Blind Side 2.0: White Family Takes In Troubled Black Teen Whose Mother Died Of AIDS

Posted on February 5th, 2011 - By Bossip Staff

Categories: A "Lil Positivity", News

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Just like a basketball player, life twists and turns. Melvin Jones is not only a basketball star, but also a top student at Portland State University — and all because his high school coach, Kasey Poirrier, thinks of him as a little brother. Kasey’s mom, Jennifer Annable, was five months pregnant when she moved to Seattle with 50 bucks in her pocket. She worked long hours, struggling to become a teacher. Eventually she became director of a school for children with special needs, but her marriage ended in divorce before she could give Kasey that little brother.

One night Kasey asked his mom: “How would you feel about Melvin coming to stay with us?” Melvin Jones had just been shoved out of two other high schools and had entered Kasey’s with zero credits. At age 16, he was drifting on the streets of Seattle. “Every time I took him home, I was taking him somewhere else,” Kasey recalled. “We drove around to four or five different places and there were no adults.”

Melvin’s mom was dying of AIDS. “He was loved, but not parented,” is how Jennifer put it. So she made up a room for him. Why would a single mom take on such a challenge? Jennifer’s father grew up in foster care; her mother in an orphanage. Jennifer had opened her home to kids before: Five, in fact, during Kasey’s childhood.

“My dream was always to run an orphanage,” she explained. “When I was a little girl, I had a hundred dolls and I used to line them up on the back porch. Those were my kids.” Her mom was almost adopted three times, but each time, the couple sent her back. “To think that somebody would take in a child, then give them back,” Jennifer said. She simply wanted to help children like her mom. Still, she recalled: “Taking in Melvin was one of the hardest things I ever did in the beginning.” He did not trust her. He stashed the groceries she bought him under his bed, afraid some one would steal them.

Melvin resisted Jennifer’s every attempt to become his new mother. “I did not like it at all,” Melvin said. “I fought it.” Jennifer told Melvin: “ ‘I’m not trying to take anyone’s place, but you need a mom!’ ” And she had love enough to help another child. Still, Melvin’s little sister, Marika, was not happy. “Why you wanna go move in with her? She’s not family.” “He was with me,” big sister Lasheka Bousley insisted. “I was trying to figure out why he’d want to go with someone else other than me.”

Melvin simply wanted someone to show him how to study. “Jennifer was like a gnat, like you slappin’ at a gnat and it just won’t go away.”

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  • REAL REAL TALK

    I GUESS

    REAL REAL TALK

  • purple love

    White ppl do that all the time…

  • PRETTYEYES

    GOD SENT AN ANGEL TO HIS RESCUE. THIS STORY BRINGS JOY TO MY HEART,GOD BLESS THEM. LIKE THEY SAY IT TAKES A VILLAGE TO RAISE A CHILD!!!!!

  • Angee

    Nice story.

  • Honut Sinti

    This happens often back and forth accross color lines. Good story.

  • TheOne

    I mean, it’s a great story and all, and I’m glad dude changed his life around, but if the lady was black would we even know about this? Black families help out the troubled kid down the block or friends of their kids all the time but I guess that’s not news worthy.

    Im giving a thank you to all the black families that help our black youth.

  • Alfred

    White people raised me, I was adopted by a white family at age 3 and they changed my life and raised me better than any black people could ever raise me.

    White people will ALWAYS be our saviours. Turn to the white man and he will help.

    They aren’t bitter or haters or jealous, just down to earth nice people.

  • WhyYouAsk

    I did this with my nephew. I took him in at a young age. He was always in trouble. In gangs. He was even stealing from me. But I locked him down. Got his head on right. Didn’t give him my bank card, but I cleaned out my 401k. He was a troubled youth. I stood by him regardless. He may not be my son on paper, but thats MINE! He’s getting ready to go to college this spring.

  • If he wasn’t an athletic star full of potential they prob would have left that nicca in the HOOD REAL TALK!

    My comment is my name

  • black suburban girl

    I grew up in the suburbss and I tell u what my mom and dad have helped so many of my brothers white friends who wealthy families kick them out. Or disown them for making the smallest mistakes in life! My mom has given money and a lot of time to these white youth!

  • Lisa

    What a blessing. God bless her for keeping one of our young balck men off the street and out of jail. ANYONE wh has a problem with this has a serious problem, there is nothing here to dispute. Black. White I don’t care a life is a life and she saved this young boys life. It justgoes to show that you cannot generalize a race of people. There is good and bad in every race.

  • LMAO

    LMAO….WAKE UP BLACK PEOPLE

  • puh-leez

    Lol @ white people our saviors? LMAO didn’t blacks teach whites how to clean their azz and cook their meat?

  • mehico boondog

    puh leez its hard to be a monkey but being a dumb one must be horrible. Isn’t africa still living in their own shyt? In the year 2011? Arn’t the black race the only race going backwards? Fuking monkey

  • Ellie

    This is a very touching story. I hope that people of all colors take the time out to help or raise children IF THEY CAN that are in need. I can see how some would view this as an attempt to praise whites..but ultimately what’s important is that this young black man is well on his way to becoming a contributing member in our society. Hope he keeps up the good work.

  • Tina

    If you want to know why black people have a bad reputation, look at some of the above comments. Such pettiness.

  • if anything be noble

    Very nice story but seriously…. who raises other people’s kids more than us? Black people’s middle NAME is “Raising Other People’s Kids” as in, Black Raisingotherpeople’skids People. SMH Today show, please sit down. Show all the Black people who have 14 otherpeople’skids sitting around the dinner table on a regular basis.

  • mehico boondog

    No matter what white people do for you, you cant keep that racist fork tongue shut. Hatefull and fu.cking bitter! Bitter! Bitter. Im talking shi.t to all you nikkers and im not racist because i ain’t white. Wasn’t that what you lot said? Only whites can be racist? Well im mexican and we taking ya sh.it over. And your fine sisters

  • http://yahoo.com rose by any other name 350 8914 ™

    I totally agree with your screen name… that is the honest truth…. white people have no idea what it takes to raise a black kid, it takes more than money.. is the real love there… this site always put up crap that white folks do good and very little about their child rapists and theives and scammers.. always black!

  • Getem

    Good for him! Awesome story.

  • Getem

    Now that I think about it my mom as well. We grew up in a nice suburban neighborhood and my mother always did nice things for my white friends and my friends period, regardless of race. My mother is a really good hearted person who will give her last dime to the cruelest person that needs it. She’s awesome. I’mma try to get her on the Ellen show.

  • Real Issh

    Great for him .. But I’m waiting for thee story of ah black woman or man doing thee same thing for a white child . I know many of them . I just need 2 pitch it 2 television .

  • Boomboomroom

    Well you are going to be waiting for a long time sista/brotha. And that story you are pitching is going right in the trash. White folks are never going to pitch a story where they don’t come out looking like heroes.

  • if anything be noble

    Cracking up at Getem’s mom on Ellen.

  • Greeneyedbandit

    Thank God for people like her.May God continue to bless him&the family that took him in and gave him a better life than the one he was living.

  • kim

    i think thats false boomboom.. I kinda think white folks would like to see it. The thing about it is that we as black people hate on stories like that. You cant say it ain’t true. Theres always hate on those stories. Anyway,there arnt that many white kids to adopt or take in. They always first choice even in asia

  • if anything be noble

    I mean, come on now. We all think it’s great and all and I know I haven’t raised a child whose mom died of Aids so she gets credit for that. We’re just saying Black people do this stuff all the time. We open our hearts and pots and pans to everybody. I guess it’s the rare thing when white people choose to do it.

  • Boomboomroom

    They are waiting for the dumb Negroes in here to say. Dank da lawd fo YT peeplz. We’s condinu do wiship dem. Puleeze! Just like those myriads of Hollywood fake stories about White people going into inner city schools to teach. BULLSHYT!!

  • Miss Perfection Trini Sazon aka Anti -Coonery .

    nice story ..but this only made news because hes black there are many white women who adopt black children they should all make the news too

  • Me

    The Blind Side, white people save inner city youth and teach him how to play Fball but they don’t tell you that in real life that dude was already a beast on the Fball field before they came along. Avatar, a white boy in a wheel chair goes to another planet and saves the natives and learns to do everything they knew how to do before he got there better than them. Give me a f’ing break with the bs.

  • Brooklyn Hampshire

    its great to see people opening their homes to people in need reguadless of color.

  • Haters N Da House

    Jealous azz black women. The Ethiopian chick was right!

  • JOMAN

    HAAI!! YO MAN DONT YOU BE TALKING ISH ABOUT AVATAR YA HEAR? THAT WAS A MEAN ARSE WHEELCHAIR

  • The Commenter Formerly Known as White Devil

    This is knews because white people never get tired of reading stories about good white people helping black people.

  • Greeneyedbandit

    Her son comin home to ask about the young man comin to live wit them,says alot about how he was raised,To love people no matter what color they are.

  • Boomboomroom

    No they don’t. Can you show me stats to back that up? In fact, black children ARE NOT that “high” in demand in the American adoption system. More Asian babies are adopted from overseas than anything else. Now European adopt Black American and African children more than White Americans do.

  • Boomboomroom

    Actually sweetie it isn’t just Black women. Black people everywhere can “smell” a bullshyt story when they read it. So attacking Black women because of your own jealousy and insecurity.

  • No u r wrong A f r I c a is beautiful and many c o u n t r I e s are under a t t a c k by those who come to s t e a l, k I l l and d e s t r o y! Re m e b e r who built them p y r I m I d s. R e m e m b e r the b l a c k p l a q u e in E u r o p e? It cam

    Wtf

  • Hispanoila Brotherhood

    Actually I saw a story on CNN where a black woman adopted a white daughter. I suppose it wasn’t as big as this one cuz the daughter is not going to be a baller in the near future.

  • Muffy

    Why can’t some of you just be happy that this boy and other kids in that situation didn’t wind up being another statistic. For the black folks raising other ppl kids I understand you want recognition but just continuing doing your good deed. I commend the white ppl who are doing it out the goodness of their heart and not for benefit. It’s hard raising a blk child in this world.

  • 4Real-Tho

    Yeah but do they turn out to be not only a TOP academic High-School and College student going from ZERO credits as a Sophomore to a student of Excellent? In addition, Did They also top that by being a TOP ATHLETE in COLLEGE? And to TOP that did they have plans to go on to Grad School for their Masters Degree? Otherwise, they are average stories of kids being rescued vs. this guy who Rose to the top in many areas of his life. Now, that’s news worthy! I am helping my nephews but they come nowhere near this story. This is where I am trying to take them and one is rebelling every step of the way. I give him to age 18-19 before he will be locked up and I won’t care because I have done more than I am suppose to do. Once they are grown and shown the way to the military or college, it is a level playing field. It’s do or die because everyone has a story to tell and has to carry their own weight as adults in life.

  • WithAllHonesty

    Miss me with this great white savior bullsh!t. I’m happy these boys have a better life. But isn’t it funny how they adopt the ones with athletic abilities. They see dollar signs, nothing else. Why do we never see or hear about adoptions where these black kids become doctors, lawyers, chemical engineers and such.

    Let’s not play dumb and pretend there isn’t other motives behind any thing a white person does for a Black person. Trust me it’ll never be out of the kindness of their heart. It has to be beneficial on their end.#ReadBetweenTheLines

  • Chaka1

    Black people who do this have to tell their stories to the press otherwise they won’t know.

  • Chaka1

    dang. you hate all white people don’t you?

  • Live and Learn

    Bitter, Jealous Hating Azz Black women who are blinded by hate. They’re kids are failing in a run down school that the kids in their neighbor will always destroy and graffiti-up. Because they are not use to things when taxpayers buy new equipment & supplies for their schools. Then, they have the audacity to hate on kids in the surburbs who appreciate & take care of the things purchased by their schools. This is why most of them end up with a welfare mentality, stealing, hating, killing, and all the things that continue to lead self-destruction, black-on-black crime, prison or gang-bangin’ death. They too have athletes in high school but their grades will not take them beyond high school. Wake Up Black People who are so bitter and feel with jealousy. You too can turn things around. Change your “hater’s” mentality: Pack up, relocate & rent a place near a good suburban school and give your kids a real chance in life that they deserve.

  • WithAllHonesty

    Chaka1
    I don’t hate white people, it’s just that their historical track record has always been sketchy, the way they think today isn’t far off what they used to think in the early 1900′s, and their ways still mirror that just in a less aggressive form. They’ve learned how to attack and manipulate with finesse.

    We can agree or disagree. I’m saying my outlook works for me.

  • Whoa

    white ppl will always tell blks “we dont owe u anything” if the convo is about reparations but they always pulling this blind side ish like white guilt making them do it
    GIVE US WHAT U OWE + INTREST!!

  • Muffy

    Race will always be an issue. It’s an unfortunate and upsetting, but very real reality. Ppl need to stop thinking all white ppl are the same and all blk ppl are the same. That goes for all races. It’s also unfortunate blks have a horrible stereotype that cause other races to preceive all blks in that negative light. I love my blk ppl but still feel we need to do better.

  • megan fox

    yup. You got that right homeboy. We dont owe you anything…maybe a kick up the backside to get you of your lazy butts and do things yourself. I google celeb news and this urban crap comes up. Anyway……..do any of you got some weed? Im dying here

  • megan fox

    Me, do you have some weed? I thought all african american sold weed. I guess i was wrong

  • Me

    @ Megan Fox I didn’t think weed was strong enough for white folks. Isn’t meth your drug of choice?

  • Me

    “I don’t get strokes, I give ‘em.”

  • megan

    too lazy to put in the fox. Anyway black people ,have fun and remember now…..you dont live forever. Before you know it you will be 65 and still hating. Have fun

  • truth is

    some of these comments are so ignorant. who knew they had wi-fi in the hood? what that woman did for that young man is wonderful. more of us should be like her instead of worrying about how race fits into this. he was drowning and she saved him, the end. stop trying to spin this into something else, other than what it is. someone needed love and they got it. jesus christ, get it together people.

  • Nikki

    This is not about black and white o foolish generation, this about the fact that GOD IS STILL ABLE today and forever more. So many ignorant individuals on this site. He desired to be better and God/Jesus/Holy Ghost, sent someone who could help him achieve what he may have thought would be impossible.

  • white male

    Nice story

  • daisy jay

    You should change your name to WithAllBrutalHonesty. That was the raw truth.

  • katie

    Wasn’t me that did it was it? Wasn’t you that suffered from it or did you? Come on. What you want? An icecream and a hug? Megan you still want some weed? Im higher than a cloud right now

  • yt

    white ppl shouldn’t raise these bucks
    that’s what the penal system is for

  • wow

    a lot of these comments disgust me.

  • katie

    I didn’t understand a thing you just said flawless beauty. I just sat here for a good 3 min trying. No more weed for me

  • The Commenter Formerly Known as White Devil

    knews?

  • Average White Guy

    @ katie

    Actually, we keep winning. That is the problem.

  • Average White Guy

    This guy is going to Portland State University. He is not going to the NBA, therefore no dollars from basketball.

  • Chaka1

    Mine did too. My dad was a police officer and I can remember three bad white kids in our neighborhood who he turned around. Two of them have found religion while the third owns a small business. They still thank him to this day.

  • Chaka1

    Thanks. Sometimes when I read the comments on here it just amazes me how much disdain some people have for the average white person who, believe it or not, is just trying to get through the day just like you. I don’t understand what some people on here want white people to do. We’ve all got to get along. My advice is if you believe are destroying you life then do something about it.

  • barbie lenox

    Beautiful story! Made my eyes water but I read so fast that I was done before a tear could form and was on to the first comment.. Of COURSE it was negative! Smh.. Race will always be an issue but if each individual stop being so negative then mayyybe one day things will change! My first thought “Eh white woman black kid?” But after reading what she did who the f–k am I to write negative comment? And further more if she hadn’t helped him he’d probably ended up as a “Jesus: Take the Wheel!” story..

  • Boomboomroom

    And Black people should stop acting like entertainment for White people. That is what Meth is for.

  • Boomboomroom

    @Average White guy.. OK well keep your winning White azz off our site.

  • Average White Guy

    @ Boomboomroom

    No, you get off our internet.

  • Boomboomroom

    @AverageWhitetrash Actually it was technology by Asians that made the internet what it is today. So unless you are Asian STFU

  • RXB

    They’re hoping to get another Micheal Oher. If he wasn’t into sports he would have just fallen through the cracks.

    White people aren’t all that great.

  • Average White Guy

    Wrong.

  • Rika

    @Muffy, so true! Just be happy! But u know if there weren’t for haters, who would we be…

  • Boomboomroom

    Well whatever. I know Black people who did this shyt and MORE!! @Rika it’s not about being “blessed with TV opportunities.” It is about who the White/Jew ran media wants to profile and highlight. And the truth is that Blacks have been taking care of other folks kids for centuries. And have gotten NO recognition for it. And these type of stories create a negative stereotype about Black people. That we are so stupid, simple, childlike that we can’t take care of our kids.

  • foxy lady

    Green card pleaz, because one more racist comment like that will cause u to loose your green card and be deported back to MEXICO!!!! OK!!! with your TACO BELL EATIN AS!!!!

  • M

    Some ppl will just never get it! They gonna be ignorant/racist regardless. They’re still living in the past. Fk what they think! U see they just mad cause they aint as important to be on tv. Grow up!

  • M

    @Greeneyedbandit, I like that post.

  • Rika

    @OPRT, so true lol. The only thing they put blacks on tv for is robbing some place, breaking in somewhere, killing someone, etc. So when we get on tv for something possitive, why not just be happy… Idk, every1 has their own opinions & way of thinking. I’m proud of what u do.

  • Rika

    @boomboomroom, thats tru! Not really saying it like that. I know many blacks taking care of others kids myself & theres no recognition from media. And then again, not many of the kids taken in change. But u see we recognize it & thats all that matters to most. These blacks I know that do this don’t complain about being recognized because they don’t need the media telling them its right. They know its the right thing. Idk, maybe its because this is her first time taking in an african american & it changed HER life also.

  • Me

    How many white kids have black nannies raised over the centuries? No glory. No story but there have been plenty who taught whites everything they know while their socialite white mothers did nothing.

  • foxy lady

    Oh please her son was probably being punked and need a body guard. White people are born into racism!!

  • foxy lady

    U also forgot to mention that not only is meth their drug of choice, they also manufacture it in the house around the kids. Don’t forget how white people kill their children chop them up and then eat em!!!!

  • The Commenter Formerly Known as White Devil

    I noticed this about white people when I lived in Germany. The Germans seemed to be very big on giving to
    Africa. There were always a lot of advertisements about Hilfe or “Help.” I can’t really explain why, but it always seemed to me that it was more about feeling superior to rather than caring for the people the Germans were giving to. I also see this in American whites. I am white, and not all whites are like this, but a lot are.

  • lfh773

    This story celebrates black history month?

  • Courtney

    What a positive story.

  • Ann

    Whyyouask. God bless you and your family

  • I’m Just Me…Keeping It Real Since: 1983

    That is wonderful!!!

  • …..

    black people taken in white kids hahahahaha that was funny.i need to see it first. The only thing you take in is health care

  • whitey

    Just another day in the white man’s world. Saving you damn blacks from yourselves. By the way, your welcome (again).

  • jay32

    Most of the comments on here are beyond ignorant and racist.She saved the boy’s life because she felt like he needed a parent and a stable home.Even after he resisted her help,she didn’t give up on him like I’m sure a lot of y’all would have.I’m guessing a lot of yall didn’t grow up or go to school with white people because if you did you would know that they are some the coolest and most generous people in the world.They do have their flaws but so does every other race.I don’t thin the media just go searching for stories like this,I’m sure someone sends them to the media and if its good enough then they report it.If you want the black people you know to get recognition for saving a kid’s life from poverty and crime,then send the stories to the news stations and maybe they will report it.

  • and ur point is?

    @4Real-Tho NICE COMMENT!!!everyone in here hating cuz this made the news.NOT EVERY SINGLE STORY GON MAKE THE NEWS!!!!!this was a special story indeed..good job Melvin, may God continue to bless u!!

  • Rika

    @ the last 2 comments, exactly! And thanks! And I guess this man found out about it from The Seattle Times newspaper article. Melvin was on front page of there Thanksgiving Day.

  • JohnDHater

    Stop showing your ignorance and READ. This is not the first time this family adopted children and I’m sure they weren’t all athletes.

  • dcmbklyn

    @RXB how would she have known he would be good in sports? That’s like saying every Asian is good in math….Stupid statement

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