But I have changed tacks too. No more putting down brothas. There are a lot of good black men too. Just not enough of them are single and available and open to dating black women, numbers-wise, so it’s good to see more and more sistahs doing what they need to do.

P.S. and to all you brothers kissin’ ***** on here talkin’ bout athletes coonin’ and that bs, quit hatin’ punk…You sound like a sissy, lol…

they have flaunted other race women in our face and generally made us feel like dirt, what’s happening now is karma- leave kelly and her man alone – you are being pathetic and petty and acting like insecure little third graders. And please stop lying about prefering brown skinned women, it’s a lie from hell and you know it! White Men are the ones who compliment chocolate women and accept and appreciate our braids,skin tone and figures that’s why many of us are going to them.

Unfortunately there are going to be people who will read what you posted and take it at face value instead of delving deeper.

What you posted is very limited in its scope and it’s attempt to address the psychological reasons a person chooses a mate. Having stated, “I know plenty of people who date outside race and it is about race…”, is understandable because your basing your argument on personal experience, but then you later go on to say “Personally I think white people would go out for with ANYTHING”,”when I see a black person going out of their race and dating, I see a black person who HATES themselves…”, which is a “personal opinion” that says more about “you” as a person and “your” psychological state than it does the topic you were addressing.

*****uming our minds were preconditioned to “date people who look like us” there would never have been an instance of what you’ve deemed to be interracial dating (Last time I checked we were all apart of the “human race”. Unfortunately a lot of people are willing to overlook that fact to *****ert there own agenda, but that’s another story, lol.).

“Your use” of the term “preconditioning” makes the *****umption that we somehow “pop-out” fully developed psychologically. When it is well known we are merely sponges absorbing everything around us, which is how we learn.

“Your use” of the term “innate” as it relates to “preconditioning” is in fact contradictory. There would be no need to “precondition” the mind to do what is “innate”.

Unfortunately I have very little time and limited *****e to fully address the proclamations you’ve made, because there’s so much more involved in why we make the decisions we make than what you’ve stated.