Sextra: ‘She Has No Walls!’

Yo Bossip I gotta situation. Been seeing this girl for almost 3 months now and she told me from the door she wasn’t trying to get down until she got to know me. She’s a pretty girl and she’s down to earth and gotta good head on her shoulders so I was cool with that. A couple days ago I finally get the chance to be with her and I was crushed ’cause baby girl don’t have no walls. I couldn’t feel nothing…she has no walls!!! What I want to know is there something she could do about that or can it be fixed??? She doesn’t even have kids yet so what’s really good? I like this girl and even if I don’t end up with her, she need to do something for the next cat. You feel me?

Happy Friday to you! Thank you for writing in and sharing your “situation.” Unfortunately, there’s not a whole lot you could recommend that she probably hasn’t already tried. She can try kegel exercises to strengthen the muscles of her pelvic floor. That’s basically where she squeezes her pelvic muscles tight (as if she were trying to stop the flow of urine) and hold it for ten seconds, relax and repeat. Some women do reps of 10 and others make a point to do the exercise for five minutes a few times a day.

There are some products on the market that are said to have a “tightening effect” that helps reduce the feeling of looseness. They’re basically herbal, water-based serums that tighten, contract and reshape the vaginal walls. They also eliminate odors and increase vaginal wetness to heighten sexual pleasure for both the man and woman. Within 30 to 45 days of use, the vaginal walls will have reached their maximum tightness and the results are supposed to be permanent. It’s definitely worth a try, no?

Aside from that, the only other option is vaginal rejuvenation surgery. This procedure is called Vaginoplasty and only takes about an hour. It’s not too invasive and the recovery is relatively quick. The surgeon will remove the excess tissue from the vaginal lining and the remaining tissues are tightened with sutures (surgical staples) which will eventually dissolve in the body, so no follow-up procedure will be needed.

All hope is not lost, you can definitely try to work through this since you like her so much, right?

Fellas, the question begs, if a woman you’re feeling lacks elasticity is it a deal-breaker for you or do you try to work it out?

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