Can We Discuss Interracial Marriage Without Being Stereotypical?

- By Bossip Staff Categories: For Discussion, Madame Noire, News

Paula Patton Robin Thicke

Even today in 2010, there are a lot of misconceptions about interracial dating/relationships.

One writer took these misconceptions to Madame Noire, using her own experience as half of an interracial couple, to spell out some of the biggest ones.

Together for a total of five years and married for three years, the couple endured endless questions from friends, family, acquaintances, and nosy strangers. Here are a few of the tamer questions and her responses.

Read The Rest At MadameNoire

Comments

  • http://perryone779@yahoo.com rose by any other name #93040263394 ™

    refuse to comment on anynore interracial crap!!! moving on smdh!!!

  • Educated Goon

    I don’t think anybody cares…This site is desperate for comments & views

    • DR.FUNK

      You know…

    • angry black woman

      but you stay posted up in here don’t you?
      who’s forcing you to stay?

  • angry black man

    based on what ive been thru in the last couple of yrs I’m finish wit the sisters. Don’t want anymore of those trifling biaotches

    • jj

      uh dueces bytch
      don’t let the door hit ya were the good lord split ya

    • Allie

      I’m honestly sorry to hear that

    • angry black woman

      who cares?
      hispanic & white guys can run rings around ya’ll anyway in looks and personality!
      do you need funding to get where ya goin, i’ll gladly pithch in.
      long live the swirl!

    • Ridiculous1

      Please! Brothas don’t even try, don’t take care of their kids, bad credit, in prison, users and abusers.

  • shortcake

    Great topic, I am in an Interracial marriage and one misbelief is that you have issues with self hate if you choose a husband or wife from a different race and that is the not true. I believe you can be happy with who you are and still find someone from a different race compatible and a good fit for you once you get to know some well you no longer care about what package they come in.

    • RHONYC

      church. :-)

  • jj

    no we cant talk about interracial dating without some jackazz bringing up BS generalizations thats just the world we live in even its a bunch of level headed people who want to have a real discussion about this topic its only takes one ignorant fool to come in here with some black women this and black men that
    if you like the another race of men or women be with them no need to explain your disliking for your own people no need to explain why its OK its your life do what you want and be done
    im tired of people being in somebody business any damn way

  • chrissy

    every week its a topic about what race is sleeping wit who…smdh…..

    They love to have us (blacks) go back n forth wit each other I NEVER seen these kinda topics on white site just our dumb azz wit the nut azz mess…every week…like they wanna keep us angry or whatever black men say about us…sad….i am glad i am married…..and if he leave me on to the next mf….they ain’t hard to find…..lol

  • Jus Some Cat

    Why does it need to be discussed at all? Can’t one person marry another without having to explain it to anyone else?

  • Rae

    I married a Cuban man, I’m mixed and we have a beautiful little boy. Every relationship is challenging. What is somewhat annoying, is when you have the old Caucasian women who grew up in the segregation days, staring you and your melting pot family, up down, with the dirtiest most hateful look. I feel more sorry for people like that, than I do angry. I love my family and it is quite interesting to be in a home where more than one language is spoken, and culture is taught. God is good! Don’t come here much, but this is one of those topics that, either people are for interracial marriage, or they are not. I don’t think to many people see it that surprising anymore.

  • Jus Some Cat

    The picture above is a perfect example. Both Paula P and Robin T seem to be two nice, talented, attractive people who found and love each other. Don’t have an issue with either one or their union.

    Except that she should really be wit me. : )

  • Lady A

    I don’t have a problem with interracial dating or marriage as long as a person isn’t just stuck with one race. You know the black guy that only dates white girls or any race but black. Or any race and any gender that refuses to date someone who looks like their mother or father. I do feel that love is blind but just don’t be racist on how you find your love. Don’t ignore someone because they are the wrong color. Ignore them because their a bad person. Love is love. And love is beautiful. If your happy I am happy for you.

  • Allie

    Interracial dating is a beautiful thing for everyone that is involved, but like the poster above me said I don’t like when a person cuts themselves off from a certain race of people, that’s not fair, i also think that along with the usual problems of relationships, interracial relationships also have their share of problems because of ignorant people, but if the two love each other it’s worth it

  • U Know Who

    I LOVE MY HUBBY!!! He is a black man & I am a hispanic woman. I always told my mother I would marry a black man & I’m extremely happy that my whole family accepted that. I’m NOT concerned of who thinks what, as long as my relationship is steady. I do feel interracial relationship is the way to go when someone from your own race can’t give u what u want. Our beautiful children also RESPECT both cultures, which to me is very important regardless if there are any dislikes.

  • borderlineamazing

    Why do we need to discuss it? Why does this website ALWAYS need to discuss it? Why does this website always have to put SWIRLING in regards to interracial dating? Judging by the ugly bitter black woman who owns this websites picture I can tell why. Oh and Paula is half-white.

    • MISS

      IF IT BOTHERS YOU SO MUCH WHY ARE YOU HERE? U SOUND LIKE A BITTER BLACK MAN TO ME CALLING NAMES AND CRITICIZING THINGS THAT HE FEARS.
      MOST OF YOU ARE SCARED AND ANGRY THAT BLACK FEMALES ARE STARTING TO SWIRL JUST LIKE U.

    • MISS

      YES..PAULA IS HALF WHITE BUT SHE’S CONSIDERED A BLACK WOMAN JUST LIKE HALLE AND ALICIA KEYS. YOU BITTER BLACK MEN ARE SO SAD,YOU TRY TO TAKE AWAY HER BLACKNESS BECAUSE SHE’S NOT WITH ONE OF YOU,JUST LIKE SOME OF YOU TRIED WITH HALLE BUT AT THE END OF THE DAY SHE’S A BLACK FEMALE, A BLACK FEMALE MARRIED TO A HANDSOME SUCESSFUL WHITE MAN , YOU JUST HAVE TO DEAL WITH IT.

  • http://Bossip caramela

    agree with chrissy. what this topic does is get people writing in with i’m with a white/italian/arab man and he treats me better than any black man or i’m a black man and i hate black women,i only date white women and she cleans and cooks…you know those comments and i think,date who the fu@k you want and stop pulling your race down! society sees you as black,that colour don’t wash off and they’ll always be some pr!ck out there to remind you incase you forget. people should date whoever they like and who’s good to and for them.when black people bash each other it sounds like we hate each other.so they’ll never be a non stereotypical debate.

  • borderlineamazing

    Sabrina and Miss are two dumb birds. Amazing you can tell someones gender and race through a blog comment. #bothepicfails

    • MISS

      GET OVER IT JERK, THE MORE YOU TRY TO EXPLAIN THE MORE SUSPECT YOU ARE!
      PATHETIC JEALOUS BM

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