Sextra: Who’s in the Mood for Some Virgo Loving?

Happy Friday, Bossip Readers! The dawning of the Virgo Zodiac fell upon us earlier this week! This earth sign, that is represented by a virgin woman, is into all things pure, organic and orderly. Virgos are extremely critical thinkers who work hard to attain their desires and, perhaps, their most valuable asset is their brain and the attention they give to details. Although they are sensitive, they tend to revel in the world of logic, where they are most comfortable, only allowing those who have earned their trust into their emotional realm . . . and it’s no easy feat! They’ll eventually let you in but you have to put in the work, it’s the “virgin” in them. Because of their practical and analytical thought process, the Virgo is often the default go-to person for advice within their circle of friends and family and they effortlessly subdue a meltdown by applying rational and factual thought to melodrama. If you should capture the heart of the Virgo, you have a found a reliable friend and/or partner for life! The people in their lives often find comfort in the stability and order they offer.

Although Virgos are sharp thinkers, they do have a tendency to be overly critical, inflexible and narrow-minded. Once, they’re decided on a thought, principle or ideal it’s going to take a lifetime to try and convince them otherwise. Virgos are natural perfectionists, which is an admirable trait, but if they don’t take a realistic approach to things their fault-finding and nit-picking, judgmental nature can make them a total drag! People will purposely avoid this astral sign if they’ve found a home dwelling in the negative. A slob is no match for the Virgo, for they are tidy and often labeled a “neat-freak.” Everything has its place and things must be clean and orderly. Filth and nastiness, quite simply, make Virgos uncomfortable. They can, however, in their never ending quest for perfection hinder their enjoyment of others and the simple things life has to offer.

In the bedroom, the cool, calm and collected Virgo is hardly the celibate “virgin.” A mental connection is a must because, again, this sign likes things to be pure. So if you are lucky enough to love on a Virgo, a mental connection is standard! Even though they can come across as prude or frigid, they are heavenly lovers. They like to build the experience over time! They completely destroy the “it’s never as good as the first time” theory because it gets better! Most are pleasantly surprised by their vigor. Once the Virgo is revved up, you’re not going anywhere . . . they take the slow-burn approach to their lovemaking. It’s head to toe. All or nothing. Go hard or go home. Remember, they’re perfectionist and as they peel away the layers of sensuality, they’re perfecting all the techniques and hot spots that are specific to their lover in hopes of building the perfect sexual experience. They’re quite devoted and patient lovers and failure or disappointment is not an option. If you want to impress a Virgo, you should pay close attention to details – clean sheets, clean body, clean smelling fragrances . . . all things clean!

Ultimately, Virgos are truly one of a kind and if have one in your life, things just make more sense.

Ugh. Well, okay. I can admit that when I was younger, if things didn’t go the way I pictured it, somebody was to blame, somebody was irresponsible, somebody dropped the ball and they’re fired. But with time and maturity, I’ve loosened up enough to understand that not all things go as planned but I can’t say that it still doesn’t f*ck with me. I’m a work in progress, what can I say? I love sex but if it’s meaningless, it doesn’t do anything for me. I like a connection and getting to know a woman’s body and I want her to get to know mine and what I like. Now don’t get me wrong, I will f*ck the sh*t out of a woman but that has it’s time and place. Sex is meant to be spiritual and we have to earn each other’s trust to take it to that level. I’m patient like that though. – Angelo, 30 on September 19

My mother, my sister and now my husband are all Virgos. I thought I had a handle on him because I grew up with them but I was wrong. He can be very complex and hard-headed. I think he goes out of his way to be “right” about trivial things and that irks my nerves so bad! He hardly admits he’s wrong but would rather say “you were right,” you know? He is a trip! But he’s there when I need him, very reliable and loyal. He’s very helpful around the house and with the kids and he’s so smart. I think his thoughts get in the way of his emotions but there’s nothing I can do about that. I’m a cancer so I’m an emotional person and he always says the right things when I have my moments. Our sex life is beautiful, I can honestly say that he was the first man to make love to me and after that I wasn’t going nowhere. – Joy, 32

My girl is a Virgo and she is a neat freak! I appreciate that about her though. I know where everything is and I know, for sure, everything is going to be clean! She’s not the emotional type of girl either. If she has a problem, she’ll come and talk to me about whatever made her upset, without the tears and drama. If she’s moved to the point of tears, then I know I cut her deep and I need to redeem myself, if she’ll allow me to. She just don’t cry for no reason, now. We have great sex but it took a while for us to get to this point. She wasn’t as open as she is now but I just think that she needed to know that I was just as invested as she is. I’ve been in a lot of relationships but she is definitely worth the time and effort and I’m a better person because of what we have. I don’t know what I’d do without her. She’s the greatest. – Marty, 33

Shouts out to all the Bossip Virgos! Leave your thoughts in the thread!

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