Bossip | Gossip for the Hardcore | Black Celebrity & Entertainment News

1st

SMH…….Get a Job!

first?

DAMN SHAME! She’s STILL not satisfied? I wouldn’t have given her ass nothing, but a ticket to the welfare to work program!

Now that is sensible. No reason for a child to receive 50 grand a month like these other celebs are paying out in child support.

@ Brook Lynn Chocolate

Eh…hmmm..(tapping shoulder). Your not first, babygirl.

THE JUDGE MADE THE DECISION BASED ON ALL OF THE INFORMATION-PEOPLE WAS GOING SO HARD TALKING ABOUT ALL THAT HE DOES-THE INSURANCE, GIFTS, PRIVATE SCHOOL & THE TIME HE SPENDS ETC. AND THE FACT THE MOTHER DOESN’T WORK

ASIDE FROM ALL OF THAT SHE WAS STILL AWARDED ADDITIONAL SUPPORT-IT IS WHAT IT IS…..DON’T GET MAD AT HER GET MAD AT THE JUDGE!!!!!!

I’M CERTAIN AND ADDITIONAL 1K ISN’T GOING TO HURT TI’S POCKETS.

LET’S PUT THIS ISSUE TO REST-THE JUDGE HAS SPOKEN!

Uh what the hell is the post about now? lol

Man all these braudz want is money

YOU Dig

@ Rossy

No, this is an example to my cohorts not to get married. After all, she would’ve been getting way more money upon the event of a split-up. Youngin’s, do not listen to Rossy that was very, very, bad advice. Just cover it up is what she meant to say. LOL

man ole girl and the judge must be one in the same. im sorry. baby mama need to get off of her butt and make some stuff happen, just like everyday moms. good god, this is silly. ole girl just got over….

there is not anything wrong with being a stay at home mom..but she needs to stop being greedy.. she probably wants to live this lavish life she thinks she deserves because her baby daddy is a rapper..if 3000 dollars a month is not enough for her then her ass needs to get a job!! point blank.. women need to start being more independent cuz the only man that is suppposed to take care of u is ur father not ur baby daddy.. or ur husband if thats what yall agreed to..

this is truly the year of the baby momma..every baby momma is asking for more child support..I am still against child support if the father is playing his part

The lesson here is: don’t get prengnant by a broke man.

Then again, looking at the amount of money that Diddy or 50, Russ Simmons baby mamma recieve maybe it’s not legit, but then again T.I. may not be ballin like them…so this is all he can afford…I’m still SMH @ this story though…

Good for her! The cost of taking care of kids is high. Mortgage, cell phones,food,clothes… It’s not like she’s breaking the bank here. Hell, she’s only getting 36,000 a year…technically still poor.

HE SHOULD PAY HER MORE BECAUSE OF THE MERE FACT SHE IS THE PRIMARY CAREGIVER OF THOSE CHILDREN 24/7, MONEY DOESN’T COMPLETE HOMEWORK, DISCIPLINE, DRESS, BATHE, OR COOK FOR A CHILD.

IT TAKES ALOT OF ENERGY AND COMMITTMENT TO RAISE GOOD CHILDREN AND IF THE FATHER ISN’T THERE TO ASSIST (NOT JUST HOLIDAYS AND VISITS) ON A DAY TO DAY BASIS THEN HE SHOULD HAVE TO PAY ADDITIONAL MONIES FOR NOTHING ELSE THAN THE CARE SHE IS PROVIDING HIS CHILDREN

YALL CAN SPIT BULLETS, CHEW BRICKS, CALL THIS WOMAN EVERY NAME UNDER THE SUN-BUT WHEN IT’S ALL SAID AND DONE TI STILL HAS TO PAY! DON’T LIKE IT-MARRY YOUR BABY MAMA’S

AND I’M CERTAIN ONE MIGHT SAY SHE SHOULD KEEP HER LEGS CLOTHES-IF SHE WANTED THOSE CHILDREN AND LOVES THEM IT’S HER RIGHT TO BARE CHILDREN AS IT IS HER RIGHT TO COLLECT CHILD SUPPORT FROM THEIR FATHER

SO BECAUSE THE SYSTEM ACTUALLY WORKS IN HER FAVOR-IT WOULD BE WISE IF MEN STARTED PROTECTING THEIR WEALTH & ASSETS AND USING PROTECTION OR GETTING MARRIED

How was she just getting by with the kids when he pays for everything? She needs to get a job. This is some foolishness.

That baby boy looks just like Tiny…not cute…I hope as he grows his looks will change…for the better!

I love you woman. However we all know the reason she went for primary custody is money driven. When are these woman going to learn that the money don’t last forever and all yall do is move another nicca in and take care of him off somebody elses money instead of getting a job and handling it. Sounds like a female who couldnt get Tip to committ so she gotta do the next best thing go for money.

I have much respect for stay at home mothers who are educated and all, but with the damn daddy being T.I and all she doesn’t need any more money than what she was getting. He shells out so much cash on the side to provide a lifestyle for those boys without having to be asked as it is. Tired of these ex baby mothers trying to live like an ex wife. Get a job and your own money if you want the lifestyle.

I was hoping the judge would tell her to kick rocks!

I forgot to add- with a judge named Bensonetta what the hell did we expect??

When did marriage become the answer to not having to pay for child support? What do ya’ll think happens after 50% of the marriages end in divorce?

I think the ruling was fair and just. She receives a little extra money and Tip receives joint-custody of his children with her. Sounds like a win-win situation for both parties. And I’m glad that it is now clear that he only has these two children 40% of the time. Which let us know that THE MOTHER has them 60% of the time (NOT A NANNY AS SOME OF YOU WERE CLAIMING) Which means that when Tip ass goes to jail, she will have them 100% of the time. She needs more money (even if she was working) because for the next year, he will only see those children during visitation hours, and she will be providing for them 100% of the time. And as far as Tip is concerned, he should have joint custody of the children he’s providing for. Kudos to the judge.

who cares???? I’M HAPPY THIS MORNING, BECAUSE THE NATIONAL POLL IS SHOWING THAT OBAMA IS BEATING MCLAME BY 9%….

@BBC-Afiya

That baby boy looks just like Tiny…not cute…I hope as he grows his looks will change…for the better!

———————————————

…i feel ya on that one! lol

How come women (not JUST black) feel as though they are ENTITLED to “stay at home” just because their BD makes good money? YOU are not his child! Were your original intentions before you got knocked up to be a stay at home mom or HAVE a career, the least she could do is go to school to make a living on her own. T.I. nor any other rapper’s money does not last forever, ASK TITO JACKSON!

WHEN A NICCA COME UP ON SOME MONEY NO MATTER HOW SCHIESTY THE SITUATION MAY BE NOBODY EVEN ATTEMPTS THE MORAL PARADE I’M SEEING ON THIS BLOG

DRUG DEALERS ARE BECOMING RICH SELLING DOPE IN OUR COMMUNITY, STARTED TURF WARS, TURNING TRICKS, HENCE MAKING OUR COMMUNITY MORE VIOLENT AND CRIME PRONE-BUT HALF OF YALL DON’T EVEN GIVE THEM HALF THE SLACK YOU GIVE BLACK WOMEN-ESPECIALLY BABY MAMA’S

BLACK MEN DESPISE WHEN A WOMAN GOES TO THE COURT HOUSE-BUT WILL BE THE FIRST TO POST ON HERE HOW THEY DON’T WANT US AND PREFER THE ANOTHER RACE-BUT WILL DROP A SEED IN OUR AZZ IN A HOT SECOND-AND CRY FOUL WHEN THEY STANDING IN COURT

BLACK MEN LOOK OUT FOR SELF FIRST AND FOREMOST-AND TI KEEP TINY SO FRESH AND SO CLEAN BECAUSE THAT DUMB AS BROAD RISKED GOING TO JAIL FOR HIS AZZ-HELL WHO WOULDN’T WANT TO KEEP A CHICK LIKE THAT AROUND SOMEONE WHO IS WILLING TO DO ANTHING FOR YOU? AGAIN “HE” STANDS TO BENEFIT FROM KEEPING HER AROUND

WHEN A BLACK MAN DOESN’T WANT TO BE WITH YOU-HE STEPS W/O HESITATION, AND HE HAS A CHOICE IF HE WANT’S TO PARTICIPATE IN HIS CHILD’S LIFE OR NOT (REMEMBER ALL OF YOU WHO DEFENDED EDDIE MURPHY), SO IF A WOMEN LOOKS OUT FOR HERSELF AND HER CHILDREN SHE’S A GOLD DIGGER OR TRIFE, NOPE I SEE IT THIS WAY AINT NO GUARANTEE A NICCA IS GOING TO DO ANYTHING FOR YOUR OR HIS KIDZ-IF HE’S PLEASED WITH YOU HE’LL PAY (HINT: IF YALL F$CKING) IF HE’S MAD AT YOU-THEN YOU AZZ OUT

GET A COURT ORDER-AND LOOK OUT FOR YOU AND YOURS CAUSE AINT NOBODY ELSE GOING TO DO IT FOR YOU-IT’S RARE AND DIFFICULT TO FIND A BLACK MAN WHO WILL KEEP HIS WORD AND HANDLE HIS BUSINESS W/0 WHITEY FORCING HIM TO DO SO

EVERY MAN/WOMAN FOR THEMSELVES NOWADAYS-NICCAS SEEKING TO COME UP LET THIS GIRL GET WHATS HERS

NO HARM NO FOUL-THAT NICCA GOT IT

its not the children that these baby mama want the money for its for themself – some baby mama when they step out they look better than the kids – these woman nowadays they use their children like pawns in a chess game ……they sit their lazy asses at home and wait for dat money so they can go shopping for themself …i have seen it.

beside the ruling for these kids is basically the same except for the extra 1000 he wont be doing nothing that he wasn’t doing before

for all the brothers out there listen

look deep before you leap – becareful who you

want to mother your children.

I believe that the judge really couldve gave her more given T.I.’s income per law but because he does pay for school and etc. he just told him to give her a grand more. I mean the issue is this, her selfishness and apparent grimey-ness. It is obvious that she could afford to pay rent and bills with $2000 but she must think that she needs to live beyond her means. Like anyone who has a good job will love to get an xtra stack every month but not her. I feel like if you have a father taking care of his kid you should not to want to hit him up for more CS just because he’s income changes. Now if he’s just a CS paying father and doesnt pay for anything else I will understand putting the payments under review but for no other reason. The kids are older so I’m thinking either T.I. made her mad about somehting or her dumb gold-digging homegirls are in her ear. Big up to T.I. cuz he still aint hurting, Puffy gotta pay like $25,000 monthly.

to intenzemocha

I understand the troubles and extra care it takes to raise a child, but dang, she literally has an extra $3000 dollars to play with, if he is taking care of everything (house, transportation, schooling, etc.) 36000 to do nothing with except blow it is damn good. And you are forgetting one thing: she doesn’t try to do anything herself. her kids are at school at least 8 hours a day, she can go get a job and do her part. this is unexcusable, no matter how you look at it. she is acting real trifling, she isnt even trying. she is purposedly trying to sit at home so someone can take care of HER, not them kids……lets just keep it real here, and quit acting and thinking like a lazy hoodrat….point blank…..you never depend on anyone else to take care of your kids, get out there and make it happen your damn self. hell, she got it made already, and now she is being greedy….smh…

His cheap ass needs to pay more money!!!

Yeah child support can be a lil one sided; thank God i’m not on it… Pays to be civil with the ex-wife

OBAMA is beating Mclame by 9%……………..

@ROSSY

BOO DON’T EVEN GET AT ME WITH THAT NONSENSE-HE LAYED UP AND F$CKED AND GOT EM THEN HE GETS ALL THAT COMES WITH THAT….YA DIG

THE JUDGE HAS SPOKEN AND CHICKS LIKE YOU CAN GO ON ALL DAY ABOUT HOW IT’S UNFAIR-THE SH#T IS WHAT IT T….I…IS YA DIG

I DON’T HAVE NO SYMPATHY FOR HIM-WHAT OLE GIRL DOES IS IRRELEVANT AND WHAT MAKES YOU THINK THE JUDGE CAN ORDER “HER” TO GET A JOB WHEN HE CAN’T MAKE HALF OF THESE “JEGROES” OUT HER OWE THOUSANDS IN BACKED OWED CHILD SUPPORT

WE RANTING AND RAVING ABOUT OLE GIRL NOT WORKING-HOW MANY NICCAS OUT HERE WITHOUT JOBS??????

HAVE YOU CHECKED THE NATIONAL UNEMPLOYMENT RATE AND WHO TOPS THE LIST-GET THE f$CK OUTA HERE WITH THAT B.S.

IF IT’S GOOD FOR NICCAS TO BE UNEMPLOYED ALL DAY LONG AND SIT ON THEY MAMA’S/BABY MAMA’S COUCH OR LIVE IN THE BASEMENT W/O CONTRIBUTING A DAMN DIME TO THE HOUSEHOLD THEN OLE GIRL CAN SIT AT HOME AND COLLECT CHILD SUPPORT AND RAISE HER KIDS ALSO

AND GUESS WHAT THE JUDGE AGREED-YALL MOFOS ARE ARGUING A MUTE POINT!

Thats why I will remain celibate for now..

@ angryazzblackwoman

No one is demonizing black women, the reality is unfortunately there are women out there who use their children as a ticket to the good life! Why does she not have a job??? Why are people making reference to his current situation?? Tiny lives with him they are together, so no she can’t have what Tiny has, Tiny ain’t none of her business anyway!!! If he paid all their expenses, and had them check it 40% of the time, what does she need to provide for them? They are assuredly clothed, fed and their wants and needs are met by their father what could she possibly need more money for??? And her lawyer said she’s still not satisfied??? It is not his responsibility to take care of her, his responsibility is the children!!! That judge saw fit to give her $1000 more so obviously he proved he was doing his job as a Dad!! If she wants her and her sons to have a comprable life to the one t hey have when they are with their father, get up mama and get your own!! When you leave yourself financially dependant on a man, you leave yourself open to all kinds of BS, get your own, do for yourself!! DAMN!!!

@ Cage

Yeah child support can be a lil one sided; thank God i’m not on it… Pays to be civil with the ex-wife

——————————-

You alright with me, Cousin! That’s what it is all about. Evaluate these chicks before you get involved.

Hello, everybody?

she probably saw how tiny was flossing, and yall know how baby mama’s is? Baby father’s too!

36K A year is plenty when you have 2 kids that school is already being paid for and so is health insurance and extra-curricular activities and etc…I’m sure he buys them clothes too…so all that means is that she has to buy them clothes from time to time and feed them, that is MORE than enough for that…T.I. is not entitled to put a roof over their head, that is the BM’s responsibility…she should not count on childsupport for that, because if he loses all his money tomorrow, THEN WHAT?

intenzemocha(Check me out!)

@ROSSY

BOO DON’T EVEN GET AT ME WITH THAT NONSENSE-HE LAYED UP AND F$CKED AND GOT EM THEN HE GETS ALL THAT COMES WITH THAT….YA DIG

THE JUDGE HAS SPOKEN AND CHICKS LIKE YOU CAN GO ON ALL DAY ABOUT HOW IT’S UNFAIR-THE SH#T IS WHAT IT T….I…IS YA DIG

I DON’T HAVE NO SYMPATHY FOR HIM-WHAT OLE GIRL DOES IS IRRELEVANT AND WHAT MAKES YOU THINK THE JUDGE CAN ORDER “HER” TO GET A JOB WHEN HE CAN’T MAKE HALF OF THESE “JEGROES” OUT HER OWE THOUSANDS IN BACKED OWED CHILD SUPPORT

WE RANTING AND RAVING ABOUT OLE GIRL NOT WORKING-HOW MANY NICCAS OUT HERE WITHOUT JOBS??????

HAVE YOU CHECKED THE NATIONAL UNEMPLOYMENT RATE AND WHO TOPS THE LIST-GET THE f$CK OUTA HERE WITH THAT B.S.

IF IT’S GOOD FOR NICCAS TO BE UNEMPLOYED ALL DAY LONG AND SIT ON THEY MAMA’S/BABY MAMA’S COUCH OR LIVE IN THE BASEMENT W/O CONTRIBUTING A DAMN DIME TO THE HOUSEHOLD THEN OLE GIRL CAN SIT AT HOME AND COLLECT CHILD SUPPORT AND RAISE HER KIDS ALSO

AND GUESS WHAT THE JUDGE AGREED-YALL MOFOS ARE ARGUING A MUTE POINT!

_____________________

I dont even think TI cares he has to pay extra…hes just that type of dude I think. I could see this Negro having a fifth or sixth by the end of next year.

Redd Tony…that’s the way to go ! Hey hun!

@TALLEY B

SWEETIE I WORK FOR MINE ALL DAY LONG-I’VE BEEN EMPLOYED SINCE I WAS OLD ENOUGH TO DO SO AND THAT WAS THE AGE OF 14

I WENT TO SCHOOL AND COMPLETED TWO DEGREES WHILE WORKING FULL TIME AND RAISING A CHILD-LAZY IS NOT AN OPTION FOR ME YA DIG

I WOULDN’T PUT MY LIFE/FINANCES IN THE HANDS OF A NICCA ANY DAY YA DIG? SO ALL DAY LONG I’M INVESTING AND SAVING TO MAKE SURE AINT NEVA GOTTA DEPEND ON A NICCA OR ANYBODY ELSE TO DO DAMN THING FOR ME!

HOW MANY OF YALL SUPPORT “GAME” WHEN A NICCA SWINDLE MONEY FROM A CHICK AND STAY DRESSED FRESHED TO DEATH, WHEN HE PUSH HER CAR SHE PAYING FOR, WHEN HE LIVING RENT FREE, NOBODY YELLS FOUL THEN IT’S ALL GAME AND SHE DUMB FOR ALLOWING HIM

ALL I’M SAYING IS THERE IS DOUBLE-STANDARDS WHEN IT COMES TO MEN AND WOMEN AND MOST OF THE WOMEN ON HERE SUPPORT THE NONSENSE

TI CHOSE OLE GIRL RIGHT? SHE DIDN’T RAPE HIM RIGHT? SO THAT NICCA AINT THE VICTIM YALL TRYING TO PAINT HIM OUT TO BE-

IF WOMAN SHOULD BE RESPONSIBLE AND ACCOUNTABLE, THEN MEN SHOULD BE TO

YALL SHOULD BE ARGUING THIS HARD ABOUT EDDIE MURPHY NOT SEEING HIS CHILD, BUT MANY OF YALL SAID AT LEAST HE PAY SUPPORT

THAT LOGIC ALONE IS WHAT I’M ATTACKING-YALL SET SUCH HIGH STANDARDS AND MORALS AND WOMEN BUT WHEN IT COMES TO MEN-YOU DON’T EXPECT MUCH OF NOTHING

@ Rossy

If she cant afford to take care of thoes kids with the money he gives well she needs to give them to him and get her life together and then get them back.

Thank you!!! But guess what if she did that, what would she get nothing and this is what its about, her, not her sons!!!

And I’m sorry, I have lived in the ATL and if you live within your means, not trying to be ballin’ when you can’t you can live quite comfortably!!

@ HELLO

IF SHE’S TAKING CARE OF THE CHILDREN ALL DAY THEN SHE’S DOING HER PART

AND TRUST ME I POST LIKE THIS ALL THE TIME

HENCE THE NAME INTENZEMOCHA-I PERSONALLY DON’T CARE WHAT PEOPLE THINK OF ME OR MY OPINIONS THAT’S WHY IT’S A BLOG IN THE FIRST PLACE

typo: not women- woman sorry ladies

@ Bahamas/Chicago/Cayman Girl

Bahamas/Chicago/Cayman Girl reply to angryazzblackwoman……

No one is demonizing black women, the reality is unfortunately there are women out there who use their children as a ticket to the good life! Why does she not have a job??? Why are people making reference to his current situation?? Tiny lives with him they are together, so no she can’t have what Tiny has, Tiny ain’t none of her business anyway!!! If he paid all their expenses, and had them check it 40% of the time, what does she need to provide for them? They are assuredly clothed, fed and their wants and needs are met by their father what could she possibly need more money for??? And her lawyer said she’s still not satisfied??? It is not his responsibility to take care of her, his responsibility is the children!!! That judge saw fit to give her $1000 more so obviously he proved he was doing his job as a Dad!! If she wants her and her sons to have a comprable life to the one t hey have when they are with their father, get up mama and get your own!! When you leave yourself financially dependant on a man, you leave yourself open to all kinds of BS, get your own, do for yoursel!! DAMN!!!

—————————————–

I swear I love my strong genuine level headed women. These are the types you want to deal with, fellas. Because dealing with these types is the reason why I never have anything bad to say about the women I’ve dealt with and they damn sure can’t say anything bad about me. It is standing on your on two, accolades to you, Bahamas/Chicago/Cayman Girl!

YOU PROBABLY SHOULD CARE, THATS THE PROBLEM IN THE FIRST PLACE…..SMH….SMH X 10

“you can take the children bounce them on your knees, bounce them on your knees and sing they melondies the “varnell man” can… “DID YOU MISS, ME”"?????

Being a mother is a job. Being a rapper is NOT a job! I know that he gets paid well for it, but it’s not a job.

@TALLEY B

WHATEVA-RIDE THEM NICCAS THAT AINT TAKING CARE OF THEIR KIDS JUST AS MUCH AS YALL RIDING OLE GIRL

PLAIN AND SIMPLE

AINT TRUST I WOULDN’T SIT AT HOME AND EXPECT A NICCA TO TAKE CARE OF ME, HALF OF THEM CAN’T TAKE CARE OF THEIR DAMN SELVES LESS KNOWN ME OR A CHILD

MAMA RAISED ME TO HAVE MY OWN-THAT’S WHY I TALK SH$T LIKE I DO CAUSE I CAN-I TAKE CARE OF ME AND MINES IRREGARDLESS OF WHAT A MAN MAY OR MAY NOT DO

I LOVE YOU Bahamas/Chicago/Cayman Girl !!! THANK YOU!!!

@ intenzemocha

What’s up with you? If they were a family it would not be a requirement for her to work. But, they are not. So she should work like everybody else. I’ve never heard of somebody that get’s pregnant but then don’t want to do her part in FINANCIALLY providing for the kids.

there is nothing worse than a woman (Black, white, whatver) holding her hand out for finances when she refuses to work…..dang…he is paying for the kids already…..all she has to do basically is take care of herself and she can’t even do that……I have a son and it scares that there are some women out there who function just like this….the judge needs to order her to find a job ASAP

I WILL RIDE A DEADBEAT, BUT IN THIS CASE, AND A LOT OF OTHER CASES, THESE MEN ARE DOING THE BEST THAT THEY CAN TO TAKE OF THEIR KIDS, AND YOU GOT SOME TRIFLING WOMEN OUT HERE THAT THINK ITS NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR THEM AND THEIR PERSONAL GAINS. IF YOU TAKE CARE OF YOURS, THEN THATS WHATS UP, IM NOT GONNA COMMEND YOU ON THAT, BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT YOU SUPPOSED TO BE DOING. BUT YOU CANT SIT UP HERE AND SAY THAT SHE IS LEGIT. SHE IS AS WRONG AS THE DEADBEATS AROUND HERE….

For every T.I. who pays child support, I can show you 100 men who don’t.

For every LaShon Dixon who gets $2,000-$3,000 per month, I can show you 1,000 other women who don’t get nothing.

@Ms Philly

Hey babes wuz good

@ CIRCA 81

EVERY MAN OR WOMEN OLD ENOUGH TO WORK SHOULD…YA DIG

THAT’S HOW I WAS RAISED AND I’VE NEVER BEEN UNEMPLOYED, I’VE WORKED CLEANING TOILETS, RETAIL, FAST FOOD, FINANCE, BANKING, ETC. ALL TO GET THE BILLS PAID-WHILE ATTENDING SCHOOL & RAISING A CHILD SO DON’T SPIT THAT NONSENSE AT ME ABOUT A JOB

ALL I’M SAYING IS THAT IT WASN’T A FACTOR OR SHOULD NOT BE A FACTOR WHEN CONSIDERING CHILD SUPPPORT IF THE WOMEN HAS A JOB OR NOT-AND OBVIOUSLY THE JUDGE FEELS THE SAME WAY

TI MUST HAVE KNOWN SHE DIDN’T LIKE TO WORK

STOP BEATING OLE GIRL UP AND GET ON MEN AND TELL THEM TO MAKE WISER CHOICES AS MUCH AS YALL BEATING UP HIS BABY MAMA YALL SHOULD GET AT TI EQUALLY FOR NOT MAKING SMARTER CHOICES

EACH ONE OF THEM IS RESPONSIBLE FOR THE OUTCOME OF THIS SITUATION AND TI AINT NO DAMN VICTIM

intenzemocha, you are tearing it up today!!! amen and open up the doors of the church.

Thats why I will remain celibate for now..

_______________

ummm yeah!

sure you right *snickering*

Wow, he’s only 27?!

SHEESH!

and another thing, if she needed that money to put a roof over their head, then he needs to have “full custody” of them.. his responsiblity is the CHILDREN, NOT THE MOTHER..

HI EARTH SIGN.. NICE GRAVIE

@intenemocha………….you said….HE SHOULD PAY HER MORE BECAUSE OF THE MERE FACT SHE IS THE PRIMARY CAREGIVER OF THOSE CHILDREN 24/7

24/7 would be 100% primary caregiver………did you read where the boys are wit him 40% of the time……..Look like she owes T.I.P some back pay

@ TALLEY B

THE JUDGE DIDN’T THINK SO AND IN THIS SITUATION THAT’S ALL THAT MATTERS….LOL

3K AINT HURTING TI’S POCKETS-NO HARM NO FOUL

TRUST ME I AINT THE TYPE OF CHICK TO SEEK BROWNIE POINTS ON-LINE ABOUT WHAT I DO, MY KIDS SHOW ME LOVE AND APPRECIATION AND THAT’S ALL THE KUDOS I NEED-I WOULD DIE BEFORE I WOULD LET MY KIDS GO WITHOUT A DAMN THING

CHILDREN NEED SECURITY AND I WOULDN’T EVEN TAKE THE RISK OF WAITING FOR A MAN TO DO SH$T AND TAKE A CHANCE OF HIM DISAPPOINTING MY KIDS-NAW KID I AINT HAVING IT

I don’t know T.I. personally or any other “stars”, but I have never met a black man who willingly paid child support. I’m not being insulting or anything, but including my father, stepfather, brothers, cousins, nephews and many many co-workers……none of them paid any child support until they were either arrested or had their wage garnishment.

Actually Atlanta’s cost of living isnt that bad compared to other major cities. What makes ATL expensive is everyone trying to live like a celebrity. Do you people realize that several families live off of less than 36k. You can get you a nice 3 bedroom house in ATL for under 1200 a month. Add in another 700 for a nice luxury car. Thats 1900, TI pays all of the kids other bills. So she is left with 1100 to pay utilities and feed the kids. Technically since she is using all of the things I just mentioned she should be paying half. So that knocks the 1900 down to 950 which leaves her with 2050 a month free to pay for these kids. Then no one takes into account that money is tax free which makes it the equivalent to around 50000 a year if she were working. Not lets be honest, I know there are a lot of people on here that dont make close to 50000/yr and they are getting by with whatever bills they have. So why just b/c TI wakes up and works everyday to live better and does provide for her kids does she need more money to emulate his lifestyle? Why cant she get up and work like the rest of the world?

Actually Atlanta’s cost of living isnt that bad compared to other major cities. What makes ATL expensive is everyone trying to live like a celebrity. Do you people realize that several families live off of less than 36k. You can get you a nice 3 bedroom house in ATL for under 1200 a month. Add in another 700 for a nice luxury car. Thats 1900, TI pays all of the kids other bills. So she is left with 1100 to pay utilities and feed the kids. Technically since she is using all of the things I just mentioned she should be paying half. So that knocks the 1900 down to 950 which leaves her with 2050 a month free to pay for these kids. Then no one takes into account that money is tax free which makes it the equivalent to around 50000 a year if she were working. Not lets be honest, I know there are a lot of people on here that dont make close to 50000/yr and they are getting by with whatever bills they have. So why just b/c TI wakes up and works everyday to live better and does provide for her kids does she need more money to emulate his lifestyle? Why cant she get up and work like the rest of the world?

fyi- 36k per month, when you don’t work isn’t poor!!! Furthermore, at “intenzemocha” you sure have a lot to say and it seems to stem from a personal experience, but ma, this is why you don’t just go around making babies!! Women have had to hold it down since the beginning of time on our own!! It doesn’t matter what he does, its about what you do!! So when you went there with this dude and had not one but 2 babies you accepted the responsibility of being a nurse, a teacher, a diciplinarian, a cook, washer and chief bottle washer for 18 years!! This is not a job that you should be compensated for, it is a choice that you made that has consequences!!

the one thing I agree with is that it takes two to tango…..people need to understand, everytime you have sex with someone without protection you have basically decided that you want that person to be the mother or father of your children…..I’m sure he did know that she was a deadbeat and was more than happy to have as many kids because she knew her financial future would be taken care of but does that absolve her from being a woman and working like the rest of us? Women like this Baby Mama give the rest of who work hard and make our money the good ole fashion way a bad name……all I’m saying is if the man is supporting your children in full why can’t the woman work to support herself? GET A JOB, STOP LOOKING FOR A MEAL TICKET, and show your sons what a real woman looks like!!!!

the whole child support system is ridiculous. it simply wasn’t set up for some of the issues we are seeing today.

i really believe old girl is stepping out right now because TI is going to jail soon. she has to establish herself in the court system because who knows what will happen once he goes to jail–maybe he will appoint a trustee to provide for the kids or maybe tiny might be in charge.

plus, if he really gave tiny a ring, that means he MAY actually marry her so old girl has to legalize and formalize her arrangement. maybe she went to tip and said let’s draw up some papers and he refused. maybe she said she needed an extra grand to compensate for the unknowns while he is away. who knows.

i do think she did the right thing by putting the arrangement on paper. it seems like he put her in a position of “taking it there” to the courts. she wouldn’t have sat down this long on $2k unless something popped off that made her want to act fast.

@Bahamas/Chicago/Cayman Girl

RE-READ MY POST I WOULDN’T PUT MY FUTURE IN THE HANDS OF ANY MAN LESS KNOWN A BLACK MAN BOO-I WORK ALL DAY EVERY DAY FOR EVERYTHING I GOT AND WOULDN’T ALLOW A MAN TO DANGLE $ AND GIFTS OVER MY HEAD SO HE CAN MANIPULATE AND CONTROL ME OR FOR ME TO TURN A BLIND EYE TO THE DIRT HE DOES

I AGREE WHOLEHEARTEDLY SHE SIGNED UP FOR A FULL TIME JOB WHEN SHE MADE THOSE BABIES

ANG GUESS WHAT TI DID ALSO-AND THAT IS WHY THE JUDGE AWARDED HER 3K ON TOP OF THE HEALTHCARE, PRIVATE SCHOOL, AND GIFTS YA DIG

JUST LIKE SHE HAS CONSEQUENCES FOR HER ACTIONS

THE JUDGMENT IS TI’S CONSEQUENCES FOR HIS ACTIONS!

She needs a job. How much money does she get from the other baby daddy?? She is sorry. All she wants to do is lay on her no job having ass and get money off them kids. She should be ashamed of herself if she had any type of respect. Her occupation is baby mama.

@ num1dominicano

if your boy’s bm is on public assist, then trust me that child support money isn’t going to her. she probably see’s the first 50.00 dollars of it, and the rest goes to the state to pay back what they’ve given her in public aid, at least that’s how they do that in cali, o and if he’s not satisfied he needs to get the order modified, especially if he’s got other children he’s taking care of.

back to the topic at hand, i’m glad she got more, but i think she was thinking along the lines of kim porter/kimora lee child support. well if she had a baby by diddy or russell maybe. lol, anyhow, she better use it wisely, i hope she is putting it away and not trying to keep up with tiny and her suitcase/purse game. oh and tiny’s son has a huge head, i hope that boy is a genius with all that brain matter in there.

and yes being a stay at home mother is a job, because even when the kid is in school there’s cleaning cooking and running errands. a mother’s job is not a nine to five, but runs 24/7 because even when they are sleep your still mothering, getting up in the night to check on them etc and you get no time off, no benefits, no 401 k….

@ Free….i really believe old girl is stepping out right now because TI is going to jail soon. she has to establish herself in the court system because who knows what will happen once he goes to jail–maybe he will appoint a trustee to provide for the kids or maybe tiny might be in charge

She was already established in the Child Support Courts…….dis was about getting more money….

Quote from the article:“She was just getting by with the children, while they lived a different life with their father. It can’t be complete opposites on the other side.”

=========================================================================

It may be unfair, but this is true and holds up in court in most middle class/upper class divorces/child support cases. The father can’t live in absolute luxury while the children live in squalor, and vice versa when the mother is the non-custodial parent but makes more money.

Still, I’d have a d@mn job or something. I can understand you wanting to get your kids what’s yours, but if she had a job and were doing something with her life other than sitting around while those kids are at school, she may have had a better settlement.

IF MY BABY MOTHER LEFT ME AND MARRIED A RICH MAN AND I HAD THE KIDS 40% OF THE TIME AM I ENTITLED TO GET SOME EXTRA PAPER FROM THEM? SHE NEED TO GET A JOB AND QUIT COUNTING THAT MAN PAPER.. LADIES KEEP IT REAL… WHEN IT’S TO THE LEFT TO THE LEFT, EVERYTHING YOU OWN IN THE BOX TO THE LEFT…LOL

@TALLY B

EVERY DAY SHE WAKES UP AND TENDS TO HER KIDS SHE’S DOING HER JOB AS A PARENT-AND SHE OBVIOUSLY SOUGHT MEANS TO PROVIDE FOR HER CHILDREN BY SEEKING COURT-ORDERED CHILD SUPPORT

SO IF IN FACT-TI’ DIDN’T PAY CHILD SUPPORT AND HER KIDS WERE WITHOUT BECAUSE SHE WASN’T WORKING THEN IN FACT SHE WOULDN’T BE UPHOLDING HER OBLIGATIONS AS A PARENT-BUT THAT ISN’T THE CASE

SO YOUR ARGUMENT IS NULL AND VOID-THE CHILDREN HAVE A ROOF OVER THEIR HEAD AND ARE BEING PROVIDED FOR POINT BLANK-AND LIKE YOU SAID THAT’S ALL THAT MATTERS

IF WHAT SHE WAS DOING WAS SUCH A CRIME-CHILD PROTECTIVE SERVICE WOULD BE CALLED

SO AS MUCH AS YOU DISAGREE WITH THE FACT THAT SHE CAN SIT AT HOME AND COLLECT CHILD SUPPORT-IT IS HER RIGHT-SO YOU ALL WILL JUST HAVE TO GET OVER IT

THAT MONEY HUNGREY HO NEEDS TO GET A JOB!!! STOP TRYING TO LIVE OFF TI’S LIVING!! $3,000 IS MORE THAN ENOUGH TO TAKE CARE OF TWO KIDS FOR A MONTH. BISH NEEDS TO GET A JOB!!

fyi- 36k per month, when you don’t work isn’t poor!!! Furthermore, at “intenzemocha” you sure have a lot to say and it seems to stem from a personal experience, but ma, this is why you don’t just go around making babies!! Women have had to hold it down since the beginning of time on our own!! It doesn’t matter what he does, its about what you do!! So when you went there with this dude and had not one but 2 babies you accepted the responsibility of being a nurse, a teacher, a diciplinarian, a cook, washer and chief bottle washer for 18 years!! This is not a job that you should be compensated for, it is a choice that you made that has consequences!!

*************************************************

co-sign..

I am a single mother.. and you know what i get child support.. but you know what, it doesn’t pay for the the sleepless nights, it doesn’t teach morals or responsiblity.. that child support BARELY covers daycare cost! but you know what.. i would rather my sons father be in his life, actively, rather than be a paycheck daddy.. i don’t put a price tag on my son.. nobody should. and that is what this chick is doing.. i’m glad that i’m not a “bitter baby mama”.. i takes care of mine, hold my house down.. i’ve been told by some bitter azz chicks.. to take him back to court.. FOR WHAT? Nah… i got this.. this is MY responsiblity.. it’s what being a Mommy is about.

gimme a break (vote for change)(Check me out!)

Thats why I will remain celibate for now..

_______________

ummm yeah!

sure you right *snickering*

_______________

No bull….Been about a month now…dont mess me up..(smile)

@Nu2this

Thanks Mama

@HELLO

SIT AND SPIN

I AINT CUSSING AT ANYBODY OR CALLING PEOPLE NAMES

I’M JUST STATING MY OPINION LIKE EVERYBODY ELSE AND SINCE MINE SEEMS TO DIFFER FROM MOST OF THE POSTERS I’M A TARGET

YOU DON’T LIKE WHAT I HAVE TO SAY SCROLL RIGHT PAST ME AND STOP PAYING ME SO MUCH ATTENTION

DON’T ATTACK ME ATTACK THE CONTENT OF MY POST-NOW THAT’S WHAT I DEEM AS IGNORANT

co-sign..

I am a single mother.. and you know what i get child support.. but you know what, it doesn’t pay for the the sleepless nights, it doesn’t teach morals or responsiblity.. that child support BARELY covers daycare cost! but you know what.. i would rather my sons father be in his life, actively, rather than be a paycheck daddy.. i don’t put a price tag on my son.. nobody should. and that is what this chick is doing.. i’m glad that i’m not a “bitter baby mama”.. i takes care of mine, hold my house down.. i’ve been told by some bitter azz chicks.. to take him back to court.. FOR WHAT? Nah… i got this.. this is MY responsiblity.. it’s what being a Mommy is about.

______________________-

1000% Cosign

@ intenM………If she wants more she needs to work for it…….She has them for a total of lil over 2 months more than TIP does…..so she should have to cough up some Child Support or don’t get that big payday she wanted……Sounds like she wanted 10,000 to 20,000 a month….

DAMN IT IS SOME IGNORANT PEOPLE UP HERE! FIRST OF ALL IF THE SHOW WAS ON THE OTHER FOOT YOU ALL WOULD BE SINGING A DIFFERENT TUNE! I UNDERSTAND WHAT SHE IS SAYING AS A MOTHER EITHER WAY DAMN SHE HAD YOUR KIDS AND IS TAKING CARE OF YOUR KIDS NAH YOU DON’T HAVE TO PUT HER UP IN THE RITZ BUT DAMN THIS IS 2008 AND IF YOU CAN GIVE YOUR KIDS ONE THING ESPECIALLY TWO AFRICAN AMERICAN FUTURE MEN ONE THING THAT SHOULD BE THEIR MOTHER TO BE THERE @ HOME TO WATCH THEM, COOK, DO HOMEWORK ALL THE THINGS THAT THE YOUTH IS MISSING NOW A DAYS. THE GUIDANCE. SHE MUST NOT BE DOING A BAD JOB BECAUSE HE IS NOT TRYING TO TAKE THEM FROM HER! NOW REMEMBER BACK IN THE DAY MOTHERS WERE @ HOME WITH THE KIDS AND WE DIDN’T HAVE ALL THIS VIOLENCE OR GANGS OR HELL HIGHSCHOOL DROP OUTS! IF TI HAS BEEN BLESSED WTIH ANYTHING HE HAS BEEN BLESSED WITH BEING ABLE TO GIVE HIS KIDS THAT! HE MADE THOSE KIDS WITH THAT WOMAN I DON’T KNOW IF TINY SAID THAT BLOG OR NOT AND DON’T REALLY CARE BUT LIKE IT SAID THE MAN MAKES THE KID AND TI MADE NOT ONE BUT 2 WITH HER! SO DAMN GIVE OLE GIRL SOME SLACK!

ARGUE WITH THE JUDGE OR CHANGE THE LAWS

NONE OF OUR OPINIONS MATTER-THE ONLY OPINON THAT MATTERS IS THE “JUDGE” AND IT’S OBVIOUS HE’S MADE HIS DECISION SO LIVE WITH IT….

YEAH, HERES THE THING. TI WAS THE ONE WHO GOT THE HOUSE, CAR, SCHOOLING, CLOTHING, AND ALMOST EVERYTHING ELSE. LIKE I SAID, SHE IS DOING SOMETHING, BUT SHE IS NOT DOING ALL THAT SHE CAN DO…AND JUST BECAUSE THE COURTS AND CPS WONT SAY ANYTHING DOESNT MEAN IT ISNT A CRIME, THAT IS PROVEN EVERY SONGLE DAY. LIKE I SAID, SHE GOT OVER, AND THATS A SHAME THAT FOLKS ARE BACKING SUCH A CRIME. YES, MA’AM, IT IS A CRIME, NO MATTER HOW YOU LOOK AT IT. MY ARGUMENT IS VALID BECAUSE TI DOING WHAT HE CAN, AND SHE ISNT….POINT BLANK. DAMMIT, SHES NO MORE THAN AN OVER PAID BABYSITTER RIGHT NOW….

Does this woman have a job? If not, she should get one.

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

YOUR OPINION AND YOUR ENTITLED TO IT

TOO BAD THAT DOESN’T CHANGE LAWS OR MAKE THEM

TINY AINT MARRIED EITHER

by the way, the judge’s name says it all…lol, j/k…

IF TI DECIDED TO LEAVE TINY TODAY SHE WOULD BE JUST ANOTHER BABY MAMA AND I BET SHE WOULD BE IN COURT ALSO MAKING SURE HER LIFESTYLE SHE AND HER KIDS ARE ACCUSTOMED TO CONTINUED…..

My mother didn’t get a DIME of child support, nor was my father in my life, but she made sure to provide for me. I’m also positive that’s what made me chill out and not get out of control and start having babies. I refuse to end up like this woman, where greed knocks the dignity out of your head.

It’s sad that it happens like this. Some men seem to love these “lazy, greedy skanks” (they must have great p*ssy or suck a mean d*ck) who don’t want to work but want to use the kids to ride the man’s “money train”. Only the wife gets a “free ride”.

Actually, the way the world works is NOT that the richest parent gets the kids. I don’t know why you all are stating he should get the kids because of his wallet. I think not. If that was how the world worked, 9 times out of 10 the husband/father would get the children because newflash people…

MEN MAKE MORE THAN WOMEN.

Although I guess things do change when we’re talking black men/black women.

@ intenzemocha & Nue2This

Kudos to you ladies!!These are level headed women, who do what they have to do, but this young woman, Ms. Dixon doesn’t appear to think the way she should be thinking. She is depending on TI for her livelyhood, she took him to court for more cash, she has not accepted her reponsibility for the decisions she made, she doesn’t work he does, he maintains those kids financially and trust me if you add up health insurance, PRIVATE school fees, clothing food etc, its alot more than $3000 this man is coming off of every month. I am not saying she is not a good mother, I hope she is and as a primary caregiver she gives alot, but she should be counting her blessings, because she has support, most women get nothing!! And I hope to God, she is saving her cash because who says he will be always “have it”.

@intenzemocha………ARGUE WITH THE JUDGE OR CHANGE THE LAWS

NONE OF OUR OPINIONS MATTER-THE ONLY OPINON THAT MATTERS IS THE “JUDGE” AND IT’S OBVIOUS HE’S MADE HIS DECISION SO LIVE WITH IT….

As a Man, I’m cool wit the decision……She don’t deserve no outragous amount like 10 or 20 thousand a month…..she ain’t even satified with the new ruling…..So who has the problem? Not me……

@CORPORATE

OUTLINE THE SPECIFIC ISSUE YOU HAVE WITH EITHER OF MY POST CAUSE OTHER THAN THAT-I’M NOT SURE WHAT ISSUE YOU ARE ADDRESSING TO ME SPECIFICALLY

SHE DOESN’T WORK OK AND…….MANY NICCAS DON’T WORK EITHER….AND…….YOUR POINT PLEASE

I WORK AND I TAKE CARE OF MY KIDS, THE ISSUE HERE WASN’T HER EMPLOYMENT STATUS IT WAS CHILD SUPPORT-SO NOT SURE WHY EVERYBODY’S TRYING TO RIDE ME BECAUSE I KEEP POINTING THAT OUT

THIS IS AN EXAMPLE OF RIDICULOUS CHILD SUPPORT — PUT THINGS IN CONTEXT PEOPLE… ($3,000 is not the come up. Can my people not have such a poor view of the world? Please? Thanks!) Mind you the example below is for a child that’s not even really HIS. See below ridiculousness:

Is it $35,000 a month, as he suggested in the prenuptial agreement; $50,000 a month, as they agreed to in the divorce settlement; or $75,000, as he paid from August 2000 to September 2001? How about $320,000, the amount of money she says was lavished each month on little Kira’s lifestyle while her parents got along?

Lisa Kerkorian is now asking the court to award Kira $320,000 a month — $3.8 million a year. As a compromise, she suggests Kerkorian pay $220,000 a month and allow his daughter to fly five times a year on his $56 million Boeing 737, which is equipped with a living room, a kitchen, two bedrooms and seats for 21 passengers.

I believe the mother is following the LAW and the judge is too. The cost living right now in America is outrageous. The cost of caring for two children adds to that stress. If the primary caretaker is entitled to additional funds to raise the children then so be it. It’s the law. If you are adult enough to have a baby (ies), then you have to be adult enough to deal with all the costs involved.

IF TI DID FALL OFF TODAY, OKAY, IT HAPPENS, IT WOULDNT BE TI’S FAULT. IM PRETTY SURE HE WOULD MAKE SURE THAT HIS KIDS ARE TAKEN WELL CARE OF…WHATS YOUR POINT…

IF THAT’S YOUR ARGUMENT THAT OLE GIRL IS MAD BECAUSE OF TINY & TI BEING TOGETHER -

HOW LONG HAS TINY AND TI BEEN TOGETHER AND SHE’S JUST NOW SEEKING COURT ORDERED PAYMENTS

YEAH THAT SOUNDS LOGICAL…….IF THAT WERE THE CASE SHE WOULD HAVE DONE IT A LONG TIME AGO

HIS RELATIONSHIP WITH TINY WAS NO SECRET AND HE’S BEEN MAKING PAPER SO C’MON NOW

The courts ruled 50,000 was fair.

A Los Angeles judge on Friday ordered billionaire Kirk Kerkorian to pay his ex-wife Lisa Bonder Kerkorian $50,316 a month to support their 4-year-old daughter in the style to which the little girl is accustomed.

Paul McCartney’s Child Support:

Paul McCartney has reportedly offered estranged wife Heather Mills a divorce settlement amounting to $235 million. Despite previous insider reports stating that McCartney is eager to argue the divorce before the courts, his children, including fashion designer Stella McCartney, have reportedly convinced him for the sake of his health to make a settlement and walk away.

The alleged $235 million deal that Macca has cut with Mills includes:

- A public lump payout of $19.6 million, which Mills will donate to charity.

- $3.9 million a year for care and child support of the couple’s three year-old daughter Beatrice.

Something else people should consider, when comparing this BM’s child support $ to Kim Porter’s or Kimora’s…Diddy was with Kim for ten years, which makes her his common-law wife, not just one of his BM’s. They also have more children together, and the age and needs of children are often a factor in cases like these. Diddy is also worth way more than TI financially but as someone already said, Kim Porter still works (even if she only makes appearances for $). She also has her own business. Kimora is Russell’s ex-WIFE, not just his BM. And we all know that Russ Simmons’ paper is loooooooooooong and it has been for several years. The money he’s paying for his kids has no impact on his lifestyle otherwise he wouldn’t have agreed with the arrangement. As someone said, wife versus BM or jump-off…each term leads to very different perks and levels of respect–if any. I’m a woman and like I said before, I think this chick should get a job and be productive. Most women would like to raise their kids at home but they can’t afford to. That doesn’t make them lesser-parents. If anything, kids respect their parents and follow the examples that they set. This chick is not setting a good example-as a woman or a mother.

Nobody cant pass judgement on their situation, because it is a lot we dont know…just sayin

@Rossy, I’m not saying men are paying too much child support. Paul McCartney and Kekorian are paying too much child support, though.

I am stating, however, that $3,000 is not the come up. And, I’m questioning how anyone could even think that’s a LOT of money for someone earning millions. That’s just ridiculous to me.

And, if this statement is true, T.I. is shady. From sandra rose:

Last week I received a letter from a woman who said she was Lashon Dixon’s friend. She agreed that T.I. gave his sons everything, inlcuding four wheelers, toys and clothing. But she said T.I. kept everything at his mansion for the children’s use when they came over

If TIP career falls short or ends today, he will still be well off……….but Child Support don’t last 4 ever…….

the system is NOT fair.. you have “good fathers” that take care of their children and are in their lives and play their part. then you got bitter azz baby mommas.. that hold on to the bullshyt and use their kids as a crutch.. b/c the relationship didn’t work, or whatever the case may be.. the “motives” are what matters… and the system is more on the woman side than trying to hear out the fathers.. some fathers are DEAD BEAT DADDY’s, but NOT all of them..

@ROSSY

THAT’S YOUR OPINION THAT HER TAKING CARE OF HER CHILDREN ON A DAY TO DAY BASIS IS NOTHING

JUST LIKE A MAN CAN BE A GOOD FATHER TO HIS CHILDREN IRREGARDLESS IF HE’S WORKING OR NOT

THAN A MOTHER CAN TOO….

YALL AINT GOING TO BEAT ME IN THE HEAD WITH THE B.S.

Kevin Federline and Britney Spears:

A source close to the singer confirms she’ll now pay Federline $20,000 a month in child support, an increase from $15,000.

@ Rossy-that’s right. Folks are always ‘plotting’ and scheming on what other people have instead of making their own money. As you said, Tiny’s also TI’s common-law wife. Heck, you can tell by the way they pose in pix and the fact that they go EVERYwhere together that they love each other. If things went bad between them she would be SET-UP: probably wouldn’t even have to go to court.

@Rossy

Ever notice how stars tend to have duplicate nurseries for their kids? So that the kids can still have consistency?

How shady is it if he does MAKE them keep it at the house they’re at 40% of the time? Why would he do that? It’s not hard to transport toys.

You know why, to show the kids they have a BETTER LIFE at his house and bribe them to stay there. I know I would increase the time spent at a particular house if, say, my computer could only be there.

It’s called bribery. And, it’s pretty effective with kids. That’s why parents have to have that, don’t go into a car with a stranger who has a lollipop. Kids are easily bribed.

But, mind you, the kids will be spending 100% of their time with the mama soon. T.I.’s going to jailllllllllll. Jail! And, that’s despite good lawyers.

Although the person of money is also to have good enough lawyers to always win. But, occassionally you have to make concessions and spend a grand more or serve a year. Can’t beat everything.

It’s all good.

@Persona

If dad is keeping the toys at his house it’s because something is going on at mommy’s where the toys and other items are not secure. I don’t know many single non working moms that get 40 percent of their time off. This chick is triflin.

@richard, if something was going on at mommy’s he’d have full custody.

But, he doesn’t, and you know why…

T.I. is actually a felon. Despite being a rapper, he’s also a criminal. He buys guys. Sold drugs. And had a record before making a record. He’s actually a bad guy. Let’s all be honest, T.I. has done WRONG.

A normal parent could actually get their kids taken away from them FOREVER for his crimes. And, would actually go to jail for a long long time. But, he’s not, because he has the perks of money.

So again, why wouldn’t he want to use those perks for his kids?

Buys guns.

Kid Rock has custody of his son because his girlfriend was shady

Kid Rock has custody of his son because his girlfriend was shady

persona(Check me out!)

Kevin Federline and Britney Spears:

A source close to the singer confirms she’ll now pay Federline $20,000 a month in child support, an increase from $15,000.

_________________-

That a lot for a CS payment but Britany makes about 750k a month

@Rossy. He will be. No worries. I think the court made a good decision with the increase.

My comments have been more of devil’s advocate and trying to get people to aim a little higher. Stop associating all things by black people as trifling. And, think ahead towards building a future.

Child support is not a come up, and $36,000 is NOT a comeup.

Case closed.

A friend of mine got separated from his wife..so you know in time she always threatened to take him for child support even though he took care of his daughter. Well he thought it would be smart to take himself for child support because he thought the system would be lenient on him because he took himself. Come to find out he paying out the ass right now…dumb ass

Told ya’ll

Hmmm

50 pays 6700 for one kid…

Ti pays 3000 for two….

diddy pays 50 k for four…

and 10 k for the other one…

that Nicca got off good…. and like he said it aint trickin if you got it… well trick that on them kids…

That broad needs a job, period.

“Dixon’s attorney, Randy Kessler, said his client is still unsatisfied with the amount the judge ordered T.I. to pay but is happy to receive more child support. “Every little bit helps,” Kessler said. “She was just getting by with the children, while they lived a different life with their father. It can’t be complete opposites on the other side.”

_________________________________________________

When your father works and your mother does not work, it CAN very well be opposites on the other side as far as lifestyle, especially if they’re not together. That female is lazy and is depending on child support to survive. If she wants more money then she needs a job. These are the females I want to slap the sh*t out of. You are blessed with an easy 3Gs a month, to blow off, so a smart person would expand their wealth, by investing, owning their own business, getting a job, etc. Dumb trick!

3 geez is enough when he got them damn near half the time and paying for medical and private school.. that broad is trying to live largelong as T.I. got a good trust fund for his kids he’s doing his job

Should there be a mean’s test…..like you shouldn’t be able to have sex or have a baby if you don’t have a job?

Cuz, if we do, lots of us wouldn’t be here!!

one word VASTECTOMY!!!!!

Bottom line – she should get a JOB! She’d have twice the amount of money to play with if she was brining in her OWN check! She’s not a stay at home mom…stay @ home moms have a HUSBAND WHO LIVE IN THE SAME HOUSE AS THEM. She’s just a non-educated, hood chick who probably can’t get or keep a job because of (a). Attitude (i dont need this, my baby daddy is TI) or (b) Lack of Education. Yeah, TI has the $$, but she also has the ability to go out and work – even if it’s part time. Show your children some drive and motivation to succeed in life without digging in daddy’s pockets!!! TIs money should NOT be spent on her hair, clothes and girlfriend outings.

Everyone on here has a point, I mean the judgement has been handed down and it is what it is BUT the fact that her attorney said she still wasn’t satisfied killed it! Apparently our comments can’t change the laws but Ms. Dixon wasn’t satisfied with the decision either. I wonder if T.I. is satisified. She’s just getting by.. WOW!!

BOOOOO to anyone who thinks T.I. owes this broad anything!!!! I do not know why people think that a man who is NOT YOUR HUSBAND supposed to take care of you.

Kessler said. “She was just getting by with the children, while they lived a different life with their father. It can’t be complete opposites on the other side.”

HAHA…I have an idea how about the check step her game up and the kids can have a better life with her too!!!!!!!!!

The underlying issue here for Miss Dixon appears to be ENVY & GREED!! Its not a race issue!! Why she should get a pass because she’s black and not have to work for hers like all the other solid , independent BLACK MAMAS out there doing what they have to do??!!! Why should he maintain her house

and his as well?? Why is that fair?!!

________________________________________

Those are things that should be thought about before you stick your dick in it. Whether she’s greedy, envious or lazy….that’s a choice that he made when he decided to have children with her. Give her the goddamn money and be quiet. If you want to be “superwoman” who can bring home the bacon and fry it up in a pan and drop a baby and be back to work in two days, so be it. Maybe she don’t see it that way. Maybe she supported him before he got famous. Maybe she thinks that she deserves some cake too. Whatever it is, he needs to give her more money.

And another thing–

How do we know that she doesn’t already have a job? I didn’t read anything about her not having one. Plus–like I said in the other T.I. post–if he has multiple children by mulitple women and he’s rich, the CHILDREN should live at a standard similar to his.

What he may need to think about is custody.

I’m just saying.

Either she didn’t ask for much or T.I. doesn’t have as much money as I thought.

BOOOOO to anyone who thinks T.I. owes this broad anything!!!! I do not know why people think that a man who is NOT YOUR HUSBAND supposed to take care of you.

_______________________________________________

If he promises too, he should.

Tip Harris needs to just set up a trust fund or some type of insurance policy that pays out when the kidds turn 21. That way the babys mama cant say what he didnt do. So when the kidds turn 21 they have about a half million or more to start out life right. This type of policy only cost about $70 a month. Those reading this post need to check it out also, white people been doing this for years. I set my kidds up in the early 90s and their mama is real happy about it.

Some of you chicks are straight crazy. Get married FIRST, then you won’t have to worry about what they next chick gets compared to you. Many of you disgruntled chicks need to quit. LIfe OWES you nothing, you owe to yourself to mnake BETTER decisions in your life. TI is doing more than enough, and please know & understand that those two boys aren’t huerting for a dman thing and he hads OTHER children that he tkes care of. Wonder why those chicks are sweating hi. Probably becuase they HAVE JOBS and know that their own worth isnt’ predicated on an ex. who got lucky n the rap game. Obviously this Dixon chick has no shame and she’s straight ghetto material. TI OWES HER NOTHING, his only obligation is to that tow boy he had with her. She doesn’t have the right to expect to live off of TI when they were never married.

And some of you keep mentioning Tiny as if she has anything to do with this. At least she was a in a TOP selling group once upon a time and HAS some money. S ome of you chicks expect T to take care of her. This chick has a kid with another man & expects TI to take care of HER, the two kids they had together, plus another dude’s kid and probably the dude to. She needs to get up off of her ass & become a better mother & more responsible for HER OWN well being instead of trying to milk TI for all he’s worth.

Some of you chicks are bitter single parents that HATE the fact that you laid down with dogs & now you got all of these fleas to take care of. NEWFLASH- You are the captin of your ship, if you sail into treacherous waters, that’s the chance you take. Go out & better yourselves, so that you children know what good character, integrity and self-reliance is all about.

Those of y ou advocating that he pay more, wel, if the judge & the LAW was satisfied with what he was already doing, who in the hell are some of you chicks to say otherwise.

Better yourselves, go back to school to make life BETTER for you & your seeds. Chicks like this Dixon chick gives decent black a bad name. She needs to get out & get a job. It’s just that simple.

Outside of that TI OWES HER NOTHING. The boys yes, her NO!! Damn that. Get out there and make an honest living if not for yourself, then for the BOYS.

For dumb muthaf u c k a s that think TIP is only paying 3,000 when it CLEARLY says he take care of all the boys exspenses and some of hers too….NEEDS TO KILL THEMSELVES………

Didn’t I read somewhere that he’s getting ready to hits the bricks??

I guess she’s tryin’ to get hers before he’s locked up??

*hit

3,000 a month is nothin really. for 2 growing boys. Tiny got a new designer bag every time u turn around, its not fair to the kids. I think he got a good lawyer so SHE needs a BETTER one. T.I should be a shame he’s only paying 1500/ amonth for each kid. Those kids are big, and Kids want expensive electronics, trips, big parties, ect .That isnt enough after her rent, she aint got nothin left..

3,000 a month is nothin really. for 2 growing boys. Tiny got a new designer bag every time u turn around, its not fair to the kids. I think he got a good lawyer so SHE needs a BETTER one. T.I should be a shame he’s only paying 1500/ amonth for each kid. Those kids are big, and Kids want expensive electronics, trips, big parties, ect .That isnt enough after her rent, she aint got nothin left..

It’s some bitter Hoes on these boards and in the Child Support System……….

Thank you Goat 76

@Sybil Blaize…..Did you not READ were he takes care all of that extra stuff that she don’t have to worry about, he even take care of some of her problems……

AGAIN…the chicks along with the dicks need to work out a solution for their problems that suits them! Stop attacking the women as if they made a baby by themself and have a nerve asking for support…stop attacking the men who take care of their children with what they have. To think that somehow TI is above a female he laid down with and made not one but TWO babies with NOW that he has money is stupid.

She is no different from Tiny as NEITHER of them had a written agreement for support of any children they would have because NEITHER were ever married to him. Marriage certificates just HELP organize the legalities after breakup. Nothing more nothing less. If you don’t believe me ask Bryant Gumbel’s ex-WIFE who had a hard time collecting child support from him after their breakup.

@1TruDiva-

When this story first came out it was reported in TI’s statement (through his attorney) that LaShawn Dixon doesn’t work and chooses to live off the support granted by the courts. Her lawyer has never repudiated it.

Are you people slow? she does NOT pay rent. he pays all of HER utilities, mortgage, car payments, and gas money.The KIDS are straight. Yall need to get a clue. She needs to get a job.

Some of you chicks are bitter single parents that HATE the fact that you laid down with dogs & now you got all of these fleas to take care of. NEWFLASH- You are the captin of your ship, if you sail into treacherous waters, that’s the chance you take.

____________________________________________

I say the same thing to you stingy ass dudes who don’t want to pay. You know the woman is a gold digger before you stick your dick in it. After you have a couple of kids with someone, you’re off to greener pastures with a new chick and you want to leave your baggage behind and don’t want to be reminded of it.

Many of you want to forget that children are legacy costs. This includes their mothers, too.

And no, I am not a bitter single parent. I’m still a virgin. I’m just waiting until my boyfriend gets out of jail……….but he doing life without parole (LOL)!!

Peep Eye,

I’m a woman and mother, I also worked EVery damn day. She’s NOT his WIFE or his significant other, so he OWES HER NOTHING. NADA!!! ZELCH!!! ZERO!!!! He already TAKES good care of those children who want for nothing daddy DOES take care of THEIR NEEDS.

Get some self-esteem & make better choices in your life.

For all of you who have a problem with her asking for more money are stupid and brainwashed. For centuries men have been providing for the mothers of their children. She is not some stripper in a club, this woman gave him two sons, and there is not enough money in the world to replace them. For all the men who would rather have their children’s mother work than stay at home with the children are not putting the children first. Day Cares are full of corruption, pedophiles, and other degenerates. You all missed the point, T.I. doesn’t have a problem taking care of his children’s mothers. He bought the house and the car so his children wouldn’t be in an apartment or the bus. He knew this chick didn’t work when he got her pregnant the first and second time. Now she wanted more money, and the judge agreed she should get more, not the amount she wanted but the most important thing is the children won’t do with out. People are always making statements about the lack of morals in our youth, it’s because they were raised by daycare providers, teachers, and the television instead of their mothers. At no point did T.I. or his lawyers say she was a bad mother so why is it assumed she would spend the money or her needs instead of the childrens. Some people listen to too much rap music and feel all women are hoes and gold-diggers. Real men and women don’t have a problem with this situation. But single mothers who don’t get squat from the fathers can’t see why this woman has it better than they do. Men who have never been a custodial single parent, and girlfriend and second wives who are angry their man has to break off another woman and can’t upgrade you. Get over it. Child support is needed, the law and calculated by the non-custodial parents income. I personally think it is an excellent law one of the few that protect all parties. The father, the mother, and the children.

These children are of school age, They are not that small.

Then why did the judge order him to pay more???

If he doesn’t owe her anything why did the judge give her more money? He has more dough and better lawyers. Obviously in the laws of the land he did owe her more.

People are getting lost by the discussion. No one debates whether he should pay child support BUT after buying a house and a car for her AND paying for all things the children need including school and the 2000 a month..why the extra money? It’s for her.

If TI has the children 40% of the time and they are of school age why is she unemployed? If she wants the extra money for things that she wants for herself then most of us have reason to frown on that.

It’s called USING the children.

@blaq……..probably because of our f u c k ed economy, inflation, rising gas prices affects everything….no more than a cost of living raise….

Thge judge covered his butt. He gave her more but not the personal windfall she thought she was getting.

Responsibility of the kids is with both parents equally. Both should be financially contributing to their kids. End of story.

blaq(Check me out!)

At no point did T.I. or his lawyers say she was a bad mother so why is it assumed she would spend the money or her needs instead of the childrens.

____________________________________________________

That’s what I don’t get…alot of these fellas MET these women with no jobs and even had no jobs themselves! I’d much rather she ask her kids dad for the money to help raise their children than MY ASS!

@ Blaq

12k a year to shut her up. The judge gave a decision he could defend to anyone. He had the discretion tomake it as high as 10k a month but he didn’t.

Big ups to y’all for staying on topic and not using this website & forum as a chat room…

*I know I participate too but it’s been getting out of hand lately…

@ realwoman

So if you have ababy with a triflin broad the law shoul perpetuate her being triflin?

Some you chicks are NO COUNT women anyways, so you’re always on the prowl for a come up at the expense of others. I’m warning my son about devious women like some of the ones who have posted on here.

CHOICES!!!!! CHOICES!!!!! CHOICES!!!! MAKE BETTER ONES!!!!

DECISIONS ABOUT YOUR LIFE ARE SERIOUS!!!! LEARN TO TAKE CARE OF YOURSELVES FIRST!!!!!! STOP DEPENDING ON OTHERS FOR YOUR WELFARE!!!!! BE RESPONSIBLE FOR THE CHOICES AND DECISION YOU MAKE IN YOUR OWN LIVES!!!

BEING AN ADULT REQUIRES THAT YOU TAKE RESPONSIBILTY FOR YOUR OWN ACTIONS. BE HELD ACCOUNTABLE FOR THE CHOCES AND/OR DECISIONS YOU MAKE IN YOUR PERSONAL LIFE.

GET A CLUE!!!!

@ Circa81:

“No one is demonizing black women, the reality is unfortunately there are women out there who use their children as a ticket to the good life! Why does she not have a job???”

Can you please show mewhere it says she doesn’t have a job?? Please, do me that favor – show me where it has been insinuated and proven that this girl is not gainfully employed……..

She shouldn’t have got the increase. She should get a job. Normally, I’d have to agree but she does need to provide for her own child. They should’ve decreased the order….

CHOICES!!!!! CHOICES!!!!! CHOICES!!!! MAKE BETTER ONES!!!!

DECISIONS ABOUT YOUR LIFE ARE SERIOUS!!!! LEARN TO TAKE CARE OF YOURSELVES FIRST!!!!!! STOP DEPENDING ON OTHERS FOR YOUR WELFARE!!!!! BE RESPONSIBLE FOR THE CHOICES AND DECISION YOU MAKE IN YOUR OWN LIVES!!!

BEING AN ADULT REQUIRES THAT YOU TAKE RESPONSIBILTY FOR YOUR OWN ACTIONS. BE HELD ACCOUNTABLE FOR THE CHOCES AND/OR DECISIONS YOU MAKE IN YOUR PERSONAL LIFE.

GET A CLUE!!!!

_______________________________________

I believ those statements are somthing that we can all agree on. We don’t stress it nearly enough.

@Blaq…..I don’t have a problem with the decision, it’s the Baby Mother that has the problem and is unsatified with the decision…..You or anybody else can’t say that the decision made by the Judge is not adequate to raise 2 kids….Knowing that all the other stuff is taking care of and some of her problems are taken care of by him as well…..I think some of these women on this board want TIP to have to give her 20 or 40 thousand a month….is that what ya’ll want

always knew

THAT IS THE ONLY PROBLEM SHE IS NOT PUTTING IN HER PERCENTAGE

_____________________________________

Maybe her percentage is helping with homework, going to PTA, cooking, cleaning, washing, Little League, taking them to the doctor, going to get eyes checked, dental visits, shopping for clothing, bathing, bedtime stories, getting them to school on time. Maybe that’s her percentage.

“SMDH

GO THRU THIS SITE AND YOU WILL SEE THE FIRST POSTING OF THIS MAYBE 1 TO TWO WEEKS AND IT WAS NEVER DENIED.”

What was never denied?? If the girl hasa job or not?? When wasit decided that this girl is not employed?? Are you saying that she wasasked if she is unemployed and she said yes?

@ Richard

the judge did not have the option to make it $10K a month if the fathers income did not constitute that amount. That is why there are laws because after the love is gone people don’t agree on what is best for the children. I personally think T.I. is a good father and a responsible man. He wants his children to have the best, that is why he gave her those presents, i.e. a house, car, etc. for all I know he gave her those things before they broke up and therefore have nothing to do with a support order.

@Rossy

do you think your child would want to be with their father instead of you, because the dad had more money? Most children, even teenagers love their mothers more than money.

@ soulfultea

also warn your son about safe sex, and to only make babies with his wife, treat her well and child support will not be an issue.

If you think $36K a year is a come up for a gold digger. You need to step your game up! that’s petty cash. A real gold digger wouldn’t have had kids for a rapper without a record deal. For all we know she may have been paying the bills in the beginning. Trust unsigned rappers are the poorest dudes out there, when they do get a dollar it’s going for flyers, tracks, suspect jewelry and anything else they feel will help them get on.

These people in here are attacking this woman because they are at work right now.

If T.I. can pop bottles all night and go on shopping sprees for his woman he certainly can pay the mother of his children more money. He spends more than $3000 a month on entertainment alone.

I find it strange that people don’t have a problem with him spending in excess on material things, but has a problem paying for child support.

@ goat

I only want what is best for the children, it makes me happy to see black children live a priviledged lifestyle. I think a lot of people are more concerned with the mother of his children (the greatest gift you can give someone by the way is a child)buy a $20 dress on his dime, than the kids being able to say mommy I want…. and she can go get it.

Blaq,

That’s a no brainer and his FATHER is active in his life & always has been. I am 40 y/o so I know all about women, I am one, so trust & know that I am arming my son against the no count women who don’t want to do right in their own lives let alone the lives of their children.

So trust I’m on it and btw the way, I have a 17 old daughter too, they are both constantly being schooled in the ins & outs of realtionships and what roles they play in them.

I got this. Thanks in advance.

@ Rossi heck know…

and i have to remind people all the time that tiny was in a platinum/gold group…

and she didnt smoke crack… couple that with ATL cost of living and a few investments and she can buy her own damn designer bags…

i dont think TI has that much money… he needed help with the 3 milli bail out…

all im saying is before you trick on a stripper or let it rain on a hoe…

break bread with them kids…. 2 k is enough… i know women that can get by out her with 1 k a month and there own damn job…

but if i call myself a king then everyone of my kids will live just as good as me if not better.

i would like to get her side… see if she is as ignorant as shaniqua…

@ Rossy

jUST A G THAT IS NOT MUCH MORE MAYBE TO HER BROKE BUT YEAH BUT THAT IS ALL THE TANGBLE MONEY SHE WILL GET. WHEN THOSE BOYS GET OLDER THEY WILL WANT TO BE WITH DADDY AND AT 11 YOU CAN SPEAK FOR THEMSELVES SO IN 3 TO 4 YEARS THEY ARE GOING TO LEAVE.

So what will make them want to leave their mama?

***Here***

@ Rossy

I read your comments and do not agree. Men such as T.I. have their priorities mixed up. She should be receiving more money.

I don’t know what her level of education or employment status is but the kids are the main concern. If she was just getting by and T.I. refused to assist the mother of his children further then something is wrong.

He should want his children to live comfortably in both residences. If he was still sleeping with her it would not be a problem. How twisted is that? His children are of more importance than paying for parties, tiny’s handbags and paying for their shopping sprees.

SMDH/ right you i bet Michael Strahan’s wife gets way more and that white hoe who got pregnant by NBA player Shawn Kempp says she gets 20,000 mthly.

She choose to have two kids with him and she should also be contributing financially as well. They are her kids too.

Kelisha,

HE IS PAYING A SUFFICIENT AMOUNT OF CHILD SUPPORT? This chick was looking for ADULT support as if she has no responsibility to herself.

Two kids in private school, that’s about 30 grand a year, that Dixon DOES NOT HAVE TO PAY, then there’s the house, that TI put a substantial dwon payment on, Dixon is only responsible for the mortgage, TI PAID for the car she drives, she doesn’t have a car note, he pays for everythins.

what the hell does she do. And you damn rigth we’re at work, something that a responsible ADULT does. YOu don’t know? You better ask somebody.

He is not married to her, his only obligation is to those children and apparently he has been providing for all along.

CHOICES!!!!! CHOICES!!!! CHOICES!!!!!

DECISIONS ABOUT YOUR PERSONAL LIFE ARE SERIOUS!!!

BE HELD ACCOUNTABLE FOR YOUR ACTIONS!!!

TI IS BEING HELD ACCOUNTABLE!!! WHAT IS MS. DIXON DOING? WHAT IS SHE DOING TO BETTER HERSELF? WHAT?

@ Rossy

no she needs to do what is best for her children, and I don’t necessarily think that is sending them to daycare and working. But if she chooses to live off of a meager income that is her choice. We all have choices so we should do what is right for us and not what other people think.

As a black person, WE need to realize the court system was NOT created to deal with 70% out of wedlock births. Child support is based on the income you would provide if you and the mother of your children lived together. There is a simple solution to this problem:

1. Finish high school

2. finish college (or a skilled trade school)

3. establish your career

$. Date seriously

5. Get engaged

6. Get MARRIED!

7. Buy a home through saving and not buying luxury cars, etc.

8. Enjoy married life for a few years

9. THEN HAVE CHILDREN

This is a fool proof way to avoid child support issues on both sides.

T.I. has them 40% of the time and she is the primary care taker.

I think some women get pissed off with her because they are struggling to makes ends meet or are just getting by minimum help for their childrens father.

T.I. is making millions of dollars and he should not be ordered by a judge to help the mother of his children. He should of taken the initiative and offered to pay more money since she is having a hard time.

Children should be treated fairly, not according to their birth order. Just because him and tiny are still together does not mean that his first 2 children should live on the poverty level 60% of the time.

@Blaq……….It’s some women on here that are mad at the decision, I’m cool wit it…….You know just as well that those boys are taken better care of than some of our grown asses…..are you serious about this last statement “buy a $20 dress on his dime, than the kids being able to say mommy I want…. and she can go get it.” HELLO WAKE UP SMELL THE S H I T in the toliet…..TIP is paying for all the exspenses of the boys….has even payed for some of her exspenses…and on top of that she gets CHILD SUPPORT….So what is she doing with the CHILD SUPPORT…she don’t have to pay for their school, their food, clothes, activities, doctor bills, etc….she still gets the same amount even when she don’t have the kids 40% of the time…..So where does the child Support goes…..seems like everything that should be used toward the Child Support payments is already taken care of…….and she is still not satisfied…..

@ Rossy

I am so through trying to make these people understand!! WHY DOES SHE WANT MORE!!! WHAT DOES SHE NEED MORE FOR PEOPLE!!!! If not for his kids they for whom???

You have stopped trying to make them see reason, and so shall I!!!

@ Rossy

you don’t have a clue about that household or what type of mother she is. And if you think the kids are going to want to leave their MAMA because she asked their daddy for more money you don’t have a clue about children. Children are loyal to their mama’s even when they are drug addicts prostitutes, abusive, absent etc. That is the thing about children they love unconditionally. Those kids are going to remember their mama cooking them dinner taking them to school comforting them when they had a bad dream, I highly doubt they will fault her for this. Please!

anonymous

SMDH/ right you i bet Michael Strahan’s wife gets way more and that white hoe who got pregnant by NBA player Shawn Kempp says she gets 20,000 mthly.

_________________________________________

Yeah, I don’t hear nobody harping on them to get a job. I don’t hear nobody harping on K-Fraud to get a job either. You don’t hear them telling white women or white men to get a job. Only if your’re a young black woman……do you need to get a job.

“As a black person, WE need to realize the court system was NOT created to deal with 70% out of wedlock births. Child support is based on the income you would provide if you and the mother of your children lived together. There is a simple solution to this problem:”

Actually – its just the opposite. Its put in place for men who would otherwise run off without taking care of their kids.. Marriage has very little to do with it.. ALIMONY is set up for married couples, not child support..

@ goat

yeah I’m serious. Medical bills, private school, and sports have nothing to do with utility bills, food, gas in the car. When your child want to know why he has to wait for daddy to come off tour so he can get the new jordans. But these are things that are not going to be agreed upon, that is why professionals are called upon to determine proper amounts.

“THESE ARE SOME BABY MOMMA WHO MAN DIDNT WANT THEM AND DIDNT WANT THE CHILD SO WHEN A GOOD MAN IS DOING WHAT HE HAS TO DO THEY WANT TO PULL HIM DOWN GET A LIFE I AM DONE.”

And this is all the more reason why laws and judges are in place to make sure men do not run off without providing for their children.. If a man does not want a woman that does not give him the right to abandon the child who never asked to be here..

And is he doing what he’s supposed to or is he doing it becuase he doesn’t have a choice cause the IRS/Child Support Division is all over that paper????

@SMDH……..The reason they b i t c h is because the money ain’t for the kids, it’s for the Greedy, bitter women……….If I buy me a car today, should I buy my child one too…..GTFOH thats some dumb logic to use….These kids are taken well care of before the Child Support…Trust funds for college, savings, etc..plus they already taking care of exspenses that the child support payment is for……like school, clothes, food, doctor bills, activities………

In the world we live in if you are a wealthy person male or female and you marry or have children with someone who is not wealthy you are going to have to pay to keep them in a lifestyle similar to yours, period, so we can spout the get a job and she’s a chickenhead all you want, but he fact 90% women do not have babies for the child support, and 90% of men promise to take care of the women before and after the baby comes. So if this is not a situation you approve of condoms are $1 @ any store or free at planned parenthood, the morning after pill is $20 with no prescription at walgreens, and a woman cannot get pregnant without the help and consent of a man.

“If T.I. can pop bottles all night and go on shopping sprees for his woman he certainly can pay the mother of his children more money. He spends more than $3000 a month on entertainment alone.”

*********************************************

Ok, I lied one more thing..no one should dictate what this man can and can’t do with his money! He has a career that he has worked for based on talent and business savvy. Whether she assisted him in anyway to get where he is I don’t know, but being the mother of his children DOES NOT entitle her to go along for the ride!

Also he was not married like Micheal Strachn was, that is commuity property!! I thought Misa Brimm was riduclous in the extreme, because he housed and clothed and cared for his son as well, why was she hollering for 20K a month???

YOu got that right ROssy.

They mad becuase they choe to lay down with a no good guy & then DECIDED to forgo birth control & have kids by a no good, no count guy.

they’re taking mighty personally as if they have a stake in all of this.

Look at them Rossy, they are mad, mad, mad & more mad. And the funny thing about it all is TI isn’t their children’s father.

Graduate from High School

Got to college or get a trade

Get a decent paying job

Buy a home

Pay of your car note

date casually to feel things out

then date seriously as previously mentioned

Get engaged

then get married

travel the world with your spouse so you two can spoiled each other

then make the DECISION to have babies.

Get a clue young ladies.

Oh & protect yourself, the greater burden is on YOU!!

Why?

Because you are the vessel in which a new life is carried it, so it behooves you to look after your own sexual welfare.

MAKE BETTER & SOUND CHOICES FOR YOUR PERSONAL LIFE!!

LEARN HOW TO LOVE YOURSELF FIRST!!!

NEVER MAKE SOMEONE A PRIORITY WHEN YOU’RE MERELY AN OPTION!!!

GET A CLUE LADIES!!

If you are just getting by, that is the poverty level.

If the children are in her care 60% of the time she should not have to worry about finances.

It takes more than $2000 a month to care for children. T.I. know this. He should want the mother of his children to have a stress free enviroment.

If he paid her $6000 a month it would not hurt his pockets. I am sure he spends more than that monthly on frivolous things that he didn’t even need.

It appears that someone may not want another man to benefit off of his wealth.

This is usually the reason why a wealthy man would not want to pay more support for his children.

@ Rossy

I stated I feel tip is not only a good father but a responsible man. But money is not going to make those boys want to leave their mama. I honestly feel you are more upset at the mama than tip is. He didn’t have a problem providing for her, just like he doesn’t have a problem providing for the mothers of his other children. I personally think if she went about it in a better fashion he would have gave her anything she asked for.

@blaq………yeah I’m serious. Medical bills, private school, and sports have nothing to do with utility bills, food, gas in the car. When your child want to know why he has to wait for daddy to come off tour so he can get the new jordans. But these are things that are not going to be agreed upon, that is why professionals are called upon to determine proper amounts.

—————————————————

This is America ain’t nothing FREE….you want TIP to do all that….what is she suppose do to help provide… What does the 2 + 1 thousands dollars a month is for…..He has helped with down payments on housing and transportation….I guess he should pay for oil changes too….people forget that they are with him 40% of the time meaning she ain’t taking care of them at that time and is still recieving Childs Support payments…..

dayum TI didn’t have a “problem” paying the child support. it was “allegations” that the BM said that she couldn’t afford to live and blahzawhop.. he was giving her 2000.00 a month, that’s just what he was giving HER. but he was also paying for EVERYTHING else. I wonder if half of yall commenting on this #1 has children or #2 knows of a GOOD FATHER that is going through this type of bullshyt with a bitter azz baby momma. cause it’s BULLSHYT. and color has nothing to do with it, it’s PEOPLE in general..

@SMDH…how do you know that those men ain’t taking care of their kids, even though they ball out, once you take care of you responsibilities, you can do whatever you want with your bread, because it’s you bread……

It takes two to tango….thats the problem with black males he wants to make all these out of wedlock babies and not take care of them……you crazy ass hell for that it’s none of their business what the money is being spent on….Keep thinking like that and you will end up like Nicole Brown-Simpson

@ rossy

and according to the laws in their state he should be doing that and paying $3000 a month. I personally don’t think this is unfair, and I think those are lucky children who have two parents looking out for their best interest.

Ya’ll dog us all the time……What

Tell the thruth & shame the devil Rossy!!!

Ms. Dixon wanted ADULT support & the judge saw right through that and acted accordingly within the law.

Whats’ wrong with working…..

Ya’ll bitter b i t c h e s better get off of your soapboxes and wake-up to reality…….just because you had kids by a celeb don’t mean you should be entitled to his pockets…The kids are taken care of…..get that thru ya’ll heads….My momma didn’t wait on the Courts or my sorry a s s daddy…..she went and did it herself and worked like hell for me and my sister…..That’s why I have a strong work ethic…because I saw my momma bust her ass, even when she was sick she still went and did it…..

Nobody complained when Nicloe brown simpson had her lavish home in hollywood. She nerver worked.

It seems because she is the round the way girl from the block that she needs to get a job. Tip wasn’t famous when these children were born. \

Every man should want his offspring to live in a loving, stable home. If the non cusodial parent is wealthy he should not have a problem with sharing his wealth with ALL OF his children. Not just the children he has with his current woman.

He should of not produced children with women that hs is not married to if he has issues with supporting them.

just because you had kids by a celeb don’t mean you should be entitled to his pockets

@ goat

sorry the reality and the law is that if you have a child by someone you are going to have to provide that lifestyle for them, and if the mother benefits off of it, that is also acceptable in the courts eyes. These self-righteous people need to get off of their soapboxes and learn the law.

SMDH isn’t THAT your screen name. Who’s mad? LOLOL!!

Nah, I’m not mad at all, I just find extremely funny that some of you chicks expect to be taken care of when you’re not married the father of your children.

She was NOT married to him, he goes above & well beyond what is adequate child support. I see this all of the time in family court, so I know how the games are played.

Chick played herself and she has no one to blame be herself. Now all she needs to do is OWN IT like a reall woman and make her own money.

You young girls just don’t know that you just don’t know.

I am so glad that there are family courts.

Ignorantitis is contagious.

These people want the judge to give baby mama $2.00 a tic tac and a job application.

And SMDH TI is taking care of his END. What is Ms. Dixon doing. It’s not like TI has been deadbeat and doesn’t spend time with his kids. So what’s your beef really?

If he paid for the car, put a down payment on a house in a decent neighborhood, takes care of the boys educational needs, their extra curricular needs, their medical needs, sees them on a regular bases; they tell me what exactly is Ms. Dixon doing? Especially when TI has them almost half of the time too.

What exactly is her role in the rearing of her children? She had another baby too. so who takes cares of that child? Is she gonna take that brotha to court for more money too.

Go figure. She needs to work for herself, it’s the right & responsible thing to do.

TI is holding up his end. What about her?

I’m cool wit the judges decision its the bitter broads that want the Baby Momma to get 50,000 a month….

!

@ soulfult

actually he did not go above and beyond what is adequate because he was ruled to continue providing the school cost and etc plus another $1000. So now what he is providing is adequate.

I also worked in family court and the amount of father who don’t pay support far out-weighted the mothers seeking more support and living solely off of the payments. Maybe things are different in your state

and the black man goes and gets the white woman pregnant and he knows he will pay then because that black d*ck money grabbing tramp will take him to court for a cell phone bill and the white judge cant wait to throw the book at him.

Ya’ll bitter b i t c h e s better get off of your soapboxes and wake-up to reality…….just because you had kids by a celeb don’t mean you should be entitled to his pockets…The kids are taken care of…..get that thru ya’ll heads….My momma didn’t wait on the Courts or my sorry a s s daddy…..she went and did it herself and worked like hell for me and my sister…..That’s why I have a strong work ethic…because I saw my momma bust her ass, even when she was sick she still went and did it…..

_________________

o boy do i agree with you

o boy do i agree with you

the court is spoiling these baby mama’s

Ya’ll act like those kids are living in BankHead Courts when they stay with their mom…..ya’ll act like these kids are missing meals and no clothes, not able to get doctor care….Their education is already taken care of…How many can say that with the rise of education cost…..

@SMDH

I am a woman but I am neither bitter or a coon and I don’t agree with the judges ruling or the sentiment most of the women seem to share that TI owes Ms. Dixon anymore than she is already getting. It is the belief that women like Ms. Dixon feel that its ok to profit off their children that I and other rational people have a problem with.

T.I’s children get child support, but millions of children don’t. My dad never paid child support either and my mother worked too, usually two jobs.

I remember when my dad got sick and my step-sister and stepbrother called me to tell me my dad was dying. I felt so strange and confused. All I could think of was this person made me suffer….he made my mother suffer. He made me go hungry. Why….just because he could. When he died, I finally felt free. I did’t go to his funeral and I never had to think about him anymore. He disappeared and I don’t even remember his name.

you act like those kids are not suppose to have all of the luxuries life has to offer. You don’t have to be living in the ghetto to deserve child support increases.

Ok she gave him 2 kids before he made it, she may have also taken care of him while he was trying to make it, BUT! thats a moral obligation on his part not a legal one, which is why its called “child support” everyone has stated he already supports the kids, by financially paying for everything that has to do with them, plus has them in his custody 40% of the time, and since they are school age the school has them for about 35% of the time, which leaves her with the remaining 25%. So i believe she is manipulating the child support law, to actually get alimony when they were never married, and despite what a white woman or anybody else may get in court, doesn’t make it right in any case. She wants money for her personal things, which is not his responsibility his responsibility is to the children (CHILD SUPPORT NOT WE USED TO DATE AND HAD TO KIDS SUPPORT). Why cant she work part time during the 40% of the time that he has them, for own personal purchases/and or partying money????

for many of you who think child support is for the kids spending money you are wrong, it is for living expenses. So if you are a man and you pay for private school, lavish toys and clothes, medical bills etc. you will still have to make payments to the childs mother. Trust more children benefit from this law than mothers. The percentage of men who make enough money where a support payment can pay for all of the family expenses and so far in the minority this should not even be a discussion.

Real women shaking their heads everywhere. she got 11 more years and then poof! back to hoeing.

She can honestly say that every dollar she spends originated between her legs.

SMDH. If he is paying for everything what is left for her to provide for them children. If she is not working how do you think she pays for her clothes, phone bill, cable, mortgage, car insurance and so on. She is using the “CHILD SUPPORT” He brought her a car so she don’t have a car payment. Why should she get to sit home on her ass just because her child father is famous, she need to work just like the rest of us mothers.

obama was just a general statement i know what damn post it is and i will hype up who the hell i want to hype up, what is it 2 you, since its not a obama post why the hell would i need to give insight, f*ck off.

FYI – I agree with the judges decision. he gave her just enough to hang herself.

enoough to keep laying on your fat ass but not enough to get rich like Puffy’s broads.

@Richard

Real women shaking their heads everywhere. she got 11 more years and then poof! back to hoeing.

She can honestly say that every dollar she spends originated between her legs

_______________________________________

Yes, Richard, he (a man) can honestly say that every dollar he needs to spend on child support origniated between his legs too!!

@ Shauna

your brother should go get a child support order, so all of his contributions will be accounted for as well as a visitation order, then the problem will be solved. In the future he should seek a woman whom he will marry and have children with her. But if he chooses to have children out of wedlock by a woman who is willing to support a grown ass man he will continue to have these issues. furthermore child support law clearly state a payments are not for the childs spending money but for household expenses like rent and utilities and schooling, clothing, food etc. it is also deemed acceptable that the custodial parent and other children benefit from these payments i.e. if the household benefits from the utilities that child support payments were used pay. I don’t know if your brother is a wealthy man and the portion of his income allotted to child support will cover all of the home, but if it does she is in here right. sounds like he needs to protect himself with a support order.

@smdh

shut up

please dont respond to any of my commets

thank you very much

@ PeepEye:

“Yes, Richard, he (a man) can honestly say that every dollar he needs to spend on child support origniated between his legs too!!”

You aint NEVA lied!! Its takes TWO to tango!! This girl did not finger herself and come up pregnant twice!

LOL @ black males honestly feeling like thye should have the right to abandon a child they created and not do anything for them.. Thank GOD for the child support laws cause if it weren’t for whitey demanding this sistas would be assed out when it comes to taking care of their kids.. The black male just has no issues abandoning his child!! He’ll chase a nasty trailer park cracker ho back to the trailer park but he’ll abandon his kids like trailer park rubbish!!!

@SMDH

Soulful is a woman, a bonafied woman who takes care of her two children. I work everyday, I get minimal child support form the fathers, but he pays & plays in integral part of out children’s lives. They’ve been to Jamaica not once, not twice but 8 times in their lives & their daddy paid for it & never missed a child support payment.

I am a grown ass, gainfully employed black woman of 40 years. I do my part as well as my ex. does.

Plain & Simple, simpletons such as yourself need to get a clue before you start with the bs.

Get married first, then you won’t have to worry about any of this. If you don’t have kids, don’t, get married first. TI owes this chick nothing. Get that through that thick head of yours. LOLOL!!

How old are you? Under 25 I bet. Your parents are probably STILL taking care of you in some way and you’re on here demanding something that the law has decided on.

Are you registered to cote? Do you plan on voting. Do you knwo what your condidate stands on the issues that affect your life? Are you aware of where your candidates campaign office is in your area? Do you read the newpapers? Do you read any political sites?

Get a clue what don’t cha!!! LOLOLOL!!

to the working mothers like myself, some women have it easier than we do. some kids are born with a silver spoon in their mouth, some not. If I could stay at home I would. But I am not mad at the women who can. Crabs in a bucket, just because you had to struggle doesn’t make the woman who doesn’t some type of lowlife.

“@smdh

shut up

please dont respond to any of my commets

thank you very much”

So does that mean don’t respond to this one either?? Oops, my bad!!!

LOL

gimmee a break and get the hell on somewhere telling me what the hell in can say up i here this open forum DA!

obama was just a general statement i know what damn post it is and i will hype up who the hell i want to hype up, what is it 2 you, since its not a obama post why the hell would i need to give insight, f*ck off

________________

ouch touchie/touchie

why mention his name in TI post

oooo i forgot its a general statement

silly me

@ SMH

Please read the entire post and understand what I am saying. I am not against childsupport, however, we need to understand that the NORM was that people would GET MARRIED and have a family TOGETHER! Not have a whole bunch of children out of wedlock and expect the court system to fix it. Child support is a great thing but making a wise choice to atleast MARRY FIRST and STAY MARRIED is much better.

“Theatre of the Minds” Ludacris-November 11!!!!

I have custody of my kids and it has been this way for the past 4 years. There mom pays me nada, nothing, zero. I do not not recieve welfare, or any other government assistance. I dont even sweat it, I provide for them and purchase all the things they need on my own dime. Point being black men are not the only ones out here having kids and not supporting them in my case its a black woman. Does this make ALL black women dead beat parents? Of course not! So why is it that I keep reading on this post about all these negative generalizations being made about black men and our support of our kids? Now I’m SMDH!!!

gimmee a break and get the hell on somewhere telling me what the hell in can say up i here this open forum DA!

______________

lol double standard

but yall want to be up in here telling TI what he

should and shouldn’t be doing

how much to give and not to give

getoutofhere

gimme a break.. dont comment me anymore im not 4 going back n forth with u, too time consuming plus i wasnt even talking 2 you in the first place so scram!!!!!

gimme a break.. dont comment me anymore im not 4 going back n forth with u, too time consuming plus i wasnt even talking 2 you in the first place so scram!!!!!

____

ok watever you say

lmao -

@Shomondo

I have custody of my kids and it has been this way for the past 4 years. There mom pays me nada, nothing, zero.

_________________________________________

Have you asked? Most black women are very sweet, caring and generous and I know that if you asked, she would be willing to share her money with you and her children. I would.

yeah silly u bye gimme a break like u were told run along now.

bye lmbbao!!

@SMDH

You are too funny. You think a man would have such a fem. screen name? WOW!! You’re dense too huh? GO Obama is right. He married his wife, had children after the marriage and is STILL with his wife. Together,they prosper. IT’s evident that Mrs. Michelle Obama did it right when she CHOSE Barack to spend her life with.

You could stand to learn a thing or two from her. Some of you young sistas better get some self-worth because this ain’t it. Tell your girls to get the education first.

I’m a grown ass woman, not a man or a baby mama, see I was a wife FIRST dearheart. Too bad Ms. Dixon wasn’t. Sucks to be her huh? Oh well, such is life.

Peace & Blessings

SoulfulTea

@SMDH……..you just twisting stuff up and making up stuff…….Your screen name fits your ghetto mentality……..I hope you’re not a Black woman, cause you make them look bad…….It’s a couple of other too….You know who you are…….Bitter ass Hoes stay losing…………

@Shomondo

I applaud you for stepping up and especially not for badmouthing your ex.

As a woman, I would pay child support. Hell, I would probably move next door so I could get to see my kids everyday and flatten my ex-husband’s tires on a regular basis. (LOL).

even a lil part-time job wouldn’t kill her… DAMN!!!

this is pathetic. this woman embarrasses the hard-working, intelligent, dignified black women out there. what an effing joke.

Ooooh, you guys are right about the Judge’s first name, Bensonetta, lol. I bet she’s an ex baby momma, she won the state lottery so she decided to go to law school to become a judge, lol..

@ Rossy

that is the life you chose for yourself, you enjoy working good for you, maybe this woman enjoys being home when her kids get out of school and preparing slow cooked meal, anyway I do not know her life just like you don’t. T.I. other baby’s mother doesn’t work, but I suppose she is not a lowlife because she is still with him. Whatever the case men and women live off of one income all of the time, these are personal decisions and $3K a month in child support does not make you a parasite, and if you are a woman who needs public assistance you are not a low life or a parasite, I’ve needed assistance and now I am in a place to give it. I don’t know what type of education you have or what type of family support you have but regardless you are in no place to judge and degrade a woman you don’t even know because you think she needs a job. If you turned down a higher payment that is you, maybe that is all you felt your children deserved. I personally would have taken the higher payment and put it in a college fund, but that’s me. Women have the lifestyle they feel they deserve to have and if 1/2 of the childcare was enough for you, that’s you, I would prefer for my child not to attend daycare, but that is me, do I think you are a neglectful parent for sending your child to daycare absolutely not, but that was your choice and we all have the right to make them and obviously Tip didn’t have a problem with her not working when he got her pregnant twice bought her a house and a car. and he probably has not problem pulling out 30 bills instead of 20.

@ Rossy

furthermore your employer probably feels you are a parasite for spending all day on this blog instead of doing his work. I’m just sayin

and now this dumb a$$ broad is supposed to raise his kids? what the hell is she going to teach them??

both boys too???…..think boys stupid enough to NOT figure out what kinda nonsense this is when they grow up?

@ Peep Eye

U just don’t getit. It is not the sum of who he is. She needs to get a life, an income, a career.

@ SMDH

U really don’t want to see me.

I don’t want to go back to describing the bitter,couchie licking ugly fat duckiling who all the boys gang banged and forgot about.

Becoming amother is a beautiful thing but not all a woman can be. He has the kids 40% of the time, pays ALL of their bills and bought her a house and a car because of love of his kids. This is NOT a deadbeat dad. He simply will not support her inflated idea of what her lifestyle should be.

T.I. Paid for

Where they live

What they wear

Medical coverage

school

How they get around

Is she asking that he pay her to watch her kids? Surely a 7 year old and an 8 year old don’t eat 3,000 worth of food?

And clarification _ I support the $3,000 order.

Richard

@ Peep Eye

U just don’t getit. It is not the sum of who he is. She needs to get a life, an income, a career.

__________________________________________

Yes Richard, I do get it. Now what does a washed up old rapper like T.I. do after he finishes doing time in the pen on federal charges?

17 Ward, you are absolutely right about Lashon, lol. She could take a career class (guess what, the schools have lifted the bar, Lashon doesn’t have to have high school diploma so there’s no excuse not to sign up a class).

17 Ward, you are absolutely right about Lashon, lol. She could take a career class (guess what, the schools have lifted the bar, Lashon doesn’t have to have a high school diploma so there’s no excuse not to sign up a class).

She needs to get off her ass & get a job,at least he is doing more than most of these babydaddies nowadays & she wants even more.

The judge is stupid hisself for granting her more money.

Yo for all of you saying she only get 36k a year thats nothing. You forget this is tax free money. For someone who is actually working they would have to be making around 55k to take home that much. Thats more than enough to take care of loose ends since he is paying for everything else. Then to add insult to injury she only has them 60% of the time. You factor in school and the time they spend with their dad, then wth is she doing. This chick wants to be taken care of point blank period talking about she struggling. That is more than enough to live off of in GA.

@Blaq

I agree with you.

Alot of these women are salty because they have to do everything by themselves.

depending on the father of your children to support them is not a parasite.

Judge Mathis made a point on his show and expressed his disdain for women who deny support for their children. You are taking away form your children when you deny them access to funds that could help them.

There isn’t anything wrong with a women being at home with her children. Working mothers are always on overload. She has cooking, cleaning, laundry, homework, meetings with teachers, and the list goes on.

T.I. should want his children to benefit from having their mom available to them at all times. He is constantly busy. He is the working parent.

I don’t care if they were not married. The children deserve to be taken care of the same as children who’s parents are divorced.

These same women do not have a problem with K-Fed getting 15k a month from Brittney. I don’t hear them screaming for him to get a job. Nor did they have a problem with michael strahan’s ex.

Children are entitled to the best life possible. T.I.’s younger children have everything, his older children should benefit from their fathers wealth 100% of the time. Not just when they are in his care.

T.I. may very in own mind perceive that is enough but he fails to realize that he’s not earning the average joe income either. If you can put paper stack in your video but can’t provide extra funds for your children that’s a problem. If the issue is with the mother then why not take full custody bet tiny won’t have none of that

@soulful Tea

I am 40 y/o so I know all about women, I am one, so trust & know that I am arming my son against the no count women who don’t want to do right in their own lives let alone the lives of their children.

————————-

Based on that statement, it sounds to me like you are one of those Black mothers I always complain about. you know, the type that teaches her son to distrust Black women because they are: gold diggers, hoes, sneaky, etc. I could be wrong but based on what you wrote, I doubt it.

Wonder what she is going to do in ten years when child support stops? 50 said this, “My son is 11-years-old, what is she gonna do in seven years when he’s 18 and he’s in college and on his own? How is she gonna eat then ?” Just food for thought.

What job is more important than being mom? $3k per month is still paltry for TI. He can and should pay even more. Keep fighting girl.

TI’s son on the left is bigger than his little ass..

-PEOPLE! Tiny gets bags that cost almost that much- The latest Gucci, LV etc…

This dude spends 3 stacks when he visits the strip clubs in the “A” PLEEEZZZZZZZ

PAY THE DAMN MONEY——————

T.I. seems like a nice caring guy and he loves his kids. And Lasho is milking him hard !

Why is it that people keep bringing tiny into this? She has nothing to do with it at all. Plus I like how people think that people that used to be stars and are no longer in the limelight are somehow all broke. I’m sure Tiny has her own money she was doing fine before she met TI and if I’m not mistaken she started dating him when he was a nobody. Secondly I don’t care what that man spends his money on if he takes care of his kids. What some of you still are not getting is she gets 3k after all other expenses for the kids. If you add up all those other bills he is probably paying somewhere around 5 to 6k a month. I see it like this if all you got to do is pay your rent and put food on the table 3k is more than enough. He shouldn’t have to pay her to take care of her OWN kids. She is not paying him a check for the 40% of the time he has the kids. She needs to get off her behind and support herself. He is not responsible for her at all.

WE ARE SO HARD ON THESE FOLKS IM GOING TO STAY OFF OF THESE SITES BECAUSE WHEN I THINK ABOUT THE 3,000 THE 10.000. PURSE THE DEGRAdation of black men and women. i wonder was she a hoe to him before he became famous… probably not. I wonder she think of him as her bread and butter and her sole provider before he was famous, probably not. I bet she worked before he got rich and famous. and I bet he did not do half as much as he is doing now.

He is taking care of his own. I can’t believe this broad not only got more stacks with her non-working @zz, but she STILL is not satisfied?! She ain’t got a job, so who in the hell is paying for her lawyer?! Harumph, further proof of what we already knew: the legal system is fuc*ked up…..

TI simply wasn’t smart enough to use protection and isn’t smart enough to keep this drama out of the media. He could’ve settled with her privately and spared us all the speculation about their arrangement. But I guess he knows we have nothing better to do than debate his life.

TI, pay her 30k a month so she can life like an entertainer or athlete for the next 18 years. she can send money to her girls and other family members. drive a 100k car.

do you know how many people do NOT make 3k a month?

ti should have paid her more awhile ago. something like 5 to 7k which is still too much. how many jobs out there can she make that?

and for the record, the cost of living in atlanta may have went up in the past few years but it fails in comparison to most cities. you can buy a 200 or 300k home there for the cost of 500k in florida alone.

@ Ignorance,

Nah, I’m not one of those women that you’re talking about, but I know just how sneaky and coniving (sp) some women are. I’ve seen with my eyes, I see daily where I work, so all I am doing is arming my son with knowledge. Why in the world would I teach my son to HATE blackwomen when one is raising him now? Seriously? How stupid would that be? He loves his two BLACK gramdmothers on both his parents side, he loves his black sisters, his black aunts, I could go on, but you know where I’m going with this.

I just tire of no count women, they can’t wash a piece of clothing, can’t & won’t cook a meal, won’t take care of their children properly, don’t know how to love themselves, but EXPECT someone else to do for them. THOSE are the types of women I dispised. What is Dixon going to do once those boys GROW-UP and the checks STOP coming. Because that’s what children do, they grwo-up & become adults. Then who & what is she going to fall back on?

Then what? Who will she expect to TAKE CARE of HER then? Some chicks can’t see any further than the block they live, then wonder why things don’t always work for them. As I said before, you’re the captian of your own ship, when you sail it into treacherous waters, don’t cry foul because YOU were at the HELM. Understand me?

Chicks like this make it hard for MEN who ARE & WILLING to do for their kids. No, they’re not looking for a pat on the back for something they should be doing, but they shouldn’t be crucified either simply things aren’t the way the ex. may have wanted it. Charge that to the game.

Many times a woman goes after a man’s money not for the children but because “she’s feeling some type of way about the break-up”. Damn her & her feelings, she should only be concerned with the feelings of her children. I say get over yourself & do what’s right for your children becuase it is THEY who are ultimately affected by this type of nonsense.

You know the type, the ones who speak ill of thier childrens father in their presence, not caring about the “feelings” of their babies, only concerned about what he’s doing and who he’s doing it to. I shake my head at the nonsense of it all.

Chicks like 50 Cents baby mother and TI’s ex piss me off becuase it’s not about the children, it’s about them & their needs. Dann the kids. Those are the types of broads that I hate.

So nah sweets, not raising my son to HATE black women, just teaching him to see the forest through the tree where most women are concerned.

Got it? Good.

Good Morning All

Rossy this needed to be repeated:

the point is we both take care of the responsibility of taken care of our son. I have an good income. My son has a college fund from the both of us. Being greedy is not going to get you anywhere. Wake up. My son goes to afterschool care because his mother and father has a career that I went to school for to accomplish. So why would I stay at home I am educated and love what I do. Sorry. Since I love what I do it isnt a job is a hobbie. I get paid to do something I like. My son has an excellent father and we both provide for him. That is what being a real mother and father is. There is not price amount that my child is worth. My son father time that he take with him and the things that he provides is well. So I dont need all that extra drama from having a court in my personal business. See I married a man. So when you get with a real man you dont have to ask for the things your child needs. He does it automatically. Child support came with a divorce. Maybe some of you women need to be selective about who you lay down with that way when you do have a baby you dont have to take him to child support. The man will do it automatically.

T.I. GOTTA DIG A LIL’ DEEPER IN THOSE GRAND HUSTLE POCKETS

…HIS ALBUM BETTER SELL ITS ASS OFF

Rossy

you can call names and write your life story for people to read, and make reference to the type of life and relationships you think people may have but the point still stands if this woman, her children’s father and the courts of the state don’t have a problem with her staying home why do you? Your tax dollars do not support her, if you didn’t want you children’s father to support you, not every woman want to be a working mother. Her relationship didn’t work out just like yours didn’t and you both do what you feel is right for your children. My point is there is nothing wrong with either situation and no one is better than anyone else. Yall want to take the woman’s kids away because she wants more child support. Some people are full of their selves and full of judgement.

So the kids spend 40% of their time with Dad, she gets an additional $12,000 a year, not including the healthcare and education….and she’s not satisfied? Wow. She needs a job and a life, to calm her dayum nerves.

Lashon should be grate ful T.I. cares that much for his children. I wonder if she is over weight ?

Ok, I love TI just like the next person does and really enjoy his music, but he needs to understand that these kids are not with him 24/7 and when they have to go back to a normal lifestyle after being with him, $2000 is not enough. Come on y’all give her some consideration on being a single mom. She has to think about if she messes up the money they have coming in. Let that burden be on her. Y’all not screaming about when Tiny walks around with all those ‘lovely’ handbags and partying with him. Let her breath. Respect.

P.S. Just for those who don’t know, in any child support court in this country, they willl tell you because he put them in all those extra activities they are considered HIS gifts to his kids and DO NOT count towards her child support she is given.

Men Listen Up: Ever heard that old saying “You got to pay to play”. Translation: If you want to play raw dawg then you gots to pay for what happens. No I don’t agree the chick deserves a bump in child support. But this is the real world…wear a condom!!! Stop knocking females up if you don’t want to come out your pocket. Cuz in the real world…that’s what happens.

Again, the Judge’s first name is Bensonetta that’s why lashon is getting an extra grand, lol….