She wasnt allowed in the birthing room???????

What the f*ck was she even doing at the hospital, period!?!?!?

Tiki is ONE dumb n*gga!

I wouldn’t want him around either!

she should have let him in while delivering. that would have justified her beating his a$$ while dealing with the stress of childbirth lol. claw up his arms, throw some sh@# at him, you know…

Congratulations Ginny!

Glad the babies are safe and sound and healthy.

NOW KICK TIKI’S AZZ!!!!

Congratulations Ginny!

Glad the babies are safe and sound and healthy.

NOW KICK TIKI’S AZZ!!!!
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100% Co-sign!

Understandable.

She better than me because I wouldn’t even tell his butt I was in the hospital.

Why did his have this trollup at the hospital? If I was Ginny I would have gotten up out the bed and drop kick that trick right in her jaw.

^^And kick that homewrecking hussy’s azz too, while you’re at it!

What? The man accepted some free azz? It happens. It’s a shame, but IT HAPPENS.

I would have spit my babies out on the front of his 23 year olds jump off’s condo lobby, then rip out the afterbirth and fling it right at the concierge. Make this little scallywag take care of two new born babies while I head off to Dubai and find a real man. Get him Ginny!

ok you got some free azz, why don’t these people know when its time to go home? They just lie up in the azz even after they’ve been caught. smh

LOL…ya’ll crazy.

She might as well have….at least the chick would be in the hospital to get those sutures asap. LOL

I wonder if he will be banned from paying child support. “shrugs”

What a way to get back at the other woman possible future wife. lol Ok, you can have him, but guess what, I want half of all azzets plus double child support. Tiki has to be rethinking that move. If not now, then definitely after a few years of child support payments. Ouch!

I love all of the hateful comments coming from the women. Tiki is and was wrong for his transgretions. But with a scorned women, love is all forgotton. The fact that he tolk care of her refugee A.S.S. for quite awile is now a mute point. She must go after his money, because she can’t hurt him in any other way. Men adjust and move on. Women harbor animosity and hatrid and let it boil withen them. One day most men will begin to see what I see and will be extreemly careful who they let into their lives. They will stop jumping from woman to woman just to have notches in their belts. Then they will search for the right one (female) and shack up with her for a little while, knowing full well that they will never again get married, so as not to have their finances attacked again. Why get married, when you can get YAM any and everywhere that you go? If that (YAM) is the only goal that a man has, he is living in a very shallow world. Woman can identify these men and use that weapon (YAM) on them over and over again. As you see in the case of Tiki Barber.

YES TIKKI WAS DEAD A.S.S HOWEVER TWO WRONGS DON’T MAKE A RIGHT.GINNY NEEDS TO WISEN UP,GET OVER IT AND KEEP IT MOVING. HELL IT ISN’T LIKE HE’S NEVER GONNA SEE THE TWINS,W.T.H.

@Rrrrroe Ski Love- A mind is a terrible thing to waste:

Ummm, I’m sorry. Your husbamd left you for a wh*re WHILE being pregnant. So…sorry for any ill feelings that I may “harbor”. *note sarcasm*

Your post MUST have been for shock value, at best.

What does him taking care of her have to do with anything? She was his wife! Who birthed his boys (right?), and I’m sure took care of home. No wh*re is going to do that…..and as far as taking care of someone….you dont think that this new chick he has isnt going for his pockets, too? Come on SON! She’s probably a waitress at Hooters.

Men are dumb, period.

After the time vested in this marriage she has a right to alimony, child support….and even suing THAT b*tch for the break-up of the marriage! Didnt someone just sue another chick for like 9 million dollats for the same sh*t??

Anyway….get what you deserve Ginny and f*ck that Shrek looking n*gga.

You wanna be a play-er, you gotta pay her! =)

Tiki is still the dad of the twins and if HE WANTS his NEW FUTURE WIFE to be there then DAMMIT she should be there!

just kidding….lol!

@h-town representa and Matix B:

Right! I thought it said that the bobblehead was at the hospital too….smh

Are they’re writers like, 5 years old or what?

*their

BTW I forgot to mention Uncle Russ. I think that he is in the same place as myself and many other men, We are good providers and communicators but are somewhat takin aback by the multiple personalities of women. You know; the what’s yours is mine and what’s mine is mine. After awile you become predictable in your selfish behavior and we soon get tired of it and look for other things that make us happy. This is but one of the reasons why men cheat.

@Rrrrroe Ski Love- A mind is a terrible thing to waste.

Interesting points and some maybe valid, the problem that most people discover is that there is no such thing as the right one, only the right one at the time. Human emotion being what they are, most people change, evolve and grow apart. Ask a number of people who are around you are they happy, not content but happy and see what their answer is.

People are crazy, if you are no longer happy with someone because you are married you must stay with that person. Psychiatrist will tell you staying with someone because of kids is the wrong thing to do. Not condoning what he did with that other lady, but life happens. The sooner people realize it the sooner they can deal with their own lives. His business is no concern of mine, therefore i want judge, condemn or scrutinize him. I guess 95% of the negative comments will probably be from females.

where in this headline does it state the other woman was at the hospital?

There is nothing confusing about that sentence.

“Blond-loving hound” reference is TIKI BARBER!

I hope for their childrens sake they are able to split amicably

@West Indian:

HAHAHAHA….you’re RIGHT!

Hey…I think we ALL thought it was talking about his new chick because I’m sure she’s a blond sl*t. lol

Thanks for pointing that out!

BTW I forgot to mention Uncle Russ. I think that he is in the same place as myself and many other men, We are good providers and communicators but are somewhat takin aback by the multiple personalities of women. You know; the what’s yours is mine and what’s mine is mine. After awile you become predictable in your selfish behavior and we soon get tired of it and look for other things that make us happy. This is but one of the reasons why men cheat.
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Men cheat because most are narcissists. You talk about WOMEN BEING SELFISH…WOOOOW, you’re kidding right?

MATIX B-EEAUTFUL,…GYAL WE GONNA SPIT OUT BETTER S.L.A.N.T EYED BABIES, I PROMISE …AND THEY GONNA BE REAL CHINKY FROM ALL THE CLOUDS WE WILL BE BLOWING IN THE HOUSE RIGHT ,..GORGEOUS?!

Rrrrroe Ski Love- A mind is a terrible thing to waste: Some men cheat because it’s Friday, simple as that. Making excuses for cheating men is never a good look, just like painting all women with the same brush is not a good look either. Cheating is just as selfish as having a “mine is mine” attitude.

As an aside, why does it seem that some of the most bitter, hateful comments on this site come from married men (at least that’s how they’ve identified themselves)? Are you all unhappy in your own marriages and are projecting that negativity?

@West Indian and IHATEBROKEPEOPLE:

LMAO…

Men- are calm when reading this story because a man is a man and probably doesnt see anything wrong with what Tiki did.

Women- all we see is RED right now (lol) because we see a man leaving a wife for a wh*re! That would make any sane women p*ssed off because I’m sure we’ve been through some similar situations with retarded men.

Just saying…..thats how it coulda got misconstrued…..but its all good.

Hi Glok: I almost said your name last night at the wrong time if you get my drift. I gotta start calling my bups GLOK so I don’t get confused.

@Yun Dun Know> You made the comment that men are dumb period. I will partially agree with you on that, but take note to this. We are slowly wisening up and eventually 75% of all woman will be nothing but jumpoffs because of woman like you. I am going through my second divorce and I pay my child support, my kids go to private school, wear the best clothes etc. But they don’t have daddy in the picture because mommies think that daddys aren’t needed. But yet, they need us to now pay child support, allimony, healthcare, education expenses etc. But don’t forget, wer’e not needed. F. you and every woman on earth like you. I have plenty of money (which you can’t get too) I have a Mercedes and a Volvo, I gave my first wife a $300,000 house in Arizona when I divorced her. (The judge didn’t have too order me to do it.) My second wife after the divorce can have the house that we sharred together along with all the furnishings. But guess what, THEY CAN’T HAVE ME. Woman using men for a comeup is getting old real quick. I will never, ever, ever marry again and the loss is on you, because both of them now realize what they once had, is now gone forever.

@ Sydney

It’s very distressing to hear her situation. When women give birth, you are very emotional. And to know that even in the moment you should be relaxing, you have to have your husband’s betrayal spit back on your face. I gave birth to my son last year and I can’t possibly grasp the concept of another woman who was a big culprit in the demise of my relationship, to be lurking around the hospital. My heart goes out to Ginny and any woman who has been put in this situation by a man who had no control of his little friend below.

LOL. Can everyone please stop saying the other woman was there. No she wasn’t. and a lot of yall need to read for comprehension.

@Sydney™
5/28/10, 12:30:pm
As an aside, why does it seem that some of the most bitter, hateful comments on this site come from married men (at least that’s how they’ve identified themselves)? Are you all unhappy in your own marriages and are projecting that negativity?
> YES

MATIX B
NOO LOVE, DONT EVEN DO IT TO YOUR SELF ,…THERE ONLY ONE GLOK THE C.O.K AROUND HERE,…NOBODY PUT IT DOWN LIKE ME ,..CUZ ONLY GLOK CAN DO IT TO YOU…THE PROPER WAY !

@Rrrrroe Ski Love- A mind is a terrible thing to waste.

“I am going through my second divorce and I pay my child support, my kids go to private school, wear the best clothes etc. But they don’t have daddy in the picture because mommies think that daddys aren’t needed. But yet, they need us to now pay child support, allimony, healthcare, education expenses etc. But don’t forget, wer’e not needed. F. you and every woman on earth like you.”

OK, this puts your comments today and on past days into context. I understand the ire now.

I think some individuals use the site as a sounding board when a licensed professional may be more beneficial to discuss and address the anger.

” Are you all unhappy in your own marriages and are projecting that negativity?
> YES”

Alright, I can plainly see that, but please understand that not all black women, or women, in general, for the matter, including the ones who post on this site, are your soon-to-be-ex-wife. Spewing vitriol will not solve your problems.

Good luck with properly addressing your current marital turmoil.

@LaDiva

“It’s very distressing to hear her situation. When women give birth, you are very emotional.”

Yes, from all I’ve heard, that’s very true, and the birth of a child should be one of happiest days of your life. It shouldn’t be accompanied by unnecessary stress and emotional turmoil.

Glok: Ok he’s cut off. Him neva get dis pum pum again and I will neva give way ur pum pum again. Mi a hol it an keep it pon lock down zeen?

The atmosphere on here is toxic, isn’t it?

@ Sydney

It should be a happy moment. Instead it’s being tarnished by a jumpoff with no regard for another woman.

He is the worst thing going! Tops all them dogs out there…..

I FEEL YOU RRROE IM GOING THROUGH THAT SAME CHIT WITH MY MINES TOO ,..THEY ONLY WANT THE MONEY ,…BUT WE CAME TO AN UNDERSTANDING THAT IM HERE FOR MORE THE JUST THE FINACE BYTCH I WANT TO TEACH MY SON AND YOU BETTER NOT EVER PUT ANOTHER PHUKKA IN MY PLACE EITHER …YOU PHUK WO YOU WANNA THATZ MY SON AND IM GONNA TEACH HIM AND RAISE HIM AS SUCH ,….THE PHUKKING COURT IZ ON THEY SIDE PERIOD ! BE STRONG BRO ,..AND SHOW YOUR FACE ,..PHUK THAT YOU PAYING !

FYI: Women do need to start making their own money and stop depending on a man for stability. Most women have realized that this type of attitude attracts the wrong type of man. For the ones who haven’t gotten the memo: get with the program.
Women: If we want equality, pick up the faqing tab once in a while; show your man some extra love ever now and then. Don’t look for financial gain in your relationship and show your man that you can fend for yourself. That’s when a guy will recognize the quality women he has and not feel a way to come out of his pocket!

@ Matix B

Absolutely. It should be 50/50.

Wow, many revelations have been revealed in this thread…I am now beginning to understand some of the bitter comments that were previously made by male posters…please go talk to a shrink very soon…trust ME, it helps more than you can know…

A picture of a happy black family: Rich black and non black wife, and beautiful mix race kids that have not an ounce of kinky and picky hair.

Another question I have is how can some of you possibly preach about racial unity when you seem to have targeted one gender for your antipathy? One day you’re posting about the ills of our community, and the next day, you’re castigating members of your own race. It doesn’t make sense.

@Caramel Cat
How are you doing today, beautiful?? I’m like a old lady and I love my cats but the Caramel Cat is my favorite.. Your husband is a lucky man!!

@Glok… Harlemz Finest ..Game Over You lose!
5/28/10, 12:56:pm
I FEEL YOU RRROE IM GOING THROUGH THAT SAME CHIT WITH MY MINES TOO ,..THEY ONLY WANT THE MONEY ,…BUT WE CAME TO AN UNDERSTANDING THAT IM HERE FOR MORE THE JUST THE FINACE BYTCH I WANT TO TEACH MY SON AND YOU BETTER NOT EVER PUT ANOTHER PHUKKA IN MY PLACE EITHER …YOU PHUK WO YOU WANNA THATZ MY SON AND IM GONNA TEACH HIM AND RAISE HIM AS SUCH ,….THE PHUKKING COURT IZ ON THEY SIDE PERIOD ! BE STRONG BRO ,..AND SHOW YOUR FACE ,..PHUK THAT YOU PAYING !
> Thanks Bro! I need the encouragement, the women just don’t get it. I am one of the good ones that they speak about, but don’t appreciate him when they get him. I have learned that a woman is never satisfied. I have my kidds for a month out of the summer and visit them and attempt to make up for thier emptyness of not having a father around, but it never can replace being there.

@Caramel Cat
How are you doing today, beautiful?? I’m like an old lady and I love my cats but the Caramel Cat is my favorite.. Your husband is a lucky man!!

Hey Syd!

@Realist

Thanks hon….

On another note, there’s a certain spam poster here that’s only trying to stir the pot of dung…I’m going to go back to lurking…I want to ENJOY my Friday!

cold-blooded.

PLZ LADIES WITH THAT BULLCHIT, ITS NOT BITTER ITZ FACT IF YOU DONT KNOW A CHIC LIKE THAT ??… WHO ONLY WANTS THE BABY AND NOT THE MAN ,..THEY CALL 911 ON YOUR BLK AZZ IN A MIN …KICK YOU OUT YOU OWN HOUSE ,,..AND YOU DO AND DID EVERYTHING TO PROVIDE AND SUPPORT AND YOUR FAMILY …SHE STILL WANT YOU AZZ OU ,..BUT SHOW HER THE MONEY ,..THIS NOT ABOUT YOU WOMEN STICKING TOGETHER HERE

..RRROE-SKI IZ A GOOD BRO ON HERE ALWAYS SAYING POSITIVE CHIT ABOUT BLK WOMAN A ND OUR PPL AND CRISIS,..UNDERSTAND HIM SISTAZ, AND STOP JUDGING US !

@Caramel

Yeah, I se the spam poster who, apparently, has a very disappointed mother, from the posts I read from last night, lol.

@Caramel Cat
I peep you’re a 80z baby – and I think You and I can talk on a level.. What attracted you to husband??? I’m just trying to peep what good women look out for in men….. I ain’t even gonna lie – I attract a lot of drama queens and wh@res – I’m just trying to step up my playa’s card another notch….

@Sydney™
5/28/10, 13:19:pm
Um, you all do realize that more women are marrying men who earn less (particularly in our community in which I believe there are actually more employed, in addition to being college-educated, women than men — I can post Census stats, if you like), so there are women who are also in a position to have their earnings and a-s-s-e-t-s affected in the event of a divorce.

All the women I know are financially independent — and proud to be so — and depend on no man for the roof over their heads, the clothes on their backs, and other necessities and luxuries.
> Yeah your right! My point exactly-Women after achieving certain financial status, become extreemly picky and can’t find a man to fulfill those needs, because the new found independance clouds their rational thinking. I have had money for quite some time now, and find it to be more of a burden if not hidden properly, because you never really know people’s intentions. I have been paying and willfully do so because it is my responsability to take care of my offspring. Women contrive to get support from men and know what that is like. After they get finacially independant they would go absolutely crazy if a man came after their stacks. Therfore they don’t marry-HOW SAD!

@Sydney™
I will lay a thousand dollars to one, that you are single, between the ages of 28 to 36 and independant and don’t need a man, but secretly inside you would like to have one. Damn that hit home didn’t it.

RRROE LOOK BLK, YOU CAN NEVER UNDERSTAND WOMAN …CUZ WE’D ALL BE RICH … THATZ SOMETHING YOU AND I AND EVERY MAN ON THIS EARTH WILL NEVER GET ….THEY CHANGE LIKE THE SEASONS…AND THAT ON A DAILY BASIS,..WHEN YOU FINDETH A WIFE YOU SUPPOSE TO FIND A GOOD THING ,…ONLY GOOD THING IZ YOU BETTER HAVE SOME MNEY …BLKMAN DONT LET NO MAN TEACH OR RAISE YOUR SEED ,.BE THERE FOR EVERY BDAY PARTY, EVENTS ,..OR TRIPS YOU CAN BE INVITED ON ..STAY IN THEY LIFE ,..MAKE SURE THE WIFEY DONT POISON THEY YOUNG MINDS WITH NEGATIVE CHIT ABOUT YOU!

These side hoes have a capital S across their chest these days. My daughter was giving birth to a still born baby and this trollip troll hoodrat showed up at the hospital while my daughter was holding her dead baby. I sent a warning that I was on my way to the hospital and that someone needed to call the ER and tell them to ready a bed for this H–. And don’t forget to alert the Morgue of her in-coming.I was going to do to her what my daughter was not physically able to do in her time of morning her child. This heffa was going to be standing before God before he got the news. Take the man if you want him because the same way you got him is the same way you will lose him.

The boys are cute.

@Rrrrroe Ski Love

Women after achieving certain financial status, become extreemly picky and can’t find a man to fulfill those needs, because the new found independance clouds their rational thinking.

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I actually agree with this statement. Women don’t know how to WORK WITH their man to achieve financial success anymore…it’s all about, ‘what can you bring to the table’. Think about it, generations ago couples married young and built a life together. Nowadays women already build their lives and are looking for a man to have super powers when coming into the relationship…many have ridiculous expectations…

@Glok

There are all types of women, just as there are all types of men. What I will not do is generalize about one gender based on a personal experience or the struggles of a celebrity.

There are individuals of both sexes who constantly cast broad judgments of groups of people on this site, rather than a-s-s-e-s-s-i-n-g their personal experience as something that occurred with an individual. If there is a certain pattern that one sees in his/her relationships, perhaps some self-reflection and self-evaluation is warranted.

@Rrrrroe Ski Love- A mind is a terrible thing to waste.

“I will lay a thousand dollars to one, that you are single, between the ages of 28 to 36 and independant and don’t need a man, but secretly inside you would like to have one. Damn that hit home didn’t it.”

Actually, no, it didnt. I have a man, and we’ve discussed marriage more than once. What I don’t need him for is to be my meal ticket or to provide some superficiality. I love him for who he is — an intelligent, thoughtful, funny (he makes me laugh all the time), talented, kind-hearted individual of good character who respects me as much as I respect him.

Once again, seek help. Bitterness is a repellent.

@Caramel Cat
Lol!! I can’t really do the blind date thing because I wanna see my girl holding an average rack at the front and something to sit on at the back..I wouldn’t also want to allow people the connected us getting involved in the relationship.. What did you really see in him that made you say: “whao!! he’s the one!”???… I just want to know what good girls looks out for in men – I’m asking you because I know you’ve got a nice personality and you’re open-minded…

@LaDiva
Giving birth is for the women – y’all are goddesses.. I know you’ve got some black in you as well.. Peep this – the man is just a helper and his duty is just to protect the woman and provide for her.. Just imagine women being the provider in a family – do you know how belligerent and controlling y’all will be..God created everyone for a reason – just like he created the realist to help the black race ya dig!!

@Caramel

“Yes, I saw that…that was HILARIOUS!”

I think that was one of the funniest exchanges with a troll I’ve seen in some time on here. I have to give that person credit for his/her comedic touch, lol.

@ ReALiSt

Sadly men like Tiki are not an example of a worthy husband.

@ Meme
I’m sorry for your daughter’s loss. I would’ve beat the shyt out that bytch too.

bet he aint barred from making child support payments though

Tiki go home, your family needs you!!!!!!!!!! GO HOme TIKI….

@Yun Dun Know > Your latest comment to me, has me smiling because you just don’t get it do you? Here is a part of your post> Luckily, I dont have any kids and if I do, it wont be with a black man. Too much drama, and I dont need or want a ready-made family. I want my own. > Now go back to my previous comment about women being conditioned from the time they are little girls to grow up marry a Dr. or Lawyer and have house on the hill with a white picket fence. -BTW More kidds are not on the horizon for me, but to show you my unselfish nature, if I met the right female and got tricked again (hehe) I would be more than happy to help support her children. I know that it is not easy for a single female. What I am against is women thinking that they can do it alone and being stubborn enough to try it. I admit that I cannot be mommy and daddy to my children, because of the way GOD wired me. Can you admit that same thing. If so; it is the beginning of a new day for you.

@Syd

I think she’s gone…at least for now…

@Realist

Well the friends who set us up used to date each other as well, but they’ve long been broken up. They aren’t in our relationship because they could honestly care less, when people have a life, they will not be all up in your business. When we first met we both found each other physically attractive, so it wasn’t like we both were like…’ugh, I’m never calling him/her again’…but what made me know he was the one was his strong familial foundation. He’s EXTREMELY family oriented and comes from a great family with strong morals and achievements. He was a gentleman and REMAINED a gentleman, he didn’t change up like many men do after so many months. He was honest with me, would apologize when he was wrong…basically, he had INTEGRITY….which was something I had never truly seen in any other man I had dated…

We all need to start working together and helping each other out like the quote: “behind every successful man, there is a WOMAN” – that’s what a real family should be… We all need to do away with all the negative things that divides us and embrace the positive things that unites us.. The foundation of every relationship shouldn’t the materialistic things – it should be unconditional love – love your man or your woman for who he/she is not what he/she is.. If we can do that – then, there will be a decrease in the divorce race…Married couples should also learn to stay truthful to their vows which is: “till death do us part.”..

@Glok
What’s popping cuzzo?? I see you’re dropping knowledge – do you son!!

@Caramel

LOL, yeah, someone did suddenly disappear. Oh, well, maybe her hilarious mother can return. I cracked up at those remarks about her no-good daughter, lol.

And if he didnt want to pay child support, etc he should have kept that NFL d*ck in his pants.

See, men….this is what happens when you think with your d*ck and not your brain.

Men put themselves in these positions and want to cry foul when they have to chunk up.

*playing worlds smallest violin*

I doubt that Ms. Traci Lynn has really thought about this relationship with Tiki and where it it goes.

Being a stepmom to one kid is hard but four kids is no joke.

I wonder when it’ll hit her.

I wonder if Ms. Traci Lynn is looking down the road of years and years of paying alimony, child support and college expenses. It’ll be another 25 years or so before he finishes paying for all those kids.

I wonder when she has to change one of the twin’s diapers or wipe off baby spit-up or one of his sons yells that he hates her.

I don’t think Ms. Traci will be long for this relationship.

@LaDiva
Tiki is just trying to win himself a noble peace price for keeping a rainbow coalition family – he doesn’t count…. Talk to real men like the realist – I love and adore strong women..

@Caramel Cat
He’s EXTREMELY family oriented and comes from a great family with strong morals and achievements.
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Hmm, I’m gonna keep it real – I didn’t come from a great family with strong morals and achievements – my parents ain’t losers but they also didn’t achieve nothing..If good women look out for that – then, I think I’m not qualified enough in that department..It’s intriguing to know what women look out for in men – I guess my family background is the only thing messing up my CV…Thanks for the discussion sister!!

@Caramel

“basically, he had INTEGRITY….which was something I had never truly seen in any other man I had dated…”

And integrity has no pricetag — it’s invaluable. Any man can attempt to impress you with his material accoutrements, but only certain ones can truly offer you the qualities that money cannot buy. These are the qualities that enable a man to be a good husband and father.

@Yun Dun Know
You need to fall back ya dun noe – Tiki barber is Tiki Barber and he’s on his own mission not a mission by men.. Get the hate outta your heart – it ain’t no one’s fault that you can’t find a good man – maybe, if you take the veil off your eyes and look into the mirror, you’ll find yourself a good man that will be your f*cking best…

@Realist

I wasn’t necessarily looking for all the background information on him, I just think that’s one of the things that helped mold his positive and generous personality. He respects women, he’s very socially gifted and he displays attention to certain small things that many men choose to just brush to the side. I dated men who had messed up family lives growing up, and I will admit, they were VERY inadequate in conducting a positive relationship. I recognized how important a positive family unit is to the successful molding of a child. My parents divorced when I was young, but my mother still did everything in her power and sacrificed for me to have a positive and wholesome childhood. I think many people don’t pay attention to how important this is and don’t understand how these children will eventually become adults, and if their problems aren’t addressed early on, they will be troubled adults who project their troubles off onto others.

If you do your best to be a good person and treat people how you want to be treated, it shouldn’t matter that your CV is missing some things. Most importantly you must love YOURSELF…

Rrrrroe Ski Love- A mind is a terrible thing to waste: I am not sure if you will be able to look at women the same after your ordeal, but please know that not all women are like your ex’s. I hope you get to spend quality time with your children soon and never let them be persuaded by their mothers’ hateful nature.

@Sydney

These are the qualities that enable a man to be a good husband and father.

~~~

Precisely. Unfortunately many women never grow up and chase OTHER qualities that just don’t matter in the long run…

@Sydney

Your boy is in the Sextra thread…spewing the usual…lmao!

@Rrrrroe Ski Love- A mind is a terrible thing to waste.

“You are also trying to figure out how to get him to propose to you. Good Luck!!”

Again, let me correct you. He has broached the topic of marriage to me. There is nothing to figure out. There is no agenda to push. There is no “eagle” to land. And if he didn’t think I would do the right thing, he wouldn’t introduce the topic or conduct research on rings (yes, he let that slip to me, lol). He’s a good man, and he doesn’t have to settle.

“Anything that I said in these post is generalizing and not meant for you to take to heart.”

I appreciate that. I do take to heart the issues that affect our community, and we CANNOT adequately address those issues if we’re mired down in generalizations, rancor, and divisions across gender lines.

In his book, “Too Soon Old and Too Late Smart,” psychiatrist, Dr. Gordon Livingston says that when his patients tell him that they are in love, he asks them a very simple question.

“Would you take a bullet for this person?”

Most of us wouldn’t have a problem with suffering a bullet wound for our children or maybe our spouse or mothers.

Since most people don’t know how to differeniate lust, longing and other forms of liking, it very important to know the difference.

Would Traci Lynn take a bullet for Tikki?
Drum roll and the answer is____________

Would Tikki take a bullet for Traci?
Drum roll and the answer is____________

@Sydney

No, Mr. Haiku, Mr. black women always always always this that and the other…..

@Caramel

“Unfortunately many women never grow up and chase OTHER qualities that just don’t matter in the long run…”

Yes, and, unfortunately, that’s a very hard, lonely lesson they may have to learn someday. A man can have all the money and trappings in the world and still be absolutely the wrong man for you. What he drives, sleeps in, or has in his bank account is no reflection of the kind of person he truly is. You have to look below the surface to find the true treasure.

@Glok

“WHAT DO WE REALLY MARRY FOR ANY MORE ,… LOVE OR MONEY!?”

I’m going to marry for love, of course.

@Caramel

“No, Mr. Haiku, Mr. black women always always always this that and the other…..”

LOL, even more reason to stay put here. After seeing that horrible website and reading the usual daily vitriol, my quota for the nonsense is about full today.

I didn’t like Tiki for some reason and I guess this si why.

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REALIST
WHAT GOOD THANK BRO!

YOO MEN DONT JUDGE ONE RELATIOSHIP ON THE NEXT ONE ,..DONT BRIIGN UP OLD PAST RELATIOSHIP TO US THINGS LIKE THSAT ..SHOULD NEVER COME UP ,..A LOTTA YOU LADIES DO JUST THAT COMPARE US THE THE LAST MAN IN YOUR LIFE ,..AND EXPECT US TO BE OR BE BETTER ,..GIVE US A CHANCE TO BE US ….KEEP YOUR OLD CHIT OUT OF YOUR NEW ONE ..CUZ ITS NEVER THE SAME ,..EVERY MAN AND WOMN THE SAME WHEN IT COMES TO LOVE AND HOW THEY SHOW IT!

@Sydney

Lol, MochaLove just called him on his bull. He always makes race a part of the discussion when no one is even TALKING about race….smh…

@Caramel Cat
I love myself!! I know how important having a great childhood tend to reflect during adulthood but what about in a situation whereby the individual got educated on how the family structure works,the importance of women, and how to respect women during his adulthood???

I didn’t have a very good childhood but I think I’ve been able to learn about how dignified women are, and how they deserve a lot of respect in the last two years…Right now, I’m still imbibing some of these qualities into my personality and I know I’ll get there with time…

How about in a situation when a brother tries his best to be a perfect gentleman and he’s very respectful – but the woman sees that as a weakness and tries to dismiss him as being soft???

@Caramel

“Lol, MochaLove just called him on his bull. He always makes race a part of the discussion when no one is even TALKING about race….smh…”

Good for her, lol. He’s far from being the only one. I laughed out loud when Tina told someone this week that if he could blame black women for Pearl Harbor, he would. I thought that was very witty.

@Realist

I didn’t have a very good childhood but I think I’ve been able to learn about how dignified women are, and how they deserve a lot of respect in the last two years…

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Then you are definitely on the right track. There’s nothing wrong with learning things as an adult, but the consequences of not addressing many of these problems early on becomes more catastrophic when we become grown.

How about in a situation when a brother tries his best to be a perfect gentleman and he’s very respectful – but the woman sees that as a weakness and tries to dismiss him as being soft???

~~~

Pretty much, this is not the woman for you. She is likely immature and doesn’t know what she wants…on to the next one —>

SYD AND THE BEST OF LUCK TO HIM NOT YOU …CUZ HE GONNA NEED IT GOT DAMMIT, YOU GONNA HAVE THAT MAN UNDER SOOO MUCH PRESSURE ..HE GONNA PA.S.S OUT AT THE VERY WORD’S OF ..DO YOU TAKE THIS WIFE !?

@Glok

“CUZ HE GONNA NEED IT GOT DAMMIT, YOU GONNA HAVE THAT MAN UNDER SOOO MUCH PRESSURE”

LOL, and what pressure is that, brother? I think he’ll be fine.

BTW, he reads the posts on here sometimes, and he thinks there are individuals who have obviously been hurt and/or have issues with women. He’s not one of them.

@GLOK
YOO MEN DONT JUDGE ONE RELATIOSHIP ON THE NEXT ONE ,..DONT BRIIGN UP OLD PAST RELATIOSHIP TO US THINGS LIKE THSAT ..SHOULD NEVER COME UP ,..A LOTTA YOU LADIES DO JUST THAT COMPARE US THE THE LAST MAN IN YOUR LIFE ,..AND EXPECT US TO BE OR BE BETTER ,..GIVE US A CHANCE TO BE US ….KEEP YOUR OLD CHIT OUT OF YOUR NEW ONE ..CUZ ITS NEVER THE SAME ,..EVERY MAN AND WOMN THE SAME WHEN IT COMES TO LOVE AND HOW THEY SHOW IT!
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Yo, I’m good cuzon – I’m just trying to stay positive and get closer to God before they start drafting people for the new Korean war ya dig..Lol!!

I feel that ish about women judging every relationship based on the last one.. They need to understand that people are no equal and everyone has their own unique qualities..

As a matter of fact, it’s our fault that we have Memorial Day, the fact that we have to remember those who have died is attributed to the black woman and her actions…she caused all these deaths.

I have to go now because my boss is letting us go early. I have to go and feel like crap for the rest of the day because this is all my FAULT…smh, you try to have a great memorial day, don’t blame yourself too much girl….

LMAO @ Syd and Caramel Cat

Btw, I saw Mr. Haiku, Mr. Repetition too….. SMH, things never change.

He is SO obvious and I doubt he had a wife.

Bye Caramel Cat!

I get to leave early today too. I can’t wait.

apparently Gary Coleman died RIP

REALIST EXACTLY THE SIT THERE AND WAIT FOR YOU TO PHUK UP, AND DONT SAY NOTHING WHEN YOU ASK THEY AZZ AND BOMBARD YOUR AZZ WITH CHIT FROM YRS PAST ,……THEY NEED SHRINKS ..NOT US!

I guess he sleep with them cause they easy and keep cheating. That’s showing the black men still not happy being with them, because he go move on to the next one. lol GO YIKI PLAY THEM HOES LIKE DOMINOES! THAT WHAT TIGER WOODS, KOBE, AND THE REST OF THEM DO. GO PLAYA AND MY BROTHER PLAY THEM TOO LIKE DOMINOES! LMAO

@Matix B

apparently Gary Coleman died RIP
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WOW! Thanks for writing that. RIP to him.

Gary Coleman died????

Oh no!

Realist, that was a good comment you made yesterday to Fashionista. GOOD ONE! LMAO I’m not mad at Yiki either, and I give him props for big pimping FASHIONISTA’S KIND!

@FASHIONISTA HATE HERSELF BECAUSE SHE’S NOT WHITE BUT A CAVEMAN!

Thanks family!!!

R.I.P GARY COLEMAN!! THAT’S WHAT HAPPEN WHEN YOUR PARENTS THROW YOU OUT TO THE VULTURES IN HOLLYWEIRD – THEY TOOK THE BROTHER’S INNOCENCE AFTER HE APPEARED ON THE DIFFERENT STROKES AND FOLLOWED HIM TO HIS GRAVE.. YOU’LL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN BRUH!!!

*** 2PAC -”LIFE GOES ON” PLAYING IN THE BACKGROUND***

Just saw the alert about Gary on CNN.com — sad ending. And didn’t Dana Plato’s son commit suicide not too long ago? Tragic.

Hey Tina

Tiki ought to just pay his child support and pay to support his kids until he can get custody of them! What a hateful and spiteful woman to deny the father of her child the right to see his child! The fact that he cheated on her is moot, and I can bet dollars to doughnuts that she won’t have any issues taking his money for Alimony/Child support! Lawyer up on her, Tiki!!

Hey Syd!

A DIFFERENT STROKE JUST F*CKED UP THE LIVES OF EVERY CHARACTER THAT APPEARED ON IT WITH DIFFERENT STROKES.. F*CK HOLLYWEIRD!!

Good afternoon, all!!

All of this could have probably been avoided if they had better communication amongst themselves. It was wrong for him to cheat on his wife, but at the same time, he should have ended things before he went elsewhere….

Dang, Realist, I didn’t know he die. That’s mess up, and you right he will never ever be forgotten. I can’t belive that. :’-(

To Real Black Chocolate, I feel the same WAY Ms. Diva, but they don’t want them either that’s why they cheat on them like REGGIE, KOBE, TIGER, AND MANY MORE. They playing them like DOMINOES and my brother play them too and my cousin and then laugh about it to his family. LMAO Don’t get me wrong cheating is still wrong and especially the ones marry, though.

I agree. Women should not use their children as pawns in the game of love. I would never do that regardless of what my man did. The best revenge is to live a better life!

OK. Maybe you could impregnate a woman, marry her, and then realize she isn’t the woman you want to spend your life with — when your’re maybe, UNDER 25.

This dude in Considerably NORTH of the “25″ milestone, and there is a 6-year gap between this childbirth and the 2nd of his kids.

So at this age and under these
circ umstances, this self-absorbed little
$h!t gets a “Becky Obsession” ??!!

Shouldn’t he have gotten THAT out of his system in college ?

Realist” Theres a girl who works not to far from me…..” Most of the time it is best to get to know a woman before you try to holler at her. Maybe she smiles and say hello because she is a nice friendly person. Usually when a guy try to hollar at a women it means she has to make a decision right then and there. What do you base your decision on? Looks. No! You try to be a friend first while proving your case meaning show your characther, not try to impress, you know model yourself ( being nice, caring, helpful….). Ask her out eventualy as a friend, talk to her as a friend. If you notice a connection slowly go for it but mostly grow for it. I feel if a women is too quick to jump on you it because she noticed something off the back ( your car, status, clothes, looks) when you are looking for a women that should not be the case. It’s more about the connection. So I say step to women on a friendly basis and if she accepts your friendship move foward if not “she’s just not into you”

@Syd

I’m still here. Congratulations btw!

@Tina

Are you seeing this? Good grief.

No need to congratulate me, girl, lol. I was simply making a point to a predictable comment.

I’ve skim thru the comments.

Anyhoo…u’ll never hear me cosign for a woman to clean her ex hubby out. However, In this case…I have no sympathy for TIKI. When you cheat on your wife, this is what happens. And the worst part was dude was trying to hide it. He doesn’t even look like he has any shame.

This woman had a high risk pregnacy, was stressed out prob cuz him, the last thing she needs is him in that delivery room.

@Tina

It’s too much insanity, girl.

@Moby
Yo, I feel you son!! I’ve got a feeling this like something about me but she’s a little bit too shy.. Yo, peep this – I never used to notice this girl – she just came out of nowhere one day to tell me she sees me everyday, smiling and being friendly.. After that, son noticed she’s got a total package upfront; at the back; and she’s fineeee..

I did my background research on her and she’s got all the qualities to be a good wifey – but since then, It’s been a different story.. She pops out of nowhere all the time smiling and saying hello even when I don’t see her… Right now, son is trying to be her friend but it seems she doesn’t want my friendship neither… I just don’t know what this girl want but she’s fineeeeeeeeeeeeeeee………..

@Glok
HE WAS SOMEBODY SACRIFICE ,..NO DOUBT!
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Isn’t it troubling that everyone from different strokes has got one problem or the other??? Hollyweird is a nutcase!!!

He is the world’s biggest loser. He just wants joint custody so he won’t have to pay as much child support for those children. Him and Lilly White will have some I’m sure of it. For now they’ll play house with Ginny’s children.

He’s just a poor excuse of a man.

Realist- (I am a female by the way)Well continue being friendly with her it can’t hurt anything. Try complimenting her and not in that ” yo baby yo son mess” lol tell her she has a pretty smile or something simple, & don’t be aggressive. Fill her out if that doesn’t work try it on the next chick.

@Syd

No need to congratulate me, girl, lol. I was simply making a point to a predictable comment.
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I am congratulating you mentioning rings.

LOL, you know I saw it. Let’s see what will happen.

On another point, I checked the other thread and some people in our community really have some issues. We enjoy bashing and will do it on any topic….. I talked to one of my co-workers today who thinks he is above the stereotyping that some men and women take part in, but he often makes blanket statements about American black women, like we have issues, and its the reason why he prefers black women of other nationalities…… I made sure I told him that he is no different than some of the other black people he talks about that stereotypes and would not appreciate the same comments made about black men. SMH, the nerve of some people.

You illiterate idiots! His girlfriend wasn’t there learn to read.

@Tina

Oh, I know you were, girl, lol.

Yeah, we’ll see.

“I talked to one of my co-workers today who thinks he is above the stereotyping that some men and women take part in, but he often makes blanket statements about American black women, like we have issues, and its the reason why he prefers black women of other nationalities…… I made sure I told him that he is no different than some of the other black people he talks about that stereotypes and would not appreciate the same comments made about black men.”

Yes, it’s highly ironic that the same individuals who accuse others of stereotypiing and generalizing regularly engage in the same behavior themselves. I noticed that yesterday in a thread, a sista made some very general, derogatory remarks about black men and was criticized by a male poster whom I see commit the exact same infraction repeatedly on this site whenever there’s a negative story involving a black woman. I had to chuckle to myself. It’s as if it doesn’t register to some individuals that the same irritation and outrage they feel when their gender is put into a specific box and negative traits are attached to all for the actions of one or a few are the same emotions we feel when comments are made about women.

I think some of us have to learn the art of empathy and putting ourselves in the shoes of others, so we understand why there are certain reactions to words and behaviors. Words cut both ways. And, I’ll say again, if someone has a pattern of denigrating or dispecting a specific gender, he/she does not have the need for the unity of our community at heart. We are ALL part of the black race.

REALIST HE THE 1ST SO FAR LETZ SEE HOW MANY GO THIS YR,… CHIT STARTING ALREADY!

@Moby
Lol!! I’m a smooth operator when it comes to girls..Lol!! I ain’t on no “yo” mess at work – I act and talk corporate out here..Lol!! I don’t really care about the girl too deep – I think she’s just one of those ones that just want you to notice them or probably want to play too hard to get…

Yo, peep this – I saw her today on my break – I didn’t even notice her because she was wearing a shade – I just noticed a girl smiling and I peeped her azz to find out if it was the same girl.. Son ran after her to say what’s up but she was up to the same wack azz story that she was going to the bank quickly – and can’t really talk for now… It’s just getting boring to me because I don’t really go through this type of stress when dealing with women.. I’ll just give up on her and mind my business…I’m too real for hide and seek BS!!!

@Glok… Harlemz Finest ..Game Over You lose!
5/28/10, 16:13:PM
REALIST HE THE 1ST SO FAR LETZ SEE HOW MANY GO THIS YR,… CHIT STARTING ALREADY!
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I see Will Smith on their list too!!

@Tina

OK, I just visited that thread, and I think it needs to be fumigated for misogyny, lol. Ew.

@Syd

OK. I didn’t know if you knew what I meant.

Yes, it’s highly ironic that the same individuals who accuse others of stereotypiing and generalizing regularly engage in the same behavior themselves. I noticed that yesterday in a thread, a sista made some very general, derogatory remarks about black men and was criticized by a male poster whom I see commit the exact same infraction repeatedly on this site whenever there’s a negative story involving a black woman. I had to chuckle to myself.
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What makes me laugh is the people who make the generalizations, and condemn others by expressing disapproval of the comments that include generalizations, are some of the same EXACT ones who participate in the bashing. Whether it is about black men or women as a whole, or black American women and men…… I know who you are referring to btw because he does that a lot. Some other people act as if bashing is something they can’t tolerate from their race, but all you have to do is go back to a thread from weeks or months ago, and the stereotypical comment is still there…… What I can’t tolerate is a hypocrite.

I think some of us have to learn the art of empathy and putting ourselves in the shoes of others, so we understand why there are certain reactions to words and behaviors. Words cut both ways.
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EXACTLY! If the shoe were on the other foot, I firmly believe people would not accept or be appreciative of certain blanket statements.

how many times did tiki get dropped on the head as a child. talk about disrespectful and flat out dumb. not only do you have an affair on your pregnant wife, you bring the person to the hospital with you.i wouldnt have let him in either.

@nywoman23…killuminati
5/28/10, 16:28:PM
how many times did tiki get dropped on the head as a child
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You need to ask his momma that question not me – that shows bad parenting from his momma….

@Syd

OK, I just visited that thread, and I think it needs to be fumigated for misogyny, lol. Ew.
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As my father would say, indubitably.

@Glok… Harlemz Finest ..Game Over You lose!
Yo, stay safe brother!!! I’ve got to smoke a joint with you one day – stay black and stay blessed!!

Bye Glok! Have a nice Memorial Day!

@Tina

“I know who you are referring to btw because he does that a lot. Some other people act as if bashing is something they can’t tolerate from their race, but all you have to do is go back to a thread from weeks or months ago, and the stereotypical comment is still there”

Yes, and he came out of nowhere on that post and immediately confronted that woman when he stereotypes and generalizes, as if it’s going out of style.

“EXACTLY! If the shoe were on the other foot, I firmly believe people would not accept or be appreciative of certain blanket statements.”

But I don’t understand why that’s so difficult for certain individuals to grasp. No matter how often it’s brought to their attention, or they see it for themselves, they don’t reconsider their own views and approach. It’s like reasoning with a brick wall.

Bye Glok!

@Tina

I like your father’s choice of words.

This fool left that good looking Asian woman for that 5 tone colored white broad, what a fool!!!

@Syd

Yes, and he came out of nowhere on that post and immediately confronted that woman when he stereotypes and generalizes, as if it’s going out of style.
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He always comes out of nowhere, but when women do it, he wants another woman to correct it….. I don’t believe he has ever corrected men bashing women either, but just agreed with it.

But I don’t understand why that’s so difficult for certain individuals to grasp. No matter how often it’s brought to their attention, or they see it for themselves, they don’t reconsider their own views and approach. It’s like reasoning with a brick wall.
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I think they don’t want to grasp it because they enjoy doing the bashing, but in the breath, do not want to be generalized.

@Realist

We’re not talking about you. And stop being so paranoid.

*in the same breath

If you ain’t talking about me – don’t bring up other races in your conversation..I’m not paranoid – I’m just keeping it real!!

***Some other people act as if bashing is something they can’t tolerate from their race, but all you have to do is go back to a thread from weeks or months ago*** That’s Bliss right here!!

@Syd

I usually get off at 6:30 but I’m leaving early today.

Have a nice Memorial Day!

LMAO, no, we’re not talking about you, Realist. I think we’ve moved on from that episode. LOL!

Same here, Tina. I’m on my way out now. Have a great holiday weekend!

Take care, all.

ReALiSt AKA ReALeSt (It Is A wHiTe MaN’s WoRLd BuT “wE BLaCkS” ArE dA cHoSeN oNeS!!: They are talking about someone else for sure just scroll up and read the other comments…..

Don’t get too upset dude!

SN: I’m pretty sure they would address you directly if you pissed them off in any way…..just be cool dude!

LOL, thank you Matix B!

Take care and have a nice Memorial Day, you too Realist.

I am amazed at the people who think the women are supposed to somehow turn into saints during something like this! SHe is SPITEFUL???!!!??? Seriously????!!! This man bring his piece on the side to the hospital while his wife is giving birth and THE WIFE has the probleM????? Ultimately you are suppose to put the children first. In this case the children will not remember daddy not being in the delivery room so for this, his wife needed to do what was going to give her piece of mind. How some people can consider him a victim is beyond me. THis grown “a” man spent the night in a college dorm room with his trick.!!! He is foul

This is sad. They have been together since college but the last few years trouble came into the picture and they grew apart. It was not a good idea to bring more children into a shaky marriage to try to save it. I wish her well she seems like a nice lady.

Barber doesn’t even know how to be a man much less a father. He only wants shared custody so he won’t have to pay full child support. Giving birth under these circumstances must have been so hurtful for Ginny. I pray the best in her life. Sad for Tiki Barber because you do, most definitely reap what you sow in this life

Ahh, the salve women are filled with rage and ready to explode……

Perfecto!

Why does this story piss me off to no end? I will kick that peahead, low-down, no-good, SOB for Ginny and I don’t even know her. He is the epitome of a weak a/s/s black man.

American Black men,

Do you want a tender woman to love and help you grow as a complete being? Do you want a fun, carefree, bubbly well traveled woman that will see the world with you? Do you want a lover who is also your friend and sports buddy?

Then, DATE ONLY NON BLACK WOMEN AND MIX RACE WOMEN.

High risk pregnancy = NO SEX! So he went and got it else where! I don’t think he was right… But I think that’s what happened! POP the Hood!

You see the swimsuit model, the cakes of the day and our other non fat black women. Okay! LMAO You said we black women immature, but you have to be an illegal dumb alien that can’t read to see that the article said he PLAY HER LIKE DOMINOES LIKE EVERYONE ELSE DID YOUR KIND! =)

That is sad about their marriage but he is the father and they need to build up a decent friendship. As a woman, I understand that men may leave and that is just the facts of life but the problem is the way they do it. It always seems that they leave for someone else. If they are unhappy, why not just leave and then hook up? I rarely see that. It’s usually a third party involved. It makes me question whether they were “unhappy” before they met the new chick or only after they came along. It’s easy to claim unhappiness when there is someone new in the picture. When a person wants something, it’s always easy to begun finding fault to justify transgressions.

@ flysistersoul
*cosign*

Tiki got tired of noodles and chop suey.

Fashionista, he still cheated which means he don’t give a F*CK about her!
5/29/10, 03:50:AM
You see the swimsuit model, the cakes of the day and our other non fat black women. Okay! LMAO You said we black women immature, but you have to be an illegal dumb alien that can’t read to see that the article said he PLAY HER LIKE DOMINOES LIKE EVERYONE ELSE DID YOUR KIND! =)

The swimsuit model is a fat black woman in the eyes of a white man.Nice to see that i have got raging angry. Again.

Fashionista, he still cheated which means he don’t give a F*CK about her!
5/29/10, 03:50:AM
You see the swimsuit model, the cakes of the day and our other non fat black women. Okay! LMAO You said we black women immature, but you have to be an illegal dumb alien that can’t read to see that the article said he PLAY HER LIKE DOMINOES LIKE EVERYONE ELSE DID YOUR KIND! =)

Black women on welfare; Asian women getting Black men millions from divource settlement .

Welfare or Rich husbands money giving by a court of law? LMFAO

I have a lot in the tank to bring out the raging anger in a fat angry black woman like you, so bring it on.

Your white boss / the company you work at

Pay attetion! No mention of jumpoff being there!

Tiki you sorry excuse for a husband, why all the double dipping! Tiki you want to bed two woman at the same time, well it cost to be the boss! People will remember Tiki that you are a fool, and you wanted to cheat the wife you impregnated out of a fair settlement. Now we all know You were trying to hit it one last time as you were moving on…so now you got 2 plus 2 for one on you … jerk!

Whoever said that he had to be in the room while she was giving birth. She told him that she was in labor which was all that she needed to do. The point of having someone else in the room is to provide emotional support. How is he going to provide her with emotional support when he left her while she was pregnant??????

Thanks for blowing up and laughing out of anger. On to the NEXT one. LMAO

When will brothers wake up? When will brothers wake up? Chasing whatever that skirts buy. What a shame. Karma is a b. When it comes it will strike harder than hard. Shhh what a shame? the poor children, got to deal with the nonsense of all. Not a shining example of fatherhood. Just keeping it real.