Legend has it that if a woman gives up the goods on the first night she has eliminated herself from the potential of anything serious, do you agree?

The short response to this myth is “maybe”; however the real question is much more complex. Quite frankly it depends on the man, the situation and believe it or not, the woman and her feelings towards what transpired. Now there are some men who are going to say, “under no circumstances would they take such a woman seriously, and truthfully that man will end up marrying a woman whose had a ton of one night stands and conveniently tells him whatever his ego wants to hear to keep him satisfied. Now that we’ve got the narrow-minded fellas out of the way let’s have a real candid talk about “giving it up on the first night”.

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