Melyssa Ford Is An F-Bomb Dropping Naomi Campbell Hater! And She’s Putting Essence Magazine On Blast

Posted on September 28th, 2010 - By Bossip Staff

Categories: Bangers, ChitChatter, For Discussion, Melyssa Ford, Naomi Campbell, News, Put on Blast

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Melyssa Ford had plenty to say recently on the subject of Essence Magazine and a few of their editorial decisions — particularly their decision to use Naomi Campbell as one of the 40th anniversary cover models.

In a recent interview with VIBE Magazine Melyssa admitted she hasn’t been feeling Essence too tough lately, and didn’t hesitate to say why:

Boris Kodjoe Blair Underwood Lance Gross Essence cover

Right now Essence has on the cover, three of the most gorgeous black men ever created on the face of this fawking Earth. They have Blair Underwood who has always done it for me, Boris Kodjoe whose definition in the dictionary is fine, and then they got Lance Gross—chocolatey loveliness. And you know what they fawking have the nerve to have as the fawking title of the cover story? “How To Keep Black Men Happy and Faithful.” And faithful! How dare you?! It makes me fawking sick. [It’s like saying] ‘Women take note—how to keep your black men healthy and keep from straying from you ‘cause it’s your fault.’ And black women wrote this to their fawking counterparts. As if to say, ‘If he strays, it’s your fawking fault. You didn’t cook enough. You didn’t blow him enough. You didn’t fawk him enough. You didn’t do enough to keep your fawking man healthy or faithful.’ O-M-G!

Dang girl… That’s a lot of fawking going on.

Melly didn’t stop there either. She’s also got a bone to pick with Naomi Campbell as a role model for Black women:

There are times where I’m surprised at the audacity that they fawking have to put something like that on the cover, but they’re regarded as the soul sista’s bible. They accept a fawking elitist attitude on who they’ll have on the cover and who they won’t? Please. Who was on the cover last month? They were toasting to women above the age of 40, and how beautiful they look, but Naomi’s on the cover? Okay, yes. Granted, Miss Naomi walks a catwalk, and she’s still killing 16-year-old and 20-year-old girls. Yes, but she has serious anger management issues and an overwhelming sense of entitlement, and she is engaged in fawking illegal activity that’s directly related to the blood diamond industry in Africa. And you’re putting her on a pedestal? Is that what you’re doing? But you won’t cover somebody like me because I based the earlier part of my career on my sexuality? My moral compass hasn’t been shifted off too much. My values are pretty good considering the causes that I believe in and places I’ve volunteered my time and given my money to, but you don’t feel the need to ever cover any single part of my career. You don’t even acknowledge that I even fawking exist. But this is what you cover and this is the things you say? I think it’s hypocrisy.

And there’s the rub. Melyssa feels slighted because Essence won’t pay her any mind.

We’d squeeze a joke in about “real models” vs. “video models” but we actually think Melyssa has a point here. Why should Naomi get a pass, but Chris Brown be out of work for a year? She’s beaten more women! And she still gets magazine covers! SMH.

Melyssa we like how you fawking think!

  • jj

    she KINDA got a point in a bitterish kinda way
    sound kinda pissed about not being on that cover if you ask me

  • Adel

    none of those men do it for me

  • IcePrincess

    Naomi is a freaking icon! Crazy as hell yes but still an icon. What does Melyssa do for a living? HSD.

  • oprahismyplayaunt

    GOOD POINT MS. FORD…. INTERESTING NOBODY COMMENTING ON THIS AT ALL…. SAD WHAT MAKES US RESPOND AND NOT RESPOND

  • Sha

    I think that’s it jj… let it go girl or do something groundbreaking to put yourself on the cover…Vixen’s are going to have to work EXTRA hard to be taken seriously.

    It’s stinks but it’s true.

  • aries79

    Fuc   that…. She shook her azz in vids for lame azz rappers… and Chris didnt have enough years in the game to be f-ing up.  Ppl are not obilagated to support anybody… Including my Boo Rih Rih.. 
    Stop crying and work harder

  • Bethany “ACID FACE” Storro

    “Melyssa Accord”….oooo you wrong for that…lol! She cares about the environment and prefers not to drive around in a gas guzzler like the rest of us. However she does make have a point about Naomi Campbell’s abusive self.

  • You Smell Me??

    oh and its not:

    “How To Keep Black Men Happy and Faithful.”

    its

    “What Makes Black Men Happy (and faithful)”

    Based on the title it seems more of an informative piece than instructional piece….

    anyway…

    I would of never thought her to be the HATER type…

    And she has the mouth of a sailor…..dayum!

  • Chi-lanta

    Melissa has valid points but Naomi is one of the baddest supermodels ever! (sidenote: Boris Kodjoe is the FINEST man in history)!!!!

  • LYRICS

    A MAN CAN’T EVEN TELL U WHAT MAKES HIM HAPPY, SO HOW THE EFFFFF WILL A MAGAZINE!!!!????

    I’VE NEVER BEEN THE 1 TO READ ARTICLES WRITTEN 2 THE PUBLIC N’ TRY 2 INCORPERATE THE TWISTED ADVICE IN2 MY OWN LIFE, SO OL’ MELLY MEL SHOULDN’T BE SO UPSET!!!!

  • http://yuthasmith.wordpress.com yuthasmith

    I strongly recommend ______Black white romance – c 0 /m ______ to you where I just found my interracial boyfriend! You know it is a great place to meet black men and beautiful women. What’s kind of relationship do you want?

  • http://logicvigilante.files.wordpress.com/2009/04/kanyewestentourage1.jpg Slide Like a Fresh Pair of Gators

    @LYRICS

    I can tell you what makes a man happy, all you have to do is:

    Keep his b@lls empty and his belly full!!!

    Oh yeah, and one more very important thing = “shut the f*ck up”, not literally but figuratively… But more specifically understand that NO MAN is trying to come home or deal with complaining, nagging or a confrontational woman on the regular!!!

    The rest (and additional stuff) varies from man to man because we’re all different but what I just told you (B@lls empty, Belly Full & Being Quiet) are universal to ALL men no matter where they reside on this planet, ya heard…

  • don”t like haters

    where is my comments?

  • kiki lefuego

    ‘Gaters is right! Lyrics you need to shut your big mouth about things you know nothing about. You want to keep your man happy? Try taking a trip to the Sun! Or even easier than that, stop being a ho! Actually you might find it easier travellinhg to the Sun!

  • ackeejm

    blah blah blah! get over it MF!

  • Realness

    Melyssa just salty. Get over yourself ma’am. Essence don’t have you on the cover – or even cover you – because Essence is a business and they about selling their product (you should understand that). And I trust that that magazine knows that a cover with Naomi (and 2 other fashion icons) is more likely to sell – even to non-black potential readers – than a cover with you on it.

  • Bossip Is Ran By The KKK

    I Love Your opinions always keepin it real! Keepin his balls empty and belly full has worked for me and my boyfriend for 3 years now Lmaoooooo!!!

  • rico

    shut up already..the only reason I read this is because your tits were half way out your tank top.

  • shayogirl

    She raises a lot of valid points,and aside from all the unnecessary swearing she makes sense, like how come meagan good has NEVER been on the cover of essence, but MJB gets at least one cover a year huh?
    However, before she leaps down anyones throat she should have read the headlines correctly, it says 40 fabulous women,not fabulous women over 40, and what makes black men happy, not how to keep them happy.
    (And why does essence suddenly look so much like glamour? But with black people?)

  • deelucious

    It’s true what she’s saying though. I’d be embarras$ed to buy a magazine with that big headline on it. “How to keep Black men happy” and I swaer one time one of the articles was called “Do Black men still want us?” I was like WTF? That’s why I don’t buy Essence or Ebony. I find them both boring anyway, and it seems like it’s mainly for women of a certain age group. Y’know like the over 35s?
    Mellissa could be hating because she’s never been featured on the cover. We all know why that is lol

  • Greeneyedbandit

    She was just on twitter tryin to give 50 some p***y.That let u know, that h*e aint changed a bit.Maybe 50 can name one of his dogs after her,might make her feel better! :)

  • maru-chan

    Still waiting for black magazines to embrace images of black women with NATURAL hair. I dont give a damn if its permed, but I want US to see US. Funk a weave.

  • Mrs. Rance

    I doubt Essence as anything against her background. She hasn’t been covered in the magazine or on the cover because she is a nobody. What would they write about her? She should be happy BET shows her some level of respect considering her claim to so semblence of fame.

  • RATED R

    I FEEL HER ON THIS.. IVE ALWAYS LIKE HER. AND YES SHE’S STILL ONE OF THE HOTTEST IN THE GAME TO EVER DO IT

  • Airun

    Exactly what I said “nobody knows you but black people”. So since white people don’t know Melyssa Ford she’s a nobody. Black women if you need to know who the enemy is look in the mirror. L8r H8rs. Airun.

  • ThickLikeCornbread

    I get wht she is saying, exp about Naomi BUT bcuz of the career, or lack there of, the public did NOT take her comments/opinions well

    So, I will say this:
    Will a bballer or footballer put some paynis in her mouth or a seed in her gut so she will STFU! She a day late & a dolla short. She shoulda followed the Gold Digger Plan 101 & gotten knocked up by a baller or a businessman. It is 18yrs of a STEADY check

  • Airun

    @sas24. Naomi has a name and nothing else over Melyssa. Look at those two and honestly tell me Naomi is more attractive. You only believe that because white magazines told you she’s beautiful. If the 10 men chose to pick which one they wanted didn’t know who either woman was Naomi wouldn’t stand a chance. L8r H8rs. Airun.

  • Bunny(formerly Angel/UrHeiness)

    LMAO!!!! & right on :)

  • Xey

    Naomi has been featured in campaigns and walked for the biggest fashion houses in the world… She was Versaces muse… Melissas a hater… Sorry boo lifes not fair and Naomi doesn’t shake her cakes for less than 50000 a day.. You shake your cakes for change.. I’ll put it like this naomi is Kobe and Melissa is Ron artest.. They all gave some questionable peronal issues but Kobe and Naomi get covers Ron and Melissa don’t.. Know your roll boo.. Your a nice little side piece not cover girl status…

  • S.a.s.s.y 24

    lol

  • thrilltcket

    Melyssa….now its time to make your move. Use your womanly common sense and business mind to put the real out there on film. Getting backers should not be a problem for you. Show the new improved business M. Ford. I dare you!!!!!!!

  • Just Bored

    Who is Melyssa Ford?? No really, WHO IS SHE? I never heard of this chick before. Guess I need to Google her….

  • S.a.s.s.y 24

    thank you everything you said was on point.

  • jia

    Bitter,bitter,bitter…Campbell is an icon. She is on the cover because of her accomplishments as a model. You will never be in her category Ms. Ford. No where near it. Sit down before she hits you with her phone.

  • right

    Icon or not, M Ford is on point for all that she said. I have to question her desire to be on Essence as they are not a REAL reflection of Black women.

  • Toni B.

    She has a really good point. Especially about black women and relationships.

  • BBBEE25

    All of these men are fine…Look at Blair and Boris……..yummmmmm!!!!!

  • hmm…

    So I guess when Kat Stacks cleans up her act she should be on the Cover of Essence as well? GTFOH

  • BIGG REGG****MONEY NEVER SLEEPS

    IS THAT YOU MELYSSA?

  • carbaba

    melissa ford drives a honda accord

  • http://bossip.com La La

    melissa has a point but the bigger lesson for young ladies today is when u get ur come up using sex, that’s a stigma that will follow u for a lifetime.

  • Dude

    Who is this now?

  • A Mess wants to know where is her comment?

    She sounds bitter. Could it be that shaking cakes aint all its cracked up to be. She needs to hurry up and do something like marry a baller because age is slowly creeping up on her.

  • christmas808

    really

  • Jay the Real One

    Mylessa has a point…and she is so lovely

  • allthatglitters

    She sounds very ignorant with all that foul language.

  • White Women Rule

    Excuse me darling! You’re a hypocrite! You’re bad-mouthing a woman who paved the way for younger beautiful black women to have more opportunities. And instead of you speaking on your own contributions you foul mouthed harpy, you want to elevate yourself by bashing Ms. Campbell. Face it dear, bitterness is never in fashion and nor will you be….other than in a tawdry mens magazine. The nerve!

  • Treatise Emily Shaniqua Jones

    well…she makes some good points. and she’s entitled to make them. i do think essence needs to give some thought to the things that she wrote.

  • VanGogh

    Seriously; Who is Melissa Ford?

  • White Women Rule

    Obviously you have nothing that Essence wants or needs or else you would have been contacted. And if women truly wanted to hear what you had to say, i’m sure they would have made a fuss with Essence by now. Stick to men’s magazines darlling. Somethings are just better when kept out of sight.

  • VanGogh

    Who is Melissa Ford?

  • God’s Child

    She has a wicked spirit.

  • F.A.T.

    For all those who are ignorant on the Naomi Campbell Blood diamond scandal and think that a nobody like melissa ford has the right to turn her nose down to miss campbell need to hear the obvious three facts:

    #1. Charles Taylor had NO involvement with the bloody diamond conflict in sierra leonne. He was the president of Liberia and white people have chosen him to make into a scapegoat to suit their own petty vendettas.
    #2. Naomi Campbell has never had any relations with Charles Taylor or any Blood Diamond scandal in the past or present
    #3. Really tho people, who the hell is Melissa Ford?

  • joyrptr

    Tell it!

  • joyrptr

    This is kind of like all these home wrecking hoes trying to go in on their “men’s” wives in the media. STFU! You’re a HOE! Stay in your lane!

  • DANNY BOYD

    I KNOW THATS RIGHT!

  • DANNY BOYD

    MELYSSA,
    Quit crying and stop looking acting a ho on T.V.

  • noloveforthestupid

    you haven’t? then you must be white or black and think your white living isolation your suburband world.

  • REALITY CHECK

    That’s why she’s not on the cover…she has not achieved that much, she does not command that kind of publicity & her brand (ho brand) is not worth that much. Ease up & don’t let the ignorance hang that much.

  • 1word

    Melissa ford is one of the finest women on the planet. Naomi Campbell needs to eat a case of Campbell soup.

  • ebonyhud

    I get her point… all that blood diamond stuff gets to me….I don’t like Naomi and i agree that she feels entitled

  • LuxDeluxeCrew

    It’s not about her past. The simple fact is that Melissa Ford is not WORLDWIDE. Walk up to anyone in Australia and ask them who Melissa Ford is…blank stare and crickets. Walk up to someone in Iceland and ask them who Naomi Campbell is…supermodel with a bad attitude. KNOWN GLOBALLY=SALES.

  • http://u bklynlady

    LOOK- ESSENCE, EBONY AND JET ARE ALL OWNED BY WHITE PEOPLE. DO YOUR RESEARCH PEOPLE. WHEN I MADE THIS DISCOVERY I CANCELLED ALL OF MY SUBSCRIPTIONS.

  • Liz

    Naomi sells magazines. If Melyssa did the same, she’d be on the cover.

    Don’t hate. Get your own game going.

  • Keep it Real

    It wasn’t because you based the earlier part of your career on sexuality it was because you didn’t accomplish anything based on your sexuality.

    How can a woman that fine in her younger years not have a husband? I bet her puzzy is as big as the pacific ocean. That has to be the reason. What else can it be?

  • REAL4REAL

    @Airun, I wanna take your challenge a step further. Take all the make up away, remove the weaves, no airbrush and witness them in an everyday environment. Now who would 10 men choose? Gimme my woman over them both, they can have their money and all because Naomi is 100% drama and Mellysa seems to be both hoodrat and bitter (a horrible combo) so my beautiful everyday ride or die lady trumps both these hoes! Just sayin’!!!

  • Nicole

    Umm Naomi Campbell can own a runway and although she’s not as attractive now as she was when she was younger, she is dating a billionaire and living a lifestyle that most people only dream about. I believe he recently bought her a multimillion dollar home. Melyssa Ford, on the other hand, is younger and more attractive than Naomi yet is relegated to cyberstalking rappers on Twitter to try and get them to hook up with her. Naomi wins. Sorry to burst your bubble.

  • juliemango

    Melyssg makes an excellent point re nc abusive nature and essence should be a lil more inclusive or is it that their readers wouldnt buy her issue on the other hand they may get new readers!!!

  • thesaneone

    i agree with everything she said. its funny coming out of her mouth but i have to say she has a point.

  • S.a.s.s.y 24

    I agree

  • DollBaby101

    Hey, iono what gorgeous Melly’s problem is, but I don’t have a problem with over extending cooking, fu-king and suc-ing Blair.

  • Ms. Sashay

    I do agre with Melissa to a certain extent. We as women have to do/know better. I was never a fan of either woman. But if the magazine is only looking for a certain woman why Naomi? Isn’t she dating a married man that wont divorce his wife? All Melissa did was shake and back her ace up. That’s the only difference between the two. We as women gotta know what were worth.

  • mone

    a-fukcing-men!

  • yvonne

    lmao

  • ROXANNE

    Melissa should not be hating like this
    Naomie is a real supermodel
    So are the other two woman on that cover
    I have not felt in any way that Meissa had earned a supermodel title nor does she look like one
    Melissa is not even a real model in my eyes

  • what?

    Melissa go to hell, your point is invalid, no one is a role model because we don’t see them 24/7 or behind closed doors, so you talking that ish need to quit. Naomi is a worldwide ICON, who cares about her throwing a freaking phone, everyone has flaws to them.

  • what?

    TEAM NAOMI!

  • Illuminate Truth …”I Don’t Luv U Enuff 2 Hate U”

    In all her useless ranting I can give her credit for one piece of relevance – Naomi IS involved in blood diamonds. For a so called Black publication, Essence should be more pro-active about things such as the exploitation of Afrikan resources (including the people) by Anglo-Saxon imperialism. But we ARE talking about Essence…and Naomi Cambell…and Melyssa Ford…so, whatever *shrugs*.

  • Illuminate Truth …”I Don’t Luv U Enuff 2 Hate U”

    I’m jus sayin….

    Well said.

  • http://deleted Just Sayin

    Who is she? I never heard of her until now. :-/

  • L. Hill

    All I hear and see is a Black woman publicly putting down a Black magazine and a successful Black woman. If you care about the environment etc. then talk about that Melissa.

  • Ms_Sanford2U

    “So why don’t you cancel eating too and kill yo self”

    I just laughed out loud in my office! Wooo child that was funny!

  • notadummy

    I’d rather my child be like Naomi than Mylissa anyway.

  • l love darkskin

    How many celebrities have been on essence that have a not so good background? Why is she only pointing out Naomi? I smell jealousy.

  • For real though?

    She has a point in regards to the “how to keep black men happy” foolishness! In regards to Essence not shining light on her career, her point is overshadowed by her anger and jealousy. Melissa, although Naomi is a lil carazzay, she is still a phenomenal model. A SUPER model! Hence, why she was on the cover and you were not! I think Ms. Ford is a little confused on her status in the modeling industry. She needs to stop hating and take some modeling notes! SERIOUSLY!

  • Allie

    She does make several good points, essence is definitely not my first choice of a magazine, and she does make good points about naomi not being a role model, however naomi is an a-list celeb whereas she is more c-list, half the people on this blog didn’t even know who the woman was, and up until a couple years ago neither did i, and she sounds very jealous but i’m sorry melyssa you will never be on the cover of essence even though it’s not that great of a magazine

  • tellthetrugh

    Naomi Campbell being a icon is all the dummies on this board can say….never mind that she supported blood diamonds..my bad you dummies don’t know what that means, who was I talking to, I almost forgot, stupid bloggers that just comment for the hell of it.

  • http://Bossip caramela

    lool xey!! you wrote kinda what i was goin to write,not the ‘kill’ etc bit,i could’nt be that blunt,even on here! but you’re right! nc opened doors for black women in modelling,i get why mf’s p!$$ed but she’s not seen in the same way like nc, and i can’t see that changing.blair’s so handsome,i wish i was mrs underwood…

  • NotEasilyBroken

    LOL correct half of America doesn’t even know who she is and the other half could care less lol

  • NotEasilyBroken

    Exactly!

  • Jazzie

    What exactly does or did she do that merit her being on any magazine cover besides a mens magazine. She’s pretty but Naomi Campbell open up a whole new idea of beauty when white people didn’t believe we were beautiful that’s why she is who she is, Melissa cant hold a cell phone to miss Campbell.

  • Terri

    She’s right.

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