White Women Are #Winning, Step Your Game Up

- By Bossip Staff Categories: For Discussion, For the Ladies, For Your Information

A writer by the name of Andrea Michelle published an article in UPTOWN magazine titled, “Why White Women Are Winning.” As you can imagine, black women (if not already) will soon be up in arms defending their “choice” to remain single.

Whether or not (most likely not) they will admit to it, black women generally struggle with admitting to falling short in areas that have proven to be strengths in other groups of women. White women, in particular, marry in far greater percentages than black women; and, more and more of them are marrying black men. Thus, black women who want to get married need to understand that they have to step up their game. Statistics and unbiased observation show that, when it comes to the wives club white women make up the Winners’ Circle. According to the CDC (Center for Disease Control and Prevention):

While 17% of Hispanic and 12% of non-Hispanic white women have not married by age 35, 42% of non-Hispanic black women have not married by this age.

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  • Did I say that

    White women, on average, look better.

    • I'd DIE for a White Woman


    • Palest Latina

      And age wayy faster too

    • moneymatters

      white women have better jobs and salaries too. white people fire the blacks first all the time to make room for their own kind. the black man is hustleing for housing these days for the most part. we all go to the white man or woman for help so why marry them too or be poor with a black man complaining all the time or going to jail. blk women are tired of the bs. these blk father messed it up by not teaching their sons.

    • Salina

      My friends told me about — SearchingM illionaire* C0- M —–told It’s the be’st pl’ace to me’et Milli’onaire si’ngles. It is the first and best club for wealthy people and their admirers. D’ating CEOs, professional athletes, doctors, lawyers, entrepreneurs, professional models and cheerleaders, and even Hollywood celebrities is an easy experience there…you don’t have to be rich ,but you can meet one there. ;)
      nice experience——-
      Good luck to your search.

    • JM@gic(Trini-americans Dont Coon out,leave it for the Afro-americans )

      The reason white,asian women and also latinas are winning is because they go places black women dont like to go,like the beach,Gym and the more black men expand our horizons the further back black women fall



  • Christie_love

    This is pure bullshyt,smdh!

  • Aimee

    I am a white woman who is thirty-two and not married. Believe me, those white women are not ‘winning’ — many are getting cheated on and abused. So many of my friends are in miserable situations.

    I plan to stay single and don’t give an eff about statistics. We need to do what we want as women; we are not defined by whether or not we get married.

    • ReallyNotINterested

      Somehow I doubt if you are indeed white. You sound like a sister trying to pose like a snow bunny. Nice try!

  • a rosemary and holy water for the trolls

    The divorce rates are high amongst white people they don’t mention that.

  • white girls have STD's

    Lol puh-leezzzee. Check out my sn.

  • http://stewartsynopsis.com/Site%20Index.htm We"Blacks"AreTheREALHebrewIsraelites

    Wonder why she didn’t address the factual stats that white women have the highest divorce rate. I’d rather take my time and find a good husband than be wifed up 3 or 4 times.

    • Marquis de Sade

      Yeah, better to be a buddin’ Eryka Badu with multiple out of wedlock baby daddies, huh? :lol:

    • http://stewartsynopsis.com/Site%20Index.htm We"Blacks"AreTheREALHebrewIsraelites

      Maybe that’s good for you, but I don’t remember stating that. I remember stating that I’d rather take my time and find a good husband. Badu is someone you thought of because of who you are and your thought process. I was thinking more along the lines of Malcolm and Betty, or Bill and Camille or Ossie and Ruby Dee.
      I guess I would have to dwell in the shadows to get the same point of view as you, Marquis. You know better to address me. Talk to me when you want to have a honest dialogue and not some bitter one sided empirical view of the world. Unlike you, I love Black people and have the highest hope for all of us. Men and women. You hate Black women, but I’m not here to entertain your demons. Your demons are always seeking me out though. They seem hungry. However, I won’t feed them. Have a nice weekend, m’kay?

    • Marquis de Sade

      (In my Little Shop of Horrors voice) “FEED ME!” “FEED ME!” :D

  • G.M.

    what American women of all races need to do is accept the fact that marriage is no longer a necessity or means what it use to…the idea of marriage is nice, but the generations of now and future ones to come can’t represent what marriage stands for and marriage has been corrupted and used as a means to scam the naive and hopeful, ppl need to stop lying to themselves and face facts…successful men, especially us blk ones aren’t gonna risk our money we had to work 10x as hard to acquire than our white counter-parts, same for women…both men/women need to focus on making their own life happy & interesting and only allowing those who u want apart of it to be in it under ur terms, they dont like it, they can kick rocks…stop expecting marriage, love and happiness from others cuz expectations usually only lead to disappointment

  • big c

    This article is full of Shh there are plenty of over 36 unmarried with 2 or more children. That I know of working for the hospital. The ones that are married are just there for the kids and being cheated on or just have given up. My sisters stay strong God has a man for you.

  • Jenn

    They should’ve added the word “happily” married and I bet that would’ve changed the statistics drastically.

  • 7lady

    Please speak Ms. We”Blacks”! You speak so well and I’m always looking at what you have to say. I’m not as educated and can’t get my point across as well but when I read your comments they’re exactly how I feel. I love black people too and want us all women men and children to do well. Nobody wants to talk about some interventions for the black family all they want to do is attack and argue with each other on here.

    • Marquis de Sade

      Awww, don’t sell yourself so short, darlin’. You’re pretty articulate, considerin’ you’re part of the INFERIOR SEX. :lol:

  • YokoDMV

    i think sometimes black women take this black guys liking white girls thing wayyy to seriously…ladies, its like shopping you wouldn’t buy all black clothes, you’d get a variety…men like a variety too..still there are more black men marrying black women than interracial couples.

  • 1991 UK Gem of Africa

    OH wow…
    What is the obsession with white people??? They are not SPECIAL.
    Are black women that important to the world for us to be the centre of the universe.

    @Marquis de Sade
    You may not want to admit it but your obsession with black women is quite scary. I know you try to cover it with ignorance but there is a thin line between love and hate ;).

  • forreal

    winning what. they have the highest rate of divorce. so ok, they can get a man but apparently the bytches for sure can’t keep one.

    • SWEET D!CK


  • Buddy Luv

    too many people marry for the wrong reasons.

    …no one wins when the marriage is based on bu11sh!t.

    trust me…successful marriages are based on love and compatibility. marrying for any other reason will do more harm than good…and that goes for all people…black, white, etc.

    • scatter

      @bk4real damn! you can’t throw all sisters under the bus because of a few bad expweriences. Your character comes into question if you can only attract scandalous chicks. Look in the mirror b!tch ni@@A.

  • geemoenettie

    Since when has having a man been winning. Cats are beating on cheating on and destroying women. HOOOORAYYY for the married chick calling in to Dr. Phil cause her hubby spends more time on the golf course than with her. Congratulations to the married gal whose husband spends more money on the secretary than her. The grand prize winner is the ladies whose husbands kill them and their babies. For the record, I got married at 20. I guess I beat the stereotype. But I won’t make that mistake again.

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