Help! My Man Won’t Please Me!

- By Bossip Staff Categories: Coupled Up, Crotchy-licious, Madame Noire

couple in bed

We received the following comment on a recent post and it made me us kinda sad:

“I have no problem pleasing my man orally or sexually, but how can I get him to do the same for me? He won’t go down and he won’t play with “it”.

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  • ThickLikeCornbread

    He is SELFISH! That alone would turn me off. I know u probably shouldnt dump a “good man” over sex, but ummm…, he would either work on it or we would be ending the relationship

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  • anewme

    OMG…I am going through the same thing! I don’t want to cheat, but it is getting very tempting!

    • Slide Like a Fresh Pair of Gators

      Sis, tell the truth that was you that wrote that comment wasn’t it???

      You told on yourself, it’s all good…

      So go ahead and give us more details about your situation = inquiring minds want to know???

    • anewme

      No Slide, I didn’t write that, but I should have! My situation is very much the same. Its very frustrating to not be able to get yours, when he always does! I have told him I was going to find someone else to do it, but he doesn’t believe me, so can’t say I didn’t give him warning. :)

    • RedB0ne

      I don’t know your man but he sounds very inconsiderate. Is he like that in other areas of the relationship? People downplay the importance of sexual compatibility then wonder why people dip. Sorry girl, hope you find the answer you need to help you be happy.

  • Rae

    Sorry but if hes not doing his job, like Ive told mines so many times. someone else will do it for you. its not cheating if i tell you to come correct and you dont, cause i already told you if you dont i will not have a problem going elsewhere.

  • Wtf...

    @ mistress maybe u have a point. I didn’t think of that.

  • http://urnotpdiddyloser 5'10" AKILLAH RICHARDS(D.K.N.Y. boys like me a lot)

    trade that h* in, get yourself a dime that’s how you do the damn thang

  • me

    i had this same problem, i hold out as long as i could then i found a replacement and he loves for me to be happy.

  • Shananigans

    on to the next one!

  • mosiane

    A: Break up with him.

    It is truly that simple lol

  • Hmmmm

    STOP doing it to his selfish azz!
    Can’t stand a Selfish Man, show him you have control and Stop giving it to him.
    Then just lay there when he make love to you & yaw! Then get out the bed a go make a sandwich.

    • Pleezzz

      I say before you get out of bed scream WHAT EVERRRR! Then go make a sandwich….lol

  • M3@9@N

    She shudda been had da “do u eat puszy?” convasation wit dude before gettin in da bed straight up

  • rampagejackson

    V-Dub, sweetie your husband a) is on the DL or b) has a jumpoff he’s giving it to on the regular.

  • 1word

    To all you women that have a man who won’t go down on you, maybe you need to look at yourself and keep that thing smelling good and possibly he’ll make it worth your wild. Nothing turns a man off more than a women with bad personal hygiene.

    • anewme

      That’s not always true! I keep it clean, shaved nice, and FDS’ed up! He just doesn’t like to do it, period…never has. There is just no freak in him what-so-ever, and I am the total opposite, I am down for almost anything!

  • RedB0ne

    That is jacked up. Part of being a “good man” is being good to your woman. SMH

  • http://urnotpdiddyloser 5'10" AKILLAH RICHARDS(D.K.N.Y. boys like me a lot)

    He would be history by the time my boots hit the pavement. No time to waste on losers.

  • Kreole King

    Im So glad about this post.

    This proves exactly what I what I said in another post.

    When it was the woman not pleasing the man, he was supposed to stay and work it out and maybe its his fault and everything to turn it around on the dude.

    But now here is the exact same situation in reverse and black women are on here telling the woman to jump ship and he is lame.

    Many of the Black women on here don’t really believe in anything accept winning the argument and making sure they dont have to take responsibility for any thing

    • http://urnotpdiddyloser 5'10" AKILLAH RICHARDS(D.K.N.Y. boys like me a lot)

      good now go find the UGLY BECKYS that couldnt get a decent white man or the Golddigging latinas looking for a comeup. see ya!

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