In San Diego, single black men actually outnumber black women. There are 100 eligible black men between the ages of 18 and 34 for every 57 single black woman. The large cachet of black men can be attributed to military, government and industry positions, as well as a bevy of African and Caribbean men. Check out the officers’ parties where many of the single military officers are found. Single women frequent the art gallery openings. San Diego is close to Los Angeles and the Mexican border–the beach and the mountains are nearby and there are a ton of activities to keep singles occupied.