Pepa Has Been Through Some Shyte

Posted on September 4th, 2008 - By Bossip Staff

Categories: News, SMH

Posted by Bossip Staff

Sandra Denton, better known as Pepa has more to say about her troubled life. Check out the audio clips to hear more from her book…

On her relationship with Treach:

Her being the cause of the Left Eye and Andre Rison House Burning Incident:

On Being Gang Raped:

SMH.

  • Ya Boy KJ

    ….

  • Hannibal

  • Madame Enigma

    okaaay…

    First Faith, now Pep.Who’s next Cheryl Pepsi Riley?

  • Aunt Viv

    ?!?!?!?!

  • Oshie

    I can’t hear it, so I can walk away from this with my brain cells intact.

  • Aunt Viv

    @Madame Enigma

    You said Cheryl Pepsi Riley. LMAO!!!!

  • Lady elle

    Healing is a wondeful thing.

    I hope she is in a better place.

    Her book may be a part of her process, I wish her well.

  • Nothing Nice: “real rappers ain’t eating they Olsen Twinin” WALE

    awwwh shut the hell up already Pepa. Your dumb ass should have invested your money on a damn education like Salt did. You wanted a bad boy and got your ass beatdown. I dont care!

  • Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators (Keepin’ It Real – D’Original)

    You heard that’s what goes on over there and you know it’s a bad neighborhood but you still go over there? SMH

    Why in their right mind put’s themselves in harms way? SMH

  • Hot Sauce

    and i dont want you hoodhos feelin sorry for this hoodho, thats the life this hoodho chose.

  • asiamajor

    I dunno, it seems like she is coming out with all of this now because her money is low. One would think that she would take a more serious tone if the true purpose of her putting this book out is to help other victims of abuse. If I were an abuse victim, I would not take her seriously, because there is nothing humorous or lighthearted about being beaten or raped. And as for her being the reason Left-Eye burnt the house down, PLEASE. That is just another way to try to sell a damn book. She should be ashamed.

  • iluvprada

    Somethings are best left unsaid! Some of the things she talks about, I really wouldn’t care to share to the whole world, I mean I get her message in all, but I think it’s a little late! So really I think she is trying to make a buck…

  • Oshie

    hot sauce, I love you.

  • Hot Sauce

    oshie

    luv you to boo.

  • BLUNTBLAZER

    WHY ERYBODY GOTTA DAM BOOK

    THA KIDS IS GONNA SUFFER THA MOST

    http://www.myspace.com/thagrindaholic

    FOEVER GRINDIN

  • Nothing Nice: “real rappers ain’t eating they Olsen Twinin” WALE

    @ Hot Sauce

    I’m w/ you babe. I don’t feel sorry for this idiot.

  • tuyuh

    lame ass young kids dont understand

  • BeReal

    Well I hope she learned her lesson with the bad boys, find somebody who will treat you right. Women are sometimes looking for looks, money etc…these things don’t last.

  • Book Worm

    Pepa wth?!?!? I agree with whoever said You heard that’s what goes on over there and you know it’s a bad neighborhood but you still go over there?

  • RJ

    I hope T-boz and Chilli come swinging… NOT FEELIN Pep using Left-Eyes name to sell books, b/c i most definitely don’t believe that’s what went down…

    anyway, the “gang rape” part, normally I would never blame the victim, but i really did not like the tone she used in talking about it. Rape isn’t a joke, to treat as such discourages victims from coming forward and allows the cycle to continue…

  • always knew

    @I hope T-boz and Chilli come swinging… NOT FEELIN Pep using Left-Eyes name to sell books, b/c i most definitely don’t believe that’s what went down…

    anyway, the “gang rape” part, normally I would never blame the victim, but i really did not like the tone she used in talking about it. Rape isn’t a joke, to treat as such discourages victims from coming forward and allows the cycle to continue…

    ___________________________________________________

    I was wondering was anyone going to even address that…Why does she need to open her mouth in regards to Left Eye? Let the deceased have their rest. Pep is stupid, and then a gang rape…I have no more comments….If it walks like a duck, it’s a duck….

  • CAT EYES

    This is why I laugh when I hear women say “they want a thug in their life”.As a social worker,I hear domestic violence issues all the time from women and they all seem to follow the same pattern:

    1-woman suffers low self esteem to the point that any man who gives her even a little attention now dominates her.All attention is damn sure not good attention.

    2-relationships started too young for woman to understand who she is as an individual.School becomes a thing of the past,all hopes and dreams end up in the toilet.

    3-no positive male role model growing up-most women who end up in these types of relationships either had no father figure or the one they had was a control freak too.Most women tend to go for men who remind them of a male figure they grew up with.

    When I began working for the prison system,I was sent to work with the women and at least 75%of them had some sort of domestic violence in their life.I decided not to do DV support groups because I felt that they would only tell their stories and not seek solutions-I began self esteem workshops 3 days a week where we began to show women what a positive relationship looks like,why she deserves positive relationships and how to tell when a man is not in their best interest.We also made sure that they realized that they DESERVED positive relationships.I can’t tell you how many women had a very different outlook on life once they really got into these workshops.

    I’m not saying that people should feel sorry for Pepa,but this could easily be any of our daughters in the future-we have to teach them what is and what is not acceptable.

  • theresa

    Pepa, why were u hanging out with someone who had to go to someone else to get money too go out? “Come back later I’ll give it too you” U had no cash? Harms way, six sense? And u laugh! It seems 2 me something else was going on… “Drugs” Speak the truth sister or shut the #$!@ up!!!

  • XK

    Cat Eyes says it all.

  • WordtotheWise

    Why is it that when we hook up w/someone of questionable character, we are surprised when the results go awry? That old adage, “Lie down with a dog and you get up with fleas” is so befitting with stories like this. She did say, however, that she had to do some soul searching as to why she picked a certain type of man. I think w/a lot of women that it boils down to either, 1) having a man at all costs, or 2) not having enough self-esteem to make better choices. Let me add, men make bad choices too that’s why so many of them are bitter. Sometimes we know from day one that the person isn’t right for us (we get that nagging inclination (like she did about going into that house) that says, “Don’t do it! Yet we push past it anyway, and then we wonder why we end up in a bad place. This is not only to women. I know this from personal experience. I know love is a powerful thing, but sometimes matters of the heart can lead us down a long, dismal path. Maybe we believe we can change the person. WRONG!!!

  • Encyclopedia Brown

    Just another ghetto piece of _____.

  • WordtotheWise

    Be caution in not only a bad neighborhood, but any neighborhood. Haven’t you heard stories of a wanna-be model/actress being lured into some stranger’s Hollywood Hills home only to never be heard from again?

  • Hazelnut

    Pepa obviously does have low self-esteem which is why she acts so over-the-top with all the extra weave and revealing clothes. She should have focused more on getting an education and settling down like Salt did, but they are two totally different people with totally different backgrounds. And when they parted ways from the music, they grew apart to an extent. Pepa is nearing 40, so I think that this book is helping her to heal and grow.

  • WordtotheWise

    Cat Eyes, I didn’t get to your post b/f I typed mine. You broke it on down perfectly! I used to work for my city’s DV Prosecution Center and have met these types of women before.

  • http://www.gravatar.com Re

    WOW! She was laughing, was she high? Was she on dippers? She laughed the whole time she was telling us a story of a possible gang rape.

    The craziest part was when she laughed as she said, “They was gonna get us.”

  • cutie pie*kindly putting people on blast est.1985* I got good hair…I got African in my family

    I can’t hear it but based on the descriptions of the audio i’m in for an ear full when I do hear it

  • http://anonymous@yahoo.com anonymous

    @hot sauce i love u hot sauce 4 president knocking all trannyhos out.

  • “I GOT SOME BAD NEWS, I’LL RUIN YOUR DAMN PLANS, I KNOW YOU ON MY **** JUST ADMIT YOU A DAMN FAN!”(sxyQblondie cant wait til friday)

    I’M SO GLAD PEP ACKNOWLEDGES THAT WHEN YOU STAY, YOURE ASKING FOR TROUBLE AND THAT YOU TAKE A BIG PART IN THE RESPONSIBILITY FOR WHY YOU ARE GOING THRU WHAT YOU’RE GOING THRU.

  • deafjam04@yahoo.com

    I like that Pep came out to share her story with everyone except for the Left Eye and Andre Rison part. Left Eye should be respected. She isn’t here to speak for herself. It’s hard to believe because not one time was Peps name mentioned during ‘the burning the house down’ fiaco! So don’t bring Left Eye into the story to help boost sales for a book.

  • Anonymous

    Homegirl has issues.

  • Apple Dapple

    I think Pep is stupid as hell. I mean, between the reality shows and everything else, it shows this broad is really hungry for two things: Money and Attention. It’s a sad, sad day that she’s gotten so desperate that she’s bringing up the dead (Left eye), talking about her beating up dudes (Play) and what her hot bullschitt she gotta bring up.

    I think she has a self esteem issue and I think she needs help. She’s a little too old to be doing the messy ass bullschitt that she’s doing.

    On a side note – I blame Superhead for every skank in the industry trying to write books like they Danielle Steele.

  • kenya

    unlike sperhead and faith’s tell alls, i would buy this book because i’ve been abused as a child and can totally relate. If this woman can reach one child who’s being abused, and encourage them to reach out for help, then that’s a good thing.

  • kenya

    btw… it was said that left eye and andre were in an argument,he slapped her which is why she burned down the house how do you all know that this isn’t what preceeded that incident?

  • im good

    she is LYING about Left eye

  • JillyBean819

    CatEyes,

    Well said! I’ve never found that ‘I want a thug’ statement to be cute. If that’s what a chick aspires for then she deserves anything she gets.

  • http://anonymous@yahoo.com anonymous

    ahhhh 2 bad octavia when i want 2 see an angel i click on u r picture.

  • Me

    Her old nose looks better. She really got a bad nose job.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V-1VkFVW0ns leave it be(STILL searching for some jelly beans)

    what? didnt Left Eye herself say she burned the HOUSE on accident? didnt Left Eye say she was drinking and mad that he bought himself a ton of sneakers and she didnt see any in her size, so she threw them in the (new) bathtub and thats how the house caught on fire? sandy denton….imma need you to SAT DOWN IMMDIATLEY!

    r.i.p Left Eye

  • Nothing Nice: “real rappers ain’t eating they Olsen Twinin” WALE

    @ Cat Eyes

    Are your workshops in NYC? If so can I get info on attending one?

    My email is pinklipbling@gmail.com

  • Nothing Nice: “real rappers ain’t eating they Olsen Twinin” WALE

    what? didnt Left Eye herself say she burned the HOUSE on accident? didnt Left Eye say she was drinking and mad that he bought himself a ton of sneakers and she didnt see any in her size, so she threw them in the (new) bathtub and thats how the house caught on fire? sandy denton….imma need you to SAT DOWN IMMDIATLEY!

    r.i.p Left Eye

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    thats what I thought too. Pepa is straight up using her name for sales and it probably wasnt even her idea to do so. It’s sad.

  • http://en.gravatar.com/avatar/f440215aabbdc8dc2ff5337fac6a99b9?s=80&r=any Riley

    This trick needs more people. I do not believe her whole “Left-Eye thought I was messing with her man” bull. She knows good and well that was not why Andre’s house burned down. It’s sad how she has to use Left-Eye’s name to try to sell this mess of a book of hers

  • McCain’s finished

    I read bits and pieces of that book. very interesting read.

    she was one of those chicks attracted to the wrong man

  • McCain’s finished

    Lisa LEft Eye burned the house down because she was made at Andre for an unrelated incident.

    it had nothing to do with cheating. that was their relationship. hot and cold

    its not like one day she decided to burn the house down

  • m

    is this a new trend? people coming out with stories about people after they are dead?

  • CAT EYES

    @ Cat Eyes

    Are your workshops in NYC? If so can I get info on attending one?

    My email is pinklipbling@gmail.com

    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

    I’m really sorry but the only workshops I have are in prison at work.I am now at men’s prison so those workshops are not happening at this time.Victim Services at 111 Centre Street may be able to connect you with some.However,I’m going to tell you the best place to find self esteem,courage and strength-THE BIBLE!Some people may laugh about that,but HE will never steer you wrong and he gives you all the answers you will ever need in life.Good luck to you!

  • Day-Day-DC

    Yall mofo’s lol i knew some of yall couldnt read for real but some don’t listen…..On the date rape it didnt happen, almost did.. it was also before she was famous, sound like she was real young..If she was famous damn everybody you know aint caked and from hollywood..shyt happens to all types of people..they better borrow it from the dude they bonign they wouldnt be hitting me up.

    Rest in peace Left Eye..but she said she wasnt even there when it happened, but Left Eye showed up “At her job”..thats sound like something that could be corroborated…uhm for yall others ie proved, yall know Left Eye was wilding, thats everybody girl but be real shawty was off the chain for a hot lil minute with everybody T-Boz and Chilli included.

    She aint the only dumb broad to stay wit a dude who was beatign her a$$..she learned got out b4 she was in the alley dead , with them faking like she was a victim of a robbery someone can learn from it.

    Everybody who make a book do it partly for money partly to get some shyt off they chest..yall birds in here doing all that stunting.

    Some people love to be negative ..yall face gonna wrinkle real quick too,

    Reading is fundamental

    Sometimes its better to listen than to type. Sound just as bed as yall say Pepa sound and dogging her.

  • Big K

    See what SupaHead done started? Now every chickenhead with an ax to grind wanna write a book.

    Mad ’cause you ain’t the main lady? Write a book.

    Wanna get back at the rapper who dumped you ’cause he caught you swallowing his homeboy’s throatbabies? Write a book.

    Too old to be a video hoe or too untalented to be a singer/actress but you screwed mad producers and casting agents hoping to get put on? Write a book.

    Damn you, Supahead!!!

  • http://www.myspace.com/ocky_j Octavia

    “Pepa, why were u hanging out with someone who had to go to someone else to get money too go out? “Come back later I’ll give it too you” U had no cash? Harms way, six sense? And u laugh! It seems 2 me something else was going on… “Drugs” Speak the truth sister or shut the #$!@ up!!!”

    Theresa, I couldn’t agree more!

  • sepia830

    Big K…..Throatbabies?

    Yeah Pep is wrong for bringing up Left-Eye like that. She needs to press on…with her wide a$$ shoulders, looking like she ought to be on a football field….

  • Nothing Nice: “real rappers ain’t eating they Olsen Twinin” WALE

    @ Cat Eyes

    Thx I appreciate that and keep up the good work!

  • Nothing Nice: “real rappers ain’t eating they Olsen Twinin” WALE

    @ Da Truff

    Jesus christ man.. What did u say to the two “former” friends when they told u bout it?

  • Ignorance is Contagious

    I dont know what is so funny about rape, gang rape of possible rape. This is truly sad that so many women have such low self esteems that they look for any reason to blame the women (she was looking for trouble, etc) or even try to desensitize the situation

    I have no problem with women writing books about their troubled life for any reason. Oprah tells her stories of promiscuity, rape and molestation to help young women. I am truly uncertain as to who Pepa thinks she is helping by laughing and saying, “they was going get us”.

    Truly sad

  • Nothing Nice: “real rappers ain’t eating they Olsen Twinin” WALE

    @ Ignorance

    I have no problem with women writing books about their troubled life for any reason. Oprah tells her stories of promiscuity, rape and molestation to help young women. I am truly uncertain as to who Pepa thinks she is helping by laughing and saying, “they was going get us”.

    Truly sad

    ——————————————-

    Cosign 100%

  • Nothing Nice: “real rappers ain’t eating they Olsen Twinin” WALE

    @ Davari

    I see what you mean..

  • Kasey

    Left eye said she set that house on fire because he bought another female sneakers. She was burning the sneakers in the bathtub and the whole house went in flames. Somebody is telling a lie. she should of left that out. I’m sure she heard left eyes story.

  • Kasey

    She should of kept this story to herself. It is an unwise choice to rehash old painful events of the past for profit. It is shameful to her children as well.

  • kenya

    JillyBean819

    lol reminds me of that dumb azz song by destiny’s child

    “we like them boys up top from the bk know how to flip that money three ways” translation…dope dealer

    ” A rude boy who’s good to me with street credibility” translation… someone who takes care of me but won’t be adverse to beating my azz once in awhile”

    lmao she should have conferred with Tboz on a thuggy hubby and how he beat her down.

  • Soulwoman

    Ummmm Pepa, Left Eye said she found Andre having sex with another female in the house. It’s very wack for her to even bring the situation up when it’s 1) old 2) Left Eye is not here to defend herself.

    Pepa, Left Eye, and Kim Osoria (sp?) all need to sit their desparate asses down somewhere.

  • shalane

    I WANNA READ THE BOOK. STOP HATING THE HUSSLE. EVERYTHING SHE SPOKE ABOUT WAS SERIOUS ISSUES AND HER CHARACTER WILL SHOW WHEN IT COMES TIME TO HELP OTHERS WITH THOSE SAME PROBLEMS AND NOT JUST MAKE MONEY OFF THEM.

  • http://thumbsnap.com/v/hJSxpF6W.jpg mz.cee

    Broad got issues and is crazy, damn! Whatever happened to some decency, damn?!

  • JillyBean819

    kenya,

    yeah, I agree. those lyrics are retarded.

  • liltee

    donn’t feel bad pepa because Nay is part of the reason my dad is getting a divorce from his because she was having sex with him and now she has a three year old little girl. all she do is talk about my dad wife like a dog and she’s not that pretty with five different babydads and two grandkids

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