she needs to get over it

YA SHE REALLY DOES

what will be funny if she doesnt get shyt, the gurl said she didnt know, how can they prove that! dumb broad

Yea, Paula needs to let it go. Even if Fantasia DID know about the marriage at the end of the day it takes two. He’s more in the wrong than Fantasia! Plus we all know relationships like that don’t always last long. Karma is just around the corner.

Ur husband left u bish deal wit it! Suing and blaming Fantasia doesn’t isn’t gonna bring ur husband back

She needs to get over it why? The woman thought she had a husband until the media leaks pics of her husband with Fantasia. I would be pissed too! Woman don’t have respect anymore. The man is also wrong cause if he didn’t want his wife he could have left her before all this to save some trouble. sad. This is what our world consist of lies cheat and death. sad!

This woman is just trying to get a pay day due to her failed marriage. Women need to stop blaming the other woman for their husbands mistake. Fantasia did not steal her husband, her husband took his own two feet and walked out of their marriage. If she wants someone to blame she needs to blame her husband or she needs to some soul searching and blame herself. No woman can steal your husband in no way shape or form. She didn’t walk in her house and say “I’m taking yo husband, bye!”

Shiiiiid! Get over what? Fantasias gettin everything she deserves. I have no respect for women who mess with married men. Have some kinda boundaries and respect for yourself. Now a boyfriend…hell I’ll do him all night long. Aint no paper before God on him lol!

She’s just after money!!!! Hell if your marriage was on the rocks, why blame Fantasia.. I would fight her tooth and nail….that means to the end!!!!

He has/had other jump offs….that has come out too so is she gonna sue them too. This broad is usin Fanny for a quick payday….he was and is a dog, get the fuk over it Paula. smh

@7lady….
CO-Sign!!!Even if Fantasia didnt know when she started hearing he was married, (which she did last year)She should have told him,Kick Rocks.
She chose to stay with this man now she can pay this woman!
And I heard a few weeks back SHES STILL WITH ANTWAUN”

Rumor has it…
Fanny called Paula, taunting her saying “I got ur man” or some stupid b.s. like that

*hand clapping*

Wait fantasia is still with a man that might cost her over a hundred stacks????? Weak b!tch.org

YES THAT WOULD BE SUBER FUNNY IF SHE GOT NOTHING !!! AND EVEN IF TASIA DID CALL HER PLAYING ON THE PHONE SHE HAS TO PROVE IT IN THE COURT OF LAW THAT IT WAS HER BEYOND A REASONABLE DOUBT SO THE B—- SHOULD’VE TAKEN THE 100K AND KEPT IT MOVING SHE IS OBVIOUSLY MAD BECAUSE HE IS MORE THAN LIKELY STILL SCREWING THE BOTH OF THEM

I AGREE WITH U COMPLETELY. IT’S CLEAR THAT ALL SHE WANTS IS MONEY. I HATE HOMEWRECKIN HOES TOO. BUT NONE OF US REALLY KNOW IF TASIA KNEW ABOUT HIS WIFE. COME ON YA’LL, MEN LIE ABOUT THEIR RELATIONSHIPS ALLLLL THE TIME. THIS WOMAN FOUND OUT HE WAS CHEATING AND IT JUST SO HAPPENED TO BE WIT A FEMALE WITH A NICE STATUS AND GOT MONEY. SO SHE WAS PROBABLY EVEN MORE PISSED BECAUSE HE UPGRADED AND DIDN’T DOWNGRADE. SHE JUST TRYNA GET SUMN OUT OF IT. HOPEFULLY SHE FAILS AND GETS NOTHING. NOW ON THE OTHER HAND IF SHE CAN PROVE THAT FANTASIA KNEW THEY WERE MARRIED AND STILL TOGETHER THEN HEY TASIA, I LOVE U AND ALL BUT THAT’S WRONG. BUT IF NOT THEN HOE SIT DOWN. UR MAN CHEATED LIKE MAJORITY OF THESE OTHER MEN OUT HERE DO…GET OVER IT! FANTASIA IS INNOCENT UNTIL “PROVEN” GUILTY. NOW TRICK PROVE IT!!!!!

nah what happened was she wanted fantasia to settle in the million dollar range and it didnt happen. So she wants to take it to court like she is really doing something. PLEASE!! she isn’t going to get anything and taking tasia to court makes her seem money hungry and desperate. She better look at what happened to dwayne wades ex wife…one word..FAIL!!

Paula you have put Fantasia on blast enough is enough I’m sure your just going after her for the money you should have taken the money

am glad we all agree this woman is trying to extort money ..get a life and a job bit c h
.your ex don’t want you.if it wasn’t fantasia it would be another chick. please!

If I was Fantashia that bish wouldn’t get a dime. I would have slapped a penny on the table and thanked her for her thoughts. Fantashia was wrong, I do beleive she knew he was still with his wife but you can’t extort money right or wrong ! Ms cook would have known two years ago she wasn’t getting chit !

Some women are just not smart at all. First, how can you honestly be mad and want to sue another woman because your HUSBAND didn’t respect you enough to just be honest and confess about his unhappiness in the marriage? Even in the pictures of the couple, Antwuan’s body language is speaking volumes, he’s not smiling and his hands are in his pockets. Typical body language of a man who’s hiding something and doing a whole lot of dirt.

She definitely knw that this man was married bc she didn’t seem 2 surprised when the sh*t hit the fan. This woman seems 2 have enough common sense 2 knw when she’s got a case that’s going 2 get her paid! She’s doing it 2 show that wolf in a dress that just bc ur rich n famous don’t mean you can do whatever the hell you like. Yall can talk about this woman all you like bt unlike all these celeb marriages gone wrong by the hands of a rich ho, she’s making sure this b***h gets what’s coming 2 her.

co-sign

Fantasia was dead wrong, you should never, and I mean never, ever date a man who is married or separated. You leave him alone until he has signed divorce papers that have been notarized by a judge.

If she really didnt know…Why get the tattoo covered up? Put that on one of the “Tasia” episodes where shes pissed and lets the viewers see her get it covered up…dont cover it and then go on tv sayin’ I didnt know he was married. And hire a real “PR”

NC needs to change this law, ASAP.

Fantasia tryin to get out of payin millions,Lol.cause One lady not too long ago won 9million in NC,fantasia know it,she gone have to drop it like its too!

Did some1 put VOODOO on Fanny?!!!

She gets out of 1 bad situation 2 another: She went from poor, broke, single mtr to A.I. Winner to filing bankruptcy, almost losing home to Simon saving the home to Antwuan Cook to being called homewrecker, tryna to committ suicide.

Smbdy sprinkle her with some HOLY WATER & CHICKENS BLOOD pls

she probly will get over it after the trail its never hurt to try, i would try too if that was a law in the state i live. Atm shes just in a hurt place and felt betrayed after all and going all the way atm. tobad for fantasia to mess with the wrong men so thats fault on her part.

PAULA IS A DAMN GREEDY DUMB AZZ N8GGAH. SHE WONT GET A CENT. SHE IS NOT A WHITE WOMAN. NOW THE WHITE LAWYERS WILL GET RICH RICH RICH, WHILE BOTH OF THEM ARE REDUCED TO POVERTY PAYING ENORMOUS LEGAL FEES. SHE IS A DAMN FOOL.

i KNOW the white lady who made this alienation law. her and her husband had been married 30 years, and never cheated. antwuan been f8cking everyone he can get his hands on. maybe they alienated his affection, AND HE NEVER LIVED WITH OR MARRIED FANTASIA LIKE THE WHITE MAN DID HIS GIRLF.

Look at all the homewreckers mad at Paula. If she can get a few coins then let her. Too bad NY doesn’t have this law or Mashonda could be raiding AKey’s pockets. Yes, it’s up the man but if the wife can some kind of justice (even monetary) then let her.

I’m willing to bet most of the women saying Paula should let it go would do the same thing if the shoe was on their foot. You’d be on your way to court with visions of Gucci dancing in your heads.

LMFAO @ “wolf in a dress”…2 damn funny!!!

that’s not voodoo dear, that’s called Karma and it’s proving to be a b*tch in her life..u lay down with dogs, ur gonna get fleas..she need to stop the madness or things will continue to happen to her…

pay up HO!!!

Get your money from that ugly b**

I guess I can understand tryin to get back but honestly I think this case will end up just d waded
She let that situation literally drib

(It is what..It is)… paula has lost her no good husband, family, and lifestyle. she has to get revenge some kind of way. (it’s not right) but we all would do the same or cross our minds. fantasia should have known better being a celebrity. when r these celebrities going to realilze that they are not normal regular people. celebrities can not mess with a married man and dont think its not going to come out. fantasia just have to deal with the consequences. She might not care. shit… she is still with the guy and who goes and tattoo a married man’s name on them. fantasia knew the man was married, she was hoping he was seperated. that “peeder” was too good to investigate the situation more. fantasia need to fight for her man too. anyway why is she wasting her time with this man, he works for t-mobile, doesnt she realize that she will have to take care of him.

The simplicity is that if she were a white woman all of ya’ll would be saying get the money not just the few that have sense…..however since it involves two sistas its….”get over it”…and you know I ain’t lying…

i dont understand it either.

How dumb. Her hubby took and broke those vows.

And im not telling her to get over it I’m just not to fond of people searching for handouts all the damn ..time the reason behind most cases like this
And like somebody said if it wasn’t fantasia it woulda been some other broad and it prolly was other chicks
Yo man ain’t shyt but I still don’t see that equals to her deserving money she never worked for
BTW good luck proven fantasia was yall only huge martial problem and the sole reason yall broke up

that’s right

Fantasia knew damn well that man was married. How can she acknowledge that she knew they were separated, but didn’t know they were married. I love Fantasia’s music, but she was wrong and needs to just pay up and not to mess with a married man again.

It is not Fantasia’s fault this man left his wife. She should sue her HUSBAND. While in my opinion, I don’t find it savory to share, some people don’t mind if they feel they can pry the person away. Some people GO FOR WHAT THEY KNOW AND WANT. I don’t find a problem with that. Alot of us feel it’s disrespect, but what does Fantasia owe that woman? The husband owes that loyalty, Fantasia doesn’t even know that woman. And if her husband stepped out, that was personal. People are accountable for themselves only! Paula lacked something this dude found in someone else. Yes, a practical person will respect a union, but a realistic person will roll if they want that person and that person is willing. Real talk. Some of yall need to raise up with all this righteous shyt. There ain’t no such thing as right and wrong, just experiences!

I understand the hurt and pain that this woman is going through, yet and still, how can she really find the heart to sue Fantasia. Right after the lawsuit was filed, the press had pictures of Mrs. Cook leaving church, and if she is a christian, then she should be aware that the bible clearly states that you don’t sue people. Besides, if revenge is what she wanted, she got it in spades. Fantasia has already been exposed for being a home-wrecker so what more does she want? Suing her isn’t going to take away the fact that her husbad didn’t love or respect her enough to honor the vows they both took.

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Why shouldn’t she sue? I would sue too, especially if I have spent years molding and supporting this man. I would be damned if I would let another woman reap the benefits of my hard work without some sort of compensation. Let’s face it, some men come to us lacking proper etiquette and home training…especially if they are young. And while she’s at it she needs to sue his butt for spousal and child support. It’s not fair for her income and lifestyle to decrease because he couldn’t be faithful. When you are trifling, spousal support should be mandatory, regardless of gender or income.

I can’t believe he left her for Fantasia…… REALLY antwaun? REALLY?

I don’t think she knew DAY 1. Catch my drift? She found out eventually, but you know he told her what she needed to hear to stick around and she knew she could take him because of her lifestyle and situation. What Fantasia didn’t consider was that this man had very young children. When kids are involved I feel women should walk away and suggest the man be there for his children. It’s easy for me to say, but children don’t ask for single parents. would think they would want mommy and daddy being an example since they invested! But at the end of the day, people are going to be people! Geesh, what do you do with a cheating husband? Guess you get to fulfilling those NEEDS!

Man he’s Fine….if I was Tasia I would keep Fuc*in Him…and to his wife whomp whomp whomp….bit*h get over it….

women stop messing with things that dont belong to u he knew they played u i have bee with my hubby for 16 years 4 kids house white picket fence the whole none yards he got my name on his chest i do not have his name on me wtf u doing dont know this cat from adam and u dod that where is ur daughter name or ur mama or even god lil girl clearly they playing u he have not once said they were not together cause that would help ur case wake up u nieve insecure lil girl wake up u have a daughter that learning from u how to be a woman

Agreed!

This law is just another way for women to blame other women instead of the man who has created the undesirable situation.

Any woman who knowingly dates a married man is wrong, yes, but Fantasia did not stand before God and a minister, nor sign a legal document stating she would honor wedding vows.

Mr. and Mrs. Cook took those vows and should be the only persons legal penalized for dishonoring those vows.

Mr. Cook is chilling with his new chic while Mrs. Cook looks bitter and silly. They all need to grow up and move on.

He probably set tasia up…u never no these days….people do anything for money….

She should not have to give her a dime! She should be suing her husband, he is the one who is married to her. If it wasn’t Fantasia, it would have been some one else. People need to start addressing the mate, not the mistress, or lover.

you and lady J are right on point. i couldn’t have said it better myself! why are they beefing over the man they should confront him together and make him speak the truth. they are both being made to look like fools. he is not all that.

Ok, since when does the wife get paid by the mistress because the husband cheated and lied? She needs to be suing Antwaun not Tasia. Hell we all know men will lie for nookie especially a paid nookie…

i pray Fantasia lawyers up SO tight, Cook’s wife doesn’t know what hit her. and after demolishing her, Fantasia countersues!

while i feel for the wife for choosing a cheater to marry and gift with moving his dna forward, i also see clearly that she is an opportunist. if she is feeling sue happy, she needs to sue HER HUSBAND. HE took the vows, not Fantasia. the ONLY thing Fantasia owes this woman is an apology. aside from that, Mrs. Cook needs to keep it moving and learn to choose better in the future.

women will always be oppressed all over the world until we stop hating on each other while readily forgiving the men that work overtime to exploit us.

More than likely, Fantasia is going to have to pay up because it is a law in their state. But, also I think her husband should have to bare some of the fault.

Get yo $$$ Paula.. Yo shyt on PAPERS.Fantasia jus dumb as tha average chick believing wat a nicca tell her a$$…she layin up wit sumbody else husband period.. She know tha rules of tha games of Hollywood.. Should jus payed for his divorce.. if she wanted him that bad.. tattoo’n dude name on her ..smdh All yall talkin bout she shouldn’t pay.. full of it.. Cause if u find yo man/husband out here layin up wit broke hoes… u’ll b ready 2 fight, slash tires or bust out windows.STOP IT!!!! GET YO BREAD PAULA.. LESSON LEARNED TASIA.. DO YO DAMN RESEARCH!!!!

HAHAHA. NOT EVERYTIME I GET MY LIL FEELINGS HURT!!!! LOL. AGREE! HELL ALL DA MARRIED WOMEN IN THE WORLD THAT WAS ONCE CHEATED ON WOULD BE RICH BY NOW. IF PAULA GETS THIS MONEY THEN ALL THE MARRIED PEOPLE MOVE TO NORTH CAROLINA AND GET PAID IF YOUR SPOUSE GOT SOMEBODY ON THE SIDE. LOL

YO. Fanny ain’t got the right PR. She shouldnt’ve said nothing. The suicide stunt was nuts and having him on the show was nuts and staged. I laughed when she asked him why he lied to her and said she never wanted to see him again. YEAH RIGHT!! But real talk, everybody’s ducking for cover…the damage has already been done. The dude needs to pay up. If Tasia has to pay this chic and he goes back home, chiiiiile. That’s why it is best to let people take care of their legal problems rather it is criminal or civil to avoid indictment of any kind!

Preach Girl preach!!!! People need to stop being so star-struck!!! If it was the average person nobody would be saying anything!

Get her paula!!!!!!

Fantasia deserves everything she is getting. # 1 separated does not equal divorced.

Women start being loyal to each other. When you find out a dude is “separated” send his butt back home. Don’t keep thinking your golden P U S S I. gonna keep him.

Fanny you are selfish… suicide?? You have a damn baby!

If it was the average person paula would not be suing her
Lol her azz prolly threw a mini celebration when she found out who he cheated on her with prolly been seeing green and money signs ever since
I couldn’t imagine if they made this law everywhere
Boy extortion cases would be out the azz
How easy would it be to set some chump up and make bank
Smh

I hope Paula wins. Power to the wives!!!! LOL Maybe next time her butt will ask all the right questions and listen when he answers. If Tasia is still dating him after all of this drama she is dumber than Paula Cook ever was and then she is still claiming that he is a good man. I am so happy to be drama-free. She made this bed

i agree with lady a & my two cents. his wife is an opportunist.if fantasia wasnt fantasia and didnt have money what would the wife do ? nothing. i hope she doesnt get any money. but if she does i hope she gets less than the 100,000 that fantasia allegedly offered to pay her.

and fantasia needs to leave that closeted h.o.mo alone. because it would be messed up if the wife won and the hubby went back to her for both of them to enjoy fanny’s money.wouldnt this be something if all of this was a scheme from the beginning from both cook and his wife, to get money from fanny? smh

CoSign 1000%

Fanny will not have to pay. Her lawyers need to prove he cheated with at least one other women. Then neither women will be at fault for the failed marriage. The husband, I.E. Habitual cheater will be solely responsible. Case Closed.

Woulda threw a 20 on that tabled and told that ho to hit the welfare line
100,000 ma azz and what exactly did she do to deserve millions of dollars
Bish please

Get her PAULA!!!

And eff the dumb bishes who ain’t neva gonna see the other side of the wedding ring WHO THINK something wrong with you for makin’ a stank hoe pay!

And for all the other dumb hookas who say, “She need to take it up with her man.” TRUST – she will. That’s round 2.

the wife looks better!

married or not I can spot a sleazy opportunist a mile away
Everything about this shyt is foul,,why dude ain’t paying.i guess you can’t be rolling in doe wit his pocket change huh
Bytch ain’t gettin no money
For anything she loosing money
Have fun with those lawyer fees

Camille,

U said EVERYTHG that need 2 b said

Separated= I go to the house when she calls, we still do family time, we still fvcking

So, Paula looking at it like “I was tryna work on my marriage but Fantasia was taking Antwuan on trips & luring him with money.”

So, guess wht- – tht same MONEY Fanny was spending, taking Antwuan on trips is the same PIECE OF PIE Paula wants

Leave Paula alone! Paula is doing wht ANY WIFE would do.
Even if Antwuan was a serial cheater, he knew not to leave home

But, he hooked up a a CELEBRITY who was buying him the best, & flying him places so he saw an opportunity to get out of tht Verizon store & GET MONEY

If I was Fanny, I would have dumped him on this note. As Beverly Johnson put it” honey, he ain’t all that”. Oh my goodness, I hate when women think they got something the other women don’t have and think they can change a man. Only God can do that. Let me say getting into relationships that start off with that mind set is just TORMENTING! And you are in for a long, bumpy, painful ride.

Tha Law is tha Law.. love it..so gold diggers worse than laying up wit sumbody else husband.. and taking dude on trips n public & buyin him wateva he wants.. ..if Paula a gold digger.. then Tasia a Cake Mama..LMAO..what about her child she loves.. she playin suicidal games..worrying bout tha pressures rite b4 her album came out..all tha interviews.. Wat bout yo damn daughter.. this chick crazy as hell..Paula get yours.. she takin care of yo husband.. let her take care of ur kids..rite along with him…gotta love tha law..lol

I see there are scorned women on here who’s man husband has cheated or would feel like it’s the broad’s fault if her husband cheats on her. IT IS NOT A BROAD’S FAULT IF YOUR HUSBAND CHEATS ON YOU. YOU HAVE GOT TO BE CRAZY TO THINK THAT. WHAT DID TASIA DO, PUT A GUN UP TO THIS FOOL’S HEAD AND SAID YOU COMIN WIT ME? I mean, wow. Just admit when your man leaves he ain’t want you or you ain’t enough!!! Folks out here talkin’ bout “that girl ain’t never do nothing, she was the perfect wife. pretty, makes money, good mom…blah blah blah.” People don’t leave people out of random curiosity! The other party ain’t keeping their interests and when you find that out, you BOUNCE unless you a damne fool. She shoulda took the $100K but now she ain’t gonna get nothing! Tasia gonna pay some other broad he cheated with to come to her defense and it’ll be moot. Real talk. They all dumb to me. i just can’t let yall bash Tasia cause she ain’t got nothing to do with paula not being enough. period.

@GETREAL

Apparently, some B.o.s.s.i.p posters who talk out their a$$ are even dumber. It doesn’t matter if she doesn’t actually have that kind of money.

GOOOGLE “Wife wins $9 Million from Husbands mistress”

YOU THINK the mistress had 9 million dollars just sittin around? Oh, and the wife’s lawyer also went after the husband for alimony. 5000 a month

JUST because the MAN made the marriage vow- doesn’t mean the mistress doesn’t share some burden in the fact that she HELPED destroy a marriage. ANY NORMAL person would have backed off FIGURING they didn’t need that drama.

How is it ya’ll don’t understand that? And WHOSE to say she isn’t suing Antoine for custody, child support AND alimony- (if possible)

They way you chicas think….*sigh*…..I’m so glad I’m a weirdo.

Live Long and Prosper you crazy bishes ……

Just imagine this is a plot between this man n woman to get paid n once the judge grants it, they get back together. It sounds crazy but there’s a lot of evil ppl out there. I hope fantasia has a good lawyer n if she does stay with this guy after all, I hope she don’t end up marrying him cuz poor fanny will end up paying child support too cuz this dude is broke.

All states should abolish this primative law immediately! You can NOT control adults! She should sue him because he was her husband, not Fantasia! Ridiculous!

I say wifey- get that money- you deserve it. Plus you have to think that Tasia done took 1/2 of that womans’s income because she got the husband. Plus she has a kid to feed for the next 14 or so years. . She deserves to get paid.

No the Wife Gets Nothing….there marriage was already Over…she just saw an opportunity for Money….Tasia Keep F*Ckn HiM

Yes she does..this is so typical of women to blame the mistress for sleeping with the person who was MARRIED to YOU in the first place…so azz backwards. And unless homegurl can prove in court they were talking all of this will be for nothing but for her to paying legal fees.

Its a New Sheriff in Town I guess I scared off Hannibal….hahahaha…Bang Bang…..@ Marquis De Houston…wtever yr name is…..SHUT UP…so sensitive….Bang

@ My Girl Tasia Keep Fuc*n Him….and to his Wife yr marriage is OVER OVER OVER….so beat it

…and that was the biggest risk. A broke married man?

Marquise
Shut yo dumb closet homo azz up
you nyguhss need a got damn life
How about I flipped it on yo simple azz and expose your hypocrisy
If it was some light skin or white broad yo black azz would have been in here yapping about how marriage ain’t for the sane and how he shouldn’t have to stay in relationship that he wasn’t happy in
but your disliking for black women is obvious when you try to switch it up and cry about being faithful and wrong like your simple azz actually believe that
It ain’t even about no damn cheating just about every body done condemned her for that shyt if she wanna put this fantasia on blast that’s cool go for it
The main issue is going after somebody money for some bs
Your so damn dumb I guess your stupid azz didnt read the other post of black females digging in her huh any excuse to talk out the side of yo black greasy azz neck
I always see your dumb azz coments and rarely ever waste my time with it but its about time for you to stfu and hang it up with these typical azz played out comments
everything about your dumbazz is contradicting and foolish
You wanna talk about hypocrisy how about your monkey azz take a look in the mirror

Highly doubt she would be going this far if he cheated with a regular broke broad. I’m sorry but what is the money supposed to do again?

You just contradicted yourself…you said you dated while you and your husband were separated. So how is your situation different from theirs?

@ I’ve been hurt Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzz we don’t have time for yr whole life story hoe call Dr. Phil or Oprah…Now Back To FanTasia….smdh

up until recently Fantasia couldn’t even spell so we can safely a$$ume that if a mn tells her he’s single she’ll believe him.

wifey should focus on why her man left her lame a$$ and stop trying to squeeze money out of fantasia

PREACH!

Oh, so you’re postin’ as Exclusive also, huh?

Dang, you’s a stupid bytch.

@ Marquis De Houston gayness….hahaha I actually Look like Meagon Good….I’m an Xclusive BitC*….fantasy huh…pick up yr mouth off the Floor….lmao

Fantasia said she knew he was separated from his wife.SO THAT MEANS SHE KNEW HE WAS STILL LEGALLY MARRIED. Sorry Tasia this don’t look GOOD at all. And why you still with this DUDE you were publicly humiliated. IS THE D… THAT GOOD!

Paula is a HOE, ask around Charlotte……. she just finally gettin back what she put out! its called Karma baby!!!!!

Marquis De Houston….. Its yr momma…..what u have to say is not important so have a seat Biach……by hater….

And let the chuuch say:
A-Men!

So yall say that every chic that loses her husband because he chooses to kick it with someone else deserves for the chic he chose to pay up?

Seriously, how does that sound?

I am not condoning Tasia’s behavior or the dude’s personal choice to cheat, but Tasia don’t owe that lady nothing and the pay off was to keep her name out of the media. now she may have to face the music, but it will teach her to not get caught up in a possible legal web.

people just “do” sometimes and she ain’t got the right folks around to guide her, i.e. finances, personal life-altering decision-making but we live and we learn. She still don’t owe that lady nothing. She don’t even know that lady. And if she phoned mocking that woman I am willing to BET that wife phoned her which is the most dispicable self worthless act a woman can do.

You just BOUNCE when your partner forsakes you. PERIOD.

@ Marquis De Herpes…u must have a lil DiC*….say ahhhhhhh

Fantasia is ‘my girl’. I feel sorry for her that she made the mistake of getting involved in this situation. Silly me, somehow I thought that when you were in the public eye that you had ‘ppl’ that helped you kind of research potential mates. There are soooo many scavengers out there now and anyway they are saying that she knew that he was married, well how do we know that this wasn’t a PLOT from the beginining. I’m just saying!!!! dyah

Actually, I don’t condone what Paula is doin’, but since she lives in a state that has an “ALIENATION OF AFFECTION” law in its’ books, why not take advantage of SAID law?

My initial beef is with these bytches wavin’ their HYPOCRITICAL DARK UGLY BYTCH SOLIDARITY FLAG.

ADDENDUM

…And don’t think for a minute that if the shoe was on the other foot, the same bytches who are (so cavalierly) tellin’ Paula to move on, would be screamin’ for Fantasia to MURK that fair skinned, good hair bytch for home-wreckin’ her (Fantasia’s) happy home if it was her husband as oppose to Paula’s.

IF YOUR MAN LEAVES THAT’S YOUR FAULT! THE THINGS WE DO KEEPS OUR S/O IN CHECK!

IN THIS CASE, IT WAS THE DOUGH! HAD TO BE! PAULA AINT GONNA RUN OUT AND TRY TO COMPETE WITH THAT AND THAT’S CRAZY TO! BECAUSE WHEN A PERSON GOES WHERE THE MONEY IS AFTER COMMITTING LOVE TAKING A VOW—THEY AINT SHYT ANYWAY!

WHY WOULD YOU WANT THEM?!?!?!

IF A SPOUSE RUNS OUT CAUSE SOMEBODY LOOKS BETTER, OR HAS A BETTER CAREER, OR STATUS, OR STRATUS….WHY THE HELL WOULD IT FRICKIN’ MATTER CAUSE THEY AIN’T SHYT!

REAL LOVE IS THE TIE THAT BINDS!

IF THEY LEAVE OR PLAY OFF THEY WERE NEVER COMMITTED! BOTTOM LINE!

AND THAT AINT GOT NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU IF YOU ARE INDEED TAKING CARE OF YOUR BUSINESS!

IT’S NEVER BUSINESS! ITS ALWAYS “PERSONAL” WHEN YOU GET FUKCED OVER!!!

IF YOUR MAN LEAVES THAT’S YOUR FAULT! THE THINGS WE DO KEEPS OUR S/O IN CHECK!

IN THIS CASE, IT WAS THE DOUGH! HAD TO BE! PAULA AINT GONNA RUN OUT AND TRY TO COMPETE WITH THAT AND THAT’S CRAZY TO! BECAUSE WHEN A PERSON GOES WHERE THE MONEY IS AFTER COMMITTING LOVE TAKING A VOW—THEY AINT SHYT ANYWAY!

WHY WOULD YOU WANT THEM?!?!?!

IF A SPOUSE RUNS OUT CAUSE SOMEBODY LOOKS BETTER, OR HAS A BETTER CAREER, OR STATUS, OR STRATUS….WHY THE HELL WOULD IT FRICKIN’ MATTER CAUSE THEY AIN’T SHYT!

REAL LOVE IS THE TIE THAT BINDS!

IF THEY LEAVE OR PLAY OFF THEY WERE NEVER COMMITTED! BOTTOM LINE!

AND THAT AINT GOT NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU IF YOU ARE INDEED TAKING CARE OF YOUR BUSINESS!

IT’S NEVER BUSINESS! ITS ALWAYS “PERSONAL” WHEN YOU GET SCREWED OVER!!!

@ Imjustsayin luv yr comment….yr right marquis is weak he thinks where the same person…..hahahaha….Marquis take the DiC* out of yr As$ and pay attention…..

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Ikr I swear that clown has shyt for brains
But I’m outtie

I can understand paula’s beef (she is hurt and wants to take Fantasia through the same wringer she went through), but it’s stupid. Take the settlement, at least the girl offered. Her man is FOUL. I don’t come here often so I don’t know what’s going on with brown skinned team vs. yellow skinned team but it is just as ridiculous as rich vs. poor. I pray for all involved. Morals do matter, but the first moral excercised should have been to leave. Who cares about investment. Investments go awry all the time. Stocks plummet! I don’t date people with attachments and kids under 5 and I sure don’t have a man’s gonna be a man or a ho’s gonna be a ho mentality when it comes to cheating. Either you love me and respect me to not go there or you DON’T.

Wow! I cant believe all the “just get over it” comments! This woman just lost her husband! Not to mention she’s been publically embarrased. I think its ok for her to be a lil bitter. Eventually, with time, she will move on. Hopefully she will find another man that takes marriage seriously. As far as suing, i dont see a problem with it. Homewreckers beware! lol The money wont get her family back, but it will help a single mom provide for her family. Get it Paula!

@ FruitCake….Say Hello To my lil FrienD…..BanG BanG Bang….

Fair exchange is no robbery!!

True true. It is pitiful. The chics are miserable and the dude can still work it out with either party. Women may have the power, but the phallus is the wand that rules it! LOL!

Its all about money and if Fanisa did not have a little change. She would not be getting sued. And know one cannot take your wife or husabnd. he went where he wanted to go. But I would have dropped him a long time ago. Fantasia fine a man that wants you and your daughter for real. And be careful. There are a lot of users out there.You have worked hard for what you have and still are working hard. You already have tenny and the rest of the family to take care of. Now do you want more children of his to take care. I hope and pray you get out of this mess. Some people do not mean you well. Go away by yourself and child and your mother and think.If god gets you out of this . Never go back to this mess. And you did a great job in concert in Orlando Florida. We went to see you. You where great girl. God Bless you and keep you always. But think strongly before you act. Aint know man worth all you are going through. And you are not even married to him. God Bless always……. a dear fan

fantasia better have the best lawyers to beat the wife, it is kinda of strange to me that the wife did not sue the other women before fantasia and the others after her for money too.
she need to realize her husband is the one she should be mad at and not the women and this also shows money is her true motive,if fantasia did not have a dime, no lawsuit would be pursued.if the wife looses,Fantasia needs to counter sue and the stated she is not the only woman he been with during the marriage.Fantasia better realize this is a truly a learning lesson.The wife and Antuan both could be running a train a Fantasia to get the funds.Just a thought!!!!!!!!!!

The funny part is the wife is the only cute person in this situation

@ I’ve been hurt Cosign! My husband and I experienced similar situations. Ultimately, the “new partners” that were young and exciting to both of us in the beginning got hurt in the end when we both went back home where we belong.

***standing ovation***

Well said WB. Marriage is a promise between two people (Mr & Mrs Cook) Fantasia doesn’t owe Mrs Cook anything that’s Mr Cook’s job. If her man has a wondering eye she should keep her dog on a leash!

hmmm…judging by may of these comments I’d say there are more mistresses/ potential mistresses than wives/ wife material these days… The nerve of the notion that one should blame themselves for a cheating spouse…and that the mistress has no fault or blame in the situation…seriously??? GrowTFUp n be for real…women with no shame or dignity is a sad sad SAD thing… These are the same ones raising these boys to be Btch niccas…

lol @ lovelyday

Nah mate not me. I would simply file for divorce, get a pretty settlement and keep it moving, why? coz its humiliating enough for your man to leave you for another woman not forgetting hurtful so i would more than happy to keep the little pride i have left move on and hope the media ever gets a pic of me for all the world to see and pity. This will be a hard case for her to win any good lawyer would tell you that. He is a cheat they will prove Fanny isn’t the 1st woman he has messed around with that she knew off and ask her why she never took action against them. She is an opportunist that’s all they need to prove refusing to settle out of court is point and case. She should have just kept the little pride she had left.

Although I really FEEL for Paula, SHE IS DEAD WRONG TO SUE ANYONE BUT HER HUSBAND. HE SAID VOWS TO HER. HOW CAN SHE SUE SOMEONE NOT OBLIGATED TO HER???

CRazy.

@ Fancy…this is 2010 Everybody Cheating…what fairy tale are u living in…….I bet yr man is cheating on yr sensitive A$$….whomp whomp

I don’t think what Fantasia did was cool, but does she owe that woman anything? HELL NO.

As a matter-of-fact, NOBODY OWES YOU ANYTHING IN LIFE! NOT EVEN YOUR MAMA OR DADDY! IN THIS LIFE YOU’RE ON YOUR OWN AND NOBODY IS ACCOUNTABLE FOR YOU BUT YOU!

MEN WOULD HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO BE FAITHFUL IF WOMEN WOULD CLOSE THEIR LEGS TO OTHER WOMEN’S MEN…MEN WOULD HAVE TO RESPECT A WOMEN IF ALL WOMEN DEMANDED RESPECT, CLOSED THEY LEGS, AND MADE A MAN PUT A RING ON IT BEFORE HE COULD EVEN SMELL THAT THERE, ETC…ETC.. BUT BECAUSE THEIR ARE H… OUT THERE THAT ARE WILLING…”

WOW…ARE YOU FRICKIN’ SERIOUS?!?!?!?!?

LET ME KNOW WHEN THAT HAPPENS…

LET ME KNOW WHEN EEEEVERYBODY PUTS OTHER FOLKS WANTS AND NEEDS BEFORE THEIR OWN.

YALL CHICKENS SOUND CRAZY UP IN HERE TALKIN’ BOUT “IF A BYTCH COULD KEEP HER HANDS TO HERSELF….”

HOW ABOUT YOUR CHIC OR MAN BE SO INTO YOU THAT TRICK DON’T MATTER???

RIDICULOUS.

if i were Paula I would simply file for divorce, get a pretty settlement and keep it moving, why? coz its humiliating enough for your man to leave you for another woman not forgetting hurtful so i would be more than happy to keep the little pride i have left move on and hope the media never gets a pic of me for all the world to see and pity. This will be a hard case for her to win any good lawyer would tell you that. He is a cheat they will prove Fanny isn’t the 1st woman he has messed around with that she knew of and ask her why she never took action against them. She is an opportunist that’s all they need to prove refusing to settle out of court is point and case. She should have just settled and kept the little pride she had left.

DON’T THEY SOUND CRAZY???

YOU CAN TELL THE POSTERS WHOSE MEN HAVE OBVIOUSLY CHEATED ON THEM. INSTEAD OF LEAVING, THEY’D WISH THE BROAD WOULD RESPECT THEIR “MARRIAGE” CAUSE THE “BIBLE” SAYS SO.

“MEN WOULDN’T CHEAT IF THEY DIDN’T HAVE OPTIONS”.

LMFAO.

NO, A MAN WON’T CHEAT IF HE LOVES YOUR DIRTY DRAWERS.

AND A WOMAN WON’T CHEAT IF SHE LOVES YOUR DIRTY DRAWERS.

IF A PERSON CHEATS ON YOU THEY ARE JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU SILLY WABBIT LOL!

How succulently stated. Round of applause!

If only the wife thought like you, but she is too busy trying to extort and make Tasia look bad over this average dude.

I would’ve taken the 100K. She is stupid as hell. She wanna gamble and may crap out.

All this shyt will die soon and Tasia will still sell albums and be with this guy or if that fool wanna go home, she gonna let him back in cause she took him back before, man please.

Yep. I have to agree with you. Tasia should be more focused, but you know how love works. “Seperated” should not have been good enough for her. Dude is still married. I must contend that the wife shouldn’t be taking advantage of that “law” but hell I guess she needs the money. But 100K isn’t enough? Why take the risk of getting nothing? Everybody knows Tasia tripped out? I mean why not let the dust settle and go spend the chips?

Thank u! All these people saying ‘get over it’ are HYPOCRITES. or they are the women who sleep with married men. Steve Harvey said some men cheat because there are women willing to cheat with them….

She is dealing with him. She is DIVORCING him. I am sure he will have to pay child support etc. as well. Suing the mistress is just a ‘perk’.

You are probaly one that would sleep with a married man. Paula was the WIFE have you ever been one . Do you have kids and a family , would you be stupid if someone cheated on you ? Paula is smart she is divorcing him, so Tasia will be paying her and probaly paying his child support for his two kids the WIFE has to raise now single . Grow up.

Co-sign!!! I hope Paula gets PAID!! Trust me, these skanks KNOW when they’re messing with a married man. I’m not saying Antwaun is blameless, but I think it’s good to send a message to women to stop falling for these losers who will cheat on their wives to be with you. Mr T-mobile is only going to be around until another, BIGGER paycheck comes along. ‘Tasia girl, when the opportunity presents itself, he’s going to cheat on you TOO!!! You need to just go on and pay that woman her money and tell that fool to kick rocks!!

some women have no soul/shame/ambition! All i would go after is child maintainance…It is the man that broke his promise so why is he not being asked to pay up? I don’t get it. Dumb law

I am for Paula and if she is a smart woman she will just keep her focus, lawyers herself up makes sure her evidence is on point and everything else will speak for itself.

She does not have to waste her time defending herself because at the end of the day the law will cut down the nay sayers and will check the cheaters.

Actions speak louder then words. Paula chech mate the chit.

Marquis de Sade

Most of the time I rarely agree with you and I never see myself in the comments that you make so I try to never take you comments personal but I agree with you that if it is a law then she can use then she has every right to take advantage of it and use it to best rectify her situation as much as she can.

Why do people take the vow of marriage (sometimes in very spectacular pomp and circumstance); however when it’s time to live by those vows, claim their spouse is crazy for such high expectations? God forbid people have morals nowadays. Paula is hurt and probably thinks suing Fantasia will cause pressure that will break up their relationship. Some women actually cherish the sanctity of marriage and parenthood. Regarding Fantasia, if posters have access to this much info about Antwuan’s background, then it’s safe to conclude Fantasia did too. It reads that Paula is “filing for divorce;” meaning Antwaun is still married. If Fantasia didn’t know Antwaus was married, she knows now; but chose to continue relationship after she “found out.” That’s all the proof Paula needs. Sic em Paula!

HAND CLAP!!!

@nikki 11/12/10, 06:42:AM

Thank u! All these people saying ‘get over it’ are HYPOCRITES. or they are the women who sleep with married men. Steve Harvey said some men cheat because there are women willing to cheat with them….
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You are a special kind of moron….some men cheat because that is what they want to do….simple as that…Paula does need to get over it and she should have taken that 100k she was offered….Alianation of affection only works if he left and never came back….she says herself that they were still sleeping together and going of family vacations….how the hell is that alianation????

I hope the wife gets paid! Fan had the ability to start a new life with her money and fame, but she chose to act like a ghetto hoe.
Suffer the consequences.

THAT’S RIGHT MRS. COOK GET YOUR MONEY! Let’s not forget that the wife confronted Fatasia about her husband and Fantasia talked s-h-y-t to her, so she deserves to get sued. This story was all over the internet last year that Antwaun was STILL MARRIED! Fantasia knew he was married, she was probably too damn stupid and illiterate to know how to handle a situation like that. TEAM PAULA ALL THE WAY!

My only question is: How Fantasia gonna come up with $100K – cause she sho dont got it!!!!!

Her husband worked in a cell phone store how much money can she possibly get from him??? I dont blame her Get your own man Fanny, till the ink is dry ont he papers he is STILL married. In the recent eposide, she flipped on him because he went on a trip with his LEGAL WIFE…REALLY.

An alienation of affection lawsuit is one in which a spouse can sue a third party if his or her partner leaves the relationship for another person.

To win, an alienation of affection lawsuit needs to prove that:

Love between the married spouses must have existed.

The marital love must have been alienated and destroyed.

The third party’s conduct has to be proved to be malicious interference with the marriage relationship.

Most states in the United States have abolished this type of lawsuit as it is considered to be archaic and an unacceptable form of revenge.

Historically, the alienation of affection law was based on the belief that a wife was the property of her husband. Therefore, when a woman was emotionally or sexually involved with another man, she was considered to have been stolen.

Those who want the alienation of affection laws to remain believe that alienation of affection lawsuits protect traditional marriage.

Also Known As:
Criminal Conversation
Heart Balm Torts
Revenge
Spousal Theft
Examples:
As of January 2008, the only states in the United States that allow alienation of affection lawsuits are: Hawaii, Illinois, Mississippi, New Mexico, North Carolina, South Dakota, and Utah.

The problem is her man not Fantasia!!!! I see a problem with her receiving monetary compensation for her “bed hopping” husbands actions. I guess they both hit the lottery when it just happen to be Fantasia

thank u!

i completely agree with the wife suing fantasia. and to the dumb ppl on here saying she should sue the husband well guess what dumb itches: divorce is a lawsuit and she gets to take his money too! its called alimony and child support. cant stand ignorant ppl who dont even think. that what a real smart woman would do and i dont blame her.

You sound dumb as hell! Anytime you feel you have to mold a man–you’re with the wrong damn man. Fact is, nn one can TAKE your husband away–he FLEES on his own. That’s between him and his wife–not all of the other outside forces. Fantasia doesn’t owe this woman any of her hard-earned money! That should come from her louse of a husband.

She lost her good husband and lifestyle? Wasn’t he working at T-Mobile AND accused of cheating before? Fanny NEEDS to get a GOOD lawyer, I know I would be angry if I was Paula; however be mad at your husband. IF Fanny was just the chick down the street then you couldn’t sue….nothing to sue for, but please tell me WHERE ON EARTH did she “Think” her husband was when he was constantly photographed with Fanny

LADY GET OVER IT!!!! I BET SHE DIDNT GET A DAMN THING FROM THE OTHER WOMEN HE CHEATED WITH!!! CAUSE I’M SURE THAT’S NOT HIS FIRST TIME!! SMH

I think this is bogus. This man walked out on his wife. plain and simple. We see this all the time. MEN LIE. I’m sure he was telling fantasia that he was separated from his wife. You see on the show. He was coming to her home. This is simple revenge. She needs to get a divorce and get that alimony. In the end this law suit is not going to bring him back. Move on. He doesn’t want you and thats not Fantasias fault.

Talk to your cheating azz husband. Your man did not take marriage seriosly. And no the money will not bring your man back. But come on girls quite fighting over these men. Find your own.

Cosign.
Why is everyone getting so down on the wife anyway? It’s not like she evented this law, it was already on the books so she has every right to use it.

I really like Fanatsia but what’s right is right. She should have bounced when she started hearing all those rumblings about him being married (some of which came from her own aunt- now why would she be lying?)

Then people blame HER like it’s her fault he cheated? Like she should have somehow been clarvoyiant(sp) enough to foresee that he was going to cheat or just sit back and shut up (after the fact)?

Please GTFOHWTBS…

WELL GET THAT MONEY PAULA AND LET ANTWAUN CHEATING AZZ HAVE FANTASIA AND JUST MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE AFTER THIS AND RAISE YOUR KID’S.

So because men lie and half of the women out here are desperate the wife should take the back set and just let ya’ll do you. Well if you would have taken the back set and they them do them you wouldn’t be involved in the mess.

Paula has every right to be upset but I do believe she is be an opportunist. This is NOT the FIRST TIME her Antwan has cheated on her this is about the 5th time. I am friends with one of the women that he was with. She met him at a club, he didn’t have a ring on and asked for her number. After 6 months of dating Paula found out and confronted her. She then confronted Antwan he stated that he was separated and his wife just couldn’t accept it was over. He stated they weren’t divorce b/c in NC you have to be separated for a year before you can divorce. He said he was staying around for the kids b/c Paula had just had their second son. They didn’t break up b/c of Paula they broke up b/c she moved on. Why didn’t she sue my girl or the girls before her?

@ this point I am FOR Paula going forward and getting as much as she can from this situation. As we can see, the singer is moving on with her career, dropped a new album, performing, has a show on tv; Hence, she making $$$. So, because she is part of what caused Paula’s trials & tribulations, she has to pay. That’s her revenge and the law allows it!!!

Why can’t she get a DAMN job??

Since when did people start paying for cheating or two-timing??? GTFOH!!!

Fantasia, Paula, Antwaun please go sit down anywhere. Zion and his two kids do not need this mess in their young lives. Fantasia you are being used and the only ones making the money will be lawyers, managers, pr people, and the media who will be telling and writing about it. Let’s see if Fannys talent will keep her making paper. Paula wants money anyway she can get it. Antwaun does not have it..hes spending Fannys…so Fanny needs to pay his kids and kick him to the curb. He’s hanging and traveling with Fanny and not working to support the roof and future his kids need. Paula is going to get paid or Antwaun will be doing jailtime for back child support, not paying spousal support, property tax on their home or all the bills he made pre Fanny.

@ CW NO HUN THATS NOT CALLED KARMA. THATS CALLED BAD DECISION MAKING SKILLS. SIMPLY IT

I feel a little sorry for Fantasia. She just makes bad choices in life.

Anyway, Antwaun’s wife has the right to sue Fantasia. I have this feeling that Fantasia knew that he was married, but just didn’t care. She broke up a home and now a child is having to suffer. So, yeah, she should be held responsible to a certain degree.

I don’t understand why Fantasia is putting all of this on her reality show. I would think that her lawyer would shut down any mention of this relationship due to it having the ability to be used in court against her. The second season is just a PR stunt from hell!! From the start, Fantasia has always stated that she knew he was separated from his wife. So, she knew he was married.

When it comes to dating, if the person is separate…keep moving. If they’re recently divorced, give it two years (especially if kids are involved). That way you (the single person) know they will not have second thoughts and go back. As for Fantasia, she brought this on herself really. Even though he may have been lying to her about getting ready to divorce, he never said he was divorced. In her heart she heard what she wanted to believe.

Do I think Paula should sue, no! People are not property, you can’t steal them (from a marriage that is). But due to the judicial system, Paula is using her right to sue under a law that exists. In marriage, the two people involved hold all the responsibility. If the husband/wife cheats, that’s of their own choice. Free will enables them to make that decision, not the person they’re cheating with. The other person involved with the husband/wife is just as wrong for contributing also by providing the opportunity, but they can’t make a person leave. If your spouse is cheating, they’re doing you a favor by leaving you. Who wants to be with someone when they truly don’t want to be with you?

GET EM PAULA!!!!

Laugh yo a$$ all the way to the bank!

LMAO..get that money girl. you and antuan..lmao. Yall done set that po chile up…thinkin she dumb cuz she gotta an 8th grade ed-u-ma-cation and shish…shoo tasia ole bare feet country bumpkin self aint no fool y u think she tatted a married mans name on her shoulder..lmao. smmfh.

I dont feel sorry for Tasia at all…that was a dumb azz move. NOW SHE MUST PAY FOR THE CONSEQUENCES-LITERALLY.

When Paula and Antwone got married, Fantasia made no vows to either.If anything, it was Antwone who decieved them both, yet Fantasia has to pay Paula for that?? That is ridiculous. Fantasia is a beautiful woman. I honestly don’t believe that a public figure would carry out an affair with a man when papparazzi follows her all around. The person that should be sued is her lying husband. But I will say this, Fantasia is really stupid for staying with him, cause its a bad look. If she was just as betrayed as Paula was, why did she choose to stay with a cheater and liar who is jeapordizing her career and image.

And I destest women who are dingy and dumb and LATCHES themselves on to men that has just or still is involed in a marriage and then on top tattoos there name on there body and sh*t…..yall all sayin what if FANTASIA didnt have any money…and blah blah blah wellp tooooo baad she does…lmao and what if she had MADE A SMART MOVE AND JUST DECIDED to HOOK uP WITH A MAN WITHOUT THE FKN BAGGAE of just GETTIN out of a marriage with children involded as well??? then maaaaybe just maybe her a** wouldnt be in this situation today. Ya got money and a descent career why fk it up for some married man?? yep those ole stankin dankn what ifs…lmao. smdh.

Good for you Paula!!!!! I am glad you didn’t settle…

I hate when women try to take out their anger and frustration out on the woman that their man was cheating with. You should be mad at him because he is the one that made the committment to you not her. Don’t get it wrong, if she knew she need he butt kicked but ultimately your man is the one to blame. Get over it because it is a part of life. If it is in his nature to cheap he will do it.

All of the women replying that Fantasia should be sued out of spite are morally LACKING just as Fantasia was when she made the decision to sleep with a married man. Two wrongs don’t make a right and it doesn’t negate the fact that the man they’ve both been deceived by doesn’t get nearly the negative treatment.

All of you women who say she should have respected Paula as a woman and respected Paula’s union, yet blast Fantasia as a “home-wrecker” are hypocrites. You say that Fantasia should have respected Paula, but now you condone the disrespect of another woman? Really? WOW

Don’t preach about solidarity and other women being immoral then condone immoral treatment towards another woman. SMH

Also I believe we live in the U.S. and here church (morals) & state (laws) are separate entities (supposedly). With that being said a marriage is both a moral union and a legal union between 2 individuals who chose to commit to vows.

Morally: Fantasia should be held responsible, by God, not society.

Legally: Fantasia did not make a legal commitment to Paula, Mr. Cook did!

This law should be stricken off the books!

People please, let this be a lesson to you. Yeah, Women should ALSO go after the lying no good cheating men they hook up with, and even marry, but how is one supposed to know this ahead of time, other than for RED FLAGS, Fantasia!? Yes, men lie, women lie too, but we all know, as a woman, who handles her business, I could have easily found MYSELF in this same situation, had I NOT ended my relationship with the man who was lying to me, IMMEDIATELY! Fantasia went so far as to get that fool’s name tatooed on her, some fool you meet in a store and she DID know he was separated!!! Folks, separated, and sleeping on the floor, in another state, in another HOUSE, don’t mean DIVORCED!!!!! Ladies, stop being DUMB and desperate! Now, Paula got Fantasia dead to right, because she should not have done all that, and they were STILL separated, not divorced! Women, do a fact check. Call your local tax collector’s office, etc, to see if these men are MARRIED! If you have a friend or anyone you know who works at a police department, CHECK these folks out. Where is Fantasia’s TEAM????? They should know who she is linking herself too, no matter how “personal” of a life she wants. Fantasia, you’re a grown @$$ woman now. Stop the DUMB role and yes, you ARE accountable for your actions!

All of the women replying that Fantasia should be sued out of spite are morally LACKING just as Fantasia was when she made the decision to sleep with a married man. Two wrongs don’t make a right and it doesn’t negate the fact that the man they’ve both been deceived by doesn’t get nearly the negative treatment.

All of you women who say she should have respected Paula as a woman and respected Paula’s union, yet blast Fantasia as a “home-wrecker” are hypocrites. You say that Fantasia should have respected Paula, but now you condone the disrespect of another woman? Really? WOW

Don’t preach about solidarity and other women being immoral then condone immoral treatment towards another woman. SMH

Also I believe we live in the U.S. and here church (morals) & state (laws) are separate entities (supposedly). With that being said a marriage is both a moral union and a legal union between 2 individuals who chose to commit to vows.

Morally: Fantasia should be held responsible, by God, not society.

Legally: Fantasia did not make a legal commitment to Paula, Mr. Cook did!

This law should be stricken off the books!

You can tell that a lot of these comments are from women in their 20′s that have never been married and don’t understand the world. You get respect when you give respect. As it was said to the lady that cheated with her best friend’s husband “Karma is a _____” Well that goes for Fantasia too. This is her Karma. This is not the first time this law has been used. A lady sued her ex jumpoff and got a settlement in the millions. The jumpoff is not even famous or have money. Some things are just not about money. This law should be in every state. Maybe this will help more women respect another woman’s marriage. However, I think that you should only be allowed to sue if you are getting a divorce from the spouse which this lady is doing so. In addition, I think the bases for this “get over it” mentality is coming from the fact that this law if it was in all states could be applied to a lot of you on here. Stop defending and start respecting.

Blame the husband not Fantasia. Plus she is still sleeping with him so Fantasia’s lawyers will destroy her.

Many of you really need to educate yourselves on the legal system. Most states do not recognize marital separation… only legal divorce. Before you get married, please research the laws in your state. I hope many of you were JOKING when you said Paula won’t get anything.. If not, you are wrong. Her attorney would have strongly suggested she settle if she did not have a strong case against Fanny. The bottom line is that when Brian and others were telling her to leave Twan alone— she should have. No man is worth losing millions of dollars over and my self respect.. Period.. What type of example is she giving her daughter..

@wait….what

Spoken like a practicing, irresponsible homewrecker. LOL!

Yes cause terms like, “alienation of affection” are made up by people who practice law and aren’t just hood rat criminals like yourself and that fake alias you need to cosign your rants.

….For you idiots that keep stating that the wife should file a lawsuit against her husband, she is, it is called a divorce. Divorce is a form of lawsuit. In essence she is suing the husband for divorce, and the husband’s jumpoff for compensatory damages. This is a good law, and should be applied to both cheating husbands as well as wives…..Artofwar

I agree with you. It’s strange to me that everyone is bashing the wife. I’m not saying its right for her to sue, but she has every right to be upset at the BOTH of them. Women don’t respect one another. If it weren’t fir homewreckers, men would have no where to go. SHe married the man, had a child with him, expected him to stay for life folks!

if this broad gets a big payday…homewreckers, hoes, & cluck-clucks worldwide will be shakin’ in their boots.
hell, what did ivana say…
“DON’T GET MAD, GET EVERYZING!”
lol

Go ahead, Paula! Do what you have to do!

People make me sick saying “get over it”! You’re either young, dumb, and still full of cum, or…wait, yeah, I already said it. You’re DUMB!

When you become old enough to really experience real love and you and your spouse make that COMMITMENT to each other to let no one come between you, then MAYBE you idiots will understand! It is very hurtful and devastating to go through a serious breakup, let alone a MARRIAGE! This woman loved her husband and expected to be with him for life. They had a child through their union and was trying to give him everything he wanted from a wife. In turn, he broke her heart by not only cheating on her, but by denying that he was even still in love.

How many men (young and old) tell females ALL THE TIME that they aren’t happy in their current relationships JUST so that they can mess around? It happens all the time and this woman is HURT! Once you experience that kind of pain, you will understand. Until then, shut ALL the way the eff up, because “getting over” the breakup of a MARRIAGE is not like getting over a 2-month fling you had with some hoodrat or bum!

I guess no one heard the cheater say that him and his wife were already on the outs before he met Fantasia..Only fault I truly see on Fantasia’s behalf is that she should have waited until this dude at the very least filed divorce papers himself but she didn’t and that’s the reason she’s in this mess. A man or a woman being seperated is too shaky because who’s to say that at any given moment either spouse will not have a change of heart. I really pray that she make it out of this without having to pay that woman. I think the public humiliation was enought.

Oh, and I love how Fantasia TRIED to win over people by having all of this crap on her show. B*tch, please! You tried to make yourself look innocent, but we all know better!

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I will ask again:

How many men (young and old) tell females ALL THE TIME that they aren’t happy in their current relationships JUST so that they can mess around? It happens all the time and this woman is HURT! Once you experience that kind of pain, you will understand. Until then, shut ALL the way the eff up, because “getting over” the breakup of a MARRIAGE is not like getting over a 2-month fling you had with some hoodrat or bum!

Shaking my head at you idiots who wanna believe Fantasia just because she’s a “celebrity”. Wait until someone comes between your MARRIAGE and see how forgiving you are then!

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Get your money Mrs. Paula! She knew he was married by knowing y’all were separated & when the pics of y’all vacation came out she didn’t take the hint. Plus fantasia called you talking mess!!?? Yes Mrs. Paula get your money. She wants your husband & the father of your children that bad she can have him & it’s gonna cost.

“Maybe this will help more women respect another woman’s marriage.”

How does this aid in the man respecting his matrimony?

I’m against the legal action, but by no means do I support Fantasia’s decision or actions.

Both women lose respect in this situation. Fantasia’s loss is a given, but Mrs. Cook’s spiteful actions show lack of pride in one’s self.

Instead of quietly moving along with her life she prefers a messy, loud, tacky display which will be forever in public record for her children to bear witness?

A divorce is enough for children to deal with, why add an additional court proceeding.

I’d love to ask Mrs. Cook…How much is your privacy and dignity worth for a person to display it so publicly? Mine is priceless.

You low down dirty a$$ b*tches ain’t sh*t!!!

Ok, it’s an antiquated law but SO WHAT if you live in a state that has this in it’s b00ks I’m QUITE CERTAIN that all of the res*dents are AW@RE of it…

If ANY ONE of y’all were in wife’s sh0es y’all WOULD DO THE S@ME D@MN TH*NG!!!

Get the F*ck Outt@ Here if you say you wouldn’t…

I agree with you. Everyone is bashing the wife but she is not an opportunist. If she was she would I…don’t know lie about the events that unfolded and then try to publicized about a suicide a week before an album release. Which did not do her any justice because the record sells were low. It is amazing that some people saying that this woman is opportunistic. I say that she is now a single mother and she deserves finances to take care of her family that Fantasia broke up. I pray that Paula finds solace in her decision.

I am really not a Fantasia fan, but in all fairness rather she knew or not, she’s not the one married nor is she the one that lied! The wife is suing bc the husband has nothing, and she see Fantasia as a opportunity. He married you not her, sue him, oh wait he works at a cell phone place part time, he has no money!!!!!! Move on Honey, ur looking real thirsty right now! And I practice law!!!!!

Some of you broads really are dumb. Yes, the man was wrong for cheating, but Fantasia knowingly cheated with this man and came between a union that was made before God. She will not only have to pay in court, her biggest problem is going to come on judgment day. Like her own aunt said, you don’t mess around in someone’s marriage!

In the court papers, that lady laid everything out about how Fantasia called her and said “yeah, I got your husband”, “he don’t want you”, blah, blah, blah, so Fantasia knew! Now her stupid, illiterate behind is going to literally pay for it! I don’t feel bad for her at all. You act like trash, you get treated like trash.

Paula knew that Twan was a cheater. He’s cheated on her before. He just happened to take it to another level with Tasia; and she couldn’t handle that. Paula seems like the quintessential “he comes home to me” type. Well when he didn’t come home, she was PISSED! Thus, she’s suing Fanny. Had Tasia left Twan, it would have only been a matter of time before he’d find someone else. Would Paula have sued her?

The bottom line is, sleeping with a married man is wrong and tacky! Cant say im shocked Fanny cannot comprehend this. At the end of the day, Paula will get some $ and Fanny will be stuck with a broke azz, cheating azz, Tmobile clerk that cant even be man enough to communicate his true feelings. I do think he woulda or did cheat on Paula before. But remember, men cant cheat unless dumb azz women are a part of it. Fanny #hoesitdown! Paula #getitgirl !

I guess I will never understand it when people go after the “other” person. The person you got married to is the only one who has any respoonsibility to you. simple as that. If I found out my man was cheating I would never ever go after the woman, she doesn’t know me and I don’t know her. This seems really desparate and stupid to me! She need to taking her issues up with Twan, not Tasia. Silly women I swear. I can’t believe they would waste the tax payers money on some ish like this.

Heck no I would not, that is some desparate ish right there. Twan is the only one who owes her anything.

you can attempt to control human behavior! that’s what 99.9999% of the laws are for! Sh*t, the 2012 campaigns should be about the economy, healthcare, and hoe reform!

Fantasia should wake up and realize that man is only with her to use her for money. He sounds like a real loser.

Thank you Tamar for dropping a dose of reality on these ignorant females in here!

PAULA HUNNY I THINK YOUR REALKY BEAT TO AFTER fANTASIA I BELIEVE SHE DIDNT KNOW WNAYTHING ABOUT YOU THAT MAN LIED TO HER JUST LIKE HE WAS LYING TO YOU! I HOPE YOU DONT GET A DIMEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE OF HER MONEY I PRAY TO GOD YOU HAVE TO COME OUT YOUR POCKETS BEFORE TASIA DOES. HE CHEATED ON YOU GET OVER AND MOVE THE HELL ON YOU WACK AS HELL FOR WHAT YOUR DOING N I REALLY REALLY HOPE YOU GET NOTHINGGGGGGGG! TASIA KEEP YA HEAD GIRLY YA ALBUM JUST WENT PLATINIM F THIS CHIC FOR THRYNA GET IN.

I’m all for Paula suing Fanny. Let me say this straight out: Antwaun bears all the fault in the collapse of his marriage. He’s the one who took vows, he’s the one who broke them. However, Miss Fanny knew that she was playing with fire, now she got burned. It’s cute that you’ve fallen in love with this man and that you were “woman enough” to take him away from his wife, but guess what dumpling? HE’S STILL RESPONSIBLE FOR THE WIFE AND CHILDREN HE LEFT BEHIND. Fanny told him to quit his job and she would support him while he lives out his dreams. He did just that. Now the money to support wifey and the kids has to come from somewhere and since you don’t want him to work, YOU PAY! I have zero sympathy for her in this situation. Right or wrong, the allientation of affection law still exists and you were stupid enough to take up with a married man in a state that still honors it. Why should the wife and kids have to suffer and struggle while you jetset with with your new boy toy when, if not for you, he would be working and taking care of his responsiblity. You wanted him, you got him. Now you just have to pay up.

Yes, I agree. I can hardly picture a scenario of a husband saying, “No, please, please don’t take me away from my wife!! I don’t want to sleep with you! You’re stealing me away!!!”
That’s how absurd the ‘stealing’ away a spouse is. You can’t steal something or someone that decided it/they didn’t want to be there in the first place. The only time stealing can be an issue is if you stole an object (that can’t choose in the first place) or a minor child (that doesn’t have the full capacity to decide what they want).

*sigh* Another case of the scorned woman blaming the wrong person. That’s exactly why these men continue to do what they do…there’s never an consequences for THEM. Its ridiculous…not to mention sappy. Ughh

Lol @ “she should sue her husband” Um, she’s married to him, so if she sued him, she’d basically be paying herself. Y’all are some simple-azz bytches. Lol SUE her, Paula! Sue the shyt outta her!

NO “SCORNED” BOO I’LL NEVER BE FIRST OR SECOND IN A RELATIONSHIP. I’M THE “ONLY”. AND SHE IS STUPID. NOT STUPID FOR BEING CHEATED ON, SHE WAS CHEATED ON BECAUSE HE IS AN OPPORTUNIST AS WELL…SHE IS STUPID FOR SUEING THIS WOMAN BECAUSE HER HUSBAND DECIDED HE DIDN’T WANT HER ANYMORE WHEN THE BEEF SHOULD BE WITH HIM. I CAN’T STAND DUMB BIRDS LIKE YOU. BLAME YOUR MAN, DON’T BLAME THE WOMAN. WHEN HE APPROACHED FANTASIA SHE DIDN’T EVEN KNOW THAT WOMAN EXISTED. I COULD SEE IF IT WERE PRE-MEDITATED. THEN IT WOULD HAVE BECOME A PLOT TO TAKE A MAN FROM HIS FAMILY. THIS AIN’T THE CASE. GET A REAL LIFE!

Oh yea and for chicks in here call-in others hood rats how you sound
Sue her girl Chile ,laugh all the way to the bank honey chile get that money boo boo **pats 5 month old weave***
I’m just sayin tho

Nobody is blaming the wife DUMB AZZ. Can you read? YEAH it IS the HUSBAND’S fault and THAT’S WHO she should SUE!!!

I mean seriously!

The mentality of all you stupid women chiming in “Fantasia’s wrong!”…yall are STUPID as HELL and have and will continued to be cheated on. Yall the type to STAY with the CHEATER and say, “Baby I know that bytch Fantasia made you cheat on me…we would be happy if she would just go away!” DUMMIES, WOW.

Fantasia should’ve gotten her own man, YES, but the bottomline is that that man DECEIVED his wife! Fantasia owes nothing to that woman! NO RESPECT! NO LOYALTY! NADA!

THAT MAN SHOULD HAVE WENT HOME!

DUMB BROADS!

So if me and you have a non-circumvention agreement and I breach you sue me and the entity I shared the disclosed information with too?

How so? The entity is SEPERATE!

NUTS!!!

That law is WHACK!

UGH!!!! SPEECHLESS!!!!!! JUST TOO UGGGGHHHHHH FOR WORDS!!!!!

Come between a marriage? Who can come between a marriage??? God gave us all CHOICE, WILL, ya know? Can’t NOBODY come between nothing! If a person CHOOSES not to respect you, then that’s their red wagon!!! There is no right or wrong! There are choices! Perhaps a person can influence a choice if you are weak, but nevertheless it’s the ultimate decision of the person!

I work in the entertainment industry. Do you know how many times a person with MONEY and FAME stepped to me while I was ENGAGED to my white collar lover?

You think I let them “come between” the relationship with the person I LOVED???

And had I, who’s fault would that have been? Mine or the celebrity?

GETCHA MINDS RIGHT!!!

I hope she takes it all.

this sista sounds very bitter…move on..marriages are breaking up..everyday..all day..you need to move on..it sounds like you just tryin’ to get a check..if dude was screwing joann average.. you would have divorced his black azz and he would have paid you..since he sleepin’ with fantasia..you see a goldmine..money hungry broad..move on..good luck,fantasia..

THEY DON’T HEAR YOU THO! DYCK WHIPPED HOS KILL ME.

EXACTLY!

ME TOO! LOL. I SECRETLY HOPE THE GOLD DIGGING DUDE THEN GOES BACK TO HIS WIFE AND KIDS AND SPLIT THE DOUGH. ROTFL. STOP ATTACKING THE WIFE!!! HE’S NOT EVEN HALF OF THAT, I WOULDNT BE PAYING $1.49 TO SCREW HIM. SMH

I WOULD GENERALLY BLAME THE DUDE ONLY. HOWEVER IF IT’S TRUE THAT SHE CALLED THE POOR WOMAN TORTURING HER….UGH!

THEY’RE SAYING THE WIFE ONLY WANTS A $$$, WHAT DO YOU THINK THE DUDE IS AFTER? SMH

SHE IS SOOO STUPID FOR GETTING CAUGHT UP WITH THIS DUDE ANYWAY. WTF? ALL THAT $$$ AND THAT’S THE BEST YOU CAN DO? WHO WANTS A MAN WITH 2 SMALL KIDS UNDER 10 AND A WIFE CRYING OVER HIM? PLUS HE’S NOT E V E N HOT. SMMFH.

This a a fugged up law they have in the Carolinas…. Shyt!!! Alot of women mess with men who SAY they are seperated… MEN ALWAYS LIE!!!!! This law needs to be revisted and change for today times……

What does something happening everyday really have to do with a person individual choice. Someone you on her are such followers you let society guide your foot steps and then get mad when it bits you in the azz.

@ nikki: Steve Harvey is full of ish! The majority of people will not get involved w/someone that is in a relationship. And men will lie so they can get w/u!

YES THEY DO LIE, I CAN ATTEST TO THAT. BUT ONCE YOU FIND OUT THE TRUTH…CMON MAN YOU ALREADY SEE HE’S A CHEATER A N D A LIAR. WHY THE EFF WOULD YOU WANT HIM? WHY? I COULD SEE IF SHE HATED PAULA. SHE DOESNT EVEN KNOW THIS WOMAN. TWO SMALL CHILDREN INVOLVED. I WOULD HAVE BEEN TELLING HIM TO TAKE HIS AZZ AND RAISE THOSE KIDS AND SUPPORT THE WOMAN WHO THROUGH HER LIFE AWAY TO BEAR HIS CHILDREN. WHERE ARE THE STANDARDS?

SHE’S LOSING RESPECT FROM HER FANS, COMPROMISING HER RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD, RISKING HER FORTUNE ALL FOR WHAT? HIM? GTFOH. SMH! IF IT WASNT HER IM SURE ANOTHER SKANK WOULD HAVE HELPED HIM DESTROY HIS HOME, BUT IT WOULDNT HAVE BEEN ME. ALL HE WANTS IS HER $$$

stop thinking a man is going to be with you forever .he could die early ,fall in love with a co-worker get hooked on crack ,get in a bad car wreck etc.,be prepared for the worst and hope for the best.sometimes stuff just fizzle out

thats what you people dont get. everybody doesnt have standards.

once people realize everybody thinks differently the world wont be so hard to figure out.

you gotta consider the way a man thinketh the way a man be-eth!

Tasia is dumb as bricks

Paula isn’t blaming ONLY the mistress. She’s divorcing her husband, which shows that she blames them both. She just can’t sue her husband cuz there’s no law against a husband cheating. She has EVERY right to sue the mistress b/c she knew he was married. It would be totally different if he lied to Fantasia and said he wasn’t. But, Fantasia knew. And, whether he was having problems in his marriage or not wasn’t Fantasia’s business. That’s between him and his wife. If my husband cheated on me with a woman with money, i would sue, too. If she doesn’t like it, she shouldn’t mess with married men. When you lie down with dogs, you get up with fleas. Deal with hit!

Paula isn’t blaming ONLY the mistress. She’s divorcing her husband, which shows that she blames them both. She just can’t sue her husband cuz there’s no law against a husband cheating. She has EVERY right to sue the mistress b/c she knew he was married. It would be totally different if he lied to Fantasia and said he wasn’t. But, Fantasia knew. And, whether he was having problems in his marriage or not wasn’t Fantasia’s business. That’s between him and his wife. If my husband cheated on me with a woman with money, i would sue, too. If she doesn’t like it, she shouldn’t mess with married men. When you lie down with dogs, you get up with fleas. Deal with it!

****Bottom line Fantasia cheated with a married man. All of these single men out here in the world how do u “Not know” Antwaun was married? It still don’t change the fact that she still f*cking him now . She knew all aone so stop tryin to play that INNOCENT role.. I wouldn’t settle for 100,000 either. Let her think twice about being with another married man!!!

Fantasia is in the wrong but this Paula chick needs to get over it now. This is redicuous! First, why are you attacking the woman?!?! You need to get your man! Sue him! I am so tired of us women. ESPECIALLY BLACK WOMEN UNFORTUNATELY! Blaming each other all the time for something their man did. Im sorry but I hope Fantasia wins. This whole sueing the mistress thing shouldn’t be legal. Its called life. Now get one!

Cosign!! Personally I would loooove to get the other woman back. But who doesn’t have that one person that has done them dirty. Even if I could sue. I wouldn’t. I would keep rolling on and know that she will indeed get hers in due time. You can’t live your life trying to get revenge on every person that has wronged you in some way.

O.K, I don’t even know where the f*ck my comments are going!!

I second that! from what I heard his azz worked at a cell phone center, so i am sure her lifestyle was not all that!!! she needs to be suing her husband, not Fantasia. I do not condone women messing with married men either, but there are always two sides and men LIE like Dogs!!! They say they are not married or not with their spouses, so why should Fantasia suffer if she was left in the dark. Seems like he was getting his cake and ice cream too but sleeping with both of them!

I think that He lied to Fantasia in the beginning but once the truth came out she should have left him. I think on his part there was some fascination with her fame and fortune and on her part it was sex, and helping her self-esteem.

This is a never ending story. Every1 loses in situations like this even the children. Yes he took values BUT it takes two to tango, you can’t cheat by yourself. I don’t kno if fanny knew or not and I think maybe the wife & auntawn played her but its life & we all get caught up. I jus advise every1 2 pray & focus on what matters cause life is too short to stay in mess the rest of your life. But fanny needs a good dr.phil intervention FOR REAL.

Separation is N0T divorce. Why bother with someone else’s husband? She always refers to him as “separated”, and if HE did lie in the beginning…why continue. I don’t blame the wife. If more women did what she’s doing. The mistress and cheating husband would think twice.

No TY

I need to know this….

If I meet a man and he tells me he is divorced, am I, according to some of you, to ask him to show me his divorce decree before we begin dating? Who does that???

f that miss cook get ya bread

I ‘seen’ too many comments advocating Fantasia’s position as a mistress/homewrecker-(willing/unknowing) …that’s a shame ’cause, you GET MORE when you’re RESPECTABLE.

Well what are you going to do, if during his conversation he shows signs of ‘being married’ are you gonna overlook that?

ITA. There has to be some accountability on Fannie’s part for not doing a thorough background, probate court, criminal and credit check on dude BEFORE gettin in too deep, ya kno? Think about it….was he separated on paper legally or did he just move out the house and REP himself as “separated”? Dude shady too.

thank you

@ FYI…so, if the couple were separated before Tasia couldn’t that imply a deterioration or lack of love/ affection? If the dude has cheated in the past, couldn’t that imply a lack of love/affection? What if Paula didn’t cook or withheld sex…that could contributr to alienation in a marriage. Stop blaming Tasia!

I say good for paula these women need to learn to respect marriage whether the man is on the way out or not hands off a legally married man, period. I hope both fantasia and antwan both have to pay up it would be a good lesson for both of them.

A SEPERATED man just means “we have problems”. Fannie is too old to be falling for the okey doke. Oh u r divorced? Let me see the paper. Call me suspicious but I need name ssn dob last address and references. ANY WOMAN OVER 25 PUTTING UP WITH BS IS just A TRICK.

I don’t care is this chick can sing ( and hollar and grunt like she’s constipated) she’s just your typical country azz hoe….just like I see everyday….low self esteem ignorant trouble makers that are always messing with someone else man.I wonder did she call ms. cook 50 times like a heppha did me! these southern skanks are a mess!

I ‘m sure fantasia new about this man’s family..These old country ghetto gals don’t care if you are married..They are ignorant and dyck CRAZY! i kid you not…

Reading all these comments is crazy! Half of you on here are blaming the wife for what? Fighting for her husband respecting her vows she made to her husband and God. Fighting for her kids father. I would think that’s the type of woman any man would want! She tried and it didn’t work so why not sue Fantasia! We wonder especially in the black community why the marriage fails because there is no fight! We will fight over who messed our hair up or stepped on our Jordans before we fight for our marriages come on people!He did not respect his wife and Fantasia knew this man was married that’s why she is still with him. If it was any of YOU, YOU would be doing the same thing stop lifting these WOMEN up that don’t respect what being married is or respect themselves because if it happend to you it would be a different story! Some of you women on here will go to jail over a man over some stupid stuff think about that! And yes HE WAS WRONG we all know that! It’s a shame when a man has to stand up for a woman with kids fighting for husband!

Wow @ nikki are you serious? Every one who says get over it are hypocrites? The wife is really going over board and I wish I would meet someone who doesn’t even have enough respect to tell me that he’s married. Why in the hell would Tasia pay the woman she better be satisfied with that check from her cheating husband & move on. Tasia silly for even suggesting 100k. Smh @ that.

Someone who can’t spell the word alienation is in no position to call another a moron.

because they some broke a** bytches! duh

Since the wife should ‘get over’ the pain of being cheated on, Fantasia should just ‘get over’ any money she has to pay out as a result of her bad decision.

Yea fantasia did call her they showed the messages she left on the woman phone on her show, and that was a big mistake on fantasia part cuz that alone could mess her pockets up, And the fact that she still with the man shows that she dont care, and dont care about anyone feelings but her own. She needs to leave him alone he gon do the samething to her that he did to his wife with her.

We live in the era of the internet, where divorce decrees are public information easy accessible online at the local Clerk of Courts website. So, you don’t have to ask, simply Google it, if all else fails. A man who lives in my community was interested in dating me. Although I NEVER seen his wife or knew if he was married, I asked if he was married, ever been married, divorced or widowed. He said he is single and never been married. Well Googled him and found his 2 year old marriage certificate, his tax liens, child support orders for 3 other kids with 3 other women and etc…..So all to say, you really can’t hide too much information now-a-days and don’t be afraid to protect YOURSELF emotionally.

@kalifa is your Avatar a picture of a hairy azz. Well I would like to lick the crack of it.

I fell on the floor LMAO! You are heartless just cus he fine!

The wife is not an opportunist.
Fantasia is an idiot for not making better dating choices. If Fantasia had morals and was not dating a married man –which she continues to do now–her money wouldn’t be jeopardized.

It just so happens they live in one of the few states that allows the wife to sue the mistress . . . if Fantasia had folks who cared about her and checked things out (and men she dates out), she wouldn’t be in this mess.

I hope the wife gets a stack.

This was all a set-up they know Fantasia is slow and has low self-esteem. Thats what her desperate arse get.

I hope that Paula sue the pants of that heffa.

I FELT BAD AT FIRST FOR FANTASIA BUT NOW I THINK SHE STILL SEEING HIM!SO I CONSIDER HER A DUMB BIT..!BECAUSE SHE DID SAY SHE WAS STILL IN LOVE WITH HIM,I HATE A DUMB WOMEN,A WOMEN WHO HAS OR JUST KNOWS NOTHING ABOUT SELF WORTH,BECAUSE IF HE LIED IT WOULD BE OVER!!THEIR AINT NO DIC. GOOD ENOUGH,FAT ENOUGH,HARD ENOUGH,FOR ME TO EVEN FEEL FOR THAT LIER ANYMORE I LOVE ME TOO MUCH TO EVEN BE WITH A MARRIED MAN!IF YOU AINT MINE GET TO STEPPING!PERSONALLY TO ME MEN AINT SHI.!I MEAN ALL MEN AINT SHI.!!I CAN LOVE THEM ALL I WANT BUT ONE SLIP UP YOU WONT EVEN GET TIME TO EXPLAIN!BELIEVE IT!

[...] bet ‘Tasia’s glad this came out AFTER the whole scorned wife mediation nonsense. American Idol alum Fantasia Barrino knew her boyfriend Antwaun Cook was still living with [...]

Stop blaming fantasia the judge ruled in her favor. Reports say Fantasia and Antwaun didn’t start until Nobember 2009. Paula said her and Antwaun didn’t break up until June 2010, but report show the married couple seperated on September 2009.

fantasia,are willing to pay this guy child support for him?are willing to give up everything that you work so hard for.think of you sweet little daughter.he’s not worth it.there is someone out there for you.antwaun and his wife never had money so they tareted you girlfriend.but keep your head up

don’t worry god will take care of them.

stop hatin bxtches tasia gne get threwit i knw because im her cousin bxtch n ma cousin gne make it stupid bxtches