DWTS’ Cheryl Burke Says She Was Molested As A Child

Posted on January 27th, 2011 - By Bossip Staff

Categories: In White Folks News, Jesus Take The Wheel, News, SMH

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Damn, this is deep:

‘Dancing With the Stars” hoofer Cheryl Burke is breaking her silence on being molested by a family friend when she was 5 years old. It’s a horror she relives daily — and she fears for her safety now that her tormentor is out of prison and roaming the streets.

“It was lots of touching,” Burke, 26, tells People magazine about her molester — a retired mailman who would often pick her up from school and do odd jobs around her family’s house in Atherton, Calif. “He would pull my pants down in his van or he would touch me in the living room while [her caregiver] Ima was in the kitchen cooking,” she says.

The man was eventually arrested after trying to sexually assault Burke’s stepsister and her friend. Burke, who was then 6 years old, testified against him in court. “That was the scariest moment of my life,” she tells People (the issue hits newsstands today). The man was convicted and sentenced to more than 20 years in prison. “I felt disgusted with myself for the longest time,” Burke says, adding that she still recoils when she sees mailmen or vans that look like the van her molester drove.

“I knew what he did was wrong, but I wanted this older man’s affection,” she says. And now that he’s out of prison, Burke is extremely wary. “It creeps me out,” she says. “My worst nightmare is to run into him. Not until he dies will I be able not to worry.”

Burke opens up about the abuse in her new book, “Dancing Lessons,” in which she also discusses abusive boyfriends — including one who beat her with a belt, leaving her with “huge welts.”

SMH. Hopefully she’s moving forward and choosing better men…so sad.

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  • I Am Legend ( Allergic To Darkies)

    Sorry to hear that… but on another note she could get it

  • Lacey

    It’s so weird how you don’t remember what you ate for dinner when you were 5 or every day things but things like this stick in your memory for life, one man’s quick thrills, one girls life memory. smh.

  • MISS ME WIT DAT BULLSH#T

    Sounds like she should have had intense therapy, so that she could address what happen, and so that she will know she was in no way at fault for what that sick bas tard did.

  • MISS ME WIT DAT BULLSH#T

    SHE DON’T WANT IT!!!

  • Bunny(formerly Angel/UrHeiness)

    Sorry to hear,thought she was older than 26 & she looks awesome in this pic above?

    Btw,not trying to be cold nor anything but is DWTS about to begin a new season because I find it strange for her to feel the need to confess this publicly…just saying

  • It’s Me

    That is messed up, now she prolly have bad feelings about guys. Sorry that happen to her butt damn she is a cute woman.

  • Mr Fantastic

    Do you remeber your first weave? And what it was like for you? Puting that fake hair on your head and wishing that you were white? Boy what a feeling huh?

  • severine

    That woman is ugly! Who is she??

    And sorry but she gets no props for telling the world her childhood molestation story. Half of black women, if not more, have been molested at some point in their childhood. Ain’t no one trying to interview them.

    Sit down Cheryl, you ain’t that unique (but that pic of you SHO IS UGLY!!)

  • DAYWALKER (THE DAYDREAM!!!)

    I’d beat her, but I wouldn’t use a belt to do it with…. :wink:

    Heyy, BUNNY!! :smile: :wink: :smile:

  • Bunny(formerly Angel/UrHeiness)

    LOL hey Daywalker,sup boo? how’s it going this morning?

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  • Witchcraft

    I never heard of this woman before, chicks always trying to get attention by telling their molestation stories
    sometimes I even wonder if they were really molested
    and if she is all that ashamed she would never be telling the whole world of it now

  • TheBryanJ

    That’s truly sad.. On another note, she can get the bizness like six times a day.

  • http://bossip GAT TURNER buuudddat!!!!

    Dianetics would help her…

  • G.M.

    this b1tch is bad…flat stomach, fit shape and i bet that pu$$y tight, too…daddy like lol

  • http://www.bossip.com black men are SCUM & ANIMALS

    BLACK MEN ARE TRUE SCUM. HERE IS A WOMAN TALKING ABOUT HAVING HER INNOCENCE TAKEN AWAY,AND ALL YOU VULTURES CAN TALK ABOUT IS HOW YOU WANT 2 MATE W/HER.

    I HOPE WHAT HAPPENED TO HER HAPPENS TO ALL OF YOU SO CALLED MEN!

  • Lacey

    Hey…..I was just saying, what I thought. Okay? Yes, I am a law student, I’ve had a bit of a shelter life so that is why it may seem some of my comments are a little un thought or ignorant, however, I’m simply saying what I think.

  • RazeKane

    This molestation crap is such a common occurence with these celebrities these days its almost like the norm. Now she can write her book, which is also the norm with this type of revelation.

  • Lacey

    Dude, you take your time out to insult the fact I wear weave. YES every black woman from beyonce to gabriel union who wear weave wish they were white. Ofcourse they do ¬_¬

  • Tricia

    She is half white and half Filipina and seems to be a really nice young lady. Sexual abuse of children is nothing to joke about.

  • UssRa!

    She has a book coming out..This is all PR…and DWTS will be back @ the end of march

  • UssRa!

    This is all Publicity for her book thats about to be released…And for sympathy from DWTS voters

  • Willie Lump Lump

    I’ll beat that thang like Joe Jackson!!!!

  • darealwifey

    Why would you put this image of her up with such a serious story?

  • Verl

    Isn’t this asian news??????

  • punckrock

    @TONE DATS LOC

    SHE WAS NOT TALKING ABOUT THE MOLESTER…READING IS SO IMPORTANT (SIGH)…SHE WAS REFERING TO THE MALE BLOGGERS WHO POST
    DEROGATORY MESSAGES ABOUT CHERYL

  • BOONDOCKS Disciple

    No child should have to endure what she went through.I feel for her. It just goes to show that people who are strangers aren’t the only ones capable of violating children. Sometimes its those that are closest to us ( family members and so called friends…. ) that can do the most harm.

  • Grteful

    You’re describing an Episodic Memory.

  • The Commenter Formerly Known as White Devil

    @ Lacey

    Your comments aren’t ignorant. Dudes are coming at you for random stuff because of your previously stated romantic preferences. But you probably already knew that.

  • grantwriter

    You need serious help.

  • young obama

    Sorry to hear about her molestation. But her body is on point!!

  • Curious1 aka Flawless Beauty

    They may as well have posted a pic of her with her legs spead eagle and tooting her booty..talking about The Mailman delivered…

    And bunk this because..Asian Phillipino parent and a YT parent…WHY would they allow their day’em Mailman to pick their kid up from school…I thought they said Asian like parents were supposed to be so much more cognitively evolved than the average Bohemian American parent…And why would this 5 yr old girl need some Old azz mailman to show his attentiona nd affection for her…What was missing at home..

    lastly…where the hayle is that HUGE RING OchoCinco brought this Golddigger.???

    This story needs major clarification

  • dead

    LOL @ “…and a iphone…” HA!

  • thesystem’sbitch

    Wow…the hurting part of me wants to believe she’s doing this to reach out to other victims. The cynical part of me realizes this just might be a publicity stunt, smh (with tears in my eyes) if it is.

  • richard

    you just don’t know the damaged angels that are walking this earth i’ve crossed paths w/ a few, and these women are now but a hollow shell running on empty you can see it in her eyes. may god shine is ever-loving light on all these abuse victims. just — what becomes of [their ] broken heart[ed]. cause it seems like that broken-heart/spirit never heals while they are on this earth. my prayers are w/ you all of you who’s been hurt.

  • That wuz some real N*gga Sh*t!

    I think i’m in LOVE!!!

  • MzFitt

    Who cares? Folks will do anything for more publicity!

  • BoomBoomroom

    Wow white boy you are going hard on this White chick LOL!!

  • Lauren

    You heartless b!tch. You are nothing but a dumb hoe.

  • Rob (I hate Coons)

    The men beat her up because she says alot of contradictory statements, like her being a lite brite and silly sh1t like that. She supposedly lives in France and is a lawyer?? She reminds me of a female “Realest”, you know the guy who fights with Glok. I have yet to meet a lawyer who spoke like lacey. Law is based on facts and figures and most lawyers speak and talk with a little more clarity to facts. This bubble headed chick Lacey is not a lawyer at all and supposedly she lives in France and doesn’t own a mirror.

  • Ron

    Damn. It was bad already she said she was molested at a young age. Now she ran into an abusive
    person that beat her with a belt. Makes me wanna meet her in person and comfort her more.

  • Rob (I hate coons)

    Also, you white boys need to stop babying these females. You white dudes stay spoiling these goofy women and they stay taking advantage of you dudes. I hear about white women walking all over you white dudes like some simps, so tons of you have jumped to Japanese women. Get some backbone brotha, this bird here should be called on her bullsh1t.

  • MrsObama

    @ severine and Optimus Prime Real Estate. What they don’t tell you in this article is she did have therepy. She wrote a biographical book. She testified against the guy in court, it’s safe to say her family already knows. She’s talking about her life and she has the right. You don’t realize how many white people have been molested, about the same number as blacks.

  • The Commenter Formerly Known as White Devil

    @ Rob

    I don’t know if Lacey’s story is real or not. She seems knowledgeable enough for a young person. Being a law student is not all that impressive. She seems intelligent enough to be a lawyer. Maybe I haven’t read as many posts from her as you have, but I wouldn’t compare her to Realist. She writes well in English for a French person, but I think she is from an English speaking ancestry.

    As far as your comments about white men like myself with regards to women. I don’t feel like I am competing with my wife for dominance. Nor have I ever felt that need in previous relationships. I think immature or unsuccessful men tend to feel that more often. They have no control in the outside world, so they need to control something. When it comes to the home, if your woman is happy you tend to be happy. That doesn’t mean that I would let a woman walk over me. But if you pick the right woman, you want to treat her well and she wants the best for you. I grew up around stable, successful families. When a man is successful, he doesn’t mind his woman being in charge of the home. A doctor friend of my dad’s was joking with me just last week. He said that his wife and he agreed when they were married that she would make the small decisions and he would make the big decisions. He said that in 40 years they have never had a big decision.

  • MSThicky

    don’t nobody want your diQQ-in-the-boody self!

  • Lacey

    Hey, I am a 19 year old LAW STUDENT, not a qualified lawyer. I started studying law in September meaning I left upper school this summer, I’m not exactly sure how I am supposed to talk. I am a first year university student NOT a working adult.

    I grew up in Reading on the outskirts UK and moved to France for university. I don’t know how a person who grew up in the UK, isn’t supposed to understand English.

  • Lacey

    **on the outskirts of London.

    My grandparents were Guyanese immigrants who moved to the UK in the 60′s and my mother was born a year after.

    Growing up on the outskirts of London and now living in a predominately white french town, I haven’t known too many blacks and I am more sexually attracted to white men, and that’s it. Nothing self -hate or complicated.

  • The Commenter Formerly Known as White Devil

    @ Lacey

    Dang, you’re up early. Isn’t it just after 5 am over there?

  • Rob (I hate coons)

    Your preference for what you like in men is not in question and not a problem. It is your anecdotal idea of what you are in reference to what you really look like. I have meet females like you who would never call themselves dark skin but are dark skin women. That is the crux of the idiocy with you. Some people call you high yellow is what you said and your not that. You almost fight tooth and nail not to call yourself a darkskin woman and you act as if that is a blight. Thats the real problem, who you date is not any of my concern and I could careless really. Love your skin color.

  • Lacey (19 Year Old Law Student Who Loves White Boys)

    @ The commentator it’s 4:58 :) chilling with my flatmates we’re wide awake, we hardly sleep on weekends on my halls xD.

    @Rob, once again I could care LESS about you thinking I’m a fake, in a worse case scenario I’d ask you to add me on facebook or twitter to see I am indeed REAL lol but then again I have to remind myself you are just someone on an internet forum and I shouldn’t have to prove ANYTHING to you. If you think I’m an darker american girl who is pretending then fair enough, that’s perfectly fine also I never use the work ‘high yellow’ it simply doesn’t exist in my vocabulary.

  • G.M.

    smh…so she scared that the mail man still wants to deliver his package in her mail slot, huh…she should be w/her fine a$$, i just might pull up to her spot in a fedex truck and just post up leavin a bunch of stamps on her doorstep just to fucc with her lol j/k

  • Timmy

    That’s really sad!! I’m happy she can admit that now, and I hope it will do a lot of people some good. But I can also tell that she might have been a victim. Usually people who have been a victim either exploit their sexuality or are pretty sexually active as adults and I’ve heard many stories about her and her different partners that sounded believable. I’m not judging her, especially myself being a victim, I just know people “act out” when that was done to them.

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  • korvette

    I am A Legend, U funny

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