Love is a wonderful thing… when it’s right. And that’s the question many are asking about Evelyn Lozada’s match up with NFL star Chad Ochocinco. Are they a good fit? Lozada, the former fiancé of NBA player Antoine Walker, is used to dealing with a high-profile athlete. Still, the omnipresent grimace on the reality star’s face speaks volumes — something just ain’t right.

Though Lozada has claimed that she’s a “private person”, evidence — such as the scores of pictures featuring her sans the baller smiling — say otherwise. So what’s the deal? According to insiders it’s simple: Chad’s the boss. Apparently, the outgoing athlete has set the tone of their relationship: He’s the star. That means that Ms. Lozada has to fall back. “Basketball Wives” fans can say goodbye to the domineering attitude and the neck-snapping, sass-throwing, scene-stealing antics while the couple is courting…at least for now. After all, Ochocinco isn’t the only one plotting on a ring.