T.I.’s Baby’s Mom Ordered to Receive More Dough
Posted by Bossip Staff
Judge is making Tip fork over more scrilla:
A judge on Tuesday ordered rapper T.I. to pay more child support to the mother of two of his children after she claimed he wasn’t providing enough money. Superior Court Judge Bensonetta Tipton Lane told the two-time Grammy winner, whose real name is Clifford Harris, to pay just over $3,000 a month to LaShon Dixon. He had been paying about $2,000 per month. The judge also said the 27-year-old performer must continue to pay for the boys to attend private school, uninsured medical bills and expenses related to the children’s extracurricular activities. Tipton Lane also awarded the couple on Tuesday joint custody of the boys, ages 7 and 8. Dixon, 28, was granted primary physical custody. The children previously spent about 40 percent of their time with the rapper.
Dixon’s attorney, Randy Kessler, said his client is still unsatisfied with the amount the judge ordered T.I. to pay but is happy to receive more child support. “Every little bit helps,” Kessler said. “She was just getting by with the children, while they lived a different life with their father. It can’t be complete opposites on the other side.”
Great, who knows what this chick is going to spend that extra stack on each month, but we know it most likely won’t be on those kids. SMH.
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DAMN SHAME! She’s STILL not satisfied? I wouldn’t have given her ***** nothing, but a ticket to the welfare to work program!
Baby Mama’s need to get JOBS! But most important dudes need to stop having babies with these stupid birds looking to catch a payday. Pull-out mother*****ers!!!
Woo Hoo, First twice in a week. OMG I will like to thank God for waking me up so damn early this morning to come to this God forsaking boring ***** Job, I will like to thank my man for not jumping my bones finally for the 1st in 2 weeks, or else we will have a army of kids like this fool T.I. I also will like to thank Sexy Q for not beating me to the punch with those fast fingers of her’s. Thank you Thank You Thank you all. Muah!!
Now that is sensible. No reason for a child to receive 50 grand a month like these other celebs are paying out in child support.
The baby thing needs to get a job. Let this be a lesson to all young men. Dont have babies by these women unless you are married and plan on having kids. Let the lady you are having babies by have something about herself.
@ Brook Lynn Chocolate
Eh…hmmm..(tapping shoulder). Your not first, babygirl.
THE JUDGE MADE THE DECISION BASED ON ALL OF THE INFORMATION-PEOPLE WAS GOING SO HARD TALKING ABOUT ALL THAT HE DOES-THE INSURANCE, GIFTS, PRIVATE SCHOOL & THE TIME HE SPENDS ETC. AND THE FACT THE MOTHER DOESN’T WORK
ASIDE FROM ALL OF THAT SHE WAS STILL AWARDED ADDITIONAL SUPPORT-IT IS WHAT IT IS…..DON’T GET MAD AT HER GET MAD AT THE JUDGE!!!!!!
I’M CERTAIN AND ADDITIONAL 1K ISN’T GOING TO HURT TI’S POCKETS.
LET’S PUT THIS ISSUE TO REST-THE JUDGE HAS SPOKEN!
Bossip, you need to back the eff up off black women. People we need to stop perpetuating this demonization of black mothers because they want to primarily care for their children over other career pursuits. If she was YT, *****ody would say a cotdamn thing. Evidently T.I. doesn’t really have a problem with it. So STFU. The choice to be a mom is a LEGITIMATE AND VALID ONE. If more PEOPLE chose to devote their time to their kids, they would be in better shape. I am a professional woman, and a mom. I have made career sacrifices in order to parent my children. Every parent deserves that opportunity even a young black woman, who does not deserve to be vilified as an EBT havin, ghetto livin, what is she gonna spend that money on fake nails and weave, nappy headed, triflin, lazy, HO!!!!!!!! NOT TRUE!!!!! Let a momma be a mama, at least in this case, and let a man be a man! Good work Clifford! Keep standing up, and lil moma keep yo head up, and continue going to school and taking care of your kids!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thats pitiful!!! If he pays for everything & handles his ***** like a real father, then all this child support bull ish is not neccessary..
Uh what the hell is the post about now? lol
Man all these braudz want is money
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They should have made her get a job. He has paid for everything that chick is a nanny not a mother. Hell what they want the man to live with her next. This is sorry. Men stop having babies by loser women. (Denis Napier)
@ Rossy
No, this is an example to my cohorts not to get married. After all, she would’ve been getting way more money upon the event of a split-up. Youngin’s, do not listen to Rossy that was very, very, bad advice. Just cover it up is what she meant to say. LOL
Lets say T.I. becomes a dog catcher than what will his baby ma do next ? Get the court to make him catch catch more dogs to earn more scrilla !
This chick prolly watching Maury eating a biscuit and scratching her azz ! The nerve of this bird !! She should be at job like me blogging on bossip !!
She needs a job like the rest of the women who go to school, work and take care of their kids. She needs to step up. If he didnt have a problem with it he wouldnt have gotten an attorney. He would have just given her more. There wouldnt be an officle child support order because all he was given was out of free will. T.I you need to get custody.
man ole girl and the judge must be one in the same. im sorry. baby mama need to get off of her butt and make some stuff happen, just like everyday moms. good god, this is silly. ole girl just got over….
there is not anything wrong with being a stay at home mom..but she needs to stop being greedy.. she probably wants to live this lavish life she thinks she deserves because her baby daddy is a rapper..if 3000 dollars a month is not enough for her then her ***** needs to get a job!! point blank.. women need to start being more independent cuz the only man that is suppposed to take care of u is ur father not ur baby daddy.. or ur husband if thats what yall agreed to..
this is truly the year of the baby momma..every baby momma is asking for more child support..I am still against child support if the father is playing his part
@circa-81
you right correction.
Dont have babies unless you want them. You and the mother/father are married and can afford them. If you can’t and dont plan parenthood. Cover your *****.
@whateva
That is a well point be a stay at home mom when you can afford to.
The lesson here is: don’t get prengnant by a broke man.
Damn my spelling *****damn*****.
Then again, looking at the amount of money that Diddy or 50, Russ Simmons baby mamma recieve maybe it’s not legit, but then again T.I. may not be ballin like them…so this is all he can afford…I’m still SMH @ this story though…
Good for her! The cost of taking care of kids is high. Mortgage, cell phones,food,clothes… It’s not like she’s breaking the bank here. Hell, she’s only getting 36,000 a year…technically still poor.
HE SHOULD PAY HER MORE BECAUSE OF THE MERE FACT SHE IS THE PRIMARY CAREGIVER OF THOSE CHILDREN 24/7, MONEY DOESN’T COMPLETE HOMEWORK, DISCIPLINE, DRESS, BATHE, OR COOK FOR A CHILD.
IT TAKES ALOT OF ENERGY AND COMMITTMENT TO RAISE GOOD CHILDREN AND IF THE FATHER ISN’T THERE TO *****IST (NOT JUST HOLIDAYS AND VISITS) ON A DAY TO DAY BASIS THEN HE SHOULD HAVE TO PAY ADDITIONAL MONIES FOR NOTHING ELSE THAN THE CARE SHE IS PROVIDING HIS CHILDREN
YALL CAN SPIT BULLETS, CHEW BRICKS, CALL THIS WOMAN EVERY NAME UNDER THE SUN-BUT WHEN IT’S ALL SAID AND DONE TI STILL HAS TO PAY! DON’T LIKE IT-MARRY YOUR BABY MAMA’S
AND I’M CERTAIN ONE MIGHT SAY SHE SHOULD KEEP HER LEGS CLOTHES-IF SHE WANTED THOSE CHILDREN AND LOVES THEM IT’S HER RIGHT TO BARE CHILDREN AS IT IS HER RIGHT TO COLLECT CHILD SUPPORT FROM THEIR FATHER
SO BECAUSE THE SYSTEM ACTUALLY WORKS IN HER FAVOR-IT WOULD BE WISE IF MEN STARTED PROTECTING THEIR WEALTH & *****ETS AND USING PROTECTION OR GETTING MARRIED
How was she just getting by with the kids when he pays for everything? She needs to get a job. This is some foolishness.
That baby boy looks just like Tiny…not cute…I hope as he grows his looks will change…for the better!
I love you woman. However we all know the reason she went for primary custody is money driven. When are these woman going to learn that the money don’t last forever and all yall do is move another nicca in and take care of him off somebody elses money instead of getting a job and handling it. Sounds like a female who couldnt get Tip to committ so she gotta do the next best thing go for money.
why do these hoes who get knocked up celebritys always swear they need to live the high life also. you always see him and tiny with the brady bunch, if she doesnt have them then she shouldnt recieve a damn dime take her raggedy ***** to work like we do every day and get on bossi and tell her story there cause no one wants to hear her ***** thats why the judge only gave her 3000.00
In Atlanta it seems like common practice to have a baby by a man that your not in a real relationship with and put them on child support. So many people have children out here by guys and gals they only knew for a couple of months then are mad when the man dont want to be around or when the girl want a lot of money. Duh stop the foolishness
He shouldn’t complain about $3000.00, though y’all! Look at Diddy hoe *****; child support alone gonna break that *****! lol
…that ***** do need to get a job.
…and a life!
I have much respect for stay at home mothers who are educated and all, but with the damn daddy being T.I and all she doesn’t need any more money than what she was getting. He shells out so much cash on the side to provide a lifestyle for those boys without having to be asked as it is. Tired of these ex baby mothers trying to live like an ex wife. Get a job and your own money if you want the lifestyle.
I was hoping the judge would tell her to kick rocks!
I forgot to add- with a judge named Bensonetta what the hell did we expect??
I’ve never heard of a ***** being a stay-at-home mom that’s single. I thought people were considered on “stay-at-home” status when they were part of a couple and the other person worked. What we call motha*****as like her are “wel-fare recipients”. Matter of fact…. every body on here whether you are a parent or not….let’s get up from these computers go to our bosses office tell him we quit and we are becoming “stay-at-home” people and let’s see how far we get in life. This applies to motha*****a’s on here that actually are at work right now; not the ones on here that are already “stay-at-home” people, lazy *****a’s. (If you are reading this and your rich this doesn’t apply you.)
When did marriage become the answer to not having to pay for child support? What do ya’ll think happens after 50% of the marriages end in divorce?
Bossip, you need to back the eff up off black women. People we need to stop perpetuating this demonization of black mothers because they want to primarily care for their children over other career pursuits. If she was YT, *****ody would say a cotdamn thing. Evidently T.I. doesn’t really have a problem with it. So STFU. The choice to be a mom is a LEGITIMATE AND VALID ONE. If more PEOPLE chose to devote their time to their kids, they would be in better shape. I am a professional woman, and a mom. I have made career sacrifices in order to parent my children. Every parent deserves that opportunity even a young black woman, who does not deserve to be vilified as an EBT havin, ghetto livin, what is she gonna spend that money on fake nails and weave, nappy headed, triflin, lazy, HO!!!!!!!! NOT TRUE!!!!! Let a momma be a mama, at least in this case, and let a man be a man! Good work Clifford! Keep standing up, and lil moma keep yo head up, and continue going to school and taking care of your kids!!!!!!!!!!!!
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@ANGRYBLACKWOMAN..
I can see where you are going with this.. YES, every little bit helps.. but, when this first came about TI shut that shyt down real quick.. he paid her 2,000 a month, ON TOP OF THAT, PAID for ALL other expenses and extracurricular activities.. she wanted “more”.. now, there comes a point where “some” woman, not all, throw a price tag on their children, and that shyt ain’t cool. I WISH that i can stay home with my son all day long, and collect a check from his dad that will support US to be able to do that.. but F*** THAT.. i’m a woman with pride, and i works HARD for mines.. so, let’s be real, she doing it so that she can live off of TI.. period. it’s a shame too, cause what happens when “THE CHECKS STOP COMING IN”.. dayum shame.
I think the ruling was fair and just. She receives a little extra money and Tip receives joint-custody of his children with her. Sounds like a win-win situation for both parties. And I’m glad that it is now clear that he only has these two children 40% of the time. Which let us know that THE MOTHER has them 60% of the time (NOT A NANNY AS SOME OF YOU WERE CLAIMING) Which means that when Tip ***** goes to jail, she will have them 100% of the time. She needs more money (even if she was working) because for the next year, he will only see those children during visitation hours, and she will be providing for them 100% of the time. And as far as Tip is concerned, he should have joint custody of the children he’s providing for. Kudos to the judge.
who cares???? I’M HAPPY THIS MORNING, BECAUSE THE NATIONAL POLL IS SHOWING THAT OBAMA IS BEATING MCLAME BY 9%….
@BBC-Afiya
That baby boy looks just like Tiny…not cute…I hope as he grows his looks will change…for the better!
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…i feel ya on that one! lol
circa-81
That is so true.
Hell he pays for everything all she has to do is pay the living expenses and he should on pay half of that because she is using the stuff too. That is the problem. It is not ok to expect a man to take care of you and your child. If you wanted that you should have gotten married and had a husband who want you to be a stay at home mom and take care of the kids.
3k seem like alot…..but it’s not much for TI to shell out….grant it the BM is probably a lazy chickenhead *****…but we need to feel bad for the regular dudes gettin’ *****ed over by BMs and the system……I got a friend that make like 42k a year as a security guard….he knocked up some ***** with twins that he dated for like a month…..now he gotta shell out $1,300 a month….while her ***** lounges all day in a nice townhouse living on *****istance and his $1,300 a month while he’s struggling living with his folks…….that’s *****ed up….forget TI….feel bad for the regular fools…
I dont see paying more when he goes to jail. He is already paying for the children up keep not hers. She needs a job. 3000 a month is more then some women make a month and still take care of their kids some families dont get that. When she met him he wasnt making that. If she want her kids to live that life let them live with him. I dont agree with no man paying these outrageous amounts to take care of these women.
How come women (not JUST black) feel as though they are ENTITLED to “stay at home” just because their BD makes good money? YOU are not his child! Were your original intentions before you got knocked up to be a stay at home mom or HAVE a career, the least she could do is go to school to make a living on her own. T.I. nor any other rapper’s money does not last forever, ASK TITO JACKSON!
WHEN A NICCA COME UP ON SOME MONEY NO MATTER HOW SCHIESTY THE SITUATION MAY BE *****ODY EVEN ATTEMPTS THE MORAL PARADE I’M SEEING ON THIS BLOG
DRUG DEALERS ARE BECOMING RICH SELLING DOPE IN OUR COMMUNITY, STARTED TURF WARS, TURNING TRICKS, HENCE MAKING OUR COMMUNITY MORE VIOLENT AND CRIME *****E-BUT HALF OF YALL DON’T EVEN GIVE THEM HALF THE SLACK YOU GIVE BLACK WOMEN-ESPECIALLY BABY MAMA’S
BLACK MEN DESPISE WHEN A WOMAN GOES TO THE COURT HOUSE-BUT WILL BE THE FIRST TO POST ON HERE HOW THEY DON’T WANT US AND PREFER THE ANOTHER RACE-BUT WILL DROP A SEED IN OUR AZZ IN A HOT SECOND-AND CRY FOUL WHEN THEY STANDING IN COURT
BLACK MEN LOOK OUT FOR SELF FIRST AND FOREMOST-AND TI KEEP TINY SO FRESH AND SO CLEAN BECAUSE THAT DUMB AS BROAD RISKED GOING TO JAIL FOR HIS AZZ-HELL WHO WOULDN’T WANT TO KEEP A CHICK LIKE THAT AROUND SOMEONE WHO IS WILLING TO DO ANTHING FOR YOU? AGAIN “HE” STANDS TO BENEFIT FROM KEEPING HER AROUND
WHEN A BLACK MAN DOESN’T WANT TO BE WITH YOU-HE STEPS W/O HESITATION, AND HE HAS A CHOICE IF HE WANT’S TO PARTI*****TE IN HIS CHILD’S LIFE OR NOT (REMEMBER ALL OF YOU WHO DEFENDED EDDIE MURPHY), SO IF A WOMEN LOOKS OUT FOR HERSELF AND HER CHILDREN SHE’S A GOLD DIGGER OR TRIFE, NOPE I SEE IT THIS WAY AINT NO GUARANTEE A NICCA IS GOING TO DO ANYTHING FOR YOUR OR HIS KIDZ-IF HE’S PLEASED WITH YOU HE’LL PAY (HINT: IF YALL F$CKING) IF HE’S MAD AT YOU-THEN YOU AZZ OUT
GET A COURT ORDER-AND LOOK OUT FOR YOU AND YOURS CAUSE AINT *****ODY ELSE GOING TO DO IT FOR YOU-IT’S RARE AND DIFFICULT TO FIND A BLACK MAN WHO WILL KEEP HIS WORD AND HANDLE HIS BUSINESS W/0 WHITEY FORCING HIM TO DO SO
EVERY MAN/WOMAN FOR THEMSELVES NOWADAYS-NICCAS SEEKING TO COME UP LET THIS GIRL GET WHATS HERS
NO HARM NO FOUL-THAT NICCA GOT IT
@num1dominicano
That is so true. Courts need to make these chicks get a job. No man should have to take care of no womne unless that is his wife. Women want more for yourself. If you were married to these men it would not be a problem. That is usually the problem anyway. They want the man and is using the child as a *****.
What’s 3k to TI? He should pay her more, if she’s raising his kids.
3×12=36k/yr – I’m sure he spends much more than that on irrelevant ***** like rims, bling & skrippers.
He should be paying much more. I hope they have a college fund.
its not the children that these baby mama want the money for its for themself – some baby mama when they step out they look better than the kids – these woman nowadays they use their children like *****s in a chess game ……they sit their lazy *****es at home and wait for dat money so they can go shopping for themself …i have seen it.
beside the ruling for these kids is basically the same except for the extra 1000 he wont be doing nothing that he wasn’t doing before
for all the brothers out there listen
look deep before you leap – becareful who you
want to mother your children.
I believe that the judge really couldve gave her more given T.I.’s income per law but because he does pay for school and etc. he just told him to give her a grand more. I mean the issue is this, her selfishness and apparent grimey-ness. It is obvious that she could afford to pay rent and bills with $2000 but she must think that she needs to live beyond her means. Like anyone who has a good job will love to get an xtra stack every month but not her. I feel like if you have a father taking care of his kid you should not to want to hit him up for more CS just because he’s income changes. Now if he’s just a CS paying father and doesnt pay for anything else I will understand putting the payments under review but for no other reason. The kids are older so I’m thinking either T.I. made her mad about somehting or her dumb gold-digging homegirls are in her ear. Big up to T.I. cuz he still aint hurting, Puffy gotta pay like $25,000 monthly.
@ intenzemocha
Well as we can see T.I has been taking damn good care of his children. Where she messed up at is that he has been paying her 2000 dollars and doing everything else and she has been good. That is why she is not going to get more. Stop being greedy and get a job. He has been taking care of his children. He shouldnt have to take care of you. Get it together.
I can’t believe she’s not satisfied with the amount granted her for child support. I hope she is working or at least should be working to help support her kids. TI shouldn’t have to bare the brunt of the rearing financially of the kids! They have joint custody and she has primary placement, whats the problem. she should be happy her kids have a father thats care enough about them to help her tail out financially as well as physically cuz she could be with a straight dead beat who ain’t doing nothing let alone claiming those kids! ***** needs to sit down somewhere and be happy with what she got, something is better than nothing! Or could it all be her attorney who isn’t satisfied? Hmmmmm..?????
to intenzemocha
I understand the troubles and extra care it takes to raise a child, but dang, she literally has an extra $3000 dollars to play with, if he is taking care of everything (house, transportation, schooling, etc.) 36000 to do nothing with except blow it is damn good. And you are forgetting one thing: she doesn’t try to do anything herself. her kids are at school at least 8 hours a day, she can go get a job and do her part. this is unexcusable, no matter how you look at it. she is acting real trifling, she isnt even trying. she is purposedly trying to sit at home so someone can take care of HER, not them kids……lets just keep it real here, and quit acting and thinking like a lazy hoodrat….point blank…..you never depend on anyone else to take care of your kids, get out there and make it happen your damn self. hell, she got it made already, and now she is being greedy….smh…
His cheap ***** needs to pay more money!!!
If all that T.I already does for these boys is true, then it’s not right that the judge granted her more. I mean in the eye of the law T.I is just another gangster rapper, buying guns, involved in shoot-outs, etc..And no justice for him. It’s no doubt he does his part, but what is she bringing to the table? If T.I’s rap career was over tomorrow(God forbid)What would she do? Everybody screaming “he got it, he should give her everything” ***** That! And it’s not about downing the woman, it’s about her standing on her own also. And don’t give me she’s a stay at home mom, because they stay with T.I too.
Yeah child support can be a lil one sided; thank God i’m not on it… Pays to be civil with the ex-wife
@ jai
That’s the way I feel too. As a man I looked at this when they first said she was asking for more money, and I was like “No big thing as long as he isn’t going to pay 25,000.00 a month like some” because that ***** is outrageous. He’s rich so if he gives up a extra grand I’m sure he is not caring; that’s fair along with him getting joint custody. But, for him or any of these celebs to be giving up abundant amounts of cash for a child is obscene. I say this shows that the justice system is becoming a lil’ more ‘just’ pertaining to family matters.
OBAMA is beating Mclame by 9%……………..
If she cant afford to take care of thoes kids with the money he gives well she needs to give them to him and get her life together and then get them back.
@ROSSY
BOO DON’T EVEN GET AT ME WITH THAT NONSENSE-HE LAYED UP AND F$CKED AND GOT EM THEN HE GETS ALL THAT COMES WITH THAT….YA DIG
THE JUDGE HAS SPOKEN AND CHICKS LIKE YOU CAN GO ON ALL DAY ABOUT HOW IT’S UNFAIR-THE SH#T IS WHAT IT T….I…IS YA DIG
I DON’T HAVE NO SYMPATHY FOR HIM-WHAT OLE GIRL DOES IS IRRELEVANT AND WHAT MAKES YOU THINK THE JUDGE CAN ORDER “HER” TO GET A JOB WHEN HE CAN’T MAKE HALF OF THESE “JEGROES” OUT HER OWE THOUSANDS IN BACKED OWED CHILD SUPPORT
WE RANTING AND RAVING ABOUT OLE GIRL NOT WORKING-HOW MANY NICCAS OUT HERE WITHOUT JOBS??????
HAVE YOU CHECKED THE NATIONAL UNEMPLOYMENT RATE AND WHO TOPS THE LIST-GET THE f$CK OUTA HERE WITH THAT B.S.
IF IT’S GOOD FOR NICCAS TO BE UNEMPLOYED ALL DAY LONG AND SIT ON THEY MAMA’S/BABY MAMA’S COUCH OR LIVE IN THE BASEMENT W/O CONTRIBUTING A DAMN DIME TO THE HOUSEHOLD THEN OLE GIRL CAN SIT AT HOME AND COLLECT CHILD SUPPORT AND RAISE HER KIDS ALSO
AND GUESS WHAT THE JUDGE AGREED-YALL *****S ARE ARGUING A MUTE POINT!
DO y’all know how $3000/month is it only $36,000? I mean $36,000 with 2 kids ain’t *****. Yes she does need to get a job, but come on, TI can make $36,000+ in a two hour performance, is that really going to hurt him? Your kid aren’t supposed to go from MANSIONS and THE WORKS with Daddy to struggling with Mommie. AND. . . We don’t know if this chick is dirty, she SHOULD be working, but $3,000/ month when your income is EXTRORDINARY is not much to give your two children. Especially living in a place that has a relatively high cost of living like Atlanta.
Thats why I will remain celibate for now..
@ angryazzblackwoman
No one is demonizing black women, the reality is unfortunately there are women out there who use their children as a ticket to the good life! Why does she not have a job??? Why are people making reference to his current situation?? Tiny lives with him they are together, so no she can’t have what Tiny has, Tiny ain’t none of her business anyway!!! If he paid all their expenses, and had them check it 40% of the time, what does she need to provide for them? They are *****uredly clothed, fed and their wants and needs are met by their father what could she possibly need more money for??? And her lawyer said she’s still not satisfied??? It is not his responsibility to take care of her, his responsibility is the children!!! That judge saw fit to give her $1000 more so obviously he proved he was doing his job as a Dad!! If she wants her and her sons to have a comprable life to the one t hey have when they are with their father, get up mama and get your own!! When you leave yourself financially dependant on a man, you leave yourself open to all kinds of BS, get your own, do for yourself!! DAMN!!!
@ Cage
Yeah child support can be a lil one sided; thank God i’m not on it… Pays to be civil with the ex-wife
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You alright with me, Cousin! That’s what it is all about. Evaluate these chicks before you get involved.
Hello, everybody?
she probably saw how tiny was flossing, and yall know how baby mama’s is? Baby father’s too!
36K A year is plenty when you have 2 kids that school is already being paid for and so is health insurance and extra-curricular activities and etc…I’m sure he buys them clothes too…so all that means is that she has to buy them clothes from time to time and feed them, that is MORE than enough for that…T.I. is not entitled to put a roof over their head, that is the BM’s responsibility…she should not count on childsupport for that, because if he loses all his money tomorrow, THEN WHAT?
I think $3,000.00 a month is fair, she needs to just get a damn JOB and stop worrying about what TI is making, he’s still paying for everything else, what else does she want, (half) like 5 cents ignorant baby momma? Baby mama’s a lesson for gold diggers, keep a job please. $36,000.00 is enough for a stay at home mom who just wants to get her nails and her hair done every other week. @intenzemazha, settle down, I do understand your venting, but it takes two to make a baby and whether you are married or not, it’s joint responsibility to take care of the children.
intenzemocha(Check me out!)
@ROSSY
BOO DON’T EVEN GET AT ME WITH THAT NONSENSE-HE LAYED UP AND F$CKED AND GOT EM THEN HE GETS ALL THAT COMES WITH THAT….YA DIG
THE JUDGE HAS SPOKEN AND CHICKS LIKE YOU CAN GO ON ALL DAY ABOUT HOW IT’S UNFAIR-THE SH#T IS WHAT IT T….I…IS YA DIG
I DON’T HAVE NO SYMPATHY FOR HIM-WHAT OLE GIRL DOES IS IRRELEVANT AND WHAT MAKES YOU THINK THE JUDGE CAN ORDER “HER” TO GET A JOB WHEN HE CAN’T MAKE HALF OF THESE “JEGROES” OUT HER OWE THOUSANDS IN BACKED OWED CHILD SUPPORT
WE RANTING AND RAVING ABOUT OLE GIRL NOT WORKING-HOW MANY NICCAS OUT HERE WITHOUT JOBS??????
HAVE YOU CHECKED THE NATIONAL UNEMPLOYMENT RATE AND WHO TOPS THE LIST-GET THE f$CK OUTA HERE WITH THAT B.S.
IF IT’S GOOD FOR NICCAS TO BE UNEMPLOYED ALL DAY LONG AND SIT ON THEY MAMA’S/BABY MAMA’S COUCH OR LIVE IN THE BASEMENT W/O CONTRIBUTING A DAMN DIME TO THE HOUSEHOLD THEN OLE GIRL CAN SIT AT HOME AND COLLECT CHILD SUPPORT AND RAISE HER KIDS ALSO
AND GUESS WHAT THE JUDGE AGREED-YALL *****S ARE ARGUING A MUTE POINT!
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I dont even think TI cares he has to pay extra…hes just that type of dude I think. I could see this Negro having a fifth or sixth by the end of next year.
Redd Tony…that’s the way to go !
Hey hun!
@ come on now
why are you only adding the child support are you forgetting he pays for all clothes, tier 1 pricate schooling and extra ciricular activities,and medical,now take that times two, so add that to the 36,000.00. this ***** dont have to do anything but buy food when the kids are there. shes getting away scott free and you know it! and hes not tripping on the 3g’s he was just defending that he wasnt a deadbeat dad!! he has a deadbeat ***** baby mama!!! ladies we are all quick to call a man on on his deadbeatness, now lets start calling out some of these chicken heads on the same thing.. if it quacks like a duck then its a **********ing duck
@TALLEY B
SWEETIE I WORK FOR MINE ALL DAY LONG-I’VE BEEN EMPLOYED SINCE I WAS OLD ENOUGH TO DO SO AND THAT WAS THE AGE OF 14
I WENT TO SCHOOL AND COMPLETED TWO DEGREES WHILE WORKING FULL TIME AND RAISING A CHILD-LAZY IS NOT AN OPTION FOR ME YA DIG
I WOULDN’T PUT MY LIFE/FINANCES IN THE HANDS OF A NICCA ANY DAY YA DIG? SO ALL DAY LONG I’M INVESTING AND SAVING TO MAKE SURE AINT NEVA GOTTA DEPEND ON A NICCA OR ANYBODY ELSE TO DO DAMN THING FOR ME!
HOW MANY OF YALL SUPPORT “GAME” WHEN A NICCA SWINDLE MONEY FROM A CHICK AND STAY DRESSED FRESHED TO DEATH, WHEN HE PUSH HER CAR SHE PAYING FOR, WHEN HE LIVING RENT FREE, *****ODY YELLS FOUL THEN IT’S ALL GAME AND SHE DUMB FOR ALLOWING HIM
ALL I’M SAYING IS THERE IS DOUBLE-STANDARDS WHEN IT COMES TO MEN AND WOMEN AND MOST OF THE WOMEN ON HERE SUPPORT THE NONSENSE
TI CHOSE OLE GIRL RIGHT? SHE DIDN’T RAPE HIM RIGHT? SO THAT NICCA AINT THE VICTIM YALL TRYING TO PAINT HIM OUT TO BE-
IF WOMAN SHOULD BE RESPONSIBLE AND ACCOUNTABLE, THEN MEN SHOULD BE TO
YALL SHOULD BE ARGUING THIS HARD ABOUT EDDIE MURPHY NOT SEEING HIS CHILD, BUT MANY OF YALL SAID AT LEAST HE PAY SUPPORT
THAT LOGIC ALONE IS WHAT I’M ATTACKING-YALL SET SUCH HIGH STANDARDS AND MORALS AND WOMEN BUT WHEN IT COMES TO MEN-YOU DON’T EXPECT MUCH OF NOTHING
@ intenzemocha
I wouldnt care if they have jobs or not. why should she stay at home by herself all day while her children are at school and collect a check when T.I has to work. He laid down with her but she laid down too. So if its because she is rearing them. TI needs to get a nanny and a tutor and have them stay with him. I work, go to school, rear a child and get child support. Its not a lot because I dont need it. I get half on afterschool care. If my child was with his father he would need afterschool care then too. I work and have a home and food. My son will have a place to call home and eat because I have that for myself. I buy his clothes and his father does. I pay for insurance because he is with me and it is cheaper. My sons father take care of his son not me. We both laid down and we are both taking care of our child that we both tried to have because we were married and wanted a son. So try again intenzemocha. That is triflin of her. Get it together boboo.
SHOUT OUTS TO OBAMA BEING UP 9%…
AND TO INTENZEMOCHA AND EVERY OTHER WOMEN AND MEN WITH THIS “GO FOR SELF” BS….
SHOWS YOU HOW TRIFLING AND IGNORANT YALL ARE….
GOES TO SHOW YOU THAT YALL NOT EVEN THINKING ABOUT THE KIDS, YALL ARE THINKING ABOUT YOURSELF, AND CLEARLY, THAT IS THE WRONG PRIORITY. WHAT KIND OF MOTHER ARE YOU, IF YOU PUT YOURSELF BEFORE YOU KIDS (WHICH SHE IS DOING, I DONT CARE WHAT YALL SAY)…..MAN, THIS OTHER CRAP YALL ARE TRYING TO BRING IN THE CONVERSATION IS ALL NOISE, IT HOLDS NO SUBSTANCE. THIS IS PROBABLY WHY SOME BLACK MEN DO NOT WANT A BLACK WOMEN, BECAUSE ITS A COUPLE OF YALL ON HERE THAT ARE SOUNDING REAL IGNORANT. TO MY STRONG BLACK MOTHERS OUT THERE THAT TAKE CARE OF THEIRS AND COULD GIVE A DAMN ABOUT A ***** COMING TO RESCUE HER, MORE SHOUT OUTS TO YOU, YALL ARE MY TREASURE. BUT AS FOR YOU OTHER TRIFLING WOMEN, YOU CAN GO OUT ON TUESDAY AND FRIDAYS WITH THE REST OF THE TRASH….
@ Rossy
If she cant afford to take care of thoes kids with the money he gives well she needs to give them to him and get her life together and then get them back.
Thank you!!! But guess what if she did that, what would she get nothing and this is what its about, her, not her sons!!!
And I’m sorry, I have lived in the ATL and if you live within your means, not trying to be ballin’ when you can’t you can live quite comfortably!!
get a *****ing job, 3 geez and tip have the kids 40 % of the time step your game up women
Red
I dont think he cares but it is the point of women thinking they can lay up and have babies and not put in the effort to financially support the children. He does for those children because he is a real father and want them to have things. She just want a check to take care of herself.
@ HELLO
IF SHE’S TAKING CARE OF THE CHILDREN ALL DAY THEN SHE’S DOING HER PART
AND TRUST ME I POST LIKE THIS ALL THE TIME
HENCE THE NAME INTENZEMOCHA-I PERSONALLY DON’T CARE WHAT PEOPLE THINK OF ME OR MY OPINIONS THAT’S WHY IT’S A BLOG IN THE FIRST PLACE
typo: not women- woman sorry ladies
@ Bahamas/Chicago/Cayman Girl
Bahamas/Chicago/Cayman Girl reply to angryazzblackwoman……
No one is demonizing black women, the reality is unfortunately there are women out there who use their children as a ticket to the good life! Why does she not have a job??? Why are people making reference to his current situation?? Tiny lives with him they are together, so no she can’t have what Tiny has, Tiny ain’t none of her business anyway!!! If he paid all their expenses, and had them check it 40% of the time, what does she need to provide for them? They are *****uredly clothed, fed and their wants and needs are met by their father what could she possibly need more money for??? And her lawyer said she’s still not satisfied??? It is not his responsibility to take care of her, his responsibility is the children!!! That judge saw fit to give her $1000 more so obviously he proved he was doing his job as a Dad!! If she wants her and her sons to have a comprable life to the one t hey have when they are with their father, get up mama and get your own!! When you leave yourself financially dependant on a man, you leave yourself open to all kinds of BS, get your own, do for yoursel!! DAMN!!!
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I swear I love my strong genuine level headed women. These are the types you want to deal with, fellas. Because dealing with these types is the reason why I never have anything bad to say about the women I’ve dealt with and they damn sure can’t say anything bad about me. It is standing on your on two, accolades to you, Bahamas/Chicago/Cayman Girl!
The extra cash on? Stop exaggerating bossip, I know what’s she’s going to spend it on, RENT! I pay more than $1000 on rent for a one bedroom. A three bedroom in a nice neighborhood would be at MINIMUM $2400, and that’s with a deal.
T.I. must not be taking home much if it’s only $3000. So I think it’s a fair deal.
Stop trying to come up on the get rich quick. Get a job.
YOU PROBABLY SHOULD CARE, THATS THE PROBLEM IN THE FIRST PLACE…..SMH….SMH X 10
“you can take the children bounce them on your knees, bounce them on your knees and sing they melondies the “varnell man” can… “DID YOU MISS, ME”"?????
Being a mother is a job. Being a rapper is NOT a job! I know that he gets paid well for it, but it’s not a job.
@TALLEY B
WHATEVA-RIDE THEM NICCAS THAT AINT TAKING CARE OF THEIR KIDS JUST AS MUCH AS YALL RIDING OLE GIRL
PLAIN AND SIMPLE
AINT TRUST I WOULDN’T SIT AT HOME AND EXPECT A NICCA TO TAKE CARE OF ME, HALF OF THEM CAN’T TAKE CARE OF THEIR DAMN SELVES LESS KNOWN ME OR A CHILD
MAMA RAISED ME TO HAVE MY OWN-THAT’S WHY I TALK SH$T LIKE I DO CAUSE I CAN-I TAKE CARE OF ME AND MINES IRREGARDLESS OF WHAT A MAN MAY OR MAY NOT DO
I LOVE YOU Bahamas/Chicago/Cayman Girl !!! THANK YOU!!!
@ intenzemocha
What’s up with you? If they were a family it would not be a requirement for her to work. But, they are not. So she should work like everybody else. I’ve never heard of somebody that get’s pregnant but then don’t want to do her part in FINANCIALLY providing for the kids.
there is nothing worse than a woman (Black, white, whatver) holding her hand out for finances when she refuses to work…..dang…he is paying for the kids already…..all she has to do basically is take care of herself and she can’t even do that……I have a son and it scares that there are some women out there who function just like this….the judge needs to order her to find a job ASAP
The weight of financial responsibilty should not be soully on the man.
I WILL RIDE A DEADBEAT, BUT IN THIS CASE, AND A LOT OF OTHER CASES, THESE MEN ARE DOING THE BEST THAT THEY CAN TO TAKE OF THEIR KIDS, AND YOU GOT SOME TRIFLING WOMEN OUT HERE THAT THINK ITS NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR THEM AND THEIR PERSONAL GAINS. IF YOU TAKE CARE OF YOURS, THEN THATS WHATS UP, IM NOT GONNA COMMEND YOU ON THAT, BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT YOU SUPPOSED TO BE DOING. BUT YOU CANT SIT UP HERE AND SAY THAT SHE IS LEGIT. SHE IS AS WRONG AS THE DEADBEATS AROUND HERE….
For every T.I. who pays child support, I can show you 100 men who don’t.
For every LaShon Dixon who gets $2,000-$3,000 per month, I can show you 1,000 other women who don’t get nothing.
@Ms Philly
Hey babes wuz good
@ CIRCA 81
EVERY MAN OR WOMEN OLD ENOUGH TO WORK SHOULD…YA DIG
THAT’S HOW I WAS RAISED AND I’VE NEVER BEEN UNEMPLOYED, I’VE WORKED CLEANING TOILETS, RETAIL, FAST FOOD, FINANCE, BANKING, ETC. ALL TO GET THE BILLS PAID-WHILE ATTENDING SCHOOL & RAISING A CHILD SO DON’T SPIT THAT NONSENSE AT ME ABOUT A JOB
ALL I’M SAYING IS THAT IT WASN’T A FACTOR OR SHOULD NOT BE A FACTOR WHEN CONSIDERING CHILD SUPPPORT IF THE WOMEN HAS A JOB OR NOT-AND OBVIOUSLY THE JUDGE FEELS THE SAME WAY
TI MUST HAVE KNOWN SHE DIDN’T LIKE TO WORK
STOP BEATING OLE GIRL UP AND GET ON MEN AND TELL THEM TO MAKE WISER CHOICES AS MUCH AS YALL BEATING UP HIS BABY MAMA YALL SHOULD GET AT TI EQUALLY FOR NOT MAKING SMARTER CHOICES
EACH ONE OF THEM IS RESPONSIBLE FOR THE OUTCOME OF THIS SITUATION AND TI AINT NO DAMN VICTIM
intenzemocha, you are tearing it up today!!! amen and open up the doors of the church.
@Al-Anon
So does he have to pay for loser men. Come on now this is silly. Its not about T.I. paying money it is about this women not doing anything to support her children financially.
Thats why I will remain celibate for now..
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ummm yeah!
sure you right *snickering*
Wow, he’s only 27?!
SHEESH!
and another thing, if she needed that money to put a roof over their head, then he needs to have “full custody” of them.. his responsiblity is the CHILDREN, NOT THE MOTHER..
HI EARTH SIGN.. NICE GRAVIE
@intenemocha………….you said….HE SHOULD PAY HER MORE BECAUSE OF THE MERE FACT SHE IS THE PRIMARY CAREGIVER OF THOSE CHILDREN 24/7
24/7 would be 100% primary caregiver………did you read where the boys are wit him 40% of the time……..Look like she owes T.I.P some back pay
@ intenzemocha
I hear what your saying.
T.I. can afford it so that is not the issue. The issue is that she needs to put forth some effort to financially support the children. He is doing more than the mother to take care of the kids. we dont know how she is morally or her values. The children could be watching t.v all day and eating mc d but we dont know. All I know is there are a lot of women who would love for there man to do what TI does with out the money aspect of the deal. Also men and women do need to make better choices in picking men and women. Protect yourself. Always keep in mind that the person you are sleeping with could be the mother or father of your child. Do you really want that.
she STILL wants more money???? disgusting *****. the only thing worse than a deadbeat dad is a chickenhead mom. tiny needs to beat ol’ girl’s ***** for real.
@ TALLEY B
THE JUDGE DIDN’T THINK SO AND IN THIS SITUATION THAT’S ALL THAT MATTERS….LOL
3K AINT HURTING TI’S POCKETS-NO HARM NO FOUL
TRUST ME I AINT THE TYPE OF CHICK TO SEEK BROWNIE POINTS ON-LINE ABOUT WHAT I DO, MY KIDS SHOW ME LOVE AND APPRECIATION AND THAT’S ALL THE KUDOS I NEED-I WOULD DIE BEFORE I WOULD LET MY KIDS GO WITHOUT A DAMN THING
CHILDREN NEED SECURITY AND I WOULDN’T EVEN TAKE THE RISK OF WAITING FOR A MAN TO DO SH$T AND TAKE A CHANCE OF HIM DISAPPOINTING MY KIDS-NAW KID I AINT HAVING IT
I don’t know T.I. personally or any other “stars”, but I have never met a black man who willingly paid child support. I’m not being insulting or anything, but including my father, stepfather, brothers, cousins, nephews and many many co-workers……none of them paid any child support until they were either arrested or had their wage garnishment.
Actually Atlanta’s cost of living isnt that bad compared to other major cities. What makes ATL expensive is everyone trying to live like a celebrity. Do you people realize that several families live off of less than 36k. You can get you a nice 3 bedroom house in ATL for under 1200 a month. Add in another 700 for a nice luxury car. Thats 1900, TI pays all of the kids other bills. So she is left with 1100 to pay utilities and feed the kids. Technically since she is using all of the things I just mentioned she should be paying half. So that knocks the 1900 down to 950 which leaves her with 2050 a month free to pay for these kids. Then no one takes into account that money is tax free which makes it the equivalent to around 50000 a year if she were working. Not lets be honest, I know there are a lot of people on here that dont make close to 50000/yr and they are getting by with whatever bills they have. So why just b/c TI wakes up and works everyday to live better and does provide for her kids does she need more money to emulate his lifestyle? Why cant she get up and work like the rest of the world?
Actually Atlanta’s cost of living isnt that bad compared to other major cities. What makes ATL expensive is everyone trying to live like a celebrity. Do you people realize that several families live off of less than 36k. You can get you a nice 3 bedroom house in ATL for under 1200 a month. Add in another 700 for a nice luxury car. Thats 1900, TI pays all of the kids other bills. So she is left with 1100 to pay utilities and feed the kids. Technically since she is using all of the things I just mentioned she should be paying half. So that knocks the 1900 down to 950 which leaves her with 2050 a month free to pay for these kids. Then no one takes into account that money is tax free which makes it the equivalent to around 50000 a year if she were working. Not lets be honest, I know there are a lot of people on here that dont make close to 50000/yr and they are getting by with whatever bills they have. So why just b/c TI wakes up and works everyday to live better and does provide for her kids does she need more money to emulate his lifestyle? Why cant she get up and work like the rest of the world?
fyi- 36k per month, when you don’t work isn’t poor!!! Furthermore, at “intenzemocha” you sure have a lot to say and it seems to stem from a personal experience, but ma, this is why you don’t just go around making babies!! Women have had to hold it down since the beginning of time on our own!! It doesn’t matter what he does, its about what you do!! So when you went there with this dude and had not one but 2 babies you accepted the responsibility of being a nurse, a teacher, a diciplinarian, a cook, washer and chief bottle washer for 18 years!! This is not a job that you should be compensated for, it is a choice that you made that has consequences!!
the one thing I agree with is that it takes two to tango…..people need to understand, everytime you have sex with someone without protection you have basically decided that you want that person to be the mother or father of your children…..I’m sure he did know that she was a deadbeat and was more than happy to have as many kids because she knew her financial future would be taken care of but does that absolve her from being a woman and working like the rest of us? Women like this Baby Mama give the rest of who work hard and make our money the good ole fashion way a bad name……all I’m saying is if the man is supporting your children in full why can’t the woman work to support herself? GET A JOB, STOP LOOKING FOR A MEAL TICKET, and show your sons what a real woman looks like!!!!
Al-Anon
T.I. was doing it and more before a court order.
@GOAT76
YEAH I READ IT -SO OUT OF 365 DAYS IN A YEAR HE HAS THEM 146 IS THAT FULL-TIME DAY AND NIGHT OR THE AC*****ULATION OF VISITS AND SPECIAL OUTINGS
AND I STILL FEEL THE SAME WAY & WHAT
the whole child support system is ridiculous. it simply wasn’t set up for some of the issues we are seeing today.
i really believe old girl is stepping out right now because TI is going to jail soon. she has to establish herself in the court system because who knows what will happen once he goes to jail–maybe he will appoint a trustee to provide for the kids or maybe tiny might be in charge.
plus, if he really gave tiny a ring, that means he MAY actually marry her so old girl has to legalize and formalize her arrangement. maybe she went to tip and said let’s draw up some papers and he refused. maybe she said she needed an extra grand to compensate for the unknowns while he is away. who knows.
i do think she did the right thing by putting the arrangement on paper. it seems like he put her in a position of “taking it there” to the courts. she wouldn’t have sat down this long on $2k unless something popped off that made her want to act fast.
@Anonymous3 – the fire
Thank you
@Bahamas/Chicago/Cayman Girl
RE-READ MY POST I WOULDN’T PUT MY FUTURE IN THE HANDS OF ANY MAN LESS KNOWN A BLACK MAN BOO-I WORK ALL DAY EVERY DAY FOR EVERYTHING I GOT AND WOULDN’T ALLOW A MAN TO DANGLE $ AND GIFTS OVER MY HEAD SO HE CAN MANIPULATE AND CONTROL ME OR FOR ME TO TURN A BLIND EYE TO THE DIRT HE DOES
I AGREE WHOLEHEARTEDLY SHE SIGNED UP FOR A FULL TIME JOB WHEN SHE MADE THOSE BABIES
ANG GUESS WHAT TI DID ALSO-AND THAT IS WHY THE JUDGE AWARDED HER 3K ON TOP OF THE HEALTHCARE, PRIVATE SCHOOL, AND GIFTS YA DIG
JUST LIKE SHE HAS CONSEQUENCES FOR HER ACTIONS
THE JUDGMENT IS TI’S CONSEQUENCES FOR HIS ACTIONS!
She needs a job. How much money does she get from the other baby daddy?? She is sorry. All she wants to do is lay on her no job having ***** and get money off them kids. She should be ashamed of herself if she had any type of respect. Her occupation is baby mama.
@ free
You right she has been getting this for so long now she wants more. Something happened. I think that is why the judge only awarded a grand more because she has been sustaining with the amount. That is why 10 -30 is not what he is paying
I DONT THINK YALL ARE GETTING IT, YALL HAVE CLEARLY LOST FOCUS….THE JOB OF A PARENT (S) IS TO PROVIDE FOR THAT CHILD BY ANY MEANS. AND SHE IS NOT TRYING TO PROVIDE HER KIDS ANYMORE, SHE FEELS AS THOUGH SHE IS MISSING OUT, SO SHE IS TRYING TO GET BACK AT TI. BUT THATS HER FAULT, TI HAS DONE EVERYTHING, HE IS A RAPPER, MAKES THE MONEY, AND PROVIDES FOR HIS KIDS. I BET YOU IF YOU ASK TI WHY HE STILL RAPS, IM GUARANTEE YOU HE SAYS THAT HE IS DOING IT FOR HIS KIDS. NOW WHAT EXACTLY IS SHE TRYING TO DO FOR HER KIDS……….(THIS IS YOUR TIME TO RESPOND0………….THATS RIGHT: NOTHING!!! NOTHING AT ALL. SHE MIGHT LOOK AFTER HER KIDS AND WHAT NOT, BUT SHE IS NOT DOING ALL THAT SHE CAN FOR HER KIDS. AND THAT IS THE POINT. FORGET WHAT CHOICE THE MEN MAKE IN WOMEN AND VICE VERSA, YOU KNOW WHAT YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO DO AS PARENT, GET OFF YA AZZ AND DO IT!!! HOW IN THE HELL CAN A JUDGE JUSTIFY HER DECISION. IF ANYTHING, SHE SHOULDA ORDER THE BM TO GET A JOB. BECAUSE AFTER ALL, HOW CAN YOU PROVIDE FOR A CHILD IF YOU WONT DO ALL THAT YOU CAN DO. THAT IS, UNLESS, YOU CAN GO TO THE COURTS AND “BALL OUT”….AND I DO FEEL BAD FOR THE REGULAR DUDES, WHICH THE SAME THING HAPPENS TO THEM. IT MIGHT NOT HURT TI, WHO MAKES 10 MILLION A YEAR, BUT IT WILL HURT SOMEBODY WHO ONLY MAKES 35K….AND WHILE YOU TRYING TO MAKE BABY DADDYS OUT TO BE THE BAD GUY, ITS A LOT OF WOMEN NOT DOING WHAT THEY SUPPOSE TO BE DOING. IF YOU WANT TO TALK ABOUT MAKING DECISIONS, MAYBE THEY SHOULDN’T HAVE AGREED TO SLEEP WITH A NO GOOD *****. BUT OF COURSE, THE WOMAN DOESNT HAVE ANY BLAME IN THAT SITUATION….BUT LIKE I SAID, IT’S NOT ABOUT THAT. IT’S ALL ABOUT THE KIDS. AND THE JUDGES RULING IS BLIND TO THAT FACT AS WELL….
@ num1dominicano
if your boy’s bm is on public *****ist, then trust me that child support money isn’t going to her. she probably see’s the first 50.00 dollars of it, and the rest goes to the state to pay back what they’ve given her in public aid, at least that’s how they do that in cali, o and if he’s not satisfied he needs to get the order modified, especially if he’s got other children he’s taking care of.
back to the topic at hand, i’m glad she got more, but i think she was thinking along the lines of kim porter/kimora lee child support. well if she had a baby by diddy or russell maybe. lol, anyhow, she better use it wisely, i hope she is putting it away and not trying to keep up with tiny and her suitcase/purse game. oh and tiny’s son has a huge head, i hope that boy is a genius with all that brain matter in there.
and yes being a stay at home mother is a job, because even when the kid is in school there’s cleaning cooking and running errands. a mother’s job is not a nine to five, but runs 24/7 because even when they are sleep your still mothering, getting up in the night to check on them etc and you get no time off, no benefits, no 401 k….
@ Free….i really believe old girl is stepping out right now because TI is going to jail soon. she has to establish herself in the court system because who knows what will happen once he goes to jail–maybe he will appoint a trustee to provide for the kids or maybe tiny might be in charge
She was already established in the Child Support Courts…….dis was about getting more money….
@intenzemocha
the last time i checked, school is in session so if the children are at school she needs to get her a** up and do something. and you can continue to post all you what and in the manner you post, you are just acting too ignorant this morning. oops sorry you said you post like this all the time, have a great day. (and stop acting so damn ghetto)
all you want
36000 is enough to raise two kids.. i know plenty of women who make less than that and paying for their kids.. becuz there deadbeat ***** baby daddy aint doing nothing..she should be thanking the lord she gets that much money in child support a year..i know *****s refusing to pay their baby mama 200 dollars a month in child support. she just lazy and her friends probably doing her like 50 baby mama freinds were doing blowing her head up making her think she should get more money cuz ti got some hit songs out.. she is lazy and triffling and needs to get a job if she think she is not getting enough money!!
Quote from the article:“She was just getting by with the children, while they lived a different life with their father. It can’t be complete opposites on the other side.”
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It may be unfair, but this is true and holds up in court in most middle cl*****/upper cl***** divorces/child support cases. The father can’t live in absolute luxury while the children live in squalor, and vice versa when the mother is the non-custodial parent but makes more money.
Still, I’d have a d@mn job or something. I can understand you wanting to get your kids what’s yours, but if she had a job and were doing something with her life other than sitting around while those kids are at school, she may have had a better settlement.
IF MY BABY MOTHER LEFT ME AND MARRIED A RICH MAN AND I HAD THE KIDS 40% OF THE TIME AM I ENTITLED TO GET SOME EXTRA PAPER FROM THEM? SHE NEED TO GET A JOB AND QUIT COUNTING THAT MAN PAPER.. LADIES KEEP IT REAL… WHEN IT’S TO THE LEFT TO THE LEFT, EVERYTHING YOU OWN IN THE BOX TO THE LEFT…LOL
@TALLY B
EVERY DAY SHE WAKES UP AND TENDS TO HER KIDS SHE’S DOING HER JOB AS A PARENT-AND SHE OBVIOUSLY SOUGHT MEANS TO PROVIDE FOR HER CHILDREN BY SEEKING COURT-ORDERED CHILD SUPPORT
SO IF IN FACT-TI’ DIDN’T PAY CHILD SUPPORT AND HER KIDS WERE WITHOUT BECAUSE SHE WASN’T WORKING THEN IN FACT SHE WOULDN’T BE UPHOLDING HER OBLIGATIONS AS A PARENT-BUT THAT ISN’T THE CASE
SO YOUR ARGUMENT IS NULL AND VOID-THE CHILDREN HAVE A ROOF OVER THEIR HEAD AND ARE BEING PROVIDED FOR POINT BLANK-AND LIKE YOU SAID THAT’S ALL THAT MATTERS
IF WHAT SHE WAS DOING WAS SUCH A CRIME-CHILD PROTECTIVE SERVICE WOULD BE CALLED
SO AS MUCH AS YOU DISAGREE WITH THE FACT THAT SHE CAN SIT AT HOME AND COLLECT CHILD SUPPORT-IT IS HER RIGHT-SO YOU ALL WILL JUST HAVE TO GET OVER IT
THAT MONEY HUNGREY HO NEEDS TO GET A JOB!!! STOP TRYING TO LIVE OFF TI’S LIVING!! $3,000 IS MORE THAN ENOUGH TO TAKE CARE OF TWO KIDS FOR A MONTH. BISH NEEDS TO GET A JOB!!
fyi- 36k per month, when you don’t work isn’t poor!!! Furthermore, at “intenzemocha” you sure have a lot to say and it seems to stem from a personal experience, but ma, this is why you don’t just go around making babies!! Women have had to hold it down since the beginning of time on our own!! It doesn’t matter what he does, its about what you do!! So when you went there with this dude and had not one but 2 babies you accepted the responsibility of being a nurse, a teacher, a diciplinarian, a cook, washer and chief bottle washer for 18 years!! This is not a job that you should be compensated for, it is a choice that you made that has consequences!!
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co-sign..
I am a single mother.. and you know what i get child support.. but you know what, it doesn’t pay for the the sleepless nights, it doesn’t teach morals or responsiblity.. that child support BARELY covers daycare cost! but you know what.. i would rather my sons father be in his life, actively, rather than be a paycheck daddy.. i don’t put a price tag on my son.. *****ody should. and that is what this chick is doing.. i’m glad that i’m not a “bitter baby mama”.. i takes care of mine, hold my house down.. i’ve been told by some bitter azz chicks.. to take him back to court.. FOR WHAT? Nah… i got this.. this is MY responsiblity.. it’s what being a Mommy is about.
Morning Peeps. I don’t agree that this woman should get more child support, since TI was already doing his part. Here’s a young black father who’s doing way MORE than alot of other fathers out here–rich or not. If this chick (not ‘*****’ cuz I’m sick of us talking to each other like that) can work, she should. Period. None of us know what the future holds–many-a-stay-at-home Mom has been forced into the workforce due to unforseen cir*****stances: I go to work everyday so dammit so should she. For people to say ‘he can afford it’ is an *****umption: the more you make the more they take, as the saying goes. Plus with his recent legal problems and the unpredictable nature of the rap game, who can say how much T.I. will be worth in a few years? That extra thousand may come in handy. I know I hate it when other people try to count and spend my money for me: I imagine its that much more annoying to rich people. TI does have an obligation to his BM but girlfriend should also be stacking/investing the child support she does get and working herself–if only part time.
@ yeah i said it
Say it again get over it ladies he dont want you. get your life in order dont worry about him. This is what it is about she not the women with T.I
gimme a break (vote for change)(Check me out!)
Thats why I will remain celibate for now..
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ummm yeah!
sure you right *snickering*
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No bull….Been about a month now…dont mess me up..(smile)
@Nu2this
Thanks Mama
intenzemocha
yeah she can have that but she will never have what Tiny has and that is where the real issue lies
@HELLO
SIT AND SPIN
I AINT CUSSING AT ANYBODY OR CALLING PEOPLE NAMES
I’M JUST STATING MY OPINION LIKE EVERYBODY ELSE AND SINCE MINE SEEMS TO DIFFER FROM MOST OF THE POSTERS I’M A TARGET
YOU DON’T LIKE WHAT I HAVE TO SAY SCROLL RIGHT PAST ME AND STOP PAYING ME SO MUCH ATTENTION
DON’T ATTACK ME ATTACK THE CONTENT OF MY POST-NOW THAT’S WHAT I DEEM AS IGNORANT
co-sign..
I am a single mother.. and you know what i get child support.. but you know what, it doesn’t pay for the the sleepless nights, it doesn’t teach morals or responsiblity.. that child support BARELY covers daycare cost! but you know what.. i would rather my sons father be in his life, actively, rather than be a paycheck daddy.. i don’t put a price tag on my son.. *****ody should. and that is what this chick is doing.. i’m glad that i’m not a “bitter baby mama”.. i takes care of mine, hold my house down.. i’ve been told by some bitter azz chicks.. to take him back to court.. FOR WHAT? Nah… i got this.. this is MY responsiblity.. it’s what being a Mommy is about.
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1000% Cosign
@Redd Tony
good I am right behind you.
Dont know how my man would like that. oh well
@ intenM………If she wants more she needs to work for it…….She has them for a total of lil over 2 months more than TIP does…..so she should have to cough up some Child Support or don’t get that big payday she wanted……Sounds like she wanted 10,000 to 20,000 a month….
@Nue2This
I am with you. Be in my childs life. If you can then do so. Help me with the afterschool care because you would have to pay it too. As long as I have my son will and he will always have because I am a real mother and I am going to make sure he gets it by hook or crook.
DAMN IT IS SOME IGNORANT PEOPLE UP HERE! FIRST OF ALL IF THE SHOW WAS ON THE OTHER FOOT YOU ALL WOULD BE SINGING A DIFFERENT TUNE! I UNDERSTAND WHAT SHE IS SAYING AS A MOTHER EITHER WAY DAMN SHE HAD YOUR KIDS AND IS TAKING CARE OF YOUR KIDS NAH YOU DON’T HAVE TO PUT HER UP IN THE RITZ BUT DAMN THIS IS 2008 AND IF YOU CAN GIVE YOUR KIDS ONE THING ESPECIALLY TWO AFRICAN AMERICAN FUTURE MEN ONE THING THAT SHOULD BE THEIR MOTHER TO BE THERE @ HOME TO WATCH THEM, COOK, DO HOMEWORK ALL THE THINGS THAT THE YOUTH IS MISSING NOW A DAYS. THE GUIDANCE. SHE MUST NOT BE DOING A BAD JOB BECAUSE HE IS NOT TRYING TO TAKE THEM FROM HER! NOW REMEMBER BACK IN THE DAY MOTHERS WERE @ HOME WITH THE KIDS AND WE DIDN’T HAVE ALL THIS VIOLENCE OR GANGS OR HELL HIGHSCHOOL DROP OUTS! IF TI HAS BEEN BLESSED WTIH ANYTHING HE HAS BEEN BLESSED WITH BEING ABLE TO GIVE HIS KIDS THAT! HE MADE THOSE KIDS WITH THAT WOMAN I DON’T KNOW IF TINY SAID THAT BLOG OR NOT AND DON’T REALLY CARE BUT LIKE IT SAID THE MAN MAKES THE KID AND TI MADE NOT ONE BUT 2 WITH HER! SO DAMN GIVE OLE GIRL SOME SLACK!
ARGUE WITH THE JUDGE OR CHANGE THE LAWS
NONE OF OUR OPINIONS MATTER-THE ONLY OPINON THAT MATTERS IS THE “JUDGE” AND IT’S OBVIOUS HE’S MADE HIS DECISION SO LIVE WITH IT….
YEAH, HERES THE THING. TI WAS THE ONE WHO GOT THE HOUSE, CAR, SCHOOLING, CLOTHING, AND ALMOST EVERYTHING ELSE. LIKE I SAID, SHE IS DOING SOMETHING, BUT SHE IS NOT DOING ALL THAT SHE CAN DO…AND JUST BECAUSE THE COURTS AND CPS WONT SAY ANYTHING DOESNT MEAN IT ISNT A CRIME, THAT IS PROVEN EVERY SONGLE DAY. LIKE I SAID, SHE GOT OVER, AND THATS A SHAME THAT FOLKS ARE BACKING SUCH A CRIME. YES, MA’AM, IT IS A CRIME, NO MATTER HOW YOU LOOK AT IT. MY ARGUMENT IS VALID BECAUSE TI DOING WHAT HE CAN, AND SHE ISNT….POINT BLANK. DAMMIT, SHES NO MORE THAN AN OVER PAID BABYSITTER RIGHT NOW….
@ Latrelle
Well she should have been a wife not a baby maker. That lifestlye is for wives not baby makers.
Does this woman have a job? If not, she should get one.
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YOUR OPINION AND YOUR ENTITLED TO IT
TOO BAD THAT DOESN’T CHANGE LAWS OR MAKE THEM
talley-b
1000% Cosign
TINY AINT MARRIED EITHER
@intenzemocha
i feel sorry for your baby daddy, i bet you are loud and ignorant, i hope you don’t drink, back to the post, $3000.00 is enough money – even if she is not satisfied, she will get over it. peace out
@INTEZ MOCHA
at first i was feeling you today, BUT KNOW I FEEL LIKE YOUR JUST RANTING. YOU KEEP HOLLERING ABOUT A PARENTS RESPONSIBILITY, SO WHAT IS SHE SUPPOSED TO DO, IF HE HAS THE CHILDREN 50% OF THE TIME PAYS FOR SCHOOLING CLOTHES AND ACTIVITIES AND MEDICAL BILLS, WHATS LEFT FOR HER TO DO WHEN SHE HAS THEM. AND WHAT THE ***** IS SHE DOING WHEN THEY ARE WITH HIM, A CLOTHING LINE, A PARTY PLANNING COMPANY. WE SEE WHAT KIM PORTER GETS A MONTH, AND WHY IS IT SO EASY FOR HER AND HER GIRLS TO START 3BG ENTERTAINMENT? SHE GETS 15 TIMES MORE THAN THIS RAT AND STILL HAS HER OWN BUSINESS. TI COULD FALL OFF TOMMORROW AND WHERE WOULD SHE BE THEN. IM SORRY BUT IM GLAD KB IS HERE CAUSE HE JUST TOOK THE TITLE FOR MAKING A POINT!!! SHE CANT LIVE LIKE HIM, ONLY HER KIDS… TRUE WE AGREE ON ONE THING HE SHOULD HAVE BEEN MORE CAUTIOUS OF WHO HE WAS SLEEPING WITH, IM SURE SHE HAD GUTTER RAT TENDENCIES EVEN BACK THEN…. DAMN SHAME!! I BELIEVE HE SHOULD CONTINUE TO TAKE CARE OF HIS KIDS AS HE HAS ALWAYS DONE AND I ALSO BELIEVE SHE SHOULD GET OUT HERE LIKE EVERY OTHER WOMAN AND GET A JOB… THAT ***** COULD DIE TOMMORROW AND WHAT WOULD SHE HAVE… NOT A GOT DAMN THING, HAD YOU THOUGHT ABOUT THAT!!!! AND PLEASE STOP BRINGING UP OTHER CASES, BOSSIP HASNT POSTED ANY DEAD BEAT DAD STORIES LATELY OR WE WOULD BE ONTHERE RIPPING HIS ***** UP ALSO. THEY POSTED THIS ONE SO THIS IS WHAT TODAYS BLOGGING TOPIC IS ABOUT!!!! SORRY
by the way, the judge’s name says it all…lol, j/k…
IF TI DECIDED TO LEAVE TINY TODAY SHE WOULD BE JUST ANOTHER BABY MAMA AND I BET SHE WOULD BE IN COURT ALSO MAKING SURE HER LIFESTYLE SHE AND HER KIDS ARE ACCUSTOMED TO CONTINUED…..
Every little bit helps,” Kessler said. “She was just getting by with the children, while they lived a different life with their father. It can’t be complete opposites on the other side.”
This the problem she doesnt make that money therefore she cant live that lifestyle. If she wants that for her children then they need to live with him
My mother didn’t get a DIME of child support, nor was my father in my life, but she made sure to provide for me. I’m also positive that’s what made me chill out and not get out of control and start having babies. I refuse to end up like this woman, where greed knocks the dignity out of your head.
It’s sad that it happens like this. Some men seem to love these “lazy, greedy skanks” (they must have great p*ssy or suck a mean d*ck) who don’t want to work but want to use the kids to ride the man’s “money train”. Only the wife gets a “free ride”.
Actually, the way the world works is NOT that the richest parent gets the kids. I don’t know why you all are stating he should get the kids because of his wallet. I think not. If that was how the world worked, 9 times out of 10 the husband/father would get the children because newflash people…
MEN MAKE MORE THAN WOMEN.
Although I guess things do change when we’re talking black men/black women.
@ intenzemocha & Nue2This
Kudos to you ladies!!These are level headed women, who do what they have to do, but this young woman, Ms. Dixon doesn’t appear to think the way she should be thinking. She is depending on TI for her livelyhood, she took him to court for more cash, she has not accepted her reponsibility for the decisions she made, she doesn’t work he does, he maintains those kids financially and trust me if you add up health insurance, PRIVATE school fees, clothing food etc, its alot more than $3000 this man is coming off of every month. I am not saying she is not a good mother, I hope she is and as a primary caregiver she gives alot, but she should be counting her blessings, because she has support, most women get nothing!! And I hope to God, she is saving her cash because who says he will be always “have it”.
intenzemocha
Tiny lives with him so she gets the perks of that. That is why ol girl is mad. If he left today hell tiny wasnt living bad when he came so whats the point. She is mad because she is not tiny and her chance came and went. (Denis Napier)
@intenzemocha………ARGUE WITH THE JUDGE OR CHANGE THE LAWS
NONE OF OUR OPINIONS MATTER-THE ONLY OPINON THAT MATTERS IS THE “JUDGE” AND IT’S OBVIOUS HE’S MADE HIS DECISION SO LIVE WITH IT….
As a Man, I’m cool wit the decision……She don’t deserve no outragous amount like 10 or 20 thousand a month…..she ain’t even satified with the new ruling…..So who has the problem? Not me……
@CORPORATE
OUTLINE THE SPECIFIC ISSUE YOU HAVE WITH EITHER OF MY POST CAUSE OTHER THAN THAT-I’M NOT SURE WHAT ISSUE YOU ARE ADDRESSING TO ME SPECIFICALLY
SHE DOESN’T WORK OK AND…….MANY NICCAS DON’T WORK EITHER….AND…….YOUR POINT PLEASE
I WORK AND I TAKE CARE OF MY KIDS, THE ISSUE HERE WASN’T HER EMPLOYMENT STATUS IT WAS CHILD SUPPORT-SO NOT SURE WHY EVERYBODY’S TRYING TO RIDE ME BECAUSE I KEEP POINTING THAT OUT
persona
if she cant make it happen with all he gives her then they really need to move in with their father.
THIS IS AN EXAMPLE OF RIDICULOUS CHILD SUPPORT — PUT THINGS IN CONTEXT PEOPLE… ($3,000 is not the come up. Can my people not have such a poor view of the world? Please? Thanks!) Mind you the example below is for a child that’s not even really HIS. See below ridiculousness:
Is it $35,000 a month, as he suggested in the prenuptial agreement; $50,000 a month, as they agreed to in the divorce settlement; or $75,000, as he paid from August 2000 to September 2001? How about $320,000, the amount of money she says was lavished each month on little Kira’s lifestyle while her parents got along?
Lisa Kerkorian is now asking the court to award Kira $320,000 a month — $3.8 million a year. As a compromise, she suggests Kerkorian pay $220,000 a month and allow his daughter to fly five times a year on his $56 million Boeing 737, which is equipped with a living room, a kitchen, two bedrooms and seats for 21 p*****engers.
I believe the mother is following the LAW and the judge is too. The cost living right now in America is outrageous. The cost of caring for two children adds to that stress. If the primary caretaker is entitled to additional funds to raise the children then so be it. It’s the law. If you are adult enough to have a baby (ies), then you have to be adult enough to deal with all the costs involved.
@intenzemocha
Were not talking about men we are talking about her not doing anything to help with the children. A nanny can do what she does. Many people have them. I am looking for one myself.
IF TI DID FALL OFF TODAY, OKAY, IT HAPPENS, IT WOULDNT BE TI’S FAULT. IM PRETTY SURE HE WOULD MAKE SURE THAT HIS KIDS ARE TAKEN WELL CARE OF…WHATS YOUR POINT…
IF THAT’S YOUR ARGUMENT THAT OLE GIRL IS MAD BECAUSE OF TINY & TI BEING TOGETHER -
HOW LONG HAS TINY AND TI BEEN TOGETHER AND SHE’S JUST NOW SEEKING COURT ORDERED PAYMENTS
YEAH THAT SOUNDS LOGICAL…….IF THAT WERE THE CASE SHE WOULD HAVE DONE IT A LONG TIME AGO
HIS RELATIONSHIP WITH TINY WAS NO SECRET AND HE’S BEEN MAKING PAPER SO C’MON NOW
The courts ruled 50,000 was fair.
A Los Angeles judge on Friday ordered billionaire Kirk Kerkorian to pay his ex-wife Lisa Bonder Kerkorian $50,316 a month to support their 4-year-old daughter in the style to which the little girl is accustomed.
SHE NEEDS TO GET OFF HER BUT AND GET A JOB,BECAUSE WHEN THEY TURN 18 WHAT WILL SHE DO THEN,THATS WHY MEN NEED TO BE CAREFUL,NOT HAVING KIDS BY WOMEN THEY DON’T INTEND TO MARRY,BECAUSE THEY KNOW THEY WILL HAVE TO PAY CHILD SUPPORT,WHICH IS THEIR RESPONSIBILITY.IF I WERE A MAN I WOULD PUT MYSELF IN THIS SITUATION.
@INTENZEMOCHA
Hello, okay I am trying to understand something, I work 8 hours a day. I then pick my children up from school, go over homework, test them on their *****ignments, take them to tennis, piano and violin lessons and anything else they want to be involved in and my baby gives me around the same amount as TI and I make double what she’s getting, but I went back to school to further my education. I just think if she got up off the couch and stop worrying about what is in TI’s pocket maybe just maybe she won’t have to get a judge but (maybe get a life) and start making some money herself. Because if TI career falls off, then what? Now, I do undertand that she’s possibly trying to set herself up for when TI gets locked down for a year, but to say that she deserves the money, that’s just crazy. Women, please don’t depend on a man, get yours, it’s out there in the world for the getting – trust me.
Paul McCartney’s Child Support:
Paul McCartney has reportedly offered estranged wife Heather Mills a divorce settlement amounting to $235 million. Despite previous insider reports stating that McCartney is eager to argue the divorce before the courts, his children, including fashion designer Stella McCartney, have reportedly convinced him for the sake of his health to make a settlement and walk away.
The alleged $235 million deal that Macca has cut with Mills includes:
- A public lump payout of $19.6 million, which Mills will donate to charity.
- $3.9 million a year for care and child support of the couple’s three year-old daughter Beatrice.
persona
You are right men are paying too much. Most of us said that already. A child doesnt need all that anyway.
chaka1
Cost of living in atlanta isnt a lot she can pay a mort of a g and have a banging house and a g to keep up the house everything else T.I provides
Royal Chocolate(Check me out!)
It’s sad that it happens like this. Some men seem to love these “lazy, greedy skanks” (they must have great p*ssy or suck a mean d*ck) who don’t want to work but want to use the kids to ride the man’s “money train”. Only the wife gets a “free ride”.
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Naw..the greedy unforeseen ***** just comes after you break up….other than that either probably had no serious complaints
Something else people should consider, when comparing this BM’s child support $ to Kim Porter’s or Kimora’s…Diddy was with Kim for ten years, which makes her his common-law wife, not just one of his BM’s. They also have more children together, and the age and needs of children are often a factor in cases like these. Diddy is also worth way more than TI financially but as someone already said, Kim Porter still works (even if she only makes appearances for $). She also has her own business. Kimora is Russell’s ex-WIFE, not just his BM. And we all know that Russ Simmons’ paper is loooooooooooong and it has been for several years. The money he’s paying for his kids has no impact on his lifestyle otherwise he wouldn’t have agreed with the arrangement. As someone said, wife versus BM or jump-off…each term leads to very different perks and levels of respect–if any. I’m a woman and like I said before, I think this chick should get a job and be productive. Most women would like to raise their kids at home but they can’t afford to. That doesn’t make them lesser-parents. If anything, kids respect their parents and follow the examples that they set. This chick is not setting a good example-as a woman or a mother.
*****ody cant p***** judgement on their situation, because it is a lot we dont know…just sayin
@Rossy, I’m not saying men are paying too much child support. Paul McCartney and Kekorian are paying too much child support, though.
I am stating, however, that $3,000 is not the come up. And, I’m questioning how anyone could even think that’s a LOT of money for someone earning millions. That’s just ridiculous to me.
The point is there are women who do what she does with her children well and work and develope functional people for society. She is not in the hood so you dont have to worry about gangs. She sees all these other women getting all this stuff and she want more. Because T.I has been doing all this already and she has be ok with it it is not going increase. Get a job lady. Well I guess it is ok for women to get on welfare and say they cant work because they are rearing their children.
And, if this statement is true, T.I. is shady. From sandra rose:
Last week I received a letter from a woman who said she was Lashon Dixon’s friend. She agreed that T.I. gave his sons everything, inlcuding four wheelers, toys and clothing. But she said T.I. kept everything at his mansion for the children’s use when they came over
If TIP career falls short or ends today, he will still be well off……….but Child Support don’t last 4 ever…….
the system is NOT fair.. you have “good fathers” that take care of their children and are in their lives and play their part. then you got bitter azz baby mommas.. that hold on to the bullshyt and use their kids as a crutch.. b/c the relationship didn’t work, or whatever the case may be.. the “motives” are what matters… and the system is more on the woman side than trying to hear out the fathers.. some fathers are DEAD BEAT DADDY’s, but NOT all of them..
persona
The money is not the real issue it that she doesnt want to work. She wants him to take care of her also.
@Vee-hump-day 2day
put that out there again. These women were wives or common law lived with these men for years and had children with them. If he leaves tiny she will get 30 a month and ol girl will be mad. Tiny is his common law wife now GA common wealth state. So she will be good. Moral of story for gold diggers be a wife not a baby momma. It pays more. Now get a job. (Denis Napier).
@ROSSY
THAT’S YOUR OPINION THAT HER TAKING CARE OF HER CHILDREN ON A DAY TO DAY BASIS IS NOTHING
JUST LIKE A MAN CAN BE A GOOD FATHER TO HIS CHILDREN IRREGARDLESS IF HE’S WORKING OR NOT
THAN A MOTHER CAN TOO….
YALL AINT GOING TO BEAT ME IN THE HEAD WITH THE B.S.
There’s no need to be dragging ***** from house to house when they are with him just as much with her
60/40……..If they don’t have video games and toys at their mom house….then what is she doing with the Child Support cause everything else is paid for…..
intenzemocha
We are not you know whats up because you take care of your children like the rest of us do. She just need to get a job and move on with her life. Thats all we are saying. She work like the rest of us.
persona
Why cant it be at his house they are there 40% of the time. Plus we dont even know if that is true.
PLeaseeeeeeeeeeee! First off, whats wrong with supplying his/her children the SAME lifestyles on BOTH sides. I mean sure she should work. Totally agreed(working hard and educating yourself is awesome), however, shes not a rap star, and less likely to be able to provide the things he can obviously affod to give. He has the money! (1000 extra per month isnt sih from HIM)- He doesnt seem to care, let him man up…… Should’nt he want them to have “sorta” the same lifestyle while there away from HIM!. Some of you people are the biggest *****sholes/ and even bigger *****s I have ever heard from. Your opionions are foolish, and I bet MOST of YOU broads/frauds are golddigging w*****s, who DONT live by your own morals. Dont be so quick to judge damn! Shes a sister *****es.
Kevin Federline and Britney Spears:
A source close to the singer confirms she’ll now pay Federline $20,000 a month in child support, an increase from $15,000.
kiddnme…
Well for one all the name calling is out of control handel that first as a grown women sister. Secondly she needs to work. Im sure her house is nice and she dont have a bucket as a car. She needs to work to provide for herself. T.I. is taking care of the kids.
@ Rossy-that’s right. Folks are always ‘plotting’ and scheming on what other people have instead of making their own money. As you said, Tiny’s also TI’s common-law wife. Heck, you can tell by the way they pose in pix and the fact that they go EVERYwhere together that they love each other. If things went bad between them she would be SET-UP: probably wouldn’t even have to go to court.
Why I agree that she need’s to get a JOB, I also don’t think that 3,000 a month for 2 kids is that much to pay considering TI made 15 million dollars last year, and stands to make alot more this year with a new CD dropping next week.
It’s a small price to pay for having kids with a woman whom you choose when you were young, clearly a poor choice.
He should just pay it anyway, there his kids, and 3,000 is nothing compared to the 5,000 coach bags Tiny has been carrying around Hollyweird lately. LOL, Man up TI, it’s not even 1 percent of what you make.
@ INTEZMOCHA
PLEASE QUIT BRINGING YOU INTO THE POST AND THE COMMENT I KEEP REFERING TO IS THE SAME ONE YOU KEEP MAKING
“SHE DOESN’T WORK OK AND…….MANY NICCAS DON’T WORK EITHER….AND…….YOUR POINT PLEASE”
THIS POST ISNT ABOUT “YOU” OR “OTHER *****S”
ITS ABOUT LASHON DIXON NO JOB HAVING *****, WHOS TRYING TO MILK HER BABDY DADDY, HES ALREADY SPENDING A SUBSTANTIAL AMOUTN OF MONEY FOR HIS KIDS AND THE JUDGE SAW THAT, AND THATS WHY SHE ONLY GETTING AND EXTRA 1200 HUNDRED A MONTH. THERES NOTHING FOR HER TO BUY!!! MY WHOLE POINT IS THIS IS A BLOG ABOUT HER AND TI, NOT RAY RAY AND JUNEBUG AND THEM, PEOPLE GET ON HERE AND GO LEFT FIELD SOME TIME ON THIS *****… ITS ENTERTAINMENT THATS ALL, SOME GREEDY ***** WANTS SOME MORE DOUGH, WHEN HER KIDS LIVE AT DADS THEY GET AN EXQUSITE LIFESTYLE AND SHE WANTS THEM TO HAVE THOSE SAME MEASURES AT HER HOME… NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT AT ALL SHE SHOULD JUST BE WILLING TO PUT FORTH A LITTLE MORE EFFORT.PERIOD!!!
persona
That is dumb too. He needs to get a job. The system is set up all wrong.
@Rossy
Ever notice how stars tend to have duplicate nurseries for their kids? So that the kids can still have consistency?
How shady is it if he does MAKE them keep it at the house they’re at 40% of the time? Why would he do that? It’s not hard to transport toys.
You know why, to show the kids they have a BETTER LIFE at his house and bribe them to stay there. I know I would increase the time spent at a particular house if, say, my computer could only be there.
It’s called bribery. And, it’s pretty effective with kids. That’s why parents have to have that, don’t go into a car with a stranger who has a lollipop. Kids are easily bribed.
But, mind you, the kids will be spending 100% of their time with the mama soon. T.I.’s going to jailllllllllll. Jail! And, that’s despite good lawyers.
Although the person of money is also to have good enough lawyers to always win. But, occ*****ionally you have to make concessions and spend a grand more or serve a year. Can’t beat everything.
It’s all good.
@Persona
If dad is keeping the toys at his house it’s because something is going on at mommy’s where the toys and other items are not secure. I don’t know many single non working moms that get 40 percent of their time off. This chick is triflin.
Mar82
The money isnt the point. Its that she wants him to take care of her. He has been paying this now its a problem. Tiny gets that because she is his women his kids clothes are correct. They have all they could want. She wants that too and that is a problem.
@richard, if something was going on at mommy’s he’d have full custody.
But, he doesn’t, and you know why…
T.I. is actually a felon. Despite being a rapper, he’s also a criminal. He buys guys. Sold drugs. And had a record before making a record. He’s actually a bad guy. Let’s all be honest, T.I. has done WRONG.
A normal parent could actually get their kids taken away from them FOREVER for his crimes. And, would actually go to jail for a long long time. But, he’s not, because he has the perks of money.
So again, why wouldn’t he want to use those perks for his kids?
Buys guns.
persona
That means the children are with him almost half the time. His good lawyers got him a year and it could have men 20 so that is good. He got the house and everything for them what more could you want. If my exhusband did all that I wouldnt ask for nothing more not a dime a month food and the lights on is my portion. We both spend time with them. So every night they dont spend with their mother. So give it up.
Kid Rock has custody of his son because his girlfriend was shady
Kid Rock has custody of his son because his girlfriend was shady
@ KIDDNME
WELL I WAS WITH YOU IN THE FIRST PART OF YOU STATEMENT, HOWEVER YOUR LAST SENTENCE WAS IGNORANT AS HELLL, “CUT HER A BREAK CAUSE SHES A SISTA” PLEASE THATS HER PROBLEM AND 50% OF THE REST OF THE BLACK WOMEN SOME AND NOT ALL OF US ARE LOOKING FOR A HANDOUT OR FOR SOMEONE TO CUT US SOME SLACK!!! NOT GONNA HAPPEN WE ARE THE LOWEST MINORITY OUT THERE SHES BLACK AND A WOMAN… SO IN THAT EFFECT SHE NEEDS TO WORK TWICE AS HARD AND ***** A HANDOUT!! ILL CUT HER SOME SLACK BECAUSE LIKE YOU SAID IN THE INTELLIGENT PART OF YOUR POST ” WHEN THEY ARE AT DADS THEY HAVE A MAGNIFICENT LIFE” AND I BELIEVE THERE SECOND HOME SHOULD BE JUST AS COMFORTABLE, HOWEVER I DONT THINK IT SHOULD BE FULLY AT TI’S EXPENSE, SHE SHOULD BE WILLING TO EDUCATE HERSELF AND BRING SOMETHING TO THE TABLE
persona(Check me out!)
Kevin Federline and Britney Spears:
A source close to the singer confirms she’ll now pay Federline $20,000 a month in child support, an increase from $15,000.
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That a lot for a CS payment but Britany makes about 750k a month
@Rossy, actually he put down a deposit, I believe. Please correct me if I’m wrong. Homes require mortgages, right?
And, have you been following the financial markets? Yeah, people are getting laid off. There are no jobs to be had. And, real estate is imploding.
So, yeah, it’s kind of a *****ed up time for people looking for a job.
It doesnt matter she still dont and cant get what Tiny has the kids are taken care of and thats all that counts. She still has to budget and she lost overall. So T.I take care of those babies like you have BEEN doing.
That does not make a dent in his damn salary
@Rossy. He will be. No worries. I think the court made a good decision with the increase.
My comments have been more of devil’s advocate and trying to get people to aim a little higher. Stop *****ociating all things by black people as trifling. And, think ahead towards building a future.
Child support is not a come up, and $36,000 is NOT a comeup.
Case closed.
A friend of mine got separated from his wife..so you know in time she always threatened to take him for child support even though he took care of his daughter. Well he thought it would be smart to take himself for child support because he thought the system would be lenient on him because he took himself. Come to find out he paying out the ***** right now…dumb *****
persona
She should have been had a job and in atlanta in which I live the job market is good there are a lot of jobs out there. if her mort is more than a g her house is 300 plus which is a beautiful home. she needs to get a job and if she picked a home that cost 300 and she knows she dont have a job then she is a fool herself.
Told ya’ll
persona
for a person who dont have an income that is a come up but all she has to do is feed them some days and pay the living expenses. He is going to jail for a year a extra g will take care of the stuff that they would have done with him. But she needs to step her game up. A J O B
Redd Tony
It is better to have a written agreement between both parties so if child suuport do come up you can say we agreed to this and now she wants more. Judge will probably do like they did T.I if they increase not by much or keep it at your agreement. Moral of the story wear a condom
Hmmm
50 pays 6700 for one kid…
Ti pays 3000 for two….
diddy pays 50 k for four…
and 10 k for the other one…
that Nicca got off good…. and like he said it aint trickin if you got it… well trick that on them kids…
E punk slapper
Diddy pays more for one he was common law with her and they have 4 or 5 kids. 50 because cost of living is more.
But that is still a lot of money however you look at it and T.I. is getting a break but ol girl is too. Get a job
That broad needs a job, period.
So you gonna need more than a child support lawyer (yep, listen up)
I got some child support for you,
Get off your ***** ***** and get you a job
Tell your other 3 baby daddy’s to sell dope or rob
My son got everything in this world that I never had
So one thing you can’t call me is a deadbeat dad (nope)
When you’re the one that shoulda been exposed
Unfit mother still playin withcha nose
And I don’t wanna tell my child that his moms aint *****
And this aint about him she just a money hungry *****
I been here before, they boxed me in corna (whatcha do *****)
And I came out fighting
They locked me in a cell and I came out writing (yeah, I say I came out wrtitin)
“Dixon’s attorney, Randy Kessler, said his client is still unsatisfied with the amount the judge ordered T.I. to pay but is happy to receive more child support. “Every little bit helps,” Kessler said. “She was just getting by with the children, while they lived a different life with their father. It can’t be complete opposites on the other side.”
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When your father works and your mother does not work, it CAN very well be opposites on the other side as far as lifestyle, especially if they’re not together. That female is lazy and is depending on child support to survive. If she wants more money then she needs a job. These are the females I want to slap the sh*t out of. You are blessed with an easy 3Gs a month, to blow off, so a smart person would expand their wealth, by investing, owning their own business, getting a job, etc. Dumb trick!
Dang, thieis heated, but I don’t think and extra 1,000 is going to put TI in bankruptcy. I mean come on he probably spends 3,000 a night at a club buying drinks or whatever. And so what he does all of the extra things heis their FATHER he should do it he has the money. Yes LaShon needs to work and begin to establish her self. Because if she has it she will spend it, cant you tell. Oh and keep in mind that child support ends at 18, and time flies like lies.. before you know it all you have are memories… GET YOUR ***** RIGHT GIRL I KNOW YOU READ THIS GOOD ADVICE FROM US REGULAR MOM’S. AND TO YOU TI I STILL GOT MY TOP DPWN LOW IN MY CHEVY
3 geez is enough when he got them damn near half the time and paying for medical and private school.. that broad is trying to live largelong as T.I. got a good trust fund for his kids he’s doing his job
Should there be a mean’s test…..like you shouldn’t be able to have sex or have a baby if you don’t have a job?
Cuz, if we do, lots of us wouldn’t be here!!
@ AL ANON
SAY IT AGAIN PLEASE
one word VASTECTOMY!!!!!
Bottom line – she should get a JOB! She’d have twice the amount of money to play with if she was brining in her OWN check! She’s not a stay at home mom…stay @ home moms have a HUSBAND WHO LIVE IN THE SAME HOUSE AS THEM. She’s just a non-educated, hood chick who probably can’t get or keep a job because of (a). Attitude (i dont need this, my baby daddy is TI) or (b) Lack of Education. Yeah, TI has the $$, but she also has the ability to go out and work – even if it’s part time. Show your children some drive and motivation to succeed in life without digging in daddy’s pockets!!! TIs money should NOT be spent on her hair, clothes and girlfriend outings.
Everybody is always jumping on black women about them needing to get a job. If the ***** was white, none of you would be asking her to get a job. *****ody ever asks white women why they don’t get a job when they have small children?
T.I. has made a whole elementary school full of children. *****, he oughta pay for them. I don’t give a flying ***** what it cost and how much he gotta pay. He helped make them kids and that’s the bottom line.
If she wants to stay at home and take care of her children……..let her. White women do it all the time and brothers don’t be hollering at them to GET A JOB!! Double standard *****s.
PeepEye
I did said a white man also needed to get a job. There is nothing wrong with working.
Al-Anon
I think so if you cant afford one dont have one. It would cure world hunger
Candy Coated
SAY IT AGAIN
I am going to see T.I friday and tell him to read bossip and get my cd signed just for *****s and giggles
This is proof positive, that when fvcking the garden variety ***** *****, there is no such thing as recreational sex. Fvcking these *****hos is like navigating through minefield of drama and bull*****. Nine times out of ten, a white girl would’ve been on the pill or would’ve gotten an abortion. I said it once, and i’ll say it again – DON’T FVCK ***** *****ES/HOS – BROTHAS’ YOUR *****S DESERVE BETTER!
LOL – so I guess its OK when a white ***** is picking the dumb***** black male clean, but how dare he have to give anything to his black childrens mother!!!! No – she can jus get a job!! How the ***** do yo uall know she doesn’t have a job already?? You’re just *****uming this chick needs to live off this black male.. All across this country a mans child support costs goes according to his income!! What’s wrong with this girl benefitting from this law?!?!? A *****ing white ***** can get into court and start complaining about keeping the child in this lifestyle and that expectation and she’ll rack up, and thats fine with the black nmale..
Ya’ll really need to cut that double standard ***** out.. He hasto pay for his kids and that’s that!!!
Marquis de Sade
I didnt want to comment but I am how many women on here think this is silly. All but one. That is a small percentage that think like that. Now for you to use such verbage in discribing black women is poor. I know you as a grown man can do better. Dont know your ethnicity but get it together “brotha”. So you are an actual adult who can communicate.
Again you people are missing the point, which is the message for this entire blog!! Its not about the $2000 he paid before and the $3000 he must pay now, its about the fact that he pays maintains his kids, clothes, healthcare, school fees food etc. All costs *****ociated with those boys he paid and had do*****ented proof of those things (necessary for court proceeding!! When you total up what he pays it is damn sure more than a couple thousand a month!! The $2000 was for incidentals/miscellaneous cost *****ociated with the kids per month, why does she need more than that from him!!! Its pure supossition but I think she wants to be like Kim Porter and these other women who live off these rich men!!! That is the problem! Whether TI has it or not is IRRELEVANT!!! He owes her NOTHING, he is legally and morally doing right by his sons. The judge obviously agreed by only ordering he give her $1000 more!! The underlying issue here for Miss Dixon appears to be ENVY & GREED!! Its not a race issue!! Why she should get a p***** because she’s black and not have to work for hers like all the other solid , independent BLACK MAMAS out there doing what they have to do??!!! Why should he maintain her house and his as well?? Why is that fair?!!
I do not see her not doing for those children with the extra money. They look nice clean and neat everytime they are seen. Do you really think that’s Tiny’s doing. NOT!!! I think she’ll do just fine.
Everyone on here has a point, I mean the judgement has been handed down and it is what it is BUT the fact that her attorney said she still wasn’t satisfied killed it! Apparently our comments can’t change the laws but Ms. Dixon wasn’t satisfied with the decision either. I wonder if T.I. is satisified. She’s just getting by.. WOW!!
SMDH
That goes for women all around. Women white black whatever make it hard for other women who are not out to get men for there money. Women who have this idea need to get it together. Women and Men raise your little girls and boys better than what we are seeing today.
I really dont see how she is just getting by if she is she needs to do her part financially and get a job he pays for everything.
Bahamas/Chicago/Cayman Girl
Say that again one more time for all those who were not listening
*****—-I have a job and it’s damn good one but at the same time, I could use some extra chips!!
Who can’t???????
I swear to G….I’m laying in the cut, looking for my ex. When I see ‘em, it’s on like the lights!!!!
Sorry mu*****ka know cot-dam-well how much my son’s braces costs!
That big, walrus lookin’ mu*****ka BET not let me see him anywhere near G’boro! I swear—
I should get somebody to ride out on his *****!
Gettin’ up in church tellin’ errrbody how good God’s been–singing “Your Grace and Mercy” all ***** nilly–not even THINKIN’ bout braces and clothes and food and *****!!!
Keep singin’ ya *****!!!
I’ma show you how “Grace and Mercy” saved ya life!!!
***whew**
OK. What’s this topic about?
BOOOOO to anyone who thinks T.I. owes this broad anything!!!! I do not know why people think that a man who is NOT YOUR HUSBAND supposed to take care of you.
Kessler said. “She was just getting by with the children, while they lived a different life with their father. It can’t be complete opposites on the other side.”
HAHA…I have an idea how about the check step her game up and the kids can have a better life with her too!!!!!!!!!
The underlying issue here for Miss Dixon appears to be ENVY & GREED!! Its not a race issue!! Why she should get a p***** because she’s black and not have to work for hers like all the other solid , independent BLACK MAMAS out there doing what they have to do??!!! Why should he maintain her house
and his as well?? Why is that fair?!!
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Those are things that should be thought about before you stick your ***** in it. Whether she’s greedy, envious or lazy….that’s a choice that he made when he decided to have children with her. Give her the goddamn money and be quiet. If you want to be “superwoman” who can bring home the bacon and fry it up in a pan and drop a baby and be back to work in two days, so be it. Maybe she don’t see it that way. Maybe she supported him before he got famous. Maybe she thinks that she deserves some cake too. Whatever it is, he needs to give her more money.
Natasha
Agree
And another thing–
How do we know that she doesn’t already have a job? I didn’t read anything about her not having one. Plus–like I said in the other T.I. post–if he has multiple children by mulitple women and he’s rich, the CHILDREN should live at a standard similar to his.
What he may need to think about is custody.
I’m just saying.
Either she didn’t ask for much or T.I. doesn’t have as much money as I thought.
I think before it stated she didnt have a job but he does pay for all of there things all she has to do is pay their half of the bills at the house. She should be able to come up with her own half. The custody thing is an excellent option.
BOOOOO to anyone who thinks T.I. owes this broad anything!!!! I do not know why people think that a man who is NOT YOUR HUSBAND supposed to take care of you.
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If he promises too, he should.
1) I do think she should work!!!
2) but at the same time if T.I is who he says he is 3 k aint *****… 36 k a year aint *****….
3) thats just his make it rain money….
***** her… but at the same time your two boys should be living like little princes since you are the King right?
Tip Harris needs to just set up a trust fund or some type of insurance policy that pays out when the kidds turn 21. That way the babys mama cant say what he didnt do. So when the kidds turn 21 they have about a half million or more to start out life right. This type of policy only cost about $70 a month. Those reading this post need to check it out also, white people been doing this for years. I set my kidds up in the early 90s and their mama is real happy about it.
Bird
Because he does everything already and he was giving her 2 already for years and she has been ok with it it the reason it went up only 1.
E punk slapper
should she live as a queen if she is not his wife or girlfriend
roe ski love
She is not worried about the kids she wants more for herself
Some of you chicks are straight crazy. Get married FIRST, then you won’t have to worry about what they next chick gets compared to you. Many of you disgruntled chicks need to quit. LIfe OWES you nothing, you owe to yourself to mnake BETTER decisions in your life. TI is doing more than enough, and please know & understand that those two boys aren’t huerting for a dman thing and he hads OTHER children that he tkes care of. Wonder why those chicks are sweating hi. Probably becuase they HAVE JOBS and know that their own worth isnt’ predicated on an ex. who got lucky n the rap game. Obviously this Dixon chick has no shame and she’s straight ghetto material. TI OWES HER NOTHING, his only obligation is to that tow boy he had with her. She doesn’t have the right to expect to live off of TI when they were never married.
And some of you keep mentioning Tiny as if she has anything to do with this. At least she was a in a TOP selling group once upon a time and HAS some money. S ome of you chicks expect T to take care of her. This chick has a kid with another man & expects TI to take care of HER, the two kids they had together, plus another dude’s kid and probably the dude to. She needs to get up off of her ***** & become a better mother & more responsible for HER OWN well being instead of trying to milk TI for all he’s worth.
Some of you chicks are bitter single parents that HATE the fact that you laid down with dogs & now you got all of these fleas to take care of. NEWFLASH- You are the captin of your ship, if you sail into treacherous waters, that’s the chance you take. Go out & better yourselves, so that you children know what good character, integrity and self-reliance is all about.
Those of y ou advocating that he pay more, wel, if the judge & the LAW was satisfied with what he was already doing, who in the hell are some of you chicks to say otherwise.
Better yourselves, go back to school to make life BETTER for you & your seeds. Chicks like this Dixon chick gives decent black a bad name. She needs to get out & get a job. It’s just that simple.
Outside of that TI OWES HER NOTHING. The boys yes, her NO!! Damn that. Get out there and make an honest living if not for yourself, then for the BOYS.
I’m glad she only got a G’ more. Thats all she need. he takes care of everything else. You can’t live like Tiny ma, thats wifey you not. Why do too many women feel jus b/c they have a baby w/a *****,he owe them his rib?
If she wanna live like Tiny she shouldnt’ve *****ed up and let him go or find another rapper to save you.
For dumb *****f u c k a s that think TIP is only paying 3,000 when it CLEARLY says he take care of all the boys exspenses and some of hers too….NEEDS TO KILL THEMSELVES………
Didn’t I read somewhere that he’s getting ready to hits the bricks??
I guess she’s tryin’ to get hers before he’s locked up??
*hit
soulfultea
Agree
CHICAGO 39th
Agree
goat76
Agree
1TruDiva w/The
yeah she is trying to stack get a job
3,000 a month is nothin really. for 2 growing boys. Tiny got a new designer bag every time u turn around, its not fair to the kids. I think he got a good lawyer so SHE needs a BETTER one. T.I should be a shame he’s only paying 1500/ amonth for each kid. Those kids are big, and Kids want expensive electronics, trips, big parties, ect .That isnt enough after her rent, she aint got nothin left..
3,000 a month is nothin really. for 2 growing boys. Tiny got a new designer bag every time u turn around, its not fair to the kids. I think he got a good lawyer so SHE needs a BETTER one. T.I should be a shame he’s only paying 1500/ amonth for each kid. Those kids are big, and Kids want expensive electronics, trips, big parties, ect .That isnt enough after her rent, she aint got nothin left..
It’s some bitter Hoes on these boards and in the Child Support System……….
Thank you Goat 76
@Sybil Blaize…..Did you not READ were he takes care all of that extra stuff that she don’t have to worry about, he even take care of some of her problems……
Sybil Blaize
well when their mother get a job she can give them stuff like that. He does for them and take them places. He buys everything she is just a egg donor and a nanny she is paid well enough for her duties.
goat76
Tell them again.
AGAIN…the chicks along with the *****s need to work out a solution for their problems that suits them! Stop attacking the women as if they made a baby by themself and have a nerve asking for support…stop attacking the men who take care of their children with what they have. To think that somehow TI is above a female he laid down with and made not one but TWO babies with NOW that he has money is stupid.
She is no different from Tiny as NEITHER of them had a written agreement for support of any children they would have because NEITHER were ever married to him. Marriage certificates just HELP organize the legalities after breakup. Nothing more nothing less. If you don’t believe me ask Bryant Gumbel’s ex-WIFE who had a hard time collecting child support from him after their breakup.
Sybil Blaize
why is he paying her mort. Even if she did use the money on that she need to come up with the rest because he is taking care of those boys everthing else she needs a job.
She needs to come up with her half if she cant she needs to give up custody.
Sybil,
The man helped with the downpayment of the house, brought her a new car outright, that means, no car payment. She just had another baby with another dude & TI is expected to provide MORE than her already does. S=Do you know how much a private school edcuation costs? Probably not, they typically run about $15 grand a year and he has THEM BOTH In private school. ANd he does not have to p rovide for her. Where in the world do you read Babymamma support in CHILD SUPPORT. And he does NOT ahve to bring any toys over to their momma’s house, that’s HER JOB!!!!!!!
She does NOT get the chnce to lay on her back make more babies by other *****s and then turn around & want more child support from TI. FLuck that. Chick NEEDS to get a job for her own self-worth & self-esteem because right about now, she’s looking & acting like a straight chickenhead looking for a come up at the expense of her two boys…that TI HAD ALWAYS taken care of even when he wasn’t getting paid.
I swear some of you chick must of have been dropped on your heads after birth because to THINK that this man OWES THIS WOMAN WHO IS NOT HIS WIFE, NEVER WAS ANYMORE THAN WHAT THE JUDGE DECIDED IS JUST RIDCULOUS.
CHICKS LIKE THIS KILL ME, THEY take no RESPONSIBILITY for their own actions and never want to be held accountable for the decisions they make in their own lives.
Some of you in here talking about Tiny’s pocketbookS, shows many where your priorities lie. YOU HAVE NONE. Again, at least Tiny was in Escape and therefore had her OWN money when she got with TI.
some of you chicks have no shame. GET MARRIED FIRST IF YOU EXPECT A MAN TO TAKE OF YOU & EVEN THEN, BE A WOMAN AND TAKE CARE OF DAMN SELF!!!!!!!!
@1TruDiva-
When this story first came out it was reported in TI’s statement (through his attorney) that LaShawn Dixon doesn’t work and chooses to live off the support granted by the courts. Her lawyer has never repudiated it.
Are you people slow? she does NOT pay rent. he pays all of HER utilities, mortgage, car payments, and gas money.The KIDS are straight. Yall need to get a clue. She needs to get a job.
Some of you chicks are bitter single parents that HATE the fact that you laid down with dogs & now you got all of these fleas to take care of. NEWFLASH- You are the captin of your ship, if you sail into treacherous waters, that’s the chance you take.
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I say the same thing to you stingy ***** dudes who don’t want to pay. You know the woman is a gold digger before you stick your ***** in it. After you have a couple of kids with someone, you’re off to greener pastures with a new chick and you want to leave your baggage behind and don’t want to be reminded of it.
Many of you want to forget that children are legacy costs. This includes their mothers, too.
And no, I am not a bitter single parent. I’m still a virgin. I’m just waiting until my boyfriend gets out of jail……….but he doing life without parole (LOL)!!
soulfultea
THANK YOU VERY MUCH!
Peep Eye,
I’m a woman and mother, I also worked EVery damn day. She’s NOT his WIFE or his significant other, so he OWES HER NOTHING. NADA!!! ZELCH!!! ZERO!!!! He already TAKES good care of those children who want for nothing daddy DOES take care of THEIR NEEDS.
Get some self-esteem & make better choices in your life.
PeepEye(Check me out!)
THAT WAS FUNNY ABOUT THE BOYFRIEND
For all of you who have a problem with her asking for more money are stupid and brainwashed. For centuries men have been providing for the mothers of their children. She is not some stripper in a club, this woman gave him two sons, and there is not enough money in the world to replace them. For all the men who would rather have their children’s mother work than stay at home with the children are not putting the children first. Day Cares are full of corruption, pedophiles, and other degenerates. You all missed the point, T.I. doesn’t have a problem taking care of his children’s mothers. He bought the house and the car so his children wouldn’t be in an apartment or the bus. He knew this chick didn’t work when he got her pregnant the first and second time. Now she wanted more money, and the judge agreed she should get more, not the amount she wanted but the most important thing is the children won’t do with out. People are always making statements about the lack of morals in our youth, it’s because they were raised by daycare providers, teachers, and the television instead of their mothers. At no point did T.I. or his lawyers say she was a bad mother so why is it *****umed she would spend the money or her needs instead of the childrens. Some people listen to too much rap music and feel all women are hoes and gold-diggers. Real men and women don’t have a problem with this situation. But single mothers who don’t get squat from the fathers can’t see why this woman has it better than they do. Men who have never been a custodial single parent, and girlfriend and second wives who are angry their man has to break off another woman and can’t upgrade you. Get over it. Child support is needed, the law and calculated by the non-custodial parents income. I personally think it is an excellent law one of the few that protect all parties. The father, the mother, and the children.
HA
SHE NEEDS A JOB AND A LIFE AND A NEW MAN
These children are of school age, They are not that small.
Then why did the judge order him to pay more???
If he doesn’t owe her anything why did the judge give her more money? He has more dough and better lawyers. Obviously in the laws of the land he did owe her more.
jUST A G THAT IS NOT MUCH MORE MAYBE TO HER BROKE BUT YEAH BUT THAT IS ALL THE TANGBLE MONEY SHE WILL GET. WHEN THOSE BOYS GET OLDER THEY WILL WANT TO BE WITH DADDY AND AT 11 YOU CAN SPEAK FOR THEMSELVES SO IN 3 TO 4 YEARS THEY ARE GOING TO LEAVE.
People are getting lost by the discussion. No one debates whether he should pay child support BUT after buying a house and a car for her AND paying for all things the children need including school and the 2000 a month..why the extra money? It’s for her.
If TI has the children 40% of the time and they are of school age why is she unemployed? If she wants the extra money for things that she wants for herself then most of us have reason to frown on that.
It’s called USING the children.
SHE IS STILL IS NOT GOING TO LIVE LIKE TINY HIS WOMEN
@blaq……..probably because of our f u c k ed economy, inflation, rising gas prices affects everything….no more than a cost of living raise….
@ Blaq:
EXCELLENT POST!!! I will never get why a black male can make a baby and has no issues with the mother providing for the baby alone but always wanna ***** wneh they rae ordered to do their part!!!
Thge judge covered his butt. He gave her more but not the personal windfall she thought she was getting.
Responsibility of the kids is with both parents equally. Both should be financially contributing to their kids. End of story.
blaq(Check me out!)
At no point did T.I. or his lawyers say she was a bad mother so why is it *****umed she would spend the money or her needs instead of the childrens.
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That’s what I don’t get…alot of these fellas MET these women with no jobs and even had no jobs themselves! I’d much rather she ask her kids dad for the money to help raise their children than MY *****!
STILL SHE IS NOT GOING TO LIVE LIKE THE BOYS DO WHEN THE STAY WITH THEIR FATHER. NOR IS SHE GETTING THE PERKS OF TINY. IF SHE WANTED THAT SHE SHOULD HAVE BEEN MARRIED TO HIM BECAUSE OBVIOUSLY AS A GIRLFRIEND IT DIDNT WORK
@ Blaq
12k a year to shut her up. The judge gave a decision he could defend to anyone. He had the discretion tomake it as high as 10k a month but he didn’t.
Big ups to y’all for staying on topic and not using this website & forum as a chat room…
*I know I parti*****te too but it’s been getting out of hand lately…
@ realwoman
So if you have ababy with a triflin broad the law shoul perpetuate her being triflin?
realwoman
i FEEL YOU ON THAT BUT I DONT THINK WOMEN SHOULD BE ON WELFARE AND NOT WORK I HAVE TO WORK AND SO SHOULD YOU. IAM RAISING A SON I WORK GO TO SCHOOL AND PAY BILLS DADDY PAYS HALF OF AFTER SCHOOL CARE AND BUYS HIM CLOTHES AND SHOES LIKE I AND HAVE EVERY OTHER HOLIDAY AND HAS THE SUMMERS. I DONT NEED THE MONEY BECAUSE I WORK TO HAVE FOR MYSELF . IF I GOT IT MY SON DOES TO. EXTRA HIS FATHER AND I HALF. WE BOTH LAID DOWN SO IT WAS THE TWO OF US. SO EVERYTHING IS SPLIT IN TWO’S
Tony
AMEN
Some you chicks are NO COUNT women anyways, so you’re always on the prowl for a come up at the expense of others. I’m warning my son about devious women like some of the ones who have posted on here.
CHOICES!!!!! CHOICES!!!!! CHOICES!!!! MAKE BETTER ONES!!!!
DECISIONS ABOUT YOUR LIFE ARE SERIOUS!!!! LEARN TO TAKE CARE OF YOURSELVES FIRST!!!!!! STOP DEPENDING ON OTHERS FOR YOUR WELFARE!!!!! BE RESPONSIBLE FOR THE CHOICES AND DECISION YOU MAKE IN YOUR OWN LIVES!!!
BEING AN ADULT REQUIRES THAT YOU TAKE RESPONSIBILTY FOR YOUR OWN ACTIONS. BE HELD ACCOUNTABLE FOR THE CHOCES AND/OR DECISIONS YOU MAKE IN YOUR PERSONAL LIFE.
GET A CLUE!!!!
@ Circa81:
“No one is demonizing black women, the reality is unfortunately there are women out there who use their children as a ticket to the good life! Why does she not have a job???”
Can you please show mewhere it says she doesn’t have a job?? Please, do me that favor – show me where it has been insinuated and proven that this girl is not gainfully employed……..
SMDH
GO THRU THIS SITE AND YOU WILL SEE THE FIRST POSTING OF THIS MAYBE 1 TO TWO WEEKS AND IT WAS NEVER DENIED.
She shouldn’t have got the increase. She should get a job. Normally, I’d have to agree but she does need to provide for her own child. They should’ve decreased the order….
CHOICES!!!!! CHOICES!!!!! CHOICES!!!! MAKE BETTER ONES!!!!
DECISIONS ABOUT YOUR LIFE ARE SERIOUS!!!! LEARN TO TAKE CARE OF YOURSELVES FIRST!!!!!! STOP DEPENDING ON OTHERS FOR YOUR WELFARE!!!!! BE RESPONSIBLE FOR THE CHOICES AND DECISION YOU MAKE IN YOUR OWN LIVES!!!
BEING AN ADULT REQUIRES THAT YOU TAKE RESPONSIBILTY FOR YOUR OWN ACTIONS. BE HELD ACCOUNTABLE FOR THE CHOCES AND/OR DECISIONS YOU MAKE IN YOUR PERSONAL LIFE.
GET A CLUE!!!!
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I believ those statements are somthing that we can all agree on. We don’t stress it nearly enough.
always knew
THAT IS THE ONLY PROBLEM SHE IS NOT PUTTING IN HER PERCENTAGE
@Blaq…..I don’t have a problem with the decision, it’s the Baby Mother that has the problem and is unsatified with the decision…..You or anybody else can’t say that the decision made by the Judge is not adequate to raise 2 kids….Knowing that all the other stuff is taking care of and some of her problems are taken care of by him as well…..I think some of these women on this board want TIP to have to give her 20 or 40 thousand a month….is that what ya’ll want
PeepEye
YOU ARE RIGHT CHOICES WE HAVE TO TEACH OUR CHILDREN BETTER
goat76
I DONT HE PROBABLY SPENDS THAT MUCH THE CHICK IS MAD BECAUSE THE MONEY IS NOT TANGBLE THAT IS BEING SPENT ON THE KIDS IF HE GAVE IT TO HER THEY WOULDNT HAVE THE STUFF THEY DO NOW AND LETS REMEMBER HE MUST SPEND LIKE EVERY OTHER DAY WITH HIM SO WHY IS HE PAYING THE BULK OF THE BILLS
I agree with Blaq and Sbil.
$3000 a month is nothing. She should get a better lawyer.
T.I. should be ashamed of himself to dispute the original $2000 court order.
He knew his children were not living in comparable cir*****stances. 40% of the time when they are in his care they are accustomed to a life of luxury and on the poverty level when they are in their mothers care.
His last 2 children are not living on the poverty level at no time. His first 2 children should be treated the same way. Just because they have different mothers is not an excuse.
Mothers should not be forced to give up custody of their children because the father has issues with paying support. Whoever said this is ignorant, and probably does not have children.
I do beleive that she should pursue and education because the children need stability.
T.I. is preparing to go to prison and these rappers careers sometime do not last more than 5 years.
always knew
THAT IS THE ONLY PROBLEM SHE IS NOT PUTTING IN HER PERCENTAGE
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Maybe her percentage is helping with homework, going to PTA, cooking, cleaning, washing, Little League, taking them to the doctor, going to get eyes checked, dental visits, shopping for clothing, bathing, bedtime stories, getting them to school on time. Maybe that’s her percentage.
“SMDH
GO THRU THIS SITE AND YOU WILL SEE THE FIRST POSTING OF THIS MAYBE 1 TO TWO WEEKS AND IT WAS NEVER DENIED.”
What was never denied?? If the girl hasa job or not?? When wasit decided that this girl is not employed?? Are you saying that she wasasked if she is unemployed and she said yes?
Whenever you decide to have children with several different mothers or fathers, you have decided to have a *****ed up life and I don’t care how much money you have. It’s defacto messy!!!
“$3000 a month is nothing. She should get a better lawyer.”
GET YOUR HANDS UP!! There white/non black *****es are out here getting 5 times that ***** a month off the black male!! She needs a much better lawyer!!!
@ Richard
the judge did not have the option to make it $10K a month if the fathers income did not constitute that amount. That is why there are laws because after the love is gone people don’t agree on what is best for the children. I personally think T.I. is a good father and a responsible man. He wants his children to have the best, that is why he gave her those presents, i.e. a house, car, etc. for all I know he gave her those things before they broke up and therefore have nothing to do with a support order.
@Rossy
do you think your child would want to be with their father instead of you, because the dad had more money? Most children, even teenagers love their mothers more than money.
@ soulfultea
also warn your son about safe sex, and to only make babies with his wife, treat her well and child support will not be an issue.
If you think $36K a year is a come up for a gold digger. You need to step your game up! that’s petty cash. A real gold digger wouldn’t have had kids for a rapper without a record deal. For all we know she may have been paying the bills in the beginning. Trust unsigned rappers are the poorest dudes out there, when they do get a dollar it’s going for flyers, tracks, suspect jewelry and anything else they feel will help them get on.
Sybil, She this dixon chick clearly choose NOT To work. TI’s own layers stated in the do*****ents. Search for it. This is what I am talking about. Expecting others to do something that you could do for yourself. LOOK!!!!!
And her own friend has mention that she doesn’t work either. Go figure. And why must TI take care of her. Has she no responsibility to take care of herself. At what point does she GROW up mentally and emotionally?
SHE WAS NEVE EVER MARRIED TO HIM, HE PAYS FOR THE HOUSE, THE CAR NOTE, THE CHILDREN’S SCHOOLING, THEIR MEDICAL EXPENSES AND MANY OTHER THINGS. This chick was only out for HERSELF not those boys.
At what point does a grown *****ed women take care of her self and her needs? This is bull*****.
Kelisha
i LIVE IN ATLANTA IF HER MORT IS MORE THAN A G POVERTY NEIGHBORHOOD NEVER THEY LIVE IN MARIETTA ALPHRETTA KENESWA SOMEWHER NICE. THESE KIDS ARE NOT HUNGRY DIRTY OR RAGGED THEIR FATHER PROVIDES ALL THAT. I AM SURE HE HELPS WITH HOMEWORK AND TAKE THEM TO SCHOOL LIKE SHE DOES IN THE CAR HE GOT FOR HER. SHE CANT LIVE LIKE HIM BECAUSE SHE DONT HAVE HIS INCOME. IF SHE WANTS TO LIVE LIKE HIM SHE NEEDS TO BECOME AN ENTERTAINER AND GET IT HERSELF. HE PROVIDES SCHOOL, INSURANCE, CLOTHES AND ANYTHING ELSE THEY WANT IF THEY LIVE IN A 250,000 TO 325,000 INSTEAD OF A 2MIL HOUSE SO WHAT THEY ARE LIVING BETTER THAN MOST. THEY ARE LIVING UPPER MIDDLE CL***** AND THEN REAL GOOD. THEY PROBABLY DONT KNOW THE DIFF THEY PROBABLY GET WHATEVER THEY WANT FORM TIP THEY DONT WANT FOR ANYTHING IT IS THEIR MOTHER THAT IS. GROW UP AND TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF YOUR NOT HIS LADY, WIFEY, GIRLFRIEND, WIFE, CUT BUDDY, JUMP OFF, NONE OF THEY ABOVE YOU HAVE HIS KIDS AND THEY ARE GOOD. GET A JOB
3000 isnt really nothing a month based on the economy but again it’s called child support for a reason and being that TI is footing all medical,private school, ect! She is dead ***** wrong! The judge should have ordered her to get a job as well b-c she is living off them kids money! And how the hell do u struggle when you have kids for TI….The mother can take her ***** to school and get a degree, start a business! Hell TI said it himself..you can have whatever you like! This is just insane to have to involve the courts in our personal life when TI is doing more than most of these dead beat as MF! Bottom line (GET OFF YOUR ***** and go to work slacker) stop tripping and living outta pocket!I would suggest to TI pick better partners to lay up with and that way you dont have to deal with this drama….Wear a *****ing condom TI!
These people in here are attacking this woman because they are at work right now.
If T.I. can pop bottles all night and go on shopping sprees for his woman he certainly can pay the mother of his children more money. He spends more than $3000 a month on entertainment alone.
I find it strange that people don’t have a problem with him spending in excess on material things, but has a problem paying for child support.
@blaq
IF I WAS SO CALLED STRUGGLING AND I COULD NOT PROVIDE FOR MY CHILD HE WOULD BE WITH HIS FATHER SO I CAN GET MY STUFF TOGETHR. MY SON LOVE AND HIS FATHER IF THINGS WERENT RIGHT AT HOME YOU PROBABLY WOULD WANT TO STAY WITH HIS FATHER AND I WOULD LET HIM TO GET RIGHT.
@ goat
I only want what is best for the children, it makes me happy to see black children live a priviledged lifestyle. I think a lot of people are more concerned with the mother of his children (the greatest gift you can give someone by the way is a child)buy a $20 dress on his dime, than the kids being able to say mommy I want…. and she can go get it.
Kelisha
HE SPENDS MORE THAN THAT ON THE KIDS PLUS THEY ARE WITH HIM ALMOST HAVE THE TIME. NO THAT IS NOT ALOT OF MONEY BUT HE TAKE CARE OF EVERYTHING ELSE SHE NEEDS TO DO MORE.
Blaq,
That’s a no brainer and his FATHER is active in his life & always has been. I am 40 y/o so I know all about women, I am one, so trust & know that I am arming my son against the no count women who don’t want to do right in their own lives let alone the lives of their children.
So trust I’m on it and btw the way, I have a 17 old daughter too, they are both constantly being schooled in the ins & outs of realtionships and what roles they play in them.
I got this. Thanks in advance.
bottom line
3,000 a month for two kids is dam sure enough
its not like T is a big A list super star
***** he got ppl he has to pay, he has other children to also take care of. I think 3000 a month is good , just cut back instead of buying a pants for $500 get them something that might cost 100 u know …but nah some baby mama they just love to see the daddy suffer because they not with them anymore.
some woman is just wicked like that …..i am quite sure the kids would rather see their dad over that 3000 a month, and the baby mama would rather see the 3000 a month and dont care if the kids see their dad..
blaq
SHE NEED TO GET A JOB THEN ITS NOT HIS FAULT SHE DONT MAKE MONEY AND HE DOES.
@ Rossi heck know…
and i have to remind people all the time that tiny was in a platinum/gold group…
and she didnt smoke crack… couple that with ATL cost of living and a few investments and she can buy her own damn designer bags…
i dont think TI has that much money… he needed help with the 3 milli bail out…
all im saying is before you trick on a stripper or let it rain on a hoe…
break bread with them kids…. 2 k is enough… i know women that can get by out her with 1 k a month and there own damn job…
but if i call myself a king then everyone of my kids will live just as good as me if not better.
i would like to get her side… see if she is as ignorant as shaniqua…
@ Rossy
jUST A G THAT IS NOT MUCH MORE MAYBE TO HER BROKE BUT YEAH BUT THAT IS ALL THE TANGBLE MONEY SHE WILL GET. WHEN THOSE BOYS GET OLDER THEY WILL WANT TO BE WITH DADDY AND AT 11 YOU CAN SPEAK FOR THEMSELVES SO IN 3 TO 4 YEARS THEY ARE GOING TO LEAVE.
So what will make them want to leave their mama?
@ Kelis
If T.I. can pop bottles all night and go on shopping sprees for his woman he certainly can pay the mother of his children more money. He spends more than $3000 a month on entertainment alone.”
I wondered this myself back when Puff was whining about having to give Misa Hilton more money in child support!! The weekend before Puff went to court to ***** to a judge about having to pay what he had to he threw an all white party where the cost of the Champagne was almost a million dollars alone.. How does a man spend his money on bling, *****es and so on but ***** about having to give some more money to his kids??
Its a damn shame!!!
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@ Rossy
I read your comments and do not agree. Men such as T.I. have their priorities mixed up. She should be receiving more money.
I don’t know what her level of education or employment status is but the kids are the main concern. If she was just getting by and T.I. refused to *****ist the mother of his children further then something is wrong.
He should want his children to live comfortably in both residences. If he was still sleeping with her it would not be a problem. How twisted is that? His children are of more importance than paying for parties, tiny’s handbags and paying for their shopping sprees.
SMDH/ right you i bet Michael Strahan’s wife gets way more and that white hoe who got pregnant by NBA player Shawn Kempp says she gets 20,000 mthly.
blaq
BECAUSE SHE IS A PIMP AND IS USING THEM FOR MONEY AND KIDS NOTICE THINGS LIKE THAT A FOUR YEAR OLD WOULD NOTICE IT AS THEY GET OLDER THEY WILL REALIZE JUST LIKE WHEN DADDIES DONT DO FOR THEIR KIDS OR WHEN MOTHERS KEEP THEIR KIDS AWAY FROM THE FATHER. KIDS NOTICE THINGS LIKE THIS. I HOPE NIETHER ONE OF THEM ARE SPEAKING ILL OF EACH OTHER BECAUSE THE KIDS WILL NOTICE. T.I IS DOING GOOD TO ME THAT IS WHY THE JUDGE GAVE HER NO MORE THAN A G BECAUSE HE IS GOING TO JAIL. BUT THE POINT IS KIDS WILL KNOW.
She choose to have two kids with him and she should also be contributing financially as well. They are her kids too.
Kelisha,
HE IS PAYING A SUFFICIENT AMOUNT OF CHILD SUPPORT? This chick was looking for ADULT support as if she has no responsibility to herself.
Two kids in private school, that’s about 30 grand a year, that Dixon DOES NOT HAVE TO PAY, then there’s the house, that TI put a substantial dwon payment on, Dixon is only responsible for the mortgage, TI PAID for the car she drives, she doesn’t have a car note, he pays for everythins.
what the hell does she do. And you damn rigth we’re at work, something that a responsible ADULT does. YOu don’t know? You better ask somebody.
He is not married to her, his only obligation is to those children and apparently he has been providing for all along.
CHOICES!!!!! CHOICES!!!! CHOICES!!!!!
DECISIONS ABOUT YOUR PERSONAL LIFE ARE SERIOUS!!!
BE HELD ACCOUNTABLE FOR YOUR ACTIONS!!!
TI IS BEING HELD ACCOUNTABLE!!! WHAT IS MS. DIXON DOING? WHAT IS SHE DOING TO BETTER HERSELF? WHAT?
Kelisha
IF SHE IS JUST GETTING BY AND HE IS PAYING FOR EVERYTHING WHAT IS SHE DOING. IF SHE WANTS TO SPEND MORE SHE NEEDS TO EARN MORE. TI IS DOING HIS PART WITH THE CHILDREN. HE PAYS FOR SCHOOL AND EVERYTHING ELSE. SHE NEEDS TO INCREASE HER (NOT THE BOYS) INCOME SO SHE CAN DO MORE. T.I EARNED THAT MONEY HE SHOULD BE ABLE TO SPEND IT HOW HE WANTS. SHE NEEDS TO GET A JOB. THEY SHOULD GO HALF AND WHERE IS HERS
@ SMDH Per TI posted on Bossip 9/16
T.I. clarifies his child support situation:
A lot of deceiving information has been reported regarding my recent child support proceeding. It is unfortunate that the media has been used to manipulate the cir*****stances and distort the facts.To clarify the recent reports, in addition to the $2000 per month I pay in cash to Lashon Dixon, the mother of my sons Domani and Messiah, I also pay for their private schooling, medical insurance, clothing, food, gifts, birthdays and extracurricular activities. Their extra-curricular activities have included football, basketball, baseball, acting lessons, summer camp, and any other activities that they express a desire to be involved in that will contribute to them leading balanced lives and developing into well rounded individuals. I have also made an attempt to help Lashon with additional payments that have included a down payment to purchase her home, purchase of an automobile for her transportation and other financial obligations. These expenses are do*****ented and are far in excess of the $2000 cash payment that is being paid direct to Lashon. She has chosen not to work and to live 100% from her child support receipts. This is the reason for her difficulties in making ends meet for herself.
Also her original petition according to TMZ was for 10K a month!! She wanted 10K when he already does what he needs to do??…Now your point is what again???
@ Rossy
no she needs to do what is best for her children, and I don’t necessarily think that is sending them to daycare and working. But if she chooses to live off of a meager income that is her choice. We all have choices so we should do what is right for us and not what other people think.
blaq
THAT IS A MEAGER INCOME BECAUSE THAT IS THE ONLY INCOME SHE IS AN ADULT AND SHE PAY HER OWN WAY.
As a black person, WE need to realize the court system was NOT created to deal with 70% out of wedlock births. Child support is based on the income you would provide if you and the mother of your children lived together. There is a simple solution to this problem:
1. Finish high school
2. finish college (or a skilled trade school)
3. establish your career
$. Date seriously
5. Get engaged
6. Get MARRIED!
7. Buy a home through saving and not buying luxury cars, etc.
8. Enjoy married life for a few years
9. THEN HAVE CHILDREN
This is a fool proof way to avoid child support issues on both sides.
T.I. has them 40% of the time and she is the primary care taker.
I think some women get *****ed off with her because they are struggling to makes ends meet or are just getting by minimum help for their childrens father.
T.I. is making millions of dollars and he should not be ordered by a judge to help the mother of his children. He should of taken the initiative and offered to pay more money since she is having a hard time.
Children should be treated fairly, not according to their birth order. Just because him and tiny are still together does not mean that his first 2 children should live on the poverty level 60% of the time.
THAT COMMENT SAIDS IT ALL
@Blaq……….It’s some women on here that are mad at the decision, I’m cool wit it…….You know just as well that those boys are taken better care of than some of our grown *****es…..are you serious about this last statement “buy a $20 dress on his dime, than the kids being able to say mommy I want…. and she can go get it.” HELLO WAKE UP SMELL THE S H I T in the toliet…..TIP is paying for all the exspenses of the boys….has even payed for some of her exspenses…and on top of that she gets CHILD SUPPORT….So what is she doing with the CHILD SUPPORT…she don’t have to pay for their school, their food, clothes, activities, doctor bills, etc….she still gets the same amount even when she don’t have the kids 40% of the time…..So where does the child Support goes…..seems like everything that should be used toward the Child Support payments is already taken care of…….and she is still not satisfied…..
@ Rossy
I am so through trying to make these people understand!! WHY DOES SHE WANT MORE!!! WHAT DOES SHE NEED MORE FOR PEOPLE!!!! If not for his kids they for whom???
You have stopped trying to make them see reason, and so shall I!!!
@ Rossy
you don’t have a clue about that household or what type of mother she is. And if you think the kids are going to want to leave their MAMA because she asked their daddy for more money you don’t have a clue about children. Children are loyal to their mama’s even when they are drug addicts prostitutes, abusive, absent etc. That is the thing about children they love unconditionally. Those kids are going to remember their mama cooking them dinner taking them to school comforting them when they had a bad dream, I highly doubt they will fault her for this. Please!
@ Kelisha:
“If T.I. can pop bottles all night and go on shopping sprees for his woman he certainly can pay the mother of his children more money. He spends more than $3000 a month on entertainment alone.”
I wondered this myself back when Puff was whining about having to give Misa Hilton more money in child support!! The weekend before Puff went to court to ***** to a judge about having to pay what he had to he threw an all white party where the cost of the Champagne was almost a million dollars alone.. How does a man spend his money on bling, *****es and so on but ***** about having to give some more money to his kids??
Its a damn shame!!!
WHO SAID SHE WAS LIVING IN POVERTY THEY GO TO PRIVATE SCHOOLS THAT COST A LOT OUT HER NICE NEIGHBORHOOD. CLOTHES THAT OTHER KIDS IN THAT NEIGHBORHOOD DONT HAVE OR ADMIRE. YOU ALL DONT UNDERSTAND WITH 2000 IN CASH NO CAR NOTE JUST PAY INSURANCE AND LIVING FEES YOU ARE GOOD. HE PAYS EVERYTHING ELSE HE IS PAYING FOR HER TO LIVE SHE WANT HIM TO PAY FOR HER TO LOOK GOOD AND IT NOT HAPPENING WITH THE 3 SHE CAN PAY ALL THE BILLS AND FOOD THE BOYS HAVE EVERYTHING BECAUSE DADDY GIVES IT THERE IS NOTHING ELSE IS NEEDED.
@SMDH
Diddy was bithching and moaning about paying Misa because he said she had a husband and he doesn’t believe it was fair that he had to pay her 20k a month, the same as kim.
Meanwhile he was still involved with kim and had no problem paying the 20k a month child support order. what a piece of *****.
anonymous
SMDH/ right you i bet Michael Strahan’s wife gets way more and that white hoe who got pregnant by NBA player Shawn Kempp says she gets 20,000 mthly.
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Yeah, I don’t hear *****ody harping on them to get a job. I don’t hear *****ody harping on K-Fraud to get a job either. You don’t hear them telling white women or white men to get a job. Only if your’re a young black woman……do you need to get a job.
THESE ARE SOME BABY MOMMA WHO MAN DIDNT WANT THEM AND DIDNT WANT THE CHILD SO WHEN A GOOD MAN IS DOING WHAT HE HAS TO DO THEY WANT TO PULL HIM DOWN GET A LIFE I AM DONE.
“As a black person, WE need to realize the court system was NOT created to deal with 70% out of wedlock births. Child support is based on the income you would provide if you and the mother of your children lived together. There is a simple solution to this problem:”
Actually – its just the opposite. Its put in place for men who would otherwise run off without taking care of their kids.. Marriage has very little to do with it.. ALIMONY is set up for married couples, not child support..
PeepEye
I BEEN SAID CHILD SUPPORT AMOUNTS ARE CRAZY AND K FED NEEDS A JOB AND STOP LIVING OFF HIS KIDS. THESE PEOPLE ARE CRAZY IF YOU WANT YOUR CHILD TO LIVE THAT LIFE STYLE CREATE IT YOURSELF OR LET THE PARENT WHO CAN DO IT. LET THEM LIVE WITH THE PARENT WHO CAN. BE AN ADULT. IT TOOK TWO SO YOU BOTH TAKE FINANCIALLY RESPONSIBILTY FOR THE CHILD. TOO EASY IF YOU CANT OR WONT DONT HAVE ONE THEN
@ goat
yeah I’m serious. Medical bills, private school, and sports have nothing to do with utility bills, food, gas in the car. When your child want to know why he has to wait for daddy to come off tour so he can get the new jordans. But these are things that are not going to be agreed upon, that is why professionals are called upon to determine proper amounts.
“THESE ARE SOME BABY MOMMA WHO MAN DIDNT WANT THEM AND DIDNT WANT THE CHILD SO WHEN A GOOD MAN IS DOING WHAT HE HAS TO DO THEY WANT TO PULL HIM DOWN GET A LIFE I AM DONE.”
And this is all the more reason why laws and judges are in place to make sure men do not run off without providing for their children.. If a man does not want a woman that does not give him the right to abandon the child who never asked to be here..
And is he doing what he’s supposed to or is he doing it becuase he doesn’t have a choice cause the IRS/Child Support Division is all over that paper????
@SMDH……..The reason they b i t c h is because the money ain’t for the kids, it’s for the Greedy, bitter women……….If I buy me a car today, should I buy my child one too…..GTFOH thats some dumb logic to use….These kids are taken well care of before the Child Support…Trust funds for college, savings, etc..plus they already taking care of exspenses that the child support payment is for……like school, clothes, food, doctor bills, activities………
Ignorance is Contagious(Check me out!)
As a black person, WE need to realize the court system was NOT created to deal with 70% out of wedlock births. Child support is based on the income you would provide if you and the mother of your children lived together. There is a simple solution to this problem:
1. Finish high school
2. finish college (or a skilled trade school)
3. establish your career
$. Date seriously
5. Get engaged
6. Get MARRIED!
7. Buy a home through saving and not buying luxury cars, etc.
8. Enjoy married life for a few years
9. THEN HAVE CHILDREN
This is a fool proof way to avoid child support issues on both sides.
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Through and in between all of those life events, people are still going to ***** raw. Even when you are married planning pregnancies is difficult.
“Yeah, I don’t hear *****ody harping on them to get a job. I don’t hear *****ody harping on K-Fraud to get a job either. You don’t hear them telling white women or white men to get a job. Only if your’re a young black woman……do you need to get a job.”
AMEN!! The white ***** never has to get a job but the sista does in a heartbeat!!
blaq
YOU ACT LIKE HE IS NOT A PARENT. ANYWAY BOYS NEED TO BE WITH THEIR FATHER ANYWAY. THE POINT OF THE MATTER IS SHE WILL STILL BE LIVING THE SAME LIFESTYLE AND TI WILL BE POPIN BOTTLES THIS WEEKEN AT THE VELVETE ROOM AND I WILL BE THERE DRINKING ON HIM. TINY WILL HAVE HERE 3 TO 20 THOUSAND DOLLAR BAGS AND HERS WILL BE 10-100 IF SHE IS LUCKY SO WHO CARES. SHE DIDNT WIN AND STILL WILL BE AS LOW AS SHE WAS WHEN SHE LAID DOWN AND HAD THEM. BROKE WOMEN GET ON MY NERVES.
In the world we live in if you are a wealthy person male or female and you marry or have children with someone who is not wealthy you are going to have to pay to keep them in a lifestyle similar to yours, period, so we can spout the get a job and she’s a chickenhead all you want, but he fact 90% women do not have babies for the child support, and 90% of men promise to take care of the women before and after the baby comes. So if this is not a situation you approve of condoms are $1 @ any store or free at planned parenthood, the morning after pill is $20 with no prescription at walgreens, and a woman cannot get pregnant without the help and consent of a man.
“If T.I. can pop bottles all night and go on shopping sprees for his woman he certainly can pay the mother of his children more money. He spends more than $3000 a month on entertainment alone.”
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Ok, I lied one more thing..no one should dictate what this man can and can’t do with his money! He has a career that he has worked for based on talent and business savvy. Whether she *****isted him in anyway to get where he is I don’t know, but being the mother of his children DOES NOT entitle her to go along for the ride!
Also he was not married like Micheal Strachn was, that is commuity property!! I thought Misa Brimm was riduclous in the extreme, because he housed and clothed and cared for his son as well, why was she hollering for 20K a month???
“@SMDH……..The reason they b i t c h is because the money ain’t for the kids, it’s for the Greedy, bitter women……….”
HOW DO YOU KNOW THAT?? How do you know she is not taking care of her kids and their needs with it?? Thats the problem with the black male now.. He wants to make all these out of wedlock kids and nottake care of them – and then when the man catches up with him and MAKES him do it he wants to ***** about what the money is being spent it.. ITS NOT YOUR BUSINESS WHAT ITS BEING SPENT ON!! Once its removed from your check or your pocket you no longer have any say over it!!
Damn, get over it!!! Stop moaning!!!
YOu got that right ROssy.
They mad becuase they choe to lay down with a no good guy & then DECIDED to forgo birth control & have kids by a no good, no count guy.
they’re taking mighty personally as if they have a stake in all of this.
Look at them Rossy, they are mad, mad, mad & more mad. And the funny thing about it all is TI isn’t their children’s father.
Graduate from High School
Got to college or get a trade
Get a decent paying job
Buy a home
Pay of your car note
date casually to feel things out
then date seriously as previously mentioned
Get engaged
then get married
travel the world with your spouse so you two can spoiled each other
then make the DECISION to have babies.
Get a clue young ladies.
Oh & protect yourself, the greater burden is on YOU!!
Why?
Because you are the vessel in which a new life is carried it, so it behooves you to look after your own sexual welfare.
MAKE BETTER & SOUND CHOICES FOR YOUR PERSONAL LIFE!!
LEARN HOW TO LOVE YOURSELF FIRST!!!
NEVER MAKE SOMEONE A PRIORITY WHEN YOU’RE MERELY AN OPTION!!!
GET A CLUE LADIES!!
If you are just getting by, that is the poverty level.
If the children are in her care 60% of the time she should not have to worry about finances.
It takes more than $2000 a month to care for children. T.I. know this. He should want the mother of his children to have a stress free enviroment.
If he paid her $6000 a month it would not hurt his pockets. I am sure he spends more than that monthly on frivolous things that he didn’t even need.
It appears that someone may not want another man to benefit off of his wealth.
This is usually the reason why a wealthy man would not want to pay more support for his children.
@ Rossy
I stated I feel tip is not only a good father but a responsible man. But money is not going to make those boys want to leave their mama. I honestly feel you are more upset at the mama than tip is. He didn’t have a problem providing for her, just like he doesn’t have a problem providing for the mothers of his other children. I personally think if she went about it in a better fashion he would have gave her anything she asked for.
@blaq………yeah I’m serious. Medical bills, private school, and sports have nothing to do with utility bills, food, gas in the car. When your child want to know why he has to wait for daddy to come off tour so he can get the new jordans. But these are things that are not going to be agreed upon, that is why professionals are called upon to determine proper amounts.
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This is America ain’t nothing FREE….you want TIP to do all that….what is she suppose do to help provide… What does the 2 + 1 thousands dollars a month is for…..He has helped with down payments on housing and transportation….I guess he should pay for oil changes too….people forget that they are with him 40% of the time meaning she ain’t taking care of them at that time and is still recieving Childs Support payments…..
blaq
WHEN THE STORY FIRST CAME OUT I WAS LIKE TI NEED TO GIVE THAT GIRL MORE TINY SPENDS MORE ON A BAG. BUT AFTER I HEARD ABOUT ALL THE STUFF HE DOES FOR HER AND THE KIDS I WAS LIKE SHE IS GREEDY. SHE IS BECAUSE HE HELPS HER BECAUSE HIS KIDS ARE THERE PLUS GIVE HER TWO Gs. SO HE IS TAKING CARE OF HER AND IS KIDS SHE JUST WANTS MORE.
dayum TI didn’t have a “problem” paying the child support. it was “allegations” that the BM said that she couldn’t afford to live and blahzawhop.. he was giving her 2000.00 a month, that’s just what he was giving HER. but he was also paying for EVERYTHING else. I wonder if half of yall commenting on this #1 has children or #2 knows of a GOOD FATHER that is going through this type of bullshyt with a bitter azz baby momma. cause it’s BULLSHYT. and color has nothing to do with it, it’s PEOPLE in general..
We have very little respect for mothers and children in a community that once held them in a high regard. Don’t have children with someone you don’t give a ***** about. have them with someone you love, and if things don’t work out, continue to love them for the sake of your children. Black men and women need to treat each other better. Have more respect for your children. We won’t speak ill of a strangers mother but men will call the mother of their children every name in the book, and mothers will tell their children how no good their daddy is. Working mothers have a problem with stay at home mothers and vice versa. We should really set a better example for the children.
@SMDH…how do you know that those men ain’t taking care of their kids, even though they ball out, once you take care of you responsibilities, you can do whatever you want with your bread, because it’s you bread……
It takes two to tango….thats the problem with black males he wants to make all these out of wedlock babies and not take care of them……you crazy ***** hell for that it’s none of their business what the money is being spent on….Keep thinking like that and you will end up like Nicole Brown-Simpson
I personally think if she went about it in a better fashion he would have gave her anything she asked for.
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He wouldn’t have done *****. Even if she said pretty please.
He seems to have a case of ignorantitis.
I’m not with you no more so you get as less as possible.
I’m not paying for your extras with your new man.
She proabably has to call him for every little minor detail when she is in need of money.
He does not seem like a reasonable ex. If she was sufferering a hardhip, he should of been gracious enough to offer more financial *****istance.
The children are in her care 60% of the time.
@ Soulfultea:
“They mad becuase they choe to lay down with a no good guy & then DECIDED to forgo birth control & have kids by a no good, no count guy.
they’re taking mighty personally as if they have a stake in all of this.”
Gee.. It would appear that YOU’RE the one all *****ed off!! YOU’RE the one making underhanded ignorant ***** comments about the sistas on this board for not agreeing with you!! YOU’RE the one suggesting that sistas on this board are a bunch of baby mamas who deserve no respect, again becuase they don’t agree with you and are simply reiterating the laws on the books.
So now I turn it back around on you!! Why are you so bitter??Does some sista have you by the child support *****?? Was it your intentions to walk away and leave her to do it alone and she sicked THE MAN on you???? Did the white man have to force your black ***** to be responsible??
All the sistas on this board are not your baby mama!! Don’t get mad at us because you’re having that check tapped!!
Take care of your kids and stop being a whine y***** *****ing n!gger!!! You’re going to have to do it until they’re 18 so get used to it!!
@ rossy
and according to the laws in their state he should be doing that and paying $3000 a month. I personally don’t think this is unfair, and I think those are lucky children who have two parents looking out for their best interest.
“He wouldn’t have done *****. Even if she said pretty please.
He seems to have a case of ignorantitis.
I’m not with you no more so you get as less as possible.
I’m not paying for your extras with your new man.
She proabably has to call him for every little minor detail when she is in need of money.
He does not seem like a reasonable ex. If she was sufferering a hardhip, he should of been gracious enough to offer more financial *****istance.
The children are in her care 60% of the time.”
AMEN!! As if this girl, like most mothers, wouldn’t have loved nothing more than to work this out between them but the black male MAKES you drag his ignorant ***** into court!! He makes you say I’ll just get the man to handle you!!!
Ya’ll dog us all the time……What
Tell the thruth & shame the devil Rossy!!!
Ms. Dixon wanted ADULT support & the judge saw right through that and acted accordingly within the law.
Whats’ wrong with working…..
soulfultea
YOU RIGHT BUT SHE IS NOT TINY
HE DONT NEED TO TAKE CARE OF HER
Ya’ll bitter b i t c h e s better get off of your soapboxes and wake-up to reality…….just because you had kids by a celeb don’t mean you should be entitled to his pockets…The kids are taken care of…..get that thru ya’ll heads….My momma didn’t wait on the Courts or my sorry a s s daddy…..she went and did it herself and worked like hell for me and my sister…..That’s why I have a strong work ethic…because I saw my momma bust her *****, even when she was sick she still went and did it…..
*****ody complained when Nicloe brown simpson had her lavish home in hollywood. She nerver worked.
It seems because she is the round the way girl from the block that she needs to get a job. Tip wasn’t famous when these children were born. \
Every man should want his offspring to live in a loving, stable home. If the non cusodial parent is wealthy he should not have a problem with sharing his wealth with ALL OF his children. Not just the children he has with his current woman.
He should of not produced children with women that hs is not married to if he has issues with supporting them.
“Oh & protect yourself, the greater burden is on YOU!!
Why?
Because you are the vessel in which a new life is carried it, so it behooves you to look after your own sexual welfare.”
And, likewise, if a grown ***** able bodied man is going to sit back and ***** like a little ole girl overhaving to support his kids financially, perhaps he should be strapping up until marriage as well.. The burden is on him as well!!!
“Ya’ll bitter b i t c h e s better get off of your soapboxes and wake-up to reality…….just because you had kids by a celeb don’t mean you should be entitled to his pockets…The kids are taken care of…..get that thru ya’ll heads….My momma didn’t wait on the Courts or my sorry a s s daddy…..she went and did it herself and worked like hell for me and my sister…..That’s why I have a strong work ethic…because I saw my momma bust her *****, even when she was sick she still went and did it…..”
Bitter *****es?? We’re just agreeing with the judges order!! Its you good for nothing useless *****ing coons up in here bitter over TI having to pay this girl!! You all don’t even know him but you’re all foaming at the mouth over him having to take care of his kids..
Maybe you n!ggers should stop being bitter and learn some responsibility!!!! If you make a baby you will be ordered to take care of it!!
just because you had kids by a celeb don’t mean you should be entitled to his pockets
@ goat
sorry the reality and the law is that if you have a child by someone you are going to have to provide that lifestyle for them, and if the mother benefits off of it, that is also acceptable in the courts eyes. These self-righteous people need to get off of their soapboxes and learn the law.
SMDH isn’t THAT your screen name. Who’s mad? LOLOL!!
Nah, I’m not mad at all, I just find extremely funny that some of you chicks expect to be taken care of when you’re not married the father of your children.
She was NOT married to him, he goes above & well beyond what is adequate child support. I see this all of the time in family court, so I know how the games are played.
Chick played herself and she has no one to blame be herself. Now all she needs to do is OWN IT like a reall woman and make her own money.
You young girls just don’t know that you just don’t know.
I am so glad that there are family courts.
Ignorantitis is contagious.
These people want the judge to give baby mama $2.00 a tic tac and a job application.
And SMDH TI is taking care of his END. What is Ms. Dixon doing. It’s not like TI has been deadbeat and doesn’t spend time with his kids. So what’s your beef really?
If he paid for the car, put a down payment on a house in a decent neighborhood, takes care of the boys educational needs, their extra curricular needs, their medical needs, sees them on a regular bases; they tell me what exactly is Ms. Dixon doing? Especially when TI has them almost half of the time too.
What exactly is her role in the rearing of her children? She had another baby too. so who takes cares of that child? Is she gonna take that brotha to court for more money too.
Go figure. She needs to work for herself, it’s the right & responsible thing to do.
TI is holding up his end. What about her?
I’m cool wit the judges decision its the bitter broads that want the Baby Momma to get 50,000 a month….
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angryazzblackwoman- you must be one of those chicks that live off their baby daddy.
I am so sick of these chicken head ***** *****es that think that just cause you spread your legs and had a baby that the father is supposed to take care of you to. If that man is taking care of his children not only having them 40% of the time but also paying for school, extra curriculer(sorry for the spelling.LOL) activities, medical bills, etc…. why the ***** do you need more money. As long as his children don’t o without than thats all that matters. Stay at home mom my *****… Stay at home moms have husbands not baby daddies. *****es like her adn fifty cent baby mama make me sick to my stomach, they are the reason people look at black women and think that we are all gold diggers. GET A Job ***** like the rest of us working mothers. Child Support is for men who don’t do ***** for their children not for men who do for their kids. I can’t stand *****es like her
@ soulfult
actually he did not go above and beyond what is adequate because he was ruled to continue providing the school cost and etc plus another $1000. So now what he is providing is adequate.
I also worked in family court and the amount of father who don’t pay support far out-weighted the mothers seeking more support and living solely off of the payments. Maybe things are different in your state
“SMDH isn’t THAT your screen name. Who’s mad? LOLOL!!”
Shaking my damn head does not imply that I am mad it implies that I am shocked at the behavior of others.. Who can’t read??? LOL!!
“Nah, I’m not mad at all, I just find extremely funny that some of you chicks expect to be taken care of when you’re not married the father of your children.”
I don’t remember the order saying he had to take care of the mother.. I remember it saying he had to take care of his kids.. He, like you, is *****UMING the mother is using the money, not that its HIS concern.. He has to pay it anyway!!! Get over it!!
“She was NOT married to him, he goes above & well beyond what is adequate child support. I see this all of the time in family court, so I know how the games are played.”
What games?? He was ordered to take care of his kids and he is doing so! Where is the game?? It’s a game now to expect your childs father to be there financially?? C’mon now!! You sound like an angry black male again!!!
“Chick played herself and she has no one to blame be herself. Now all she needs to do is OWN IT like a reall woman and make her own money.”
As I said we dont’ know if she has a job or not..
And, judging by the payout her kids got and the anger on tis board over it – I’d say she played herself very well!! If she is spending the money on herself she has quite a bit to do so with!! She got anything but played!!!
“You young girls just don’t know that you just don’t know.”
And you old and young *****s need to accept that the white man is tired of his *****istance programs taking care of your abandoned children!! Take care of your kids and get over it!!!
Moral of the stroy is stop having babies by women you dont have anything and want what you got. Simple leave a lone.
and the black man goes and gets the white woman pregnant and he knows he will pay then because that black d*ck money grabbing tramp will take him to court for a cell phone bill and the white judge cant wait to throw the book at him.
pariah is how these women should be treated
Ya’ll bitter b i t c h e s better get off of your soapboxes and wake-up to reality…….just because you had kids by a celeb don’t mean you should be entitled to his pockets…The kids are taken care of…..get that thru ya’ll heads….My momma didn’t wait on the Courts or my sorry a s s daddy…..she went and did it herself and worked like hell for me and my sister…..That’s why I have a strong work ethic…because I saw my momma bust her *****, even when she was sick she still went and did it…..
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o boy do i agree with you
o boy do i agree with you
the court is spoiling these baby mama’s
Ya’ll act like those kids are living in BankHead Courts when they stay with their mom…..ya’ll act like these kids are missing meals and no clothes, not able to get doctor care….Their education is already taken care of…How many can say that with the rise of education cost…..
SMDH is very intelligent i nominate her as Pres of setting these bossip folks straight epecially the ugly ones who accuse folks of being an imposter but yet they never debate on anything of intelligence but role call and sex on a blog,, talk about obama and they are lost.
@SMDH
I am a woman but I am neither bitter or a coon and I don’t agree with the judges ruling or the sentiment most of the women seem to share that TI owes Ms. Dixon anymore than she is already getting. It is the belief that women like Ms. Dixon feel that its ok to profit off their children that I and other rational people have a problem with.
T.I’s children get child support, but millions of children don’t. My dad never paid child support either and my mother worked too, usually two jobs.
I remember when my dad got sick and my step-sister and stepbrother called me to tell me my dad was dying. I felt so strange and confused. All I could think of was this person made me suffer….he made my mother suffer. He made me go hungry. Why….just because he could. When he died, I finally felt free. I did’t go to his funeral and I never had to think about him anymore. He disappeared and I don’t even remember his name.
you act like those kids are not suppose to have all of the luxuries life has to offer. You don’t have to be living in the ghetto to deserve child support increases.
“SMDH is very intelligent i nominate her as Pres of setting these bossip folks straight epecially the ugly ones who accuse folks of being an imposter but yet they never debate on anything of intelligence but role call and sex on a blog,, talk about obama and they are lost.”
Thank you!! ALl these bitter ***** child support paying *****s up in here trying to make a sista feel bad about agreeing that men need to take care of their children PERIOD!!
Hell, getting mad at black women on a blog isn’t going to stop his child support payments..
Ok she gave him 2 kids before he made it, she may have also taken care of him while he was trying to make it, BUT! thats a moral obligation on his part not a legal one, which is why its called “child support” everyone has stated he already supports the kids, by financially paying for everything that has to do with them, plus has them in his custody 40% of the time, and since they are school age the school has them for about 35% of the time, which leaves her with the remaining 25%. So i believe she is manipulating the child support law, to actually get alimony when they were never married, and despite what a white woman or anybody else may get in court, doesn’t make it right in any case. She wants money for her personal things, which is not his responsibility his responsibility is to the children (CHILD SUPPORT NOT WE USED TO DATE AND HAD TO KIDS SUPPORT). Why cant she work part time during the 40% of the time that he has them, for own personal purchases/and or partying money????
“I am a woman but I am neither bitter or a coon and I don’t agree with the judges ruling or the sentiment most of the women seem to share that TI owes Ms. Dixon anymore than she is already getting. It is the belief that women like Ms. Dixon feel that its ok to profit off their children that I and other rational people have a problem with”
Again – prove that she is profitting and is not doing everything she is supposed to with that money!!!
And if you disagree then disagree.. Its not gonna stop that he has to come up off this money every month and that aint ***** compared to what these white and non black baby mamas are getting…
for many of you who think child support is for the kids spending money you are wrong, it is for living expenses. So if you are a man and you pay for private school, lavish toys and clothes, medical bills etc. you will still have to make payments to the childs mother. Trust more children benefit from this law than mothers. The percentage of men who make enough money where a support payment can pay for all of the family expenses and so far in the minority this should not even be a discussion.
and what I said goes for all races because it is not just black women who do this *****. It is women af all races adn ages. My brothers baby mama who he is no longer with think that my brother should help her with her bills because everytime you turn around she is getting fired or quitting a job. Everytime my brother gives her money instead of buying my neice what my neice needs she spend the money on herself and then will call a couple days later and tell my brother that my neice needs pull ups and when he ask her what happened to the money he just gave her she will say oh I had to pay the gas and electric and the funny thing about it is she has some other dude living up in the house with her. So if she got this other dude why should my brother do anything for the tramp that doens’t involve taking care of my neice and if my brother doesn’t give her what she wants she will stop answering the phone and avoid my brother and me and my mother so that we can’t see my neice. I ask again when did child support become baby momma support
“the court is spoiling these baby mama’s”
Well the ones who are able to get it should get it good!!! There are many who don’t get anything becuase their childrens father is not a celebrity right under the courts nose!! He’s usually some piece of dog***** that abandoned his kids like last weeks trash and kept moving with no remorse..
“SMDH is very intelligent i nominate her as Pres of setting these bossip folks straight epecially the ugly ones who accuse folks of being an imposter but yet they never debate on anything of intelligence but role call and sex on a blog,, talk about obama and they are lost.”
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stop hyping up this nasty mouth girl
she is lost as well,
give us an insight about obama
that other dont know about -
this is not an obama post
its TI post/ drama w/babymama
Marco
Duh that means she has to work and like some of the people here feel like she souldnt she has two boys by a rapper….
The chick need to work
Real women shaking their heads everywhere. she got 11 more years and then poof! back to hoeing.
She can honestly say that every dollar she spends originated between her legs.
stop having babies by loser everyone. know who you are sleeping with it could be the enemy
SMDH. If he is paying for everything what is left for her to provide for them children. If she is not working how do you think she pays for her clothes, phone bill, cable, mortgage, car insurance and so on. She is using the “CHILD SUPPORT” He brought her a car so she don’t have a car payment. Why should she get to sit home on her ***** just because her child father is famous, she need to work just like the rest of us mothers.
I wish Marquis were still here to talk about these non married baby having premeditated victims.
What kind of example is she setting for her boys? That it’s OK to be a lazy ***** sitting at home waiting for a check? The kids are in ELEMETARY school.
If she was at least in school I could see but ….
kids do what you do not what you tell them to do.
She is not the only one like that alot of women think that way. Men why do you think they give it up son easly they dont want you they want your wallet
Well the ones who are able to get it should get it good!!! There are many who don’t get anything becuase their childrens father is not a celebrity right under the courts nose!! He’s usually some piece of dog***** that abandoned his kids like last weeks trash and kept moving with no remorse..
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i dont appreciate you calling ppl dog*****
respcet yourself and ppl around you ….
ppl are humans not dog*****
yuck!! your mouth go wash it with soap
obama was just a general statement i know what damn post it is and i will hype up who the hell i want to hype up, what is it 2 you, since its not a obama post why the hell would i need to give insight, f*ck off.
FYI – I agree with the judges decision. he gave her just enough to hang herself.
enoough to keep laying on your fat ***** but not enough to get rich like Puffy’s broads.
@Richard
Real women shaking their heads everywhere. she got 11 more years and then poof! back to hoeing.
She can honestly say that every dollar she spends originated between her legs
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Yes, Richard, he (a man) can honestly say that every dollar he needs to spend on child support origniated between his legs too!!
“stop hyping up this nasty mouth girl
she is lost as well,
give us an insight about obama
that other dont know about -
this is not an obama post
its TI post/ drama w/babymama”
LOL – do you want some cheese to go with that WHINE????
Don’t hate – just accept… TI is paying for those boys (and the baby mam if you all are right) until they’re 18!! Get over it!!
And judging by your nasty mouth comment I’m gonna *****ume you don’t see the black woman being called all sorts of bitter trifling black *****es up in here…..
Run along now!!
@ Shauna
your brother should go get a child support order, so all of his contributions will be accounted for as well as a visitation order, then the problem will be solved. In the future he should seek a woman whom he will marry and have children with her. But if he chooses to have children out of wedlock by a woman who is willing to support a grown ***** man he will continue to have these issues. furthermore child support law clearly state a payments are not for the childs spending money but for household expenses like rent and utilities and schooling, clothing, food etc. it is also deemed acceptable that the custodial parent and other children benefit from these payments i.e. if the household benefits from the utilities that child support payments were used pay. I don’t know if your brother is a wealthy man and the portion of his income allotted to child support will cover all of the home, but if it does she is in here right. sounds like he needs to protect himself with a support order.
@smdh
shut up
please dont respond to any of my commets
thank you very much
@ PeepEye:
“Yes, Richard, he (a man) can honestly say that every dollar he needs to spend on child support origniated between his legs too!!”
You aint NEVA lied!! Its takes TWO to tango!! This girl did not finger herself and come up pregnant twice!
LOL @ black males honestly feeling like thye should have the right to abandon a child they created and not do anything for them.. Thank GOD for the child support laws cause if it weren’t for whitey demanding this sistas would be *****ed out when it comes to taking care of their kids.. The black male just has no issues abandoning his child!! He’ll chase a nasty trailer park cracker ho back to the trailer park but he’ll abandon his kids like trailer park rubbish!!!
@SMDH
Soulful is a woman, a bonafied woman who takes care of her two children. I work everyday, I get minimal child support form the fathers, but he pays & plays in integral part of out children’s lives. They’ve been to Jamaica not once, not twice but 8 times in their lives & their daddy paid for it & never missed a child support payment.
I am a grown *****, gainfully employed black woman of 40 years. I do my part as well as my ex. does.
Plain & Simple, simpletons such as yourself need to get a clue before you start with the bs.
Get married first, then you won’t have to worry about any of this. If you don’t have kids, don’t, get married first. TI owes this chick nothing. Get that through that thick head of yours. LOLOL!!
How old are you? Under 25 I bet. Your parents are probably STILL taking care of you in some way and you’re on here demanding something that the law has decided on.
Are you registered to cote? Do you plan on voting. Do you knwo what your condidate stands on the issues that affect your life? Are you aware of where your candidates campaign office is in your area? Do you read the newpapers? Do you read any political sites?
Get a clue what don’t cha!!! LOLOLOL!!
to the working mothers like myself, some women have it easier than we do. some kids are born with a silver spoon in their mouth, some not. If I could stay at home I would. But I am not mad at the women who can. Crabs in a bucket, just because you had to struggle doesn’t make the woman who doesn’t some type of lowlife.
“@smdh
shut up
please dont respond to any of my commets
thank you very much”
So does that mean don’t respond to this one either?? Oops, my bad!!!
LOL
gimmee a break and get the hell on somewhere telling me what the hell in can say up i here this open forum DA!
obama was just a general statement i know what damn post it is and i will hype up who the hell i want to hype up, what is it 2 you, since its not a obama post why the hell would i need to give insight, f*ck off
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ouch touchie/touchie
why mention his name in TI post
oooo i forgot its a general statement
silly me
@ SMH
Please read the entire post and understand what I am saying. I am not against childsupport, however, we need to understand that the NORM was that people would GET MARRIED and have a family TOGETHER! Not have a whole bunch of children out of wedlock and expect the court system to fix it. Child support is a great thing but making a wise choice to atleast MARRY FIRST and STAY MARRIED is much better.
“Theatre of the Minds” Ludacris-November 11!!!!
LOL. yall killling me. she did this on the verge of T.I. new albu, coming out. thats why she wanted money in the 1st place. this is why she acting a fool. now at 3,000 a month is reasonable but this ***** need to go get a *****ing job and stop trying to act like tiny….
okay yall seen the family that preys by Tyler Perry. his baby mama is Sanaa Lathan trying to get somebody to pay for her cartwright baby. lol
I have custody of my kids and it has been this way for the past 4 years. There mom pays me nada, nothing, zero. I do not not recieve welfare, or any other government *****istance. I dont even sweat it, I provide for them and purchase all the things they need on my own dime. Point being black men are not the only ones out here having kids and not supporting them in my case its a black woman. Does this make ALL black women dead beat parents? Of course not! So why is it that I keep reading on this post about all these negative generalizations being made about black men and our support of our kids? Now I’m SMDH!!!
gimmee a break and get the hell on somewhere telling me what the hell in can say up i here this open forum DA!
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lol double standard
but yall want to be up in here telling TI what he
should and shouldn’t be doing
how much to give and not to give
getoutofhere
gimme a break.. dont comment me anymore im not 4 going back n forth with u, too time consuming plus i wasnt even talking 2 you in the first place so scram!!!!!
blaq
I enjoy going to work it sucks when your at the mall or shopping or the spa and all your friends even the ones with a lot of money are at work so I do work. You are a lowlife when you become a parasite and try to live off of someones else or use your kids as a tool to live. she is no better then a welfare mom who can work but chose not to because the state will take care of her and her kids. I make good money to do what I want when I want. I can buy those bags Tiny has. I have a good job where I can sit and chat all day and get paid. But I dont have to plot to get it. I take care of my son and so does his father but his father doesnt take care of me and I am his ex wife. The judge try to give me a crazy amount and I told the judge all I need is half on daycare and pretty soon he wont need that. His father pays the daycare himself for two weeks and I pay the other. Too easy. You pay half just like the man.
“Soulful is a woman, a bonafied woman who takes care of her two children. I work everyday, I get minimal child support form the fathers, but he pays & plays in integral part of out children’s lives. They’ve been to Jamaica not once, not twice but 8 times in their lives & their daddy paid for it & never missed a child support payment.”
If I did believe you were a woman, which I don’t, then: What the ***** are you telling me for?? I could care less what you get from your baby daddy orwhere your kids have been 8 times!! How is that making my pockets fatter?? Get the hell on!!!
“I am a grown *****, gainfully employed black woman of 40 years. I do my part as well as my ex. does.”
As you should!! Good for you!! What do you want?? A *****ing medal??
“Plain & Simple, simpletons such as yourself need to get a clue before you start with the bs.”
If I’m a simpleton so is the judge cause he’s the one who awarded the money to her!! The only simpletons are bitter ***** *****ing n!ggeras like you who wanna blame the world for being legally forced to take care ofthe life you created!!!
“Get married first, then you won’t have to worry about any of this.”
Good advice to the black male… Im sure she’s not complaining about not being married!! Its his money thats in play here!! Perhaps he should have ben up on his game!!
“If you don’t have kids, don’t, get married first. TI owes this chick nothing. Get that through that thick head of yours. LOLOL!!”
If he owes her nothing then why did a judge just order him to pay her?!?! LOL!! He owes her in that white judges eyes and thats all that matters!! You’re opinion – nor mine for that matter – mean a *****ing thing!!
“How old are you? Under 25 I bet. Your parents are probably STILL taking care of you in some way and you’re on here demanding something that the law has decided on.”
I am 23 years old and my parents told me to get into college and they’d do the rest.. I did so and they kept their promise.. I am working on my Graduate degree right now!!
So what’s the problem??
“Are you registered to cote?”
I *****ume you mean VOTE!! Yes I am!!
“Do you plan on voting. Do you knwo what your condidate stands on the issues that affect your life? Are you aware of where your candidates campaign office is in your area? Do you read the newpapers? Do you read any political sites?”
OBAMA – YES YES YES AND YES!!!
“Get a clue what don’t cha!!! LOLOLOL!!”
Why don’t you take your own advice and then you wont be walking around bitter at having to pay your BM child support!!!
gimme a break.. dont comment me anymore im not 4 going back n forth with u, too time consuming plus i wasnt even talking 2 you in the first place so scram!!!!!
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ok watever you say
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@Shomondo
I have custody of my kids and it has been this way for the past 4 years. There mom pays me nada, nothing, zero.
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Have you asked? Most black women are very sweet, caring and generous and I know that if you asked, she would be willing to share her money with you and her children. I would.
yeah silly u bye gimme a break like u were told run along now.
FIGHT THAT *****, TI!!!! don’t let that golddigging tramp do that to you, using your children to fund HER lifestyle!
Unbelieveable!!!! I hope TI fights this.
bye lmbbao!!
Nita
say it again nita
@ PeepEye Should I have to ask? But to answer, she has talked of paying me child support, but she promises to do this or that from time to time, but something always happens that prevents her from coming thru. Her hours were’nt right at her job is her favorite line. She’s the only person I know who consistently claims they always tabulate her time wrong. New job perhaps? lol. There last birthday I bought a card for her and put money in it, and just had her sign it. I never tell my sons anything bad about there moms, dont want them to think she does not care about there needs. Sad to say she shows she does not care about there needs on the daily. ***** would be funny if not so sad. She’s not a bad person, just a irresponsible one. But not on here to low rate her, it is what it is. I love my sons and I’m a man, in the end I do what a real man is supposed to do, handle biz with lil complaint. Many black men out here are doing it just like me!
@SMDH
You are too funny. You think a man would have such a fem. screen name? WOW!! You’re dense too huh? GO Obama is right. He married his wife, had children after the marriage and is STILL with his wife. Together,they prosper. IT’s evident that Mrs. Michelle Obama did it right when she CHOSE Barack to spend her life with.
You could stand to learn a thing or two from her. Some of you young sistas better get some self-worth because this ain’t it. Tell your girls to get the education first.
I’m a grown ***** woman, not a man or a baby mama, see I was a wife FIRST dearheart. Too bad Ms. Dixon wasn’t. Sucks to be her huh? Oh well, such is life.
Peace & Blessings
SoulfulTea
@SMDH……..you just twisting stuff up and making up stuff…….Your screen name fits your ghetto mentality……..I hope you’re not a Black woman, cause you make them look bad…….It’s a couple of other too….You know who you are…….Bitter ***** Hoes stay losing…………
Shomondo
The problem is when a black man is trying to do right these women take advantage and try to take more.
I said women wether they are black white asian latinas whatever women do it just like men do it. I feel everyone should pay for there kids but dont take care of the parent. Hell I dont want to pay for them I have my own son.
soulfultea
Thats the problem these women dont know what family is or the meaning of being a wife and having a husband and children. All they know is baby momma and a check for their sex. Hell hoeing is legal. Stop opening your legs to men who dont want anything from you but that. How can you expect someone to want to have children with you. GRow up and become a women and act like a lady. Be a wife then a mother that way we can understand why you want someone to take care of you.
She ain’t happy with the extra thousand,what an ungrateful *****!! Just because she had 2 babies for the man doesn’t mean she can now live the glamourous life. After all she ain’t Tiny,she ain’t his woman so get over your jealousy loser! TI cut that heffa short,this means no xtras!! She’s got some damn nerve when it’s sistas out here that can’t even get a damn dime!!! This judge is a *****in hater! TI don’t let this heffa get you down. YOU’VE GOT OTHER PROBLEMS DON’T LET THIS ***** BE ONE.
@Shomondo
I applaud you for stepping up and especially not for badmouthing your ex.
As a woman, I would pay child support. Hell, I would probably move next door so I could get to see my kids everyday and flatten my ex-husband’s tires on a regular basis. (LOL).
even a lil part-time job wouldn’t kill her… DAMN!!!
To whomever may have made a statement implying I don’t have a job–
Please Reread!!! The first thing I mentioned is that I have one–a good one at that but who in this thread is living sooooooooooo lovely that some extra money wouldn’t come in handy?? ESPECIALLY with the economy the way it is! You got people making life decisions on whether to buy that extra gallon of gas or that gallon of milk!!!!!!!!
***crickets***
Just what the hell I thought!!! If everything WAS REALLY everything and we all had it like that, we wouldn’t be trollin’ BOSSIP like we do. Most of us are everyday, hard working people that’s trying to maintain.
Tell ya what—If yo ***** is all that lovely and you come across some extra dough that “you have soooooo much money–everything’s lovely, you don’t need it” toss that ***** my way!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
GTFOOH with that bull*****!
LMAO @ all these mu*****kas always in here tellin’ errbody “I got nine houses, seven cars, two kids, and I make oogles of money!!!”
PULEEZE!!
WE know yo s*****!!!
Lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
this is pathetic. this woman embarr*****es the hard-working, intelligent, dignified black women out there. what an effing joke.
Ooooh, you guys are right about the Judge’s first name, Bensonetta, lol. I bet she’s an ex baby momma, she won the state lottery so she decided to go to law school to become a judge, lol..
@ Rossy
that is the life you chose for yourself, you enjoy working good for you, maybe this woman enjoys being home when her kids get out of school and preparing slow cooked meal, anyway I do not know her life just like you don’t. T.I. other baby’s mother doesn’t work, but I suppose she is not a lowlife because she is still with him. Whatever the case men and women live off of one income all of the time, these are personal decisions and $3K a month in child support does not make you a parasite, and if you are a woman who needs public *****istance you are not a low life or a parasite, I’ve needed *****istance and now I am in a place to give it. I don’t know what type of education you have or what type of family support you have but regardless you are in no place to judge and degrade a woman you don’t even know because you think she needs a job. If you turned down a higher payment that is you, maybe that is all you felt your children deserved. I personally would have taken the higher payment and put it in a college fund, but that’s me. Women have the lifestyle they feel they deserve to have and if 1/2 of the childcare was enough for you, that’s you, I would prefer for my child not to attend daycare, but that is me, do I think you are a neglectful parent for sending your child to daycare absolutely not, but that was your choice and we all have the right to make them and obviously Tip didn’t have a problem with her not working when he got her pregnant twice bought her a house and a car. and he probably has not problem pulling out 30 bills instead of 20.
@ Rossy
furthermore your employer probably feels you are a parasite for spending all day on this blog instead of doing his work. I’m just sayin
and now this dumb a$$ broad is supposed to raise his kids? what the hell is she going to teach them??
both boys too???…..think boys stupid enough to NOT figure out what kinda nonsense this is when they grow up?
@ Peep Eye
U just don’t getit. It is not the sum of who he is. She needs to get a life, an income, a career.
@ SMDH
U really don’t want to see me.
I don’t want to go back to describing the bitter,couchie licking ugly fat duckiling who all the boys gang banged and forgot about.
Becoming amother is a beautiful thing but not all a woman can be. He has the kids 40% of the time, pays ALL of their bills and bought her a house and a car because of love of his kids. This is NOT a deadbeat dad. He simply will not support her inflated idea of what her lifestyle should be.
T.I. Paid for
Where they live
What they wear
Medical coverage
school
How they get around
Is she asking that he pay her to watch her kids? Surely a 7 year old and an 8 year old don’t eat 3,000 worth of food?
And clarification _ I support the $3,000 order.
Richard
@ Peep Eye
U just don’t getit. It is not the sum of who he is. She needs to get a life, an income, a career.
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Yes Richard, I do get it. Now what does a washed up old rapper like T.I. do after he finishes doing time in the pen on federal charges?
She needs to:
– Keep her legs closed
– Get a job
I know this woman has time to get on a computer and get some type of skills certificate online. If T.I. is with them 40% of the time, what is she doing with the other 60%? Sitting around waiting for the kids to return? Shopping? She could use his *****ociation to start her own business. I’m sure T.I. would give her a small business loan to get her own ***** going. That’s probably the reason why he’s not with her. She’s not trying to get anything. At least Tina pursued a semi-successful run with Xscape, and capitalized on the popularity at the time.
17 Ward, you are absolutely right about Lashon, lol. She could take a career cl***** (guess what, the schools have lifted the bar, Lashon doesn’t have to have high school diploma so there’s no excuse not to sign up a cl*****).
17 Ward, you are absolutely right about Lashon, lol. She could take a career cl***** (guess what, the schools have lifted the bar, Lashon doesn’t have to have a high school diploma so there’s no excuse not to sign up a cl*****).
She needs to get off her ***** & get a job,at least he is doing more than most of these babydaddies nowadays & she wants even more.
The judge is stupid hisself for granting her more money.
Yo for all of you saying she only get 36k a year thats nothing. You forget this is tax free money. For someone who is actually working they would have to be making around 55k to take home that much. Thats more than enough to take care of loose ends since he is paying for everything else. Then to add insult to injury she only has them 60% of the time. You factor in school and the time they spend with their dad, then wth is she doing. This chick wants to be taken care of point blank period talking about she struggling. That is more than enough to live off of in GA.
@Blaq
I agree with you.
Alot of these women are salty because they have to do everything by themselves.
depending on the father of your children to support them is not a parasite.
Judge Mathis made a point on his show and expressed his disdain for women who deny support for their children. You are taking away form your children when you deny them access to funds that could help them.
There isn’t anything wrong with a women being at home with her children. Working mothers are always on overload. She has cooking, cleaning, laundry, homework, meetings with teachers, and the list goes on.
T.I. should want his children to benefit from having their mom available to them at all times. He is constantly busy. He is the working parent.
I don’t care if they were not married. The children deserve to be taken care of the same as children who’s parents are divorced.
These same women do not have a problem with K-Fed getting 15k a month from Brittney. I don’t hear them screaming for him to get a job. Nor did they have a problem with michael strahan’s ex.
Children are entitled to the best life possible. T.I.’s younger children have everything, his older children should benefit from their fathers wealth 100% of the time. Not just when they are in his care.
blaq
I can do my job and inform you silly people
Kelisha
its the point of her not bringing and funds in for her children. The father is an she isnt
D-ill
you can say that again
T.I. may very in own mind perceive that is enough but he fails to realize that he’s not earning the average joe income either. If you can put paper stack in your video but can’t provide extra funds for your children that’s a problem. If the issue is with the mother then why not take full custody bet tiny won’t have none of that
blaq
the point is we both take care of the responsibility of taken care of our son. I have an good income. My son has a college fund from the both of us. Being greedy is not going to get you anywhere. Wake up. My son goes to afterschool care because his mother and father has a career that I went to school for to accomplish. So why would I stay at home I am educated and love what I do. Sorry. Since I love what I do it isnt a job is a hobbie. I get paid to do something I like. My son has an excellent father and we both provide for him. That is what being a real mother and father is. There is not price amount that my child is worth. My son father time that he take with him and the things that he provides is well. So I dont need all that extra drama from having a court in my personal business. See I married a man. So when you get with a real man you dont have to ask for the things your child needs. He does it automatically. Child support came with a divorce. Maybe some of you women need to be selective about who you lay down with that way when you do have a baby you dont have to take him to child support. The man will do it automatically.
woe
He probably will have to wait until he finish his jail time to get full custody.
@soulful Tea
I am 40 y/o so I know all about women, I am one, so trust & know that I am arming my son against the no count women who don’t want to do right in their own lives let alone the lives of their children.
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Based on that statement, it sounds to me like you are one of those Black mothers I always complain about. you know, the type that teaches her son to distrust Black women because they are: gold diggers, hoes, sneaky, etc. I could be wrong but based on what you wrote, I doubt it.
Wonder what she is going to do in ten years when child support stops? 50 said this, “My son is 11-years-old, what is she gonna do in seven years when he’s 18 and he’s in college and on his own? How is she gonna eat then ?” Just food for thought.
What job is more important than being mom? $3k per month is still paltry for TI. He can and should pay even more. Keep fighting girl.
TI’s son on the left is bigger than his little *****..
-PEOPLE! Tiny gets bags that cost almost that much- The latest Gucci, LV etc…
This dude spends 3 stacks when he visits the strip clubs in the “A” PLEEEZZZZZZZ
PAY THE DAMN MONEY——————
T.I. seems like a nice caring guy and he loves his kids. And Lasho is milking him hard !
Why is it that people keep bringing tiny into this? She has nothing to do with it at all. Plus I like how people think that people that used to be stars and are no longer in the limelight are somehow all broke. I’m sure Tiny has her own money she was doing fine before she met TI and if I’m not mistaken she started dating him when he was a *****ody. Secondly I don’t care what that man spends his money on if he takes care of his kids. What some of you still are not getting is she gets 3k after all other expenses for the kids. If you add up all those other bills he is probably paying somewhere around 5 to 6k a month. I see it like this if all you got to do is pay your rent and put food on the table 3k is more than enough. He shouldn’t have to pay her to take care of her OWN kids. She is not paying him a check for the 40% of the time he has the kids. She needs to get off her behind and support herself. He is not responsible for her at all.
WE ARE SO HARD ON THESE FOLKS IM GOING TO STAY OFF OF THESE SITES BECAUSE WHEN I THINK ABOUT THE 3,000 THE 10.000. PURSE THE DEGRAdation of black men and women. i wonder was she a hoe to him before he became famous… probably not. I wonder she think of him as her bread and butter and her sole provider before he was famous, probably not. I bet she worked before he got rich and famous. and I bet he did not do half as much as he is doing now.
He is taking care of his own. I can’t believe this broad not only got more stacks with her non-working @zz, but she STILL is not satisfied?! She ain’t got a job, so who in the hell is paying for her lawyer?! Harumph, further proof of what we already knew: the legal system is fuc*ked up…..
TI simply wasn’t smart enough to use protection and isn’t smart enough to keep this drama out of the media. He could’ve settled with her privately and spared us all the speculation about their arrangement. But I guess he knows we have nothing better to do than debate his life.
TI, pay her 30k a month so she can life like an entertainer or athlete for the next 18 years. she can send money to her girls and other family members. drive a 100k car.
do you know how many people do NOT make 3k a month?
ti should have paid her more awhile ago. something like 5 to 7k which is still too much. how many jobs out there can she make that?
and for the record, the cost of living in atlanta may have went up in the past few years but it fails in comparison to most cities. you can buy a 200 or 300k home there for the cost of 500k in florida alone.
DOUBLE BAG YO ***** WHEN YOU PIPE SISTERS.THEM *****ES GET PREGNANT AND THINK IT’S JACKPOT.THEY DO NOT WANT TO WORK JUST LIVE OFF JUNIOR SUPPORT MONEY AND GO CLUBBING.
***** DIEZEL
I AGREE. AND I AM A WOMEN. PROTECT YOURSELF FELLAS.
@ Ignorance,
Nah, I’m not one of those women that you’re talking about, but I know just how sneaky and coniving (sp) some women are. I’ve seen with my eyes, I see daily where I work, so all I am doing is arming my son with knowledge. Why in the world would I teach my son to HATE blackwomen when one is raising him now? Seriously? How stupid would that be? He loves his two BLACK gramdmothers on both his parents side, he loves his black sisters, his black aunts, I could go on, but you know where I’m going with this.
I just tire of no count women, they can’t wash a piece of clothing, can’t & won’t cook a meal, won’t take care of their children properly, don’t know how to love themselves, but EXPECT someone else to do for them. THOSE are the types of women I dispised. What is Dixon going to do once those boys GROW-UP and the checks STOP coming. Because that’s what children do, they grwo-up & become adults. Then who & what is she going to fall back on?
Then what? Who will she expect to TAKE CARE of HER then? Some chicks can’t see any further than the block they live, then wonder why things don’t always work for them. As I said before, you’re the captian of your own ship, when you sail it into treacherous waters, don’t cry foul because YOU were at the HELM. Understand me?
Chicks like this make it hard for MEN who ARE & WILLING to do for their kids. No, they’re not looking for a pat on the back for something they should be doing, but they shouldn’t be crucified either simply things aren’t the way the ex. may have wanted it. Charge that to the game.
Many times a woman goes after a man’s money not for the children but because “she’s feeling some type of way about the break-up”. Damn her & her feelings, she should only be concerned with the feelings of her children. I say get over yourself & do what’s right for your children becuase it is THEY who are ultimately affected by this type of nonsense.
You know the type, the ones who speak ill of thier childrens father in their presence, not caring about the “feelings” of their babies, only concerned about what he’s doing and who he’s doing it to. I shake my head at the nonsense of it all.
Chicks like 50 Cents baby mother and TI’s ex ***** me off becuase it’s not about the children, it’s about them & their needs. Dann the kids. Those are the types of broads that I hate.
So nah sweets, not raising my son to HATE black women, just teaching him to see the forest through the tree where most women are concerned.
Got it? Good.
Good Morning All
Rossy this needed to be repeated:
the point is we both take care of the responsibility of taken care of our son. I have an good income. My son has a college fund from the both of us. Being greedy is not going to get you anywhere. Wake up. My son goes to afterschool care because his mother and father has a career that I went to school for to accomplish. So why would I stay at home I am educated and love what I do. Sorry. Since I love what I do it isnt a job is a hobbie. I get paid to do something I like. My son has an excellent father and we both provide for him. That is what being a real mother and father is. There is not price amount that my child is worth. My son father time that he take with him and the things that he provides is well. So I dont need all that extra drama from having a court in my personal business. See I married a man. So when you get with a real man you dont have to ask for the things your child needs. He does it automatically. Child support came with a divorce. Maybe some of you women need to be selective about who you lay down with that way when you do have a baby you dont have to take him to child support. The man will do it automatically.
SMDH…
IF THAT IS YOU IN YOUR GRAVITAR, YOU ARE KINDA OF CUTE….NOW WITH THAT BEING SAID…..
IT’S SOME WOMEN UP HERE THATS MAKING AN OUTLANDISH DEAL OVER THE BLACK WOMAN THIS AND THE BLACK WOMAN THAT. GUESS WHAT???? BLACK MEN, AS WELL AS ALL MEN, HAVE SCREWED OVER WOMEN, AND VICE VERSA. IT IS NOT ABOUT THAT RIGHT NOW, AND IT SEEMS LIKE YOU AND YOUR SUPPORTERS MISSED THAT POINT COMPLETELY.
TI TAKES CARE OF THE KIDS AND HER. (TO A CERTAIN DEGREE) HE MAKES SURE THAT THOSE KIDS ARE WELL FED, WELL EDUCATED WELL-CLOTHED AND EVERYTHING ELSE UNDER THE SUN. HOWEVER, IF YOU DONT BELIEVE THAT HIS OBLIGATION (AND HIS ONLY OBLIGATION) IS TO TAKE CARE OF THOSE KIDS, THEN YOU ARE SADLY, SADLY MISTAKENED. SHE HAS CHOSEN NOT TO DO FOR HERSELF, SHE CHOOSES TO LIVE OFF OF THE CHILD SUPPORT ALONE. AND THAT IS THE PROBLEM.
I BELIEVE THAT EVERYONE ON THIS SITE WILL AGREE WITH ME WHEN I SAY THAT BOTH PARENTS SHOULD DO ALL THAT THEY CAN TO SUPPORT THEIR KIDS FIRST, AND THEN THEMSELVES. SHE DOESNT HAVE A JOB, THUS, SHE ISNT DOING HER JOB AS A PARENT, I DONT CARE WHAT YOU SAY. WHAT KIND OF MESSAGE IS RELAYING TO HER KIDS? THAT YOU DONT HAVE TO WORK, JUST LIVE OFF OF WHATS NOT YOURS IN THE FIRST PLACE. THAT IS WHAT IS WRONG WITH OUR YOUTHS TODAY. THE PARENTS ARENT TEACHING THE CHILDREN. I DONT CARE IF SHE IS A STAY AT HOME MOM, THEY SEE HER ACTIONS, AND THAT IS WHAT THEY ARE LEARNING.
BOTTOM LINE, THOSE KIDS ARE TAKEN CARE OF, AND THEN SOME. IF SHE IS SCUFFLING WITH WHAT SHE HAS, AND SHE HAS IT WAY EASIER THAN SOME OF THESE OTHER SINGLE MOTHERS, THEN I THINK SOCIAL SERVICES SHOULD TAKE A GOOD LOOK AT HER ENVIROMENT AND CIR*****STANCES, AND MAKE A CHOICE FOR THOSE KIDS. IM SORRY, THATS HOW IT IS. IT’S NOT ABOUT BLACK MEN DOING THIS, BLACK WOMEN DOING THAT. ITS ABOUT IF THE KIDS ARE TAKING CARE OF, AND IF BOTH PARENTS ARE DOING THEIR JOBS TO THEI MAX POTENTIAL. TI IS CLEARLY DOING HIS PART, BUT ITS SOMETHING SHADY ON THE BEHALF OF THE MOTHER. SHE ISNT DOING ALL THAT SHE CAN (OR SHOULD) AND THAT IS WHAT THE PROBLEM IS.
and thats what it is
T.I. GOTTA DIG A LIL’ DEEPER IN THOSE GRAND HUSTLE POCKETS
…HIS ALBUM BETTER SELL ITS ***** OFF
Rossy
you can call names and write your life story for people to read, and make reference to the type of life and relationships you think people may have but the point still stands if this woman, her children’s father and the courts of the state don’t have a problem with her staying home why do you? Your tax dollars do not support her, if you didn’t want you children’s father to support you, not every woman want to be a working mother. Her relationship didn’t work out just like yours didn’t and you both do what you feel is right for your children. My point is there is nothing wrong with either situation and no one is better than anyone else. Yall want to take the woman’s kids away because she wants more child support. Some people are full of their selves and full of judgement.
Stop *****in hood rats with nothing going on for themselves.
If you get the ***** to fast and too freely you will pay later on in life guaranteed one way or another.
GROW UP AND STEP YA LIFE NOT GAME UP. THIS ***** IS NO GAME FOR REAL!!!!
IF FOLKS GOT THS MANY BABY MOMS IMAGINE HOW MANY FOLKS ARE P*****ING DISEASES.
So the kids spend 40% of their time with Dad, she gets an additional $12,000 a year, not including the healthcare and education….and she’s not satisfied? Wow. She needs a job and a life, to calm her dayum nerves.
Lashon should be grate ful T.I. cares that much for his children. I wonder if she is over weight ?
People, unless you know the parties involved, and the entire situation, you don’t know anything. It’s so easy for everybody to play judge, jury, accountant, financial adviser and therapist, but if your not walkin in their shoes, really, keep your ignorant comments to your self…some of these comments make me sick, it’s his fault, it’s her fault, instead of casting blame and complaining, educate yourselfs, your children, etc. Make sure that it doesn’t happen to you or your loved ones…
“Judge not, that ye be not judged. For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall me measured to you again.”
Ok, I love TI just like the next person does and really enjoy his music, but he needs to understand that these kids are not with him 24/7 and when they have to go back to a normal lifestyle after being with him, $2000 is not enough. Come on y’all give her some consideration on being a single mom. She has to think about if she messes up the money they have coming in. Let that burden be on her. Y’all not screaming about when Tiny walks around with all those ‘lovely’ handbags and partying with him. Let her breath. Respect.
P.S. Just for those who don’t know, in any child support court in this country, they willl tell you because he put them in all those extra activities they are considered HIS gifts to his kids and DO NOT count towards her child support she is given.
1st of all aint nothing wrong with a ***** getting off they ***** and going to *****ing work….I like allot of you leaving comments are still young and have so much learning to do!T.I. success shouldnt play a role in him having to foot his EX lifesyle…Key word LIFESTYLE and in the future hoping he will use one and have better judgement with his choices in women! I personally can careless b-c it’s his life and how many bottles he pop is based on hard work and success(NOT LAYING ON YOUR BACK 2 GET PAID)…What a lazy *****ing excuse for a woman!If I won the lottery 2morrow I would still grind b-c dont nothing come to a sleeper but a dream and some of ya’ll need to wake the hell up! I think it’s shows how weak the baby mother is to cry for more change but wont do for herself…That’s a sad *****ing case to me and I dont care who I had a child for no man would ever be able to say I cant make it without him….And on that note im out!
IF SHE HAD A JOB PERIOD SHE WOULD BE ABE TO PROVIDE MORE.
SHE CHOOSES NOT TO WORK.. IF ANYTHINGSHE IS THE LACKING PARENT. IF YOU CHOOSE NOT TO PROVIDE YOU ARE PITTIFUL.
SHE’S IS A LAZY W***** MOM. GETA JOB *****. I WOULD NOT AWARD ANY WOMAN MONEY IF HER ***** ***** NOT TRYING TO PROVIDE AS WELL. LAZY ***** *****S!!!!!!!!!
*****Z STOP *****ING HOOD RATS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Men Listen Up: Ever heard that old saying “You got to pay to play”. Translation: If you want to play raw dawg then you gots to pay for what happens. No I don’t agree the chick deserves a bump in child support. But this is the real world…wear a condom!!! Stop knocking females up if you don’t want to come out your pocket. Cuz in the real world…that’s what happens.
Again, the Judge’s first name is Bensonetta that’s why lashon is getting an extra grand, lol….