MaShonda Forgives Alicia Keys For F**king Swizz Beatz While They Were Married Because… It’s All About Her Son?!?

- By Bossip Staff Categories: A "Lil Positivity", Babies, Baby Mama Drama

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About a year ago, the divorce between Mashonda and Swizz Beatz was everything but pretty. When it was revealed that Alicia Keys seemed to be the cause of the break up between Swizz and his now ex-wife, everyone’s heart went out to Mashonda because no one should have to go through something like especially in the eye of the public.

We all witnessed the emotional roller coaster that Mashonda took and now we think it’s safe to say… She’s finally at peace. Take a peek at Mashonda’s open letter about her new blended family:

TAKES A VILLAGE: An Open Letter from Mashonda-

As I reflect on my life, I realize how truly blessed I am. Not only am I the proud mother of my 4-year son Kasseem, I also now have a beautiful blended family to share in his love, development and overall health as a young man.

As we grow and mature as women, even through break-ups and sometimes divorce, we realize that none of these things compare to the love we have for our children. As a mother, Kasseem’s happiness is the single most important thing in my life. It took some time, but I now realize that even my former husband and his new wife, are my partners in this wonderful journey.

When the television show debuts in less than two weeks, you will witness a time in our lives when emotions were extremely high. It is based on where we were emotionally at that time.

Since then, we have grown and matured for the sake of our children, but more importantly, because it is the right thing to do.

In life, you never know how you will react to certain challenges. A person’s true character however, we’ve all learned, is not based on what happens to us in life, but how we respond.

Swizz is an amazing father. When I look into Kasseem’s eyes, I see the joy in his heart by having such a wonderful, blended family that loves him so much. As this blended family of ours continues to grow, I look forward to the months and years ahead raising our children together as one.

The future is bright and all of our experiences as a family have gotten us to this wonderful point in our lives.

“I sustain myself with the love of family.” — Maya Angelou

Onward and upward,

Mashonda
http://www.MashondaLoyal.com

It must be some craziness about to pop off in the new season of Love & Hip-Hop for Mashonda to throw a disclaimer in this letter. Hopefully this show will reflect the growing and healing process of having to grow through a moment of dealing with losing love, cheating and divorce. We’ve always and ONLY heard Mashonda’s side of how everything went down in this unwanted love triangle, maybe one day Alicia and Swizz will share their side.

What are your thoughts on Mashonda’s letter???

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  • AMBER

    Mashonda just shutup. you got your check. plz,just leave it alone.

  • http://hotmail Islandbaby

    Oh shut up and get over it already!

  • CAT EYES

    Oh god,Mashonda,seriously give it a rest now….you’re taking this victim crap just too far now-you are not the first nor will you be the last to lose your husband to a skank,its time for you to move on in order for you to be able to accept better in life….

  • TBoston

    Nice and public. Wth?! Who does ish like this? Insanely unnecessary btw.

  • wifey06

    ALECIA MUST HAVE CUT HER A BIG CHECK!!

    ALECIA MUST HAVE CUT HER A BIG CHECK!!

    ALECIA MUST HAVE CUT HER A BIG CHECK!!

    ALECIA MUST HAVE CUT HER A BIG CHECK!!

    ALECIA MUST HAVE CUT HER A BIG CHECK!!

    ALECIA MUST HAVE CUT HER A BIG CHECK!!

    ALECIA MUST HAVE CUT HER A BIG CHECK!!

    ALECIA MUST HAVE CUT HER A BIG CHECK!!

    GOT TIRED OF BEING CALLED A HO

    • sonya

      Stupid conclusion. Why would that stop her? Alicia is the only decent one in this triangle. I’m sure she had something to do with M’s child support, but not for that reason. No bargains for a back stabber.

  • Vanti

    Mashonda knows she wasn’t right for Swizz.
    1. She refused to raise and accept Swizz’s bastard child. Alicia made that kid part of the family.
    2. She didnt stand behind her husband to inspire him and push him to greater heights. Alicia did that. Swizz is an entreperneur now. He teaches at University. He is designing sneakers with Reebok. The man is making money now. All thanx to Alicia.
    3. And Mashonda was wrong for airing her dirty laundry in public. What does that say about her? What will her son say about that? Mashonda is insecure.

  • Do more reading

    There u go girl..worry about what you CAN control and that’s ur child…Ur mate wont always be there but ur child will…

  • !!!!!

    YEAH SHE HAS A POINT AND ITS TIME FOR HER TO MOVE ON FINALLY AND RAISE HER SON THE BEST WAY SHE CAN.

  • thesaneone

    she is lyin…she is still pissed..i would be!

  • itsbrittneybitch

    Um is she delerious?

  • itsbrittneybitch

    And wtf is up with this picture?

    • RMEs

      @ itsbritney: rite!

  • divaaa

    Omg, so over this broad… Damn let it go.. If she was truly over what happened, she would not need to discuss how she’s moved on and blah blah blah.. Damn and if she’s not over it, heal in private

  • Daisy Jay

    I do feel sorry about her whole situation – nobody deserves to be cheated on – but…sometimes you need to know when to shut up. Mashonda, we all know that you were the victim. We all know Swizz is a dirty @sshole. We all know that Alicia is Jezebel 2.0 (there are no excuses for what Alicia did). But you need to just stay silent and move on with your life. Being on a REALITY show just makes you look like the average thirsty, attetion-deprived broad.

  • Ezi

    Her divorce became public because she chose to make it so. She deliberately tried to villianize Alicia Keys.
    Now she is trying to profit off her “misery” by peddling her new show.
    Mashonda, you have played victim long enough. Your marriage was in shambles before Keys. Please be a woman and let it go.
    I am kind of sick of hearing about it. Please move on.

  • Greeneyedbandit

    She’s still bitter,i hate what happened to her too,but it is time for her to move on.Let it go!

  • E

    I thought it was a nice letter.

  • Mrs. Rance

    Was she supposed to stay mad for the rest of her life? I’m glad to hear they are mending fences.

  • Natalia

    LMAO the world hates her now she’s trying to appear matured. They were going thru divorce when he got with the real woman (A.Keys) so it doesn’t matter if they were still married in the system. She knew she was getting the boots and the world knew about it as well. So trying to make keys look like a homewrecker showed the world that she is indeed a ghetto fabulous mad woman.

  • Jen

    Mashonda…girl, you’re better than me. But that’s alright. We still all know your husband is trifling and Alicia Keys is a ho.

  • Pops

    Well if that’s the case then AK and SB could have waited a while longer until the divorce was not still in the SYSTEM. It always matter if you’re still married… Natalia please go chase a butterfly cus you sound so inconsiderate. You the type that would need yo a@@ whoped like AK should have gotten. Some things you just dont do..

    • Lady

      I think this whole situation is jacked up. People you need to understand that if you separate you should be able to date, your life dont stop. Plus she is playing the victim role a little to hard, what she didnt state was that she did the same thing A. Keys did because the time she started to date S. Beatz he was in a relationship with his first child mother so aint the pot calling the cattle black!

    • whatsittoyou

      I really don’t think you get it. Looks like Mashonda didn’t even care about his affairs. I mean look at what he had already done. Mashonda was still with him. She chose to be the poor little hurt victim only to get attention when Alicia came along. She rode the coattails of Aliica Keys so she could become famous. Pathetic! She put Alicia through hell while she was trying to do her tour and carry a baby. Shame on her. This woman stated she did not have a record coming out and she was not writing her oh so famous twitter letter to gain any kind of publicity for that reason. Look who has released an album. Surprise, surprise it’s Mashonda. Why would people believe her act? Now it benefits Mashonda to embrace the blended family. I would be wary what she has up her sleeve. Mashonda wasn’t even mad at the girl in London. Why not? Does she just choose who she is angry about him being with? What kind of happy home and love is that? Mashonda is the one who needs forgiveness for all her little game playing.

  • Yosam

    Due to Swizz having 2 children outside the relationship before they filed for divorce in April 2008, I will never see Alicia Keys as a homewrecker. In fact, Mashonda stated he told her he was seeing Alicia in may 2008, they already filed for divorce by then. Alicia can’t break up a home when he already had a child by another woman before he was even with her. That is my opinion.

  • Venice

    If this letter is part of Mashhond’s road to healing, then good for her! More women should take the high road and realize in the end its all about the children and not so much about a bruised ego because you were jilted.

  • Redbonelicious

    What is up with the picture…..?

  • PJ

    I feel bad for her, she was and still is devastated by the breakup of their relationship; she can’t stop talking about it and move on. She is torturing herself.

  • Rae

    Obviously some of you haven’t read was she was saying. She’s just trying to say “everything’s cool.” And, no they were not separated when he was creeping and why should a woman have to help a man aspire. Switz move with Alicia was a business venture rather she knows it or not.

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