Any woman, black, white, purple, blue, yellow, etc. etc. etc. who gets with this fool is CRAZY. After reading his comments – I don’t think he has respect for ANY women of any color. He just appreciates that he can USE a white woman more than a black woman. But he has no respect for NO women. I bet his Mom is proud.

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He is so yesterday!

This was kind of funny and I but I must admit that time quote in the media do get twisted and manipulated for the agenda of the company. I do kind of miss the simple days when information and communication was not so manipualted and filled with lies for personal agendas. You have to really know yourself in this day and time because so many ignorant message projected to make you lose a real connection with yourself, your beliefs and your personal feelings of your self-worth and valuing yourself… I believe that is why they call the media or see the media as a form of witch craft because it put your against yourself…

He sounds ignorant and I knew he’d have nothing intelligent to say by the time he mentioned “conversate”!! People it’s NOT a word. Anyhoo, I digress, he can try to clean up his statements, but while he doesn’t have to embrace being a role model, he needs to understand the influence he and his ilk have on young people. He has got to understand that he can’t be reckless with his mouth because somewhere someone is listening and just might be influenced by his dumbness. Now if he can’t grasp that concept, he really is an idiot!!

Well he tried to str8en it out but might have dug a deeper hole. I see what he mean about how interviewers and blogs twisting stories up but he had said so much that not hearing the first sentence or two doesnt make a big difference.

He made a lot of valid points in his controversial statement but at the same time the generalization of any race of women equates to ignorance on the speaker’s behalf.

@Just sit i know thats right thankyou!

BLACK WOMAN PLEASE WAKE UP.STOP BUYING YOUR KIDS THESE SELL-OUT PRODUCTS.IT SEEMS LIKE THESEMALES HATE THE VERY TYPE OF WOMAN THAT BROUGHT THEM TO THIS EARTH.SMH

I was listening to it this morning and i understand what Slim Thug is saying…. I dont understand why alot of females are mad at him for… I think alot of you females need to get out of yall feelings about this because he didnt say nothing bad at all…

He must have thought about his album sales, mortgage, etc.

I am so over him, he can’t clear up anything in my book. In my book he is now the equivilent of Tiger Woods without Tiger’s fortune. Played himself hard..

Slim thug I’m with ya on some of your points, but if you don’t thoroughly explain yourself the first time then this is what hapeens – an all out attack by the black community (sistah’s mostly). Next time slim just S T F U.

Slim is a lame….Thugs don’t back pedal.

What this Slim Jerk doesn’t understand is that a real woman loves and knows how to cater to her real man..He should recognize the difference from a chick that wants to pretend to dote over him for his temporary wealth as opposed to the woman that will love him and be proud to cook, clean and admire him with or without his fake bling. He’s a waste of flesh.

will you go ahead and kill ur self already

I wuold gladly bow down to a black man who is a responsible, law abiding human being that loved me equally. But this homothug needs to sit his down somewhere because no self respecting black women would be caught dead with him. I’ll bet he is just mad because he knows he needs millions to pull a halfway decent woman because he is not a real man.

Slimm, just say your chit was taken out of context and leave it at that. No need to elaborate any further.

DON’T BACK DOWN THO. That’s the worse thing you can do.

Any woman who gets upset by this ill-mannered species of a man, deserves to feel be-little.

Excuse me Slim Thug — Your Mom is Black or Creole? pick one

GTFOH!

I just listened to the interview with Tigger and his cohost. And I feel like Slim Thug did a good job in explaining himself. I am still a fan! You can’t believe everything written.

Here we go again…

If you plan on making a comment on this post, and you happen to read this one before you do, think about what you’re going to write and if you really want to add to ongoing, everlasting debasement promoted by everyone involved.

I stened to this on my way in to work this morning and all I could do was laugh….how can I be offended by this dude? Really? I had this guy leave me a voicemail the other day (after I had cursed him out about him being petty and silly and just an all around azzhole) and the first thing out of his mouth was, “You stupid trick”…..Again, all I could do was laugh at the brother…he gets mad if he is talking and I interject and say something…like mad mad, won’t speak, say shyt like, “are you done interrupting me? I was talking and I don’t appreciate it when you talk when I’m talking” And this man wonders why he is single….

I *listened*

**rolls eyes***
whatever man. U must have needed some promotion for your lame azz career….

guess his $tupid behind is feeling the heat of his ignorant comments. learn to think before you open your mouth. wish people would stop compare one race to another. WE ARE DIFFERENT FOR A REASON… if you have questions about one race ask God. He created us different for a reason. leave the uniqueness as that…UNIQUE!!!

Too late Slim Thug you started a fire that’s now spreaded out of control, you upset a large part of your fanbase, the males who like your comments may not invest money into buying your CD so how does it taste putting your foot in your mouth!

Funny how he admits that black women are more successful than black men and even goes so far as to mention that 1 in 3 black men are incarcerated or on parole & then in the same breath says that if black women want black men they should “bow down”. How about instead of black women lowering their standards and bowing down, black men start stepping up? Graduate from college and attain wealth and fortune the legal, respectable way.

What song has he done besides “Check Up on Me” by Beyonce???

Just another entertainer trying to stay relevant by making silly and outrageous statements. Unfortunately, once again, it comes at the expense of black women. We seem to be the targets of the century.

geez not this again.

Now that he explained that much of what he said was taken out of context I can forgive a little bit. However he made some generalizing statements that just don’t sit well.

Im a black man and I would like to say that some things he said about the black girls are true, but dont compare our sisters to white girls. Black people had to really overcome in this country and most of us are still lost and its going to take years for us to understand were we stand and what we need to do in order to compete with other races as far as progression. Slim thug is a x drug dealer and a rapper (no degree). I use to deal drugs and now its blown over and I work as a patient transporter for 10 dollars an hour (no degree). I would never want to be compared to the doctors (white) that work there because if i was raised in there household I would have been one too. Yo slim, understand the struggle.

the comment was offensive but he did apologize and seemed a lot more sincere than the likes of yung berg persay. and im glad he said he wasnt a role model i can respect that. i think its unfair to pull the man apart…he is obviously ignorant and i dont think people should pick and pull the man apart. i think dr. hill took the high road on how to deal with this.
lets educate our people, dont crucify them.

^^^@princess…i know that’s right…step ya game up mannnnnnnnnnn

And what is the story on Slime Thug? He really dated LeToya Luckett at some point?

They should call him Slim Fug cause he niggª is NOT cute! he’s probably cant even get a black woman. LOL

Fluck this Negro and the horses he and his cosigners, including stupid azz black women, rode in on. I’m sick of whining, complaining, bytching and moaning Negros acting entitled as though someone owes them something.

Negros always talking about being submissive. Who in God’s green earth told them that a woman owned it to them to submit, especially when he isn’t man enough to handle his business?

Also, you don’t submit to no daxn boyfriend. Husband, yes. There’s nothing wrong with that IF HE IS TAKING CARE OF HIS BUSINESS. Simply because you have a piece of meat between your legs does not entitle you to be someone’s God. Get over yourselves, black men (those of Slim’s ilk) and START TAKING CARE OF YOUR OWN ISSUES. YOU DO KNOW YOU HAVE ISSUES, RIGHT? If you don’t like sisters, keep it moving, but quit flucking complaining. It’s making you look bad and very weak.

Thank you.

I’m surprised by Talib Kweli’s comments this week as well on this topic. I’m glad I procrastinated for so long on purchasing any of his music.

late19832001
6/10/10, 10:03:am
I was listening to it this morning and i understand what Slim Thug is saying…. I dont understand why alot of females are mad at him for… I think alot of you females need to get out of yall feelings about this because he didnt say nothing bad at all…
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You are entitled to your opinion, and for most of us with sense, what he said was WRONG, DEPLORABLE, AND PLAIN OF IGNORANT. No white man or any man of another race would say such mean-spirited things about their race of women, but leave it to our “brothas” that just can’t stop with this “white women are better than black women” nonsense. Frankly, I’m sick of it, and I would only hope that the Slim Fools of this world would please carry on with women of other races so they’ll know what black women have been dealing with for decades. No love loss here.

I hear a lot of, “What Slim said about black women is true.” Okay, let’s break that down. There are about 20 million black women. How can a statement be true for most? Stop and think people. THINK! What about making statements about black men. Somehow the brothers forget talking about their issues. It’s always, “black women this, black women that.” How about disecting yourselves, black men. Let’s see how true THOSE statements are. However, if a black female rapper or celeb made stereotypical comments publicly about brothers, black men would start WWIII EVEN IF THE COMMENTS WERE TRUE. Disect that for a moment, if you will.

@Syd

Hey girl, what did Talib say?

Hey Gimmeabreak78!

Good points…

What he said wasn’t that offensive, and who cares, beside us generation of black girls don’t even care about black boys anyway, we prefer white guys, they are hot. Im 15 and going to keep on dating outside my race. By the way, i’ve never heard a single song from this guy, and he just ended his pathetic career.

Changing the subject just a tad…why do ‘black men’ always seem to try and holla at woman (knowing he shouldn’t) and somehow all he does is end up making her feel uncomfortable and pissed off because his apporach was disrespectful!?!

I get that too many times to count!!

This punk needs and education

smh…do ppl still think? i just listened to this and heard what he really meant. too bad it was taken out of context. there way too many unintelligent ppl around these days.

@ Gimmmie A break-good points even so his
career is officially over…remember Yung Berg ya me either….what a HAM

What gets me: “it aint trickin’ cause I got it” yet I don’t like you cause you ask for stuff I told you I was going to give you if you gave it up…

@No you can’t be BF # 2…right and I’m nice/polite as heck when I decline their advances and still get called a “funny actin b” I don’t get it.

redbonekillbill

@No you can’t be BF # 2…right and I’m nice/polite as heck when I decline their advances and still get called a “funny actin b” I don’t get it.

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I know right!?!

Don’t try to drag rap music into this because I can’t think of any rap song saying anything negative specifically about black women.

@Caramel

Hey girl, he pretty much compared what ST said to the generalizations that some women express of “all men are dogs” and statements of that nature on his Twitter page, so, IMO, he identified with the statements as well, or at the least he did not bother to dissect the deeper ramifications of them as Dr. Hill so eloquently and insightfully did. Here’s the link:

twitter.com/realtalibkweli

@AnonymousGal

“However, if a black female rapper or celeb made stereotypical comments publicly about brothers, black men would start WWIII EVEN IF THE COMMENTS WERE TRUE.”

I recalled earlier this week the controversy that erupted back in 2004-05 (I think) with Serena Williams when rumors emerged that she had denigrated black men and talked about her preference for white men. If I recall correctly, she quickly publicly denied ever making those statements and was also emotionally upset by the entire episode. She did not want any offensive comments of that nature falsely attributed to her.

@#2
“why do ‘black men’ always seem to try and holla at woman (knowing he shouldn’t) and somehow all he does is end up making her feel uncomfortable and *****ed off because his apporach was disrespectful!?!

I get that too many times to count!!”
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What you mean “he know he shouldn’t?” How are you going to know unless you ask?

The more “at-bats” you get, the more home runs you can hit. Can’t hit a homerun sittin in the dugout.

Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t.

@Sydney – that’s right! I remember there was a big stink about that. Funny how when the tables are turned, brothers aren’t so quick to cosign, huh?

@SYDNEY

The only person that made a “big stink” about Serena’s comments were Serena and her family. I don’t recall ONE prominent black man even addressing it or even mentioning it.

Slim contradicted himself many times in this interview. First he says that he was saying some of the things sarcastically and they were taken out of context. But then he says that it was his opinion and if people are “soul sisters and soul brothers” why would we even care what he has to say? Which one is it? You either didn’t mean it or you did it can’t be both. He obviously is realizing that he was supposed to keep his ignorant comments to himself and share it with someone who would have kept it behind closed doors. As he says it can f with his money and it will. You can’t say stupid things being in the public eye and think it won’t have any effect on you. The comments he made were accurate whether he’s being sarcastic or not. And I don’t have to be a “soul sister” to see that, it’s plain common sense that isn’t so common for him.

ok, i remember a statement made in Hill Harper’s book about relationships rings true. When a black couple have an arguement the first statements that are made have to do with either “black women are like …” or “black men are so …” However, if people of other races have the same arguement they may just say “men are so …” or “women are so …” That is where we differ. We really need to change our mindset and realize that people are really not that different and we need to stop attacking each other like this.

Man, I just don’t care™
6/10/10, 11:28:am
@#2
“why do ‘black men’ always seem to try and holla at woman (knowing he shouldn’t) and somehow all he does is end up making her feel uncomfortable and *****ed off because his apporach was disrespectful!?!

I get that too many times to count!!”
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What you mean “he know he shouldn’t?” How are you going to know unless you ask?

The more “at-bats” you get, the more home runs you can hit. Can’t hit a homerun sittin in the dugout.

Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t.
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B/c boo, most of them are either hanging out all day in ONE spot, when really they should be at work making real money the right way and some of them don’t even know how to even approach a woman from the door. ‘Hey shawty’ ‘Pssst’ ‘Hey yo what’s your name!?’…is not going to get my attention!! I got more of what can be said, but those are the most common ones to name!

@Syd

What Talib and others fail to realize is that the situation escalates when you start comparing races. Now if Slim Thug had said that ‘women this’ or ‘women that’, then he might not have caught as much flack…but he proceeded to single out black women and then compare us to white women…that was the big mistake, no matter how ‘out of context’ he was taken…

I promise I don’t understand some of these sentiments our men are carrying around nowadays, my husband has NEVER and I do mean NEVER displayed a hurtful and negative sentiment toward black women…I’ve never heard comments like this even leave his mouth, or the mouths of any of the men in my family…smh…

PEOPLE there are 2 sides to every story. While I may not agree with what he said, there are things that need to be taken into account.

1) His convo was skewed and meant to make him look like a criminal.

2) He is speaking from HIS perspective. We all have different experiences and no two people live the same reality.

3) The man OBVIOUSLY doesn’t hate black women or else he wouldn’t date them.

Also, when he said “bow down” I dont think he meant that black women should literally get on their knees, he was just reiterating his opinion that he thinks SUCCESSFUL black women should lower their standards IF they are looking for a black man.

I dont agree but that is HIS opinion. None of us really have all the answers.

You cannot properly judge anything without taking both sides into account.

ALSO, when he did generalize, which I think he apologized for in the interview, he was only speaking about what he has come across.

@#2
“B/c boo, most of them are either hanging out all day in ONE spot, when really they should be at work making real money the right way and some of them don’t even know how to even approach a woman from the door. ‘Hey shawty’ ‘Pssst’ ‘Hey yo what’s your name!?’…is not going to get my attention!! I got more of what can be said, but those are the most common ones to name!”
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Yeah, I understand a woman finding a man “undesirable” for whatever reason.

BUT, how is HE going to know that unless he asks? AND how is he going to know how to ask it unless he tries? No such thing as a stupid question. I’m just sayin.

Peace

ALSO, when he did generalize, which I think he apologized for in the interview, he was only speaking about what he has come across.
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Then it sounds like he needs you as his PR manager! B/c he still sounded foolish! I’m just sayin!

@Caramel

“What Talib and others fail to realize is that the situation escalates when you start comparing races. Now if Slim Thug had said that ‘women this’ or ‘women that’, then he might not have caught as much flack…but he proceeded to single out black women and then compare us to white women…that was the big mistake, no matter how ‘out of context’ he was taken…”

Exactly. I don’t think anyone is denying that there are women who are materialistic, have dubious ulterior motives, selfish, etc., but to group black women and then compare them to women of another race and place those women on a pedestal is despicable — and dangerous. I don’t know any black man who would agree with a black woman comparing brothers to white men and praising the attributes of white men as superior to those of the men who look like her. We’ve seen sisters make those sorts of statements on this site, and they’ve been repeatedly and vociferiously confronted — and justifiably so.

Some alluded earlier to how some of us tend to automatically attached negative traits to the general population of both genders. Why can we not recognize the individuality of one another? You would like that a race who has been stereotyped for centuries would refrain from doing the same to their own, but it only seems to be escalating.

Slim has a right to his opinion but I think he should have thought first before speaking. He insulted alot of sistas. What a sad state we in the black community have come to…to think we would become a race of people that now speak and degrade each other. To slim speak on brotha and continue not to take responsibility for your own actions. It will be the very same sistas you tear down you’ll be reaching out to for support my brotha.

*vociferously* Please pardon the typos.

Man, I just don’t care™
6/10/10, 11:48:am
@#2
“B/c boo, most of them are either hanging out all day in ONE spot, when really they should be at work making real money the right way and some of them don’t even know how to even approach a woman from the door. ‘Hey shawty’ ‘Pssst’ ‘Hey yo what’s your name!?’…is not going to get my attention!! I got more of what can be said, but those are the most common ones to name!”
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Yeah, I understand a woman finding a man “undesirable” for whatever reason.

BUT, how is HE going to know that unless he asks? AND how is he going to know how to ask it unless he tries? No such thing as a stupid question. I’m just sayin.
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Most men laugh at their boys for getting knocked down (here are some of his lesson you seem to speak of) but there does come a time where you should know if you keep getting unlucky then it’s time to say to self, I need to make some changes about how I have approached women and what have you. So I am all for learning from your mistakes… it’s the ‘repeat’ disrespect in his approach that I cannot seem to understand!?!

You cannot expect a community of people who belittle, degrade, and devalue one another to ever prosper. What is occurring is that a clear message is being sent to those outside our community that there are no reprecussions for denigrating and offending blacks. We’ve shown that we publicly humiliate and disrespect our own, as if it is normal. This is NOT normal. This is extremely dysfunctional, pathological, and debilitating behavior.

“Tip Drill” was a brilliant display of creativity, cinematography, and lyricism!

*repercussions* I’m typing too quickly. Sorry.

Also, I recalled this week an entry I recently read on a blog about what could occur if a number of black women reach the point that they become apathetic to the challenges faced by their male counterparts. If they stop feeling the urge to support, defend, to speak on behalf, and otherwise empathize with their male counterparts. I fear that some sisters are reaching that mindset.

That my nicca right there keeping it 100 on all you $ucca a$$ nicca$. Peace to my dead cuzo$ and I rocc that blue til da ca$ket drop

Sorry “Thugga” you are a Dummy!!

i mean the dude kept it real…his brother is on that other ish and he says he meets groupies etc. not that serious to me. AND at the end of the day he is a business man he isnt gonna say ish like that to mess up the money

black women are too uptight. calm down black women cause theres no other race of females that can touch yall,i think other races r trying to be like black women.stop jumpin down everyones throat all the gat damn time.

slim thug was tellin the truth tho lol

*You would think that a race*

Hey BG

lmao @ BG

I know PLENTY of men who agree with you!

lmao @ BG

I know PLENTY of men who agree with you!
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And it doesn’t make them bad people!

Hey SYD!

“Now, in 2010, 1 in 3 Black men between 20 and 29 years old are incarcerated or otherwise under criminal supervision.”

“With Black male unemployment as high as 50 percent in some cities”

Ok, i’m confused. Did the Prof. just substantiate Slim Thugs, earlier a$$ertion that EMPLOYED WELL TO DO BROTHAS’ are in short supply? – But in the case of certain regulars on this thread, refuted said a$$ertion, but is now ridin’ with the Prof? Which is it?

Now if said “A$$ERTION” is not true (which I believe it’s not), who are these “LONG SUFFERIN” sistas’ ridin’ for:

“Black female incarceration rates are skyrocketing, partly because Black women are “riding” for their men, hiding guns and drugs, operating as mules, and refusing to snitch to authorities. In addition, Black women are the group most likely to be victims of domestic violence”

…Cuz accordin’ to the PROF. they sho’ nuff ain’t ridin’ (let alone lookin’) for honest workin’ black men…So in closin’, I call BULLSHYT ON SLIM THUG, THE PROF. AND ALL THE SANCTIMONIUS COMMENTERS WHO’S RIDIN’ WITH THE PROF.

@Caramel

I just found an entry that Talib Kweli wrote about this controversy on Vibe.com, btw:

vibe.com/posts/talib-kwli-things-slim-thug-said-are-real-problems-our-community

@Syd

Thanks for the other link, I can’t access Twitter at work and I don’t have a Twitter account…

@Sydney

You said:

Also, I recalled this week an entry I recently read on a blog about what could occur if a number of black women reach the point that they become apathetic to the challenges faced by their male counterparts. If they stop feeling the urge to support, defend, to speak on behalf, and otherwise empathize with their male counterparts. I fear that some sisters are reaching that mindset
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I’d like to know your opinion on something.
Evolution is a process as we know. It seems that black women and women in general are evolving faster than black males. I do believe in supporting another person but at what point does the supporting turn into the cheerleader doing more work than the athlete?
You can only help someone evolve if their will WANTS to evolve.

There has to be a point where the individual takes responsibility for him or her self. There are black men that come out of jail and turn their lives around but it doesnt seem that the majority is doing that. So if the will isn’t there, what is a black woman to do with that?

Marqui$ de $ade

You on $ome real $hit cuzo.

@#2
“Most men laugh at their boys for getting knocked down (here are some of his lesson you seem to speak of) but there does come a time where you should know if you keep getting unlucky then it’s time to say to self, I need to make some changes about how I have approached women and what have you. So I am all for learning from your mistakes… it’s the ‘repeat’ disrespect in his approach that I cannot seem to understand!?!”
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Everybody has their own “technique” that they are comfortable with. Their is no guaranteed set method although some are more successful than others. What doesn’t work for you as female may work for another female.

Is the SAME guy repeatedly approaching you the same way?

@Caramel

Can you access Vibe’s website? The last link was for a piece that Talib Kweli wrote. Here’s an excerpt. Frankly, I’m surprised, but, then again, I guess I shouldn’t be.

“I think the people that are really angry are people who are taking the comments out of context and they’re not really reading the whole blog. And when the commenters are reading it, they’re really looking to see what’s wrong with it anyway. Somebody hit me online and said what they got from it is he hates them and I didn’t get that. What I got from the blog is here’s a man who’s confused about relationships and that wants to support the black family and that wants to see black relationships doing good. And at the end of the day when you take out all the generalizations, he’s really saying that black men and black women have to have better communication and respect each other more. He’s calling everyone to task.”

The footage should be preserved in the Smithsonian.
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Finally! Someone else with true vision

@Gimmeabreak78

I agree with you, but from what I’ve heard the song originally was a remix to one of his other popular songs and he made the ‘Tip Drill’ extended remix as an adult version, so I could understand why the ‘clean’ version was played on the radio. I just think that we should be allowed to have ‘adult only’ content without crossing the lines of the sentiment that all these people ‘hate and degrade black women’…there can be a fine line though, you are correct…

I have to get to a meeting, I’ll try catching all of you later on….

I also hate that why does it seem like everyone is looking for the BLACK WOMAN to fix it? It’s always that the black woman or women PERIOD are doing something wrong?

Everybody has their own “technique” that they are comfortable with. Their is no guaranteed set method although some are more successful than others. What doesn’t work for you as female may work for another female.
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I let attire, looks, and body language determine my approach. Alot of times you don’t havr to go all out…sadly. I’ve mastered the art of dumbin it down for birds

If the kit kat right I will $ma$h any color-keep it 100 my niccas

@BG
“Everybody has their own “technique” that they are comfortable with. Their is no guaranteed set method although some are more successful than others. What doesn’t work for you as female may work for another female.
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I let attire, looks, and body language determine my approach. Alot of times you don’t havr to go all out…sadly. I’ve mastered the art of dumbin it down for birds”
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A lot of these hoez respond to some ol bullchit you tell ‘em.

@Peace

“Evolution is a process as we know. It seems that black women and women in general are evolving faster than black males. I do believe in supporting another person but at what point does the supporting turn into the cheerleader doing more work than the athlete?”

Good question, and, honestly, I don’t have a ready answer. I had a long conversation yesterday offline about this topic, and one aspect about this entire controversy that I don’t think has gotten enough attention is the a-s-s-e-r-t-i-o-n that black women cannot expect more out of some black men — that they need to “lower their expectations.” When you lower your expectations for someone, that often, in addition, connotes the lowering of confidence in that person’s abilities and your concept of that person’s value. If the situation were reversed and a woman said that black men need to lower their expectations for black women, I would be highly offended. I would think that would indicate that the person believes that sisters aren’t reaching their full potential, that they’re not delivering what they should. Is ST suggesting that black men are incapable of doing more?

To use another example, there are documented examples of teachers who have lowered expectations black students and allow them to proceed from grade to grade without properly a-s-s-e-s-s-i-n-g their skills and level of knowledge. Ultimately, that lack of investment results in a number of students being inadequately prepared for college and for the work force. “Lowered expectations” do not serve anyone well.

A lot of these hoez respond to some ol bullchit you tell ‘em.
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Of course, I’ve literally told a chick “If I was you I would do me” which was follow up by a laugh by her and drink from me, and the PROTECTED exchange of DNA later in the nite.

@j
@No u can’t be boyfriend #2!
@tg
@Just Sit and Be Pretty

He didn’t really apologize, he clarified what he said and shows how it was taken out of context. And he even made some damn good points.

“Lowered expectations” do not serve anyone well.
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“REALISTIC expectations” are good for everyone.

@BG
“A lot of these hoez respond to some ol bullchit you tell ‘em.
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Of course, I’ve literally told a chick “If I was you I would do me” which was follow up by a laugh by her and drink from me, and the PROTECTED exchange of DNA later in the nite.”
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Yeah, well in Baton Rouge we do it a la another Baton Rouge native, Webbie:

♪♫♪”Girl, gimme that puzzy!”♫♪♫

Man, I just don’t care™

@#2
“Most men laugh at their boys for getting knocked down (here are some of his lesson you seem to speak of) but there does come a time where you should know if you keep getting unlucky then it’s time to say to self, I need to make some changes about how I have approached women and what have you. So I am all for learning from your mistakes… it’s the ‘repeat’ disrespect in his approach that I cannot seem to understand!?!”
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Everybody has their own “technique” that they are comfortable with. Their is no guaranteed set method although some are more successful than others. What doesn’t work for you as female may work for another female.

Is the SAME guy repeatedly approaching you the same way?

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Sometimes they have (but of course at different locations and with months going by).

I find it cute that you think that successful women of all races (basically a woman who is above average) should feel entertained by what I like to call an ill approach!! It should be obvious by how you get shut down to come with something better!

And I don’t agree with you not having a method to approach a woman! The men that do seem to have it… leaves a woman wondering ‘what’s he all about?!’ after he steps to her and basically having her wonder if she should give him a call later that night, know how to use it!

@#2
“Sometimes they have (but of course at different locations and with months going by).

I find it cute that you think that successful women of all races (basically a woman who is above average) should feel entertained by what I like to call an ill approach!! It should be obvious by how you get shut down to come with something better!

And I don’t agree with you not having a method to approach a woman! The men that do seem to have it… leaves a woman wondering ‘what’s he all about?!’ after he steps to her and basically having her wonder if she should give him a call later that night, know how to use it!”
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¿¿¿ :shocked: ???
What? I don’t think ANY woman (successful = above average LOL) “should” entertain something they don’t want to.

I’m just saying “don’t expect a man to approach you in the way you see fit.” He can’t read your mind and every guy does what they feel comfortable with. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t. Just move on to the next chick.

I can’t even dignify this fool and his comments with my energy. I actually pity him.

Hmmmmm……look who ended up ‘BOWING DOWN’, I’ve always loved Slim Thug so I’ll except his apology…..at least he know who the real ‘BOSSES’ are. We got power ladies….never forget that!!!!!

@ Man
The new gravie is breathtaking! A true display of natural love

Man, I just don’t care™

@#2
“Sometimes they have (but of course at different locations and with months going by).

I find it cute that you think that successful women of all races (basically a woman who is above average) should feel entertained by what I like to call an ill approach!! It should be obvious by how you get shut down to come with something better!

And I don’t agree with you not having a method to approach a woman! The men that do seem to have it… leaves a woman wondering ‘what’s he all about?!’ after he steps to her and basically having her wonder if she should give him a call later that night, know how to use it!”
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¿¿¿ :shocked: ???
What? I don’t think ANY woman (successful = above average LOL) “should” entertain something they don’t want to.

I’m just saying “don’t expect a man to approach you in the way you see fit.” He can’t read your mind and every guy does what they feel comfortable with. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t. Just move on to the next chick.
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LOL @ sometimes it works and sometimes it don’t! Ok I heard enough.

@ Pimpin
Salute Sir!
I salute and approve the motion

@BG
“The new gravie is breathtaking! A true display of natural love”
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Indeed brother indeed!

@Sydney

I completely agree with you! That’s why I said I do not agree with ST’s opinion about successful black women needing to lower their standards. I dont think it is ever ok to lower one’s standards…unless they’re ridiculously unrealistic.

But your post was about Black women possibly becoming apathetic to the plight of some black men. But I think that is precisely why some black women may become that way. Because the majority is not stepping up to the plate. They have not been shown what it means to be a man but want to be treated like a man and once you lose a woman’s respect-you’ve lost her. I’ve noticed some men think you’re supposed to submit to them simply because they were born with male genitals. Any woman with self-value will not submit her will to a male who is not a man.

So I dont think it’s a matter of becoming apathetic bc black women don’t care, but because they simply have to move on because that brotha they may want wont move his feet.

HE’S A LIAR HE SAID WHAT HE SAID…HE CONTRADICTS HIS SELF SAYING HE NEVER BEEN WITH A WHITE CHICK BUT THEN U SAY UR GIRL IS “MIXED” OKAY SHE HAVE WHITE IN HER…IDIOT

It’s a lot of great black men out here that love sistas…I meet them everyday…don’t stress you all’s selves out with these little boys and their mama issues

NUGGA F YOU!!!!! YOU’RE FINISHED WITH ANY SO-CALLED MUSICAL CAREER YOU HAD, AND TO THINK I WAS A BIG FAN!

I hate how everyone is trying to crucify this brother – the brother made some valid points we should discuss…His only sin was comparing BLACK WOMEN to WHITE WOMEN – that’s a NO NO… All these women acting like that don’t generalize BLACK MEN by calling us “DOGS” and “THUGS” – if you’ve generalized black men with these tags, STFU because you ain’t better than SLIM THUG…

I don’t care if he’s a RAPPER or a PAUPER – he’s a BLACK MAN – and he should be able to give his opinions on the BLACK WOMEN that he meets…Steve Harvey said the same thing – and y’all made him a New York times bestseller… Hill Harper said the same thing – and y’all never raised an eyebrow… Why can’t Slim Thug express his own sentiments on the BLACK WOMEN he meets on daily basis???

I don’t know what you women want – y’all complained about being single and now, a brother is giving his own opinion but y’all want to crucify him for that… MOST MEN KNOW THAT THERE’S AN ELEMENT OF TRUTH TO WHAT SLIM THUG SAID – THEY’RE JUST NO BRAVE ENOUGH TO SAY IT.

@ Pimpin
Ahhhh man, the pioneers, I got love for every sista that felt it was in her DNA to own the dance floor whenever “Scarred” came on! “Verb coming, Free *****”!
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The world was a different place then….

GOTTA RESPECT THOSE THAT CAME BEFORE YOU!

2 Live Crew = pioneers of lovemaking music!
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The Isley bros. of the early 90′s

Hi Pimpin

@Peace

“So I dont think it’s a matter of becoming apathetic bc black women don’t care, but because they simply have to move on because that brotha they may want wont move his feet.”

I think this refers back to the continual conversation of the role that women play in our relationships. We have the power to choose which men we allow into our lives. A man who refuses to better himself may not be the best candidate for a relationship. You also mentioned men who have been incarcerated, and I wouldn’t call many of these individuals suitable for healthy relationships either. It is absolutely fine — and normal — for women to expect more for themselves. If a woman doesn’t have certain standards, she may be allowing all types of individuals into her life and into her heart with often disastrous results.

If a man doesn’t want more for himself, why should he want to offer more (and I’m not referring to material/financial goods) to you? The expectations/standards that a man holds for himself are a reflection of how he views himself. A man with low expectations has a lowered view of himself, IMO.

And, for the record, I don’t think any sista should date someone who refers to himself as a “Thug,” or any moniker that includes that term. I think that summarizes what can be expected from him, which is nothing good nor substantive.

@ SYD
I’ve been to jail a few times never for a longer than 2 days (minor infractions) just the man trying to hold me down. However I would like to enter your “world”. I’ve told you many times that your brain power moves me in ways that no voluptous azz has. Will you be mine?

@Sydney

LOLOLOL!!! Awwwww BG just asked you to be his girlfriend…circle yes or no!

….We’re waiting…inquiring minds wanna know…

“I’ve been to jail a few times never for a longer than 2 days (minor infractions) just the man trying to hold me down. However I would like to enter your “world”. I’ve told you many times that your brain power moves me in ways that no voluptous azz has. Will you be mine?”

*slaps forehead*

Now, you’ve gone and done it, BG. The “Black Women Love Thugs” police will be here momentarily, lol.

@Peace

LOL, I’m happily taken, and he has no criminal record.

BG, how’s your gf, btw?

@ Peace
You remind me of days when my mackin was lackin and I had to go thru friends to get to the prize.

@ SYD
Don’t call the folks on me. Give me one chance and the “neighbors will know my name”

Props to Trey Songz

Ignorance at its best!

I read his comments the other day and I agree with most of what he said. Most black women need to learn how to be better spouses and be more feminine as well. But just like the guy who responded to him proved, we’re not supposed to say these types of things, because apparently it’s against the law to say anything negative about black women even when it’s the truth. In reality, ignoring what so many black men say about black women only hurts our community more. If African American women knew how to be more feminine, men would be more willing to date them and our community would be a lot better off. Most of them can’t understand this or simply don’t care. Slim Thug and other black men say what a lot of people say. Making him out to be a bad guy instead of being real, only hurts black women and children with no fathers around.

So it’s impossible for a black woman to meet a brother who doesn’t have a criminal record? That’s malarkey.

DRIP DRYING NOW, HUM!!! HE GOT TO GET IT STRAIGHT TO SELL THOSE ALBUMS!!!

@ syd

LOL, I’m happily taken, and he has no criminal record. (whatever) I aint tryin to holla at him!

BG, how’s your gf, btw?
You had to go there…lol She’s good better than ever. I just got her a new ride so she is extra happy now

Hey Sydney =]

How you been? Still intelligent and fine I’m sure!

@BG

“@ SYD
Don’t call the folks on me. Give me one chance and the “neighbors will know my name””

I don’t have to call them, brother, they’re always around. I’m surprised they haven’t arrived yet. I’m sure they will soon, lol.

So it’s impossible for a black woman to meet a brother who doesn’t have a criminal record? That’s malarkey.
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So if I get my charges dropped we got a chance at romance?

@BG

“You had to go there…lol She’s good better than ever. I just got her a new ride so she is extra happy now”

LMAO, yes, I did go there. That was very nice of you, I’m sure your future wi-, I mean gf, loved it.

@Pimpin

I’m good, how are you? Good to see you!

@BG

“@ SYD
Don’t call the folks on me. Give me one chance and the “neighbors will know my name””

I don’t have to call them, brother, they’re always around. I’m surprised they haven’t arrived yet. I’m sure they will soon, lol.
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Oh…You must live in SE….ok nevermind lol

Stop, BG!

The way Slim Thug went about his interview was stupid. He did bring up some good points that should be discussed about some black women, but he should have handled it differently. But that’s not to say that we should just act like some things he said ain’t true.

@Sydney

The man feeling you, and you should comment back at least letting him know you like the comment he wrote to you… At least flirt back with the man… What does you having a man have to do with it?… The least you can do is act like you like it, just a lil bit… Right?

I respect Slim for stepping up and and clarify his words. But it still doesn’t change the fact that alot of men were agreeing with him (to some extent). Stay tuned my and my friend are gonna do something with this.

The way Slim Thug went about his interview was stupid. He did bring up some good points that should be discussed about some black women, but he should have handled it differently. But that’s not to say that we should just act like some things he said ain’t true.

@Sydney

The man feeling you, and you should comment back at least letting him know you like the comment he wrote to you… At least flirt back with the man… What does you having a man have to do with it?… The least you can do is act like you like it, just a lil bit… Right?

@ SYD
Real talk! Every morning on the channel 8 bootleg news I hear about at least 2-3 deaths, some murders, others unexplained. This has been regular for at least a week now. It reminds me of the early 90′s back at home. It’s ashame how the summer and winter brings out the worst in people

The way Slim Thug went about his interview was stupid. He did bring up some points that should be discussed about some black women, but he should have handled it differently. But that’s not to say that we should just act like some things he said ain’t true.

@Sydney

The man feeling you, and you should comment back at least letting him know you like the comment he wrote to you… At least flirt back with the man… What does you having a man have to do with it?… The least you can do is act like you like it, just a lil bit… Right?

The way Slim Thug went about his interview was stupid. He did bring up some points that should be discussed about some black women, but he should have handled it differently. But that’s not to say that we should just act like some things he said ain’t true.

@The Dude
6/10/10, 13:33:PM
I read his comments the other day and I agree with most of what he said. Most black women need to learn how to be better spouses and be more feminine as well. But just like the guy who responded to him proved, we’re not supposed to say these types of things, because apparently it’s against the law to say anything negative about black women even when it’s the truth. In reality, ignoring what so many black men say about black women only hurts our community more. If African American women knew how to be more feminine, men would be more willing to date them and our community would be a lot better off. Most of them can’t understand this or simply don’t care. Slim Thug and other black men say what a lot of people say. Making him out to be a bad guy instead of being real, only hurts black women and children with no
fathers around.
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COSIGN 100% BRUH!!! BROTHERS NEED TO SPEAK OUT BECAUSE SLIM THUG MADE VALID POINTS…

@Sydney

The man feeling you, and you should comment back at least letting him know you like the comment he wrote to you… At least flirt back with the man… What does you having a man have to do with it?… The least you can do is act like you like it, just a lil bit… Right?

The man feeling you, and you should comment back at least letting him know you like the comment he wrote to you… At least flirt back with the man… What does you having a man have to do with it?… The least you can do is act like you like it, just a lil bit… Right Sydney?

People like this professor are actually a detriment to the growth and improvement of the black community. Always attempting to defend and praise black American women destroys any chance we have of building a better future for ourselves as a whole. They are just as much if not more of the reason for so many of our problems to begin with. Ignoring the terrible attitudes that so many of them have, the lack of responsibility when it comes to their own bodies and practices, the choices in men that they willingly and knowingly mate and procreate with, and their mentality that black men are not needed makes everything 100 times more difficult.

We say we want things to be better, but if we are only allowed to criticize one side of the problem how can we improve? We’ll always have to hear about how bad black men are and on the other side we’ll hear about the overly exaggerated success and near perfection of the black woman. If African-American women chose their partners better, acted like ladies, and had better skills as mothers and spouses, most of our problems would improve drastically.

The man feeling you, and you should comment back at least letting him know you like the comment he wrote to you… At least flirt back with the man… What does you having a man have to do with it?… The least you can do is act like you like it, just a lil bit… Right?

The Dude
6/10/10, 13:33:pm
I read his comments the other day and I agree with most of what he said. Most black women need to learn how to be better spouses and be more feminine as well. But just like the guy who responded to him proved, we’re not supposed to say these types of things, because apparently it’s against the law to say anything negative about black women even when it’s the truth. In reality, ignoring what so many black men say about black women only hurts our community more. If African American women knew how to be more feminine, men would be more willing to date them and our community would be a lot better off. Most of them can’t understand this or simply don’t care. Slim Thug and other black men say what a lot of people say. Making him out to be a bad guy instead of being real, only hurts black women and children with no fathers around.
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There are 20 million black women. I guess you’ve interviewed MOST? How about MOST black men need to stay out of trouble? MOST black men need to step THEIR game up? MOST black men need to learn how to be MEN? How do you know what kind of spouses black women make? How many brothers have you interviewed. Better yet, your comment is unfounded being that…listen carefully…apparently white women don’t make the best spouses either since the divorce rate is VERY HIGH. Come on, brother. Let’s think logically now.

You’re whole feminine speal is ridiculous. Some of you guys just don’t get how hard-headed you can be. Maybe if some of you brothers pulled up your pants, enrolled in college, and such you mind find the woman you are looking for. Wake up!

@ Mock Star
Knowing that you are a friend of SYD’s I would like to apologize for directly callin you a f.a.g

Sydney™
6/10/10, 13:40:pm

@BG

“You had to go there…lol She’s good better than ever. I just got her a new ride so she is extra happy now”

LMAO, yes, I did go there. That was very nice of you, I’m sure your future wi-, I mean gf, loved it.

@Pimpin

I’m good, how are you? Good to see you!

Syd, I am good, you know I got next if things don’t workout with who your with right?

Syd, I am good, you know I got next if things don’t workout with who your with right?
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She with me…everything is cool….lol

@The Dude – if some of you quit whining and complaining and start learning how to be men, the community would be a better place.

Communities that have strong men and fathers, are the ones that flourish. Many black men today lack fathers who didn’t teach them who to become men, so the only things you know are about sex, no intimacy, thus you can’t be a good man or father. Read some books instead of placing the failures of the black community on us. Black men are supposed to be the leaders. You talk about how you want to be kings, when then rule your KINGDOM!

Here’s what I do not quite comprehend — it seems like we’re being pummeled with a series of mixed messages. We’re told that:

Black women love thugs. Yet we’re also told that most black men have been incarcerated, so we’ll have to choose them as partners.

Black women’s standards are too high. Yet many are offended when there’s any suggestion that some brothers cannot/will not deliver what is expected of most men. Again, lowered expectations connote a lowered degree of confidence in and perception of a person’s capabilities.

Black women are responsible for the decline of the community. But who’s putting some black men behind bars, keeping them from pursuing a higher education, or getting jobs?

Yes, I know some black women have a litany of flaws, but are we expected to get our community on the right course on our own? Can we get an a-s-s-i-s-t?

@I mentioned on another blog how Enimen called black women bytches years ago. Not one, not ONE, rapper stood up and called him out on it, yet we spend our money on their music. SMH.

Umm lot people called out Em on that when that happened, he even had to go to great lengths to explain himself to his own group/click D12 as they never heard of it and some took issue with it when The Source broke that story..

Oh Lord. . .

Hey, is anyone else excited about the World Cup?

@AnonymousGal
“”"” Yes, life is hard for our brothers out there, but what some brothers don’t understand is that the black woman’s loyalty is like none other.”"”"

Every black man out there knows the black women are the most loyal women – and that’s why we’ll always come back to our women no matter what.. We love our women and we’ll never let men from other races disrespect them.. Do you remember how black men reacted after EMINEM made that “BLACK B!TC.H” track??? Eminem had to get extra security – we don’t play with y’all,believe that… I have been in situations in club where I had to fight Latinos and White men for disrespecting sisters I don’t know – and I’ve seen a lot of brother do that as well…

“”"”What some black men fail to understand is that we are not the enemy.”"”"

We know y’all are not the ENEMY but need more support from y’all…The problem is that y’all now support all the demons running after us – it never used to be like that…

“”"”How many black men have our backs.”"”"”

The truth is that most black men love black women but some of the points that were raised by Slim Thug pushed a lot of brothers away… There’s nothing like the black love and black women – this is coming from a brother that swirls from time to time…

Bg
6/10/10, 14:07:pm

Syd, I am good, you know I got next if things don’t workout with who your with right?
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She with me…everything is cool….lol

Well 007 we have equal tastes, such is life, nothing left do but tip hats and proceed with what the ladies choose to do.

*test*

@Sydeny

The man is feeling you. At least you can comment back saying something that lets him know you like the comment he wrote to you. What does your man have to do with it?… At least act like you like it or flirt back with BG.

She with me…everything is cool….lol

Well 007 we have equal tastes, such is life, nothing left do but tip hats and proceed with what the ladies choose to do.
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I agree sir!

This cat did a horrible job of explaining himself. He said wat he said. lol

@Josephine…can’t type your name

The man is feeling you. At least you can comment back saying something that lets him know you like the comment he wrote to you… At least act like you like it or flirt back with BG… What does your man have to do with it this time?

@Anonymous

How about MOST black men need to stay out of trouble? MOST black men need to step THEIR game up? MOST black men need to learn how to be MEN?
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Who’s raising these black men?

@Josephine…can’t type your name

The man is feeling you. At least you can comment back saying something that lets him know you like the comment he wrote to you… At least act like you like it or flirt back with BG… What does your man have to do with it this time?

If you dislike each of the black women you’ve met, the problem is you.
If you dislike all of the black men you’ve met, the problem is you.
If you judge/dislike the MILLIONS OF BLACK MEN/WOMEN YOU’VE NEVER EVEN MET, see previous statements.

@ReALiSt – I’m glad you love sisters, brother. I really am, but I’m so frustrated at how many black men want us to fix the world. Like Sydney said, we can’t do it alone. Instead of brothers calling us out, why don’t we take a long look and let’s deal with our issues together.

As far as Enimen is concerned, I don’t remember one peep from brother, anywhere. Forgive me if I missed it, but I recall saying to some friends, where are our brothers when we need them? If I’m wrong, I apologize.

Brother, I will support a brother to the hilt, but I will not support anyone continuously casting stones at me or my sisters. I’m just tired of it, ya know.

TWITTER SAY IT ALL

SLIM THUG IS LYING HE EVEN PUT BLACK WOMEN DOWN ON HIS TWITTER PAGE

HE JUST TRYING TO BACK HIS WORDS UP BUT IT’S TO LATE

The man is feeling you. At least you can comment back saying something that lets him know you like the comment he wrote to you… At least act like you like it or flirt back with BG… What does your man have to do with it this time?

I want to say this to all the black men who feel some type of way towards black women…eff off. Like I stated earlier, statistically black women are doing a h3ll of a lot better than black men right about now. We are better educated, we have better jobs making more paper, the list can go on. Most of you all should be with white women let them deal with your BS as we don’t deserve it anymore. I have a good black man…who loves me for me and that is all that matters. The rest of em could date only white women for all I care. Won’t change my world one bit…hey I am swirl baby myself so I wouldn’t care if all black kids were products of swirls. Black women need to get with the program…men don’t come in only black. If me and my baby ever break up I will undoubtedly be open to other races.

Bg
6/10/10, 14:18:pm

She with me…everything is cool….lol

Well 007 we have equal tastes, such is life, nothing left do but tip hats and proceed with what the ladies choose to do.
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I agree sir!

I thought you would, you aint 007 to me for nothing!

The n&gga is feeling you. The least you can do is comment back to him and say something that will let him know you like the comments to you… What does you having a man got to do with anything this time?

My last comment was to Sydney

@AnonymousGal

How about MOST black men need to stay out of trouble? MOST black men need to step THEIR game up? MOST black men need to learn how to be MEN?
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Who’s raising these boys to get into trouble, who’s raising these boys to not act like grown men? Who is raising them to not have respect for any woman?

Not every man that has been incarcerated at one time or the other in his life is a THUG – some people are just victims of circumstances….

Not every man that has been incarcerated at one time or the other in his life is a THUG – some people are just victims of circumstance….

It erodes a woman’s femininity if she is expected to lead, which is the message that I think a number of sisters believe is being transmitted to us. We’re being told that we’re responsible for our community’s problems and for the solution, and that, effectively and erroneously, puts us in the driver’s seat, where many of us do not want to be.

@ The Dude

“I read his comments the other day and I agree with most of what he said. Most black women need to learn how to be better spouses and be more feminine as well.”
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I’m confused. Have you met most black women?

You should never make generalizations, ESPECIALLY NOT IN PUBLIC. smh even more @ those who make generalizations about the very thing which THEY ARE. Black men and women need to keep that sheet to themselves unless you are going to speak about SPECIFIC INDIVIDUALS.

Well I heard what he said and as a black professional women I agree with one thing that he said…..Professional independent women would have to lower there standards to be with a ” Slim Thug ” or any other man like him. Since he would be nowhere on my radar as a potential mate then I guess what he said does only apply to SOME not ALL because that is only HIS opinion …But anyway I’m not a fan of his nor have I ever been nor will I ever be so he’s irrelevant to me.

@John

I will tell who is not raising them…BLACK men. Hence why we have the problems we do. A woman, regardless of what people say, cannot teach a boy to be a man like a man can. See how you just put the blame all on us…without even broaching the subject of the missing male figure.

AND LEAVE RACE OUT OF IT!!! IF YOU BELIEVE ALL WHITE WOMEN ARE WEAK AND SUBMISSIVE TO THEIR HUSBAND’S YOU NEED A NEW BELIEF. THERE ARE THE SAME TYPES OF PEOPLE IN ALL RACES.

@ Ashley

You do realize that black women don’t have to get pregnant right? This whole “black women being the man and woman” thing wouldn’t exist if they were more responsible by keeping their legs closed, using some form of birth control, and choosing their partners better. Those things might be to hard for them I guess.

Whats up syd, on huffpo reading about latest on oil spill and afghanistan..heh they have been tearing into Slim Thug on the radio in Houston..

@Txhustla

I need to update myself on BP and Afghanistan. What have they been saying on the radio about ST in Houston? I can only imagine, lol.

5’10″ AKILLAH RICHARDS
6/10/10, 14:21:pm
If you dislike each of the black women you’ve met, the problem is you.
If you dislike all of the black men you’ve met, the problem is you.
If you judge/dislike the MILLIONS OF BLACK MEN/WOMEN YOU’VE NEVER EVEN MET, see previous statements.
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Co-sign 100%

@ Realist

The truth is that most black men love black women but some of the points that were raised by Slim Thug pushed a lot of brothers away… There’s nothing like the black love and black women – this is coming from a brother that swirls from time to time…
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We share these exact same feelings.

Some of you women like thugs, and when you have babies by them, you get mad and expect them to pay child support of be a father to their children. Then you act like the victims, but the truth is you put your own self in the situation… If the thug was irresponsible before you met him, what makes some of these women think he’ll change his behavior?… These women put themselves in these positions so they need to deal with it.

I can’t tell you how many black women I come across who at some point wanted men who acted like thugs or acted hard because they thought they would have more fun with them, then when they get in their late 20s and 30s they stop liking the men who need fixing, and want the clean cut brothers, with an education, 6 figure salary… Most women who are single and getting up in age, made a lot of bad dating choices on PURPOSE, and then start complaining and acting like victims when they don’t have a man… If you ever hear a woman say “I don’t like thugs” just know they did at some point… Its what a lot of black women are naturally attracted too when they first start dating, even the ones who have fathers who don’t act like thugs… They want men who have a hardness.

@Sydney

right on point. When I was single I could do all the things I did just fine…but with my MAN in my life there is a difference. He takes the lead. When I need a flat tire fixed I have a man that can do it for me even though I have changed several tires before it feels good to have my protector doing it for me while I stand by his side . When I go outside and there is huge group of men (which is a tad intimidating) I can go back in the house and say baby can you walk out with me so I feel protected. When I have any issue I know my MAN is there and in the end he will do his best to make it ok. After having this man in my life I realize that I do NEED what a real man brings to the table. He does things I did and can do myself but it feels good to have him there by my side. Some men here are missing that. A real man…is hard to come by but once a woman gets one she knows from there out she will have nothing less than what he has brought to the table.

@Naisia

I will tell who is not raising them…BLACK men. Hence why we have the problems we do. A woman, regardless of what people say, cannot teach a boy to be a man like a man can. See how you just put the blame all on us…without even broaching the subject of the missing male figure
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I agree that a woman can’t raise a boy and I didn’t put the blame on all black women… Why do some black women have children with men who they know have questionable character? Why do some black women have children with men who already have different baby moms? The man does not give birth, so if women get pregnant by an irresponsible man, she more than likely will have to take care of the child.

Afternoon, everyone! I ain’t even gonna comment on this cause I pretty much made it blatantly clear how I feel on the subject numerous times before, but I would like to say wazzup to my dawgs and the ladies, though.

@Sydney

You’re not going to answer my question?

@John – broaden your horizons, bro. Brother, are you blind? There are MILLIONS OF BLACK WOMEN ON THE PLANET. Sheesh, come on now, are you really that…never mind.

@ Niasia
statistically black women are doing a h3ll of a lot better than black men right about now. We are better educated, we have better jobs making more paper, the list can go on.
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That’s not actually true. While you do earn more degrees than us, we actually make more money, own more businesses, have more marriages, and have a higher net worth. When you think about it, even the degree aspect is overrated do to the fact that women regardless of race earn more degrees than men in general. You’re not doing anything that women of other races don’t do with the men of their races.

@John

“You’re not going to answer my question?”

Is that question addressed to the topic at hand? If not, then no.

I’m not responding to the antagonism today.

John

6/10/10, 14:48:pm

@Naisia

I will tell who is not raising them…BLACK men. Hence why we have the problems we do. A woman, regardless of what people say, cannot teach a boy to be a man like a man can. See how you just put the blame all on us…without even broaching the subject of the missing male figure
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I agree that a woman can’t raise a boy and I didn’t put the blame on all black women… Why do some black women have children with men who they know have questionable character? Why do some black women have children with men who already have different baby moms? The man does not give birth, so if women get pregnant by an irresponsible man, she more than likely will have to take care of the child.
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John

6/10/10, 14:48:pm

@Naisia

I will tell who is not raising them…BLACK men. Hence why we have the problems we do. A woman, regardless of what people say, cannot teach a boy to be a man like a man can. See how you just put the blame all on us…without even broaching the subject of the missing male figure
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I agree that a woman can’t raise a boy and I didn’t put the blame on all black women… Why do some black women have children with men who they know have questionable character? Why do some black women have children with men who already have different baby moms? The man does not give birth, so if women get pregnant by an irresponsible man, she more than likely will have to take care of the child.
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No, not really. You see women do have options even when they get pregnant and don’t want the kid. They can bring a baby to any hospital, Fire Department, Police Department or Church, and drop the child off, and no questions will ever be asked, and no one will ever know about it unless they decide to run their mouths. They choose to be with THUGS because they choose to be with thugs, bro. At the same time, if they would demand that the men they choose to f_uck wear protection, a lot of them wouldn’t have a house full of “LITTLE MISTAKES”….

IMO, women who have babies by unfit males are simply looking for love in the wrong places. They don’t seem to understand that a baby will not make a man love you.

ok I beleive him to a certain…I do appreciate him clearing it up…..so it is what it is…bow down

Dang I was just finna check on my businesses and go and get my weekly medicure and pedicure BUT that will have to wait I got to take care of some business right quick. LOL

To BG and The Dude and all of the other posts on here whose talking small jabs at me LOL that’s all I have to say __LOL because it’s funny you know it kills me when I read ignorant comments One thing i’ve learned you can’t teach nobody common sense they will have to have a little of that naturally and it’s crystal clear that alot of people on here don’t seem to have common sense but i’m not going to get mad at you maybe you was just brought up to be slow or maybe you was brought up in a house where your father put your mother down constantly because i’m reading some posts saying black women need to be more feminine if someone can give me a example of how can a black woman be more feminine. I WILL SURE LIKE TO SEE IT Why are black guys so jealouse of a black woman sucess i’ve notice when a black woman tell where she works and if it’s not McDonald’s black men have the nerves to get jealous I guess because the black woman have more than he have LOL well I don’t care get mad I will shout my goals to the mountain top. Just like my girl Lisa Raye said why is it that when a black woman pay her bills first and then go on shopping sprees SPEND THOUSANDS AND THOUSANDS OF DOLARS ENJOYING LIFE AND GETTING her everything she wants or when she flaunts how many cars she got and how big her house is and everything is paid for may I add lol IT BECOMES A PROBLEM BUT WHEN A WHITE WOMAN DO IT GO INSIDE GUCCI AND CHANNEL AND SPEND THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS everything is alright when a black woman do it I hear comments like “OH THE FIRST THING I HEAR I BET SHE AIN’T EVEN GOT HER BILLS PAID like myself ME MY HOUSE, CARS, EVERYTHING IS PAID FOR WITH CASH. SO HELL YEAH IT’S MY MONEY I’M GOING TO ENJOY IT AND DO WHAT I WANT TO DO WITH IT. IF I WANT TO GO GIVE A HOMELESS PERSON 10,000 I WILL BECAUSE IT’S MY MONEY. IT’S SAD WHEN YOUR OWN PEOPLE BRING YOU DOWN JUST BECAUsE YOU MAY HAVE MORE THAN THEY HAVE BUT WHEN A WHITE WOMAN DO IT YA’LL AIN’T GOT NOTHNG TO SAY BUT WHEN A BLACK WOMAN DO IT “OH SHE NEGLECTING HER KIDS, SHE’S NOT PAYING HER BILLS, SHE’S NOT TAKING CARE OF RESPONSIBLITIES LOL HAVE YOU EVER STOP TO REALIZE THAT PERSON MAY HAVE EVERYTHING PAID FOR SO SHE CAN AFFORD TO DO THAT, YOU DON’T EVEN KNOW A DAMN THING ABOUT THAT PERSON LOL YOU PEOPLE ARE FUNNY

I’M OUT FOR REAL I HAVE THINGS TO DO LET ME GO
IT’S BEEN FUN BUT MY BREAK AT HOME IS OVER I HAVE TO GO DO ME I LOVE MAKING MONEY AND IF HAVING TWO SUCESSFUL BUSINESSES AND HAVING LUXURY CARS AND HAVING A BIG HOUSE IF SOMETHING IS WRONG WITH THAT YOU WILL JUST HAVE TO BE MAD HATE IT OR LOVE IT.

LOL YOU PEOPLE ARE FUNNY!!!!!!!!!!!!

@Sydney

Is that question addressed to the topic at hand?
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My question was relevant to what “you” were talking about. You don’t have a response because you know I’m right.

@Daywalker

I don’t know why some black women act like some of them don’t procreate with men who display bad character… They do it on purpose and then after the baby is born they act like victims. No, they put themselves in that situation.

@ AnonymousGal
The fact is white women get divorced at a high rate which dispells the myth that they are the perfect women. I guess you couldn’t read between the lines.
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Everybody gets divorced at a high rate these days and no one said white women were perfect. As I said white women have nothing to do with my point.

White people think MOST black men are losers. How ya like THAT.
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I don’t care how white people feel about me. Didn’t you just say it was silly for me to state that most African-American women weren’t feminine, because I haven’t met most? So, how can you turn around and say how most white people feel without you meeting most of them? That sound a little bit hypocritical.

Let me say this, if you don’t like black women and we are all that you claim, go elsewhere. You sound bitter and have way too much baggage.
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I date black women, but I wouldn’t deal with most. I don’t need anyone’s permission to go elsewhere, because I do whatever I want and I always have.

What woman of any race would want that?
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Apparently a lot of them. I get women and it’s not really that hard to do regardless of their race.

The truth of the matter ladies, is that a lot (not all) of black guys who share Slim Thug’s selfish mentality are usually the same men who don’t even take care of their children. If a man doesn’t give a f’k about his seed, his own flesh & blood; how in the he## do you expect him to respect and give a f’k about a woman???

I don’t even need to post statistics on single black mothers and absentee fathers, y’all already know the deal. Slim’s type of philosophy/mentality is very much correlated with the current demise of the Black American family. A relationship is supposed to be a partnership, not indentured servitude.

With that said, black woman need to leave these losers alone, stop wasting your time on a man-child. Let the man-child have the low-hanging fruit and the white man’s rejects.

Not to mention, 1/2 of these disrespectful guys are DL homothugs who resent women(if you live in the ATL, you know what I’m talking about).

@John

“My question was relevant to what “you” were talking about. You don’t have a response because you know I’m right.”

No, what I think is that you don’t want to actually address the points at hand and that you’ve had past issues with black women that color your current perceptions of them. And the personal attacks aren’t going to work — not with me.

@Ashley
“”"”Just like my girl Lisa Raye said why is it that when a black woman pay her bills first and then go on shopping sprees SPEND THOUSANDS AND THOUSANDS OF DOLARS ENJOYING LIFE AND GETTING her everything she wants or when she flaunts how many cars she got and how big her house is and everything is paid for may I add lol IT BECOMES A PROBLEM”"”"
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You’ve been exposed!!! If your “idol” is LISA RAYE – then Slim Thug was talking about you – you fit the generalization perfectly.. Lisa Raye is the biggest gold-digger in the world!!

@AnonymousGal

Since you are so confident that those millions have chosen the wrong partner, it’s also a testiment to how many black men are the wrong partners, right. Also, since you’re an expert, give us some numbers. Please and thank you.
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I don’t have numbers but just go look at the percentage of out of wedlock births and a number of these women had babies with men of bad character, and they KNEW it… They wanted him because he had a hardness, or had swag… So what you’re saying is for the women who chose to open their legs without protection for a thug or ex-con, are innocent?… I can admit that there are black men who need work, but some of you act like every woman who got pregnant is a victim. SMH

John

6/10/10, 15:07:pm

@Sydney

Is that question addressed to the topic at hand?
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My question was relevant to what “you” were talking about. You don’t have a response because you know I’m right.

@Daywalker

I don’t know why some black women act like some of them don’t procreate with men who display bad character… They do it on purpose and then after the baby is born they act like victims. No, they put themselves in that situation.
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Precisely, my friend. The entire time that the man was with her he was “NO GOOD”, “JOBLESS/UNEMPLOYED”, “IN AND OUTTA JAIL”, and all kinds of other shyt from being “SUSPECT” to having bad breath, but as soon as the brother decides to leave her azz, she wants him back! WTF? If he was that f_ucked up to begin with, why the hell did you give him some puzzy in the first place, you stupid heffa?

And allow me to speak on the reason I feel that SOME posters in here won’t answer certain questions posed to them? Personally, I feel as though they choose not to deal with the truth. Especially when it pertains to a subject that puts a certain gender in a “BAD LIGHT”, and reveals their shortcomings….Or at least that is my opinion, my friend..:lol:

@Realist – Brother, I feel your pain. There is no woman on the planet that understands you like a black woman. We know it’s hard out there for you guys, and most of us, contrary to what anyone says, will stand by a good brother. Only a fool wouldn’t. If men are encountering the kind of woman that isn’t appreciative of her good man, then he’s making wrong choices, just like females do when they continuously pick wrong men.

One thing I wish is that black men will acknowledge out pain as well. Black women are the most put down woman in the world. No other woman has been told that she’s masculine, a gold digger, diseased, unwanted, etc. No other woman, so we are all hurting, brother. But it’s worse when you own kinds adds fuel to the fire. Both BM and BW have a lot to learn because this back and forth blame game isn’t going to help us in the long run.

@Realist – Brother, I feel your pain. There is no woman on the planet that understands you like a black woman. We know it’s hard out there for you guys, and most of us, contrary to what anyone says, will stand by a good brother. Only a fool wouldn’t. If men are encountering the kind of woman that isn’t appreciative of her good man, then he’s making wrong choices, just like females do when they continuously pick wrong men.

@Sydney

No, what I think is that you don’t want to actually address the points at hand and that you’ve had past issues with black women that color your current perceptions of them. And the personal attacks aren’t going to work — not with me.

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That won’t work because I have already said in another thread that my comments are my experiences and are based on the women I dealt with. I don’t have issues with all black women… Why didn’t you respond to my post the other? Cause you couldn’t. Let me guess you probably tried to smooth things over your boy toy right?

@SYDNEY

Evolution is a process as we know. It seems that black women and women in general are evolving faster than black males.
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I know this wasn’t your original post but you agreed with it.

My response. PLEASE!

Black women,can’t seem EVOLVE past their silly attraction to pseudo-masculinity or THUGS, and its killing you all, literally.

Is that really evolution? I doubt it.

You often deny the fact that black women are attracted to thugs.

Yet you often gather information from other women on here and you speak to your observations of how they feel. i.e (black women feeling attacked)

Now with that being considered, my observation gathered from many, many men (on this blog here as a reference) is that they see the same things that i see, black women in general across levels of education are attracted to thugs. Can you at least hear that? Can you understand that many of us are saying the same thing?

@Miami Chick
I don’t even need to post statistics on single black mothers and absentee fathers, y’all already know the deal. Slim’s type of philosophy/mentality is very much correlated with the current demise of the Black American family. A relationship is supposed to be a partnership, not indentured servitude.
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When you post post statistics on single black mothers and absentee fathers – make sure you incarceration statistics of black men & the crime – and the single white mothers and absentee white fathers….I believe in Slim Thug’s philosophy but not the articulation of his philosophy… He made VALID POINTS and we as black people have to discuss that to keep the black family alive….

No one is asking black women to be an “indentured servitude” – but there are basic things women ought to do to keep the family alive.. There’s nothing wrong in cooking for your husband and catering to him…

Kreole King

6/10/10, 15:20:pm

@SYDNEY

Evolution is a process as we know. It seems that black women and women in general are evolving faster than black males.
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I know this wasn’t your original post but you agreed with it.

My response. PLEASE!

Black women,can’t seem EVOLVE past their silly attraction to pseudo-masculinity or THUGS, and its killing you all, literally.

Is that really evolution? I doubt it.

You often deny the fact that black women are attracted to thugs.

Yet you often gather information from other women on here and you speak to your observations of how they feel. i.e (black women feeling attacked)

Now with that being considered, my observation gathered from many, many men (on this blog here as a reference) is that they see the same things that i see, black women in general across levels of education are attracted to thugs. Can you at least hear that? Can you understand that many of us are saying the same thing?
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PREACH!!! *Pazzes Collection plate to the right*

Black women,can’t seem EVOLVE past their silly attraction to pseudo-masculinity or THUGS, and its killing you all, literally.
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GTFOH with that BS – please define pseudo-masculinity or THUGS???

What should they be attracted to?? ‘ol booty popping “BOULE??” I’m tired of members of the BLACK FRATERNITY BS that think they’re the best thing since slice bread – every black man can’t be a conformist or bi-sexual.. I’ll never sell me soul for some nickles or allow a man pop me in my booty just for a temporary status…

@Realist

“The problem is the most black men out there have never had the opportunity to experience “true love” – most are from difficult backgrounds – and they feel like everything hates them; that’s where the thug mentality come from..”

If this is true — and I don’t doubt it is for some brothers — than it’s probably not the most prudent decision to attack the individuals closest to them who could actually provide that “love” — black women.

@John

“That won’t work because I have already said in another thread that my comments are my experiences and are based on the women I dealt with. I don’t have issues with all black women…”

You seem to be applying your past problems with some black women to attributes of the general population.

“Why didn’t you respond to my post the other? Cause you couldn’t. Let me guess you probably tried to smooth things over your boy toy right?”

LOL, the more personal antagonism you mount, the clearer it is that you cannot debate the issues at hand. And, yes, my man told me that — He observed that certain male posters tend to try to put black women into categories, i.e. baby mamas, uneducated, gold-diggers, etc., and if those don’t fit certain women, then they continue digging to try to find some flaw. They resort to ad hominem attacks in a fervent attempt to hurt, rather than engage in a mature discussion.

Actually, the gap between single white mothers and black mothers is closing. There are more white women giving birth out of wedlock, people. Read up and quit just making AZZumption. A lot of white women just get rid of the evidence, i.e. kill their children by throwing them away. DO YOUR RESEARCH!

@Daywalker

Precisely, my friend. The entire time that the man was with her he was “NO GOOD”, “JOBLESS/UNEMPLOYED”, “IN AND OUTTA JAIL”, and all kinds of other shyt from being “SUSPECT” to having bad breath, but as soon as the brother decides to leave her azz, she wants him back! WTF? If he was that f_ucked up to begin with, why the hell did you give him some puzzy in the first place, you stupid heffa?

And allow me to speak on the reason I feel that SOME posters in here won’t answer certain questions posed to them? Personally, I feel as though they choose not to deal with the truth. Especially when it pertains to a subject that puts a certain gender in a “BAD LIGHT”, and reveals their shortcomings….Or at least that is my opinion, my friend..:lol:
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If that ain’t the truth bruh… Some of them don’t like the truth because they want to tell all of America that only black men have problems. I do agree that some of us do but some black women do too, and they never acknowledge the bad choices they make or the bad dating choices… They will keep dating thugs, or guys who act hard, then when they treat them bad, they’ll keep running back to the same types of guys… Its not until they get up in age when they decide they want something different.

@Kreole King

“Now with that being considered, my observation gathered from many, many men (on this blog here as a reference) is that they see the same things that i see, black women in general across levels of education are attracted to thugs. Can you at least hear that? Can you understand that many of us are saying the same thing?”

Ah, I was waiting for you to arrive, LMAO (See, BG?). Please refer to my post above about the role that women play in selecting their partners and the results of unwise decisions, including picking “thug” types.

Is that adequate, or are you going to accuse me of having an “idiot mind,” as you did some other poster yesterday?

*** BLACK WOMEN *** THERE IS A SIMPLE SOLUTION TO DEALING WITH MEN IN THE LIMELIGHT WHO PUT DOWN BLACK WOMEN…..

…..Do not BUY anything they put out!

…..Do not support their concerts!

…..Do not support ANYTHING THEY DO!

Men like him needs to be hit in his pocket which in turn will affect his sales and ultimately his career!

LADIES THIS IS WHAT NEEDS TO BE DONE TODAY!!!!!

AND IF ANY MALES ARE OFFENDED BY THE PUT DOWNS OF BLACK WOMEN, THEN YOU NEED TO STOP SUPPORTING THESE PEOPLE IN THE LIMELIGHT AS WELL!

LADIES….Show these people who are spreading this vicious hate about black women THAT WE DO HAVE POWER AND WE WILL SHOW THEM !….

THERE IS MORE THAN ONE WAY TO SKIN A CAT (as the old folks use to say)!

@Sydney

You seem to be applying your past problems with some black women to attributes of the general population.
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Because a lot of you do like thugs but never will admit that.

LOL, the more personal antagonism you mount, the clearer it is that you cannot debate the issues at hand.
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I asked you a question that pertained to what you were talking about and you didn’t answer.

He observed that certain male posters tend to try to put black women into categories, i.e. baby mamas, uneducated, gold-diggers, etc., and if those don’t fit certain women, then they continue digging to try to find some flaw. They resort to ad hominem attacks in a fervent attempt to hurt, rather than engage in a mature discussion.
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I’m not trying to find a flow in you. I didn’t say anything to “you” about gold diggers, baby moms, uneducated women, have I? The first question I asked you was a question you were talking about.

I don’t think you really have a man and you already know why I say this… But just in case you do have one, I know you probably tried to smooth things over with him…

*idiot brain*

John

6/10/10, 15:32:pm

@Daywalker

Precisely, my friend. The entire time that the man was with her he was “NO GOOD”, “JOBLESS/UNEMPLOYED”, “IN AND OUTTA JAIL”, and all kinds of other shyt from being “SUSPECT” to having bad breath, but as soon as the brother decides to leave her azz, she wants him back! WTF? If he was that f_ucked up to begin with, why the hell did you give him some puzzy in the first place, you stupid heffa?

And allow me to speak on the reason I feel that SOME posters in here won’t answer certain questions posed to them? Personally, I feel as though they choose not to deal with the truth. Especially when it pertains to a subject that puts a certain gender in a “BAD LIGHT”, and reveals their shortcomings….Or at least that is my opinion, my friend..:lol:
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If that ain’t the truth bruh… Some of them don’t like the truth because they want to tell all of America that only black men have problems. I do agree that some of us do but some black women do too, and they never acknowledge the bad choices they make or the bad dating choices… They will keep dating thugs, or guys who act hard, then when they treat them bad, they’ll keep running back to the same types of guys… Its not until they get up in age when they decide they want something different.
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Deflection and misdirection at its finest, my friend…Clearly at a level as practiced by most politicians…Well, you know the saying: If you can’t dazzle em’ with your wit, baffle em’ with Bullshyt!

@John et al

I think you all ran every positive/mild-mannered brother off the thread, lol.

The vibe completely changed.

Let me guess, that you felt guilty after I called you on your BS, which is why you tried to smooth things over (which you won’t admit) with him, and then turned right around and tried to make him feel guilty. Do I have it right yet?

Some of the same chit I went through with a disrespectful ex. Fellas just stay single or date and if you get married, choose wisely.

@John

I just told you what he said about you and others. If you do not have a cogent argument, you try to belittle a woman in other ways. If you want to discuss the topic at hand, I’m more than willing to engage you.

“Some of the same chit I went through with a disrespectful ex. Fellas just stay single or date and if you get married, choose wisely.”

You sound like you have a sizeable chip on your shoulder. The women on here are not your ex.

Most men who put down black women claim that black women “put their standards too high”. That means that black men know that they do not measure up to “a high standard”, but they should.

When you work on a job most employers want an employee who has high standards. And while hiring potential employees, bosses ALWAYS look for the BEST and they look for employees who “will measure up to their high standards”…..So why shouldn’t a black women PLACE HER STANDARDS HIGH.

Black men are losers and are always looking for the easy way out instead of trying to be the best AND MEASURE TO A HIGHER STANDARD!

LOL @ Daywalker

Well I’m out. I got a dental appointment. Peace brother.

Ahhhhhhhhhhh enuff already phuk Slime Thug I’ma be whatEVA he thinks I am, if sophistication is what he need I’ma be that, if he need a ride or die chick I’ma be that, but whatever I am it’ll be what he made me now nuff said…NEXT…….

John

6/10/10, 15:54:pm

LOL @ Daywalker

Well I’m out. I got a dental appointment. Peace brother.
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Later, J! I’m gonna review some plans for a bit and then bail too.

@Sydney

I just told you what he said about you and others. If you do not have a cogent argument, you try to belittle a woman in other ways. If you want to discuss the topic at hand, I’m more than willing to engage you.
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Did you try and smooth things over, and if so, what did he say about what I said?

I’m not belittling no one specifically. I’m talking about a group of women, and have not generalized all black women.

I know the women on here are not my ex. But I can warn some of the brothers about some women and how they behave… Even the women who have good brothers are disrespectful to them.

@ AnonymousGal
Actually, the gap between single white mothers and black mothers is closing.
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That’s true, but here’s the problem. 24% of white women are having kids out of wedlock while over 70% of black women are. I wouldn’t call that closing the gap too much.

A lot of white women just get rid of the evidence, i.e. kill their children by throwing them away. DO YOUR RESEARCH!
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You might need to do your research. Black wome have a much higher abortion rate than any woman in America. Black women have 4:1 ratio edge over white women when it come to abortion. Studies say that by 2015, black female abortions will OUTNUMBER white female abortions. Remember white women are 66% of the female population and black women are 13%. If you include abortions as a cause of death, abortions would easily be the leading cause of death in our community. Even if you combine our top 5 causes of death together it still wouldn’t be anywhere near close. You might need to do your research.

@John, The Dude, and Day

Y’all behave now!

And, back up off my girl Sydney, there are plenty of ‘hood boogers up in these threads to tear apart for their stupidity, she’s definitely not one of them!

Sydney™

6/10/10, 15:53:pm

@John

I just told you what he said about you and others. If you do not have a cogent argument, you try to belittle a woman in other ways. If you want to discuss the topic at hand, I’m more than willing to engage you.

“Some of the same chit I went through with a disrespectful ex. Fellas just stay single or date and if you get married, choose wisely.”

You sound like you have a sizeable chip on your shoulder. The women on here are not your ex.
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And you sound as though you fail to acknowledge that man’s right to disagree with you, Sydney. The fact that he is basing his post on his experience/history is clearly his choice. I’ve know you to do a bit of the same in previous posts as well.

@AnonymousGal
I heart you sister!! It goes both ways – the media started the generalization propaganda – and everyone ran with it… I don’t even know how real all these statistics they throw at us are – we all just need to embrace the things that unite us and reject the things that separate us…

Sister, find your black love wherever you can find him – it shouldn’t just be about status because most of the so-called “successful black men” are not the good partners.. Some of the “disadvantaged black men” out there are better partners – and this is coming from a brother who came from a disadvantaged background but worked his up into the “successful people” group… Some of the people in the “status quo” are the worst people you’ll ever come across in live – and the disadvantaged people are just victims of circumstance…

Find your black man; share mutual unconditional love; and build your family from the the scratch together… Make your marriage a partnership;help each other out; and the black love will take you to “eldorado.”"..

@Sydney™
“”"”If this is true — and I don’t doubt it is for some brothers — than it’s probably not the most prudent decision to attack the individuals closest to them who could actually provide that “love” — black women.”"”"

I don’t know any sane black man that will attack a black woman that shows him love.. For example: DMX is the craziest “thug” out there but he still reciprocates “true love.”… He loves his grandma and wife because they show him unconditional love but hates his mother because she hates him.. So, are you going to say he hates black women because he hates his mom??? The truth is that he hates his mom because his mom hates him, period…. Black men hate black women that hate them and love the ones that love them – the hateful group of black women can’t give hate and expect love…

Slim Thug on the other hand shared his sentiments based on what he experiences on daily basis – and I respect him for keeping it real..

Caramel Cat™

6/10/10, 16:01:pm

@John, The Dude, and Day

Y’all behave now!

And, back up off my girl Sydney, there are plenty of ‘hood boogers up in these threads to tear apart for their stupidity, she’s definitely not one of them!
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Agreed! And how are you today, Mam’selle kitty cat?

@Syd

Yeah, I came back an hour ago but I had to read through the thread for a bit…

@Day

I’m good today, are you being nice????

@ AnonymousGal
The paragraph above is very telling. I think a lot of you guys are misogynists. I think a lot of black men had mothers that yelled and screamed and broke their spirits down to the point that they hate women. The first relationship a boy has with a woman is most like his mother. It just dawned on me that if many of the men here making black women the enemy took a long, good hard look at themselves, they’d have to take responsibility for their misery. It’s easy to project insecurites and failures on others.
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My mother is a very nice and sweet woman. She’s one of the reasons I respect women like her. Both of my parents had high standards and so do I. My mother is just as strict as I am when it comes to her views of women. I have no respect for b*tches and hoes, but I am more than willing to respect ladies. It’s not about us having insecurities or failures. It’s about us wanting better women.

People date people who remind them of their parents. If my mother was like the women that I was talking about I’d probably be more tolerant of those kinds of women. People go towards things they relate to. Hating women and speaking the truth are to completely different things.

@The Dude – I agree with the high abortion rate. That is a fact, but I still believe white women have a very high number of out-of-wedlock births, and it is closing very quickly. However, it would stand to reason that more white women would be married because of their numbers and the fact that because there are more men avaiable to them, of course they marry more often.

You see my point?

Caramel Cat™

6/10/10, 16:14:pm

@Syd

Yeah, I came back an hour ago but I had to read through the thread for a bit…

@Day

I’m good today, are you being nice????
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I’m tryin, but Sydney is acting as though everyone has to agree with her opinions and proclivities, and that simply won’t happen..

@ Caramel Cat

I didn’t say one word to Sydney this time. I swear.

@Day

I don’t think Syd wants you to necessarily agree with everything she’s saying, but more so see the point she’s making and take out the time to clear some hard ingrained unfair ideologies out of your mind….there is a distinct difference…

@AnonymousGal
I heart you sister!! It goes both ways – the media started the generalization propaganda – and everyone ran with it… I don’t even know how real all these statistics they throw at us are – we all just need to embrace the things that unite us and reject the things that separate us…

Sister, find your black love wherever you can find him – it shouldn’t just be about status because most of the so-called “successful black men” are not the good partners.. Some of the “disadvantaged black men” out there are better partners – and this is coming from a brother who came from a disadvantaged background but worked his up into the “successful people” group… Some of the people in the “status quo” are the worst people you’ll ever come across in live – and the disadvantaged people are just victims of cir*****stance…

Find your black man; share mutual unconditional love; and build your family from the the scratch together… Make your marriage a partnership;help each other out; and the black love will take you to “eldorado.””..
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Thank you, hon! We are >>>>>right here<<<<<!

Advice, well taken!!! I've never, ever been about status. I'm not materialistic too. I just love a brother who is hard working and willing to bring to the table what I do, and that is love, sharing, mutual commitment, honesty, and all the other great characteristics that make up a wonderful relationship.

I gotta go now, but it's been nice. You sound like a great brother!

The Dude
6/10/10, 16:17:pm
@ AnonymousGal
The paragraph above is very telling. I think a lot of you guys are misogynists. I think a lot of black men had mothers that yelled and screamed and broke their spirits down to the point that they hate women. The first relationship a boy has with a woman is most like his mother. It just dawned on me that if many of the men here making black women the enemy took a long, good hard look at themselves, they’d have to take responsibility for their misery. It’s easy to project insecurites and failures on others.
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My mother is a very nice and sweet woman. She’s one of the reasons I respect women like her. Both of my parents had high standards and so do I. My mother is just as strict as I am when it comes to her views of women. I have no respect for b*tches and hoes, but I am more than willing to respect ladies. It’s not about us having insecurities or failures. It’s about us wanting better women.

People date people who remind them of their parents. If my mother was like the women that I was talking about I’d probably be more tolerant of those kinds of women. People go towards things they relate to. Hating women and speaking the truth are to completely different things.
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After this, I gotta go. I’m glad you have a wonderful mother who was an example to you. For that reason, one should not generalize because as wonderful as your mom is, there are so many sisters just like her. My mother is the same. There are white women who are horrible mothers. Again, to make black women the villians and other women the heroes is what frustrates me about SOME of our men. That’s all I’m saying, brother.

PEACE!

LOL @ The Dude

@Caramel

“I don’t think Syd wants you to necessarily agree with everything she’s saying, but more so see the point she’s making and take out the time to clear some hard ingrained unfair ideologies out of your mind….there is a distinct difference…”

Thanks, girl, yes, there is. I’m trying my best to be fair and balanced, and I thought I had on a number of occasions discussed the flaws and mistakes that we sisters make. Oh well. You can’t please everyone.

@Syd

And this topic continues in the ‘Do Nice Guys Really Finish Last’ thread…The good doctor is in there spreading his usual rhetoric…smh…

if your ignorant on monday, you damn sure are going to be ignorant on wednesday.

@Caramel

“And this topic continues in the ‘Do Nice Guys Really Finish Last’ thread…The good doctor is in there spreading his usual rhetoric…smh…”

LOL, so, that’s why he never responded to my post to his query.

The funny thing is about all this “thug” talk is that as incompatible as “thugs” are, the men who are constantly spewing the same stereotypical rhetoric day in and day out are just as undesirable. They may not be “thugs,” but they’re certainly deeply wounded men who carry a good deal of baggage (the male counterpart of the “bag lady”). A man who has such deep-seated, preconceived notions about black women is, in all likelihood, not a healthy choice for a mate as well. Who wants a man who’s going to spend the bulk of his time generalizing about sisters? Would he want to be involved with a woman who did the same to black men, or would he think that she had insurmountable issues?

@AnonymousGal
Thanks sister!! It was nice chatting to you as well!!

@ AnonymousGal
I’m glad you have a wonderful mother who was an example to you. For that reason, one should not generalize because as wonderful as your mom is, there are so many sisters just like her.
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I know. I wasn’t trying to say that all black women were like this and I didn’t want it to come out that way. I was just pointing out how a lot of them are.

There are white women who are horrible mothers.
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Of course.

Again, to make black women the villians and other women the heroes is what frustrates me about SOME of our men. That’s all I’m saying, brother.
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I hear you. That’s not what I was really trying to do. I know women hate being compared to other women in general. I personally tried to keep other women out of the discussion in this case.

The funny thing is about all this “thug” talk is that as incompatible as “thugs” are, the men who are constantly spewing the same stereotypical rhetoric day in and day out are just as undesirable. They may not be “thugs,” but they’re certainly deeply wounded men who carry a good deal of baggage (the male counterpart of the “bag lady”).
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DEAD!!!! THAT MADE ME DAY!!!! IT’S YOUR CHOICE WOMEN – WHO DO YOU WANT???? A CONFORMIST & BI-SEXUAL BLACK MAN OR A PRINCIPLED BLACK MAN FROM A DIFFICULT BACKGROUND?????

@Realist

“A CONFORMIST & BI-SEXUAL BLACK MAN”

How are you definining a “conformist & bisexual black man” because you just wrote some generalizations yourself about brothers who are members of certain organizations, such as frats, no?

@Caramel

I don’t know why the Good Doctor is in that thread anyway. He’s not “nice,” LMAO. He has been on a rampage all week.

F.Y.I.
The most recent crime statistics available from the FBI are from the year 2008 and can be found @ this link http://www.fbi.gov/ucr/cius2008/data/table_43.html
Crime statistics for the year 2009 will be available in September 2010.

@ Sydney

Did you just LOL at me?

Do you plan on insulting me again anytime soon?

@Syd

lol, right…I know, he really does KILL me…smh… :rolls:

@Day

“I truly thought higher of you, but apparently your moral turpitude had clearly shown itself in your giving a false accusation and fraudulent misrepresentation of the speculuative evidence you present while doing so.”

You can’t handle the truth! Oh, sorry, I had a “A Few Good Men” flashback. . .

@The Dude

Have I said anything to you today? How are you? Happy Thursday! It’s a gorgeous June day, no?

@The Dude

I told you to be nice!

Sydney™

6/10/10, 16:55:pm

@Day

“I truly thought higher of you, but apparently your moral turpitude had clearly shown itself in your giving a false accusation and fraudulent misrepresentation of the speculuative evidence you present while doing so.”

You can’t handle the truth! Oh, sorry, I had a “A Few Good Men” flashback. . .
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Actually, I have no issue with the truth, but I have a real issue with people making a mockery of it. Funny how some people don’t, though, but I’m sure you’re familiar with those types, right??

@Sydney™
6/10/10, 16:50:PM
@Realist
“A CONFORMIST & BI-SEXUAL BLACK MAN”
How are you definining a “conformist & bisexual black man” because you just wrote some generalizations yourself about brothers who are members of certain organizations, such as frats, no?
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It’s not a generalization – it’s the truth about most of these black fraternities especially BOULE…I attended a boule party with a friend last year in ATL – and these people really do the booty popping – that’s part of their orientation… Don’t forget that they’re greek organizations – and we all know how the greeks get down…

Most of the so-called successful black men out there are part of these organizations – and they’re interconnected..As a black man, once you get to certain position in some of the multi-nationals out there – it’s either you join them or forfeit your job… This thing is real – they frustrated the daylight out of me at my former job….

I’d rather be broke than be part of them!!

@ Sydney

Have I said anything to you today? How are you? Happy Thursday! It’s a gorgeous June day, no?
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I don’t believe so. I feel good and yourself? It’s always a gorgeous day whenever I’m around. I think those insults might be coming.

@ASHLEY
Fake it till you make it!!

The Dude

6/10/10, 17:05:pm

@ Sydney

Have I said anything to you today? How are you? Happy Thursday! It’s a gorgeous June day, no?
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I don’t believe so. I feel good and yourself? It’s always a gorgeous day whenever I’m around. I think those insults might be coming.
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Well, the false accusations from her most certainly were. Give it time, brother. Give it time…

@Day

“Actually, I have no issue with the truth, but I have a real issue with people making a mockery of it.”

Why don’t we just drop it, OK? This was all a figment of my imagination.

@The Dude

I think you’d know if I did address you, lol. I’m great, and I’m on my way out, so have a good evening.

Have a good one, Caramel!

@Syd

Bye girl, I’m out of here myself…

@The Dude

Ok, I’ll leave you be for now, but my girl Syd is NOT the enemy!

Bye everyone! Have a great evening…

@ Sydney

I think you’d know if I did address you, lol. I’m great, and I’m on my way out, so have a good evening.
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I actually overlooked most of your comments, because in so many words you said you didn’t want me to converse with you anymore if I remember correctly. It’s cool either way.

Good night to you, Caramel Cat, Realist, and everyone else.

Caramel Cat™

6/10/10, 17:19:pm

@Syd

Bye girl, I’m out of here myself…

@The Dude

Ok, I’ll leave you be for now, but my girl Syd is NOT the enemy!

Bye everyone! Have a great evening…
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Later, CC!

Buck Head/Marietta/ GA PERIOD STAND UP!!!!!!

@The Realiest but you are the Fakiest
Not that I owe anyone on here explanations on here but to answer your questions Tiny and Toya come to one of my businesses in Atlanta almost everyday and I don’t live too far from one of Tiny houses I met both Tiny and Toya and Kandi may I add on many many occasions. Thank You Sweetheart Not that I owe you or anyone else a explanation…….

This thread is rife with misogynistic, closeted ho.m.osexuals. Hit dogs?

He should have just sat his butt down somewhere and laid low for a while after such an idiotic “joke” in the first place. I just listened to his so-called explanation and all I have to say is,

“it is better to remain quiet and have people think that you are a fool, than to open your mouth and remove all doubt.”

What a complete moron.

Hi lily!

Hey 1TruDiva, how are you?

Some MORON with the IQ of a c_o_c_k_r_o_a_c_h says some IDIOTIC b. s., and there’ the usual ish for days —-

If you went to this guy to prepare your taxes, of to prepare a legal document, you’d get up and RUN from the building, 10 seconds after he opened his IDIOTIC mouth.

Yet this MORON has caused a minor NATIONAL furor by his imbecilic utterances. I wish that I could move the stock market as easily as these d!ckheads can move blogs, just by saying some dumb ish — I’d be retired and living inn Brazil.

Un–be–lievable.

Slim Thug is a joke. Funny how he said that if black women want a black man they need to lower their standards. Really? Why is he trying to drag black women down. Maybe black men need to improve their own lives before they start telling the world about the issues that black women have. He could have just kept his mouth shut. Black women need to stop supporting these ignorant rappers.

you go Ashley

@Ashley: (I ain’t gonna re-type all this bullshyt, I’m just gonna respond by typing in my responses.)

6/10/10, 19:25:pm

@ Day Walker

Sweetheart try to comprehend what you typed?

(Are you serious? I know exactly what I typed, and I can honestly say that you AND that bytch are fulla shyt!)

@Ashley:

Come to Atlanta and I will show you how I live. I’m through typing.

(Nah, I’m good. The further South you go, the more ignorant n*ggahs get, and the fatter you bytches are too, and I can only deal with stupid mothaf_uckas and ugly, illiterate bytches for so long before I go off on em’, but by all means, DO YOU. For the record, your azz ain’t done, bytch. You know damn good and well that your fat azz can’t resist getting in the last word, so bring it, bytch. Daddy’s waitin.)

The End I’m Out I had Enough

(Promise??)

Slim Thug set it straight.