Do You And Your Lover Need To Follow Each Other Online??

- By Bossip Staff Categories: For Discussion, For Your Information, Love and Relationships

Social media networks allow us not only to keep in touch with old friends and meet new folks whom we might not otherwise encounter offline, but it gives us the opportunity to remain in constant contact with boyfriends and girlfriends…for better or worse.

While it may be fun to check out your sweetie’s Facebook pictures or Tweet inside jokes to them throughout the day, there is also the temptation to monitor their online interactions with other women, or to find other information to obsess over (perhaps needlessly).

Head to MadameNoire.com for a few tips to consider if you want to ‘follow’ your honey online.

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  • BlackDude

    YES. IT IS VERY IMPORTANT TO BE YOUR GIRLS NUMBER ONE FRIEND ON MYSPACE, FACEBOOK, AND TWITTER. SHE SHOULD HAVE AT LEASE FIVE PICTURES OF YOU IN HER PHOTO ALBUM. SHE SHOULD ALSO NOT HAVE A PROBLEM WITH YOU CHECKIN DUDE FOR LEAVING COMMENTS ABOUT HOW CUTE SHE IS. ANDDDDD YOU WHERE THAT RELATIONSHIP STATUS BUTTION BETTER SAY…

    DON’T PLAY WIT ME…..

    • BlackDude

      BOTTON… OPPS

    • Kyra

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    • Little Birdie

      Your girl might be scared of you….Sounds like you are a bouncer for her network page…smh. That is called being insecure. If she is “the best” to you then you would have to think other people see the same in her.

  • ukgirl jaz

    It is not a nice job but somebody’s gotta do it. Men use it as a hunting playground while women use it for real social networking.

  • Matix B

    Hell no! I would never follow or stalk my own damn man on FB, Twitter or any other social networking site. Please, I don’t care who thinks my man is cute or if someone just poked him. I have better things to do then stalk people online. Sometimes when you search for things, you might not like what you find. I never search my man’s phone, emails or pockets. It’s called RESPECT and he can’t do any of the above to me.

    • BILLIONS

      DAMN THAT!!! I WANA SMELL YA COOCHIE TWICE A DAY.

    • Matix B

      LMBAO nothing wrong with that but stalking is not the bizzness.

    • Hot Chocolate

      AMEN TO THAT!!! I know a girls who do that and they’re miserable.

  • http://bossip anna

    I don’t follow my man on FB. First of all I don’t do FB. and what I look like stalking him. Sometimes he does spend a lot of time on FB so I got a face book page one day just to see the capapabilities of it and it was nothing. I shut it down real quick. I even know his pa,ss code. He don’t know I know it, but when I do go on there every now and then, I find a bunch of BS, party invites, stupid quotes, no shady messages, and he always leave his page open sometimes, and always saying read this, look at that. So he shares his page with me. When he is FB’ing I am right there the same with his twitter. So I feel confident enough not to follow him. I’d rather him stalk me like he do. Last but not least where we live everbody knows I am his girl and if they see any thing they are GOING to tell. They don’t have to know me like that they are going to tell. My man thinks he is a star, and networking is in his blood. So I let him do his thang. Every body know whats up !RUN TELL THAT !

  • IKnowRite

    I think that “NO” is in order and I’ll tell you why.

    Anytime you have to monitor someones EVERY move……you’re better off without them.

    Who’s reall all that insecure?

    Overall, it’s too much time wasted. If they’re gonna cheat…….there ain’t a dammmm thing that you can do about it except move on.

  • IKnowRite

    *really

  • BILLIONS

    I just love my boo so much I want to be apart of everything she does. I want to know everyone she knows. I want to know why she knows them and what beneifit they add to her life. I need back ground checks on everyone on her friends list. I need the telephone numbers of all her friend in her top ten. I’m just helping her stay safe…. that’s all

  • Little Birdie

    I just posted this same questiong on my facebook. and i think that there is no reason to follow your “other” online. I think it will turn you into a jealous monster. You want to know “WHY” about every little thing. And dont be one of those girls with a very popular man….People will do things just to see you two split. and vice versa. Social networks ruin relationships more then anything. i DO NOT follow my guy….and i will not.

    “Go looking for trouble and it will fidn yo a$$”

  • Michele

    No, no, h.e.l.l. naw!!!! It would drive me crazy to be monitored like that. I don’t check my man’s Blackberry, email or snail mail either. It’s not naivety, just my perspective on how to share life together yet allow your partner to have breathing space too. I could never work with my boo either.

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