Sunday, September 14th, 2008

Jennifer Hudson to Marry Reality Show Dude

Posted by Bossip Staff

Jennifer Hudson is engaged to boyfriend, David Otunga, aka Punk from I Love New York:

“I can confirm that Jennifer got engaged to her boyfriend David on Friday night in L.A.” says the rep. Otunga, who is known as “Punk” from the reality show I Love New York 2, popped the question with a Neil Lane diamond ring on the Dreamgirls Oscar winner’s 27th birthday. The couple, who have been dating less than a year, both hail from Chicago. Professionally, it is a busy time for Hudson as well. Her debut solo album, Jennifer Hudson, will be in stores Sept. 30, and her next film, The Secret Life of Bees opens on Oct. 17.

SMH. Dude just looks like a buster, but if Jen’s happy we’re happy. The pickings are quite slim these days. Congrats to them..

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  1. flakester

    FIRST !!! congrats Jen!

  2. In jamaica we say

    dammit second

  3. Smart and Sexy...I'm a Catch! ;-)

    wow, punk moved up from new york??! lol. honestly though, i know a good man is hard to find but i don’t think i could date a dude that was head over heels in love with the character that is NEW YORK If he could get wit DAT, he don’t deserve any of dis right here! lol.

  4. southernbelle9

    see how long that last…

  5. WordtotheWise

    Congrats Jenny.


  6. Maybe the sex is good. Wow! Did innocent me just said that? :-)

  7. elle

    Eh.

  8. Natasha

    It is NEVER ok to settle! Being a big girl myself, I feel it is important to still look for men who compliments you as a person. I feel as if she could have gotten better. I mean what does he do for a living?

  9. jerrica

    at least he got money and aint no bum

  10. Afro - Latina

    He’s black?!? Whaaaaat? I can’t believe she did this.

  11. jerrica

    hes a well established lawyer

  12. SexyL

    What happened wit the other dude she had? U know the one she came wit to the Oscars

  13. CiCi

    This guy is an opportunist. He feigned his affections for New York and he is probably doing the same. He just caught a bigger fish.

    I hope she wakes up. Most of those contestants on these reality dating shows are hard up for fame and will do just about anything to achieve stardom.

  14. Zues

    Jen is smart enough to know that despite David being on I Love New York he’s a well established lawyer who went to Harvard. He could help her negotiate contracts so I think this is a good look for her. I have no reason to hate because at least Jen is getting somebody with a career of their own who can be helpful to her and not some K-fraud.

  15. Afro - Latina

    Bossip says that David is a reality show contestant. Where did you hear that he is a lawyer? If he is then, congratulations to Jennifer for choosing a smart man. I hope their union is filled with blessings.

  16. Afro - Latina

    Harvard graduate?!?! Oh my lord. I can’t believe it.

  17. Afro - Latina

    As you can see I love handsome nerds. :)

  18. CiCi

    I don’t care if he is a lawyer, he is still an opportunist in my opinion.

    What was his true reason for going on that show to degrade himself. New York’s personality is disusting and so is her appearance. He saw an opportunity to be famous. He does not fool me at all.

  19. dionna

    Harvard didn’t teach him anything about having cheesy assed taste, I guess. That’s too bad, but he seemed like a nice, articulate guy on the show. For some reason I’m feeling like he’s beneath her, but I’m sure he’s far more intellectual, I guess they balance out as far as personal accomplishments are concerned.

  20. Candy Barr

    Wasn’t she dating someone else last year? I thought she had a really serious boyfriend . . . “Smart and Sexy…I’m a Catch!” is right, though. If he was getting even the slightest bit from New York, I don’t know that I would touch that.

  21. I'm Just Me- SHOUT OUTS TO MY BIG SIS DDDDIIIIIVVVVAAAA

    Wow! Who would want New York’s leftovers. ILL!!! Well anyway congrats to them.


  22. I love her Jennifer and David make a cute couple

    Can’t wait for secret life of bees….

  23. LdyK

    I hope they both get aids tests

  24. Afro - Latina

    You ladies have a point. A man who is willing to be with New York probably isn’t a great catch even if he did attend Harvard University. I hope Jennifer takes him to a local clinic to see if he has any sexually transmitted diseases, because that is the last thing a woman should get from her husband-to-be.

  25. tara

    congratulation to her .i think she is so beautiful and sexual.i have seen some more hot videoes about her on ”””bigbisexual.com”’that’s wonderful!

  26. Tikki

    I won’t be too surprised if she ends up like Star Jones cause in my opinion, he looks kinda suspect. Love her but she’s starting to become a little too hollywood. Whatever happened to her long term boyfriend that became her fiance and the athlete she was dating last year?

  27. Cherri

    EEEl He swapped spit with New York. He just wants to be famous. She picked a Harvard graduate lawyer loser.

  28. kandykane

    wooow…I missed this one

  29. WhatsYoursIsMine-Fabulousness for less than $10 a day!

    YAY JENNIFER!!!!!

    I LOVED Punk, and I’m sorry, I didn’t believe any of I Love New York was real when it came down to the men that made it the farthest. She was acting the entire time, I believe Punk, The Entertainer, and a few others didn’t know how much of it was staged.

    But hey, he was trying to get into entertainment law, so do what you gotta do (as far as New York is concerned).

    I did like his mother and his sister, I LOVED how they said NOTHING to New York and her mother. HILARIOUS!

  30. beauty on lock

    Jennifer wants a trophy. That’s what it looks like to me. That’s why I love Beyonce’s choice in Jay-Z, Bey wanted and got a man, not just a trophy. Best wishes anyway to J-Hud and her fiance.

  31. STOP TRIPPING!

    damn that’s the best that she can do? jennifer get a rich white man like naomi campbell. he looks like an al reynolds kinda gay oops i mean guy! get that negro tested for aids please!

  32. Cherri

    Beyonce got a cold distant narcissistic man. Jay Z has no emotions and avoids intimacy. I don’t want this kind of man. I need a man to love me. A man who is not afraid to show his affection for me to the world. I don’t envy beyonce choice in jay Z AT ALL.


  33. Man, their kids are destined to have Grand Canyon-sized gaps in their teeth. Congrats, though…I guess?

  34. Nina

    What DID happen to her last boyfriend/fiancee?

  35. MS. PANAMA

    I SAY, CONGRATS! :)

    STOP HATING BOSSIPERS.

  36. WordtotheWise

    Jenny was dating a guy named James, who I believe was her high school sweetheart. They had been together for years. I knew once she got successful, that relationship was going to dissolve.

    Here’s a snippet from Wiki (I know that is not a reliable source, but here it is anyway):

    Hudson began dating James Payton in 1999 when she was 18. They were both from Chicago. When asked if they had any plans to marry, Hudson declared that “We are happy with the place we are right now, but perhaps we will tie the knot someday. One thing’s for sure, I definitely won’t be popping the question!”[8]. Sometime in December 2007 Hudson and Peyton ended their relationship.

    Hudson is now engaged to David Otunga, who is known as “Punk” from I Love New York 2. He proposed on Hudson’s 27th birthday with a Neil Lane diamond ring, Hudson’s rep told People magazine on September 14, 2008. The couple was dating for less than year at that time.

  37. STOP TRIPPING!

    cherri how do you know that? jay z gave beyonce a $5 million dollar ring! he loves her!

  38. Cherri

    How don’t care how much stacks jay has. He does not show any emotions. He is incapable. I’d rather have my husbands love and affection and him holding me at night instead of sleeping with his back turned with my 5 million dollar ring.

  39. Nik

    Jen I think you can do better stay engaged don’t rush into the wedding.

  40. Hot Sauce

    why do these frumpy hoodhos all choose the same gay lookin niggas. This nigga looks like that gay nigga that terry macmillan marryd and that nigga that star jones marryd. There must be a catalog for desperate afflooent hoodhos that they go thru to find the same lookin gay niggas. Sides any nigga who would get with this fat ho or new york must be a fag + giggaho = faggaho.

  41. Lush_Us Lipps

    I hope this doesn’t turn into a “Star Jones/Al Reynolds-suspect” relationship!

  42. Dee

    Good luck to them both. Looks dont always tell the story but he does look a little like Star & Terry Mcmillan’s (ugh) men. I’ve never seen I love NY. Maybe he doesn’t act as feminine as the other 2 (ugh) men.

    On the outside looking in, it seems that Jay & Bey have a real relationship that they choose not to subject to the media. I think that is an extremely smart move. 2 bad they maybe felt the need to flash the ring b/c people keep saying that he doesn’t love her.

  43. afan

    The rumor is that this guy is gay.

  44. NeevaTHEDiva

    how can he afford neil lang diamonds?! anyone appearing on reality shows, even if they admit they are fake is really a publicity whore and can not be trusted point blank. she should be suspect of people like him he wants the limelight even if it means marrying a fat man. the dude looks like he’s cares about his health and works out that in itself tells me he’s just marrying her for her celebrity status no in shape man is going to want an obese pig. fat girls are just so damn desperate! hope she gets that iron clad pre nup

  45. NeevaTHEDiva

    How don’t care how much stacks jay has. He does not show any emotions. He is incapable. I’d rather have my husbands love and affection and him holding me at night instead of sleeping with his back turned with my 5 million dollar ring.

    ********************************

    LMAO .. stupid .. you got all of this based on pictures. you dont know how this man treats his wife because he doesnt want to create photo ops for papps by PDA


  46. Congrat’s Jen, A Harvard Law graduate isn’t chop liver.

  47. NeevaTHEDiva

    LOL @ the picture of punk .. he got a juicy curl with white boy spikes .. damn how did he do that?!

  48. NeevaTHEDiva

    A Harvard Law graduate isn’t chop liver

    ^^ but a gay one is lol

  49. Ms. Toson

    I hope that he does well by her because she deserves nothing short of the best.

  50. Bran Bran

    So the guy who stood beside her when she was a nobody and had nothing has been kicked to the curb, huh? I bet she felt like he had her under a “spotlight” or some other poor excuse. The pickings may be slim, but I’d take a homeboy who held me down when I had nothing over someone whose lip gloss is popping more than mine any day! I often wonder why some women come equipped with a gaydar, while others seem to be wearing gaydar blinders?

    I can only shake my head!

  51. KIMMIE MORE

    He remind me of Terry McMillian’s gay ex-husband…

  52. Cherri

    The size or cost of the diamond does not signify the depth of someone’s love.

    An emotionally unavailable man is incapable of love. They can do a good job at feigning emotions but inside they have no emotional ties to anything or anyone. They hate affection or any displays of it. They may do it occasionally to please their spouse but it is insincere.

    Their image is of most importance. This kind of man has a sense of ownership and entitlment over their mate. They generally chose their mates by who will best improve their image. The person who will look best by his side and who will cater to his every whim. Being with this kind of mate will only leave a woman feeling unsatisfied, unloved, unworthy and scornful.

    These are dysfunctional relationships. Codependency stemming from childhood trauma. An emotionally unavailable parent can be a reason why a woman would cling to such a man. Usually people chose these kind of mates because they resemble the struggle with one or both of their parents.

  53. Cherri

    LMAO .. stupid .. you got all of this based on pictures. you dont know how this man treats his wife because he doesnt want to create photo ops for papps by PDA

    ——————————————————————————————————

    You need to watch who you are calling stupid. I have a reliable source and a keen insight on relationships, and human relations and their development. I don’t rely on photos for knowledge.

  54. Hot Sauce

    neeva & cheri

    if you 2 hoodhos is gonna fite, at leest have the commen curtesy to strip down and oyl up. Give a nigga a thrill.

  55. Sammybear

    Thats not her boyfriend….. Bossip you will report anything!

  56. Cherri

    You are so ignorant HOT SAUCE. Everyone is a hoodho bitc# or nigga. Those are the only words you can spell. You are so dumb, white people come on this site everday calling us nigge## as you continue to make ignorant commentary.

  57. ♥☺♥☺♥☺2cute4u♥☺♥☺♥☺(AKA BBC)

    I hope this guy doesn’t come “out of the closet” like Neyo or Al Reynolds in a couple of years!He’s just kind of suspect to me. But hey Jenn seriously, if you’re happy congrats! Just check that nicca’s drawers every now and then…

  58. Cherri

    oil, common, least is the correct way to spell.

  59. Shay

    LOL! What the hell is she thinking. Any guy that would go on I Love NY isn’t the type you want to date to even marry. She’s young so maybe she has to work out a couple mistakes to get where she needs to be.

    His Jhury Swirl scares me.


  60. What happened to the high school boyfriend? I thought they’d been together for like 6 years or something! She went on and on blah, blah, blah about how she “”could trust him because he’d been there since before….he had faith when no one else did” etc., etc.,etc. Not fancy enough for her now I guess. Shame.

  61. black woman

    i feel that he is useing her for her money i dont trust him! come on who in there right mind would date or marry some guy from a reality show? and i heard he was gay jennifer hudson is not useing her head and she being dumb. she had a boyfriend for a long time why the hell she let that go if it was so nice? see thats why people dont even earn to get rich cuz when you get rich people forget who they are like i said. he gone take her money.

  62. B

    dont ush it jen and yes he loks like that terri mcmill gay..guy..she need to pump the brakes and pump her career…

    he also looks like an opportunist and has ambitions of fame of his own..she better be careful…

  63. knottmyhair

    I though that was Al Renolds for a second…Star Jones’s ex…lol


  64. Congrats Mz.Jennifer and Punk!!!!!!!

  65. NEWbagNcoupe

    Woops he looks gay . No man should be into his hair like he is . WOW what happen to the guy she was with before the fame ?


  66. She needs to work as hard on putting out an album as she does on bagging some dude. Just sayin’…

  67. He's Presidential

    People has a better picture of him.. he is cute.. just the type i like.

  68. Redd Tony aka Earth Sign ( Go Redskins, we just put the beat down on New Orleans) RIP Sean

    I hope it works out for them. I dont know why some ladies hating on dude. He seems like he got his shit together. Yeah I guess he look corny but still. No wonder a bunch of yall in dead end relationships…SMH

  69. Hot Sauce

    He’s Presidential(Check me out!)

    People has a better picture of him.. he is cute.. just the type i like.

    you mean you like em so gay, you lidderly see the hiv drippin off his azz. You hoodhos is odd.

  70. ♥☺♥☺♥☺2cute4u♥☺♥☺♥☺(AKA BBC)

    She went and got her a light skinned man! And dumped that other guy who was suppose to be “the love of her life”, so she said in many interviews before she won the oscar! Besides all of the other mess, this man tongue kissed Miss New York, who tongue kissed flavor flav, who tongue kissed all those other sluts on his show…not to mention the fact that he may have slept with New York, who slept with flavor flav, who slept with some of those sluts on his show!!! God only knows who all New York slept with! Damn girl you better go get yoself tested for a whole troth of VD’s!!!

  71. Blu

    It’s something about this guy, I can’t put my finger on it………..

  72. Its6amHoGetOut

    That nigga is marrying a fat bitch with alot of money and potential to earn even more, he aint stupid!

  73. darealwifey

    David, aka, “Punk,” got canned from his law firm job after appearing on “I Luv NY.” Go to abovethelaw dot com, and look up “David Otunga.” It almost sounds like unless he tries to start his own firm, his career might be toast.

  74. ♥☺♥☺♥☺2cute4u♥☺♥☺♥☺(AKA BBC)

    Its6amHoGetOut(Check me out!)

    That nigga is marrying a fat bitch with alot of money and potential to earn even more, he aint stupid!

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    Awwwww, thats not nice. She’s not fat, she’s just big boned, and big “boobed”…

  75. HoneyChile

    That is a bad pic of him! He looks better than that. He seems like a really nice guy. He’s bi-racial that’s the reason for his curly hair. I don’t think he’s gay at all, but he may truly be an opportunist! I wish them the best, maybe they can act out like Will and Jada, or like Kimora and Russel when they used to make paper! (together) Or give back like Bill and Camille! Unbreakable! LMAO! Seriously though, I hope it works out for her.

  76. always knew

    If she is happy, I’m happy……At least she found someone to share it with….

  77. Hot Sauce

    i gess it makes sense, her marryin this DL nigga is the closest this fat bitch is gonna get to findin out wut dick taste like when he kisses her.

  78. TJ

    Please tell me how she doesn’t know he’s gay. PLEASE!

  79. TJ

    Also he went to Harvard law so I’m guessing he ain’t hurting in the pocket book I know whe did some work at Skadden, and Arps (huge law firm aka $$$$$$$$$$$$$)

  80. Nathan Bedford Forrest IV

    I bet he likes sucking on those big ole melons. He looks like he probably likes her to strap one on and do some damage to his rear end as well.

  81. Its6amHoGetOut

    Are her titties really that big? I just dont see it.

  82. Hot Sauce

    if that bitch lose weight, trust, those tits will prolly shrink to 32Cs. If that nigga gives her aids they will prolly shrink more.

  83. Reality

    He reminds me of Terry Mc Millan’s (gay) husband.

  84. Nathan Bedford Forrest IV

    Big girls usually have tight pussy like a virgin. I dont know much about colored girl pussy but the few big white girls I have fucked were tight as a young teen.

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  86. Yvonne

    Wow that was a surprise, but I do hope this is real for both of them and they have a long and happy life together. My congrats to them.

    Now, I want you people to clue me in on something.

    I don’t know ANYTHING about diamonds. I noticed the article said he gave her a Neil Lane diamond engagement ring.

    Is this suppose to be an over-the-top diamond ring? And, if you know, what price range would this diamond ring fall into?

  87. arionie

    THANK YOU BOSSIP ADMINISTRATOR BECAUSE THIS WAS GETTING OUT OF HAND

  88. Crazy Ass Rodney

    i had THAT same Hairstyle at birth

  89. Che

    If she’s happy that’s great. What amazes me though is the same people that are all yay for them are the same bunching of people including Bossip of trashing extra hard Mariah and Nick as well as Halle and Gabriel. If you ask me in this situation J-Hud is definitely more in a K-Fraud than either of Mimi or Halle.

  90. WordtotheWise

    Thank you, Bossip!!!

  91. black woman

    Nathan Bedford Forrest IV

    (Check me out!)

    Big girls usually have tight pussy like a virgin. I dont know much about colored girl pussy but the few big white girls I have fucked were tight as a young teen.

    ummm you again sorry to bust your bubble white cracka man :) its no way your white whores could ever be tight like a virgin like me. don’t you dare put a nasty girl in the same box with a clean virgin and not your dirty women.

  92. classc1

    I’m sorry…dude is gay as hell!!! Also…stop sayign that he is a well established lawyer!!! Think about it…what Harvard trained lawyer would up and leave his job at a law firm voluntarily and go on New York’s show? Do you know if he even passed the bar exam? Has he even practiced or wokred since NY’s show? Notice the timing of the engagement? Right around the time Jennifer’s album drops. This guy is on the DL!!!! Don’t do it Jen.


  93. good luck to them,they ‘ll be happy together.


  94. good luck to them,they ‘ll be happy together.people don’t be jealous,they are both nice looking.


  95. congratunations to them !it is said that more gossips can be found at”richromances.com”

  96. Rozza♥

    @NeevatheDiva: “…LOL @ the picture of punk .. he got a juicy curl with white boy spikes .. damn how did he do that?!”

    ***************************************************************

    DEAD!!!!!

    He could have had a better picture than an Olan Mills Family Portrait proof.

  97. Roni

    I liked him and his family on “NY”, seem like good, down to earth people. Hope it works for him and Jennifer!

  98. Black British Girl

    @ Rozza…LOL…they have Olan Mills in the US as well..???…LOL..that comment had me rolling…too too funny!!!

  99. who knows

    when are folks going to learn that you should stick with the person that was with your behind BEFORE you got famous. they are the only ones that know the real you and actually want to be with that person. this is another Star Jones in the making.

  100. Doagae

    Man, talk about fuckin’ up early in the game….damn Jen is is that bad?

  101. kahmmillion

    This guy is always well dressed, well groomed…that is the total opposite of J-Hud. She is usually a mess. In addition, the guy is not straight. He is as straight as the number 8. Give me a break.

    Why do these guys prey on women with low self esteem to do this type of thing to?

    I guess her get got real big after she was on Dream Girls and she had to get rid of the broke man that she was with for all of those years. When her relationship doesn’t work out, she is going to try to go back and I hope that he finds someone who is worthy of his love and tell that heffa to kick rocks.


  102. he’s one lucky fuck to get all that juicy sweet tight cunt to lick and lap,daaamn him.

  103. He's Presidential

    Why do people think just because he is yellow he is gay.. @ HotSauce I am not from them hood. Never seen one besides what’s on tv. He is cute althought that picture is suspect but the picture on people is better. Maybe if you had some business you wouldn’t worry about where I’m from. So you can Kick Rocks.

  104. uiown

    I don’t believe it

  105. Pretty Poison

    NO JENNIFER, NO! DON’T DO IT!

  106. dayg715

    bossip y’all are some fuckin’ haters. whatever happened to wishing 2 people the best in their happiness, especially the way this world is today? punk is not “gay”; he’s just a corny “white boy” (he IS half white). i bet you if beyonce was single, and she had hooked up with him, y’all would be all over his nuts. congrats, J-Hud, for roping that FINE ass man!! best wishes to the both of you!!

  107. Necy

    WHAT THE HELL!!! sorry about that fellow bossipers… didn’t she have a boyfriend for like 8 years when she won AI?????? where is He? when did she meet this guy?? and how come I never heard that they ever even dating??? so many UNanswered questions here.. IS THIS GUY EVEN STRAIGHT???? just saying!!

  108. dayg715

    …and he’s got his OWN money; he’s a lawyer with his own law firm. so J-Hud doesn’t have to worry about him taking her paper.

  109. Necy

    @ harlem king

    OMG, you are so VULGAR… My virgin eyes didn’t need to see that this early in the morning!! LOL

  110. Official TimeHater

    What the hell? What happened with Kerry Rhoades??

    Let me shut the hell up ain’t nobody trying to marry my azz so I’ma go sit down..

  111. Necy

    I just hope that their children DON’T look like his sister!!! did anyone see when they appeared on I love ny 2????

  112. intenzemocha

    He’s a Harvard graduate and he was quite the gentleman to NY-he’s a good catch definitely!

    Good guys rule! To hell with bad boys…..

  113. chaka1

    Just me, but I think they should date longer. Unless she is preggers!!

  114. chaka1

    I agree with the “to hell with bad boys” comment. The older you get, the bigger the liability they become.

  115. Necy

    I hate to say it, but I hope that he is not just marrying her for her money!!! and I know that he is a Lawyer??? but when have you ever heard of a lawyer that makes as much as a sucessful movie star???? Jen is a lovely girl, but this guy has already appeared on a reality show which leads me to believe that he is after some FAME.. be CAREFUL JENNIFER and please DO NOT, and I repeat.. DO NOT GET MARRIED WITHOUT A PRENUP GIRL!!!!!

  116. WhatsYoursIsMine-Fabulousness for less than $10 a day!

    I don’t think he’s gay, I just think he’s a dork. But hey, I think she could do worse.

  117. purplechick

    @ Cici agree 100%

    don’t care if he is a lawyer, he is still an opportunist in my opinion.

    What was his true reason for going on that show to degrade himself. New York’s personality is disusting and so is her appearance. He saw an opportunity to be famous. He does not fool me at all.


  118. I remember Punk on the show, he seemed like a nice respectable guy. His mother and little sister made an appearance on the show and you can see that he comes from a good background. I love Tiffany Pollard (New York), but they were not a match. Hopefully this is not some PR stunt, I don’t believe anything anymore. Jennifer has a new song out, loving it! It’s called Spotlight.

  119. why?

    I don’t know about this one….she may just be his rebound chick. Oh well, I love J Hud. I hope it works!

  120. Stellargirl...chicity

    Bossip there is no INTEGRITY on this site. This is GOSSIP! Yall stupid as hell. Punk is his name people even NY wack ass pegged him right.Thing are not so bad that a woman needs to be so desperate for a man that she will settle for a faggot! This is an embarrassing.

  121. SMDH

    WOW!! Now if she had chosen the perverbial “thug” everyone, hot sauces monkey ass included, would be up in here dogging the girl over that.. But she chooses a Harvard Educated lawyer and she gets dogged too??

    I guess the black woman can do no right even when she tries to, huh?? You are all sad black woman haters!! That’s why, even with what we have to deal with WE STILL RISE..

  122. Ugh

    I get where you are coming from SMDH, but marrying a gay guy is not a good look, even if he did go to Harvard.

  123. Hot Sauce

    smdh

    bitch pleeze, that nigga wuz tongue kissin the queen of hoodhos new york. You hoodhos call that shit a great catch? Why woulda harvard nigga be on that hoodhos show to begin with? Thats why his firm fired his azz. Only a DL Brokeback nigga would partisipate in that shit. You hoodhos are so eazy to impress.

  124. tboogie25

    This dude is suspect!!!

  125. Monday

    Fame can be a good thing. but there are some bad things along with it. you struggle and struggle to achieve something. and if you have your family or the one you love who has been there since day one. it make the struggle less hard. because you have the support from the ones you love. then you get that big break! ya thanking god! ya momma! brotha! sista! then you can’t “thank” enough the love of your life. life is beautiful. then slowly for surely the love of your life is not in all the pics. you not even mentioning this person anymore.

    maybe you got these “hollywood people in your ear telling you “its not a good look to be engage or involve with someone you known since you were a teenager. someone who encouraged and cheered you on from day one. Jennifer Hudson’s ex was an ordinary guy, with an ordinary job, ordinary looks. which I found quite handsome. but he just doesn’t fit the biz. it happens all the time. once you get that stardom, folks get all in your ear about this and that, you need this you don’t need that. and her ex was the that. I feel bad for him because. he been there. then for some dude, whom I admit is handsome and he is not gay people. anal maybe. nerdy yes. but for him to come and sweep her away from someone who laid a foundation with her, just isn’t right. Jennifer isn’t right. she has let hollywood take over her life. to make one those people who kicks away the little people. not a cool move, jen. not cool.

  126. SMDH

    “I get where you are coming from SMDH, but marrying a gay guy is not a good look, even if he did go to Harvard.”

    And how did he become gay? When was it decided and proven that this man is gay?? Cause he’s not the “thug” type that the black male is always claiming we want so badly?? The black male is so confused that its comical. If she wants a thug she deserves whatever bad she goes through with him for if she had picked a good man her relationship would be better.. So she picks the good educated man and now he’s gay and she deserves it when she finds out.. BLAH BLAH BLAH!! It’s just another thing in that list of contradictions the black male is always throwing out there about the black woman and just about everyone else…


  127. I just think Jen shouldn’t rush thangs. As far as the Bey and Jay thang, I do agree with the previous comment that he is distant and cold. Money ain’t everything and a 5 million dollar ring aint saying he loves her. He can afford that kind of stuff and 5 million is like 5 dollars to Jay. Lets not get catch up in material things to justify how someone truly feels. I am talking from experience and one things for sure-money don’t make you happy. Money is a cover-up for false happiness.

  128. SMDH

    “bitch pleeze, that nigga wuz tongue kissin the queen of hoodhos new york. You hoodhos call that shit a great catch? Why woulda harvard nigga be on that hoodhos show to begin with? Thats why his firm fired his azz. Only a DL Brokeback nigga would partisipate in that shit. You hoodhos are so eazy to impress.”

    6AM – shut your bitch faggot clown ass up!! Atleast be a man and talk your shit under your own name.. You fucking piece of dogshit!! The best part of your ran down your mama’s legs with the afterbirth!! When your sorry bitter clown ass was born the doctors, literally, should have thown out the baby and raised the afterbirth..

    Go thumb fuck yourself or something you sorry bastard!!!!

  129. Creole Baby Sho Loves Cone Bread

    wow

  130. Hot Sauce

    smdh

    rite bitch. And when that nigga comes out the closet, where will yo azz be then? Everybody else will be commenting and you and mochaho will conveniently be missing from that thred. Fukk you hoodho.

  131. Oshie

    In other news, I heard Clay Aiken is engaged to Buddha.

  132. Nisha M

    People are going on Jennifer for not marrying the other dude that she was with for a while without knowing why they broke up. For all we know, he could have been beating her or having some side pieces.

    Also, how is Bossip saying that David is a buster, this man graduated from Harvard with a law degree. Since when did Ivey League = Buster?

  133. african_4_eva

    Well, if it is true and genuine, then CONGRATS!!

  134. Nisha M

    Does anyone have any solid proof that this man is gay? Maybe he’s really just a nice guy. Maybe he went on ILNY to show her what a real man is like. This dude could really be a good catch. We should really stop putting our brother down.

  135. african_4_eva

    @Nisha

    I co-sign.

    Unfortunately, he was introduced to America through a wack-a$$ed reality show and that tends to cover the REAL life accomplishments that he and other reality stars have.

  136. Necy

    Jen, listen to the word of the wise!!! Donald Trump= Prenuptial agreement…………

  137. SMDH

    “Also, how is Bossip saying that David is a buster, this man graduated from Harvard with a law degree. Since when did Ivey League = Buster?”

    Right!! Ivy League = Buster only to these sorry ass worthless black male clowns out here who know they aren’t shit, don’t want shit and are never gonna be shit aka HATERS!! I can’t get over the irony here.. If this girl had gotten engaged to a sorry ass thug nigga the black males up in here would have a field day with it.. They’re so busy hating on the successful sista that they’re too damn dumb to see their own hypocrasy…

  138. Necy

    @Nisha

    I see where you’re coming from, BUT this guy went to Iloveny2 of all shows!!!! she is one of the trashiest, slutties, ugliest, manliest, baldiest, classless person on tv… where is his self-respect and class????

  139. Necy

    did he leave his self-respect, selfworth, class in Harvard????????? NY=YUCK

  140. lala#1

    LMAO.. how did a topic about Jennifer Hudson’s engagement turn into Jay-Z and Beyonce story???… I am done.

  141. Che

    Nisha M he’s a buster because it’s not like he continued to work as a lawyer after ILNY was over but instead became one of those reality stars who trail the party circuit. So he’s educated that’s great. She got herself an educated Tyrone. He doesn’t have a job right now and his next one will probably be wanting to be her manager. I just would’ve liked it if she got someone who had some sort of job of their own.


  142. if you 2 hoodhos is gonna fite, at leest have the commen curtesy to strip down and oyl up. Give a nigga a thrill.

    @HotSauce There are sooo many things wrong with this sentence! I can’t begin. Just know that you need to STOP!


  143. i hope this is just a rumor. what the hell happened to the gut she was with all that time. I know she didn’t get in over her head and dump him inly to end up with a man that looks ten time more feminine than her adn she always looks very feminine so you get mt dreft

  144. SMDH

    “Nisha M he’s a buster because it’s not like he continued to work as a lawyer after ILNY was over but instead became one of those reality stars who trail the party circuit. ”

    How do YOU know he’s not working as a lawyer?? Do you know him?? Does he call you at home?? Are you fucking him?? I mean, c’mon now.. You know NOTHING about this man and his ambitions.. All you know is that you wanna hate on him…

  145. Lou in the Chi

    Misery loves company. It amazing how so many people know what’s going on in these people’s lives and have neveer met them. Don’t know them from Adam, but you know their intentions? That is funny. Wishing them the best for better or worse.


  146. girl you better think twice

    everybody knows that he wants the same thing you want

    wake tha he’ll be with star’s suspect

    remember you got it first from Buffy

  147. african_4_eva

    @ SMDH

    (“Nisha M he’s a buster because it’s not like he continued to work as a lawyer after ILNY was over but instead became one of those reality stars who trail the party circuit. ”

    SMDH: How do YOU know he’s not working as a lawyer?? Do you know him?? Does he call you at home?? Are you fucking him?? I mean, c’mon now.. You know NOTHING about this man and his ambitions.. All you know is that you wanna hate on him…)

    The infamous SMDH is partially standing up for an African-American male?!

    I thought that I would never see the day!!

  148. legalize the ganga /rude girl from jamdown

    what happen to her boyfriend from back when

    she couldnt affore hair weave ….umm

    becarful girl not everything that glitters is gold …watch your bank account

  149. SMDH

    “The infamous SMDH is partially standing up for an African-American male?!

    I thought that I would never see the day!!”

    I will always stand up for what I perceive to be a good black MAN!!! Its these sorry self hatin, black woman hatin weak ass black MALES who turn my stomach..

    I will always be in a good MANS corner…

  150. SMDH

    “she couldnt affore hair weave ….umm”

    What an ignorant hatin ass statement.. Is she asking your ignorant ass to pay for her weave?? Then what the FUCK is it to you?!?!?

    SMDH @ the ignorance up in this thread!!

  151. pussycatdolls*akapc*

    @SMDH

    i swear everytime i get on bossip

    there go a different picture of you —- which one is you

    ranting and raging as usual!!!

    you dont know who you want to be from day to day ..uh

  152. SMDH

    “Misery loves company. It amazing how so many people know what’s going on in these people’s lives and have neveer met them. Don’t know them from Adam, but you know their intentions? That is funny. Wishing them the best for better or worse.”

    AMEN!!!!

  153. african_4_eva

    @Legalize the Ganga

    -true, true…BUT as stated by Nisha M:

    “People are going on Jennifer for not marrying the other dude that she was with for a while without knowing why they broke up. For all we know, he could have been beating her or having some side pieces”

    …so, you never know…and don’t be so quick to judge until you know the WHOLE STORY!!

  154. legalize the ganga/rude girl from jamdown

    she couldnt affore hair weave ….umm”

    What an ignorant hatin ass statement.. Is she asking your ignorant ass to pay for her weave?? Then what the FUCK is it to you?!?!?

    SMDH @ the ignorance up in this thread!!

    __________

    LMAO – girl thats my opinion

    and I will say it again

    check it

    _____

    what happen to her boyfriend from back when

    she couldnt afford hair weave ….umm

    becarful girl not everything that glitters is gold …watch your bank account

    —–

    so shut yr bloodcloth

  155. SMDH

    “@SMDH

    i swear everytime i get on bossip

    there go a different picture of you —- which one is you

    ranting and raging as usual!!!

    you dont know who you want to be from day to day ..uh”

    Run along 6AM!! You’re becoming a joke now!!!


  156. And she wants him after he kissed and was all hugged up on NEW YORK??? EWWW!! :(

  157. legalize the ganga/rude girl from jamdown

    @african_4_eva

    liste i am not juding anyone, leave the juding for jahrasta all i am saying girl becareful the grass is not alway greener on the other side —you know when some people make it big the sometimes forget where they comming from …that all not knock her or putting her down —just want a sista to watch her back– you feel me

  158. SMDH

    “she couldnt affore hair weave ….umm”

    What an ignorant hatin ass statement.. Is she asking your ignorant ass to pay for her weave?? Then what the FUCK is it to you?!?!?

    SMDH @ the ignorance up in this thread!!

    __________

    LMAO – girl thats my opinion

    and I will say it again

    check it”

    And I will say again what the FUCK is it to your hating moneky ass what weave she can and can’t afford?? What is it to you?? She aint asked your broke blog trolling worthless ass for a damn thing?? So short of that your just a fucking LOSER on a blog hatin on a SISTA who has it better than your ass does!!! Weave and all I’m pretty sure she has much more going for her than you ever will!!

    In fact, knowing so – do you!! Cause in the grand scheme of things you probably aren’t even worthy to lick the shit off her boot heels!! SMDH!!

  159. legalize the ganga/rude girl from jamdown

    someone on pass SMDH the blunt

  160. Ann

    OMGOSH he is CHEATING ON HER!!!!

    I live n CHICAGO on was on the LAKE FRONT (fullerton exit) with family and friends one night

    and we saw PUNK w/a FULL FIGURED woman HOLDING HANDS all LOVEY DOVEY

    and it was MOS DEF NOT JHUD it was about 5 of us that day

    and were were NOT the only ppl who NOTICED him even though it was a LATE night

    thought he was HIDING his FACE b/c he didnt want to be BOTHERED but I kno I kno OTHERWISE

  161. WhatsYoursIsMine-Fabulousness for less than $10 a day!

    Man, I am no fashion maven by any means, but I think I dress pretty decently.

    But seriously, I’d love to be her stylist. I understand she probably has certain outfits she loves and won’t change, but I’d do my best to hook her up.

  162. ll

    “It is NEVER ok to settle! Being a big girl myself, I feel it is important to still look for men who compliments you as a person. I feel as if she could have gotten better. I mean what does he do for a living?”

    Re: He’s an Ivory league educated attorney.

  163. shavon denise

    No Jennifer NOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!

  164. No

    I got the Star Jones vibe on that one. I can’t even stand to watch iluvny. The Flavor of love girls were the nastiest skankiest women I had ever seen on TV in ‘06. It sounds weird, the engagement, made me put on the brakes. She’s grown and it’s on, ain’t no stopping her now but if she hasn’t silenced the voice of reason(Granny and Aunt Juicy nem) it’s time for a sit down.

  165. classc1

    Please stop sayiny this man has his own law firm…he DOES NOT!!! Has the man even worked since he was on I Love NY? How do you guys even know if he has passed a bar exam? As far as I am concerned, he left his legal job under suspicious circumstances. He is an opportunist..straight-up…and gay!!!

    All I know is that I don’t want to see Jennifer crying on Oprah’s couch down the road talking about she didn’t know his flaming ass was gay!!! Black women…wake up!!!


  166. what happened to her boyfriend she took to the oscars,this is so quick, hope she doesnt rush this, congrats Jen.

  167. Carla

    Jennifer must be extremely desperate, lol…

  168. kenya

    first off, this is a man who kissed new york’s man looking behind. second of all he went on a reality show. third he looks like he may not be hetro…with that said jen you don’t need this mess of a man, you can do much better,what you need to do is concentrate on your career. i hope your not one of those women who will settle just because you don’t think you can do better. this is a huge mistake!

  169. kenya

    let me reprahse that

    he went on a dating reality show

  170. kenya

    i mean re-phrase

  171. Tommy Gibbs

    Thought she was so head over heals w/her high school sweetheart & that her new found fame would not infiltrate that realtionship. I knew once she started to gain popularity, she was going to leave him. Such is the live once getting sucked in into Hollyweird.


  172. Yeah, I knew her relationship with the janitor would not last. I bet his ego could not take her success. I hope this guy is about something, I would hate for her to be used.

  173. memchee

    now I can understand jill scott pulling a p.r. fast one for privacy….

    but jhud, c’mon, you’re constantly on a p.r. parade just to stay relevant.

    this is probably a p.r. stunt covering up something else that’s going on.

  174. kenya

    That’s why I love Beyonce’s choice in Jay-Z, Bey wanted and got a man, not just a trophy.

    LOL Bey married her father!

  175. Carla

    Jennifer shouldn’t jump up and get married this fast, she’s making a mistake.

  176. Carla

    Watch your back, Jennifer. Don’t marry him, David just wants money, and fame.

  177. desiree

    WHHAAATTT???!?!?!?!

    What happened to the other guy she was with since American Idol days???

    Well at least this man is intelligent an a lawyer, he seemed genuine on the I love ny show.

  178. kamikaze

    I’m 44 years old from Los Angeles,CA. And….an O.G. African American “DYKE”. I know MY people when I see ‘em. What I can’t understand. Is how Terri Mac, Star, Oprah and all of these others rich Black females cant see what I see. Maybe because They don’t party where I used to party. Or maybe they’re blinded by that bomb ass and “tender” sex they were gettin’. That bomb ass sex… from a “gay-bob” had no meaning behind it. He’s only puttin’ himself out there for the available rich faggots out there to see him. Basically, to get paid…temporarily..by the women. And then permanently by the new manthat discovers him… continuously.


  179. dude is riding the coat tail of girls fame. this is not a good look J-hud. Put his azz on probation a while longer. What’s the rush.Bossip, the pickings are not that slim, she needs to upgrade. She’s Oscar winner…he’s Oscar Meyer. 2nd rate. She can do better. My gut says he ’s Deadbeat and his preference is likely men!!

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