I guess I am first in da hood!!!!!

2nd!

This is a hot ghetto mess! Y!!!!!

Second in da hood

3rd and 4th in da hood

IM SO HOOD!!!

This email was circulatiing around yesterday and the day before! Why would a person do that to those dresses for 1 and what kinda man are you that you would want to have a T-shirt with spray paint on it that should tell her something right there! Romance without finance ain’t got no chance!!!!!

Dude…are you serious? Man…before I say the wrong thing, NO Comment!!!

I was goign to say something mean, but you all handled that. At least they got married.

who cares?

thats one wedding with no regrets. $250? sounds good to me.

the wedding may be non traditional, but lets hope the vows are and they stay together!

check out the bride’s “reception dress”…..there are no words for this fiasco

HAM

But watch these people be the ones to make it. True love. I just hate all that airbrushed shyt.

Well atleast they are getting married… Congradulations to them.

NOW WE SEE WHAT THE F*CK CEDRIC THE ENTERTAINER WAS TALKING ABOUT AND HE UNDER EXGERATTED

Too many people go into debt trying to have a wedding, just to end in divorce. I bet this couple will last forever!

Not surprised!!

They are Crips…What a great example for tha kids…SMH

Laugh all you want, she got her man to the altar.

At least they got married and not shacking. True love will outlast anything and any haters.

that’s what happens when you let your man plan the wedding.. it has to be love.. cuz love is blind and you had to be blind to ge married in that ensemble

Saw this already but will comment anyway. Yeah, it’s GHETTO and HOOD but whatever, they’re married. So many people go into debt trying to have an extravagant wedding when that’s not what should matter. 20,000 on a wedding with no place to stay now that’s GHETTO and all you gotta show for are some pics. that cost 700. For some ppl it don’t take much to bring them happiness and joy.

Man all you can do is laugh, give 1 thumb up for creativity, and shrug your shoulders cause this is just a riot!

Congrats to them, but good grief!

this is priceless.. money cant buy happiness.. they look like they havin a lot of fun… i rather spent 250.00 to get married then 250,000. and get a divorce after couple of months…..

CONGRATS… I love to see people do the right thang…

@RIP Bernie-

I agree with you on the cost of a wedding not making it better. I’ve already been told that I can have a lavish affair, but I’ve seen how the women in my family act when planning a wedding.

I’ll take a small, intimate ceremony where I can look into my groom’s eye and rest assured that I will not be paying for my wedding AFTER the divorce.

big deal, I think It’s an original idea. Why spend a bunch of money on one day? They are obviously young and I appreciate their ingenuity. Didn’t Timberland get married in matching sweatsuits, same at Brit’s wedding sweatsuits. Nothing wrong with being ghetto. Better they are getting married instead of having children out of wedlock, we know what a crime that would be.

I bet dat reception was off da hook…

No primpin n posin along da walls like you too good to dance… I can hear it now… Will da ladies make dat booty call… Hell Yeah…. Will da fellas make dat booty call… Hell Yeah….

See they are my kinda people…

OK, YES WHOEVER SAID IT THIS IS A GHETTO MESS IS SO DAM RIGHT. ALL THEY NEEDED WAS FLAVOR FLAV TO GIVE THE BRIDE AWAY, AND NY FROM I LOVE NY, SINING AT THE WEDDING. YOU KNOW KNOW THERE WAS KOOL AID FOR DRANKS, AND A BUCKET OF POPEYES FRIED CHICKEN. LOL AT THE RECEPTION

Laugh all you want, she got her man to the altar.___________________________________________

Damn right…lol! I ain’t mad at her…not everybody does it the same way.

LOL @ Just Sayin…you silli!!! But I feel you, they had themselves a good ole’ time…

The way that she’s leaning on homie in all black…………he hit that before.

Uh, I own an event planning business and this is just disgraceful. I don’t care what you say about getting him to the alter, this is just classless. No one said you had to spend 20k on a wedding but please, have respect for yourselves and do not show up with an airbrushed wedding dress. And in jeans??? Who said just cause they didn’t spend a lot of money they won’t get divorced just as quickly? It’s not about spending the money, have respect for yourselves and try to do better. Jesus take the wheel!! And you know they already got kids, talking bout having them out of wedlock. HA! Who do you think the flower girl is?? Just disgraceful….

At least the are getting married…who cares that it cost 250.00….I could have done without the airbrushing though….looks like those kids in the mall trying to be cool or those people RIPing their homeboy that was killed….but I support any type of black love…lol

LOL

They should have jumped a dam broom to make this mess complete lol

at least they got married

good for them more power to them , at least they are getting married who gives a damn about no damn white wedding dresss anyway.

I am gonna take a wild stab in the dark BUT I am certain this guy has been to jail. I am just saying…

“Sep 19, 2008 – 4:22 pm WhatsYoursIsMine-Chopping it all off this weekend!!!!! FREE AT LAST!!!!!!!!!!(Check me out!)

Laugh all you want, she got her man to the altar.”

That’s all I am saying…

They must have had an airbrush hookup or something, cause those shirts are EXPENSIVE! That’s about $20-40 a pop depending on who did it, and you can only wear that ONCE>

We often have too many of these types of examples of black culture and lack so much of the decent and civilized looking images. This is why we will continue to be the least respected race in the world

@juice. Yeah he did.

That was really f*cked up to put those folks on blast like that. So what if it costed $250.00! At least they did not spend money they did not have.

THIS IS WHY I HATE BLACKS!! DISGUSTING

@ Speaking of

First of all if we are the least respected race in the world why does the whole world imitate us? If there is any lack of respect it’s from the members of our own country because they were taught not to appreciate our culture. What is indecent and uncivilized about two people getting married? I see nothing but love in these pictures, but some one with no pride in themselves would not see the beauty of it.

@ Hmmm

…I am gonna take a wild stab in the dark BUT I am certain this guy has been to jail. I am just saying…

I guess you recognize the back of him from tossin’ his salad last time you were in , before he took a wild stab in the dark at you huh?

I actually like that they put their own touches to their own wedding. To each his/her own ya know. I personally wouldn’t have my wedding like this but I did go out the box too! I actually applaud them for getting married and having everyone participate. And yeah, like a lot of yall are saying on here, at least she got her man (baby-daddy) to the alter and married him LOL! It’s nice to actually go to a wedding that is not “cookie cutter” and I bet ya this one was nice! They looked like they had fun!

congrats

All you dumn fools that agree with this miss need to be shot…black people have no standards whatsoever…you put up with any ole garbage. I’ll you fools better pray John mccain dont win because you will have a whole bunch a bastards all over the place when they axe abortion lol!!!

One thing I won’t do is knock folk for gettin married its a beautiful thing but dayum that is tacky….they thought they was fly 2 kno wut I’m not even mad do yall!!

I only have one thing to say about the people who had that wedding……you kept it real.Hey most people pay big money so people can talk about them.People wait until they are finished eating,theres no more liquor,danced the night away,took center peices and food home to talk about you.I had a big wedding at the Astoria Manor in Queens NY and I destroyed my pockets so people can talk about me.You were much smarter than me.If I could get my money back and have a ghetto wedding I would.Two young people in love(for now)is beautiful.We have people who have children who are twenty who live together unmarried.Marriage is not that big a deal.Most people who discourage people from getting married have never been married or been married multiple times.Congrats to the KEEPING it REAL couple of the year.If rich people are saying it was a rough year than you know it was a mother#$%&*$.Go on a honeymoon when you can and enjoy each other.I have faith in the future,young people do have brains.They still fall in love and they do whats right not whats popular!!

She got a man.

What’s the problem a black man is marrying a black woman.

That little boy in the pics looks like Ahmad from the movie Soul Food.

@ yeah

I guess your dumb coon ass doesn’t know that just because you are hispanic doesn’t mean that you don’t have african/black blood. When your stupid ghetto ass goes into debt trying to have a Martha Stewart wedding because you are obsessed with imitating and trying to please white people. This couple will still be enjoying each other and proud they pulled off such an original wedding on their budget. You are the one degrading marriage, it’s about love not how much you spend, or how you style the wedding.

Okay, Okay, Okya, sh*t I can’t even spell it I’m so thrown. Now, to each is own, and I’m cool with the idea of “Yay they got married” but that’s f**king ridiculous! You don’t have to follow the traditional american wedding but at least have some reserve about yourself, that you can actually remove yourself from the hood mentality long enough to take on something as serious as getting married. They look like a rap group… They very well may be together forever, because only those two can love each other that much. LOL.. I could have went to H&M and hook them up, that was too much.. I’m sorry, SUPER HOOD, not even ghetto, STRAIGHT HOOD..

This wedding is soo hood, lol. But hey, at least they did tie the knot, lol…

Wait a minute, is the bride maid pregnant?

Yeah, yeah, yeah… y’all can say “at least they got married”, and “at least she got her man to the altar” all you want. But this right here… this is a travesty!!! They shouldn’t even have gotten married at the church, they should have cashed it in in their “auntie’s backyard” and really saved some coins!!!

If they wanted to include their all too “casual gear” as part of their nuptuials, they could have at least waited for the after party (NOT THE RECEPTION), which I’m SURE they probably had — 40s flowing EVERYWHERE!!! I mean really… weddings are still suppose to be classy… and classy does not always mean expensive, but at least represent properly! DAYUM!!!!!!!! HOT GHETTO MESS PERSONIFIED!!!!!!!!!!!

@ Phem

Weddings are suppose to be whatever the bride and groom want it to be, some ppl get married jumping out of plane or climbing a mountain. Hell nudist get married in the buff. You wedding should look classy if that’s what you’re going for. And since you know so much about church and what should go on there, you know the creator is the only one fit to judge and bless this union

P.S. And why did she destroy a perfectly good wedding dress by spray painting “Wifey” on the back, as if no one would have recognized that when she walked down the aisle????

Guess y’all can tell I went back for further review, and got increasingly disgusted!!! And all y’all slapping five to “at least she got her man”, don’t come at me!! I’m sure she’ll probably be tossing hot grits at his azz in the very near future, once the shine from the ceremony dulls and the bills start coming in, and the baby needs milk, and “chick on the side” surfaces. I’m sorry if I’m sounding too negative, but this just reeks of a very problematic future!!!

Blaq, I hear (read) your point, but I respectfully disagree!!!!! The only point I do agree with, is “the wedding should be whatever the bride and groom want it to be”. But for the love of God, must we continue to regurgitate (sp?) the “hood” mentality, for the sake of keeping it real??? I mean really… would you want your daughter to be the bride in a scene like this???? HONEST ANSWER ONLY!!!!

There are just no words for this.

@ Phem

I don’t have a daughter, and this is not my particular taste, but If my child was happy, the TRUTH? I wouldn’t care, it would be their wedding. furthermore I don’t think Ghetto, or being ghetto is anything to be ashamed of. Rap music was/ is considered ghetto, now the whole world respects it as an art form and want a piece of the pie. Putting loud music and painting your car loud colors was considered ghetto, now manufactures give cars an “urban” feel out of the factory. different colored hair and Weaves another ghetto tradition, now they sell multicolored hair pieces on QVC. Everything about us we are ashamed of, becomes popular and mainstream. Even the fact black women took on single motherhood with ease has made many 40 white women decide they would not wait on a husband to find a man. I could go on for hours but that should be enough to make my point

40 something

LMBAO!!!!! Ghetto?? NO THATS FLAT OUT EMBARRASSING!!!

sorry, 30 & 40 year old white women decide they would not wait on a husband to have a baby. (It’s been a long day)

@ Phem and Kassie

why is it middle-class white people aren’t embarassed at the site of a red-neck wedding. But we are so warped by racism we take everything a black person does as an attack against the black race, shouldn’t we give ourselves the room to be ghetto or classy depending on what we like as individuals.

black people

the next time your white co-worker tries to make you feel bad because of something ghetto like this wedding, remember they have a cousin in Kentucky married to their other cousin livin’ in a shack with no water.

Again, I hear what you’re saying, and I agree with your LAST point. However, just because the chick across the street is dying her hair, red, yellow, black, and blue, doesn’t mean it’s the right thing to do. That’s just an analogy I’m using to say THIS ISH (“wedding”) AINT RIGHT!!! No matter how you slice it, it comes up rotten eggs. Yes, I agree that America, and several other cultures, have “copied” and “profited” off of many, (what you would call), ideas “birthed in the ghetto”. However, the drug dealer selling crack to our kids in the hood is profiting too… does that make it right? I know that’s extreme, but it’s the truth. If you want to go back in history, let’s look at our people, and how much class and dignity they had about themselves, even when they were walking, instead of riding the bus. Getting splashed and beat down with fire hoses, and ate up by police dogs, and beat down with the end of a billy club wailed by white officers sworn in to “serve and protect”. From all the accounts I’ve seen and read about, they held their heads high, and gave us all something to be proud of. Maybe we should start acknowledging, praising, and exemplifing those ROLE MODELS! Not the couple who chose to make a mockery of what is suppose to be a sacred ceremony, for the sake of keeping it real or “hood”! And I still don’t believe you would approve of your daughter (if you had one), participating in a ceremony like this, but hey… you say “tomato”, I say “tomaaahto”. We are entitled to our own opinions, and our own ceremony of choice!! LOL!

Peace -n- luv! ~~Ms. Dee

all I can say is 1 word :WOW!

@ Blaq black people

the next time your white co-worker tries to make you feel bad because of something ghetto like this wedding, remember they have a cousin in Kentucky married to their other cousin livin’ in a shack with no water.

***************************************************The point is not about ANYONE black or white, making me feel ashamed. For one, I don’t feel ashamed by this, because they’re not my family or friends. However, if they were associated with me in ANY (close) way, I would definitely try to convince them to choose wisely about their theme-choice for their wedding. Once they wake up and realize that “keeping it real”, doesn’t always mean making a mockery of yourself, they will wish they had better wedding pics to look back on… And another thing, I don’t care what “clear folks” are chosing to do in their own familys, I’m only concerned about my own… if you understand my point.

*families* (guess I was getting too worked up)

OMG!! This is just wrong on so many levels and for so many different reasons,what is this world coming to? And she shouldn’t have to resort to this to get her man, every female should have a nice wedding, I can understand if they were not doing so wel,, they could’ve saved up or waited until they were financially stabe before marrying…Oh well, I hope that they are happy…Wow, (and not in a good way)..SMDH…

ok…so yes theyre ghetto but they saved money…they got hits from people like us for talking about them and the white dude is flat ignorant for that comment, she appears mixed!!..kudos for them!

Well I don’t find it a mockery, I see two young people expressing themselves and their love for each other. The Groom is probably an airbrush artist. Anyway. There have always been different opinions of what is acceptable in our community. And just like when those teenagers were getting billyclubbed and dog-bitten, older negroes were at home saying what a fool they were making of themselves. The average protester in the civil rights movement was young, they were not housewives and working men, they were the youth. It is not the thinking of the masses that change the world. I seriously doubt they will regret this decision, and I’m sure we will see more out of the box wedding in the future.

Black folks we gots to do better so yt wont keep holding us down. If white people didnt charge so much to rent facilities and make dresses we would not be having this conversation. Damn yts

I am flabbergasted

Please don;t get me wrong, I an just saying that she took a perfectly good dress, and turned it into that!! Air-brushed wedding is just not happening. I’m all for love at all levels, but come on….I’m not putting people down who aren’t fortunate enough to have big weddings, etc. My own wedding was a small affair, but it was beuatiful and memorable..I wish this couple happiness and longevity…Have a happy Friday, Hubby just got home and got another municipal contract!! All Right, NOW! It’s about to be a celebration, tonight! See all you peoples later, PEACE!

that was I am…

Anything to get a Nergo to the altar. You go GIRL!

@ Encylopedia Brown- You usually all right with your posts, the other day, you flipped on me. i was really surprised to see some of the things coming out of your mouth…Enclyopedia Brown, you know you can do better…So do better..If I catch you up in here, causing a ruckus, I;m gonna send you outside to that tree and make you get a switch..You KNOW exactly what I’m talking about, you know old school..Get it together…Peace!

yall some dumb asses this aint no damn black couple if you look closey at her face she is rican shes not black! duh

cant nobody body call this black ghetto love cuz this is a black man with a rican. this is not a black woman this is a rican woman. damn yall slow

SERIOUS???HE COULD HAVE GOT A SUIT WITH SPRAY ON IT

I think she may be Dominican, not Puerto Rican. Not sure though

Whateva…they’s married now!

P.S. I wouldn’t do this way. I’d go to the court house, pay $50 for the license and see the JoP. But that’s me.

My first and only thought when I saw this: Wow.

A agree with a few others it’s not about the dress, the size of the wedding or anything else! As long as they love one another and are willing to do what it takes to make the relationship a lasting & fulfilling one.. Do the damn thang!! Congratulations & the best of wishes!!

I seen much worse in me countre

If he wanted me back, I’d do it however he wanted! (Damn, I just got hella personal but it is what it is)

A Crip wedding. Well…. it’s a Crip wedding.

Instead of getting married, they need to get out of the gang. He needs to put his butt in school. She needs to put her butt in school. The dude in black that she really likes (so why is she marrying homeboy?) needs to put her butt in school.

The bridesmaid needs to stop getting pregnant.

The homeboys need to keep their butts in school instead of gangbangging.

Its not even that bad. At least they look happy and all their family came.

Now this, is my Dream Wedding!

@blaq wrote, “@ Phem and Kassie why is it middle-class white people aren’t embarassed at the site of a red-neck wedding. But we are so warped by racism we take everything a black person does as an attack against the black race, shouldn’t we give ourselves the room to be ghetto or classy depending on what we like as individuals.”

On the contrary, white folks make fun of hillbillies, too. They laugh like a mug. The only difference is that white folks don’t think that those hillbillies reflect poorly upon them personally.

The same is not attached to black people. And frankly, things fell off when black people started acting fools and tried to say that they only reflected upon themselves and not the whole black race. Instead of aping white folks on that point (because it’s not going to work), it’s better to go back to the old days when people gave a damn about how they acted because they wanted to be perceived as the best, instead of using ‘i’m just me’ as an excuse to be the worst.

NEXT. SEE A BANGER THOUGH. I LOVE TATOOS ON THE ARMS THAT MAKE A REAL LADY

That family should be so proud of the union formed

No one should feel ashamed about these pictures. Everything that is considered “normal behavior” in this country was modeled after white people because they are the majority. And now they have us hating on our own people because their standards have been ingrained in our minds. We walk around on pins and needles afraid to exhibit any kind of behavior that is different from them or that might label us “black” or “ghetto”. That is her day and she should be able to have whatever she wants.

Hey they look happy and they are having fun…I wish them all the best…Congrat to ‘em.

*toast to the couple*

At least they are married unlike the rest of yall shacking folks. Stop hating!!

i see nothing wrong with it, if that’s all the money they had. at least he married his child’s mother, and at least they won’t have bills out the ass to pay if it doesn’t work out. leave’em alone.

well i can’t hate it’s a wedding….congrats to them

i’ll marry u even if u work in a dog pen

I went to school about 3 blocks from there. We used to sweet potato pie, ice cream, chicken and waffles, and everything for lunch but then we had to leave school and play handball at work because there wasn’t anything else to do on sundays.Man them was the days. Ummmm chile I wish I had me some chicken and waffles right now.

Another thing that I love about this weddding is that it may have inspired other people, his relatives or her relatives, to get married.

I think it is beautiful! Their wedding is orginal and obviously represents them. At least they are getting married! In the black community it doesn’t happen as often as it should.

And the way this economy is, if you spend all your money on a wedding, you’ve got to be crazy.

Marriage is about love, not a one day wedding.

@Nita,

Where did you read that they were crippin’?

The drinks are playing tricks on my typing ability. I meant to type f#ck! This Wild Turkey aint no joke blood!

yeah congratulation to them . they are so happy about their marriage .but i got anews from ”””””www.bigbisexual.com it’s said that they are meet at their and fall in love with each other .it’s great

Beautiful

@ Nita

On the contrary, white folks make fun of hillbillies, too. They laugh like a mug. The only difference is that white folks don’t think that those hillbillies reflect poorly upon them personally.

The same is not attached to black people. And frankly, things fell off when black people started acting fools and tried to say that they only reflected upon themselves and not the whole black race. Instead of aping white folks on that point (because it’s not going to work), it’s better to go back to the old days when people gave a damn about how they acted because they wanted to be perceived as the best, instead of using ‘i’m just me’ as an excuse to be the worst.

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Well stated!!! That’s what I MEANT to say! LOL!!

Damn it had to be some Hispanic and Black folk…Jesus, no class what so ever.

@ Phenomenally Ms. Dee(Check me out!)

No one should feel ashamed about these pictures. Everything that is considered “normal behavior” in this country was modeled after white people because they are the majority. And now they have us hating on our own people because their standards have been ingrained in our minds. We walk around on pins and needles afraid to exhibit any kind of behavior that is different from them or that might label us “black” or “ghetto”. That is her day and she should be able to have whatever she wants.

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I’d like to address you by name, but since you onlly included mine, I’ll say… “Dear Anonymous”… First and foremost, you are EXACTLY right. The bride is entitled to have whatever she wants on her day. However, just because it’s “YOUR DAY”, does not entitle you to acts of buffoonery!! Secondly, why does “exhibiting proper behavior”, always have to be defined as “acting white”? I bet you could do research on African (or African American) weddings throughout history (not recent history, like these two), and never would you find such ignorance. If anything, these two have made a mockery (yes I said it again Blaq), of the ceremony, and what it all entails. If they’re in love, and it lasts… GOOD FOR THEM!!! I’m inclined to believe that they’re not off to a good start… that’s my opinion, and that’s all it is!!!

@ Phenomenally Ms. Dee(Check me out!)

No one should feel ashamed about these pictures. Everything that is considered “normal behavior” in this country was modeled after white people because they are the majority. And now they have us hating on our own people because their standards have been ingrained in our minds. We walk around on pins and needles afraid to exhibit any kind of behavior that is different from them or that might label us “black” or “ghetto”. That is her day and she should be able to have whatever she wants.

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I’d like to address you by name, but since you onlly included mine, I’ll say… “Dear Anonymous”… First and foremost, you are EXACTLY right. The bride is entitled to have whatever she wants on her day. However, just because it’s “YOUR DAY”, does not entitle you to acts of buffoonery!! Secondly, why does “exhibiting proper behavior”, always have to be defined as “acting white”? I bet you could do research on African (or African American) weddings throughout history (not recent history, like these two), and never would you find such ignorance. If anything, these two have made a mockery (yes I said it again Blaq), of the ceremony, and what it all entails. If they’re in love, and it lasts… GOOD FOR THEM!!! I’m inclined to believe that they’re not off to a good start… that’s my opinion, and that’s all it is!!!

blaq(Check me out!)

Well I don’t find it a mockery, I see two young people expressing themselves and their love for each other. The Groom is probably an airbrush artist. Anyway. There have always been different opinions of what is acceptable in our community. And just like when those teenagers were getting billyclubbed and dog-bitten, older negroes were at home saying what a fool they were making of themselves. The average protester in the civil rights movement was young, they were not housewives and working men, they were the youth. It is not the thinking of the masses that change the world. I seriously doubt they will regret this decision, and I’m sure we will see more out of the box wedding in the future.

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You’re painting the Civil Rights Movement with one broad stroke. I highly disagree with the notion that ALL the older black folks were at home saying “dem some fools out there protesting”. I’m sure they would rather see youth marching for their rights, than standing in church before God and witnesses looking like 2 adolescent teenagers making a MOCKERY (there’s that word again), of a sacred (or at least what is suppose to be) ceremony.

True, it is not the thinking of the masses that change the world. However, do you really think this display of “self expression” will encourage anyone to want to go protest against the war, unemployment, minimum wage, high gas prices… I highly doubt it.

ole due with the “they met at my crib” shirt is a winner,ha. They all look happy.

Again, I find it effing disgraceful. You are all saying celebrate “black love” and all that isht…maaannn….You guys need to open your eyes to the real message of this. When you say white folks have their “My big fat redneck wedding” and they are laughing, they are laughing WITH the rednecks. When the see this ole BLASPHEMOUS,GHETTO,IGNORANT crap, they are laughing AT you. It’s not an expression of love in any way. Did anyone notice there is a picture on the back of the “grooms” shirt? WTF?? We really have got to do much better than this. Ladies, have some respect for yourself. Why did she ruin that dress by airbrushing on it?? Lawd have mercy…it looks like they didn’t even try…just showed the eff up. And why the jailhouse pose in the wedding pic? Is he not used to life on the outside? The event planner in me is offended but the sistah in me is disgusted.

Congrats to the two of them. All that matters is that they are happy- and still have money left over!

does anyone else think this wedding is kinda fabolous?

Love it!

It doesnt surprise me now-a-days people are trying hard to do something different from everyone else l.o.l but I think they could of have had thought of something better than that one there l.o.l

please stop trippin black folks

BETTER OFF AT JUSTICE OF THE PEACE…THIS LOOKS MORE LIKE DISTURBIN’ THE PEACE

so what if this wedding was cheap?…atleast they got married…unlike Diddy…lol…a wedding is a wedding…plus looks like they were at a church and a reception hall…stop hating.

With 70% of black women being the head of single parent households, it is nice to see someone in the black community getting married. May the couple have a long lasting relationship. Your wedding photos look nice. Good luck in the future.

What most of you are overlooking is the fact that people spend upwards of 30,000 dollars for a wedding. 250.00 is a savings, they can use the rest of the money for something else, like a house, daycare and etc…shoot even a nice honeymoon!

Save you money, especially in this economy

DUMB BLAQ PEOPLE LIKE BLAQ WILL AGREEWITH ANYTHING BECAUSE IT’S “COOL”. MARTHA STEWART WEDDING??? FOOLS PEOPLE IN MY FMAILY HAVE BEEN HAVING WEDDING FOR YEARS AND NOBODY BROKE THE BANK.

YOUR BLACK ASSES WILL RENT PLACES YOU CANT AFFORD. BUY CLOTHES YOU CANT AFFORD.. BUT WHEN IT COMS TO HAVING A WEDDING WICH IS A SACRED THING YOU JUST THROW IT TOGETHER LMAO!!!

THIS KIND OF MORANIC THINKING IS WHY BLACK PEOPLE HAVE THE HIGHEST STATISTICS IN EVERY DAMN THING NEGATITIVE. BLACK PEOPLE NEED TO WAKE UP.

ITS TIME THE BLACK RACE SET STANDARD FOR THEMSELVES. yOU AL ARE A DAMN DISGRACE!!

Daywalker

DUMB BLACK SELF HATING COONS LIKE YOU ARE WITH THE HIGHEST MURDER RATE, PENTENTIONARY POPULATION,UNEMPLOYMENT RATE..HAVE THE NERVE TO BE DISRESPECTING THE SAME STUPID BLACK WOMEN THAT PUT UP WITH YOUR ASSES. SINC EYOU AHTE BLACK WOMEN SO MUCH YOUR MOTHER SHOULD HAVE ABORTED YOU..IT WOULD HAVE SAVED HER FROM HAVING ANOTHER DUMB BLACK STATISTIC!!!

Women on this blog are so odd. Their men put them down, and yet, at the end of the day they run back to them.

Maybe your views are exactly why you are Ms. Dee and not Mrs. Dee. Let them people live THEIR lives. When you ready to pay for something then you can have it your way. Just something for you to think about.

lol, I thought this was tastefully done.

More like hip/hop classy!

Either way.

AIRBRUSH IS ALWAYS TACKY

no matter what!

At least they did get MARRIED. Can’t say that for a lot of young people that have baby after baby aftr baby with so many baby mamas and baby daddies. I wish them the best.

My question is if this couple from the neighborhood got married, the what hell is Diddy’s excuse ?

I’m so proud of the majority on the comments. I thought alot of you would have been shallow. Who cares HOW they got married, just as long as they are taking thier vows of love. Money is not always a factor for happiness.

Ignorance above and below… That’s some low class, ghetto looking foolishness. I hate it that there are so many on here saying “at least they’re getting married” – btw – it’s not “there getting married”… GED class of 2004, please sit down. Being poor is not shameful but being ghetto is. The bad part is that they don’t even look young.. the groom looks like an old head… Sorry for those of you who thinking getting someone to marry you is such a big deal – I think having an education, a decent job and some sense should be priorities…

Just took a good look at the groom and I doubt he thought about saving to put anything down on a house. lol. He’s def an old school player who never grew up and looks ridiculous dressed like that. She’s obviously cool with it and that’s all that matters, I guess. The bar was pretty low with this one. The kid is cute…I hope she does a little better.

I’d like to address you by name, but since you onlly included mine, I’ll say… “Dear Anonymous”… First and foremost, you are EXACTLY right. The bride is entitled to have whatever she wants on her day. However, just because it’s “YOUR DAY”, does not entitle you to acts of buffoonery!! Secondly, why does “exhibiting proper behavior”, always have to be defined as “acting white”? I bet you could do research on African (or African American) weddings throughout history (not recent history, like these two), and never would you find such ignorance. If anything, these two have made a mockery (yes I said it again Blaq), of the ceremony, and what it all entails. If they’re in love, and it lasts… GOOD FOR THEM!!! I’m inclined to believe that they’re not off to a good start… that’s my opinion, and that’s all it is!!

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I wasn’t trying to say that “behaving properly” was “acting white”. I’m trying to say that behaving differently doesn’t have to be buffoonery.

I am trying to convey that people should have the freedom to celebrate something that is important to them in the way that they want without ridicule. They don’t have to be buffoons just because their version of a tradition is different from what everyone else does. There are many cultures that celebrate wedding ceremonies in different ways. I guess we could consider what many of them do is ignorant too.

I respect your opinion and thanks for responding to me.

To the people concerned with their white coworkers:

I want to know why it is that we should be embarrassed or ashamed of these people. Are white people embarrassed or ashamed of Lindsay Lohan, Paris Hilton, or George Bush. (That man represents our entire country and he doesn’t come off as one of the brightest people.) No. They don’t care what we think of them.

White people laugh at these pictures. So what. Do we answer to them? Ask yourselves why is it that we want their acceptance so much? Does anybody really believe that they are better than us? If not, then why should their laughter bother anyone?

If you want to be upset for these people…then be upset, but don’t do it just because your afraid of a white person’s opinion.

hood’s tha place to be y’all. Ghetto love*

Well if some of you checked out the little girl,her dress says “Just like Mami”…Im guessing that’s her mother that got married. I’m not saying anything mean just that this wedding was…different.

“KIGALI” Lol Wowwwwwwwww…You are great!

Two thumbs up for saying to hell with tradition and having fun and actually enjoying the wedding day (and saving money). Congrats!

AAHHHH, 1980 called and they want their shirts back.

Wow! I think they are some youngsters obviously.I hope God Blesses their union. It is a lot less than formal. I’m not gonna be negative. No h8in’ yall. She got her boy!?!

I don’t see any buffoonery. I see a relaxed, happy couple who probably have no wedding costs to deal with. What is wrong with that? I don’t get why one would assume the marriage won’t last. Two like minds used their creativity and ingenuity to make a fun memory. A “traditional” wedding is the white way; not necessarily the right way. It appears they already have at least one child so they are doing the right thing and getting married for love of each other and that child. Maybe the couple will used the money saved to start a college fun for their offspring.

And if the bride spilled “Kook-aid” on the gown, oh well. That would just add some real flavor.

They are probably truly in love with each other…they must be to both be in sync to such a foolish degree. Best of wishes. At the end of the day, a wedding is for one day; a marriage is (supposed to be)forever.

I mean, let’s be glad they made it to the altar. Evrybody probably didn’t have the money for suits and dresses so they did that. anybody can afford a t-shirt. it is ghetto, but they made it. And last but not least, it looks like the bride’s dress cost more than the weding itself, with that being said, there is no way in hell I’m puttin spray paint on my wedding dress!!!

and to Cato, where u from cuz that’s my last name. might be related!

LMAO @ the Best Man shirt that says “They Met @ My Crib”…aaaahahahahahaha

each to their own

@JD’s Revenge,

Ouch!

Um, ok. First let me say – Hallehluja to for the newly weds. Folks now-a-days believe in “shackin’ up” – I’m glad these two are now in a Holy Matromony (sp?). I’ve been w/my man for almost 9 yrs and we are not married yet. I guess marriage ain’t for everybody!

Who cares how much the wedding cost? At least they are getting married. Maybe they are graffiti artists. My aunt lived with her man for thirty years without ever marrying and when he passed away she was not entitled to anything. Also I am so sick of everyone labeling anything different ghetto. They look happy and that is all that matters.

This is so strange to me. They all look like their just hanging out and the brides dress has been vandalised. MOST IMPORTANTLY THOUGH IS …. DID THEY MEAN IT? THE VOWS THAT IS

except the sprey, the idea is excellent. hope blacks specially learn from them,not to spend money you do not have and end up in debt,in fight,in fear,in worry, lots of pressure and divorce.

love is blessed with or without money.

If you accept your situation, and avoid debt,and leave by your means, when money start coming their are um..happiness all around.

fools who are soory for them, learn from them.

congradulatin for the couple& wish them a very happy,healthy,wealthy and blessed life.

Congrats to your wedding…Everybody always judging, Black love is beautiful yo!

Who cares what they had on its a union that god put together i love it they are doing something different step out sidE you boxes clowns live a lil! and im sure they dont give a rats behind what you silly people think anyway!

Weddding Dress $100.00

Groom’s Atire $75.00

Reception $250.00

Wedding Party’s Atire $50.00 Each

HAPPINESS FOR A LIFE TIME PRICELESS

Why are we always hatin’? It certainly is a lot better than spending thousands of dollars and divorcing before everything is paid for. They at least got to the altar. Lots of folks can’t say that anybody cared enough to take the stroll with them.

Yall are gonna learn to stop looking down your noses at other people that are worse off. The middle class is vanishing…some of you aren’t gonna have room to talk about someone else’s financial shortcomings. If this is all they could afford then so be it. Marriage is supposed to be about love and honoring your union with God. You people are freakin materialistic you lose site of things that really matter. But don’t worry, you reap what you sow.

i don’t even have anything negative to say. they’re GETTING MARRIED! that’s a hell of lot more than some folks are doing these days. anybody who takes that step gets my respect…whether that step is taken in cusotm tailored suit or airbrushed tees. oh and the little girl with the veil is adorable.

I agree. It is good to see young black people getting married instead of just being baby mommas and baby daddys. Good for them.

Some of y’all need to get off your high azz horses. If the couple likes it what the HELL does it matter what they wore, how the decorations looked, what type of food they served, etc. The wedding is for the couple. You don’t have to like anything about their wedding, but respect the fact that they cared enough about one another to get married.

That’s the problem with us as a people — too damn busy trying to keep up with the jones impressing folks taking out loans to pay for a wedding folks damn well know they can’t afford. At least this couple won’t be starting off their married life in debt like some of you high falutin NEGROES who think you have to drop bank on a wedding in order for it be significant. Spending a grip on a wedding ain’t decreased the divorce rate in this country NOT one bit. So stop worrying about trivial crap like the cost of a wedding and focus on loving your partner which is what really counts at the end of the day.

That’s true why spend $500,000 on a lavish wedding when the marriage doesn’t last ?

It’s not the cost, it’s the tackiness. Come on — you can wear a nice dress from the closet, a nice pair of pants, not a baseball hat and jeans. These people probably spent more time picking out their outfit for the club on Saturday night.

And who SPRAY PAINTS a wedding gown? THAT’s what’s ridiculous, and they should be put on blast for making a mockery out of a serious commitment. If you can’t afford a tux, limo, all that – don’t get it. But this isn’t a jokey joke – it’s marriage, ’till death do you part, and should be taken seriously.

What in the hell…? Somebody should have told them airbrush went out in 2001!! This wedding was just plain old ghetto (-) the Fabulous!! And they should be ashamed…subjecting that cute little girl to that kind of non-sense and tom-foolery! but the good news is there is another black married couple (Kudo’s)

Take the time to appreciate Phenomenally Ms.. It’s how you behave Nov. Phenomenally Ms. That I could offer you is to learn picture of cutting money.

thanx for the support hi haters n 4 ur info the bride n groom outfits were close 2 a stack n i know case i paid 4 it