Thursday, September 4th, 2008
Pepa Has Been Through Some Shyte
Posted by Bossip Staff
Sandra Denton, better known as Pepa has more to say about her troubled life. Check out the audio clips to hear more from her book…
On her relationship with Treach:
Her being the cause of the Left Eye and Andre Rison House Burning Incident:
On Being Gang Raped:
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First Faith, now Pep.Who’s next Cheryl Pepsi Riley?
Damn hope she is in a good place now
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I can’t hear it, so I can walk away from this with my brain cells intact.
@Madame Enigma
You said Cheryl Pepsi Riley. LMAO!!!!
Healing is a wondeful thing.
I hope she is in a better place.
Her book may be a part of her process, I wish her well.
awwwh shut the hell up already Pepa. Your dumb ***** should have invested your money on a damn education like Salt did. You wanted a bad boy and got your ***** beatdown. I dont care!
You heard that’s what goes on over there and you know it’s a bad neighborhood but you still go over there? SMH
Why in their right mind put’s themselves in harms way? SMH
and i dont want you hoodhos feelin sorry for this hoodho, thats the life this hoodho chose.
I dunno, it seems like she is coming out with all of this now because her money is low. One would think that she would take a more serious tone if the true purpose of her putting this book out is to help other victims of abuse. If I were an abuse victim, I would not take her seriously, because there is nothing humorous or lighthearted about being beaten or raped. And as for her being the reason Left-Eye burnt the house down, PLEASE. That is just another way to try to sell a damn book. She should be ashamed.
Somethings are best left unsaid! Some of the things she talks about, I really wouldn’t care to share to the whole world, I mean I get her message in all, but I think it’s a little late! So really I think she is trying to make a buck…
hot sauce, I love you.
You heard that’s what goes on over there and you know it’s a bad neighborhood but you still go over there? SMH
Why in their right mind put’s themselves in harms way? SMH
cuz shes a hoodho. i wonder where SMDH and mocha ho is at, im sure they gonna blame *****s for this hoodhos plite in life.
oshie
luv you to boo.
WHY ERYBODY GOTTA DAM BOOK
THA KIDS IS GONNA SUFFER THA MOST
http://www.my*****e.com/thagrindaholic
FOEVER GRINDIN
@ Hot Sauce
I’m w/ you babe. I don’t feel sorry for this idiot.
All I have to say is Treach is sexy as hell!! Now I will listen to the recording
lame ***** young kids dont understand
I’m glad Pepa put that info out about the gang rape situation. There are so many women that have been or are current victims of this occurrence. At least now young girls who read this will think twice (maybe three times) before going to some man’s house they hardly know in a *****ed up neighborhood.
Trust that these same incidents happens with rich white kids too.
Well I hope she learned her lesson with the bad boys, find somebody who will treat you right. Women are sometimes looking for looks, money etc…these things don’t last.
Pepa wth?!?!? I agree with whoever said You heard that’s what goes on over there and you know it’s a bad neighborhood but you still go over there?
BeReal(Check me out!)
All I have to say is Treach is sexy as hell!! Now I will listen to the recording
BeReal(Check me out!)
Well I hope she learned her lesson with the bad boys, find somebody who will treat you right. Women are sometimes looking for looks, money etc…these things don’t last.
this is comin from the ***** who said treach is sexy, the same treach who wuz beatin this hoodhos azz. I luv you hoodhos. Yall so easy.
I hope T-boz and Chilli come swinging… NOT FEELIN Pep using Left-Eyes name to sell books, b/c i most definitely don’t believe that’s what went down…
anyway, the “gang rape” part, normally I would never blame the victim, but i really did not like the tone she used in talking about it. Rape isn’t a joke, to treat as such discourages victims from coming forward and allows the cycle to continue…
@ HOTSAUCE OMG!!! WOW…
bUT FOR REAL, NO BODY DESERVES TO BE RAPED, OR TREATED LIKE THAT… YEA SHE ALLOWED IT BUT HE SHOULD HAVE BEEN A REAL MAN AND TREATED HER LIKE A WOMAN… I MEAN HE DID MARRY HER ***** AND THEY GOT TATTOOS ON THEIR WEDDING FINGERS… THATS ISH IS UNREAL!!! AND TREACH IS NOT SEXY… YA’LL CAN BORROW MY CONTACTS NEXT TIME…
Man get the ***** outta here. She’s only comin out with this *****in book cuz her fame ran out. If this ***** was really serious to her she would’ve came clean about all this ***** WHEN IT HAPPENED. listen to how she jokes about getting gang banged. That ***** tells you she’s doin it FOR THE MONEY
@I hope T-boz and Chilli come swinging… NOT FEELIN Pep using Left-Eyes name to sell books, b/c i most definitely don’t believe that’s what went down…
anyway, the “gang rape” part, normally I would never blame the victim, but i really did not like the tone she used in talking about it. Rape isn’t a joke, to treat as such discourages victims from coming forward and allows the cycle to continue…
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I was wondering was anyone going to even address that…Why does she need to open her mouth in regards to Left Eye? Let the deceased have their rest. Pep is stupid, and then a gang rape…I have no more comments….If it walks like a duck, it’s a duck….
This is why I laugh when I hear women say “they want a thug in their life”.As a social worker,I hear domestic violence issues all the time from women and they all seem to follow the same pattern:
1-woman suffers low self esteem to the point that any man who gives her even a little attention now dominates her.All attention is damn sure not good attention.
2-relationships started too young for woman to understand who she is as an individual.School becomes a thing of the past,all hopes and dreams end up in the toilet.
3-no positive male role model growing up-most women who end up in these types of relationships either had no father figure or the one they had was a control freak too.Most women tend to go for men who remind them of a male figure they grew up with.
When I began working for the prison system,I was sent to work with the women and at least 75%of them had some sort of domestic violence in their life.I decided not to do DV support groups because I felt that they would only tell their stories and not seek solutions-I began self esteem workshops 3 days a week where we began to show women what a positive relationship looks like,why she deserves positive relationships and how to tell when a man is not in their best interest.We also made sure that they realized that they DESERVED positive relationships.I can’t tell you how many women had a very different outlook on life once they really got into these workshops.
I’m not saying that people should feel sorry for Pepa,but this could easily be any of our daughters in the future-we have to teach them what is and what is not acceptable.
Pepa, why were u hanging out with someone who had to go to someone else to get money too go out? “Come back later I’ll give it too you” U had no cash? Harms way, six sense? And u laugh! It seems 2 me something else was going on… “Drugs” Speak the truth sister or shut the #$!@ up!!!
Cat Eyes says it all.
Why is it that when we hook up w/someone of questionable character, we are surprised when the results go awry? That old adage, “Lie down with a dog and you get up with fleas” is so befitting with stories like this. She did say, however, that she had to do some soul searching as to why she picked a certain type of man. I think w/a lot of women that it boils down to either, 1) having a man at all costs, or 2) not having enough self-esteem to make better choices. Let me add, men make bad choices too that’s why so many of them are bitter. Sometimes we know from day one that the person isn’t right for us (we get that nagging inclination (like she did about going into that house) that says, “Don’t do it! Yet we push past it anyway, and then we wonder why we end up in a bad place. This is not only to women. I know this from personal experience. I know love is a powerful thing, but sometimes matters of the heart can lead us down a long, dismal path. Maybe we believe we can change the person. WRONG!!!
Just another ghetto piece of _____.
Be caution in not only a bad neighborhood, but any neighborhood. Haven’t you heard stories of a wanna-be model/actress being lured into some stranger’s Hollywood Hills home only to never be heard from again?
Pepa obviously does have low self-esteem which is why she acts so over-the-top with all the extra weave and revealing clothes. She should have focused more on getting an education and settling down like Salt did, but they are two totally different people with totally different backgrounds. And when they parted ways from the music, they grew apart to an extent. Pepa is nearing 40, so I think that this book is helping her to heal and grow.
Cat Eyes, I didn’t get to your post b/f I typed mine. You broke it on down perfectly! I used to work for my city’s DV Prosecution Center and have met these types of women before.
show women what a positive relationship looks like,why she deserves positive relationships and how to tell when a man is not in their best interest.We also made sure that they realized that they DESERVED positive relationships.
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@CAT EYES
If you don’t mind, could you please help some of these women on Bossip and expound a little bit on:
- what “positive” relationship looks like
- how to tell when a man is not in their best interest
- that they DESERVE to be in a positive relationship
Thanks in advance!!!
I’m being “serious” to with this question… I think that some of the young ladies reading this on Bossip would get some help from reading your response…
**BTW I like the answers you gave last week to the young ladies that you were talking to and also how you handled that person being rude to you…
wtf is this dizzy ***** laughing for? ain’t ***** funny about this *****ed up story. maybe that’s why she attracts this kinda bull*****. the drama amuses her dumb*****.
WOW! She was laughing, was she high? Was she on dippers? She laughed the whole time she was telling us a story of a possible gang rape.
The craziest part was when she laughed as she said, “They was gonna get us.”
I can’t hear it but based on the descriptions of the audio i’m in for an ear full when I do hear it
im sure they gonna blame *****s for this hoodhos plite in life.
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Hotsauce, you neva lied. I agree with you 100%. Like these men are forcing these women to show up at these events. Peppa’s so-called pyschic abilities are called intuition, and all of us have it. She KNEW the type of party she was going to, so why doesn’t she avoid these situations?
She needs GOOD people in her life to steer her clear, and make her feel good about herself. Not everyone is strong, *****ertive, and makes all the right decisions. Sometimes you need people to help you realize your worth.
@hot sauce i love u hot sauce 4 president knocking all trannyhos out.
I’M SO GLAD PEP ACKNOWLEDGES THAT WHEN YOU STAY, YOURE ASKING FOR TROUBLE AND THAT YOU TAKE A BIG PART IN THE RESPONSIBILITY FOR WHY YOU ARE GOING THRU WHAT YOU’RE GOING THRU.
I like that Pep came out to share her story with everyone except for the Left Eye and Andre Rison part. Left Eye should be respected. She isn’t here to speak for herself. It’s hard to believe because not one time was Peps name mentioned during ‘the burning the house down’ fiaco! So don’t bring Left Eye into the story to help boost sales for a book.
Homegirl has issues.
why can’t people write books about their lives? why not? if it’s for money so motha*****ing what. How do you pay yo bills? Wouldn’t you want to get paid to write a book. People make me sick.
I think Pep is stupid as hell. I mean, between the reality shows and everything else, it shows this broad is really hungry for two things: Money and Attention. It’s a sad, sad day that she’s gotten so desperate that she’s bringing up the dead (Left eye), talking about her beating up dudes (Play) and what her hot bullschitt she gotta bring up.
I think she has a self esteem issue and I think she needs help. She’s a little too old to be doing the messy ***** bullschitt that she’s doing.
On a side note – I blame Superhead for every skank in the industry trying to write books like they Danielle Steele.
unlike sperhead and faith’s tell alls, i would buy this book because i’ve been abused as a child and can totally relate. If this woman can reach one child who’s being abused, and encourage them to reach out for help, then that’s a good thing.
btw… it was said that left eye and andre were in an argument,he slapped her which is why she burned down the house how do you all know that this isn’t what preceeded that incident?
she is LYING about Left eye
Pep do your thang, these are people who haven’t read the book. You are talking about your struggles and admit your faults. I am sure if half of the bloggers are honest they have been through what you have. We all go through some ***** before we grow up.
@CAT EYES
If you don’t mind, could you please help some of these women on Bossip and expound a little bit on:
- what “positive” relationship looks like
- how to tell when a man is not in their best interest
- that they DESERVE to be in a positive relationship
Thanks in advance!!!
I’m being “serious” to with this question… I think that some of the young ladies reading this on Bossip would get some help from reading your response…
**BTW I like the answers you gave last week to the young ladies that you were talking to and also how you handled that person being rude to you…
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@SLIDE LIKE A FRESH PAIR OF GATORS
I will tell you that a positive relationship allows both people to grow.A man would want to see his partner with her own friends,her own job,her own hobbies.He would never tell her to limit time with her family( he would actually be proud to have a woman who takes her family seriously-it will show him how she would take care of his and her future children)
A positive relationship does NOT involve hitting to hurt the person( yes,I am aware some people love sexual hitting!lol)A real man gets upset,goes out to cool off,and then come back and reasonably talk the problem out.
A real man should not have to tell a woman what to wear,how to do her hair or who to have as a friend.Some women find this cute,but newsflash,its the first stage of future beatdowns.
A real man knows deep down that if his mother or sister told him they got beat up,he wouldn’t like it.Therefore,he would not do it to someone else’s mother or sister.
A positive relationship is having freedom at the same time.For example,my husband knows that I love my knitting cl***** on Thursday evening-he even reminds me of the time to go because he understands that life is not only about me and him-I also need ME time.He has his men night thing also and I don’t call him and bother him because people are not supposed to feel suffocated in a relationship.A real man is your lover,but also your friend-he always has your best interest at heart.HE WANTS TO SEE YOU HAPPY.When you find a man like this,hold on to him,he is rare.And ladies,make sure that if you find a man like this,you appreciate him.
Look,I know the female attraction to thugs is real-*****,I used to have fantasies of Treach and DMX,but here’s the deal,you sleep with them and get them out of your system(lol)-they are not for you to think you can change their behavior!
CatEyes,
Well said! I’ve never found that ‘I want a thug’ statement to be cute. If that’s what a chick aspires for then she deserves anything she gets.
ahhhh 2 bad octavia when i want 2 see an angel i click on u r picture.
Her old nose looks better. She really got a bad nose job.
what? didnt Left Eye herself say she burned the HOUSE on accident? didnt Left Eye say she was drinking and mad that he bought himself a ton of sneakers and she didnt see any in her size, so she threw them in the (new) bathtub and thats how the house caught on fire? sandy denton….imma need you to SAT DOWN IMMDIATLEY!
r.i.p Left Eye
I think all the level headed people said it all for me…
..and she’s laughing the whole time while talking about an attempted gang rape…and I don’t believe that ***** about Left Eye.
@ Cat Eyes
Are your workshops in NYC? If so can I get info on attending one?
My email is pinklipbling@gmail.com
what? didnt Left Eye herself say she burned the HOUSE on accident? didnt Left Eye say she was drinking and mad that he bought himself a ton of sneakers and she didnt see any in her size, so she threw them in the (new) bathtub and thats how the house caught on fire? sandy denton….imma need you to SAT DOWN IMMDIATLEY!
r.i.p Left Eye
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thats what I thought too. Pepa is straight up using her name for sales and it probably wasnt even her idea to do so. It’s sad.
This trick needs more people. I do not believe her whole “Left-Eye thought I was messing with her man” bull. She knows good and well that was not why Andre’s house burned down. It’s sad how she has to use Left-Eye’s name to try to sell this mess of a book of hers
I read bits and pieces of that book. very interesting read.
she was one of those chicks attracted to the wrong man
Lisa LEft Eye burned the house down because she was made at Andre for an unrelated incident.
it had nothing to do with cheating. that was their relationship. hot and cold
its not like one day she decided to burn the house down
is this a new trend? people coming out with stories about people after they are dead?
@ Cat Eyes
Are your workshops in NYC? If so can I get info on attending one?
My email is pinklipbling@gmail.com
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I’m really sorry but the only workshops I have are in prison at work.I am now at men’s prison so those workshops are not happening at this time.Victim Services at 111 Centre Street may be able to connect you with some.However,I’m going to tell you the best place to find self esteem,courage and strength-THE BIBLE!Some people may laugh about that,but HE will never steer you wrong and he gives you all the answers you will ever need in life.Good luck to you!
This BI-ich is crazy. Now this is some old HOE SIT DOWN… She said that she was the reason why Left Eye Burned the house down… And we all know the real reason! Does Pepa know she’s not HOT!!! Why over your asz. Pepa was never a HOT CHICK. She was alway’s okay there go Pepa HOE asz. But never a HOT CHICK or someone whom others would envy!! I mean I met Pep, she was cool an down to earth.
And now this??? And she’s lieing on a dead women. Now that’s cold.
SORRY YOU GOT YOUR ***** BEAT BY A MAN 1,475 TIMES PEP…
NO WOMAN SHOULD HAVE TO GO THRU THAT!!! NO MAN SHOULD EVER DO THAT!!!
I REPEAT NO MAN SHOULD EVER DO THAT!!!!!!!
PS: GLAD THOSE *****’S DID NOT GET TO GANG BANG YOU & YO GIRL!!!
So, Left-Eye burned down Andre Rison’s crib because he and Pepa was “cool”?
***** Please.
Women do not burn down their man’s house off of him being a lil too friendly with another lady. He might get his cell phone checked for a unfamiliar number here and there, and the suspect shorty might get the side-eye, but not no burned-down house.
A woman might be pushed to burning down a dude’s crib if she encounters a chick whose chin smells distinctly like her man’s *****.
I can buy Treach going upside her head, but she gets a “Ho Sit Down” for the Left-Eye (R.I.P) disrespect.
Yall *****’s lol i knew some of yall couldnt read for real but some don’t listen…..On the date rape it didnt happen, almost did.. it was also before she was famous, sound like she was real young..If she was famous damn everybody you know aint caked and from hollywood..shyt happens to all types of people..they better borrow it from the dude they bonign they wouldnt be hitting me up.
Rest in peace Left Eye..but she said she wasnt even there when it happened, but Left Eye showed up “At her job”..thats sound like something that could be corroborated…uhm for yall others ie proved, yall know Left Eye was wilding, thats everybody girl but be real shawty was off the chain for a hot lil minute with everybody T-Boz and Chilli included.
She aint the only dumb broad to stay wit a dude who was beatign her a$$..she learned got out b4 she was in the alley dead , with them faking like she was a victim of a robbery someone can learn from it.
Everybody who make a book do it partly for money partly to get some shyt off they chest..yall birds in here doing all that stunting.
Some people love to be negative ..yall face gonna wrinkle real quick too,
Reading is fundamental
Sometimes its better to listen than to type. Sound just as bed as yall say Pepa sound and *****g her.
See what SupaHead done started? Now every chickenhead with an ax to grind wanna write a book.
Mad ’cause you ain’t the main lady? Write a book.
Wanna get back at the rapper who dumped you ’cause he caught you swallowing his homeboy’s throatbabies? Write a book.
Too old to be a video hoe or too untalented to be a singer/actress but you screwed mad producers and casting agents hoping to get put on? Write a book.
Damn you, Supahead!!!
“Pepa, why were u hanging out with someone who had to go to someone else to get money too go out? “Come back later I’ll give it too you” U had no cash? Harms way, six sense? And u laugh! It seems 2 me something else was going on… “Drugs” Speak the truth sister or shut the #$!@ up!!!”
Theresa, I couldn’t agree more!
Big K…..Throatbabies?
Yeah Pep is wrong for bringing up Left-Eye like that. She needs to press on…with her wide a$$ shoulders, looking like she ought to be on a football field….
Pepa is a dumb ***** who deserves what she gets. Those weaves and those hoochie mama clothes. Grow up and set an example for your children. You look like a tranny and now yourtrying to profit from a book because you are broke. You should have left Left-eye out because to story p*****ed years ago and your dumb ***** should have spoken then. Give that horse his hair back
GANG RAPE AIN’T NO JOKE THO…
I KNOW TWO WOMEN WHO HAVE BEEN CAUGHT OUT THERE AND RAN UP IN BY 5 OR MORE DUDES!!!
ONE GIRL (MY COUSIN) REPORTED IT AND GOT TWO FOOLS PUT AWAY…
THE OTHER CHICK TURNED OUT TO BE A FOOL HERSELF! SHE DID NOT REPORT IT, WHEN THE MAIN DUDE OFFERED TO PAY HER TO KEEP QUIET, SHE ACCEPTED. WHEN SHE SHE WENT TO PICK UP THE MONEY(BY HERSELF) THEY HELD HER ALL WEEKEND AND ABOUT 20 DIFFERENT *****S WORE THAT ***** OUT.
SHE ENDED UP LEAVING TOWN ABOUT A MONTH LATER AND *****ODY EVER HEARD ABOUT HER AGAIN… THAT WAS LIKE 12 YEARS AGO.
ONLY REASON I KNOW ABOUT IT IS TWO OF MY “FORMER” MALE FRIENDS WERE IN ON IT, & TOLD ME ABOUT IT A FEW MONTHS LATER…….
@ Cat Eyes
Thx I appreciate that and keep up the good work!
@ Da Truff
Jesus christ man.. What did u say to the two “former” friends when they told u bout it?
I could care less about reading her book ,what i don’t get is why everybody is all up in arms over what she said about Left Eye? It amazes me that once a celebrity dies all of the sudden they get a p***** for all the *****ed up behavior they exibithed when they were alive. Just like we give sainthood to Tupac and Biggie who both did plenty of foul ***** when they were alive. Soon as they die all of the sudden they’re above being talked about in a bad way:Bull*****! ***** follows you from the cradle to the grave. Dirt that you do on earth will follow you into the hereafter. Not one person posting on here knows what went down in that situation so throwing shade her way for telling HER story is stupid. It’s her life and she has the right to tell it from HER point of view. I have all the respect in the world for the dead,provided of course they did something in LIFE to be respected for and selling a bunch of records,making a couple of movies and winning few awards DON’T MAKE YOU A SAINT!
I dont know what is so funny about rape, gang rape of possible rape. This is truly sad that so many women have such low self esteems that they look for any reason to blame the women (she was looking for trouble, etc) or even try to desensitize the situation
I have no problem with women writing books about their troubled life for any reason. Oprah tells her stories of promiscuity, rape and molestation to help young women. I am truly uncertain as to who Pepa thinks she is helping by laughing and saying, “they was going get us”.
Truly sad
@ Ignorance
I have no problem with women writing books about their troubled life for any reason. Oprah tells her stories of promiscuity, rape and molestation to help young women. I am truly uncertain as to who Pepa thinks she is helping by laughing and saying, “they was going get us”.
Truly sad
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@ Davari
I see what you mean..
Left eye said she set that house on fire because he bought another female sneakers. She was burning the sneakers in the bathtub and the whole house went in flames. Somebody is telling a lie. she should of left that out. I’m sure she heard left eyes story.
She should of kept this story to herself. It is an unwise choice to rehash old painful events of the past for profit. It is shameful to her children as well.
JillyBean819
lol reminds me of that dumb azz song by destiny’s child
“we like them boys up top from the bk know how to flip that money three ways” translation…dope dealer
” A rude boy who’s good to me with street credibility” translation… someone who takes care of me but won’t be adverse to beating my azz once in awhile”
lmao she should have conferred with Tboz on a thuggy hubby and how he beat her down.
Ummmm Pepa, Left Eye said she found Andre having sex with another female in the house. It’s very wack for her to even bring the situation up when it’s 1) old 2) Left Eye is not here to defend herself.
Pepa, Left Eye, and Kim Osoria (sp?) all need to sit their desparate *****es down somewhere.
I WANNA READ THE BOOK. STOP HATING THE HUSSLE. EVERYTHING SHE SPOKE ABOUT WAS SERIOUS ISSUES AND HER CHARACTER WILL SHOW WHEN IT COMES TIME TO HELP OTHERS WITH THOSE SAME PROBLEMS AND NOT JUST MAKE MONEY OFF THEM.
Broad got issues and is crazy, damn! Whatever happened to some decency, damn?!
kenya,
yeah, I agree. those lyrics are retarded.
donn’t feel bad pepa because Nay is part of the reason my dad is getting a divorce from his because she was having sex with him and now she has a three year old little girl. all she do is talk about my dad wife like a dog and she’s not that pretty with five different babydads and two grandkids