. But i dont know if i believe in that whole soul mate thing? I do know that the shyt is a struggle, it takes work, just like everything else. A relationship is work. You’ve got to put in the time and effort
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that’s the thing,love is not something to figure out-its something you just do.you love him,he loves you,what’s to figure out?Go with the flow,love him and allow him to love you.
@ Rozza
Insightful
@ Man
What did I say earlier?
My cousins are like that about me, they have no sisters so me and mine are it. BOth are well over 6 feet and let a guy act wrong it’s all bad for that guy
Yea my daughter’s father is the same way…I can see the seen from Bad Boys II playing right now when a dude tries to take her on a date…
I am cool with his fam so me and his sisters all went out kickin it (the youngest is 18 but we got her in) he happened to be at same place and was acting a FOOL about her being in there and he was watchin her and whatnot…
@CATEYE: that’s the thing,love is not something to figure out-its something you just do.you love him,he loves you,what’s to figure out?Go with the flow,love him and allow him to love you.
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~~~Wink Wink~~~! That’s what I’ve been saying all along, I just took the long way about it! LOL!
@DANA DANE and CAT EYES
Yup. She has one child and doesn’t want anymore. I do think that if we were married she would at least be more open to it.
We’ve talked about it. Not as fully as we should have. I guess the question is “Is it a make or break for the r/ship?” The answer from me is yes…. I think so. For her, I’m not sure. Right now we are both trying to make sure our money is right so that’s what we’ve been discussing. Not so much having money “right” for us, but for the people around us too.
Cosign Kesha 3:42
She might change her mind but would it be for the right reasons? That’s a recipe for disater right there…all sorts of feelings of anger, resentment, desperation, hopelessness toward you and the child. Be very careful what you wish for in that situation
KZZ….LOL!!! “she had on those blk, gray and pink Converse”….NIGHT MA!!
Night yall!!!
Jaxon… Ill give you real one once you hit me up..
youapaperchaser@aol.com
Man, I just don’t care(Check me out!)
@DANA DANE and CAT EYES
Yup. She has one child and doesn’t want anymore. I do think that if we were married she would at least be more open to it.
We’ve talked about it. Not as fully as we should have. I guess the question is “Is it a make or break for the r/ship?” The answer from me is yes…. I think so. For her, I’m not sure. Right now we are both trying to make sure our money is right so that’s what we’ve been discussing. Not so much having money “right” for us, but for the people around us too.
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That’s a decision that needs to be settled upon way before rings are exchanged. That is a tough situation for you…
@ Cat Eyes,
“Go with the flow,love him and allow him to love you.”
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Really? You think its that simple? maybe it is, maybe i complicate things too much. I wanna just let go and trust God (and him, lol) but i’ve been hurt before and that junk HURTS LIKE HELL, so i try to protect my heart VERY MUCH!
@nikki BYE!
But thats it…you dont want her to change her mind for you, cause she know thats what you want so she’s doing it for you when she really dont want it…cause the first thing that gonna happen is resentment if and when things dont work out between yall. She’ll feel like, now i’m stuck with two kids (knowing i aint want no more, but i did it for him). She needs to come to that desire on her own, with or without you, she’s got to want to have kids. I mean you dont wanna stay with her just because of the baby anyway, so dont force her into something just for your own selfish reasons. And men be quick to say well she know i’ma take care of my child (and hers) regardless if we’re together or not. But its not the same thing. her wanting anothe baby when she’s with you is different from her wanting another baby period. If she cant honestly say, yes i want another child with or without you, then she’s doing it FOR you and if things dont work out, you’ll feel guilty.
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Believe me… I know. And the would be last thing I would want is for her to have a baby and then resent it.
Funny, that’s kinda how I wound up with my aunt. I was my parents third child. I came RIGHT after my brother. I was the “mistake.” Anyway, my Aunt was supposed to help for “a while” and I never went back.
@NIKU: BYE! I’ll call you! ~~wink~~
@ Man
Not for nothing that a seriuos topic that shouldnt be left up in the air, I know u may be worried cause it seems like u love her, but that is a make or break topic, it would be one thing if u didnt want any of ur own but u do and although u may love her child like she or he is ur own thae fact of the matter is him/her isnt n that will always be in the back of ur head. ***** like that has a habbit of turning into resentment. why doesnt she want anymore anyway?
Man I think you have been elevated from my Bossip crush to my bossip true love LMAO
Any big plans for the holiday weekend ladies?
@DANA DANE
Please express your opinion. You know I don’t get offended easily. Bossip isn’t for the faint of heart.
Damn its like 5 different conversations going on in here lol I wish all these Gravatars were webcams so I can see the expression on some people faces w/ these topics… lol
@2 cute was supposed to go home but now I dont know. If I stay I think I’ll take my baby to the new waterpark down here…
@Man: No such thing as a human being that is loved, and cared for as being a “mistake”. Hitting someone in the back of the ankle with a shopping cart while distracted is a mistake. Ordering a shirt from an online site without double-checking the size and getting it waaay too small is a mistake.
You, my friend, are a gift from God, as we all are, and we are here for a reason. You may have had a biological mother, but God saw your aunt’s need, and provided you in her life. So you are by no means a mistake.
Aight back in this joint
Somebody hit me with the update
@ Man
before i do i let u know my thoughts on the subjet, how old are u and would u consider urself successful(be honest)?
@IF I MULTIPLY 2X’s 2 IS IT REALLY, REALLY 4 ME(sxyQblondie glad itssss friday, got a lil red dress!!yeahhhhh)(Check me out!)
@M-DADDY
YOU CAN CHOOSE AS MANY AS YOU WANT
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Ok so let me get this straight I have to choose who I have a crush on, tell you how I would do it and what else???
@ Man,
“Funny, that’s kinda how I wound up with my aunt. I was my parents third child. I came RIGHT after my brother. I was the “mistake.” Anyway, my Aunt was supposed to help for “a while” and I never went back.”
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Damn, really. How do you deal with that? Are you and your parents close? (if i’m not getting too personal)
@DANA DANE
“Not for nothing that a seriuos topic that shouldnt be left up in the air, I know u may be worried cause it seems like u love her, but that is a make or break topic, it would be one thing if u didnt want any of ur own but u do and although u may love her child like she or he is ur own thae fact of the matter is him/her isnt n that will always be in the back of ur head. ***** like that has a habbit of turning into resentment. why doesnt she want anymore anyway?”
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I think she just had to endure a lot with her first child. She had her in high school and the baby daddy ain’t *****. She LOVE her daughter but I don’t think she wants to endure that again.
Adding to this is that she is my best friend. I talk to her (and my brother and cousin) EVERYDAY. No matter what. Some people will say anything but I know we are going to be friends the rest of our lives. I couldn’t imagine not having her in my life so I def. don’t want any resentment between us.
I’ve caught her saying a couple of times she wish she had a little boy. LOL.
What ya’ll doin?
Better enjoy this holiday weekend and the paid day off monday…..it is our last until Thanksgiving!!
@ Man,
I’ve caught her saying a couple of times she wish she had a little boy. LOL.”
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See, thats what makes me think that yes, she probably (could) want more kids, but her first evperienc was so bad, she doesn’t want to take the chance. If the right man came along and she was guaranteed success this time around(meaning she was 110% sure that she wouldn’t go through it alone, ever, and that no matter what, her child would have a father there EVERYDAY) she’d do it. But the thing is that no one can be THAT sure. Thats the same way it is for me. So, i’d rather just not have anymore. But again, once i married and settled and i know i’m with the man i’m gonna spend the rest of my life with (if i’m not too old by then, lol) then i’d have another one
@Man
My advice (which is not mandatory u take), u need to talk to her, i understand shes been in ur life for a while but so what? that ***** dont change a pamper when it comes to things like this, just be on the safe side cause if she means as much to u as u say she does then u want to keep it that way
Really? You think its that simple? maybe it is, maybe i complicate things too much. I wanna just let go and trust God (and him, lol) but i’ve been hurt before and that junk HURTS LIKE HELL, so i try to protect my heart VERY MUCH!
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Listen,you can’t love and protect your heart at the same time-while you’re *****yzing all of these things,life is p*****ing you by.You must experience hurt-you’re human,there can be no protection from that.Every man loves differently,some will always say it,some will never say it but his actions will show it.Trusting in God is your best solution-when you sit back and just let yourself be loved without questioning everything,you will see the difference in your relationship and you will see the way your man responds to it.
@ROZZA
“No such thing as a human being that is loved, and cared for as being a “mistake”. Hitting someone in the back of the ankle with a shopping cart while distracted is a mistake. Ordering a shirt from an online site without double-checking the size and getting it waaay too small is a mistake.
You, my friend, are a gift from God, as we all are, and we are here for a reason. You may have had a biological mother, but God saw your aunt’s need, and provided you in her life. So you are by no means a mistake.”
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LOL. That’s why I put the word “mistake” in quotes. I guess I should have said “unplanned.”
If anything I can’t imagine how it could have worked out better. My Aunt never had any children of her own and I don’t see how anyone can love someone more than she loves me. My parents divorced (I know partially due to my birth) so my Mom already had two other to take care of. I know under different cir*****stances she would have kept me but I liken it the wise King Solemn that asked the two mothers to split the baby in half. A loving mother would do what’s best for their child regardless of how it affects them.
Damn its like 5 different conversations going on in here lol I wish all these Gravatars were webcams so I can see the expression on some people faces w/ these topics… lol
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LOL! There’s always at least five different convo’s goin’ on in here! Pick one!
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dapro11(Check me out!)
Aight back in this joint
Somebody hit me with the update
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Fidelity, love, sex, relationships, lust, etc you name it!I guess it just depends on where you stand on these topics!
This has taken a turn for the deep…and I think I like it..anyone else care for a “turn on the couch”
Grrr…I want my new gravvy up
@KESHA
“Damn, really. How do you deal with that? Are you and your parents close? (if i’m not getting too personal)”
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HA HA. It’s cool. My mother is the sweetest person. I know everyone thinks that about their mother but I swear. Love her to death.
My Dad aight. I mean we cool and all. I don’t hate him. I know at the time my mom couldn’t handle three children by herself. Sometimes you have to be strong enough to admit you need help.
It was really like having 3 parents…
@JAXON
“This has taken a turn for the deep…and I think I like it..anyone else care for a “turn on the couch””
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Yeah, how the hell did I end up on the couch? I hate being *****yzed.
Your turn. How old is your baby? How is your relationship with baby daddy?
Listen,you can’t love and protect your heart at the same time-while you’re *****yzing all of these things,life is p*****ing you by.You must experience hurt-you’re human,there can be no protection from that.Every man loves differently,some will always say it,some will never say it but his actions will show it.Trusting in God is your best solution-when you sit back and just let yourself be loved without questioning everything,you will see the difference in your relationship and you will see the way your man responds to it.
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@cat eyes
but don’t you think you have to hold something back? Its hard to give and give and give. Sometimes I feel like I’m loving more than I’m being loved ya know…(seeking advice)!
@DANA DANE
“before i do i let u know my thoughts on the subjet, how old are u and would u consider urself successful(be honest)?”
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I’m 28.
Success is a journey, not a destination. So no, I’m not “successful” because I have a bunch of goals I want to acheive. That’s not to say I haven’t acheived some of my goals…. but you have to always be setting new ones.
Man, I just don’t care(Check me out!)
@JAXON
“This has taken a turn for the deep…and I think I like it..anyone else care for a “turn on the couch””
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Yeah, how the hell did I end up on the couch? I hate being *****yzed.
Your turn. How old is your baby? How is your relationship with baby daddy?
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She is 2, will be 3 Nov 3rd.
He and I are good..not together..but good. He takes care of her so that’s all I ask. Until recently I really hoped we could work things out and be a family but it aint gonna happen. I think I was trying to force something that really was not there anymore.
I know he’d do anything for me and vice versa but “In love” just is not there and I really question if it ever was.
We were still hooking up until recently, I just realized it was not healthy for me.
Damn here we go…we’re all on the couch up in here!
@Man I just don’t care
You’re dealing with an emotionally scarred woman-her heart wants to be with you and have more children but her head is trying to tell her it will turn out the same way again-at this point she is listening to her head and thats kind of sad because I’ve never seen anyone in life that was happy when they tried to use logic over the heart.You have your work cut out for you.However,I’m reading the undertones in your writing-you love her!!!!
@ Action Jaxon
Yeah I try to change my Garvvy too. I think the people who run that site went on vacation early lol
@2cute4u
Yeah im trying to figure out which one to jump into lol
@ CAT EYES…
“but don’t you think you have to hold something back? Its hard to give and give and give. Sometimes I feel like I’m loving more than I’m being loved ya know…(seeking advice)!”
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Yes, agreeing, waiting for an answer too! (@2cute, thanks for bringin up that question, lol)
I moved to Columbus (even though we were not together) so my lil one could have a BETTER and DEEPER relationship with him. My dad died in Oct 07 and we did not have a great reltionship and I wanted more for her. He saw her every other week but it’s not the same. I miss home a lot…CO is just different…
I prob wont stay here forever but I know my time here is helping them to build a strong foundation for a father/daughter relationship
@ Man
Ok maybe the word I should’ve used is driven. sooooo what about her would u consider her the same as well as financially and mentally equal?
He and I are good..not together..but good. He takes care of her so that’s all I ask. Until recently I really hoped we could work things out and be a family but it aint gonna happen. I think I was trying to force something that really was not there anymore.
I know he’d do anything for me and vice versa but “In love” just is not there and I really question if it ever was.
We were still hooking up until recently, I just realized it was not healthy for me.
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Jaxson, you just seem like a smart lady! If you can realize when something isn’t good for you and your situation, it shows growth and maturity. Do whats gonna be best for you and your daughter. Thats what I’m gonna do. Have a good weekend guys
dapro
man
Jaxson
anybody that comes in later!
CAT EYES(Check me out!)
@Man I just don’t care
You’re dealing with an emotionally scarred woman-her heart wants to be with you and have more children but her head is trying to tell her it will turn out the same way again-at this point she is listening to her head and thats kind of sad because I’ve never seen anyone in life that was happy when they tried to use logic over the heart.You have your work cut out for you.However,I’m reading the undertones in your writing-you love her!!!!
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Yeah, emotionally scarred women are tough.
You know, I came to that same conclusion. I figured I had to because I can’t see my feelings for her change no matter what. I mean don’t get me wrong… if she called me and said she didn’t want to ***** with me no more I would be hurt/angry…. but if she called me 10 years later i would take her back like nothing ever happened.
@ man
Who is sb?
@ Man,
Oh yeah dude, you are SOOO in love. But your doubting yourself and being weary instead of just letting go and experiencing it for what it is…you’re still searching, when the funny thing is, everything you want, you already have
@Jaxon(Check me out!)
I moved to Columbus (even though we were not together) so my lil one could have a BETTER and DEEPER relationship with him. My dad died in Oct 07 and we did not have a great reltionship and I wanted more for her. He saw her every other week but it’s not the same. I miss home a lot…CO is just different…
I prob wont stay here forever but I know my time here is helping them to build a strong foundation for a father/daughter relationship
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Where did you move from?
Sorry about your Dad but you have the righ objective as far building that relationship with her father. I think so many women try to “punish” their baby daddy’s by denying visitation. If they only realized if they let that relationship grow MOST men would be more than happy to contribute.
Oh yeah. So many fall for that “sex-wit-d-ex” and they wind up getting hurt all over again. 99% of women can’t have sex without emotions getting involved. Men know once their “foot is in the door” they will always have a chance at getting some booty later on.
OKAY, I’M BACK FORGOT TO TELL YOU GUYS I WAS GOING TO LUNCH. LOL.
@M-DADDY
YOU HAVE TO PICK YOUR BOSSIP CRUSHES, AND THEN STATE WHERE YOU CONSIDER THE IDEAL PLACE TO DO THEM AT.(RUN ON FROM YESTERDAYS CONVO SINCE YOU MISSED IT.LOL)
Kesha: My search begins for a Lance Moore jersey (Kesha=Michelle Obama Stan!!)(Check me out!)
“Oh yeah dude, you are SOOO in love. But your doubting yourself and being weary instead of just letting go and experiencing it for what it is…you’re still searching, when the funny thing is, everything you want, you already have”
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LOL, Ok. I guess. You know you got it bad when you put other people before yourself.
I’m calling her to make sure she got her ***** for the storm and I don’t even have water. SMH.
Hey if ya’ll are trying to get your gravies up, when you go to gravatar.com, go to commonly asked questions, you’ll see how do I clear my cache, and click on that, from there follow the instructions how to clear it out and your gravi should come right up after that.
Jaxon(Check me out!)
Who is sb?
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Ok, lost me on this one.
@cat eyes
but don’t you think you have to hold something back? Its hard to give and give and give. Sometimes I feel like I’m loving more than I’m being loved ya know…(seeking advice)!
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If you feel that way,no matter who you’re with,this is an issue within yourself-you see,love does not have logical solutions and why should it?I mean,would we really take chances on it if we knew the outcome beforehand?Look 2 cute,stop dwelling in all the wondering and doubting-God does not give people those kind of thoughts-only Satan does-he likes to see confusion and worry and arguing in the household.Just try it for about 2 weeks,go with the flow with your man,like if he tells you he loves you just say I love you too,allow him to express himself openly,listen to him only with your heart,you will see ,I’m telling you-he will show you sides to him you never saw before.Have you ever seen anything in your life not worth fighting for really worth having?
@DANA DANE
“Ok maybe the word I should’ve used is driven. sooooo what about her would u consider her the same as well as financially and mentally equal?”
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Yeah, we def. have similar views. Like I said we are best friends. I’m so proud of her. She had to get her GED after she got preg. in High School. This past summer she got her Master’s and considering her PhD
Where did you move from?
Sorry about your Dad but you have the righ objective as far building that relationship with her father. I think so many women try to “punish” their baby daddy’s by denying visitation. If they only realized if they let that relationship grow MOST men would be more than happy to contribute.
Oh yeah. So many fall for that “sex-wit-d-ex” and they wind up getting hurt all over again. 99% of women can’t have sex without emotions getting involved. Men know once their “foot is in the door” they will always have a chance at getting some booty later on.
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Not far just from Cle to CO. See I was not emotionally attached when I was in Cle, I could not care less. And even when I first moved I still did not care…But too much stuff started mimicking our past. I never thought anything of us doing things the 3 of us…I think that is good for her. But he and I would do stuff together, even when she was no where around and THAT is where things started to feel complicated…
@ man,
Are you a stan of sb?
@IF I MULTIPLY 2X’s 2 IS IT REALLY, REALLY 4 ME(sxyQblondie glad itssss friday, got a lil red dress!!yeahhhhh)
@M-DADDY
YOU HAVE TO PICK YOUR BOSSIP CRUSHES, AND THEN STATE WHERE YOU CONSIDER THE IDEAL PLACE TO DO THEM AT.(RUN ON FROM YESTERDAYS CONVO SINCE YOU MISSED IT.LOL)
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Ok I got cha. Now just to let you ladies know this is in no particular order.
Since I’m addressing you I will start with you. I would take you to a restuarant that has locking bathroom doors sit you on the sink and eat you like a ribeye steak smothered in A-1 sauce. Then I bend you over the sink and make you look at our reflextions in the mirror and go as deep as I can get
I will be right back. So you other ladies get ready for a the Adventures Of M-Daddy’s Bossip sex crushes LOL
@M-DADDY
I HAVE THE STUDDER TYPE SYNDROME OVER HERE AFTER READING YOUR COMMENT..(picking myself up out of the office floor after falling from my chair because of mmmm mmmmm mmmmm m-daddy’s comment..lol) WHOAAAA M-DADDY. FINE WAY TO GET A GIRL THROWN OUT OF THE OFFICE!!(LMAO..someone get me one of those church fans with MLK’s photo on the front..lol i need to cool off)
@Jaxon
“Not far just from Cle to CO. See I was not emotionally attached when I was in Cle, I could not care less. And even when I first moved I still did not care…But too much stuff started mimicking our past. I never thought anything of us doing things the 3 of us…I think that is good for her. But he and I would do stuff together, even when she was no where around and THAT is where things started to feel complicated…”
“Are you a stan of sb?”
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LOL. I know what you mean. That’s how it was for me too. At first a group of us would go out after work. Slowly it dwindled down to 5….4…3 and finally it was just us. We were going to everything together. Def a “slippery slope” LOL
So aren’t you dating someone now? What’s up with him?
My birthday is Nov 6.
What is “sb?”
Mdaddy is keeping everyone in suspence!
Since I’m addressing you I will start with you. I would take you to a restuarant that has locking bathroom doors sit you on the sink and eat you like a ribeye steak smothered in A-1 sauce. Then I bend you over the sink and make you look at our reflextions in the mirror and go as deep as I can get
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OMFG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!THATS HOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!DAMN SXY Q WHAT ARE YOU DOING TO THESE MENFOLK UP IN HERE GIRL!!!!!!??????
@2CUTE
GIRL, THE QUESTION IS, WHAT FOLK TRYING TO DO TO ME?(LMAO) I DONT HAVE HYPERTENSION, BUT THEY GOING TO MAKE ME END UP TAKING HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE PILLS FOR NO REASON AFTER READING SOME OF THIS STUFF.LOL
LOL. I know what you mean. That’s how it was for me too. At first a group of us would go out after work. Slowly it dwindled down to 5….4…3 and finally it was just us. We were going to everything together. Def a “slippery slope” LOL
So aren’t you dating someone now? What’s up with him?
My birthday is Nov 6.
What is “sb?”
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My bday is the Nov 23
No, I am not seeing anyone specifically right now. I have been “dating” here and there but no one is the MAIN one
When I do date it’s when I go back to CLE cause in CO brothas ONLY swirl.
I am focusing on being a mommy and trying to make our lives better. If someone comes along, I am open to it…
I was messing around clicking on everyone “check me out” and under yours it says jcstansb…I was *****uming you were jc were of stan of sb…
Ok guys, I’m Audi 5000! Everyone have a safe and enjoyable weekend.
@Man, I hope you’re prepared for Gustav…be safe and most of all, be smart, lol! (dont stay…run, run as far and as fast as you can)
Lata folks. lol!
If you feel that way,no matter who you’re with,this is an issue within yourself-you see,love does not have logical solutions and why should it?I mean,would we really take chances on it if we knew the outcome beforehand?Look 2 cute,stop dwelling in all the wondering and doubting-God does not give people those kind of thoughts-only Satan does-he likes to see confusion and worry and arguing in the household.Just try it for about 2 weeks,go with the flow with your man,like if he tells you he loves you just say I love you too,allow him to express himself openly,listen to him only with your heart,you will see ,I’m telling you-he will show you sides to him you never saw before.Have you ever seen anything in your life not worth fighting for really worth having?
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Thanks for the advice. You know you are really insightful, are you a counselor or something? I like wise women, and you are wise…I’m going to pray about it.
I MULTIPLY 2X’s 2 IS IT REALLY, REALLY 4 ME(sxyQblondie glad itssss friday, got a lil red dress!!yeahhhhh)(Check me out!)
@M-DADDY
I HAVE THE STUDDER TYPE SYNDROME OVER HERE AFTER READING YOUR COMMENT..(picking myself up out of the office floor after falling from my chair because of mmmm mmmmm mmmmm m-daddy’s comment..lol) WHOAAAA M-DADDY. FINE WAY TO GET A GIRL THROWN OUT OF THE OFFICE!!(LMAO..someone get me one of those church fans with MLK’s photo on the front..lol i need to cool off)
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LMAO my first thought was “Well Damn”
I forgot MDaddy did say yesterday he goes down right out the gate…
@JAXON
I MISSED THAT ONE. MMMMM MMMMMMM MMMMM M-DADDY IS OFF THE CHAIN!!(still fanning myself with church fan..lol)
IF I MULTIPLY 2X’s 2 IS IT REALLY, REALLY 4 ME(sxyQblondie glad itssss friday, got a lil red dress!!yeahhhhh)(Check me out!)
@2CUTE
GIRL, THE QUESTION IS, WHAT FOLK TRYING TO DO TO ME?(LMAO) I DONT HAVE HYPERTENSION, BUT THEY GOING TO MAKE ME END UP TAKING HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE PILLS FOR NO REASON AFTER READING SOME OF THIS STUFF.LOL
LOL!!!!You know you got that mojo girl! Niccas be up in here feening for sxyQ! You gotta admit though…thats some hot sex right there!(throwing you a high five)!
What really sux about our relationship is I am so close with his family. They are like my own…I feel for any woman who comes in after me. It will be VERY hard on her…
I claim his sisters…I’m on his moms Sam’s CLub membership for land sakes…
@2CUTE
GIRL, (hi-fiving back) I HAVE NO WORDS(LMAO). I JUST HAVE NO WORDS.
Honestly ladies, how many of ya’ll are gonna fantasize about your man doin’ that ish tonight? Yeah…me too dammit!!!!
I’m suppose to be gone, damn Mdaddy!! Got ME sweatin’ up in here.
What’s taking him so long to come back…I get off work soon..I wanna hear part 2
This is just like Trapped in the Closet
My bday is the Nov 23
No, I am not seeing anyone specifically right now. I have been “dating” here and there but no one is the MAIN one
When I do date it’s when I go back to CLE cause in CO brothas ONLY swirl.
I am focusing on being a mommy and trying to make our lives better. If someone comes along, I am open to it…
I was messing around clicking on everyone “check me out” and under yours it says jcstansb…I was *****uming you were jc were of stan of sb…
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So you and your baby are Scorpios? We couldn’t make it because that would make 3 and that ***** would be dangerous. LOL.
I woulda MADE you my main piece… or kept trying. It’s hard for me to casually do something. I’m either all in or all out.
I know I’m a dude but I just don’t notice too much swirl action… for guys or girls. I don’t know if it more prevalent up north or not but I don’t NOTICE it as much down south. Could be me.
Oh yeah. I feel you. PLUS you have to be EXTRA careful who you let in your life because they are also entering “little Jaxon’s” life. Even if it is indirectly.
LOL. I have no idea how to use “check me out” or “sez who.” I wanted to change my gravie but I think it’s just too much work. JCSTANB was an old code from an old job I had. We had to use it sooooo much. Anyway, I kept using it. I have it for email and sign ons and stuff because I know i won’t forget it.
**KESHA**
JCSTANSB is coded-partially my name.
@MAN I JUST
ALL YOU SEE IS PEOPLE SWIRLING AROUND IN VA. IT’S BECOME THE DAIRY QUEEN OF SWIRLING. ME, I’VE NEVER BEEN WITH ANYONE OUTSIDE OF MY RACE. PERIOD. I’M NOT PREJUDICE AT ALL. I JUST LOVE A BLACK MAN ALL TOGETHER.
nice hoops
What’s taking him so long to come back…I get off work soon..I wanna hear part 2
This is just like Trapped in the Closet
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LMAO! I know thats right girl! Hell I’m at home and I’m soooooo anxious!
So you and your baby are Scorpios? We couldn’t make it because that would make 3 and that ***** would be dangerous. LOL.
I woulda MADE you my main piece… or kept trying. It’s hard for me to casually do something. I’m either all in or all out.
I know I’m a dude but I just don’t notice too much swirl action… for guys or girls. I don’t know if it more prevalent up north or not but I don’t NOTICE it as much down south. Could be me.
Oh yeah. I feel you. PLUS you have to be EXTRA careful who you let in your life because they are also entering “little Jaxon’s” life. Even if it is indirectly.
LOL. I have no idea how to use “check me out” or “sez who.” I wanted to change my gravie but I think it’s just too much work. JCSTANB was an old code from an old job I had. We had to use it sooooo much. Anyway, I kept using it. I have it for email and sign ons and stuff because I know i won’t forget it.
**KESHA**
JCSTANSB is coded-partially my name
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I am not a scorpio I am a Sag
Men I date do not meet my child PERIOD. He was w/ a chick for over a year and she never met her. We got to be close to ring status for that and he meets them first.
I have male friends (that are JUST) friends that have been around, like at their kids’ bday or something but I even keep that to a minimum
It’s not like that in CLE, it’s a mix of both. Swirl dont bother me but in CO it is seriously almost EXCLUSIVE swirl.
I got no prob being a MAIN piece if dude is on point. But so far they have not been so we keep it casual
Aight people it’s time for me to head out! Have a safe weekend!
Jaxon you are next just give me about 5 more minutes
jaxon, 2 late 4 me wow u and lauren can can change a nicca ways.
I am not a scorpio I am a Sag
Men I date do not meet my child PERIOD. He was w/ a chick for over a year and she never met her. We got to be close to ring status for that and he meets them first.
I have male friends (that are JUST) friends that have been around, like at their kids’ bday or something but I even keep that to a minimum
It’s not like that in CLE, it’s a mix of both. Swirl dont bother me but in CO it is seriously almost EXCLUSIVE swirl.
I got no prob being a MAIN piece if dude is on point. But so far they have not been so we keep it casual
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Sorry, didn’t check the dates on the Sag. I *****oicate Nov=Scorpio. LOL. I know that ain’t right either.
You know that’s the right way to look at it. You don’t know if someone crazy or not. If I had children I would ULTRA selective about who they are around…. especially men. ***** that includes relatives. A ***** not gettin no ***** the most dangerous thing on the planet. Keep that in mind with you daughter. Real talk.
Don’t understand the “swirl.” I mean I could ***** but I don’t know bout wifin em up. Them hoes do anything…. I know no all but a lot.
What’s on point to you? I mean, I ain’t sayin I’m perfect but I’m going to win the battles that I can win. I’ma stay in shape, keep my money right, and don’t do ***** KNOWN to ***** over you (drink,gamble drugs). Don’t seem that hard to em.
miss jaxon = a mixture of Sanaa Lathan and Hoopz.
Back again
Damn I did a light recap
I see the temp is still hot in this joint
I’m back yall, who is still here?
she’s looking good to me. I rather see her all natural though, I’m not with the make up kit.
She looks like a damn man in the face. Cute figure tho.
>>>>>>>>>>>> Aw Man Hoops is CUTE….<<<<<<<<<<
Flav knows how to pick them
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Nice touch King! I guess balloons with a blue background is the new thing now!smdh
She’s a work of art.
She has on way too much make-up and she has an athletic shaped body!Ewww
Yeaah I dont too much give a damn about this either..you know what im begging to discover? this ***** is boring..really who gives a damn?! about any of this crap..what a consuming way to waste time, on some of the most useless information possible?! Im gonna have to unplug myself from the feeder, and reclaim my idle time cuz this is rigoddamndiculous… no offense but once you realize youre taking time out of youre life to comment of the event of a strangers’ life..that has to be a sobering experience..and dont give me that “im bored Im at work” bullcrap, either y’all work 24 hours, dont have a damn job, or on the fast track to the unemployment office..maybe im not the e-meet and greet type of person ..I spend all my life trying to avoid the company of idiots and then chose to emmerce myself in the damn bottomless ocean of morons that is the internet -no offense..hell if it dont apply let it fly! dont mind me im just thinkin..and thats all I have to say about that
Fin-
Sincerely,
the departed Misty Knight (as if you give a damn right!)
*debating on typos * aww screw it who gives a damn!
just wondering, how much these sista’s make “posing” in prestigious magazines such as smooth, king, and xxL?
SERIOUSLY, PEOPLE NEED TO STOP HATING! ESPECIALLY YOU “WHOLESOME/RESPECTABLE” WOMEN OUT HERE THAT ARE JUST LOOSELY HAVING SEX WITH AND SUCKING AND SWALLOWING ANY AND EVERYTHING FROM ALL THESE REGULAR BROKE CATS OUT HERE. EVERYBODY HAS THIER OWN HUSTLE. ALL YOU “CL*****Y” LADIES THAT HAVE THE “AMERICAN” LIFE BUT JUDGE PEOPLE SO MUCH ARE THE SAME *****S THAT DO WHATEVER AND WHOEVER IN YOUR OWN LITTLE WORLDS. NO ONE IS PERFECT. GET A LIFE *****S.
…I like Hoopz a lot, too bad she has a man face though…
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How captivating…
Anything for money,you need to stop!
i like hoops out of all them chicks . Hoops kept it real i mean who in the right mind want flav? Hoops is beautiful and i think some people have been giving her a bad rap. Oh by the way u GO HOOPS ON WINNING I LOVE MONEY. WITH YOUR STRONG AND BEAUTIFUL SELF CONGRATS AND GOD BLESS TO U .