Quote of the Day

Posted on September 16th, 2008 - By Bossip Staff

Categories: Baby Mama Drama, News, TI

Posted by Bossip Staff

T.I. clarifies his child support situation:

A lot of deceiving information has been reported regarding my recent child support proceeding. It is unfortunate that the media has been used to manipulate the circumstances and distort the facts.To clarify the recent reports, in addition to the $2000 per month I pay in cash to Lashon Dixon, the mother of my sons Domani and Messiah, I also pay for their private schooling, medical insurance, clothing, food, gifts, birthdays and extracurricular activities. Their extra-curricular activities have included football, basketball, baseball, acting lessons, summer camp, and any other activities that they express a desire to be involved in that will contribute to them leading balanced lives and developing into well rounded individuals. I have also made an attempt to help Lashon with additional payments that have included a down payment to purchase her home, purchase of an automobile for her transportation and other financial obligations. These expenses are documented and are far in excess of the $2000 cash payment that is being paid direct to Lashon. She has chosen not to work and to live 100% from her child support receipts. This is the reason for her difficulties in making ends meet for herself.

These silly ass broads make us sick. Here’s a tip, get a f*cking job. Sitting around collecting a check because you shat two kids out of your twat seven years ago is unacceptable. Kudos to T.I. for taking care of his kids.

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  • Creole Baby Hotter Than Ya Mama Grits

    1st

  • Milio

    ugghhh! She makes us women who actually do our best look bad.

  • CAT EYES

    I knew the chick was lying-you always see him with his kids-if he was such a bad provider,he wouldn’t even have them around him.He does not have to support her-she’s not his child.Congrats to TI for being a man about all this.

  • JJ

    She ain’t on the remix, she needs get on a job, “I’m Calvin, those new rib sandwich back, and guess what, you cut off, I got that on lock down”, lol.

  • Oshie

    I love you T.I.!

    I’m sure he’ll read this and look me up…

  • WhatsYoursIsMine-Fabulousness for less than $10 a day!

    Okay, seriously. I want a family, I want a baby, I want a husband, but I cannot see myself getting knocked up and chasing a man down for child support.

    That may not have been her intention from the beginning, but come on now. I’d raise those kids on the $2k a month with a job and no additional help from him, because 18 years creeps up on you faster than you think.

  • JoJo

    Are we supposed to beleive that TI actually wrote that statement. He is as dumb as a door knob, he probably can’t read it. But what is going on between he and his childrens mother is their business. To bad she had to bring it out into the public b/c now people on the blogs are going to rip into her. And in the statement I read from her she never said anything bad about him.

  • Book Worm

    T.I. put her ass on blast! She needs to get a job.

  • Kesha: (I BLEED BLACK-N-GOLD STILL(Yeah, I said it)

    B*tch, get off yo lazy azz and GET A DAMN JOB!

    Collecting child support is not a job…triflin heffa! You can tell this man loves his kids…she makes me nauseous!

  • Kompton’s Kutie

    These money hungry females piss me off. Sweetie you is not Tiny u can’t have “Whatever You Like”! Get a job. The judge will end up reducing that 2K to nothing and only allow him to pay for the kids needs only, with receipts.

  • XK

    wear a rubber fool

  • who knows

    I hope she knows that the courts are going to her that he doesn’t have to do all that stuff and her pockets are about to get smaller. Once the courts add up what he pays, and what she contributes – he will be ordered to pay school and the cash payments and that other stuff is about to stop if he wants it to. he will be under no obligation and she will be mad.

  • shavon denise

    Sh*t I know good fathers have troubles with baby momma’s because regular Joe’s gotta deal with ignorant women that use their kids as pawns. I dont know the full story so I dont judge but Ive seen alot of women that agree to a set amount and have the father buy EVERYTHING and then in turn when the father makes them mad they try to take them to court for more. No court has ever asked T.I. to pay $2000. He made an agreement with this chick and she is now realizing that she cant survive off of $2000 herself with no job. There shouldnt be nothing that she has to buy them so she needs to get a job if that was the original agreement. But what will happen to this dumb B is that the judge is going to give her what she’s supposed to get and tell her to “support” the children.Meaning school, clothes, food, etc. All the stuff that REALLY adds up, and she is going to be looking even more stupid. Yet, she prolly will get mega bucks that equate to her actually having a career. Thats sad

  • KMBPYT

    I really hate situations like this. I mean why can’t she get a job if she feels she is struggling. I mean if she feels like she can’t depend on him then she needs to get out and get hers.

  • lala#1

    @whatsursismine:Okay, seriously. I want a family, I want a baby, I want a husband, but I cannot see myself getting knocked up and chasing a man down for child support.

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    I agree w/ that 110%

    furthermore, lashon has learned nothing from 50cents babymama and all that drama.. there is a huge difference between being “the mother of his kids” and a “babymama”..Maybe one day sooner than later these females will figure it out…

  • WHITE TONYA WITH HER BOO’S NAME TATOOED ON HER THIGH/BLACK MEN TELL ME I HAVE A DUNK

    WOMEN WHO FEEL ENTITLED TO GETTING HANDOUTS MAKE ME SICK AND IT APPEARS TO BE PREDOMINATELY IN THE AFRICAN-AMERICAN COMMUNITY. MY MOM WORKED TO JOBS JUST TO KEEP CLOTHES ON OUR BACK AND FOOD ON THE TABLE. SMDH

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V-1VkFVW0ns leave it be (STILL searching for some jelly beans)

    she needs a job, a hobby and birth control

  • kai

    I still believe having a “well balanced” life is attributed to at least having a father around lol… You could give me anything, but if you are not there, what could I appreciate about it? But yea, she needs to get a job, thats just ridiculous. TI is not her man, and shes probably not even cute judging from how funny those kids looked lol….

  • So tired of the bull

    His baby momma is an idiot. What makes her think that she can live off of 2g’s a month when she has two kids to support. The support is for them! Not her dumb ass. Kudos to t.I. for handling his business.

  • Be (My birthday is in 5 DAYS!!!!)

    There are always 2 sides to every story…If she wants to not work then she needs to make due with the $2,000. Next time if she wants to be taken care of she will make sure she MARRIES THE PERSON. Having kids with them does not entitle you to stay home.

    @White Tonya – Please do not start throwing stereotypes out! Theere are just as many trifling WHIE MOMS as there are BLACK MOMS. If anything black women normally know how to survive because that is all we know. So if you want to SMDH do it with your own race!

  • dknlvly

    @white tonya…heffas like you always have something to say about sistas because you want to be one of us so bad. You know nothing about the black community

  • Be (My birthday is in 5 DAYS!!!!)

    @2cute – Hey, Good Morning!

    @Keysha – Good Morning!

  • So tired of the bull

    White Tonya shut your ass up! Don’t come up in here talking nonsense about what’s dominant in the black community because in your commnunity WELFARE is! White women are the largest recipients of goverment assistance. And as far as i’m concerned trying to mooch off of someone else, which is what this situation is about, affects more than just the black community you idiot! Ok i’m done

  • intenzemocha

    GREAT FOR TI, IT SOUNDS AS IF HE’S HANDLING HIS BUSINESS WITH HIS KIDS, BUT HIS CHILD SUPPORT PAYMENTS SHOULD REFLECT THE INCOME HE EARNS

    SO I’M CERTAIN HE WON’T HAVE A PROBLEM WITH THE JUDGES DECISION TO PUT “COURT ORDERED CHILD SUPPORT PAYMENTS” INTO EFFECT

    NOTHING LIKE HAVING IT ON PAPER-VERBAL AGREEMENTS OR ARRANGEMENTS ONLY WORK IF HE CHOOSES-THIS WAY IT’S AUTOMATIC

    AND I’M CERTAIN ALL OF THE FACTS WILL BE CONSIDERED INCLUDING THE FACT THE MOM DOESN’T WORK, AND ALL OF THE OTHER THINGS HE PAYS FOR AND CONTRIBUTES TO WHEN THE JUDGE RENDERS HIS DECISION

  • yanib

    1. Handle your business, TI 2. TI didn’t right this. 3. Trick, get a job.

  • Miss_NC

    WOMEN WHO FEEL ENTITLED TO GETTING HANDOUTS MAKE ME SICK AND IT APPEARS TO BE PREDOMINATELY IN THE AFRICAN-AMERICAN COMMUNITY. MY MOM WORKED TO JOBS JUST TO KEEP CLOTHES ON OUR BACK AND FOOD ON THE TABLE. SMDH

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    You really shouldn’t speak out of ignorance. There are just as many if not more white people on government assistance than african americans. I agree it is becoming an epidemic, but it’s really across the board several ethic groups have people on government assistance programs. By the way my mother also did not need handouts, she worked very hard. I so do my husband and I, thank you.

  • always knew

    I agree that having a baby, doesn’t make you a responsible parent…Main point being, you shouldn’t have a baby, so you don’t have to work..Get your own career and take care of those kids…It’s called being independent…Try it..You might find that you like it and not only that but to let someone else determine your income and not better yourself, that’s downright foolish…On the other hand, T.I. should learn to keep his di– in his pants, then he wouldn’t have the problems that he does…Submitting claims to newspapers and gossip sites, to put his ‘baby mama’ on blast…He should have chosen better, or not had kids until he was married,NOVEL IDEA!! Then he wouldn’t have to deal with the CHILD SUPPORT at all!!!Fellas, quit thinking with the little head…….NEXT….

  • Miss_NC

    *ethnic*

  • Kompton’s Kutie

    @intenzemocha

    This is not Baby Mamma Support this is Child Support. His support payments should not fully reflect his income. He’s doing his part. She’s just trife.

  • Redd Tony aka Earth Sign..It just the life..I solemnly swear, change my approach, stop shaving coke, stay away from ho’s, put down the toast cuz I be doing the most..Oh no!..But everytime I felt that was that, It call my right back..Oh no!

    Oh Yeah Tip, take care of your kids. Black fathers stand up!!!

  • blackgirl

    Hello!!!!!! I agree with the fact that she needs a job but this is also TIs fault. Most likely he did not give himself time to see what type of chick this was and just went to having sex with her. I don’t know when black folks will learn to stop having kids with in and everything. He went and had kids with some female that is good for absolutely nothing other than sitting up on her tail with her hand out. Guess who else did this….50 cent. When you go out and have kids by someone like that…say you have 2 kids….go on and consider it 3 kids(thatw 2 kids and the mother). Also, there is a bunch of folks having kids with mothers they can’t stand….rightly so…but its because they didn’t stop to find out anything about the female…other than she was fine. Look like to me…giving yourself time to find out about the female is waaaaaaaaaaayyy better than sitting up shelling out this kind of money for the next 18 years to someone unable to do anything other than have kids and beg. One of them should have had some sense but as usual…in the black community..stopping and thinking is foreign to us. We know all to well how to act on emotion only.

  • intenzemocha

    @WHITE TONYA

    KEEP TALKING EXACTLY THE WAY YOU ARE BECAUSE I’M CERTAIN A BROTHA IS SUPPLYING YOU WITH ALL YOUR INFO-AND ALL THESE BLACK CHICKS BE ON HERE SINGING KUMBAYA AND WE SHOULD ALL GET ALONG ETC.

    BE CAREFUL WHO YOU INVITE IN YOUR HOUSE AS A GUEST, THEY JUST MIGHT TURN ON YOUR AZZ

    LET ME GUESS….YOU LOVE OUR BROTHAS BUT HATE THE SISTAS-TYPICAL SO TYPICAL

    LOL-ACTUALLY IT’S QUITE FUNNY AND WHAT I NORMALLY SEE FROM WHITE CHICKS WHO DATE BLACK MEN A PERCEIVED SUPPERIORITY BECAUSE SOME BLACK MEN STROKED YOUR EGO AND TOLD YOU THAT YOU ARE BETTER THAN US……

    SPEAK ABOUT WHAT YOU KNOW TO BE THE TRUTH AND NOT WHAT SOMEONE ELSE TOLD YA-I DON’T FOOL WITH YOU CHICKS CAUSE THE FIRST TIME YOU COME OUT YOUR MOUTH SIDEWAYS I RIP YOU A NEW ONE…..IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH ENVY IT’S ABOUT RESPECT AND YOU CAN’T SAY YOU LOVE MY SON, FATHER, BROTHER, AND BLATANLY DISRESPECT ME THEIR MOTHER, SISTER, AUNT ETC.

  • blackgirl

    Hello!!!!!! I agree with the fact that she needs a job but this is also TIs fault. Most likely he did not give himself time to see what type of chick this was and just went to having sex with her. I don’t know when black folks will learn to stop having kids with in and everything. He went and had kids with some female that is good for absolutely nothing other than sitting up on her tail with her hand out. Guess who else did this….50 cent. When you go out and have kids by someone like that…say you have 2 kids….go on and consider it 3 kids(thatw 2 kids and the mother). Also, there is a bunch of folks having kids with mothers they can’t stand….rightly so…but its because they didn’t stop to find out anything about the female…other than she was fine. Look like to me…giving yourself time to find out about the female is waaaaaaaaaaayyy better than sitting up shelling out this kind of money for the next 18 years to someone unable to do anything other than have kids and beg. One of them should have had some sense but as usual…in the black community..stopping and thinking is foreign to us. We know all to well how to act on emotion only.

  • Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators (Keepin’ It Real – D’Original)

    She has chosen not to work and to live 100% from her child support receipts. This is the reason for her difficulties in making ends meet for herself.

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    Get ‘em T.I, she’s out there trying to ruin your good name…

    Just like 50 Cent’s Baby Mama – this broad just wanna lie around and do nothing but live the good life via child support and the minute he don’t give into her extra demands because she wants a new purse or whatever then she’s gonna say he don’t do sh#t for his kids, etc… Lying mother f….

    Like I’ve said on here before, it’s called CHILD SUPPORT not LAZY A$$, GREED A$$ BABY MAMA SUPPORT…

    SMH @ these low down & dirty lazy a$$ broads…

  • always knew

    $2K a month won’t take care of ish…She NEEDS to be out there working or getting a degree, to better their lives (hers and the kids)…No, I’m just gonna live off T.I….Sounds like 50 no cents girl, maybe you choose the wrong type of people to begin with. What happened to character?? You guys are so desperate to get a piece, you don’t take the right precautions, get paid and famous adn pretend these females aren’t coming for you?? COME ON!! Be realistic,if you could control the little guy, you wouldn’t have to worry about this kind of stuff….At least someone is taking care of their responsibilities….

  • persona

    Don’t care.

    He should be paying enough child support where she DOESN’T have to work. Where she could be a full time mom if she so choose.

  • Kompton’s Kutie

    @persona(Check me out!)

    Don’t care.

    He should be paying enough child support where she DOESN’T have to work. Where she could be a full time mom if she so choose.

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    She could have that chose if she was wifey, not baby mamma. So, therefore she needs a job.

  • WHITE TONYA WITH HER BOO’S NAME TATOOED ON HER THIGH/BLACK MEN TELL ME I HAVE A DUNK

    WHITE FOLKS MAKE UP A MAJORITY OF GOVERNMENT ASSISTANCE CASES OVERALL BECAUSE WE ARE A STRONG MAJORITY OF THE POPULATION BUT WHEN FACTORING IN AFRICAN AMERICANS BASED ON THEIR NUMBERS THERE ARE A GREATER NUMBER OF AFRICAN AMERICANS PER POPULATION WHO ARE ON WELFARE,MEDICAID,SECTION 8 ETC.

  • always knew

    @intenze mocha…Glad to see your back…I jumped in yesterday on that thread because I completely agreed with you..But you had already left…100% co-sign your post today, about how the brothers stroke their egos…until they leave them….Girl, I know the newest thing is to go with the other race and down your own…I’m not buying and never will…STAND YOUR GROUND…It’s a few who ain’t with the BS. I’m in that group…

  • always knew

    @White Tonya- I have never in my entire life been on any type of assistance. Both my parents worked, both had really good jobs and investments… I used to go to private school and I never liked the girls who tried to be something that they weren’t….You don’t have to like us, we don’t care..Your stats are inaccurate, there are more white people, therefore, more on aid..Your’e probably one of them….

  • persona

    When T.I. started off he was a hustler. He sold drugs for a living. He has a criminal record that’s like 2 chapters of a book. I’m sure, when he had children, it wasn’t to someone that had a master’s degree and earning potential that exceeded six figures.

    If the gift gets a job, during our recession, she would still make about $24,000 a year, which is enough to do what? If she earns 24,000 and he pays 24,000 that’s still less than $50,000 a year. What can a parent with two kids do off of that except continue to STRUGGLE?!

    The girl can’t even return to school to increase her earning potential based on those wack arse child support payments. She had kids with him when he was POOOR. This is not a come up. If T.I. did not strike it rich through luck, they’d both be poor together.

    The difference between this girl and 50 cents baby mama is 50 was paying like $10,000 a month FOR ONE KID, and she wanted like $50,000 a month. Ridiculous.

  • The Grundle

    MY MOM WORKED TO JOBS JUST TO KEEP CLOTHES ON OUR BACK AND FOOD ON THE TABLE.

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    @tonya, the word is “TWO” and not “to”.

    I guess after clothes and food, your mom didn’t have money to send you to school…

  • WHITE TONYA WITH HER BOO’S NAME TATOOED ON HER THIGH/BLACK MEN TELL ME I HAVE A DUNK

    @ALWAYS KNEW

    YOUR PRIVATE SCHOOL EDUCATION MUST NOT HAVE HELPED YOUR INTELLIGENCE LEVEL. I JUST STATED THERE ARE MORE WHITE PEOPLE ON ASSISTANCE HOWEVER WHEN YOU TAKE THE PERCENTAGE OF WHITE FOLKS ON ASSISTANCE BASED ON THE TOTAL NUMBER OF WHITE FOLKS AND THEN TAKE THE NUMBER OF AFRICAN AMERICANS ON ASSISTANCE AND DIVIDE BY THE TOTAL NUMBER THE PERCENTAGE IS HIGHER PER POPLUATION (BY FAR) IN THE AFRICAN AMERICAN COMMUNITY. LEARN TO READ HEFFA

  • always knew

    I don;t know where ya’ll live, but T.I’s $2K per month is not enough, to live, even comfortably, BUT she should be the one making sure that she handles that and that the kids have more than what T.I. provides, that’s part of being a parent..All this really tells me, is that T.I. likes broads who are easy and don’t do anything..Same as 50 no cents….Get some sort of pride about yourself, those same females he messed with yesterday, are the same females, he wants to avoid, today…That’s why he should’ve used a condom, NEITHER of them would be on here talking ish about the kids…

  • jai

    And I also heard that the reason she is not working is because she is currently going to school. Did Tip fail to mention that?

  • persona

    If T.I. is giving and supporting in all those numerous ways, which I’m sure he is, then he should have no problem legalizing it, and having it in writing that his payments reflect those things.

    If this was your ex, I would hope that you would be smart to make it legal. Otherwise, at any moment, it could all come to an end.

  • Kompton’s Kutie

    @persona

    Appearently, you don’t read. He pays for everything and the 2k really goes to her to do whatever with. So, if she does find a 24k/yr. job, that’s spending money for herself. The kids are fine.

  • persona

    @Kompton’s Kutie. No he buys gifts and what the kids want is what I read. Gifts are just that GIFTS. If you went to work and earned a nintendo for every day you were there and 2 cents an hour, how would that help you to live?

  • Be (My birthday is in 5 DAYS!!!!)

    @White tonya – why are you worrying about black statistics..you seem a little obsessed. I mean damn, you THINK YOU KNOW OUR STATISTICS, YOU ARE ON A BLACK WEBSITE…IF WHITE PEOPLE ARE SO GOOD WHY NOT GO TO TMZ?

    WHY ARE YOU EVEN HEAR…who invited you..

  • http://myspace.com/afiya00 BBC – Afiya

    Can the BBM read and write…does she know how to apply for a JOB? If so, sistagurl needs to get one and stop trying to depend on another to buy her pumps…damn leeches are annoying!

  • always knew

    @White Tonya- YOu all kill me with that, you talk to a couple black guys, who pump up your head then think, you can dog sisters out? Right…You people crack me up with your “superiority complexes”..The only thing that you’re above, is yourself..I;m not competing for a black man, I already have one…So you can try to troll for more black d—, that’s the main reason you here anyway…….NEXT!

  • Be (My birthday is in 5 DAYS!!!!)

    @Jai – And I also heard that the reason she is not working is because she is currently going to school. Did Tip fail to mention that?

    ***********************

    I worked the entire time I went to school, it is called sacrifice. Not working and going to school is a mind set of either privileged people or lazy people. Most black people know that you go to school at night and work during the day.

    Now if TI agreed that he would take care of her while she did that that would be another thing but to just make a decision like that without thinking about how bills will be paid is just irresponsible.

  • yanib

    If TI is paying for private schooling, medical insurance, clothing, food, gifts, birthdays and extracurricular, then her $2,000 is used for what? He bought her a car and put the down payment on her house. I think he’s more than fulfilling any obligation he may have to HER as the mother of his children. If she can’t take care of them with all this assistance, maybe they should live with him.

  • http://apollo13@yahoo.com alicia w

    INTENZAMOCHA, I AGREE WITH YOU 100% ON WHAT YOU SAID ABOUT LOVING OUR FATHER, SONS, AND BROTHERS AND NOT THE BLACK MOTHERS,AUNTS AND SISTER WHICH IS WHERE THEY CAME FROM AND A LOT OF THOSE BROTHERS WAS RAISED BY A SINGLE BLACK FEMALE. THE WELFARE THING IS NOT TRUE, DONT THINK BECAUSE IT IS NOT CALLED SECTION 8 IN THE BLACK COMM WHITES DONT GET GOV FUNDED HOUSING THE NAME IS CHANGED ITS CALLED SUBSIDIZED HOUSING. I AM NOT ON HERE TO ARGUE OR DEBATE, CUSS AND FUSS LIKE INTENZAMOCHA, I AINT THE ONE EITHER

  • WHITE TONYA WITH HER BOO’S NAME TATOOED ON HER THIGH/BLACK MEN TELL ME I HAVE A DUNK

    JUST FOR THE RECORD SINCE I AM BEING INAPPROPRIATELY ATTACKED ON HERE, MY HUSBAND IS WHITE AND WE HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 9 YEARS.

  • persona

    Props to Rev. Run and Russell Simmons for creating examples for black families and keep the wealth in the family.

  • Encyclopedia Brown

    Women are such gold diggers…Which makes me wonder about all the chicks who write nasty stuff about Kim K in the Reggie Bush posts. You b@#$ches are gold diggers too.

    Fact

  • http://apollo13@yahoo.com alicia w

    INTENZAMOCHA, YOU HAVE SOME GOOD POINTS AND I LIKE THE WAY YOU EXPRESS YOURSELF, LIKE YESTERDAY THE YOUNG GIRL WHO SAID SHE WAS 19 AND IN COLLEGE STUDYING TO BEA TEACHER GOT JUMPED ON FOR JUST COMMENTING HER THOUGHTS INSTEAD OF ANYONE SAYING YOU GO GIRL> WELL IM SAYING IT WHAT TRASH> DAMN THE SCREEN NAME YOU SOUND LIKE A VERY SMART YOUNG LADY KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK AND I HOPE YOU COME BACK TO THIS SITE AGAIN> I WORKED WITH YOUNG LADIES HER AGE AND YOUNG MEN AND I HAVE MY DEGREE AS SOCIAL SERVICE COUNSELOR SO I KNOW HOW IMPRESSIONABLE YOUNG PEOPLE ARE>

  • intenzemocha

    @WHITE TONYA

    YOUR SOLELY ON HERE TO INSIGHT THE SISTAS

    WHY DID YOU POST THAT YOU WERE WHITE AND WHY DID YOU ALSO MENTION THAT YOUR MAN’S NAME IS TATOOED ON YOUR THIGH

    YOU OBVIOUSLY WANT ATTENTION

    AND SINCE YOU ARE SO FOND OF STATS-PLEASE DO YOUR RESEARCH ON BLACK WOMEN VS BLACK MEN EMPLOYMENT RATE, HIGHER EDUCATION, AND VIOLENCE…

    OKAY-SO STOP SPEWING YOUR HATE AND CONSIDER THIS WHEN YOU DATE A MAN YOU SHOULD BE WELCOMED/ACCEPTED BY HIS FAMILY THAT WOULD MEAN BLACK WOMEN AS WELL RIGHT, INSTEAD OF ATTACKING THOSE YOU ONE DAY MAY BE RELATED TO, WHO WILL BE RELATED TO YOUR CHILDREN, WHO MAY OFFER SUPPORT TO YOU AND INSIGHT ON DEALING WITH YOUR “BLACK” MAN

    YOU MAY WANT TO FALL BACK WITH THE SUPERIORITY COMPLEX-MY DAD’S BEST FRIEND MARRIED A WHITE WOMAN IN THE “70′S” BEFORE IT BECAME SO POPULAR AND DURING A RACIALLY TENSE TIME

    AND I CALLED HER MY AUNT-SHE WAS WHO SHE WAS BECAUSE OF WHERE SHE GREW UP AND HER EXPERIENCES IN LIFE AND THAT’S HOW SHE MET HER HUSBAND & SHE GOT ALONG WELL WITH EVERYONE BECAUSE SHE SHOWED RESPECT HENCE SHE WAS TREATED WITH RESPECT

    TREAD LIGHTLY THE SAME PEOPLE YOU CONDEMN-YOU JUST MAY NEED IN THE FUTURE

    WHEN YOU DATE A BLACK MAN-YOU DON’T LIVE IN A BUBBLE ALL BY YOURSELVES HE STILL HAS A BLACK MAMA, SISTER, AUNT, COUSINS, ETC.

    SHOW SOME RESPECT BOO & MIND YOUR MANNERS YOUR JUST A VISITOR IN OUR EVERYDAY LIFE…DON’T ACT LIKE YOU KNOW US BECAUSE YOU ARE SLEEPING WITH A BLACK MAN THAT IS ONLY ONE ASPECT OF OUR LIVES-IT TAKES MORE THAN LAYING ON YOUR BACK WITH A BROTHA TO WALD A DAY IN THE LIFE IN OUR SHOES….

  • persona

    @Kompton

    If you read, then you would see that my first statement starts off “don’t care”. Then, I had a complete statement, which says…

    When T.I. started off he was a hustler. He sold drugs for a living. He has a criminal record that’s like 2 chapters of a book. I’m sure, when he had children, it wasn’t to someone that had a master’s degree and earning potential that exceeded six figures.

    If the gift gets a job, during our recession, she would still make about $24,000 a year, which is enough to do what? If she earns 24,000 and he pays 24,000 that’s still less than $50,000 a year. What can a parent with two kids do off of that except continue to STRUGGLE?!

    The girl can’t even return to school to increase her earning potential based on those wack arse child support payments. She had kids with him when he was POOOR. This is not a come up. If T.I. did not strike it rich through luck, they’d both be poor together.

    The difference between this girl and 50 cents baby mama is 50 was paying like $10,000 a month FOR ONE KID, and she wanted like $50,000 a month. Ridiculous.

    Now, you can go back to loving T.I. and maybe he’ll get you some patron on ice and whatever you like, and continue to complain about his $2000 (OFFICIAL) payments.

  • intenzemocha

    TO WALK A DAY IN THE LIFE OF OUR SHOES.

  • persona

    Quote me on he doesn’t take care of his kids. You can click on “view” and type in my name to find my post where I mention this imaginary comment you’re speaking of, Kompton.

  • WHITE TONYA WITH HER BOO’S NAME TATOOED ON HER THIGH/BLACK MEN TELL ME I HAVE A DUNK

    I AM MORE THAN A VISITOR IN “OUR EVERYDAY LIFE.” YOU ALL ARE LIVING A LIFE AS VISITORS IN A WHITE MAN’S WORLD.

    PLEASE NAME THE TEN MOST POWERFUL PEOPLE IN THE WORLD

    1.

    2.

    3.

    4.

    5.

    6.

    7.

    8.

    9.

    10.

    NOW COUNT HOW MANY OF THEM ARE BLACK PLEASE

  • intenzemocha

    @ALWAYS KNEW

    THANKS, YEAH I GOT CYBER JUMPED BY THE “HIGH SCHOOL HIGH” CREW YESTERDAY

    YOU WIN SOME YOU LOSE SOME….YOU NEVER GIVE UP THOUGH-LOL BACK AGAIN TODAY

  • Julieisadime

    Fact of the matter is; she is doing what she need to do for the best interest of her children. IF and when TI marries Tiny, trust she will be looking out for the best interest of her children. Let’s not forget Tiny is just the baby mamma also. She should make sure that her children are well taken care of as well. You don’t know what she had to go through when he was locked up. When she gets the court order; things will be binding. Who knows, they both might come out of this with a better deal.

  • legalize the ganga/rude girl from jamdown

    Women are such gold diggers…Which makes me wonder about all the chicks who write nasty stuff about Kim K in the Reggie Bush posts. You b@#$ches are gold diggers too.

    Fact

    ___________

    this could be ture

    i could almost agree

    but its facts

  • http://apollo13@yahoo.com alicia w

    I ALWAYS LOOK AT STATISTCS AS BUNCH OF BOLOGNA BECAUSE FIRST THEY DONT KNOW ALL BLACK PEOPLE TO SAY 80% OR 70%, MY JOB CONSISTS OF STATISTICS BEIN A SOCIAL WORKER AND MY FIANCEE IS IN REAL ESTATE I KNOW WHAT IM TALKING ABOUT WHEN IT COMES TO WHAT I SPEAK ON> I DONT COME ON A GOSSIP SITE TO FLIRT OR FUSS AND CUSS AND NAME CALL IM TOO MATURE FOR THAT> NO PICTURES, JUST GIVING MY OPINION AND MOVING ALONG>

  • tara

    yeah she is so beautiful and sexual .i saw some hot videoes about her on ””””’bigbisexual.com”””””that’s great !

  • Corree

    If she takes him to court, he’ll be paying a whole lot more. Any man that’s taken to court for child support has to pay a portion of their gross pay, not net pay. T.I. is no different. That quote just screamed publicist. T.I. probably can’t even form the words to make those sentences. And he’s a damn fool for paying everything in cash, because when he does go to court, he has nothing to prove.

  • always knew

    @ White Tonya-“WOMEN WHO FEEL ENTITLED TO GETTING HANDOUTS MAKE ME SICK AND IT APPEARS TO BE PREDOMINATELY IN THE AFRICAN-AMERICAN COMMUNITY. MY MOM WORKED TO JOBS JUST TO KEEP CLOTHES ON OUR BACK AND FOOD ON THE TABLE. SMDH”

    I feel like this comment was made specifically with the intention of starting some ish– You did and succeded. You are making generalizations by the first statement that you made…More Black women are in colleges than our counterparts..And honey, I COMPLETELY disagree with you , in regards to women sitting on their asses..That would be all the white women with basketball players, athletes, artists, songwriters,rappers, etc. The main reason you guys date out of your racem is so that someone will take care of you. That’s just another form of welfare but still the same. I’m not mad at you staying white, personally, I think the world would be alot better off, if we stayed within our culture, not that we can’t be friends (in general, not me and you), but mixing everything up, that’s when people start with the complexes and thinking that they’re better, etc…

    @intenze mocha—100% right on, your posts are so on point…You said it way better than I could…But the only difference is that I ususally don’t go out of my way to address this sort of behaviour, usually when somebosy is looking to start something, they start out with the kind of comments that ‘White Tonya” made…If there wasn’t anything to it. She would’ve made a statement and moved on….For the record, my mother worked for 31 years at General Motors as a specifications analyst, my father worked at Ford Motor Co, for 30 years, both had degrees, and neither worked in a plant, they had their own offices, both were promoted several times, then started their own businesses…White Tonya don;t start trying to pretend that you’re just here to enjoy the site and the only thing it seems you came to do, is put other people down… I wouldn’t have even commented, if you hadn’t started…I saw what they did yesterday to intenze mocha–and that bs is not jumping off today!…

  • Butterscotch

    Child support is just what it says – intended for the child, not the adult. WHY is he giving her money on a monthly basis (unless, of course, they have a spousal support agreement)? His lawyers should have peeped him to this…there’s no reason for him to support HER lifestyle.

  • http://apollo13@yahoo.com alicia w

    INTENZA, YES I SAW THAT YOUNG GIRL WHAT TRASH GET JUMPED ON YESTERDAY AND I DIDNT LIKE IT> SHE SEEMED VERY SWEET AND SMART AND EVEN EXPLAINED WHY SHE USED THAT SILLY NAME, I SAID EVEN SHE CAN LAUGH ABOUT IT> SHE SAID SHE ATTENDS NIU WHICH IS NORTHERN ILLINOIS UNIV, DO YOU KNOW HOW SMART YOU HAVE TO BE TO GET INTO THAT SCHOOL YOU WOULDNT WANT TO KNOW> GOT TO GO YOU FOLKS HAVE A GOOD ONE GOT WORK TO DO>

  • MissSippi

    No, kudos! That’s what he is surpose to do! Yeah she need a job and to be self sufficient but shoot you can easily spend five hundred dollars on gas alone in one month. I am with baby momma, it’s a recession and it is time for increase and abundance!

  • legalize the ganga/rude girl from jamdown

    @ White Tonya-“WOMEN WHO FEEL ENTITLED TO GETTING HANDOUTS MAKE ME SICK AND IT APPEARS TO BE PREDOMINATELY IN THE AFRICAN-AMERICAN COMMUNITY. MY MOM WORKED TO JOBS JUST TO KEEP CLOTHES ON OUR BACK AND FOOD ON THE TABLE. SMDH

    ______________________

    I feel like this comment was made specifically with the intention of starting some ish– You did and succeded.

    ________________

    why give her that priviledge

    ignore the *itch

  • intenzemocha

    @ WHITE TANYA

    I CAN TELL BY YOUR RESPONSE THE MAN YOU CLAIM TO LOVE AS A BLACK MAN YOU DON’T LOVE HIM NOR HIS PEOPLE HE’S JUST A PAWN IN YOUR GAME-DID SOME BLACK WOMAN HURT YOU ALONG YOUR TRAVELS….CAUSE THE HATE RUNZ SO DEEP

    BIATCH AMERICA IS “OUR” COUNTRY IT WAS BUILT ON OUR BACKS AND ALSO EVERY MAN ORIGNATED FROM AFRICA, SO THAT WOULD ALSO MEAN BLACK

    AND NOT SURE IF YOU MISSED THE FORBES LIST OR NOT BUT DID YOU NOTICE ANY OF THESE PEOPLE WHO WERE ON THERE

    OPRAH

    JAY-Z

    DIDDY

    BEYONCE

    TIGER WOODS

    WILL SMITH

    LEBRON JAMES

    MICHAEL JORDAN

    KOBE BRYANT

    AND A BLACK WOMAN TOPPED THE LIST-OPRAH

    BOO-I DON’T KNOW WHO YOU THINK YOU FOOLING WITH-I’M WHAT YOU STRIVE TO BE THE EPITOME OF A BLACK WOMAN STRONG, ARTICULATE, HARD-WORKING EDUCATED AND STREET SMART AND I WORK IN THE CORPORATE WORLD-

    GET AT ME BOO, AND DO YOUR OWN RESEARCH

  • cece

    i luv TIP. tiny is a lucky woman cause she got a gentleman right there.

  • always knew

    @ White Tonya- The 10 most powerful people in the world, happen to have money, but they aren’t all white. The richest man in the world is a Spanish Billionaire, the 2nd richest person in the world is Bill Gates, 3rd Oprah Winfrey, there used to be more white power but that is slowly stopping. The white wealth that runs this country is old, they may or may not have heirs,but whites will be a minority within the next 15 years, I have a feeling that you either need to adjust or learn to deal with it…Lots of powerful people but not rich, Dalai Lama, Nelson Mandela, all sorts of different colors, so I have no idea of the point you were making………..Are you talking the wealthist people?? Power doesn’t necessarily mean $$…Where do you rank on the list?? Most likely at the bottom of the list, oh, you’re not even on it..you brought it up…If you can’t take it, don’t dish it…

  • legalize the ganga/rude girl from jamdown

    AND A BLACK WOMAN TOPPED THE LIST-OPRAH

    _________

    dont forget to tell this *tich that

    she is the richer than any white woman in the

    world —make sure u tell her that

  • WHITE TONYA WITH HER BOO’S NAME TATOOED ON HER THIGH/BLACK MEN TELL ME I HAVE A DUNK

    OPRAH

    JAY-Z

    DIDDY

    BEYONCE

    TIGER WOODS

    WILL SMITH

    LEBRON JAMES

    MICHAEL JORDAN

    KOBE BRYANT

    WOW!!!! SMDH

    DID YOU JUST REALLY PRODUCE THIS LIST OF BAROONERY WHEN I ASKED YOU TO LIST THE MOST POWERFUL PEOPLE IN THE WORLD???

    PROVES MY POINT YOU LIVE IN A WORLD WHERE YOU ARE BLINDFOLDED BY IGNORANCE

  • always knew

    White Tonya- Today I am ready for that a–, bring it..I can’t stand people like you, I’m not trying to be politically correct. Don;t care who is on this site, I’m tired of ya’ll trying to start some ish–Yes, I can go at it both angles and I’m still not taking no ish from some white broad. Bottom line..And please be sure to note that I am saying this to you, not everybody else..Just me..

  • blaq

    Asking for a review of a child support order does not make you a lazy gold-digging broad out for your ex’s money, if your child’s mother wants a review it doesn’t make you a dead beat. Kimora had her order reviewed a few months ago, everyone was calling her a gold-digger to the point russel had to clarify the situation and let everyone know she is a good mother and he had no problem with the financial increase. My aunt was receiving $2K a month for 2 children and their father wasn’t making a fraction of TI’s income. Child support orders should routinely be reviewed and they protect the mother, the father and the children. That way it’s all in writing and no room for misinterpretation. But I see we never miss a chance to disrespect a black man and woman with damaging stereotypes. But there is a way of going about all of this if you ask for a review, let it just be that, don’t attack your child’s father because it’s only going to make things more difficult and causes resentment. If your child’s mother needs more money, and she is a good mother to your children give it to her, it will only benefit your children, even if she just lives off of the money, since you couldn’t give them a two parent home, you can give them a stay at home mom. No that’s not your legal responsibility but it is your moral obligation of being the best father you can be, your children will be full of pride when they say my dad took care of me and my mom even though they weren’t together. Have pride in being a man a being a provider, this does not make you soft or a sucka, it makes you a MAN. I do think both parents have the childrens best interest at heart, but may not agree on what that is.

  • intenzemocha

    I REP FOR MINE THE SISTAS AND EVEN THOUGH I GET ON THE BLACK MEN ALOT-THAT’S FOR ME TO DO AND IT’S OUT OF LOVE

    I BE DAMN IF AN OUTSIDER IS GOING TO COME UP IN HERE DISRESPECTING AND NOT GET THEIR AZZ SERVED TO THEM ON A PLATTER

    I’VE EXPERIENCE BLACK LOVE FROM BLACK MEN ALL MY LIFE BOO-MY DADDY, BROTHER, UNCLE,BOYFRIENDS, MY COMMUNITY-SO I DON’T BLAME YOU FOR GETTING IN ON THE ACTION

    I WONDER IF YOUR FATHER IS JUST AS ACCEPTING AS YOU ARE OF THE BROTHAS…..HMMMMM

    JUDGING BY THE WORDS FROM HIS DAUGHER, PROBABLY NOT

  • always knew

    White Tonya- your mama is ignorant for having you…Look at Forbes, I notice your trifling white a– didn’t address me..Oh, miss know it all, it’s “Baffoonery”, you might need to learn how to spell..

  • legalize the ganga/rude girl from jamdown

    plz ppl ignore this cock*ucking *hore WHITE TONYA

    she just want attention – dont fall for her smutt

    she claim she love a blackman these white *itches just love blackman for their big black dicks …they mean them no good – i have heard it — its all about that ( the goddies in their pants)

  • dapro11

    I need to release a statement to my bm as well

    I can believe Tip on this one. I’m going through a similar situation

  • intenzemocha

    DON’T YOU FEEL DUMB DO YOU WANT ME TO PROVIDE YOU WITH THE LINK OR CAN YOU HANDLE LOOKING IT UP ALL BY YOURSELF, BETTER YET GO ASK YOUR MAN I’M CERTAIN HE KNOWS ALL ABOUT IT DUMMY

  • WHITE TONYA WITH HER BOO’S NAME TATOOED ON HER THIGH/BLACK MEN TELL ME I HAVE A DUNK

    YOU GUYS FORGET ABOUT POPE BENEDICT, G. W. BUSH, WILLIAM GATES, WARREN BUFFET, WALTON FAMILY???

    I GUESS YOUR INTENDED GOAL WAS TO LIST FACES OF BLACK PERCEIVED POWER

    I GIVE YOU OPRAH, BUT THE REST OF YOUR LIST HAS NO TRUE POWER

  • WHITE TONYA WITH HER BOO’S NAME TATOOED ON HER THIGH/BLACK MEN TELL ME I HAVE A DUNK

    BEYONCE HAS DREAMS OF BEING WHITE AT LEAST TWICE A WEEK AND TIGER WOODS HAS PROUDLY MARRIED A WHITE WOMAN

  • blaq

    @ tonya

    Racism is alive and well!! White girls who think they know about the black experience just b/c they had some black dick. What’s the matter sweetie, your daddy was diddling the goods and white men don’t turn you on. I mean speaking of statistics incest is more common in a white household than a black one. I see it all of the time. The black community is so accepting every outcast and misfit comes running to it. Don’t hate me because you ain’t me.

  • http://fashionsq@aol.com monique

    what kills me is just because a white woman sleeps with black men she thinks all black folks should love her, oh if we dont love her we are racist, please does she even no how many black men went to jail because of a white woman but now that becky found out what the black man has sexually no more hollering rape, it seems some black men are running away from them.I have a guy friend who dated a white girl just to see what it was like now he runs from her she even tried to get her white girl friends to go with him , now he feels like he is the prey not the predator.lol

  • intenzemocha

    @WHITE TANYA

    FORBES THOUGHT SO….NOT PERCEIVED IT’S A FACT

    BY WHITE MEN-LOL

    YOU ARE TOO FUNNY

  • intenzemocha

    @WHITE TANYA

    WOW-YOU SPOKE TO BEYONCE

    AND WHO HE MARRIES DOESN’T CHANGE HIS RACE MA

    IT’S THE ONE DROP RULE CREATED BY YALL

  • http://myspace.com/afiya00 BBC – Afiya

    Good Morning @ DaPro…sounds like you two need to sit and have a thorough conversation about your likes and dislikes…

  • Old Timer

    Now, now, there’s nothing wrong with a nine month wealth building program. LOL!!!

    If I had some fresher eggs, I would pop out a couple of babies to help supplement my Social Security check.

    However, I don’t wanna be like Sarah Palin and have a retarded Downs Syndrome baby that everyone keeps passing around like a bowl of Doritos at a football game.

  • WHITE TONYA WITH HER BOO’S NAME TATOOED ON HER THIGH/BLACK MEN TELL ME I HAVE A DUNK

    I WILL LEAVE YOU WITH A FINAL THOUGHT SINCE YOU ALL HAVE STEERED OFF THE COURSE OF THIS THREAD.

    VOTER MCCAIN IN 08!

  • circa-81

    @ Blaq

    Asking for a review of a child support order does not make you a lazy gold-digging broad out for your ex’s money, if your child’s mother wants a review it doesn’t make you a dead beat. Kimora had her order reviewed a few months ago, everyone was calling her a gold-digger to the point russel had to clarify the situation and let everyone know she is a good mother and he had no problem with the financial increase. My aunt was receiving $2K a month for 2 children and their father wasn’t making a fraction of TI’s income. Child support orders should routinely be reviewed and they protect the mother, the father and the children. That way it’s all in writing and no room for misinterpretation. But I see we never miss a chance to disrespect a black man and woman with damaging stereotypes. But there is a way of going about all of this if you ask for a review, let it just be that, don’t attack your child’s father because it’s only going to make things more difficult and causes resentment. If your child’s mother needs more money, and she is a good mother to your children give it to her, it will only benefit your children, even if she just lives off of the money, since you couldn’t give them a two parent home, you can give them a stay at home mom. No that’s not your legal responsibility but it is your moral obligation of being the best father you can be, your children will be full of pride when they say my dad took care of me and my mom even though they weren’t together. Have pride in being a man a being a provider, this does not make you soft or a sucka, it makes you a MAN. I do think both parents have the childrens best interest at heart, but may not agree on what that is.

    ———————————–

    I kind of understand where your coming from but your statement almost strikes me as gullable. When a mother is receiving 25,000.00 a month for a child and asks for her arrangement to be reviewed it’s not goldigging?? Child support is for the child not the mom. We all have to make our way in the world. We should not be held responsible for taking care of another adult. I don’t even see how you can even rationalize that. What child rich or not needs 50,000.00 dollars a month. If the child was living with him….matter of a fact if they both were (child and mother) hopefully the stupid mothaf*cka wouldn’t be spending 50,000.00 a month.

  • dfiestyone

    hmmmm, does Tiny work??? How much money does she get for her 2 kids?? Does she have a house? A car? Yes?? Then so should the other mother it’s not like he can’t afford it!!

  • persona

    @Kompton’s Kutie

    Do better and want more. Your life will improve, for sure.

  • Simply Ecstasy

    I guess she thought he was talking to her in that song when he said… Everybody know it ain’t trickin’ if you got it. You ain’t gotta never ever go in your wallet as long as I got rubberband banks in my pocket. SMH at these females looking for a meal ticket.

  • intenzemocha

    @alicia w

    that’s why i called them “high school high” it doesn’t matter logically who they choose to jump on-it’s all about a clique if u say something they disagree with or to their homies-you become a target

  • BayAreaElite

    GO HEAD MR. HARRIS, WITH THAT STATEMENT BEING SAID I WILL HAVE TO RETRACT WHAT I FORMALLY THOUGHT ABOUT U NEEDING TO UP UR PAYMENTS! WE WAS OBVIOUSLY WITHOUT ALL THE ABOVE INFORMATION AND I GIVE U KUDOS FOR TAKING CARE OF YO BOYS THE PROPER WAY!!!

  • Kompton’s Kutie

    @persona(Check me out!)

    @Kompton’s Kutie

    Do better and want more. Your life will improve, for sure.

    —————————————–

    What the hell are you talking about?!………… Appearently, you don’t know me. My life is wonderful right now, Thank You! Management company, shooting for a master’s degree, no kids, n out the hood. I’m great! Catch up.

  • blaq

    I see Tonya didn’t have a response, I guess I hit too close to home. Call a hotline honey, or go to church if you need to make yourself feel more important, don’t try to put my people down because you only expose yourself for the self-loathing ill-informed racist you are.

  • Kompton’s Kutie

    @persona

    Am I on your mind like that, becuz ur really still addressing me. I’ve been on another topic, sweetie.

  • persona

    @Kompton’s Kutie

    Out the hood? Come on. Get your mind out of there, too. I mean, you did start this word play game telling me to “read” a “press release” to learn the truth. Hence, the do better comments.

    You do know that all of our thoughts on here is just speculation? So why would I need to read up on a press release to be aware of the situation? Did I mention PRESS RELEASE?! They are statements made to the press to make someone or something look good.

    Hello.

  • MsJaxon (BBC)

    Hey BBC!

    NUNU

    Afiya

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    Dana

    SxyQ

    Oshie

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    MsVee

    VICTORIA

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    Hey Fellas

    Seen26

    Pro

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    Anyone else I missed!!! Morning

  • circa-81

    @ dfiestyone

    hmmmm, does Tiny work??? How much money does she get for her 2 kids?? Does she have a house? A car? Yes?? Then so should the other mother it’s not like he can’t afford it!!

    ____________________________________

    Dfiestyone, what you’ve just said is one of the most insanely idiotic things I have ever heard. At no point in your rambling, incoherent statement were you even close to anything that could be considered a rational thought……everyone in this room is now dumber for having listened to it. I award you no points, and may God have mercy on your soul.

  • persona

    @komtpon. Yes, which is why I addressed the topic. Easy. But, anyway, this is the internet, and I have work to do.

  • intenzemocha

    @ white tanya

    YEP HIGH TAIL IT UP OUTTA HERE AND TAKE YA DUNKA DUNK WITH YA

    WE DON’T PLAY THAT ROUND THESE PARTS………

    I WONDER IF YOUR MAN IS AWARE OF ALL THE RACIST COMMENTS YOU MADE ON THIS BLOG-DOUBT IT BUT SOMEBODY NEEDS TO SEND HIM A MEMO

  • http://www.myspace.com/ocky_j Octavia

    I agree that she is trifling. I also commend TI for standing up to her, BUT….

    HE CHOSE HER!!!!!!!!

    Brothers need to THINK about who they are laying down with. There were probably signs that she was trifling back then.

  • http://fashionsq@aol.com monique

    didnt white tonya say her husband is white but she said black guys say she has a donk…. SUSPECT!! dont her no list a lot of those rich white folks played dirty and are thieves to get to the top i respect jay z and oprah and diddy way more after coming from poverty and making it to be a billionaire.. trust!!

  • Deanna

    What is wrong with these women thinking they can just demand more money from these men becasue they have a bigger status. TI gives her alot more than he needed to in the first place. The last time I checked, it was Child Support, not Lazy chick support. It is one thing for a man who does not provide for his children, but when he does, and you are still greedy. PLEASE…He does have another family to provide for…..

  • Kompton’s Kutie

    @persona

    Yes, out the hood.

    Why the hell are u so concerned with me? Get a f*kkin life!

  • http://www.myspace.com/ocky_j Octavia

    @ dfiestyone:

    “hmmmm, does Tiny work??? How much money does she get for her 2 kids?? Does she have a house? A car? Yes?? Then so should the other mother it’s not like he can’t afford it!!”

    But Tiny is HIS WOMAN. He can choose to support HIS WOMAN if he wants to. Why should he have to do that for someone he is not with anymore??? Please explain.

  • circa-81

    @ Deanna

    What is wrong with these women thinking they can just demand more money from these men becasue they have a bigger status. TI gives her alot more than he needed to in the first place. The last time I checked, it was Child Support, not Lazy chick support. It is one thing for a man who does not provide for his children, but when he does, and you are still greedy. PLEASE…He does have another family to provide for…..

    ———————————

    I applaud you. That’s justice. Unfortunatley that’s not the reality we live in.

  • http://apollo13@yahoo.com alicia w

    INTENZAMOCHA, I CHECKED BACK IN TO SEE IF YOU RESPONDED AND YOU DID,GOOD, YEAH I NOTICED THAT CLIQUE UP IN HERE AND I AM NO PART OF NO HIGH SCHOOL CLIQUE, BEEN THERE AND DONE THAT I STAND ALONE> I JUST FELT SAD FOR THAT 19 YR OLD GIRL YESTERDAY AND SHE EVEN LEFT WITH DIGNITY> WOW SHE WAS ONE IN A MILLION> I WAS ON HERE A WHILE BACK AND A M DADDY ASKD ME FOR MY EMAIL BUT SORRY I DONT GIVE THAT OUT SIMPLY BECAUSE I AM HAPPILY IN A RELATIONSHIP AND I AM ONLY ON HERE TO GIVE MY OPINION>

  • blaq

    @ Circa

    The law is the law. If the law states the minimum wage is 8 dollars are you going to accept 6, because you can get by on that? Do you know what Donald Trump, Diddy, Russell Simmons pay in child support? Why should this sista be any different. This is a review, when this is reviewed do you think the court is not going to increase the payment. As far as the clothes and gifts that is on him. It is his responsibility to provide for their everyday life. With that 2 grand she has to provide housing, food, clothing, pg&e, water, cable, that is what child support is for not toys and ish. It is to support the household the child lives in. Like it or not that is the law. Single mother do with so little. It seems like it makes us angry that another woman has it easier than we do. Such is life.

  • Old Timer

    @circ-81

    I kind of understand where your coming from but your statement almost strikes me as gullable. When a mother is receiving 25,000.00 a month for a child and asks for her arrangement to be reviewed it’s not goldigging?? Child support is for the child not the mom. We all have to make our way in the world. We should not be held responsible for taking care of another adult.

    ______________________________________________

    But he did make himself responsible for her and her children when they decided to have children together.

    Whether she’s a golddigger or not is moot. When he DECIDED to have unprotected sex with her, he decided to put a saddle on his back for the next 20 years. Think about it, now. He decided that’s what he wanted then. Most of the things that we end up in life are because of choices that we made.

  • Its6amHoGetOut

    I gotta go ya’ll bye!

  • vegasgal

    Correct me if I’m wrong, but isn’t child support money supposed to be for the children? That $2000 a month is supposed to go to THEIR support not HERS. Any clothes and items she wants should be coming from money she earns for herself not out of that two grand. And what expenses does she really have anyway? She has no car note, TI pays for food, clothes, schooling, insurance etc. for those kids so what the hell does the broad really have to pay for besides household bills which can’t be all that much. These women make me sick.

  • http://www.myspace.com/ocky_j Octavia

    @ Blaq:

    ” far as the clothes and gifts that is on him. It is his responsibility to provide for their everyday life. With that 2 grand she has to provide housing, food, clothing, pg&e, water, cable, that is what child support is for not toys and ish. It is to support the household the child lives in.”

    Should she not contribute at all? She doesn’t work! How can the courts ask him to give more when she is making NO attempt to contribute to her own household support?

  • intenzemocha

    @ alicia w

    what are you talking about? I responded to the comment “you” made about some other person who got jumped on on the other blog-”high school high” comment was referring to those that got at her not you

    wow-i can c you’ve just been waiting for an opportunity to spar w me……at least wait until you and i actually have a disagreement of sorts before you get all hyped up

  • intenzemocha

    @ alicia w

    OOOPS I RETRACT MY STATEMENT AND I APOLOGIZE

    I JUMPED THE GUN-I MISREAD WHAT YOU WROTE

  • http://www.myspace.com/ocky_j Octavia

    @ Vegasgal:

    I agree. If she isn’t working then that means her clothes, hair, nails, purses, etc. must be coming from the CHILD support payments. That’s like stealing from your own children because you are too lazy to work. I can’t believe people are defending her nonsense.

  • circa-81

    @ Old Timer

    What the hell??? That made no sense at all. Why the hell isn’t anybody thinking before they type today? He has to take care of the child, understandable, but take care of her because he knocked her up? Why does that warrant support?

  • Simply Ecstasy

    @6am

    too cute… you out-did yourself with that one

    lol @ the ankle monitor and the lil wayne part.

  • Hot Sauce

    intenzemocha(Check me out!)

    @ alicia w

    OOOPS I RETRACT MY STATEMENT AND I APOLOGIZE

    I JUMPED THE GUN-I MISREAD WHAT YOU WROTE

    see there you go again over-reacting like the over emotional hoodho you be.

  • circa-81

    @ Blaq

    So if the mother is incapable of providing a stable household for the child then why can’t she be deemed unfit and custody turned over to the father? That makes more sense to me. That way the child will live exactly the way the mother wants them to, since that is the mother’s main concern right??

  • circa-81

    It is what it is: goldigging. Parasitic, leech-like, behaviour of scandalous, trashy, ill natured females and even some men.

  • intenzemocha

    @HOT SAUCE

    STOP RIDING MY TAIL DAMN…..SINCE I’M A HOODHO THEN MY COMMENTS SHOULDN’T EVEN COME UP ON YOUR BAROMETER

    FALL BACK….FOR REAL DAYUM YOU JUST LIKE A KID CONSTANTLY LOOKING FOR ATTENTION THAT ISH IS SAD

    AT LEAST I’M WOMAN ENOUGH TO ADMIT WHEN I’VE MADE A MISTAKE-THAT SHOW’S CHARACTER SOMETHING OBVIOUSLY YOU KNOW NOTHING ABOUT

  • Caring

    She is such a weird looking girl…freaky looking! TI could do so much better!

  • lisalisa

    that Louie bag that Tiny is carrying probably cost more than 2,000!

  • P

    “shat two kids out of your twat seven years ago ”

    ahahahahahahaha, damn that’s harsh.

    good job doing what any decent man would do. now let the dumb trick do hers.

  • bree

    wow..she looks like a damn hood rat

  • intenzemocha

    @HOTSAUCE

    I CAN TELL I TURN YOU ON & YOU WANNA F$CK ME THAT’S WHY YOU PAY ME SO MUCH ATTENTION

    YESTERDAY YOU WENT AS FAR AS ASKING ME THE LAST TIME I HAD SEX & YOUR CONSTANTLY PRESCRIBING D$CK TO CALM ME DOWN

    SORRY SWEETIE INTELLECT CAN’T BE GAIN THROUGH OSMOSIS & IGNORANCE IS NOT ATTRACTIVE

    BUT WHITE GIRL TANYA MAY BE INTERESTED MAYBE YOU TWO SHOULD EXCHANGE NUMBERS AND YOU BOTH CAN DISCUSS YOUR “HATE FOR BLACK WOMEN TOGETHER” YOU TWO WOULD MAKE A PERFECT COUPLE…….

  • http://www.myspace.com/ocky_j Octavia

    @ Circa-81:

    “So if the mother is incapable of providing a stable household for the child then why can’t she be deemed unfit and custody turned over to the father? That makes more sense to me. That way the child will live exactly the way the mother wants them to, since that is the mother’s main concern right??”

    Hahaha! True! But we all know that his not the mom’s concern. She’d neve turn over her meal-ticket.

    And for all of yall talking about what Tiny has and how much her purses costs, GET OVER IT! That is his woman. She has NOTHING to with Lashon. Lashon probably has a man of her own. Let HIM buy her designer bags. Why should TI take care of Lashon? If he is providing for his KIDS then he is doing his job.

  • http://www.myspace.com/ocky_j Octavia

    Baby-mommas need to learn when to MOVE ON with THEIR lives! Lashon shouldn’t be focused on what Tiny has. If she wants Tiny’s lifestyle she should either 1) work for it or 2) find another rich man to keep her. She has to recognize that TI doesn’t have to take care of her. That’s why so many sistas never go on to marry. They get stuck obsessing over their baby-daddys who’ve already moved on.

  • KENNEDY

    OMG Octavia you are so right.

  • Laura

    Domani and Messiah, WTF is up with those names

  • shavon denise

    @ WHITE TONYA:

    SMH…Um…WHAT THE HELL DOES THIS COMMENTS HAVE TO STICK WITH T.I.??? And f*ck yo dunk

  • KENNEDY

    The system is tightening up on these hoes. Once TI provides his receipts from his accountant and his character witnesses which he sould do- it might be curtains for this broad. But then thats where greed gets you…..

  • chooselove

    I agree that she’d probably be setting her sons a better example by having her own ambition in life, but reducing her motherhood down to ‘she shat two kids out of her twat’ is what’s unnacceptable. It’s crass and simplistic, especially if we’re talking about in our community. Motherhood is an important, full-time job that far too many people don’t take seriously! I know you guys mean a lot of this stuff lightly, but I was truly disgusted by your turn of phrase. Do better!

  • always knew

    @intenze mocha– glad you ran white woman off, everyday its someone on here new, disparaging black women and I’m fed up with that bs. EVERY race even our own,likes to put us down…And the only reason hot sauce comes on is to irritate the hell out of people…I don’t even address the loser anymore….NEXT!..

  • http://youtoldharpotabeatme.blogspot.com Tiki

    *Shrugging* All of this could’ve been avoided if she was wifey material. Kudos to T.I. for taking care of his children. Some of us (females of ALL RACES, WHITE TONYA) are quick to put a man on blast, not realizing that the truth will come out about them. I still think he needs to petition the courts for full custody.

  • KENNEDY

    You’re right chooselove with that being said motherhood IS a full time job and tons of mothers work fulltime jobs to support their kids. Its a good example to set for your children.

    She’s no better than the rest of us. Hell, I have a girlfriend who has a kid by an ex Laker. when he was in the league she never quit her job. Why? b/c you never know with these types of entertainment gigs. so she had to be sure her child would be straight. Good thing she did. Theres nothing wrong both parents supporting their kids………..

  • Ms. America in the House

    Hoe go get a JOB!

  • 2nd2nun

    I don’t understand why we feel it is necessary to give TI kudos for doing what he should do … it is his obligation to take care of his kids. You don’t get kudos for doing what is expected of you. Do you hear people telling people “Good job with washing your azz this morning …” … NOOO … cause you are supposed to wash your azz, just like you are supposed to take care of your kids.

    And his baby mama needs to grow the heck up and get a job, being TI’s baby mama is not an acceptable job!!!

  • http://sezwho.com/mypublicprofile.php Candy

    I am so tired of this type of thing. Kudos to TI for being a stand up dude and a good dad!

  • SMDH

    Good for TI.. Good man!!!

    However its such a shame that with the black males lack of ability to be a good father in most cases that the good ones tend to get labeled too..

    Unfortunately black males have noone to blame but themselves when things like this happen to the good ones….

  • persona

    A man should actually not have random kids, with random women.

    Just saying…

  • http://youtoldharpotabeatme.blogspot.com Tiki

    KUDOS and KUDOS some more. Not only is he going above and beyond what he SHOULD be doing for his children, but the girl ain’t sprawled out in an alley with her head busted to the white meat. Some men do that when they don’t even make 1% of T.I.’s paper. $24,000, extracurriculum activities, private schools, healthcare, clothes, and so on…and he’s still tolerating her antics…yes, that’s KUDOS.

    One for the road.

    KUDOS!

  • Nothing Nice: The officiating of games in the NFL is suspect.

    I knew it. I said this chick was lazy and people were not hearing it. I’m glad the truth came out. I still detest TI tho

  • Nothing Nice: The officiating of games in the NFL is suspect.

    No, kudos! That’s what he is surpose to do! Yeah she need a job and to be self sufficient but shoot you can easily spend five hundred dollars on gas alone in one month. I am with baby momma, it’s a recession and it is time for increase and abundance!

    ————————————

    Just get a damn job. contribute. the father of your kids is not your daddy. Why can’t u help support the kid you both made?!

  • Nothing Nice: The officiating of games in the NFL is suspect.

    That wasnt meant as an attack to the person who wrote that comment

  • SMDH

    “@SMDH ACTUALL BLACK MALES ARE DOING FINE TAKING CARE OF THEIR KIDS, I HAVE SEEN MORE BLACK MALES STEPPING UP TO THE PLATE WHERE I’M FROM EVEN WHERE I WORK IT’S BLACK MALES BRINGING THE KIDS IN, IT’S BLACK MALES WHO HAVE CUSTODY BECAUSE THE MOM IS TRIFLING. SO I AGAIN WERE TALKING ABOUT TRIFLING MOMS. SO YOU DON’T HAVE TO KEEP REINTERATING THAT BLACK MALES THIS AND BLACK MALES THAT.”

    And I acknowledged that the mom is trifling.. I acknowledged that when I ave TI his props for being a good man.. However, I also pointed out that it is the black males lack of parenting abilities that make stories like this so easy to believe.. It easy to assume the black male is just abandoning his kids again… I know there are good ones out there but they are vastly outnumbered by the bad ones.. I’m simply saying if the black male stepped up his game it wouldn’t be so easy to blame him when perhaps it is the mother…..

  • Butterscotch

    I hate to say it, but this is what happens when you lay up with someone and have multiple kids for him without being married. I could understand having one child with him, but she shoulda made him put a ring on her finger after the first one or moved on. (Can you say Juanita Jordan?) When you’re married and it ends, you can at least ask for spousal support. Only marriage entitles you to “continue living in the lifestyle to which you’ve become accustomed.” Otherwise, all you’re entitled to is child support for the children (food, lodging, clothes, school, extra-curricular activities, etc.), not yourself. You can only play Brangelina if you both have your own money and are not dependent on the other for financial support.

  • legalize the ganga/rude girl from jamdown

    Republican Vice President hopeful Sarah Palin is speaking out about her portrayal on last weekend’s Saturday Night Live season premiere.

    And of course the potential VP isn’t saying anything negative about Tina Fey’s attempt at impersonating her.

    Fey and Amy Poehler, who did her great Hillary Clinton impression, offered “A Nonpartisan Message” to America, discussing sexism in the campaign.

    And during the performance, Fey said with an Alaskan accent, “I can see Russia from my house!”

    She then added about global warming that, “I believe it’s just God hugging us closer.”

    According to Tracey Schmitt, Palin’s spokesperson, Palin “thought it was quite funny, particularly because she once dressed up as Tina Fey for Halloween.”

    Wait, so was that a jab at Tina Fey?

    Seriously, who would want to dress like Fey for Halloween? How would you even tell it’s her?

    We found the skit funny, though. Let’s hope they bring Fey back often!

  • Creole Baby Hotter Than Ya Mama Grits

    WHITE TONYA WITH HER BOO’S NAME TATOOED ON HER THIGH/BLACK MEN TELL ME I HAVE A DUNK

    it’s donk — not dunk

  • Creole Baby Hotter Than Ya Mama Grits

    legalize the ganga/rude girl from jamdown

    what the ziggy zow is ganga jamdown?

  • Creole Baby Hotter Than Ya Mama Grits

    Nothing Nice: The officiating of games in the NFL is suspect.

    why the ziggy zow is Steve Urkel your gravatar man?

  • Creole Baby Hotter Than Ya Mama Grits

    SMDH

    do you SYDH all the time or just when your awake?

  • Creole Baby Hotter Than Ya Mama Grits

    Family First

    are you from china town?

  • SMDH

    “I hate to say it, but this is what happens when you lay up with someone and have multiple kids for him without being married.”

    NO – thats what happens when you don’t wanna get up off your ass and GET A JOB!! No woman should marry a man just to keep up with a certain lifestyle.. She needs to get up off her ass and WORK!!

  • SMDH

    “do you SYDH all the time or just when your awake?”

    Only when I come to this board.. That’s the only time I SMDH!!!

  • Creole Baby Hotter Than Ya Mama Grits

    Kompton’s Kutie

    what does lbc stand for? long beach city? compton? crips? cocoa?

  • cantstopwontstop

    Asking for a review of a child support order does not make you a lazy gold-digging broad out for your ex’s money, if your child’s mother wants a review it doesn’t make you a dead beat. Kimora had her order reviewed a few months ago, everyone was calling her a gold-digger to the point russel had to clarify the situation and let everyone know she is a good mother and he had no problem with the financial increase. My aunt was receiving $2K a month for 2 children and their father wasn’t making a fraction of TI’s income. Child support orders should routinely be reviewed and they protect the mother, the father and the children. That way it’s all in writing and no room for misinterpretation. But I see we never miss a chance to disrespect a black man and woman with damaging stereotypes. But there is a way of going about all of this if you ask for a review, let it just be that, don’t attack your child’s father because it’s only going to make things more difficult and causes resentment. If your child’s mother needs more money, and she is a good mother to your children give it to her, it will only benefit your children, even if she just lives off of the money, since you couldn’t give them a two parent home, you can give them a stay at home mom. No that’s not your legal responsibility but it is your moral obligation of being the best father you can be, your children will be full of pride when they say my dad took care of me and my mom even though they weren’t together. Have pride in being a man a being a provider, this does not make you soft or a sucka, it makes you a MAN. I do think both parents have the childrens best interest at heart, but may not agree on what that is.

    at least there is one person on this site with good sense…

    SMH @ the rest….

  • Richard

    @ Butterscotch

    You missed the point. Whether married or not young women shouldn’t aspire to get something froma man. Why can’t she be the bread winner?

    That married so he can owe you something mentality is what makes men shy away from marriage.

  • circa-81

    @ SMDH

    Wowwww, SMDH. *clapping* You are right.

    What type of self respecting person wants to live off of somebody else’s accomplishment. These people are lazy, trifling, lacking self respect, independence, and dignity. They are sleezy, slimey, bottom feeders that can’t fend for themselves in the world because they are too weak, and if you support some chick or dude trying to take her husband/wife or baby’s father/mother for all he/she has; you are “one and the same.” A brainless, spineless, sorry excuse for an adult.

  • legalize the ganga/rude girl from jamdown

    @crazy

    Remember it`s child support not adult support.

    ___________

    you are crazy

    this is ture

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty

    IN OTHER NEWS (from Huffington Post)!! Congrats Serena,such an inspiration!

    ___________________________

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    Williams, 26, has won nine Grand Slam titles and, with sister Venus Williams, won a gold medal in women’s doubles at the recent Olympics in Beijing.

    Grand Central Publishing is a division of the Hachette Book Group.

  • circa-81

    @ Richard

    That married so he can owe you something mentality is what makes men shy away from marriage.

    —————————————-

    True. My brother is arranging a contract for his soon-to-be wife.

  • Richard

    @cantstopwontstop

    You make sense. $2000 for TI is chump change. He could have doubled it and been ok. “If you can’t give them a 2 parent househould at least give them a stay at home mom.

    2k is what a cat making 120K would give.

  • blaq

    @ Circa

    It is the responsibility of both parent to provide the household no matter who has custody. If TI deems this woman as an unfit mother it is his perogative to seek custody. But taking a child away from the mother is not a solution to child support. Read the definition and conditions of child support. I am not just pulling this ish out of my ass, there are laws in place and the amount he should pay is not determined by me, you, him, or the mother it’s determined by the courts. Every father/ or non-custodial parent rather should pay support to the custodial parent which is determined by their income. Now If T.I. gets jacked by the IRS and loses everything he can go back and have the order modified.

    I have a male cousin who was not satisfied by the amount he had to pay for his daughter, so he got custody and is the only man I know who really understands the process. Once he had custody, he said he wished he could go back to paying that $500 a month, because I takes a lot more than that to raise his daughter, especially since the mother is not contributing, it goes both ways. I have a son who’s father was shot and is now disabled, no I do not seek child support because he has nothing to give, and I think that is fair as well. If he recovers and makes a million and chooses not to provide a decent amount in accordance to his income I will go to court, not because I am vengeful or bitter, but a support order will protect both of us, I can’t say he didn’t do anything, when he did, and he can’t claim he bought my child the world when he hasn’t.

  • legalize the ganga/rude girl from jamdown

    this *unt on this here again today

    ranting and raging

    wat up s*utt, which blackman make you mad today

  • Butterscotch

    @ Richard

    I agree with you, but there will always be people with that mentality – who don’t want to earn their keep. Some do it well and others do not. That’s what prenups are for.

  • http://www.myspace.com/ocky_j Octavia

    @ cantstopwontstop:

    “If you can’t give them a 2 parent househould at least give them a stay at home mom.”

    But… that should be his CHOICE. The crux of this matter is that she is claiming that she is having difficulty “making ends meet.” However, she is not working. Before she starts asking for a review of support she should at least try and contribute to her own household.

  • Its6amHoGetOut

    Since I’m smarter than 98% of you on here I’ll explain what this woman will get at the end of the day:

    1. She’ll get an increased court order for $6,000-$6,500 per month.

    2. She be made to look for employment, not actually get a job, just ordered to look for one.

    3. She’ll get an immediate lump sum payment somewhere in the neighborhood of $20,000-$25,000

    4. Immediate funding of trust accounts for those two boys (if they dont already have them)

    5. Life insurance policies in case TI gets killed naming those boys as beneficiaries.

    6. Money to legally change their names(Messiah?)once they hit 21 so the can go out and actually be considered for jobs.

    10. She’ll get money for a new car.

    So says 6am, so it shall be done, just watch.

  • circa-81

    @ Blaq

    If TI deems this woman as an unfit mother it is his perogative to seek custody. But taking a child away from the mother is not a solution to child support.

    ——————————————-

    Nor is seeking more money to provide the child with a “stay at home mom.” 2,000.00 with her contributing also is more than enough to take care of 2 kids. If he wants to provide more than that then let him do it. I have a child and my girl is a stay at home mom (for the time being). Exclude the mortgage that houses them and the car note that transports them, it doesn’t even take 2,000.00 to take care of all 3 of us. I think your male cousin is referring to the time he has to put in with your daughter not the “extra” money he is spending. It is a such thing as telling a child “no you can’t have it” as far as their ‘wants’ go. You grant and ration a child their ‘wants’ you don’t owe it to ‘em upon demand. Like I said a man should owe that money to the kid and the system that governs these matters (and I truly do believe you should keep it out of court) should make sure you or any other women filing for support are also doing what you have to do (school, jobs, etc.) to also contribute to bettering and stablizing your childs life. Point blank. It boils down to I’m bitter about my situation and I need somebody to blame for my lack of ambition and will power to assume my duties as a provider for my child.

    And the reason why you support this system that determines this type of bull is because it helps these fortune seekers carry out their agendas. But, I will inform you that the table’s are beginning to turn.

  • Its6amHoGetOut

    Oh one more thing, she’ll get her house either paid off or TI will have to make the payments.

  • Its6amHoGetOut

    What does this broad look like?

  • legalize the ganga/rude girl from jamdown

    she take this *hit to court

    she might loose more than she might gain

    don’t they learn she should talk to 50 baby mama

  • beauty on lock

    why is she having financial difficulties with all that support? because she is greedy and wants to live beyond her means. ti’s support is enough for her to not work, take care of thier children, pay a modest mortagage and maintain a decent life for herself. her boys are schoolage so she should be working, at least for her own self-worth, the extras she desires, and her retirement all of which ti is not responsible for. she should be ashamed of herself for being lazy and slandering a ti who is an above and beyond supportive father.

  • legalize the ganga/rude girl from jamdown

    What does this broad look like?

    ________

    i am thinking she looks like a woman

    i hope … then again what looks have to do with

    child support and not working

  • Mya

    I am kind of on the fence with this one. I think that she should be employed or pursuing a degree because she can’t depend on him. Alot of rappers careers are short term and T.I. is about to be incarcerated for a year.

    I do not beleive that he purchases food for the children. That is something his lawyer wrote to redeam his character.

    Child support is 17% of his income. $2000 a month is low and that is not 17% so I can understand her taking him to court for an increase. Providing medical coverage and paying for education is suppose to be in addition to child support. That is not suppose to be included in the 17% of the monetary portion she receives.

    In all fairness Tiny is not his wife either. She spends more than $2000 a month on hair, clothes, handbags and whatever she desires.

  • legalize the ganga/rude girl from jamdown

    white tonya

    is your associated with cocaine -

  • blaq

    @Octavia

    It is his choice and he is choosing not to. Why should she wait to get a job before requesting a review, are you going to wait for a promotion or ask for it? Closed mouth don’t get fed. You better speak up for what you need and want. If the court denies the request, she is in no worst shape. Contribute to her household, who do you think cooks the meals, cleans the house, takes the kids to school, does homework, stays up all night with a sick kid, gives them love a guidance, you cannot contribute those very important things on a weekend basis. The problem with the youth is the fact nobody’s at home and they are being raised by a minimum wage child care provider and the BET. Taking my son to daycare is a lot easier than staying home with him, after about 3 hours I’m ready to tear my hair out, But I would happily cut my income in half and stay at home with my child, if I could survive off of that. Being with your children is a privilege and a sacrifice.

  • circa-81

    @ Mya

    In all fairness Tiny is not his wife either. She spends more than $2000 a month on hair, clothes, handbags and whatever she desires.

    —————————————

    What does that have to do with the kids. Tiny is an adult. What child is spending 2,000.00 a month on hair, clothes, and handbags?

  • Mya

    1. She’ll get an increased court order for $6,000-$6,500 per month.

    2. She be made to look for employment, not actually get a job, just ordered to look for one.

    3. She’ll get an immediate lump sum payment somewhere in the neighborhood of $20,000-$25,000———————————————————————————————————

    I agree with 1-3. I have a knowledge of family court issues and this seems likely. He certainly will have to pay up.

  • circa-81

    @ Blaq

    Taking my son to daycare is a lot easier than staying home with him, after about 3 hours I’m ready to tear my hair out, But I would happily cut my income in half and stay at home with my child, if I could survive off of that. Being with your children is a privilege and a sacrifice.

    ————————————–

    Oh, please spare the mellow dramatics. You are responsible for the welfare of your child and if the situation was different so would his father be. But in any case his father would not be responsible for your own endeavors. Most people would love to stay at home with their kids. I’ve raised one from a previous relationship and I have my own flesh and blood now. And it is not hard….tedious sometimes but hard? No.

  • vegasgal

    @Octavia: Girl, I too am SMDH that people are on this site defending this trifling broad. TI mentioned paying for private school, if the kids are school aged why can’t this chick get a job and work during the day, even part time? She gets no sympathy from me because it sounds like TI is a stand up guy, I’m sure if she told him she was working he’d pay for any babysitting/child care expenses. She’s just lazy and thinks cuz she popped out a couple of kids she’s entitled to be kept in Benzes and Gucci. I’m also wondering does this chick have kids by other fathers, is that why she wants more money?

  • Necy

    get a J.O.B or next time become the wife and NOT JUST the baby mamma!!! that way you don’t have to work and you’ll still get all the money. FOOL!!!lol

  • blaq

    @ circa

    No my male cousin was referring to the money. It is a lot easier and cheaper to have a 2 parent household. I don’t know where you live but $2000 just barely covers the rent in a area with decent schools where I am from. Hell my child care bill is $1200 a month alone. If you feel $24,00.00 a year is something to dig after your standards are pretty low. We can go around and around and probably won’t see eye to eye because one has never walked in the others shoes. And that is the reason this matter is handled in a child court because parents don’t agree, if so they would probably still be together. Fathers not supporting their children has become an epidemic. It seems that men are more concerned that their ex’s don’t benefit more than they are concerned with the child having all the parents can afford. The truth is most fathers will only pay the minimum required. Most women cannot live solely on child support.

  • Its6amHoGetOut

    Damn, Son of satan is a lil harsh!

  • pm

    typical

  • circa-81

    @ Its6amHoGetOut

    Son of Satan and an asshole too? Thats ok somebody has to tell the truth on this muthaf*cka, she’ll get an increase of exactly the amount that I type’d and don’t think that judge will not take into consideration TI’s criminal record, he’s gonna make sure those boys are provided for just in case TI’s scrawny ass gets shot with a BB gun and dies from too much blood loss!

    —————————————-

    LOL. By the way you are not the only ‘intellect’ populating this board today.

  • Mya

    In all fairness Tiny is not his wife either. She spends more than $2000 a month on hair, clothes, handbags and whatever she desires.

    —————————————

    What does that have to do with the kids. Tiny is an adult. What child is spending 2,000.00 a month on hair, clothes, and handbags?

    ——————————————————————————————————

    Tiny is unemployed and the mother of his other 2 children. It takes more than $2000 a month to take care of 2 children.

    Kids constantly grow. They need clothes all the time. They need money for food, class trips, and other expenses.

    Most likely his children with his babies mother does not have all of the lavish things that Tiny’s children has with T.I. That includes trips to Disney or wherever they chose. Lavish dinners and places that children love to go to.

  • Old Timer

    @Its6amHoGetOut

    Since I’m smarter than 98% of you on here I’ll explain what this woman will get at the end of the day:

    __________________________________________________

    6am, I’m glad I’m one of the 2% who MIGHT be smarter than you. You’re a nut!!

  • Necy

    This chicks don’t never learn!!! look at 50 cents baby mom, diddy’s baby mom etc… etc..

    and Kimora Simmons(say what you will about her) but she was smart enough to become the wife and at the end she got P.A.I.D

  • Seek the light beyond the shadows

    Let this be a lesson to all these men out here who love to ride but don’t want to pay for the bill. Yes, there are women who will do nothing for them self’s. The only solutions is for men to be more responsible with who they share there seed with. I am an independent women, I’m working and going to school. I have my hustle on lock and will never depend on a man to take care of me. I’m also not easy. It saddens me that we are raising a culture of lazy, irresponsible, uneducated people. I want more for myself and my children.

  • legalize the ganga/rude girl from jamdown

    @legalize,

    I wanna know what she looks like because he had those two kids with her before he got famous and since he’s in the deep south and she doesnt wanna work that means she’s probably 200lbs, nappy ass weave, fat toes with lil dead toenails and huge thighs (description of a broke deep south n*ggas dream b*tch)

    ______________

    aright aright since you put it like dat

    i wit you

    lol

  • circa-81

    @ Blaq

    Most women cannot live solely on child support.

    —————————————

    You don’t supposed to. I live in the suburbs of D.C. And it is truly expensive compared to most areas of the U.S.. Take away the rent or mortgage and 2 grand is more than enough with the mother contributing also. Most people are getting more like 300.00 a month. The only key is the mother should have a sufficient job also point blank.

  • Necy

    Damn, typo

    this chicks never learn…

  • tru3playboy

    You make sense. $2000 for TI is chump change. He could have doubled it and been ok. “If you can’t give them a 2 parent househould at least give them a stay at home mom.

    2k is what a cat making 120K would give.

    ______________________________________________

    I think some of u are completely missing the point. Child support is meant to be supplemental to the parent who has custody’s income. Child support is not a means of support for the mother and the child.

    T.I. clearly stated that he is paying above and beyond the 2gs that he cuts a check for every month. In any other case of support, a man would cut the check to the woman every month and that is meant to include EVERYTHING. Most men do not pay 2000 plus school fees, plus a down payment on a house, a car, etc….What are u people not getting? She is not his wife. She is only entitled to the money that is needed to support his son. Anything extra she has to come out of her pocket. Why is it fair for him to also support her? Her bum ass needs to get a job no matter how u slice and dice it. She is not entitled to the good life just cuz she laid up with this man. Ridiculous…

  • blaq

    @ circa

    what are my own endeavor, I didn’t say anything about by own endeavors. You also missed the part where i said it was a priviledge! huh. I am fully aware of my responsibilities, unlike yourself I have always had full responsibility and custody of my child, and didn’t you say you are with your girl, so you are not a single parent right, so you have no idea what my situation feels like, in addition you live somewhere where 3 people can live off of $2000 a month. Totally different situation. It’s easy to call melodramatics when the shoe is on the other foot. Anyway I am sure your are a wonderful father, glad you are still with the lady who gave you a child, take good care of them and you won’t ever have to worry about support payments or which amount is, or is not fair. But trust me your children are benfitting from the fact they have a parent at home when they get out of school, and not learning about life from a school teacher or the television.

    I agree to disagree

  • Mya

    @mya

    tiny has nothing to do with this, they have already siad that those kids go on every vacation with them that the other kids go on, jealousy is dangerous. she should be concerned with her kids and not tiny, tiny is his woman. point blank.

    ——————————————————————————————————

    I disagree. If T.I. can drop 3500 on a handbag or tiny’s weave, he should have no problem giving to his children for a better life. yes, baby mother should be employed, but she isn’t, and that is a fact.

  • circa-81

    @ Mya

    Tiny is unemployed and the mother of his other 2 children. It takes more than $2000 a month to take care of 2 children.

    Kids constantly grow. They need clothes all the time. They need money for food, class trips, and other expenses.

    Most likely his children with his babies mother does not have all of the lavish things that Tiny’s children has with T.I. That includes trips to Disney or wherever they chose. Lavish dinners and places that children love to go to.

    ——————————————

    That’s totally false. What child needs to go shopping for a large amount of clothes per month? What child has multiple field trips per month? What child is consuming over 2,000.00 worth of food per month? You are basing this off of luxuries such as Disney World, and Ruth Criss’s? C’mon you are not talking to somebody that was born yesterday. Is really any of what you said applicable for her wanting more child support besides envious desires? Babe, I’m raising a child and I helped raise a six month old to 8 y.o. It doesn’t take that much money.

  • http://checkmeout Jewish Woman

    THIS IS BLACK, TYPICAL BEHAVIOR

    I assume this guy is a rapper or a basketball player. So of course he would have children from more than one woman. This response had to have been written by his publicist because I know he is not capable of writing a sentence in correct English and using punctuation. There is absolutely no ebonics in this entire thing. I know that he did not write this.

    I guarantee you if I were to hear him talk, he would sound nothing like what is written. He probably sounds very ignorant, uneducated, and very ghetto.

    He’s supporting his kids for his image. We all know that black monkeys don’t care about their kids. The stats can show you that. If he wasn’t a celebrity he would probably be dealing drugs (still could be doing this), and would end up in jail. The sad and funny part is that he probably thinks that he is successful. The only really black, successful people that I know are Oprah, Bill Cosby and the guy that sold B.E.T. The ex-owner of B.E.T. made money off of making you people making you look stupid and ignorant. HOW TYPICAL.

    The Black race is pathetic. I remember when Bill Cosby actually made a lot of since, and tried to encourage you people. But you would rather take advice from an rapper than listen to someone with good advice.

    HOW TYPICAL

    Bush should have left most of you people in New Orleans again to be washed away by the water.

  • blaq

    Since a lot of you don’t know what child support is to be used for here is a definition:

    Support monies collected are expected to be used for the child’s expenses, including food, shelter, clothing and educational needs. They are not meant to function as “spending money” for the child.[31] Courts have held that it is acceptable for child support payments to be used to indirectly benefit the custodial parent. For example, child support monies may be used to heat the child’s residence, even if this means that other people also benefit from living in a heated home.[32]

    So that is the law like it or not.

  • http://checkmeout Jewish Woman

    I forget to say check out the OBAMA WAFFLES—–CHANGE YOU AN TASTE.

    MCCAIN/PALIN YOU ROCK!!

  • http://www.myspace.com/ocky_j Octavia

    @ Blaq

    Closed mouths may not get fed, but neither do the UNEMPLOYED. She is not entitled to be a stay-at-home mother. I agree, that love and support are contributions, but we are discussing dollars and cents. Her children are of school age. What is she doing for 8 hrs M-F while they are in school? Having a child with a wealthy man simply does not entitle you to a free ride.

  • blaq

    By the way, Kim Porter probably doesn’t need $30K a month to support one child, but that is what the support order was, and Diddy didn’t have a problem with it because he had 2 more kids with her. Even after having to pay Misa Hilton a similar amount. Why does Diddy pay so much, he has great lawyers, and could probably get custody. I guess it’s because he’d rather his kids didn’t need or want for anything more than the squabbling over cash with a person who gave him the greatest gift on earth, a child.

  • http://checkmeout Jewish Woman

    Legalize the Ganga

    You just gave me your attention. All you had to do was not respond. I must be getting under your skin.

  • Its6amHoGetOut

    @ Fake jewish woman,

    I see youre back in here trying to convince everyone youre jewish just to get a reaction when in fact youre just some really poor fat white girl who no one ever loved or will love, you take out your frustrations on any race that doing better than you because you feel entitled yet you just cant seem to drop 100lbs, get an education, youre probably pregnant with your uncles baby and youre broke.

    But just in case you are jewish and really filled with this much hate please remember, jews are the only people other races (especially Christian far rights) wanna see dead, not black, not asian, not mexican no other race, how does that feel?

    But since youre some cowardly, lying fat lonely white girl you dont know how that feels huh? tell me how were you recruited, did they brainwash you and tell you you’d be somebody if it wasnt for the blacks , asians and mexicans? Did your father play racist propaganda in your house before or after he had his way with you? Did the new black supervisor fire your father for incompetence or laziness?

    Its gotta be one of those.

  • Richard

    Why doesn’t she start hoeing? By not working she has already declared that she is only good for one thing.

  • DieVerse

    Ok so is TIP looking for some props for his statement? I mean, ok ol’girl is tryina destroy his character but so what if you pay child support…do you want a cookie??? Fool you’re supposed to provide for your seed!!!

  • Just Sayin

    Seems to me like he is handling his responsibility. Now it’s up to the judge to determine if he should be doing more.

    Seems to me like he really loves his children, but I know he wish he didn’t have to deal wit their mother, for sure!

    :-)

  • Its6amHoGetOut

    Now im bored ya’ll, I gotta go.

  • blaq

    @ Octavia

    If you are a rich man, don’t have children with someone who you are not willing to support. She is entitled to use the money she receives in child support to run the household. That is not my personal opinion but the law. Now if your child’s fathers income dictates he pays an amount that can cover all of the expenses for the family, then yes you do have the right not to work. My comment was she has the right to ask for a review of his income. Kimora has a job and Russ still pays a hefty sum, a lot more than this. Why not have more money in the household, people are acting like she’s living the lifestyles of the rich and famous on 2000 measly dollars, and TI is out hustling everyday to put food on the table for his other family.

  • Richard

    @ Blaq

    Dod has WAY more money than TI and …….TI is pretty cheap. I hate the fact that he got five years worth of child support on his wrist. Give her an extra G and shut her ass up now you gonna pay.

  • Just Sayin

    @ Its6amHoGetOut

    You up here layin down the law in dis piece.

    Handle Yo Business…

    LMAO
    :-)

  • http://www.myspace.com/ocky_j Octavia

    @ Mya (although you weren’t talking to me, lol)

    “So you are saying that he can spend lavishly on his girl, and their children, and his other children live mediocre at best.”

    YES! As long as his children are provided for, he is straight. And I’m sorry, but 2K a month, private schools, medical coverage, extracurriculars, gifts, mom in a brand new car, etc. is better than mediocre. Where is it written that a man’s ex gf is entitled to the same lifestyle as his current lady? What he spends on Tiny is a separate issue.

  • blaq

    Since I have put myself in the position of defending all single mothers, I honestly believe T.I. is a good father and was aware of a need in the household of his children he would have rectified it. When the story first posted I wrote a comment about not judging him on the report and that he probably does more than the actual payment. But having a new order will protect them both. All of his support will be counted and she will receive a fair amount, hopefully enough to make ends meet as well provide some extra’s for the kids.

  • http://checkmeout Jewish Woman

    Individual Calm Hill

    I have traveled all around the world. I have run into some educated black woman and men (more woman). This only makes up a small percentage, and you know it. That’s why Bill Cosby had the forum that was all over the news.

    My parents invested in some apartments, and tried to do good for the Latino and Black community. They trashed the apartments. The walls had holes in them, and there were markings all on the walls. They were dealing drugs. They didn’t pay rent on time. The apartments were brand new, and the looked like they were five years old. The list could go on and on. This was more Black than Latino.

    All you people care about is your cars, shining wheels, tennis shoes with hats, and jewelry. You don’t want to go to school. You’d rather rap or play sports. It was on the news that you people were upset with Bill Cosby because he aired your laundry. GET REAL. That’s my whole point. You don’t want to change. SOME OF YOU ARE PATHETIC

    The bad part is that you people know that I am telling the truth, but you don’t want to admit it.

    Your probably that 6am. He kept telling me the same thing the other day (If you are really Jewish).

  • blaq

    @ Richard

    Thank you! That’s all I’m saying

  • thickems

    That’s how I see men who pay support. These $25k or better a month is crazy for a child or children.

    I believe what he is doing is so on point. If they give the mother cash or it comes out of their paychecks at least help pay for school, books, medical and clothes.

    I have friends who do all of that and still the heiffers want more !

    Be careful who you sleep with!

  • Mya

    When I visit other website such as TMZ and MSN, It is rare that I see rants by black people hating whites. It is only in defense to white people using these blogs to incense black people. As soon as they see black people they blog about things that don’t even have anything to do with the topic. Just race.

    They are mad that black people are flourishing. There are many educated professional black people and they can’t stand this. They hate the fact that there are many black millionares while they go to their jobs for meager wages. They are envious and wish that we were all homeless, uneduacted, drug addicted, and relying on public assistance to get by. Sorry that is not the case.

    This is why they take to the blogs and write their childish rants. They could never stand in a black persons face and repeat their ignorant racist statements so they take to the blogs and hide like coward behind their computers. How pathetic. Get a LIFE!!

  • http://www.myspace.com/ocky_j Octavia

    @ blaq:

    “If you are a rich man, don’t have children with someone who you are not willing to support.”

    WOW! Really?! It is that kinda thinking that gets women labeled as gold diggers.

    “She is entitled to use the money she receives in child support to run the household. That is not my personal opinion but the law.”

    Absolutely! If it is going toward food and bills and things for the children, great! Now, should HER expenses (clothes, nights out, etc) come from that money? NO. If she is not working at all, then you betta believe she is dipping into that money for her personal use.

    “Now if your child’s fathers income dictates he pays an amount that can cover all of the expenses for the family, then yes you do have the right not to work.”

    Ok. And if your current payment arrangement does not cover all expenses, you should work. Not just ask for more.

    “My comment was she has the right to ask for a review of his income. Kimora has a job and Russ still pays a hefty sum, a lot more than this. Why not have more money in the household,”

    Why not work to add money to the household?

    “people are acting like she’s living the lifestyles of the rich and famous on 2000 measly dollars, and TI is out hustling everyday to put food on the table for his other family.”

    Again, you are discussing what he is spending on Tiny and their kids. Again, Lashon is not entitled to be equal with Tiny because THEY ARE NOT TOGETHER.

    My question in is simple. What makes Lashon exempt from contributing ANY financial support to her own children?

  • circa-81

    But then again maybe alot of people don’t know how to budget, and that’s the reason why they can’t get by on 2 grand a month excluding car note and mortgage.

  • legalize the ganga/rude girl from jamdown

    YOUR RIGHT WE DON’T WANT HELP SO HELP YOUR ASS TO ANOTHER BLOG AND DO SOME GOOD THEIR!

    _______

    u know

  • http://checkmeout Jewish Woman

    I think 6am and Calm Hill are the same person.

    You can’t even make up your mind if I am Jewish or not. One minute you say I’m not then you say I am. Why do you sound so angry? Are you an angry black men?

    I’m not fat. Have you been to L.A.? There are not fat white girls our here. My father would never have black monkey, supervisor. He owns his own comapny.

    It’s funny you called me fat. What’s also funny is that, you monkeys call your own monkeys fat all the time, and then you run to fat, white girls. THAT’S HILARIOUS.

    What’s also funny is that your attacking me because I talked about the black race. Your probably the typical black person that talks about your race all the time.

  • Mya

    @ Circa

    I’m not going to continue to make repetitive statements. I disagree. Move on. I live in N.Y. $2000 a month is the poverty level for 2 children and Tip knows this. Let the courts take care of it.

  • Mya

    Having the ablity to rap is a gift. Having the ablity to play sports is a gift. Singing and dancing are gifts as well. If someone has the ability to do so that is gods will. Having intelligence is a gift as well.

    This idiot on here has none of the above that is why she is trying her best to belittle black people who have made millions and provided a lavish life style for themselves and their family.

  • http://checkmeout Jewish Woman

    Legalize the Ganga

    TSK TSK TSK

    Why are back? Why are you responding to me?

    You said I would have to say more to get under you skin. I must have already done that because you responded. Control that temper little girl! It’s funny how you claim Barack Osama as the next black president, and he comes from a white women and a DEADBEAT BLACK MAN. You actually think that he is going to win? Would we allow that to happen? Do you really think that white women will vote for him over Palin (She rocks)? Do you really think America wants his family in the a house that was built for white skin?

    Most of you don’t even know Black History in depth. You people claim, ‘My ancestor did this, my ancestors were strong people.’ You don’t know anything about your ancestors. All black people know is that you were sold into slavery by your own people. You have probably never heard of John Horse and the Black Seminoles have you?

  • Its6amHoGetOut

    Wait, wait, wait, I forgot, in the jewish religion it is ok to marry your cousin. See 6am never wrong!

    Whats wrong fake Jewish lady, you found out cousin Murray Seinfeld didnt really “own” that car dealership after you f*cked him?

  • Its6amHoGetOut

    @ fake jewish lady,

    And you dont know about all those jews in WW2 who told the Nazi’s where to find your asses huh? Not all jewish people have hook noses and jew-fros, some actually could pass for blonde haired blue eyed protestants like Harrison Ford. Those are the ones who were so cowardly they told the SS where you were hiding, how much money you had and where to find the life insurance policies.

    Go to beverly Hills and you’ll see more jews trying to pick up on black women promising them the world and the women just laugh at them, see we dont want you dead like 90% of the rest of the world, we’d just like to see you stop f*cking each over for $1

  • Its6amHoGetOut

    bye all shalom!

  • http://checkmeout Jewish Woman

    6am

    Just to let you know most white people don’t look Jewish, and you don’t know that they are until they tell you.

    Where is Calm Hill? Oh, that’s right your the same person.

    You talk about fat white girls. You probably love white women, but can’t stand black women, right? Now you talk about white girls only because one is talking about you. I guarantee you that if I pull up your responses you will have numerous ones that disrespect black women, right? I bet if talked about black women you wouldn’t defend them, right? You probably find something wrong with every black women you see, right? You can’t find anything wrong with white and non-black women, right? I know why because you love us. You only hate us when it’s convenient for you, right?

  • circa-81

    @ blaq:

    “If you are a rich man, don’t have children with someone who you are not willing to support.”

    WOW! Really?! It is that kinda thinking that gets women labeled as gold diggers.

    “She is entitled to use the money she receives in child support to run the household. That is not my personal opinion but the law.”

    Absolutely! If it is going toward food and bills and things for the children, great! Now, should HER expenses (clothes, nights out, etc) come from that money? NO. If she is not working at all, then you betta believe she is dipping into that money for her personal use.

    “Now if your child’s fathers income dictates he pays an amount that can cover all of the expenses for the family, then yes you do have the right not to work.”

    Ok. And if your current payment arrangement does not cover all expenses, you should work. Not just ask for more.

    “My comment was she has the right to ask for a review of his income. Kimora has a job and Russ still pays a hefty sum, a lot more than this. Why not have more money in the household,”

    Why not work to add money to the household?

    “people are acting like she’s living the lifestyles of the rich and famous on 2000 measly dollars, and TI is out hustling everyday to put food on the table for his other family.”

    Again, you are discussing what he is spending on Tiny and their kids. Again, Lashon is not entitled to be equal with Tiny because THEY ARE NOT TOGETHER.

    My question in is simple. What makes Lashon exempt from contributing ANY financial support to her own children?

    ——————————–

    That about does it. I’m done and it is nearly time for me to go home and play with my baby and my girl. But, Octavia if there were more women like you and others on this board that are like minded or men that were responsible fathers for their kids there would not be any need to include the outside influence of the judicial system in personal family matters or a conversation for support or opposition of it. But, we only can be responsible for our own situations insuring that they do not end in these messes. To all of yall’I enjoyed the convo; be easy.

  • legalize the ganga/rude girl from jamdown

    BREAKING NEWS

    To know her, it seems, is not necessarily to love her.

    When John McCain picked Sarah Palin as his running mate late last month, the Alaska governor quickly became a media phenomenon. Largely unknown, she existed at first in something of an information vacuum, and due to the shock of her selection–everyone loves a surprise–the press rushed to fill the void with whatever data was easily available. Mostly this consisted of human interest material; Palin had plenty to go around. Mooseburgers. Float planes. Ice Fishing. Beauty pageants. Teen pregnancy. Et cetera. By the end of her first 15 minutes in the spotlight–which included her speech at the Republican National Convention in St. Paul–Palin existed mostly as an idea: a frontier supermom who’d triumphed over adversity (the Ol’ Boys Club, the “liberal media”). Palin spent her first week reading from a teleprompter and avoiding questions from the press–and the public–so as not to sully this first impression.

  • http://www.myspace.com/ocky_j Octavia

    @ Circa

    You are right. We can only control ourselves. Enjoyed the convo, too. Have fun with your wife and lil girl.

  • eddiedollars215

    Group With Big Pharma Ties Wants to Shut Down Vaccine “Conspiracy Theories”

    Kingpins of Military-Industrial complex say they will “brand” websites they consider “trustworthy and reliable sources of information”

    Steve Watson / Infowars.net | September 15, 2008

    A foundation populated by the giants of business, banking, government and military wants to “vet” websites and limit the spread of information that it says creates “conspiracy theories”.

    The World Wide Web Consortium (W3C), fronted by Internet creator Sir Tim Berners-Lee, says it is worried about the way the web has been “used to spread disinformation”.

    Speaking to the BBC, Berners-Lee said that there needed to be a new system that would give websites a “label for trustworthiness” once they had been proved reliable sources. Only then would the rise of “cult thinking” be avoided according to Berners-Lee.

    “On the web the thinking of cults can spread very rapidly and suddenly a cult which was 12 people who had some deep personal issues suddenly find a formula which is very believable,” Berners-Lee said. “A sort of conspiracy theory of sorts and which you can imagine spreading to thousands of people and being deeply damaging.”

    Deeply damaging to who? one might ask. The answer is revealed in the list of The World Wide Web Consortium’s 400 plus members, the cream of the corporate world in conjunction with government agencies such as National Institute of Standards and Technology (NIST) and military entities like the Defense Information Systems Agency (DISA).

    Berners-Lee cites two examples of such “disinformation” or “conspiracy theories” in his interview with the BBC, both of which speak volumes about the aims and goals of this elite consortium:

    Sir Tim talked to the BBC in the week in which Cern, where he did his pioneering work on the web, turned on the Large Hadron Collider for the first time.

    The use of the web to spread fears that flicking the switch on the LHC could create a Black Hole that could swallow up the Earth particularly concerned him, he said. In a similar vein was the spread of rumours that the MMR vaccine given to children in Britain was harmful.

    First of all, the fears that the CERN atom smasher could create dangerous miniature black holes was not simply made up out of thin air by tin foil hat wearing kooks. It was a theory cited by preeminent scientists such as Professor Otto Rössler, a German chemist at the Eberhard Karls University of Tübingen, who were so worried they attempted to obtain an injunction from the European Court of Human Rights that would block the collider from being turned on at all.

    A further lawsuit was filed by two American environmentalists in the Federal District Court in Honolulu who sought to force the U.S. government to withdraw its participation in the experiment.

    The debate and furor over the LHC that followed was in reaction to legitimate news articles and reports surrounding the project and the opposition to it. So you see, far from what the W3C would have you believe, the fears were not unfounded “conspiracy theories” pedaled by basement dwelling internet trolls.

    But of course, that wouldn’t matter to W3C given that they proudly list CERN itself as one of their members, thus any dissenting or critical material would naturally be considered “disinformation”.

    Example two, the “damaging conspiracy theory” that MMR vaccines are harmful, stems not from paranoid forum postings and misquoted blog entries, but from scientific research into the mercury based preservative thimerosal, developed by Eli Lilly and subsequently used in the MMR vaccine, along with many other vaccines.

    Another big pharma kingpin, Merck & Co., Inc, is the world’s largest supplier of the MMR triple jab, which was linked to autism a decade ago by scientists such as Dr Andrew Wakefield, amongst others.

    Studies have shown a direct relationship between mercury in children’s vaccines and autism. Further studies have shown a decline in neurodevelopmental disorders after the removal of thimerosal-containing vaccines. The preservative has been banned or limited in Europe, Japan, England and Russia. Furthermore, there are no reported instances of autism amongst religious groups such as the Amish community and very few instances are reported in the third world.

    Autism was a practically unknown affliction some decades back, but now one in every 150 children is affected.

    Mercury is the second most toxic metal known to man behind Uranium. Thimerosal is used in vaccines not because it is good for you, but purely because it prevents vaccine contamination. Yet some have questioned why thimerosal is even considered for vaccines because there are obviously safer alternatives to preventing contamination.

    Many believe the only reason it is still in vaccines is that it allows substantial savings for pharmaceutical companies. Questions also remain about how those companies conduct vaccine research and how the government regulates them.

    While the corporate media continues to hype reports that contend the evidence for links between mercury laden vaccines and autism are not concrete, there are scores of studies and testimony from credible figures asserting the exact opposite, some of which we have previously covered in depth.

    However, it is little wonder W3C considers such information to be “damaging” given that Eli Lilly and Merck & Co., Inc. are both paid up and approved members of the Consortium!

    Other W3C members include Novartis Pharma AG and Pfizer Inc., two more giants of the pharmaceutical industry.

    Though it is abundantly clear that the aim of the World Wide Web Consortium is to relegate and eventually eliminate any information that its corporate and government sector members consider dissenting, the BBC article concludes, “The Foundation will also look at concerns that the web has become less democratic, and its use influenced too much by large corporations and vested interests.”

    The irony, the horrible horrible irony.

    If anyone should be labeled with an “unreliable” rating, it is the WC3, a private interest group with a client list of big pharma titans as long as your arm telling you that their multi million dollar vaccine industry is totally safe and that any dissenting scientific fact or opinion, is a damaging conspiracy theory.

    The efforts of groups and movements such as W3C represent an ongoing move to reign in the internet and limit its freedom.

    On weekly basis we at Infowars and Prisonplanet receive e mails from across the US and the UK from people who have attempted to visit our websites yet found them to be blocked by filtration software that lists them as “hate” or “violence”. The sites are already categorized as “untrustworthy” on forums and social networks, despite the fact that 90% of the material we post is made up of mainstream news articles.

    This precedent is merely the first indication of what is planned for the Internet over the next 5-10 years, with the traditional web becoming little more than a vast spy database that catalogues people’s every activity and bombards them with commercials, and where only government-approved websites that have obtained permission by means of an accepted registration application are allowed to be seen by web users.

    Those who comply with centralized control and regulation of content will be free to enjoy the new super-fast Internet mark 2, where DVD quality movies can be downloaded in seconds, but at the cost of the Internet losing its role as the last true outpost of freedom of speech.

  • eddiedollars215

    Former Syrian minister: 9/11 an Inside Job

    HERB KEINON / Jerusalem Post | September 15, 2008

    The Syrian government daily Teshreen marked the seventh anniversary of 9/11 this week in a unique fashion: by publishing an article by Syria’s former information minister blaming US intelligence agencies for the attacks.

    According to Mahdi Dakhlallah, in a piece that appeared Wednesday, the intelligence agencies were behind the September 11, 2001 attacks to provide a pretext for a preplanned US plan to invade Iraq and Afghanistan.

    “These plans were ready and prepared [in advance] – and all that was needed was to find a pretext to begin their immediate implementation,” wrote Dakhlallah, in a piece of which excerpts were translated by MEMRI, the Middle East Media Research Institute.

    Dakhlallah wrote that in the US, the end justifies the means, and Washington’s overarching goal was to invade Afghanistan “to get close to the Caspian Sea gas and oil pipelines, and then to invade Iraq and to fix the poles of the tent of unipolarity in the ground.”

    Indeed, wrote Dakhlallah, “the shock following 9/11 created an American public opinion that supported the war, aggression, and madness of our time, to which Afghanistan, Iraq, and all global stability fell victim. No one believes that it would have been possible to invade Afghanistan and Iraq in the same way and so fast had it not been for the 9/11 attacks. That’s how it always is: the end justifies the means.”

  • http://checkmeout Jewish Woman

    Octavia

    I hope that’s not your real name? Maybe it’s African What does it mean?

    Like I told someone else, tell your black men to stop coming to our sites that are for us to talk about their own race. We know that they just want a date with us.

  • eddiedollars215

    U.K. to Begin Microchipping Prisoners

    NaturalNews | June 23, 2008

    The British government is developing a plan to track current and former prisoners by means of microchips implanted under the skin, drawing intense criticism from probation officers and civil rights groups.

    As a way to reduce prison crowding, many British prisoners are currently released under electronic monitoring, carried out by means of an ankle bracelet that transmits signals like those used by mobile phones.

    Now the Ministry of Justice is exploring the possibility of injecting prisoners in the back of the arm with a radio frequency identification (RFID) chip that contains information about their name, address and criminal record. Such chips, which contain a built-in antenna, could be scanned by special readers. The implantation of RFID chips in luggage, pets and livestock has become increasingly popular in recent years.

    (Article continues below)

    In addition to monitoring incarcerated prisoners, the ministry hopes to use the chips on those who are on probation or other conditional release. By including a satellite uplink system in the chip, police would be able to use global positioning system (GPS) technology to track subjects’ exact locations at all times. According to advocates of such a measure, this could help keep sex offenders away from “forbidden” zones like schools.

    Harry Fletcher, assistant general secretary of the National Association of Probation Officers, blasted the measure as degrading to the people chipped and of no benefit to probation officers.

    “Knowing where offenders like pedophiles are does not mean you know what they are doing,” Fletcher said. “Treating people like pieces of meat does not seem to represent an improvement in the system to me.”

    Shami Chakrabarti of the civil rights group Liberty had even stronger words:

    “If the Home Office doesn’t understand why implanting a chip in someone is worse than an ankle bracelet, they don’t need a human-rights lawyer; they need a common-sense bypass.”

  • http://checkmeout Jewish Woman

    eddiedollars

    It’s that the part of the report that you were suppose to write before you drop out of high school because it wasn’t cool to do your school work.

  • 2 Tell Da Truth & Shame All U Devils

    @ Jewish Woman

    You seem like a very ugly person not just on the inside but out too. Only an ugly person can be so negative.

  • http://checkmeout Jewish Woman

    Will

    You actually think that Obama is going to win. GET REAL. We have already lived in the White House for eight years. The only time you people get there is to clean toilets or change linens. If Obama does win, he will not make a year, and I think you know why. Can I get a Amen!

  • http://checkmeout Jewish Woman

    Do you people really think that you could debate me?

    I guess that is what you dream for when you go to bed at night.

    Light skin black people hate dark skinned. Dark skin hate light skin black people. Why should we really hate you? You people hate yourselves.

    I didn’t respond to this picture with the black guy, and one of his ‘baby mamas.’ They looked really ghetto. Her hair is different colors, and his pants are probably three sizes too big.

  • 2 Tell Da Truth & Shame All U Devils

    @ Jewish Woman

    If you don’t like black people like you claim you don’t . Why the **** do you even look at a black blog. You know why you love black people more than you let on because you sure seem to know a lot about blacks.

  • http://checkmeout Jewish Woman

    Toocute

    Is that you in the picture. If it is you are really gorgeous, but I doubt that’s really. Is this the same picture that you have on your bathroom mirror or your refrigerator?

  • http://checkmeout Jewish Woman

    2 tell ‘DA’ truth

    You have a point. I looked around and I saw all of these lazy people that don’t care about success. I asked someone, ‘Why do they only seem to care about money, cars, jordan, tennis shoes, and sex?’ That’s how I got my answers. Now of course that’s not all of you, but it’s the majority.

  • http://checkmeout Jewish Woman

    I’m have to go. I need to see what’s going on on Fox News. For you that don’t watch the news, and don’t know what I’m talking about. You know it’s the same station with THE O’REILLY FACTOR, HANNITY & COLMES, AND GRETA VAN. I doubt you know who they are because they are not rappers or R&B singers.

  • 2 Tell Da Truth & Shame All U Devils

    @ Jewish Woman

    I don’t know if your a woman or a man but one thing I do know for sure what ever you are you’re an ugly one that’s first off. Second of all someone from the black race must have really broken your heart because the hate that you spit is evident. Cheer up and eat some ice cream like most white lonely women do or better yet go feed your cat.

  • Carla

    Lashon can work at hooters, all she needs to have are big breasts, lol…..

  • http://www.myspace.com/ocky_j Octavia

    @ Jew

    “Like I told someone else, tell your black men to stop coming to our sites that are for us to talk about their own race. We know that they just want a date with us.”

    I can only speak on ONE black man and that’s my bf. From what I see with my own 2 brown eyes is white girls CHASING him. I can’t blame yall, though. If I had to deal with those lil vienna sausages that your men have, I’d be chasing the mandingo, too. Maybe that’s why you are so angry…

    Carry on. :-)

  • michelle

    I work in the healthcare field and where i work at is where a lot of yt folks live in the $300,000 homes, can someone please explain to me why is it that when i ask for there insuance card they’re pulling out the big ass red MEDICAID cards?? Tell me why more and more yt folks with master degrees are shopping for food at the FOOD PANTRY??

  • http://checkmeout Jewish Woman

    The news is really informative right now. You people should turn off the rap or sports, and turn to the news. I’ll leave that up to the uncle thomases and the house nigras to turn the channel because most of you people are still in the field.

    Just know that I came back to do you a favor by telling you to turn the channel. I have to go now because I have to fix me some Obama Waffles before O’reilly comes on. I think I’ll have fried chicken with that as well. ‘You know I can’t forget about my hot sauce. I know right, I likes me a lil hot sauce on my chicken. Can I get some greens wit dat.’

  • Dr.&Mrs.Coyle’s Baby Boy

    It’s called “Child Support” not “Baby Mama Support.” I have a cousin who is a lawyer and he he handles a lot of pro-ball players, and when it comes to child support cases, (After The DNA Test) he always suggest paying a lump sum of child support. That way so much is paid out each month until the child turns 18, with the understanding there will be no going back and asking for more.

    If I was Celeb that’s what I would do, set aside the money, pay a lump sum and call it a day. No baby mama drama, and just focus on being a good parent.

  • 1TruDiva w/The PlatinumVocals is pissed off at the cyber-pedofile!!!

    I KNOW DAMN WELL T.I. DIDN’T WRITE THAT STATEMENT!!!! That shyt was probably prepared by his peeps! Lol!!!

    In his defense–it’s a damn shame he’s got to publicly point out everything he does for his children to prove he’s taking care of them.

    As a woman, this is where I lose respect for the mother!!!!! She wants the public to believe that 2 stacks is all he does as far as supporting his children.

    I STILL say though–I don’t think the child(ren) should live any different from the parent whether it’s the mother or father that has paper.

    If you’re accustom to a certain standard of living then your children should be as well.

    What he NEEDS to do is to file for PERMANENT custody! That way–the baby mama’ll be forced to fend for herself and–

    If Tiny’s really about her man, she’d step in and help raise them chirruns.

    “You can’t love the cow without loving the calf.”

  • ILUVRAYLEWIS

    Same ole same ole, women having babies by famous people then not wanting to work she is no different than 50 Cent babies mother. Because the father made it doesn’t mean that you don’t have to work anymore, be a woman and have some respect for yourself. Set an example for your child and WORK and get a education. A man’s money is not your money unless you are married.

  • Kassie BK 4lyfe (I luv u P.)

    what up 1tru diva

    we all know damn well T.I ain’t write that!!LOL

    @ Harlemgirl

    i feel u that she was there first but she’s not there now n it ain’t right but thats the way it goes. just because he has it doesn’t make it hers its theirs as in his and Tiny’s and all of the kids thats it not the ex

  • 2 Tell Da Truth & Shame All U Devils

    @ Jewish Woman

    Don’t play it off on our account because everybody knows that white people eat more fried chicken and watermelons than anybody. Happy eating JW don’t choke on them chicken bones now ya here!

  • blaq

    @ Octavia

    “If you are a rich man, don’t have children with someone who you are not willing to support.”

    WOW! Really?! It is that kinda thinking that gets women labeled as gold diggers.

    “No that’s protection for ballers who get women other than their wives pregnant and spend more money on lawyers than the child support they are avoiding.” Fact if you are a rich man, than your child support assessment is going to be significant, any you are more than likely going to have to pay an amount that will support the woman and child, fact! So if you already figure your are going to have to support this woman, you will probably think twice about planting your seed.

    “She is entitled to use the money she receives in child support to run the household. That is not my personal opinion but the law.”

    Absolutely! If it is going toward food and bills and things for the children, great! Now, should HER expenses (clothes, nights out, etc) come from that money? NO. If she is not working at all, then you betta believe she is dipping into that money for her personal use.

    Once you pay all of the bills, and food out of $2K you won’t have any left for personal use.

    “Now if your child’s fathers income dictates he pays an amount that can cover all of the expenses for the family, then yes you do have the right not to work.”

    Ok. And if your current payment arrangement does not cover all expenses, you should work. Not just ask for more.

    Yes! and if it does cover all of the expenses, you have the right to have the order reviewed every time his income increases.

    “My comment was she has the right to ask for a review of his income. Kimora has a job and Russ still pays a hefty sum, a lot more than this. Why not have more money in the household,”

    Why not work to add money to the household?

    Some people feel that raising children is work, and once you pay for child care and transportation, the time spend away from the children is hardly worth it. I don’t know what the woman’s skill level is but I doubt it is significant. From what I understand she claims to be going to school, if so kudos, that will also benefit the children.

    “people are acting like she’s living the lifestyles of the rich and famous on 2000 measly dollars, and TI is out hustling everyday to put food on the table for his other family.”

    Again, you are discussing what he is spending on Tiny and their kids. Again, Lashon is not entitled to be equal with Tiny because THEY ARE NOT TOGETHER.

    No my point is that and increase in child support is only going to benefit the children, and will not financially impair the father. Tiny spends 2 racks on a bag, there is no comparison

    My question in is simple. What makes Lashon exempt from contributing ANY financial support to her own children?

    The same thing that makes millions of parents exempt from contributing any financial support to their children. One parent foots the bills so the children have the benefit of a stay at home parent. Now if you and your childs other parent cannot afford for one of you to stay home with the children, that is unfortunate. I stayed at home the first two years of my sons life, and now that he is in school, he’s at the top of the class. He can read and write at three years old. I know my full-time presence had something to do with this. But the fact of it is Lashon will probably prevail and receive more child support, and if she can make it happen for $2K a month for three people more power to her.

  • 1TruDiva w/The PlatinumVocals is pissed off at the cyber-pedofile!!!

    @ White Tonya (if in fact, you DO exist and you’re not a product of mutiple screen names)

    I have a question sweetheart–

    I noticed in one of your post you mentioned something about a husband of 9 years that happens to be white. (Your words, not mine)

    Now–In the same tone–your screen name says something to the fact of “BLACK MEN TELL ME I HAVE A DUNK”

    Well my question is, (in all sincerity) if you’re happily married, why do you feel the need for a BLACK man to validate the fact that you have a dunk?? Is that something (a dunk) that you’re pleased to have and by BLACK MEN telling you it–it makes you whole?

    Why couldn’t your screen name say–White Tonya blah.blah blah….NO why couldn’t it say–my MAN or whatever…..All of it is very wishy washy–that what makes me wonder if in fact you are a person that poses under different screen names. No matter what the conversation is about–you’re one of the ones that can turn it into a racially charged one.

    My point is–you come on this site with your opinion(s) and although I may not agree, I respect them. However–from a phsycholical standpoint–you sound as if you want the best of both worlds. Now–if you like it then I love it but it diminishes your points when your a contradictory poster.

    Like assholes, we all have opinions and I utilize both of them as much as I can.

    BTW–this was in no way meant to put you on front street and it most definetly wasn’t meant to start a cyberbeef. It’s more like a point counterpoint sort of thing.

    Thanks for your time!

    I noticed somthing about screen names a looooooong time ago–either they’re who we are or who we want to be.

    Just my opinion.

  • 1TruDiva w/The PlatinumVocals is pissed off at the cyber-pedofile!!!

    Hey Kassie–

    What’s good, ma?

  • 1TruDiva w/The PlatinumVocals is pissed off at the cyber-pedofile!!!

    I aplogize for the typos, hun! Multi-tasking sometimes has its drawbacks!

    Lol!!!!!!

    Another point–I can honestly say/type I’ve FINALLY got to a point in MY life that I don’t need ANYONE–black, white, male, female, dog, cat, bird, snake fish, rabbit, (lol) to validate who I am as a woman. Hence the name—1TruDiva w/The PlatinumVocals!!!!

  • Tierra

    @Jaime

    I heard T.I. on several interviews and he articulates himself well.

  • http://www.myspace.com/ocky_j Octavia

    @ blaq:

    “The same thing that makes millions of parents exempt from contributing any financial support to their children. One parent foots the bills so the children have the benefit of a stay at home parent. Now if you and your childs other parent cannot afford for one of you to stay home with the children, that is unfortunate.”

    Typically, that is a decision made between two people in a relationship or married. Why should he provide her with a free ride (which is what she is getting if her children are in school and she is not working) when they are not together? You are speaking as though she is his wife. (???) I simply refuse to accept that she is beyond having to work at all when she has no disabilities and she clearly has the time cuz her kids are in school. I’m sorry, but that is lazy.

  • Family First

    @1TruDiva

    ideally the responsibility should be on all parties involved because the worse thing that could happen is if they bring a child into the world where the parents hate each other. that’s all bad for the kid

    im kinda interested in how this conversation turns out but i gotta drive home from work maybe i’ll come back

  • Tierra

    @Blaq

    I agree with you. $2000 per month is nothing to T.I. This woman has small children and as a highly paid rapper he should want his children to have the beneift of having mom at home with the kids. Meetings with teachers, homework, cooking, laundry and other duties that a single mother has can be overwhelming. I am pretty sure he is not doing any of the above for those children.

    A loving father should want the best for his children. He acknowledges that Lashonda is having trouble making ends meet. His ends are meeting, so it should not be a problem to give her more financial assistance that she is requesting.

    I don’t know her level of education or age but she probably had her education stifled by having children. I do beleive that she should seek employment because she can’t rely on him. If she has no education or skills her income with employment should increase to an extra $800 per month. So that takes mom away from home for a meager $200 per week.

    When he was purchasing all of those firearms I doubt if he was concerned with the price.

  • Tierra

    futhermore I certainly don’t think that it is a free ride when a parent is at home with the children. Most stay at home mothers who are not lazy and sitting on the couch have an enormous amount of responsibilities.

  • 1TruDiva w/The PlatinumVocals is pissed off at the cyber-pedofile!!!

    @ Family first–

    I understand your point. However–PHYSICALLY, wouldn’t you think that the male should (at best) be the more responsible person? I mean, it’s the male that actually has to have an erection in order to penetrate. (or a 1/2 of one but you understand what I mean–Lol!!!!!!!)

    I’m not trying to be crass or anything like that but do you see the point I’m trying to make?

    I hope you get the opportunity to check back because I’d like your take on this comment.

  • Ghost

    How about TI and all those other negros learn this-

    KEEP YOUR DICK IN YOUR PANTS! Just because you see kitty cat doesn’t mean you have to stick! Is there some unwritten rule that 80% of black kids have to be born out of wedlock. Not know who their father is?

    She has no excuse for not working and if those kids are in school, she can go to college (in college my first class was at 8 and I was done by 12) and take day classes. TI’s money won’t last forever, she needs to know that. She can do online courses too.

    If she is having trouble making ends meet-Let TI take care of those kids until she gets back up.

    Prince once said we need p*ssy control, but I think we need Penis control!

  • Butterscotch

    @ 1TrueDiva, Ghost

    Co-sign. Everybody KNOWS how babies are made and needs to take responsibility for themselves.

  • http://tubefanz.com Alex

    TI truly leads a charmed life…in more ways than one. Be well young brother:)

  • kenya

    I was just thinking, it is hard work and yes a job being a stay at home mother, especially to tw boys, and how many other children does she have? you wear so many hats, cook, counselor, teacher etc….and no pay, no benefits, no 401 k. it is a thankless job, but an investment in your future (the child) now everyone on here wants to disrespect this woman because she’s not employed but i don’t see anybody tearing into kim porter, or misa hilton who also had to ask the judge for an increase. Not only is Kim not employed, but damn she has an assistant, and someone to care for her children. if the child is eating steak and lobster at daddy’s then why should he be eating fried spam sandwiches at home. and we really don’t know what this chic does in her spare time, maybe she’s attending school to better herself.

  • Its6amHoGetOut

    Love me some me, I really do and 3% of ya’ll, see you on Saturday!

  • 1TruDiva w/The PlatinumVocals is pissed off at the cyber-pedofile!!!

    @ 6–

    Yoos stupid!

    Lol!!!!!!!!!

  • 1TruDiva w/The PlatinumVocals is pissed off at the cyber-pedofile!!!

    Aawwwwwwwwwww 6–

    Work must have you trippin!!! You mean to tell me that you missed a golden opportunity to comment on one of your favorite topics?????

    About the subject at hand????????

    Baby mammas???????????????????????????

    Damn, 6! You disappoint me!

    Lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • 1TruDiva w/The PlatinumVocals is pissed off at the cyber-pedofile!!!

    DAMN!!!!!

    Only 3%???????????????

    That’s beat up.

  • http://Myspace.com/sybilblaize Sybil Blaize

    1,000 per kid isnt that much consieratin’ how much he is “Supposley” is worth.

    DIDDy pays 30,000 a month for one child.

  • Misty Knight

    wait, wait, wait!! am I the onle one who noticed the REAL tragedy of this story? She named her son Messiah?! now that sh*t is outrageous! I dont know if Id feel comfortable calling my child “Messiah” , thats just ..off?! as for the rest of the story ..meh->

  • FineAsWine

    TRU AZZ DIVA…………..WTH….. :)

  • kenya

    @ michelle(Check me out!)

    I work in the healthcare field and where i work at is where a lot of yt folks live in the $300,000 homes,

    can someone please explain to me why is it that when i ask for there insuance card they’re pulling out the big ass red MEDICAID cards?? Tell me why more and more yt folks with master degrees are shopping for food at the FOOD PANTRY??

    because after paying mortgages, car note, gas, food, clothing, power, water etc…there isn’t enough to pay for the high cost of healthcare.

  • J2B

    Forget the greedy sh!t, as a woman she is making a mistake depending on someone else’s money. She needs to liberate herself from him. If he provides for the kids and spends time with them, he is doing exactly what he is supposed to do as a father and as a man. She needs to do the same as a mother and a grown ass woman.

  • Meghan

    what kinds of lessons is she teaching her children? shame.

  • Southerntech

    Nice one T.I.

  • romano

    Hahaa angry bit*c*s crying because the twat comment ;DDDDDDDD

  • http://www.myspace.com/ladypromise Promise

    If you wanna hear some real sh**, then go to http://www.myspace.com/ladpromise. Promise is something you have never heard of. She dont jack styles like Beyonce, and dont throw tantrums like Ciara. But who cares about them anyway. And no- Im not a pop R&B singer. And I aint one of these finga snappin chicks with a gold tooth in my mouth, talkin bout…Peanutbuttajelly! I am just so gettin sick of you hip hop artist imposters, sick of being enslaved by these puppet money hungry monster. Im sick of you ignorant wanna be gansta beligerent lames in the game talkin that nonsence. Its the same sh** over and over and over again, dese rappers is drivin’ me bonkers… Sick to my stomach nauseous… from this garbage these record labels love to market. Who am I? http://Www.myspace.com/ladypromise

  • TStake

    I agree that Lashon should get off her “butt” and get a job but TI should also make “UGLY ASS TINY” work too. She’s not doing anything but sitting around spending money and looking like a “HOT MESS.” TI should treat all his baby mommas the same.

  • http://www.myspace.com/ladypromise Promise

    BUSINESSsURGEON.COM

  • Mr. FAMU

    If “TI” wrote this, I am the pope of the world!

  • Dionna

    T.I.”s statement says he pays for the boy’s school tuition, food, clothes, extracurricular activities and healthcare, he gives her $2000 a month. I think it should be modified because I live in outside of Atlanta and it is expensive here. Lashon also needs to ” Get up, Get Out and Do Something”, he shouldn’t be the sole provider for the children. What type of an example is she providing for these young boys? a part-time job won’t kill her or enrolling in school and furthering her education will only enhance the situation. I think T.I. paying $3000-4000, a month will more than cover the mortgage, utilities, car note and car insurance. Lashon needs to get a job to pay for her hair, nails, clothes and running the street expenses. Child support is for the kiddies not keep a baby momma’s image up to par support.

    Before I get any rebuttals, I am a babymama and I work fulltime and I return to school next month, so I am not a hater! I can see both sides and I agree with both up to a point, he should pay more but she needs to do more too. Her children are 7 and 8, what is she going to do in 10years when its time for them to move out and go to college? She’s going to be in shock when the payments are cut off and she got used to this lavish lifestyle and comes to herself and she is a 38 yr old women with little education, few job skills, and mounting bills! T.I is a rapper, not a MD, dentist, CEO of a Fortune 500 company, jow many rappers have a career that lasts longer than 10years? Let’s count em: L.L, Queen Latifah, uh…um…well er uh….hm…. get my point? And rapping is a passing fancy for them, acting is where its at oh I forgot Outkast, little wayne? 3000 and Big Boi also rap when they want busy developing their acting skills, other ventures. T.I. is going to have to get out of jail, regroup, pray the public haven’t moved on and work on his acting for longevity. His money isn’t guaranteed, how many old NBA players ran through their money and in court every 2-3 months with their baby mamas about child support?

    T.I. go through the courts, I pray your order is about $5000 a month which is very reasonable, make sure your lawyer pays while you are locked up, make sure the children’s college funds are taken care of and do you!!!! Hell 5×12=60. $60,000 a year is plenty to take care of 2 children, child support is tax free we’re not talking about us grtting 60 stacks and uncle sam putting his grubby hands all in it (I work for Uncle Sam, love u unc lol) he needs to buy a nice decent house, in the kids name, why should he furnish a house for her for her lifetime? When the kids are grown she may be about 36, 37,38. Should she have a paid for house because they have kids together? Help her get a decent house $300-500,000-hell you can pay for it outright, put in boys name or your mama’s mane, corporation name, what have you. Take care of your kids, respect the children’s mother, and force her to grow up and become a woman.

  • Dionna

    Lol sorry didn’t realize I was getting fired up and typing so much!

  • Bahamas/Chicago/Cayman Girl

    Women like her make me sick!!The fact that you had children with this man doesn’t entitle you to a free ride, his job is to take care of his sons not you! If he pays for their schooling, clothes them and feeds them, pays health insurance which is not cheap, basically covers all their expense and this lady gets $2000 cash for misc incidentals and she still hollering for more she must be out of her damn mind!! These women need to realize a baby is not a meal ticket to the good life.

    Further more Dionna, if he was a regular dude and not TI there is no way in hell he would be expected to pay that kind of money! You can rent a really nice apt for less that 1000 a month is the ATL, utilities would be 400 and that being generous and food monthly say 500 that’s 2 grand right there really nicely why is he supposed to pay her car note or anything else for her, why doesn’t she have a job??? MADNESS!! Most men walk away, this man is taking care of his children!!

  • ciara is dumb

    Here’s a tip…stop making babies with several women and then complain when she sues you for more support. You wouldn’t have that issue.

  • Carla

    I bet T.I. wrote that song “What ever You Like”

    when Tiny was working at the Waffle House. This is what happened, lol one drunken night after clubbing hard the evening after sleeping in, T.I. and his

    homies were hungry so they decided to pay a trip to the Waffle House to eat. And Tiny was working the front cash register. T.I saw her and recognize her from her former girl group Xxcape (I hope that’s the correct spelling) so he got really happy and started talking to her, they ordered waffles and such, exchanged numbers and the rest is history, lol….

  • P

    I AM SO GLAD HE ADDRESSED THIS BECAUSE I KNOW ALOT OF YOU PEOPLE WERE THINKING THAT ALL HE GAVE WAS 2000 A MONTH.

  • OMG! WTF!

    See?! I KNEW it! I called it on a different post that he was most likely providing above & beyond the 2G’s. Lazy azz hoodrat ho need to get goddamn job. I’m sorry, his kids appear to be well provided for & that’s all that matters. If I was a man, I’d be looking out for my kids but I ain’t gonna pay for your nails, weave, Jimmy Choo’s, Phantom, etc. F*ck that…..

  • kae

    t.i. is ridiculously bangin.

  • Proud 2 B ALL Black

    After reading some of these comments its really sad to see that we still have people who tend to want to live in a world of make believe! Im a black woman…ALL back and uncut and I look damn good! I get hit on by White men more than any race so all this mess on here about who wants who and made who what is simply insane! I see allot of ya’ll have way to much time on your hands and will hide behind a blog and say things that cant make or break a real sista… Salavary really did a number on the black race and I will admit for many years the OTHERS had us in a messed up position but it’s so funny how allot of us are signing they checks now and lets not forget how the world has changed so much! So no one race has a secure spot being that times has changed more than some would like to adapt to but it is what it is! I really feel sorry for those of you who keep up this foolishness b/c at the end of the day we all will die and death dont care what race you are and being that a higher power made us all…I really dont think GOD cares about race either! I see beauty in all and I see ignorance in all and at the end of the day we all gotta stand before god and hope our work and heart line up with his…My finally point is (HELL IS GOING TO BE FULL) and some of ya’ll need the ask for forgiveness RIGHT NOW!

  • Carla

    T sake you are right about T.I. being drunk when he saw Tiny working hard at the Waffle House, lol (I’m laughing really hard right now). Yes it’s true, Tiny is not easy on the eyes at all, lol. I do think that her being in the girl group Xscape did create a buzz in T.I.’s brain to go after her. She probably felt good that he would even look her way.

    And Kae, T.I. is cool but he’s too skinny. But I do like his lips though, they’e nice, lol…….

  • TStake

    Carla, you are right, TI is too skinny, he has the body of a sixteen year old boy. it would be nice if we could take that handsome head and put it on the body of LL Cool J or Nelly. OH, by the way Carla… the lips of TI have been on “UGLY TINY”

  • Renee

    I give Mr. Harris much respect for everything he’s done and everything he’s going to do. For everyone who is putting him down. His kids are set for now and the future, Stop getting off the main subject which is the KIDS, Not Tiny. She’s grown and needs to get a job. I can’t stand lazy baby mamas. When I had my first child I wasn’t sittin there thinking how much money his daddy will be giving me, I thinking how I was going to get money to raise my child. Congrats on all of your success T.I. and I know it’s a little early but Happy Birthday!!!!!!

  • Proud 2 B ALL Black

    Honestly it’s a shame b-c some women dont understand that child support doesnt equal a free ride! I would understand her wanting more based on his success if the mother was actually doing something herself!He’s not with her and it’s not his responsibilty to take care of her at all….I dont understand how 2 kids cant be taking care for with 2000 a month and besides that TI claims he’s paying out of pocket for medical,activities,clothing ect! So bascially if he’s telling the truth the mother is pocketing the 2000 for her own personal things which isnt right b-c my son father Torri Fluitt who’s living in Atlanta Georgia doesnt do a thing for my son and Im the type that if he just do the birthday’s and back to school(I would jump for JOY) b-c I do it all and it’s really hard but by the grace of GOD I dont need him b-c im blessed with a good job,own car,and home which mean Im doing it all…My son is a joy and blessing and i wouldnt change a thang but his fathers DNA(LOL)! But forreal TI kids mom needs to stop the maddness and make moves!I wish I had someone on my team like TI…I sure as hell wouldnt be playing games(if anything Making Major moves)

  • Carla

    Yes, T sake, T.I.’s lips have been on Tiny’s body so the vision of that gives me the creeps, lol. I still like his lips though, lol. My question is what’s wrong with public school ? There are excellent public schools nation wide including ATL,

    what the hell’s wrong with Lashon ? Lashon should find a nice public school that has a great track record when it comes down to educational acheive ment. Some friends of mine that attended school with went to public school and so did I. And she can take a career class and find a great job, the first step: Get your ass off the couch !

  • Carla

    Speaking of gold diggers, last year I read an article about this d-list tennis player/babby momma

    taking her daughter’s father to court to increase her child support from the sum of : $75,000 a month to ready for this: $350,000 a month, lol…

    Isn’t that crazy ? She must not be a good tennis athlete, lol…

  • Paia

    I know alot of women who believe they can live off child support. Think about this “ladies”, what if something happens to him…what you gonna do now”?!!

  • Paia

    God forbid something happens to his $$$, what are you going to do?!!! Hmmm, get a job? U think?!!!!

  • Carla

    Or what if T.I. files for bankrupsy and is officially broke ? Would Lashon bail him out ?

  • WTF?

    Um. Am I the only person on here that sees something….WRONG!? If the brother is paying for EVERYTHING which he just admit to…why the fuggnot shouldn’t homegirl request a lil more. Yes,it’s wrong. Us normal folks know that. But that’s the message HE sent to her. Hell yeah…she get’s “whatever she likes”!

  • Astonished

    @ Proud 2b ALL BLACK… ur son’s father Torri Fluitt is well-known and has very much BEEN AROUND in some of any & everything. On reading this article on TI, I wasn’t expecting 2 find this and was quite shocked to see him put on blast on the internet like this. He has 13/14 kids & counting, has had 3 in the last 2 years alone, 2 by a lil young chick who loves popping out his babies despite knowing he’s committed to someone else (well not really I guess, otherwise he wouldn’t be cheating and having babies on her) and 1 with his so-called wife whom he walked out on after she rushed him down the aisle 3 weeks after he got out of after she took care of him in prison and abandoned last year after she took care of him and they were “techically” together less than a year before the marriage failed, though it was really a failure from the beginning since he was never any kind of real husband to her… never the less, she like the many others was left with a child to raise while he moved on to the next victim. Though she is also a voodoo priestess who was workign voodoo on he & ALL his kids so you better make sure you pray over yours. He’s had 2 kids on her doing their short marriage and he’s not doing much for any of his kids and has a habit of telling people he has less than what he has, due to shame & embarassment I’m sure. So you may want to save yourself and not even acknowledge that you know him or that he is your child’s father. I don’t know if you’re one of those who got so caught up in the world-wind lies & games that he dishes out and may not have known much about him before laying down with him and they type of man he really is. In a radio talk about Dwight Howard and his child’s mom, one of the VJs made the comment that women may want to start learning the character of the man before laying down with him and having a child because having a baby by him is not going to keep him or change him (not implying this was indeed the case with you but it has been with many of his kids moms). No one is taking the time to do that anymore and then wonder why they end up in bad relationships, marriages, and dead-beat dads, etc. I’m glad you’re able to take care of your child and do for your self, continue to do so. This is not going to help your case, trust me.

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